Town Of Palm Beach United Way Honors Jack Scarola
Jack Scarola Receives The Prestigious Nettie Finkle Award
The Town of Palm Beach United Way recently honored Jack Scarola with the prestigious Nettie Finkle Award for his 45-plus years of transforming the lives of the most vulnerable individuals and families in Palm Beach County.
The annual award honors an individual who exemplifies volunteerism and whose commitment to bringing hope, promise, and opportunity into the lives of others has left a lasting, positive impact on a person, group, or community at large.
Scarola is a generous giver of his time, talents, and treasure. He is a founding member of The Lord’s Place and has served on its board for more than 45 years.
According to Kerry Diaz, interim CEO of The Lord’s Place and who nominated Scarola for the award, “Jack is not your typical board chairman who limits his involvement overseeing
the policies of a nonprofit organization. He has literally been on the ground and in the trenches—or to be more exact, in the dumpster—with our organization since its beginning.”
Ibis Charities Foundation Awards Over $530,000 In 2025 Season Of Giving
The Ibis Charities Foundation is proud to continue its mission of supporting impactful initiatives across five key areas: health and wellness, education, family and social services, arts and culture, and environmental awareness. Most grants are awarded to projects with clearly defined budgets and measurable outcomes, ensuring donor contributions make a lasting difference in our community.
Thanks to the extraordinary generosity of our major donors, corporate sponsors, and all who participated in this year’s Season of Giving events, we raised more than $500,000 for the third consecutive year. In mid-March, the Ibis Charities Grants Committee presented funding recommendations
Wheelchairs 4 Kids
Receives $7,500 Grant
To Help Children With Physical Disabilities In Northern Palm Beach
Wheelchairs 4 Kids is proud to announce it has received a $7,500 grant from the Admirals Cove Foundation to support its flagship Let’s Roll Program, which provides wheelchairs, home and vehicle modifications, and other essential assistive equipment to children with physical disabilities under the
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age of 21, all at no charge to their families. This grant is specifically designated to serve families in the Northern Palm Beach area of Florida.
Founded in 2011 in Tarpon Springs, Wheelchairs 4 Kids is a nonprofit organization committed to improving the quality of life and increasing mobility for physically disabled children. Since its inception, the organization has helped over 1,800 children nationwide live fuller, safer, and more independent lives through the gift of mobility and accessibility.
“We are incredibly grateful to the Admirals Cove Foundation for their generous support,” said Madeline Robinson, executive director of Wheelchairs 4 Kids. “This grant allows us to directly impact families in Northern Palm Beach who are facing immense financial and
emotional challenges. With this funding, we will be able to provide life-changing equipment that many children would otherwise go without.”
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In the early 1980s, Scarola joined the late Brother Joe Ranieri, founder of The Lord’s Place, sleeping on the steps of St. Ann’s Church and later helped him as he spent weeks living in a dumpster to call the attention of the community to the problem of homelessness and to solicit financial support. Since the beginning days, Scarola and his wife, Anita, and children have been steadfast supporters of The Lord’s Place and participants in the agency’s various events—from Dumpster Days to SleepOut to this year’s inaugural March to End Homelessness. In addition, it has become a Scarola family Christmas tradition to play “Santa Claus” for the children and parents residing at the agency’s family campus. Scarola has continued to help The Lord’s Place grow to become the leading organization serving those experiencing homelessness in Palm Beach County.
“He has not only made a profound contribution in helping to build The Lord’s Place into the nationally-recognized agency that it is today, he has also walked the walk in every aspect of his life,” added Diaz, “Jack and Anita have instilled in their five children, 20 grandchildren, and three great-grandchildren the values of respect for all people, the duty to help others less fortunate than ourselves, and the responsibility to speak out and stand up against injustice in the community and the world.”
Scarola’s charitable contributions extend beyond The Lord’s Place, providing support for The Guatemalan-Maya
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totaling $508,650, which were unanimously approved by the foundation’s Board of Directors.
Additionally, a successful community-wide food drive for the Palm Beach County Food Bank raised an impressive $22,125. Combined, this season’s total grants exceed $530,000, reinforcing our commitment to giving back and enriching lives throughout Palm Beach County and beyond.
The Ibis Charities Foundation is deeply grateful for the ongoing support that makes this level of giving possible.
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Center, Easter Seals, The Legal Aid Society, Guild of Catholic Lawyers, The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society, Palm Beach County Justice Association, and others.
In Debra Vasilopoulos’ presentation of the award, she told the story of how Scarola and his wife helped the Velascos, a Guatemalan immigrant family. In 2015, after learning about the Velascos’ plight to seek asylum from horrific violence, including rape and death threats, the Scarola family took the mother and two of her children into their home for five months.
“The Scarolas helped their children enroll in school, helped the mother get a job as a nanny and helped pay for an attorney to handle their asylum case. They are just one of several families who the Scarolas have befriended and assisted in this way,” shared Vasilopoulos, board secretary for United Way.
In his career as a senior partner in the law firm of Searcy, Denney, Scarola, Barnhart & Shipley, P.A., Scarola has taken on the cases of innumerable members of the public who were wronged and won justice for them—taking a personal interest in their plight and providing care for them beyond the courtroom and their court case. For this, he has been honored with the Florida Bar President’s Pro Bono Service Award and the Legal Aid Society’s Community Service Award.
In his acceptance speech, Scarola attributed “at least equal credit, if not more” to his wife: “All of those things have always been a family effort. And it has been an enormous satisfaction to be able to give back to this community in exchange for all that we have received from this community for more than 50 years we have been part of it.”
He thanked United Way for its “enormous contributions to contributing to the quality of life in Palm Beach County, to maintaining and elevating that quality of life.”
Scarola shared these lines of poetry, “It’s not the things you do my friends but things you leave undone that cause you a bit of heartache in the setting of the sun.”
He then emphasized, “There is much that remains undone as our neighbors face a tremendous assault as a consequence of the economic pressures that are being brought to bear upon them attempting to live in this community. And to have added to those economic pressures, political pressures as well, make their lives extraordinarily difficult. Your work is essential. Thank you for doing it.”
In addition to Scarola receiving an award, the Town of Palm Beach United Way added his name to the Nettie Finkle Award plaque which lists all past recipients and presented The Lord’s Place with a check for $2,000 in Scarola’s honor. All Town of Palm Beach United Way nonprofit partner agencies are eligible to nominate a volunteer for the annual Nettie Finkle Award.
For more information, visit www.palmbeachunitedway.org.
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A few members of the Scarola family: (left to right) Caroline Kirk, Ellie Bischoff, Janna Scarola Bischoff, Jack Scarola, Anita Scarola, Cara Scarola Hansen, David Scarola, Annette Mendoza
Historical Society Takes Annual Sunset History Cruise
On Thursday, April 24, the Historical Society of Palm Beach County (HSPBC) hosted 90 guests on its annual Sunset History Cruise aboard the classic 1926 motor yacht Mariner III Leaving from the Riviera Beach Marina, the waitlisted event included a brief voyage north to the Jupiter Lighthouse and back, cocktails and heavy hors d’oeuvres, and a presentation by Palm Beach County Historic Preservation Officer/Archaeologist Christian Davenport.
Davenport remarked, “To gaze upon the history in this way, from the deck of such a fine vessel, anchors the weight of these far-gone events in our hearts. This is just one of the many integral parts of preservation work which the Historical Society of Palm Beach County does best.”
The event follows the HSPBC’s recent Evening on Antique Row and On the Avenue social, once again bringing local history to the public with newfound vitality. “Clearly there is an appetite for history in our community, and we are providing exclusive educational programming to meet that demand,” commented
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The Admirals Cove Foundation, based in Jupiter, Fla., supports nonprofit organizations that enhance lives and strengthen communities in Palm Beach County through grants and scholarships. Their support will help Wheelchairs 4 Kids continue to provide safe and customized solutions for children in need, right in their own backyard.
Wheelchairs 4 Kids’ Let’s Roll Program remains central to its mission, ensuring that no child goes without necessary mobility or accessibility equipment due to financial hardship. In addition, the organization runs a social inclusion program, Wheely Fun Days, offering children the opportunity to participate in exciting community outings and connect with their peers.
To learn more about Wheelchairs 4 Kids or to get involved, please visit Wheelchairs4kids.org or call (727) 946-0963.
Photos attached feature Wheel Kids that Wheelchairs 4 Kids have helped since their founding in 2011.
Jeremy Johnson, president and CEO of the Historical Society of Palm Beach County.
Thank you to the Sunset History Cruise Sponsor: Dailey Janssen Architect
To make a donation, become a member, or learn more about the Historical Society of Palm Beach County, contact Taylor Materio, Chief Development Officer, at (561) 832-4164 ext. 104, tmaterio@pbchistory. org, or visit pbchistory.org.
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The Singles Scene Column©
No Tariffs On Love
By Kelly Leary, M.S. & Miranda Capparelli
“This unique engine (the heart in love) has always captivated humanity. Indeed, we have often believed that everything is under its command.” ~~Pierre Berville
Summer is upon us, and it will go quickly, so let’s consider some fun facts
about the allure of June. Welcome to extra sunshine, beach days, nostalgic rock music, and nights that don’t start until 9:00 p.m. Summer romances can last forever, so swipe left on the fling because we are here for the real thing. Tan lines will fade, but real love will not. Yet, many singles get weighed down by emotional overload, economic woes, and fear of rejection. Singles wonder: Are relationships still worth the cost? At Revolution Dating, our answer is simple: Yes. Because in our community, there are no tariffs on love, only massive returns.
Real love is not subject to market fluctuations. Unlike the swipe-happy online dating addicts, our confidential matchmaking service offers something truly recessionproof~~a priceless genuine connection. A dynamic duo will always live better than a single person. Finding (the right) love interest is and will always be your wisest and most significant investment. You have a financial advisor. Factor in a love advisor and thank us later.
Caveat: Remember to share this with someone you care about, and know that this information suits the SINGLE and the TAKEN, ages 20 to 80.
The Cost of the Modern Dating Dilemma: High Risk. Low Reward.
With 34 years of experience, let us share the hardcore facts. Using online dating apps or rolling the dice in the bar may appear “free” on the surface, but the hidden costs are steep. Take notes on this and bring it up at your next dinner party.
• Time wasted messaging incompatible matches or attempting to vet each candidate with your limited free time.
• Emotional burnout from ghosting, catfishing, or worse … someone in another country trying to gain access to your bank account information. It happens more often than you think but no one will tell you.
• Safety concerns exist, especially for high-net worth professionals and upscale retirees. Do not post your photos on a public forum for all to envy. This can lead to identity theft, fake profiles, or an awkward encounter in your social circle. Many have seen their clients or neighbors on these sites, making both parties incredibly uncomfortable.
• The Inevitable Dating App Fatigue that drains confidence and hope. With social media alone, self-esteem is at an all-time low, so why bother? Technology is for work. Not for love. Nothing beats traditional and oldfashioned introductions.
Online dating platforms can feel like a clearance rack in the back of the store ... i.e., the unwanted and out of style. Discerning singles, C-Suite executives, and entrepreneurs must step it up to meet a good partner. Matchmaking is in, and online dating is out, and this phenomenon has been escalating dramatically over the last ten years. Real people with real success do not use online dating forums.
Enter: Matchmaking Skills.
At Revolution Dating, we know you’ve worked hard to build a quality life, and your love life should mirror your high standards. Modern dating should not feel like a gamble. Curated, confidential connections tailored to your lifestyle, values, and goals trump stranger danger every night of summer. So, quit while you are ahead and focus on your day job while we focus on your love life and coaching (you may need). Chemistry is found in real-life connections. Unlike online platforms that profit from your endless swiping to KEEP YOU SINGLE, we succeed when you stop looking and pair off. This is why we offer unlimited introductions all summer long. We do not want to keep you dating. That is more work for us. We love a one-and-done.
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Get real. Dating is expensive—not just in dollars but in emotional wear and tear. Bad dates, dashed hopes, and wasted weekends add up. Our talent, vast connections, and skillset protect your most valuable assets: your time, energy, money, and heart. Unlike the digital Wild West of online dating, our process is built for discretion. If you are a public
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Why does summer lovin’ happen so fast? In a nutshell, people are more open, spontaneous, and relaxed. This is the only time of year that single parents of school-age children get a life, too. CONGRATS, SINGLE PARENTS! Energy is lighter and more playful, making summer the ideal condition for escalating a meaningful relationship. Your summer love story does not require a plane ticket, but an open mindset is mandatory. You can vacation in your backyard with your plusone by your side. Just remember, our flights book quickly, so don’t delay or you may get stranded.
In our 34 years of specializing in representing clients who navigate the entire northeast coast, we have capitalized on our investment in the love movement. When you succeed, we succeed. Whether you are newly single, divorced, or widowed, let this summer bring the change you seek. Now is the perfect time to discover what’s possible when love is handled professionally, not casually. Your new summer hobby awaits.
Book your initial interview with us today before we book solid. Clients are pre-booking weeks in advance. Don’t let summer love pass you by. Simply scan the QR code and fill out the form or give us a jingle. LIVE Matchmakers are standing by.
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Kelly Leary, M.S.© is CEO and Founder of Revolution Dating which she launched in 2014. Kelly has 34 years in the dating industry and a master’s degree in clinical psychology. She has been written about in Modern Luxury Magazine Palm Beach and Modern Luxury Manhattan, The Palm Beach Post, The Shiny Sheet, Stuart News, Jupiter Magazine, and many more. Revolution Dating clients are pre-screened in person, including background checks and ID verification. Professional photos are taken by the staff. Revolution Dating is NOT online dating or blind dating. In addition to providing matchmaking
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services that make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive club memberships, Kelly and Miranda also provide feedback from dates when appropriate. Mock Dates are available by request. Single Coaching Sessions and Evaluations are also available by request for non-members or as an add-on to some memberships. *All inquiries are confidential *Specializing in representing jet-setting clients with a second home in the Northeast Area.
Do call the central hotline at 561-6309696 (XOXO) or scan the QR code below to hold your place in the club. Why wait? Just Date!
Behind The Scenes: Sunshine, Sparks, and Soulmates
Commissioner’s Update
Hurricane Season In Palm Beach County: Prepare Now To Stay Safe
By Mayor Maria G. Marino
documents. Use tap water in reusable containers instead of buying bottled water—this is both cost-effective and environmentally-friendly. Don’t forget your pets; they need supplies too.
Revolution Dating Receives BEST OF 2025 from Florida Weekly!
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Successful single, divorced, and widowed clients are ready to live and love offline. Revolution Dating is a full-service matchmaking firm specializing in screening and representing clients from the Northeast to Palm Beach for decades, with a corporate brick-and-mortar office in your backyard in the exclusive PGA Commons business neighborhood. Last month, the team celebrated many of their new success stories that have gone public! Thankfully, they chose to share their love with the community outside of the office and downstairs at Rocco’s Tacos on PGA Boulevard. Revolution Dating invites you to embrace love with them this summer. You belong here. #TellYourFriends #SummerLovin
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Palm Beach County has a long history of severe weather, including hurricanes, tornadoes, lightning storms, flooding, droughts, and wildfires. Frances, Jeanne, Wilma, Fay, Matthew, Irma, and more recently, Helene and Milton, have all left their mark on our community. These events underscore the importance of being ready and resilient.
The Atlantic hurricane season officially runs from June 1 through Nov. 30. While we all hope South Florida will be spared, it’s essential that every resident takes time to prepare—by reviewing evacuation plans, securing their homes, and gathering necessary supplies.
Familiarity with severe weather is part of life in Palm Beach County, but preparation can reduce disruptions and speed up recovery.
The Palm Beach County Division of Emergency Management provides a range of resources to help you get ready. One of the best tools is the Official Palm Beach County Hurricane Planning Guide , available at https://discover.pbcgov.org/publicsafety/PDF/ Hurricane-Guide.pdf. It includes checklists, evacuation zone information, shelter options, and guidance on home preparation. If you need a printed copy, call the Emergency Information Center at (561) 712-6400 or contact our office.
Start by building an emergency supply kit. Stock several days’ worth of nonperishable food and water, first-aid items, hygiene products, prescription medications (including a way to keep refrigerated medications cold, such as ice packs or a cooler), paper goods, flashlights with extra batteries, tools, cleaning supplies, and a waterproof container for important
If you have a generator, test it now and ensure you have fuel. Keep your vehicle’s gas tank at least half full throughout the season in case of evacuation orders. Electric vehicle owners should maintain battery levels between 50 and 80 percent, depending on the manufacturer’s recommendations.
This is also the right time to trim trees and manage yard debris. Once a storm watch is issued, collection isn’t guaranteed. Yard waste pickup is limited to one pile of up to 6 cubic yards weekly. If you’re disposing of expired storm supplies like fuel, propane tanks, or batteries, use the Solid Waste Authority’s Home Chemical and Recycling Centers. A convenient site is the North County Transfer Station at 14185 North Military Trail in Jupiter. Visit swa.org or call (561) 697-2700 or (866) SWA-INFO for more details.
Stay informed by signing up for AlertPBC, the county’s emergency notification system, at https:// discover.pbcgov.org/publicsafety/dem/Pages/AlertPBC.aspx. You’ll receive alerts by phone, text, or email about local hazards and emergencies. Your information is protected and used only for public safety. You can also download the Disaster Awareness and Recovery Tool (DART) app to check evacuation zones, shelter openings, and storm updates on your phone. More information can be found at: https://discover.pbcgov. org/publicsafety/dem/Pages/dart.aspx.
Check in with your neighbors—especially seniors, individuals with disabilities, and those who may be new to the area. Remember, we are a community first. A small gesture can make a big difference during an emergency. Stay safe and take action now. Preparedness truly makes all the difference. If I can assist you, contact me at (561) 355-2201 or email mmarino@pbc.gov.
Cancer Alliance Of Help & Hope Celebrates The Success
Of The 2025 Shop The Day Away Luncheon™
Cancer Alliance of Help & Hope (CAHH) recently hosted a special luncheon at The Colony Hotel to express heartfelt gratitude to the dedicated committee behind the nonprofit’s most successful 2025 Shop The Day Away Luncheon™ to date.
Generously sponsored by The Colony Hotel, the afternoon was filled with camaraderie, celebration, and exquisite cuisine.
“The 2025 Shop The Day Away Luncheon was our most successful luncheon to date, and we are grateful to our Chairs, Kristina Gustafson, Jacqui Michel, and Nancy Stone, along with Honorary Chairs Arlette Gordon and Gail Worth, and CAHH’s distinguished group of accomplished individuals and community partners who joined forces to support the mission of CAHH for local cancer patients in their time of need,” said Stanton Collemer, CEO of Cancer Alliance of Help & Hope.
Sponsors included Title Sponsor, Gloria Herman; International Chair, Ari Rifkin; Grand Benefactor, Rebecca G. Doane, Sheila Buchbinder M.D., Kathleen Walgreen; Reception Sponsor, Addison Hines Charitable Trust; Auction Chair, Julie Kampf; Jewelry Sponsor, Lugano Diamonds; Benefactor Committee, Donna Mulholland, Leigh Anne Kazma, Caroline Lucey, Michelle Worth, David Sarama and Dan Drennen, Elizabeth DeBrule, Susan Hurley Esson, and Barbara Zand; Media Sponsor, Palm Beach Illustrated; Event Sponsors, Gallivant Ltd., The Colony Hotel, Sant Ambroeus Palm Beach, Gary and Linda Lachman, The Palm Beach House; Table Gift Sponsor, OTG|247; and Media Sponsor Palm Beach Illustrated.
Vice Chairs/Platinum: Elizabeth Ailes, Peter and Diane Avonda, Grace Bender, Mara Benjamin – Mara & Arthur Benjamin Foundation, Lori Berg, Martha Bilodeau, Teresa Chope, Virginia Contreras, Chris Cox, Suzanne Mott Dansby, Lora Drasner, Debra Goldenhersh, Linda Lachman, Kerrie Lance, Rosemary Laphen, Lisa Peterfreund – Merrill G + Emita E. Hastings Fnd., Jeff Pfeifle and Dave Granville, Martha Rodriguez, Philo Rosenfeld, Amie Swan, Laura Moore Tanne, and Sarah Wetenhall.
Ambassadors/Gold: Christine Ansbacher, Kristen Baran, Janice Coady, Jan Ricci Feldman, Susan Gibson, Barbara Gilbert – Valley National Bank, Caroline Harless, Cora Longacre, Kathy Marino, Laura Miller – Memorial Healthcare System, Susan Pazmino, Soula Rifkin, Jill Schecter, Terri Schottenstein, and Ana Seley.
Committee/Silver: Erinn Campbell, Jacqueline Cestone, Vera Chapman, Maude Cook, Patricia Cooke, Donna Craft, Margaret Donnelley, Kathy Duffin, Lorre Erlick, Nancy Erlick,
Aida Flamm, Sandra Flax, Marina Galli, Debbie Gross, Lisa Gulley, Sara Harris, Yaz Hernandez, John Herrick, Holly Holden, Anna Houssels, Lisa Huertas, Richard Hurtardo, Cindy Karen, Barbara Kelly, Lisa Koeper, Gabriel Licko, Janet Litow, Hyela Makoujy, Cheryl McKee, Vicky McLoughlin, Jean Meisenzahl, Elena Melegari – Pinko Retail Holdings, Joy Miltenberger, Alisa Moseley, Karen Murray, Kip O’Brien, Sally O’Connor, Michelle Mason Otremba, Angela Page, Amanda Polk, Marjorie Potter-Kolb, Kathy Prounis, Jon Roberson, Marcia Robbins-Wilf, Joyce Robinson, Danielle Rollins, Deborah Rosen, Leesa Rowland, Julie Rudolph, Oksana Sakal, Jane Scher, Florence Seiler, Elizabeth SiefkenTrimarche, Elen Steinberg, Chris Stenko, Svetlana Tozzi, Cristina Urreiztieta, Michelle Walker, Noele Wein, Lonnie Winter, JoAnn Wurzak, and Fred Zrinscak Jr.
For more information about Cancer Alliance of Help & Hope, please visit CAHH.org.
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Have A Harmonious Family That Does Not Fight?
Still Need An Estate Plan!
By Anné DesormierCartwright, Esq
In many families, everyone gets along, happily gathering for the holidays, sharing laughs, telling stories, and enjoying each other’s company. Then, the matriarch or patriarch dies. Suddenly, years of pent-up resentment and hurt feelings surface, and the once-happy family is now embroiled in litigation over the head of the family’s money and property.
Having An Estate Plan Is Crucial To Your Family’s Success
When everyone is alive and happy, it is easy to think that nothing will break a family apart. Many people think that since everyone gets along, estate planning is unnecessary because everyone will look out for one another and do only what is fair. However, having a properly prepared estate plan is crucial. Failing to plan not only takes all the control out of your hands but can also leave hurt feelings and possible confusion over your true wishes. This confusion may force family members to pursue the only source available to resolve the misunderstanding: probate court.
Is Your Daughter ADD?
By Jim Forgan, Ph.D., Licensed School Psychologist
“My ten-year-old daughter often has trouble following multistep directions, will lose her place in reading and need to re-read, will say ‘huh?’ or ‘what?’ after being given directions, blurts things off topic, has a difficulty staying engaged during lessons, and shows inconsistencies in academic performance.” This mom asked, “Could she be ADD (now called ADHD Inattentive Presentation)?”
These warning signs showed a valid concern and lead her to trust her instincts and seek out professional help in understanding her child. She felt like her daughter might be being manipulative but yet she did not want to scold her for something that she might not always be able to control. Mom also wanted to understand treatment options if it was ADHD, Inattentive Presentation.
Our school neuropsychological evaluation tested many key areas of attention including her sustained attention, attention capacity, impulse control, flexible thinking, memory, and processing speed. The child also completed a self-esteem assessment to gain understanding about how she felt about herself. Emotional health is important for reaching one’s potential.
The results revealed two factors which contributed to her challenges. First, she had slow processing speed. This helped explained her “huh” types of behaviors. She must put in lots of mental effort when learning new content. This drained her mental energy and contributed to her difficulty maintain attention. Once her mental fuel was used, she tuned out, disengaged from learning and showed avoidance behaviors.
The second factor was indeed a deficit in sustained attention. This was validated through interactive tests of attention, a computerized test of attention, and by having others complete behavioral rating scales. We discussed the different treatment options, and this mom decided to first work on increasing her underlying processing speed prior to considering other treatments. This mom also planned to share the results with her school to give understanding and obtain accommodations.
Call (561) 625-4125 if you would like to discuss your child and your concerns for possible dyslexia, ADHD, autism, or anxiety. Learn more at www.JimForgan.com.
Not Just Any Estate Plan Will Do
While a lack of planning can lead to disastrous consequences, poor planning can be just as harmful. Documents that are outdated, vague, or improperly prepared can lead family members to challenge them. Family members may have differing opinions about your intentions if your documents are unclear. This is especially unfortunate if you have a trust: One of the primary reasons to prepare a trust is to avoid court involvement. A trust contest, however, places your loved ones and the provisions in your trust under court scrutiny.
Contest Clauses
No-contest clauses are not enforceable in Florida. A common situation where contests can arise is when someone is left out of the will or trust. If you want to disinherit a family member intentionally, consider leaving them a nominal amount at your death or identifying them and saying they have been provided for otherwise.
You Can Protect An Inheritance With Proper Planning Alternatively, if you are concerned about a beneficiary receiving money outright because of creditor issues, spending habits, etc., you need not disinherit or leave them out of your estate plan. Leaving money to a family member does not have to be an all-or-nothing decision. By utilizing a discretionary trust, you can set aside money for the individual to be distributed by a trustee when and how the trustee deems appropriate. If you do not want to put
such tight restrictions on a beneficiary’s inheritance but still want a level of protection, you can have a beneficiary’s inheritance held in a trust and distributed to them at specific ages or when they reach certain milestones. You do not have to leave your loved one an inheritance outright without any requirements or stipulations.
A Proper Estate Plan Can Help Avoid Contests
Having a well-drafted, up-to-date estate plan is crucial regardless of your family situation. Will or trust contests can be costly and quickly drain what you want to leave behind for your loved ones. We can assist you in creating an estate plan that will ensure that your wishes are carried out and that harmony can be maintained within your family after you are gone. Call us today to schedule an appointment.
If you have questions about your estate plan and what documents you should have in place to plan your estate, schedule a free consultation today by calling our office at (561) 694-7827, Anné Desormier-Cartwright, Esq., Elder and Estate Planning Attorneys PA, 480 Maplewood Drive, Suite 3, Jupiter, FL 33458.
The content of this article is general and should not be relied upon without reviewing your specific circumstances by competent legal counsel. Reliance on the information herein is at your own risk, as it expresses no opinion by the firm on your specific circumstances or legal needs. An attorney client relationship is not created through the information provided.
The Pet Cottage Post
Forever Promises: How Love Lives On
When Mister and Beary’s mom passed away from cancer in the fall of 2024, her love didn’t end—it simply took a new shape.
She had made provisions in her estate to ensure her cherished 10-year-old bonded dogs would never be without care. Because of her thoughtfulness, Mister and Beary became part of our pack in November, joining The Pet Cottage’s Lifelong Guardianship Program. They arrived grieving, confused, and with medical needs. Both had developed painful bladder stones, but thanks to prescription food and close veterinary care, we’ve been able to dissolve the stones—avoiding surgery altogether. However, Mister later developed a tumor on his eyelid. On May 13, he underwent successful surgery and is now recovering comfortably beside Beary, his tail thumping in rhythm with hers.
Mister and Beary are a reminder of why we exist: to keep pets safe and loved when their humans can no longer be there. Older, bonded dogs with medical needs are often overlooked. But not here. At The Pet Cottage, they are promised forever.
To keep that promise, we need to plan ahead—just like their mom did.
This month, we invite you to join our Legacy Circle—a growing group of compassionate souls who have included The Pet Cottage in their estate plans. Legacy gifts are one of the most powerful ways you can help ensure we’ll
always be here for pets like Mister and Beary.
Whether you leave a gift in your will, designate The Pet Cottage as a beneficiary, or consider leaving land or property that could serve as a permanent sanctuary, your legacy becomes a lifeline.
We are currently operating our sanctuary on leased land, and it’s working—for now. But our dream is to own a property outright, ensuring we can provide forever homes for pets who are simply too fragile to be placed elsewhere. Pets like bonded pairs, seniors with chronic conditions, or those who just need time to heal. Your love can live on. It can offer comfort, safety, and healing to pets who have lost everything—and help us keep our Forever Promise.
If you’d like to learn more about joining our Legacy Circle, please reach out to us at info@thepetcottage.org or visit thepetcottage.org/legacy.
To include The Pet Cottage in your will, your attorney may use the following sample language:
“I give and bequeath to The Pet Cottage, Inc., a nonprofit organization located at 17049 Thunder Road,
Jupiter, FL 33478, Tax ID #47-4011633, the sum of $_____ (or ___% of my estate) to be used to further its mission of providing lifelong guardianship for pets whose humans can no longer care for them due to death, disability, or deployment.”
To schedule a visit or for more information about becoming a Forever Guardian call (561) 818-5025.
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Mister with a cone
Cookie and Kevin
Michelle and Sally Mister and Beary
Local Teen Keaton Murphy Starts Charity, Sunshine Cares
Keaton Murphy, a high school junior at William T. Dwyer is the founder of a small charity project that he named Sunshine Cares. Keaton wanted to take community service to a more personal level. He believes when you give and receive, it brings warmth and hope. Driven by compassion and desire to give back to the community, he created this effort with the sole purpose of supporting individuals in need – particularly those facing homelessness. Times are difficult these days, so he wanted to help people facing challenges.
Through Sunshine Cares, he personally reached out to friends, family and others in the community to collect donations, which he then used to purchase essential items. Murphy assembled these items into care bags; each filled with necessities aimed at providing a small measure of comfort and support. Each care bag contains the following items: String bag for carrying essentials and belongings
Sunshine cares personalized UV sunglasses
Dental flossers
Moisturizing lotion
Deodorant wipes
Toothbrush
Toothpaste
Hair comb
Bars of soap
Shampoo
Conditioner
Tissues
Q-tips
Washcloths
Body wipes
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Carefully Consider Social Security Decisions
By Sally Sima Stahl, Edward Jones
Your Social Security benefits can be an important part of your retirement income – but when should you start collecting them? It’s a big decision, so you’ll want to consider your options carefully.
Essentially, you’ll need to decide whether you’re going to take your benefits as early as possible – age 62 – or if you should wait until your “full retirement age” or even longer. If you begin accepting benefits at 62, they’ll be about 30 percent lower than if you waited until your full retirement age, which is 67 if you were born in 1960 or later. And if you wait until 70, your benefits will be about 24 percent higher than at your full retirement age.
In deciding when to claim benefits, you’ll want to weigh these factors:
• Income needs – If you need the money to help meet your daily cost of living, then you may not feel you have much of a choice about when to take Social Security. However, if you have sufficient income from other sources, such as your 401(k) or other retirement accounts, you may be able to delay taking benefits until they’re much larger.
• Employment – If you’re still working and you haven’t reached your full retirement age yet, it might be a good idea to wait before claiming Social Security because your benefits will be reduced by $1 for every $2 earned above $23,400. In the year in which you reach your full retirement age, your benefits will be reduced by $1 for every $3 earned above $62,160. (But once you reach your full retirement age, Social Security will adjust your payments to credit you for the months during which your benefits were lowered because of your income.)
• Life expectancy – None of us can say for certain how long we’ll live – but you may have some hints. For example, if you have a family history of longevity, and you’re in good health, you might decide it makes sense to delay taking Social Security until your full retirement age, or even later, as you could potentially have more years of receiving larger checks.
• Spouse – If you’re married, decisions about when to claim benefits could affect you or your spouse. The spouse with lower Social Security payments may be eligible to receive spousal benefits, which, when combined with their own benefits, can reach up to 50 percent of the higher-benefit spouse’s payment at their full retirement age. To qualify, the
Murphy didn’t stop at fundraising – He took the pride to hand deliver these bags with his brother (who just graduated from Florida State University) to nearby homeless shelters with hopes to offer both help and a reminder that someone cares. Sunshine Cares! He worked on finding the perfect name for his charity and developed the logo. He had the logo printed on UV sunglasses and added them to the bags. It is important to protect your eyes from the bright Florida sun. The sunglasses are one of many essential items that he researched for most needed on a daily basis for good health and hygiene. Murphy spent hours asking for donations to fund his goal of 200 bags. He achieved the goal and with excitement quickly assembled the bags so he could hand them out before the hot summer months arrived.
Murphy enjoys doing community service at the Loggerhead Marinelife Center each Saturday doing selfguided beach cleanups, the positivity of helping gave him the idea to develop his own effort in giving back to the community as well.
lower-benefit spouse’s benefit at their full retirement age must be less than half of the other spouse’s full-retirementage benefit. But if the lower-benefit spouse claims their benefits before their full retirement age, their own retirement benefit and the spousal benefit will be reduced. Also, the lower-benefit spouse reaches their maximum benefit amount at their full retirement age – they won’t receive additional benefits even if they or the higher-benefit spouse delays taking benefits past their respective full retirement ages.
One other point to keep in mind: If the higher-benefit spouse claims early, the survivor benefit to the other spouse is reduced, but if the higher-benefit spouse delays their benefit beyond their full retirement age, the survivor benefit is increased. By making the appropriate choices, you can help maximize your Social Security benefits – and possibly enjoy a more comfortable retirement.
With open arms and gratitude, the shelters received the bags and expressed that they were much needed and appreciated. This was a great feeling, and a lesson learned that with time and effort you can make a difference in a person’s life that is going through a challenging time.
The Lord’s Place and the Lewis Center were the bigger establishments that are providing amazing services to those who are homeless in Palm Beach County, they were appreciative to receive the bags. We donated to smaller shelters in the area as well.
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Jupiter Medical Center Receives Consecutive “A” Rating For Patient Safety Excellence
The Spring 2025 Ranking Is A Testament To The Hospital’s Commitment To Patient Safety
Jupiter Medical Center continues to prioritize patient safety with the recent achievement of another “A” Hospital Safety
Grade from The Leapfrog Group. This latest recognition marks the 13th consecutive Leapfrog “A” Grade for the hospital since the fall of 2018, underscoring its unwavering dedication to quality, safety, and patient satisfaction. Once again, Jupiter Medical Center stands out as the sole hospital in Palm Beach and Martin counties to attain this top rating.
The Leapfrog Group evaluates general hospitals nationwide using a comprehensive grading system ranging from “A” to “F,”
Top Three Ways To Stand Out When Applying To College
By Peggy Forgan, M.Ed., College Planner
With thousands of applications pouring in each year, colleges are looking for more than just high GPAs and strong test scores. They want to know who you are, what you care about, and how you’ll contribute to their campus community.
Here are the top three ways students can make themselves stand out in the college admissions process:
1. Share Your Unique Story
Your personal essay is your chance to go beyond the numbers and show colleges the real you. A compelling story—whether it’s about a challenge you’ve overcome, a lesson you’ve learned, or a passion you’ve pursued—can make a powerful impression. Focus on authenticity. Admissions officers are drawn to honest, reflective writing that reveals your character, values, and growth.
2. Show Depth In Your Activities
It’s not about how many clubs you join—it’s about the
impact you make. Instead of spreading yourself thin, focus on two or three activities that truly matter to you. Whether it’s leading a club, starting a community initiative, or building a creative project, meaningful involvement and leadership demonstrate commitment, passion, and initiative.
3. Pursue A Passion Project
Colleges love to see students take initiative outside the classroom. A self-driven project—like launching a nonprofit, starting a podcast, writing a book, or conducting independent research—shows that you’re curious, motivated, and capable of thinking big. Passion projects set you apart because they reflect your interests and your willingness to go above and beyond. How Class 101 Can Help
At Class 101, we work one-on-one with students to help them discover their unique strengths, set goals, and build a standout college application. From guiding essay writing and identifying leadership opportunities to supporting passion projects and finding the right college fit, we equip students with the tools and confidence they need to shine. With Class 101, standing out becomes a plan—not a guess.
For more information or to schedule a free 30-minute consultation contact Peggy Forgan at (561) 418-7897 or email pforgan@class101.com
assessing over 30 metrics related to errors, accidents, injuries, and infections. The grading criteria also consider the hospital’s preventive measures to ensure positive patient outcomes.
“Everyone who works at Jupiter Medical Center should be proud of this ‘A’ Hospital Safety Grade,” said Leah Binder, president and CEO of The Leapfrog Group. “It takes complete dedication at every level and an ironclad commitment to putting patients first. I thank Jupiter Medical Center, its leadership, clinicians, staff and volunteers for caring so deeply for its patients and their safety.”
“Safety is one of the top priorities for patients when deciding where to receive care,” said Amit Rastogi, M.D., MHCM, president and CEO of Jupiter Medical Center. “Our commitment to the highest level of patient care is the foundation of everything we do. This national designation affirms to our community that the care provided by Jupiter Medical Center is the highest rated in Palm Beach County and the Treasure Coast. I am immensely proud of our team and their unwavering dedication to excellence.
To see Jupiter Medical Center’s entire grade details, visit HospitalSafetyGrade.org.
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