Boca Club News JUNE 2025

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Centennial Weekend Concert, Drone Show Attended by More than Total Population of the City 100 Years Ago!

Between the 3,500 who filled all seats at the sold-out, epic concert at Mizner Park Amphitheater on Saturday, May 24th, and the definitely more than 1,000 who witnessed the breathtaking, high-tech drone show at the Boca Raton Innovation Campus (BRiC) the following evening, Sunday, May 26th, more of the city’s residents celebrated Boca’s 100th birthday at these two events than the entire population of Boca Raton that existed on the

day it officially became a city, May 25th, 1925! It was not until four years later, 1929, that Boca’s population reached 5,000.

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Set for August 12th

As Florida Atlantic University’s Charles E. Schmidt College of Medicine graduated its class of 2025 this month, the College announced plans for its 15th Annual White Coats-4Care (WC4C) fundraising reception. The yearly event is hosted to welcome its incoming

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Chef Gordon Maybury New Director of Culinary at Broken Sound

With a distinguished career in the luxury hospitality sector, Chef Gordon Maybury brings years of progressive, global culinary experience to his new position as Director of Culinary at Broken Sound Club, where he oversees all food aspects at the club’s events and restaurants.

Known for his innovative approach and deep industry insight, Chef Maybury’s expertise spans private clubs, resorts, luxury hotels and Michelin-starred restaurants. A proven leader and mentor, Chef Gordon is passionate about building highperforming teams and delivering exceptional food and service.

His leadership style is defined by collaboration, creativity and an unwavering commitment to quality.

Originally from Dublin, Ireland, Chef Gordon began his culinary journey through a traditional apprenticeship and quickly rose through the ranks of elite kitchens. He trained under several esteemed mentors, including Master Chef Peter Timmons, Michelin-starred chefs Derry Clarke and Kevin Thornton, and renowned restaurateur John Howard.

Chef Gordon’s international experience includes leading roles in some of the world’s most respected culinary operations. He has served as Executive Chef at the Waldorf Astoria Monarch Beach Resort & Club in California and as Director of Culinary Operations at Turnberry Isle Resort & Club in Aventura, Florida, where he oversaw the culinary programs for the Turnberry Members Club, Tidal Cove Waterpark and the JW Marriott Resort. His résumé also includes leadership roles at The Arizona Biltmore, PGA National Resort & Club, The Peninsula New York and the Hyatt Regency Grand Cayman.

A frequent collaborator in the culinary world, Chef Gordon has co-authored two cookbooks, served as a host chef for the South Beach Wine & Food Festival Tribute Dinner and participated in the Lufthansa Airlines Starchef Program. He also earned critical acclaim for his “Taste of Miami” menu presented at the James Beard House.

Chef Gordon studied at The Dublin College of Catering and holds a Master Certificate in Essentials of Hospitality Management from Cornell University.

WC4C Host Committee with Co-Chairs Bonnie and Jon Kaye (center seated, dressed in black)

class of 80 future physicians, increase scholarship funds, advance innovation in medical education, support research and expand community health initiatives. Co-chaired by Bonnie and Jon Kaye since its inception and supported by a dedicated committee of civic and business leaders, healthcare professionals and community advocates, the College of Medicine’s signature annual major fundraiser will be held Tuesday, August 12th at 6 p.m., with the location to soon be announced.

Annually, the White Coats-4-Care event helps fund College resources to attract, recruit, train and educate the next generation of humanistic clinicians and scientists. This year’s class of students was selected from 4,620 applicants, with a class mean MCAT score of 516 and mean GPA of 3.81. In addition to physicians, this year’s event will help further advance the College’s vision of establishing an academic health presence that fills a critical gap in the healthcare landscape and ensuring that Florida’s southeast region receives the highquality care it deserves now and well into the future.

According to Dr. Lewis Nelson, the new dean of the only medical school in Palm Beach County, nearly 36% of the medical school’s 2025 graduates chose to remain in Florida for their residency training, playing a vital role in bridging the healthcare workforce gap in the state. Twenty-five percent of the graduating class have chosen to pursue careers in primary care, which includes internal medicine, family medicine, Ob/Gyn and pediatrics. The College’s residency and fellowship programs include ACGME-accredited programs in the areas of internal medicine, emergency medicine, psychiatry, neurology and general surgery and fellowships in pulmonary, critical care medicine and newly approved emergency medical services.

“As we continue to strengthen and expand our student education and clinical programs, initiate more community partnerships and cultivate donor opportunities, our ability to increase healthcare stakeholder and community advocacy, involvement, support and philanthropy is vital,” Dean Nelson shared. “It is through the success of our annual cornerstone fundraiser – White Coats-4-Care – that together we can make a consequential impact that drives positive change today, and for generations to come.”

Continuing to evolve from a community-based school to a world-class academic health center in Florida since its inception in 2010, the College of Medicine has grown today to 101 employed faculty members, 1,303 affiliate faculty, 288 medical students, 177 residents and fellows and 100 graduate students. It has increased class size by 25% and can now accommodate 80 students. Supporting its mission of “Innovating Healthcare, Inspiring Minds” and further growth, construction has been completed on the new Sam W. Klein Student Hub and a high-tech auditorium. In February, Florida Atlantic achieved the esteemed designation of “R1: Very High Research Spending and Doctorate Production” and shares this elite status with less than 5% of the nearly 4,000 universities in the U.S.

Community continues to remain at the forefront of the mission of the College. Students actively participate in clinical outreach efforts, including time dedicated to patient care at the Caridad Clinic and Mission Medical Center. Furthermore, its burgeoning relationship with the Health Care District of Palm Beach County will expand critical behavioral and addictions service in the region.

“There are many meaningful ways in which to support the White Coats-4-Care initiative, from underwriting a student’s first white coat to several donor, corporate and legacy gift levels and sponsorship opportunities,” shared the program’s Co-Chair Bonnie Kaye. “In recognition of each supporter advancing a student’s dream of becoming a doctor, the name of each individual donor, family, company or foundation will be included in a pocket of an incoming student’s white coat. All gifts of $1,000 or more will be recognized in the lobby of the College of Medicine.” Opportunities include:

• White Coat Sponsor: $250 to provide a medical student’s first white coat; includes one ticket.

• Compassionate Supporter: $500 provides a medical school scholarship in memory of Founding Dean Michael L. Friedland, M.D. or Ira J. Gelb, M.D.; includes one ticket.

• Friend of the Schmidt College of Medicine: $1,000; includes two tickets.

• Wellness Partner: $2,500; includes two tickets.

• Healthcare Hero: $5,000; includes four tickets.

• Community Champion: $10,000; includes six tickets.

• Owl Guardian: $25,000; includes eight tickets.

• Special Donation Opportunities:

○ White Coat Society: $20,000 or more pledge to join White Coat Society Supports one student through all four years of medical school. The pledge is paid in four installments of $5,000 per year and includes two WC4C tickets annually.

○ Dean’s Circle: A legacy gift of $25,000 or more to establish an endowment fund in one of the following areas: medical student scholarship, graduate student scholarship, medical school expansion or biomedical research. The pledge is paid in five installments of $5,000 per year and includes four WC4C tickets annually. “Recently achieving a national ranking in U.S. News & World Report (2023, 2024), the Schmidt College of Medicine was one of approximately 159 accredited and rated allopathic or M.D. medical schools in the U.S. and continues to expand and thrive in new disciplines and programs,” shared Co-chair Jon Kaye. “Bonnie and I are honored to once again, for the 15th year, chair the College’s White Coats-4-Care campaign. Since the inception of White Coats-4-Care 15 years ago held to welcome the inaugural class, this community fundraising initiative has benefited more than 1,000 successful and compassionate healers in a variety of primary care, clinical specialty and research disciplines.”

The program’s Co-chairs Bonnie and Jon Kaye are supported by a dedicated committee, including Patricia Anastasio, M.D. and Thomas Mersch, Esq.; Melissa Azrack; Florida State Senator Lori Berman and Jeffrey Ganeles,

D.M.D.; Donna and Joseph Biase, M.D.; Alisa Cohen and G. Richard Cohen, M.D.; Phyllis and Michael T.B. Dennis, M.D.; Emily and Stephen A. Grabelsky, M.D.; Arlene Herson; Jaclyn Klimczak, M.D.; Margie and Alan Kaye; Jennifer and Gary Lesser; Elizabeth and Stuart Markowitz, M.D.; Nathan E. Nachlas, M.D.; Michael Pierce; Margie and Maurice D. Plough, Jr.; Ronald L. Rubin, D.M.D.; Constance Scott and Janice Williams.

To learn more about the White Coat Society, Dean’s Circle or other gift options contact Sara Greene, Assistant Director of Development at (561) 297-2984 or greenes@ health.fau.edu. For Corporate Sponsorships, contact Michael Turtz at (561) 297-2387 or mturtz@health.fau.edu.

The double event opened Saturday evening with a performance by power pop favorites Fountains of Wayne, setting the stage for headliners and iconic rock band Weezer. The celebration continued on Sunday evening with a celebration of our city’s rich history and bright future. “From world-class entertainment to cutting-edge innovation the weekend showcased everything that makes Boca Raton special,” said Mayor Scott Singer. A Historic Tribute in Lights at BRiC. The Centennial Drone Show at BRiC offered a dazzling, free-to-attend visual spectacle, with 300 Drones transforming the night sky into a choreographed symphony of lights, color and movement. The Boca Raton Innovation Campus—the birthplace of the IBM personal computer—serves as a symbol of the city’s pioneering spirit, making it the perfect setting for this futuristic celebration.

“BRiC represents Boca Raton’s deep roots in innovation and progress,” added Singer. “As we celebrate 100 years we honor the ingenuity that has shaped our past while embracing the technology that will propel us into the future. This spectacular drone show was a fitting tribute to the vision, ambition and creativity that define our city.”

Introducing “CentenniALE” – A Brew Fit for Boca Raton’s 100th Birthday. No birthday celebration is complete without a toast, and Boca Raton is raising a glass with CentenniALE, a limited-edition craft beer brewed exclusively for the city’s Centennial. Created in partnership with Prosperity Brewers, this locally inspired brew debuted during the Centennial Weekend and will be available at local restaurants and some retail stores, offering residents and visitors alike the perfect way to sip and celebrate Boca Raton’s milestone year.

For more information about Boca Raton’s Centennial events, see articles in future issues of Boca Club News and visit www.Boca100.com or email Boca100@ bocaraton-fl.gov

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The 1925 Centennial-Ale is a crisp pineapple blonde ale inspired by our city’s legacy of pineapple farms and crafted exclusively for Boca Raton. It has an appropriate pineapple-tinged flavor.

Editor Nils A. Shapiro

First in Series of Downtown Installations Turn Waste Into Ode to Boca Poems

The first two in a “Plastic Poetry” series designed to transform everyday waste into colorful, five-line poems inspired by local zip codes have been installed in downtown Boca. Inspired by the Ode to Boca poems written by young Boca residents to celebrate the city’s unique character, the selected Odes evoke the serenity and spirit of South Florida and reflect the lived experiences and creativity of the community, inviting viewers to pause, reflect and connect.

The installations were created from recycled polypropylene gathered through local cleanup and recycling efforts and then melted and molded into 5-inch letters to create each poem. The Downtown Library installation used 5.78 lbs. of recycled plastic, while the Spanish River Library installation incorporated 7.32 lbs., showcasing Boca Raton’s dedication to sustainable practices through the arts.

Palm Trees Sway features a poem by Jennifer, while Beams of Sunshine was written by Olivia, a third grader.

Beams of sunshine Hit the ground Waves are splashing all Around the perfect Town

Olivia, 3rd Grade

“By redefining how to raise awareness and how artists utilize discarded materials this activation brings together everything we value as a city–creativity, community and environmental responsibility,” said Veronica Hatch, Public Art Coordinator for the City of Boca Raton. “The significance of this artwork extends beyond colorful words on a wall; it serves as a reminder of the rich narratives that shape our community, how art can transform public spaces and where individual stories become a collective identity.”

Commissioned by Public Art Boca in partnership with O, Miami and Free Plastic, the activations are located on an exterior wall near the entrance of each library. As part of the city’s Centennial programming, Ode to Boca will continue to bring public art to unexpected places throughout 2025. To learn more about the city’s art initiatives, visit: www. myboca.us/PublicArt.

Rabbi David Steinhardt Receives International Jewish Leadership Award, Leaves B’nai Torah June 30th

B’nai Torah Congregation, the largest conservative synagogue in Southeast Florida, honored Senior Rabbi David Steinhardt with the 2025 Melanie Jacobson Inspirational Jewish Leadership Award during Shabbat services on Saturday, May 3rd. The award, first introduced in 2023, recognizes individuals who exemplify visionary Jewish leadership, spiritual integrity and a deep commitment to community.

Rabbi Steinhardt was celebrated for more than three decades of extraordinary service, including his 31-year tenure as Senior Rabbi at B’nai Torah Congregation. Under his leadership the synagogue grew from a small but passionate congregation into a thriving, multi-generational community of more than 1,400 families. He co-founded the Boca Raton Interfaith Clergy Association and launched the synagogue’s Justice and Compassion Initiative and its beloved TLC (Tzedakah, Learning, and Chesed) program, which continues to serve as a cornerstone of B’nai Torah’s outreach work.

“Rabbi Steinhardt has been able to lead and energize us for 31 years because his Judaism comes from deep intellectual and spiritual development,” said Melanie Jacobson, Executive Vice President of B’nai Torah and the award’s namesake. “He knew that spirituality was not just how we pray–but how we educate, how we care, how we include and how we elevate.” During her presentation of the award Jacobson concluded with, “When Warren Venice, a Jewish pioneer in the field of Leadership Studies, defined leadership as the capacity to translate vision into reality he was undoubtedly referring to [Rabbi Steinhardt]. We are in deepest gratitude for your remarkable vision, which has become our living reality. Let us rise ever higher. Thank you, Rabbi, for being our teacher and our best friend.”

Rabbi Steinhardt will step down on June 30th. In recognition of his profound impact the City of Boca Raton honored him with a proclamation on May 27th.

“I’m so appreciative of this award and B’nai Torah’s recognition of what I’ve done and how I’ve tried to do it,” said Rabbi Steinhardt. “When I walk into the sanctuary I never forget the limitations of my power, the source of whatever gifts I might have. I recognize how important it is to try to access

that place of limitation and humility each and every time that I speak, each and every time that I teach. I believe that’s where true connection begins.”

About B’nai Torah Congregation. B’nai Torah Congregation is a close-knit, multi-generational, modern, and egalitarian synagogue, which offers diverse services, programs of worship,

learning, tzedakah, social action and social activities. It creates an outlet for arts, culture and learning, and is a home to several schools of Jewish education. The synagogue, which offers a wide variety of volunteer opportunities that will enrich the synagogue experience, is a vibrant center for tzedakah acts and projects that touch thousands of people. Learn more at https://btcboca.org.

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American Humane Society: Prepare Your Pet for the Hurricane Season

The beginning of summer means school vacation, long sunny days, baseball season, outdoor concerts and many more fun activities. However, it’s also when Floridians begin preparing for the upcoming hurricane season, which officially runs June 1st through November 30th.

“Hurricanes continue to become more destructive, and after last year’s deadly storms many families were tragically separated from their beloved pets,” said Dr. Robin Ganzert, CEO and President of American Humane Society. “It’s imperative that you plan accordingly to protect your entire family – pets included.”

In addition to marking the start of the Atlantic hurricane season, June is also National Pet Preparedness Month. In an emergency every second counts and it’s critical to prepare to protect the entire family, including pets. American Humane Society offers the following tips for preparing pets for the upcoming season: Before the Storm

• Microchip pets and/or put a tag on their collar with your name, current address and cellphone number.

• Consult with your vet about things that can help with pets’ stress during storms, like thunder jackets and pheromone sprays.

• Tie down or anchor outside objects that might fly about and injure someone.

• Bring all pets inside and ensure you have emergency supplies – extra pet food, water and a carrier ready that is large enough for your pet to turn around and lie down comfortably.

• Review your evacuation plan and have at the ready a pet disaster preparedness kit including a pet carrier, First Aid supplies, leashes, bowls, sanitation materials, chew toys and food, meds and water (minimum three days’ worth, but ideally seven to 10 days’ worth).

• Secure exits and cat doors so pets cannot escape into the storm.

• If your family must evacuate, take your pets with you and leave as early as you can. Remember to take your pet disaster preparedness kit.

During the Storm … If You Cannot Evacuate

• Choose a safe room for riding out the storm—an interior room without windows like a basement or storm shelter—and take your entire family there, including your pets.

• Keep your pets close to you during the storm.

• Keep your emergency kit in that room with you (food, water, litter, meds).

• Know your pets’ hiding places. That is where they may run; keep them with you.

• Do not tranquilize your pets. They will need their survival instincts should the storm require that.

After the Storm

• Make sure the storm has fully passed before going outside, and assess damages before allowing animals out.

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• Keep dogs on a leash and cats in a carrier. Displaced objects and fallen trees can disorient pets, and sharp debris could harm them.

• Give pets time to become re-oriented. Familiar scents and landmarks may be altered and cause a pet to become confused or lost.

• Keep animals away from downed power lines and water that may be contaminated.

Uncertainty and change in the environment affect animals, too, presenting new stresses and dangers. Your pet’s behavior may change after a crisis, becoming more aggressive or selfprotective. Be sensitive to these changes and keep more room between them, other animals, children or strangers. Animals need comforting, too. Comfort your pet with kind words and lots of pats or hugs. If possible, provide a safe and quiet environment, even if it is not their own home.

Preparing properly for the upcoming tropical storm season ensures that not only will our pets be safer, but also will help ensure the safety of volunteers and first responders helping during these dangerous storms.

About American Humane Society. With offices in Palm Beach and Washington, DC, American Humane Society is the United States’ first national humane organization and the world’s largest certifier of animal welfare, helping to verify the humane treatment of more than one billion animals across the globe each year. Founded in 1877, American Humane Society has been First to Serve™ the cause of animals and for over 145 years has been at the forefront of virtually every major advance in the humane movement. For more information or to support its lifesaving work, visit AmericanHumane.org, and follow on Facebook, X, Instagram, and YouTube for the latest breaking news and features about the animals with whom we share our Earth.

More than 30 Events, 100 New Trees, 1,800 lbs. of E-Waste

As the nation marked the 55th consecutive Earth Month in April—a period dedicated to celebrating the planet and taking action to protect it—the City of Boca Raton’s Office of Sustainability capped off a successful Earth Month 2025 with more than 30 sustainability-focused events and programs, engaging residents in environmental action, education and celebration. It was an effort in keeping with this year’s official theme, “Our Power, Our Planet,” emphasizing the collective action needed to transition to renewable energy and achieve a global target to triple clean electricity by 2030.

This year’s Earth Month activities aligned with Boca Raton’s 100th Anniversary and incorporated Centennialthemed programming that honored the city’s past while working towards a more sustainable future. These events, geared for all ages, blended historical reflection with handson environmental action, including native tree plantings, dune restorations, Earth Day Storytimes, an Eco-Watch Lecture Series and much more.

The city also celebrated its 45th consecutive year as a Tree City U.S.A. and received a prestigious Growth Award for its continued commitment to urban forestry.

Highlights from Boca Raton’s Earth Month 2025 included:

• Hosted more than 30 events and programs held citywide, from educational workshops and eco-fairs to community cleanups and speaker series.

• Collected 1,800 pounds of electronic waste, allowing residents to responsibly dispose of outdated electronics and reduce environmental harm.

• Planted 40 new trees at Countess de Hoernle Park / Spanish River Athletic Facility, helping grow the city’s urban tree canopy and fight climate change.

• Provided 75 free shade trees delivered to residential homes as part of our Tree Drop-Off Program.

“We were proud to integrate our Centennial into this year’s Earth Month celebrations,” said Tina BatohJennings, the City’s Sustainability Manager. “It was a powerful reminder that sustainability is not only about protecting our environment today but about shaping the kind of city we want to be for the next 100 years.”

The Office of Sustainability thanked all residents, volunteers, businesses and community partners for their participation. To learn more about Boca Raton’s sustainability efforts and how to get involved year-round, visit www.myboca.us/sustainability.

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Boca Happenings

A Night of Nostalgia and Philanthropy: 3049ish Members Enjoy “90s Unplugged”

The Studio at Mizner Park was aglow as more than 100 community members gathered for an evening of music, community and giving back. Hosted by the Jewish Federation of South Palm Beach County’s 3049ish Division—a group of peers in their 30s, 40s and early 50s—the event celebrated a meaningful season of engagement and philanthropy with a dazzling candlelight concert.

Guests enjoyed a vibrant performance of “90s Unplugged” by Fever’s Candlelight performers, featuring acoustic renditions of iconic hits from the decade. The music, paired with a softly lit, intimate atmosphere, created a unique concert experience that transported attendees back in time.

Through the generosity of attendees and a required minimum gift to the 2025 Annual Campaign the event raised critical funds

to support the Federation’s mission locally and globally.

“The event is so much more than a fun night out. It’s a celebration of our shared values and the powerful impact we can make when we come together,” said 3049ish Division Chair Alexis Krudo. “Every conversation, every connection and every dollar raised helps strengthen our Jewish community, here in South Palm Beach County and around the world.”

For more information about the 3049ish Division or to get involved, contact Allison O’Mara at AllisonO@bocafed.org or (561) 852-3183.

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Boca Helping Hands supporters rolled the dice and danced the Charleston at April’s sold-out event that featured a Roaring ’20s theme of music, auctions, casino games, cocktails, dinner and the crowning of this year’s MONOPOLY® champion, Mike Wohl.

Flapper dresses, feathered headbands and pinstripe suits added flair to an evening that transported attendees back to the Jazz Age. The ballroom was transformed with Gatsbyinspired glamour and a themed décor based on the famous board game, including a speakeasy-style casino and vintage board game touches.

The organization’s Board President, Gary Peters, a two-time National MONOPOLY® Champion, served as the tournament mediator and shared his passion for the event’s creative theme. “Combining the timeless excitement of MONOPOLY® with the energy of the Roaring ’20s made for a truly unforgettable evening. Most importantly, every roll of the dice helps support neighbors in need through Boca Helping Hands,” Peters said. It was truly a Gatsby-worthy night of glitz, glamour and giving back.

The event’s success was thanks to an enthusiastic planning committee led by co-chairs Yvette and Chris Palermo and Jessica and Alex Price. Committee members included Kathy Adkins, Ronnie Bidder, Yolanda Brennan, Andrea Chang, Robin Deyo, Justin Ely, Binky Fash, Christie Galeano-DeMott, Nikki Gentile, Al Goldberg, Jonie Goldberg, Phoebe Kolesar, Mark Malis, Michelle Martin, Wendy Sadusky, Joanna Thomson, Bob Tucker, Trisha Vaca, and Yasmine Zyne-Coleman.

About Boca Helping Hands. The organization is a community-based nonprofit that provides food, medical, and financial assistance to help individuals and families improve their quality of life and build financial stability. Through its various programs it assists almost 35,000 people annually as a partner agency of The Town of Palm Beach United Way. Since 1945 the Town of Palm Beach United Way has been committed to improving lives and building strong communities throughout Palm Beach County by focusing on programs and priorities that promote education, health and financial stability. Boca Helping Hands holds a Platinum Seal of Transparency from Candid/ GuideStar and has been a Charity Navigator Four-Star Charity for 17 consecutive years. Boca Helping Hands is located at 1500 NW 1st Court in Boca Raton. For more information, visit BocaHelpingHands.org.

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Established in 1979, the organization is made up of Jewish and social service organizations, synagogues and schools that provide valued services and programs to recipients in South Palm Beach County, in Israel and around the world. It is also comprised of local residents, including lay leadership, volunteers, donors, professional staff, rabbis, educators, event participants and students. Situated on a 100-acre campus in west Boca Raton –the largest in the nation – it supports more than 70 beneficiaries, engages with more than 5,000 donors and connects more than 130,000 residents. To learn more, visit https://jewishboca.org or call (561) 852-3100.

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Happenings Outside Boca

Delray’s Cornell Art Museum Exhibit, “Impressions of Italy by Ralph Papa” Opens

The Cornell Art Museum’s newest gallery exhibition, “Impressions of Italy by Ralph Papa,” is now open and will run through October 27th, free and open to the public. The collection of 30 Plein Air paintings was created during artist Ralph Papa’s summer residencies in Italy over the past decade. The exhibition showcases the artist’s passion and versatility while exploring the Abruzzo and Percara regions of his Italian ancestry.

Born in New York City’s East Harlem, Ralph Papa expressed natural drawing and painting abilities since early childhood. Primarily self-taught, in his twenties he did study art and architecture at Queens College and CCNY while painting evenings at the Art Students League. Papa’s works range from studio paintings to figurative portraits and plein air painting. His works are nature inspired paintings drawn from life experience and include personal reflections of family and friends. Most recently, Papa has become an art activist, expressing his passion for creating his own art and regularly teaching drawing and plein air workshops throughout Palm Beach County. Papa had a key role in fostering an art exchange relationship and establishing

the Sister City Designation between Boynton Beach, Florida and Farindola, Italy. As a Co-Founder of Plein Air Palm Beach, Signature Member and Past President of the Artists Guild of

the Boca Raton Museum of Art, his art is in public and private collections in the U.S., Canada and Europe. Learn more at www. ralphpapa.com.

“It is an honor and rare opportunity to tell the story of Ralph Papa’s residencies in Italy through this collection of fine paintings,” said Marusca Gatto, Cultural Arts Director at the Delray Beach Downtown Development Authority. “This special invitation to journey with Ralph Papa over the past ten years, experiencing the Italian regions and cities through the eyes of an important impressionist artist is not to be missed.”

The exhibition is on view in the Upper SE Gallery of the museum. Hours at the Cornell Art Museum are Wednesday, 12 to 5 p.m.; Thursday and Friday, 12 to 7 p.m.; Saturday, 10 a.m. to 5 p.m., and Sunday, 12 to 5 p.m.

The Cornell Art Museum is located at 51 N. Swinton Avenue in Delray Beach. Parking is available in Old School Square garage. The Cornell Art Museum is free and open to the public. Donations are appreciated.

Cornell Museum Extends “ICONS of Art” Mosaic

Portraits Exhibit, Announces Limited-Edition Catalogue

Due to overwhelming public enthusiasm and interest, the Delray Beach Downtown Development Authority (DDA) has extended its “ICONS of ART Italian Mosaic Portraits” exhibition at the Cornell Art Museum through October 27th. The acclaimed exhibition features 40 hand-crafted mosaic portraits of iconic figures from the worlds of art, music, film and culture, including Frida Kahlo, Madonna, Leonardo DiCaprio, Sophia Loren, Amy Winehouse, David Bowie

Cornell Museum Extends “ICONS of Art” on page 10

Commotion: Creedence Clearwater Revival

Tribute Band Concert at Delray Playhouse

On June 20th, one night only, audiences will be invited to step into a virtual time machine at the Delray Beach Playhouse and journey back to the glory days of the late ‘60s and early ‘70s with Commotion, an authentic Creedence Clearwater Revival tribute band that offers the hits and legendary sound of CCR, on a musical voyage down memory lane.

From the swampy grooves of “Green River” to the poignant balladry of “Have You Ever Seen the Rain” and the foot-stomping frenzy of “Bad Moon Rising,” Commotion will evoke cherished musical memories. Commotion pride themselves on their attention to detail and commitment to faithfully reproducing the iconic CCR sound. From the soulful voice of Steve McLain to the guitar solos of Jimmy Ryan, the band brings every riff, melody and rhythm to life.

Jimmy Ryan is a platinum-selling musician with a Hall of Fame Lifetime Achievement Award, having recorded and performed with such superstars as Carly Simon, Paul McCartney, Elton John, Mick Jagger, Cat Stevens, James Taylor, Rod Stewart, Jim Croce and many others.

Commotion on stage

Steve McLain possesses a vocal prowess that rivals the one and only John Fogerty with his husky timbre, emotive delivery and ability to recreate the raw energy of Fogerty himself. Steve, no stranger to live performance, has spent over twenty years

“Jesus Christ Superstar” Rock Opera

In Palm Beach June 19th – 29th

Entr’acte Theatrix’ second production of the 2025 season will be Jesus Christ Superstar The iconic musical will run at the William G Skaff Center in West Palm Beach from June 19th through 29th.

The first musical by Tim Rice and Andrew Lloyd Webber to be produced for the professional stage, Jesus Christ Superstar has performed to sold-out audiences for over 50 years. A timeless work, the rock opera is set against the backdrop of an extraordinary and universally known series of events but seen, unusually, through the eyes of Judas Iscariot. Loosely based on the Gospels of Matthew, Mark, Luke and John, the story follows the last week of Jesus Christ’s life. Told entirely through song, it explores the personal relationships and struggles between Jesus, Judas, Mary Magdalene, his disciples, his followers and the Roman Empire. The beloved score contains such well-known numbers as “Superstar,” “I Don’t Know How to Love Him,” and “Gethsemane.”

“We’re thrilled to have Matthew Farmer back with us and directing this show,” says Entr’Acte Theatrix Producer and Founder Vicki Halmos. “It’s really a full circle, for us and for him. Matt started out with us over 20 years ago, and his first role with our company was as Jesus in Jesus Christ Superstar!”

“This innovative production will blend the powerful, timeless music of the original in a most intimate setting,” says Farmer, who formerly served as the Creative Director at the Crest Theatre in Old School Square. “The fusion of classic and contemporary sounds will captivate audiences and create an unforgettable theatrical experience.”

“This time, we did not cast a typical actor in the role of Jesus as we wanted a true rock sensibility,” Halmos continues. “Instead, we have cast Jacob Perry, a popular local rock/jazz

Cornell Museum Extends “ICONS of Art” from page 9

and Mohammed Ali. Each piece is a one-of-a-kind work, blending centuries-old mosaic techniques with modern artistic interpretation.

Curated by Marusca Gatto, Cultural Arts Director at the Delray DDA, in collaboration with Guglielmo Zanette, Artistic Director of the Associazione Naonis of Pordenone, Italy, and creator of the Concorso Mosaic Young Talent and prestigious Scuola Mosaicisti del Friuli, a world-famous Italian mosaic school, the exhibition has become a cultural highlight in South Florida.

This success has sparked the debut of the official ICONS of ART exhibition catalogue, available for purchase in the museum store. Printed in Italy in a limited run of just 1,000 copies, the 68-page hardcover catalogue is a collector’s item featuring 24-karat gold leaf accents and an embossed ICONS of ART logo on the cover. As the first official exhibition publication in the Cornell Art Museum’s history, the catalogue underscores the museum’s rising global profile and its commitment to excellence.

“This project is a result of a prestigious partnership with Associazione Naonis and highlights the growing cultural connection between Delray Beach and Italy, supported by the Delray DDA and Palm Beach County’s broader arts community,” said Gatto. “The exhibition has resonated deeply with visitors, merging ancient craftsmanship with contemporary spirit. This extension reflects the incredible community response and generous support we’ve received.”

musician, to get that vibe. But I have no doubt that Matt will turn him into Jesus. Jesus Christ Superstar is really Judas’s story. Our Judas also has amazing rock pipes. It’s all about hitting those notes!” she says.

wowing fans with his emotionally charged vocals and ability to read an audience and deliver exactly what brings them to their feet.

CCR was known for their infectious beats, and drummer Mark Ellis and bassist George Foster deliver the pulsating energy and intensity that defined the heart and soul of CCR’s classic tunes. Mark Ellis is a multi-instrumentalist, has worked as a staff writer for Atlanta Artist Records, and a recording artist with EMI Electrola as a member of DaVibe. He also toured extensively with the Chicago tribute band, The KC Transit Authority. And George Foster has brought the booty to blues, country, reggae, world, jazz, folk, pop and rock since the 1970s.

Commotion will perform at the Delray Beach Playhouse for one night only, June 20th at 8 p.m. Tickets are $59. They can be purchased online at https://delraybeachplayhouse.com or by calling the theatre’s box office at (561) 272-1281. TheDelray Beach Playhouse is located at 950 NW 9th Street in Delray Beach.

“This cast is turning out to be a fun contemporary group, and they’re managing the music amazingly,” Halmos continues. “As for us, about half of our cast are returned actors from Entre’Acte’s previous shows, and half are newbies. Matt is directing this classic rock opera piece beautifully. And our Music Director, Aaliyah Amoin, has been absolutely fierce in handling the music; she has been completely on task with this iconic score, just the way the composers intended.” Performances are on Thursdays and Fridays at 8 p.m., Saturdays at 2 p.m. and 8 p.m., and Sundays at 2 p.m. Tickets range in price from $25 - $35. They can be purchased online at www.PalmBeachTheater.org or by phone at (561) 833-7529.

Paragon Theaters Brings Moviegoing Back To Deerfield Beach

After nearly ten years, Paragon Theaters has returned to The Shoppes at Deerfield and it is better than ever! Paragon Theaters Deerfield IMAX (3984 West Hillsboro Boulevard, Deerfield Beach, FL, 33442) is THE place to see this summer’s blockbuster movies, including Mission: Impossible – The Final Reckoning , How To Train Your Dragon , F1 , Jurassic World Rebirth and many more!

Paragon’s newest location has undergone a complete transformation and now features:

• 8 state-of-the art auditoriums with laser projectors and Dolby audio.

• Lux Box Dine-In Service in all auditoriums –featuring love seat recliners with QR codes on tray tables allowing for ordering food and beverage before and during the movie. Enhancing the experience, is the fact that each loveseat has privacy walls for the ultimate moviegoing experience.

• A 120-seat IMAX—the only IMAX in the area— with Laser Projection and IMAX’s signature sound quality.

• An Axis15 Extreme large format screen auditorium, featuring 4K Laser Projection, tilted screen and Dolby Atmos immersive sound.

• The Director’s Room for intimate, private screenings and curated programming, which can be rented for events such as sports game watches, birthdays and corporate events. It features comfortable rockers with full dine-in service at every seat.

• A full lobby bar and home to MyPi Pizzas –handmade, fresh-to-order personal pizzas served to your seats. The from scratch dough and original recipes make these pizzas a favorite at all Paragon locations.

Paragon Theaters Deerfield will show all the major films this summer, even providing early access events and other special film series for their guests:

• Attend a special early access event for Ballerina (June 4), How To Train Your Dragon (June 11), and F1 (June 25)

• Be sure to catch the special IMAX Fan First even for F1 (June 23)

• Buy advance tickets online now for Disney/Pixar’s Elio (June 20) and Jurassic World Rebirth (July 2)

• Tickets on sale now for Mission: Impossible – The Final Reckoning, Lilos & Stitch, Karate Kid: Legends, Ballerina, How To Train Your Dragon, and many more summer blockbuster titles

Paragon Theaters Deerfield also offers its guests unique programming options this summer, including:

• $5 Ticket Tuesdays (every Tuesday at all Paragon locations)

◦ All shows, all day, all formats (restrictions apply)

• Sensory Friendly Films (monthly)

◦ First-run films

◦ Lights up, sound low, kids are free to get up and go

◦ Discounted Kids Combo Tray for $5

• Kids $2 Summer Movies

◦ Tuesday, Wednesdays and Thursdays

◦ Only $2/Person

◦ Discounted Kids Combo Tray for $5

• Brazilian Soccer Matches Game Watches in early June

• FAU Game Watches (coming this Fall!)

“We are so excited to bring the movies back to Deerfield,” said Michael Wilson (co-CEO of Paragon Theaters). “Paragon is the future of entertainment. Next-level technology, bigger thrills, and an experience you won’t believe—only found at our theater. Couple all our amenities like large format screens and dine-in service, with an IMAX, and our guests will experience the finest moviegoing experience in all of South Florida.”

For more information about Paragon Theaters Deerfield IMAX, as well as showtimes, pricing and ticket availability, please visit www.paragontheaters. com . Get your tickets now for all the summer blockbusters!

Visit www.paragontheaters.com for showtimes, tickets and more.

Mayor’s Update: The Official Flag of Boca Raton

By Scott Singer is the 35th Mayor of Boca Raton and was re-elected in 2023. A South Florida native, attorney and small business owner, Scott and his wife Bella live in Broken Sound with their two children.

As we continue to celebrate Boca Raton’s Centennial this milestone year offers us the opportunity not only to reflect on our city’s remarkable journey but also to recognize the symbols that unite and represent us.

That’s why I’m proud to share that the City Council has officially adopted the Boca Raton flag—the same design that has flown over our city buildings and events for Decades—as the official flag of our city.

You may be surprised to learn that although we’ve used this flag for many years it had never been formally adopted by resolution. This realization came after a discussion I initiated in 2024 about revisiting the city flag and exploring designs in line with modern flag principles and resident feedback. Through historical research in partnership with the Boca Raton Historical Society we uncovered a fascinating story of evolving designs

and civic expression–one that stretches back more than 60 years.

Historical records show that the City Council adopted an official flag based on a 1964 design by local resident George Ryan.

The flag, pictured in the December 17th, 1964 edition of the Boca Raton News, featured a “stylized version of the city seal” and horizontal bands of green, white, and blue in descending order. The use of that flag was short-lived by the 1990s and more likely even earlier based on available information.

At some point in the 1990s, the City of Boca Raton shifted in design. While it still featured the city seal the order of colors of the horizontal bands shifted to aquamarine blue, white, and Kelly green in descending order. There are no records indicating when the switch in the order of the colored bars took place and whether it was intentional. An Oct. 22nd, 1976 Boca Raton News article attributes Ryan’s choice of blue was representative of the sunny skies, which indicates blue should be placed at the top of the flag. This design has become deeply familiar to residents and

businesses and it reflects Boca Raton’s identity today: vibrant, welcoming and strong.

After reviewing resident input and several thoughtful design alternatives, the City Council agreed to officially adopt the flag that has been embraced by our community. Even more importantly, the resolution also encourages residents, civic groups and businesses to display the city flag proudly. It serves as a powerful visual statement of our shared commitment to Boca Raton and everything we value: natural beauty, innovation, safety and community.

To support this civic pride we’ve also continued to authorize the limited reproduction of the City Seal when used on the city flag. This allows residents and organizations to display the flag in accordance with guidelines while still protecting the integrity of our seal as a symbol of official city representation.

In a time when many cities are working to build stronger connections with their residents I’m proud that Boca Raton continues to foster a sense of identity rooted in both history and progress. The flag we now officially recognize is more than fabric; it’s a symbol of who we are and what we stand for.

As we look to our next 100 years, may we continue to raise this flag with pride–together.

Council Corner: Boca On the Move…A Vision for Our Future

By Deputy Mayor Fran Nachlas

There’s undeniable energy in Boca Raton right now. As we proudly celebrate our Centennial year our city finds itself at the intersection of honoring our past while moving toward an even stronger future.

Visionary planning is bringing new opportunities for civic innovation and Boca Raton is truly on the move.

One of the most significant initiatives currently under discussion is the Government Campus initiative. While we are still in the interim design phase this effort represents more than just a modernization of City Hall. It is about creating a forward-thinking, efficient and accessible civic neighborhood district that will serve residents for generations to come. Your City Council is actively reviewing potential space needs, engaging with expert consultants, exploring design options that would integrate seamlessly into the character of Downtown Boca and improve the way the area surrounding City Hall and our Brightline station work for all of us.

Significant opportunities like this always bring questions and we welcome them. This is a time for thoughtful input, and as always your City Council is committed to ensuring that every decision made is in the best interests of our residents. We are listening carefully because creating something lasting requires doing it together.

As this process continues I also want to recognize the momentum that’s already bringing new livability and quality experiences to the everyday life of our community. Downtown Boca Raton is thriving, with a renewed focus on walkability, placemaking and public spaces. From Sanborn Square to new pedestrian-friendly corridors our downtown is becoming more vibrant, accessible and community-centered than ever before.

These enhancements are not just aesthetic; they’re foundational to the live-work-play lifestyle that makes Boca so special. As someone who loves this city deeply it’s inspiring to see our public spaces, parks, cultural venues and small businesses flourishing together in harmony.

And this isn’t just about addressing bricks and mortar. It’s about people–about you, our families, our neighbors and the businesses that serve Boca Raton’s needs. It’s about how we

From the Desk of Commissioner Marci Woodward: A Message from Marci Government

gather, how we connect and how we plan for the needs of future generations while preserving what we love most about our city. That’s why I’m committed to ensuring that our city evolves in a way that is smart, sustainable and reflective of our shared values.

Throughout this Centennial year I’ve had the privilege of attending dozens of community events and I continue to be inspired by the spirit of Boca Raton. Whether it’s a library program, a local business ribbon cutting or a student-led community initiative, there’s a clear thread that ties it all together: passion for this place we call home.

As your Deputy Mayor I see my role not just as a policymaker but as a connector–someone who listens, learns and advocates for progress that honors both where we’ve been and where we’re going. It is a role I take to heart.

The road ahead will bring choices. With collaboration, transparency and vision I believe we can continue shaping a city that our children and grandchildren will be proud to inherit. Boca Raton has always been a special place. And as we look to the next 100 years I’m more optimistic than ever that our best days are still ahead.

Commissioner Woodward, a 20-year resident of Boca Raton, was elected in November 2022 as Palm Beach County District 4 Commissioner. She serves on the following board of directors as a representative of the county commission: Palm Beach Transportation Planning Agency; South Florida Regional Transportation Authority (TriRail); Treasure Coast Regional Planning Council; CareerSource Palm Beach County; Palm Beach Cultural Council, and Value Adjustment Board. Ms. Woodward graduated from the University of South Carolina-Aiken with a Bachelor’s Degree in Fine Arts.

On May 31st, Palm Beach County will say goodbye to Administrator Verdenia Baker, or as I’ve come to know her, Miss Verdenia. When I stepped into this role two-and-a-half years ago we didn’t know each other. Now, we part as friends. We didn’t always agree, but we always spoke honestly. As someone who’s never claimed to be a polished politician, I truly appreciated our direct, woman-to-woman conversations. She helped me navigate this county with patience, answered all my questions (and there were plenty), and always made sure her team was available when I needed support. My agenda reviews often ran long but she never rushed them and that meant a lot.

Verdenia’s career with Palm Beach County began in 1987 as a budget analyst, and her dedication has only grown since. In 2015 she became County Administrator overseeing 7,100 positions and managing a $9 billion budget. Under her leadership Palm Beach County, Florida’s fourth-largest county with 1.5 million residents, remained one of only four counties in the state and just 58 nationally to hold a AAA bond rating. That kind of financial stability doesn’t happen by accident; it reflects a decade of thoughtful, steady leadership.

I’m still learning in this role, but Administrator Baker’s example has helped shape the commissioner I am today. We’ll do our best to honor the legacy she leaves behind.

I hope she enjoys some well-earned rest, travel and time for herself. And when she’s ready I’ll be there to meet her for lunch and help her pick out her own little Fritz. She will be missed.

County Administrator Task Force. The search for Palm Beach County’s next administrator is progressing. Of the 223 applications received, 96 candidates met the minimum qualifications and advanced past the initial screening.

That list was provided to the County Administrator Candidate Task Force, appointed by the Board of County Commissioners. Each of the seven primary members could nominate two candidates, creating a pool of up to 14 for interviews. At the May 14th meeting the task force narrowed the list to seven finalists in which one withdrew, bringing it down to six.

At the May 20th BCC workshop, following the task force’s work to narrow the candidate pool to seven finalists (one of whom later withdrew), the Board voted to forgo the task force interview process and instead proceed directly with conducting individual interviews. The Board conducted those interviews on June 16th.

Library Advisory Board. We are currently seeking a District 4 resident to serve on the Palm Beach County Library Advisory Board. This volunteer board plays a key role in supporting our Library System by working with the Library Director and providing policy, budget and service recommendations to the Board of County Commissioners.

The Advisory Board typically meets at 1:30 p.m. on the second Monday of each month, with at least nine meetings scheduled annually. If you’re passionate about public libraries and want to help shape their future in Palm Beach County, please contact my office to learn more about the application process. Battle of the Bands in the Palm Beaches. The Palm Beach County Board of County Commissioners has approved

an agreement for presenting sponsor rights to bring a major HBCU marching band competition to FAU’s Flagler Credit Union Stadium starting January 17th, 2026, Martin Luther King Jr. Day.

The Battle of the Bands in the Palm Beaches will feature at least six top collegiate bands from Historically Black Colleges and Universities, with the event returning annually for five years. Popular schools such as Florida A&M, Grambling, and Bethune-Cookman are expected to participate.

In addition to performances, the weekend will include:

• A STEM career fair;

• An Emerging Entrepreneur Experience;

• A Homeless Outreach Program.

Funded by tourist bed taxes, the event aims to uplift the community and spotlight HBCU talent.

Nonprofit Spotlight. The Historical Society of Palm Beach County is a nonprofit organization whose mission is to collect, preserve and share the rich history and cultural heritage of our county. The Society maintains a large archive on the history of Palm Beach County, Florida, and the Caribbean. Through its archives, which includes four million photographic images plus maps, newspapers, journals, periodicals, architectural drawings and research files, the Society maintains an active research facility and documents the people and events that have shaped our communities. In addition, this helps to build an understanding and appreciation of local history. If you’re interested in exploring their online archives visit https://pbchistory.org/archives/. I recently had the pleasure of touring the Historical Society of Palm Beach County. Thank you to Jeremy Johnson, President and CEO, for the warm welcome and insightful visit! If you require assistance, please contact our office at (561) 355-2204 or email Mwoodward@pbcgov.org.

From The Professionals’ Desks

Healthy Answers – A Guide to Healthy Living: “Don’t Cry Over Spilled Milk!”

By Dale Brown, B.S., M.A., C.E.C.

Dale is a motivational speaker who has spent many years as a Certified Life Coach and has written numerous articles and e-books relating to selfimprovement and ways to build a high-performance team. She is the author of the book, “Small Steps... Big Changes: The Personal Stories of a Life Coach.” Her education and years of experience in physical fitness and training of elite athletes has enabled her to sharpen her knowledge in many health-related areas. The following introduces a new approach to Ms. Brown’s series of columns devoted to many topics that deal with the mind/body connection and the importance of living a healthy lifestyle. Dale, a Bocaire resident, can be reached at dalebrown@ lovingmondays.com.

Have you ever been the target of someone’s comment and over-reacted in a way that was uncharacteristic? Or have you said something kiddingly to a friend only to get a mouthful of nasty remarks in return? You may wonder, “Was it something I said? I wasn’t serious!”

You may never know what set your friend off, but chances are you “pushed a button” that brought back memories. A teasing comment or mocking tone may have triggered a time in his or her life when bullied, laughed at, excluded or criticized in front of others. It might have unconsciously been a reminder of what it felt like to be embarrassed or powerless as a child.

We all have memories, or things that happened in our lives that elicit certain emotions. Behavior is driven by a mix of internal and external factors that influence how we react. It’s shaped by environment, family upbringing, culture and society. When we become emotional it brings out feelings that can sometimes be confusing, even to ourselves.

For example, as a child my husband was screamed at by his mother whenever he spilled anything. Of course, it was his mess but hers to clean up! Years later when he accidentally spilled milk he over-reacted in anger at himself as if he could still hear his mother’s words in his head. Although the current situation no longer existed the lingering memory triggered his reaction.

The phrase “button pushing” comes from the idea that when you push a button on a machine it starts immediately. So when you push a person’s button you trigger a reaction right away. “Button pushing” comes in many forms and you usually know when you or someone else is doing it. It can be playful, as in teasing, with no real harm intended. Such as, when my brother used to call me a silly nickname I hated (still does), I’d roll my eyes and make a face. Pushing buttons can also be annoying or irritating—for example, when someone you’re playing golf with says, “Don’t hit the ball in the water” right before you swing! This is a deliberate comment meant to rattle you. Another example might be making a snide remark about someone’s weight. “French fries? You’re lucky you don’t have to worry about your weight!” This is a backhanded compliment that touches the person’s insecurity by insinuating she’s too skinny.

“Button pushing” is a technique very often used in relationships of all kinds: couples, friends and parents. The closer you are to someone the better you know which buttons to push and how to get a rise. This is when the trigger turns into hurtful button-pushing. For instance: An ex-partner reminds you of a painful breakup during an argument, to upset you or win the fight. A parent is critical about your life choices, knowing you are already doubtful and unsure. A friend says, “Wow, are you really going to wear that?” to trigger the friend’s lack of self-confidence.

Is someone pushing your buttons? In order to “get a grip” on how to handle malicious button pushers you first have to recognize when it’s happening. Usually you feel instant

anger, your heart rate jumps up and your face gets flushed. It’s likely the same person is guilty of repeating the things that “get your goat.” They make their move when you’re most vulnerable and expect a reaction.

The timing of the trigger isn’t random. The same person keeps saying or doing the exact kinds of things that set you off. The comments are personal and the intent is to hit exactly where it hurts: insecurities, fears or sensitive memories. For instance, every time you succeed they find a way to downplay it. Or a co-worker points out your mistake openly instead of in private. And oh, by the way, let’s not forget political button pushing! No examples needed. Now that you know, how do you stop it? Here are some suggestions:

• Pause Before Reacting – Take a deep breath. Count to three. Give your brain a chance to catch up with your emotions; even a few seconds helps.

• Remind Yourself What’s Happening –Acknowledge: “They’re trying to push my buttons. I don’t have to react.”

• Detach – Remind yourself the person’s words can’t hurt you. “This is about them, not me.”

• Respond Neutrally (or Not at All) – Calm responses neutralize button-pushers. Example: Them: “Are you really going to wear that?” You: “Yup.” (smile and move on).

• Set Boundaries – No drama. Just directness. Calmly say, “I don’t appreciate comments like that. Please stop.”

• Stay Focused – Protect your peace. “Is getting into an argument worth my energy? “No!

There will always be times in life when you’ll push someone’s buttons or they will push yours. Don’t let simple things get under your skin. Through self-awareness and mindfulness you can break old patterns and adopt new ones. Think of it as a mind shift. “When someone pushes my buttons, they are showing me where I can grow stronger.” Over time, the things that used to trigger you won’t have the same power. That’s real emotional freedom.

A Word from the Editor…Sweet Dreams, My Friend

One of the most gratifying aspects of my position as Editor of Boca Club News is the opportunity to work closely with the writers who contribute their skills and expertise in the wide variety of regular feature columns—such as Dining Out, Healthy Answers, the Mayor, City Council members and other elected officials, Legal, You and Your Pet, Essays on Life, Wine and others—whose generosity and cooperation are so important to the success of this paper and whom I become fortunate to consider friends as we work together over the years.

One of these has been Dr. Richard Nagler, whose column this month appears below. Two years ago Dr. Nagler informed me that he was starting to write a book expressing his dismay about the sad state of health care in America, how the wonderfully positive doctor-patient relationships he had developed throughout his private practice had deteriorated, the reasons for it and how it was affecting the treatment of many major medical issues. Having myself earlier edited the authors’ manuscripts for 20 published books I offered to edit his book as a personal favor, friend to friend. At first reluctant to accept the gesture he finally agreed, and I have been representing the completed manuscript to publishers for their consideration because it has turned out to be a remarkably informative work that includes detailed information about the proper treatment for 47 major medical problems diagnosed in more than 100 million Americans.

Dr. Nagler and his lovely wife, Susan, have been members of Broken Sound Club since 1998. They celebrated his 95th birthday on May 1st (see photo taken that evening) and their 69th wedding anniversary would be coming up on June 7th…but Dr. Richard Nagler passed away on May 14th. I am among the many who join Susan and their three sons who will miss him dearly. The following column is a chapter from his book, included here with Susan’s kind permission as being appropriate. –Nils A. Shipiro, Editor

Medical Matters: A Personal View of Death

By

Richard Nagler, M.D., a member of Broken Sound Club and retired physician. After graduating from the University of Pennsylvania and New York University’s School of Medicine, Dr. Nagler served his internship and residency at Baltimore City Hospital and Johns Hopkins. He followed that with a Fellowship in Gastroenterology at Yale University School of Medicine and was then Chief of Gastroenterology at Fitzsimons General Army Hospital in Denver. He returned to the Yale Medical School for one year as an Assistant Professor of Medicine before opening his own successful private practice in Internal Medicine and Gastroenterology. During that time, he also served for ten years as Chief of Medicine at Huntington Hospital in Huntington, N.Y.

During my years of training to become a doctor I was constantly exposed to the science of medicine. After I entered private practice this knowledge, coupled with the rapid advances in medical technology, enabled me to become a successful physician. However, I became increasingly aware of my own limitations with the deaths of patients I was unable to save. The close doctor-patient relationship that I had with them and their families enabled me to be privy to—and share in—their fears, anxieties, despair, hopes, beliefs and prayers as they faced death. Many of them had an enduring religious affiliation believing in G-d and an afterlife. In this country there has been a precipitous decline, now only 47%, in membership of religious institutions. Although there are many secularists who still believe in life after death, they replace organized religion with another source of meaning. Organized religions teach that after death there is a soul that will reside in the bowels of the earth in a fiery hell for those who sinned, but those who led exemplary lives or atoned for their sins and

been given absolution will rise into paradise in heaven forever in G-d’s house in peace and happiness. People who hold such beliefs are at peace with death, and their families are consoled believing that their loved one is in a better place and that they will all be reunited someday.

Many others expressed no organized religious affiliation, some being secularists, humanists, free thinkers, agnostics and atheists with other sources of meaning not about belief.

To them, any afterlife is not presided by G-d. They rely on the laws of nature, science, proven facts and the use of reason. And there remain still others who embrace conventional Christian or Jewish views but reject organized religion.

The agnostic doesn’t know if G-d exists. He asserts that it is impossible for humans to know anything about how the universe was created and if divine beings exist. Atheists believe that there is no G-d and no afterlife. To them, death is simply the cessation of the existence of the individual and all interactions with others will cease. They will live on in the memories of loved ones and in their contributions to the world from which they are departing. There will be no reward nor judgment. For most of these non-religious people, death was accepted with dignity and inevitability; there are no guarantees of life after death as no traveler has ever returned from the darkness.

This experience has led me to look at my own mortality and how I view death. I believe that before we are born there is nothingness; we simply don’t exist. We live our lives knowing that sooner or later we will die. After death, do we return to the same nothingness that existed before we were born? I don’t know. What I do know is that our physical being decomposes—a process called autolysis—leaving nothing more than a bony skeleton in our coffins or ashes in an urn.

Will anyone know of our existence after several generations that follow us, or is there something more? This brings up the question of what our souls are: an immaterial part of a human being that makes us who we are, separate from our bodies, that lives on after death passing to the other side as an entity with

Legal: Two Flavors of Fraud

By Michael J Posner, Esq., a partner

in Lippes Mathias LLP, a national real estate and business-oriented law firm with sixteen locations nationwide. Michael specializes in real estate and association law. He can be reached at (561) 594-1452 or at mjposner@lippes.com

My practice has changed dramatically in the past forty years. From hand searches of microfilm at the county courthouse to verify ownership to actual letters sent by U.S. Mail (Fed Ex was very expensive back then), to faxes on paper that faded in six months to today’s online searches and hundreds of daily emails, the practice of law is entirely different. One new area is the prevalence of fraud in real estate transactions, and it appears to be getting worse and worse. As they say on Law and Order, these are my stories.

1. The Stolen Title: A client of mine and some friends

bought a lot for $5,000 to build a house in the middle of Florida. They did not bother to call me for advice and closed for cash. The house was listed for sale by a local Realtor and the closing was conducted by an experienced law firm. A few years later, and after expending $150,000 in construction costs on the home, a Detective contacted the remaining owner (of the three originally, two had bowed out of the project) and told him that the owners of the lot had not listed the lot for sale or signed the deed.

We were then contacted to investigate, and it only took five minutes and one email to verify that the notary’s signature was a forgery. It appears that the deed was signed and notarized at the U.S. Embassy in London by the then acting ambassador. He verified that he never was a notary and that a fake stamp with his name had been used to notarize other legal documents. We also learned that the real estate agent took the listing over the phone and never verified who the fake sellers were or why they were signing in London (they were not from the United Kingdom).

With the Detective’s help we tracked down the actual owners and made a deal with them to buy the lot for what they originally paid. We recovered that sum from the closing agent and the title company that insured the transaction. If the real owners had been greedy, it could have cost our client thousands to fight and thousands more to recover the loss.

2. Verify your Wires: Wire fraud is a major problem for anyone who sends wires. In a real estate closing most buyers and lenders wire their proceeds to a title company or lawyer to close. These wire instructions are sent by email to lenders and buyers. Criminals know to target title companies, hoping to intercept wire instructions being sent to a buyer.

A buyer who had

dollars to close

an existence of its own? That a soul exists is a conclusion necessary for the development of religion. But where do our souls go? For some, does it go to reside in hell forever or is it taken to paradise in heaven. But where is hell and where is paradise, and how do our souls get there?

On a clear night, when we look up at the sky we see billions of stars and universes that extend beyond our ability to conceive of, having no end and our not knowing what may be beyond. Where is there room for all the billions of souls that came before us? No one really knows because no one has returned from the dead to tell us.

There is another concept–that upon death the soul leaves the body and is immediately implanted in another womb, receiving what is needed for its life to prevail in another human being. What it comes down to is, we really don’t know, and it is a matter of what we want to believe.

Throughout the earth’s history other life forms dominated and then became extinct. Will the same fate befall the human species? What life form will replace us? Are there other life forms scattered in the vast spaces of the universe?

Think for a moment about the meaning of a part of the vows we take at our weddings: “until death do we part.” I am married for 67 years to the most wonderful, most beautiful woman on this planet, and I just can’t conceive of ever being apart from her. I believe, because I want to believe, that somehow some way after our deaths our love for each other will live on forever. What haunts me is that I don’t know.

None of us knows what happens after death, and so we resort to what we want to believe. What we can do is live our lives to the fullest in the brief time we have on this earth and leave to our children, grandchildren and greatgrandchildren fond memories of what we were all about, how we loved them, and hope that they carry on our legacy. Will we meet again somewhere, someplace? I don’t know, but I can still dream.

received wire instructions from the title company that were both incomplete and warned the buyer to call to verify the wire. He never looked at the instructions nor compared them to prior instructions he had received. Instead, he gave the instructions to his private banker and told them to wire the money from his account. The bank then failed to verify the wire by calling the title company to verify the information contained in the instructions and the whole 1.2 million dollars was lost.

If a scammer can intercept a wire from a title company to a buyer (either at the title company end or the buyer’s end) or from the buyer to his bank, they can alter the wire instructions slightly, inserting a different bank account and that substitutes bank’s routing and account numbers. Unlike typical wire instructions that have fraud warnings and frequently have only partial routing and account numbers forcing a buyer to call to verify the information, the new instructions are complete.

In the example, the buyer eventually made claims against the bank and title company. The matter settled privately but shows the risk of wire fraud. Even using facsimile machines instead of email has not deterred ambitious criminals who have intercepted the digital fax transmissions and then sent fake faxes with altered instructions.

Avoiding fraud can be difficult as scammers have become more sophisticated. That said, hiring an attorney on a real estate purchase gives you another set of eyes to look out for issues. When it comes to sending money always verify wires, even if the wire instructions are complete. Only use encrypted emails to send bank information or wire instructions, and even after sending a wire call and verify receipt, as stolen wires are generally unrecoverable after twenty-four hours.

The Good Life: Dining, Drinks, Destinations

By Alan Serinsky of Bocaire

Country Club. Hungry Al’s love for food started very young. Never satisfied with his Mom’s dishes, he started to cook his way through her “Betty Crocker Cookbook.” During the years to follow he spent many hours working in restaurants, both as server and cook, attending cooking classes and traveling the world in an effort to expand his palette. As a professional writer, Hungry Al offers his perspective on current food trends and guides you through your local restaurant options.

Food For Thought: Every time the first of May comes rolling along Hungry D and Hungry Al are kicking in their version of early bird dining. No, we are not looking for those Sunset Dinner specials but we are looking for two open chairs that line the bars offering the best deals on drinks and appetizers. Yes, the infamous Happy Hours that most restaurants resort to in an effort to offset the drop of revenue from seasonal residents. Of course, you’ll need to dine a bit earlier but daylight savings gives you those extra hours to walk off too many wines and appetizers. Then again, we often find ourselves extending the evening a bit with another drink (at normal price) and enjoying the music entertainment or people sightseeing.

In an effort to make your Happy Hour decisions easier I decided to offer my take on the best Happy Hours in our neighborhood. Hungry Al sets the bar high to reach all the variables that make Hungry Al happy! I have to consider special drinks list, food quality, length of Happy Hour, service and, of course, price. Hopefully, you’ll agree with my choices.

Happy Hour Spot #1. I have a hard time resisting Luigi Di Roma in Deerfield Beach. Located only a short distance from the Boca Raton Federal Hwy. border you’ll feel as if in another country. The laid-back and over-friendly crowd

will fill up this bar quickly. Every drink is half price, every appetizer is only $8, the food is amazingly good (ridiculous portion sizes) and there’s music to even make you happier! I might regret giving this secret away because it will make it harder for Hungry D and me to find a bar stool. Try their Calamari, Eggplant Stack or Chicken Parmigiana Panini.

Happy Hour Spot #2. Motek is new in town, located in what is labeled “restaurant row,” and just the sampling I had from their Happy Hour menu indicates a sure winner! I’m definitely following this one up with a full review. They just revised their time slot for Happy Hour from 2 to 5 o’clock. I hope they reconsider and give our working-class heroes another hour to get there in time. Regardless of this time frame, at the crazy price of just $5 per item you get to select wine, cold or hot mezze (appetizer), a Pita stuffed with Chicken Shawarma, Prime Beef or a mini Arayes Burger. And if that is not enough to fill you up definitely try either the Salmon Skewer or Laffa Zaatar (better than a breadbasket).

Happy Hour Spot #3. City Fish Market has been a staple for decades. This expanse of bar gives you a fighting chance to find a bar stool or two. Here the drinks and spirits are in the $7-$9 range and the menu is extensive. Not the typical six-item Happy Hour menu you find in many places. I would suggest you get there early because the seats will fill up fast. Hungry D’s favorite drinks are either the Watermelon or Hawaiian Cocktail.

Happy Hour Spot #4. If you’re in the mood for Greek food I highly suggest you check out Taverna Kyma on Federal Highway. Hungry Al has been going here for years and it never fails, especially at their prices. It’s probably one of the few places you can get a Greek Salad that resembles anything close to what you would expect in any restaurant in Greece. Also, just dip their Pita bread in the bowl of hummus and I bet you can’t stop with just one. My favorite dishes are, of course, the Salad ($7), the Grilled Calamari ($9), Grilled Shrimp ($9) and the Grilled Lamb Chop ($9). Oh, can’t forget

the drinks that ring in at the register with the low price of $7 for wine and mixed drinks. I’ll throw a plate or two for this Happy Hour location!

Happy Hour Spot #5. A long-time favorite of mine has always been Seasons 52 I’m sure many of you have probably dined here already. But for us the Happy Hour is high on our list. Interestingly, there’s something about this bar’s vibe and service staff that has us returning often. Seasons 52 is well known for its Flatbreads and for good reason. Yes, it’s cracker thin and the ingredients mounted on top are of high quality. Can’t resist their excellent Roasted Tomato. Here you can combine one appetizer and one sip for just $14. Can’t beat that!

Happy Hour Spot #6. I would be amiss if I didn’t add in at least one true Florida-feeling Happy Hour. By this I mean a tropical setting where the ocean breezes hit your face, boats motor by and reggae music adds to the taste of your Bahama Mama cocktail. Deck 84 in Delray Beach is a perfect spot to start any evening. Plenty of seating at this bar or high tops as you have full view of the Intercoastal. And the drink prices and appetizing offers are a pirate’s treasure chest of choices. Don’t miss the Smoked Brisket tacos ($8), Chicken Empanada ($6), Smoked Fish Dip ($9) and a few Sushi selections.

Happy Hour Last Stop! Now you know where to find Hungry Al before the clock strikes 6 p.m. So, the next time you are not sure where to have dinner, your tongue is flapping with thirst and your stomach is growling, go have some fun at a local Happy Hour. Your comrade and your wallet will appreciate your efforts to try something new and unpredictable. I’m sure the above recommendations all warrant at least four or more golden cocktail glasses of enjoyment!

Book Review…“Papyrus: The Invention of Books in the Ancient World” The Arts

By Nils A. Shapiro.

Nils began his career as Marketing Director for a major book publisher. He has since edited the authors’ manuscripts’ for more than 20 published books, written more than 200 book reviews, served as Publisher of several millionplus circulation national magazines, created the official Yearbooks for teams in Major League Baseball, the National Football League, National Basketball Association and National Hockey League, and “retired” as President of a successful telecommunications company before being appointed Editor

Grape

Expectations:

Tariffs and Wine!

By Ed Wolfarth, who recently moved to South Florida after retiring with his wife, Vicki, as Professor of Sports Sciences & Physical Education at both Queens College and Hofstra University. He is a nationally ranked senior tennis player and long-time USPTA Elite Teaching Professional. Ed has written many educational and tennis articles in the past. Over the past few years, Ed has turned his hobby of wine collecting into a way of continuing his passion for writing and has written on the subject for publications. As a self-proclaimed “wine snob,” he has collaborated on many wine lists for private clubs and a few restaurants. Ed can be reached at wolfarthe@msn.com.

The U.S. is the 4th largest wine-producing nation in the world and still doesn’t satisfy the thirst of American wine lovers. Instead, every year the U.S. imports almost 40% of the wine it consumes, about five times more than it exports. Most of it coming from Spain, Italy, France, Germany (the EU countries) and increasingly more from Australia, New Zealand and others.

Given that close to 75% of the imported wine to the U.S. comes from EU countries the government’s potential 200% tariff increase would make it nearly impossible for distributors and consumers to continue to purchase them at reasonable prices. Simply put, prices will go up and the consumer will bear the brunt!

On the “bright” side, American producers could benefit by expanding their wine production to fill the gap but will consumers give up their European wines and drinking habits?

Furthermore, the time to plant and develop new vineyards to increase U.S. production is two to five years. So the lag time would be quite significant. In addition, there doesn’t seem to any messaging to drink more American wine. Old habits die slowly.

However, the American wine market is quite lucrative even with declining consumption, because consumers continue to pay more for their wine. According to a reliable wine market research firm, Americans purchased $80 billion worth of domestic wine and $30 billion of imported wine, up by almost 4% from 2023 to 2024.

The tariff situation appears to be shifting on almost a daily basis. Will the proposed tariffs end up exorbitantly high or will they be negotiated to similar levels as those imposed by the Trump administration in 2019?

Right now the “tariff wars” hurt everyone. Consumers will be faced with increased prices; producers will not be able to move their products; nobody wins. These tariffs began when the U.S. taxed E.U. aluminum. Then the E.U. raised taxes on U.S. bourbon, and then the U.S. retaliated with higher taxes on E.U. wine, creating an endless cycle. A senseless approach!

What happens next? The U.S. wine market, the largest in the world, is banking on a “correction.” Does the E.U. need the U.S. wine consuming market? Of course! Does the U.S. need to continue to drink foreign wines? Of course. Is there a compromise? I hope so.

In a recent interview in Bloomberg, an official from the European Committee on Wines was quoted as saying, “Many grape growers and producers will be in deep financial trouble if the proposed tariffs go through because we cannot find an alternative market so quickly.”

Our Administration is banking on our “position of strength” as a negotiating tool. Who needs who the most? Let’s hope this works in the long run. What do you think?

of Boca Club News when it was launched in January 2007. Readers familiar with this monthly review column will readily understand why I ordered a copy of this book immediately upon learning of its existence and turned to the first page within minutes after its arrival at my front door. The title alone was all it took to arouse my interest. Now that I have turned the last page I can report that for me, and for those who share my passion about books and a general love of learning about certain periods of early history, this book is worth every moment of its 384-page journey—with one caveat, which I will explain later in this review.

Originally published in Spain, author Irene Vallejo’s exquisitely written text has been translated so brilliantly by Charlotte Whittle that she deserves an equal bow, and the 53-page reference section at the end of the book attests to the depth of research that makes possible the many hundreds of new facts you will learn from this international best seller. This is a story that spans more than 9,000 years, beginning long before the “invention” of writing. As just one example of the extraordinary amount of surprising information that awaits you here, the Ninth Century B.C. Greek poet Homer—whose two epic classics, The Iliad and The Odyssey, were considered sacred for centuries—created and performed these two works from memory in the oral tradition of his time, over and over again without ever having once written them down despite the fact that The Iliad is 15,000 lines in length and The Odyssey consists of 12,000 lines!

The alphabet as we know it did not even begin in its first form until the second half of the Eighth Century B.C.—long after Homer was gone—and was frowned upon by many at the time as a “trick” that would lead to people losing the ability to develop their memory skills.

A major leap from a limited few being able to inscribe official documents on clay tablets to making writing and reading more widely available can be traced to the Papyrus plant that grew in vast numbers along the banks of the Nile River in Egypt, when it was discovered that, properly treated, its leaves could be scratched upon and each leaf folded with others to form longer scrolls—documents capable of being stored and copied over and over again by trained scribes.

Later, when Alexander the Great conquered Egypt on his way to conquest of the known world he installed a trusted officer, Ptolemy, to rule over that defeated nation. One of Ptolemy’s first decisions was to build what history has come to

revere as the “Great Library of Alexandria,” his plan to house a copy of every book known to exist in the entire world! By “book,” of course, he referred to scroll documents.

In order to accomplish this extraordinary feat Ptolemy had to send emissaries to every corner of the known world, carrying the funds needed to pay for scribes to make the necessary copies, a dangerous mission at a time when murderers and thieves lurked everywhere. But he fulfilled that commitment to achieve what became one of the great Wonders of the Ancient World.

The adventure of that Library’s history is a compelling story in itself, but it is only one of many in this author’s narrative that guides us from clay tablets to Papyrus leaves…to the slaughter of animals, treating their skins to make sturdier, longer-lasting Parchment…to the introduction by China of paper…to Gutenberg’s invention of the printing press that made many thousands of scribes of no further use…to the codex binding format first developed in the Roman Empire… to computers and the increasingly popular electronic formats. Along the way we encounter many hundreds of faces both familiar and new, among them: Plato, Tiberius, Euripides, Oedipus, Orwell, Conrad, Ovid, Petrarch, Poe, Cleopatra, Palladas, Pausanius—the list seems endless. But I was fascinated to learn from this history of books an interesting fact about one particular man as described by the author herself in this brief excerpt from “Papyrus”:

“On the Anatolian Peninsula, the crossroads of several cultures, a Greek was born with mixed blood and a curious mind who was obsessed with this old conflict. Why were these two worlds—Europe and Asia—enmeshed in a life-and-death struggle? Why had they been at odds since time immemorial? What were they seeking, how did they justify themselves, what were their reasons? Had it always been this way? Would it be this way forever?

“This man who was so fond of questions spent his whole life looking for answers. He wrote a long work of travels and chronicles, titling it Historiai, which in Greek meant “inquiries” or “studies.” We still use the word he redefined when he gave a name to his task, untranslated: “history.” With his work, a new discipline was born, and perhaps a different way of looking at the world. Because the author of The Histories was a person with inexhaustible curiosity, an adventurer, a seeker of wondrous things, a nomad, and one of the first writers able to think on a planetary scale, I might almost say, a precursor of globalization. This is, of course, Herodotus.

So this one man, Herodotus, in the 5th Century B.C., gets the credit for why we use the word History to describe the study and writing of past events as we do today. Such information fascinates me, and this book offers that in overflowing portions.

And now for the caveat—albeit a minor one—that I mentioned at the opening of this review: As riveting as is this author’s history of books I found it disconcerting that she interrupted the journey several times to insert brief chapters that are essentially essays describing events unrelated to the book’s overall subject: Peggy Guggenheim’s introduction of modern art to New York in the 1940s; the Elvis Presley-like reaction that greeted the classical music genius Franz Liszt; the romantic interlude of an aging celebrity. I admit to having skipped past these to continue reading the history itself, then after finishing the book went back, read these brief “essays” and found them excellent, but likely more suited to a separate collection by this skilled author.

On a scale of 1 to 10, “Papyrus” earns 9.5 from me. That should be sufficient recommendation for those of you who share my passion for this subject.

Essays on Life: A Discussion with Author Ellyn Mantell

By Sonia E. Ravech. Sonia

is a native of Massachusetts and a resident of Broken Sound for more than 30 years. She is the mother of four, grandmother of seven and great-grandmother of four. She has been the facilitator of the Broken Sound Memoir Writers’ Workshop for the past seven years.

I am going to deviate from my usual column this month to introduce you to Ellyn Mantell, a member of the Broken Sound Writers’ Workshop who has recently published her memoir, “The Best We Could: Healing from Intergenerational Trauma.”

I believe her story is appropriate since it discusses aspects of life that many experience, but few understand. Ellyn’s story is compelling and important as it explores the trauma of growing up in a physically and emotionally abusive household with two mentally ill parents. I would like to share with you the following interview.

SR: Why after so many years have passed did you feel the need to write this book, and what was your goal?

EM: Having been part of our Writers’ Workshop for years, I found comfort in sharing my story, one I actually began writing, in my mind, when only 11 years old. I wanted to do more than think about my experiences, I wanted to help others who have suffered trauma, as did my sisters and I. In order to do that, I needed to reach out to as many people as possible, which I am doing through my book.

SR: Can you describe the mental illnesses from which your parents suffered?

EM: Remember, there was little regard for mental illness at that time, and my parents are long gone, but over my decades with therapists it was concluded my father suffered from “true bipolar disorder” and my mother “borderline personality and schizoid tendencies.” The fact they found each other was remarkable!

SR: Why do you think teachers, family members and friends never knew about the abuse?

EM: Shame is a great motivator for hiding. Additionally, unspoken rules a child needs to follow in order to get environment.

How did your parents’ behavior towards you and your siblings during your childhood affect your life?

coping skills to survive and to protect my and Mindy. There was a need to be ready action, something I still do, even now when in gear all the time, ready to save whatever necessary. That is draining and probably very people. I am working on it!

Do you believe attitudes toward mental illness have changed over the years?

much, because we have mental health medication and counseling. However, there still mental issues, as well as lack of parity with companies for emotional health provisions. What was the greatest advice you received to help actually advice, because my therapists for interested in what happened than my reaction worry, depression. For decades I felt broken, tormented. I am very fortunate that I have stability Bruce, daughters Allison and Emily, my two wonderful friends and my Writing Sisters! What advice would you give other victims of

say, identify the trauma; face the trauma; with the guidance of a professional. My therapist changed my entire belief system when that although I never felt lovable or even because of my parents’ abusive behaviors, I only way they knew how. Their abuse was connection they could create.

I know you suffered for many years from intestinal issues and underwent numerous surgeries, including an ileostomy which was what finally saved your life. This led to you becoming an advocate and mentor for many other ostomates. You even wrote another book on the subject entitled, “So Much More Ostomy.” Do you believe having overcome all the other adverse issues in your life helped you accept your ostomy as a blessing rather than an invasive inconvenience? wonderful question, Sonia. Bruce believes that it is my belief that I was born with an inner determination to cope, perhaps “riding the waves” of what comes and worked hard to nurture that determination. I knew minute I was healed from my 23rd surgery, my ileostomy, I begin to help others heal. And over the past 11 years I have hands, figuratively and literally, of countless ostomates. the honor of being the first Mighty Ostomate of the Year and still facilitate support groups and clinics. My goal to do as much for those suffering from intergenerational and show them there is joy in life!

What thoughts would you like readers to take away from this interview?

First of all, I would like to thank you very much for opportunity to share a subject that is not sexy or attractive; is so very painful. But there is much to learn from it. people hurt people, but if we can change the path, loving love people. That is what I want to be my message for a long time to come.

SR: Thank you so much, Ellyn, for sharing your traumatic experiences and your uplifting outlook on how one can heal despite those experiences and still go on to live a happy, productive and fulfilling life.

Film Review: “Conclave”

By Nils A. Shapiro

Spoiler Alert: Readers of this column over the past 19 years know that I am always careful to avoid telling too much about a film’s story line for fear of spoiling my readers’ full enjoyment of the viewing experience. This month’s review is very different, and in a very important way! For that reason I am adding a special last section to this Film Review—in upside-down text—that reveals the surprise ending of this movie so that you can decide for yourself whether or not you want to know that ending before you watch the film. *****

By sheer coincidence

my wife, Linda, and I found Conclave streaming on Amazon Prime TV just hours after a cloud of white smoke from the Vatican chimney announced that the College of Cardinals in Rome had chosen a new Pope: the first American Pontiff, to be known by the name Leo XIV.

Having now viewed the film it is clear to me that the real life Conclave fulfilled its responsibility far better than the one in the movie version, a production which for the first hour and fifty minutes of its two-hour length seemed to be earning the several Academy Award nominations it received…and then in the final ten minutes veered suddenly into two story developments that left me confused, frustrated and angry as the end credits rolled down the screen!

So much so that I turned immediately to my computer, Googled to find other audience reviews and discovered many comments that echoed my own reaction, with such words as “cheating,” “insulting” and “not believable.”

Within the opening minutes the film’s outstanding cast had promised an enthralling experience of the drama that is based on the bestselling 2016 novel by Robert Harris. Ralph Fiennes as Cardinal Lawrence, Dean of the College of Cardinals in charge of the Conclave; Stanley Tucci as the liberal leaning Cardinal Bellini; John Lithgow as Cardinal Tremblay, hiding a secret that would disqualify him as he aggressively seeks the Papacy; Isabella Rossellini as the head Nun Sister Agnes, and others as well.

The performances are indeed uniformly superb, and the formal proceedings of the more than 100 Cardinals sequestered within the Vatican for the solemn responsibility of selecting the next Pope are—from all that I have read— presented in accordance with the Church’s rules and traditions as they, unfortunately, were required to take place in real life so recently.

While he is highly regarded among the Cardinals and considered a possible candidate to succeed the late Pope, Cardinal Lawrence makes it clear to several of those closest to him that he does not want, and does not deserve, the Papacy— for one important reason: As truly as he holds his faith there remains in his heart some small harboring of doubt.

For me the most compelling and memorable scene in the entire film is one in which Cardinal Lawrence addresses the full Conclave of Cardinals with a brief sermon expressing the view that true faith requires an element of doubt…that certainty is the enemy of faith…and that therefore, by definition, without the existence of doubt there can be no faith.

Just as the first round of voting is about to begin a man who looks to be in his late 30s or early 40s and unknown to any of the others is brought by Sister Agnes into the room in which the Cardinals have been sequestered from the outside world and is introduced as a Mexican named Benitez whom they learn had been appointed Cardinal of Kabul by the late Pope shortly before he died. Cardinal Benitez is eligible to vote in the Conclave.

After several voting cycles it becomes clear that the three leading candidates to succeed the late Pope are the three played by the film’s leading actors—despite Cardinal Lawrence’s having stated his desire not to be named—with a handful of votes being cast for several others including, inexplicably, the new stranger from Kabul.

When a priest whispers to Cardinal Lawrence the shocking secret that the late Pope had dismissed Cardinal Tremblay from the College of Cardinals in an angry meeting just before dying Lawrence confronts Tremblay, who denies the charges and insists that lies are being told to prevent him from being elected Pope. Unconvinced, and faced with the unacceptable possibility that this undeserving man could garner the votes needed to be named the new Pope, Lawrence and Bellini conspire to work together to convince the Conclave to turn against him.

Up to this point the film offers all the drama and excellent performances one hopes for, with incisive portrayals of sharply different personalities and motivations between the competing Cardinals’ philosophies that would take the church in directions from liberal to extremely conservative, and even clearly racist.

The votes’ tallies are read aloud and begin to turn in a clear direction toward a favorite when, suddenly, a bomb explodes so close to the Vatican that it creates a cloud of dust within its walls and shakes not only the furniture but the mood and nerves of the Cardinals themselves, prompting anger and a bitter tirade from some against a bomber they assume must be a Muslim terrorist.

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It falls to the new Cardinal from Kabul, drawing on his experience in the dangerous Afghanistan territory, to restore calm with a brief statement about the importance of dealing with the world as it is today, to forget the past and focus instead on the future.

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Up to that point the film lives up to its strongly positive critical reviews and Academy Award nominations. Then, in the final ten minutes, it all falls apart with two story twists that I found outrageous, as did many others who expressed themselves in Google’s audience reviews. I turned to Google and came across an answer to the second objection I had to the film’s ending, which prompted me to return to my TV set and watch the last part of the film a second time just to see if, instead of blaming the filmmakers, I myself was at fault for having missed something in the last ten minutes that would have made things clearer. No! There was no sufficient effort made to explain more clearly the facts behind the surprise ending that I and others found so upsetting, and which I can only assume—not having read it—that the novel might have addressed more fully.

Now it is up to you to decide if you want to watch the film, streaming free on Amazon Prime, without reading the spoiler below. Or read the following and then—after you know the ending—take it from there.

Cardinal Lawrence looking out a window to a courtyard for 10 seconds…then the end credits roll. End of story!

But he had changed his mind at the last minute, refusing the surgery and deciding instead to remain as God had created him. Interestingly, as I discovered in my research the Catholic church to this day has taken no official position on this subject, but one can imagine the issues that would arise if it were to become known in the case of a new Pope. Nevertheless, my point is that the subject is handled briefly, without clarity—seemingly for shock value alone—and the scene quickly switches to show

On second viewing I realized from one sentence uttered vaguely by Cardinal Benitez a clue that I had missed the first time around because it was never explained more clearly: He had been born with a very rare condition–a human with both male and female reproductive organs: a hermaphrodite, a term never mentioned in the film!

none had ever met before and knew nothing about before the Conclave started! Is it believable that the Cardinals would name such a person to serve as the Pontiff of a religion of 1.4 billion people around the world? Then, moments later in the film, Cardinal Lawrence learns that the new Pope had traveled to Switzerland for the purpose of having surgery, a hysterectomy to have his ovaries removed! I made the immediate assumption that the newly elected Pope was transgender, a fact that would surely present quite a dilemma for the Church.

me. First, the Cardinals finally cast enough votes for one person to be elected Pope: the Cardinal from Kabul whom

Two things at the end of the film greatly annoyed

You and Your Pet: 5 Things ER Veterinarians Wish Dog Owners

By

Charlyne Soucy,

DVM, Calusa

Veterinary Center, 6900 Congress Avenue, Boca Raton, FL 33487. (561) 999-3000, www.CVCBoca.com As a veterinarian in the emergency department I see a wide range of cases, from minor cuts to life-threatening situations. Many of them could have been prevented or treated more easily with a little knowledge and preparation. Here are five things I wish every dog owner knew, based on what we see most often in the ER:

1. Be Honest with Your Vet–It Can Save Your Dog’s Life If your pet may have gotten into drugs, alcohol, edibles or medications, please tell your veterinarian. We are not here to judge, and we’re not the police. We’re here to help. Knowing the truth allows us to treat appropriately and quickly, and that honesty can be the difference between life and death.

2. Human Foods Can Kill–Even in Small Amounts. Veterinarians see too many dogs in the ER after eating grapes, chocolate, xylitol (found in sugar-free gum and some peanut butters), onions, garlic, or fatty table scraps. What seems harmless to you could lead to kidney failure, pancreatitis, or worse. If your dog eats something questionable, call your vet or pet poison control immediately.

3. Bloat Can Kill in Hours Gastric dilatation-volvulus (GDV), or “bloat,” is one of the most time-sensitive emergencies. If your dog has a distended belly, tries to vomit without producing anything, or seems restless and in pain—especially if they’re a large or deep-chested breed— don’t wait. Get to an ER vet right away. Minutes count!

4. Pet Insurance Saves Lives (and Stress) Emergency care is unexpected and expensive, especially when diagnostics, hospitalization or surgery are involved. Pet insurance can make tough decisions easier and ensure your dog gets the treatment needed, when it is needed.

5. Don’t Give Human Medications Unless Directed by a Veterinarian. Many over-the-counter medications, such as ibuprofen, acetaminophen or medications for colds, are toxic to dogs. Even seemingly safe drugs, such as antihistamines, require proper dosing. Always check with your vet before giving anything at home. We know you’re trying to help, but sometimes these medications can make the situation worse.

Just remember, as dog owners you are your pet’s first line of defense. A little knowledge, quick action and open communication with the ER veterinarian can make the whole difference in an emergency–at any hour of the night, no matter what life throws your way.

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