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THURSDAY, JULY 29, 2010
San Diego Community Newspaper Group
Let kids be kids
Local parenting author says parents should stop programming their children
As summer weeks wane and parents scramble to fill empty hours with play dates, activities and excursions, Dr. Richard Farson, La Jolla parenting and marriage author — and father of five — has two words of advice: “Lay off.”
Now that the San Diego Association of Governments board has approved a trolley extension from Old Town to UCSD/UTC, environmental work is expected to begin, leading to a draft environmental impact report possibly in the summer of 2011. DON BALCH | Village News
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Board OKs trolley extension plan
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n his new book, “Will All Parenting Experts Please Leave the Room,” Farson argues that today’s parents’ efforts to micromanage and protect their children ultimately hinder their development. “Twenty or 30 years ago, the word ‘parenting’ didn’t exist in common parlance,” Farson said. “Instead, there was ‘parenthood,’ which meant the state of being a parent. ‘Parent’ doesn’t mean you’re a raiser of children, it means you’re a producer of children.” The idea that parents can learn a set of skills that will make their children successful, he added, is misguided and forces parents to assume excessive responsibility. “When you give people a responsibility for a situation in which they are essentially helpless, it predictably leads to abuse,” he said. “It doesn’t lead to compassion.” He said he believes child abuse is a major problem in modern American society. Farson argues that despite a falling crime rate, an increased focus on abductions, accidental deaths and myriad other potential catastrophes have produced an epidemic of fear. “As far as I know, La Jolla is not exempt from the general feeling that children need to be protected,” Farson said, noting that many local playgrounds have been stripped of what might be deemed dangerous features. “I’m sure it’s considered a great
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new advancement, but it keeps children from doing anything very exciting.” This fear, he continued, has forced families into isolation and eroded a sense of community. “Parents are increasingly alone in raising their children,” he said. “When I was a child, strangers would take care of children and button our jackets, wipe our noses, tie our shoes and push us on the swings. Now, parents drive their children a few yards to the bus stop.” Walking down Girard Avenue when he arrived in La Jolla in 1955 was nothing like it is today, he said. “It’s the accidental encounters of friends that make a community,” he SEE PARENTING, Page 2
La Jolla musician celebrates 40 years of rock ’n’ roll legacy BY JENNA FRAZIER | VILLAGE NEWS “It’s always been in my bones to be a performer,” said Jocko Marcellino, drummer for vintage rock group Sha Na Na and a La Jolla resident for the last 15 years. This year, Sha Na Na celebrates its 40th anniversary with the release of its latest collector’s edition compilation CD. Tonight at 7:30 p.m., the group will perform with the San Diego Symphony at Summer Pops in an eclectic blend of orchestral charts with classic doo-wop hits from the 1950s and 1960s. The show takes place at Embarcadero Marina Park South and tickets can be purchased for $17-$76 at (619) 235-0804 or www.sandiegosymphony.org. As a freshman at Columbia University, Marcellino juggled his coursework with practices and performances for “six or seven different bands” while
also playing for the school’s football team, he said. “Then one of those bands became Sha Na Na,” he said. The band carved out a niche for performing rock ’n’ roll from the 1955 to 1962 era and produced original music as well. The following summer, Sha Na Na received the “unbelievable” opportunity to perform at the 1969 Woodstock music festival in New York. “We were one of the only bands there without a record deal,” Marcellino said. “We spent all weekend trying to get onstage and after three days, we thought it might not happen.” Finally, just after dawn on Monday morning, the group performed second to last before Jimi Hendrix concluded the festival. “We did a 40-minute set and luckily, it was SEE SHA NA NA, Page 2
La Jolla resident Jocko Marcellino, drummer for Sha Na Na, will perform tonight with his band and the San Diego Symphony at Summer Pops. COURTESY PHOTO
Metropolitan Transit Service trolleys will serve the University of San Diego, California and the University Towne Centre as soon as 2015 following a unanimous decision by the San Diego Association of Governments (SANDAG) board July 23 to approve one of three proposed routes for the extension. The board upheld a recommendation to select light rail transit Alternative 1, which would extend service “north from Old Town Transit Center along the existing rail corridor just east of I-5, cross over I-5 south of Nobel Drive continuing to serve UCSD, then cross to the east side of I-5 at or near Voigt Drive and head south along Genesee Avenue to a transit center at University Towne Centre,” according to SANDAG officials. Anne Steinberger, marketing manager for SANDAG, said the 11-mile extension will cost $1.2 billion and is expected to serve an additional 20,000 riders per day. Currently, around 100,000 people ride the trolley daily. In a series of public meetings, SANDAG officials gathered public feedback regarding three potential extension options. Steinberger said Alternative 1 received the most favorable feedback, with unanimous support from the University City Planning Group. Another option, Alternative 3, would have cut through Rose Canyon. Alternative 6 would not extend as far north and would have included sharp curves. “We had a lot of public feedback to stay out of Rose Canyon,” Steinberger said. Now that the project has gained the SANDAG board’s approval, Steinberger said, the environmental review process can begin. “The review is expected to take a year and we plan to release a draft document in summer of 2011,” she said. “We will look at the impacts of this route as they pertain to noise, SEE TROLLEY, Page 2