San Joaquin Weddings Magazine August 2019

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The Waterfront Hotel is a beautifully designed venue for all your types of wedding events. It’s ideal for formal, high-end elegant weddings and unique, relaxed, informal celebrations. The Waterfront Hotel allows you to create the atmosphere that’s just right for all your wedding day events. Have your wedding at the University Plaza Waterfront Hotel just the way you’ve dreamed.

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Wine & Roses provides the setting for a small intimate ceremony or a large reception with up to 350 guests.

The Garden Ballroom is breathtaking, with an open beam ceiling, fireplace, beverage bar, and it’s own private garden of white birch trees. The Cellar Room features a stone fireplace and large french doors that open to a private patio and gardens. Our outdoor settings provide plenty of room for seating surrounded by botanical gardens and deodar trees.

Wine & Roses Hotel sits in the heart of Lodi Wine Country and features 66 rooms and suites designed to meet the needs and desires of your wedding party and guests. Experience luxurious amenities including botanical gardens, a modern fitness center, beautiful pool, relaxing jacuzzi, and unparalleled gracious hospitality.

Group reservations are available.

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Our Event Specialists work closely with the Executive Chef and his team to help you create the perfect culinary experience. We have the expertise to make your menu collection unique and representative of you.

Towne House Restaurant at Wine & Roses features fresh, innovative dishes using quality, regionally sourced ingredients. Private dining rooms are available for a bridal luncheon or an intimate rehearsal dinner.

Set in an environment of natural beauty and tranquility, the award-winning Spa at Wine & Roses offers spa services and packages for women, men and couples.

From pedicures to preparatory packages, Wine & Roses is the perfect spa destination for brides and grooms!

Create the wedding look of your dreams in our full service, Aveda salon featuring experienced hair and makeup artists and only the highest quality products.

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WHAT’S Inside 10 Themes & Color Schemes

50 Honeymoon in Nashville

18 Dressing Down the Rehearsal

56 Mini Moon: Pleasanton 58 Ride in Style

20 Wedding Day Desserts 22 Green Bridal Bouquets

60 BYOB – Bring Your Own Bar

24 Bride Advice

62 The Perfect Timeline

26 Real Weddings

64 Finding the Right Fit

46 Planning a Bridal Brunch Menu

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Colors & Themes

AT H ome Bridesmaid Sorella Vita Sheryl Giles Bridal Couture

Groom Michael Kors , Tuxedos of Lodi

Bride Willowsby by Watters, Sheryl Giles Bridal Couture

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ON THE W ater Groom Michael Kors Tuxedos of Lodi

Bride Willowsby by Watters Sheryl Giles Bridal Couture

Bridesmaid Sorella Vita Sheryl Giles Bridal Couture

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Outside the Box

DRESSING DOWN the

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FUN TIPS FOR DE-FORMALIZING THE NIGHT BEFORE

 BY NORA HESTON TARTE A rehearsal dinner is a traditional part of any wedding event lineup. And to make sure your big day is snafufree, it’s pretty much mandatory.

But the practice doesn’t have to be followed by a big, fancy dinner.

More brides are finding casual ways to celebrate the day before the big affair. Want to ditch the formal wear and dress down your own rehearsal? Read on.

TAKE IT HOME.

A backyard rehearsal dinner is a great way to keep the affair casual while still partaking in tradition.

When guests are able to mill about and mingle, it can make for a more welcoming atmosphere than restaurants that can’t accommodate big parties at one table. This is especially a perk for those out-of-town guests who don’t know anyone yet.

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FIND AN ACTIVITY

Make the rehearsal an interactive experience for guests by planning it around an activity. The attire will have to be casual if the wedding party is going to, say, ride go-karts, after-all. Not a go-kart fan? Opt for laser tag or bowling. Basically, anywhere that hosts kids’ birthday parties are a potential venue for your rehearsal dinner.

GIVE IT A THEME

An over-the-top theme probably isn’t going to charm most brides on the big day, but a rehearsal dinner is one place a silly theme just might fit. Pay homage to the bride and groom’s birth year (or the year they met) with 80s or 90s-themed bashes. Want to take it even farther back in time? Tell everyone to wear a toga to your Greek Gods & Goddesses party.

CELEBRATE SHARED INTERESTS

Make your rehearsal as esoteric as your wedding day by paying homage to shared interests you may not be able to celebrate during your nuptials. Share a love of baseball? Turn dinner into a cookout and invite everyone to play softball. We hear Big League Dreams in Manteca rents space, but local parks work well, too.

Prefer football? Play a game of two-hand touch—bridesmaids versus groomsmen.

CELEBRATE THE FRUITS OF THE REGION

An hors d'oeuvres-heavy rehearsal is one way to skip the formality— and cost—of dinner. Pair it with a wine tasting at a local vineyard for that extra special touch.

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DAY Desserts WEDDING

 BY NORA HESTON TARTE

The bar isn’t just for cocktails anymore!

Dessert bars are popping up all over wedding venues as a way to offer guests a larger variety of sweet tastes. Sometimes these displays are in place of a cake, but in most cases brides are keeping the traditional tiered dessert and adding extras such as candy, cupcakes, cookies, pies, and more. Lori Phillips at Bare Ranch by Michael David says she’s seen an uptick in dessert bars at the wedding venue she manages, including both donut and sundae bars. Master the look with a few expert tips, or simply use our suggestions for inspiration in your own dessert bar creation.

MAKE IT PERSONAL Perhaps on your first date you shared a banana split, or every anniversary you’ve celebrated with apple pie. Did you bake cookies for him ever Christmas or indulge in cinnamon rolls on Sunday mornings? Whatever your dessert traditions are as a couple, echo them in your dessert bar. After all, this day is about the two of you.

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USE VARIETY If you’re trying to appeal to a mass of different taste buds, create a spread that’s varied in flavors. Expertly iced cookies in your wedding colors can take up real estate next to mini pumpkin pies and cheesecake bites. The opposite of this trend is to make the desserts somewhat uniform. For example, stick to a cookie bar but offer five or so different types of cookies, or set up a pie bar with flavors from pecan to cherry.

MAKE IT THE CAKE The wedding cake trend isn’t going anywhere. A rise in dessert bars doesn’t necessarily mean cake replacements. But if you decide to forgo a traditional cake, you can use a dessert bar in its stead. Get creative by sticking with the tiered style with an arrangement of donuts or an actual “cheese” cake made from brie and finished with crackers and fresh fruit.

TAKE IT OVER THE TOP One of the best parts of a dessert bar is how photogenic it can be. Make your dessert bar Instagram-worthy with over-the-top decorations and a themed color scheme. Candy bars in large glass containers, giant lollipops, and sparkly signs are one way to create a picture-perfect spot at your wedding venue. Or, get a cute display like a traditional ice cream cart like what you’d see in Central Park and fill it with several different types of ice cream and all the fixings.

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Trends

Wedding

INGREDIENTS FOR THE PERFECT GREEN BRIDAL BOUQUET:

Seeded Eucalyptus

This favored green adds an element of texture to the bouquet with its flexible stems of sage-colored leaves and clusters of earthy seeds.

Olive Branch

This timeless green adds a rustic element to the bouquet with its wooded stems and pointed leaves. It is best known as a symbol of peace.

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Flowers play a huge role in the overall look and style of a wedding, so it’s no surprise that brides usually have a picture in their head of what they want that bridal bouquet to look like.

If you ask a florist what the most common wedding bouquet request they’ve received as of late is, there’s a good chance they’ll tell you that green bouquets have completely stolen the show in the wedding flower industry, and for good reason. This organic, monochromatic look pops in the most perfect way against a white wedding gown, producing a winning combo that modern brides are swooning over.

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dreamy bouquet from looking like a few twigs bunched together to “Wow, that’s the bouquet I want to carry down the aisle with me”? The simple answer is variety and texture. Using several different types of greenery that all fall into the same color scheme is what gives this trendy bouquet the chic look that bride’s can’t seem to get enough of. Add a couple stems of white flowers, and you’ve got yourself the perfect green bouquet.

White Veronica Flower

This trendy bloom adds an element of interest to the bouquet, and is a great way to include a pop of white and whimsy.

Variegated Pittosporum

This two-toned green plant adds fullness to the bouquet, and its unique whitetrimmed leaves are a good tie-in for the bi-colored bouquet.

Silver Dollar Eucalyptus

This airy green adds a soft element to the bouquet with perfectly round cascading leaves, and an amazing calming scent the bride might need on her big day.

Spray Rose

With its delicate petals and sweet-smelling aroma, this romantic bloom exudes bridal elegance, and adds the perfect feminine touch to the bouquet.

Baby Blue Eucalyptus

This chic green adds length and height to the bouquet and is best known for its slender spiral shape and dreamy, dusty blue-green color.

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“Make sure to smile all the way down the aisle.” – Lori Makabe, Lori Makabe Photography

“If you have to select what to spend the most money on, start with the items that are most important to you first. Then, spend the remainder of your budget on those other items of less personal importance.” – Lori Phillips, Bare Ranch by Michael David Winery

“The wedding is just one of many very special days for your marriage.

Make sure that you are investing more time into planning for your marriage than the wedding.” – Sarah Correa, Fired Up Pizza

BRIDE Advice WEDDING EXPERTS DOLE OUT EXPERT WEDDING PLANNING & DAY-OF TIPS “Take your time and enjoy your wedding planning process. When the big day comes take a deep breath and savor every moment with your new husband and loved ones. If something doesn't go exactly as planned, trust your wedding professionals to get things back on track.” – Shawna Briggs, Briggs Photography

“The first step in wedding planning is establishing your budget and priorities list. Without these, you run risk of spending money on items and things that you do not want or need, and you always want to be sure to focus your funds on services, not things.” – Lori Cole, Lori Cole Events

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“I always tell my brides not to be afraid to ask questions.

Most of them have never been married or had a wedding before and don’t know what to expect. It is perfectly fine to ask for guidance and assistance.” – Katie Fehn, Stockton Golf & Country Club “It’s important to know what questions to ask vendors. Attend our free, annual wedding 101 course on March 12, 2020 to learn the ins and outs of wedding planning and what questions to ask.” – Jan Wammack, Morris Chapel “It is essential that you make time to meet in person with all of your vendors.”

– Sarah Correa, Fired Up Pizza

“If you want to incorporate lighting on your big day, know the wattage and amps you are dealing with to avoid disaster.”

– Kyle May, K&T Lights

“When looking for a venue, have a few dates in mind. Being open to Fridays or Sundays can help you save money.” – Rachelle Faught, San Joaquin County Parks “Make sure that you are comfortable walking in your ceremony shoes or have another pair handy to move around the property for post ceremony photos.” – Lori Makabe, Lori Makabe Photography

“A lot of brides think that hiring a wedding planner or wedding-day coordinator is a luxury that they cannot afford, but it is not necessarily true. Most planners offer free consultations to talk about how they can help you.” – Lori Cole, Lori Cole Events

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Wedding Resources VENUE:

Wine & Roses PHOTOGRAPHY:

Briggs Photography WEDDING PLANNER:

Julie Clemings with Wine & Roses JEWELRY:

Dillard’s HAIR:

Liliana Castillo, owner of Salon Lilliana MAKEUP:

Lisa Khadvongsinh WEDDING GOWN:

Elizabeth’s Bridal BRIDESMAID DRESSES:

Tulle & Chantilly MENSWEAR:

Men’s Warehouse CATERING:

Wine & Roses BAKERY:

Fizz Bakery FLORIST:

Embellish Floral Design

TIP FOR BRIDES-TO-BE:

“Plan ahead, take advice with grace, do what holds dear to your heart, and know every girl deserves her dream wedding!”

DJ SERVICE/BAND:

Coro Sinai, Mariachi Sacramento, Dora Orozco, Elite Entertainment DJ TRANSPORTATION:

Sac Town Vintage COLORS:

Mauve, Blush, White, Greenery

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MAY 25, 2019, DURST WINERY & ESTATE

LAUREN & SEAN Poirier

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Durst Winery & Estate 10173 E. Acampo Rd., Acampo (209) 601-1413 DurstWinery.com

Wedding Resources VENUE:

Durst Winery & Estate PHOTOGRAPHY:

Matthew James Photography JEWELRY:

Givenchy HAIR & MAKEUP:

Jena MacLean at Jade & Co Salon WEDDING GOWN:

Miosa Bridal MENSWEAR:

Men’s Wearhouse BRIDESMAID DRESSES:

Azazie

TIP FOR BRIDES-TO-BE:

“Enjoy your day to the fullest because it’s true what they say, it goes so fast!”

CATERING

Angelina’s Spaghetti House DJ SERVICE/BAND:

Art of Sound FLORIST:

AZ Floral Design DESSERT BAR::

Stephanie Nava COLORS:

Navy Blue, Glitter Gold, Dusty Rose

Your wedding day in one word:

Perfect

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MAY 26, 2019, HUTCHINS STREET SQUARE

AMANDA & ALLEN King

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Hutchins Street Square 125 S. Hutchins St. #A, Lodi (209) 333-6782 HutchinsStreetSquare.com

Wedding Resources VENUE:

Hutchins Street Square PHOTOGRAPHY:

Briggs Photography WEDDING PLANNER:

Pati Meyers with Bella Festa JEWELRY:

DandelionBySabra, BellaTiaraLLC HAIR AND MUA:

Jenn Crockett & Heather Coss WEDDING GOWN:

Sheryl Giles Bridal Couture MENSWEAR:

Men’s Warehouse BRIDESMAID DRESSES:

David’s Bridal CATERING:

Angelina’s Spaghetti House BAKERY:

Frosted Flour TIP FOR BRIDES-TO-BE:

FLORIST:

“It truly goes by in the blink of an eye, so ensure you take the time to appreciate the beauty of the occasion and celebrate with all those you love!”

Blooms by Alli, HeyBouquet Sola Wood Flowers DJ SERVICE/BAND:

Elite Entertainment COLORS:

Burgundy, Dark Gray, Blush THEMES:

Royal, Beerfest

Your wedding day in one word:

Royal

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JUNE 15, 2019, GRAND ISLAND MANSION

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Wedding Resources PHOTOGRAPHY:

Lori Makabe

VENUE:

Grand Island Mansion JEWELRY:

Kassab Jewelers, CH Premier Jewelers HAIR:

Lace Salon MAKEUP:

Ernesto Robledo WEDDING GOWN:

Novella Bridal MENSWEAR:

Men’s Wearhouse, Tuxedo Wearhouse BRIDESMAID DRESSES:

The Dessy Group CATERING:

Grand Island Mansion BAKERY:

Freeport Bakery DJ SERVICE/BAND:

Music on the Move COLORS:

TIP FOR BRIDES-TO-BE:

“It’s easy to get bogged down in the details when you are doing wedding planning, but keep reminding yourself that as long as you and your partner are there, it’s going to be great!”

Dark Green, Mauve, Ivory

Your wedding day in one word:

Classic

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MARCH 23, 2019, STOCKTON GOLF & COUNTRY CLUB

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Stockton Golf & Country Club 3800 W. Country Club Blvd., Stockton (209) 466-4313 StocktonGolfCC.com

Wedding Resources VENUE:

Stockton Golf & Country Club PHOTOGRAPHY:

Carie Harris JEWELRY:

JCPenney’s HAIR:

Whitley Luna at Luna A Hair Studio MAKEUP:

Jocelyn McKay WEDDING GOWN:

Mira Bridal Couture MENSWEAR:

Men’s Wearhouse CATERING:

Stockton Golf & Country Club BAKERY:

Carol Bergmann FLORIST:

Embellish Floral DJ SERVICE/BAND:

Vincent Pacheco, MVP Productions

LOOKING BACK:

“We wanted to create an atmosphere of love that we could share with the people closest to us, and we feel like we achieved that.”

COLORS:

Red, Black, White

Your wedding day in one word:

Blessed

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MAY 26, 2019, VIAGGIO ESTATE & WINERY

ALINA AND KEVIN

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Viaggio Estate & Winery 100 E. Taddei Rd., Acampo (209) 368-1378 ViaggioWinery.com

Wedding Resources VENUE:

Viaggio Estate & Winery PHOTOGRAPHY:

Roza Melendez Photography JEWELRY:

Arabella necklace and earrings HAIR:

Hair by Lynette MAKEUP:

Makeup by Margot Nicole WEDDING GOWN:

Miosa MENSWEAR:

Men’s Warehouse BRIDESMAID DRESSES:

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Every little Disney detail I wanted, they made even better. The venue is so whimsical in appearance, you forget it is even on a golf course. It was truly a fairytale fantasy wedding.”

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A BRIDAL BRUNCH MENU

Brunch—it’s everyone’s favorite meal of the weekend. But did you know that it’s also one of the latest trends in bridal shower themes?

satisfying. Too much sweet, and not enough substance can really throw things off. To guarantee this doesn’t happen, choose a savory selection for every sweet one you offer.

and great options for pleasing a crowd. Continue the theme with a fully stocked coffee bar, or a juice and mimosa bar.

PREP IN ADVANCE

Brunch or not, dessert is a necessity for every bridal celebration. For an in-style, and on-theme cake replacement, neatly stack donuts on a cake stand and garnish with sweet little details like eucalyptus leaves or spray roses. Top the tower off with a “Miss to Mrs.” or “Bride to be” cake topper for a fun, and festive final touch. If you want to do the traditional cake, pick something fruity.

Picture this: The bride-to-be surrounded by all of her favorite gals, laughing, having a great time, enjoying brunch, which is just about every girl’s favorite meal. If you’re the maid of honor or another honorary gal, you’ll have to plan the menu. No need to panic though, with the help of a few simple tips, you’ll have the whole room thinking that you’re a bridal brunch hosting expert.

If you plan to cook the menu items yourself, be sure to choose items that can be prepared in advance—breakfast casseroles, muffins, fruit trays, etc. These will make for a much easier, and less stressful, event day. If you’re making something that can’t be cooked until shortly before the event begins, have all of the components prepped and ready to go the night before to cut down on the day-of time commitment.

CREATE A BALANCED MENU

BUILD A BAR

First things first, when planning the menu it’s helpful to think about balance. Having a good mixture of sweet and savory items to choose from is what makes this mid-day meal so

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For a more customizable brunch approach, put together a themed food bar with all of the extra toppings you can think of – waffle bars, yogurt parfait bars, bagel bars, and anything else you can dream up are easy to assemble

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NINE PHOTOS TO GET ON YOUR BIG DAY Your wedding day goes by in the blink of an eye, so you’ll want to make sure you have the best photographs possible to remember it. It can be

2. NAIL THE VEIL:

overwhelming to keep tabs on every moment you want to capture, but with this guide of nine must-have shots—and a few helpful hints from a local expert—you’ll be sure to capture the memories that will last a lifetime.

1. GETTING GLAM: Be sure to get some glam shots of the gorgeous bride getting ready—a close-up shot of your reflection in an ornate mirror can make for a streamlined and classy shot. And don’t forget the groom! Be sure to capture his father tying his tie before the I Dos, a sweet man-to-man moment that can get lost in all the ruffles and lace of the big day.

EXPERT EXPOSURES:

Shawna Briggs of Briggs Photography sheds light on how to ensure the happy couple is all smiles on the big day.

- Practice makes perfect.

“Schedule an engagement session with your photographer.

This will give you the opportunity to get comfortable being in front of the lens and make photos on your wedding day [run] smoothly. It's also a great time for the bride to schedule her hair and make-up trial.”

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Whether your veil has a sentimental place in your wedding or was chosen to complement the dress, it’s an accessory worth some one-on-one attention.

Once your hair is done, don your veil and turn away from the camera to get the classic veil shot from behind. Bonus points if it gets swept up by the wind.

3. THE SNEAK PEAK SHOT: Capture your prenuptial reveal with your beloved. If you’re a traditionalist and want the groom’s first look to be at the altar,

this can also be a heartwarming moment to capture between the bride and her father.

4. MAKE AN ENTRANCE: You’re only going to have eyes for each other as you walk down the aisle, so ask your photographer to get a few shots of friends and family in the audience. You’ll want to look back at their reactions down the road.

5. THE KISS: Is there any moment you’ve been looking forward to more? Opt for a full body shot here to take in the dress, the chemistry, and the altar— if you want a close up later, you can always trim it down.

6. THE HAPPY COUPLE: You will undoubtedly have countless pictures together on your wedding day but be sure to take a deep breath between all those smiles. Relax and let your guard down.

Be silly and laugh together. Those candid moments are when you’ll truly look the happiest.

7. GENERATIONS OF HAPPILY EVER AFTER: Be sure to get a shot of the groom with his - Hire a photographer who knows their way around a camera. “Make sure you hire an experienced wedding photographer. Candid moments go by in the blink of an eye. You want a seasoned pro that can anticipate those fleeting moments before they happen.”

- Timing is everything.

“Work closely with your photographer to create a wedding day timeline that gives them ample time to capture all the important moments and details throughout the day.”

dad and grandfather and one of the bride with mom and grammy. Have the girls throw in their left hands for a close-up of those beautiful bands.

8. THE GUYS AND GALS: Everybody now!

Get all the bridesmaids and groomsmen together for that famous group shot. Take a few formal photos and then encourage everyone to let loose and let their personality show through.

9. MAKE A CLEAN GETAWAY: Nighttime exits make a great opportunity for photos with dramatic lighting. A sparkler sendoff is a good choice, or have guests blow kisses and bubbles as you walk out hand-inhand.

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Honeymoon in Nashville

If you like country music, late nights, and good vibes, Nashville may just be the place to celebrate your new relationship status. Revel in music history, taste the local cui-

sine, and stay out all night at the celeb-inspired bars on Broadway. Don’t forget to add a little romance and luxury into your trip with off-the-beaten path excursions that will allow you to escape the hustle and bustle—briefly—as a couple.

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 BY NORA HESTON TARTE

Celebrate your nuptial s in Music Cit y

ARRINGTON VINEYARDS

Start your trip off slow with an excursion outside of Nashville’s city limits. ARRINGTON VINEYARDS is one of few wineries in the area, and it gains notoriety because it’s owned by Kix Brooks of Brooks & Dunn.

Take the road 25 miles south of Nashville to land in Arrington, Tenn.

Here, rolling hills welcome guests to a place that feels a million miles away from the city as you trade rooftops for a deck with open seating, and city lights for expansive countryside views. Sip award-winning varietals made on-site over the property’s 75 acres. For a real treat, visit on a weekend when Music in the Vines is on the calendar—every Saturday and Sunday, April through October. During this event you’ll have the opportunity to test out two bands every day with bluegrass in the barn and jazz in the pavilion. Aside from gourmet meats, cheeses, and chocolates available for purchase, there are no restaurants in the city of Arrington so guests are encouraged to bring picnic lunches, or have food delivered by Simply Living Life nearby.

Choose a spot on the patio, in the barn loft, or at one of the pic-

nic tables available to guests to share a bottle while you take in the views. When the tasting room is open, guests can also sip the line-up of available wines during a tasting experience. 6211 Patton Rd., Arrington

BROADWAY & BEYOND

Looking for a wild time? LOWER BROADWAY has been likened to the Vegas of the South, with nightly parties, packed bars, and constant live music. The rule of thumb is that if a musician is playing on Broadway, they’re good! So head to the music row and prance between stops.

Stay for bands you like, and if you find one you truly enjoy, ask where they will be next; many artists play multiple spots on the street in one night so you’ll be able to follow favorites from venue to venue.

Expert Tip: order cocktails made with sweet tea everywhere you can.

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We suggest starting at one end and working your way down. It’s the best way to hit all the places (or, honestly, as many as you can). If you’re walking by and hear something you like, stop in. The music makes the atmosphere in many of these places.

Start at ACME with multiple bands on several levels. Take the elevator to the top and grab a frozen beverage. Then, enjoy the DJs and live bands that frequent here.

It’s a little less touristy than most of the strip, but offers a stunning rooftop view. From here you can plan out your next moves, spotting establishments owned by Luke Bryan, Jason Aldean, Kid Rock, and Dierks Bentley nearby.

Local Grub

If you ask the locals, they’ll have a list a mile long of the food you should try while you’re visiting Nashville. Take as many suggestions as you can—chances are they aren’t lying about how good it all is.

Hot chicken may be the most popular choice for visitors, and if you’re looking for the best place to get it, we recommend HATTIE B’S. Chose between wings and strips and then douse them in sauces ranging from mild to “shut the cluck up” spicy. Finish your meal with a cup of sweet tea—if you went

Old School L andmark s

In between the rowdy rooftop bars sit some older establishments that attract a different crowd. Here, the classics are more likely to be played by live bands than the newer soundtracks you’re used to, and the crowd may or may not be a little bit tamer.

While there are a few housed next door to each other on Broadway, TOOTSIE'S ORCHID LOUNGE is a favorite. This storied establishment became well known as the place big stars would perform after their show at the GRAND OLE OPRY was up. Now the line-up features a combination of top-name performers and local artists with the same lively atmosphere it’s always had. 422 Broadway Don’t forget to stop by Margaritaville, as well. This restaurant can hold up to 300

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Tootsie's Orchid Lounge

people and it hosts live bands and features a playable piano staircase. On Fridays, The Sirius-XM Highway radio station stops by for Music Row Happy Hour and interviews guests. 322 Broadway

BUILD YOUR RELATIONSHIP

Escape rooms can be done in just about any big or medium-sized city, but we pick this activity for two reasons. For starters, a honeymoon is the perfect time to put your heads together and problem solve as a team. Whether you’re on your own or with others, The Escape Game Nashville will test your patience with each other as well as your ability to work through problems together. Choose from a few options—one room offers a playground-style slide behind a hidden door you’ll have to climb through to complete the puzzle. 162 3rd Ave. N.

Music History

and offer guests a behind-the-scenes look at country music’s most famous venues, the RYMAN being the original home of the GRAND OLE OPRY. 116 Fifth Ave. N. or 2804 Opryland Dr. If you’re lucky, you’ll be able to catch a show at the Opry while you visit. Most nights of the week well-known country acts are taking the stage at the historic venue to entertain audiences with a range of musical tastes.

Tour the Gr and Ole Opry

Country Music Hall of Fa me

While live music, rooftop bars, and signature cocktails may be what you came to Nashville for, we have a feeling the city’s deep roots in music history may have had something to do with its appeal. There are tons of landmarks to hit while you’re in town, but if your stay is short, you may have to pick and choose. Read on for favorites that live up to the hype.

or Ryman

Auditorium

The Grand Ole Opry

spicy, you’ll need it! Warning: the line often reaches outside of the door, but some locations are busier than others.

112 19th Ave. S. The other can’t miss Nashville cuisine is a googoo. These gems are available throughout the city, but the main place to get one is Downtown on 3rd Avenue at

If you have time, do both. The consensus is never clear on which tour is better. Daytime tours take about one hour

This museum is one of the largest venues dedicated to American music in the world. Step through exhibits to see costumes worn by fa-

Tin Roof

THE GOO GOO SHOP AND DESSERT BAR, open 10 AM-7 PM daily.

There are a few variations on the dessert, but the classic is a chocolate dipped cluster of peanuts and marshmallows.

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Gaylord Opryland Resort

Country Music Hall of Fame

mous performers, video clips from the 1950s (and before), and posters from old concerts and tours. The museum also pays homage to more modern country music with a hands-on exhibit dedicated to Taylor Swift and memorabilia from Jason Aldean, Carrie Underwood, Chris Stapleton, and more. An interactive area also answers trivia questions about country music, and inside you can make your own album cover. 222 5th Ave. S. Outside, the collection of gift shops is a good place to grab a souvenir from Music City, and an attached restaurant that has just about nothing to do with country music offers surprisingly healthful Mexican grub before you go. Stop in for a stuffed burrito or some tacos.

Stay: Gaylord Opryl and Re sort & Conve ntion Ce nter

There’s no reason to skimp on your honeymoon! To stay in style in Nashville, book a room at the GAYLORD OPRYLAND RESORT, located in the heart of Downtown Nashville.

Without even leaving the hotel you’ll be able to dine in, get pampered at the spa, play a round of golf, and discover SOUNDWAVES, a water park located on-site. One of the biggest draws perhaps is that guests—and non-guests—can take a ride through the hotel by boat on a guided tour. Inside, there are nine acres of lush gardens and waterfalls for guests to admire, and outside you can take a splash in one of the open pools. Expert Tip: Take it over the top by booking the presidential suite. 2800 Opryland Dr. Broadway Street

FGL House

Celebrit y Treatme nt Lower Broadway is packed with bars named after your favorite country music celebrities. From groups like Florida-Georgia Line to standout singers like Jason Aldean, each bar follows a formula: several levels with a new band on each floor, quality cocktails, and, of course, a rooftop. Here are some favorites:

FGL HOUSE

Serves Southern-style pub fare and cocktails. 120 3rd Ave. S.

OLE RED

Blake Shelton inspired this high-end honky tonk that serves Southern cuisine and signature drinks. Expert Tip: Eat here! The redneck nachos and kiss my country a** quesadilla are just the tip of the iceberg at this raucous eatery with a large dance floor. 300 Broadway 54

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KID ROCK’S BIG HONKY TONK ROCK N’ ROLL STEAKHOUSE

Kid Rock’s restaurant is a mix between a steakhouse and a honky tonk, featuring five stories of live music. 221 Broadway

JASON ALDEAN’S KITCHEN + ROOFTOP BAR

This saloon offers four levels of live music and has a rooftop. Expert Tip: It’s also a good spot to stop and watch a game.

307 Broadway

DIERKS BENTLEY’S WHISKEY ROW

Most days of the week this rooftop gets busy, plus inside there is more music and pub fare. 400 Broadway

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WHERE TO PLAY

Vineyard Avenue runs through both Livermore and Pleasanton, so while the Ruby Hill Winery is in Pleasanton, right across the street Campo Di Bocce keeps a Livermore address (175 E. Vineyard Ave., Livermore). Stop by to play a round of bocce ball while noshing on traditional Italian cuisine and imported wines.

WHERE TO EXPLORE

Take a hike through Pleasanton’s foothills. Augustin Bernal Park proffers gorgeous views of the surrounding hillsides (8200 Golden Eagle Way). Access is easy to trailheads and the park doesn’t require a drive outside of town. Pack a picnic to enjoy along the way, and keep an eye out for wildlife such as deer.

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WINE TASTING, GOOD FOOD, & GRAND ACCOMMODATIONS  BY NORA HESTON TARTE Whether you’re forgoing a faraway honeymoon completely or simply putting it off to a later date, a mini-moon could be the perfect compromise for that post-wedding day celebration. We’ve selected Pleasanton as an ideal destination for San Joaquin couples for a few reasons.

Not only does the East Bay city offer highend accommodations and cuisine, it’s a wine taster’s paradise, too!

WHERE TO STAY:

The Rose Hotel in the heart of Downtown Pleasanton doesn’t skimp on romance (807 Main St.). This over-the-top hotel features appointed rooms with luxury amenities including large soaking tubs and plush, private sitting areas, helping brides and grooms feel like royalty for the night. Expert Tip: Take the opportunity to get some posed photos on the grand staircase in the hotel’s entrance.

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WHERE TO BRUNCH

Sabio on Main sticks with the theme of doing everything just slightly over-the-top (501 Main St.). Start brunch with macchiatos and (bottomless) mimosas before diving into Spanish-inspired plates and New American cuisine. Where else can you start the day with fresh oysters and avocado toast? Or taste spam loco moco and beignets?

WHERE TO TASTE

Pleasanton is part of the Livermore AVA, a region calling itself Napa South—and for good reason. The coveted Ruby Hills area offers up two wineries, Ruby Hill Winery (400 Vineyard Ave.) and Rubino Estates (446 Vineyard Ave.), both of which live up to the opulence of the area. After you’ve sipped your way through these two hotspots, head down the road to Mitchell Katz for a weekend-only reserve tasting (1188 Vineyard Ave.)

WHERE TO DINE

If you didn’t get your fill of Italian food at Campo, have your next meal at Pastas Trattoria (405 Main St.). The Italian restaurant is located on Main St., offering a charming, small-town ambiance not found in large cities. Share a handtossed pizza or order the fresh veal and salmon dishes.

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Ask the Experts Sometimes, companies will have vintage rides for rental. Vintage Limousine Service in Lodi has a 1966 Vanden Plas Princess Limousine, a British style restored to original condition that offers a cozy fit for the bride and groom.

Sit back and relax as the driver delivers you in style.

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If your wedding is all about the DIY, why should your ride be any different?

More and more couples are opting to drive themselves around on their wedding day to enjoy more flexibility and less scheduling stress. Check out Turo, an online car rental service that allows car owners to rent directly to customers. Locally, you’ll find stylish options like a cherry red 1965 Chevrolet Corvair and a 2016 Tesla Model X. Or consider renting an exotic sport or luxury car from a rental car agency like Enterprise, where you can choose from a wide selection of exciting models.

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• If your wedding falls between April and June (AKA Prom and graduation season), be sure to book your ride well in advance as formal vehicles will be in high demand.

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FROM CINDERELLA CARRIAGES TO CLASSIC CARS The arrival happens first, before brides can walk down the aisle, smile for the camera, and toast the wedding night away. So why not make a grand en-

trance? A stretch limo is a wedding classic, but if you want a ride that stands out on your big day, opt for a something that speaks to your personal style and fits into the overall theme of the wedding. Here are three ideas for limo-alternative wedding wheels.

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Step out from behind the dim, tinted windows and into the limelight.

The extroverted bride will love opting for a horse-drawn carriage and her very own Cinderella entrance.

Several companies service the San Joaquin area, such as Rolling H Carriage Company with its domed princess-style carriages. Or opt for Peppermint Creek Carriage Co., which offers historic six-passenger carriages with white exteriors and rose red, deep blue, or forest green velvet interiors to fit the big day color scheme.

OLD IS GOLD

No matter how wedding trends wax and wane over the years, classic cars are one thing that will always be in style. Inquire with local limo services to see if they have vehicles aside from limousines in their fleet.

• Have your heart set on a classic car? Be sure to consider the size of your dress— classic models are often a tighter fit than modern counterparts, so that princess gown might be better suited to the Cinderella carriage.

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jumble that can put a damper on guests’ fun. What’s great about Bernie is that she does it all—serves drinks, offers conversation, and cares for patrons. Anxious brides can count on Bernie to cut off that uncle who had too much to drink, and then serve him a botanical water blend to help him hydrate. (209) 710-7499

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MOBILE BARS AND BARTENDERS OFFER NEW OPTIONS FOR WEDDING DAY IMBIBING Finally stumbling into the perfect venue after months of searching can be quickly ruined when the rule list comes pouring out. Some venues have strict regulations regarding bar service due to complications such as staffing and licensing. Have no fear— the mobile bar is here! Offering alternatives to venues without bars—like if you’re getting married outdoors—or venues without a hard liquor license, these mobile adventurers are ready to bring the party to your big day!

BELLE ADVENTURE MOBILE BAR CO.

This adorable mobile bar has modeled itself off of European businesses of the same nature, providing an aesthetically appealing bar and seating area for big events such as weddings.

The husband-and-wife team works out of a converted horse trailer painted Tiffany blue.

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supplies a vintage seating area and lawn games for guests. A second vehicle was recently added to the fleet—a black and copper trailer donning beer taps. If your venue requires their own staff to man the bar, that’s allowed— simply rent the trailer without the services. (916) 798-2130

BERNIE’S MIXOLOGY

Ever have a venue tell you they couldn’t serve cocktails and shots?

Or that bartenders aren’t on staff?

When that happens, Bernie is the solution. Bernie’s Mixology caters to brides with venues that cannot accommodate their bar service wish list by offering custom recipes, bartending services, and her own liquor license. The liquor license allows Bernie to serve up drinks at venues that don’t have their own licensing, getting around the legal mumble-

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TIMELINE Most engagements last 12-18 months (The Knot says 14.5 is the average), and that’s a lot of planning to cram into a short year to year and a half.

Don’t miss a thing—the perfect timeline will get you from engaged to married without fear or fuss. Take it one step at a time as we show you how to plan an entire wedding affair in just one year.

Having a short engagement? Brides with six months to plan can double up months to make this list work for them.

MONTH 1

Start with the basics. Think of month one as your getting started month. This month you should: • Come up with a budget for the big day.

• Start researching themes and pouring over bridal magazines for inspiration.

• Make a team—hire a wedding planner, ask friends to serve in the wedding party, and determine what family members you can count on to help tackle these tasks.

• Choose a wedding date.

• Book a ceremony and reception site.

• Get organized with a wedding binder.

• Write the guest list.

MONTH 2

Start to hone in on the details. You have a lot of vendors to book. Don’t miss out because you waited too long to commit. This month you should: • Hire a wedding photographer and/or videographer.

• Try on wedding gowns.

• Nail down the entertainment for the ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception.

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• Schedule floral appointments and come in with ideas for décor, preferably photos and information about types of flowers and colors.

• Create a registry.

• Plan an engagement party.

• Create and send your save the date cards.

MONTH 3

This is the month to book everything you haven’t yet. Nail down the rest of the vendors and get your deposits in. This month you should: • Officially book any remaining vendors.

• Order your wedding gown so you have enough time for alterations.

• Browse rental company showrooms and place orders for any items you need— flatware, tablecloths, chairs, tables, décor, etc.

• Make a wedding website and start filling it with information for your guests.

It’s best if you can include the website link on those save the date cards even if you haven’t built the website yet.

• Pick a hotel to serve as home base for out-of-town guests. Don’t forget to ask about room blocks and special party rates.

• Book a wedding officiant or ask a friend or family member to step in • Meet with caterers.

MONTH 4

The big stuff is taken care of and it’s time to get lost in the details. Don’t stress!

This part of wedding planning should be fun, and it’s a great opportunity to include friends in the tasks. This month you should: • Shop for wedding invitations and bands (make sure you order by Month 6).

• Start to talk about your honeymoon and

prepare for travel (get passports, find a travel planner, create a savings plan).

• Start interviewing bakers, taste cakes, and decide on your dessert spread.

• Take the girls and guys to pick out wedding attire. This gives the wedding party plenty of time to order on their own timeline.

MONTH 5

You’re getting closer. It’s time to make some final decisions. This month you should: • Order wedding invitations and get ready to send them (i.e.: pick up stamps, hire a calligrapher, etc.).

• Start booking travel for the honeymoon to get the best deals on airfare, hotels, and more.

• Book your baker.

• Check on all the members of the wedding party to make sure they purchased the necessary attire. Ensure rented items will be in the right place at the right time, especially for out-of-town attendants.

MONTH 6

You’re halfway there! The big stuff should be handled by now, but this is a good time to start planning for the actual day. This month you should: • Attend pre-wedding counseling if required.

• Write out a rough draft for the timeline. Consider where everyone needs to be at different parts of the day and how you want the reception to progress.

• Book a hairstylist and makeup artist for you and members of your wedding party.

MONTH 7

Plan ahead. There isn’t just one day involved in a wedding. Get with friends and family to plan other affairs.

This month you should: • Handle the rehearsal dinner—create the guest list, book the space, and send the invites.

• Do your follow-ups. Do you need to check in with any vendors? Adjust timelines?

• Book extras like a photo booth or food truck.

• Look ahead to your shower.

If someone else is planning it, pick a day and send the host your guest list.

• Start the song list. The DJ or band sometimes has a standard form to fill out for this. If not, send special songs for the first dance and bouquet toss, plus a list of must play and any do-not-play songs.

MONTH 8

Get your final look together.

This month you should: • Shop for and purchase wedding shoes and accessories.

• Book and attend your wedding hair and makeup trials. Bring in inspiration photos for both.

• Attend dress fittings as needed.

MONTH 9

Use month nine to finalize small details before launching into the wedding festivities. This month you should: • Finalize the menu.

• Check in with the florist and make sure all pieces have been ordered.

• Ask friends to speak at the wedding and add these speeches to your timeline.

• Schedule another dress fitting if needed.

• Finalize the timeline for the ceremony and reception.

• Purchase rings if you haven’t already.

• Handle the stationary—either order or create your own place cards, menus, programs, and more.

• Order wedding favors.

MONTH 10

Most of the heavy lifting has been done, however, you’ll want to make sure everyone is on the same page.

This is a good month to get your ducks in a row and focus on organization. This month you should: • Talk to all vendors and create a final plan. This includes going over the song list with the DJ, talking photos with the photographer, and going over any necessary details with the wedding planner, including items that may have changed.

• Send wedding invitations.

• Plan your night-of accommodations.

• Purchase undergarments and try them on with your dress.

• Attend your wedding shower.

MONTH 11

You’re in the home stretch!

This month you should: • Attend your bachelor/ bachelorette party.

• Start collecting RSVPs and creating a seating chart.

• Purchase gifts for bridesmaids and groomsmen.

• Have your final wedding dress fitting.

MONTH 12

In the weeks leading up to the wedding, schedule some time to relax and do one final check in with everybody. This month you should: • Confirm all appointments and check-in times with vendors.

• Get a massage.

• Write vows.

• Update the wedding website with travel directions and itinerary for guests.

• Buy booze for the bar (if not provided).

• Send out final payments.

• Get your marriage license.

• Collect the final RSVPs and send the list to your venue.

• Delegate tasks to others to handle on the big day.

• Pick up your dress.

• Pack for the wedding night and the honeymoon.

• Get any and all final items to the wedding planner for set-up.

• Attend the rehearsal dinner.

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Body Type:  BY FAITH LEWIS

THE PERFECT DRESS FOR EVERY BRIDE Brides often have a wedding dress wish list a mile long before they even step foot in a bridal boutique. And while

CURVY

A trumpet dress will play to your strengths, highlighting your curves without being constricting. With a defined waist and straight-lined skirt that starts to widen mid-hip, the trumpet silhouette is a flattering alternative to the ultra-sleek mermaid gown.

Expert Tip: We don’t have to tell you that wedding dresses aren’t one sizes fits all, but an A-Line gown can be flattering on nearly every body type, making it one of the most popular and timeless silhouettes.

that list can help guide you to the perfect gown, it can sometimes be disappointing to realize the dream dress doesn’t fit like you’d hoped.

Rest assured, there’s a perfect fit for every body type, and we’re here with a guide to help you find it.

The devil is in the DETAILS

Body Type: PEAR

These brides, especially if they’re tall, can pull off the volume of a ball gown.

With a defined waist that accentuates your thinnest area, the full skirt is figure flattering.

Body Type: PETITE

Body Type: HOURGLASS

For a sexy and sleek, yet not-toorevealing, style pick a mermaid or fit and flare gown that hugs your figure through the bodice and the waist and flares dramatically at the knee.

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Want to look like a goddess on your wedding day? A column dress can make that happen.

Sometimes called a sheath dress, this shape doesn’t flare, instead offering a form-fitted silhouette that will make you appear taller than a dress with too many angles.

An empire waist can have the same lengthening affect for petit brides who want a welldefined waist.

Aside from the silhouette, here are some details that can make or break the dress for different body types.

Neckline: Slender brides looking for a glamorous and edgy look might opt for a plunging neckline. This is also a great option for brides with wider shoulders to create balance. Brides with a larger bust may prefer a sweeping sweetheart neckline or a oneshoulder style.

Sleeves: Brides with an athletic body type or broad shoulders may shy away from sleeves that could make their shoulders seem wider.

Brides with a pear-shaped body type might opt for cap sleeves or long sleeves for a more balanced aesthetic.

Glam: Lace, sparkle, or appliqués – put the details where you want to draw attention to your best assets.

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DECORATIONS THAT DELIGHT. Helium balloons and plastic confetti can be detrimental to wildlife. Be sure to use decorations that are reusable or compostable in lieu of one-time-use embellishments. Picking a few, simple, beautiful pieces will go a lot further than decking out your event with tons of decorations that won’t last and aren’t meaningful to you and your guests.

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ECO-FRIENDLY WEDDING TIPS FOR THE EARTH-CONSCIOUS BRIDE  BY ANGELA RUDOLPH The planet needs us now more than ever, and that doesn’t change on your wedding day. Luckily, walking down the aisle can be eco-friendly if you put in the effort. Follow these tips to make your wedding green without compromising on style.

SKIP THE PAPER INVITES. Hire a videographer to create a unique, memorable wedding invitation starring you and your future spouse!

Or, you can create electronic invites that include your website, wedding registry, and a way to RSVP. Other than being an environmentally responsible choice, this option also makes it convenient for your guests to keep all the important details in one place (meaning you hopefully won’t get the dreaded texts the day of asking for an address).

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RENT WHEN YOU CAN. Definitely skip the paper plates and plastic cutlery, but if you want to go the extra mile, rent as many of the items as you can so that others can use them after you.

For those you can’t rent, consider purchasing reusable items and then gifting them to a friend for her nuptials or selling them to others who are getting married. Keep the good karma going! From decorations like the aisle runner, to napkins, and table coverings, be sure to select reusable items rather than one-time-use choices.

KEEP IT INTIMATE AND LOCAL. This one can be a challenge, but the smaller your wedding is, the more environmentally friendly it will be.

If possible, keep the guests local and choose a nearby venue that means less travel and a smaller carbon footprint on your big day.

Your centerpieces are an opportunity to shine. Use simple, elegant, potted centerpieces—succulents work well—that guests can take home as souvenirs. This way, you’re investing in something that people will cherish and that won’t have a negative impact on the environment.

REDUCE, REUSE, RE-WEAR! Invest in a dress that you’ll wear more than once. Pick something that you are comfortable wearing again or one that you can even dye a different color and use for other formal occasions. Also, let the bridal party pick their own outfits (within a color scheme) so that they, too, can wear their pieces again.

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