How to make sense of a Russian girl The elusive inner world of the Russian girl is not, of course, to be found in this "secret book", but in the works of Dostoevsky or Tolstoy. But Russian classics are long, and it would be inappropriate for us to send you to the library to read before your first date with a Russian girl. So if you're hoping for a second date after the first, take a look at these short but extremely important tips. 1. All Russian women are 'girls' Russians are not used to calling women "Russian women", "little girls" or "darling". A woman well past the age of 45 can still be called a "girl". Other terms may not only be offensive, they may also be seen as an insult.
2. Pay In Russia, there is no other choice. A girl is waiting for you to pick up the bill, even if she invites you, even if you order only a cup of coffee, and she orders five dishes and a dessert. Sure, going Dutch is popular in Paris and New York, but if you do it in Moscow, girls will think you're cheap. If the girl is more polite, she may pick up the bag as if she wants to share it with you when the waiter brings the bill. But you mustn't believe it, it's just for show. 3. Carry a bag. If you have one light and one heavy bags in front of you, the correct way is to pick both up. Ideally, a girl should have nothing in her hands except her purse. 4. Care Taking care of Russian girls is more important than taking care of western ladies. For the most part, they want your care. Helping open the door and wearing a coat are standard gestures, but they are very effective.