San Joaquin September Kids 2011

A FA M I LY MAGA ZINE FOR PA R E N T S

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Your Kids Bottles and Pacifiers: The Suck Stops Here

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Your Family The Value of Experiences

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FEATURE: Parenting 101 Take a lesson in Back to School Parenting 101, and explore the issues your kids will be faced with this school year. by Jenn Thornton

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Happy Halloween U-Pick Pumpkins ‘Tis the season to roll up your sleeves and get a little dirty, it’s pumpkin picking time! Whether you plan to carve them, cook them, or just put them out on the front porch, there are plenty of great local farms to pick your own. —K.B. Dell’Osso Family Farm October 1-31, Lathrop

This family farm has been ruling the U-Pick scene for fourteen years, offering way more than just pumpkins. Spend the day taking hay rides, walking through the haunted house, riding on their zip lines, shooting the pumpkin blasters, and much more. Open daily from 10 a.m.-8 p.m. Admission is free, attraction prices vary.

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This autumn, visit “Falltime on the Farm” at Countryside Farms. In addition to pumpkin picking, families can explore the cornstalk/hay tunnel, build their own scarecrows, enjoy face painting, take hay rides, and say hello to the friendly animals who live on the farm. Open Friday, Saturday, and Sunday from 10 a.m.-5 p.m. $7.50 kids, $3 adults. Countryside Farms, 6666 E. Main St., Stockton, (209) 943-1632, countryside-farms.com

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Lil’ Rockstars Lullabies just got a whole lot cooler thanks to "Rockabye Baby!," a collection of lullaby CDs that cover some of the greatest rock groups including The Beatles, Smashing Pumpkins, Led Zeppelin, AC/DC, Bon Jovi, Coldplay, and a handful of others. The songs are much milder than their original versions, and the producers of the album take pride in creating something that’s “gentle enough for sleeping babies, but won’t bore Mom and Dad.” Parents will certainly get a kick out of hearing Aerosmith’s “Walk This Way” sweetly played on instruments like the vibraphone, glockenspiel, and mellotron—the result is completely endearing. And for country fans, there’s the "Hushabye Baby" collection featuring great country artists like Garth Brooks, Carrie Underwood, Johnny Cash, Dolly Parton, Taylor Swift, Patsy Cline, and more.

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Dutch Hollow Farms October 1-31, Modesto

This lovely farm sells tulips in spring, but come autumn, families flock to pick from their four acres of pumpkins. This year, visitors can also see their 50,000 sunflowers in bloom, take hay rides, meet Dutch Hollow’s many friendly farm animals, and even take horse and pony rides.Younger children can enjoy a corn maze designed for tots. Open daily from 9 a.m.-Dark. Free.

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In the Spotlight: Teacher in the Spotlight

Dr. Valerie Sims V.B.R. Foster Family Agency, Tracy

by Katy Berry

“I’ve been an entrepreneur since I was 16 years old,” says Sims. “When I was in high school I wanted to be a fashion designer, so I started working at the fairs. Back in the day when Dashikis were very popular, I would make them right on the spot at the fairgrounds.

I took my sewing machine and by the time they came back from the rides their outfits were ready.” Sims went on to study fashion, working in San Francisco and opening several boutiques in Stockton. Her career as a fashion designer was successful, though her favorite part of the job was working with people, and she wanted to use those skills to benefit her community. Having a sister-in-law with Down syndrome, Sims considered caring for people with special needs but was met by scoffs. “My aunt said, 'Valerie can’t do that, she’ll never do that. She can’t care for people.' It was an insult to me, so I opened a care facility for the developmentally disabled.” Not only did Sims prove her aunt wrong, she kept the care center open for almost eighteen years. Sims discovered that helping others was her true calling. She went back to school, this time earning a PhD in Psychology, and in 2002 she opened the V.B.R. Foster Family Agency. There she offered counseling to families in need, and secured safe and loving foster homes for emotionally disturbed children.

Sims says that of all the challenges she encounters in her line of work, drug and alcohol abuse is the most common reason why foster children cannot reunify with their biological parents. In response, Sims has recently opened Fresh Beginnings, an outpatient clinic offering drug and alcohol programs. V.B.R. and Fresh Beginnings work in conjunction to give families the optimal help they need. Sims is extremely excited about the collaboration, though her work doesn’t stop there. She also has plans to provide transitional housing for foster kids emancipated from the system, and is especially excited for V.B.R. to receive its adoption license in the next six months.

Though her job is emotionally demanding, Sims has says she feels incredibly fulfilled. She advises anyone who sees or suspects child or domestic abuse to speak up (her office welcomes walk-ins), and hopes in the future that she will be able to do missionary work to help people all over the world.

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Bottles &Pacifiers: The Suck Stops Here

by Katy Berry

Using bottles and pacifiers does wonders for our crying babies (and subsequently our eardrums), but when it’s time to say goodbye, many parents find these habits hard to break. We spoke to pediatrician Dr. Carol Cahill and dentist Dr. Anureet Sohi-Thadwall to find out why it’s important to kick those suckers to the curb. » Infants are born with the urge to suck so they can nurse, and some children who can not self soothe may suck for comfort, but parents should not rely on bottles and pacifiers throughout childhood. Infants who have a bottle propped in their mouth at bedtime don’t know when they’re hungry since they have a constant food source.

Dr. Cahill suggests going straight from breastfeeding to using a cup. “Nine months old is not too early to drink from a sippy cup,” she says. If your child is already on the bottle, Cahill suggests weaning them before they turn 2 years old. “Put what they like to drink into the cup and only put water in their bottle. They’re going to throw the bottle and pick the cup,” says Cahill. After infancy a child only needs four ounces of milk with each meal as a calcium supplement. Toddlers who feed primarily on milk tend to become overweight and anemic. Cutting out bottles will cause them to eat more table food. Dr. Sohi also warns that children who sleep with a milk or juice bottle are bathing their teeth in lactose and other sugars causing bacteria and tooth decay, so bottles at bedtime should be avoided completely.

When it comes to pacifiers, parents should resist using them past infancy.

Constant sucking will cause a deepening of the child’s palette and deform the alignment of their teeth. In short, pacifiers = braces. They should be eliminated by age 2. Dr. Sohi says that kids who suck their thumbs run the same risk. “It’s very normal, but after age 4, I would be concerned. As permanent teeth start to come in, it can damage them and keep them from coming in the right position.”

Sohi suggests finding out why the child is sucking in the first place since it’s usually a sign of insecurity and a want for comfort. If they’re aggressively sucking in their sleep, try putting socks on their hands, coating their thumb in bad tasting medicine, or bandaging their thumb before bed.

For weaning, Dr. Cahill suggests snipping off the top of the pacifier bit by bit. Eventually, the pacifier will be a small nub and the child will complain that it’s broken. That is when parents should instruct them to throw it in the garbage. Children as young as eighteen months have a far better memory than we assume. Your child will remember throwing it out and know it’s gone. Another great suggestion is having your child bring all their pacifiers to the toy store. Let them pick out a toy and “pay” for it with their pacifiers. When they ask for a pacifier later on, simply remind them that they exchanged their pacifiers for a brand new toy.

In the end, it’s often the parents who have a harder time saying bye-bye to bottles and pacifiers because they’ve become a source of relief. But with a little creativity and a strong commitment, getting your kids off of bottles and pacifiers can be done more quickly and easily than you think.

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Your Family:

The Value of Experiences

by Jenn Thornton

What do you get the kid who has everything? Ask parents raising children in the age of technology (apps, texts, and Facebook, oh my!) and they’re likely to flash a familiar eye roll. Gone are the days when kids killed eight hours with just their imagination. Yesterday’s parents used to decipher the rules of Monopoly; today they navigate gadgetry that no adult over 40 can reasonably use without the assistance of a 10 year-old. Little, it seems, can compete with computer graphics that dance—even Park Place. As stepmother to 8 year-old Mackenzie, this question has puzzled me (and her dad, mom, aunt, and both sets of grandparents) more than once: A room full of toys and none of them keep her interest longer than five minutes. For many reasons she has “too much,” and we can trace the over-indulgence back to ourselves. (The last time I checked, Target doesn’t consider magic beans or marbles as acceptable forms of payment, so it must be us.) And yet, Mackenzie would rather spend time with her wacky family than with anything in her room—and by “anything” I mean “everything.” As it turns out, maybe what your child really needs isn’t a ‘thing’ at all, but a quality experience with those she loves most. »

Time is currency

It’s heartening to realize that even bells and whistles have a shelf life. Never was this clearer in our house than last year, when cable tv was replaced by two popular backups, Taco Nights and Monster Mondays. A playground romp that casts me in the role of “Beasty” and Mackenzie’s dad as “Crusty,” together we chase her through tires, over swings, and up rope ladders while yelling incomprehensively at the tops of our lungs.

She squeals with delight at how ridiculous we look, which only amps up the lunacy.

Yes, it has its humiliations (the tires are a tight squeeze), but it’s also become the best, most reliable part of our week.

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Making memories

Given that Mackenzie favors her Dad and me over Super Mario Bros. any day—but especially Monster Mondays—we decided to give her the gift of a memory for her birthday. Her initial reaction to receiving an “experience” was certainly less than thrilled. No bouncy house? No presents thrown into a cubby never to be seen from again? Boring! Still, we stuck to our guns, planning a ziplining adventure for our girl who’s always wanted to fly.

Priceless bonds

We needn’t have worried that the two hours in the car one-way would be too long a journey for Mackenzie to endure, even though that’s what the five-minute trip to Safeway has become. Not relying on a portable device for entertainment opened up a gateway to imagination. We sang silly songs, had whistling contests, and actually talked—out loud and in sentences! And, as she whooshed through the air yelling “Supergirl!” at a pitch that only Beastie and Crusty could appreciate, I knew we had finally given Mackenzie something her equal in preciousness. It lit up her smile from within, stirred her interest in the world around her, and brought us all closer together.

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by Don and Ann Jackson

North Tahoe’s Squaw Valley:

winding through the Village, a ropes course, indoor and outdoor climbing walls, and the SkyJump bungee-trampoline, kids should love ‘em all (squawadventure.com).

Another must-do is biking the 14-mile round-trip paved trail from Squaw along the picturesque Truckee River, one of California’s most scenic and safest bike rides. (Our granddaughters tried and loved almost all the above activities.)

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Take the Cable Car ride to High Camp at 8,200 feet for spectacular Tahoe views, plus plenty of free activities once you take the paid trip up the mountain. Play tennis on two high-in-the-sky courts, or try your hand at disc golf (similar to the rules of golf but with frisbee discs). Take scenic hiking trails to Shirley Lake or through wildflower-filled meadows, and dogs are welcome with no extra tram charge. Or, visit the Olympic Museum, with memorabilia from the 1960 Olympics.

Other (paid) activities at High Camp include swimming and hot tubbing in Squaw’s year-round pool with waterfalls and beautiful vistas. For an adventure, try a game of paintball or roller skating in Squaw’s converted ice rink. Tip: Consider buying All-Access tickets that include cable car fare, pool use, paintball, roller skating at High Camp, and the kids zip line at the 6,200-foot Base Village.

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Plusses include ideal location in the heart of the Village, and amenities like hot tubs, a fitness center, kids game room, and complimentary parking (thevillageatsquaw.com). For dining within the Village, try PlumpJack Café with California cuisine featuring locally-sourced ingredients (plumpjackcafe.com), or Blue Coyote Sports Grill with a casual, with a sports bar atmosphere.

The Resort at Squaw Creek is perfect if you're seeking a fullservice hotel, with a day spa for the grownups, and a pool area with a water slide that kids age 5 to 80 will love. Additional draws are the distinctive regional cuisine at Six Peaks Grill, and delectable casual fare at Sandy’s Pub (squawcreek.com).

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Raising kids has always been rewardingly difďŹ cult, but doing so in today’s world means facing an increasingly complex set of challenges. Many parents are simply not schooled in the intricacies of these issues. So here, with instruction and a little homework from Stockton therapist Fran Costello, a crash course in Parenting 101.

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Parenting 101 The issue: Chronically over-scheduled kids The impact: The pressure to “achieve” compels many parents to inadvertently overextend their kids beyond their capacity to withstand the physical and emotional demands of a busy schedule. Enter stress, irritability, headaches, disruptive sleep, and notable shifts in personality. “Over-scheduling has the potential to backfire, leaving children exhausted, confused, discouraged, and unmotivated,” explains Costello.

Homework: According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, parents should cut back 5 to 10 percent of scheduled activities to make room for unstructured family and free time.

Kids need the opportunity to recharge, discover their own interests, exercise their imagination, and develop dexterity, physical, and emotional strength. In turn, less harried parents are more effective in their parenting. Consider involving your child in a few different activities he loves, rather than five he is too exhausted to engage in.

dote too much on their children. She adds, “It is very easy for a proud parent to regularly make statements about their children, such as, ‘Bobby is the best runner on the track team, none of the other kids will be able to beat him.’” While this may be true, such comments often put undue pressure on the child and give him a sense of superiority that can alienate his peers.

Homework: Monitor your child’s behavior—and your own. Discuss negative behaviors related to over-competitive behavior, and carefully explain to your child that while it is okay to want to win, it is not acceptable to humiliate or be hurtful to friends. Explain game rules and exhibit pro-social sportsmanship.

The Issue: Sexual promiscuity The impact: Inaccurate sexual messages kids receive through a myriad of channels often complicate imperfect sexual education. Coupled with a lack of parental communication, the risk of adolescent promiscuity increases.

activity as something precious that should be valued, cared for, and acted on a way that is respectful to your child and his partner.

The issue: Celebrity worship The impact: Research shows that celebrity obsession has produced a generation that believes education and hard work is secondary to achieving ‘success’. “Kids today identify affluence, attractiveness, and achievement with celebrities,” notes Costello. “These attributes are understandably desirable, and certainly not inherently harmful, but fixating on them can divert children them from their own values.”

Homework: Ensure that your child understands the difference between fantasy and reality (especially “reality TV”) by helping him develop the critical thinking skills necessary to deconstruct mixed messages.

“Encourage your child to think about their favorite shows

The issue: Technology The impact: Technology is a staple for this generation, and parents must learn to integrate it safely into the lives of their children. But, warns Costello, “Excessive access to and usage of technology is linked to childhood obesity, addiction, pornography, and online predatory situations. Latest research indicates that it also affects a child’s ability to think for himself and empathize with others.”

Homework: Track cyberspace trends and set appropriate limits for technology use. Costello advises no more than 4 hours per day combined engagement in web, TV, texting, and video games.

Utilize parental controls for all technology. For cell phones, consider prepaid purchase plans, and if you must buy a cell phone for a younger child, program it for emergency calls only.

The Issue: Hyper-competitiveness The impact: A win-at-all-costs mentality in kids usually develops at the expense of others’ feelings. “One of the most recognizable clues of an over-competitive child is if he regularly exhibits superiority over his friends,” Costello says. “Overcompetitive children will complain that rules are ‘wrong’ or ‘unfair’ or that other children ‘aren’t playing the game right.’” Conversely, parents can

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Homework: “Develop open, honest, and ongoing communication about responsibility, sex, and choice to help kids learn about sex in a healthy and positive manner,” Costello explains. “Parents need to handle a child’s age appropriate curiosity in a safe way, while sharing facts and their own values.” Once broached, share your attitudes and beliefs about sex. Acknowledge sexual curiosity as normal, then express that sexual materials portray unrealistic images of sex. Identify sexual

and media personalities,” advises Costello. “Why do they like them? Do they reflect the values of your family, school, or community? Ask them to describe the qualities they like best in their friends, family members, teachers, and coaches.

Is it that they are famous, rich, and pretty? Or is it that they’re fun, funny, helpful, caring, friendly, and smart?” Keep current with media your child

consumes in order to stimulate informed discussions about it.

The issue: Money The impact: Many kids in the age of ATM machines and credit cards have unrealistic conceptions about money—namely, that there is no limit to spending. Those lacking an understanding about the value of money tend to be fiscally irresponsible in adulthood.

Homework: Children learn by example, so watch how you talk about money and how you handle it.

Educate your kids about the basics of earning, spending, and saving. “Guide children to become wise consumers of media so they understand that

advertisements are designed to sell,” Costello says. “Teach the concept of ‘need versus want’ and how to make wise money choices.” Open a bank account in your child’s name to give him a sense of ownership and to encourage saving. If a child is gifted money, consider having him put at least half of what he receives in the bank (ask gift givers to send cash or checks, not gift cards).

Delay gratification, set money goals, and, at an

appropriate age, involve your child in creating a household budget—bestow him with the title of “treasurer” to give him the opportunity to develop greater fiscal discipline. Finally, pay with cash so that kids see when the money’s gone, it’s gone.

The issue: Substance abuse The impact: While not new, this issue has increased among youth. Substance abuse can lead to poor school performance and loss of friends; it can impact the family, lead to legal problems, and affects a child’s physical and mental health. “It is not uncommon to see children start to engage in substance abuse at an early age,” Costello says. “Peer pressure continues to be a leading cause of adolescence self-medicating, but the primary cause stems from environment (genetics and easy access to drugs and alcohol in the home). Youth with poor self-esteem or mental/emotional problems such as depression, who do not feel connected to or valued by their parents, are at greater risk.”

Media portrayals of substance abuse as a way to gain popularity and success, and pharmaceutical company advertisements promoting “improve your life” messages are also factors.

Homework: Start by learning how to correctly identify if your child is using. Adolescents are often withdrawn or negative, so, explains Costello, “It is important not to accuse your child unfairly, and to try to discover the root of why his behavior has changed.” Voice your concern without condemnation, and look for certain patterns or changes in appearance, behavior, and attitude—not just one or two things. Encourage healthy

behaviors and good family communication early. And finally, model clean living. “Youth are more likely to use drugs, alcohol, and tobacco if their parents do,” Costello says. “Parental attitude towards substance use will profoundly influence their behavior. [SJ KIDS]

Old School vs. New School What’s better—homework or lifelong learning? Two University of the Pacific professors take up the debate.

Old School Idea Critics claim that “old school” approaches—tests, homework, and grades—take the joy away from learning.

It’s true that standardized testing has created problems, and that homework and grades can certainly create stress. But the problem is not tests or homework or grades themselves, but how they’ve been used. Tests and grades are gatekeepers to colleges and careers. We may not like this reality, but we owe it to children to help them succeed in the world we live in now.

Personal discipline and time management skills are important for success in school, the workplace, and life. Learning to complete meaningful homework assignments develops these skills. Testing and grades also are useful diagnostics.

They help us measure progress and identify gaps in knowledge and skills, which can be addressed quickly and easily if we know they exist. Tests, homework, and grades can certainly be misused, but that does not mean we should abandon them. We need to blend the best of innovative approaches with welldeveloped tests, engaging homework, and meaningful, useful grades. We must use every tool at our disposal to ensure that each child learns and thrives.

Dr. Lynn Beck, Dean and Professor in the Gladys L. Benerd School of Education New School Thinking Contemporary American education faces a clash of cultures. There is an entire generation of children—the Millennials or Net Generation—who have grown up after the generation of the now famous “knowledge age.” Students now live in a world rich with technology and an accelerated rate of change, where jobs and careers become extinct in the space of a single decade. Yet the educational experiences of today’s schools are designed to make them consumers of finite knowledge for the purpose of scoring well on standardized tests. As a result, children are not fully cultivating the skills of lifelong learning necessary to meet the demands of the information age. Given the constancy of change in one’s lifespan, an ability to acquire new skills, information, and ideas is an absolute precondition to success. The only sustainable advantage in today’s world is what a person knows, how they can utilize it, and how fast they can learn something new. Our schools should ensure this capability for our students. It is a matter of career survival.

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October 8, Stockton The Stockton Arena is bringing Phineas and Ferb (of Disney Channel fame) to life. Watch as the whole gang jumps out from behind your TV and onto the stage in this live action adventure. It’s only a matter of time before Perry, the beloved pet platypus, shifts to his secret double life as Agent P to foil another one of Dr. Doofenshmirtz’s evil plans. Musical madness abounds in an escapade so awesome that even Candace can’t help but join in. 1 p.m. and 4 p.m. $16-$62.

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Forever Plaid September 7-October 2, Stockton The Stockton Civic Theatre is presenting this popular musical about four eager young male singers killed in a car crash in the 1950s on their way to their first big concert. The friends are miraculously revived for the posthumous chance to fulfill their dreams and perform the show that never was. Singing in the closest of harmonies, squabbling over the smallest intonations, and executing their outlandish choreography with overzealous precision, “Plaids” is a wonderful evening with some of the greatest nostalgic pop hits of the ‘50s. Showtimes vary. $25 adults, $15 students. Stockton Civic Theatre, 2312 Rosemarie Lane, Stockton, (209) 473-2424, sctlivetheatre.com

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Lodi Grape Festival and Harvest Fair September 15-18, Lodi This festival helps to promote San Joaquin’s agriculture and to provide related programs like 4-H Clubs and the Future Farmers of America with fundraising opportunities. The day also includes carnival rides, food, and live entertainment for plenty of fun. Hours vary. Adults $8, Youth 6-12 years $4, Children 5 and under Free. Lodi Grape Festival Grounds, 413 E. Lockeford St., Lodi, (209) 369-2771, grapefestival.com

Circus Vargas September 15-19, Stockton Circus Vargas is bringing an exciting and fun-filled circus extravaganza to the Weberstown Mall this September. Come thirty minutes early and join Jon Weiss, host of ABC’s The Amazing Race, as he gives families a close-up look at life under the big top. Kids of all ages will enjoy this show as talented acrobats, aerialists, and comedians take the audience on a journey through the memories of a traveling circus performer. You won’t want to miss this captivating spectacle. Showtimes vary. $15-$50. Weberstown Mall, 4950 Pacific Ave., Stockton, (877) GOTFUN-1, circusvargas.com

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Coastal Cleanup September 17, Lodi Last year San Joaquin locals showed they cared as nearly 1,200 volunteers gathered to clean up twelve tons of trash from roughly 20 miles of our waterways as part of California’s Coastal Cleanup Day. Cigarette butts, bits of paper, plastic containers, and even a child’s tricycle were removed from areas like the Mokelumne River. Those who would like to join in this year’s cleanup can sign up for one of several cleanup locations where site captains will provide tools and safety materials. 9 a.m.-12 p.m. Free. Various locations, (209) 468-3073, sjcleanwater.org

Family Day at the Park September 24, Stockton This free event, presented by the Stockton Record, provides families with interactive projects and activities from more than 70 businesses and community organizations to promote education and literacy. Enjoy live entertainment, street entertainers, great crafts, and the Friends of the Library used book sale with over 5,000 titles to browse. In addition, published children’s authors and illustrators will preside over the Friends of the Library King Author’s Court, telling stories, teaching, signing books, and answering questions. 9:30 a.m.-3:30 p.m. Free. University Park, California and Magnolia Streets, Stockton, (209) 957-7277, recordnet.com

14th Annual Pumpkin Maze October 1-31, Lathrop The Dell’Osso Family Farm will be kicking off the fall activities again this year with their annual pumpkin maze. Stop by for a day full of great family activities including U-pick pumpkins, a haunted house, zip lines, and much more. Don’t forget to stop by their country store for an autumn treat. 10 a.m.-8 8 p.m. Prices for attractions vary. Dell’Osso Family Farm, 26 Stewart Rd., Lathrop, (209) 982-0833, pumpkinmaze.com

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October 21, Stockton The Friends of the Fox present Hold that Ghost!, a hilarious Halloween classic starring Abbott and Costello. The perfect event to get you in the Halloween spirit, this film follows a pair of service station jerks who become heirs to a fortune. As they spend the night in their new haunted house, they meet some interesting characters as ghostly hijinks start to unfold. Come to the show dressed in costume for special treats and surprises. 6:30-8:30 p.m. $8 adults, $4 youth. Bob Hope Theatre, 242 E. Main St., Stockton, (209) 337-HOPE, bobhopetheatre.com

The Lord of the Rings in Concert: The Fellowship of the Ring October 23, Sacramento Come join other Tolkien fans as 250 musicians perform the entire Academy Award and Grammy winning score from The Fellowship of the Ring live on stage. The Munich Symphony Orchestra, Pacific Chorale, and Phoenix Boys Choir bring Middle-Earth to life as the film is projected in high definition on an immense 60-foot screen. 6 p.m. $35-$150. Power Balance Pavilion, One Sports Parkway, Sacramento, (916) 928-6900, powerbalancepavilion.com

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