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January 25, Hands on Pasta Workshop Chef: Danica Aviles, Chef de Cuisine, Towne House Restaurant Chef de Cuisine, Danica will present an exciting class on hand made pasta. While working at the acclaimed Fifth Floor Restaurant in San Francisco, Danica hand crafted the pasta every day. Now, she makes creative and delicious pasta dishes for our guests at Towne House Restaurant. Chef Danica will demonstrate the basic pasta making process, and then each student will have an opportunity to create their own pastas. W&R Cellar Room, 6:30pm, $89.

February 23, The Art of the Tart - Sweet and Savory Instructor: Lorraine Hitchcock, Culinary Education Coordinator, Wine & Roses Tarts are delicious pastries that are ideal to serve for any occasion. This hands-on class will help you explore the versatility of tarts. Lorraine will demonstrate several different crust recipes and fillings, both sweet and savory. Students will have an opportunity to make a mini tart to take home. W&R Cellar Room, 6:30pm, $65.

March 21, Easter Cookie Decorating Instructor: Katie Wood, owner and designer Ainslie Lane Cookie Studio Our cookie decorating classes always sell out! Katie's creations are truly unique works of art. In this class, she will share her expertise to help you begin cookie decorating at home. This class will focus on Easter cookies.

W&R Cellar Room, 6:30pm, $59.

April 7, Spring Fresh! Wine and Food Tasting and Pairing Instructor: Randy Caparoso Join sommelier, Randy as we explore some lovely lighter wines for the spring and summer months. He will be featuring a sparkling wine, some dry whites and a light dessert wine. All the wines will be paired with some delicious tastes prepared

by Executive Chef, John Hitchcock. Grab a date or a group of friends and enjoy a fun class that will surely be pleasing to the palate. W&R Cellar Room, 6:30pm, $108.

May 4, Hawaiian Culinary Treasures Chef: John Hitchcock Our Executive Chef, John, began his culinary journey while a college student in Hawaii. Many of his dishes often reflect his love of the islands and the unique ingredients used in Hawaiian cooking. This demonstration class will feature some very basic "local" food and some delectable dishes that say "Aloha". W&R Cellar Room, 6:30pm, $69.

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Ripon Almond Blossom Festival

Celebrate 55 years of Ripon’s Almond Blossom Festival by joining in on the fun!

Aid 101 6 First 22 SelfESTEAM From scraped Program knees, to seconddegree burns, what you should have on hand for everyday ouchies!

a Good 8 Take Family Photo 24 Acts of Kindness For Tips for getting that pictureperfect family portrait every time!

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Simple ways for your little ones to help spread joy.

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Meet local kids dedicated to giving back.

January and February familyfriendly events!

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HIGHLIGHTS

FIRST

Aid 101  BY NORA HESTON TARTE

You can’t put a price tag on being prepared. When a kid gets a scraped knee, or

cooking dinner leads to a second-degree burn, you don’t want to be caught scrambling for a bandage or burn cream. Keep a well-stocked first aid kit at home, in a safe place where it can be reached when needed. Not only will it calm your nerves to have everything in one place, your kids will feel comforted when their needs are met quickly and efficiently.

So what should you keep in this handy kit? Check out our list of must-haves, as well as a few extras for little ones.

Ripon Celebrates 55th Annual Almond Blossom Festival February 23-25, 2017  BY NORA HESTON TARTE

Sterile gauze • Adhesive bandages • Antibiotic ointment • Latex gloves (or non-latex if there is an allergy in the family) • Soap or hand sanitizer • OTC medications like acetaminophen, ibuprofen, and Benedryl • Thermometer • Flashlight and batteries • Anti-septic wipes • A boo-boo pack or instant cold pack (find ones with fun characters for kids) • Tweezers • CPR mouthpiece (from Red Cross) • Burn cream • One percent hydrocortisone cream • Hydrogen peroxide • Rubbing Alcohol • Cotton balls • Stickers, lollipops or other small treats for kids • First Aid Manual save arm slings, finger splints, crutches, etc. from past injuries to use in case of re-injury or sprain.

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February 23-25 marks the return of the annual Ripon Almond Blossom Festival. Celebrating its 55th year, the festival coincides with the blooming of the plentiful almond blossoms in Ripon. In addition to exhibits commemorating the city’s history and the meaning of the almond blossom crop, there is a carnival complete with rides, vendors, an art show, diaper derby, fun run, baking contest, and more.

Leading up to the main event— always held the last weekend of

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February—January 12 sees a Kick Off and Tribute Dinner where Queen candidates compete in a speech contest. Later, there is a fashion show.

Hit the streets early to catch a front row seat to the legendary parade, it’s a highlight of the annual event.

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TAKE A Good Family PHOTO  BY NORA HESTON TARTE

How many times have you tried to get a photo of the entire family smiling, and ended up with zero shots where everyone had their eyes open? The more kids you have, the harder it is to coerce good behavior out of all of them. Check out our cool tips for getting a family photo worthy of your mantle, or at least one you can post on Instagram without a “face with tears of joy” emoji attached.

STEP 1: Hire a Professional Who Knows Kids.

Setting your camera to auto and hoping for the best isn’t exactly a surefire plan for getting a good shot. Instead, hire a professional to snap some photos of the whole family (some local photographers offer mini-sessions that cost less and take less time). Make sure whomever you hire is privy to how children act the second you put a camera in front of their face. If the photographer has their own kids, even better.

STEP 2: Work on Their Schedule.

Scheduling a photo shoot during naptime or too close to dinner is a nogo for snapping a pretty shot. When kids are tired or hungry, they’re less likely to smile for the camera. And the big attitudes will show big time in

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your final product. Instead, be smart when you book a photo shoot. If you have a toddler who is most human in the mornings, make a Saturday AM appointment. Does your preteen get moody when your plans conflict with his? Avoid Friday afternoons when possible. The happier they are, the better your photo will be.

STEP 3: Don’t Be Above Bribery.

When you need a two-year-old to say “cheese” on command, whip out a pack of M&Ms. Every (forced) smile gets a treat. You’ll be surprised how quickly that frown turns upside down. For older kids, offer up something equally enticing.

Though you might find a bit of chocolate is a pretty universal pick-me-up. Offer your husband a piece, too.

STEP 4: It’s Okay to Fake it.

If your toddler just isn’t having it, do what you must to get those smiles. Photographers know what poses garner happy faces, and you likely know your kid well enough to chime in. Throw them up in the air, tickle their toes, or point out airplanes in the distance. Anything to get an adorable, far-off gaze, or even (gasp!) some genuine smiles.

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Strange Bedfellows  BY COPPER WILLIAMS

Clean-freaks and germophobes, beware! The information we’re about to spread is filled with monsters that don’t just live under the bed. That’s right, folks! You’ve been keeping company beneath your bedsheets and tucked away in your comforters.

Our advice? Wash your covers once a week, switch out those pillows for fresh ones, and be wary of what you’re tracking into your bedroom!

unusual sinus problems, have difficulty breathing, or suffer from an itchy throat, you might want to look into what’s growing beneath your bedspread.

PETS

DUST MITES

These microscopic creatures thrive on humidity, high temperatures, and the dead skin cells you constantly shed. Nothing makes them happier than burrowing into your bed and curling up in your pillow, digging in to their flaky meal. The fecal matter these tiny monstrosities excrete is exactly what kicks up your allergies!

BED BUGS

when itchy welts start forming across your body.

Unlike fleas, these bad boys don’t discriminate and will go after any exposed skin.

MOLD

This disgusting fungi rarely calls your mattress home, but when it finds the perfect combination of food crumbs and moisture, a flare-up can occur that leaves a dank, musty smell that’s pretty hard to ignore.

If you’ve been having

Forget vampires! These little critters need no invitation to enter your home and use you for their meals! Bed Bugs are the bane of any traveler’s existence. They’re easy to pick up from hotels during vacation and incredibly difficult to get rid of. You’ll know you’ve got company

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You wouldn’t think Fluffy and Fido would be cause for concern, but what they’re piggy-backing into your bed is! Much of the population doesn’t respond well to proteins contained in their pets’ saliva and dander, cats especially.

And because your pets can’t wipe their bottom after going to the restroom, you can expect some fecal matter scooting up and into your sheets.

MRSA

The alpha of the bacteria world, MRSA loves to be tracked in from the gym, along bedsheets, and through actual physical contact.

This bad boy causes swollen red bumps that suffer from drainage and are typically warm to the touch. If left untreated, MRSA can run rampant, with serious health concerns, including death.

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GET INVOLVED

Classic Gymnastics  BY LINDSEY RODRIAN

As parents, it’s our responsibility to nurture the development of our children’s passions and interests. Hobbies bring much joy to life, and it’s important to give your children an outlet, early on—outside of school—in which they can learn and grow, accomplish goals, and socialize.

Recreational Classes

Classic Gymnastics in Tracy understands the importance of development, offering a fun and safe environment in which your children can grow their physical, developmental, and social needs while enhancing self-esteem and confidence through mastery of gymnastic progressions.

“We love what we do here at Classic Gymnastics,” says owner Jenny Yannessa. “Seeing the kids smile and get excited when they accomplish even the little things is what our goal is each and every day.”

Recreational Classes and Developmental Programs are available for all ages, spanning from children who’ve just taken their first steps, to adults and highlevel men and women’s competitive teams. “Check out our new Ninja Zone for the boys,” Jenny suggests.

“This is where we turn energy into ambition and focus on discipline and life skills.” Classic Gymnastics even offers Parent and Tot classes, allowing you to stay active and engaged with your little one!

The studio boasts over 11,000 square feet, stocked with Men and Women’s AA1 gymnastics equipment, a Palmer Spring Floor, a Foam Pit, and more. Enjoy open gym hours for members and non-members alike, throughout the week, and broken up by age group. If you’re in need of a date night, Classic Gymnastics’ CPR and safety certified staff are here to relieve you one Saturday a month. Kids Nite Out is all the rage for tots and parents—giving mom and dad some alone time while kids ages 4 years and up enjoy games, entertainment, dinner, and snacks!

Looking for the perfect place to host your child’s next birthday party?

Celebrate with Classic Gymnastics when you choose from one of their three party packages that includes up to 20 guests, invitations, a gift list, party favors, setup and clean up. “No fuss, this is the place!” says Jenny.

“Our party hosts will take care of all the activities.”

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take action. Parents learn how to detect a problem, how to determine if a scenario classifies as bullying, and what channels to use to confront the issue. “As a parent you want to be protective,” Kennetha observes. However, it’s important parents do not approach other students or their guardians alone. Instead, counselors can help mediate a successful conversation.

Kennetha says so many times parents come to the SUSD Parent Empowerment trainings and discuss conflict, Coordinator Kennetha Stevens not bullying, and they don’t talks bullying at district-wide realize the difference. They parent trainings don’t know what bullying looks like, especially in the digital  BY NORA HESTON TARTE age. “When we talk about bullying we’re talking about a progression of behavior When parents at or an imbalance of power,” Stockton Unified Kennetha says.

“Bullying School District brought means everyday I see you forward their concerns there is an issue.” about bullying, staff didn’t Conflict, on the other hand, hesitate to put a plan into is a standalone event. Bullying action. “When we hear the at SUSD doesn’t wear one voices of our parents… mask. “I think we see things, we want to move it along you know, with teenage girls,” because if it’s a right now Kennetha says. Girls who fight concern we want to address over boys or call each other the concern right now,” says nasty names over social media.

Kennetha Stevens, parent Studies have shown that empowerment coordinator the most common types of at SUSD. bullying are verbal and social It took two months for Stevens and her colleagues to bullying, and that bullying is morph parent concerns into a parent training class held at most common amongst middle both the school and district levels. It became part of SUSD’s school students (StopBullying. parent involvement gov).

Usually platform, a threebullying represents year-old initiative “We really want parents to an internal conflict. that offers 27 parent be engaged and aware and be A child doesn’t wake training topics each one morning able to distinguish a difference up year. The bullying and decide to start trainings have been between conflict and bullying,” bullying another – Kennetha Stevens, Parent Empowerment a part of the program student for no Coordinator at Stockton Unified School District for two years. “We reason. There’s a really want parents change in behavior to be engaged and that parents, if trained, can aware,” Kennetha says. “Schools can’t do it alone. It must be see. And it could prevent coupled with what’s happening in the home.” the bullying from starting or Not only do the training sessions allow parents to voice progressing. “This training their concerns about bullying, it provides them a way to provides parents with understanding,” Kennetha explains. “I think most of the parents who actually come are parents who want to be aware, parents who are actively DATE: JAN. 19, 2017 engaged in their student’s At Weber Institute, 302 W. Weber Ave., Stockton education.”

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Students who are bullied are 3.3 times more likely to report a suicide attempt

than those who are not bullied.

three years. As of last spring, bullying was not among the top three social concerns of students, according to a student leadership survey of both elementary and high school students. Three years ago it was the number one concern.

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 BY NORA HESTON TARTE

Empathy, the ability to put yourself in someone else’s shoes, is the core of being human. It’s what makes us different, as a species. Teaching children empathy—the ability to care for others, the desire to make others happy—is one of the most important tasks for every parent. After all, we all just want to raise good humans. But how do you inform children there are others less fortunate than they are, and more importantly, how do you encourage them to care? Read on for tips on raising giving kids year round.

LEAD BY EXAMPLE.

“The best way to encourage your own kids to be more giving is to model it,” says Stockton Mother Heather Fogg. Her daughter, Kate, volunteers continuously in the community. “Our children see us make charitable donations, they see us buy a meal and give it to the homeless person on the street. They join us in runs for charity or work events that are community service related.”

Leading by example is true for all aspects of parenting. “Doing as I say but not as I do,” simply isn’t an effective

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argument. Make an effort to get involved in the community, and make sure your children are aware of your efforts. You are your kid’s best role model.

START EARLY.

It can be hard to think of charitable activities the youngest family members can get involved in, but rest assured there are always ways to give back, regardless of age. Bring toddlers along for donation drops at local charities, or ask them to pack up used toys to give to a local shelter.

Get them involved in baking cookies for the police department, and make sure you explain why you are cooking for them.

WRITE THANK YOU NOTES.

Thank you notes are an easy way to show others that you appreciate them, and the gifts they give. Ask children to write their own thank you cards for birthdays and other events. Did a grandparent take them on a special outing? Write a card for that.

This boosts their kindness vocabulary, and teaches them to be thankful for the effort others put in for them.

ENCOURAGE NICE WORDS AND BEHAVIOR.

Whether it’s comforting a younger child who fell down at the park, or using words such as please and thank you at dinner, frequent reminders to infuse kindness into daily activities will help kids become more compassionate.

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YEAR ROUND GIVING SPIRITS Civic-minded students at Venture Academy Family of Schools in Stockton are putting their giving spirits to good use. Many of the students are active in volunteering, and have been donating their time to worthy causes that benefit the communities in which they live, and their efforts aren’t seasonal. All of these students work to help others less fortunate year round.

KATE FOGG

“My favorite thing about volunteering is getting to meet so many nice people and pets, and helping make a difference while I’m doing so,” –Kate Fogg, Delta Humane Society volunteer and Venture Academy student

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Kate Fogg, 16, is a junior at Venture Academy. She spends her Saturdays volunteering with the Delta Humane Society, assisting with adoptions at Carter’s Pet Mart. “As part of my job I help with set up and clean up, as well as making sure the animals receive the care they need,” Kate says of her efforts. “I chose to help the Delta Humane Society because I care a lot about animals.”

Kate and her family adopted their own rescue dog in 2010—a brown and white terrier mix named Remy (after the rat in Ratatouille)—so she understands how adopting a pet can change not just the animal’s life, but the owner’s life, as well.

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there’s no way that [the] community can grow and be successful.”

Kate grew up watching her family give to various organizations, either through volunteering their time, giving gifts, or donating money. “Kate has pretty much been civic minded since elementary school,” her mother, Heather Fogg, shares. “During the holidays, she loved going with me to select the children that we would be sponsoring for gifts. She helped with the shopping, wrapping of gifts, and when we adopted a family she was there to help shop for food and help play Santa.”

She became inspired to join the humane society after a friend told her how volunteering had affected her. “Hearing her stories and her positive experiences really inspired me to find a way to get involved in something I’m passionate about,” Kate shares.

ELSA HERNANDEZ

Like many teens, Elsa Hernandez’s peers have been a vital source of influence in her life. Seeing kids her age make a difference in the world helped her realize the change a young person can affect.

“I think just seeing and hearing stories about young kids my age making significant changes within their communities inspired me the most to go out and seek my own way to give back,” she says. While Elsa, 17, is involved in several volunteer projects, most notable is her work with Doctors Hospital of Manteca where she mans the front desk and assists on the emergency room floor.

“Through my volunteer work here I have had so many notable experiences to see and engage in patient care firsthand,” Elsa shares. “Working here has taught me how every member of a team [plays an] essential part in ensuring quality care is delivered to patients.”

While at the hospital, Elsa greets and directs visitors, transports specimens and paperwork, escorts family members and patients through departments, assists nurses with patient care, and interacts with patients to help make their stay comfortable. She says her work at the hospital is not just helping her community, it’s giving her insight into a career she hopes to pursue after college.

“Working at the hospital has really heightened my interest to work in the medical field and I hope to one day pursue a career as a nurse practitioner in emergency medicine or in the neonatal intensive care unit.”

“My favorite thing about volunteering is meeting new people and hearing their stories because when I do it makes me feel even more certain that what I am doing is important and significant,” –Elsa Hernandez, Doctors of Manteca volunteer and Venture Academy student

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MCHENRY HOUSE

Needed: volunteers and donations Learn how to volunteer at or donate to the McHenry House, a homeless shelter for families in need. For More Information: 739 A St. Tracy, (209) 835-2328, MchenryHouseTracy.org

GIVE EVERY CHILD A CHANCE

Needed: mentors and tutors Help a child who is struggling by donating your time at one of more than 40 San Joaquin County locations. Must be at least ten years old. For More Information: 322 Sun West Pl., (209) 825-7003, GECAC.net

AMERICAN CANCER SOCIETY DISCOVERY SHOP

Needed: retail store volunteers Teens can assist with store duties such as folding and steaming clothes. Must be 16 years old or older. For More Information: 207 E. Alpine Ave., (209) 9412737

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ST. MARY’S DINING ROOM

Needed: kitchen and dining room volunteers Help feed the hungry in San Joaquin County at St. Mary’s dining room.

Adults must accompany all volunteers under 18 years of age. Children under 16 years of age will be able to volunteer in the dining room, but not the kitchen.

For More Information: 545 W. Sonora St., Stockton, (209) 467-0703

CESAR CHAVEZ CENTRAL LIBRARY

Needed: volunteer shelvers Help restock shelves at the library and learn the Dewey Decimal System as you go. Must be 14 years old or older. For More Information: 605 N. El Dorado St., Stockton, (209) 937-8382

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“I enjoy spending time helping others in need,” –Hayley Parks, San Joaquin County General Hospital volunteer and Venture Academy student

HAYLEY PARKS

For Hayley Parks, 16, a summer spent shelving books at the community library opened her eyes to a world of opportunity. “My supervisor there, Fatima Domingo, taught me a lot and got me excited about my volunteer work,” Hayley says. Her experiences at the library, which included tutoring young kids, paired with a lifetime of watching her older brother give back, created a desire within Hayley to do the same.

“Initially, I was following in [my brother’s] footsteps by starting my volunteer work at the library as he did,” Hayley explains. “But then after meeting my supervisor… she helped me think about my future, and how I could learn so much from my volunteer work.”

Today, Hayley gives her time—117.5 hours and counting (to be exact)—to San Joaquin County General Hospital.

Hayley’s duties include helping with the hospital book cart and in the hospital gift shop. “Most importantly to me I have spent a lot of time at the help and information desk where I get to guide, assist, and answer patient questions.” It’s important work not only because it gives Hayley a way to help her community, but because it also prepares her for the future.

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Needed: ushers Direct attendees to their seats, help disabled guests get situated, and provide directions in case of an emergency as a volunteer usher at the Charlene P. Lange Performing Arts Theatre. Lodi Unified School District students are eligible to volunteer at 16 years of age. All other volunteers must be 18 years old or older. For More Information: 125 S. Hutchins St. #A, Lodi, (209) 333-6782

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“[Volunteering is] important to me because it’s one step closer to changing how the community is viewed and how it’s treated,” –Eli Nava, Stockton Animal Shelter volunteer and Venture Academy student

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“I came to the decision that I wanted to pursue a career path in the medical field. I wanted to get as much exposure as possible to the nurses, doctors, and staff who work in a hospital so that I could get a good idea of what the field involved,” Hayley says. Since beginning her position at the hospital, Hayley says her desire to work in the medical field has only grown, and she plans to continue her efforts throughout both high school and college to continue to gain exposure and experience.

“I want the image of our community to be one that is positive and welcoming,” Hayley says. “When I am at the hospital, I feel like it’s part of my work to be uplifting and positive to everyone around. I hope to inspire others to do the same, and I feel like this helps others feel comfortable, and welcomed into our community.”

Eli Nava loves animals.

That’s why he volunteers at the Stockton Animal Shelter. “It’s the most I can do for these animals who don’t have a voice,” Eli says of his volunteer work.

With aspirations of becoming a veterinarian, Eli’s choice to volunteer at an animal shelter makes sense. “You come to see the negative and positive aspects when working with animals and I know it’s something that many should expect or be comfortable with when wanting a career with animals,” Eli says. “I also love all the different types of animals I meet.

Different breeds, sizes, and personalities; it fascinates me.”

Eli says his school played a big part in encouraging him to become a volunteer in his community. He credits his teachers for the inspiration. “The point of volunteering has always been urged and explained in how many ways we can benefit from it,” Eli says.

“As well as how much change we can actually do.” At the shelter, Eli does what he can to keep the animals happy and healthy, helps to prepare them for adoption, socializes them, cleans, does laundry, and feeds the animals. “It’s a different side to working with animals and I love every second of it.”

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EDUCATION

SELFeSTEAM  BY NORA HESTON TARTE

San Joaquin educators and employers are talking about STEAM. It’s a way of learning and teaching that focuses on science, technology, engineering, art, and mathematics. However, the lessons learned in STEAM stretch beyond these topics, helping kids find success in any field. “The focus really is on the four c’s: collaboration, critical thinking, creativity, and communication,” says Karin Compise, a teacher at John McCandless STEM Charter in Lincoln Unified. “The four c’s are relevant to both college and career futures.”

Between preparedness, the four c’s, and a learning model that welcomes mistakes, San Joaquin educators say STEAM learning offers a confidence boost for students. Faith Ofman, a teacher at NextGeneration STEAM Academy in Lathrop, says students feel accomplished when they complete STEAM projects. “They completely light up when they describe what they did and how they overcame the challenges along the way.”

“I think that teaching our children to have a great work ethic, to problem solve, to preserver, to be flexible, and to have fun are essential to STEAM

Bringing

STEAM Home

• Use these teacher tips to encourage STEAM learning (and build self-esteem) at home.

• Step back and give children, including babies and toddlers, space to explore and learn naturally.

• Instead of instructing children on how to do something, let them take charge. Help by asking questions as they go.

• Find ways to expose children to the arts.

• Have children make gifts for others.

• When creating, encourage children to read directions but then improve on the directions when they can.

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"We don’t know exactly what jobs we need to prepare our students for, but we do know that those jobs will require problem solving, creativity, and collaboration skills. Integrating STEAM content areas and using an inquiry-based approach allows this to happen.”

– Karin Compise, STEAM Teacher

careers,” she says.

Honestly, these skills are essential to ALL careers. Ofman points to how STEAM is taught in the classroom.

Kids are asked to apply knowledge to real world problems, think critically, problem solve, explore, and discover.

“Students work in groups where they have to learn to collaborate, communicate, and be flexible. These are all skills that we want our future work force to have.”

“For many years, the way in which we taught students may have successfully prepared them for standardized testing

but didn’t really attempt to prepare them for careers in the STEAM fields where things have been rapidly changing,” Karin adds. When a child is prepared, they have more confidence in their ability to perform well.

It’s success Karin has seen firsthand.

“Last year, I brought several 8-yearold experts to my night class where they instructed my fellow doctoral students in coding, parachute design, kazoo-making, and observation skills.

My kids were confident little rock stars and my classmates still talk about how impressive they were.”

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GROW DO-GOODERS

ACTS of Kindness FOR Kids  BY NORA HESTON TARTE

Whether it’s purchasing coffee for the stranger in line behind you, or handing a tissue to your seatmate on the bus when they sneeze, small acts of kindness pack power. A knowing nod for the woman who is struggling with a screaming toddler at the grocery store can turn her entire day around. Teach kids how to create smiles with these random acts of kindness kids can do on their own (or with a little help).

1 Donate toys no longer played

with to a local shelter or daycare.

Score extra points by doing the same thing with books to the local library.

2 Volunteer time at an animal

shelter to walk dogs or keep them company.

3 Share the love at home by

picking up a sibling’s chores without expecting a favor in return.

4 Share lunch with friends at

school, especially someone who may have forgotten to bring lunch money that day.

5 Offer hugs and high fives to

those having a bad day. (Beware of “stranger danger” rules, this act is best performed when a parent is present).

6 Vacuum the house without being asked.

7 Hand pieces of candy to bank tellers and grocery checkers.

8 Play meter fairy. Drop spare

change in meters about to expire.

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9 Hand a sticker to a crying toddler at the store.

10 Smile at people, just because.

11 Return a library book with a letter in it, telling the next reader what you loved most about the story.

12 Ask parents if you can give last year’s winter coat to a coat drive.

13 Save spare coins for a year. After 365 days have passed, cash the coins in and gift the full amount to charity.

14 When your birthday roles around, ask

friends and family to donate money to a charity of your choice in lieu of giving gifts.

15 Visit a nursing home or vet’s center and just talk to the residents or members.

16 Do you have an elderly neighbor? Ask to mow their lawn… for free.

17 Leave uplifting messages anywhere you can think of like sidewalks (with chalk) or bulletin boards in the community.

18 Deliver a batch of cookies to the police department.

19 Give parents the night off by cooking dinner for the whole family.

20 Visit a children’s hospital to play games and hangout with kids there.

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EAGAL LAKE POLAR RUN & DUNK

JAN. 7

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Ready to dip your toes in honor of the new year? Then why not take the plunge at Eagal Lakes, for a 5K trail run, and a 1 mile dash for the kids! Enjoy a bonfire and hot beverages after the run is done! Eagal Lakes, 12 West Lorenzen Rd., Tracy (209) 6404252 EagalLakes.com

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STOCKTON HEAT: AUTISM AWARENESS NIGHT

JAN. 7

Take to the stands in the Stockton Arena to enjoy your favorite hockey team and support autism awareness!

The game begins at 7:00 PM! Stockton Arena, 248 Fremont St., Stockton, (209) 938-1555, VisitStockton.org

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Spins and swoops, tricks and more, the Harlem Globetrotters are back at the arena to showcase their skill and inspire fans from across San Joaquin! The game begins at 7:00 PM! Stockton Arena, 248 Fremont St., Stockton, (209) 938-1555, VisitStockton.org

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Eat your heart out and save room for dessert, because your favorite top restaurants are up for another exciting restaurant week this January! Enjoy specially crafted menu options at deliciously affordable prices. Multiple Stockton Locations, VisitStockton.com

STOCKTON HEAT TEDDY BEAR TOSS

JAN. 21

Bring out the bears! It’s time for another exciting toss onto the hockey rink when our beloved Heat makes their first goal!

Enjoy this terrific event which brings stuffed animals to kids in need! The more bears, the merrier! Stockton Arena, 248 Fremont St., Stockton, (209) 938-1555, VisitStockton.org

LODI FOOD TRUCK MANIA

JAN. 22

It’s a foodie’s favorite destination when Sacto Mofo is in town! Join the best local and out of towner food trucks for a mouthwatering dining experience! Hutchins Street Square, 125 S. Hutchins St., Lodi (209) 3336782, HutchinsStreetSquare.com

GREG & STEVE CHILDREN CONCERT

JAN. 24 – 27

Get the kids jamming along with Greg & Steve on their Musical Chairs concert series! Enjoy education through music and fun with each session beginning at 10:00 AM! Scottish Rite Auditorium, 33 W. Alpine., Stockton (209) 487-2559 MusicalChairsConcerts.org

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ST. JOSEPH’S FUN RUN

JAN. 28

Got your tennis shoes and smile ready to roll?

Because we’re hitting the curb and setting the pace for this year’s St. Joseph’s Fun Run! Join your fellow San Joaquinians on a trek through University Park, where the race registration and check in starts at 7:45 AM! University Park, 612. E. Magnolia St., Stockton (209)

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GEEKOLOGY AT THE WOW

JAN. 28

Get ready to get your geek on, because the WoW is hosting a day-long event for adults and kids alike!

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Stop in from 10:00 AM! WoW Science Museum, 2 North

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LAST word

My Son the

Fashionista  BY NORA HESTON TARTE

Dressing babies is fun.

They don’t care what you put them in, it’s adorable when they look ridiculous, and you can change their outfit as many times each day as you please (out of necessity or just because) with very few complaints. Infant fashion shows are a rite of passage for new moms. Dressing toddlers is the opposite of fun.

Every child between the ages of two and five would rather be naked than wear clothes. Getting my son to wear any clothes proves difficult. Luckily, he is old enough to understand that he can’t leave the house without clothes on (although he did once escape through the garage and run down the sidewalk buck naked screaming and giggling—ah, to be free) but when we’re home, I’m lucky if he’ll keep his underwear on.

When it comes to picking out the actual clothes, that’s another problem. I recently bought him two pairs of these adorable, ubertrendy comfy skinny harem pants, with the tight legs and drop crouch.

They are all the rage on the online mama shops, and since they were made of sweatpants material, I thought he would be thrilled.

Between the day I ordered them and the day they were delivered, my son had given up sweatpants.

Every time I tried to put the adorable harem pants on him, he screamed in protest, “NOT THOOOOOOSE ONES!!!!”

It took some prodding, but I did get him to explain to me what exactly the problem with sweatpants is. Turns out, he “needs pockets to put his monies in.”

He’s started collecting things: pennies he finds on the ground, quarters he convinces his grandparents to give him, small rocks or pieces of trash I don’t

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know about until they jam up my washing machine…I should point out that his sweatpants have pockets. The harem ones actually have two. But his “collections” require more than that.

If I’ve learned anything, it’s that parenting a toddler is about compromise. And compromising with a human who doesn’t have any idea what compromise means usually feels like negotiating with terrorists. Long story short, I found him some FIVE POCKET cargo pants. And to appease myself, they aren’t the baggy Abercrombiestyle ones that were “all the rage” in high school. Instead, they have skinny legs, drawstring tops, sweatpants cuffs, and come in chic fall colors.

I don’t think my son actually cares at all what his pants look like; he only cares how many pockets they have. Just tall enough to see over the edge of his top dresser drawer where his pants are kept, he picks out his own pair each morning—based solely on how many pockets they have. My challenge is then to find a shirt to match.

The five-pocket skinnies have become his favorite. He owns them in three colors.

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