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Toy Drives Planned To Benefit Local Angel Tree Christmas Gift Program

Holiday Magic Takes Center Stage With 'Miss Bennet: Christmas At Pemberley'

How To Protect Yourself (And Others) This Flu Season

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6 NUTRITION 101 22 THE BRIGHT SPOT 24 SONIC CONTEST 26 MENTAL HEALTH

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n the past, I’ve suggested homemade gifts for the holidays in an effort to save money and reduce the overall commercialism of Christmas. This year, I wanted to give a practical idea for even the least crafty among us. Why not share a recipe with your loved ones? The following chili/taco seasoning would be so cute in a little jar with the recipe for the seasoning – because they’ll definitely want to make more when they run out – pasted/taped to one side and the recipe for chili on the other. This is the exact way I keep it in my own cabinet. If there’s not enough space to attach it to the side of the jar, you could gift it with a couple recipe cards. If you want to give your gift a little more oomph, tie it with a pretty ribbon and attach a new wooden spoon or ladle. Because the recipes are so easy, it’s a gift anyone can enjoy.

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Liver Health Tied To Other Concerns

he liver is one of the hardest-working organs in the body, performing more than 500 functions, including carrying away waste and breaking down fats in the small intestine, producing proteins and cholesterol, converting glucose into glycogen for storage, regulating blood levels of amino acids, storing iron, clearing the blood of drugs and bacteria and regulating blood clotting. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, there are a number of causes of liver disease, from excessive alcohol intake and obesity to autoimmune diseases and damage from prescription drugs and some over-the-counter supplements. The most common form of chronic liver disease affecting between 30-40 percent of adults in the U.S. is nonalcoholic fatty liver disease. NAFLD is the result of a buildup of excess fat in the liver that is unrelated to alcohol. Nutrition is the most important environmental factor in prevention. Most people with NAFLD are either overweight or obese. Individuals with morbid obesity typically have greatly enlarged livers as a result of fat accumulation. Gradual weight loss can reverse the condition. Studies have suggested that diets high in saturated fat worsen NAFLD where diets high in omega-3 fatty acids may play a protective role. Soft drinks are high in fructose and fructose stimulate fatty acid and triglyceride synthesis in the liver. Lastly, physical activity has been shown to reduce the risk of diabetes, thereby reducing risk of NAFLD. To wrap all that up, lifestyle changes – including dietary changes – plays a critical role in the prevention and treatment of NAFLD. If this is something you would like to talk to your doctor about, you can start by asking for a liver enzyme test to be done.

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Directions: Whisk all ingredients except vanilla in a pot over medium heat. Once the liquid starts simmering, stir in vanilla. Serve warm. Nutritional information per serving: Makes 2 servings, 6 oz each Calories:103 Total Fat: 9g Saturated Fat: 7g Cholesterol: 0mg Sodium: 168mg Carbohydrates:5g Fiber: 2g Protein: 2g Nutrition 101: This recipe is a little high on saturated fat, so you want to make sure to only have one serving. The recommended intake for saturated fat is 25g in your day. The canned coconut milk is what makes the fat content high, but it is also what makes the drink creamy. When having a drink that has fat to it, you want to make sure that your meal is not high in fat. We can easily overdo it on fat – good and bad – without realizing it. The high-fat diet trends are doing a number on the liver and heart to just name a couple. Even immediate weight loss from these diet trends does not mean you are helping your insides entirely. It is hard to think about making our organs healthy when we can’t see them. Dairy free or not, I hope you enjoy this with your loved ones while staying warm. Andrea Beck, a registered dietitian and personal trainer, received her master’s degree in nutrition and dietetics from the University of Central Oklahoma in Edmond. She offers personal training through an online class and nutrition services through SSM Health St. Anthony in Shawnee. For inquiries, you can contact her at Andrea.beck1@ssmhealth.com or through her Facebook page, Nutrition and Exercise 101 with Andrea.

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Salvation Army's Red Kettle Volunteers Crucial To Helping Families Throughout The Year

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teve and Michelle Wallace did not need to stand outside the U.S. Post Office downtown in the chilly wind on a cloudy, late November day. As the recently named president of Vision Bank, Steve Wallace probably had a long list of things that needed his attention back at the office, and Michelle Wallace also started a new position with the school system’s central office after serving for years as a school counselor. That experience working with local kids, however, has shown her the impact of the Salvation Army’s programs on local families, so the Wallaces saw their time on that Ninth Street sidewalk as well spent. “We believe in what the Salvation Army does,” said Steve Wallace, who has rung the bell for several years through his previous work in Norman and his membership with the Kiwanis Club of Shawnee. “It makes you happy being out here.” He pauses to greet a few people passing by to conduct their business at the Post Office while his wife continued ringing the bell beside the iconic red kettle. “I love knowing that I’m giving back,” said Michelle Wallace, whose new job gives her some flexibility to volunteer. “I worked as a school counselor for years, so I know the difference this can make.” While the Salvation Army also puts much emphasis on its Angel Tree program during the Christmas season – which helps provide toys and essentials for children selected for the program based on need – the funds raised by the Red Kettle campaign extend beyond the holiday season. The Salvation Army does provide some jobs for people to ring bells, but volunteers manning the posts at the 19 locations in this area are the backbone of the campaign, said Capt. Patrick Connelly, who is overseeing the local Christmas initiatives for the first time since taking over command of the Shawnee location in June along with his wife Capt. Stacey Connelly. “We need as many volunteers as we can get,” said Stacey Connelly, who served as an officer with her husband for nine years in Mississippi before coming to Shawnee. “When we have volunteers man the kettle, that’s more that goes directly to helping people here in the community.” The coins and small bills many people drop into the kettle go a long way to providing the kind of assistance the Salvation Army offers to local individuals and families in need, Patrick Connelly said. The money raised represents roughly 10 percent of the location’s annual budget and can make or break some programs, which includes 8

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Steve and Michelle Wallace are just a couple of the numerous volunteers ringing the bell for the Salvation Army’s annual Red Kettle campaign to raise funds for its benevolence programs that benefit locals in need. Photo by David Dinsmore

combating hunger, providing elderly services, offering shelter and more. New this year is Kettle Pay, which helps people use their smartphones at kettle locations to access an online resource to donate, Patrick Connelly said. This technology also allows those donating outside of their home area to help their local community as the funds go to the zip code attached to the billing information used to make the online donation. As of mid-November, they had 67 volunteer groups or individuals on the roster, which meant that they could place someone at each of their 19 locations for about three days. Those involved with Salvation Army as employees, board members or volunteers take it upon themselves to recruit friends, family, club members, church parishioners and others to commit to giving some of their time during the holidays to ring the bell. “Time is valuable for everybody,” Patrick Connelly said. “To see people give of their time, it means a lot. When we don’t have a location filled, we’re losing the potential of someone who wants to give but doesn’t have an avenue there to give. “When people ring bells for us, their joining themselves with us to keep people in their homes, to help people keep their lights on, to keep food on their tables, to keep people in out of the cold, to provide after school programs for children.” Beyond the feeling of making a difference in local families’ lives, being part of the Red Kettle campaign comes with other benefits as well. “It’s a lot of fun,” Connelly said. “Personally,

when I’m out there – especially in my uniform – what I love are the stories. People are always willing to stop and share.” Some tell stories about a family member who got help at a Salvation Army Adult Rehabilitation Center with a substance addiction or were able to provide needs for their families after a job loss or other unexpected life event thanks to Salvation Army assistance, Stacey Connelly said. Some are veterans whose first few moments back home involved a friendly face from the Salvation Army offering some coffee or doughnuts. There is no specific personality type that suits bell ringing best, the Connellys said. It only takes a willingness to smile and say hello to passersby and a heart to help others to get the job done. It doesn’t even take a great amount of physical effort as the bell’s tone does most of the hard work and takes little effort to execute. “The bell grabs their attention, so they know you’re there,” Patrick Connelly said. “You’ve got to speak to everybody. It’s not a matter of whether someone is giving or not. It’s a matter of human decency. “(The bell) is a constant call that there is a need. We used to print a slogan on our signs that ‘need knows no season,’ because we do a lot of fundraising right now. But this really is what sets up to meet needs throughout the year.” There is no deadline to volunteer for bell ringing, which happens until Dec. 24. Call (405) 2752243 or visit the Salvation Army offices at 200 E. Ninth St. for more information.

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family’s name can become well-known in a small town like Asher. Daryl and Barbara Fowler raised three sons there and watched each one rise to athletic glory. Now, their descendants have taken on new challenges in the sports world, and coaching seems to come as naturally to them as playing did. In fact, five family members are currently leading a variety of Pottawatomie county teams – sometimes against one another. Darrin Fowler, Daryl and Barbara’s youngest son, graduated from Asher High School in 1988 and went on to play baseball at Oklahoma Baptist University while earning a kinesiology degree. He sought a teaching/coaching position at an area school but became a Shawnee fireman instead, working for the department from 1993 until last year. “It turned out to be a blessing,” he said. “I applied at Bethel but didn’t get the job.” After his retirement from the SFD, he took on a new role at South Rock Creek School. He’s

now teaching physical education, coaching eight elementary and junior high basketball teams and serving as the assistant softball and baseball coach. Just a few weeks into the hoops season, his teams had already played 54 games. One of his opponents in those contests featured his son, Zach Fowler, who teaches and coaches at Asher. Zach’s position includes heading up the third through eighth grade basketball and junior high baseball teams. As a pitcher, he had his own successful baseball career at Asher and OBU during his playing days. Darrin’s teams came out on top in the early meetings, but the two will face each other again soon. “So far, so good, for me against Zach at this point,” he chuckled. Daryl and Barbara’s middle son, Chad Fowler, is the father to Kyle Fowler, a Bethel High School football and slow pitch softball coach who also serves as the personal finance and careers teacher. Kyle’s job path also began outside

of education; he worked for Love’s Travel Stops as a safety specialist but found his faith leading him to a new profession. “I felt God calling me to work with students and help them deal with the difficult transition into adulthood,” Kyle said. “God has given me a testimony and an opportunity to make a difference in others’ lives, and I didn’t want to waste that. I want to be (a source of) stability and trustworthy to any kid that needs it. That’s what is most important to me.” When asked if he’s surprised that so many in his family have gone into coaching, Kyle said, “No. My wife always jokes that anytime our family gets together, all we discuss is sports. It’s something we all have in common.” That includes some of Kyle’s and Zach’s cousins. Daryl and Barbara’s oldest son, Billy Fowler, is the father of Charity (Fowler) Kilinc and Tanner Fowler, both of whom are basketball coaches at North Rock Creek. Billy’s wife Teresa Fowler www.shawneeoutlook.com

recently retired after her own lengthy coaching career at Liberty and Asher. Charity was mentored by her mother at Liberty before going on to earn All-American honors and a conference defensive player of the year nod at OBU. Now in her second year at NRC, she’s teaching algebra and coaching varsity and junior varsity girls basketball. When asked which coach in the family is the most competitive, Charity gave an honest assessment. “Can my answer be myself?” she said. “All Fowlers are pretty dang competitive. It’s in our blood, but I would say I dislike losing the most, thus making me the most competitive.” She’s also not surprised to find so many in her family sharing the same career. “We’re all sports-minded, and as cousins we grew up playing football, basketball and practically any game we could think of at our grandparents’ house in Asher after church. Sports have always been a big part of our families’ lives.” Charity’s squads have also battled teams led by members of her family. “My mom and I actually coached against each other in the Pott County tournament last year, which is something I’ll never forget,” Charity said. “I coached against Darrin last year, too. We’re all competitive, but it’s still really cool seeing your loved ones getting to do what they love, which just happens to be what you love too.” Tanner, a science teacher and junior high basketball coach at NRC, sees sports as part of his family’s legacy. “My grandparents went to each of their sons’ games all the way through

their careers, and that carried on to each of their grandchildren,” he said. Though still a young teacher, Tanner has already gained valuable insight. “The biggest thing I’ve learned is the need these kids have just to have someone to lean on,” he said. “There are so many ‘role models’ kids look up to nowadays that are cussing, fighting, arguing with refs and coaches or throwing attitudes on the field or court. Kids need positive role models in their lives. I’ve also learned that middle school is where I’m meant to be.” If the coaches in the family played a pickup game in any sport now, who’d win? “I’d win every time,” Tanner said, noting the relatives he’d include on his team. “It’d be hard to say which one of us coaches wants to win the most, but the competitive nature in me wants me to say myself.” Darrin seemed to echo his niece’s and nephew’s sentiments about intrafamily competitiveness. “We’re all competitive for sure, but I think Kyle hates to lose more than the rest of us,” Darrin said. “We all want to win.” Beyond the competitive streaks, the family also shares the importance of valuing commitment toward a common goal. “It’s in our blood, to be honest,” Kyle said. “Coaching and teaching aren’t 8-to-5 jobs. The teams that work best together typically win, and I think that’s why the emotional side of coaching is so lucrative to me.” Whether cheering each other on or facing one another across field or court, it looks like there will be Fowlers on the sidelines at area schools for many years to come.

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Over the Fence: 'In Knowing My Neighbor Better, I Better Remember Myself'

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t an event last week, I saw a little girl, sad and pining for a little toy that all of her classmates had just purchased. She looked up at me and said, “I wish I could have one of those … but I am poor.” Startled and unsure of how to respond, I said, “Aww. It’s okay to be poor.” She continued “That means we don’t have money to buy things.” And then, I remembered. All at once, a long-asleep piece of my identity awakened – a part of my own childhood experience, as the little daughter of a single mother working two jobs and going to school. Oh! My heart stung. So many memories – sweet and bitter – came rolling back, and suddenly, the veil of privilege I have come to take for granted in my adulthood fell

from my shoulders. I remembered. Not so long ago, I was poor too. Suddenly, I found again a compassion that my fragile prosperity had helped me lose – my cynicism instantly injured by these memories in a way that may not be able to be repaired. I dare say, perhaps, that it is good.

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bor better, I better remember myself – who I am, who I used to be, who I’d like to be. Last night, as I drove home in the early dark of winter, past rows of houses full of strangers, I remembered that giddy feeling you get when you’re passing by the home of a dear friend. I don’t really remember the last time I felt that. I wondered what it would be like if I knew my neighbors so well, that just turning into my neighborhood felt like that, the whole way to my driveway? I wondered, what if I parked my car – if just for a moment – outside of the garage, so I could get out and wave to my neighbor across the street, an elderly woman who plays basketball in the yard with her granddaughter on Tuesday evenings? I think it would be beautiful.

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Toy Drives Planned To Benefit Local Angel Tree Christmas Gift Program

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everal organizations will rally to help kids in need by hosting toy drive benefiting the Salvation Army’s Angel Tree program. The Salvation Army partners with businesses and organizations to place trees throughout the area that feature tags corresponding to a child selected based on need earlier this year. Each tag on the tree presents details about the anonymous child whose family may not be able to provide Christmas this year due to circumstances and offers suggestions for needs and wants that could make their holiday a little merrier. Some, however, choose to contribute to the larger effort by donating gifts at toy drives hosted in the community that add to list of gifts the angels receive. The Grand Casino Hotel and Resort has hosted a toy drive for Angel Tree every year since 2007, helping collect toys along with monetary donations that have contributed more than $13,000 to local charitable organizations in that time, general manager Joe Garcia said. The Grand’s toy drive this year is scheduled 10 a.m.-3 p.m. on Dec. 4 at 777 Grand Casino Blvd. “Our employees love the idea (of helping with Angel Tree), and this allows them to participate and give back to the community,” Garcia said. “It brings a lot of cheer and happiness (to employees at The Grand).” The Grand gives a T-shirt to anyone who brings a toy of $10 value or more or accepts monetary donations for three different organizations, said Garcia, who has seen the effect receiving these gifts can have on area kids through his work on the board of the local Boys & Girls Club. “We just try to do our part to help these families that are in need,” Garcia said. The toy drive is just one of the charitable activities employees at the Grand and the Citizen Potawatomi Nation overall participate in throughout the year. A poll taken by officials revealed that about 60 percent of those employed by CPN volunteer their time in some way in the community. Another such event that will help kids make new Christmas memories will utilize the resources of a place filled with many old memories. The Ritz of Shawnee will host its second annual Toy Drive Concert starting at 7 p.m. on Dec. 14 at its 10 W. Main St. theater. Perform14

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ers scheduled as of mid-November include the Immanuel Baptist Church handbell choir, Cami Stinson Engles and Crosswalk 3:16. “It’s awesome to be able to do something to help these kids,” said Dell Kerbs, president of Safe Events for Families, which is the parent owner of The Ritz. “Our whole thing is to give back to the community and do great events like this.” One of the goals of bringing The Ritz back to its former glory is to help foster a “hometown feeling” of community, Kerbs said. Benefitting local kids while showcasing local talent personifies those efforts. “If we just get one toy, that’s one toy a kid didn’t have before,” Kerbs said. “Toy drives go a long way,” said Capt. Stacey Connelly, who leads the local Salvation Army location alongside her husband Capt. Patrick Connelly. “For those who want to drop a toy off,

I would ask for people to bring gifts for older children.” In her nine years of experience as an officer, Stacey Connelly said the kids ages 10-12 tend to be the ones that have gifts donated that are suited to their interests when it comes time to organize and send out the gift to the recipient families. Some examples of good gifts for those ages would be books, remote controlled cars, sports balls, board games, jewelry-making kits, art supplies and makeup kits. In addition to adopting an angel from one of the many trees in the area, people can help by donating to a toy drive event like the concert at the Ritz – which will offer a 10 percent off coupon at Theopolis Social Club for those who bring a gift to the concert. “We have some phenomenal partners who really come through … to make sure these angels are well taken care of,” Stacey Connelly said.

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Shawnee Little Theatre will present “Miss Bennet: Christmas at Pemberley,” which follows the adventures of some of Jane Austen’s immortal “Pride and Prejudice” characters as they celebrate the holidays in 1815. The production will run Dec. 6-14 Photo by David Dinsmore

Holiday Magic Takes Center Stage With 'Miss Bennet: Christmas at Pemberley' at Shawnee Little Theatre by Carolyn Lawrence

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is the season for Shawnee Little Theatre to stage another must-see production from Dec. 6 to Dec. 14. at the company’s 1829 N. Airport Drive home. “Miss Bennet: Christmas at Pemberley” is a sequel to Jane Austen’s “Pride and Prejudice” set two years after the novel ends. “Miss Bennet” continues the story, only this time with bookish middle-sister Mary as the unlikely heroine. Director Rebecca Fry said the play combines romance, comedy and poignancy into a delightful story. It is a family-friendly show filled with the bubbling pressures of courtship and marriage and makes a good fit for a holiday-themed show. When asked how the cast will put their own personal mark on this production, Fry said, “Jane Austen belongs to everyone so it’s hard to take her characters and do anything different with them than what the author intended. “As a director I’m trying to convey the way the play merges modern wit with a period style. It will delight Austen fans and newcomers to the Austen world as well. If you haven’t read ‘Pride and Prejudice,’ you’ll be okay.” Fry said this play caught her eye because it has humor and spirit, which are two things that feed our soul that we could all use more of. “It’s about sisterhood and family,” Fry said. The play is also about choices. Mary is unmarried and struggling to reconcile her dreams with

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society’s misogynistic rules. She has a curiosity for reading, scholarship and the world beyond. She dreams of travel and adventure, but living with the limitations of 1815, she knows that may never happen. “I wonder: Can one live a large life in mind alone?” Mary wonders during the play. The play addresses the choices women have and some they don’t in that time. Three women in the play must choose to redefine their next steps in life, even within a very narrow set of circumstances. Fry felt it was important to remember that Shawnee Little Theatre is totally volunteer-driven. Rehearsing a play in this time slot presents scheduling problems with fall break, Thanksgiving and busy lives interfering. The cast has been wonderful to work with and has gone above and beyond to make the schedule work, Fry said, but it has been a challenge. Another challenge comes in presenting a period piece. The cast and crew must work harder to make sure it is authentic. The costumes, props and the set should look like they belong in 1815 during the Regency Era at Mr. Darcy’s Pemberley. Another of Fry’s favorite lines in the play is when Mr. Bingley tells Miss Bennet, “‘Tis the season to have faith in your fellow man.” Audiences will like the simple charm of “Miss Bennet,” Fry said. The cast and crew are a perfect

fit for this beautiful play. There is romance, a happy ending, a kiss and snow – and it all happens at Christmas. “I hope SLT audiences will enjoy ‘Miss Bennet: Christmas at Pemberley,’ our holiday gift to them,” Fry said. The play was written by Lauren Gunderson and Margot Melcon. The two fleshed out the structure of the play on a Starbucks napkin during a road trip. The two felt America needed a new holiday play, one with a sense of familiarity and beloved characters. That led them to some of the most iconic characters in literature: the Bennet sisters. It was not designed to be like another holiday classic, “A Christmas Carol.” “‘Miss Bennet’ is the exact opposite – it is designed to be a pleasant, joyful, delightful fun experience not only for the audience but for the actors as well,” Melcon said in an interview after the play premiered in 2017. Gunderson noted another key difference: “Our main character Mary doesn’t change like Scrooge does. It is not required for her to adjust to the world, but for the world to adjust to her.” Miss Bennet was one of the top 10 produced plays in 2018, according to industry publication, American Theatre. Tickets and information available at shawneelittletheatre.com or (405) 275-2805.

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THE BRIGHT SPOT Amid the bad news and bickering out there, sometimes it’s nice to read a little encouragement. The Bright Spot is a space to share some inspiration or reassurance with the community through poetry or prose. If you have an idea or something to brighten someone’s day, submit it to editor@shawneeoutlook.com. My Bus Ride

By Kay Lynne Vance Riding along on the finest bus Surrounded by friends. Just watching the beauty of nature go by at the window. Thank You, God, for giving me this sweet bus ride. By and by, another bus pulls alongside. There the happy people on that bus are all eating pizza! My first thought: “We have no pizza. Sure wish we had pizza on our bus ride!” “Never mind,” God said, “Just take your eyes off that other bus and remember how sweet is your bus ride.” You are right! Thank You, God, for my sweet bus ride! Thank You for precious friends. And thank You for all the beauties of Your glorious nature!

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How Do I Measure Up?

By Kay Lynne Vance Yes, it is possible to measure the exact distance from the South Pole to the North Pole. Yet, on the equator, you have an East and a West. If you look East, you will never reach West; and if you look West, you will never reach East. It is an enigma; an unknowable mystery. East from West simply cannot be measured. Yet, God, in Jesus Christ, His Son, has removed all our sins “as far as the East is from the West, never to be remembered.” I'm so thankful to Him that He did not say, “As far as the North is from the South.” Because in our fallen state of humanity, we are all sinners and deserving of death. Jesus gives us eternal life. He alone “measures up.”

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t was just a little over two weeks until Christmas in 1941. The stores in Shawnee’s downtown were crowded with shoppers, holiday decorations filled homes and children were composing their letters to Santa. And then, on that first Sunday of December, as citizens emerged from their places of worship, word spread over town. Our country had been attacked by a foreign enemy. They were aware of the hostilities in Europe. The military draft had already been implemented, and 19 Pottawatomie County men had been part of the first levy in November. But such an attack was unexpected. During the rest of that day Shawnee citizens joined fellow Americans realizing what this meant. They listened to President Roosevelt’s radio speech when he said, “This is a day that will live in infamy.” Twenty local families who had sons in Hawaii, worried if they were safe. All but one, Harrell King Mattox, escaped death that day. Sgt. Edward Levelle, the army recruiter in Shawnee, reported that by 7:30 the next morning there was a line of men at his office. On Tuesday, the first group of volunteers left with more following about every other day, and less than a month later, a large group of draftees reported for basic training. In the early days, draftees and enlistees had big send-offs. They had breakfast at the City Cafe before the American Legion led them to their departure point, sometimes accompanied by the high school band. The City of Shawnee provided a carton of cigarettes, a Bible, postcards and snacks for their trip. As it became apparent this new life as a warring nation was not going to be a quick affair, home folks made adjustments. Most men and many women were gone for the “duration,” a word that became common along with the phrase, “You know there’s a war on.” It was often used in jest. Everyone was aware, but it helped when rationing was implemented. Citizens were only allowed three pairs of shoes a year because the soldiers needed boots. Only six gallons of gasoline a week was available to ordinary Shawnee drivers because the fuel was needed for planes and tanks to help win the war. Simple things like the lowering of speed limits saved that precious gasoline. Housewives gave up pots and pans to the metal drive. Coffee and sugar were in short supply. Manufacturers came up with oleomargarine to replace butter. Simple things like soda pop was not available because the metal for the caps was needed in the war effort. Even chewing gum was scarce since any available was put in the men’s K-rations. Gardening and canning became popular. Nearly

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every spare inch of ground in Shawnee was turned into Victory Gardens, including school yards. Shawnee planted twice as much in English peas as it had before the war. Onions were found amid rose bushes. Schools allowed the women to use their kitchen for canning, and in 1943, 15,000 pints of vegetables were canned at Washington School. Rubber tires were no longer available, and local grocer Troy Garrett of the Sunshine grocery store reverted to “horse power” in his home deliveries with his wagon and team. No new cars were being manufactured, so some Shawnee folks put their vehicles up on blocks. Even civilian clothing saw a change. Men’s trousers could no longer have a cuff and the suit coat had to be single breasted. Women’s skirts were shortened and the two-piece bathing suit came into style, all to save a few inches of material. The war even caused a change in Shawnee High School’s colors. Until the war, SHS colors had been purple and white. When it became impossible to obtain red dye to make purple, the color scheme was changed to blue and white. The Shawnee Naval Air Station was built about a year after the war began and gave jobs to local citizens, including many women. The wives, sisters and sweethearts of the men in service became an important part of keeping things moving back home. Many from Shawnee found positions at what is now Tinker Air Force Base. Shawnee lost many of its nurses to the military, leaving a shortage at the city’s two hospitals.

Retirees and those who had left the profession to raise a family were called on to help. The absence of men even caused court trials to be postponed because so many were in the military or were dismissed from the jury pool because their work was “essential.” It wasn’t until 1951 that women were eligible for jury duty, so if enough men couldn’t be found the trials had to be moved. Another busy place was City Hall, where servicemen went to acquire a marriage license. After office hours, many visited clerk John Coleman’s home to get the document before running to a minister’s house for the ceremony before dashing to catch his train. Shawnee citizens found many ways to do their part in winning the war. It wasn’t only sending people into the military but also the willingness to do whatever they were asked. Doing without was a small price to keep the world free. Many met the trains that crisscrossed Shawnee transporting military personnel from place to place. They provided snacks and magazines to help their journey more bearable. Some had been on a train for days and appreciated the efforts of the local folks. Later, some citizens told of getting a postcard from an unknown soldier who had found a magazine on the train containing the original address, wanting to thank the one who had passed it on. Shawnee earned a reputation of doing all it could to help win the war … even giving up 102 of its “boys” who never returned. www.shawneeoutlook.com

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Hazel Dell Pet Resort owners Frankie and Nancy Spears brought more than 15 years of pet boarding experience from owning Lake Road Pet Boarding when they opened their new location in 2018 at 39812 Hazel Dell Road. Photos by David Dinsmore

your own pet, Nancy said. “You have to love animals for this to succeed,” she said. “You can’t just like animals.” For her, it’s easy to love animals because of the love they show in return because of their unconditional loyalty and innocence, she said. Though the job of boarding pets does come with its share of sacrifices, the love of the work itself makes it easy for the Spears to do what they do for their guests at Hazel Dell Pet Resort. The impact they have on their guests is apparent in the stories they hear from the pet owners. When their regular dogs arrive, many don’t need to be on a leash, Nancy said. They will stand in front of the Spears and wait eagerly for a pat or a hug. Nancy said she measures the success of Hazel Dell Pet Resort – in addition to their previous place – by how much the animals in their care love being there. They have heard numerous stories from customers who said their furry friends perk up when they realize they are getting close to the Spears’ place. Regulars will even begin heading straight back to their usual area as soon as they arrive. At their former location, a golden retriever who would come on a regular basis. Nancy said they were so familiar with what he liked that they made sure to include a swimming pool in the outside portion of his run. The dog enjoyed himself so much that when it came time to go home, he would run back to his

space if the owner would put down the leash at any point during the pick-up process. “That tells me that we’ve been successful, because they are comfortable here,” Nancy said. “They love being here.” One of the key focuses for Hazel Dell Pet Resort is providing a clean environment, which is clear when walking through the boarding and play areas, Frankie said. The Spears make sure that regular monitoring and maintenance takes place throughout nearly every point of the day to ensure that cleanliness. Frankie said their ability to provide the appropriate amount of attention to their guests is in big part to the help from his sister, Tonya Spears-Stief, who has been working alongside them “since day one.” “She’s always here for us,” Frankie said. In addition to getting to know the pets, the Spears also enjoy meeting and building relationships with their owners as well. Their facilities at Hazel Dell Pet Resort have a lobby with a sitting area for customers have some coffee and chat if they’d like. Some customers who brought their pets for grooming have chosen to stay and relax in the lobby while watching TV or reading. “You’ve got to care for the pets, but you’ve got to care for the people, too,” Frankie said. For more information or reservations, call (405) 395-9775, email hazeldellpetresort@gmail.com or visit their location at 39812 Hazel Dell Road. www.shawneeoutlook.com

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Dec. 8: Charlie Brown, Snoopy and the rest of the Peanuts gang will bring an animated Christmas tradition to life with “A Charlie Brown Christmas: Live on Stage” featuring two shows at 2 p.m. and 6:30 p.m. at FireLake Arena at 18145 Old Rangeline Road. This theatrical adaptation of the classic television special features the original dialogue accompanied by the unforgettable music of Vince Guaraldi’s musical score. Tickets and information: firelakearena.com. Dec. 8: The Music Preparatory Department Choirs at Oklahoma Baptist University will present a Christmas concert. The groups featured in the program include the Shawnee Honor Choir and the Concert Choir at 3 p.m. in Potter Auditorium of Raley Chapel on the OBU campus. Information: (405) 585-4329. Dec. 10: Kids and their grown-ups can have Supper with Santa and The Grinch starting at 5:30 p.m. at the Shawnee Family YMCA at 700 Saratoga St. Information: facebook.com/shawneeymca and (405) 273-4386. Dec. 13: Get ready to celebrate A Blue Christmas Elvis Tribute featuring Trent Smith at 7 p.m. at The Ritz Theatre at 10 W. Main St. Information: ritzshawnee.com or facebook.com/theritzofshawnee. Dec. 14: Musicians and groups will lend their talents to help make local children’s Christmas morning a little brighter with a concert and toy drive at 7 p.m. at The Ritz Theatre at 10 W. Main St. for the Salvation Army’s Angel Tree Christmas program benefiting kids in need. Everyone that brings a toy will receive a 10 percent off coupon at Theopolis Social Club. Information: ritzshawnee.com or facebook.com/theritzofshawnee. Dec. 14-Jan. 19: Biblical Stories Re-imagined will feature works on paper from the Mabee-Gerrer Museum of Art’s permanent collection from the 19th-21st centuries that illustrate Biblical stories as depicted by Marc Chagall, Jean Charlot, Rev. John Walch and Stephen Gyermek. Information: mgmoa.org. Dec. 15: The Broadway Tenors will ring in the holidays with their ‘Tis the Season show featuring music from Broadway’s Golden

Age to the newest hits and back again in a thrilling and moving evening of Broadway’s most beloved holiday songs. The show at 7 p.m. at Firelake Arena at 18145 Old Rangeline Road. Information: firelakearena.com. Dec. 20: Arts @317 will host artist John May, who makes rings and bells out of coins. He will be demonstrating how he makes these pieces along with some of his work for sale. The gallery will also host a book signing featuring Phillip Cimei and his new book, “A Perfect Religion: A Beacon to the True Kingdom of God.” The event will happen 6-9 p.m. at 317 E. Main St. Information: (301) 648-1709. Dec. 23: Jones Theatres presents its 98th annual free children's Christmas show at 10 a.m. at the Hornbeck Theatre at 125 N. Bell downtown. On screen will be the animated family holiday favorite “The Grinch" rated PG – featuring the voices of Benedict Cumberbatch and Angela Lansbury – which tells the classic Dr. Seuss story of a cynical grump who goes on a mission to steal Christmas only to have his heart changed by a young girl's generous holiday spirit. Doors open at 9:30 a.m. Free to all ages, attendees will receive free Christmas candy as they exit. Dec. 28: Comedian, actor, singer and writer Rodney Carrington will ride into the Grand Casino at 7 p.m. with the relatable, memorable and hilarious act that has won him awards and made him one of the most successful comics working today. Information: grandboxoffice.com. Jan. 3-5: Shawnee Little Theatre will present “The Marvelous Wonderettes,” a jukebox musical in conjunction with The Ritz Theatre and Safe Events For Families. This smash off-Broadway hit takes audiences to Springfield High School’s 1958 prom where four girls have hopes and dreams as big as their crinoline skirts and meet later at their 10-year reunion to reassess those goals. The soundtrack includes 30 classics from the 1950s and 1960s. The show will feature four shows at 7 p.m. Friday, 2 p.m. and 7 p.m. Saturday and 2 p.m. Sunday. Information: shawneelittletheatre.com and (405) 275-2805. Jan. 7: Oklahoma Baptist University's Division of Music welcomes the regional junior and senior high school honor band students to rehearse with three distinguished guest conductors for the presentation of a concert at 6:30 p.m. in the Potter Auditorium of Raley Chapel on the OBU campus. Information: (405) 585-4301. If you know of any events you’d like to see featured, email editor@shawneeoutlook.com.

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