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What’s Inside Bridal Event Calendar 16 Talk-worthy Trends 18 Beauty Buzz 26 Inspiration Board 28 Bridal Gown Trends 34 Fairytale on the Farm 42 Carriages, weeping willows, and cowgirl boots.

Who says country girls can’t be princesses too? photography by Briggs Photography

Local Brides & Grooms 50 California couples share the details of their big day.

by Katy Berry

The Honeymoon 74 The Biltmore Estate gives lovers breathaking luxury fit for an heir.

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The Mini-moon: Palm Springs 78 Wedding Timeline 82 Wedding Q&A 86

PUBLISHER | EDITOR Tony Zoccoli MANAGING EDITOR Katy Berry CREATIVE DEPARTMENT David Martinez EDITORIAL INQUIRIES katy@sanjoaquinmagazine.com CONTRIBUTING WRITER Jenn Thornton EDITORIAL INTERN Jessica Clare PHOTOGRAPHY Lori Makabe Photography, Mary Gillespie Photography, Briggs Photography, Matthew James Photographers, Darling Photography

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Cake Creations 90 Elegant Flowers 92 Resource Directory 95 Back Talk 96 Ten wedding traditions we’d rather forget.

by Jenn Thornton and Katy Berry

San Joaquin Weddings magazine accepts freelance contributions, however, there is no guarantee that manuscripts or photography (solicited or unsolicited) will be returned. San Joaquin Weddings magazine assumes no responsibility or liability for claims made by advertisers contained herein. The opinions expressed do not necessarily reflect the views of San Joaquin Weddings magazine or its parent company, Inside Magazines Publishing Company, or its owners. Inside Magazines is not responsible for typographical errors or omissions.

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Date Book Bridal Events in San Joaquin BY: JESSICA CLARE

Evening of Elegance Bridal Expo

Central California Bridal Show

Soak in ideas for the big day while sipping bubbly and sampling hors d’oeuvres at the elegant Vizcaya Pavilion.

Brides- and grooms-to-be can try their hand at a bouquet toss, garter sling, and other games to win anything from flowers to a three-night honeymoon in Mexico. $20 at the door, $15 in advance. 5-9 p.m. Elite Event Centre’s Vizcaya Pavilion, 2019 21st Street, Sacramento, (916) 392-5000, bridal-expos.com

The Wedding Center USA gathers the latest in bridal fashion and trends under one roof. Attendees are encouraged to take pictures and take advantage of money-saving specials the chance to win thousands of dollars in prizes. $10, $5 off coupon available online. Noon-4 p.m. Doubletree Hotel, 1150 9th St, Modesto, (209) 521-5600, weddingcenterusa.com

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Future brides can take advantage of in-show deals from photographers, florists, DJs, bakers, and salons at this one of Northern California’s largest bridal expos. Hourly fashion shows will provide inspiration for bridal looks, and thousands of dollars of prizes will be given away. $10 at the door, $8 with online discount. 11 a.m.-4 p.m. 1209 L Street, Sacramento, (800) 787-2248, bridalshowcase-ca.com

Take some pre-wedding photos in the Platinum Photo Lounge, taste food and cocktails, and enter multiple contests, including the “Choose Your Own Grand Prize Giveaway” at this ever-growing bridal show. Watch their website for giveaways and updates up to the date of the show. $10, noon-4 p.m.

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Take some pre-wedding photos in the Platinum Photo Lounge, taste food and cocktails, and enter multiple contests, including the “Choose Your Own Grand Prize Giveaway” at this ever-growing bridal show. Watch their website for giveaways and updates up to the date of the show. $10, noon-4 p.m. Doubletree Hotel, 1150 9th St, Modesto, (209) 324-7972, getmarriedmodesto.com

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My Bridal Sale Event & Wedding Expo JANUARY 27, SACRAMENTO

Check out everything from gourmet cakes to bachelorette party services at this huge Sacramento show. Attendees can fill up their swag bags with free goodies or enter hourly drawings to score some high-end prizes from local vendors. $10 in advance, $15 at the door. 11 a.m.-4 p.m. Crowne Plaza Sacramento, 5321 Date Ave, Sacramento, (866) 931-8508, mybridalsale.com

Lincoln Center 3rd Annual Strolling Bridal Faire FEBRUARY 23, STOCKTON

This leisurely bridal show offers a chance to explore Lincoln Center’s boutiques and chat with local vendors about all of your wedding needs. Enter to win thousands of dollars in prizes, including a Justin Alexander gown. Friends of the bride attend free. $15 for brides, with $10 good toward lunch at participating Lincoln Center restaurants. 10 a.m.4 p.m. Lincoln Center, Stockton, (209) 477-4868, lincolncentershops.com

*Valley Wedding Professionals and University Plaza Waterfront Hotel’s Bridal Fair FEBRUARY 21, STOCKTON

Come join Stockton’s most respected wedding professionals at the beautiful University Plaza Waterfront Hotel as they host this elegant event for brides-to-be, with plenty of informative vendors and other surprises. Prices and times TBA. University Plaza Waterfront Hotel, 110 West Fremont St., Stockton, (209) 944-1140, valleyweddingpros.com

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This expo showcases the diverse cultural and style options available in the central valley. Local vendors will sponsor a fashion show to highlight trends for the entire bridal party, and offer deals on everything from dresses to carriage rides. $13, 11 a.m.-4 p.m. Modesto Centre Plaza, 10th & K Streets, Modesto, (209) 966-3890, internationalweddingfestival.com

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First it was Gwen Stefani in pop-art pink Vivienne Westwood.

Then came Reese Witherspoon in pale primrose from Monique Lhuillier (who is rumored to be sketching Jessica Biel’s gown for her summer nuptials to Justin Timberlake). Blushing brides are everywhere—and they’re rocking more than the typical white.

Bespoke bridal gowns in barely-there blushes from the likes of designers Vera Wang, Jenny Lee, and Angel Sanchez made a dazzling debut on the 2012 runways. All unveiled sartorial stunners with high-tint trimmings—think flurries of organza, floating silk crepe, and ballet-pink boleros—in the season’s hottest shade. This subtle parade winked at pink from all angles and appeals to both conventional and slightly quirky summer

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brides. Both aesthetic and ornamental, this flirty, yet always appropriate hue nods to both mod and classic sensibilities and proffers a decidedly feminine frame for A-line, Empire, Mermaid, Sheath, and Strapless silhouettes. This season’s couture covetables include the capped-sleeve “Genevieve,” with gold embroidery overlay in rose silk velvet from Claire Pettibone, and the equally sweet corseted “Candy” gown, a buzzed-about beauty featuring illusion strapless, embroidered tulle and modified A-line skirt from Monique Lhuillier. A more accessible wow comes from Alita Graham, whose beaded, tulle-bedecked Princess/Ball gown is a fairy-tale come true.

Haute pink, indeed!—Jennifer Thornton

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The desert couldn’t be hotter for summer nuptials. Now trending, Southwest-inspired bouquets curated with gorgeous, unexpected succulents that are a statement away from upstaging the brides who carry them. These exquisite arrangements, festooned with dainty, tie-on adornments (think pearl pins and shell clasps) offer femininity tempered by stylish bursts of earth—dusty red, lusty rust and marigold orange. Even better? Contents for this tote couture can be sourced from local farms and our very own Delta harvest. Used in monochromatic greens, desert flowers are always sophisticated. But mixed with other earthly delights like feathers and seeded eucalyptus,

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you’ll find a textured bouquet with considerable herbal essence.

Refinement does not fall by the wayside when nature’s bounty meets her blooms. We love desert greens with fuzzy-headed bunny tails (a type of ornamental grass) and vintage pink roses. When mated, these elements give natural beauty a dose of glam.

Desert florals also work as art for both the reception— planters’ boxes filled with succulents, wood, and stone create artistic centerpieces with a sculptural look—and the wedding party. A desert in full bloom for your summer ceremony—isn’t it organic? —Jennifer Thornton

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When it comes to details, brides are funneling their offbeat sensibilities into conceptual big day décor. Flirting with the unusual produces artistic reinventions of traditional elements—think props as centerpieces, mismatched tabletops and splashes of unabashed color, (hello, neon!)

Fabric scraps refashioned into wedding banners and bunting, and paint chips used as place cards are other staples of unconventional décor, but there’s no limit to what can be created. Among these whimsical reimaginings are empty flea-market frames strung up for fun, vintage birdcages holding flowers, candles or guests’ well wishes, vibrantly chalked menu boards, and cake toppers and cocktails that

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infuse pops of playful pigment into every setting. When clustered, antique milk bottles chicly exhibit rustic floral displays that complement vintage doilies stitched together as heirloom table runners. Ribboned streamers, lollipop garland and paper crafted into unlikely incarnations (flowers, archways, and parasols) make for fanciful ceremonial and reception scenery, while a sweets-making station delightfully rechristens the candy bar. A custom-styled candy buffet-asbackdrop, meanwhile, creates a visual treat using retro confectionary like rock candy, old-timey suckers, ring pops and bottled soda. How sweet it is!—Jennifer Thornton

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Girls like sparkle—some things never change. Not even when we grow up and meet the man of our dreams, hence the trendy move toward all that glitters. Amp up the drama of your affair with favors that flicker. When the lights are turned down low—think dazzle; not only will your favors be fun, but they’ll do double-duty as their sparkle amps up your table’s decor. Whether it’s from real-deal gems or crafter’s glitter, a hint of glitz transforms the seemingly been-there-gave-that wedding favor into a glamtastic guest surprise. From iridescent papered trinkets to crystallized gift tags and gleaming favor boxes, use shining accessories like

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sequins, craft gems, and glitter paint to prettify just about anything—from the high-priced (glitzy wedding flasks, diamondinspired compacts) to the DIY adornment (think candles, wine glasses, or hanging ornaments). Even higher on the convenience and cost spectrums are edible treats like cupcakes topped with candied sparkles and nesting in glitter-dipped wrappers, and handmade soaps swathed in gold paper bound with ribbons that glint. For true bridal bling, add rhinestones to napkin holders, photo frames, or Champagne toasting flutes—cheers to that!

Giving has never been this glam.—Jennifer Thornton

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You’ve been planning for months; now make sure you have all your beauty details down pat. From primers to palettes and everything in between, we’ve got you covered for your trip down the aisle.

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Urban Decay Mariposa Palette Shimmering pastels make for pretty daytime wear, while smoky silvers give evening eyes a dose of drama.

Pops of bold color keep both looks on trend. $39. Available at Sephora, Manteca, (209) 923-6233, sephora.com

HAPPY FEET Killer Kushionz by Foot Petals Stilettos down the aisle? Not a problem. Foot Petals offers a range of products created specifically to cushion the bride’s feet, from heel to toe. $24.95. Available at Dennis Shea Shoes, Lincoln Center, Stockton, (209) 957-7064

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CONTEMPORARY COUTURE Peachy Keen Gloves by Carolina Amato Add a touch of bohemian style to a bridal look with soft lace gloves. Tawny ribbon ties into neutral palettes and adds a hint of color without the weight of jewelry. $70. Available at bhldn.com

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Laura Mercier Crème Lip Color in Tangerine Beauty experts have decided this year’s most popular lip color is PantoneTangerine. This fun, daring shade will give brides a punchy pop of color. $24. Available at lauramercier.com

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TANGERINE DREAMS OPI Nail Lacquer in Roll in the Hague Statement colors are in this season, and brightly painted nails are a bold choice for daring brides. Accent a white dress with a surprising splash of color, like an orange-tinted manicure. $8.50. Available at La Orchid Nail Salon, Manteca. (209) 239-1111

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Multivitamin Power Recovery Mask by Dermologica Use once a week to repair and rejuvenate your skin with a concentrated mixture of vitamins and antioxidants. $46. Available at Kharma Spa & Boutique Stockton, (209) 469-2009, kharmaspa.com

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Urban Decay Naked2 Palette This beautiful palette provides a romantic, natural look with various shades of violet, pink, gray, and gold. $50. Available at Sephora, Manteca, (209) 923-6233, sephora.com

PARISIAN VINTAGE Gravenstein Bibi by Mademoiselle Slassi Live out your Madmen style fantasies by trading the traditional veil for a whimsical, brightly hued cocktail hat. $300. Available at bhldn.com

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A tip of the pillbox hat to a time when gals wore swishing tea-length gowns and gents called their girlfriends sweethearts. This wedding is full of charming throwback details that radiate a youthful innocence with a touch of craftiness. —K.B.

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Whether you’re looking for earthy originality at Curry Village or Yosemite Lodge at the Falls, or unmistakable opulence at The Ahwahnee or Wawona Hotel. This is Yosemite – a naturally perfect location for the biggest day of your life, and for honeymoons of epic proportions.

To learn more about dream weddings in Yosemite, visit YosemitePark.com/Weddings or call (801) 559-5067. ©2012 Hospitality by Delaware North Companies Parks & Resorts, authorized concessioner of the National Park Service.

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Glamorous and chic, today’s modern weddings put away the puffy Cinderella details of yore and replaces them with elegant, couture details, pops of bold color, contemporary graphics, geometric design elements, and a feel that is both sleek and timeless.—K.B.

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MELISSA & JOHNNY’S WEDDING RESOURCES Photography: Briggs Photography (209) 239-7542 Briggsphotography.com Ceremony & Reception: Wine & Roses Lodi Wedding Dress: Gesinee’s Bridal Concord Flowers: Tracy Martin Antioch Catering and Wedding Cake: Wine & Roses Lodi DJ Services & Photo Booth: Elite Entertainment Stockton Transportation: All Pro Limousine Brentwood

Melissa & Johnny Trifunovic September 30, 2011, Wine & Roses, Lodi There’s no time like the present—that’s what Johnny discovered after carrying Melissa’s diamond ring around in his sock for a week. “We were in the hallway of our house and he just got down on one knee and said you know what, I’ve been waiting for the perfect time and I can’t find it so I’m just going to do it.” Off came the sock, out came the diamond, and as you can guess, Melissa said yes. Wanting to have a relaxed wedding with rustic flare, Wine & Roses’ barn and garden was an idyllic setting for the couple. The bride carried a bouquet of wildflowers in shades of blue and violet down the aisle, and recycled wine bottles became rose-filled centerpieces. Everything came together perfectly, despite one stressful moment where the bride ended up without transportation. “I stopped and started to panic… I told one of the groomsmen that I needed Johnny,” recalls Melissa. “I was falling apart because I didn’t want to see him and I was nervous it wasn’t working out how I planned,” Luckily, the unfortunate oversight gave way to a memorable moment. “I saw him and everything fell into place. Nothing mattered … I don’t know why I was going by the tradition of not seeing him, it was like, what am I doing? I’m marrying you and spending the rest of my life with you. It reminded me what the whole day is about.” At four a.m. when the couple finally crawled into bed after their celebration, they were able to look over all the photo booth pictures guests took and signed for them. “We got to go through and see how much fun everyone was having… it was the best part.”

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Photographer: Matthew James Photographers (209) 625-6349 matthewjamesphoto.com Reception: Bare Ranch Lodi Catering: Angelina’s Spaghetti House Stockton Wedding Cake: M&W Dutch American Bakery Stockton Flowers: Blossoms by Lisa Lodi Men’s Suits: Indochino.com DJ Services: Xclusive Music Network Stockton String Quartet: Camellia String Quartet Sacramento

Kat & Spencer Marcelle October 1, 2011, Bare Ranch, Lodi For Kat and Spencer Marcelle, getting married was something that came naturally. There was no extravagant engagement, just a decision made out of mutual love and adoration. The ceremony and reception reflected their downto-earth personalities with many heartfelt, personal touches. To start, the two met at San Diego State and though the college had a population of 35,000 students, there were only thirty Latin majors in the school—Kat and Spencer included. So it was a clever and sweet touch when the couple contacted their Latin professor to officiate the ceremony.

“It was super special and really awesome,” says Kat, who says she still remembers spotting Spencer in the back of the room during their first class together. The couple had other fun details that contributed to the vintage flare of their wedding. Each table had mixed-and-matched bouquet centerpieces utilizing various glass, silver, and white ceramic vases which Kat collected from thrift stores and antique shops throughout the year. They also walked down the aisle to their favorite Beatles songs, performed by a string quartet. Of all the memories the couple has of their wedding day, their favorite was when the last song of the evening was played. It was “Love is All You Need” by the Beatles. “All of our guests just backed out of the dance floor and formed a big circle while we danced and they sang the song to us,” recalls Kat. “It was the most beautiful thing we’ve ever seen.”

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ROSE & BOB’S WEDDING RESOURCES Photographer: Lori Makabe Photography (209) 370-5104 or (916) 524-5600 Lorimakabe.com Ceremony & Reception: Van Wormer Resorts Los Barriles Hotel: Las Palmas de Cortez Los Barriles Catering: Las Palmas de Cortez Los Barriles Wedding Dress: Jessica McClintock San Francisco Jewelry: Laura Susskind One of a Susskind Florist: Mazarte Floral San Jose del Cabo

Rose & Bob Hawkins February 12, 2012, Los Barriles, Baja California Rose and Bob’s atypical romance blossomed over the course of a long distance relationship. “He lived in San Diego, I live in Fairfield,” says Rose, who dated Bob for three years despite the miles between them. The benefits of living apart? “We’re always so happy to see one another, and so sad to say goodbye,” says Rose. Since the couple continued living in two different areas throughout their engagement, they decided to throw a destination wedding in Baja California. On the first night, guests enjoyed a welcome dinner with margaritas and were greeted with gift bags, equipped with post-margarita cures like bottled water, aspirin, and mints. The second day, guests explored the fishing village of Los Barriles with ATV tours, as the couple hosted a scavenger hunt through the town on four-wheelers. That evening all sixty guests gathered for dinner and the restaurant hosted a live band on the back of a flatbed truck, igniting an impromptu dance party in the street. The wedding itself took place on the beach with lush tropical flowers for décor. Rose wore a flowing white Jessica McClintock dress and Bob wore khakis and a white shirt. The reception served authentic Mexican cuisine and guests skipped the champagne toasts for top-shelf tequila shots instead. After nearly half a year of marriage, Rose and Bob have finally moved in together and are ready to enjoy their wedded bliss once and for all. “Whenever I would visit or he would visit I’d walk through the door and say, oh he’s here!” says Rose. Now as they settle into married life, they feel more secure than ever. “I’m looking forward to having the comfort of each other always,” she says.

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JILLIAN & KEVIN’S WEDDING RESOURCES Photography: Darling Photography (209) 406-1374 Darlingphotosbyvicki.com Ceremony & Reception: Jacktone Ranch Stockton Catering: Donkey J’s Deli Lockeford Wedding Cake: Vanessa Nunes Stockton

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Jillian & Kevin Barlet May 12, 2012, The Jacktone Ranch, Stockton Many brides today are finding that do-it-yourself details are all the rage; not just for money-saving purposes, but to give their weddings that special, personal touch. For Jillian and Kevin Barlet, creating their wedding details by hand was a lot of work, but they wouldn’t have done it any other way. “It was exactly what we wanted,” says Jillian.

“Everybody appreciated it so much.” Since Kevin is an avid horse rider, the hands-on groom wanted there to be a barn at their venue, and so the couple made special arrangements with Jacktone Ranch, a private, family-owned facility, and booked a beautiful country venue. The couple added to the rustic environment with plenty of homemade shabby-chic accents like burlap table runners sewn by the groom’s mother and colorful cowboy-boot cookies baked by the bride’s mother. Jillian also created unique boutonnieres and corsages out of fabric and burlap flowers. The actual bouquets were also arranged by Jillian using fresh flowers she bought at Costco. Jillian says because DIY weddings are so huge right now, it’s extremely easy to find inspiration and how-to instructions over the internet. As long as you can dream it, there’s a way to create it, but give yourself time to make it all happen, since creating your own favors and décor becomes added work on top of the regular planning. “I would say try to stay really organized and try to get everything done before the week-of the wedding; as much as you possibly can,” adds Jillian. “You want to be able to enjoy your guests when they come to visit you.” Overall the added effort of the couple and their families helped make Kevin and Jillian’s big day a one-of-a-kind event to remember.

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REBECCA & JOHN’S WEDDING RESOURCES Photographer: Lori Makabe Photography (209) 370-5104 or (916) 524-5600 Lorimakabe.com Ceremony and Reception: Viaggio Estate & Winery Acampo Catering: Viaggio Estate & Winery Acampo Cake: Something Sweet Bakery Galt DJ Services: Elite Entertainment Stockton Wedding Dress: The House of Fashion Bridal Salon Sacramento Tuxedos: Tuxedos of Lodi Lodi

Rebecca & John Madsen April 28, 2012, Viaggio Estate & Winery, Acampo “We’ve been together for seventeen years. We’ve probably known each other for eighteen.” As Rebecca recounts the years she’s spent with John, it goes to show that there is no right timeline when it comes to marriage, as every couple has their own unique journey. When John finally proposed to Rebecca, they had already almost made it to the twenty year mark, but decided to make it ‘official’ before starting a family. Ironically, the time they took before getting engaged was no indicator of the time they’d take to plan their wedding, as the couple managed to put together their big day in an impressive two-month span. “I think it was easier,” says Rebecca of the deadline. “Instead of dragging it out you have to make your decisions and stick with them.” The couple decided to have an intimate, family style affair with lots of spring flowers, sunny yellow accents, and favors that matched the venue of Viaggio Winery such as wine-stoppers and personalized coasters. The couple arrived to the wedding in a 1957 Chevy; the very same car that Rebecca’s grandparents had their first date in, and the car that her parents drove away from their own wedding in. Since getting married, Rebecca says people often ask her if things feel different now with John.

Ultimately, she says it’s mixed things up in a good way. “It’s fun to be able to call him my husband.” For soon-to-be brides, she offers this sound advice: “Do not stress, because everything will work out. You have to enjoy it and not worry about the small things.”

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OLIVIA & MICHAEL’S WEDDING RESOURCES Photographer: Briggs Photography (209) 239-7542 Briggsphotography.com Ceremony & Reception: Viaggio Estate & Winery Acampo Flowers: Embellish Floral Design Stockton Catering: Viaggio Estate & Winery Acampo DJ Services: Elite Entertainment Stockton Tuxedos: Tuxedos of Lodi Lodi Wedding Coordinator: Donna Bun Viaggio Estate & Winery Acampo

Olivia & Michael Iverson November 11, 2011, Viaggio Estate & Winery, Acampo You never know when love might walk through the door, it could be when you least expect it. For Olivia and Michael, it came through a checkout aisle, as Olivia was working as a cashier at a local market when Michael came to pay for his groceries. “I liked his eyes, he had these big blue eyes and I told him… I like to tell people what I like about them even if I don’t know them,” laughs Olivia. “I guess he liked the comment because he came back the next week and said, ‘You know, I’ve been thinking about you and was wondering if I could have your phone number.” You might say the rest is history. About three years later, Michael popped the question. Excited to settle down, the two decided to plan their wedding in six months. They chose a theme that had both vintage and old Hollywood elements, including dramatic colors like midnight blue bridesmaid gowns, contrasting scarlet roses, and lots of crystal accents on the tables. The antique candle holders made for romantic centerpieces, combined with more lush red roses and decorative crystals. Olivia says that she can’t pick a favorite memory from the day, as everything was perfect. But overall, she and Michael were overjoyed to spend the first day of their lives as a married couple celebrating with their friends and family.

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MEGAN & RYAN’S WEDDING RESOURCES Flowers: Cazale’s Flower Shop (209) 466-7971 Cazalesflowershop.com Photographer: Lori Makabe Photography Lodi Ceremony & Reception: The Ryde Hotel Ryde Wedding Cake: Something Sweet Bakery Galt Cookie Bar: Cookie Connection Sacramento DJ Services: Extreme Productions Sacramento Calligraphy: Lara Kiniris calligraphygirl.com

Megan & Ryan Denning Oct 7, 2011, The Ryde Hotel, Ryde When it came to Megan and Ryan’s wedding, they had one goal in mind: to make it fun. Their three major points of concern were the food, the music, and the drinks. The couple thought outside the box to create an event that their guests wouldn’t soon forget. To begin, they hired Dennis Specht of Cazale’s Flower Shop to transform the Ryde Hotel into something otherworldly. Every inch of the venue was decked out in grandiose flower arrangements; rich, colorful fabrics; and extravagant lighting, like chandeliers over every table. The couple had an open bar with signature Bride and Groom cocktails (‘The Bride” was a grape martini, “The Groom” was Jack Daniels and Coke) as well as a coffee bar which served up lattes, Italian sodas, caramel macchiatos, and other tasty hot beverages. There was also a cookie bar to satisfy everyone’s sweet tooth. Each table was named after a different song, and guests were seated depending on which song suited them best. “We did totally corny songs,” says Megan. Guests could be sat at the “I’m Too Sexy” table, the “Funky Town” table, or the “Shake Your Bootie” table, just to name a few. Finally, Megan and Ryan had a photo booth for guests to get silly in, which they recommend every couple take advantage of. Megan says that as amazing as the actual wedding was, she couldn’t help feel a little sad once the big day was over, and recommends that engaged ladies enjoy the planning process while it lasts. “You look back and you wish you could do it all again,” she says. “But I wouldn’t change a thing, not one thing. It was absolutely perfect. I’m so grateful to be able to say that.”

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BREANNA & ALEKS’ WEDDING RESOURCES Photographer & Photo Booth: Mary Gillespie Photography (209) 339-4988 Marygphotography.com Reception and Ceremony: Grace Vineyards Galt Catering: Grace Vineyards Galt Wedding Dress: House of Fashion Bridal Salon Sacramento DJ Services: Dan Bonnema Stockton Tuxedos: Men’s Warehouse Stockton Videographer: Media Fusion Stockton

Breanna & Aleksandr Wedler June 26, 2011, Grace Vineyards, Galt Breanna and Aleks were living at opposite ends of the Earth (well, almost—he is from Australia and she is a Lodi native) when the universe decided to bring the two together. Aleks was traveling the world and came through Stockton in 2009 to stay with an old friend. When he met Breanna, sparks flew. Before she knew it, Breanna was on her way to Australia. After seven months of living down under, she returned to Stockton to apply for her Australian visa.

Little did she know that proposal plans were well under way. “I thought I was going to Napa to enjoy a day at the spa with my mom, my aunt, and a couple of friends… As I went for a walk with one of my girl friends, who do I see come through the gates? Aleks. I had no clue he was even in the country. He had me so fooled,” recalls Breanna. “He had been planning for over two months with my mom and best friend, as well as the winery and Mary our photographer.

I was completely taken aback. It will forever be one of the best days in my life.” The couple planned a beautiful wedding and worked hard to make every detail special. While taking photos they enjoyed champagne from the winery they got engaged at, and to represent their love of travel, they replaced table numbers with names of countries they had traveled to together, and put a photo of themselves in that country on each table. Breanna says the key to having a great wedding is to be organized throughout the planning process. “I didn’t want to stress the day-of over things that it was too late to stress about,” she adds. “Since we were so organized with our vendors, details, and timelines, the day went smoothly and I didn’t have to worry about a thing. It’s the best way to enjoy your day!”

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DIANE & ERIC’S WEDDING RESOURCES Photographer Lori Makabe Photography (209) 370-5104 or (916) 524-5600 Lorimakabe.com Ceremony Holy Cross Church Linden Reception Lockeford Springs Golf Course Lodi Catering Lockeford Springs Golf Course Lodi Wedding Cake Teresa’s Cakes Lodi Flowers Flower Basket Lodi Bridesmaids Dresses The Elizabeth Bridal Salon Lodi

Diane & Eric Osterlie March 24, 2012, Holy Cross Church, Linden Nothing helps break the ice like a little friendly competition. For Diane and Eric, a poker game was the perfect way to engage in some frisky banter and open the door to what would become a seven year relationship, until Eric popped the question in April of 2011. When the couple planned their big day, they had a do-it-yourself mentality that helped make their event a unique affair. The DIY aspect offered plenty of excuses for the family to get together and create the bride’s vision. For wedding favors, Diane’s bridesmaids chipped in to make her family’s homemade pomegranate jam. “My bridesmaids came out and picked every little pomegranate seed out of hundreds and hundreds of pomegranates,” laughs Diane, who incorporated family recipes into other aspects of the celebration by serving her aunts’ personal recipes for the hors d’oeuvres, as well as her grandmother’s homemade biscotti. Another special touch was using the bride’s grandmother’s mailbox, which had been in front of her home since the bride was born, as a box for guests to put their cards. The mailbox was going to be replaced but the bride’s cousin cleverly salvaged it, painting it white and putting an address, 32412 Lovers Lane, using the couple’s wedding date for the address. Diane says that celebrating with their entire family was the most special part of her day; especially seeing her nephews, ages 9 and 6, tear it up on the dance floor all night long. Her advice to brides is to take several moments to absorb the memories.

“Take it in because the day goes by in such a whirlwind, you kind of forget everything. That was a big thing for me.

Taking a breath and looking around and thinking… this is my wedding day. This is happening.”

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REBECCA & DEREK’S WEDDING RESOURCES Flowers: Cazale’s Flower Shop (209) 466-7971 Cazalesflowershop.com Photographer: Lori Makabe Photography Lodi Catering: Viaggio Estate & Winery Acampo Cake: Something Sweet Bakery (formerly Heart’s Desire) Stockton DJ Services: Elite Entertainment Stockton Videographer: Media Fusion Stockton Bridesmaid Gowns: Bella Bridesmaid Sacramento

Rebecca & Derek Hanson October 15, 2011, Viaggio Estate & Winery, Acampo Derek and Rebecca are not San Joaquin locals, but when they decided to have a West Coast wedding to better accommodate their families, they discovered Acampo and instantly fell in love. “Everyone that was there said they had no idea this even existed,” says Rebecca of the area. “We really lucked out because it was just beautiful.” Rebecca says that they hoped to create an elegant, classic looking affair for their wedding, and having Viaggio as a backdrop made it easy. The bride wore a timeless fit-n-flare gown down the aisle, and the bridal party donned long, modern gowns in a rich shade of gray. All the men wore tuxedos, and the venue was decorated with plenty of white flowers and candles to give the room an ambient glow. Rebecca says her favorite part of the day was the fifteen minute break she and Derek had for a short sunset photo shoot. Because there were so many friends and family to visit with during the wedding, she was grateful for the small window of time to connect and let reality sink in. “It was the most peaceful moment of the entire day and probably the entire weekend.” Rebecca says if she could give newly engaged brides a piece of advice, it would be to enjoy the engagement period. “I got engaged and I immediately started thinking about the wedding and what was going to happen...” she recalls. “There’s only so much time in your life where you can say ‘my fiancée’ or ‘I’m engaged’… just enjoy that time.”

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ALICE & BRAD’S WEDDING RESOURCES Photography: Matthew James Photographers (209) 625-6349 matthewjamesphoto.com Reception Location & Catering: The Reserve Stockton Wedding Gown & Bridesmaid Dresses: House of Fashion Bridal Salon Sacramento Tuxedos: Men’s Warehouse Stockton Transportation: Patterson Limousine Stockton Wedding Cake: M&W Dutch American Bakery Stockton DJ Services: Elite Entertainment Stockton

Alice & Brad Joaquin July 15, 2011, Cathedral of the Annunciation, Stockton San Joaquin natives Alice and Brad got engaged at the end of their annual trip to Santa Cruz. “He tried to propose all week while we were there and I didn’t know,” says Alice. “Anytime we’d go somewhere I’d invite people so… it wasn’t until we got back that he did.” Eventually, Brad did get a “yes” from Alice, and the couple planned a colorful, summertime affair. “I always loved the month of July… and that’s actually when we started dating,” says Alice, who focused on using lots of colorful flowers in their décor including roses, hydrangeas, daisies, and plenty of greens. The couple also decided to create a candy bar filled with chocolate covered goodies, gummy bears, skittles and more, so that guests could snack on sweets at the reception or take home their own goodie bags. Another important detail was the photography. They chose Matthew James Photographers for their distinct style. “I liked that they weren’t cookie cutter,” says Alice. While planning, Alice kept an easygoing demeanor to avoid becoming overwhelmed. “I took a more mild approach but it was fun,” she says. “I didn’t try to taste all the cake… I didn’t have to see it all. If it worked for us, I’d check it off the list.” Alice says if brides want to avoid the wedding craze they should follow their gut and go with the first option they like. Needless to say, Alice and Brad’s big day was a success and their relaxed planning style worked just fine. “I can’t even express the feeling of having your closest family and friends there,” says Alice of the celebration. “It was such an overwhelming yet amazing feeling. It was such a feeling of love.”—K.B.

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Photography: Darling Photography (209) 406-1374 Darlingphotosbyvicki.com Wedding Cake: Old Time Pastries Turlock DJ Services: No Limits Disc Jockey Service Modesto Wedding Dress: David’s Bridal Modesto Tent Rental: A&L Products Inc Ceres Flowers: Janet Flowers Modesto

Rebecca & Mitchell Gill April 28, 2012, Rebecca’s Parents’ Home, Ceres When Rebecca got married, she was the third daughter in her family to walk down the aisle, so she was prepared for the planning ahead. Opting for a creative, backyard wedding with lots of do-it-yourself details, she and her husband Mitchell tied the knot with over 200 of their closest family and friends in Ceres. Having met on the website Match.com, the couple chose to put their own twist on the typical bouquet and garter toss and instead threw boxes, each with their own fake Match.Com profiles inside and fun “first date” gifts like movie tickets and gift cards to Starbucks. Other handmade elements included centerpieces that the bride’s father welded and sculpted out of industrial metal pipes, which were then embellished with birch branches from the family’s own backyard, silk roses, and hanging crystals. “I’m not a very traditional bride. I kind of have my own style,” says Rebecca, who added that she’s never been in to the “princess” thing and wanted to give her ceremony an edgier look. The couple combined traditional wedding elements with more artistic details like a dramatic backdrop of framed damask behind the cake table, black hanging chandeliers, and black leather spiked boots which the bride wore under her white gown. Rebecca said the key to their wedding was having a laid-back outlook. Forty-five minutes before walking down the aisle, a gust of wind blew over an awning she had built for the ceremony. It was draped with fabric and decorated with flower sconces and even a chandelier, but the entire thing toppled. Without panicking, the bride’s father came to the rescue with his own forklift and repaired the customized altar in the nick of time. “There’s bound to be something that will happen,” says Rebecca. “It just makes the day that much cooler. It makes it something to talk about. I wouldn’t have cared if my dad picked up that awning and just laid it in a pile, I wouldn’t have cared. Things happen and there’s no need in stressing out.”

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BILTMORE ESTATE: Where Love Lives Large

BY JENNIFER THORNTON

The storied Biltmore Estate, once the private getaway of playboy George Vanderbilt II (heir to the Vanderbilt fortune), now stands as one the Southeast’s principal draws. One of the few places in the nation that can legitimately claim to offer something for everyone, this sprawling testament to Gilded Age opulence surrounded by the mountains of Western North Carolina is uniquely suited for honeymooners—particularly couples with a penchant for luxury, a love of history and a hankering for the great outdoors.

Today, more than a century after construction was completed on the French-country “chateau” in 1895, the meticulously preserved residence still stands as the largest in the country. Occupier of 8,000 acres, the Biltmore certainly nabs most im-

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pressive honors. Hearst Castle may get the love here in Cali, but its fabled Southeastern counterpart generates the buzz down South—and judging by the flocks of annual visitors hailing from all corners of the globe, just about everywhere else too.

myriad of recreational opportunities nodding to the Biltmore’s culinary heritage, agricultural past, and horticultural legacy. Think wine tasting, cooking classes, Kitchen Garden, wine cellar tours, togo picnics, garden tours, and fresh blooms on offer.

Comprising the Biltmore Estate is the Biltmore House and Gardens—the former with 250 art and antique-filled rooms in two wings, and the latter conceived by 19th-century landscape starchitect Frederick Law Olmstead—and a variety of dining spots and shops. Connected to it is Antler Hill Village & Winery, also featuring mercantile-type stores, but with the addition of a farm, an outdoor adventure center where visitors can arrange more activities than they knew existed, and even more culinary options. Add to this the luxurious but more accessible Inn on Biltmore Estate, a four-star hospitality offshoot with 213 elegantly appointed rooms and nine suites that once served as quarters for guests of the Vanderbilt’s. There’s also a

For honeymooners, romance takes shape several ways. First of all, check your pulse if you don’t feel immediately swoony the minute you step on the grounds of the massive estate—“massive” being a massive understatement. It’s sweeping in a way that the Grand Canyon is; you see it, but you really can’t believe it. For my husband (a sappy romantic who helps me gauge the places best suited for other saps), and me, it meant checking in to the Inn at Biltmore for a blissful two-nighter.

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If the rating didn’t give it away, rooms here are lavish, appointments plentiful, and accolades consistent—the Inn at Biltmore is a Conde Nast Traveler’s gold lister from way back. (Hint: if you casually

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Honeymoon throw out the fact that you’re on your honeymoon at check in, voila, you may see Champagne and sweets in your room). Among the amenities of interest to the honeymoon set is the spa, an excessively indulgent hideaway doling out a his and hers “Estate Experience” that relaxed, exfoliated and soothed my husband and me into a near catatonic state of submission. Though not together for our treatments, later, tension gone, we met up for a glass of wine and, fair warning lovers, tried not to fall asleep. (Alas, we were unsuccessful.)

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Equally filling is the Biltmore’s extensive activity list—for honeymooners this runs the gamut depending on your vacation style. My husband is an outdoors hound and I’m a history lover with

Later we took an Architect’s Tour of the Biltmore House, which confirmed every notion I had about “living large.” Stricken by the stories and the vintage ornaments adorning the grand residence (both earning a big “whoa” in our book), we grappled with the structure’s sheer scale over a gourmet picnic from the Bake Shop at Biltmore House, which we shared amid the fragrance and flora of the Spring Garden (think white pines and hemlock among spring’s most beautiful blooms). We further marveled at the fact that this was one of only several lush gardens on the property, all worthy of a tour.

Sadly, our tour of the Biltmore Estate came to an inevitable end. But for countless other honeymooners, mark my words: It is an idyllic start to Happily Ever After.

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In the Biltmore’s backyard is artsy Asheville. Chockablock with charming boutiques, bistros, shops and a buzzing arts scene, this quaint hub of Southern culture is more populated these days thanks to The Hunger Games, which was shot in the surrounding mountains of Western North Carolina, but don’t let that deter you. Here, a few arguments for a few hours downtown (longer if you got it).

A hotbed of local culture, Asheville boasts more than thirty art galleries in its funky downtown alone. As such, studio strolls, gallery hops and art walks are common, and the River Arts District and Folk Art Center both house art collections, exhibits and demos year-round. Equally pulsating is the music scene, which other parts of the uninformed country may well consider “emerging,” but locals proudly boast that it has always been thriving. Indeed, here cross-genre acts, from traditional balladeers and mountain musicians to contemporary alternative rockers, perform lively shows attended by equally energetic crowds. Continuing the onslaught of culture are historic attractions, museums and a shockingly large amount of Art Deco architecture (the most concentrated collection in the Southeast). I was also surprised to learn that in addition to claiming the largest American residence in the Biltmore Estate, Asheville also has its oldest: the SmithMcDowell-House Museum.

Two of the most heralded attributes of Asheville are the farm-to-table cuisine and shopping; the first for its fresh Southern flavors (restaurants range from casual to upscale) and locally owned coffee shops (a real find for this devotee of the freshly brewed bean), and the second for absolute uniqueness. Finds here include arts and crafts, Southern antiques and one-of-a-kind trinkets (Asheville could easily be monikered “Home of the Unusual Souvenir”).

Bringing everyone together is the great (seriously, great) outdoors—in Asheville this means some of the most beautiful topography in the entire nation. Often referred to as the “playground of the Southeast,” the surrounding mountains set the stage for both serene pursuits (nature walks, stargazing, horseback riding) and high-octane adventure (biking, zip lining, water sports). Hiking in these parts is one of the more popular pastimes, and it yields the best opportunity for mind-blowing photo ops. The best scenery is along Blue Ridge Parkway. This stunning 469-mile stretch of road named “America’s Most Scenic Drive” lives up to its billing and impresses at every turn (some of them hairpin!).

Indulgences extend to dining. There is no shortage of light-bit eateries and confectionary at the Biltmore Estate, but when it comes to fine dining, The Dining Room at the Inn sets an exquisite table. Here, patrons glimpse the dining habits of the Vanderbilt clan (and are incredibly jealous once they do). Fresh ingredients harvested directly from acres of Biltmore Estate farmland are plucked then utilized by the culinary team to create dishes featuring everything from fresh berries to estate-raised cattle. Even the grapes are cultivated for estate-made wine.

a bent for gorgeous interiors and gardens. Needless to say, both of us found ourselves in incredibly good stead at the estate. After hitting the outdoor adventure center at Antler Hill Village, where my better half fulfilled his male fantasy of off-roading, he later surprised me with a private carriage ride, clandestinely arranged while I was wine tasting.

The Road Less Traveled

The mountainous landscape surrounding the Biltmore Estate makes for thrilling outdoor adventure, but none more hair-raising than the Land Rover Experience Driving School, which puts adrenaline junkies behind the wheel of a brand-new Land Rover for off-road excursions through breathtaking backcountry. This factory-backed off-road driving program runs all year long, in all types of weather, on more than 4,000 acres of trails. Highly trained instructors drive this outfit, which takes into account one’s piloting abilities—so, no side tilts or traversing complex obstacles if you can’t hang. During these nail-biting jaunts, drivers learn to handle ascents and descents and may even give rock crawling a go (not for the faint of heart, but definitely good for honeymooners who will stop at nothing to hang on to one another—for dear life or otherwise). Full-day excursions or shorter 1-2 hour lessons are available.

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BY JENNIFER THORNTON

Once a steal-away spot for Tinseltown luminaries like Frank Sinatra and Ava Gardner whose love den, Twin Palms Estate, proudly remains, Palm Springs is still swingin’ after all these years.

Credit stylish boutiques, hip hotels, mod architecture, stunning landscape and a buzzing cultural scene for its rise up the now trending radar. Here, the mini-moon hot spots.

STAY: While the Viceroy and Parker hotels all nod Hollywood (blink and you’ll miss a celebrity), hipsters unpack for less, but considerably more, at the Ace (acehotel.com). A gym, large common patio area (complete with tricked-out retro airstream trailer!), pool, and outdoor spa services (“best massage in Palm Springs” claims are frequent) are among the perks of staying at this 180-room, pet-friendly palace that takes its Rat-Pack design cues from midcentury mod (Elle Décor is a fan). But it’s the little things— cheese popcorn from the mini-bar, rooms with vinyl record players and a specially curated mix of lobby tunes—that make Ace the place to stay in Palm Springs.

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of the culture set, while outdoor lovers delight in an abundance of desert adventure. Hike lush Indian Canyons, roam nearby Joshua National Park, or take the glass-walled Palm Springs Aerial Tramway up 6,000 feet to Mt. Jacinto State Park. Scale the dunes at Coachella Valley Preserve and seek shade under its palm oases, or glimpse the beauty of the desert by hot-air balloon. Closer to town, tee off at one of several golf courses or hop a cruiser around town (visitpalmsprings.com). Just twelve miles on its outskirts, the town of Desert Hot Springs (deserthotsprings.com) is home to modestly-priced hot-spring spas, boho bodegas, 99-cent tacos and roadside succulents.

SHOP: Desperately seeking style? Hit the chic galleries, alfresco dining, retro boutiques and consignment shops lining Palm Canyon Drive. Here excess comes courtesy of Trina Turk’s namesake outpost. Saturated in bright yellow and teeming with covetable trinkets, this is what desert dreams are made of. Joining it is high-end Studio One 11 and the Uptown Heritage Galleries and Antique District. Lower on the cost scale, but no less indulgent, is the flea market finds at Dazzles. (palmcanyondrive.org) DINE: Flavor continues via a diverse culinary scene— funky patio joints, specialty concepts and all eateries in between represent. Lulu California

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as soon as you’re engaged

as soon as you’re engaged: Get Prepared • Set a Budget • Discuss Time Frame and Dates

THE PLAN

Countdown to the Big Day 9-12 Months to Go:

4-6 Months to Go:

Envision the big picture • Do your research • Put an organization system in place • Pick a date • Book venues for the ceremony and reception • Send out save-the-dates • Set spending limits; budget in shared expenses • Consult with clergy • Start to compile guest list • Hire a wedding planner, if necessary • Shop around for vendors • Select a theme and colors • Choose the wedding party • Hunt down a gown • Start a gift registry

Consider the details • Check wedding license requirements • Coordinate colors and themes with vendors • Select ceremonial details (music, readings) • Order wedding cake • Order wedding rings • Bring in the pros: choose the caterer, florist, officiant, photographer/videographers, and entertainment • Hire your glam squad (hair stylist, makeup artist) • Arrange the honeymoon • Find a location for the rehearsal dinner • Book wedding night accommodations • Determine attire for groom and wedding attendants • Order guest favors • Register for gifts

2 Months to Go: Leave nothing to chance • Send out invites • Plan the rehearsal dinner • Coordinate and prepare for out-of-town guests • Schedule hair and makeup appointments • Prep documents if you are changing your name • Take final guest count • Confirm the catering plan • Plan bachelor and bachelorette parties • Pick up wedding rings • Make travel and hospitality arrangements for out-of-town guests • Script wedding vows, if necessary • Take stock of wedding day accessories (garter, rings, pillow)

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1 Month to Go:

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Etiquette Can I fire one of my bridesmaids?

Before you kick a bridesmaid out of your party, stop and think about what made you ask them to be part of your big day in the first place. Sometimes the hustle and bustle of wedding plans can turn people into big balls of stress.

But if you calm down and have a heart to heart with your maid, you may remember why they’re important to you and work out whatever issue you have. If that’s not possible, then yes you can fire your maid, but make sure you handle the situation privately. In some cases, the bridesmaid might agree with your feelings and back out on their own. But if you’re cutting someone loose who doesn’t necessarily want to go, be prepared to lose that person’s friendship. Whatever the case, be tactful. Do not discuss the matter in front of other people. Remain classy and keep the details between you and your (former) maid.

Should I drink alcohol at my wedding?

If you spend so much time and money planning the biggest party of your life, it makes sense that you of all people should be allowed to cut loose when the big day comes. However, there is a difference between having a good time, and getting blackout, fall-down drunk in front of the grandparents. Everyone handles alcohol differently, so the important thing is to know your limit. Make a game plan to ration out your cocktail intake throughout the night and to balance your drinks with food. You might also enlist someone in your bridal party to be your voice of reason in case you get a little too loose. Just remember, you want to remember this night for the rest of your life and you definitely don’t want to end it over a toilet bowl.

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Once the ring goes on the finger, it seems like everybody suddenly has an opinion on how to plan your perfect wedding.

It can be exhausting, and with so many details to keep track of, it’s easy to forget the dos and don’ts of wedding etiquette. We’ve got the answers to your most pressing questions to help you avoid wedding day drama.

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Is it rude to request money for a wedding gift?

It used to be frowned upon to ask for cash, but in this day and age when many couples are already living together, and have already accrued their toaster, dishware, serving spoons, and bedding—cash gifts are simply more useful and practical whether the couple wants to put the money towards a honeymoon, a down payment on a new home, or even a car. Many couples are using online money registries like Deposit a Gift (depositagift.com), but since that makes it impossible for people to hide the exact dollar amount they’re gifting, it could make them feel uncomfortable. Provide a traditional registry along with it to give guests an option. Or, just go with a traditional registry but tell close friends and family that, if anyone asks, the couple would prefer cash for their gift. No matter what you get, it’s the thought that counts!

I am having a small wedding; do I have to invite my unmarried friends with a plus one if they’re dating someone?

Unmarried guests are not automatically entitled to a plusone, especially if you are trying to keep things small or stay within a tight budget. Set a rule and stick to it for everyone invited, so you don’t show favoritism or hurt anyone’s feelings. For example, you might decide only guests who have been dating someone for at least a year will be invited with a plus-one.

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DO YOUR HOMEWORK: Collect wedding cake photos and other things that inspire you to share with your wedding cake confectioner.

EYE BEFORE YOU BUY: Don’t be in a sugar rush to make a decision. Ask questions, sample the goods, and be open to other ideas.

BAKERY: Before settling on a particular cake maker, shop around. Find a baker who is open to your vision, and has the skills and experience to execute it.

CONSIDER THE LOGISTICS: It’s okay to be sweet on style as long as you’ve thought about the nuts and bolts of cake-making.

Arrange a complimentary tasting, discuss plate/pillar rental fees and delivery costs, and be aware of payment and cancellation policies.

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MAKE ARRANGEMENTS: Find a collaborative floral designer with whom you connect. Reputable florists will be able to supply references and a work portfolio.

IDENTIFY YOUR NEEDS: Simple backyard weddings may call for a do-it-yourself bouquet of wildflowers and a discreet boutonniere, while formal occasions of size usually require a long list of intricate florals for everything from groomsmen and ring bearer corsages to botanical-rich table-toppers and cake-accenting rose petals.

SET A BUDGET: Although fiscal demands of weddings vary depending on their elaborateness, plan on setting aside about 8 to 10 percent of your total budget for flowers.

STICK TO YOUR STYLE: Not only should blooms be season and style appropriate, they should also complement bridal party attire (especially the bride’s gown), venue, theme, and color palette. Bring fabric and/or color swatches to meetings with florists.

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Tradition,

Back Talk

TakeTwo! We’re all for something old, but come on. Behold, the top ten wedding traditions we can live without—and the one we can’t believe we ever lived with (we’re talking to you, number 10).

—By Jennifer Thornton and Katy Berry

Strip Club Bachelor Parties

Special thanks to The Hangover films for breathing new life into this time-honored tradition. Oh wait, gross.

The Bouquet Toss

Because there’s nothing single women appreciate more than being herded together to floor-dive for the bride’s flowers

Tossing the Garter

Okay I caught the bouquet, now what?

Oh, that man has to put his hands up my dress? Splendid!

Bankrupting Friends.

Weeklong stag parties and bridal showers in exotic locales? How about we hit downtown Lodi and call it a night.

The Receiving Line.

Awkward even for Prince William and Kate Middleton.

Cake in the face.

Why not just hand out pies while we’re at it?

The Dollar Dance.

Close the wallet Uncle Harry!

She’s not for sale!

Group Dances

After they pronounce the couple man and wife, let’s pronounce a ban on the Macarena, Conga Line, Chicken Dance, and Electric Slide. C’mon, you know you won’t miss them. Please?

Throwing Rice

Now a-days, guests lovingly pelt the couple with bird seed so the our winged-friends don’t die of rice consumption, but either way the bride still gets to enjoy picking tiny bits of feed from her hair, dress, and cleavage.

Dowries

Nothing says “true love” like marrying off your daughter for cold hard cash.

We’re glad this Victorian tradition petered out along with petticoats.

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