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The McKee Student Art Contest & Exhibition

Haggin Museum is hosting its 85th Annual McKee Student Art Contest & Exhibition, the longest running museumsponsored art exhibition in the country, March 17- May 8

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Championship

For the sixth consecutive year, the San Joaquin County Office of Education (SJCOE) will host the statewide spelling battle that encourages friendly competition.

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HIGHLIGHTS

SPELLING

BEE Championship Saturday, April 23 8:30 AM-1:30 PM (approximate)

HAGGIN

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March 17-May 8

BY NORA HESTON TARTE

Calling all artists! Haggin Museum is hosting its 85th Annual McKee Student Art Contest & Exhibition, the longest running museum-sponsored art exhibition in the country.

“It was so important to one of the museum founder’s [Robert T. McKee] that in 1931 he gave money to ensure that there would always be an exhibition,” shares Lisa Cooperman, curator of education at Haggin Museum. “It encourages teachers to include art in their curriculum by providing a showcase for their student’s work.”

All schools in San Joaquin County— public, private, charter, parochial and home schools—receive invitations to submit artwork to the museum.

The contest and exhibition gives students the freedom to create a variety of art in different media such as crayon, colored pencil, pastel, watercolor, oil and acrylic paint, photography, sculpture, collage, and mixed-media. All of the art submitted by teachers is installed and

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routinely fills the Museum’s Tuleburg and West galleries from floor to ceiling.

In addition to the traditional two- and three-dimensional selections, short digital films will be accepted for the fourth year.

Ruth Santee, an artist and teacher at Delta College, will act as judge. Awards will be given in several categories, including best overall piece.

Competition is stiff. Last year the museum received over 1,000 entries from local schools, and teachers are already busy readying their students’ work for drop-off (allowed March 3-5). “We’ve gotten lots of calls,” Cooperman says.

An opening reception will be held on March 19 from 1:30-3 PM. Artwork will be on display March 17-May 8 during regular museum hours.

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For the sixth consecutive year, the San Joaquin County Office of Education (SJCOE) will host the statewide 2016 California State Spelling Bee Championship that encourages friendly competition between fourth, fifth, and sixth graders. At the end of a grueling day of double consonants and silent vowels, California’s best elementary school speller will be decided.

Last year, ten-year-old Ananya Vinay from Fresno took home top honors after she correctly spelt stroganoff. “That’s really impressive for a fourth grader to win it all,” Spelling Bee Coordinator Annie Cunial shares.

This year, two of San Joaquin County’s own students—Izaak Valades from Jefferson School in Tracy and Ethne Anders from Venture Academy Family of Schools (a charter school) in Stockton— will be there to compete after taking home first and second place respectively in the December 9 county-wide competition.

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(Based on 2015 statistics) 55 competitors from 28 counties (there are 58 total in California) competed.

56 percent of participants were female.

Only three fourth graders participated (including the overall winner).

All of 2015’s participants were between the ages of 10 and 12.

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BOOK nook

HAPPY BIRTHDAY

Dr. Seuss!

BY NORA HESTON TARTE

“The more that you read, the more things you will know.

The more that you learn, the more places you’ll go.”

On March 2, parents and kids around the world celebrate the birthday of Theodor Seuss Geisel (more commonly known as Dr. Seuss.) Although he died in 1991, Dr. Seuss still has many books that remain on bestseller lists, including Cat in the Hat and How the Grinch Stole Christmas, and new books are being published all of the time using his characters and style (although written by new authors). In addition to works created under his most popular pseudonym, Dr. Seuss has also written under the pen names Theo LeSieg (Geisel backward) and Rosetta Stone. His last published book before his death was Oh, The Places You’ll Go! released in 1990.

Celebrate Dr. Seuss all month long with this list of Seuss favorites.

WHAT PET SHOULD I GET?

Grade Level: Pre-School-2 The newest original Seuss story to hit shelves, this tale focuses on a brother and sister struggling to make a decision about which pet they should bring home from the pet store. While illuminating the classic childhood moment of picking a pet, the story also delves into the intricacies that go into making a decision. (It’s believed that this Dr. Seuss original was written between 19581962 though the unpublished manuscript wasn’t discovered until 2013).

GREEN EGGS AND HAM

Grade Level: Pre-School-2 Originally published in 1960, Green Eggs and Ham remains Dr. Seuss’s bestselling children’s book to date. Stemming from a friendly challenge that he could not write a book using only 50 unique words, this was Dr. Seuss’s response. He completed the challenge with a story where the title character, Sam-I-Am, discusses all of the locales his subject could enjoy this original snack.

THE LORAX

Grade Level: 1-4 Random House, Dr. Seuss’ most-used publisher, has a knack for marketing his earlier works in tandem with important calendar dates. The Lorax, published in 1971, is a warning against mindless progress that threatens the earth’s natural beauty. It is commonly linked to Earth Day (April 22).

HORTON HEARS A WHO!

Grade Level: Kindergarten-4 Horton the Elephant is beloved by many for his endearing charm and unwavering faithfulness.

From this colorful story, the world received one of Dr. Seuss’ most meaningful and timeless quotes—“a person’s a person, no matter how small.” Published in 1954, in this book, adapted to a feature film in 2008, audiences are reintroduced to Horton whose debut came in 1940 in Horton Hatches the Egg.

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by the NUMBERS March 2, 1904 Born

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(And to Think That I Saw It on Mulberry Street) First Children’s Book Published

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By Dr. Seuss Before Death He Illustrated Himself

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LEARN on

LEARNING at McFall

Early Intervention for Students with ASD

BY NORA HESTON TARTE

The statistics are staggering. One in 68 U.S. children (including 1 in 42 U.S. boys) is diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), according to the Centers for Disease Control.

Two years ago, it affected just one in 88. The condition has become one of the fastest-growing developmental disorders in the U.S., and is now a prominent part of childhood in America.

For this reason April is recognized as National Autism Awareness Month in support of public education and understanding.

While many theories exist regarding the cause of ASD, the truth is experts still don’t know for certain its origins. And while scientists focus on finding the source, parents can focus on providing their children with the best possible care San Joaquin County has to offer.

The needs of children diagnosed with ASD are different than neurotypical children. While the spectrum has varying degrees of severity, in general, children with ASD learn and behave differently. They may require special tools to thrive in a traditional school setting. Preparation is key.

At McFall, located in Manteca, the focus is on early intervention. Here, preschool is a highly structured environment created to help students

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thrive, using methods strongly supported by research. “Our classroom team works really hard to keep our students motivated and promote learning during classroom tasks with the use of visual supports… and positive reinforcement,” says Rochelle Strickland, a preschool teacher at McFall.

The school serves 100 students and is focused on children with autism and other developmental disabilities. Seven of the nine classrooms are autism specific. The goal is to provide students with the skills needed to move into a lessrestrictive learning environment.

“Mainstreaming opportunities are crucial to a child’s development,” Site Principal Chase Moore says. Approximately 50 percent of McFall’s preschool population transfers to a less-restrictive or mainstream learning environment for their Kindergarten year.

“The inclusion of evidence-based practices throughout the day ensures that our students are provided with increased learning opportunities to allow them to improve their language skills, social development, independence with self-care routines, academic achievements, and prosocial adaptive behavior,” Chase shares. All of these opportunities ready them for mainstream

schooling by teaching unfamiliar concepts or encouraging mastery of those they struggle with to prevent a never-ending game of catch up in a traditional classroom setting.

Classrooms at McFall are also designed to optimize personal goals.

Children on the spectrum typically work with IEPs (or individualized education plans) to determine their needs. Throughout the day, McFall students work on their specific goals, such as independence with self-feeding at lunch, attending and imitation during small group instruction, and social development during recess. Other strategies include discrete trial teaching, pivotal response training, peer-mediated instruction, visual supports, the picture exchange communication system, and thematic teaching.

“The ultimate goal is to use these strategies to help our students be successful at meeting their social and academic needs to get them to the least restrictive environment,” Rochelle says.

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Choosing extracurricular activities for your brood is akin to selecting the school they will live and learn at during adolescence. Each class will teach your child a new skill and introduce them to new potential friends, helping to mold them into the human beings they will become. And when children are young, they need assistance choosing a pastime that will help them, and that they will enjoy. Different activities offer different benefits—some emotional, some intellectual, and some physical—so how do you decide what your child needs most? Don’t. Instead opt for a pursuit that will stretch your child’s body and mind. Entre ballet.

You may have guessed that ballet can better your child physically. Not only does it increase flexibility, improve posture, and tone and strengthen muscles, ballet also offers a healthy way to rid the body of toxins while simultaneously releasing the endorphins that boost mood. Ballet is a physical hobby and it has long been revered for its ability to improve the mind-body connection as well as to build muscle sets. There’s a reason big pro-athletes take ballet. However, not all of the benefits relate to the body; many focus on the mind.

Young students who participate in ballet, whether on a performance level or simply attending a skills class, see academic benefits. Studying movements and routines improves memory while learning how to move in relation to others and objects plays into a child’s ability to concentrate. “It’s shown that most dancers who study classical ballet generally have much higher scores in testing and in almost every area academically,” says Suzanne Lundberg, owner and director of Pacific Ballet in

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Stockton. A child with ADD or ADHD may find this especially valuable.

Whether you consider ballet to be an individual exercise or a team sport, the social benefits are there, too. During dance, “mirror neurons” are activated when dancers perform in tandem or learn new moves through imitation.

Its ability to increase empathy is one reason that ballet is recommended for children with autism. “It gives them an opportunity to work autonomously in a social setting,” Lundberg explains. “Your progression in classical ballet is very personal… however you are in a group setting.”

The beauty ballerinas cast on stage is echoed inside, as well. As a child becomes familiar with their body, they develop inner beauty. Performing well and getting better at their craft raises self-confidence in many settings. Dance is also considered a form of emotional expression, and is a helpful tool for those who suffer from chronic pain, anxiety, or depression. Having an emotional outlet encourages children to address their feelings and work through difficult times. Children with chronic pain or other physical or emotional illnesses will also benefit from the increased serotonin levels synonymous with exercise.

Ballet can be an exciting and fulfilling experience for both boys and girls, and when a medical condition is at play, it could also be exactly what your child needs to thrive.

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Before easily accessible disposable diapers came onto the market, cloth diapering was the social norm, and the popularity of this earth-friendly practice seems to be spiking again. Whether your reason for disposing of disposables is financial (the average tot racks up $2,000 in disposable diaper charges, while a savvy parent can get all they need to cloth diaper for about $500), environmentally conscious (each disposable-using child contributes approximately 2,000 pounds of garbage to landfills) or part of a plan to reduce chemical exposure (cloths are free of unnatural ingredients commonly found in throwaway competitors), the task can be intimidating. If you have a child in diapers, you’re not too late. Follow these simple steps to embrace your inner crunchy mama. Your wallet, your baby’s bottom, and the environment will thank you.

Knowledge is power. The more you know about cloth diapering, the more likely you are to succeed.

Find a friend with cloth diapering experience and pick his or her brain about the process and products they use to thrive. If no one in your contacts list is a cloth-diapering veteran, read blogs to learn about the different types and benefits of each.

ClothDiaperGeek.com and DirtyDiaperLaundry.com are good places to start.

Follow instructions. Just like your favorite silk blouse has wash directions printed on the label, cloth diapers come with care instructions. Pay attention to give your product longevity, keep away smells and ward off dingy diapers. (After all, one of the financial benefits of cloth is the ability to use them for multiple children). When washing, run a pre-

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soak and extra rinse cycle on the diapers to ensure residue is eliminated—even better if your washer has a “sanitize” option. If not, run them hot. And unless otherwise stated, never machine dry your diaper covers. Invest in a clothesline instead. When stains can’t be sprayed away, “sun” your diapers— which refers to leaving them out in the sun to remove spots.

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Keep an eye on your detergent, as well.

Brands like Dreft and All Free & Clear are popular choices for cloth-diapering mamas, but Trader Joe’s and Dapple make good alternatives (the latter of which is free of brighteners).

Embrace organic. Forgoing diaper creams and disposable wipes can be a challenge, but the chemicals in these products are known to breakdown diapers. Instead, mix your own solutions. Recipes for homemade wipe solution (used best in tandem with cloth wipes) and diaper creams are aplenty on the World Wide Web. Keep it simple: combine three parts water and one part olive oil with a capful of baby soap in a spray bottle.

Then, spray cloth wipes at each use. A few drops of essential oil helps fight odors.

Don’t give up. Address your fears early to guarantee ultimate preparation. If you’re wary about cleanliness, invest in a diaper sprayer, or use disposable cloth liners you can flush after each use.

The less surprises you encounter along the way, the easier this challenge will be to complete. Consider it your gift to the Earth for Earth Day (April 22).

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EXPERTS COMPILED BY NORA HESTON TARTE

“How do we deal with anxiety in our young ones when they aren’t old enough to explain why they are feeling a certain way?”

- Mary Campbell Answer: For some kids, minor worries turn into fullfledged fears. But with the right approach, you can help your child feel understood and comforted. Encourage your child to face his/her fears instead of running away from them, and offer reassurance when you can—making sure your child knows that it is okay to be imperfect.

Instead of dwelling on their worries, try to help your child focus on the positives. Modeling these behaviors—such as self-care and positive thinking—will help you set an example for you child. Then, offer rewards when your child demonstrates bravery and other position behaviors.

Encouraging good sleep and hygiene, scheduling relaxing activities, and helping your child to problem solve are all ways you can help. Above all else, remember to stay calm and never give up. - Jennifer Rivera, MD, Dignity Health Medical Foundation in Stockton “What are the different school programs available in San Joaquin County?”

- Amanda Wilder Answer: About 144,000 students prepare for their futures in San Joaquin County’s public education system, which includes specialized programs to provide the educational experience that is just right for the unique needs of each student. Students participate in Gifted and Talented Education (GATE), career pathways, special education, and a range of other programs found in multiple schools.

High school students can attend academies—schools within schools—that concentrate on specific areas of study with a focus on careers. Additionally, alternativeeducation programs give students in need a second chance. Students also pursue their education outside of traditional schools, through magnet programs, charter schools, independent study, and private schools—adding even more facets to the local education system. Your child has options. Talk to your school district to find the right fit. - Jane Steinkamp, assistant superintendent of educational services, San Joaquin County Office of Education “My daughter has ADHD and I’m afraid to put her on meds. What’s your advice?” - Ronald Lee Answer: ADHD diagnosis is typically made by a child’s pediatrician, but the Journal of Pediatric now recommends a psychiatry consult, as well. While Web MD reports that 80 percent of children with ADHD benefit from medication, if you’re weary to dole it out at this time, a child psychiatrist could offer alternative interventions on a case-by-case basis. Either way, talk to both of your doctors to choose the right treatment for your child. Every child is different. - Dr. Samira C. Jahangiri, MD, Dignity Health Medical Foundation in Stockton

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Favorite book: Dork Diaries

by Rachel Renee Russell.

Favorite song: Drag Me Down by One Direction.

Favorite person: her mom because she wants to be like her and do the things she does.

Favorite book: Isle of the Lost by Melissa De La Cruz Favorite person: her mom (swoon!).

Favorite subject: science, she loves to do experiments.

Favorite subject: Spelling.

• When Sarah grows up she

• When Morgan grows up she

would like to become: a K-9 trainer or teacher (or both).

will be her own boss and own either a record label company or a styling salon.

• When asked how Sarah can recognize good people she says. "how they conduct themselves and who they hang out with."

Meet

KAITLYN NICOLE! Katie is 11 years old, is in 6th grade, and lives in Stockton.

• We asked Morgan how she

• "If she could change one

Meet

thing about the world: "I wish everyone would choose the better path of being a good person and doing the right thing."

EMMA GRACE!

• If Sarah could go anywhere in San Joaquin County: "To the movies! We always have fun there!"

•

If Sarah had the ability to declare one rule for all people to follow, what would it be? "I declare that everyone be kind and no fighting."

Emma is 10 years old, is in 5th and lives in Stockton.

• When Emma grows up you will likely find her on a stage either acting or singing.

• When Katie grows up you

• What Emma admirers about

will likely find out that she became a pediatrician or professional soccer player

herself is her quality of caring for people.

(I think she could do both)

•

“If you could change one thing about the world?” "All families would have a home and not go hungry.”

•

I asked Katie how she recognizes good people and she says, "Good people are kind and have faith."

in San Joaquin County: I love the clothes and I love to shop!"

•

What one super power would Katie like to possess?

"Speed! I would like to move faster."

•

What one super power would Morgan like to possess?

"The ability to fly!"

Favorite subject: reading.

Favorite subject: art.

• If Kaitlyn could go anywhere

•

If Morgan could go anywhere in San Joaquin County: "To the mall because you can be yourself, have fun, and go shopping!"

Favorite person: her mom (these girls!)

Favorite person: her mom (swoon!)

thing about the world, what would it be?" "Have more believers in Christ."

•

"If she could change one thing about the world: "Everyone should have an education."

Favorite book: Wonder by R.J. Palacio.

FAVORITE BOOK: the Bible

• "If you could change one

recognizes good people in the world and she says, "They show kindness to anyone and everyone."

Meet

SARAH MONSET! Katie is 11 years old, is in 5th grade, and lives in Stockton.

• If Emma could go anywhere

in San Joaquin County: “Take me to the Lodi Theaters to see a movie!”

Meet

• What one super power

MORGAN RENEE!

•

Morgan is 10 years old, is in 5th grade, and lives in Stockton.

would Emma like to possess?

She had the same response as Katie. “I would want to be Super Speedy.”

If you had the ability to declare one rule for all people to follow, what would it be?

“I declare that nobody hurt others on purpose.”

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COMMUNITY

San Joaquin

Parks to

Visit

BY NORA HESTON TARTE PHOTOS BY JILLIAN DECOTEAU, JILLIAN COMPANY

Is the same corner park leaving much to be desired? Has your child tired of the humdrum slide and swings they visit everyday? Ditch the playground blues and set out on an adventure—one to find new parks worthy of your playtime. We’ve rounded up the best playgrounds in San Joaquin County to give parents and their kids more options for those outside outings.

Read on to learn more:

Central Community Park

When to go:

Mountain House is known as San Joaquin County’s bedroom community, with little more than parks and schools to call their own. However, what they do, they do well. Take Central Park, the unincorporated town’s pride and joy.

Restaurant nights (May-October) bring varied cuisine to a town with little in the way of restaurants. Whether it’s a shaved ice business owned by a local resident, a cupcake shop on wheels driving in from Tracy, or a food truck from San Joaquin County, the Bay Area, or beyond, businesses serve on a rotating basis to keep menus fresh.

Play Structure:

Before you leave: Stop by the library, located just steps from

Other features:

Nearby: Many of the parks in Mountain House are revered for their

25 E. Main St., Mountain House

Central Park’s play equipment looks anything but run-of-the-mill.

Built for kids up to age 12, there are geometric jungle gyms, a teetertotter, a merry-go-round, a mini playhouse, a climbing net, slides, swings, a bridge, and more.

BBQ pits, a bocce ball court, basketball court, tennis courts, and a softball field max of opportunities for family fun.

What’s different? When the weather is warm, the interactive fountain is the largest draw, and the ground underneath is squishy to limit injuries.

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the main entrance to Central Park. A kid’s area complete with tables, chairs, puzzles, cushioned seats, and stuffed animals takes over nearly half of the small facility. Story times and other events are hosted throughout the week. innovative play structures, each clearly marked with a recommended age for kids. Try out Wicklund Park, Questa Park, and Altamont Park while you’re in town.

Cost: Free

Micke Grove Regional Park

11793 N. Micke Grove Rd., Lodi

Set your little animals free at Micke Grove— the perfect escape for your noisy offspring.

The array of available activities makes Micke Grove a year-round attraction. In Spring, young athletes can play ball on the softball fields, practice their aim in the horseshoe pits, get competitive on the 18hole disc golf course, or get wet with a slew of water play features. Not to mention, the popular Lodi hotspot has all the draw of a community park including picnic tables, bbq grills, and play structures, open all year.

The park’s real draw, however, are its premium features.

Stroll through the five-acre zoo— just a fraction of the expansive 132-acre park— where amphibians, mammals, birds, reptiles, and invertebrates live.

The zoo (opened in 1938) is focused on the small lot of animals’ quality and well-being, as well as bringing fun events and educational programs to the community.

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Next, head to Wortley Lake, a three-acre lake accentuated by a 40-ft water fountain where kids can cool off. Grab a reel and hone your fishing skills with a collection of catfish, blue gill, and black bass, but don’t forget the lake offers catch-and-release fishing only, which means kids will have to set their finds free.

Next up, stop over at Fun Town where youngsters can jump on the kiddie coaster, spin on the tilt-a-whirl, climb aboard the Fun Town Express Train, or satisfy their need for adventure on any of the other six rides at the mini amusement park.

When to go: The weather may be inviting almost 365 days a year, however, to make the most of your visit, schedule your trip during one of the zoo’s special offerings.

For example, on Tuesday mornings young zoo-goers can partake in Zoo Tots. Here, they explore animals and their habitats with hands-on activities like art projects, games, crafts, stories, and sometimes even a live animal encounter. In March and April, topics include Animal Cities, Incredible Eggs, Planting a Habitat, Gone Fishing, and more.

Before you leave: stroll through the ground’s Japanese Garden. Surrounded by 60 Kwanzan flowering cherry trees, illuminated by 11 lanterns, and alive with 200-year old Koi fish, the garden is rich with history and religion. Each stone is carefully designed to relay a religious or cultural story. Even the garden’s angle bridge was constructed with history in mind; it stands for the Chinese belief that evil spirits travel in a low straight line, and are therefore unable to follow across this bridge.

Spotted:

Lemurs, a bobcat, a snow leopard, snakes, owls, hawks, birds, turtles, geckos, and more.

Cost: $5-$12, with additional fees for pets and Fun Town tickets.

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Lodi Lake

1101 W. Turner Rd., Lodi

Looking for a weekend outing for the whole family? Lodi Lake offers recreational activities primed for families of all ages.

First up, take a hike on the Lodi Lake Nature Trail. The 2.5 mileloop is an easy trek so younger adventurers can join in the fun, and young animal lovers will enjoy the animal families that frequent the trail. More than your average trail companions like birds and squirrels, it’s not uncommon for hikers to have run-ins with deer.

This, however, means no dogs are allowed.

Added bonus: The trail is a good choice for strollers. After you finish hiking, take to the water. The lake is the centerpiece of the family experience. From swimming to paddle boating to kayaking (the on-site boathouse offers rentals), there are plenty of options for kids and parents to get out on the water, especially during warmer months. A tiny tot water feature and spray pool offers a safe alternative for those too young for public swimming.

And if you prefer to take a backseat to water play, grab a place on the beach and watch from afar. Just make sure someone is close enough to keep an eye on the kids.

Play structure: This traditional park ifeature s no let down at Lodi Lake where there’s a swing set—complete with infant swings—a tunnel slide and several climbing features set in a tambark play area. Benches and shaded tables give parents a comfortable oasis from where to keep a watchful eye.

Other features: Horseshoes pits, boat launches, rentable picnic

areas, and BBQs.

Before you leave: Check the calendar for available nature programs and river tours. The former combines education and adventure in thoughtful docent-led tours while the latter (beginning in April) offers boats chartered for 90-minute tours of the Mokelumne River (for groups of up to 10).

Spotted: Deer, turtles, and birds.

Cost: $2-$5, with additional feels for trailers and boat launches.

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Woodward Park

Other features: Basketball courts, bathrooms, rentable area, and a soccer field.

710 E. Woodward Ave., Manteca

This park is a hub for community members who like to run, jog, or walk. There’s a trail around the park with mile markers and work out stations that give it the air of an outdoor gym—good for adults and kids.

Play structure: The running barn theme

sets it apart. In addition to two themed play structures, the covered picnic area is topped with red and white painted accents. While you’re there, don’t pass up a chance to take a ride on Manteca’s tallest slide. Kids will have to climb several levels of the structure to get to the top, but it’s worth the 30-foot descent.

In addition to many bridges, climbing features reign superior—monkey bars, funky stairs, and a rock-climbing wall are just a few. Also in the tambark play pit is a six person swing set and more slides.

Good idea: Use the on-site equipment to teach kids about traditional exercise while still enjoying the great outdoors. Or simply get in a couple of sets yourself while the kids run in the park’s open fields.

Cost: Free

Oak Grove Regional Park 4520 W. Eight Mile Rd., Stockton

Nestled in a scenic oak forest, this 180-acre park is packed with opportunities to create lifetime family memories. A 10-acre lake stocked with catfish and trout is perfect for family fishing, and paddleboards and aqua cycles are available to rent on weekends (AprilOctober).

The on-site nature center makes this park unique. Kids can immerse themselves in a historic, educational experience without even realizing it as they browse displays of native wildlife and learn about the flora and fauna native to the park, San Joaquin County, and the San Joaquin Valley.

Short, easy nature trails are on site, as well. One is a 1.5-mile walk through the old grove trees, and the other is a quarter-mile handicapped-accessible trail that easily accommodates strollers.

Other features: Horseshoes, BBQs, rentable structures, and an 18-hole disc golf course.

What’s different? A designated youth campground is available for youth group camping. Paddleboats that look like swans and dragons also make a fun activity for kids.

Play structure: Don’t overlook the park’s play structures. There are two large areas complete with slides, swings, and other traditional playground elements that appeal to kids of all ages. Later this year, a new park that cleverly resembles a tree and an acorn (to depict an oak’s lifecycle), will join the other two.

Spotted: Duck and geese families.

Cost: $5-12 for parking and entry, with additional costs for pets and fishing. What’s free? The Oak Nature Center.

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CHEERSPORT GRAND CHAMPIONSHIPS

MARCH 5-6

Cheer squads go head-to-head during this two-day event. On March 5, the competition will be fierce as teams battle it out during the 1-Day Grand Championship at University of the Pacific. Then, on March 6, The NSPA Division II Championship will take place. Admission is $10 for spectators ages 11 and up. Ages 10 and under are free. Alex G. Spanos Center, 3601 Pacific Ave., Stockton (209) 946-2472, CheerSport.net

CHINESE NEW YEAR CELEBRATION

MARCH 6

Celebrate the year of the monkey at the 38th annual Stockton Chinese New Year Celebration. The event kicks off with a parade at 10 AM, followed by free family-friendly festivities at the Civic Auditorium until 5 PM. Entertainment includes tai chi demonstrations, folk dance performances, an award winning lion dance troupe, magicians, jugglers, performances by the Peking opera, and more. 525 N. Center St., Stockton, (209) 937-8119, StocktonGov.com

WORLD OF WONDERS BIRTHDAY PARTY

MARCH 6

The WOW is turning seven, and everyone is invited to celebrate! Not only will the science museum offer free admission in honor of the big day, there will also be a slew of activities to help guests commemorate the occasion. From 10 AM-5 PM. 2 N. Sacramento St., Lodi (209) 3680969, WowScienceMuseum.org

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PACIFIC FAMILY HEART FAIR

MARCH 9

From 10 AM- 2 PM, families can receive free medical services and educational information at the 7th annual Pacific Family Heart Fair at St. Luke’s Catholic Church in Stockton. Services are performed by students from the Thomas J. Long School of Pharmacy and Health Sciences, (who are hosting the event along with The Vietnamese Cancer Awareness Research Education Society Committee), as well as other healthcare professionals. Children will enjoy a slew of activities centered on health with topics like mindful eating, staying active, healthy lifestyle tips, as well as an art and essay contest. 3847 N. Sutter St., Stockton (209) 965-7343

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SECOND SATURDAY AT HAGGIN MUSEUM

MARCH 12

On the second Saturday of each month, the Haggin Museum puts the ‘A’ in STEAM (science, technology, engineering, art, and math) with a hands-on family night activity primed for those with children ages 5-12. From 1:30-3:30 PM, participants will combine art and geometry concepts to create, color, and learn about 3-D flextangles (paper models that can be flexed to reveal hidden faces). 1201 N. Pershing Ave., Stockton (209) 940-6300, HagginMuseum.org

STOCKTON IS MAGNIFICENT

APRIL 2

Come together and celebrate the joys of our beloved port­ side city! This year’s showcasing of Stockton is held at the Delta College, providing ample space and opportunity for its attendees to enjoy every booth and exhibit on this huge street fair. Show Stockton some love and enjoy the array of food trucks, live music, and more. Delta College, 5151 Pacific Ave., Stockton, StocktonMagnificent.com

SHUFFLE AT HUTCHINS STREET SQUARE

APRIL 5

At this concert, patrons choose the music! Concert runs 7-9 PM. Tickets are available at the Hutchins Street Square box office. 125 S. Hutchins St., Lodi (209) 333-5550, HutchinsStreetSquare. com

CARRIE UNDERWOOD: THE STORYTELLER TOUR

APRIL 12

The Stockton Arena will play host as Carrie Underwood croons to tunes from her fifth studio album, Storyteller.

It’s sure to be fun for all ages as Easton Corbin and The Swon Brothers take the stage, as well. Concert runs 7-10 PM. 248 W. Fremont St., Stockton (209) 373-1400, StocktonLive.com

THE NEON RUN

MARCH 12

Get your glow on at this nighttime 5K, festival, and neon party lighting up the San Joaquin County Fairgrounds. As part of the 2016 Brave the Night Tour, participants can enjoy an epic night of food, drinks, dancing, vendors, community, DJs, glow sticks, and LED black lights in a race that is more about the experience than the speed. From 4-10 PM. 1658 S. Airport Way, Stockton (877) 257-5459, TheNeonRun.com

THE 85TH ANNUAL MCKEE STUDENT ART CONTEST & EXHIBITION

MARCH 17

On March 17, the longest-running kid’s art contest in the country will be on display at the Haggin Museum. The 85th Annual McKee Student Art Contest & Exhibition celebrates the arts in education and presents the work of young artists in grades K-12 with an opening reception on March 19 from 1:303 PM. The halls will be filled with two- and three-dimensional art works created in crayon, colored pencil, pastel, watercolor, oil and acrylic paint, photographs, sculptures, collages, and mixed media pieces. This will also be the fourth year that short digital films will be included. 1201 N. Pershing Ave., Stockton (209) 940-6300, HagginMuseum.org

KID’S NIGHT OUT AT WORLD OF WONDERS MUSEUM

MARCH 19

Ditch the babysitter and drop your child off at Kid’s Night Out, a thrilling night of activities and snacks for children ages 5-12. While they play at the museum, sneak off for some guilt-free fun of your own. From 5:30-9:30 PM, kids can hang at the WOW, make crafts, conduct science experiments, watch a movie, and grub on pizza and popcorn. Space is limited. Cost is $15-30 per child. 2 N. Sacramento St., Lodi (209) 368-0969, WowScienceMuseum.org

REPTILE ROUNDUP AT THE WOW

APRIL 2

Wrangle up the whole family and head down to the WoW Science Museum for a day of incredible learning experiences in the realm of reptiles! The vast assortment of frog, snake, and other scale-based enthusiasts converge to showcase what makes these critters so fascinating! Take a gander at this one-day exhibit and all the extraordinary creatures dropping in for a visit! WoW Science Museum, 2 N. Sacramento St., Lodi (209) 368­0969, WowScienceMuseum.org

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STOCKTON HEAT HOCKEY GAME

APRIL 16

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Watch the Stockton Heat square off against the San Jose Barracuda in the last game of the 2015-2016 innagural season. The first 500 adults will receive a Heat zamboni and all visitors will have the chance to thank active military and veterans during Military Appreciation Night. Game runs 7:30-10:30 PM. 248 W. Fremont St., Stockton (209) 373-1500, StocktonHeat.com

SAN JOAQUIN ASPARAGUS FESTIVAL

APRIL 15-17

Come out and celebrate the county’s favorite green vegetable with the largest asparagus fest in the West. The event promises fun for the whole family with more than food to commemorate the weekend. Walk along Asparagus Alley, pick up souvenirs, and stop by the car show.

Then, head to the kid’s zone where carnival rides and games are aplenty and a petting zoo is filled with animals to interact with.

Don’t forget to stop off at the craft beer and wine pavilion for mom and dad! Admission is free for children ages 5 and under, and $5-10 for everyone else. Parking is $6 per car. 1658 S. Airport Way, Stockton (209) 466-5041 Sanjoaquinfairgrounds.com

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ALPHABET ROCKERS CHILDREN’S CONCERT

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APRIL 29

Head to Victory Park (behind the Haggin Museum) for Earth Day where visitors can raise a glass to the environment and rejoice in spring with music, food, and informational booths. 1001 N. Pershing Ave., Stockton (209) 937-8206 Stocktongov. com

The Bay Area-based group—made up of members Kaitlin McGaw, Tommy Shepherd, and Stefanie Liang—will perform a collection of children’s songs that merge hip hop beats, rhymes, and culture at the Scottish Rite Auditorium in Stockton. Topics include healthy eating and friendship while songs encourage kids to move, sing, breakdance, beatbox, and think critically. 33 W. Alpine Ave., Stockton (209) 487-2559 Musicalchairsconcerts.org

STOCKTON CIVIC THEATER PRESENTS FUNNY MONEY

POPS IV: THE MUSIC OF MICHAEL JACKSON

Starting April 27, the Stockton Civic Theater will play Funny Money, a hilarious farce from Ray Cooney, the author of SCT’s 2014 smash hit It Runs in the Family. In this family-friendly comedy (rated PG), a mild mannered CPA accidentally picks up the wrong briefcase—one full of money— and immediately assumes that it is illicit cash and decides to keep it. Knowing that the former owner must have his briefcase, he rushes home to tell his confused wife they are moving to Barcelona! Hilarity ensues. 2312 Rosemarie Ln., Stockton (209) 473-2424 Sctlivetheatre.com

The Pop series concludes with the music of Michael Jackson, performed by a seven-piece band in this top-notch revue, covering 40 years of MJ in music and dance—from Jackson 5 to Thriller and beyond. Alex G. Spanos Center, 3601 Pacific Ave., Stockton (209) 951-0196 Stocktonsymphony.org

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ETHAN BORTNICK AT HUTCHINS STREET SQUARE

APRIL 28

Ethan Bortnick is the youngest solo musician to headline his own tour, and he’s making a stop at Lodi’s Hutchin’s Street Square! He is an American pianist, singer, composer, songwriter, actor, and musician.

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PRESCHOOL STORY TIME

EVERY FRIDAY MARCH-APRIL

Every Friday the Cesar Chavez Library hosts story time for preschoolers. Here, guardians and their kids spend about a halfhour participating in stories, followed by crafts or other fun activities. Doors open at 10 AM and story time begins at 10:15 AM. Cesar Chavez Library, 605 N. El Dorado St., Stockton (209) 937-8221, Ssjcpl.org

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LAST word

My Mini-Me

BY NORA HESTON TARTE

When I was 27 weeks pregnant, I had a 3D ultrasound. The minute the technician found a good angle and projected my unborn child’s tiny face onto the giant screen, my family burst into laughter.

The technician gave us a sideways glace; she didn’t see it like we did.

But there it was, plain as day, my husband’s face on a squishy little baby in utero.

Since before he was born my son has bared striking resemblance to my husband. Aside from the blonde hair, light skin and blue eyes (that have stayed the same dark shade into his second year suggesting they are a permanent feature and not the fleeting hue most babies possess for a year or so), he looks exactly like my husband. It isn’t until my son opens his mouth that you can tell, undoubtedly, that he is mine.

Upon walking into a messy room, my son exclaims, “oh my goodness!” mouth agape as he flings his arms into the air. He mutters “ay yi yi,” when he drops an object, using perfect copycat inflections. It makes me smile to hear my voice so clearly in the kid who only slightly resembles me, but sometimes it makes me a little self-aware, too (much as I imagine actors feel when they watch themselves on screen.) I never realized how often I say “honey,” until my two-year-old started randomly adding it to the end of unrelated words. I didn’t notice my affinity for scolding the dog until my son started yelling, “go away, Nine!” as we all played sideby-side.

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When we started employing time outs as punishment, my obvious impact on my son’s vocabulary (and personality) became apparent. He had started engaging in conversations and fully grasping the concept of being in trouble (made evident by his following a swift hit with an immediate screech of “no time out!”), and I heard myself in him in a whole new way, my parenting practices on display right in front of me for my own judgment (and amusement).

One morning, I was perched at the dining room table enjoying a cup of coffee while my son played with toy dinosaurs at my feet. Suddenly he shouted, “OW! Don’t bite me!” addressing his tiny plastic longneck and promptly carried him to the time out corner and began counting, all the while repeating phrases like “turn around” and “look at me,” in an even tone. I froze. And then I burst into laughter. I was watching my life play out before my very eyes, my son in the role of me.

There’s no better way to see how directly your own behavior affects your offspring than by watching them imitate you. I noticed something in that moment though and those reoccurring feelings I have that I’m too frustrated, too stressed, I yell too much and I’m not sure if I reprimand my son in an effective manner, floated away.

I could tell then that he gets it, and maybe I’m not doing such a bad job. Although I am trying to yell at the dog less.

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Discover the chef within.

Wine & Roses presents an exciting line up of 2016 Cooking Classes for avid home cooks and food enthusiasts of all culinary levels, from beginners to advanced. Guest chefs will be making special appearances. Classes include demonstrations focusing on technique, and emphasis is on seasonally appropriate ingredients.

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