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What’s Inside Bridal Event Calendar 10 Talk-worthy Trends 12 Beauty Buzz 20 Inspiration Board 22 Bridal Gown Trends 28 Under The Tuscan Sun 32 photography by Briggs Photography

Local Brides & Grooms 40

Local couples share the details of their big day.

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The Honeymoon 68 Utah’s Park City offers newlyweds the historic getaway they’ve always dreamed of.

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Publisher | EDITOR Tony Zoccoli managing editor Ffjorren Zolfaghar Creative department David Martinez EDItorial inquiries editorial@sanjoaquinmagazine.com Section editor Michele Bird ContributING WRITER Jenn Thornton Photography Lori Makabe Photography, Briggs Photography, Matthew James Photographers, Darling Photography, Amanda Collins Photography

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Cake Creations 84 Elegant Flowers 86 Back Talk 88 Big day, your way

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San Joaquin Weddings magazine accepts freelance contributions, however, there is no guarantee that manuscripts or photography (solicited or unsolicited) will be returned. San Joaquin Weddings magazine assumes no responsibility or liability for claims made by advertisers contained herein. The opinions expressed do not necessarily reflect the views of San Joaquin Weddings magazine or its parent company, Inside Magazines Publishing Company, or its owners. Inside Magazines is not responsible for typographical errors or omissions.

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Save the Date 2013-2014 Upcoming Bridal Events throughout the area

17th Annual Summer Bridal Event

Sacramento Evening of Elegance Bridal Expo

International Wedding Festival

Lincoln Center 3rd Annual Strolling Bridal Faire

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September 21 & 22, Citrus Heights January 25-26, 2014, Citrus Heights

September 15, Modesto

February 23, Stockton

This expo showcases the diverse cultural and style options available in the central valley. Local vendors will sponsor a fashion show to highlight trends for the entire bridal party, and offer deals on everything from dresses to carriage rides. $15, 11 a.m.-4 p.m.

Modesto Centre Plaza, 10th & K Streets, Modesto, (209) 966-3890, internationalweddingfestival.com

This leisurely bridal show offers a chance to explore Lincoln Center’s boutiques and chat with local vendors about all of your wedding needs.

Enter to win thousands of dollars in prizes, including a Justin Alexander gown. Friends of the bride attend free. $15 for brides, with $10 good toward lunch at participating Lincoln Center restaurants. 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Lincoln Center, Stockton, (209) 477-4868, lincolncentershops.com

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This evening of elegance features early arrival prizes, a grand prize and a fabulous fashion show. Pre-registering for the event automatically enters you to win a romantic overnight package at the Stockton Hilton Hotel, which includes dinner, champagne and strawberries, and breakfast for two. $12. 2323 Grand Canal Blvd., Stockton, (209) 475-9161, bridalevents.info

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Over 65 exhibits. Sample food by Sienna Restaurants and have a mini wine taste by It’s Personal. Then chose between two large ballrooms filled with beautiful displays by our hand picked wedding professionals and party vendors. Register on line for additional prizes and free tickets for the bride and groom. 11 a.m.-4p.m. Tickets $10 Lake Natoma Inn in Folsom, 702 Gold Lake Dr. Folsom CA , folsombridalshow.com

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Soak in ideas for the big day while sipping bubbly and sampling hors d’oeuvres at the Sunrise Mall. Bridesand grooms-to-be can try their hand at a bouquet toss, cake eating contest, and luggage packing game to win anything from flowers to a honeymoon in Mexico. Admission and parking are free. Mall hours. 6041 Sunrise Mall, Citrus Heights, (916) 392-5000, bridalexpos.com

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Future brides can take advantage of in-show deals from photographers, florists, DJs, bakers, and salons at this one of Northern California’s largest bridal expos. Hourly fashion shows will provide inspiration for bridal looks, and thousands of dollars of prizes will be given away. $10 at the door, $8 with online discount. 11 a.m.-4 p.m. 1209 L Street, Sacramento, (800) 787-2248, bridalshowcase-ca.com

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My Bridal Sale Event & Wedding Expo February 1, Sacramento

Check out everything from gourmet cakes to bachelorette party services at this huge Sacramento show. Attendees can fill up their swag bags with free goodies or enter hourly drawings to score some high-end prizes from local vendors. $10 in advance, $12 at the door. 11 a.m.-4 p.m. Crowne Plaza Sacramento, 5321 Date Ave, Sacramento, (866) 931-8508, mybridalsale.com

University Plaza Waterfront Hotel’s Bridal Fair February 21, Stockton

Come join Stockton’s most respected wedding professionals at the beautiful University Plaza Waterfront Hotel as they host this elegant event for bridesto-be, with plenty of informative vendors and other surprises. Prices and times TBA. University Plaza Waterfront Hotel, 110 West Fremont St., Stockton, (209) 944-1140, valleyweddingpros.com

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Embellishment is back! From bejeweled shapes to dazzling lace appliqué overlays, wedding-dress decoration is all the rage on the runways. Courting center stage at the altar are garnished gowns making a major comeback—and a serious sartorial statement—for summer nuptials. Expect a parade of glorious presentations from top designers, who have restyled frills to fanciful new levels. We love the reboot of ruffles, and covet ofthe-moment ornamentation, from full fluttering bows to tiered tulle trimmed with tasteful expressions of sparkle and splendor.

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kick up the romance quotient in a modern way; and embossed bodices and feathered necklines all know how to make an entrance. Even impeccably tailored minimalist looks are benefitting from this beautification—think classically refined architectural touches titivated with subtle treatments. If it’s all out glamour you’re after, you’ll likely find it dripping in faux diamonds—glistening crisscrossed backs, dramatically enhanced décolletage, intricately detailed couture collars, haughty halters and big-time shimmer prove that this season is all about the shine. Simply brilliant! –Jenn Thornton

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From budding altars to imaginative blooms cascading from unlikely places, uniquely arranged flowers are adorning weddings in fresh new ways. With floral designers taking bold chances, bespoke botanicals bloom anew, with one-of-a-kind creations taking root from ceremony to reception. While the waterfall wedding bouquet enjoys a bold second act as dramatic wall dĂŠcor, creatively grouped flowers dress ceilings and deck doorways. And though the floral archway is nothing new, its look is fresher than ever, with designers stepping up their game to re-conceptualize clustered flora in forms both edgy and artful. Succulents

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are finding homes in unusual assemblages featuring feathers and branches; citrus-themed centerpieces sweeten up tablescapes; streams of garland modernize the once-sacred ceremonial canopy; and slackly hung strands of unsung blossoms, like the comeback-carnation, provide DIY flair and, taken up a notch, full on flourish. If all else fails, give petals mettle, either in a loose-leaf display circling the base of trees, to jazz up a panache-less pathway, or as floating garnish in custom wedding cocktails. Talk about a bouquet of flavors! –Jenn Thornton

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Just in time for big-day summer soirees, birds take flight.

From fondant fliers providing a new take on cake, to sparrow-shaped confetti, to elaborate birdcage centerpieces, winged wedding décor is perfect for lovebirds. For the ceremony, bird watching is in full effect; down the aisle, the trend takes shape in feather-accented florals (bouquets! boutonnières!); at the altar, a reinvented ring pillow features a nest creatively concealing wedding bands. As the flock flies to the reception, the scene soars, with a DIY aviary festooned with a mix of high-low finery giving way to wing-

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themed tablescapes and Audubon-accented birdcages. Birdseed doubles for rice, and birds nest with blooms in sweet arrangements that get everyone tweeting. Upping the favors game are birdhouse gift boxes and tea towels embroidered with the day’s featured creature; reimaging the guest book, meanwhile, is the duty of a dove note tree, featuring paper cagelings serving as winged messengers for tender missives.

Finally, programs, place cards and paper garland etched with the season’s of-the-moment motif set hearts aflutter. This season, bird is the absolute word! –Jenn Thornton

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Gracing the green scene at weddings everywhere is the color mint, a tamer version of Panton’s reigning color of the year, and a particularly sage choice for the now-trending affair.

Freshening up guest gifting are mint-tinted favors in a spectrum of charms coated in the candy-bright color. Dressing up everything from edible sweets to personalized tea tins, mint is a hit at both contemporary and eras-past-inspired weddings, accenting modern-day affairs and playing right into the vintage-decor craze. Drenched in this summer-soft saturation, newly minted favors tantalize when paired with gold packag-

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ing, and look equally lovely with lilac and bespoke with burlap. Light-green lemonade in old-timey bottles makes for a great takeaway, as does mint-scented soaps and candles, along with retro confectionary like minty cake pops and macaroons.

These trinkets take their place next to more literal interpretations of the trend, be them mint-filled linen sachets or prettily potted plants. Mint also makes its way into evergreen endowments like candles and the custom-labeled brigade—think matchboxes, playing cards, and pencils. Now that’s what we call a minty-fresh remembrance! –Jenn Thornton

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Euphoria by Lush Splash on a bit of bliss with this all-natural fragrance. Featured ingredient clary sage oil, helps calm the nerves, promotes feelings of well-being and stimulates the sensual side of life. $25.95. Available at lushusa.com

Temperature Rising Lipstick in Sheer seduction by MAC Sheer seduction. This shimmery textured lip color adds glitter and glam to any wedding day face. $16.50. Available at maccosmetic.com

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You’ve been planning for months; now make sure you have all your beauty details down pat. From accessories to keep you warm to cool new makeup trends, we’ve got you covered for your trip down the aisle.

They’re real by Benefit Curl, lengthen and volumize your lashes with this jet-black mascara. The staggered bristles and long-wearing formula combo provides an “out-to-here” look without fake lashes and glue. $23. Available at Ulta, 5410 Pacific Ave. Stockton, (209) 235-1209, ulta.com

HD Complexion Starter Kit

by Make Up For Ever Achieve a flawless, high-definition complexion with this three-step process kit. It minimizes the appearance of pores, provides camo for flaws and offers a soft-focus finish. $79. Available at Sephora, Manteca (209) 923-6233, sephora.com

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Brow Zings by Benefit For perfectly smooth and defined brows, you’ll get everything you need in one little box. $30. Available at Sephora, Manteca (209) 923-6233, sephora.com

All Nighter Long-Lasting Makeup Setting Spray

by Urban Decay Get smooth and vibrant makeup that lasts with this lovely spray. It actually lowers the temperature of your makeup, through heat and humidity, which keeps it in place all day. $29. Available at Ulta, 5410 Pacific Ave. Stockton, (209) 235-1209, ulta.com

Harlow Headpiece with Ivory Ribbon

Fastened with ivory ribbons, this vintage claw set beaded head piece adds a soft glow to billowing loose and fanciful curls, or a sleek and tight refined look. $440. Available at johannajohnson.com

Succarra Jewelry

These Jazz age style jewels sing with sparkly seduction. Let the soft and vintage notes swoon your style into a lovely wedded day.

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Designer: Jessie Lane Retail: Sapphire & Diamond Earrings, $3900. Available at jessielane.com

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Sea Inspired!

Coastal-cool summer nuptials take shape with a showcase of shoreline style and water’s-edge extras in a sea of coral-reef pinks and aquamarine. –JT

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Groom Khaki Summer Suit

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Blue and Gold Chair by Chameleon Chair Chameleonchair.com

Message in a Bottle Favor Factorydirectcraft.com

Ruffle cake and vintage cake plate Mywedding.com

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Rustic Chic

Fanciful farmlike affairs pretty up informal pastoral settings, lending natural beauty to a union of high fashion and low-country loveliness. –JT

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Farm Tablescape Designsponge.com

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Behemia in bloom

Romance returns with beau-monde botanicals befitting bohemian-chic style.

From discreet blossoms to flamboyant flora, celebrate a season of wedding fashion in full flourish – J.T.

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Sara & Chris’s Wedding Resources Photography: Lori Makabe Photography www.lorimakabe.com (707) 374-5272 Ceremony & Reception: Oak Farm Vineyards Lodi Wedding Gown: Blue Sky Bridal (in Seattle, WA) Bridesmaid Dresses: Jay Crew Hair & Make-up: Perfect Balance Day Spa, Lodi Flowers: We did our own. Debra Prato (Mother-in-law) and Barbara Neuman (family friend).

Catering: Angelino’s Spaghetti House Stockton Cake: Specialty Cakes Lodi

Sara & Chris Prato April 13, 2013, Oak Farm Vineyards, Lodi Sara and Chris met in college. Their story is one of two friends who became something more. It spans over seven years of dating, including grad school and long-distance romance, and ends with a dreamy wedding in a place not-so-far from the beginning of their tale. During their long-distance stint, while Sara was in Seattle and Chris was in California, Chris made frequent trips to visit his love. One of the first places they visited in Seattle together was Orcas Islands. “It was our go-to place when he would visit,” Sara explained. That is where Chris asked for Sara’s hand in marriage. He proposed on the beach, where the water met the sand, and thus began their wedding planning journey. Organizing the event was a bit challenging, as they were incorporating local and out-of-state aspects into their plan as well—like the “Bridal Ale” from Pike Brewing Company in Seattle.

However, thanks to Chris’ mom and grandparents, and a lot of other family and friends, the wedding was perfectly put together and went off without a hitch. Sara remembers the gorgeous weather, the perfect blossoms on every tree, and that her 90-year-old grandmother had a wonderful time. “We could not get her off the dance floor,” Sara said. She also recalled the starry-eyed sunset photos, “we were just sitting there watching the sunset and it was memorable because we had a moment to ourselves, to reflect on the day.”

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Cherie & Kevin’s Wedding Resources Photography: Lori Makabe Photography www.lorimakabe.com (707) 374-5272 Flowers: Embellish Floral Design Stockton Ceremony & Reception: Viaggio Winery & Estate Acampo Wedding Dress: Wedding Center USA (Modesto-no longer in business) Bridesmaids Dress: David’s Bridal Cake: Specialty Cakes Lodi Catering: Viaggio Winery & Estate Acampo DJ Service: Elite Entertainment Stockton

Cherie & Kevin Gresham October 27, 2012, Viaggio Winery & Estate Cherie and Kevin worked together at chili’s restaurant in Turlock years ago, which is where they met and became friends. After a while, it turned into something more romantic and led to a six year relationship. Kevin’s proposal completely took Cherie for surprise. They went to Laguna Beach, for a weekend getaway. After arriving, they had a nice dinner and then made plans to wake up super early the next day (4 a.m. early). The next day’s activity was a surprise; she had no idea where they were going, or even what to pack. Then, on the morning of October 9, 2011, they woke up and started driving inland. An hour and a half later, they pulled into a winery in Temecula; there were hot air balloons everywhere. “I had always wanted to go on a hot air balloon ride,” Cherie said. Kevin proposed to Cherie as they floated up into the sky. The wedding itself was wonderful. “My mom was super involved and she helped me out so much,” Cherie said. “Without her, nothing in my wedding would have been the way it was.” Kevin surprised Cherie with his garter dance routine, which he had been working on prior to their wedding day. He put on a show for all of the guests. “It totally got the party started. Everyone got in the mood to dance afterward,” she said.

Cherie looks back at her wedding day and is so grateful for the help from her mom and little brother. There weren’t any snags and everything went perfectly.

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Megan & Justin’s Wedding Resources Photography: Briggs Photography Corp.

(209) 239-7542 www.BriggsPhotography.com Flowers: The Big Bang Event Design Sacramento Ceremony & Reception: Wine & Roses Lodi Wedding Gown & Bridesmaid Dresses: House of Fashion Sacramento Cake: Frosted Flour Lodi Catering: Wine & Roses Lodi DJ Service: Elite Entertainment Stockton

Megan & Justin Carroll July 22, 2012, Wine & Roses, Lodi Megan met Justin five years before their wedding day. They met through a mutual friend who thought the couple might just hit it off. After one quick bar intro and a birthday party later, the two became inseparable. They moved in together within a year. Justin’s proposal, several years later, was perfectly romantic and completely unexpected. He took Megan to a Napa winery, along with mutual best friends, and proposed to her at the winery fountain, with a castle in the backdrop. “We both cried. Everyone at the winery was in on it. They brought out champagne. It was super awesome; such a cool day,” Megan explained. Planning the wedding was as seamless as their relationship. Megan’s mom was their wedding planner. “She made it so easy on me. I would have never been able to do it without her; she was amazing,” Megan said. They planned the wedding in eight months and each and every vendor they hired surpassed their expectations. The wedding itself conjures memories Megan will cherish forever, like walking down the aisle to the same song her mother used on her wedding day, and shopping for her wedding dress. When she and her mother found the dress, it was a special moment and they both began to cry. “When I look back at my wedding day, I still just feel blessed. I never thought my wedding would have been so magical and special. I cried when it was over…I did not want it to end,” Megan said.

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Hair & Make-up: The Spa at Wine & Roses Lodi Wedding Day in One Word: Magical

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Gianna & James’s Wedding Resources Photography: Briggs Photography Corp.

(209) 239-7542 www.BriggsPhotography.com Flowers: Bella Bloom Flowers Sacramento Ceremony & Reception: Viaggio Winery & Estate Acampo Wedding Dress: Mira Bridal Couture Modesto Bridesmaids Dress: House of Fashion Sacramento Cake: Something Sweet Bakery Galt Catering: Viaggio Winery & Estate Acampo

Gianna & James Goins May 4th, 2013, Viaggio Winery & Estate “It was an instant, love-at-first-sight kind of thing,” Gianna recalled. James and Gianna met, started dating and became inseparable. His proposal came within a year, in a magical and fairytale sort of land. “We got there the day before and didn’t go to Disneyland until the next day,” Gianna said. They took a picture in front of the castle, and then went about their day at the park. By the end of the day, James wanted another photo in front of the castle. When Gianna turned around for the pose, he was down on one knee. After she accepted, the end-of-day parade whizzed by them, like an indirect celebration of their future nuptials. James’ children were very excited about the wedding.

And as they began to plan a vintage-style gala, Gianna remembers James’ daughter saying that she was going to call her “mommy” as soon as the wedding was over; and, she did just that. “She gave me a big hug and said, ‘mommy,’” Gianna said. Their celebration was as perfect as they could have imagined. There were no hiccups; everything just flowed. James’ daughter was their flower girl and his son was their ring bearer, with his stuffed Elmo in tow. “His son is the happiest little boy in the world,” Gianna said. This new family is now complete, and James’ kids are truly a focal point. “They are really important to me,” Gianna said. From love-at-first-sight, to a whimsical proposal, this little family will surely find their happily ever after.

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DJ Service: Elite Entertainment Stockton Invitations & Announcements: Papyrus Hair & Make-up: Kayde Smith (make-up) Ciao Bella, Lodi (Hair) Wedding in one word: Perfect.

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Allison & Adam’s Wedding Resources Photographer: Darling Photography Flowers: San Francisco Events & Flowers Fremont Ceremony & Reception: Palm Event Center Livermore Wedding Dress: Trudy’s Bridal Campbell Bridesmaids Dress: Trudy’s Bridal Campbell Cake:

Gluten Free Dessert table, which included small cutting cakes from Las Gatos Baking Company, homemade flourless chocolate cakes from a family friend, and cookies and cupcakes.

Catering: Palm Event Center Livermore

Allison & Adam Johnson February 15, 2013, Ruby Hill Winery, Palm Event Center Allison and Adam met at work in 2010. “It was a little bit of both…love at first sight, but also a friendship,” Allison recalled. “We were also a little afraid of the work relationship.” They took it slow and started with lunch dates in the beginning. They spent their first full “date night” together at the Alameda County fair, where they ran around and ate bad fair food; and they found out they seemed to like all the same things. “It’s been a joke of ours for a long time that it all happened over a big pulled-pork sandwich and a beer,” Allison said. “We totally fell in love that night.”

They also started a photo booth tradition at the fair, where they will go back and have their photo taken every year moving forward. Adam’s proposal was nothing less than amazing. The two went on a business trip to New York, where Adam planned a visit to “30 Rock.” Given they are both in the construction industry, he knew Allison was excited to see the famous black and white construction photo and statue. They went to the top of the building, and Allison looked over the edge, down at the city. When she turned around, Adam was down on one knee. Of course, she said yes. Planning the wedding was a bit stressful, but once they found the place, everything else fell into place.

Their wedding day went perfectly. “I was prepared for something to go wrong, but nothing did,” Allison said. “It was a flawless day. We laughed that we didn’t want it to end.”

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DJ Service: A Sound Enterprise Pleasanton Invitations & Announcements: storkie.com Hair & Make-up: Salon Chic & Day Spa Livermore Wedding Day in One word: Surreal.

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Kellye & Cody’s Wedding Resources Photographer: Darling Photography Flowers: Thee Event Escalon Ceremony & Reception: Borges Park Farmington Wedding Dress: La Boutique des Brides San Francisco Bridesmaids Dress: Wedding Center USA (Modesto-no longer in business) Cake: Linda Bernardi Modesto Catering: Top Flight Catering Stockton DJ Service: Diamond Dave Walnut Creek

Kellye & Cody Caton August 11, 2012, Borges Park, Farmington Kellye and Cody met on a blind date in high school; on prom night nonetheless. She was 15 years old and he was 17.

The magical introduction led to three years of dating, until college prompted a mutual breakup. Although their relationship was on hiatus, their family did not lose touch. In fact, Kellye and Cody’s mom became great friends during that time. It truly foreshadowed the future, as time and distance did not leave the young couple at the end of their story; Kellye and Cody reunited after their four year break, only one year after Cody’s mom passed away. Cody’s proposal arrived on a cold winter’s eve, during a country, Christmas-lit drive; it was a beautiful end to their new beginning. He pulled over, started to cry, and gave his best words to his completely shocked bride-to-be. Of course, she said yes. And, although wedding planning was a bit stressful, Cody’s mother’s friends were immensely helpful. They took Kellye and Cody’s ideas and ran with them. The wedding itself was more than they anticipated. Everything was flawless, from getting ready in the morning, to the venue and event. A lovely memory for Kellye was her new husband’s surprise, as he chose the song for their first dance. She will always remember the perfect dance to “I love the way you love me,” by John Michael Montgomery. And, albeit emotional, as Cody’s mom was not present, the couple found solace and comfort within each other. It was a beautiful day, a stress-less event and one to be cherished, always.

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Brittany & Brady’s Wedding Resources Photography: Amanda Collins 215 E. Pine St. Lodi, (209) 200-3377 Flowers: The Flower Cart Lodi Ceremony & Reception: Lake Natoma Inn Folsom Wedding Dress: David’s Bridal Roseville Bridesmaids Dress: David’s Bridal Roseville Cake: Esther’s Cupcakes Roseville Catering: Lake Natoma Inn Folsom DJ Service: DJ Party Service Folsom

Brittany & Brady Davis September 14th, 2012, Lake Natoma Inn Brittany and Brady met at Tilly’s coffee shop in Lodi. Brittany was waiting for her mom to get off of work and Brady stopped in for lunch, to visit a friend who worked there too. They were friends for a long time before they started dating. But, once they did have their first date, Brady asked Brittany to be his girlfriend that very night. His proposal came years later, during a trip to LA. They chose that destination to specifically visit Magic Mountain. “He proposed to me in front of Magic Mountain,” Brittany said. “He was super nervous, it was so cute.” The wedding planning was really easy. Brady’s mom helped out a lot. “She was really helpful,” Brittany said. The actual wedding day, “was pretty chill,” she said. Brittany and her bridesmaids stayed in the hotel the night before the wedding and got ready there in the morning, while the guys played Nintendo 64 in their room before the actual ceremony. She’ll always remember her dad starting to cry, right before he walked her down the aisle; he was proud and happy for her. During the reception, guests enjoyed a relaxed atmosphere. A lot of the wedding party and some of the family members played “flip cup” with the bride and groom (a fun beer game). The groomsmen performed the Jewish tradition of Horah Hava Nagila, where they lifted both Brittany and Brady on chairs. “It was fun, and a little scary,” Brittany said. But, overall, she remembers it being fun. “It didn’t feel like the typical cookie-cutter wedding,” she said. “We liked it that way.”

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Melissa & John’s Wedding Resources Photography: Amanda Collins 215 E. Pine St. Lodi, (209) 200-3377 Flowers: Garden Wishes East Sacramento Ceremony: Saint Annes, Lodi Wedding Reception: Hutchins Street Square, Lodi Wedding Dress: Blossoms Bridal & Formal, Dublin Bridesmaids Dress: Alfred Angelo Roseville Cake: Queen of Hearts Cakes, Oakdale Catering: Scooters California Grill, Lodi DJ Service: DJ Sugar Ray, Cartwrights DJ Services, Fremont

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Invitations & Announcements: weddingpaperdivas.com

December 1st, 2012, Hutchins Street Square

Hair & Make-up: Megan Bower, Bellara Salon and Spa, Sacramento

Melissa really didn’t think she’d meet anyone online, especially not a potential hubby-to-be. But, to her surprise, she and John met via an online dating website and went on a long-lasting first date she did not want to end. They were engaged a year later. Over that time period, Melissa started to train for a local race that supports breast cancer, so John became her training partner. They would take long walks together, which helped grow their budding relationship. One of their walks led them to the alley where they said goodbye after their very first date. John caught Melissa by surprise by getting down on bended knee and proposing to her. He told her that he wanted this alley to be the first and last spot they would ever say “goodbye” to one another again; from there, they would spend the rest of their lives together. John planned a brunch with their families the next day to celebrate their future nuptials. Melissa’s mom, sister and her six bridesmaids collaborated on all of the wedding planning. Each one of them helped with a specific aspect of the plan, which made things a lot easier on Melissa. Their wedding day was perfect. “It was a magical day,” Melissa said. “At night, it rained so hard, but everyone was dancing inside and having a great time.” She will truly cherish their “anniversary dance,” instead of doing the traditional bouquet toss. “Anyone who was married got to come out on the dance floor,” Melissa said. People were asked to leave the dance floor after so many years of marriage had been called. “At 30 years, the dance floor was still completely covered with people,” Melissa said. “It was amazing to see how many couples were still married.” All in all, their wedding was really about the people, rather than the glitz and glam of getting married. It was a celebration of love.

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Julie & Brett’s Wedding Resources Ceremony & Reception:

Berghold Estate Winery 17343 Cherry Rd Lodi, (209) 333-9291

Flowers: Blooms by Martha, Sacramento Photography: Charleton Churchill Photography Jackson Wedding Dress: Priscilla of Boston, San Francisco Bridesmaids Dress: Haven Bridal Mart, Folsom Cake: Sweet Cakes by Rebecca Citrus Heights Catering: Il Fornaio Catering

Julie & Brett June 23rd, 2012, Berghold Estate Winery Julie & Brett started dating while they were attending Lincoln Law School in Sacramento. “He opened the door for me as I walked into school,” Julie said. They dated for four years before becoming engaged as they wanted to get through school, pass the bar, and start their careers first. “As cliché as it sounds, I knew Brett was the one from our very first date,” Julie said. Brett’s proposal came during the couple’s trip to St. Thomas, on Lindquist Beach. “Brett had everything planned out perfectly, including finding and hiring a local photographer to capture the proposal,” Julie said. From there, they had a wonderful time planning their wedding.

They enjoyed everything from the cake, food and wine tastings, to writing their vows and choosing the music. The wedding day was exactly how they would have imagined it. “The wedding was a dream come true…I just wish it didn’t go by so fast and that I could experience that day all over again!” Julie said. She will forever cherish the two “first looks” she experienced on her wedding day, first with her dad and then with Brett. The ceremony and reception were complete bliss, and the end of the evening was bitter sweet. “We were given a grand farewell as we walked hand in hand through a tunnel of light created by sparklers held by our guests,” Julie said. “It was a day we will never forget.”

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DJ Service: Extreme Productions Entertainment Sacramento Invitations & Announcements: Angela Dal Bon, Custom Invitations & Announcements, Sacramento Hair & Make-up: Neil SooHoo (hair) Christi Reynolds (makeup) Wedding Day in One Word: Unforgettable!

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Ashleigh & Jakes’s Wedding Resources Ceremony & Reception:

Classy Country Weddings (209) 931-5323 classycountryweddings.com Flowers: Janet’s Flowers Modesto Wedding Dress: David’s Bridal Modesto Bridesmaid Dresses: David’s Bridal Modesto Cake: Kris McAnich Elk Grove Catering: Classy Country Weddings Stockton

Ashleigh & Jake Ashby April 27th, 2013, Classy Country Weddings Ashleigh met Jake through Jake’s cousin, their mutual friend. They started hanging out during their summers in college. They officially started dating when Ashleigh went to visit Jake at school. The first part of their relationship was long distance, and they slowly moved closer to one another over the years. Once they both ended up in Modesto, things became more serious. One morning, they were on their way to a party for Jake’s cousin. Ashleigh recalled there was a bit of tension that morning. When they got to his cousin’s house, she noticed a scrapbook on the table outside. She started flipping through it and came upon photos of her and Jake together. The next page was of Jake, down on one knee. She turned around and there he was, on one knee as he began to propose. “We were in the backyard and my family was inside the house, watching through the window,” Ashleigh said. “Everyone’s family was there.” Before they even started to plan the wedding, she wanted to find her dress first. After she found it, the planning began and everything started coming together. “Jake agreed to most everything I wanted…but the guys could not wear pink and the food needed to be BBQ style,” she said. The guys ended up wearing jeans; it was comfy and depicted their style. The wraparound porch was perfect for the bridal processional; and Ashleigh remembers breaking down and crying when she came around the corner and saw her dad. The ceremony was extra special as Jake’s cousin got ordained in order to marry the two. Another great moment: Jake’s best friend from childhood sang their first dance, “Carried Away,” by George Strait. “It went very well…it all fell into place. Everything came out great,” Ashleigh said.

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Drennen & Tanner’s Wedding Resources Ceremony & Reception:

Dodasa Ranch

5059 Carol Lane Valley Springs, (209)481-4976 Photographer: Lola Marie Photography Livermore Flowers: Self Cake: Linda Bernardi (family member) Announcements & Invitations: weddingpaperdivas.com Wedding gown: Miosa Couture, Sacramento Bridesmaid dresses: David’s Bridal Modesto

Drennen & Tanner Gatzman September 22nd, 2012, Dodasa Ranch Drennen and Tanner met at the Oakdale rodeo in 2008, which set the theme for their future relaxed, ranch-style wedding. After three years of dating, the couple went to San Francisco to celebrate the time they shared with one another. It was also right before Drennen graduated from Sonoma state. They spent the day hiking around Angel Island, enjoying the beautiful October day. As they walked, they discussed future plans. Tanner spent the entire time convincing Drennen that marriage would not be a good thing right now. After their hike, they boarded the ferry for Alcatraz. “We finished the tour and Tanner lured me outside to look at the night lights of the city,” she said. A few minutes later, Tanner went to find someone to take their photo. He had a short conversation with a ranger who worked on the island. They took their photo, and then Tanner turned in toward Drennen and got down on one knee. “He said, ‘do you remember that big long conversation we had on the island about not getting married right now,’ and I said ‘yeah,’” she said. He went on to propose and then she squealed, cried and said yes.

Their wedding planning was fun. They wanted it to depict them, as individuals and as a couple. They spent a lot of time with DIY projects, like making all of their centerpieces together. Drennen, her mom, her aunt, and bridesmaids put together all of their flower arrangements. “Everything from start to finish had significant meaning to both of us,” she said. “We believe weddings are a celebration of the bride and groom, so our wedding was a reflection of us.” One of Drennen’s favorite memories of the day: the love note she passed to her husband-to-be during the ceremony. “I wrote Tanner a little note that the flower girl gave to him before I walked down the aisle…it said, I can’t wait to kiss you.”

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Hair & makeup: Katie Garon (family member) Catering: Mike’s Branding Iron, Modesto DJ: Tharp’s DJ Serives, Fresno and Modesto http://www.tharpsdjservice.com Wedding Day in One Word: Special!

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Alma & Rafael’s Wedding Resources Designer/Florist:

Elegant Essence, Manteca Patt Rasmy-Arvie, (209) 629-3357 Cinematographer: Paul Ortiz Photography: Mary Gillespie Photography, Lodi Flowers: Elegant Essence, Manteca (209) 629-3357 Ceremony & Reception: Cathedral of Annunciation & Stockton Memorial Civic Auditorium, Stockton Bridesmaid Dresses: David’s Bridal Cake: Silvia’s Wedding Cakes Catering: Carolina’s Mexican Restaurant

Alma & Rafael Beltran July 21, 2012, Elegant Essence Rafael and Alma met at her graduation party, through mutual friends. He sat next to her, and she turned to him and said “hi neighbor.” From that very moment, they got along perfectly; they had a lot of fun talking to each other that day. He asked her out on a date and they planned to meet the following week. “We fell for each other without even knowing” Alma said. “We always said we were perfect for each other.” They liked the same things, had similar ways of thinking, and they allowed each other to be real with one another. “I knew she was the one the moment I felt that I couldn’t be without her,” Rafael said. “I would catch myself thinking about her at all times.”

His proposal came during an impromptu trip to San Francisco. “I decided to take her on a random late night trip,” he said. Overlooking the water at Pier 39, Rafael asked for Alma’s hand in marriage. The wedding planning was fun, from the beginning to end. They supported one another through the entire process. “I was treated as a princess when planning the wedding, but always took his taste and ideas into consideration, and we made it into the wedding of our dreams,” Alma said. “That’s what love is all about, merging two worlds together and letting them flow, which is what made our wedding unique and unforgettable.” The wedding day was amazing. It was better than they imagined it would be. “From the start to the end, everything turned out perfect,” Rafael said. Alma will remember seeing each other on their wedding day, right before they left for the church. Rafael will cherish seeing his bride-to-be walk down the aisle. He said, “I will never forget removing her veil and looking into her eyes as we were about to join our lives into one.”

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DJ Service: Music on the Move DJ’s/MC’s and Mariachi for the beginning of the reception, and a Banda “Reyes del Roble” for the main dance time alternating with the DJ Invitations & Announcements: Homemade Hair & Make-up: Hector John Sum up your Wedding Day in One Word: Fairytale

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Rowena & Sam’s Wedding Resources Ceremony & Reception:

Elkhorn Grill

1050 Elkhorn Drive Stockton, (209) 474-3900 Flowers: Veronica’s Specialties Stockton Wedding Dress: Maggie’s Bridal & Formal Stockton Bridesmaids Dress: Je T’aime Bridal & Tuxedo Wear Modesto Cake: Yum Yum Cakes Stockton Catering: Elkhorn Grill Stockton

Rowena & Sam Fairbanks March, 9 2013, Elkhorn Grill Rowena and Sam met during a meeting at Kingdom Hall. “I remember seeing him standing there, and then I tripped as I walked over to him,” Rowena said. “We were so different.” She did not initially consider him to be her type. But, over the following year, she got to know him, and how kind he was; and then, he asked her parents for permission to go on a date with Rowena. “My mom was floored and absolutely loved it,” she said. They started dating in December and got engaged six months later. Their proposal was one Rowena will always cherish. After their meeting at church, they went out for ice cream. “Baskin Robbins is my favorite place in the world,” Rowena said.

“I am an ice cream fiend.” Once they arrived, she noticed that her family, and his, were all there. They were nicely dressed and started taking out their phones, and then Sam got down on one knee. “I was crying and shaking while I nodded my head,” Rowena said. “It was great. It was perfect.” At that point, the wedding theme was set: Baskin Robbins all the way. Even though the actual planning was quick and a bit difficult, the wedding day was perfect.

“There was honestly nothing that went wrong,” Rowena said. “It just went too fast.” She will always remember her fun wedding theme, with chocolate ice cream molds as favors and wedding colors in pink, purple and Baskin Robbins blue; but, she’ll mostly remember all of their family who came into town from all over the country to help celebrate their nuptial bliss. And, Sam’s dad is an elder within their church community. “He is actually the one who married us,” she said. “It meant a lot.”

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Tiffany & Ian’s Wedding Resources Ceremony & Reception:

Heirloom Inn

214 Shakeley Lane Ione, (209) 274-4468 Flowers: Curious Crafts forever floral on Etsy.com Photography: Dee and Kris Photography Sacramento Wedding Dress: House of Fashion, Sacramento Bridesmaids Dress: David’s Bridal Cake: Ingrid Fraser Elegant Cakes Amador City Catering: Mother Lode Catering, Jackson

Tiffany & Ian Stan May 4th, 2013, Heirloom Inn “We met at work,” Ian said. “At a company meeting.” Tiffany remembers feeling instantly attracted to him, but was also very intimidated. “I thought he was out of my league,” Tiffany said. They both felt an attraction and knew they wanted to spend more time with one another moving forward. And they did just that. They began dating and moved in together within six months. A year later, they bought a house, and two years later had their twin boys.

They got engaged just a couple years after their boys were born. “We stayed in Monterrey for the weekend, and went to dinner to celebrate Ian’s birthday,” Tiffany said. They took a walk on the pier and stopped to gaze at the ocean view. “He said, ‘I got you something,’ and pulled out a box and I knew immediately what he was going to do,” she said. As soon as Tiffany said yes, they heard an uproar of applause from a nearby balcony audience. Planning for the wedding, however, was not as stress-free. Tiffany did a lot of the planning herself, while also taking care of their children. But, the wedding day was amazing. “The food was great. The cake was delicious. It was all exactly how I pictured it,” Tiffany said. Their 11-year-old son was their best man and their twins were their ring bearers. Although, one little ring bearer would not leave Ian’s side; he stayed in daddy’s arms as his mom and dad said their vows. And, as the mother and son dance began, the same little twin danced with Ian and Ian’s mother.

“It was a three-way dance,” Ian said. Tiffany enjoyed dancing with her oldest son during the same song. All in all, it was a very easy, low-key wedding. “It was exactly how I would dreamed it would be,” Tiffany said.

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The historic Egyptian Theatre, in Park City, Utah, has, like the town itself, quite a past. Not as scandalous as its namesake’s shrewdest ruler Cleopatra, mind you, but juicy nonetheless. Take former pianist, Blanche Wiest, who tickled the ivories at the Egyptian during the silent-screen era—and the fancy of the venue’s then projectionist, a smitten Roy Fletcher. Though Fletcher’s initial marriage proposal met with rejection, he persisted and the pair would go on to marry, raise a family and find happily ever after in Park City.

Old West and romance might seem like an unlikely union, but not in Park City, whose storied slopes and celeb-studded Sundance Film Festival get all the love. Still, caresses of rambling mountains, grassy fields, and sprawling backcountry make Park City perfect for paramours. A swift drive from Salt Lake City International Airport, this silver mining colony turned posh mountain outpost woos honeymooners year-round, courting them with world-class recreation and luxury accommodation. Of these, most are big-brand hotels. And though flashier resorts flaunt expanse, boutique Washington School House Hotel (washingtonschoolhousehotel.com) kicks up the class quotient with uniqueness to spare.

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Owing its brilliance to the mod-meets-vintage interplay, Washington School House Hotel incubates a swoony dance with dalliance no matter where you rest your head.

But with any luck, let this be the two-story Lofted OneBedroom Suite—one of 12 total rooms that functions more as a quiet corner apartment. Here, the hotel’s ethos—underplayed elegance mingling with impeccable service standards—is truly elevating. Downstairs, a sette-appointed living area avails a dramatic chandelier, towering nine foot windows, and a spiral staircase; upstairs, a separate open-loft sitting area features an inviting French daybed and serene sleeping chamber hosting a sink-in king-size bed dressed in crisp-white Pratesi linens, made all the more brilliant by the contrasting rich hardwoord flooring throughout the hotel. Cascading curtains, meanwhile, cocoon the space for sectioned-off slumber.

Bespoke service and style make the hotel the town’s toniest hospitality option, and its top choice for honeymooners. So unless immediate ski-in, ski-out access tops your list of essentials, bunk here, where the in-town hotel benefits mightily from proximity; it’s just minutes from Park City’s Town Lift and mere steps from the shops and restaurants lining buzzing Main Street, but far removed, in both tone and translation, from the chattering crowd.

Ideal address aside, this Western-chic roost is romantic in all the right ways. Emerging from a top-to-bottom renovation, the former schoolhouse was established in 1889 and subsequently served as a veteran’s hall, an abandoned hangout for hippie skiers, and a

quaint B&B before being scooped up by its San Diego-based ownership and gutted down to the studs. The result is a completely reconcepted yet totally unpretentious wonder, delighting with a sophisticatedly spare design scheme, featuring a beautiful mix of antique furnishings and modern conveniences, packaged to perfection with urbane flair. Nodding to its rich heritage, black-and-white photos of past pupils who once occupied these modified spaces give way to contemporary spoils, like a pool with town and country vistas; a mini apothecary that re-imagines the souvenir with silk scarves and other trinkets; and a luxe lounge, featuring plush banquettes and seating, a magnificent fireplace and a dramatic, white-lacquered chandelier glistening in the cast of the blaze below.

Elsewhere the situation is equally generous, starting with a gracious staff clearly taking its cues from the at-your-everywhim service playbook. Always attending but never chaperoning, they hit just the right pitch, supplying an insider’s view of Park City highlights if asked (do it, they won’t lead you astray) and French press coffee around the clock (even, ahem, during the middle of the night without raising an eyebrow).

At turndown, beside amenities—everything from hardcover tomes of Henry David Thoreau essays, to bottles of gourmet jelly beans, to freshly-baked s’mores—discreetly appear, while breakfast produces a surplus of fresh-off-the-griddle pancakes, satiating omelets and mountain-ready muffins, and afternoons brings après-ski snacks—especially delightful when enjoyed in front of the fire with sweetie at your hip and wine in hand.

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Hip Sip “Local whiskey distillery, High West Distillery & Saloon, makes the award-winning whisky blend Rendezvous Rye.” highwest.com Romantic Room “The Washington School House Hotel.” washingtonschoolhousehotel.com Scenic Smooch “The Red Pine Gondola at Canyon Resort. Only because if you haven’t kissed someone in the Canyons Gondola, then you haven’t enjoyed the full Park City experience. Plus, the views of the surrounding Wasatch Mountains and valley below are incredible while you’re getting whisked up to the resort.” thecanyons.com Something-Special Splurge “Try a couples massage at Spa Montage, located in the new Montage Deer Valley.” montagedeervalley.com Summer Picnic Spot “Under the stars at the Deer Valley Resort Outdoor Amphitheater during one of the summer concerts… complete with their custom picnic basket featuring great wine and gourmet cheeses.” deervalley.com Swooniest Table in Town “One of the patio tables at Grappa Italian Restaurant.

The patios outside Grappa are terraced and feature small, intimate outdoor dining spaces, offering great views from the top of Park City’s Historic Main Street.”

435.645.0636 Toast Your Newly Anointed “The St. Regis Deer Valley’s Champagne Sabering outside their Mountain Terrace is surrounded by the dramatic ‘Garden of Fire,’ which makes it a stunning outdoor venue offering incredible mountain views.” st.regisdeervalley.com View to Kill For “The top of Jupiter Peak at Park City Mountain Resort.

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For those whose Old West notions still include trumped-up tall tales and rook swindlers, this just in: Park City is swank! Having traded its outlaw past for flat-out finery, PC boasts a bevy of highlights.

For a low-lit dinner, decamp to Purple Sage (purplesageparkcity.com). Its lavender-tinted interior and historic facade complement a delicious American-Western menu, where a starter of ultracrunchy potato chips (topped with Point Reyes blue cheese!) primes the palate for standout meatloaf—a house-made signature worth its billing as a local favorite. (When it’s time to hold hands under the table, this is the place.) For a livelier vibe, join the exuberant imbibing at High West Distillery and Saloon (highwest.com). Robust whiskey tastings and cocktails go down smooth, especially with 70

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equally full-bodied fare—the Melted Mountain Cheese small plate gives the stacked High West Burger a serious run for its money. And if big-time beef is your thing, you’ll score it here (and then some, portions are huge). Missed Sundance? Catch its founder, screen legend Robert Redford, gracing the walls in film stills (and sometimes, at a corner table) at his restaurant, Zoom (zoomparkcity.com), which plates a mean trout, I might add.

Joining these Main Street mainstays are fashionforward boutiques like Flight (flightclothingboutique. com), Cake (shopcakeboutique.com) and art-driven Olive & Tweed (435.649.9392). Following the latter’s lead is Park City’s hidden gem the Kimball Art Center (kimballartcenter.org). A true beacon for the community, this art-education hub and museum offers classes for visitors and local alike,

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Mountain Resort (parkcitymountainresort.com)—and Olympic bobsledding, which you can experience for a hair-raising 30 seconds at Utah Olympic Park Village (utaholympiclegacy.com). Here hopeful sledders learn to steer their own skeleton or luge, or rocket down the track in a bobsled aptly called “The Comet.”

And while ski jumping at Olympic Park is off-limits (which, at 7,130 feet, is a relief), a chair lift up to its apex is highly recommended.

Those who dream about becoming a proper herdsman, meanwhile, will find the grassy fields, rocky knolls, and authentic backcountry of surrounding Park City perfect for wrangling at one of many outskirt ranches.

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High on the must-do marquee is Thursday night’s lively Downtown Farmers’ Market (sanluiscounty. com), when peddlers, street performers, garage bands and freshly picked organics commence the town’s biggest street party. From here, cool your heels (literally) in SLO Creek, which snakes through the middle of town, then, forsake the crowds at Bubblegum Alley for a surplus of outdoor adventure—staple sports such as biking and hiking flirt with fringe recreation like hot-air ballooning. If cruising the coast, swing by Avila Beach (visitavilabeach.com)—a local’s secret, most tourists skip this place in favor of more popular pit stops in Pismo, but don’t make the same mistake. If time permits, venture to neighboring hubs San Simeon to visit storied Hearst Castle (hearstcastle.com), fog-shrouded Morro Bay (sidestep those sand dollars on the way to Morro Rock), and less commercialized Cayucos (its rickety pier delights).

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com). For casual fare, make your way to Morro Bay, where Taco Temple (805.772.4965) serves up zesty fish tacos on the cheap. Meanwhile, breakfast reaches new heights at the delightfully offbeat Madonna Inn (madonnainn.com), which hosts a dizzying array of eateries specializing in gastro indulgences like syrup-soaked pancakes and pink Champagne cake.

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There’s no question that social media has changed the rules of etiquette—even for dyed-in-the-wool wedding traditionalists. Though tweeting engagement news is no longer rare, it’s still not the norm; nor is it personal. And what about your less tech-savvy friends or older relatives who wouldn’t know a tweet if it fell from the sky? Tweet the news and they may hear about it from someone far less close to you then they are. Close relatives and friends should always hear the news from you, firsthand. Then, and only then, is it a good idea to tweet it. Address your inner circle first—preferably face to face or over the phone.

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After you’ve updated your “status,” it’s only natural that you’d want to spring the bling on everyone, but not all will receive it well. Most brides share ring photos with “friends” only after they’ve asked, so it doesn’t seem as if they are boasting. Or, they take the time and show photos privately through personal email. There’s no harm in sharing your joy, but it is best to keep the nitty-gritty details, like cost and carats, under wraps.

Do I have to wear white?

No! Jessica Biel didn’t—she opted for pretty, statementmaking pink. It’s OK to break with custom when tradition tethers you to something that is inauthentic for you. Frills are fun, but not in the place of genuine expression. Besides, most of today’s top designers are creating gowns catering to non-conventional brides. If you are feeling pressure to wear something more conservative from friends and family, kindly tell them that while you appreciate their input and advice, it’s important for you to express yourself in your own way. They may not understand, but at least you will have heard what they had to stay.

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Do I have to have a gift registry?

No longer is a gift registry a necessity. In fact, the idea makes many couples uncomfortable, especially those on their second marriage. And, because many couples are getting married later in life, asking for replacements of things they already use feels superfluous and indulgent. But there are guests—namely family—who are going to want to gift you and your betrothed with something special, even when they know your wishes. Rather than start an unnecessary argument (especially with new family members), gratefully accept the offering and move on.

I’m on a budget. Is it appropriate to send out handwritten invites?

It’s a lovely idea, provided you use some nice card stock and your best handwriting (and maybe a professional calligrapher to copy text you’ve scripted yourself). But don’t just let budget be your guide. If that’s your sole motivation, then you are less likely to write from the heart, and anything put down on paper should be personal (if your motives are strictly monetary, seek standard invites that are more affordable). In the digital age, getting a thoughtful handwritten card is a memorable overture. Remember to address invitees personally so that the invitation expresses an element of formality.

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Cake Considerations An ideal wedding cake should hit the sweet spot. To find the object of your confection, keep the following factors in mind.

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Do your homework: Collect wedding cake photos and other things that inspire you to share with your wedding cake confectioner.

Eye before you buy: Don’t be in a sugar rush to make a decision. Ask questions, sample the goods, and be open to other ideas.

Bakery: Before settling on a particular cake maker, shop around. Find a baker who is open to your vision, and has the skills and experience to execute it.

Consider the logistics: It’s okay to be sweet on style as long as you’ve thought about the nuts and bolts of cake-making.

Arrange a complimentary tasting, discuss plate/pillar rental fees and delivery costs, and be aware of payment and cancellation policies.

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Elegant flowers Flower Power When it comes to picking out flowers for your wedding, don’t be a late bloomer; plan ahead to make sure that everything will come up roses on your big day.

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Make arrangements: Find a collaborative floral designer with whom you connect. Reputable florists will be able to supply references and a work portfolio.

Identify your needs: Simple backyard weddings may call for a do-it-yourself bouquet of wildflowers and a discreet boutonniere, while formal occasions of size usually require a long list of intricate florals for everything from groomsmen and ring bearer corsages to botanical-rich table-toppers and cake-accenting rose petals.

Set a budget: Although fiscal demands of weddings vary depending on their elaborateness, plan on setting aside about 8 to 10 percent of your total budget for flowers.

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Brother’s Punk Friend…

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Mr. Indecisive.

The dude no-shows you at Starbucks all the time! What makes you think he’ll make it to your wedding? Move on.

The Family Doctor.

You know he’s seen you naked, right?

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Dad’s Boss.

You mean the man who actually hit on you at your parents’ Christmas party—that guy?

Out. And no, don’t provide Pops with an explanation. (Ever.)

Ms. Social Media.

You know who she is. And so does her five gazillion “followers,” half of whom didn’t make your guest-list roster, but, thanks to her constant tweets (and YouTube channel), can still see you in full regalia having the time of your life. Not cool.

Mr. Way Back When.

Our 3rd-grade teacher changed our life, too—25 years ago. Just sayin’.

Ms. Entitled-to-Everything.

Bridesmaid dress specifics, playlist preferences, gluten-free wedding cake—this is still about you, right?

Mr. Open-Bar Nightmare.

Talk about a buzzkill. Do you really want to let this guy loose, precisely the time you and your newly anointed hit the dance floor for your first waltz? Cut him off now.

Ms. Bring Forth the Entourage.

She’s cool, we get it. But the 20 uninvited peeps behind her? Not so much.

Bossy MOH.

But she’s already primed and ready to go.

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