San Joaquin Weddings Magazine Spring/Summer 2017

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The University Plaza Waterfront Hotel is beautifully designed venue to fit all wedding needs. It’s ideal for formal, high-end elegant weddings and unique, relaxed, informal celebrations. The Waterfront Hotel allows you to create the atmosphere that’s just right for all your wedding day events. Have your wedding at the University Plaza Waterfront Hotel just the way you’ve dreamed.

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Wine & Roses features several unique wedding venues that provide the setting for a small intimate ceremony or a large reception accommodating up to 350 guests. We offer award-winning creative cuisine, exceptional service, luxurious hotel rooms & suites, full service resort spa with preparatory and bridal services & unique gifts, and a private bride’s changing room.

The Garden Ballroom is a breathtaking setting with an open beam ceiling, fireplace, beverage bar, and its own private garden of white birch trees. The Cellar Room features tall ceilings, a stone fireplace and large french doors that open to a private patio and gardens. Our outdoor settings provide plenty of room for seating surrounded by botanical gardens and deodar trees.

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PUBLISHER | EDITOR

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Colors & Themes

Blushing BRIDE Groom: Pronto Uomo Tan Notch Lapel Suit, Men’s Wearhouse

Bride: Audrey, Isabelle Armstrong

Bridesmaids: Coppelia Dress, BHLDN

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• Available for wedding ceremonies and receptions • Exclusive catering by Rima Barkett • A variety of menu types • The terrace holds up too 250 sitting and 400 people standing • Also offering Valet service (with a fee)

Colors & Themes

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Groom: Black by Vera Wang, David’s Bridal

Bridesmaids: Red Sweetheart Sheath Long Bridesmaid Chiffon Hall, CA-Bridals.com

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19877 North Davis Rd. • Lodi • (209) 367-9883

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Colors & Themes

COCONUT Crème

Bride: Augusta Jones, Bliss Bridal Salon

Groom: Mason Tweed 3-Piece Suit, Marc Darcy

Bridesmaids: Iva Crepe Maxi, BHLDN

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DALTON COSMETICS’ H20GLO

A huge hit among makeup artists, this creamy highlighter's light-reflective ingredients—like natural pearl essence—give a subtle luster, while jojoba, grape seed, avocado, and vitamins A and E nourish and hydrate. Dab some on the inner corners of your eyes or swipe across your cheekbones for an instantly refreshed look.

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This mascara combines Givenchy’s iconic spherical brush with an enhanced formula for ultimate definition, length, and curl in an intense black shade. Get a wideeyed lash look that lasts all day with this formula that strongly clings to the lashes.

Non-sticky and easy to apply, this mascara’s 360-degree, modern brush design has a precise “S” brush shape to separate and coat every lash—even the shortest— from root to tip. Available at Sephora

L’ORÉAL PARIS STUDIO SECRETS PROFESSIONAL MAGIC PERFECTING BASE

Minimize pores and fine lines, instantly perfecting skin texture all day. The lightweight formula glides onto skin and results in an unified, flawless, matte finish. Dermatologist tested and great for all skin types.

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KAT VON D EVERLASTING MINI LIQUID LIPSTICK SET

Grab the kit for an exclusive lineup of creamy, high-pigment shades. They slide on like a gloss but dry with a true matte finish.

Never tested on animals, and infused with enhancing ingredients like vitamin E and sunflower seed. Available at Sephora.

STILA ONE STEP CORRECT

A primer, color corrector, brightener and anti-aging skincare serum is all-in-one, with the help of Stila’s Youth Revival BioAvailable Mineral Complex. Make imperfections disappear, control oil and hydrate, conceal redness and blemishes, and get a vibrant, energized look. Available at ULTA

SUE DEVITT EYE INTENSIFIER PENCIL

Grab this pencil in an array of metallic shades, and create a long-lasting luminous eye. The velvety formula is super smooth, for fool-proof application, and its anti-aging ingredients lock in moisture and move with your expressions. Available at ULTA.

BEACHWAVER PRO

We have celebrity hairstylist, Sarah Potempa, to thank for this life-changing product. Get the best curls with half the time and effort, thanks to this innovative, professional curling iron that rotates in both directions to give you glamorous, bombshell waves with the touch of a button. Available at Nordstrom.

BEAUTYBLENDER

If you haven’t yet picked up the world’s first edgeless, non-disposable, high-definition cosmetic sponge applicator—we suggest you do. This powerful little sponge features an open cell structure that fills with small amounts of water when wet, so that the makeup product sits on top of the sponge rather than being absorbed. First, wet the sponge, ring out until damp, and then apply foundation. Available at Sephora.

REDKEN WIND BLOWN

This finishing spray packs the power of dry shampoo, but with some serious volume. Lightweight and long-lasting, Wind Blown holds curl, creates texture, and adds life to fine or thing hair without leaving a residue. Available at ULTA.

DR. DENNIS GROSS SKINCARE ALPHA BETA® GLOW PADS

Get that glow without exposure to the sun’s harmful UVA/UVB rays with this exfoliating self-tanner that boasts odorless, streak free color. Alpha- and beta-hydroxy acids penetrate the skin to exfoliate, tighten pores, eliminate blackheads, and help fade existing sunspots for an even glow. Available at Sephora.

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Saint Basil’s Banquet Hall Updated and remodeled well equipped hall for your wedding reception. Includes tables, chairs, and state of the art audio/visual equipment

LARGE HALL holds 400 people SMALL HALL holds 200 people

920 West March Lane Stockton, Ca 95207

209.478.7564 saintbasilbanquethall@gmail.com

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PHOTOGRAPHER Mariann Reynolds Sincerely, Me Photography Wedding & Lifestyle Photographer SincerelyMe.Photography MODELS Megan Bassi & Robert Nava BRIDE & GROOM ATTIRE Bliss Bridal Salon 2111 Pacific Ave., Stockton (209) 473-9200 | BlissinStockton.com LOCATION Park Greenhouse Garden Center, Ripon CAKE Julie Garza, Bite Me Delicious Cookies Etc. Manteca | (209) 603-9781 Event Designer & Coordinator Michelle Klasser, Events 22, Ripon Events22.com FLORIST Megan Dyk, Farmington Flowers, Escalon HAIR & MUA Amanda Teunissen, Studio 101 Hair & Skin Salon Ripon | (209) 480-0784

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SEPTEMBER 9, 2015, BARE RANCH

RACHELLE & KEVIN Gibson

Seafoam

Gold

Blush

Bare Ranch by Michael-David Winery 19877 N. Davis Rd., Lodi (209) 367-9883 | MichaelDavidWinery.com

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Our wedding was everything we could have ever imagined. After 8 years together, it was the perfect celebration to start the next chapter of our lives.”

A TIP FOR BRIDES-TO-BE:

“Don’t take the day too seriously. No one will notice if you don’t have all the details that you have pinned on your Pinterest board.

Remember that the day is about you and your spouse, nobody else.”

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Wedding Resources PHOTOGRAPHY:

Kim J Martin Photography

JEWELRY:

Nordstrom

HAIR & MUA:

Jessica Mishler & KS Artistry

MENSWEAR:

Express

BRIDESMAID DRESSES:

UNFORTGETTABLE MOMENT:

Donna Morgan

“The ceremony… saying the vows we had written ourselves, and laughing and crying as we said them to each other.”

Angelina’s Spaghetti House

CATERING:

BAKERY:

Something Sweet Bakery

FLORIST:

Awesome Blossoms

DJ /BAND:

Five Stars Events

DESIGN AND DÉCOR:

Three Palm Events

EVENT LIGHTING:

Three Palm Events SIGNAGE:

Sincerely Yours Chalk Boards

VIDEOGRAPHER:

Reel Eyes Media

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AUGUST 13, 2016, VIAGGIO ESTATE & WINERY

MEAGAN & JOSH Scrogins

Navy

Peach

Coral

Viaggio Estate & Winery 100 E. Taddei Rd., Acampo (209) 368-1378 | ViaggioWinery.com

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Wedding Resources

Lori Makabe Photography

PHOTOGRAPHY:

WEDDING PLANNER:

Stephanie White

JEWELRY: Preferred Jewelers

HAIR & MUA: Marly’s Hair & Makeup

MENSWEAR: Men’s Wearhouse

BRIDESMAID DRESSES:

Belabor

CATERING:

Viaggio Estate & Winery

BAKERY:

Something Sweet Bakery

FLORIST:

Bella Bloom

DJ SERVICE/BAND:

Elite Entertainment

TABLE SETTINGS:

Viaggio

BRIDAL GOWN:

Sottero and Midgley

EVENT LIGHTING:

Elite Entertainment

VIDEOGRAPHER:

Garrett Brockschmitt

A TIP FOR BRIDES-TO-BE:

“Don’t rush down the aisle, soak in the memory.”

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AUGUST 20, 2016, PRIVATE RESIDENCE

ELIZABETH & GARRETT Knapp

Black

White

Champagne

Briggs Photography (209) 239-7542 BriggsPhotography.com

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Wedding Resources WEDDING PLANNER:

Jennifer GianelliTrotter CEREMONY/ RECEPTION VENUE:

A TIP FOR BRIDES-TO-BE:

Private Property

“Take a step back with your Husband, while your guests are enjoying themselves, and really take in the moment.”

JEWELRY:

“Something Borrowed” (from family and friends)

HAIR & MUA: Bride: Ray Ledezma, Gavora Studio, Bridesmaids: Laura Dutra’s Glam Team

MENSWEAR:

Men’s Wearhouse

WEDDING & BRIDESMAID DRESSES:

UNFORTGETTABLE MOMENT:

“Celebrating surrounded by loved ones who have supported and been there for us over the last 9 years.”

Bliss Bridal Salon

CATERING:

Smokin’ Yankee’s BBQ & Catering

CAKE & CUPCAKES: Pastry Chef Jeff Lovitti PIES:

Holly Wilson

FLORIST: Jennifer Gianelli-Trotter

DJ SERVICE/BAND:

DJ Pork Chop, AM Entertainment

TABLE SETTINGS:

Jennifer Gianelli-Trotter

DESIGN AND DÉCOR:

AZCO Rustic Designs & Rentals

LAWN GAMES:

Provided by AZCO PHOTO BOOTH:

JJ & Co Photo Booth LATE NIGHT TACO CART:

Jose Luis Tacos

VIDEOGRAPHER: Daniel Carettoni, Santa Cruz Aerials INVITATIONS:

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AUGUST 19, 2016, THE RIVER MILL

NASHWA & ADAM Beckman

Tiffany Blue Blush

Light Gray

Briggs Photography (209) 239-7542 BriggsPhotography.com

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Wedding Resources JEWELRY:

Etsy

HAIR & MUA:

Jena Terrill & Shandi Alegre Hunt

MENSWEAR:

Men’s Wearhouse

BRIDESMAID DRESSES:

Amber’s Armoire CATERING:

Our wedding day was beautiful and marked the perfect start of our lives together.”

The River Mill

BAKERY:

The River Mill

FLORIST: Silveria’s Flower & Gifts

WEDDING PLANNER:

Alicia Gibson

DJ SERVICE/BAND:

Marquis Entertainment

TABLE SETTINGS: The River Mill

DESIGN AND DÉCOR:

The River Mill

EVENT LIGHTING:

Marquis Entertainment

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OCTOBER 8, 2016, ELKHORN BANQUET

LAKIESHA & ALBERT White

UNFORTGETTABLE MOMENT: Red

White

Black

Elkhorn Banquet 1050 Elkhorn Dr., Stockton (209) 477-2200 | ElkhornBanquet.com

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“When my husband placed the ring on my finger, that’s when I knew it was official.”

Wedding Resources PHOTOGRAPHY:

Ben Tran, L & B Photography

WEDDING PLANNER:

Lakiesha White

JEWELRY:

Diamonds by Chainary, Ibarra’s

HAIR & MUA:

Peter Jimenez & Janisha Charlot

MENSWEAR:

Men’s Wearhouse

BRIDESMAID DRESSES:

David’s Bridal

CATERING:

Elkhorn Banquet

BAKERY:

Something Sweet Bakery

FLORIST: Global Rose

DJ SERVICE/BAND:

Dj Chip, Studio Junkies Entertainment

TABLE SETTINGS:

Elkhorn Banquet

DESIGN & DÉCOR:

Laveneya Cheatham DRAPERY: Vanessa’s

Decorations

EVENT LIGHTING:

Dj Chip, Studio Junkies Entertainment

CANDY BAR:

Laveneya Cheatham

Who would have known that all along my husband stood right in front of me, for over 25 years.”

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JUNE 18, 2016, HURST RANCH

GINA & KEITH Heusel

Rustic Orange

Purple

Burlap Turquoise

Hurst Ranch Jamestown, 209-984-3016

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Wedding Resources PHOTOGRAPHY:

Corona Images

JEWELRY:

Rogers Jewelry HAIR:

A TIP FOR BRIDESTO-BE:

“Enjoy every moment that night.”

Deondra Rodriguez MENSWEAR:

Men’s Warehouse WEDDING DRESS:

David’s Bridal BRIDESMAID DRESSES:

Macy’s CATERING:

Taquiza La Rubia, Tara Hamilton BAKERY:

Simply Delish FLORIST:

Safeway, Modesto

DJ SERVICE/BAND:

No limits Disc Jockey & Bruce Brill, guitarist TABLE SETTINGS:

Sierra Rentals DESIGN AND DÉCOR:

Azco Rustic Rentals

PHOTO BOOTH:

UNFORGETTABLE MOMENT:

Royal Image Photo booth

“Saying I do's.”

And so the adventure begins ...”

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JULY 16, 2016, IRONSTONE VINEYARDS

DREW & ROSALIE Hyjer

Sweet Pink Pastels Ironstone Vineyards 1894 6 Mile Rd., Murphys (209) 728-1251 IronstoneVineyards.com

Your wedding day in a few words:

Timeless beauty

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Wedding Resources CEREMONY/ RECEPTION VENUE:

Ironstone Vineyards’ Lakeside & Breezeway

PHOTOGRAPHY:

Alena Evteeva

A TIP FOR BRIDES-TO-BE:

“Don’t let others persuade you too much! Think about what you want early on and then stick to it!”

WEDDING PLANNER:

Bride DIY with fantastic support from Isabel Moncada of Ironstone Vineyards throughout the process

JEWELRY:

BHLDN

HAIR & MUA:

Bride DIY

WEDDING DRESS:

Anna Campbell

MENSWEAR:

Men’s Wearhouse

Hers

BRIDESMAID DRESSES:

UNFORGETTABLE MOMENT:

“... Looking out on all of our friends and family gathered in front of the lake as the sun just glinted through the trees. After all the work and hours spent on making this moment happen it had finally come together, and it was just so beautiful.”

Daughters of Simone, Flynn Skye, Zimmermann, BCBG, ASOS

CATERING:

Lila & Sage

BAKERY:

Lila & Sage

FLORIST:

UNFORGETTABLE MOMENT:

His

“Watching Rose walk down the aisle.”

Bloomwell & Co.

DJ SERVICE/BAND:

Party Poppers Entertainment

TABLE SETTINGS:

Bride DIY

DESIGN AND DÉCOR:

Bride DIY

EVENT LIGHTING:

Bride DIY

FUN EXTRAS:

Bellini Bar during cocktail hour, sweets table, late night cheeseburger sliders & truffle French fries

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OCTOBER 1, 2016, PRIVATE RESIDENCE

JILLIAN & ANTHONY Torres

Navy

Burlap

Lace

Lori Makabe Photography LoriMakabe.com Lori@LoriMakabe.com (707) 374-5272

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A TIP FOR BRIDES-TO-BE:

“Sometimes you just need to go with the flow. Do not stress over the little things because those things are not important. What is important is you marrying the love of your life.”

Wedding Resources WEDDING PLANNER:

Family planned

JEWELRY: DeVons Jewelers

HAIR & MUA:

Tiffany Davanis (Hair and Bridesmaid Make-Up), Kiana Torres (Bride’s Makeup)

MENSWEAR: Men’s Wearhouse

BRIDESMAID DRESSES: David’s Bridal

CATERING:

Provided by Venue Host

BAKERY: Provided by Venue Host

FLORIST:

Fiore Floral & Gifts

DJ SERVICE/BAND: Ryan Cortes

DESIGN AND DÉCOR:

Rustic

FUN EXTRAS:

Ice Cream Sundae Bar

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AUGUST 27, 2016, METTLER FAMILY VINEYARDS

CINDY & SETH Wilkey

Lavender

Gold

Grey

Mettler Family Vineyards (209) 747-3684 MettlerWine.com Kim@MettlerWine.com

Your wedding day in a few words:

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Wedding Resources PHOTOGRAPHY:

Dario Leventini, F3 Studios JEWELRY:

Rodgers Jewelers HAIR & MUA:

Trish Sanchez & S handi Alegre-Hunt WEDDING GOWN:

House of Fashion Bridal DESIGN & DÉCOR:

Voila MENSWEAR:

Tuxedo’s of Lodi BRIDESMAID DRESSES:

Sheryl Giles Bridal CATERING:

Fresh & Quick Catering BAKERY:

Something Sweet Bakery FLORIST:

Lodi Flower Shop DJ SERVICE/BAND:

Elite Entertainment TABLE SETTINGS:

Guffrai’s Party Rental FUN EXTRAS:

Corn Hole & Selfie Station A TIP FOR BRIDES-TO-BE:

“Take a moment to take it all in and realize the significance of the day.

No matter how stressed you may be, remember this is your one day.

It will come and go in the blink of an eye, so cherish every minute.

Embrace the love in the air.”

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SEPTEMBER 3, 2016, MORRIS CHAPEL

REBECCA & LUCAS Burke

Navy

Gold

Morris Chapel 3601 Pacific Ave., Stockton (209) 946-2538 MorrisChapel@pacific.edu

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Our day was perfect for us!

We worked with wonderful venues and dedicated vendors who treated us like close friends. Our family and friends made our day so special and we could not have asked for anything more!”

Wedding Resources PHOTOGRAPHY:

Brigg’s Photography RECEPTION VENUE: Wine

& Roses

WEDDING PLANNER:

Jan Wammack, Morris Chapel & Pati Myers, Wine & Roses

JEWELRY:

Peck’s Jewelers

HAIR & MUA:

Angie Lombrano (Family DIY)

MENSWEAR:

Military Dress Uniforms & Men’s Wearhouse

BRIDESMAID DRESSES:

David’s Bridal

CATERING:

Wine & Roses

BAKERY:

Something Sweet Bakery

FLORIST:

Blossoms by Lisa

DJ SERVICE/BAND:

Elite Entertainment

A TIP FOR BRIDES-TO-BE:

“Remember the reason you are having a wedding. Your marriage is much more important than worrying about the minor details. Enjoy yourself!”

TABLE SETTINGS:

Wine & Roses

DESIGN AND DÉCOR:

DIY

SIGNATURE COCKTAIL:

Lodi Mule (Moscow Mule with pineapple twist—the bride’s favorite) & Texas Mojito (a nod to our new life in San Antonio, TX) FUN EXTRAS:

Flip-flops for dancing feet & personalized welcome boxes delivered to hotel guests

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JULY 23, 2016, LUCCA WINERY

BLANCA & ULYSSES Benitez

Lilac

Ivory

Rose Gold

Mr. & Mrs. Photography Stockton, CA | (209) 954-2648 MrMrsPhotography.com

Your wedding day in one word:

Epic

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Wedding Resources PHOTOGRAPHY:

Mr&Mrs photography

HAIR AND MAKEUP:

DIY (@evettexo)

MENSWEAR: Sarar

BRIDESMAID DRESSES:

David’s Bridal

CATERING:

Eduardo’s Catering

BAKERY:

Magdas Cakes

FLORIST:

Veronica’s Decorations

DJ SERVICE/BAND:

DJ Smooth & Banda los Plebes

UNFORGETTABLE MOMENT:

“Our families coming together to celebrate.”

TABLE SETTINGS:

Veronica’s Decorations

DESIGN AND DÉCOR:

Veronica’s Decorations

EVENT LIGHTING:

DJ Smooth

VIDEOGRAPHER:

Cabrera Photography

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AUGUST 27, 2016, OAK FARM VINEYARDS

KASSY & SEAN Bias

Taupe Rose Gold Oak Farm Vineyards 23627 Devries Rd., Lodi (209) 365-6566 OakFarmVineyards.com

Your wedding day in one word:

Us

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The moment I started walking down the aisle was when it sank in that I was going to spend the rest of my life with the man I have loved since I was 16—that was the best feeling in the world.”

Wedding Resources PHOTOGRAPHY:

Kori and Jared Photography

DAY OF COORDINATOR:

Sarah Jones

JEWELRY:

Shane Co.

HAIR & MUA:

Rachelle Bisbee, Couture Beauty

MENSWEAR:

Men’s Wearhouse

BRIDESMAID DRESSES: Social Bridesmaids

CATERING:

Angelina’s Spaghetti House

BAKERY:

Something Sweet Bakery

FLORIST:

Blossoms by Lisa

WEDDING GOWN:

Miosa Bride

DJ SERVICE/BAND:

Elite Entertainment

TABLE SETTINGS:

DIY

DESIGN & DÉCOR:

DIY

DONUT BAR:

Krispy Kreme PHOTO BOOTH:

A TIP FOR BRIDES-TO-BE:

“The day goes by fast, remember to stop and take in the moment.”

Platinum Photo Booth

VIDEOGRAPHER:

LifeWorks Productions

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SEPTEMBER 24, 2016, OAK FARM VINEYARDS

KIMBERLI & ERIC Door

Navy

Grey

Mauve

Oak Farm Vineyards 23627 Devries Rd., Lodi (209) 365-6566 OakFarmVineyards.com

Your wedding day in one word:

Unforgettable

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The first time we met, Eric pulled me out on the dance floor and swept me off my feet. We wanted our marriage to start the same way, so we had a choreographed first dance, and it was perfect.�

Wedding Resources PHOTOGRAPHY:

White Daisy Photography

WEDDING PLANNER:

Sarah Jones, Oak Farm Vineyards

JEWELRY:

Sharif Jewelers

HAIR & MUA:

Celina Phelan, Essentials Day Spa & Kim Jefferson, Flawlous Studio

MENSWEAR:

Men’s Wearhouse

BRIDESMAID DRESSES:

Nordstrom

CATERING:

Angelina’s Spaghetti House

BAKERY:

A TIP FOR BRIDES-TO-BE:

“Take some time to be by yourself the morning of the wedding and clear your mind before you get too busy. I chose to pray for my husband, the day, and our future life together, and it made all the difference.”

Chrystal’s Cake Pops

FLORIST:

Emily, Embellish Floral Design

DJ SERVICE/BAND:

DJ David Nava

TABLE SETTINGS:

Emily, Embellish Floral Design

DESIGN & DÉCOR:

Simple Country Weddings

SWEETS:

Gunther’s Ice Cream FUN EXTRAS:

We had different doors all over as part of our decorations since Eric’s last name is “Door”.

HASHTAG:

#HappilyEverAfDoor

VIDEOGRAPHER:

Carlos, XSight Entertainment

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JUNE 17, 2016, STOCKTON GOLF AND COUNTRY CLUB

ANGELA & ALEX Rivers

Mint

Light Peach

Stockton Golf and Country Club 3800 W. Country Club Blvd., Stockton (209) 466-4313 Â StocktonGolfCC.com

Your wedding day in one word:

Spectacular

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Wedding Resources PHOTOGRAPHY:

Julie Nicole Photography

CEREMONY VENUE:

Annunciation Church WEDDING PLANNER:

Bride and Mom DIY & Katie Fehn HAIR & MUA:

Reggie Infelise & Veronique Altnow MENSWEAR:

Men’s Wearhouse

A TIP FOR BRIDES-TO-BE:

“Enjoy every moment and definitely get a videographer!

I was so happy we did that!”

BRIDESMAID DRESSES:

Blossoms CATERING:

Stockton Golf and Country Club BAKERY:

Frosted Flour FLORIST:

Flower Basket DJ SERVICE/BAND:

Elite DJ TABLE SETTINGS:

Stockton Golf & CC DESIGN & DÉCOR:

Events by E

EVENT LIGHTING:

Elite DJ FUN EXTRAS:

Tarantella dance to get everyone out on the dance floor!

VIDEOGRAPHER:

Media Fusion Studios

The day after the wedding we both reflected and thought that it was the most perfect day! We couldn’t have imagined anything more and we were truly blessed to have such an amazing wedding to start our lives together!”

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JANUARY 31, 2016, UNIVERSITY PLAZA

JAMES & NICOLE Pearson

Lilac

Charcoal Plum

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Wedding Resources PHOTOGRAPHY:

All Things Love by Alyssa and Mario Bravo

WEDDING PLANNER:

Nicole Pearson (bride)

JEWELRY: Kay's Jewelers & Maggie’s Bridal

UNFORTGETTABLE MOMENT:

“My favorite moment of the entire day was when the Pastor announced us as Mr. and Mrs James Pearson!

It’s a feeling of love that’s unexplainable!”

HAIR & MUA:

Kimani Quillan & Stefany Martinez

MENSWEAR:

Men’s Wearhouse

BRIDE & BRIDESMAID DRESSES:

Maggie’s Bridal CATERING:

University Plaza Waterfront Hotel

BAKERY:

I now understand the plan God had for us and I truly believe that everything in our past has been worth it; because if we had done just one thing differently, we wouldn’t be standing in front of each other today.”

Something Sweet Bakery

FLORIST: DIY, Costco

DJ SERVICE/BAND:

Joe Deborba, Deborba Events

TABLE SETTINGS:

DIY, Bride & Lisa Rutland (Mom)

DESIGN AND DÉCOR: DIY Bridal Party EVENT LIGHTING:

Joe Deborba, Deborba Events

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CLAYTON & CIARA Sheridan

Teal

Light Peach

Viaggio Estate & Winery 100 E. Taddei Rd., Acampo (209) 368-1378 | ViaggioWinery.com

Your wedding day in one word:

Radiant

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Wedding Resources PHOTOGRAPHY:

Briggs Photography HAIR & MUA:

Taylor McCarty MENSWEAR:

Jos A Bank (Groomsmen) / Azar Suits (Groom) BRIDESMAID DRESSES:

Alfred Angelo

A TIP FOR BRIDES-TO-BE:

“Don’t stress over the small things. You and your hubby are the only people who know what’s missing!”

BRIDE’S DRESS:

Liancarlo Gown, Kinsley James Couture Bridal Shop CATERING:

Viaggio Estate & Winery BAKERY:

Something Sweet Bakery FLORIST:

Bella Bloom DJ SERVICE/BAND:

Elite Entertainment TABLE SETTINGS:

Viaggio Estate & Winery DESIGN AND DÉCOR:

DIY FUN EXTRAS:

Dessert Bar, Cornhole, Giant Jenga & Midnight Tacos

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SEPTEMBER 2, 2016, WINE & ROSES

DAVID & AMANDA Newhall

Elegant Pink Wine & Roses 2505 W. Turner Rd., Lodi (209) 334-6988 | WineRose.com

Your wedding day in one word:

Perfect

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Wedding Resources PHOTOGRAPHY:

Briggs Photography

WEDDING PLANNER:

Julie Clemings, Wine & Roses JEWELRY:

De La Rosa Bridal

HAIR & MUA:

Michelle Milum & Katelynn Smith / Safa Shabbar & Nicole Cortes

MENSWEAR:

Tuxedos of Lodi

BRIDESMAID DRESSES:

David’s Bridal

CATERING: Wine & Roses

WEDDING CAKE:

A TIP FOR BRIDES-TO-BE:

“Enjoy every second, it goes by so fast!”

Frosted Flour FLORIST:

Belle’s Lodi Flower Shop

DJ SERVICE/BAND:

Elite Entertainment

TABLE SETTINGS:

W&R & Belle’s Flowers

EVENT LIGHTING:

Elite Entertainment

FUN EXTRAS: Candy bar

UNFORTGETTABLE MOMENT:

“Seeing each other for the first time while walking down the aisle. We decided not to do a first look, and it was such a special moment I would not have changed a thing!”

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APRIL 9, 2016, WOODBRIDGE GOLF & COUNTRY CLUB

ALYESE & MIGUEL Carmona

Purple

Blue

Woodbridge Golf & Country Club 800 E. Woodbridge Rd., Woodbridge (209) 334-5454 | WoodbridgeGcc.com

Your wedding day in one word:

Surreal

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Wedding Resources PHOTOGRAPHY:

Vega & Vega Photography

WEDDING PLANNER:

DIY

JEWELRY:

Don Roberto (Hers) & Kay Jewelers (His)

HAIR & MUA: k r ō m a hair studio & Joanna Williams

MENSWEAR:

Tuxedos of Lodi

BRIDESMAID DRESSES:

UNFORTGETTABLE MOMENT:

“Our first dance as husband and wife!”

Elizabeth Bridal of Lodi

CATERING:

Woodbridge Golf & Country Club

BAKERY:

Frosted Flour

FLORIST:

Isabel Chavez (Family Friend)

WEDDING PLANNER:

DIY

CATERING:

Woodbridge Golf & Country Club

DJ SERVICE/BAND:

Elite DJ Entertainment

TABLE SETTINGS:

DIY

DESIGN AND DÉCOR:

DIY

EVENT LIGHTING:

Elite DJ Entertainment

FUN EXTRAS:

Candy Bar

A TIP FOR BRIDES-TO-BE:

“Don’t over stress and make sure you ENJOY your big day and the planning. It all goes by so fast, so just enjoy every second. Always be prepared with a plan B and don’t worry if you have to use it.”

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NOVEMBER 5, 2016, DOUBLETREE HILTON MODESTO

NICOLE & ADORI Nariman

Ivy

Gold

DoubleTree by Hilton Modesto 1150 9th St., Modesto (209) 526-6000 | DoubleTreeModesto.com

Your wedding day in one word:

Elegant

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Wedding Resources CEREMONY:

First Presbyterian Church, Turlock PHOTOGRAPHY:

Maykel Mirza Photography

UNFORTGETTABLE MOMENT:

WEDDING PLANNER:

“When my husband and I took a second to be alone and watched our guests having a great time right in front of our eyes. A memory we will never forget.”

DIY

JEWELRY:

Derco Fine Jewelers

HAIR & MUA:

Tanglez Salon & Boutique & Renee Batrez

MENSWEAR:

Men’s Wearhouse WEDDING GOWN:

Bridal Galleria

BRIDESMAID DRESSES:

David’s Bridal

CATERING:

DoubleTree

by Hilton Modesto

BAKERY:

Sunrise Bakery

FLORIST:

Yonan’s Floral

CATERING:

DoubleTree

by Hilton Modesto

DJ SERVICE/BAND:

Epic Music Entertainment SINGER:

Ramseen Sheno

TABLE SETTINGS:

It felt like a dream we didn’t want to wake up from.”

Yonan’s Floral

DESIGN AND DÉCOR:

Yonan’s Floral

EVENT LIGHTING:

DoubleTree

by Hilton Modesto

VIDEOGRAPHER:

Well Spun Weddings

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Etiquette IS IT OK TO TWEET MY ENGAGEMENT NEWS? There’s no question that social media has

changed the rules of etiquette—even for dyed-in-the-wool wedding traditionalists. Though tweeting engagement news is no longer rare, it’s still not the norm; nor is it personal. And what about your less tech-savvy friends or older relatives who wouldn’t know a tweet if it fell from the sky?

Tweet the news and they may hear about it from someone far less close to you then they are. Close relatives and friends should always hear the news from you, firsthand.

Then, and only then, is it a good idea to tweet it. Address your inner circle first—preferably face to face or over the phone.

CAN I POST A PHOTO OF MY ENGAGEMENT RING? After you’ve updated your “status,” it’s

only natural that you’d want to spring the bling on everyone, but not all will receive it well. Most brides share ring photos with “friends” only after they’ve asked, so it doesn’t seem as if they are boasting. Or, they take the time and show photos privately through personal email. There’s no harm in sharing your joy, but it is best to keep the nittygritty details, like cost and carats, under wraps.

DO I HAVE TO WEAR WHITE? No! Jessica Biel

didn’t—she opted for pretty, statement-making pink. It’s OK to break with custom when tradition tethers you to something that is inauthentic for you. Frills are fun, but not in the place of genuine expression. Besides, most of today’s top designers are creating gowns catering to non-conventional brides. If you are feeling pressure to wear something more conservative from friends and family, kindly tell them that while you appreciate their input and advice, it’s important for you to express yourself in your own way.

They may not understand, but at least you will have heard what they had to stay.

Q&A WEDDING RULES Once the ring goes on the finger, it seems like everybody suddenly has an opinion on how to plan your perfect wedding.

It can be exhausting, and with so many details to keep track of, it’s easy to forget the dos and don’ts of wedding etiquette. We’ve got the answers to your most pressing questions to help you avoid wedding day drama.

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DO I HAVE TO HAVE A GIFT REGISTRY?

No longer is a gift registry a necessity. In fact, the idea makes many couples uncomfortable, especially those on their second marriage. And, because many couples are getting married later in life, asking for replacements of things they already use feels superfluous and indulgent. But there are guests—namely family—who are going to want to gift you and your betrothed with something special, even when they know your wishes. Rather than start an unnecessary argument (especially with new family members), gratefully accept the offering and move on.

I’M ON A BUDGET. IS IT APPROPRIATE TO SEND OUT HANDWRITTEN INVITES?

It’s a lovely idea, provided you use some nice card stock and your best handwriting (and maybe a professional calligrapher to copy text you’ve scripted yourself). But don’t just let budget be your guide. If that’s your sole motivation, then you are less likely to write from the heart, and anything put down on paper should be personal (if your motives are strictly monetary, seek standard invites that are more affordable). In the digital age, getting a thoughtful handwritten card is a memorable overture. Remember to address invitees personally so that the invitation expresses an element of formality.

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STEP 1:

Talk budget. Before going on tours, discuss budget with your fiancé (and family).

Knowing will help with negotiations when that time comes, or allow you to rule out venues based on cost.

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STEP 3:

Think outside of the box. It’s not all wineries and golf courses. View barns for a rustic affair or check out art galleries for a contemporary wedding.

STEP 2:

Prioritize. If you are set on a specific wedding date, call venues before visiting to make sure they’re available. If your date is negotiable, start with the venue and then choose based on the venue’s calendar.

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STEP 4:

Consider the guest list. Only view venues that can accommodate your head count.

STEP 5:

Plan visits. Websites are an excellent source of information, and using the Internet to narrow down your selection is a great idea, but it's important to see your venue in person before committing.

STEP 7:

STEP 8:

STEP 9:

Meet your wedding coordinator. If a venue provides a wedding coordinator, insist on meeting them. If your styles don’t mesh, or you find the coordinator abrasive or distracted, you may be swayed to look elsewhere. It’s not worth the stress of planning a wedding with someone you don’t work well with.

STEP 10:

Get everything in writing. Request copies of everything you sign. If you negotiate special deals or accommodations, make sure that’s in writing, too. After meetings with your coordinator, send recaps via email to ensure small details don’t fall through the cracks.

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LIVING IN THE MOMENT on your perfect day 7 TIPS FOR MAKING THE MOST OF YOUR WEDDING DAY You’ve likely spent months, if not years, planning the ideal wedding day; every detail from seating arrangements to party favors has been thought of. Now is the time to relax, sit back, and enjoy the results of your arduous planning.

DON’T GET DISTRACTED BY DETAILS. Instead of stressing over “the plan,” designate someone (or several people) to worry for you. Put a bridesmaid in charge of ensur-

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ing the groom’s men look presentable, let your mother-in-law oversee decorating, and let the wedding planner do their job.

Today is the day to delegate.

START THE DAY RIGHT. Whether it’s a mas-

sage first thing in the morning, or a cup of coffee with your wedding party, make sure the day starts off on the right foot.

It’ll set the tone for everything to come.

TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF. Remember to eat and drink water, sit when you need to, and get a good night’s rest.

Fill your bag with small snacks and let those around you dote a little.

C’EST LA VIE. Make this

your mantra. Everything that could have been done has been done, and now is the time for rolling with the punches.

Chances are you’ll be so caught up enjoying the little moments, you won’t notice a hiccup here or there.

MAKE IT YOUR DAY. If

how you thought you would feel isn’t how you actually feel on your big day, let it be known.

It’s okay to change plans. Need to see your fiancé one more time before the big moment?

Ask the photographer for an impromptu “first glance.” It’s okay to change your mind.

LIVE IN THE MOMENT. This may sound

easier said than done, but try not to become consumed with thoughts of how momentous the occasion is, and instead enjoy the family and friends who have gathered to celebrate YOU.

FIND EXTRA TIME. If

I’ve heard brides say one thing too often it’s that the wedding day went by too fast. When months of planning culminate in one day (or really a few hours) it’s easy to feel you didn’t get enough. If you can persuade the venue to stay open for an extra hour, do it. If you need one more slow dance with your new spouse, demand it. Find time where you can and make it count.

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A consumption bar is similar to an open bar, but without the flat fee. Instead, hosts pay only for the alcohol consumed. This can be a positive if guests don’t imbibe too much, but it can also bite you in the end if heavy celebrating blows the budget.

Raise the Bar: Budget a problem? Get creative. Offer the consumption bar for cocktail hour then switch to beer and wine, or cut it off an hour early. Cutting down on the time libations are limitless can make this dream bar a reality.

BEER & WINE ONLY

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bar can be the focus of a reception—second to the bride, of course.

OPEN BAR

Perhaps the most popular type of wedding bar, open bar means exactly what it implies: the bar is open to wedding guests for the duration of the event. From cocktails to beer and wine, an open bar allows guests to order whatever they please on the host’s dime. When booking, remember this means paying a flat fee for bar services, and tip is usually included.

Raise the Bar: Handpick the alcohol. Instead of choosing only liquors from a low-level package, put one or two top shelf options in the mix.

Some venues require beer and wine only weddings while other brides and grooms look to this bar package to save money or cut down on family drama. With this approach, guests can choose between pre-selected beers and wines, but liquor isn’t an option.

Raise the Bar: If possible, offer liquor to those who really want it – for a price. Consider footing the bill for beer and wine but allowing guests to buy cocktails at a cash bar.

A signature cocktail is another way to sneak in a dose of hard liquor without purchasing an open bar package.

BYOB

No, this doesn’t mean asking guests to bring six-packs as wedding gifts (though I suppose you could); some venues offer hosts the option to buy their own alcohol to be served at the party. Bring a few cases of wine or a keg to get the party started!

Raise the Bar: Consider buying more than necessary to make sure alcohol doesn’t run out before the night is over. And don’t forget the champagne!

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SET BUDGET, DISCUSS TIME FRAME AND DATES FORMAL VS. INFORMAL

WEDDING DAY

Countdown 4-6

MONTHS TO GO:

Consider the Details • Check wedding license requirements • Coordinate colors and themes with vendors • Select ceremonial details (music, readings) • Order wedding cake • Order wedding rings

9-12

MONTHS TO GO: Envision the Big Picture • Do your research • Put an organization system in place

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• Send out save-the-dates • Set spending limits; budget in shared expenses • Consult with clergy • Start to compile guest list • Hire a wedding planner, if necessary • Shop around for vendors • Select a theme and colors

• Bring in the pros: choose the caterer, florist, officiant, photographer/ videogra phers, & entertainment • Hire your glam squad (hair stylist,makeup artist) • Arrange the honeymoon • Find a location for the rehearsal dinner • Book wedding night accommodations

• Pick a date

• Choose the wedding party

• Determine attire for groom and wedding attendants

• Book venues for the ceremony and reception

• Hunt down a gown

• Order guest favors

• Start a gift registry

• Register for gifts

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WEEKS AWAY…

• Finalize the entertainment

2

• Determine the music set list • Finalize seating chart for the reception • Track down missing RSVPs

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MONTHS TO GO:

WEEK AWAY…

Leave Nothing to Chance

• Pick up your dress

• Send out invites

• Pack for the honeymoon

• Plan the rehearsal dinner

• Gather travel documents

• Schedule hair and makeup appointments

• Work in your wedding

• Prep documents if you are changing your name

• Delegate everything you can!

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• Take final guest count • Confirm the catering plan • Plan bachelor and bachelorette parties

DAY AWAY…

• Wake up to a massage and a mani/pedi

• Pick up wedding rings

• Confirm wedding day transportation

• Make travel and hospitality arrangements for out-of- town guests

• Set aside vendor tips and payments • Run down the wedding day plan

• Script wedding vows, if necessary

• Host the rehearsal dinner; hand out gifts, if necessary

• Take stock of wedding day accessories (garter, rings, pillow)

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Although fiscal demands of weddings vary depending on their elaborateness, plan on setting aside about 8 to 10 percent of your total budget for flowers.

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Arrangements: Find a collaborative floral designer with whom you connect. Reputable florists will be able to supply references and a work portfolio.

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Bring fabric and/or color swatches to meetings with florists.

When it comes to picking out flowers for your wedding, don’t be a late bloomer; plan ahead to make sure that everything will come up roses on your big day.

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Don’t be in a sugar rush to make a decision. Ask questions, sample the goods, and be open to ther ideas.

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Find a baker who is open to your vision, and has the skills and experience to execute it.

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It’s okay to be sweet on style as long as you’ve thought about the nuts and bolts of cake-making.

Arrange a complimentary tasting, discuss plate/pillar rental fees and delivery costs, and be aware of payment and cancellation policies.

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A cake should complement your indiviaul aisle style and your wedding’s theme, color, and attire. It shoud also reflect the couple it celebrates, so use monograms, bridal gown accents (think lace and ribbon), or another unique touch to personalize it.

An ideal wedding cake should hit the sweet spot. to find the object of your confection, keep the following factors in mind.

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More than

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2017

trends

 BY COPPER WILLIAMS

When you want to wow your friends and give your extended relatives something to talk about, you’ve got to keep up with the latest trends in fine wedding cuisine. But who’s got the time to research when there’s so much to do? Lucky for you, my blushing brides (and grooms!), we’ve cut out the middle man and have prepared a vast array of foodie favors that will drop even the most stubborn jaw in awe!

It’s Breakfast Somewhere

Why reserve all those delectable morning treats for the wee hours of the day when they’re the perfect staple anytime? We thought you might agree! Bring on the bagels, sparkling mimosas, and customizable breakfast kabobs! We’ll take ours with pineapple, mini pancakes, and blueberries, please!

Finger Food

Put the silverware down! When you’re getting down on the dance floor, serving up speeches left and right, and posing for every selfie your guests scoop you up for, there’s simply no time to sit down and enjoy a four-course meal! Instead, serve up specialty dishes that you can enjoy on the go, allowing you and your guests ample opportunity to scoop up food and stand in line for another shot with the happy couple.

Fine Dining

Blast FROM ON FOUR WHEELS THE Past

Ready to take a trip back in time?

Because your wedding will be the toast to end all when you send your guests spiraling back into the Roaring Twenties, complete with champagne towers, specialty bourbon concoctions, and seafood appetizers served on silver platters.

Gatsby, eat your heart out.

Couples are bringing a whole new level of fun into their receptions by offering guests entrees from their favorite local food trucks, no longer restricting these delectable treats to roadside pit stops and downtown festivals!

QUALITY Comfort

Wrap your family, old and new, up in reimagined homestyled recipes and menu options that will keep your guests full long into the night. Rich pastas, roasted chickens, and casseroles are perfect dishes for winter weddings, providing warmth from the inside-out.

Help Yourself

DIY stations are all the rage, allowing your guests the opportunity to create their own whimsical dessert or entrée from a variety of available goodies. From fondue fountains filled with chocolate and caramel, to specialty s’mores bars, each tasty treat is just what your guest asked for; after all, they built it!

SERVE IT Rustic

When serving specialty drinks, opt for unique beverage holders, such as the trendy mason jar, or old Moscow mules with the happy couple’s initials, wedding date, or other unique aspects etched on. Perfect for guests to take home as part of their memento of your special occasion!

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REBEL

BRIDESMAIDS  BY KELLY POLLARD

If anyone has seen an episode of Bridezillas, you quickly realize how crazy brides can become leading up to their big day. I thought I was pretty mellow compared to some… The one decision constantly challenged? The specific bridesmaid dress I plucked off a rack for my seven bridesmaids. Hindsight is everything, now isn’t it? My fiancé and I set our wedding date for two weeks after I graduated from college thirteen years ago. When envisioning our ideal wedding day, a priority included tons of bridesmaids and groomsmen. In my early twenties, my tribe of friends felt closer than family at times, and I wanted them all included in my fairytale day.

Being young and generally not filled with much worldly sensibility, I picked out a lavender bridesmaid dress with straps skinnier than dental floss, complete with the dye-to-match high heels. Little did I know, there were mild behind-the-scenes rebellions brought on by a general commiseration about a pale 98

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dress that flattered only size six ladies--minimal material at maximum cost. Frankly, I can’t blame my bridesmaids. I existed in a fog of blissed-out love, deprivation by diet frozen meals to squeeze into a dream dress, and sticker shock at what it really cost to host a wedding at a winery – all while hoping my days of cake tasting and honeymoon planning didn’t interfere with my graduation prospects. Wedding planning felt like a second career that interfered with my two-hour commute to school in Santa Cruz. Once I decided on the dress, I quickly pushed it out of my head.

Hints of the growing rebellion didn’t surface until my bachelorette party, when rogue ladies had the gall to want to buy silver shoes instead of purple. Now why wouldn’t anyone want to shell out money for a pair of lavender shoes? Oh, hindsight! It felt like the biggest drama in the world to me. This bridezilla got her way, but I still feel pretty silly about this, even today. The brunt of this reality (and, per-

haps, buying the cheapest dyed lavender shoes) made for a very entertaining wedding video. My poor ladies, flushed with champagne and not enough food, discovered the presence of pothole after pothole in the grassy aisle leading up to the gazebo. Four bridesmaids, including my matron of honor, outright tripped down the aisle. Two bridesmaids concentrated so hard on not falling that their stony faces looked like they were headed toward their doom, not a ceremony marking the new life of their girlfriend. Another bridesmaid tripped down a concrete bridge on the way to pictures after the ceremony, suffering multiple scrapes.

NEWSFLASH:

Dried blood doesn’t coordinate well with lavender fabric. If I had a do-over, I’d probably just choose a dress color and let each bridesmaid go wild on her dress style. So long as the tulle train isn’t puffier than mine, I have nothing to complain about.

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