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Here we are; the sprinklers and ice cream cones are giving way to brand-new backpacks (or some fabulous hand-me-downs in my family) and sharpened pencils. While much happens in September, it’s hard not to focus on Back to School because it’s a big deal. This is why we have tips on (page 8): Keeping yourself healthy as the kids return to school.
If you are searching for after-school programs or extracurricular activities, check out our guide (page 16). And while BTS is the theme in September, other fun things happen this month. Many families’ favorite is to go Apple Picking (page 24)— we have a helpful guide on all the orchards you can visit. Per
usual, we have a bountiful calendar of familyfriendly events this month as we head into Fall (page 28.)
With the kids returning to school, there is always a touch of chaos, so it makes sense why we gravitated towards this month’s cover, Alyce Chan (page 26). Her very popular Instagram @ momcomnycs usually has us in hysterics. Editor at large Cris Pearlstein chatted with Alyce on the path that led her to comedy (it’s unusual and inspirational) and making room for family and creativity.
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6 smart health tips for parents trying to keep it all together
By Donna Duarte-LaDDSchool is back in session, and along with more structured days comes the task of organizing our kids’ schedules and everything that the school year entails. Not to mention, we have our own daily lives to manage, and even with our best efforts to find balance, there are moments when we start feeling worn out. And who is guilty of this one (me, I’m the problem )? Many of us parents strive not to take sick days -reserving these days for our kids; with many parents still working remotely or hybrid, we are working when we would have taken a sick day pre-pandemic and office life. And if you have kids in the younger grades – germs, sickness, and now Covid have become the norm. In short, we need to try and stay healthy.
Whether you’re juggling a full-time job or staying home to care for the little one and manage the household, as parents, we need to prioritize our well-being and happiness. With all the responsibilities on our plates during the school year, I encourage you to be kind to yourself and seek support to stay in a positive place. Yup, it’s hard and it can feel like work, but focusing on your mental and physical health can make this year more fulfilling and positive. Here are some easy tried and true tips.
Vitamin C may not stop a fullblown head cold, but consuming it will help maintain a healthy immune system Harvard Health Publishing states, “If you want the benefits of vitamin C, you’ll need to consume it every day, and not just at the start of cold symptoms.”
Some of us may have vitamin C packs in our bags for when in a pinch. But other ways to get vitamin C in your diet are orange juice, tomatoes, winter squash, and green pepper, to name a few.
Every year our children’s schools require students to get a flu shot, yet we, as parents, should also consider this shot. I have mom friends who believe in the flu shot and get the shot once the school year starts while other friends pass.
I am pro flu shot as I have found myself to be less sick when I get it. There are times when I have had a rough year of colds and viruses, and I think what shape I would be in if I didn’t get this shot?
For more info on the flu shot, check out our article Flu Shot Facts: Common Questions About the Vaccine at New York Family.
When my youngest entered daycare a few years back, a tsunami of sickness hit me in that first year, it was brutal. To get on track health-wise – I took my doctor’s suggestions and started incorporating probiotics into my diet. Probiotic foods are simple foods that contain good bacteria.
Probiotics alone are not going to cure something like, say the flu — what they do is help you in overall health. Think of them as part of staying healthy by taking them in pill form or eating foods such as yogurt, kimchee, or kombucha.
Self-care has become a muchneeded movement, with moms sharing how they care for themselves,
especially by posting through social media. Why do we share with other moms how we care for ourselves outside of our daily lives as kids? Because it is freaking important! Spa, exercising, walking around the park, or hanging with your mom tribe benefits your mental health. This school year — make time for yourself.
If you have ever done yoga or have gotten an aromatherapy oil massage, then you know that the whiff of certain oils can calm the mind.
Since doing a tree pose or downward dog in the office is not always feasible try recycling a beauty bottle and mixing some calming oils, throw in your bag, or keep by your laptop and dabble a bit on when you need a bit of ease to your day.
Some oils to try:
Lavender: Known for its calming and soothing properties, lavender oil can help reduce stress, anxiety and promote better sleep
Chamomile: Chamomile essential oil is
excellent for relaxation, promoting sleep, and easing tension
Ylang Ylang: has a sweet and floral aroma that is believed to have aphrodisiac properties and can help reduce stress and anxiety
Bergamot: This citrus oil has uplifting and mood-balancing properties, making it helpful for managing stress and mild depression
Geranium: This oil is known for its balancing effect on hormones and can help ease symptoms related Lemon: A refreshing and uplifting oil, perfect if more oaky oils are not your thing Sidenote: Remember, essential oils are potent and should be used properly. Additionally, avoid using essential oils on babies under six months old and use them sparingly around young children.
Around 9:30 pm, my free time starts. Kids are asleep, and I can watch a silly movie and catch up on emails; it’s my time.
The problem with this is I should be sleeping. Easier said than done, as having this time to myself is gold.
But getting rest is essential, and the benefits are enormous. According to the CDC, “Getting enough sleep is not a luxury —it is something people need for good health.”
So as much as you want that free time to write your first novel or start that business, you have meant to get going, designate a night or two to do all this fun stuff, and reserve the rest of the week to catch up with muchneeded R&R.
Whether you’re juggling a full-time job or staying home to care for the little one and manage the household, as parents, we need to prioritize our well-being and happiness.
In the fall of 2022, there was a rash case of RSV infections among young children. While RSV—respiratory syncytial virus—is a common seasonal respiratory virus of the respiratory tract known to be more severe in infants and older adults- it can be especially highly contagious to children. And many kids had to be hospitalized at the time. What worried most parents, besides the fact that we had all been put through Covid, Monkeypox, and now RSV, was this was all happening at a time when kids were getting back out in the world and had not been around everyday germs and viruses. It was not surprising the numbers were high for hospitalizations in New York and positive cases were up weekly at this time. With this rise in flu and Covid cases, health experts referred to the worrying increase in infant hospitalizations as a “tripledemic.” Once again, parents with young children and the vulnerable such as immune comprised individuals and the elderly, had to continue to mask up and tread carefully outdoors or in highly populated places. While vaccines against Covid and the flu were already available by that time, no such antibody protection against RVS existed for infants.
Some of the most vulnerable to RSV are newborns to children to age 5. RSV is the single most common cause of respiratory hospitalization in infants. It is estimated that about 1 to 3 percent of children under 12 months old in the U.S. are hospitalized each year due to RSV, according to the American Academy of Pediatrics.
Now there is help. On July 18, 2023, the FDA approved Beyfortus from AstraZeneca and Sanofi, which protects infants and toddlers against the Respiratory Syncytial Virus. On August 3rd the CDC approved the shot. The CDC in a statement shared, "All infants younger than 8 months who are born during – or entering –their first RSV season should receive one dose of nirsevimab. For some children between the ages
of 8 and 19 months who are at increased risk of severe RSV disease, a dose is recommended at the start of their second RSV season."
When our babies are young, we feel vulnerable about what we give them. While treatments are a relief, we all want to understand what we give our children. Beyfortus is a monoclonal antibody treatment, meaning it works by neutralizing the virus and suppressing its ability to replicate itself. Monoclonal antibodies are a type of protein made in a lab and can bind to certain targets in the body, such as antigens.
RSV infection rates typically rise in late fall and early winter. Though the virus usually presents with mild, cold-like symptoms, the infection is often more severe in babies under 12 months. It can lead to the development of lower respiratory tract diseases such as pneumonia and bronchiolitis.
With RSV being the biggest respiratory threat
to young babies, it is understandable why this new treatment is a big deal for many parents. The new treatment is expected to be available to the public by the start of this fall RSV season. This means the school season, daycare, nursery school, and indoor excursions such as going to the movies no longer mark the same fear of an RVS uprising. Also, air travel and holiday time with extended family means less worry of a respiratory illness.
Of course, we recommend having a conversation with your pediatrician regarding your baby being given the RSV shot.
John Farley, director of the FDA’s Office of Infectious Diseases, shared in a statement. “RSV can cause serious disease in infants and some children and results in a large number of emergency department and physician office visits each year,” he also shared, “Today’s approval addresses the great need for products to help reduce the impact of RSV disease on children, families, and the health care system.”
It may be Back to School time, but choosing a school to send your child to can happen any time throughout the school year. Whether your child is moving on from daycare, elementary, middle school, or simply a better educational fit is needed, searching for one can be a complicated decision. We all worry about whether we’re making the best choices in raising our kids, and one thing most of us fret over is whether our children are getting the best education that suits their needs. In many areas in the country, traditional district public schools may be the best option for kids. But living in the New York metro area, we have an abundance of choices in addition to great public schools, including charter, independent and magnet schools.
While one school option doesn’t necessarily provide a better education than another, each type has pros and cons for every individual family. It’s up to you to determine which school
setting best suits your child’s needs. What are the differences between independent, charter, and magnet schools, and which one is best for your child? Read on to learn more about charter, independent and magnet schools.
NYC Catholic Schools prioritize both academic excellence and Catholic values. Students are immersed in an environment that promotes respect, courtesy, and service to others, which are integral to their curriculum. These schools offer a comprehensive range of subjects, including Math, Religion, English Language Arts, History, and Science. Moreover, they have embraced modern technology in the classrooms and introduced STEM programs to foster a well-rounded education.
Recent New York State Education Department Examination results confirm that Catholic Schools in the Archdiocese of New York have once again outperformed
both New York State and New York City schools regarding performance growth.
The most important thing to understand about a charter school is that it’s a public school – but with fewer regulations. Charter schools are tuition free and receive money from local, state and federal funds.
“Charter schools do not have the same oversight as public schools, but they do need to be funded at least partially by a public government. They can also seek funding elsewhere,” Mary Miele, CEO, Evolved Education Company, explained. “Charter schools can set their own curriculum, but they will be evaluated based on testing, which the public school also gives (the NYS exams in grades 3-8) and so the curriculum does involve a good amount of prep for those exams.”
According to the New York State Education Department, a significant difference between charter schools and traditional public schools is that charter schools often focus on innovative curricula, new approaches to school organization or instruction, or another feature that traditional public schools wouldn’t be able to accomplish without the flexibility given by a charter.
But charter schools need to produce
strong NYS test results in order to continue their funding, so many are more traditional in their teaching approach and teach toward those tests, Miele said.
Parents can learn more about charter schools, what a charter is and other information at nysed.gov.
Also known as private schools, independent schools are primarily funded by tuition and charitable donations as opposed to taxpayer dollars.
“Typically, independent schools do quite a bit of fundraising, and parents may be tasked with organizing some of it,” Christine Hernandez, early childhood and parenting expert, and founder of Allo Saratoga in New York State, said.
And, their curriculum is not reviewed by a public entity, Miele explained.
The admission process for private schools can vary, but it generally includes:
• Filling out an application
• Visiting the school and doing both student and parent interviews
Back to School is in the air, but remember that this is also prime time to plan for your child’s next step in their education.
Most schools are starting their tours and open houses now since enrollment periods often open up just after Labor Day, so check out your options and start marking your calendar!
• Taking an entrance exam, if applicable
• Sending in teacher recommendations and transcripts
• Writing parent and student essays, and submitting videos of the student (for the K process)
Magnet schools are NYC Department of Education (DOE) schools. They are tuition-free schools, in part federally funded by competitive Magnet Schools Assistance Program grant awards from the U.S. Department of Education. Magnet schools offer whole-school specialized
thematic programs (theme examples include art, architecture, engineering, civics, leadership, exploration, global conservation, STEM/ STEAM) which incorporate innovative curriculum and enrichment experiences designed to engage and inspire learning.
Magnet schools utilize diversified approaches to teaching which include inquiry and project-based learning with real world connections and authentic application of skills. Partnerships with colleges, universities, professional and community organizations, cultural institutions and Artists in Residency programs, provide professional development opportunities and supplement student and family experiences. The rigorous instructional foundation is supported and enhanced by instructional technology, dedicated spaces for arts and science such as maker-spaces, horticultural labs, broadcast studios, STEM/ STEAM activities, and special programs.
There is an application process for magnet schools, but there is no screening or testing involved in applying. For more information, families should contact info@magnetschools. nyc or visit magnetschools.nyc.
According to the Afterschool Alliance, kids spend more than 1,200 hours in school every year. While that may seem like a substantial amount of time, school only accounts for 20% of a child’s time. This is why after-school programs and activities are a big part of our kids’ school experience. Programs and activities are essential in fostering social and emotional growth, just as important as academic reasons. For busy parents, particularly those juggling work commitments (#iykyk), these programs provide a space where children can thrive safely and productively, extending the learning and joy beyond the regular school hours.
Read on to discover more about why after-school programs are so beneficial to kids and their families.
After-school classes allow kids to connect and meet new people outside of school. Extracurricular activities help form a community and forge a sense of belonging as they hyper-focus on one activity. This can also benefit students who struggle with making friends in school, where they can connect with a different set of peers in smaller groups.
After-school activities, like sports, encourage kids to participate in teamwork as well as offer physical activity, help with stress, may improve self-esteem, foster healthy habits, and may promote mental well-being. Kids who participate in sports may also forge longterm bonds that they participate in until the end of high school.
Many schools have limited programming within music and the arts. After-school programming allows kids to try these
programs and express themselves in a new way through acting, music, and/or learning a new artistic skill. They can also help unleash creativity, improve communication, boost confidence, and improve focus and concentration.
After-school activities are fun and offer a way for kids to do something exciting and engaging beyond their typical school day. This can be a release for students with a rigorous and intense course load and schedule.
Here in New York, we have some of the best after-school programs in the country. Participating in an after-school program allows kids to thrive in a safe and supervised environment until a parent or guardian can pick them up.
After-school programs provide a safe space during times when some kids might be unsupervised. Under an instructor’s guidance, kids develop new skills and learn from a mentor/teacher who can help kids foster new passions/interests. According to the National Conference of State Legislatures, “regular participation in an after-school program may also reduce risky behaviors and help kids gain college and career-needed skills.”
A supportive after-school program provides a well-rounded educational experience that can impact other aspects of school, such as improved concentration, reduced behavioral problems, and fostering new passions, helping lift kids’ moods and well-being.
advanced academic programs
55 Northern Blvd, Greenvale, NY, 11548
516-484-1789
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Ready to begin your advanced education journey? Advanced Academics offers highlevel education to students in grades K-12. Their students become innovators and creators of the future. Advanced Academics offers weekend and after-school classes in math, robotics, coding, physics, chemistry, biology and science. They also offer Math, Physics & Coding Competition Coaching, SAT and AP test prep, Private tutoring, College level classes and Natural abilities testing. Start your STEAM education journey today, join Advanced Academic Programs now!
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1015 Port Washington Blvd
Port Washington, NY 11050 631-201-1686
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Whether a budding rock star or an aspiring classical musician, BACH TO ROCK (B2R) has music education programs for everyone! B2R has classes and programs for all ages, all levels, and all instruments. From Pre-K to adults, they offer Private and Group Music Lessons (guitar, voice, piano, drums, violin, sax and more), Birthday Parties, Rock Bands, Music Camps, Early Childhood Classes, Recording Arts and Music Production, and NYSSMA Preparation.
b ritish Swim School
Two Locations: 111 Marcus Ave New Hyde Park NY 11042 2350 Jericho Turnpike Garden City Park, NY 11040 britishswimschool.com/ brooklyn-queens 718-576-1870
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The premier learn-to-swim provider for people of all ages, offering programs for children ages 3-months through adults. British Swim School uses gentle teaching methods and a survival-first approach to help people of all experience levels become safer, stronger swimmers. British Swim School’s safe, fun, and effective instructional program has made it the preferred choice for parents and students for over 40 years. Come see the British Swim School difference!
eglevsky b allet
700 Hicksville Road, Suite 102, Bethpage 516-746-1115 eglevskyballet.org info@eglevskyballet.org
Since 1961, Eglevsky Ballet has been at the forefront of dance and classical ballet education on Long Island. A staff of internationally recognized educators train students in an environment conducive to learning and artistic excel-
lence. Whether studying in the recreational division or in the pre-professional training program for serious students, your child will receive the best training available.
g erman-american School 212-787-7543
Kidslearngerman@aol.com
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German-American School offers an accredited after-school language program. The school has been teaching German since 1892 when it focused on children of German immigrants. Today it teaches children of all ethnicities.Students graduate with the NY State Regents (FLAC) exam. They also offer AP German.
m usic i nstitute of long i sland
90 Plandome Road, Manhasset 516-627-7052
miligirls@gmail.com milimusic.com
Long Island’s Premier Music School is celebrating their 33rd year. MILI is a classical music school staffed by
exceptional instructors from many of the most prestigious conservatories and graduate music schools in the United States and Europe. Consistently voted the best music school on Long Island and the North Shore. Programs include violin, viola, cello, guitar, piano, voice, clarinet, saxophone, trumpet, trombone, and tuba. Instruction in traditional, Suzuki, and ABRSM methods for ages 3-99, beginnercollege level.
Saf t Swim
Multiple Locations in Nassau and Suffolk, Little Neck
1-866-723-3794 saf-t-swim.com info@saf-t-swim.com
Discover excellence in water safety education with Saf-TSwim Swim School. As the premier leader, they offer swimming programs tailored for all ages – from 4 months to adult – and various skill levels. With flexible lesson scheduling, including Group, ParentTot, and Private
options, their multiple locations ensure convenience. Saf-T-Swim’s dynamic lessons provide an enjoyable learning environment where swimmers gain confidence and accomplishment while mastering new levels of proficiency and enhancing water safety. To learn more visit our site.
School of rock
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Queens – 34-43 Francis Lewis Blvd Ste 2
Rockville Centre – 197 N Long Beach Road
Roslyn, 911 Willis Avenue
Syosset/Oyster Bay – 180
Michael Drive
516-243-ROCK(7625), schoolofrock.com/stonewhite
Traditional music education approaches rarely teach students how to perform with other musicians. They focus instead on teaching music only through oneon-one lessons. The School of Rock Method™
is different. We combine one-on-one instruction with group rehearsals and live performances. This integrated approach teaches students techniques and theory while also helping them apply those skills when performing with other musicians and they get to expand their musical knowledge and interact with like-minded people.
Soccer Shots
Multiple Locations in Nassau and Suffolk.
516-558-2266, liwest@ soccershots.com
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Soccer Shots is an engaging children’s soccer program, for ages 2 to 8, with a focus on character development, learning and fun. Their caring team positively impacts kids’ lives on and off the field through best-in-class coaching, communication and curriculum. Their coaches are the besttrained in the business. Their expert-approved curriculum is age appropriate and aligns with New York State’s early
childhood education standards. Year-round programming available, open enrollment.
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Soccer Stars | Pro Soccer Kids is Long Island’s most popular youth educational soccer program! For 23 years, they have taught the FUNdamentals of soccer using positive reinforcement. Players will learn skills, physical literacy, build self-confidence, and develop teamwork in every class. Trained, certified coaches lead age-specific programs with low kid-to-coach rations for children 1-12+. Weekly classes are available 7 days-a-week at 20 locations. Private classes also available – their coaches come to you! Save $35 on Fall Programs - Promo Code: NYFALL23.
Navigating your child’s educational landscape in vibrant New York can be intricate as the offerings are plentiful. While there are public, private, charter, and many more schooling options- there are also highly regarded education instituitions such as Boarding Schools in and around New York. The compelling thing about Boarding schools is they offer a unique environment where children can thrive academically, socially, and personally. The focused educational setting and access to top-tier resources enable holistic growth and prepare children for future success. Check out these three schools that keep your child’s future at the forefront.
Bard Academy & Bard College at Simon’s Rock Great Barrington, MA 01230 413-644-4400, admit@simons-rock.edu simons-rock.edu
For an accelerated path, Bard Academy & Bard College at Simon’s Rock is the way to go. Bard Academy is the nation’s first two-year boarding and day program designed to prepare 9th and 10th graders to start college early. They basically get fast-tracked to receive a Bachelor’s degree within six years of starting Bard Academy, as opposed to the 8 years it typically takes to get through high school and college. Bard College then follows the Academy, when students are ready to start college after the 10th or 11th grade. With over 35 majors and several top rankings including #4 for Most Innovative School, #5 for Best Undergraduate Teaching by U.S. News and World Report and among the Best Regional Colleges in the Northeast by The Princeton Review, Bard College offers an education like no other.
18 Goodfriend drive, East hampton 11937 631-907-5400
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541 long Beach road, St James nY 11780 knoxschool.org
The Knox School is Long Island’s oldest established, co-educational boarding and day school. Our inclusive environment serves grades 6-12 and Post-Graduate, providing students with a broad world perspective and a wide range of skills. At Knox, each student’s potential is unlocked and maximized because of the boundless experiences a Knox education provides. We are proud of our 100% graduate and acceptance rate to top four-year universities. Whether you are an aspiring engineer or entrepreneur, artist or architect, performer or physicist, a Knox education unlocks every student’s potential and prepares them for success after high school.
Ross School’s mission is to change the way education meets the future; to foster interdisciplinary, integrated thinking and innovative leadership; to engage fully in the global community, and to facilitate lifelong learning. Ross School is a co-educational boarding (Grades 6–12) and day school (N–Grade 12) located on a beautiful campus in East Hampton, NY, approximately two hours east of New York City. Serving approximately 375 students and attracting a world-class faculty, the School offers a global, integrated curriculum with engaging courses in science, math, arts, humanities, and wellness, with opportunities for independent study, competitive athletics, extracurricular activities, and travel. The Ross educational experience aims to impart to young people a 21stcentury skill set and the inspiration that will motivate them to keep their minds actively engaged in learning. The School stresses direct personal experiences, inquiry through primary sources, and hands-on interpretation and analysis of information. Ross School has a successful college placement program, with 100% of applicants receiving acceptances at competitive colleges and universities.
Sometimes stars aren’t at peak visibility—whether it’s due to a storm or the bright New York City lights—but you can still enjoy celestial wonders at local planetariums! Gaze at the night sky even in the middle of the day at one of these locations. (Please note planetarium and observatory hours may differ from museum
hours. We recommend you call planetariums ahead prior to your visit.)
Alice and Leonard Dreyfuss
Planetarium in the Newark Museum
49 Washington St., Newark, NJ 973-596-6550
The first of planetariums built in New Jersey, the Dreyfuss offers a variety of shows, special events, and programs for families to enjoy. Visit the website for the planetarium’s schedule. Tickets are free with
general admission to museum.
Charles and Helen Reichart
Planetarium at the Vanderbilt Museum
180 Little Neck Road, Centerport, Long Island 631-854-5579
The Vanderbilt Planetarium offers seasonal shows and fun, educational programs for family. The Planetarium has diverse programming that includes fulldome films, live star talks, laser shows, concerts, and special events. Check the online schedule for details. The rooftop observatory is open every Friday night, weather permitting, where visitors can examine the night sky through the Van-
derbilt’s 16-inch Meade reflecting telescope.
Hayden Planetarium in the American Museum of Natural History
Central Park West at 79th St., Upper West Side, Manhattan
212-769-5100
The museum offers a variety of celestial programs and shows inside the planetarium. The 429-seat Space Theater, which features a custom-made Zeiss Mark IX Star Projector and a Digital Dome Projection System to display a hyperrealistic view of the planets, star clusters, nebulae, and galaxies, uses a scientifically accurate 3D map of the observable universe based on millions of astronomical observations.
Hudson River M useum Planetarium
511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers 914-963-4550
The planetarium at the Hudson River Museum has celestial shows on Saturdays and Sundays at 12:30pm, 2pm, and 3:30pm. Some shows are geared toward specific age groups; the schedule can be found on the website.
JetBlue Sky Theater Planetarium in the Cradle of Aviation Museum and Education Center
Charles Lindbergh Blvd., Garden City, Long Island
516-572-4111
Check the online schedule to see what shows are offered in the Sky Theater at the time you plan to visit this immersive, all-digital planetarium complete with with newly upgraded pure laser projectors. Prior to each show is a Your Night Sky presentation, taking viewers on a journey of the seasonal sky.
Jennifer Chalsty Planetarium at the Liberty Science Center
222 Jersey City Boulevard, Jersey City, NJ Liberty Science Center’s Jennifer Chalsty Planetarium is touted as the biggest planetarium in America. The space boasts a resolution of 88 million pixels, a lighting system that can produce over 281 trillion colors, and speakers capable of producing 30,000 watts of digital sound. Check out the 89-foot full-dome view of the night sky and distant galaxies, available as an add-on to
your general admission ticket to the center.
New Jersey State Museum’s Planetarium
205 West State Street, Trenton, NJ 609-292-6464
This planetarium is fully upgraded with an Ultra-High Resolution 8K projection system and specially designed reclining seats. Shows are offered to the public Saturday and Sunday from September-June. Weekday shows are held for school or community groups with advanced reservations. During the summer months, winter break, and spring break, weekday shows are available to the public.
Observatory and Planetarium at the Stamford Museum & Nature Center
39 Scofieldtown Road, Stamford, CT 203-322-1646
The planetarium is currently closed for public hours but available for school programs, scout groups, special events and private parties. On selected Friday nights a special series of Astronomy Nights is available for kids ages 5 and up.
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Nothing tastes better than farm fresh produce any time of year. During the fall, apple picking is a great way to get your family outside together, support local businesses and promote a healthy lifestyle.
Long Island has several farms to choose from when it comes to this beloved fall activity. Check out the list below to start planning your next outing!
Breeze Hill Farm
31215 County Road – Route 48, Peconic, NY 11958 631-876-5159
Located on the North Fork of Long Island in Peconic, Breeze Hill Farm features over 72 acres of sprawling apple orchards! Honey Crisp, Granny Smith and Fuji are only a few of the 26 varieties of apples offered here. After you’re done picking, you can enjoy some sweet treats from Breeze Hill’s farm stand, like apple cider donuts or freshly baked pies!
Wickham’s Fruit Farm
28700 Main Rd, Cutchogue, NY 11935 631-734-6441
Wickham’s Bicentennial Fruit Farm is a great place to take your family for apple picking in September and October! This farm is on a beautiful waterfront property in Cutchogue, NY. Wickham’s Fruit Farm also has gift boxes of fresh farm fresh apples, jam and honey that you can send to someone special.
Milk Pail U-Pick Farm
50 Horsemill Ln, Water Mill, NY 11976 631-537-2565
If you’re looking for a fun option near the Hamptons for apple picking, the Milk Pail U-Pick Farm is the perfect spot to check out! This farm grows dwarf apple trees, making
picking easy for all ages. In addition to having apples during the fall, pumpkin, gourds and squash are also available for picking!
Seven Ponds Orchard
65 7 Ponds Rd, Water Mill, NY 11976 631-726-8015
Seven Ponds Orchard in Water Mill is another great place to head to for u-pick apples, fresh baked goods and produce this fall! Seven Ponds Orchard offers a wide selection of apples to choose from. For more information on picking conditions as the season gets rolling, check the farm’s Facebook page for regular updates.
Lewin Farms
201 Sound Ave, Calverton, NY 11933
631-929-4327
You can pick apples and enjoy beautiful scenery when you stop by Lewin Farms in Calverton, NY! This family farm is now in its fourth generation. After you’re done picking apples, check out the annual Lewin Farms corn maze for some extra fun!
Harbes Family Farm and Orchard
715 Sound Ave, Mattituck, NY 11952
631-482-7641
Bring your family on over to Riverhead and enjoy all that Harbes Family Farm and Orchard have to offer this fall! Harbes Orchard offers over 27 different varieties of apples to choose from. In addition to apple
picking, you can also pick pumpkins, go on a hayride or navigate through a corn maze!
Hayden’s Peach Orchard
561 Hulse Landing Rd, Wading River, NY 11792 631-929-1115
Another great place for apple picking this fall is Hayden’s Peach Orchard! This farm is located on the picturesque North Shore of Long Island. To stay up to date on all things happening at the farm, I’d recommend following their Facebook page.
Hank’s Pumpkintown
240 Montauk Hwy, Water Mill, NY 11976 631-726-4667
Hank’s Pumpkintown in Water Mill offers apple picking every Saturday and Sunday! After you’re done gathering delicious apples, there’s so many other fun things for your little ones to do on the weekends, including duck races, a jump pad, a fifty foot tube slide, calf milking and so much more!
Woodside Orchards
Aquebogue, 729 Main Rd, Aquebogue, NY 11931 631-722-5770
Starting in the second week of September through the end of October, apple picking is happening at Woodside Orchards! Woodside Orchards grows 28 varieties of apples throughout the season. You can find out more about these varieties on their website.
Let me paint a picture for you: It was a beautiful Sunday morning. Not only was it not raining, but the sun was shining and it wasn’t too hot yet. I was sitting at the table on my patio drinking a cup of hot coffee. And though I was physically alone (read: no kids), virtually I was in great conversation with comedian Alyce Chan. You might know her as @momcomnyc, where her Reels about motherhood and parenting young children are comedy gold. Alyce was telling me about the round about path that led her to comedy, how she carves out moments for her creative work, and why her weirdness is her superpower. As a mom of two (including a newborn) the fact that I was enjoying a hot cup of coffee on a sunny day with someone like Alyce was downright idyllic. There’s nothing that puts me at ease quite like commiserating with another mom about the ups and downs of motherhood. Just as I felt my shoulders relaxing, as I shook off the exhaustion from the middle-of-thenight feedings, all of a sudden the door to my kitchen opened and a little voice from behind me interrupted our chat. “Mama, I have to go poop.” I looked at Alyce and we both laughed.
CP: I have to go poop. I mean, is that perfect material for you or what?
AC: Totally. I love it. I love that you’re in the thick of it. I’m a little out of it now, I don’t have to wipe. We just have to remind them.
CP: Yeah, I feel like that’s the next hurdle of her independence. I tell her she can go anywhere and do anything in life if she can wipe her own butt.
AC: Oh, I love that motto. Survival skills for sure.
CP: So, tell me about your family.
AC: I have two boys who were fighting horrendously this morning, nine and six years old. We live in the suburbs and my husband
works from home. I was born in California and moved to Canada when I was a baby, so I identify as a Canadian. Then I moved to New York. It was supposed to be a one-year stint, then it became 18 years. So I’m stuck here.
CP: How did you get your start in comedy? How did @momcomnyc come to be?
AC: I studied economics and I thought I’d go into either business or accounting or whatever. Then I worked at a bank for five years, and my parents were proud of that. And then I quit to do a one year intensive school in graphic design, web design and filmmaking. I moved to New York for a graphic design job, and then took acting classes. I was always kind of a lazy actor—I took acting classes, and I would do headshots, but only mail out like five or 10. You’re supposed to mail out hundreds to different agencies. But I also knew I’m in my late 20s, I’m Asian, no one’s going to hire me as the star of a movie or a TV show. I’d just be cast for commercials and that’s not my dream, so I quit acting school but I started doing improv comedy. I loved comedy, but I wasn’t good at improv. Someone told me to try standup instead, so I took a class at Caroline’s, at Gotham’s Comedy Club, and Comedy Cellar.
CP: So did your content change from those first open mics?
AC: I was wearing my baby. I started doing jokes about my husband, and about having two kids, about the babies. As you know, there’s so much content, so much material. Very soon all that old material took a backseat because that wasn’t me anymore. These shows were for parents so now my jokes have to relate to them. It forced me to really be present about my life. How can I make it funny and make fun of myself. For two years I went on every month, and it became a sold out thing. The comics I had in the show were amazing. They were always available because no one’s doing comedy at 10 in the morning, right? Comics that were on Jimmy Fallon, David Letterman,
HBO, they all said yes. It was perfect for everybody. And then the pandemic hit, we moved to the suburbs and it was over. That’s when I started my Instagram. Just write some jokes, do some memes. And then the woman behind @SnarkyBreeders asked me to join a shared group. I was very suspicious, I didn’t know what it was. But she shared one post and then my account started growing. Then other Instagram moms start sharing my stuff. And then after maybe two years @ScaryMommy asked me to create content for them. The pandemic forced me to do Reels, that’s when I started to create videos. I was trapped in a house, what else can I do to keep sane? I started making fun of remote learning, making fun of my husband working from home, just doing stupid silly skits. And it took off from there.
CP: Do you have any advice for parents when it comes to pursuing a creative field. Even if it’s not a profession and it’s just a hobby, just a creative outlet.
AC: Such a good question. I feel like first and foremost is to really get time to yourself. I know it’s a cliche but fill your bucket. Seriously, if you don’t have your bucket filled and you’re not taking care of yourself, you’re not going to know what you want in terms of your career, passion or even hobbies. Physically, I feel like you need to leave the house. You can’t force your family to leave the house, but you can get yourself to the train station. Take a walk, get in the car. Sometimes I’ll go grocery shopping and I end up in the parking lot for 40 minutes getting a lot done.
CP: That’s a great tip, even though it’s kind of sad (laughs).
AC: Oh, it’s so sad. But hey, you take whatever you can get. And enjoy every moment when you’re by yourself because you’re needed and wanted as soon as you walk in the house. The kids, they sense that you’re there. Even when you go to the bathroom, that’s not your alone time. No, you need to go to a public
bathroom to get time. You need to drive to the mall, get into a public bathroom stall and then have your alone time in peace.
CP: (laughs) Set up your station and work.
AC: Yeah, exactly. Get a stall, that’s your co-working space now.
CP: I love that you referred to filling a bucket instead of filling a cup. Because I feel thinking of it as a cup, like it’s this pathetic little thing that we only get this much . I love the
idea of thinking of it as a bucket to fill, a giant bucket. A lot of your videos make fun of parenting in the 80s or 90s versus parenting now. I’m curious about your take on the concept of back to school. How has it changed from when we were kids to now?
AC: You know what? You just inspired me to make a Reel and that’s how it happens.
CP: I feel honored.
CP: Comedy is a creative career. How do you
foster that same creative spirit in your kids?
AC: I really try to let them see that side of me that’s always been labeled weird. When I was a kid, I was called weird and it did a lot of damage to me mentally and emotionally. But as soon as I became a mother, especially once I turned 40, I was just like, Who gives a shit about what other people think? That weirdness is really what makes you stand out from everybody else. I want them to know that if they’re ever called out about anything that makes them different, that they can embrace it. They see me be really stupid and silly and weird. I’ll dance in front of them and be really goofy. They’ve seen my videos, they understand what I do somewhat. Even my nine year old, I could sense he’s very creative, so sometimes I ask him for an idea, a concept that’s funny. But he needs incentive so I pay him.
CP: I love that. How do you think your “weirdness” and your creativity are linked?
AC: Being called weird will still triggers thoughts and feelings I had when I was a kid. But it no longer gets to me nor do I feel ashamed. Now, I really do embrace it because I truly believe that’s what makes me stand out as a comedian. Weird means non-conventional and not ordinary. Who wants to be boring? People describe people being weird when they can’t quite pinpoint what it is, but they know that person is different. Being weird got me noticed by popular parenting and online platforms, Scary Mommy, Vogue, PureWow just to name a few. They appreciated the comedy I was delivering. It was fresh and something new they hadn’t seen. If you’ve been called weird, it means there’s something unique about you. You have to find out what that is, harness it and express that in some art form. For me, having unique perspectives even on the most mundane things can be gold for comedy.
CP: What’s your advice for a parent whose kid comes home saying they were called weird at school?
AC: The first thing I would say is, “Wow I’m so glad they noticed you are different and not ordinary like everybody else.” Then I would ask how they felt. I think if anyone called my kids weird I’d want to hear from them what differences they think they have that makes them stand out. I would tell them it’s a good thing because that’s what makes you YOU. No one wants to be the same as everybody else. That’s boring.
This story was edited for clairy and brevity; read the entire cover story at Newyorkfamily.com
end of Summer fest
wHen : Saturday, Sept. 2, 10 am – 4 pm
wHere : Holy Trinity Orthodox Church of East Meadow, 369 Green Avenue, East Meadow
ageS: All
wHat: Say goodbye to summer with ethnic and BBQ foods, live music, flea market, and raffles.
want to go?: Free admission. (516) 483–3649, htocem.org
long island fair
wHen : Sept. 8-10, FridaySunday, 10 am – 5 pm
wHere : Old Bethpage Restoration Village, 1303 Round Swamp Road, Old Bethpage
ageS: All
wHat: Celebrate Long Island’s agricultural heritage along with family friendly entertainment, activities and educational opportunities.
want to go?: Tickets start at $15. lifair.org
Honey bee experience
wHen : Sept. 10, 10 am – 5 pm
wHere : Pinelawn Memorial Park and Arboretum, 2030 Wellwood Ave. Farmingdale
ageS: All
wHat: Learn about the importance of honey bees in our environment and get an up-close look at these marvelous insects.
want to go?: Free. pinelawn. com
Hicks fall festival
wHen : Starting Sept. 16, Daily, 10 am – 5 pm, through Oct. 29.
wHere : Hicks Nurseries, 100 Jericho Turnpike, Westbury
ageS: All
wHat: Meet and take pictures with Otto the Ghost, walk through an animated children’s
story, take part in fun activities and enjoy delicious fall food favorites!
want to go?: Free admission; $8 hay maze only; $25 weekend and holidays pay-one-price wristband. hicksnurseries.com
Junior congregation: rosh Hashanah
wHen : Starting Sept. 16, Daily, 10:30 – 11:45 am, Daily, 12 – 1:30 pm, through Sept. 17.
wHere : Chabad Center for Jewish Life of MerrickBellmore-Wantagh, 2174 Hewlett Avenue, Merrick
ageS: All
wHat: Children are invited to a special Rosh Hashanah Program designed just for them with fun and interactive services, snacks, games, prizes, and activities.
want to go?: Free. chabadjewishlife.org
the wiggles
wHen : Sept. 17, 2:30 pm & 11 am.
wHere : NYCB Theatre at Westbury, 960 Brush Hollow Road, Westbury
ageS: All
wHat: The Wiggles are coming to town and fans can look forward to dancing along to their hits, including Fruit Salad and Captain Feathersword!
want to go?: Tickets start at $53. thewiggles.com
Disney Junior live: costume palooza
wHen : Sept. 17, 4 pm
wHere : Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, 720 Northern Boulevard, Brookville ageS: All
wHat: This show brings beloved Disney Junior characters and favorite
Marvel Super Heroes live on stage for a jam-packed, concert-style show with singing, dancing, acrobatics, and more. want to go?: $51.50-$81.50. (516) 299–3100, tillescenter.org
wHen : Sept. 21, 7 – 9 pm
wHere : Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury ageS: All
wHat: Join members of the Astronomical Society of Long Island for a nighttime skywatching session. want to go?: $8-$15; free for ages 6 and younger. oldwestburygardens.org
blaze: long island
wHen : Begins Sept. 22. See website for complete schedule.
wHere : Old Bethpage Restoration Village, 1303
createa masterpiece at draw out! community a rts Festival at the heckscher museum on s eptember 10.
Round Swamp Road, Old Bethpage
ageS: All
wHat: Walk the immersive pumpkin trail where thousands of hand-carved jack o’lanterns light up the night.
want to go?: $19-$29. pumpkinblaze.org
wheatley farms Harvest festival, “ fall for all”
wHen : Sept. 30, 9 am – 4 pm
wHere : AHRC Nassau, 189 Wheatley Rd. Brookville
ageS: All
wHat: Take part in a wide range of activities like creative mask making and face painting, all designed to foster inclusivity and to ensure that everyone can enjoy the festivities. want to go?: $20; $10 per child. ahrc.org/fallforall
50th annual feast of mother cabrini
wHen : Sept. 1-4, Friday, 6 – 11 pm; Saturday and Sunday, 4 –11 pm; Monday, 4 – 10 pm.
wHere : Suffolk County Community College, 1001 Crooked Hill Road, Brentwood
ageS: All
wHat: Little Italy comes to Long Island at this annual fest that includes rides, games, live entertainment, music, and authentic Italian fare. want to go?: Free admission. newtonshows.com
77th annual Shinnecock indian powwow
wHen : Sept. 1-4, Friday, 3 pm; Saturday-Monday, 10 am.
wHere : Shinnecock Indian Reservation
ageS: All
wHat: This is one of the largest Native American Gatherings on the East Coast and features competitive dancing, guest entertainment, prayers, ceremonial dances, and more.
want to go?: $20; $10 seniors, children, members of military with ID; free for children younger than 5. shinnecock-nsn.gov
labor Day ronkonkoma Street fair
wHen : Sunday, Sept. 3, 11 am
– 6 pm
wHere : Ronkonkoma Street
Fair
ageS: All
wHat: Bring the family out for live entertainment, merchandise, food, children’s rides, arts and crafts and lots of fun for all.
want to go?: Free. ronkonkomachamber.com
42nd Hallockville country fair
wHen : Sept. 9-10, Saturday and Sunday, 10 am – 5 pm.
wHere : Hallockville Museum
Farm, Hallockville Museum
Farm, 6038 Sound Avenue, Northville, NY
ageS: All
wHat: This annual event includes hayrides, tractor pulls, folk arts demonstrations, pony rides, a petting zoo, a kiddie train ride, sack races, live music and food and beverage trucks. want to go?: $12; free for ages 2 and younger. hallockville.org
Draw out! community arts festival at the Heckscher museum
wHen : Sunday, Sept. 23, 12 – 5 pm
wHere : Heckscher Museum of Art, 2 Prime Ave. Huntington ageS: All
wHat: Participate in watercolor painting, sketch from a live
model, and enjoy traditional songs and dances presented by the Shinnecock Boys & Girls Club Dance Troupe. want to go?: Free. heckscher.org
9-11 memorial Service
wHen : Monday, Sept. 11, 7 pm
wHere : The Common Ground at Rotary Park
ageS: All
wHat: This solemn day will be commemorated with music, speakers and end with a Candlelight Labyrinth Walk. want to go?: Free. thecommonground.com
21st annual long island garlic festival
wHen : Sept. 16 & 17, 9 am – 6 pm.
wHere : Waterdrinker Family
Farm & Garden, 663 Wading River Road, Manorville
ageS: All
wHat: Celebrate the garlic harvest season, tiptoe through the Sunflower Fields, go Pumpkin Picking, get lost in the Corn Maze, and more. want to go?: $20. waterdrinker.com
circus vazquez
wHen : Starting Sept. 29, Weekdays, 7:30 pm, Saturdays and Sundays, 1 pm, Saturdays and Sundays, 4 pm, Saturdays and Sundays, 7 pm, through
Oct. 9.
wHere : Walt Whitman Mall
ageS: All
wHat: This awe-inspiring, death-defying, hilarious live circus experience is unforgettable fun for the entire family.
want to go?: $30-$80. circusvazquez.com
fish Hatchery fall festival
wHen : Sept. 30, 10 am – 4 pm
wHere : Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium, 1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor
ageS: All
wHat: Bring the family out for music, games, live animal encounters, kids fishing, environmental exhibitors, food, and more!
want to go?: $7; $6 Senior; $5 Child; free for members. (516) 692–6768, cshfishhatchery.org
the wizard of oz
wHen : Starting Sept. 30, Saturdays, 10 am, Sundays, 10:30 am, through Oct. 29.
wHere : John W. Engeman Theater, 250 Main St. Northport
ageS: All
wHat: This beloved classic leaps off the screen and onto the stage in this adaptation. want to go?: $20. engemantheater.com
