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Crisis of children, families gets worse BY CLAIRE MATHIESON

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HINGS are getting worse for South African women, children and families, according to the expert on family issues at the Catholic Parliamentary Liaison Office (CPLO). This notion is acknowledged by the decision of Southern Africa’s bishops to adopt a family focus over the next three years. “The fact that news of babies being raped no longer makes front page headlines is beyond belief,” said Lois Law of the CPLO, an office of the Southern African Catholic Bishops’ Conference (SACBC). As the world observes the 20th anniversary of the United Nations’ International Year of the Family on May 15, it makes sense that Church and secular efforts are combined. “Church resources are underused. They are a good place to start to build respect and integrity simply because churches are everywhere around the country, and could contribute to programmes and family discipline,” Ms Law told The Southern Cross. In a country where only 30% of children live with both parents, the Church and state need to address the fluid nature of the family. “It is very significant that the Church is focusing on the family,” said Ms Law, the CPLO’s researcher on child rights issues. Toni Rowland of the SACBC Family Life Desk said the UN anniversary has highlighted practical needs of families. The bishops 20142016 focus highlights other more spiritual issues too. “An integrated vision for family life and support for families at all levels must continue and it will need all hands on deck.” Ms Law said the South African family could be mother-headed with absent fathers, childheaded, or headed by grandparents. And in the area where both parents are present, abuse and neglect can be common. “Increasingly we see children living in abusive [homes] where violence is common. Children see their fathers beat their mothers and it becomes accepted as the norm, carrying on to the next generation,” Ms Law said. The researcher cited alcohol and poverty as major issues. “High-density living presents enormous challenges, and unemployment leads to men staying in an environment where they don’t feel respected. Violence is a play of power,” she said. “It’s a negative picture; one that has a history of stemming from when families were broken up in apartheid. Our society bears the scars of apartheid in other areas too. We have many more informal settlements and clinics under-resourced and are on average situated

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ut abuse and family issues also transcend race and class. “We keep thinking it can’t get worse but it does; in all areas of society. We have become increasingly aware that women and children are abused by people they know; in familiar environments,” Ms Law said. Mrs Rowland said the UN event is an important opportunity for strengthening families. The Family Life Desk has developed resources for parishes and dioceses. “It is commonly accepted that people on the whole are not well informed and formed in Church teaching around marriage and family life. A concerted effort should be made to provide this formation by preaching, promoting the marriage and family movements and using the available resources offered by the desk.” Mrs Rowland said there had been a concerted effort on the part of dioceses and parishes to establish a resource, a family desk at each level for spiritual and practical support. Ms Law said this was key: “We need to empower families and provide support for them at all levels. The change will start within the family but we need resources and capacity building.” While the government’s White Paper on family is considered a “good document”, it has taken six years to get to this level. This is a “great deal of time—intervention in families and for children has a very particular time frame before children become adults”, Ms Law said. She said proper implementation of the White Paper needs support from all governmental departments. The degradation of the family is one of the greatest challenges facing the country, the researcher said, and therefore needs departments to work together. Similarly, the Church must be involved. The archdiocese of Durban has also encouraged Catholics to wear their beliefs and prayers on their wrists in the form of a green wristband. The new green band symbolises life “since the family is a living organism, which nourishes life, promotes life and protects life,” said Cardinal Wilfrid Napier of Durban. The new green band features the words “Jesus + Mary + Joseph + Bless my Family”, a simple prayer that South Africans are called to make every day as the country calls on the Holy Family to bless and protect families. The bands cost R7 each, excluding postage. For more information or to place an order, contact stjosephdbn@iafrica.com or 031 303 1890.

Caroline Felix, a parishioner of St Francis in Salt River, Cape Town, after a Mass to celebrate her 100th birthday. The centenary celebration service was held at Holy Cross in Nile Street, District Six, and was officiated by Fr Ralph De Hahn (pictured) and Fr Mark Pothier.

Prayer for pope’s Holy Land visit

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HE priest who is organising Pope Francis’ upcoming visit to Jordan has written a special prayer for the occasion with the aim of allowing the world to participate. “This prayer takes into consideration the whole pilgrimage of His Holiness to the Holy Land,” said Fr Rifat Bader. With this prayer he noted, Catholics from the whole world will be able to prepare for and to accompany the Pope during his May 24-26 visit to Jordan, Palestine and Israel. The priest also voiced his hopes that the prayer he wrote will be an act of personal and communitarian devotion, asking that the pilgrimage help the Christians of the world to live in peace, particularly in the Middle East. He invited all to recite the prayer during the month of May along with praying of the Rosary, and to share the prayer in parishes and at religious events. This is the full text of the prayer:

Heavenly Father, you never tire of being compassionate and loving. The successor of St Peter, His Holiness Pope Francis, plans to visit the Holy Land sanctified by your Son’s birth, baptism, teaching, death and resurrection. Be with him, sanctify and bless him, spread the mantle of your kindness over every stage of his pilgrimage among us,

that we may see in him a believing pilgrim, a wise teacher, and a humble leader. Lord Jesus Christ, as you prayed for the unity of your Church, saying, “May they all be one”, make the meeting in Jerusalem between the Holy Father and the Ecumenical Patriarch an incentive to increase our efforts for the unity of your children. Make the encounter of the pope with the political authorities fruitful for justice and peace; protect all the residents of this land and the adherents of the religions of the Middle East, so that they may be in harmony, dialogue and cooperation for the achievement of full citizenship. Good Shepherd, whose image Pope Francis carries on his pectoral cross, walking in the spirit of humility with which you have graced him: deepen within us the awareness of our Christian identity, that as true disciples we may bear witness to your Good News and your resurrection in our churches, our society, and all the world, especially by serving the sick, the poor and the refugees. Bless, Lord Most Holy, this fourth papal visit to our Holy Land, through the intercession of the Blessed Virgin Mary, St Joseph, all the saints of the Holy Land, and the two new saints, John Paul II and John XXIII, Amen.

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