INSIGHT TO THE PORTUGUESE CHARACTER With a history of struggle, survival against the sea, working hard, earning little, life was hard in Portugal. Even though they might want to rest, work less, laugh and enjoy life more, the Portuguese people expect to have to work - as individuals and families - to survive. There is a strong streak of fatalism in the Portuguese. This "saudade" (nostalgic longing) for something long past, or something that will never be, is expressed in the popular and uniquely Portuguese folk music, the "fado" songs of the forces of destiny and human passions. Similarly there is the historical legacy of "Sebastianismo," the longing for a (originally military) father figure on a white horse to save Portugal from its troubles and restore prestige (originating in the vain hope that King Sebastiao never died in 1578, and might return to save Portugal from Spain). But the people also have a gift for happiness and an ability to enjoy the smallest pleasure. Conservative, formal and non-aggressive, the Portuguese present a serious, self-effacing and sometimes unsmiling appearance. They are exceedingly polite, and good manners and a well-groomed appearance are very important. But beneath this old world manner, reserve and formality, there lies sweetness, gentleness and genuine concern for others. Patience, courtesy and restraint will soon allow new arrivals to discover these true Portuguese characteristics. Furthermore, the Portuguese people are helpful and will go out of their way to give directions, physically take you to a place you cannot find, or spend time looking for an item you are seeking. So often, to please you, they will promise more than they can deliver! Quick to criticize their country to a foreigner, the Portuguese will also beg you to excuse their inefficiency and deficiencies. This can be embarrassing, but equally the Portuguese are much more sensitive to broad criticisms from foreigners. It is their country so they may condemn; but it is bad manners and tactless for others who are guests here to do the same. A positive attitude, common sense, patience, good manners, a polite sense of humor and good judgment will help you enjoy and appreciate this varied, culturally proud and friendly country. Get out, get to know the people, and try to learn some of the language. Such effort will be rewarded many times over - every effort, however humble, is applauded.
USNSE Welcome Book
Discovering Portugal
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