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We recently had the pleasure of working with Jennifer, Phil, and Monica as our realtors to sell our home, and we couldn’t be happier with the results. From start to finish, they exceeded our expectations in every possible way. They priced our home perfectly at fair market value, but it was their outstanding marketing efforts that really stood out.
Thanks to their strategy, our home sold within just four days of listing – at full cash price, with no contingencies, and a quick close. In today’s Charlotte County market, where there’s an overwhelming amount of inventory sitting for long periods, this was an incredible achievement.
[....] To future buyers or sellers, I cannot recommend this team enough. They will represent you with utmost professionalism and dedication, whether you’re buying or selling a property.
As if the process wasn’t already impressive enough, a major hurdle occurred just before closing. Hurricane Helena hit the day before we were supposed to close, and the situation could have been catastrophic. Streets were flooded, and many areas were inaccessible, but Monica stepped in and went to the house the day after the hurricane to check for any damages. Her commitment and willingness to go the extra mile, even under these extreme circumstances, was truly remarkable
Thank you, Jennifer, Phil, and Monica, for your hard work and dedication. You made what could have been a difficult and stressful process incredibly easy and successful. We are extremely grateful and wouldn’t hesitate to work with you again or recommend you to anyone looking for top-tier representation in the real estate market.
Never was so much owed by so many to so few. Thank You Veterans!
A WWII Warrior in the Atlantic and the Pacific Theaters
LOU BOTTITTA LBOTTITTA@GMAIL.COM
The sound of virtual explosions echoes through the basement as our grandsons, Ethan and Aiden, huddle around their gaming console. Between soccer matches and dirt bike rides, these energetic boys find adventure in the digital realm of video games. As a grandfather, I often struggle to keep up with their high-tech pastimes. But on this day, the pixelated battlefield on their screen bridges generations in ways I never expected.
“Look” I said, pointing excitedly at the screen. “It’s the USS Arkansas!”
The Arkansas – not just another graphic in their game “War Thunder,” but the same battleship that my father, Louis S. Bottitta, called home during World War II.
A SON OF IMMIGRANTS ANSWERS THE CALL
It was April 1943, just a week after his 19th birthday, when my father traded the familiar streets of Newark, NJ, for the vast uncertainty of the US Navy. That same year, his older brother, Tony, joined the Army. As first-generation Americans born to Sicilian immigrants, they felt an overriding duty to serve the country that had given their family a new home.
“I joined the Navy for the hot meals and clean clothes,” Dad would quip. But beneath the humor lay a deeper truth: the desire to serve, even if it meant facing his fear of water head-on. Despite not knowing how to swim, he embarked on a journey that would take him across two oceans and earn him a special place in our family history.
FROM “FIREMAN” TO FIRE CONTROL
For years, we kids thought Dad had been a literal fireman on the ship, imagining him lugging hoses and
dousing flames. The reality was far more intense: as a Fire Controlman Third Class, he was manning the big guns that were providing cover for our infantrymen landing on beaches in three critical WWII battles.
The USS Arkansas, affectionately dubbed the “Arky” by her crew, was a World War I Veteran. Refitted with imposing 50-foot cannons, she was ready to write a new chapter in US naval history.
GLIMPSES OF HELL: FROM D-DAY TO KAMIKAZE ATTACKS
It wasn’t until after Dad’s untimely passing in 1980, at just 56 years old, that the full scope of his wartime experience came to light.
The USS Arkansas’s Pacific War Diary, a treasure trove of memories akin to a military yearbook, revealed a journey that spanned the globe:
- The beaches of Normandy on D-Day, where the Arkansas’s guns roared in support of the landing troops.
- The black sands of Iwo Jima, as Marines fought tooth and nail for every inch of volcanic rock.
- The relentless kamikaze attacks off Okinawa, where the sky itself seemed to rain fire and death.
zone. 34 ships sank beneath the waves, 5,000 sailors lost their lives, and another 5,000 bore wounds that would last a lifetime. Almost 2,000 Japanese pilots perished in these desperate attacks. Amidst this chaos, my father made a solemn vow: if he survived, he would attend Catholic Mass every Sunday for the rest of his days. It was a promise I watched him keep faithfully throughout my youth.
THE UNSPOKEN BROTHERHOOD
Dad rarely spoke of his time at sea, but one passage from the ship’s diary hints at the bonds forged in those harrowing days: “The prickly heat, the monotony, the dysentery, the long days and nights spent at General Quarters and Air Alert stations... the companionship and the silent understanding that comes only among men who have gone through great danger together.”
These words paint a picture of the challenges faced by the crew – not just the dangers of combat, but the daily struggles of life at sea during wartime. The camaraderie born from shared hardship became a silent strength that many veterans carried with them long after the war’s end.
For nearly three months, from April 1 to June 22, 1945, the waters off Okinawa were a killing
THE USS ARKANSAS: A LEGACY OF VALOR
As a tribute to my father, his shipmates, and all our veterans,
FIRE CONTROLMAN
3RD CLASS LOUIS S. BOTTITTA.
here’s a brief history of the USS Arkansas, a ship that sailed through two world wars and into the annals of history:
BEGINNINGS OF A LEGEND
Commissioned in 1912, the USS Arkansas was a Wyoming-class battleship that proved its mettle long before World War II. She cut her teeth in World War I, patrolling the eastern seaboard and shepherding vital convoys across the Atlantic. Between the wars, the Arkansas underwent several modernizations, emerging stronger and better armed, ready to face the challenges of a new global conflict.
JOINING THE FIGHT
The attack on Pearl Harbor in 1941 thrust the United States into World War II, and the USS Arkansas answered the call without hesitation. Initially, she took on the crucial role of convoy escort in the Atlantic, safeguarding the lifelines between America and its allies against the ever-present U-boat threat.
A KEY ROLE IN D-DAY
June 6, 1944 – D-Day. As part of Task Force O, the Arkansas played a pivotal role in the Normandy Invasion. Her 12-inch guns spoke with thunder, softening German defenses along Omaha Beach. For hours, she maintained a relentless barrage, providing vital cover for Allied forces as they stormed the beaches, her firepower clearing a path for the troops to advance.
PACIFIC THEATER AND FINAL MISSIONS
After Normandy, the Arkansas sailed through the Panama Canal in November 1944, redeploying to the Pacific Theater. Here, she participated in some of the war’s most brutal engagements, including the Battles of Iwo Jima and Okinawa. As a floating fortress, her guns provided crucial support to Marines fighting on those heavily defended islands, silencing enemy positions and aiding the push toward victory.
A HERO’S FAREWELL
With Japan’s surrender in September 1945, the USS Arkansas returned home to a hero’s welcome. She performed one last service in Operation Magic Carpet, bringing weary American soldiers back to their families. But the dawn of the atomic age spelled the end for many old warships. In 1946, the
Behind every steel hull and gun turret, there are thousands of personal stories waiting to be told.
USS ARKANSAS STATISTICS.
Arkansas was selected as a target ship for nuclear tests at Bikini Atoll – a dramatic end for a vessel that had served through two world wars.
A LEGACY REDISCOVERED
As I watch my grandsons navigate their virtual USS Arkansas through digital battles, I’m struck by the strange turns of history. Here, in a video game, the valor of my father and countless other brave sailors lives on in an unexpected way.
The real USS Arkansas may have met her end as a target in atomic bomb tests, but her legacy – and the legacy of the men who served aboard her – continues, inspiring new generations to remember the sacrifices made in the name of freedom.
Next time you hear about a World War II game or see an old battleship in a movie, remember: behind every steel hull and gun turret, there are thousands of personal stories waiting to be told. Some might even be hiding in your own family tree, just waiting to be discovered.
THE USS ARKANSAS.
Supporting the Green Berets
CAROL KORTZ, HP MEMBER AND GBF VOLUNTEER CCKORTZ@ATT.NET
The United States military is made up of many different branches. Each branch has its own “Special Forces.” The U.S. Army Special Forces are Green Berets. Founded in 1952, they’re among the elite of all military groups, and conduct missions abroad to combat guerrilla insurgencies. In April 1962, President John F. Kennedy penned an official White House Memorandum stating, “The Green Beret is a symbol of excellence, a badge of courage, a mark of distinction in the fight for freedom.”
The Green Beret Foundation, headquartered in San Antonio, TX, was formed to educate the public and raise money for medical, financial, and career assistance that is not covered by military or VA benefits.
My husband, Lee, and I have been passionate volunteers with the Cincinnati Chapter of the Green Beret Foundation since its formation in 2014. I got involved with GBF because I saw first-hand how the Foundation helped my colleague’s son, Major Darren Baldwin, who was injured in Operation Iraqi Freedom in 2005. Within the course of nine days,
he sustained two blast impacts from roadside IED’s.
At that time, very little was known about diagnosing brain injury and trauma. If a soldier’s injury did not involve visible bleeding, loss of limb, or other severe wounds, the soldier was often returned to combat. During his third deployment in Afghanistan, Major Baldwin exhibited symptoms of traumatic brain injury severe enough to return him stateside. He received treatment at various military hospitals including Walter Reed Medical Center, but a definitive diagnosis was never reached. They told Major Baldwin that it could be brain cancer, Hodgkin’s Disease, or possibly MS. He was sent home, however the physical and neurological deterioration continued. Eventually a civilian neurologist confirmed the diagnosis of traumatic brain injury. When it became obvious that Major Baldwin’s condition would never improve, his parents decided to turn the tragedy into something beneficial.
The family sought and received support from the GBF and now, along with a large team of volunteers, supports the Foundation with a two-day event held each September. About 400 people attended the 10th annual Major Darren Baldwin Cincinnati Green Beret Classic on September 8, which included a reception, dinner, and both a live and silent auction. The following day, 240 golfers participated in either a morning or afternoon shotgun at the O’Bannon Creek Golf Club in Loveland, OH. My husband, Lee and I both serve on the event’s steering committee.
We had so many sponsors who wanted to host a team that we had to break the event into morning and afternoon flights
CAROL AND LEE KORTZ AT THE MAJOR DARREN BALDWIN CINCINNATI GREEN BERET CLASSIC.
to accommodate all those who wished to participate. Even with 60 teams, we still had a waiting list. Our fundraiser is GBF’s second most successful event in the country. In the past ten years, over $1.3 million has been raised by the Cincinnati Chapter, and this year’s event alone raised over $300,000.
$0.84 of every dollar raised is for programs and services directly benefitting Green Berets and their families. Called “The 5 Pillars of Support,” funds are used for: health and wellness such as hyperbaric oxygen therapy, and all-terrain wheelchairs; casualty
and family support when a Green Beret is wounded or injured in the line of duty; support for gold star families which is financial assistance in the wake of the death of a Green Beret; and transition support to help Green Berets returning from combat to seamlessly pass from military life to civilian life.
After 16 years, the traumatic brain injury Darren suffered caused irreversible neurotrauma which then deteriorated until eventually he was unable to walk, talk, or care for himself. Retired Major Darren Baldwin passed away on December 23, 2021, and was
buried in Arlington National Cemetery a year ago. In honor of his life and legacy, the Foundation and his parents established the Silver Star Family Support Fund that supports US Army Special Forces Silver Star Families battling long-term physical and mental health challenges, as well as supporting the spouse or caregiver.
My husband and I are vocal supporters of the work of the Green Beret Foundation. We are proud of the foundation’s work, and what has been done for so many of the Special Forces and their families.
THE GOLF COURSE WAS DECORATED IN PATRIOTIC FASHION. U.S. FLAGS WERE AMASSED HONORING DECEASED GREEN BERETS NEAR THE FIRST TEE, FLAGS LINED THE CLUB DRIVEWAY, AND EACH HOLE PIN HAD A FLAG TENDED BY LOCAL ROTC STUDENTS.
Canadians and the Poppy
BLAIR TULLIS
BLAIR1220@GMAIL.COM
My wife, Ginny, and I have been bringing our poppies down to FL to wear each year in the lead-up weeks to November 11, Remembrance Day in Canada. It’s the same day as Veteran’s Day in the U.S. The Remembrance Day Ceremony has played a major role in Canada since 1931. Every year, at the 11th hour of the 11th day of the 11th month, we gather in memorial parks, community halls, workplaces, schools and homes to stand in honour of all who
have fallen. Together, we observe a moment of silence to mark the sacrifice of the many who have fallen in the service of their country, and to acknowledge the courage of those who still serve.
During November, poppies adorn the lapels and collars of millions of Canadians. The significance of the poppy can be traced back to the Napoleonic Wars in the 19th century, over 110 years before being adopted in Canada.
Records from that time indicate how thick poppies grew over the graves of soldiers in the area of Flanders, France. Fields that had been barren before battle exploded with the blood-red flowers after the fighting ended.
During the tremendous bombardments of the war, the chalk soils became rich in lime from rubble, allowing the flower to thrive. When the war ended, the lime was quickly absorbed and the poppy began to disappear again.
The person who first introduced the poppy to Canada was Lieutenant-Colonel John McCrae of Guelph, Ontario, a Canadian Medical Officer during World War I. He penned the poem In Flanders Fields on a scrap of paper in May, 1915 on the day following the death of a friend and fellow soldier (see sidebar). Little did he know those 13 lines would become enshrined in the hearts and inextricably tied to the image of the poppy for all Canadians who would wear them. McCrae’s poem was published in Punch Magazine in December, 1915, and later served as inspiration for Moina Michael, an American teacher, who made a pledge to always wear a poppy as a sign of Remembrance.
During a visit to the U.S. in 1920, a French woman named Madame Guerin learned of Moina’s custom and, when she went home, decided to make and sell poppies to raise money for children in war-torn areas of France. The idea of the Poppy and Remembrance was taken up by Great War Veteran’s Assoc. in Canada (the predecessor of the Canadian Legion - our VFW) which officially adopted the poppy as its Flower of Remembrance on July 5, 1921.
Today, the poppy is worn each year during the Remembrance period to honour Canada’s Fallen. Thanks to the millions of Canadians who wear the poppy each November, the little red flower has never died, and the memories of those who fell in battle remain strong.
IN FLANDERS FIELDS
In Flanders fields the poppies blow
Between the crosses, row on row,
That mark our place; and in the sky
The larks, still bravely singing, fly Scarce heard amid the guns below.
We are the Dead. Short days ago
We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow, Loved and were loved, and now we lie In Flanders fields.
Take up our quarrel with the foe:
To you from failing hands we throw
The torch; be yours to hold it high. If ye break faith with us who die
We shall not sleep, though poppies grow In Flanders fields.
By Lieutenant-Colonel John McCrae
~ May 3, 1915
Staying Connected
JANE BREISCH, EDITOR CVGOLFERS@GMAIL.COM
November is a month for remembering our Veterans and troops. Thank you for serving with honor and dedication. “A hero is someone who has given his or her life to something bigger than oneself.” - Joseph Campbell
Speaking of Veterans, you’ll see a number of articles honoring them. Lou Bottitta wrote about his dad’s service on the USS Arkansas during WWII. Carol Kortz shared her and her husband’s work with
the Green Beret Foundation in an article titled Supporting the Green Berets. Blair Tullis penned Canadians and the Poppy, and shared the lovely, but sad, poem called In Flanders Fields. All begin on page 4.
Also check out Il Silenzio… Beautiful and Haunting on page 18 to see how Dutch families are honoring fallen US soldiers.
months, Between the Palms has gone digital, as of this issue! Please see the article explaining the reasons why on page 11. ***********
As has been brought to your attention in the last several
Should you have an article to submit for the December issue, my deadline is November 3. Please email to cvgolfers@gmail.com. Postcards from our members are always welcomed… especially from those traveling outside the state.
Between the Palms Has Officially Gone Digital!
JANE BREISCH, EDITOR
As mentioned in the September issue, our publisher, Seabreeze Communications, will no longer be producing a newsprint-type format of BTP. They developed this dedicated website with a flip-book style reader for easy online browsing of BTP by our members.
SO, WHY GO DIGITAL?
• The cost of the actual paper BTP is printed on has climbed more than 30% from 2020 to 2022, and continues to rise. This spike has, in no small part, been precipitated by diminishing newsprint production amid the longer-term decline of print newspapers. Newsprint mills are closing, or pivoting to produce more lucrative types of paper, not least of which is packaging for companies like Amazon.
• According to the Pew Research Center, “Newspapers are a critical part of the American news landscape, but they have been hit hard as more and more Americans consume news digitally. The industry’s financial fortunes and subscriber base have been in decline since the mid-2000s.”
• US newspaper publishers are expected to lose $2.4 billion in ad investment from 2021 to 2026, primarily due to declines in print advertising.
• As of 2022, about 86% of adults in the US get their news online, either via mobile or laptop.
• In 2023, only 5% prefer getting news from printed media. Roughly half (52%) prefer getting their news from digital platforms.
• Digital advertising accounted for 48% of newspaper advertising revenue in 2022, based on this analysis of publicly traded newspaper companies. This follows a steady increase from 17% in 2011.
Going digital offers wider reach, higher quality visuals, and faster, more relevant content.
SO, WHAT ARE THE ADVANTAGES OF GOING DIGITAL?
• Wider Reach: Any adult with an email address in HP’s data base will receive their own copy.
• Mobile Accessibility: BTP will be available on your laptop, tablet, or cell phone, whichever you prefer.
• Only one BTP per month. Since it will be in a digital format, there’s no limit on the number of pages available for copy and photos. So, there will no longer be a need for BTP EXTRA.
• Photographs and graphics will be far easier to view and will be of higher quality.
• Interactivity and Engagement: Links will be clickable, and can include email links, links to HP’s website, videos, etc.
• Timeliness: Digital offers a much shorter distribution timeline, making the information more recent and relevant.
• Other features to come: An events page to keep you informed about what’s happening at HP, access to prior issues, and a resource page to connect you with local providers.
Please meet Lisa Schneck, our Wellness and Activities Director, who joined HP in August, 2024. After building a successful Wellness Department at Twin Eagles Club in Naples, Lisa resigned her position in April to find work closer to her home in Cape Coral. Over the summer she worked as an independent service provider and Weight Watchers Coach. When she saw our Director position advertised, she immediately “knew” this was the position for her!
WHAT ARE HER RESPONSIBILITIES?
“My administrative responsibilities span departmental strategy and business planning, budget preparation and management, payroll, class management, and the creation and management of our non-F&B related events and activities. That said, my role is member-facing, which fits well with my personality and background. I like connecting with members and helping them along their wellness journey. The path can be
Meet HP’s Lisa Schneck
JANE BREISCH, EDITOR
intimidating and confusing; there is so much conflicting information out there. In reality, the path to a healthy and happy life can be quite simple and enjoyable. I love empowering others.”
Lisa is a certified personal trainer, nutrition coach, and class instructor. She is also certified through the Titleist Performance Institute as a Level 2 TPI Golf Fitness instructor. “While I love the work I have done along those lines, my role at Heritage Palms will be directing and supporting our excellent instructors and trainers, rather than performing services myself. We want successful, professional, and inspiring instructors and trainers delivering services in our facility. So, supporting our fitness team, understanding the challenges they face, and helping them grow is paramount. As a leader, it is my job to cultivate and nurture my team so that they can take excellent care of our members.”
One of her greatest challenges?
Balancing her time in front of members with the behind-thescenes work that enables her department to be successful. “I have learned over the years how to effectively prioritize my time and focus. Being centrally located at the front desk of the Activity Center allows me to be present with members and staff, while performing departmental tasks. I’ve found it to be a wonderful dynamic, and am able to take in some great feedback and to offer assistance when and where needed. I’m always available for a quick chat and have been scheduling one-
LISA SCHNECK.
LISA AND ROBERT OUT BIKING.
on-one time with those who would like to have a deeper conversation or receive some direction or advice.”
Lisa feels programming is her second greatest challenge. “There are so many excellent classes, activities, workshops, and group opportunities available to our members! Determining the perfect mix, facilitating that blend, and leading members to take advantage of these resources is huge! I am blessed to have an active and engaged Fitness and Wellness Committee to partner with at Heritage Palms. I was pleased to see how instrumental they have been in this department’s success! Our partnership with Lee Health, the annual Health Fair, the speaker series, and many other health and wellness events are the product of their dedication and strategic vision.
WHAT DO YOU ENJOY
with a wonderful and diverse membership. Helping others navigate their journey is my passion. As Wellness Director, I get to employ all of my strengths and skills toward the realization of that passion.”
MOST
ABOUT WORKING HERE?
“The variety! This position makes great use of my skills in writing, teaching, project management, marketing and, of course, fitness! No two days are exactly the same, and I get to spend time
Growing up in WV and Maryland, Lisa was a runner so competed in cross country and track. She earned a bachelor’s degree in professional writing from Glenville State Univ., located in Glenville, a small town in central WV. While in school she taught fitness classes at two local fitness
centers and accepted an internship with two local newspapers. After graduation, she accepted a position with Health and Fitness Consultants out of Minneapolis, and traveled the country assisting independent fitness centers with marketing and cash-building campaigns. She eventually accepted a managing editor position for the two print publications where she had interned and built a family.
“In spring of 2011, my children’s father passed away unexpectedly. At that time, my youngest daughters were only two and three years-old. As fall approached, I feared for the upcoming winter months as WV can be cold and dreary for much of the season, and I was struggling with grief and raising two toddlers alone. My aunt invited me to visit her in Anna Marie Island, FL. I was struggling in every way and something about being on the Gulf was so healing that I returned home, secured work, packed a U-Haul, and ultimately moved to Cape Coral, having never been there before. It was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. That was one of the first times I felt “led” in making a choice, and
L-R: DAUGHTERS CIENA, ISABELLE, AND PRESLEY ON CHRISTMAS EVE 2023.
I have learned to trust that guidance when it comes. I’ve lived in Cape Coral for 13 years.”
In 2017, Lisa met her future husband, Robert. She had been alone with her young girls, Ciena and Presley, for six years at that point. “He was worth the long wait. We have a close and loving relationship and support one another in all aspects of life.” They married in August 2021.
Robert has three children: Isabelle, 21, and twin boys, Conner and Mathew, 18, and is a chef at Prime 239 Steakhouse, an upscale steakhouse in south Cape Coral. He is also a huge Miami Dolphins fan, so by default, that’s Lisa’s team as well. She loves football season as it’s a big deal for him, and the family watches every game.
What does Lisa like to do in her spare time? It’s spent with her blended family…whether it’s curled up on the couch, eating delicious food, road biking, hiking, taking photographs of wildlife, rollerblading, or bodyboarding. They have two cats – Philip and Luci. Lisa hopes to add a Golden Retriever when she’s sure they have enough time to spend with another furry family member.
“I love traveling to Hawaii to snorkel and spend time with my husband’s family. I’ve also spent time in Acapulco and Cozumel.”
L-R: ROBERT, MATTHEW, CONNOR, AND LISA AT THE BOY’S GRADUATION THIS PAST MAY. THEY’RE CURRENTLY ATTENDING FGCU FOR COMPUTER SCIENCE.
Lisa is also a voracious reader. Most are audio books she can listen to while she drives. Her most recent favorite is Eat to Beat Your Diet by Dr. William W. Li. “This book is dense with excellent, accurate, and cutting-edge information! However, naming a favorite book is difficult for me. I’d probably choose one from the fantasy book series The Riyria Chronicles by Michael J. Sullivan.”
Favorite restaurants in Cape Coral: Lobster Lady Seafood Market & Bistro and, of course, Prime 239!
HAS SHE MET ANYONE FAMOUS?
“I went to college with (actor) Channing Tatum. We had an excellent football program and Chan joined us for a few semesters. I was a theatre minor and member of Alpha Psi Omega, so I often joke that ‘Channing Tatum has applauded my acting.’
Chan even earned his black belt in the same dojo that I learned to kickbox.”
WHAT’S ONE THING MOST PEOPLE DON’T KNOW ABOUT HER?
“I don’t drink alcohol. Several years ago, I committed to living the highest quality of life possible. That means solid rest, great nutrition, daily exercise, and low stress levels. I learned pretty quickly that alcohol hinders those goals for me. When out with friends, most people don’t notice that my cocktail is alcohol-free, and I never bring it up.”
“I just love Heritage Palms and am proud to call the beautiful Activity Center home!” Lisa enthused. So, next time you’re there, stop by and introduce yourself to our newest HP Director! She’s a dynamo!
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Il Silenzio…Beautiful and Haunting
CONTRIBUTED BY GINNY TULLIS GINNYTULL15@GMAIL.COM
Located on 65.5 acres in the country’s southernmost province near the town of Margraten, the Netherlands’ only American military cemetery honors about 10,000 US soldiers who died in World War II. About 8,300 gravestones – most bearing crosses, others with a Star of David – stand in gently curved rows across the manicured lawns, their stark white marble a striking contrast to the lush, green grass. Near the cemetery’s entrance, 1,722 names are inscribed on the Wall of the Missing.
Those buried died in “Operation MarketGarden” – one of the war’s largest airborne operations, which unfolded about 70 miles away. It was a battle to liberate Holland in the fall/winter of 1944. The Dutch craved a meaningful way to honor their liberators, and a grassroots movement grew as families volunteered to act as caretakers for their graves.
So today, every one of the men buried in the cemetery, as well as those in the Canadian and British military cemeteries, has
been adopted by a Dutch family who mind the grave, decorate it, and keep alive the memory of the soldier they have “adopted.” It is even the custom to keep a portrait of “their” soldier in a place of honour in their home.
On “Liberation Day,” celebrated September 12, memorial services are held each year for “the men who died to liberate Holland.” The day concludes with a concert. The final piece is always “Il Silenzio,” a memorial piece commissioned by the Dutch, and first played in 1965 on the 20th anniversary of
Holland’s liberation. It’s been the concluding piece of the memorial concert ever since.
Four years ago, the soloist was a 13-year-old Dutch girl, Melissa Venema, backed by André Rieu and his orchestra (the Royal Orchestra of the Netherlands). This beautiful concert piece is based on the original version of taps and was composed by Italian composer Nino Rossi.
To listen, go to: https:// www.youtube.com/ watch?v=DRrTujHaHis.
Post Cards
FROM LINDA NEISLER : CHICAGO GOLF LEAGUE GIRLS ANXIOUS TO GET BACK DOWN TO HP 9 HOLE LEAGUE!
L-R: MARY MACIASZEK, BARB JOHNSON, LINDA NEISLER, AND BARB GRAZIOSO. NOT PICTURED: SUE MCNEILLY.
FROM CLARK BRODEN: THE HULA CONNECTION IS A HAWAIIAN DANCE TROUPE FROM CAPE CORAL WHO PERFORM THROUGHOUT SWFL. THEY DANCED AT A LUAU HELD AT THE DISCOVERY COMMONS CYPRESS POINT IN FORT MYERS ON AUGUST 14.
Better Together
JOY WEINER, HPPA PRESIDENT JCWEINER3@HOTMAIL.COM
As I sat down to write this HPPA article, I struggled. There is not much news to report related to the Heritage Palms Pickleball Assoc., but on the other hand, our community is going through a lot of news worthy changes.
While the Pickleball/Tennis Expansion Project has been at a standstill this summer, we’re hopeful there will be additional courts by February. The Tiki Project is well on its way and the Tennis/PB/Bocce programs will celebrate the retirement of long-time director, Mike Lawver, and
welcome in Chad Dyer. These changes will present challenges and disruptions to our community.
As I researched “how to cope with community changes,” the ability to be empathic was a common thread. Empathy is defined as “the ability to emotionally understand what other people feel, see things from their point of view, and imagine yourself in their place.” Research has shown that empathy can be pivotal during peace negotiations. It leads to “prosocial” behavior, including cooperating with others to attain mutual goals. As we, as a community, work through these changing times, it may be helpful to think about the words of the humanitarian Fred Rogers (of Mr. Roger’s Neighborhood) …
“Imagine what our real neighbors would be like if each of us offered, as a matter of course, just one kind word to another person. There have been so many stories about the lack of courtesy, the impatience of today’s world, road rage and even restaurant rage. Sometimes, all it takes is one kind word to nourish another person. Think of the ripple effect that can be created when we nourish someone. One kind empathic word has a wonderful way of turning into many.”
See you on the Courts.
Another Honor for Heather Angell
Congratulations to Heather Angell, HP’s PGA Director of Golf Instruction! Heather was recently named the 2024 South FL PGA Southwest Chapter Teacher of the Year. She also won this award in 2021.
The PGA Southwest Chapter goes from Punta Gorda to Marco Island and includes Charlotte, Hendry, Lee, and Collier counties.
The award bestows special recognition on a PGA golf professional who has performed outstanding services as a golf instructor. Several criteria are considered including overall performance as a golf professional at his/her facility, leadership, service, ability to inspire other professionals, promotion and growth of the game, national impact on teaching and golf instruction, junior golf involvement, innovative contributions to golf instruction, and articles written for publication in books and magazines.
Teachers are nominated by their superiors and/or peers. Once nominated, an application is sent to each nominee. A committee of one’s peers make the final decision once the application is submitted.
Heather works hard every day to elevate her teaching to give her students the best instruction possible so they can enjoy the game more.
HEATHER ANGELL
Read On…
KAREN HARRIS
HERITAGEPALMSBOOKCLUB@GMAIL.COM
The HP Book Club will meet on Friday, November 22 at 2:30 p.m. in the Activity Center to discuss The Women by Kristin Hannah. Seen through the experiences of Frances “Frankie” McGrath, a young nurse who served in the Vietnam war, The Women presents a gripping story that highlights the often-overlooked contributions and sacrifices made by women during that conflict. Describing the book, one reviewer wrote that it was “a generational narrative with a richly drawn story about deep friendships and bold patriotism.” Karen Harris will lead the discussion.
Club meetings are open to all residents who read the book. If you wish to be added to the HP Book Club mailing list, please email me.
The Women
BY KRISTIN HANNAH
Austin Ross Heads to the Secret Service
CLARK BRODEN CLARKBRODEN@GMAIL.COM
On October 1, over 20 members of the tennis community gave Austin Ross a nice celebratory send off at the tennis courts prior to his leaving to train for a position in the Secret Service.
Austin has been working at HP since May 2023, after earning a degree in Criminal Justice at FGCU. While waiting for his Secret Service application to be approved, he took care of our tennis, pickleball, and bocce courts.
Having spent five years in the Army as a Ranger, he was
deployed multiple times in the Middle East.
He received a number of nice gifts and cards by the tennis staff and HP members.
At the celebration, Mike Lawver, retiring HP Director of Tennis and Pickleball, said “Austin was the most qualified person we’ve ever had. He did an excellent job for us. We congratulate him, and wish him well in his new career.”
AUSTIN ROSS.
TENNIS MEMBERS CELEBRATING WITH AUSTIN.
Alaska Adventures
LOU BOTTITTA LBOTTITTA@GMAIL.COM
NOSE TO NOSE WITH AN ALASKAN BROWN BEAR
When hiking in Alaska, you’ll find safety signs about bears everywhere. They give essential advice such as:
• Travel in groups
• Stay together
• Make noise so the bear can hear you
• Stay calm
• Don’t run
• Keep at least 300 yards away from a bear
Unfortunately, bears can’t read, and the one we encountered during a group bike ride in Haines, Alaska, didn’t keep its distance.
I was a last-minute addition to this bike excursion during our cruise in August. The weather was windy, chilly, and wet, so the bike company provided yellow
slickers, safety helmets, and waterproof gloves. During the pre-ride briefing, our guide, Tom, assured us that we had zero chance of encountering a bear. He’d been leading these rides for years and expected we’d see them from afar, perhaps fishing for salmon in the river. Luckily, he was prepared when his prediction proved wrong.
We had just ridden into Chilkat Lake State Park and stopped at a scenic overlook near the river. As we stood there with our bikes, an adolescent brown bear—estimated to be about 300 pounds—slowly and calmly lumbered down the road toward us. We were behind a low wall, about hip height, when the
NOSE TO NOSE: HE GOT CLOSE ENOUGH FOR US TO “PET” IT BEFORE HE TOOK A SHARP LEFT AND LUMBERED DOWN TO THE RIVER.
L-R: JOHN AND LISA SMITH JOINED BARB AND ME ON OUR ALASKA CRUISE.
bear approached it. Our guide reached for his bear spray, reminding us to stay calm, keep together, and stay behind him. He gently spoke to the bear, encouraging it to head down to the river and fish for salmon.
The bear didn’t change its pace and passed right by the wall—so close that some of us could have touched its huge brown back. It continued down the riverbank, and for a moment we watched. But when it looked like the bear just might double back, we hopped on our bikes and quickly got out of there.
It was a thrilling and scary, a once-in-a-lifetime experience. I’m glad I was there—and had my cell ready to snap some incredible photos as proof of our “nose-to-nose” encounter!
ALASKAN ADVENTURE: A JOURNEY TO REMEMBER
Despite many cold and overcast days during our Inner Passage cruise, we were fortunate to experience a few crystal-clear, blue-sky days that allowed us to fully appreciate the breathtaking beauty of Alaska. Our guides were thrilled to point out the vibrant fall colors set against the snow-capped Denali Mountain —an extraordinary sight that only a lucky few visitors get to witness. Even during our stop on Hurricane Bridge, the train staff couldn’t resist snapping photos of the stunning landscape, which only about 10% of travelers are fortunate enough to see under these clear weather conditions.
As an unexpected bonus, the lodge treated us to a 2 a.m. wake-up call, urging us outside to witness the magic of the Northern Lights dancing across the sky.
This adventure will undoubtedly be a cherished memory for years to come.
WE HAD A RARE, CLOUD-FREE VIEW OF THE DENALI COVERED IN SNOW SURROUNDED BY FALL COLORS.
A VIEW FROM THE HURRICANE BRIDGE ON OUR WILDERNESS EXPRESS TRAIN.
Service Dogs at Heritage Palms
MAGGIE DEBONIS, SAFETY COMMITTEE MEMBER
MMDEBO1@GMAIL.COM
Heritage Palms loves all dogs. We want to keep our club safe for all of our members and their pets. Let’s all be mindful of HP’s Rules and Regulations for Service Dogs.
SERVICE DOGS:
• Service Dogs specifically trained to aid a person with a disability are allowed in any areas open to the public.
EMOTIONAL / THERAPY / COMFORT DOGS:
• Emotional / therapy / comfort dogs are NOT the same as a Service Dog. The ADA does NOT recognize dogs who
solely provide emotional, therapy, or comfort support as a service dog.
AS STATED IN HP’S RULES AND REGULATIONS, FOLLOWING ARE THE SERVICE DOG GUIDELINE/ RESTRICTIONS:
• Service dogs are not allowed on Club chairs or furniture.
• The ADA gives a person with a disability the right to be accompanied by his or her Service Dog to eating areas. The dog must sit under the table, but the dog is not allowed to be fed at the table.
• The service dog must be under the control of its handler with a harness, leash, or other tether.
• Service dogs are not permitted in the water of any of the nine Heritage Palms controlled swimming pools.
• The Club may remove any service dog from the premises if the dog is out of control or the dog’s handler does not take effective action to control it, the dog is not housebroken, or the dogs’ behavior poses a direct threat to the health and safety of others.
Failure to comply with the above guidelines/ restrictions could result in members losing their service dog status at HP.
The Safety Committee wants to keep everyone safe, even our 4-legged friends.
Do You Know the Rules?
DAVE KRAFT DKRAFT_SR@YAHOO.COM
It’s getting close to the busy season here at Heritage Palms. I would like to remind everyone what the Rules of Golf say about Pace of Play
RULE 5.6B PROMPT PACE OF PLAY
A round of golf is meant to be played at a prompt pace. Each player should recognize that their pace of play is likely to affect how long it will take other players to play their rounds, including both those in the player’s own group and those in the following groups.
PACE OF PLAY RECOMMENDATIONS. The player should play at a prompt pace throughout the round, including the time taken to:
• Prepare for and make each stroke,
• Move from one place to another between strokes, and
• Move to the next teeing area after completing a hole.
A player should prepare in advance for the next stroke and be ready to play when it is their turn. When it’s the player’s turn to play:
• It’s recommended that the player make the stroke in no more than 40 seconds after they are (or should be) able to play without interference or distraction, and
• The player should usually be able to play more quickly than that and is encouraged to do so.
Your position on the course should be directly behind the group ahead of you. When groups behind you are waiting on you to play and you are NOT waiting on the group ahead of you, YOU ARE THE SLOW GROUP AND NEED TO PICK UP YOUR PACE.
HERE IS THIS MONTH’S GOLF ETIQUETTE TIP: When a golf ball is hit short, but beyond the post that prevents carts from going any farther, players need to remember to take sand with them to repair any divots they make, as well as divots of others. If a player is dropped off at his/her ball, the driver should remind the player to take a scoop of sand.
We welcome you to the tenth Heritage Palms University Club season. If interested, please register online for the following event.
HP University Club News
DECEMBER
Thursday, 12/12: “Christmas Craft” presented by resident Marlene Kluch, and back by popular demand. Marlene will teach us to make a Christmas Craft
From The Pro Shop
BOB KELLY, DIRECTOR OF GOLF BKELLY@HPGC.COM
Hello from the Golf Shop. Fall is here and another fun season of golf at Heritage Palms is in full swing.
The Men’s & Ladies’ golf leagues all kick off this month and feature a great schedule of fun and diverse events. If you’re new to the Club, please stop by the Golf Shop and we can get you registered in our GHIN Handicap system and signed up for a league. Also, we strongly encourage all new members to check out our Golf Tutorials on our website under the Golf tab. These presentations cover the Chelsea Tee System, GHIN Handicap System, Golf Course Etiquette & Pace of Play, and the Golf Genius Tournament System. As always, we’d love to see you in the Golf Shop and help with any golf related matters. We are here for you!
On Thanksgiving Day, we will once again be having an open play
as a decoration. She will supply all the necessary materials and help you individualize it to make it your own. 4 p.m. in the Activity Center, Room A. Limited to 20 participants. Charge: $15 cash.
Upcoming 2024-25 major events:
• Ladies Member Guest: November 11
• Christmas Scramble: December 8
• Men’s Member Guest: December 13 - 15
• Mixed Club Championship: February 2
• Men’s & Ladies’ Member/Member: March 15 -16
• End of Season Tent Party: March 28 or 29
• Men’s & Ladies’ Club Championship/Presidents Cup: April 5 - 6
shotgun on both courses at 7:45 a.m. with the Golf Pro Shop and courses closing after the shotgun. You can just put in a regular Chelsea request to play that morning.
An invitation to sign up for the Christmas Scramble on Sunday December 8 will be coming out shortly. Look for a registration email from Golf Genius.
The Chelsea Tee Time system is still in off-peak season mode. This means that points are assigned on the day of play, no points
are assigned at placement, and members do not receive points for bringing guests. The system will operate this way until January 1, 2025 when in season mode begins.
Both courses are in great shape, and it is our responsibility to keep them that way. If we all do our part daily to take care of the courses, we will continue to enjoy the great playing conditions we now have.
Look forward to seeing you around the club!
MGA News
FRANK FIORINO, MGA SECRETARY FIREPLUMBER@AOL.COM
Welcome to the 2024-25 MGA season. We have a fantastic schedule planned.
The season starts off with a kickoff happy hour on November 6 from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Look for an invitation from Bob Kelly the prior week. November 7 is our first golf event. November 14 and 21 we
have a new event planned: a twoweek aggregate tournament. You take your individual best gross and net score for each hole and come up with the best overall 18-hole score. If you want to participate, you must play both weeks. There will be regular MGA event for those who don’t play in the aggregate event. November 14 will
WGA News
MARY LOU REID, WGA PRESIDENT MLREID107@GMAIL.COM
Welcome back everyone, especially our 2024-25 18-Hole Women’s Golf Assoc. members. Registration for the League was open the entire month of October. If you missed it, and would like to join us this season, simply contact the Pro Shop. Dues for the year remain at $50, which is used to subsidize League luncheons and Special Events.
If you’re a new member to our League, please sign up in the Pro Shop and notify Annie Kajander (annie255@aol.com), the Mentorship Chair, for your welcome packet and information.
Our first golf event is a Best Ball of 4 on Wednesday, November 6,
with a 7:45 shotgun start. Notify the Pro Shop if you haven’t signed up yet. Please arrive at least 15 minutes early.
Our WGA Kickoff Cocktail and Fashion Show is Tuesday evening, November 12. You must be a paid member of the League to attend. Other up-coming events include the Club Ladies’ Member/Guest on November 11.
Sign-up for the Christmas Scramble with the Ladies 9-Hole League will begin on November 20. You’ll receive an email from the Pro Shop. Linda Barnas has once again agreed to chair the event and has a full roster of volunteers. It will be held December 4.
also be our first Harry Chapman fundraiser 50/50 raffle. November 28 is Thanksgiving and therefore no MGA golf.
The entire MGA Board wishes you a safe and Happy Thanksgiving. We look forward to another successful and exciting MGA season!
We’re looking for four or five League members who can spend two hours or so to send solicitation letters for our Charity Auction. Contact Terri Anderson (thehrladysyracuse@gmail.com) if you can help.
Please access our totally revised and up-to-date website. If using the Heritage Palms App, simply press the Site Map tab and find WGA under Golf. We’re requesting all League members have both the Heritage Palms App and the Golf Genius App on their cell phones and home computer. If needed, simply ask the Pro Shop or any of the Board Members for assistance.
LNHGA News
STASIA ARCARESE LARRY.ARCARESE@VERIZON.NET
Welcome back Ladies Nine Hole Golf Assoc. golfers! Get your golf clubs ready for the start of the 202425 season that will begin November 6. Watch for an email from the pro shop for signing up to play.
Remember to call the pro shop if you haven’t yet joined our league. This will ensure that you receive email notices of future games, news, etc. Also check the HP website for additional LNHGA information. Notices will also be put on our bulletin board in the ladies’ locker-room.
The following week, on November 12, the first membership meeting with lunch and a golf scramble will take place at 11:30 a.m. The theme is Being Thankful and Grateful.
Please mark your calendars for the Christmas Scramble with the 9 and 18 holers which will be held December 4 at 8 a.m.
During the season, there will be membership meeting luncheons on the second Wednesday of each month.
Besides weekly play, watch for emails about the Ladies 9-hole KISS events. This is an opportunity to play a 9-hole scramble at various golf clubs with other Lee County 9-hole club members. Just lunch and fun.
The LNHGA handbook with officers, committee chairs, games, rules, and other good information about our league will be available at our November 12 luncheon.
Another Beautiful HP Sunset
FROM SHIRLEE FIREBAUGH:
I CAPTURED THIS STUNNING SUNSET FROM OUTSIDE MY VERANDA ON WINE PALM ROAD THE EVENING OF SEPTEMBER 28 AFTER HELENE HAD BLOWN THROUGH THE DAY BEFORE.
Join the Sundowners 9 Hole Golf League this Season
ROGER BOUCHE, SUNDOWNER LEAGUE MEMBER RBOUCHE@GMAIL.COM
If you’re looking to enjoy nine holes of golf with the camaraderie of friends, then this league is just for you.
Play is from the gold tees and keeping score is optional. It’s serious play, but focused on having fun. Tee times are each Monday and Wednesday around 1 p.m. Foursomes are paired through an algorithm providing a different mix of players on each play day.
The late Ed Eddy established this league in 2014. If you have an interest in being part of the camaraderie this league offers, then just send an email to our League Coordinator, Art Genutis at artgenutis@gmail.com.
Ross Bennett is Coming to HP!
The Laughter Club is hosting Ross Bennett on November 16 in the Palms Dining Room. Doors open at 6 p.m., with dinner served at 6:30 p.m. Price is $45 per person. Simply sign-up on our website’
Ross Bennett was born in Hornell, NY, however, his family soon moved to South FL where he graduated from Deerfield Beach High School in 1973. He enlisted in the Army, and after Basic Training in Fort Knox
KY, Ross worked in Television Production before being selected to attend The United States Military Academy at West Point NY.
“I dropped out of West Point to Become a Comedian... probably the greatest service I will ever do for my country,” quips Ross. He left the Academy after deciding he preferred to take aim and fire jokes, instead of bullets.
Since that day Ross’ comedy career has taken him from New York to Los Angeles and all points in between.
ROSS BENNETT
More Magnificent Birds on Our Golf Courses
ALL PHOTOS BY ED KELLER
A Tree within a Tree?
From Skip Collins : Jim Panther and Brian Judge both pointed this tree out to me on August 5. It’s just off the tee box of 15 Royal. I’ve driven past
it many times and never noticed until I looked closely and saw… there’s actually a tree growing within the tree!
Look closely… there are two trees!
