Why I Don’t Keep Score When I Golf
I used to keep score when I golfed. I generally would melt down, playing against the scorecard. I will play against someone my level on the rare occasion, but usually it would just be me vs the score card. The scorecard wins 4/5.
When I keep score, I keep track of my total score, and putts. My good rounds, I’m putting well. Most holes, I turn par opportunities into double bogeys. I am known for a mid round, usually 8, 9 and 10, meltdown. I will mangle a few holes throughout the round. When I’m fighting to keep it under 90 or 100, depending on how it is going, the scorecard makes sure I know how many strokes I have to play with the last few holes. I usually blow it.
So I stopped bothering to keep score. A big change I noticed, I take it 1 hole at a time. I don’t have the bad holes glaring at me as I write my score in. I know how I am scoring and putting. When I’m on hole 6, I’m not thinking about the 2nd hole I botched. My focus is on the hole I’m playing, not the disasters behind me. I’m more at ease as I take each shot. Will holes still frustrate me, sure. The only way I’m becoming the world’s best golfer is if millions of other golfers give it up.
I can tell how I am playing without the card. I can mentally keep track if I am having more good or bad holes. I can tell if I’m 3 putting every hole. I can guesstimate my score, and fill it in later when I think I scored well. I know what par is on the course, so I can figure out my score. Even on my best days, I’m not keeping up with the pros.
I can measure improvement from round to round. I went from ‘I had 2 or 3 good holes’ to 10 or 11 good holes. There is less pressure, because I am not focused on a number on the card. We are playing a mental game as it is, not keeping score removes an aspect that really doesn’t matter. I have friends who shoot in the 60’s and 70’s, they don’t care that I managed an 88.