For nearly 150 years, Friends Academy has remained steadfast in its mission –to educate students to become their best selves and contribute to the common good.
For nearly 150 years, Friends Academy has remained steadfast in its mission –to educate students to become their best selves and contribute to the common good.
Saturday, March 14 from 9 am to 12 pm Learn how our rich history continues to guide our vision for the future at our upcoming admissions event. This event is for families interested in grades 9-11.
“Learning in Action: Upper School Experience”
“Learning in Action: Upper School Experience”
Saturday, March 14 from 9 am to 12 pm
This event is for families interested in grades 9-11.
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February, Frost & Family
This editor’s letter is being written on the eve of a big snowstorm. As the New York Family team updates our site (newyorkfamily.com) with the latest resources and information, it’s also a reminder of what this city does best: show up for one another. It’s one of the many reasons we love raising families here.
Our February cover features Buckley Country Day School (page 12) and dives into the essence of education, spotlighting stories that meet families exactly where they are right now.
Winter may still be in full force, but we’re already looking ahead, fingers crossed, to warmer days. This issue jumps straight into summer planning (only four months away!) with our camp coverage. Check out Amazing Day Camps (page 22) and Do Siblings Need
GET IN TOUCH
to Camp Together? (page 20), a must-read for parents weighing what works best for their kids.
February also brings us Valentine’s Day, and with it, conversations about relationships in all their forms. We explore how parents can support teens as they navigate relationships (page 8).
And because navigating schools is a major parenting decision, you’ll also find smart, practical guides to understanding independent schools (page 16), so you can make informed choices with confidence.
Whether you’re tackling slush or claiming the couch as your winter headquarters, this issue has you covered.
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Let’s face it: no parent is exactly eager for their kid to start dating. For many parents, a teen’s first relationship is an undeniable sign that they’re growing up and they’re not a little kid anymore.
But as much as parents may hesitate to admit it, relationships are part of life, especially as children become teens. Relationships are an important avenue for teens to find their identity and place in the world, and guidance and open communication from parents can make the process easier.
We sat down with Samantha Quigneaux, LMFT, national director of family therapy services for Newport Healthcare, about how parents can help their teens navigate relationships as they get older.
Parents can start establishing the framework for teens to have healthy relationships early on. What might these early conversations look like?
Helping our children develop healthy relationships means discussing what characteristics of a friendship or relationship make us feel most safe, comfortable and happy. Are the people they surround themselves with kind, thoughtful, and considerate of their feelings and experiences?
These conversations can start as early as elementary school. When your child tells you about their friend, ask them “What do you like about this friend?” or “What kinds of things do you do together that you enjoy?”
This is also the time for you to help your child thoughtfully address conflict and learn how to advocate for themselves. If they tell you about a playground disagreement, ask them how they felt about the situation and what they did to help themselves feel better in the moment. This is an opportunity for collaborative problem-solving.
Some of the earliest relationships kids observe is the relationship between their parents. How can seeing this relationship
affect kids?
The relationship kids observe between their parents is unquestionably the most impactful. Children are incredibly observant and aware of dynamics that exist between their parents and family members. Like most situations, children learn how to interact with the world and those around them from their caregivers.
Children will look and learn unknowingly at communication and conflict resolution. This is applicable to parents who are coupled, uncoupled, as well as single parents. Children also internalize what they will view “acceptable” and “normal” relationship patterns from their parents and caregivers.
How can parents ensure they’re modeling a healthy relationship for their children?
Modeling healthy relationships is certainly heavy lifting. In order to do this, parents must be honest with themselves, and be able to take stock of the way they interact and communicate with their partners or other caregivers. Healthy relationships mean prioritizing feeling safe, valued, respected and cared for. Are these dynamics present in the home? When conflict comes up, is this done effectively or aggressively? Modeling a healthy relationship at its core is stopping to ask yourself “Is this the type of relationship
I would want my child to be in?” If not, consider what changes need to be made.
What advice can parents give to their teens as they’re getting ready to start dating?
As teens start to be interested in having a romantic relationship, it is important for parents to approach it with curiosity about how their teen views dating. Encourage open communication and discussion about what it is that interests them in dating and what they are looking for in a potential partner. How are they hoping to feel in a relationship?
Parents should remind their teens that a partner should help them to feel like the best true versions of themselves. Someone who cares for them and respects them will make them feel empowered and strong.
It is also important that parents remind their teens that dating can be an exciting adventure and journey of discovery, but to listen to their heart and gut; if something feels “off,” they should trust themselves and reach out for support.
It’s important for people of all ages to know what an abusive relationship looks like in order to stay safe. What are some warning signs for abusive relationships that teens in particular should look out for?
Abuse is all about power and control. So, if at any point a teen is feeling as though
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someone is trying to disempower them or control certain aspects of their lives, this is a big red flag. This may look like a partner telling them what to wear, who to hang out with, rules to adhere to, or to break. Other warning signs are the teen’s mood and engagement in everyday things that previously brought them joy. If a teen is experiencing increased anxiety, depression, or emotional dysregulation, or if they no longer want to join the family for dinner and would rather isolate, these are critical warning signs of an unhealthy relationship.
Teens should be able to come to their parents with problems as they grow up, including relationship problems. How can parents lay the groundwork for this open communication?
The key here is curiosity rather than criticism. You want to show your teen that you are able to hold a safe, calm, and respectful space even when discussing difficult topics, and especially when your teen is being vulnerable.
When discussing relationships with your
Other Things to Keep in Mind
Every teen is going to approach relationships differently. Some may lean towards engaging in more casual dating while others want a “serious” long term relationship. It is important to understand what your teen is looking for and not to judge or diminish their perspective.
This means not perpetuating stereotypes or belittling their intense feelings with comments like, “You’re only 16. You’re not going to marry this person.” or “Be careful how many people you date so you don’t get a bad reputation.”
This type of “advice” does not address a parent’s deeper concerns, and it will likely put the teen on the defense. You also risk losing open
teen, try to go beyond “What did you do with them?” to “How does this person make you feel? What qualities do you like about them?” Teens are working through their identity and finding their place in the world, and relationships are certainly a part of this. It is important to discuss with your teen the
communication. If parents notice concerning behaviors, it is important to approach it from an emotionally focused place.
Another element of teen dating that must also be under the umbrella of safety and communication are topics related to sex and sexuality. Parents need to be a safe place for their teens to express themselves, and to be able to have conversations about their bodies and their attractions.
These can be difficult topics at any age, particularly as teens develop their own notions around romance and sexuality. We want to reinforce to our teens that we can handle uncomfortable conversations about these important issues.
differences between privacy and secrecy. It is absolutely reasonable for there to be aspects that they do not share with their parent(s) because they are private and personal, but secrecy means they are intentionally withholding information that they fear may bring judgment, criticism, or punishment.
It all started with an idea: “If only there were a school.” Those words, attributed to Ruth Eden Grace, were the spark that a group of families needed to break ground for their own school on Long Island. And so it was that in 1923, a new school opened its doors in Kings Point to 23 children. Great Neck Preparatory School, as it was known then, was meant to provide the finest academic preparation for success in top-tier boarding schools. Whatever secondary schools Buckley families now choose, day or boarding, our school has remained true to that vision. Yet, it is also so much more.
Buckley Country Day School, housed in a historic Gold Coast mansion on a stunning campus in the Village of North Hills, now serves 325 children from pre-nursery through 8th grade. The school’s mission is grounded in the belief expressed by B. Lord Buckley that “Opening The Eyes And Awakening The Mind” is the essence of education. Guided by that mission, Buckley has purposely focused on developing a rigorous curriculum required for the students’ future, while remaining committed to a liberal arts education dedicated to nurturing the whole child and fostering joy in lifelong learning.
The breadth and depth of the learning unfolding daily in and outside the classroom are remarkable. Stepping into the Early Childhood classrooms, you might find children enthralled in a story, eagerly raising their hands to make their own contribution, or see a group of young children experiencing the wonder of reading a whole book on their own for the first time, or hear the sounds of Mandarin echoing in the hallways. Moving to the Lower School, you might come across young students crafting an exciting memoir, learning about electricity while constructing a circuit, or applying mathematical skills to tackle complex word problems. Entering
the Upper School, there might be students in advisory debating how to be leaders of character, translating Latin text, learning about Odysseus’s journey, preparing for a robotics competition, practicing a cello piece for the upcoming holiday concert, delivering a speech at a community assembly, applying logical reasoning to geometry proofs, checking on their portfolio performance in the financial literacy program, or warming up for their next baseball game.
Yet, with all that we celebrate, Buckley’s professional culture is defined by the drive to remain on a path of continuous improvement. Professional growth is imprinted in the way Buckley Country Day School approaches learning and teaching.
Whether it is through its long-standing partnership with Columbia University Teachers College Advancing Literacy Project, ongoing workshops on the integration of artificial intelligence to enhance learning, or teacher collaboration on curriculum design, assessment, and innovation, Buckley Country Day School is fully committed to scaffolding an engaging educational experience and making it relevant to today’s children and tomorrow’s adults.
To learn more about Buckley Country Day School, visit their website at www.buckleycountryday.com, attend an upcoming open house, or schedule a private tour today by contacting Colleen Fortuna, Director of Admissions, at 516-472-2701.
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Rachelle Bojer and Kate
February style is all about a cool color, as Long Island mom Rachelle Bojer, 53, a pelvic floor physical therapist and owner of Lotus Physical Therapy, shows us this month. Rachelle pairs straight-legged pastel blue jeans, a fresh color poised to be a 2026 trend, with a cozy cable-knit cardigan, creating a look that’s both comfortable and stylish.
Her equally stylish daughter, Kate, 16, keeps the color story in the family with a fitted zip hoodie and fold-over knit pants, showing how elevated loungewear can be playful, chic, and ready for a day at dance class, the beach, or anywhere in between.
Amara (Hui Wang), Demi (Yicheng Wei), and Julia
For mom of twins, Amara (Hui Wang), getting dressed is about what works: easy layers, comfortable pieces, and outfits that can handle a full day of school, teaching, and after-school movement (including dancing and boxing).
Amara keeps it clean in jeans and a black top, letting her black-and-gold sneakers do the talking. It’s a reminder that one standout piece, especially a sneaker, can elevate even the simplest outfit.
The twins, age 8, keep it classic in jeans and striped henleys. Demi loves the violin and horseback riding, while Julia loves dancing. Together, they share a casual, coordinated look that’s playful, comfortable, yet still uniquely their own.
All looks work for this trio without going full matchy-matchy, keeping their looks simple and unfussy- proving family fashion doesn’t have to be overstyled to feel put together.
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Exploring Independent Schools
BY NEW YORK FAMILY
In New York, choosing a school can start pretty early. It may all begin casually, a comment on the playground. A question after music class. Then suddenly, it’s everywhere. It may first start with preschool chatter, then, as you figure out what works or could work for your child, it turns into coffee conversations, which turn into late-night group texts once the kids are asleep. One day, you’re swapping potty-training tips, and the next, it’s what the heck is a school lottery, how does a waitlist work , and the big one, to do public or private.
This is often when independent schools enter the group chat. Especially here in New York, where there’s an unusually deep and diverse landscape of independent schools, many parents start looking not only because they want “more,” but because they want something that feels more unflappable for their family, more intentional, and aligned with how their family actually lives.
What Is an Independent School?
Independent schools are sometimes nonprofit, privately run schools that operate outside the public system. Since these types of schools aren’t governed by districts or state mandates, they are free to shape both their curriculum and school culture, which is understandably why they appeal to so many parents.
For like most educational decisions, choosing an independent school is rarely about one thing. It might be class size or location. The school may offer them a more rigid schedule, lighter or more sportsoriented schoolwork, and something you cannot find anywhere else.
And it’s not that one type of education, public versus independent, is better than the other; for many of us parents, it is a wellthought-out decision to pivot to independent schools. This could be during your child’s key transitions, early childhood, middle school, or simply it’s time for your child to move on
to an independent school. For other students, these type of schools provide a flexible environment.
Another plus is the sense of community that independent schools like Catholic, Montessori, and others foster in their students. Independent schools may center on creativity, social-emotional learning, or a more progressive education, or academic rigor balanced with play. Families can choose a school that
reflects their values and supports their child’s personality, not just their test scores. And while tuition is a consideration, many parents may be surprised to learn how widely financial aid is available.
In a city and state defined by options, independent schools offer parents a choice; they’re less about opting out, and more about opting into a school experience that feels aligned, supportive, and real.
Buckley Country Day School
2 I.U. Willets Road, Roslyn 516-627-1910
cfortuna@buckleycountryday. com buckleycountryday.com
Buckley Country Day School is an inclusive community that nurtures the whole child and lays the foundation for success in high school, college, and beyond. Buckley’s mission, “Opening The Eyes and Awakening The Mind,” is at the heart of its curriculum, which seeks to inspire and prepare students for a lifetime of learning. Buckley accepts students as young as two years old in Pre-Nursery and admits students on a rolling basis through grade seven.
Countryside Montessori School
354 Lakeville Rd., lower level, Great Neck 516-466-8422
info@cmsgn.com cmsgn.com
Countryside Montessori School offers children, 18 months to 6 years, a wellbalanced and enriched curriculum which includes traditional subjects, art, and music. They are located in an estate-like setting with an outdoor playground and surrounded by nature. Classrooms are fully equipped and spacious. Countryside Montessori also offers camp for children ages 18 months to 6 years old. There are morning academics for the older children and playtime for all children.
Friends Academy
270 Duck Pond Road 516-676-0393
admissions@fa.org friendsacademy.org
At Friends Academy, academic rigor is matched by moral purpose, giving students the tools to think critically, act ethically, and contribute meaningfully to the world. With a curriculum that balances intellectual depth and real-world relevance, graduates step confidently into college and life, prepared to make their mark. Grounded in its Quaker heritage, Friends Academy is a vibrant community where students learn with and from one another in an environment built on respect, empathy, and inclusion.
The Green Vale School
250 Valentine’s Ln., Old Brookville 516-621-2420 admissions@greenvaleschool. org greenvaleschool.org
The Green Vale School is Long Island’s largest and preeminent private school for pre-nursery (age 2) to 8th grade. Since 1923, Green Vale has been deeply committed to providing a transformative and exceptional education that fosters a love of learning, nurtures creativity, instills a sense of leadership, and prepares students to thrive in an ever-changing world. After a culminating middle school experience, GVS graduates go on to excel at top secondary schools and colleges.
Holy Child Academy
25 Store Hill Rd., Old Westbury 516 626-9300 admissions@hcali.org holychildacademy.org Holy Child Academy, a premier independent Catholic school on 14 picturesque acres in Old Westbury and part of the Holy Child Network of Schools, inspires students through the Four A’s— Academics, Arts, Athletics, and Alleluia. HCA’s mission is simple: to develop students in knowledge, character, leadership, and faith. From the Dolan Early Childhood Center (Toddler–Pre-K) through 8th grade, each child is empowered to reach their fullest potential and pursue excellence with purpose and joy.
Laurel Hill School
201 Old Town Road- East Setauket 631-751-1154
info@laurelhillschool.org laurelhillschool.org
A nurturing academic powerhouse. On a secure, ten-acre campus, children thrive in small classes averaging 12-15 students. Expect exceptional teaching and a rigorous foundation in literacy, STEAM, robotics, and public speaking. School days blend outdoor experiential learning with individualized attention. Families choose Laurel Hill because it offers something rare: a school that feels both safe and extraordinarywhere strong foundations foster confidence, curiosity, and character from early childhood through 8th grade.
Long Island School for the Gifted
815 Convent Road, Syosset 631-423-3557
info@lisg.org lisg.org
The Long Island School for the Gifted (LISG) provides an appropriate education for gifted children in prekindergarten through eighth grade, in a nurturing environment where they will be both intellectually challenged and comfortable socially, thereby allowing them to grow and develop to their potential.
The Waldorf School of Garden City
225 Cambridge Avenue. Garden City 516-742-3434
lerouxb@waldorfgarden.org waldorfgarden.org
The Waldorf School of Garden City offers an ageappropriate, experiential education that challenges the mind and nurtures the whole child. Rooted in over 75 years at the school and a century of Waldorf education worldwide, their curriculum integrates academics, arts, and hands-on learning. Students develop critical thinking, creativity, and confidence. Graduates emerge as thoughtful, adaptable individuals prepared for college, leadership, and meaningful engagement in an everchanging world.
Do Siblings Need to Go to Camp Together?
BY JESS MICHAELS
When searching for an overnight camp, many parents begin the process with their oldest child in mind, often hoping it will be a good fit for younger siblings as well. While there are many advantages to sending children to camp together, it’s important to recognize that each child is different and may need a different camp experience to truly thrive.
Choosing a camp that siblings can attend together offers numerous benefits. Renee Flax from the American Camp Association helps parents find the right camp for their children and says, “It certainly is easier for parents when their children go to camp together. They start and end camp at the same time, have the same visiting days, and it’s easy to keep track of all the logistics. Another strong benefit is that your children have a shared experience and bond over the memories of camp together.”
Matt Krounder, Owner and Director of Camp Schodack, a coed overnight camp in New York says it’s heartwarming to see how some siblings at camp seek each other out
during choice time to do activities together or to just find time to chat. “Older siblings will have check-ins with younger siblings to see how they are adjusting to camp and to help them with any questions, particularly when the younger sibling is starting camp for the first time. Families will often tell me that this dynamic starts well before camp begins, with older siblings answering questions about camp which helps create a strong bond between them.”
For many parents, it’s important that their children go to camp together so during the initial camp search, keep both children in mind. “Look into camps that offer a broad spectrum of activities and focus. There are many camps out there that can satisfy that need and be a great choice for your children even if they are very different people,” comments Flax.
Other parents recognize that their children have different needs and that while one camp is good for one, it may not be the best for the other. “The most important thing is to find the right fit for each child so when parents feel one of their children will benefit from a very different experience or would
thrive in a program focused on a specific activity, it can certainly make sense to have them at different camps,” comments Krouner. “In these situations, I encourage parents to find camps that they trust equally and to have a clear understanding of the differences between the programs. This will help set expectations, both for the parents and how this choice is communicated to their children.”
Sometimes parents start children off at camp together, but then realize that it’s not working out for one of them. Don’t be afraid to consider a switch. “You don’t want to sacrifice one child’s camp experience for the other. If one of your children is still happy at the camp and you believe it’s still the right place for them, then that child should stay at the camp. But if your other child is not being fulfilled for whatever reason, then select a camp that will suit their needs. Above all, you want both of your children to have camp experiences where they are flourishing.”
Ashleigh Jackowitz, Director of Camp Winaukee, an all-boys camp in New Hampshire feels the best gift we can give our children is a camp that fits their unique personality. “It’s important to stay open to the possibility that siblings might need different programs to thrive. For some, that means going to camp together; for others, it means carving out their own independent identity. Success isn’t measured by whether siblings are at the same camp, but by whether each child is in the environment that supports them best.”
Amazing Day CAMPS
When the school year wraps up, parents everywhere face the same summer puzzle: how to give kids a break without letting the days dissolve into endless screen time and snack negotiations. Enter day camp: the magical middle ground where long days turn into muddy sneakers, art projects, inside jokes, and stories.
Day camp is where kids get to move, make, explore, and try things they wouldn’t otherwise. It’s where friendships deepen, confidence sneaks up on them, and days feel full in the best possible way.
For parents, it’s the peace of mind that comes from knowing your child is engaged, cared for, and actually thriving, And right in your neighborhood or near, the options are as dynamic as the city itself. There truly is something for every kid whether it is an indoor or outdoor day camp- these programs keep curiosity sharp, all while paving the way for an unforgettable summer.
Buckley Day Camp offers a one-of-a-kind summer experience on a beautiful 30-acre campus. With four heated pools, a fully air-conditioned facility, and a wide range of activities, it creates an environment where children thrive through fun, friendships, and adventure. Staying intentionally small by design, the camp focuses on each individual camper and provides exceptional customer service for every family. With door-to-door transportation, chef-prepared meals, towel service, and more, no detail is overlooked. From its renowned drama program to organic gardening to sports clinics taught by certified coaches, there is something for everyone at Buckley. Follow us on Instagram at @BuckleyDayCamp.
Beth Sholom Day Camp
401 Roslyn Road, Roslyn Heights, LI 516-620-2022, office@bethsholomdaycamp.com bethsholomdaycamp.com
Beth Sholom Day Camp in Roslyn Heights offers an unforgettable summer experience for children ages 3-15 from Nassau and Queens. The camp provides door-to-door transportation, delicious lunches, two snacks, and towel service, ensuring convenience for families. Each day is filled with exciting activities, including swim lessons, dynamic sports, creative arts, and more, designed to keep campers engaged and inspired. The program focuses on encouraging children to try new things, make lasting friendships, and discover their talents in a safe and supportive environment. Whether splashing in the pool or excelling on the field, campers at Beth Sholom Day Camp enjoy a vibrant, fun-filled atmosphere where laughter, learning, and memories come together to create an extraordinary summer.
Countryside Montessori School
354 Lakeville Rd, Great Neck, LI
516-466-8422, info@cmsgn.com cmsgn.com
This Montessori summer camp offers a unique blend of fun, exploration, and educational activities designed to inspire and engage children in ways that align with their natural development. Guided by the principles of the Montessori method, this camp creates a rich environment where young children can discover the joy of learning through hands-on experiences. Throughout the camp, children will participate in a variety of carefully planned activities that foster independence, self-confidence, and problem-solving skills. From outdoor play and nature exploration to creative arts and practical life skills, every day offers children opportunities to explore and grow at their own pace.
Destination Science
Multiple Locations in Long Island 888-909-2822, Info@destinationscience.org Destinationscience.org
Destination Science is the fun science day camp for curious kids ages 5 to 11. Encourage the love of science, spark creativity, and year-round hands-on learning with Destination Science camp. 2026 introduces 3 new camp themes: Robot Olympic Challenge, Movie Maker STEM Lab, and Jedi Engineering Camp. Each week brings 15 STEM activities, including make-and-take projects. That is three exciting science stations per day, plus games, creative challenges, silly songs, and all the friendship and fun of camp. Destination Science’s energetic, professional educators make learning fun. Locations in Nassau, Suffolk, and Westchester. Early Bird Savings!
Usdan Summer Camp for the Arts
185 Colonial Springs Road, Wheatley Heights, NY 631- 643-7900, questions@usdan.org usdan.org
For parents seeking a summer day camp for kids K-12 that builds confidence, nurtures creativity, and prioritizes emotional well-being, Usdan Summer Camp for the Arts sets the standard. Founded in 1968, Usdan combines top-tier arts education with classic camp fun on a 140-acre campus in Long Island. Students spend their days discovering who they are through classes in music, theater, dance, visual art, writing, nature, and chess, guided by professional artists and educators. Usdan offers 4- and 8-week sessions for students currently in grades K–12, and a 1-week Recreational camp for grades 2–8. Bus transportation from Long Island, Manhattan, Brooklyn, and Queens is included in tuition. Inquire about merit scholarships and how to book a campus tour today!
Old Westbury Summer Camp
25 Store Hill Road, Old Westbury, NY 11568
516-626-9268
oldwestburysummercamp.org
Old Westbury Summer Camp—where summer shines. Set on 14 acres of discovery and play, Old Westbury Summer Camp offers campers from toddlers through 10th grade a classic, authentically fun camp experience. Each day, children choose from a wide range of activities including arts and crafts, science experiments, baking, sports, theater workshops, and yoga—all designed to spark curiosity, build confidence, and inspire creativity. The camp provides a safe, welcoming environment with daily swimming and swim lessons included, along with a freshly prepared lunch by an on-site chef. At HCA Old Westbury Summer Camp, unforgettable memories are made and summer begins.
YMCA of Long Island Summer Day Camp
Bay Shore, Glen Cove, Holtsville, Huntington, & Patchogue, LI 855-296-2524, camp@ymcali.org ymcali.org/camp
At the Y, campers build friendships and engage in physical activity in a safe and healthy environment. As one of the region’s largest and most diverse camps, YMCA offers a variety of programs for ages 3-15, including Kiddie Camp, Youth Camp, Pre-Teen Camp, Teen Camp, Sports Camp, and CIT (Counselor-In-Training). Camp 2026 will operate 2-week sessions from Monday, June 29, through Friday, August 21, featuring endless age-appropriate activities and opportunities to try new things, build confidence, and create lifelong memories. The trained staff create a safe, fun, welcoming environment where kids can be themselves to enjoy learning, playing, exploring, and socializing. Pre-teen, teen, and sports camps enjoy off-campus trips around Long Island.
Best Roller Rinks on Long Island
BY DANIELLE RAMOS
Ice skating may be all the buzz in the wintertime, but a lot of kids (and adults) would rather just do some good old-fashioned roller skating. If you’re a native New Yorker, you likely remember roller skating up and down the block all day until it was time to come in. That was surely some of my best Brooklyn memories, and one that I replicated with my own kids.
Besides the nostalgia that roller skates and roller blades bring out in us, roller skating is just fun, plain and simple. There is no ice, and the fun isn’t dependent on the weather. Here are some great roller skating rinks on Long Island.
United Skates of America
unitedskates.com/seaford 1276 Hicksville Rd, Seaford, NY 11783 516-795-5474
All children and adults skating admission, $17.50 at the door; $15.50 if purchased in advance online; Non-skating adults $6 Skate rental $7
This large indoor rink has family-friendly public skate sessions with both classic roller skates or roller blades. There are adjustable skates and beginner “skate mates” for younger kids, themed events, like Glow in the Dark skate and early bird skate. Plus, there are arcade games, café, DJ music, and birthday party packages. There is a Wednesday Skate School and a Why Not Wednesday Adult Skate for a fun date night.
Gr8skates gr8skates.com
30 The Green, Shirley, NY 11967 631-729-6055
Admission $14 with prices higher at the door; several “cheapskate” days available for $7
Skate rental $6; non-skater admission fee $6
This family-oriented rink with roller skating sessions is good for young and older kids. There are arcade games, race go-karts, and food available, plus an area where parents can sit and relax. Cheapskate sessions offer discounted prices, and there are three different sessions of a family New Year’s Eve Balloon Drop on December 31st. You can also rent the rink wth different party packages available for kids and adults.
Admission $10 for adults, $5 for kids, skate rentals are free
The 7,000-square-foot roller rink was completely refurbished in 2018 and is open year-round. It is a community rink that offers open skate and occasional glow events, and is ideal for a low-key experience where beginners won’t feel rushed. They offer free instruction for beginners to help everyone get rolling and sell socks on site for
added convenience. Large open floor for all skill levels and snacks on site, including a concession stand with hot dogs, snacks, and drinks.
OUTDOOR RINKS
If you prefer a more free feel, without the pressure of dance music and strobe lights (great for sensitive children), you might want to try some free outdoor rinks in local Long Island parks.
The hockey rink at Brady Park in Smithtown doubles as a space for roller skaters and bladers, in addition to hockey players. Kids can take a break to enjoy the playground or shoot hoops on the basketball court.
At Charles P. Toner/Armory Park in Nesconset, there is a free, low-key outdoor rink behind the Smithtown Library where families can skate at their own pace.
A concrete rink is located near the playground at Cedar Creek Park in Seaford.
At Riverhead Skate Park, inline skaters share the space with skateboarders and BMX riders, so this is best for older, experienced skaters. Helmets and pads are required.
In Wantagh Park, a rink set near a playground, with extras like a pool and minigolf nearby to turn a skating outing into a full day of fun.
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Parenting Styles
Parents and experts weigh in on what parenting styles work best for them
BY NÁOSHA GREGG AND NYF
We all know there’s no perfect parenting guide. Raising a small human is no easy feat, and there will be many questions along the way. While there are several tips and tricks when it comes to parenting, from picking the nursery color to choosing the right school, one thing remains a bit of a puzzle: parenting styles.
What Are Parenting Styles?
Parenting styles first emerged in the 1960s, when psychologist Diana Baumrind identified three main parenting styles: authoritarian, authoritative, and permissive. The idea was to look at the different ways parents raise their kids, helping researchers understand how these styles affect things like discipline, warmth, communication, and expectations. The goal was to figure out which parenting strategies lead to the best outcomes for children.
“Balancing elements such as control, warmth, autonomy, and communication role
models and illustrates what parenting can look like from several different lenses, allowing for adaptation when needed,” says Courtney Hulse, a NY-based Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. “Understanding the benefits of various parenting styles can help parents choose the best approach for their child’s individual temperament, needs, and developmental stage.”
The conversation around parenting styles recently resurfaced on TikTok when Lighthouse Parenting began trending. This approach highlights being a stable guide — like a lighthouse — while giving kids space to grow. Many parents shared positive experiences, inspiring a wave of new ideas and practices. Below, we explore three currently trending styles: lighthouse, horizontal, and intensive.
Lighthouse Parenting
Vanessa Gordon, CEO & Publisher of East End Taste, identifies strongly with lighthouse parenting. This style provides a more open
Other parenting styles you may hear about
While lighthouse, horizontal, and intensive parenting are getting a lot of attention, there are several other styles influencing families today:
Gentle Parenting: A hugely popular approach that many parents see on social or hear from their mom friends is gentle parenting. Gentle Parenting focuses on emotional regulation, connection, and modeling calm behavior. It’s often misunderstood as permissive, but it’s really about firm boundaries delivered with empathy.
Conscious Parenting: Developed
by psychologist Dr. Shefali, conscious parenting encourages parents to examine their own emotional patterns (yup, not super easy) so they don’t project stress or expectations onto their kids. It prioritizes selfawareness and intentional responses over discipline. This way of parenting has a learning curve since it involves check-ins on your end, but it feels like a win-win for all if it’s one you are comfortable trying.
Free-Range (or Independence) Parenting: This modern approach encourages autonomy, independent
approach, allowing children to explore freely while the parent acts as a steady anchor they can return to for guidance.
Gordon has seen meaningful growth in her children’s independence, confidence, and communication skills.
“In conversations with others, I have noticed that they are not afraid to ask questions, make rebuttals, or express their own thoughts and opinions,” she explains. “I see my daughter picking up a book independently… My son does jiu-jitsu, and I admire that he goes early to help the younger students.”
Although the vibe is more relaxed, Gordon still implements rules — minimal screens, no cell phone access, and intentional limits on technology.
According to a survey conducted by Little Sleepies, over 70 percent of mothers compare themselves to other moms on social media, and 18 percent say social platforms negatively influence their parenting style.
“To avoid that pressure, I stay off TikTok
play, and age-appropriate freedom. It’s a counterbalance to today’s structured, high-pressure childhoods and helps build resilience and confidence.
Slow Parenting: A response to overscheduling and burnout, slow parenting focuses on simplifying routines, reducing pressure, and giving kids time to explore, play, and develop at a natural pace.
Montessori-Inspired Parenting: Rooted in the Montessori classroom philosophy, parents bring these principles home through child-led learning, practical life skills, simple spaces, and lots of independence. It’s extremely popular on social media.
and limit my own social media use,” she says. “I shut off the noise and focus on my children’s unique needs, values, and family goals while trusting my instincts.”
She credits her grandfather’s no-nonsense approach for shaping how she parents today. Though she offers freedom, she also teaches responsibility and consequences.
“I remind my children of their routine when they come home… If they need help, they must ask, but first try the problem on their own. I’m not here to rescue them.”
Horizontal Parenting
Perhaps the most controversial style, horizontal parenting focuses on the wellbeing of the parent while still supporting the child’s need for engagement and connection. Rich Kingly, CEO of Driveway King, blends lighthouse and horizontal parenting.
“My own upbringing was a mix of strict rules and a lot of love, but I wanted a balance where my kids felt empowered to speak up and learn from mistakes,” he explains.
Horizontal parenting is often dismissed
as “lazy,” but parents who practice it say it’s simply a low-energy, low-pressure way to bond with kids — especially during overwhelming seasons of life.
A 2017 Good to Know survey of 900 women found that 78 percent felt guilt around their parenting. With so many conflicting demands, horizontal parenting can feel like a relief.
Alexia McKay, a mom of two under two, sees it this way.
“I wasn’t necessarily seeking a parenting style,” she says. “It’s just what works for our current day-to-day.”
Her older daughter plays independently while she tends to her one-year-old — and that independence has benefits. Research from the National Institutes of Health shows that curiosity-driven independence strengthens attention, exploration, and memory.
McKay also emphasizes that today’s parents are navigating an entirely different world than previous generations. “We take what works for our family,” she says. “What worked for our parents doesn’t always fit today’s reality.”
Intensive Parenting
A 2018 Cornell survey found that about 75 percent of parents rated intensive parenting scenarios as “very good” or “excellent.”
Intensive parenting prioritizes children’s development above all else — often resulting in highly hands-on involvement in academics, activities, and social settings.
But experts, including Hulse, caution that it can be harmful.
“Intensive parenting may promote increased pressure on a child,” she says. “Children may feel overburdened, stressed, or develop anxiety, perfectionism, or burnout. The pressure to succeed in every area can create emotional and mental strain.”
Decide the Style That Works Best for You
Determining a parenting style can influence everything from self-esteem to emotional regulation to how children build healthy relationships.
“Our experiences, past and present, dictate how we relate to ourselves and the world,” Hulse explains. “A child’s perceived relationship with their parent affects both immediate and future outcomes.”
But as McKay reminds us, there is no onesize-fits-all solution:
“What works for one household may not work for yours. There’s no right or wrong way to parent. Do what works best for your family and create your own tradition.”
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BY SHARA LEVINE
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Nassau Reptile Expo
WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 7, 9:30 am – 4 pm
WHERE: Cradle of Aviation Museum, Charles Lindbergh Boulevard, Garden City
AGES: All
WHAT: Learn about reptiles or purchase supplies, meet other reptile hobbyists and expand your collection.
WANT TO GO?: Tickets start at $15 for adults and $10 ages 10 and younger. (516) 572–4066, nassaureptileexpo.com
Valentine’s Day Storycraft
WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 14, 11 –11:30 am
WHERE: Bellmore Memorial Library, 2288 Bedford Ave., Bellmore
AGES: 3 – 8
WHAT: Join the library for picture books and a craft to celebrate Valentine’s Day.
WANT TO GO?: Free. bellmorelibrary.org
Monster Jam Freestyle
Mania presented by Spin Master
WHEN: Feb. 14 – 16, see website for schedule
WHERE: UBS Arena, 2400 Hempstead Tnpk., Elmont
AGES: All
WHAT: See Monster Jam® trucks team up with Freestyle Motocross bikes to deliver gravity-defying skills and thrills.
WANT TO GO?: Tickets start at $43. ubsarena.com
AdvoKids: Black History
Month – Long Island Black Whalers
WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 15, 11 am – 1 pm
WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City
AGES: 4 and older
WHAT: Learn about the important impact Black whalers had on Long Island, like Pyrrhus Concer, and create your own whale to take home.
WANT TO GO?: Included with admission: $18. (516) 224–5800, licm.org
The Lightning Thief
WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 15, noon
WHERE: Bellmore Movies and Showplace, 222 Pettit Ave., Bellmore
AGES: 9 and older
WHAT: Join 12-year-old Percy Jackson, the half-blood son of a Greek god, on this thrilling adventure based on the famed novel.
WANT TO GO?: $14. sunrisetheatreli.com
Curious George: The Golden Meatball
WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 18, 2 pm
WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville
AGES: 4 – 9
WHAT: Join Curious George, the inquisitive, engaging monkey-star of books, movies and the award-winning PBS television show in a brand new musical adventure.
WANT TO GO?: Tickets start at $32. (516) 299–3100, tillescenter.org
K‑POP Sing ‑A‑ Long Skate
WHEN: Thursday, Feb. 19, 3 – 5 pm
WHERE: United Skates of America, 1276 Hicksville Road, Seaford AGES: All
WHAT: It’s gonna be golden! Get ready to skate, sing, and shine with the hottest beats and the coolest vibes at this event packed with music, lights, and fandom energy!
WANT TO GO?: $17.50 at the door; $15.50 online; $7 skate rental; $6 spectator fee. (516) 795–5474, unitedskates.com
Kid’s Yoga
WHEN: Thursday, Feb. 19, 4:30 – 5:15 pm
WHERE: Bayville Free Library, 34 School St., Bayville
AGES: 5 – 9
WHAT: Through yoga poses, games, breathing exercises, and relaxation techniques, kids will build strength, balance, and focus—all while having fun in a supportive, creative environment.
WANT TO GO?: Free. bayvillefreelibrary.org
Harlem Globetrotters 100 Year Tour
WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 21, 2 pm
WHERE: UBS Arena, 2400 Hempstead Turnpike, Elmont
AGES: All
Baby’s First Valentine’s Day at the Children’s Museum of the East End
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WHAT: Be there when the players dazzle, dunk, and hype the stands as they take on the Washington Generals with high-flying, all-out fun from start to finish.
WANT TO GO?: Tickets start at $52. harlemglobetrotters.com
Glow Stick Science
WHEN: Friday, Feb. 27, 6:30 –8:30 pm
WHERE: Science Museum Of Long Island, 1526 N. Plandome Road, Manhasset
AGES: All
WHAT: Discover the chemistry of glowing materials while conducting fun and illuminating experiments with glowing sticks.
WANT TO GO?: $35 children 3 and older; $25 adult. (516) 564–2950, smli.org
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Pinkalicious The Musical
WHEN: Saturdays and Sundays, 11 am, through Feb. 21; Wednesday, Feb. 18, 11 am
WHERE: Cm Performing Arts Center, 931 Montauk Hwy., Oakdale
AGES: 5 – 8
WHAT: This beloved book leaps off the page and onto the stage in this adaption featuring Pinkalicious fun and catchy songs.
WANT TO GO?: Tickets start at $21. (631) 218–2810, cmpac.com
Game Changers – Black History Month
WHEN: Feb. 4, 9:30 am – 9 pm
WHERE: Main Branch, Patchogue-Medford Library, 54-60 E. Main Street, Patchogue
AGES: All
WHAT: Learn about Black Athletes and Olympians through games and activities featuring inspiring athletes throughout history.
WANT TO GO?: Free. pmlib.org
Winnie the Pooh
WHEN: Feb. 7 – 21, see website for schedule
WHERE: Theatre Three, 412 Main St., Port Jefferson
AGES: All
WHAT: Visit The Hundred Acre Wood for a brand new
adventure with Winnie the Pooh and his friends Eeyore, Piglet, Christopher Robin, and, of course, Tigger, too.
WANT TO GO?: $15. (631) 473–5220, theatrethree.com
Super Bowl “Saturday” for Kids
WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 7, 2 – 4 pm
WHERE: Emma Clark Library, 120 Main St., Setauket
AGES: 5 – 12
WHAT: Get excited for the big game with football-themed festivities including a raffle to win a special prize!
WANT TO GO?: Free. (631) 941–4080, emmaclark.org
Black History Month: Space Explorers
WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 7, 5:45 – 8 pm
WHERE: Connetquot River State Park Preserve, 4090 Sunrise Hwy., Oakdale
AGES: 6 and older
WHAT: Learn about the history of Black men and women astronomers and astronauts that shaped our understanding of the cosmos. Stargazing is weather permitting.
WANT TO GO?: $4. parks. ny.gov
LIM’s Enchanted Valentine’s Ball: A Magical Princess Experience
WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 8, 11 am –12:30 pm
Ink & Independence
WHEN: Feb. 16, 11 am – 1 pm
WHERE: The Whaling Museum & Education Center, 301 Main Street, Cold Spring Harbor AGES: 3 and up
WHAT: In honor of America’s 250th, explore how American whalers used whalebone to show pride in our country’s liberty. See historic examples, then create your own keepsake.
WANT TO GO?: $6-$8 admission + $12 participant; $8 for members.
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February Break Fun
WHEN: Feb. 16 – 20, Daily, 11 am – 3 pm
WHERE: Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium, 1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor
WHERE: Long Island Museum, 1200 Route 25A, Stony Brook
AGES: 3 – 7
WHAT: Come dressed in your royal best and join the Enchanted Rose Princess and two of her princess friends for stories, songs, and an exciting, interactive Sweethearts Scavenger Hunt.
WANT TO GO?: $35 per child (includes 1 adult); additional adult ticket: $20. (631) 751–0066, longislandmuseum.org
Baby’s First Valentine’s Day
WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 11, 11 am – noon
WHERE: Children’s Museum of the East End, 376 Bridgehampton-Sag Harbor Turnpike, Bridgehampton AGES: 3 and younger
WHAT: Celebrate Valentine’s Day with music, crafts, free play and more!
WANT TO GO?: $25; $5 members. (631) 537–8250, cmee.org
