San Diego Family September 2025

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New state legislation requires investor-owned electric utilities to restructure residential bills with a Base Services Charge, beginning in October 2025.

What is the Base Services Charge?

The Base Services Charge covers investments in equipment, like transformers and meters, as well as customer service to help ensure that electricity is delivered safely and reliably to your home.

It’s not an additional charge on your bill — these costs were previously included in the price per kWh for electric delivery. Because this is a reallocation of costs, SDG&E will not earn more profit from this change.

How does this affect you?

More transparent bills

May lower the cost of electricity by 10% or about 5 cents per kWh*

Why is this changing?

It’s legally mandated for California investor-owned electric utilities to separate out some of the fixed costs to serve customers into its own line item on customer bills. This change will help the transition toward a cleaner, sustainable energy future.

Learn more at sdge.com/BaseServicesCharge

Cheaper to use electric technologies, like cars and appliances*

Potential bill savings for income-qualified households (like those in CARE or FERA programs)

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School is Rolling Along!

The kids have been in school for a few weeks now and routines are settling. For ideas on setting routines, see page 16. Hopefully, everyone is getting the sleep they need! According to our article on page 18, sleep supports healthy brain development. Well-rested kids are often more joyful and enjoyable to be around. To help wind down at night, create a calming bedtime routine. Consider playing soft, relaxing music to calm their bodies.

Make time to read good books together. September is National Literacy Month, but every month is a time to celebrate reading. Books offer valuable learning experiences that can be enjoyed individually or as a family. On page 14, are creative ideas to make reading and writing more engaging.

For a family-friendly geography lesson, choose a location on a map or globe to explore as a family: what country or state is it in, what are their traditional foods, what are the schools like, and what is daily life like? If your kids are old enough, encourage them to research the area using books with photos. Wrap it up with a family gathering to share what you’ve all learned. Got more questions? Ask ChatGPT!

AI is now part of our world. It can be a powerful tool, but it also comes with concerns. On page 22, we discuss the pros and cons of AI. For safety, remind kids never to share personal information online. Read the article for helpful information.

September 7 is Grandparents Day! Celebrate the amazing grandparents in your life—Make sure they are in your kids’ lives. My grandchildren are now in college and beyond. It’s a joy to see them as grown adults!

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Our San Diego Families

Thank you to everyone who responded to our social media requests for first-day-of-school photos. Here’s what San Diego kids are looking forward to this year.

Kitchell, a seventh grader in La Mesa, is really looking forward to his culinary elective this year. He loves to bake and is excited to learn how to make a full meal for the family.

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These Mira Mesa siblings are ready for school! First grader Owen is excited to see familiar faces, make new friends and get back into math! It might take Liam (kindergartener) and Noah (preschooler) a little bit to warm up in a new setting, but they’ll jump in and have fun once they feel comfortable.

Avery (first grade) and Easton (third grade) of San Carlos are looking forward to making new friends and having fun on the new school playground!

Joaquin of Logan Heights is a student at Urban Discovery Academy. He is looking forward to sixth grade camp, participating in ASB and playing soccer with his friends.

Scarlett, a sixth grader in Carmel Valley, recently started cheerleading. She looks forward to learning more cheer stunts and making new friends.

Kataleya a fifth grader in Carmel Valley, looks forward to hanging out with old friends, making new friends, and learning a new musical instrument this year.

Naira, who lives in Carmel Valley, starts kindergarten this year! She’s excited to make new friends and meet her new teacher.

Chase (fifth grade) of San Carlos looks forward to all the field trips this year, especially BizTown! His brother Keegan, a third grader, is excited about learning multiplication.

Short & Sweet

September is not only National Literacy Month, it’s also Library Card Sign-Up Month. A library card is the most important school supply of all—plus, it’s free and comes with endless possibilities! Borrow books, museum passes and research tools, access digital materials, and participate in story time, book clubs, movie nights, craft classes and more. Find out how to get library cards below.

• San Diego (City) Public Library card (37 locations): www.sandiego.gov/public-library/services/lending/librarycard

• San Diego County Library card (33 locations): www.sdcl.org/card

From San Diegan María Dolores Águila (author of Barrio Rising) comes Menudo Sunday, a delightful English/Spanish counting story that celebrates family love, laughter and chaos—and the beloved Mexican soup, of course. Includes Spanish glossary and tips for hosting Menudo Sunday. Geared for ages 3–7.

Tools for Back to School

Lakeshore’s Trace & Write Alphabet Center allows kids to practice writing upper and lowercase letters in a convenient, carry-along. Letters erase so kids can practice over and over again. Designed for kids ages 3–6 yrs. www.lakeshorelearning.com

Gumball Words from awardwinning creator, SimplyFun, is a fun, strategic game for families who spell their way to victory! Designed for ages 8 & up. www.simplyfun.com

Help kids keep track of their clothing, shoes, school and sports gear, and water bottles with Mabel’s Labels, customized waterproof labels that are dishwasher and laundry safe! www.mabelslabels.com

Feeling the Heat?

Find Your Nearest Cool Zone

San Diego County Cool Zones are free, air-conditioned spots throughout the county that are available to people who need a reprieve (through Oct. 31) when temperatures are unbearable. To find your nearest established Cool Zone, visit www.coolzones.org.

Nominate a Local Hero

In honor of Hispanic Heritage Month, the folks at San Diego Helpful Honda Dealers are looking for stories and local heroes worth celebrating. One winner will be surprised with a special “Random Act of Helpfulness.” Know a San Diego County resident who uplifts your community, inspires others or makes a difference? Submit stories and nominations to https://sd.hondadealers.com/help anytime this month. Put “Nomination” in your submission.

Be Players in a Favorite Board Game!

How fun is this? ArtPower has transformed the UC San Diego campus into an interactive “whodunit” experience—Clue: A Walking Mystery is based on the classic Clue board game. Participants (recommended for ages 8+) solve puzzles, follow the trail and channel their inner Sherlock Holmes to crack the case of who, where and with what. Going on through Sept. 28. Learn more at https://artpower.ucsd.edu/clue.

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17 Ways to Celebrate National Literacy Month

September is National Literacy Month, which shines a spotlight on the importance of reading and writing. It’s a great time for parents and caregivers to inspire and encourage kids to become avid, lifelong readers. Here are 17 ways to celebrate National Literacy Month as a family.

1

Create a cozy reading nook at home by filling it with soft pillows and blankets. For fun, add decorative lighting. It can be a space where only one or two people fit, or a place where the whole family gathers for comfy reading experiences.

2

Start a family reading challenge. Set a reading goal; for example, two fiction and two nonfiction books within one month (that’s roughly one book each week). Celebrate your family’s accomplishments with a favorite homecooked or delivered meal.

3

Choose a chapter book that everyone in the family will enjoy, like “Charlotte’s Web,” “The Little Prince” or “Anne of Green Gables.” Read it out loud together and talk about what thoughts and feelings the story inspires.

4

Split into pairs and act out scenes or dialogue from a favorite family novel. Really get into the hearts and minds of the characters by using a variety of voices and gestures.

5 “Travel the world” at your local library. Find a map of the world, close your eyes, and take turns pointing to random countries on the map. Look for nonfiction books about each country, read about it, and discuss what you’ve learned.

6

If you have three or more kids, create a reading buddy system. Have the oldest child read to the second oldest child, and so on down the line. Or do it the other way around: from youngest to oldest. It’s fun to be read to by siblings.

7

Ask the kids to name their favorite movies and then buy or borrow the book versions. The kids might be inspired to read the book if they already love the movie. When they’re done reading the book, discuss which version they liked best and what the author or director could have done differently.

8

Buy or borrow audiobooks and listen to them together when you’re on a long drive or road trip. You might even be able to fit in a chapter or two making shorter trips around town.

9

Ask kids to write one or more alternative endings to their favorite book. This is sure to get creative juices flowing. Encourage them to write endings that are surprising, suspenseful or open-ended.

10

Establish a family reading habit in the evening instead of online gaming or texting. Kids (and parents) have a more restful sleep if the last thing they do before bed is read a good book.

11

Make bedtime reading extra fun. Give the kids a flashlight and encourage them to turn off any other lights and read their favorite book using only the flashlight.

12

Encourage kids to read more than books. Subscribe to interesting and educational magazines for kids, such as National Geographic Kids, Ranger Rick or Kazoo. Ask them to read recipes out loud to you when helping in the kitchen.

13

Show the kids your own love of reading. If you normally read in bed before you go to sleep, make a conscious effort to read in the living room in front of the kids as it might inspire them to read their own books.

14

Have kids draw their own cover to a favorite book. Get colored pencils and markers out and join the fun. Even if you’re not artistic by nature, there’s something deeply satisfying about getting lost in your own drawing.

15

If your kids enjoy being creative, encourage them to create a shoebox diorama that brings a scene from their favorite book to life. You’ll need a shoebox, colored paper, glue, markers and relevant embellishments.

16

Dress up as your favorite literary character and have the kids do so as well. Don’t reveal to each other who you’re supposed to be (but make sure it’s a recognizable character). Guess the name of each character and novel. This makes a great classroom or themed party activity as well.

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Give the gift of reading to others by donating previously loved books to a local hospital, Little Free Library or Friends of the San Diego Public Library. v

Tanni Haas, Ph.D. is a university professor and freelance writer.

More Articles about Encouraging Literacy Skills

www.sandiegofamily.com/ resources/educationdirectory/how-toencourage-kids-to-read

How to Encourage Young Writers

www.sandiegofamily.com/ parenting/big-kid/ encouraging-young-writers How Reading and Storytelling Support SEL

www.sandiegofamily.com/ resources/educationdirectory/reading-to-kidssupports-social-emotionallearning

Six Steps to Starting a Mother-Daughter Book Club www.sandiegofamily.com/ parenting/big-kid/sixsteps-to-starting-a-motherdaughter-book-club

Beyond Books: 20 Reasons to Love the Library

www.sandiegofamily.com/ resources/educationdirectory/beyond-books20-reasons-to-love-thelibrary

Calm the Chaos

Tips to establish a new routine

For most families, going back to school means going back to a busy schedule with practices, lessons, meetings and other activities. Busier schedules often create chaotic evenings that make feeding kids a healthy dinner and getting homework done a challenge. When families have multiple kids in multiple activities, that’s an additional layer of busy! Planning ahead, staying organized and teaching kids to help are key. Here are tips to calm the chaos when the daily schedule is full.

Keep a Family Calendar

Maintain an up-to-date family calendar to stay organized, keep everyone informed and prevent forgotten or double-booked meetings and events. Some families prefer a paper or dry erase calendar at home, while others opt to use a shared family calendar app (or both) so they can access their schedule on the go.

“My phone is set with reminders for every recurring event: Get ready for ballet, leave for ballet, ballet dismissed,” says Amy Cameron, mom of three. “I’d be a mess without it.”

Prep the Night Before

School mornings can be hectic, particularly when families have had a busy evening the night before. To reduce morning stress and the risk of forgetting something important, lay everything out in advance.

“I work ahead whenever possible,” says Kara Thomas. “I put all the [sports] equipment together the night before so I’m not doing the scramble when I get home from work.”

Consider packing a separate bag for each afterschool activity so kids can grab the appropriate bag on the way out the door. Other things kids can do to help prepare for school days (either on Sunday or the night before):

• Choose school outfits

• Do as much prep as possible for lunches

• Empty backpack: give important papers to parents and remove anything not needed the next day

• Put finished homework and all necessary school supplies and books into backpack

Plan Meals

“Crockpot meals are the only way [to go] when one kid needs to eat dinner at 4 pm and another at 8 pm,” says Angela Leever, mom of three. “This saves us during busy game and practice nights. I also prepare ready-to-assemble meals like a big salad or burritos with all the components ready.” Leever also suggests having quick, filling snacks on hand such as yogurt, grab-and-go sandwiches and precut fruit for busy afternoons and evenings.

Stephanie Loux, mom of three (whose spouse often travels for work), concurs. She says it’s been helpful to their family to eat heavier snacks before activities if they know dinner will be late that day.

Cameron plans all her family’s meals on Sunday night while taking the week’s calendar into consideration. “We all get home at different times on Mondays, so that’s our crockpot night,” she says.

Use Creative Solutions

Even with careful preparation and planning, it’s not possible to be in two places at once. Use creative solutions to help manage, when needed. Loux suggests:

• Carpooling with friends

• Having an older child help prepare or serve dinner

• Setting reminders on Alexa or your phone

• Meal planning

• Eliminating screens until tasks are done

“Depending on the day [and amount of homework], homework is either done right after school before the kids can do anything else, or in the car on the way to a game,” says Loux. “I tell the kids they need to be flexible and helpful or we can’t do all their things.”

Two-parent households may be able to divide and conquer to split up transportation responsibilities, while some parents may hire a babysitter to drive or enlist the help of a teen sibling.

Extracurricular activities have many benefits and are fun to participate in. If you find yourself with so many activities that the family is overstimulated or stressed, it may be time to reevaluate. If your family thrives on keeping busy, then careful planning, preparation and creative solutions will help to calm the chaos. v

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Parenting with Purpose

The

Surprising Power of Sleep

for Your Child’s Growing Brain

As every parent knows, when kids are well-rested, the whole family feels it. Mornings are smoother, moods improve and cooperation increases as everyone hustles to get out the door on time. But there’s something even more important at stake.

Jody Lee Cates

Growing research shows that when kids don’t get enough sleep, they don’t just wake up groggy—they wake up at a disadvantage. It makes it harder for them to think clearly, pay attention and retain what they’ve learned. Read on to discover how sleep is critical to a child’s growing brain.

Why Sleep is More Than Just Rest

In today’s busy world, sleep often gets squeezed out. Parents are stretched thin and kids are overscheduled. Late bedtimes, homework and screen time often push sleep further and further down the priority list. It’s easy to assume a little lost sleep won’t hurt. However, science is clear: even small amounts of sleep loss make it more difficult for children to focus and learn. That’s because sleep isn’t just about rest.

During sleeping hours, a child’s brain is hard at work sorting, resetting and growing. In fact, a team of researchers led by Dr. Ze Wang at University of Maryland School of Medicine found that children who consistently got less than nine hours of sleep had smaller brain volume in key areas related to attention, memory and self-control.

“These differences persisted after two years,” says Dr. Wang, “a concerning finding that suggests long-term harm for those who do not get enough sleep.”

What Sleep Deprivation Looks Like in Kids

Sleep-deprived kids don’t behave like sleepy adults. While grown-ups tend to slow down when tired, kids often speed up—becoming extra silly, impulsive or wild. It can look like they’re full of energy, but in reality, their brains are struggling to keep up.

As sleep researcher Dr. Charles Czeisler explains in the book Stolen Focus by Johann Hari: “We’re chronically sleep-depriving [kids], so it’s no shock they’re exhibiting all the symptoms of sleep deficiency—the first and foremost of which is the inability to pay attention.”

How Sleep Helps Kids Learn, Remember and Reset

Sleep plays a key role in moving what kids learn during the day into longterm memory. It helps them lock in spelling words, understand math concepts and remember what happened in the story at school. Without enough sleep, kids’ brains can’t do that work. It’s like trying to save a file on a computer that’s about to shut down—it might not stick.

During deep sleep, cerebrospinal fluid rinses the brain and clears out metabolic waste—what University of Minnesota professor Roxanne Prichard jokingly calls brain-cell poop.

“If you can’t focus well,” says Prichard, “it might be you have too much brain-cell poop circulating— your brain is literally clogged up with toxins.” The less sleep children get, the less time their brains have to detox and reset for a new day.

Sleep Supports Emotional Resilience

Every parent knows that tired kids are more easily frustrated, more likely to cry and more likely to have a meltdown. Did you know sleep helps children build emotional resilience?

Some scientists believe this happens because during REM (Rapid Eye Movement) sleep—especially in the later stages of the night—kids revisit stressful experiences in a calm, lowstress environment. It’s like the brain is practicing how to handle those moments better next time. If kids don’t sleep long enough to get into REM, that benefit disappears.

How Much Sleep Do Kids Need?

According to the National Sleep Foundation:

• Preschoolers (3–5 years): 10–13 hours

• School-age (6–13 years): 9–12 hours

• Teens (14–17 years): 8–10 hours Even one hour less than recommended can impact attention, behavior and learning.

Simple Tips to Help Kids Sleep Better

Here are a few ways to support healthy sleep habits:

• Make bedtime a family priority— not just something to squeeze in at the end of a busy day.

• Try to keep a regular bedtime and wake-up schedule, even on weekends.

• Create a calming wind-down routine, such as brushing teeth, reading books or listening to quiet music.

• Turn off screens at least one hour before bed and keep devices out of bedrooms.

• Keep bedroom temperatures cool—your body actually needs to drop a few degrees to fall asleep easily.

• Model healthy sleep habits—your kids are watching.

Another Way to Improve Focus: Read Books

Once your child is sleeping well, consider other ways to help improve focus. One simple method: Read more books—paper ones.

Literacy expert Anne Mangen found that reading print books trains the brain to focus in a steady, linear way— while screens train us to skim and jump around. “This scanning and skimming bleeds over,” she says. “That behavior becomes our default way of thinking.”

September is National Literacy Month. It’s the perfect time to pick up a favorite story, snuggle in and give your family the gift of sleep and focus—one page (and one bedtime) at a time. v

Jody Lee Cates is a local mom and award-winning writer. When she’s not writing about the big impact of small habits, she’s probably reminding someone to turn off the light and get some rest.

How to Teach Communication Skills to Children

Around the time my twins turned 13, I noticed they barely greeted me when they came home from school. After a mumbled “hello,” they scampered off to their rooms followed by an immediate closing of their doors, in unison. My son has never been much of a communicator, but my daughter used to plop down next to me and give a detailed review of her day.

Many parents experience a lack of communication from kids and are looking for ways to bridge the gap. According to Dr. Ken Ginsburg, founding director of Center for Parent and Teen Communication, it is important to build a foundation of communication skills and establish consistent two-way dialogue early so kids feel comfortable talking to parents as they mature and face various life challenges.

Ginsburg also explains that when parents communicate with middle school-age kids, it helps them make healthy connections at home, in the workplace and with future partners. “It’s about building a foundation for healthy relationships and gaining emotional awareness, enabling them to advocate for themselves,” he says.

So how can parents help their kids develop communication skills?

Take Time to Listen

Ginsburg recommends parents maintain a consistent presence in their child’s life. One way to do that is by showing interest in their activities, passions and hobbies. Ask about school events, afterschool activities, class projects and friends. Make yourself available when they need to talk (even if timing is inconvenient) and be a sounding board.

Even when it seems like kids don’t want to talk, it’s important to continue

to try; keep lines of communication open. When they do talk to you, listen carefully. Teens often feel as if parents don’t understand them. One way to overcome this is rephrasing back what they said to you and validating any feelings shared.

Be a Role Model

“Model skills you want to pass along,” Ginsburg says. “Let [kids] see how you resolve emerging conflicts, bounce ideas off others and seek help when needed.”

Even when kids spend time in their rooms or are seemingly “checked out,” they are paying more attention than you think—to your words, actions and behaviors. Think about what kids are hearing, observing and experiencing at home.

“Being the best role model [possible] is one of the most natural teaching tools you have as a parent,” says Ginsburg.

Communication Skills to Learn

Kids entering middle school are entering a complex stage of development. They have one foot in childhood and the other foot is stepping towards adulthood. “Their bodies are changing, emotions are in flux, and they are working to figure out where they fit in with peers, friends and their communities,” says Ginsburg.

During this developmental phase, important skills to have are the ability to cooperate with others, successfully negotiate peer situations, resolve conflict, have empathy for others and an awareness of nonverbal cues, and express emotions in a variety of situations.

Clearly these skills will not be developed overnight; they take practice. That’s why it’s important to start when kids are younger.

Practice and Provide Guidance

One way to help children learn communication skills is role-playing. Act out situations that may be difficult, such as which lunch table to sit at, and then offer suggestions about phrases to use. Depending on the child’s age, make it fun by labeling it as a game.

If your child isn’t in the mood to speak, try talking about yourself or your daily activities. Often this takes the pressure off them to communicate; they may end up asking questions or showing interest in what you’re saying. Many experts agree that natural sideby-side conversations are more inviting to adolescents than being face-to-face. Try having a discussion while in the car together, walking through the park or sitting next to each other while working on a fun project.

Sometimes kids experience peer pressure and aren’t sure how to navigate the situation. Ginsburg recommends establishing a code word within your family. “Developing a code word gives kids a safety net while they develop social skills,” he says. If your child is out with friends and contacts you using the code word, that is a cue to say, “time to come home” or to pick them up, whatever you’ve agreed upon in advance.

Kids learn communication skills through trial and error. “Tweens and teens are more motivated when they own their solutions,” Ginsburg says. In other words, provide space to learn and guidance, but don’t solve all their problems for them.

Remember They Love You

It’s hard when kids don’t want to talk to parents or prefer talking to friends, but this is a normal developmental phase. “Peers may seem more important, but no one is as valuable as parents,” Ginsburg says. And no one has the opportunity to have more influence on kids than parents.

“Kids still need your love, support, guidance and structure. Balancing these elements is part of the most effective parenting style, known as ‘lighthouse parenting.’” v

Cheryl Maguire is a freelance journalist.

Pick up the October issue of San Diego Family Magazine to learn about lighthouse parenting.

Students Using Generative AI Pros and cons of

Generative artificial intelligence (gen AI) is rapidly transforming how we work, learn and live. According to Common Sense Media, “Generative AI is a type of artificial intelligence that creates original content—like writing stories, generating artwork or composing music—based on the data it’s learned from.” Popular models include ChatGPT, Google’s Gemini, Snapchat’s My AI, Midjourney and DALL-E.

When used in classroom settings, gen AI can boost student learning, enhance creativity, improve efficiency and foster critical thinking. Despite these benefits, educators (and parents) are grappling with how this technology impacts learning quality, spreads misinformation, facilitates cheating and threatens student safety.

“We understand that AI is already a part of our everyday lives,” says Kevin Pressley, EdTech & Innovative Learning Coordinator at The Classical Academies in north San Diego County. “So, students need our help learning how to use AI safely, responsibly and effectively.”

How is gen AI being used in schools?

“It is important to note that only a fraction of teachers are using AI with students,” says Jen Roberts, a local high school English teacher with 25+ years of experience. “Many teachers are using it in ways that help them plan and prepare materials, but actual student facing use of AI tools is still developing.”

According to Erika Wanczuk, a local high school English teacher and early adopter of AI tools in education, teachers are leveraging AI for student engagement, project-based learning, and to enhance the writing process and finished products. “For example, I can set up a custom chatbot in MagicSchool during Writer’s Workshop,” says Wanczuk. “While I am helping a student, the other students can get immediate feedback on their writing or receive critical thinking questions by interacting with the chatbot. It reinforces the idea that writing is a process.”

The Pros

Students benefit when teachers use gen AI to improve efficiency, avoid burnout and create immersive, personalized learning experiences. Students are

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increasingly turning to gen AI to brainstorm new ideas, create outlines for papers, proofread writing, perform online research, translate languages, solve challenging math problems and get help with homework. Many students enjoy using AI tools to augment projects and enhance presentations.

Gen AI provides broader access to personalized tutoring. For example, Khan Academy offers free, AI-based tutoring tools in math, science and humanities. AI-driven apps like Duolingo can supplement classroom language instruction, while writing tools like Grammarly help students improve grammar, punctuation, spelling and structure.

Students can also develop critical thinking skills, such as learning how to improve their gen AI input and factcheck results.

When gen AI is used for genuine understanding, it can be a powerful learning tool. When used as a short-cut, student learning is likely to be impacted.

The Cons

Now that students can quickly plug in prompts to write a paper, do math homework, or create presentations, many educators (and parents) are concerned about learning quality. Will students achieve a solid understanding of—or even remember—their lessons?

A recent study by MIT Media Lab found that university students using ChatGPT to write essays demonstrated less brain activity (involving creativity and working memory) than those using only brain power or Google search. Some participants felt zero ownership towards their final product, the vast majority were unable to quote from anything they’d just written, and many of the resulting essays were very similar.

Children can be exposed to inappropriate content or share personal information during chatbot interactions. Publicly available models, including ChatGPT, don’t offer parental controls and should not be used by children under 13. Older children are prompted to obtain parental approval before establishing an account.

AI-based classroom tools like MagicSchool, Brisk and School AI offer safeguards. Teachers can view student interactions, inappropriate words are flagged for review and students are reminded to be thoughtful before sharing personal information.

“As with any technology, parents should take time to review gen AI programs for age restrictions, data privacy and potential for inappropriate or harmful content,” cautions Pressley.

Students need to understand that gen AI makes mistakes (“hallucinations”), despite presenting everything as factually accurate.

“We find it useful to describe generative AI as a ‘thought partner’ or ‘teacher’s assistant,’ rather than an ‘answer machine,’” says Pressley. “All AI-generated content should be reviewed by a human, and there are several ways to do that.” Here is what Pressley suggests:

• Assume the AI tool is imperfect. Read what was generated carefully and skeptically.

• Cross-check facts with sources that are known to be reliable (academic or government websites and scholarly articles).

• Prompt the AI tool to describe its sources and verify them independently.

• Double-check dates for accuracy, since the AI tool might not be using current data.

Should my child use AI for homework help?

Parents and students should clarify school expectations on responsible AI-use. “Responsible use is a term that will vary depending on the teacher and the school,” says Roberts. “Things that might be acceptable for one teacher, such as using AI to generate an outline, might be unacceptable in another classroom. It also depends on the learning objective. If students are supposed to learn how to write research questions, then using AI to generate research questions would not be responsible use.”

Roberts suggests asking, “Did using AI in this learning activity result in my student learning less, or not getting the practice needed with this skill?”

If AI use is taking the place of practice, skill development or student thinking, then it is not helping them learn. ~ Jen Roberts, local high school English teacher

“Beyond the policies, students need to understand the ethics, impact and consequences of misrepresenting work that is ‘not your own,’” says Pressley. “Teachers are learning the most reliable way to recognize AI-generated content is by knowing the student’s own writing voice and specific abilities.” Some teachers are redesigning assignments to focus more on the process of thinking and writing. When original student writing is desired, in-person handwritten work may be required.

Tips to Help Kids Navigate Gen

AI

• Familiarize yourself with gen AI by interacting with it.

• Talk to your kids about pros and cons.

• Review district, school and classroom policies on responsible use. Get clarification where needed.

• Limit unsupervised access to publicly available models.

• Monitor your child’s AI interactions.

• For more information, including a list of key AI terms, visit www.commonsensemedia.org/ articles/parents-ultimate-guide-togenerative-ai.

• Be sure to encourage interests outside of technology. “We need balance, and we don’t want students to lose their humanity,” says Wanczuk. v

This article was 100 percent human written by Lisa Pawlak.

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monday | 1

Labor Day

Padres Home Games. Today through Sept. 3 vs. Orioles, Sept. 8–10 vs. Reds, Sept. 11–14 vs. Rockies, Sept. 22–24 vs. Brewers & Sept. 26–28 vs. D-Backs. Petco Park. Tickets: www.padres.com

Living Seas at Birch Aquarium. Venture into the hidden realm of a Giant Pacific Octopus, explore life beneath Scripps Pier and marvel at a vibrant coral reef. 9 am–5 pm. $24.95–$29.95; 2 & under free. 2300 Expedition Way, La Jolla. www.aquarium.ucsd.edu

Labor Day Pier Swim. Benefits the Oceanside Swim Club. 7 am-12 noon. $89. Oceanside Pier, The Strand N. Register: www.oceansidepierswim.com

Poway Rodeo

Bull riding, barrel racing, Kid’s Zone and more. Sept. 26, 7:30 pm & Sept. 27, 1 & 7:30 pm. $18–$30; kids $1 at 1 pm show. Poway Valley Riders Association Arena, 14336 Tierra Bonita Rd. www.powayrodeo.com

Labor Day at the Wave Waterpark. Open 10 am–4 pm. $14–$24. Wave Waterpark, 101 Wave Dr., Vista. www.thewavewaterpark.com

Survival of the Slowest. Observe and interact with nature’s smallest, slowest and weakest creatures to discover how they survive and thrive in the wild. 10 am–5 pm. Included with admission. $19.95–$24.95; under 3 free. Fleet Science Center, Balboa Park. www.fleetscience.org

Photo credit: Reed Settle

Top Secret: Inside the High-Stakes World of Naval Intelligence. Go inside Midway’s restored Carrier Intelligence Center, where real air combat missions were planned. Daily, 10 am–5 pm. Included with admission. $26–$39. USS Midway Museum, 910 N. Harbor Dr. www.midway.org

Sesame Summer Splash. Sun-sational events. 10 am–6 pm. Sesame Place, 2052 Entertainment Cir., Chula Vista. Tickets: www.sesameplace.com

FREE Spreckels Organ Society’s International Summer Organ Festival. 7:30 pm. 2125 Pan American Rd. www.spreckelsorgan.org

LEGOLAND Water Park. Seven slides, Build-A-Raft River, Pirate Reef and LEGO Legends of CHIMA Water Park. Today, then weekends through Oct. 26. 11:30 am–4 pm. One LEGOLAND Dr., Carlsbad. www.legoland.com

Whale & Dolphin Watching Adventure Cruises. Search for gray whales, blue whales, minke whales and more. 9 am–1 pm. $76–$83; 3 & under free. Pier Two 970 N. Harbor Dr. www.cityexperiences.com

Blue Star Museums offers FREE admission to the nation’s active-duty military personnel and their families, including National Guard and Reserve. Details: www.arts.gov/initiatives/blue-starmuseums

tuesday | 2

Residents FREE Days at Balboa Park. Park museums offer free admission Tuesdays on a rotating basis throughout the month to residents of the City and County of San Diego, and to active military personnel and their dependents. Schedule: www.balboapark.org

wednesday | 3

Imaginarium “Utopia.” A walk through immersive light experience with illuminated forest mazes, a world of fantastical creatures and more. Through Oct. 12. Sun.–Thurs., 7–10 pm & Fri.–Sat., 7–11 pm. $16–$21; 2 & under free. Imaginarium Las Americas, 4125 Camino De La Plaza. www.imaginarium360.com/san-diego

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FREE Party at the Pop Jet at Del Mar Highlands. Family-friendly entertainment.

10 am. 12925 El Camino Real. www.delmarhighlandstowncenter.com

Del Mar Racetrack. Gates open at 11:30 am. Through Sept. 8. 2260 Jimmy Durante Blvd. www.delmarracing.com

UltraStar Cinemas Discount Thursdays. 50% off all movie tickets and popcorn. 7510 Hazard Center Dr. Showtimes: www.ultrastarmovies.com

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Kid’s Night Out. A night of recreation, games, arts & crafts, movies and more for grades 1–5. 5–9 pm. $26. Mickey Cafagna Community Ctr., Poway. www.poway.org

Courtyard Rhythms. Live music every Fri. & Sat. in Sept., 5–8 pm. Lumberyard Courtyard, 937 S. Coast Hwy. 101., Encinitas. www.encinitas101.com

FREE Live Music at Del Mar Highlands Town Center. Fridays through Sept. 26, 6–9 pm. 12925 El Camino Real. www.delmarhighlandstowncenter.com

FREE First Friday La Jolla Art Walk. Wander through galleries and pop-up artists. 4–7 pm. 1205 Prospect St. www.lajollabythesea.com

FREE Música en la Plaza. Enjoy vibrant music under the stars. Tonight, Sept. 12 & 19, 7 pm. California Center for the Arts, Escondido, Lyric Courtyard, 340 Escondido Blvd. www.artcenter.org

SeaWorld Spooktacular. Halloween is back with candy, costumes and plenty of spooky surprises. Select dates through Nov. 2. Included with admission. 500 Sea World Dr. www.seaworld.com

Roar & Snore Safari. Experience a sleepover and observe the nighttime activities of wildlife and morning wildlife presentations. Today, Sept. 13, 19, 20 & 26. Starting at $160. Safari Park, 15500 San Pasqual Valley Rd., Escondido. www.sdzsafaripark.org

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Pony Rides September. Children enjoy two laps around the farm zoo. $14 per ride. 10 am–2 pm. Bates Nut Farm, 15954 Woods Valley Rd., Valley Center. www.batesnutfarm.biz

Movies on the Beach. Tonight, Sept. 14, 21 & 27. 8 pm. $25.75. Hotel del Coronado, 1500 Orange Ave. www.hoteldel.com

Julian Grape Stomp Festa. Kick off your shoes, roll up your pant legs and squish grapes beneath your feet. 11 am–5 pm. $25. Menghini Winery, 1150 Julian Orchards Dr. www.juliangrapestomp.com

Summer Concert Series. 7 pm. $10. The Wood House in Woodland Park, 1148 Rock Springs Rd., San Marcos. www.san-marcos.net

FREE Summer Movies in the Park: “Moana 2.” 7 pm. Tierrasanta Rec. Center, 11220 Clairemont Mesa Blvd. Full schedule: www.summermoviesinthepark.com

FREE Family Safety Day “Hanging with Heroes.” Meet the real-life heroes who serve and protect our community every day, from first responders to federal agents, plus appearances from SpiderMan, Bluey, Stitch and more. 10 am–1 pm. 1640 Camino Del Rio N, Ste. 341., Mission Valley. www.familysafetyday.com

FREE Junior Nature Ranger. Activities for kids, ages 6–10, to experience nature while having fun in the outdoors. 9–11 am. Blue Sky Ecological Reserve, 16275 Espola Rd., Poway. www.poway.org

FREE USS Midway’s 80th Birthday & Multi-Cultural Celebration. Live cultural performances, music, cake, history and more. 11 am–3 pm. 910 N. Harbor Dr. www.midway.org

FREE Summer on the Rails. Lawn games, kid’s crafts and more. 9 am–4 pm. Southern California Railway Museum, 2201 S. “A” St., Perris. www.socalrailway.org

Belmont Park’s Beachside Fall Fest. This retro-inspired celebration is packed with family-friendly activities, festive treats, live music and seasonal surprises. Weekends in Sept. & Oct. 3146 Mission Blvd. www.belmontpark.com

Big Bear Lake Oktoberfest. Bands, beer, food and more. Weekends through Nov. 8. Fri., 4–11 pm, Sat., 1–11 pm & Sun., 12–6 pm. Big Bear Convention Center, 42900 Big Bear Blvd. Tickets: www.bigbearevents.com

Art & Wine Walk. Discover unique artwork from local and visiting artists displayed in shops, restaurants and popup locations throughout the center. 3–6 pm. The Forum Carlsbad, 1905 Calle Barcelona. www.theforumcarlsbad.com

The Wave Waterpark. Slide tower, Flow Rider, Riptide slide and more. Weekends through Sept. 28. $14–$24. 101 Wave Dr., Vista. www.thewavewaterpark.com

Summer Jams on Deck. Concerts are free. Saturdays, 5–7 pm through Oct. 11. Park entrance fee, $10. Santee Lakes Deck between Lakes 4 & 5, 9310 Fanita Pkwy. www.santeelakes.com

Cardiff Greek Festival. Food, music, dancing, kids’ fun zone and more. Today, 10 am–10 pm & tomorrow, 11 am–9 pm. $4; 12 & under free. 3459 Manchester Ave. www.cardiffgreekfestival.com

sunday | 7

Grandparent’s Day

Scan this QR code to discover ways to celebrate grandparents.

FREE Surf Dog Surf-A-Thon. Furry surfers, prizes, costume contest and more. 8 am–2 pm. Benefits Helen Woodward Animal Center. Del Mar Dog Beach. www.animalcenter.org

FREE Spreckels Organ Society Concerts. Sundays, 2–3 pm. Pavilion-Pan American Pl., Balboa Park. www.spreckelsorgan.org

San Diego Wave FC. Cheer on our national women’s soccer team. Tonight, Sept. 12 & 26. Snapdragon Stadium, 2101 Stadium Way. Tickets: www.sandiegowavefc.com

wednesday | 10

Pacific Island Heritage Celebration at Petco Park. Theme game ticket includes jersey, donation to a local community group and game ticket. 5:40 pm vs. Tigers. Petco Park. Tickets: www.padres.com

Heart of PB Restaurant Walk. Where culinary excellence meets artistic expression. 4–9 pm. $35. Garnet Ave. www.pacificbeach.org

“Follies.” A dazzling and bittersweet exploration of love, loss and the passage of time. Through Oct. 12.

The Joan and Irwin Jacobs Performing Arts Center, Liberty Station. Tickets: www.cygnettheatre.org

“The Prince of Egypt.” Featuring a soaring score including “Through Heaven’s Eyes,” “Deliver Us,” and the Academy Award-winning song, “When You Believe.”

Through Sept. 27. Moonlight Amphitheatre, 1250 Vale Terrace Dr., Vista. www.moonlightstage.com

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Apple Time Teas. An apple-themed version of the Cottage Classic Tea. Through Sept. 15. 11:30 am, 1 & 2:30 pm. $14.95–$39.95. Julian Tea & Cottage Arts, 2124 Third St. Reservations required: www.juliantea.com

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Sycuan Pow-Wow. Dancing, singing and more. Through Sept. 14. 5577 Dehesa Rd., El Cajon. Schedule: www.facebook.com/people/SycuansAnnual-Pow-Wow/100070664753260

FREE Alley Cat Art Walk. Crafts, music and more. 4–8 pm. Sophie’s Art Gallery, 140 E. Main St., El Cajon. www.stmsc.org

Jimbo’s Garden Workshop: Taste Test. Discover how food makes you feel. 11–11:30 am. $14. Children’s Museum of Discovery, 320 N. Broadway, Escondido. www.visitcmod.org

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FREE Grape Day Festival. Entertainment, Kid’s Fun Zone, animal encounters and more. 12–6 pm. Grape Day Park, 321 N. Broadway, Escondido. www.grapedayfest.org

Roblox Coding: Animal Edition. Kids, ages 6–12, will learn how to add an animal to Roblox Studio and write code to make the animal move. Kids will enjoy a real-life petting zoo during the event. 1–2 pm. $50. Surf & Turf Tennis Ctr., 1555 Jimmy Durante Blvd. Register: www.coder.build/roblox-codinganimal-edition

The Count’s Halloween Spooktacular. Silly, not-too-spooky fun. Select dates through Nov. 2, 10 am–6 pm. 2052 Entertainment Cir., Chula Vista. www.sesameplace.com

Kids in the Garden: 5 Senses & Nature Games. Learn about nature by moving quietly, listening carefully, looking closely at nature - and play some new outdoor games. 10 am–12 noon. $5. Alta Vista Botanical Gardens, 1270 Vale Terrace Dr., Vista. Pre-register at farmerjonesavbg@gmail.com. https://altavistabotanicalgardens.org

San Diego FC Soccer Team. Today, Sept. 16 & 27. Snapdragon Stadium 2101 Stadium Way. Tickets: www.sandiegofc.com

FREE Sounds of Summer. Today & Sept. 27, 5:30–7:30 pm. Grossmont Center Courtyard, 5500 Grossmont Ctr. Dr., La Mesa. www.grossmontcenter.com

Family Movie Night. Fun Zone with crafts, bounce houses and more, 5–7 pm; movie under the stars at dusk. Activity cards, $8. Stagecoach Community Park, 3420 Camino de los Coches, Carlsbad. www.carlsbadca.gov

FREE Poway Rotary Parade. Theme: “Celebrating Heritage and Unity.” 9–11 am. From Pomerado Rd. & Poway Rd. to Bowron Rd. www.powayrotaryparade.org

FREE Community Preparedness Fair. Big Shaker earthquake simulator, kids’ craft activities and more. 9 am–12:30 pm. San Marcos Community Ctr., 1 Civic Ctr. Dr. www.san-marcos.net

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FREE Vista’s Fiestas Patrias. Honor Latino traditions through music, dance, kids’ play area and more. 12–4 pm. Linda Rhoades Rec. Ctr., 600 N Santa Fe Ave. www.vistachamber.org

FREE Symphony in the Park. Bring a picnic dinner, blankets and low-back chairs. 6–7:30 pm. Hoyt Park, Scripps Ranch Blvd. & Aviary Dr. www.symphonyinthepark.org

Bernardo Winery Sunset Concert Series. 5–9 pm. Starting at $33. 13330 Paseo Del Verano Norte. www.bernardowinery.com

San Diego Restaurant Week. Over 100 restaurants across San Diego. Through Sept. 21. Starting at $30. Restaurants: www.sandiegorestaurantweek.com

Don’t forget to call to confirm dates, times and admission prices.

Padres

KidsFest

Bounce houses, inflatables, games, face painters, balloon artists and more. Giveaway: SD beaded necklace. Sept. 14, 11:10 am. Included with admission. Petco Park. Tickets: www.padres.com

monday | 15

Hispanic Heritage Month

starts today

Find ideas on how to celebrate Hispanic Heritage Month in San Diego by scanning this QR code.

wednesday | 17

San Diego Design Week. Exhibitions, workshops and more. Through Sept. 21. Details and tickets: www.sddesignweek.org

thursday | 18

FREE Encinitas Cruise Night. 5:30–6:30 pm. S. Coast Hwy. 101. www.encinitas101.com

Pumpkin Patch at Bates Nut Farm. Tractor hay rides, straw maze, pumpkins and more. Through Oct. 31. Sept. hours, 9 am–5 pm. Weekend parking: $10. 15954 Woods Valley Rd., Valley Center. www.batesnutfarm.biz

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FREE Movies in the Park: “Dora and the Lost City of Gold.” Party kicks off at 6:30 pm; movie at sunset. Richmar Park, 110 Richmar Ave., San Marcos. www.san-marcos.net

FREE Nissan Super Girl Surf Pro. World-class female surfers, activities, entertainment and more. Through Sept. 21. Oceanside Pier. www.supergirlsurfpro.com

FREE Pumpkin Farm Opening Day. Mon.–Fri., 2–6 pm; Sat. & Sun. 10 am–6 pm. California Farm Life, 18409 Rangeland Rd., Ramona. www.californiafarmlife.com

saturday | 20

Pacific Islander Festival. Entertainment, food, music and crafts. Today & tomorrow. Mission Bay. Details: www.pifasandiego.com

Brick-or-Treat Monster Party. Trickor-treating, character meet & greets with LEGO Monsters. Today & Sept. 27, then weekends through Nov. 1. One LEGOLAND Dr., Carlsbad. www.legoland.com

FREE Movies in the Park: “The Wizard of Oz.” Pre-show activities, 4 pm; movie starts 15 minutes after sunset. Town Ctr. Community Park E., 550 Park Ctr. Dr., Santee. www.santeespecialevents.com

KPBS Kids Event: Daniel Tiger & Katerina Kittycat. Hop aboard the red trolley and practice your social skills with story time, special crafts and more. 9:30 am–12 noon. $14. Children’s Museum of Discovery, 320 N. Broadway, Escondido. www.sdcdm.org

FREE Summer Twilight Walk. Learn about the changes that occur at dusk as the sun goes down. 6:15 pm. Bushy Hill Dr. & Father Junipero Serra Trail. www.mtrp.org

SDSU Aztec Football Home Game. 7:30 pm vs. California. Snapdragon Stadium, 2101 Stadium Way. Tickets: www.goaztecs.com

Goff Family Pumpkin Patch at Liberty Station. Through Oct. 31, Sun.-Thurs., 9 am–8 pm & Fri.–Sat., 9 am–9 pm. 2830 Perry Rd. www.gofffamilypumpkinpatch.com

FREE Artwalk Carlsbad. Fine art, music and more. Today, 11 am–6 pm & tomorrow, 10 am–5 pm. Above the Flower Fields, Armada Dr. www.artwalksandiego.org

FREE Adams Avenue Street Fair. Carnival games, music and more. Today, 10 am–10 pm & tomorrow, 10 am–6 pm. Normal Heights. www.adamsavenuestreetfair.com

Coastal Cleanup Day. Join I Love a Clean San Diego and protect our oceans from litter and debris. 9 am–12 noon. For site locations, visit www.cleanupday.org.

Pet & Reptile Expo. Today, 10 am–5 pm & tomorrow, 10 am–4 pm. Del Mar Fairgrounds, 2260 Jimmy Durante Blvd. www.delmarfairgrounds.com

Vista Viking Festival. Hands-on demonstrations, authentic Viking encampments and more. Today, 10 am–8 pm & tomorrow, 10 am–6 pm. $5–$27; 5 & under free. Antique Gas & Steam Engine Museum, 2040 N. Santa Fe Ave., Vista. www.vistavikingfestival.com

Trolley Dances. Green line trolley with stops in downtown San Diego. Today & tomorrow. $40. www.sandiegodancetheater.org/trolleydances

Hot Wheels Monster

Trucks Live: Glow-N-Fire

Watch your favorite Hot Wheels Monster Trucks – Mega Wrex, Tiger Shark, Bigfoot, the brand new Skelesaurus and more. Sept. 20, 12:30 & 7:30 pm & Sept. 21, 2:30 pm. Starting at $15. Pechanga Arena, 3500 Sports Arena Blvd. www.pechangaarenasd.com

sunday | 21

PEACEFEST

Enjoy family-friendly live music and interactive art stations, join community art and service projects, and much more. Sept. 21, 11 am–8 pm. $18–$20; 3 & under free. Carlsbad Strawberry Fields, 1050 Cannon Rd. www.kidsforpeaceglobal.org/peacefest

FREE Military, Fire & Law Day at the Wave Waterpark. Active or retired military, firefighters and law enforcement personnel receive free admission with a valid ID. 12–5 pm. The Wave Waterpark, 101 Wave Dr., Vista. www.thewavewaterpark.com

Dipper Dash 5K. Dash through this iconic Mission Beach course and finish in the heart of Belmont Park. 8 am. $44.50. Belmont Park, 3146 Mission Blvd. Register: www.raceroster.com/events/2025/98382/ belmont-park-5k

BunnyFest. Kids crafts, bunny photo booth, games and more. 10 am–4 pm. $5; 5 & under free. Liberty Station, 2705 Cushing Rd. www.sandiegobunnyfest.org

Peltzer Pumpkin Farm. Pumpkins, petting farm and more. Through Oct. 31. Mon.–Fri., 10 am–8 pm; Sat. & Sun., 9 am–8 pm. $2–$4. 39925 Calle Contento, Temecula. www.peltzerfarms.com

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FREE Pumpkin Station. Giant slides, rides, petting zoo, pumpkins and more. Attractions require a separate ticket. Daily through Oct. 31. Hours vary by location. Mission Valley, 1640 Camino Del Rio N.; Del Mar, 15555 Jimmy Durante Blvd.; Plaza Bonita, 3030 Plaza Bonita Rd., Rancho Bernardo Farm, 13421 Highland Valley Rd. & Bonita Pumpkin Farm, 5354 Sweetwater Rd. www.pumpkinstation.com

FREE Miramar Air Show. Immersive experiences, static displays and daytime shows featuring military demo teams, civilian aerobatic teams, aerial solo acts, vintage aircraft and warbirds. 8 am. Through Sept. 28. Marine Corps Air Station Miramar, Miramar Rd. www.miramarairshow.com

Family Christmas Tree Farm Pumpkin Patch. Pumpkins, tractor rides, hay maze and more. Through Oct. 31. Open daily, 10 am–8 pm. $6. 300 Pepper Dr., El Cajon. www.familychristmastreefarm.com

Fun Animal Friday. Story time, handson activity and an animal meet-and-greet. 10–11:30 am. $14. Children’s Museum of Discovery, 320 N. Broadway, Escondido. www.visitcmod.org

FREE Movies in the Moonlight: “Dog Man.” Movie starts at dusk. Rohr Park, 4548 Sweetwater Rd. www.chulavistaca.gov/rec

Rogers & Hammerstein’s “The Sound of Music” Sing-a-Long. 7 pm. From $51. Civic Theatre, 1100 Third Ave. www.sandiegotheatres.org

Oktoberfest in El Cajon. Kids’ zone, games, music and more. Through Sept. 28 & Oct. 3–5. 1017 S. Mollison Ave. Tickets: www.germanclubsandiego.org

FREE Fallbrook Pumpkin Patch. Wed.–Fri., 4–8 pm; Sat., 10 am–8 pm; Sun., 12–8 pm (closed Mon. & Tues.). Through Oct. 31. 1924 E. Mission Rd., Fallbrook.  www.fallbrookpumpkinpatch.com

saturday | 27

Farm Festival. Today & tomorrow, 10:30 am–5 pm. Mellano Farmstand, 5714 N. River Rd., Oceanside. www.mellanofarmstand.com

National Parks Fee FREE Days. All National Park Service sites that charge an entrance fee will offer free admission to everyone. https://home.nps.gov/ planyourvisit/passes.htm#free_entrance_ days

You Can Be A Veterinarian Camp. Discover what it’s like to work in veterinary medicine with hands-on activities, real equipment and animal interactions. 9 am–3 pm. $166. Helen Woodward Animal Center, 6447 Helen Woodward Way, Rancho Santa Fe. Register: www.animalcenter.org

sunday | 28

Taste of College Area. Self-guided tasting tour in College Area. 11 am–3 pm. From El Cajon Blvd. & 54th St. to 73rd St. and the SDSU Campus. $40–$45. Tickets: www.collegeareasd.com

Zookeeper Camp. A behind-the-scenes experience with hands-on activities in diet prep, enrichment, and animal care. 9 am–3 pm. $211. Helen Woodward Animal Center, 6447 Helen Woodward Way, Rancho Santa Fe. Register: www.animalcenter.org

FREE Encinitas Oktoberfest & Artisan Faire. Family-friendly event with music, kids’ activities and more. 11 am–7 pm. Mountain Vista Dr. www.encinitasoktoberfest.com

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“Appley ”

Ever After

Julian Apple Orchards

Julian apple farmers have spoken: It’s going to be a great apple-picking year! Scan the QR code for updated information and other important details (prices, parking, additional orchard openings, etc.).

Apples and Art Orchards

1052 Julian Orchards Dr. www.applesandartorchards.com

Opens Sept. 6. Group reservations after 2 pm for those who pick 20 or more bags of apples or Asian pears. The two-hour experience includes an orchard tour and apple cider making and tasting.

Crosscut Farm and Orchard  1209 Farmer Rd. www.crosscutfarmandorchard.com

Pick apples from Sept. 20–28. Reservations required. Admission fee includes apple cider pressing demo and short introduction to apple farming (apples extra).

Peacefield Orchard

3803 Wynola Rd. www.3803wynolaroad.com

Opens Sept. 6, and every Saturday and Sunday (9 am-2 pm) until apples run out. Other dates available by reservation. Arrive early, dress for warm weather and wear closed-toe shoes. No entrance fee; cash or Zelle only.

Ranchita del Reo

742 1/2 Farmer Rd. www.ranchitadelreo.org

Open Sept. 27 through early November. Friday–Monday, 9 am–3 pm. Reservations only.

We have a bushel of delicious apple recipes in our round-up online! Visit www.sandiegofamily.com/ things-to-do/dining-andrecipes/apple-recipe-roundup for recipes to the treats below and many more.

Apple Smoothie Bowls
Apple Pie Filling in a Jar
Apple Cider Cake
Photo credit: www.TheSeasideBaker.com

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