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Contents July 2009

From the Editor . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .8 Signature Memphis . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .10 Coach Josh Pastner At only 31 years old, the former assistant coach for the University of Memphis Men’s Basketball Team has scored big as the beloved team’s new head leader.

Crown & Sceptre Coronation Ball . . . . . . . . . . .12 Revelry remained ever-present during Carnival Memphis’ annual ball at Hilton Memphis, where the city’s royalty gathered for a first-class affair.

12 CROWN & SCEPTRE CORONATION BALL Henry Barnhardt and Eve Gammon

StreetSeens . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .18 & 20 He is working just as much on stage as off at Ballet Memphis. She graduated from Memphis College of Art with a BFA in sculpture, but has found that her favorite medium is glass. StreetSeens spotlight Rafael Ferreras and Cindy Sharpe.

34 ZERO TO 60 Shannon and Dr. Keith Williams

RSVPeople . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .22 A trek across the city’s party landscape.

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Onsites . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .30, 42 & 44 Gatherings that have earned an honorable mention.

Brooks Grand Auction . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .32

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The finale to the Art of Good Taste series delivered in vino and style at the Memphis Brooks Museum of Art.

Zero to 60 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .34

18 STREETSEEN Rafael Ferreras

Morgan Freeman showed his gratitude to The MED Foundation by hosting a fundraiser at the Hard Rock Café.

Vox Popular . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .36

38 ZOO BREW Jane Scott and Paul Zoccola

Q&A with “American Idol” finalist Alexis Grace.

Zoo Brew . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .38 This beer-tasting extravaganza was so popular the Memphis Zoo brought it back during the spring.

Kentucky Derby Watch Party . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .46 Animal lovers united at the home of Buddy and Catherine Simmons to raise money for the Humane Society of Memphis and Shelby County and bet on their favorite Kentucky Derby contender.

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At Least Stephen Baldwin is Employed.

Dennis Phillippi hates reality TV, but ironically seems to know every minute detail about any reality-based show.

BROOKS GRAND AUCTION Mary Lynn Cassidy and Cheryl Schlitt

46 KENTUCKY DERBY WATCH PARTY Amy and Jim Whittington

Cover Photo Queen Paige Phillips and King Keith Barton at Crown and Sceptre Coronation Ball Photo by Don Perry

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f you’re supposed to start planting your garden in spring, I sure have gotten a late start. It’s mid-June as I write this column, and I’ve just begun to dig out my gardening gloves and my ever-necessary insect repellant. My, oh my, how summer just creeps up on ya, like our favorite Memphis friend, the mosquito!

On the bright side, those projects I’ve put off far too long are coming to life. I have a new fountain, a refurbished deck and a freshly painted kitchen. And why should I stop there with improvements? I should do a little self-improvement by using my tennis racquet that’s been hiding in its case for the past few years or find time to finish half-read books. However, summer is the season for fun, and that I’ve definitely been getting lots of between going to barbecues, taking long walks with my two dogs and planning for the ultimate of celebrations, the Fourth of July.

As I glance back through this issue, I can’t help but think that each of the individuals I interviewed is actually embracing opportunity for self-improvement. From Alexis Grace’s third, and successful, audition for “American Idol” to the long hours Coach Josh Pastner has been logging in preparation for the upcoming college basketball season, Memphians are setting a precedent with their drive to achieve greatness.

However, Brigadier Gertrude Purdue of the Salvation Army might put us all to shame, as she’s still going strong at 100, volunteering for the Memphis VA Medical Center and holding her own on stage with Willard Scott at her recent birthday celebration; flip to the RSVPeople section to find out more about her inspiring story.

I guess I’m wrong in thinking that fun and self-improvement can’t co-exist because it sure seems like a lot of you are balancing the two nicely! Maybe procrastination is the real culprit in my case, and the 90degree days without power thanks to “Elvis 2.”

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Stress outlet: Exercising.

Personal hero: Pat Tillman.

Your greatest achievement: Being alive every day.

Movie you could watch over and over again:

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One thing you can’t live without: Cell phone/Blackberry.

Childhood ambition: To become a basketball head coach.

Last book you’ve read: As A Man Thinketh by James Allen.

First concert: Billy Joel and Elton John on the Face 2 Face Tour.

Words or phrases you overuse: “Off the chain” and “Ready to rock ‘n’ roll.”

Your mantra: What is right is not always popular, and what is popular is not always right.

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he Carnival Memphis Association celebrated 78 years of promoting Mid-South commerce during its annual Crown & Sceptre Coronation Ball at the Hilton Memphis. This “Party with a Purpose” also ushered in a new generation of royalty with the crowning of King Keith Barton and Queen Paige Phillips and highlighted the group’s charitable efforts for children.

As is tradition, the occasion called for a regal setting full of pageantry. Beginning with the cocktail hour, the décor exuded a festive feel thanks to the Grand Krewe members’ display of silver chalices and pillars decorated with pink crowns, pink and purple feathers and star fabric. Inside the Tennessee Grand Ballroom, clear flower lanterns and tea lights adorned place settings, which attendees hurriedly found before the trumpet sounded signaling the arrival of the 2009 Carnival Memphis King and Queen, the Loyal Order of Scarabs and the adorable Royal Pages. The announcement of the King’s, Queen’s and President’s Princess, Lady of the Realm and Festival, Regency, Grand Krewe and Crown Princesses followed.

The royal court from each of Carnival’s 10 Grand Krewes and the Secret Order of the Boll Weevils also promenaded the length of the ballroom.

Once all the Carnival Memphis revelers assumed their positions on stage next to the king and queen’s thrones, their royal majesties received special medallions and toasts from a room of more than 530 witnesses. However, the “Hip, Hip, Hoorays!” had only just begun for the evening, as the Pat Patrick Band soon had Carnival supporters out of their seats and dancing.

All fun aside, Carnival members worked hard to reach the $1 million mark for the Children’s Charity Initiative, which was established in 1999. In order to make this goal a reality, members raised $125,000 this year alone for the Memphis Oral School for the Deaf, Streets Ministries and Youth Villages.

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Opening the Stage for Male Dancers

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afael Ferreras has been known to defy gravity with moves like a Russian split jump, but he’s also gaining recognition for upstarting Ballet Memphis School’s first men’s class. The idea came after witnessing countless young men develop stigmas from being the minority in ballet class.

“A lot of guys get discouraged by the plethora of women dancing in the South, so I began an advanced all male class last summer, and they all want to continue,” says Ferreras.

A native of the Dominican Republic, Ferreras explains that social dancing was the norm from an early age and taken seriously by his peers. His favorites include salsa and meringue, which allowed him to develop grace and power and provided ample interaction with female counterparts. When given the opportunity, he still enjoys Latin-inspired dances and clubs, and advises others to engage in social dancing because the experi-

ence might lead to stricter training or provide an outlet for relaxation.

“I feel that dance is a removal of everyday stresses, like putting on pajamas after a hard day,” he adds.

As much as dance was a part of his childhood, Ferreras had no plans of pursing the discipline, yet alone ballet, as a career.

When he decided to come stateside at age 14, he enrolled in the LaGuardia Performing Arts High School in New York to study painting, but by 15, he’d switched to dance after being totally mesmerized during his girlfriend’s recital. A four-year span of formal training followed, first at the Dance Theatre of Harlem and then with the Joffrey Ballet School.

“I was very, very lucky to be able to train with some of the best teachers in the world,” Ferreras muses. “I don’t think I would have progressed as fast as I did without them.”

He landed his first gig with the Hartford Ballet at age 20 and eventually joined Ballet Memphis in 2001, though he’s left and returned to the company twice since that time. As Ballet Memphis embarks on its 23rd season, Ferreras says for audiences to expect the unexpected from the company of 17 dancers, since its small size allows for lots of creative input. While you can plan on seeing Ferreras’ sharp classical technique and tricks and turns, which he refers to as his “bread and butter,” in upcoming performances, don’t forget that he plays a whole other role off-stage.

“I don’t think there’s enough male teachers, so I’m ready to continue inspiring others to become artists,” says Ferreras.

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urrounded by sheets of glass in various sizes and hues, artist Cindy Sharpe embraces the creative possibilities. Maybe she’ll design a candle holder, a wind chime or a church window, but whatever project she pursues will definitely showcase her penchant for detail.

Specializing in beveled, etched and stained glass for more than 20 years, Sharpe has weathered the ebbs and flows of the business, from her invaluable experience doing research and developing for Binswanger Glass and working on the Vietnam War Memorial in Washington, D.C. to the days when she took on odd jobs, including landscaping, housecleaning and refinishing furniture, to keep her home studio afloat. Through it all, she managed to build a devoted clientele, who prompted the decision to relocate her business, Carved Designs, from a one-car garage into a space in Cooper Young. Ten years since that fateful move, Sharpe still shrugs off any notion of success, but doesn’t dismiss her contribution to educating clients and passersby about her work process.

“You’d be amazed how much people don’t know about stained glass; some think it’s one piece of glass you add color to,” Sharpe says. “So, I’ll often bring people back in my studio because I want them to be able to see how a piece is made.”

Sharpe has a knack for mentoring those interested in pursuing a career in her field, and has been showing Lorelei Berglund the ropes for the past year. With two doves cooing in the background and black and white line drawings taped to every inch of available wall space, the two work with clients to create projects of various scales in a 1,500-square-foot studio Sharpe describes as “colorful, messy and cozy.” Sharpe proudly adds that Berglund builds most pieces and recently helped construct 148 stained-glass windows for a St. Louis casino in a record five weeks. Inspired by her former job as a mechanic, Berglund has also been recycling old Volkswagen car parts by incorporating them into wind chimes.

“I like having new blood in the shop,” Sharpe smiles.

Having fresh faces around seems to keep Sharpe inspired, so much that she’s thinking of opening up her studio for art classes, though she hasn’t set a date yet.

Another goal she has is far more telling of her inability to sit still.

“I’ve always wanted to work on an airport…people are moving all the time, and there’s lots of glass and halls of light,” she says.

Asked where she foresees this project happening, she thinks Milan might be nice, but her hometown would be great. Oh, can you see the light?

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The theme of wine appreciation continued as guests were seated for dinner in the Grand Ballroom, where they found a complimentary wine and food guide as part of their table setting. Rather than the tinkling sound of cutlery on dinnerware, the big band sounds of the Memphis Knights provided just the right ambiance for dining

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Dr. Robert Tooms and Dr. Susan W. Stralka

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Adorned in suits and ties and the latest in cocktail dresses, doctors, patients, friends and family sipped on cocktails with élan while perusing a roomful of silent auction items, including numerous tables lined with bottles of first-class wines. A medley of dining opportunities like the Dine Around Town package, with gift certificates to Interim Restaurant, River Oaks Restaurant, Erling Jensen’s Restaurant, Ruth’s Chris

on blackened tilapia fillet and roast chicken breast, as well as dancing off the heaviness of the Dark Chocolate Dome dessert.

The gala offered more than just an opportunity for gaiety, as attendees expanded their knowledge of the affliction of arthritis with a special presentation.

Angelique Skaggs delivered a speech thanking guests for their contributions and

Dianne Papasan, Frank Bono, Dee Dee Crowell, Cary and Julie Hagan, Ashley McCurrach, Dr. Len and Amy Smith, David Szczecina, Kelly Boden, Matt and Amanda Cox, Peter Calandruccio, Betty Calandruccio, Jim and Cathy Garner, Larry and Melinda Skaggs, Dick and Joan Tarr, Dianne Milner, Gay Young, Mary Mathews, Dr. Sudha Ganguli, Warwick Garner, Derick Garner, Peggy White, Dave and Arleen Klevan, Erin Wehrly and Megan Klein Story and photos by Lesley Young

Leading Ladies of Memphis Gala Benefit Performance for Germantown Community Theatre A leading lady can make men swoon and make every woman green with envy.

Put a group of these actresses together, and you’ve got an unstoppable cast for the Leading Ladies of Memphis Gala, a benefit performance for the Germantown Community Theatre (GCT).

Ann Marie Hall and Mark Chambers hosted the evening at the Clark Opera

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Bidding was made that much more pleasurable with the delightful jazz harmonies of the Paul McKinney Jazz Trio.

informing them of the affects of the disease on children; Skaggs is 17 and has suffered from arthritis most of her life. However, the evening’s main event was a tribute to both Wright Medical Technology, Inc. and Rocco A. Calandruccio, M.D. for their years of support to the Arthritis Foundation, as well as Susan Stralka for her long-time dedication as a volunteer.

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Memphis Center, where GCT Creative Partners were first treated to a sneak preview of songs from upcoming Memphis-area musicals during a special VIP reception.

Beginning at 7, other guests arrived for a cocktail hour, complete with cheese, fruit, a veggie spread with Hollandaise sauce and shrimp gumbo served in phyllo cups from Just Catering. Sparkling wine, chocolate-dipped strawberries and lemon parfait were served during intermission.

Jerry Chipman and Ann Sharp Once guests took their seats at tables decorated with tiny candles, star wands and purple netting, the show began. The ensemble cast actually included a mix of women and their supporting gentlemen from several local theatre companies, including GCT, Theatre Memphis and Playhouse on the Square, as well as individuals who had flown in from other parts of the country to participate.

But, the focus definitely remained on the leading ladies, who took turns performing solos and group songs from popular shows like Cabaret, Chicago, Rent, The King and I and Thoroughly Modern Millie, to name a few.

Comprised of Kimberly Baker, Kearstin Piper Brown, Kell Christie, Anne Freres, Crystin Gilmore, Annie Gray, Ann Marie Bonnie Robinson, Michael Duggan and Rick Bartl Hall, Jeanna Juleson, Jude Knight, Debbie Litch, Julie Reinbold, Ann Sharp, Erin Shelton, Carolyn Spratley and Christina Wellford Scott, these knockout actresses gave a crowd of more than 100 spectators not one, but two acts. Not to be forgotten, the supporting gentlemen were Benjamin Bunsold, Jonathan Christian, Barry Fuller, Campbell Vertesi, Stephen Carey, Randal Cooper, Kent Fleshman, Dennis Whitehead, Mark Chambers,, Brent Davis and Cary Vaughn.

And, no performance would be a success without a director, a role well served by Michael Duggan. Jeff Brewer, the director of choirs at Ridgeway High School, lent his talent as the showâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s music director and pianist, while Ken McGlynn, Brad Turner and Stephen Carey supplied the show tunes.

Event proceeds benefited the Germantown Community Theatre, and the organizers hope to make this an annual musical extravaganza. Others in vote of an encore include Bonnie Robinson, Bo List, Gail Mathewson, Jerry Chipman, Bob Short, Jeff Andy and Shirley Pouncey Brewer, Barbara Frederick,

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It’s not every day that someone celebrates a 100th birthday, especially if that someone is Brigadier Gertrude Purdue. A true humanitarian, Purdue has spent her

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life helping those less fortunate through her tireless work with the Salvation Army. In honor of Purdue’s milestone birthday, the local chapter of the Salvation Army threw a party for the centenarian at the U of M Holiday Inn. Don Hutson chaired the affair that drew more than 550 well-

snapped pics with Scott and Purdue, they made their way to the ballroom on the third floor for the special birthday dinner. Hutson opened by saying that having Willard Scott in attendance was the best birthday present of all, however Senators Lamar Alexander and Bob Corker, Reverend James Dobson and former President George Bush also sent birthday letters as well. Following Hutson’s welcome, the Navy Personnel Command Color Guard did a presentation of colors, with Kaye Blackwood DeWitt singing “God Bless America.” Scott Crosby, chairman of the advisory board, gave the invocation.

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wishers, including the likes of many of Purdue’s family members, Salvation Army staff and volunteers and special guest speaker Willard Scott of “The TODAY Show” fame.

A long-time Salvation Army supporter, Scott said he loved the organization since he was a kid and remembers putting money in the Salvation Army pot at the dime store.

“The Salvation Army does more good than any other organization I know,” Scott said during a special VIP hour held in the Kemmons Wilson Gallery.

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As attendees dined on a three-course meal that featured slices of birthday cake as the centerpiece, they could be heard chatting about what Purdue meant to them. Joe Birch, who served as the emcee, soon chimed in by sharing tidbits of Purdue and her late husband’s involvement with the Salvation Army, an experience that spanned 12 cities and relocated them to Memphis in 1962.

Though Purdue retired from active duty in 1973, she’s spent the last 36 years ministering to others, and twice a month leads women at the Memphis VA Medical Center and organizes care packages for veterans.

“Gertrude’s a living legacy,” Birch said.

Birch introduced Scott by reading a humorous “Ode to Willard” he’d written.

The two then engaged in an even funnier question and answer session that ended with Scott leading the room in a “Happy Birthday” sing-along. Scott added that he was overwhelmed with the party and that he couldn’t wait to announce Purdue’s birthday and put her pic on the Smucker’s jar during “The TODAY Show” the following Wednesday. All smiles, Purdue only asked Scott and the other attendees one favor.

“When you celebrate your 100th birthday, I hope you’ll invite me to your party,” she beamed.

Thanks to generous supporters, the event also raised funds for the Purdue Center

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R.C. Johnson Roast benefiting the Tiger Scholarship Fund When R.C. Johnson, the University of Memphis athletic director, wouldn’t consent to an appreciation night, Tony Barrasso, the Racquet Club of Memphis dining room manager and member relations director, came up with a better idea—a roast. As soon as Johnson agreed, the first R.C. Johnson Roast was born, but little did the roastee expect that 300 people would turn up for a night of quips at his expense.

and nearly everyone poked fun at the athletic director’s perfect coiff, with LaRocca going so far as wearing a wig that resembled Johnson’s hair.

Roastmaster George Lapides joked, “All is fair in love, war and roasting, and the

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“We’re going to have fun tonight with R.C.,” said emcee Joe Birch, with a sly smile.

The décor of pom poms and the arrival of the new U of M Men’s Basketball head coach, Josh Pastner, to the party certainly added to the school spirit, but it was Priscilla Presley who drew the most attention by serving as one of Johnson’s 12 roasters.

Other special guest roasters included Mayor Willie Herenton, Mike Rouse, Alan Graf,

people roasting aren’t immune to being roasted themselves.”

In addition to the Racquet Club, the University of Memphis Athletics Department helped present this evening as a way of entertaining its loyal supporters while raising funds for the institution’s Tiger Scholarship Fund. In particular, event proceeds will benefit those seeking athletic scholarships to the

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of Hope, a place of refuge for homeless women and children. Some of those contributors and Gertrude Purdue fans were Billie Jean Graham, Terri Murphy, Commissioners Maxwell and Lenora Feener, Mayor A C and Ruby Wharton, Hilda Mullen, Tommie Pardue, Phil Reed, Bob Bennett, Kemmons Wilson Jr. and Norma Wilson, Jim and Parrie Perdue, Frances Dunn, Mary Leflar, Marsha Everett, Florence Leffler, John and Lori McDaniel, Dave Brown, Dr. Shirley Raines, Sheriff Mark and Pat Luttrell, Jim and Sandy Rout, Ursula Madden, Tim Van Horn, Major Phil Murphy and Major John Needham.

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Reggie Barnes, Janet January, Cato Johnson, Al LaRocca, June Rauscher, Steve Ehrhart, Joe Pepe and Bill Morris, each of whom had two minute to share their fondest and funniest tales about Johnson. As expected, none stayed within his or her roasting time limit,

Attendees supporting the cause and spilling forth with laughter were Jack Soden, U of M Football Coach Tommy West, Dr. Gary and Jenny Earhart, Jim and Sheila Lowrey, Leslie Herman, Roger Taylor, Brady Rumble, Rex Bintz, Carole Bizot, Sandy Akers, Doug Edwards, Leland and Judy Gupton, Jeff Johnson, Michelle Marsh, Kelly Luckett, Allie Prescott, Tom Rauscher, Paula Gilchrist, Racquet Club general manager Chris Park, Mike McCormick, Gaylon and Janice Hall, Carol Murray, Robert Humphreys, Bill Koeneman, Diane Elkins, Charles and Judy Burkett, Michael McLaren,

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During the second night of Carnival Week, following the Crown and Sceptre Coronation Ball, Carnival Memphis held the Princess Ball at the Memphis Hunt and Polo Club to honor the princesses and the royal court. Arm-in-arm with

Throughout the evening, King Keith Johnson Barton’s princess, Mary Holbrook, Queen Paige Ann Phillips princess, Virginia Grayson, and President Johnny Pitts’ princess, Megan Adams, as well as the Royal Pages and Loyal Order of Scarabs, received medallions and entertained the crowd with speeches and presentations. Revelers paused briefly in the midst of their conviviality to celebrate the entrance of the king and queen, but picked right back up in their merrymaking to dance to the music of Mark Anderson’s Party Train.

“They were only supposed to play from 7 to 11, and at 11:20 I went to Mark, and I said, ‘You’re still playing.’ He told me, ‘Everybody is having such a good time, we’re just going to keep on playing’,” said Carnival Memphis executive director Ed Galfsky.

No Carnival event is complete without the Carnival’s Men of Mischief, the Secret Order of the Boll Weevils, who set up their party-crashing shop atop the Boll Weevil mobile at the entrance and quite conspicuously “snuck in” to the private party to pull some of their notorious hi-jinks.

“Our youngest page, Fred Schaeffer III, who’s about 6, a little bitty guy, he was dancing on the shoulders of (Boll Weevil) Petty all night,” Galfsky said. “We had a ball.”

This year Carnival Memphis honored the community service and nonprofit industry, and raised funds for Memphis Oral School for the Deaf, Streets Ministries and Youth Villages through its Children’s Charity Initiative.

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artygoers enjoyed the smell of Procigar Dominican cigars, the taste of Bacardi rum and the sounds of Los Cantadores on Askew Nixon Ferguson Architects’ patio during the fifth annual Taste of Caribe, a benefit for the International Children’s Heart Foundation (ICHF). Alyssa the Red Headed Chef catered the Caribbean-themed event serving up salsa, shrimp and rice and kabobs. Jakie Vaz, the 2008 winner of the Face of the World USA Pageant, which sponsors the organization, also made an appearance. Michael Herklots of Procigar and Lakshmi Garcia with Bacardi Dominicana each presented a $40,000 check to ICHF, helping round out this year’s total funds to $100,000.

“Carrete” means “party” in Chilean, and whether in heels or corraleras, merrymakers carried out its definition at the Memphis in May International Gala’s Carrete, sponsored by Harrah’s Entertainment and held at the Hilton Memphis. Chilean Ambassador to the U.S. José Goñi and his companion, Loreto Leyton, were honored with speeches and presentations

by Memphis in May president and CEO James Holt, Harrah’s Entertainment’s Scott Barber and Carlos Tolosa and Memphis in May chairman of the board Al Lyons. The ambassador responded by recognizing Mayor A C Wharton as the recipient of the Orden de Bernardo O’Higgins, Grado Comendador, award. After enjoying a special meal created by Chilean Chef Pilar Rodriguez, guests danced the rest of the evening to the melodies of the Memphis Icebreakers.

Memphis Music Foundation supporters descended upon the home of Kenny and Terri King for the Memphis Music Royalty Party, which drew the likes of musical talents Kallen Esperian, Muck Sticky, Jimi Jamison, Keith Sykes, Alexis Grace, The Summers, The River City Tan Lines and James Alexander. During a presentation by Music Foundation president Dean Deyo and incoming board chair Al Bell, $5 Cover star Kate Crowder of Two Way Radio discussed her involvement with the foundation, and Memphis Tomorrow head Blair Taylor asked the business community for its support. The City Champs, Susan Marshall and DJ Witness also performed throughout the night, while guests made generous contributions in the way of entering a $1,000 drawing for a St. Blues guitar or a $5,000 or more drawing for a free performance by a Memphis band.

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ocals supported world-class art by coming out for the Art of Good Taste finale, the Brooks Grand Auction. The cultural affair, held at the Memphis Brooks Museum of Art, also drew attention to California’s Spring Mountain vintners and their wines, which were available for tasting and up for bidding throughout the Art of Good Taste season.

As the rain trickled outside, 300 attendees took cover in the rotunda for refreshing pours of wine, scrumptious hors d’oeuvres from the museum’s Brushmark Restaurant and music by Charlie Wood. When favorites were chosen, guests eagerly jotted down top picks in the back of auction books that had been handed out along with complimentary wine glasses. Blue and pink lights lit up the rotunda walls, lending a calming vibe to the makeshift tasting room that also featured an elaborate silent auction. Several notable items included a $250 Curtain Exchange gift certificate, a “Dinner and a Movie” package with a $100 Bosco’s gift certificate and 10 Malco movie passes, a welded wine rack that held 80 bottles and a polo package courtesy of the Memphis Polo Club.

After a two-hour cocktail party, the party moved to a tent on the museum plaza. Decorated for the Brooks Patrons Dinner the previous night, the tent boasted an array of purple-hued décor, from table linens to overhead lighting. Befitting of the weather, giant umbrellas hung from the tent ceiling, giving the space an otherworldly effect. As sponsors, donors and vintners took their seats at tables decorated with tall hurricane vases, the time for big bidding had arrived.

The live auction commenced when guest auctioneers, Ben Ferdinand and Michael Davis of Hart Davis Hart Wine Co., took the floor. Twenty-five lots were auctioned off this year, and no item lacked in appeal. If jewelry was your thing, an 18-karat gold necklace with five pearls and diamond drops could be bought. For the ultimate vino connoisseur, items like a “Wine Spectator’s Wines of the Year” tasting, a customized Napa Valley wine trip itinerary and a “Cruising Along the Oregon Trail” package fit the bill. Fabulous catered dinners and beautiful original paintings also tempted buyers.

This auction, in conjunction with other Art of Good Taste events, helped raise more than $500,000 for the Brooks’ educational programming and outreach efforts. The series’ success is in a large part due to SunTrust’s role as the presenting sponsor and the dedication of Mark Parker and Frank Muscari as event co-chairs.

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scar winner Morgan Freeman made good on his celebrity status when he hosted the “Zero to 60” fund-raising event for The MED Foundation. Freeman, a Mid-South native, has experienced firsthand the trauma care of the Regional Medical Center at Memphis (The MED), an acute-care teaching hospital serving a six-state region.

The Hard Rock Café on Beale Street opend up its doors for the special evening that attracted more than 300 attendees, who raised $60,000 to support The MED’s Elvis Presley Memorial Trauma Center. The trauma center, which celebrates its 25th anniversary this year, is the only one of its kind for 150 miles, making it one of the three busiest trauma centers in the nation. Facility staff treat 4,000 patients yearly with a 98 percent survival rate after the first 24 hours.

The event included live music by the Bill Hurd Quartet and a silent auction of movie and music memorabilia. Some auction items of note included three autographed movie posters by Morgan Freeman, 20 passes to a press level suite at AutoZone Stadium for a Red Birds game, including transportation to and from the game, and an Epiphone guitar autographed by Everclear’s lead singer, Art Alexakis. Freeman also posed alongside guests for photos, with a portion of pic proceeds going to The MED Foundation.

Tammie Ritchey, executive director of The MED Foundation, was satisfied with the outcome saying, “We were delighted with the turnout for this event, and Mr. Freeman’s involvement.”

News Channel 3 WREG and Crothall Services Group co-sponsored the affair that met event organizers’ fund-raising goal—from zero to $60,000—for The MED.

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Grace: Ever since I can remember really…about 2 or 3 years old. I was always singing when we went to church growin’ up, and I was the loudest one in the entire congregation. As a matter of fact, I remember singing a Christmas song, and the only part I knew was “Gloria in excelsis Deo.” I was the loudest person, and everyone was like, “Who is that?” It was a small little church, so you could hear one person over the other. There was a choir up there singing that we were listening to when I chimed in during that one part.

That’s why it was so funny, because we were listening to the choir.

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Grace: As a small child, I just practiced myself and sang all day long. I’m sure I drove my family nuts growing up; I sang a little too much and really loud. But when I got into high school, I started taking lessons and went to a performing arts high school [Overton High School]. I studied music all day long and took voice lessons, learned how to read music, learned how to perform, and that eventually got me a voice scholarship to U of M. So, I’ve had some years of professional training and classical training. Then, I started singing in bars and clubs, and that led me to “American Idol.”

RSVP: Do you remember the first time you were hired to sing in front of a group of people?

Grace: The first time I can remember when I was hired to sing was at a local bar. I was with my dad, and it was at this hole-in-the wall place with maybe five people. My dad was the one who pushed me on stage and encouraged me to sing with the band because it was actually his girlfriend who said, “Well, I heard they’re looking for a singer…why don’t you get your daughter to sing?” So, one thing led to another, and I started singing with him. It really helped me out because I’d never sung with a live band before. So, it was really a lot of fun for me, and I’m sure it made my dad really happy to be able to do something like that with his daughter. It really prepared me for the show, being able to learn how to use my performance skills, so it really paid off in the end playing in those hole-inthe-wall bars where nobody’s listening to you…you learn a lot of

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hen Alexis Grace heard she was going to Hollywood for the eighth season of “American Idol,” her whole world changed. A virtual unknown, even in her hometown, the tiny singer with booming vocals made Memphis proud by becoming one of the show’s top 13 contestants. Of the experience, she says, “I just wanted to put Memphis on the map and show that there’s a lot of creativity and love for music and art here.

We’re a very passionate city.” RSVP editor Leah Fitzpatrick couldn’t agree more with Grace’s sentiments about our fair city and was delighted to share a chat with the songstress amidst the musical mementos at the Memphis Music Foundation.

Grace: Definitely Aretha Franklin was one of them, she’s a big one for me. She’s who my mom always had playing in the kitchen, and when you grow up listening to that kind of music, it just becomes something that you really enjoy. But honestly, I grew up in a musical family, so I listened to everything growing up. But, a big influence in the South and Memphis is soul music, so I’d definitely say a lot of my vocal style comes from soul. I’m a huge fan of Stax.

RSVP: Who or what motivated you to start thinking about trying out for “American Idol?”

Grace: Well, it’s funny you should ask that question because I auditioned twice before. I was 16 the first time, and the second time I was 19 and that’s when they came to Memphis. So, I’d gotten a “no” twice, and it just so happened I looked online and auditions for this season were in two days. So, my aunt, who’s a huge fan of the show, a huge fan of mine, a big supporter, wants me to be a singer, and I tell her the auditions are coming in two days. We all hopped in a car, drove to Louisville and we only get like an hour of sleep.

Then, we go wait in line, and I know the drill. And, I’m hearing the conversations around me like, “When I make it through…” and I’m like, “Yeah, if you make it through!” I’m like “Miss Cynical” over here who’s been through it, and I know it’s super hard. I knew I couldn’t play around and to just be myself and sing my heart out. I sang Aretha Franklin, and it got me through.

RSVP: Do you feel the songs that you sang while you were on the season fully showcased your talent?

Grace: Obviously there are a lot of songs in each genre I would love to sing, and the songs I chose were ones I loved. Everyone’s always saying, “Would you have changed your last song you got eliminated on?” and I don’t know if I would have changed it, but there are

Grace: Before I go on to sing, I always like to run back and forth because it gets the lungs going, and I know I’ll be able to hit notes better. Maybe screaming a little bit in the bathroom, just to get the nerves out. Other than that, I just relaxed and had a good time. I mean, “When do you get to sing in front of millions of people on national TV?” Just enjoy it while it lasts!

RSVP: Were there any “American Idol” judges who you thought were harsher on you than others?

Grace: I feel like all the judges were fair. I feel like Kara [DioGuardi] pushed me more, but in a good way. I felt like she got me and wanted me to succeed, so she was really helping me. I never felt like the judges didn’t like me.

I felt like they were always learning more about me, and wanting to learn more about me. So, it was a very good experience that I enjoyed.

RSVP: How did you feel when you came back to sing during the show’s season finale?

Grace: We were all having the best time; that’s the thing about this group, we all love to have fun, and music is fun for us. And, I think that really came across the TV and that we all were really close, too. I mean if you would have asked me eight months ago, “Hey, did you know you’re gonna sing with Jason Mraz?” I would’ve been like, “No, you’re lying.” “Did you know Carlos Santana is gonna be playing with you?” Hopefully, there’s more to come with that. My ultimate goal is to keep this going, as long as I can.

RSVP: How much has your day-to-day life changed in Memphis since being on “American Idol?”

Grace: It’s never gonna be the same for a long time, I don’t think.

Everywhere I go, I get noticed, and people come up to me and are like, “Alexis Grace! Oh my God, I love you! Come and take a picture, we voted for you!” Then they talk about the show, ask about the judges and ask about my daughter. I get more jobs offered too because of the show.

RSVP: How does your daughter react to your fame?

Grace: She’s not aware of the fame part, but she is aware of me being on TV. Although, now I’m on Q107.5 doing the morning show with Manny and Riley, so the other day, she was riding in the car with my mom and they heard me on the radio. When she heard my voice, she was like “That’s Mommy!” So, it’s really cute. I love those guys. That’s my job now working for a radio station. Straight off “American Idol,” they asked me to come do an interview, and from there things just kind of flowed together. We all get along really well

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RSVP: What’s the best piece of advice you could give someone wanting to be a professional singer?

Grace: There’s not just one big piece of advice I could tell someone if they wanted to start a career in music or pursue their dream. You need to know who you are, you need to believe in yourself and you’ve gotta be able to work hard for what you want because it doesn’t just come to you. And, you also have to have a little bit of talent too if you wanna do music, that’s important. You’ve gotta have a love and passion for it, something you can put your life into. If you’re not gonna do that, then you probably won’t be really successful.

RSVP: How much time do you devote daily to music?

Grace: Definitely more than an hour a day. When I come home from work, my daughter and I go out on the back porch, and she’s playing while I’m on the guitar. I love it because that’s how I grew up. My dad was a musician, so it was always around me and was a really important part of my life. I’m really glad my daughter gets to grow up around that because it’s really gonna be good for her.

RSVP: If you were to come out with an album, what kind of style would it have?

Grace: I definitely think it would have a soulness to it. Kind of Maroon 5, John Mayer and Joss Stone…put all those people together with maybe some Jason Mraz. I write all my music, and it all sounds like that a little bit, very down to earth with a groove.

That’s my soul.

RSVP: Can we expect to see an album of yours any time soon?

Grace: Hopefully! Not in the next couple months, but I would love to spend the next year putting an album out and have it played on the radio. As long as I can keep on playing music and being successful, I think that’s what’s most important to me. I’m doing what I wanna do…not everyone gets to do what they want for a living.

RSVP: Are there any favorite venues in town where you’d like to sing?

Grace: I would love to play at Young Avenue Deli because I grew up in Midtown, and that’s just kind of where I grew up hanging out and listening to bands. I would love to play at the Levitt Shell, that’s another landmark in my childhood. The Orpheum is definitely a place I’m working up to one day.

RSVP: If you could sing anywhere in the world, where would it be?

Grace: In the middle of Times Square, and Bruce Springsteen’s playing with me, and it’s the Fourth of July. Wouldn’t that be cool? You can’t get any more American than the Fourth of July with Bruce Springsteen and Times Square. That would definitely be the ultimate memory and the ultimate gig.

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probably other songs in that genre [Grand Ole Opry] that would have showcased my voice a little more but I just love that song [“Jolene” by Dolly Parton].

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Directly inside the zoo gates, guests “bellied up to the bar”— that is, a multitude of tables, to sample an enormous selection of suds generously provided by sponsor Southwestern Beverage and Distributing. Lagers, ales, stouts and wheat and fruit beers from breweries in Asia, Australia, Europe, Central and South America, Canada and across the United States delighted folks who eagerly tried such intriguingly named beers as “Rogue Dead Guy,” “Eye of Hawk” and “Evil Eye.” Tennessee had an impressive showing with libations from the Naked Lion Brewing Company, Ghost River Brewing, the Memphis Home Brewers Association and Yazoo Brewing Company. Barbecue from Corky’s and south-of-the-border treats from Cozymel’s proved to be the perfect nibbles for hungry partygoers as they enjoyed the eclectic sound of local favorite band Snowglobe.

While there was no limit to the number of beers patrons could sample, guests had to be 21 and older to attend this fund-raiser, which raised $30,000 for the zoo.

“We are very pleased with the response and feedback,” added Harper. “Mark your calendars for the fall Zoo Brew on September 4; tickets go on sale July 1. The zoo anticipates another sellout event.”

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Even the décor at this party was green, as it featured cymbidium orchids and an art project that Wolf and her daughter, Savannah, made by recycling bottles from Savannah’s chemo treatments at St. Jude.

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lad in linen suits and sundresses, some 270 Kentucky Derby fans witnessed the 135th “Run for the Roses” during a watch party at the home of Wilson and Catherine Simmons. In the company of animal lovers, the hosts asked that guests bring cans of dog or cat food upon arrival, as well as donations to the Humane Society of Memphis and Shelby County.

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or once there’s something stupid going on in society for which I have absolutely no responsibility. A phenomenon so insidious it could very well tear apart the very fabric of our society. A terrible stain that shows our country in the worst possible light. I refer to the hideous new trend of people with no discernable talent becoming famous for no other reason than they have done something idiotic and landed on television. And, as I said, I have no taint of culpability on this one because I don’t watch reality television. Or, for that matter, the news.

Well, I watch the news, but not if I can avoid it. Sometimes news is on a television I can’t change, like say, above a bar or in a doctor’s waiting room. That’s how I’ve occasionally been exposed to what appears to be the nightly prime time “news” shows about missing people I’ve never heard of and wouldn’t have known existed were it not for other people’s insatiable need to be frightened and appalled by things that don’t concern them in any way. These shows all seem to be hosted by the same brand of severe harpy who make judgments without any due process and without any evidence that would be admissible in a court of law. Terrible things are going to happen to these hosts and their producers in the afterlife.

The breed of new celebrities that has me the most disappointed is the group of people who feels compelled to have far too many children. The magic number to get really famous seems to be eight. First, we had the perfectly dubbed Octomom.

Why anyone would allow this seemingly unemployable simpleton to burden the biosphere with eight offspring is a mystery to me. Honestly, I don’t think I’m qualified to make a single copy of myself, and this woman manufactured one player short of a baseball team. In a way, I suppose, she was made a celebrity grudgingly, but she certainly warmed to the waters in a hurry.

The other ones are the two who star, ugh, in some kind of series about their brood that consists of one pair of twins and one set of sextuplets. Through the years, I’ve known people who had twins, and they didn’t sleep for years at a time. They spent their adorable pair’s youth in a zombie daze punctuated by vis-

its to emergency rooms. These people would no more have another set of twins, much less a six pack of infants, than they would adopt a bear. The couple from the TV show is all over the covers of magazines I don’t read, forcing me to learn about their inevitable marital woes while in line to pay for my beer.

Of course they’re having marital problems; they have eight kids. Having

Honestly, I don’t think I’m qualified to make a single copy of myself, and this woman manufactured one player short of a baseball team. that many children would put an emotional strain on a neighborhood, much less a household. This is the unfortunate confluence of medical advances, in this case fertility drugs, and a vast wasteland of television that has to be filled with something.

Why not make a show about a couple’s life being destroyed by their own poor decision making? They don’t even have to hire writers.

In the interest of full disclosure, and stretching this to a thousand words without doing any research, my parents had six kids. Now, they didn’t have them the new, easy, instant way, they had them the old fashioned bone-headed way; one at a time over the span of less than 10 years.

And we’re not even Catholic. Trust me when I tell you, six kids is too many. I was the last hatchling in the nest, and by the time I slipped unnoticed through the doggie door, my folks were all but done with parenting. They had been through every imaginable battle and had disconsolately raised the white flag. If I got bad grades or had an irate girlfriend’s father after me, or ended up with a broken bone from being an imbecile, I was expected to figure it out for myself. They had seen it before, and were uninterested in becoming involved.

Did having six kids cause disruption in my parents’ marriage? Let’s put it this way, they stayed married for more than 50 years, but lived in separate states for decades of them.

The only reality television I watch is sports. And even that show about people racing around the world doesn’t qualify as sports. Just from the promos, you can see that they are average looking and dull.

Why would I want to watch them try and bum rides across France? I’m sure I could get seduced into caring which pair is going to find the key to the hot air balloon or whatever, but no matter how well they do, they’re never going to lead the NFC in passing yards.

I do watch that show where civilians run obstacle courses and get covered in mud, but I justify it by saying that it’s sort of like sports, and I love watching people I don’t know get hit in the face with things.

Possibly worse than the famous for no reason crew is the used to be famous for some flimsy reason and now can’t let it go crowd. Fame is very addictive and people who didn’t really deserve it in the first place get hooked like heroin addicts. They are willing to be subjected to humiliation after humiliation just so some blockhead from Sacramento will recognize them at the airport. They allow minor basic cable channels to set up housekeeping in their home and air their dirty laundry, sometimes literally, to the sad millions who don’t have anything better to do. One show has now airlifted a group of brainless former almost somebodies into a jungle to argue and not bathe. Again, I’ve only seen the promos and I hate this show. The premise is sound though. Take all these yahoos and gasbags desperate for attention at any cost and drop them into remote, hostile places, only this time, don’t send any cameras.

This month, Mr. Phillippi tells us how he really feels about reality shows, and his opinion isn’t as pretty as the ratings.

However, our humor columnist must remember that these shows provide great water cooler fodder and the perfect opportunity for B-list actors to play a show host, a part Phillippi wouldn’t turn down if it came his way.

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