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Summer in the Catskills of Sullivan County, New York, is where you’ll make forever memories. Walk an alpaca. Splash around in the Kartrite Resort and Indoor Waterpark. Sing out loud at a Bethel Woods Concert. Fish in a lake. Raft down the Delaware River. Camp out under the stars.
Our charming small towns have more things to see, do, and eat than summer has weekends!
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FAMILY FUN
22 | Family Day Out
Why spending a day at the farm can help bring families closer together 30 | Family Fun
The wildest family-friendly pizza party is worth the trip into the city 32 | Calendar
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20 | Mother’s Day GIfts
The gifts she really wants this Mother’s Day
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The best local family-friendly events this May
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Marita Smith, DDS
Happy Mother’s Day
Dear New York Families, Mother’s Day always sneaks up on me—somewhere between soccer and baseball practice, school projects, and the constant chaos of daily life with two growing boys. To be honest, I’ve never been big on the holiday—I am not usually into others making a fuss or being the center of attention. But each Mother’s Day I’ve spent as a mom, I take a moment to pause and reflect on the joy, deep love, and utter mayhem my kids have brought into my life. I also don’t mind sleeping in, being served coffee (I didn’t brew myself!) in bed, and the extra snuggles with my boys.
Whether you’re a new mom, a seasoned parent, or a caregiver guiding the next generation, we see you. We know the sacrifices you make and all you do to ensure schedules run smoothly, bellies are full, and kids are cared for. We see the invisible load you carry, and we know it’s not always as easy as some moms may have you believe— curated highlight reels on social media don’t always tell the whole story. If you’ve ever felt like you’re not measuring up, you’re not alone—and you’ll find real insight in our feature on Motherhood Milestone FOMO on page 12.
We continue to explore some of the realities of motherhood, from Maternal Ambivalence on page 14 to maternal mental health as we take a closer look at postpartum mood disorders on page 18.
On page 22 of this issue, you’ll also find ways to celebrate together as a family, like spending a day on the farm picking your own produce.
We recognize that Mother’s Day may be difficult for some mothers who may be grieving a loss, doing it all on their own, or who may not feel much like celebrating for another reason. However you choose to celebrate—or not—this Mother’s Day, we hope you feel a sense of connection, discover moments of inspiration, and find a little joy. And maybe you’ll even find a moment to take a well-deserved break.
Warmly,
Tara
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Smith’s Little Smiles Pediatric Dentist
Making a visit to the dentist’s office a fun and exciting experience for kids
BY MIA SALAS
As parents, we all know how important dental care is for children. We see our kids’ bright, healthy teeth every time they smile at us on the way to school or laugh with their friends on the playground. We watch our children’s baby teeth grow to the point where they graduate from baby food to chicken nuggets. And we celebrate with a visit from the Tooth Fairy when those baby teeth fall out, replaced by strong adult teeth that will stay with them through their lives.
However, this isn’t as easy as it sounds. Most people don’t enjoy visiting the dentist, and kids are no different—it can be intimidating or uncomfortable, especially on the first visit. Choosing the right dentist is key. You want your child’s first experience at the dentist to be positive so that they don’t mind (and even look forward to!) going again and ensuring their teeth remain healthy.
Located in Pomona, NY, Smith’s Little Smiles has become a beloved pediatric dental practice known for its exceptional care and dedication to making dental visits a positive experience for children. Led by Dr. Marita Smith, a graduate of New York University College of Dentistry with specialized pediatric dental training from St. Barnabas Hospital in the Bronx, a Level 1 Trauma Center, the practice offers expert services in a welcoming environment tailored to young patients.
Dr. Smith’s extensive training and commitment to the well-being of her patients are reflected in the numerous glowing reviews from families who have experienced the compassionate care at Smith’s Little Smiles. Patients rave about the practice’s ability to make children feel comfortable, relaxed, and even excited about their dental visits. With a focus on building trust and creating long-lasting positive experiences, Dr. Smith and her team prioritize the unique needs of each child while fostering a fun atmosphere that sets them up for success in their dental care.
“My kids love Dr. Smith! For the first time, they are excited to come see the
dentist,” said a parent of a patient. Dr. Smith is a mother of two, so she knows how important it is for children to feel comfortable during their visits and knows exactly how to do it.
At Smith’s Little Smiles, the focus is on creating an environment where children feel at ease, not anxious, when it comes to dental care. The moment families walk through the door, they’re greeted with warm smiles and a cheerful atmosphere that immediately puts children in a relaxed mood. This friendly, non-intimidating space is designed to help kids feel comfortable during their visits and when they think about maintaining their oral health at home.
Dr. Smith and her staff work closely with children, demonstrating patience and understanding throughout the process. Each visit is treated as an opportunity to build trust and to teach children how to care for their teeth in a way that feels natural and not forced. Dr. Smith is careful not to use “dental words,” as she calls them. Instead, she keeps the conversation child-friendly with phrases like “we’re going to tickle your teeth” to help inform the child of what will happen. She also ensures that everyone around the child is dressed in a less “professional” way. The dental assistants don’t wear white lab coats. Instead, they dress more casually, and Dr. Smith herself gets into costume, wearing princess tiaras or Mickey Mouse ears. There are even colorful walls and TV screens where kids can choose what they want to watch on Netflix. Although minor adjustments, this attention to detail makes the overall experience of visiting the dentist stress-free for kids. This approach encourages children to embrace dental care as part of their daily routine.
Smith’s Little Smiles doesn’t just care about providing the best dental care in the moment; they care about helping families establish a foundation for lifelong oral health. They provide education on proper brushing techniques, a balanced diet for healthy teeth, and guidance on when to transition to orthodontic care.
Dr. Smith understands that access to
quality dental care is essential for every child, which is why they accept most insurance plans. This commitment to making dental care accessible ensures that families can
receive the care they need without the burden of high out-of-pocket expenses. No child should have to go without the dental care they deserve, and Smith’s Little Smiles is dedicated
to making that a reality for all families in Rockland County and surrounding areas. Families looking for a caring, empathetic pediatric dentist who is committed to
patients’ well-being and long-term dental health can schedule an appointment at 845-414-9626 or use the easy online portal at SmithsLittleSmiles.com
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Preschools & Montessori Schools
As we anticipate the arrival of summer, now is the perfect time to consider your child’s early educational journey. Whether you’re a first-time parent or you’re exploring new options, finding the right preschool can feel overwhelming. Identifying programs prioritizing creativity, social interaction, and foundational learning is essential. But is a traditional preschool or a Montessori school—which offers a unique approach that encourages child-led exploration and independence—right for your little one? We’ve explored some local preschools and Montessori schools to give you a head start to securing a spot that aligns with your values and nurtures your child’s interests.
Bright Beginnings Preschool and Camps of Rockland 6 Charles Street, New City 60 E. Madison Avenue, Pearl River 2 Mountainview Court, Pomona brightbeginningsofrockland.com 914-420-5785 (all locations)
Bright Beginning’s Summer Adventure Program is a fun, affordable summer program for children 2 to 9 years old. Half and full day programs with drop off available during summer weeks. Parents are provided with the option of 4-, 8- or 10-week summer program sessions. During the school age summer adventure program, children will have a balanced day where they are able to choose their own area of interest and be provided with hands-on activities. They will enjoy arts & crafts, music & movement, cooking, dramatic play, nature study, weekly yoga classes, shows and more. There will also be plenty of time to relax and play with their friends, too! NYS Licensed facility. All staff are CPR/First Aid Certified.
BrightPath Early Learning and Child Care of Nyack 265 N Highland Ave, #103, Nyack, NY 10960
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As part of Busy Bees, one of the world’s leading early education and care providers, BrightPath Nyack offers nurturing programs for children ages 6 weeks to 6 years old, ensuring every child receives the best start in life. The brand-new, state-of-the-art school is designed to create a warm and nurturing learning environment. The programs are thoughtfully crafted to support and enhance each child’s cognitive, social, and physical growth. Enrolling now.
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Motherhood Milestone FOMO
When your own social media doesn’t match your feed, the pressure builds. How to block the noise and protect your mental health
By BarBara russo
Facebook, Instagram, TikTok—social media can be great for anyone seeking advice on a wide range of topics. But sometimes, the constant scrolling can become too much. We know a lot about its influence on kids, but what about the effects of social media on mothers?
It’s not uncommon for mothers to overshare their families’ lives on social media. Whether they’re an “influencer” or not, these highlight reels make it easy for their friends and followers to get caught in a comparison trap. In fact, a recent study even confirmed that moms who spend more time online engage in greater levels of social comparison. This can lead to increased cortisol levels and, in turn, higher stress and negative emotions.
AdditionAl tips
Dr. Patel-Dunn shares some additional tips for building a healthier relationship with social media:
• Be mindful of how you feel before, during and after social media engagement. Get curious about this experience, and ask yourself what boundaries around social media might serve you best.
• Unfollow accounts that lead to increased negative emotions or feelings of comparison.
• If you notice yourself falling into a comparison trap, remind yourself that these glimpses of motherhood do not accurately represent what is going on in a person’s life.
• Focus on social media sites that offer a sense of community rather than comparison.
• Avoid using social media first thing in the morning or right before bed at night. Give yourself breaks to be present throughout the day.
While this occurs most often in first-time moms, parents of multiple kids experience this, too. From their own personal postpartum weight loss journey to their toddlers’ potty training timeline, there’s a ton of pressure to keep up with what seems to feel like a never-ending cycle that continues as children become teenagers, adults and eventually parents themselves. Some therapists call this social media pressure “motherhood milestone FOMO” (fear of missing out).
Anisha Patel-Dunn, D.O., psychiatrist, Chief Medical Officer at LifeStance Health, and mom, is familiar with this topic. She’s been working with patients dealing with this type of pressure. We spoke with Dr. Patel-Dunn, who shared tips for moms on how to cope and have a healthy relationship with social media.
What is Motherhood Milestone FOMO?
Motherhood is full of milestones, including pregnancy and childbirth, a child’s first steps, first words and more. If your timeline or experience doesn’t match what you see on social media, it’s not uncommon to experience feelings of being left behind or inadequate. Comparison is a common challenge many people face in different aspects of their lives, but for mothers, societal expectations about what makes a “good mother” can make this even more difficult.
Do you find that moms compare themselves to other mothers on social media? If so, is there a lot of pressure for them to keep up
with what their friends, influencers and celebrities are posting and sharing?
There is so much parenting content on social media from celebrities, influencers, friends and loved ones. This content often presents itself as rules or advice for mothers, which can become overwhelming. Another side of this is that many people on social media only show their “best” moments. This is not an accurate representation of their lives. Understandably, moms might fall into a comparison trap, which can contribute to feelings of stress and anxiety.
Can you explain how moms who spend more time on social media experience more stress and negative emotions?
For those experiencing low self-esteem, spending more time on social media and falling into a comparison trap can often exacerbate these feelings. Social media is designed to pull us in and capture our attention, and it can be incredibly challenging to break out of this cycle.
Does social media benefit Mom in any way?
A silver lining of the last few years is that more people have become more candid about their mental health, and this is often seen on social media. It can provide an opportunity to is now part of access a community of likeminded people that you may not be able to access in person depending on your location and personal situation. In that sense, social media can connect moms with peer support regardless of location.
A Peek Into Maternal Ambivalence
A therapist’s new book takes a closer look at struggling with mixed feelings about motherhood
BY DANIELLE RAMOS
Motherhood is often romanticized as a journey of pure joy, unconditional love, and endless fulfillment. But for many moms, there’s a hidden side to parenting—the feelings that don’t always match the picture-perfect narrative.
In her upcoming book, Maternal Ambivalence: The Loving Moments & Bitter Truths of Motherhood on sale now, psychotherapist, social worker and mother of three, Margo Lowy, PhD, delves into the often-unspoken, complex emotions that accompany the experience of mothering.
Lowy explores what it means to embrace the full spectrum of feelings that come with raising children—from the deep love and pride to the exhaustion, frustration, and moments of doubt. Through her own personal journey and extensive research, she challenges the societal pressures that demand mothers to be selfless, constantly joyful, and always in control.
In this excerpt, Lowy invites us to confront maternal ambivalence and redefine what it means to be a mother in all its beautiful, messy contradictions.
Being a mom is so difficult some days. We are pulled in so many different directions by our children, and we are supposed to be caring, selfless, and remain an adult all the time, even when it becomes too much. How do we make room to acknowledge and talk about maternal ambivalence, a forbidden and silenced but daily part of our mothering?
Making sense of these contradictions in order to live with them in a peaceful and productive way may be the greatest challenge of all. As a mother of three, I’ve struggled— and still do—with my mothering. While my children are all things to me—the wonder, love, and accomplishment of my life—they also test me continually as I tread the awe, joy, and heartbreak of being a mother and its continual twists and turns. On that score, I’m not so different from any other mother.
I suppose my difference creeps in in the way that I have dealt with my experience of mothering and its combination of awe, joy, and heartbreak. It hasn’t been easy, and why would it be? I have been driven to spend years of my life trying to find ways to make sense of mothering and the mother’s feelings of ambivalence.
I have pondered its contradictions and mystery while questioning the status quo and the wider social commentary.
It seems to me that most people feel entitled to freely comment on the sacred feelings that a woman experiences as a mother, often leaving her with deep, unsettling feelings that may be hidden in the shadows or feel shameful.
Ironically, this research and work on mothering began with a foray into infertility and the heartache that a woman usually feels when she is unable to conceive. My belief that these feelings are too important to ignore, too fragile to be denied, also segued into a desire to shine a light on the desperation that many mothers feel.
Both infertility and mothering, in their own way, provoke a sense of failure or lacking, a yearning, and many negative feelings that go unspoken. Both hold an element of taboo. That’s the fascination for me: the jumbling, contradictory flow of life.
This raises another matter, which is that this is not a book about whether or not to have children, despite the fact that maternal ambiva-
lence is sometimes understood in these terms.
To this point, I strongly believe that most women who decide not to have a child do not come to their decision lightly; more often than not, it arrives after a great deal of soul-searching. These women merit exactly the same respect as those who decide that they wish to rear a child; they don’t justify derision or voicelessness.
Across all cultures in this world, there is a universal truth, which is that motherhood defines womanhood in some way, whether we have children or not. We are judged for the ways in which we raise our children and judged when we choose not to raise them.
Men and fathers, too, experience the conflict of parenthood and that dialogue, and while much different than it was even a halfcentury ago, it still has much progress to make. My focus in this book, however, is the intersection of womanhood and motherhood—the relationship that springs into being after birth and exists long after a child has left the nest.
Every mother has her moments when troubling feelings, including those of desperation, anger, loneliness, exhaustion, and
despair, surface despite attempts to keep them down where she thinks that they belong. I think these moments have been disregarded or cloaked in denial.
It’s time to air and name them, and in doing so, redefine the image of a mother as either a demon or an angel into one where she is an ordinary human being—one who, despite
having these feelings, does still love her child deeply and, in fact, within these troubling feelings, discovers that her love is strengthened and fueled in the soundest way possible because these feelings are genuine and real.
Ambivalence is the human capacity to acknowledge, own, and engage with many contradictory feelings, without dismissing the difficult ones. An indication of a healthy mindset is an acceptance that this dynamic is part of life, that challenges will crop up from time to time, and that the individual is prepared to work with them and not to dismiss or repress any of them. While the idea of ambivalence certainly throws many curveballs, let’s welcome it: it’s the unsung hero(ine) of mothering.
Margo Lowy, PhD, is a psychotherapist specializing in mothering. She is the author of MATERNAL AMBIVALENCE: The Loving Moments & Bitter Truths of Motherhood (Post Hill Press) and holds a doctorate from the University of New South Wales in Sydney, Australia, where she researched maternal ambivalence. She is the mother of three children and lives with her husband in New York City.
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Postpartum Depression or Just the Baby Blues?
How to determine the difference between hormones and something more serious — and when to ask for help
By Ashley Ziegler
Welcoming a new baby into your life comes with expected emotional ups and downs. Suddenly, you’re responsible for a tiny human who can’t even hold its head up yet – this kind of responsibility is overwhelming, to say the least. Toss in the dramatic hormone fluctuations that come naturally after giving birth, plus the physical toll of recovery, and it’s a wonder how a new parent wouldn’t feel a little out of control.
Still, as normal as it is to feel a mix of highs and lows in the first few weeks after having a baby, often known as the “baby blues,” it’s essential to stay alert and monitor what you’re feeling, as you may be experiencing postpartum depression (PPD).
To help make the distinction between the baby blues and PPD, we spoke with Janel Coleman, LMSW, a doula and licensed psychotherapist at Madison Square Psychotherapy in Manhattan, and Jessica Vernon, MD, FACOG, PMH-C, an OBGYN, author, and clinical director at Oula in Manhattan. Here’s what they had to say.
What’s the Difference Between Baby Blues and Postpartum Depression?
Around 85% of birthing parents experience symptoms of baby blues, while around 12.5% are diagnosed with PPD. Given how common the baby blues are, it’s no wonder why signs of depression are so easily overlooked. In fact, the symptoms of each are incredibly similar.
According to Coleman, symptoms of baby blues can include feelings of anxiety, sadness, tearfulness, difficulty concentrating, irritability, and difficulty sleeping (even when baby is sleeping). These are all also signs of PPD, but according to Dr. Vernon, the difference is in the onset, duration, and severity of these symptoms.
Baby blues
“Baby blues are a common and temporary emotional experience during the postpartum
period … they typically occur within the first two weeks after the baby is born,” explains Coleman. Dr. Vernon describes the symptoms more as mood swings. “You may be laughing one minute and crying the next, often not even knowing why you are crying, then just as quickly changing again to a happier state,” she says. Dr. Vernon explains that these dramatic mood changes can be attributed to “rapid hormonal shifts that occur after the baby is born” and typically level out within the first two weeks after delivery.
In addition to being short-lived, baby blue symptoms are less intense than PPD symptoms. Dr. Vernon says, “The lows are not severe or persistent – you can easily ‘snap out of it.’” Also, while they can certainly feel overwhelming in the moment, Coleman notes that baby blues symptoms typically aren’t severe enough to interfere with a new parent’s ability to care for their baby or themselves.
Postpartum depression
Just like the baby blues, symptoms of PPD can show up within the first two weeks of the postpartum period, but they won’t fizzle out. Both Dr. Vernon and Coleman stress that symptoms lasting longer than those first two weeks after baby arrives indicate it’s more than baby blues.
Not only do the symptoms last longer, but they’re also more intense with PPD. Coleman explains that these symptoms can become so severe that they can interfere with a parent’s ability to meet the needs of their baby. In some cases, the parent is able to care for the baby, but they stop taking care of themselves — they may stop eating or drinking, skip basic hygiene tasks for days on end, withdraw from family and friends, or not get enough sleep (beyond the typical parents-of-newborn sleep deprivation).
Symptoms that PPD shares with the baby blues but will be more severe include:
• Anxiety
• Irritability
• Feelings of sadness
• Difficulty concentrating
• Tearfulness
• Difficulty sleeping
Additional symptoms Coleman says to look for include:
• Feelings of hopelessness
• Difficulty bonding with baby
• Lack of interest in pleasurable activities
• Withdrawing from family and friends
• Doubts or fears about their ability to be a good parent
• Thoughts of harming themselves or baby
Postpartum Depression Treatment Options
In New York, the birthing parent’s health care provider screens them for postpartum depression (or postpartum mood disorders,
in general) during follow-up visits. However, these visits are usually not scheduled until several weeks after delivery. In 2023, the state passed legislation requiring pediatricians to perform maternal mental health screenings during baby well-visits, which occur within days of being released from the hospital.
Early identification, diagnosis, and treatment of PPD are essential for effective maternal mental health care. As part of the state’s effort to prioritize this, the Department of Health and the Office of Mental Health developed official guidance and standards for maternal depression screening and referrals, and insurers are required to cover screenings and treatment without prior authorization.
Once someone has been diagnosed with PPD, Dr. Vernon says their treatment plan will depend on how severe their symptoms
are and what the patient wants. “[Treatment] is often a personal decision made with your care team,” she notes.
When a patient comes to her with PPD, Dr. Vernon says she checks to ensure they are not anemic, that their thyroid functions are normal, and that their vitamin D levels are optimized. “All of these things can contribute to symptoms of PPD,” she explains, and she will ensure the patient’s treatment plan also addresses these factors when appropriate.
Beyond these tests, Dr. Vernon says PPD treatment options can include a combination of psychotherapy, psychopharmacology (medication), peer support groups, and well-being practices (meditation, exercise, acupuncture, outdoor time, etc.).
Dr. Vernon also highlights the importance of sleep for those who are experiencing
postpartum depression. “One of the first recommendations mental health providers always give is to utilize your support system or bring in extra support so that you can get more sleep.” In cases where PPD interferes with the ability to sleep, a breastfeeding-safe sleep aid may be recommended.
Other Postpartum Mood Disorders
Postpartum depression is one of the more well-known postpartum mood disorders, but there are several others a new parent may also experience. Possible diagnoses include:
• Postpartum Anxiety
• Postpartum OCD
• Postpartum Panic Disorder
• Postpartum Bipolar Disorder
• Postpartum Post Traumatic Stress Disorder
• Postpartum Psychosis
Coleman emphasizes that those who were diagnosed with mental health disorders prior to pregnancy or during pregnancy are 30% more likely to experience a postpartum mental health disorder.
It’s also worth noting that new parents can be diagnosed with more than one postpartum mood disorder at once. “You may experience one or many of these [mental health disorders], and seeing a provider trained in diagnosing them can be critical in understanding exactly what you are experiencing and what may best help you feel better,” says Dr. Vernon.
If you suspect you’re experiencing symptoms of postpartum depression or any other postpartum mood disorder, it’s essential to reach out to your provider for help. Your feelings are valid and shouldn’t be dismissed as “just hormones.” With the right treatment and care team, you can (and will) start feeling better.
Experts:
Janel Coleman, LMSW, is a trained fullspectrum doula and a licensed psychotherapist at Madison Square Psychotherapy in New York City. Her focus areas include providing support during the trying-to-conceive, prenatal, and postpartum periods.
Jessica Vernon, MD, FACOG, PMH-C , is an OB-GYN and clinical director at Oula. She’s also an advocate for perinatal mental health, as well as author of the book Then Comes Baby: An Honest Conversation About Birth, Postpartum, and the Complex Transition to Parenthood.
Six Gifts Mom Really Wants for Mother’s Day
By Jana Beauchamp
Book Drop is a must-have, monthly surprise book subscription for the bookworm mom. Powered by an independent bookstore, curated subscriptions are categorized by genre, so you can be sure Mom will enjoy any book she receives. Subscription genres include Books for Tea, the only designated historical fiction monthly mailing of any subscription box. If that’s not her cup of tea, try Books for Coffee, featuring mysteries and thrillers. Books for Lemonade, a quarterly beach read subscription, will be available just in time for Mother’s Day. Starting at $27 per month, thebookdrop.com
Maison Miru’s Falling Star Nap Earrings are a thoughtful gift for any stylish, busy mom. These unique earrings feature a delicate gold chain adorned with pavé crystals. They are crafted from hypoallergenic, medical-grade titanium and designed for 24/7 wear with a flat back that ensures comfort. Available in gold or silver finishes, these earrings are chic with a little edge and will add to the fashion-forward mom’s jewelry collection. $140, maisonmiru.com
The Owala Spring Revival collection is perfect for moms to stay refreshed and hydrated this Mother’s Day. The special-edition spring colorway is available for all the musthave Owala bottles, including the new Owala FreeSip Sway. These “all sip, no drip” bottles are leak-proof, easy to sip, and insulated to keep drinks hot or cold for hours. Plus, they’re made from stainless steel and are BPA, lead, and phthalate-free. $35, owalalife.com
Give Mom a gift that keeps on giving with a flexible floral subscription from UrbanStems . Offering fresh, curated arrangements weekly, biweekly, or monthly, you can choose from classic, seasonal, or luxe bouquets for all tastes and occasions. Subscriptions include free shipping and flexible scheduling, and premium, sustainable floral arrangements starting at $60, urbanstems.com
TAJA Collection’s 2025 Mother’s Day lineup features a range of customizable candles designed to honor moms with both sentiment and style. Each candle is hand-poured in Miami using 100% soy wax and phthalatefree fragrances, ensuring a clean burn. The “Best Mom Ever” candle is a classic favorite—bold, heartfelt, and always appreciated. Other notable options include the “Loquet” candle, which allows for a personal photo upload within a heart design, and the playful “Five Star Mom” candle, celebrating moms with a glowing review. $98, tajacollection.com
For a mom who needs a chic, practical way to carry the motherload, the Longchamp Cabas Tote Bag from the new summer collection is the perfect gift. Crafted from recycled canvas with signature leather accents, this lightweight, spacious tote features a timeless, minimalist silhouette in a vibrant hue. It has ample interior space and pockets to keep essentials organized, which is ideal for moms on the go. $325, longchamp.com
The Ultimate Guide to Pick Your Own Farms
Why families love this seasonal activity, and the best time to go
BY ALEXA LUTTER
Nowadays, farms are so much more than red barns, milking cows, fresh eggs, and Old McDonald’s. Farm visits have become a popular outdoor family excursion. Not only do farm trips teach us about agriculture and where our food comes from, but they also get our families off their devices and out of the house and take us to a different scenery. Farms also allow fun and interactive experiences, like picking your produce. As an added bonus, they provide the perfect backdrop for a family photoshoot.
We are sharing tips and helpful information you will need to prepare for your next trip to the farm!
Why Pick Your Own?
Sensational Scenery
The scenery at these farms and fields can be
breathtaking. They serve as fantastic photo ops for the whole family and are Instagramand holiday-card-worthy all year round. So make sure your phone is fully charged and set in the right mode for all the beautiful photos you are going to take.
Health Benefits
There is nothing like smelling fresh lavender, biting into a crisp strawberry, or plucking the perfect apple off a tree. Picking your own produce has both mental and physical health benefits. Getting outdoors has been proven to boost your vitamin D levels and reduce feelings of stress. Visiting farms allows you and your family to stimulate all five senses. It could make even your picky eater try something new! Having fresh produce at home promotes healthy eating and may even entice your picky eater to try something new. Whether you are buying produce or not,
the environment lends itself to a new kind of outdoor experience, so breathe in the fresh air and enjoy your surroundings! Most farms provide rich knowledge about agriculture, as it is both interesting and beneficial to know where your food is coming from.
Environmental Benefits
Visiting a farm is a great way to support small businesses and local farmers, which in turn helps stimulate the local economy. This support promotes sustainability and ecological preservation. You can further support the environment by carpooling to farms with friends to reduce fossil fuels!
Taste the Difference
One of the best benefits of picking your own produce is stocking your fridge and pantry with all the yummy fresh fruits and veggies! Once you bring all the produce home, the possibilities are endless. You can create your own jams, jellies, pies, and more. Check out recipes to make after pumpkin picking and apple picking.
If you’re not the recipe-following type, no worries! Most of these farms feature a market where you can purchase seasonal farm fresh fruits and vegetables grown onsite. They carry high-quality homemade ciders, coffees, teas, maple syrups, honey, jams, yogurts,
Westchester Skating Academy
The coolest place to be this summer, catering to beginner skaters, through advanced Hockey Players and Competitive Figure Skaters!
Camp Chillin is perfect for children ages 3 – 11 looking for the fun and excitement of a traditional camp, plus learning to skate.
Figure Skating Camp From beginner skaters to accomplished competitors, campers will participate in improve their skills, strengthen their skating and become the best skater they can be.
Hockey Camp has professional coaches that guide campers with their top-level instruction featuring comprehensive skill development.
All camps are available in full-day and half-day formats.
Register by Thursday, May 29th, 2025 and receive $75
House of Sports
Give your child a summer to remember at House of climate-controlled facility all summer long in 2025.
WEEKLY SUMMER CAMPS
Includes Basketball, Volleyball, Girl’s Lacrosse, Boy’s Lacrosse, Soccer, and a NEW Camp Club House.
Camp Club House is geared for boys and girls ages fun activities and daily specials.
Register by Wednesday, May 28th, 2025 and receive per full week registration.
cheeses, and more. The options are endless! Find a farm with a bakery, and you hit the jackpot! If you have never had a hot, fresh apple cider donut, you have no idea what you are missing! Stock up on your favorite pies to share with your families, a popular holiday option.
Strawberries
There is nothing like a fresh, sweet, and slightly tangy strawberry. They’re popular with kids in their natural form, but the possibilities for family-friendly recipes are endless. Some favorites include strawberry jams, yogurt, and pancakes.
Parents, are you looking for a real treat? Homemade strawberry daiquiris make the perfect summer cocktail. Cheers!
When to go? May and early June
How much? $5.50 to $8.00 per pound
Picking tips : When picking the perfect strawberries, look for vibrant red and fully shaped strawberries. Strawberries do not ripen after being picked, so you want to grab the ripest ones immediately. When picking your strawberries, grip the stem above the strawberry, twist, and pull. Be careful when storing strawberries in containers so as not to overcrowd the container, which may cause strawberries to bruise or become mushy. When you go home, refrain from washing the strawberries until ready to use them; washing immediately increases the chances of spoiling faster.
Peaches
Peaches have a bright and sweet flavor with notes of tartness. They have been called a superfood and contain excellent sources of vitamins A and C. They are versatile; keep it simple with sliced peaches and cream, or whip up a decadent peach cobbler.
When to go? Late July through September.
How much? Approximately $3.00 per pound
Picking tips: When picking the perfect peach, there are many things to keep an eye out for. First, you want to examine the peaches’ skin to see if there is any green on it. If there is, the peach is not ready to be picked. Additionally, use your sense of smell! Ripe and ready peaches will give off a sweet aroma; when there is no aroma, the peach needs more time to ripen. Finally, make sure the fruit is not too firm and easy to retrieve from the tree. When bringing peaches home, store them in the refrigerator to slow down the process of ripening. For long-term
storage, you can freeze them in an airtight plastic bag.
Sunflowers
Sunflowers are commonly associated with summer. They add a pop of color to any space, whether it is your backyard, kitchen, or living room. Sunflowers can be displayed and used for crafts, composting, and more. Sunflower fields open the door for Instagram-worthy pictures. There are usually many fun activities for families, such as mazes and bouquet-making.
When to go? M id-summer
How much? Approximately $2.00 a flower
Picking Tips: Some sunflower farms or fields let you pick your own sunflowers, while others sell them. You are usually allowed to enter the fields for photos either way, but check the farm’s policy first.
Apples
Nothing says fall like a nice crisp apple plucked straight from a tree. Apples are one of the most diverse fruits and are used in many different delicious ways. Cider, pie, tarts, juice, and more are all delicious options – not to mention biting into one the old-fashioned way. There are many apple varieties, so choose a farm growing your favorite kind. Or try them all!
When to go? Late August until mid-tolate October.
How much? Apple prices vary by variety and are typically sold by the pound.
Picking tips: There are many things to look out for when choosing apples. You want to ensure the apples you pick are free from any blemishes or bruises. Apples should be firm to the touch and not mushy. Another helpful tip is to look for apples with stems intact, as the stem keeps the apple good for longer. Be mindful when you pick the apple to keep the stem intact.
Pumpkins
Pumpkin picking is a fall staple and perhaps the most popular fall outdoor activity for families. After everone chooses their favorite pumpkin, many families follow the treasured tradition of carving them. Kids love the joy of picking their own pumpkin to turn into a unique Jack-o’-lantern and displaying it proudly outside during Halloween. Grab a few extra pumpkins to create delicious recipes such as pumpkin pie, bread, muffins and more. Pumpkins are a healthy food that provides calcium, potassium, and magnesium. Don’t forget to roast the seeds!
When to go? September through late October.
How much? Prices vary greatly depending on size, but they average around $5.50 each.
Picking tips: Color is everything when it comes to the perfect pumpkin. You want to pick a deep orange pumpkin with no blemishes or bruising. If you are looking for a pumpkin to carve, look for one that will have enough room for your design and a smooth outer shell. When bringing home your pumpkin, you definitely want to clean it. Pumpkins can be prone to bacteria, which could result in decay.
Christmas Trees
Christmas tree farms allow you to observe these gorgeous trees in their natural habitat and take them to your home to decorate. Picking your own tree creates a special memory within the family for the holidays. Not to mention, having a real Christmas tree will hit you with joy the second you open your front door, thanks to its unmistakable aroma. Most Christmas tree farms also sell wreaths, garlands, and more. As an added treat for the kids, many tree farms offer a visit and photo opportunity with Santa! When to go? Late November through December
How much? Though they vary, on average, trees cost about $85.
Picking tips: Bundle up! It will most likely be very chilly, and you want your family to be as comfy as possible. Always feel free to ask farm workers questions to find your perfect tree. Your tree should be a healthy green color and the size of your liking. Christmas trees can be large, so measure ahead and ensure you have space in your vehicle to transport them home.
Additionally, look for branches with space to hold all your decorations and ornaments; flimsy branches will result in falling “needles.” When you get home, you will need fresh water to keep your tree well-hydrated. The amount of water you need depends on your tree and trunk size.
Visiting pick-your-own farms offers a delightful way for families to connect with nature while enjoying fresh produce together. These experiences not only enrich our understanding of where our food comes from but also provide lasting memories amidst stunning landscapes. So, gather your loved ones, plan your next farm adventure, and savor the joys of picking your own fruits and vegetables this season!
Smart Tips for Parents of TeenS
By Serena norr
One thing they never warn you about before having a baby is that eventually, babies grow up into teenagers. Much like parenting a baby, parenting teens can be equally challenging and amazing. As your kids are growing up, they are navigating a new terrain with extended responsibilities, questions about life, and simply finding their way. In some instances, teens might rebel, act out, or shut down. Others might be dealing with mental health issues, or simply feel overwhelmed by the many things they have on their plates. As parents, it’s important to be there for them and allow them to explore and find themselves. So, we are sharing some tips on how to navigate the teen years.
Keep the communication open and be a good listener
Teens, in general, are sometimes known to shut down. This can include closing you off from the conversations and/or giving you limitedto-no responses. Try not to take this personally as teens are also figuring out who they are as well as what they believe in. Establish an open dialogue with them so they know that they can go to you. It’s important not to stress out or force conversations, but rather be open to their journey and listen. Teens need parents to listen as a way to feel understood, which can help to forge a closer connection. Sometimes this might even involve walking away from a conversation or revisiting it if anger comes into play.
Let them explore and encourage them
Teens, unlike younger kids, are figuring out their interests and/or what they enjoy doing. Give them the space to figure out their interests/passions as well as support their journey, even if you might noy completely understand it. It is important for them to feel your support and know you are there for them.
Provide guidance and give clear guidelines
You want your teen to know what is accept-
able about where they are going and/or who they are hanging out with. This is a good time to discuss values,making good choices, and any challenges that might arise. Make sure they understand the consequences of not following the guidelines, which could be anything from breaking curfew to drinking to being grounded.
Respect their values
Your teen might not have the same values and views as you. Show them that you respect what is important to them and ask them to explain why it is important to them if you are conflicted. Showing that you care about them and respect them will go a long way as you address your concerns while still supporting them.
Spend
time together
Despite what they might think, your teen is still a child who needs you differently now. Show them that you care and you’re interested in them by doing things together. This could be you enjoying something that they love or involving them in one of your favorite activities. Be consistent and make it a point to show up for them, focusing on activities without the clutch of devices or technology. Try yoga, hiking, or even simply enjoying a meal together.
Share your experiences
Even though they might not say it, they look up to you. Share your lived experiences, including some hard life lessons you had to learn at their age. They will appreciate – and
maybe even be shocked – by how human you are.
Be a role model
Your teens are watching. Model traits that you would want them to embody such as kindness, thoughtfulness, curiosity, confidence, patience, and more. It is also important for them to see you being passionate about what you do. This can also include your volunteer work and how you show up in the family. Even if they might not be expressing these traits now, they are absorbing everything.
Make sure teens get enough sleep
Teens may think they can operate on little sleep, but as we know sleep is vital for everyone to function and be in a better mood. Set realistic goals around bedtime, including an electronic curfew or no screens after a certain amount of time. Also, make sure they get up at a decent time on the weekend.
Reach out for support
While you can do all of the “right” things, there’s still a level of complexity when it comes to parenting teens. Know that this is all part of their journey and will take time for them to find their way. Find local parenting support groups – with a focus on teen parenting as well as teen specific issues to communicate your struggles with others in a similar situation.
In NYC, check out Parenting Teens in NYC, NYC Parents with Disabilities, and Raising Teenage Girls Is HARD! Parenting Teens Support Group by Teen Thrive on Facebook.
Check in your teens mental health
We are in a mental health epidemic. According to the Center for Disease Control, “more than 4 in 10 (42%) students felt persistently sad or hopeless and nearly one-third (29%) experienced poor mental health.” This problem is continuing to heighten with common pressures, social media, and issues at home and school.
Check in with your teen to see how they are doing. Some ways to monitor this might be assessing their energy levels, digestion issues, headaches, increased anxiety, anger, eating issues, memory problems, and more. If you are concerned, contact your local doctor or find a support group or therapist, and be present for them.
Summer Camp & Your Child’s Mental Health
The many cognitive advantages of sending your kids to camp
By Jeannine Cintron
When you think of summer camp, images of children playing sports, completing arts and crafts projects and splashing in pools come to mind. Those activities make for a very exciting summer, but camp is also a place where lifelong friendships are made and where a child can truly grow as a person during a crucial point in their young lives.
Summer camp offers children the opportunity to focus instead of on their academic success but on their own personal identity and independence. With the school books put away, camp gives kids the freedom to work on themselves. We spoke with Alicia Skovera, Executive Director of the American Camp Association of New York and New Jersey to learn how and why summer camp is
so important to a child’s mental health and internal development.
Does camp help kids who have trouble making friends or experience social anxiety?
Many children struggle with anxiety about going to camp, especially if it’s their first time. Children often feel more at ease when their feelings are normalized. Parents should explain to children that some of their peers may be feeling the same way but express it differently.
I encourage parents to allow their children to be separated from their friends when attending camp. Camp tends to be a place where children get to be themselves and try on different parts of their personality, which can be easier when they do not know anyone to start. There’s an old adage at camps
that your camp friends become your best friends and your lifelong friends!
What advice would you give to kids who are nervous or hesitant to start camp?
Choosing the right camp for you is a crucial place to start. There are camps for everyone and it’s important to choose one that you are excited about and has the activities you are looking for. Set up a meeting to talk with the director before camp starts and take a tour of the property. Take the time to ask all of your questions before attending, especially about anything that worries you. See if the camp can introduce you to who your counselor is going to be ahead of the summer so you already know them on your first day.
How do you think attending camp affects a child’s mental health in the short term and in the long term?
Camp allows children to discover who they are and find out what they are good at. They get to try new things, meet new people, and overcome everyday challenges that help build self esteem and self-efficacy. This skill building helps to build confidence to try new things, which has a positive impact over a child’s mental health both in the short and long term.
Research has shown there is a direct correla-
tion between the time one spends in nature and the release of the stress hormone cortisol. The more time children spend outdoors and in the natural world, the less stress they tend to feel. We also know that children who play outdoors are more likely to help protect nature as an adult.
Which camp activities have the best effects on a child’s mental and emotional health?
There is no one activity that gives the best effect for a child’s mental and emotional health. Incorporating choice in activities allows children to follow their own interests and to have ownership in the activity. Some activities have inherently more challenges than others, like the ropes course or swimming, but it is important to positively encourage a child to try something new and not to force them to try it. Again, we know that spending time and/ or learning outdoors has a huge impact on a child’s stress levels and how they feel about the natural world when they become adults.
How can parents ensure they are choosing a camp that will benefit their child’s mental health?
“Camp allows children to discover who they are and find out what they are good at. They get to try new things, meet new people, and overcome everyday challenges that help build self esteem and self-efficacy.”
The AmericanCamp Academy encourages all parents to choose regulated camps that are ACA accredited. Accreditation and oversight from a regulatory body, like the Department of Health, are the best indicators that a camp will be physically and emotionally safe for every child. In addition, talk to your child about what they are feeling and what is most important to them. Get to know the camp nurse as well. Find out what the camp’s plan is for when a child needs help.
What can parents do to encourage the mental and emotional growth of their child at summer camp?
This may sound counterintuitive, but leave your children alone! Allow them to gain their independence without you. Write encouraging
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letters to your child and let them know that it’s okay to make mistakes and that you believe in them. Do not include any information about home that would be perceived as stressful or that would have the child feel like they were “missing out” on something going on at home. When your child is talking to you about what happened at camp, ask questions about their day and when there is something they feel like they could have done better. Ask them what they could have done differently instead of telling them (this especially works for older children). Lastly, call the camp to check in about how your child is doing. Try not to demand to speak to the child on your terms or according to your schedule since often they will be pulled from an activity they enjoy and they rarely want to stop what they are doing.
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Meet the Pizza Party of Your Dreams
Crazy Pizza NYC brings unforgettable energy, entertainment, and over-the-top deliciousness
By Jana Beauchamp
Crazy Pizza New York City is a truly immersive dining destination that beautifully blends crazy-good pizza with excitement and entertainment from start to finish. Kids of all ages will declare it the best pizza party ever. Located in the heart of SoHo, this NYC outpost offers festive fun, featuring its signature chef-spinning pizza show. From the gourmet, ultra-thin crust pizzas to the lively atmosphere filled with music, sparklers and glitterati, you’re sure to have a good time. By the end of the meal, your entire family will be swinging their napkins and dancing in their seats while savoring the Crazy Pizza experience. Bring your crew to indulge in the Italian fare and soak in the electric ambiance.
Once the ABBA music kicks in and the pizza-shaped disco ball starts spinning, the restaurant goes wild.
The theatrical dough-spinning pizza show unlocks a new world of fun – you will be mesmerized when the pizza “soars and spins” to the ceiling and lands gracefully, spinning right above your head.
Crazy Pizza also hosts a special familyfriendly Sunday Funday brunch weekly from noon to 4 pm, including a balloon animal artist, a face painter, and the festive, vibrant energy Crazy Pizza is typically known for.
The menu is a masterful blend of Italian culinary tradition with a modern twist. Crazy Pizza’s signature dough is sourced from a mill in Puglia, Italy, and topped with premium ingredients like fresh mozzarella and imported tomatoes. Some fan-favorite
dishes include the brunch Bismarck pizza and dinner options like the burrata and tartufo pizzas. Kids will love the Margherita pizza and spaghetti al pomodoro. Everyone will want to make sure to save room for dessert. The kids will swoon for the Crazy Pizza alla Nutella, and no one will be able to resist the tableside Crazy Tiramisu prepared with gusto.
Crazy Pizza is more than a pizzeria—it’s a vibe. Families can expect an epic dining experience with napkin-waving moments and plenty of photo ops. You might even go viral after treating your kids to a special family meal under the pizza-disco ball and spinning pizza dough.
Crazy Pizza is located at 218 Lafayette Street in Manhattan.
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Palisades Mall Carnival
WHEN: May 1-11, Weekdays, 5 – 10 pm, Saturdays and Sundays, 3 – 10 pm
WHERE: Palisades Center, 1000 Palisades Center Dr., West Nyack
AGES: All
WHAT: Head to the carnival for thrilling rides, exciting games, and your favorite festival treats!
WANT TO GO?: $5 admission; tickets required for rides. campys.com
Suffern Street Fair
WHEN: Sunday, May 4, 10 am – 5 pm
WHERE: Lafayette Ave., Suffern
AGES: All
WHAT: Enjoy a day of live music, food & craft vendors, an exciting kids zone, face painting, karaoke, and more!
WANT TO GO?: Free. suffernchamber.org/street-fairs
Star Wars Event-May the 4th Be With You!
WHEN: Sunday, May 4, 1:30 –2:30 pm
WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Branch, 10 West Ramapo Rd., Garnerville
AGES: 5 – 12
WHAT: Use the force to take part in outer-galactic games and crafts, and create your own Jedi Lightsaber!
WANT TO GO?: Free. 845-7863800, haverstrawlibrary.org
Mother’s Day Craft/ Storytime
WHEN: Wednesday, May 7, 4:30 – 5:15 pm
WHERE: Nyack Library, 59 South Broadway, Nyack
AGES: 2 – 5
WHAT: Listen to stories about awesome moms and make
something special for yours!
WANT TO GO?: Free. 845-3583370, nyacklibrary.org
Opening Day
WHEN: Thursday, May 8, 7 pm
WHERE: Clover Stadium, 1 Palisades Credit Union Park Dr., Pomona
AGES: All
WHAT: Cheer for the Boulders in their season opener against the Lake Erie Crushers then stay for postgame fireworks!
WANT TO GO?: Tickets start at $12. nyboulders.com
Bug Safari
WHEN: Saturday, May 10, 10 –
11:30 am
WHERE: Hudson Highlands Nature Center Outdoor Discovery Campus, 120 Muser Drive, Cornwall
AGES: All
WHAT: Catch bugs with a process known as “Sweep Netting,” make observations and classify what you find, sketch and label your favorite, and then release them back to the wild.
WANT TO GO?: $16; $14 ages 3-12. 845-534–5506, hhnaturecenter.org
Matty Roxx in Concert
WHEN: Sunday, May 11, 2 – 2:45 pm
WHERE: Nanuet Public Library,
149 Church St., Nanuet
AGES: 8 and under
WHAT: Rock out with Matty Roxx with fun songs that will have everyone dancing! Advanced registration required.
WANT TO GO?: Free. 845-623–4281, nanuetpubliclibrary.org
Garner Arts Festival
WHEN: Saturday, May 17, 12 – 6 pm.
WHERE: GARNER Arts Center, 55 West Railroad Ave. Garnerville
AGES: All
WHAT: Immerse yourself in a day of art where you can explore art studios, see live performances, participate in
Catch Pete the Car at Mayo Performing Arts Center in Morristown on May 4.
creative workshops, and more.
WANT TO GO?: $10; free for children younger than 11. garnerartscenter.org
Nyack Famous Street Fair
WHEN: May 18, 10 am – 5 pm
WHERE: Downtown Nyack, 100 Main St., Nyack
AGES: All
WHAT: Explore downtown Nyack while shopping from over three hundred vendors and indulging in a variety of food and drinks.
WANT TO GO?: Free. 201-4105416, pjspromotions.com
Fiber Craft Studio Sheep and Wool Festival 2025
WHEN: May 18, 10 am – 4 pm
WHERE: Fiber Craft Studio, 275 Hungry Hollow Rd., Chestnut Ridge
AGES: All
WHAT: This family-centered event features child-friendly craft activities, a petting zoo, live music, local craft vendors, and delicious food.
WANT TO GO?: Free admission. fibercraftstudio.org
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Elmwood Park’s Spring Festival
WHEN: Saturday, May 3, 11 am – 5 pm
WHERE: Held along Market St., Elmwood Park
AGES: 3 and up
WHAT: Enjoy live entertainment, karate demonstrations, a kiddie zone, great festival foods and food trucks, and so much more.
WANT TO GO?: Free Admission. 201-998-1144, jcpromotions.info
Springfest Fair, Arts, Crafts, Gifts & Antique Corner
WHEN: Sunday, May 4, 10 am – 5 pm
WHERE: Veterans Park Westwood, Broadway & 3rd Ave., Westwood
AGES: All
WHAT: Shop from 125 exhibitors, enjoy tasty festival foods, and more.
WANT TO GO?: Free admission. 201-410-5416, pjspromotions.com
Pete the Cat
WHEN: Sunday, May 4, 1:30 pm
WHERE: Mayo Performing Arts Center, 100 South St., Morristown AGES: All
WHAT: Your favorite groovy comes alive on stage with a musical adventure that will have the whole audience dancing!
WANT TO GO?: $26-$36. 973539-8008, mayoarts.org
Maywood’s Chow Down Food Truck Fest & Vendor Pop-Up
WHEN: Saturday, May 10, 12 – 7 pm
WHERE: Myron Parking Lot, 205 Maywood Ave., Maywood AGES: 3 and up
WHAT: Check out a variety of the best food trucks from the New Jersey area, enjoy live music, a kids zone, and more.
WANT TO GO?: Free Admission. 201-998–1144,
jcpromotions.info
Mother’s Day/Family Hike
WHEN: Sunday, May 11, 11 am – 1 pm
WHERE: Tenafly Nature Center, 313 Hudson Ave., Tenafly AGES: All
WHAT: Celebrate the spirit of care, connection, and nature this Mother’s Day weekend with a guided walk to explore the beauty of the forest in bloom.
WANT TO GO?: $10; $5 member. 201-568–6093, tncnj.org
Bubble Show Bonanza
WHEN: Friday, May 16, 4 pm
WHERE: Bergen Town Center, Route 4 East & Forest Ave., Paramus
AGES: All
WHAT: Watch as the bubble artist creates giant bouncy bubbles, makes bubbles inside bubbles … and you may find yourself inside a bubble too!
WANT TO GO?: Free. 201-845–4050, bergentowncenter.com
The Hermitage Museum
Vintage & Antique Fair
WHEN: Sunday, May 18, 9 am – 4 pm
WHERE: The Hermitage Museum, 335 North Franklin Tnpk., Ho-Ho-Kus AGES: All
WHAT: Shop, dine, tour the museum, enjoy live music, and more.
WANT TO GO?: $5 Admission. 201-998-1144, jcpromotions.info
Kenilworth Street Fair & Classic Car Show
WHEN: Sunday, May 18, 10 am – 4 pm
WHERE: Held along Boulevard, Hasbrouck Heights AGES: 3 and up
WHAT: Live music, great food, kiddie rides, karate demos, and a car show make this a great day out for the entire family!
WANT TO GO?: Free Admission. 201-998-1144, jcpromotions.info
Open Cockpit Days
WHEN: Saturday, May 24, 10:30 am – 4 pm
WHERE: The New Jersey Aviation Hall of Fame, 400 Fred Wehran Dr., Teterboro AGES: All
WHAT: This is your chance to play pilot and sit in the cockpit of a very rare Lockheed
Explore Hudson Highlands Nature Center’s Bug Safari on May 10.
Take a stroll through the Nyack Famous Street Fair on May 18.
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Bushmaster plane and a U.S. Coast Guard rescue helicopter!
WANT TO GO?: $20; $15 seniors 65 and older; $12 children under 12; free for children 2 and under. njahof.org
Township of Wyckoff Memorial Day Parade
WHEN: Monday, May 26, 11:30 am
WHERE: Parade begins in front of Cornerstone Church, 495 Wyckoff Ave., Wyckoff
AGES: All
WHAT: Honor the fallen at this annual parade featuring community leaders, first responders, local organizations, and children riding decorated patriotic bicycles!
WANT TO GO?: Free. wyckoffnj.gov
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May the Fourth Be With You
WHEN: Saturday and Sunday, May 3-4, 10 am – 5 pm
WHERE: Children’s Museum of Manhattan, 212 W 83rd St., Upper West Side
AGES: 8 and younger
WHAT: Celebrate Star Wars Day and create super fun artmaking projects!
WANT TO GO?: Included with admission: $14-$17. 212-7211223, cmom.org
Japan Parade and Street Fair 2025
WHEN: Saturday, May 10, 11 am – 5 pm
WHERE: Parade begins at W. 81st St. and Central Park West, Upper West Side
AGES: All
WHAT: Celebrate the friendship between the United States and Japan with floats, live performances, community organizations, local leaders, and more.
WANT TO GO?: Free. japanparadenyc.org
Backbone
WHEN: May 16-17, Friday, 7 pm; Saturday, 2 pm & 7 pm.
WHERE: Alice Tully Hall, 1941 Broadway, Upper West Side AGES: 5 and up
WHAT: Examine the various perceptions of strength, where it comes from, and how it is measured through this exciting display of circus arts.
WANT TO GO?: Suggested ticket price of $20. 212-875–5788, lincolncenter.org
SUBMERGE Marine Science Festival
WHEN: Saturday, May 17, 11 am – 3 pm
WHERE: Pier 84 Hudson River Park, 555 12th Ave., Lower Manhattan
AGES: All
WHAT: This interactive science festival invites the public to explore water topics through awesome experiments, kidapproved entertainment and much more!
WANT TO GO?: Free. hudsonriverpark.org
Dance Parade
WHEN: Saturday, May 17, 12 – 7 pm
WHERE: Parade begins at Broadway & 17th St., Union Square
AGES: All
WHAT: The annual event celebrates over 80 different styles of dance and continues
with performances in the park and free dance classes.
WANT TO GO?: Free. danceparade.org
2025 Israel Day on 5th
WHEN: Sunday, May 18, 11:30 am – 4 pm
WHERE: Israel Day on Fifth, 62nd - 74th St. on Fifth Ave.
AGES: All
WHAT: Celebrate Israel’s the history and culture at this annual parade featuring elaborate floats, live performances, marching bands, community organizations, first responders, local leaders, and more.
WANT TO GO?: Free. israeldayon5th.com
Fleet Week
WHEN: May 23-26, Friday, 7 pm; Saturday-Monday, 10 am – 6 pm
WHERE: The Intrepid Sea, Air & Space Museum, Pier 86, Hell’s Kitchen
AGES: All
WHAT: Enjoy musical performances, along with activities, and demos from the military, including the U.S. Marine Corps, U.S. Coast Guard, Office of Naval Research, and more!
WANT TO GO?: Free; additional events on The Intrepid included with admission: $28-
$38; free for children 4 and under. intrepidmuseum.org
Lullaby Project Celebration Concert
WHEN: Saturday, May 31, 3 – 4:30 pm
WHERE: Carnegie Hall, 881 7th Ave., Midtown
AGES: 2 and under
WHAT: New and expecting parents are paired with professional artists to write and sing personal lullabies for their babies, supporting maternal health, aiding childhood development, and more.
WANT TO GO?: $24. 646-4778416, carnegiehall.org
Dinosaur Safari
WHEN: Saturdays and Sundays, 10 am – 5:30 pm; Weekdays, 10 am – 5 pm through Nov. 2
WHERE: Bronx Zoo, 2300 Southern Blvd., Fordham AGES: All
WHAT: Get up close with some of the largest animals to ever walk the Earth, including more than 60 life-size animatronic dinosaurs, during this immersive walkthrough experience.
WANT TO GO?: $38.95; $28.95 ages 3-12; free for children 2 and under. bronxzoo.com
Catch Matty Roxx in Concert at Nanuet Public Library on May 11.
The Palisades Mall Carnival runs from May 1 to 11.
