Romance Travel Magazine March/April 2015

ROMANCE TRAVEL MARCH/APRIL 2015

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Mountain Hikes Romantic Things to Do in New York

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Contents

3 Publisher’s Message

4-5 Top Bicycle Tours for Couples

6WithSpring Into Love 15 Date Ideas

7 Latest Luggage in Travel 8-9Mountain 10 Romantic 10-11 Getaway Hikes to El Nido, Philippines

12 Loving Self: The Key to Better Loving

13 Creating the 14-15 Romantic Ultimate Romantic Bed and Breakfast Inns

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Candlelight Dinner for Two

16-17 Destination Spotlight:

19 6 Romantic Things to do in New

Sedona, Arizona

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Publisher’s Message

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achu Picchu became one of the 7 New Wonders of the World in 2007, and interest in hiking to this lost city became a must-do activity for many people, myself included.

One option is to do the four-day trek along the Inca Trail, but that wasn’t going to work for me. I had spent most of my time on a volunteer vacation in Cusco, Peru, so, due to limited time I hopped an early afternoon train of the Cusco-Machu Picchu railroad for the 4-hour train ride up to a small town at the base of the mountain. I spent the night at a cheap, but decent hotel. There was a flyer in the room about soothing, miracle, hot waters a block away. So, I took a bath in the bubbling hot springs with 12 perfect strangers. I dined on a glass of wine and a scrumptious pizza that I watched bake in a huge stone oven.

The next morning, a bus whisked us tourists halfway up the mountain. The rest of the way we hiked to Machu Picchu, at least a mile straight up the side of the mountain. I took the guided tour and marveled at how the Incas were masonry geniuses. They built a city out of these gargantuan stones. Each stone was so well matched to the next one that they didn’t even have to use mortar to fill in between them. Some people believe that mystical energies flow from its stones. Just in case they’re right, I made sure I touched a few.

When the tour was over, I explored on my own. I found a quiet, tourist-free area where I could look over the gorgeous green canopy of the jungle and up at the mysticallooking clouds surrounding the mountain peaks. A blanket of peace enfolded me. I prayed for divine guidance and felt a sense of spiritual rejuvenation. Here are 5 reasons I believe hiking Machu Picchu and/or the Inca Trail should be on your travel bucket list.

1. Step into history – Machu Picchu, The Lost City,was built circa 1450 and is the most recognized site of the Inca dynasty. It has become the most popular tourist attraction in Peru. As such, it is in danger of being commercialized, with a new hotel and cable car on the horizon and too many tourists. You should get there while it’s still in great condition.

2. Point and shoot moments – Take your camera to capture the mountaintop views, with mystic clouds circling their peaks and the gorgeous jungle canopy in the sacred valley below that I mentioned earlier.

3. Marvel at the Incan Architecture – How did they move those gargantuan stones? And why build it in a hidden spot in the South American jungle? It’s a mystery. Some believe it was super natural intervention.

Go visit and form your own opinion.

4. Commune with Spirit – Feel the mystical energy that many people believed flow from its stones. Or like me, find a quiet place to speak with your creator.

5. Awe Inspiring – Hike to the top for the 360-degree, awe inspiring view.

If you can’t get to Peru, no worries. Take one of the other 10 inspiring mountain hikes or numerous bike tours featured in this issue. It’s Spring, go out and play together.

Donna Beasley, The Romance Lady

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TOP BICYCLE TOURS FOR COUPLES By : Meredith Crilly

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or couples who enjoy biking, taking part in a bicycle tour can change the way that you see traveling and reaching a destination. Instead of rushing through, bicycle tours for couples give you the time to notice small details like the way that the road bends, how the sunlight moves across the water, and the scent of a nearby orchard.

There are many bike tours across the United States and the world that couples can enjoy. If you're interested in taking part in one of these experiences, take a look at some of these ideas. You'll have a great time on the trip and not have to worry about anything other than staying on your bike!

BEND MOUNTAIN BIKE RIDE If you and your sweetheart are of the hipster variety, then there’s no better spot than Bend, Oregon. Bend is known for its amazing craft beers and its even better bike tours. Take your time enjoying this tour, loaded with tracks that go through dense forests and dramatic volcanic landscapes. However, while you can enjoy hundreds of the trails, the best part of this experience is enjoying your post-ride reward. Take an afternoon or evening to float in the crystal waters of the Deschutes. Or, for an intimate evening exploring the local culture, take in the craft breweries that make this Oregon paradise famous. One word of caution though. The trails tend to be mountainous and best suited for more experienced cyclists, so beginners may want to make sure that they’re prepared to take on this bike tour.

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CONNEMARA, MAYO, AND GALWAY SAFARI If you’re feeling up to taking a trip to Galway, located in the western part of Ireland, then you’ll want to try out this tour. Perfect for couples who enjoy rugged routes away from the tourist areas, you’ll have the opportunity to experience Ireland like you’ve never seen before. Take advantage of the eight-day round trip deal which includes seven night stays with romantic breakfasts, bike rentals, and route details included.

You’ll also be able to enjoy a ferry trip to the Aran Islands, some of the most breathtaking sites that Ireland has to offer. The wandering wilderness of Galway seems like a slice from Jane Eyre, so plan out a bike trip to this destination.

VERMONT AND NEW YORK STATE LAKE CHAMPLAIN TOUR Take a trip with Sojourn Bike Tours to explore this area of the Northeast. When you’re interested in a fall getaway spot, then you have to take in this tour. The trail is located between the Green and Adirondack Mountains.

Lake Champlain is one of the United States’ largest lakes, and the bike tours include several routes which are ablaze in fall colors when you travel seasonally. Take advantage of the lodging provided in historic inns and lakeside resorts.

Be sure to plan in some time for couples pampering and a visit to the resort’s spa. You’ll also be able to enjoy a cruise across the lake and a tour of Shelburne Farms, a historic farm known best for it’s cheddar cheese.

On this tour, you’ll bike an average of 25-50 miles per day. However, the trails are level, so this is a great option for cyclists of all levels.

PLANNING YOUR TOUR When you’re planning out your trip, there are a variety of options for difficulty and length of stay. If you’re both more experienced cyclists, then you may want to take on one of the longer trips. However, novice cyclists will enjoy the shorter, intermediate trips, so keep this in mind when you’re planning out a tour. However, no matter where you choose to go, these tours offer romantic views and experiences that all couples will enjoy and want to do again!

TREK TRAVEL’S TRIP THROUGH WINE COUNTRY

Although California is known for the wines rather than biking trails, you and your sweetheart can certainly enjoy both. It may surprise you to learn that this is one of the world’s premier cycling regions. You’ll be provided with SOUTH an uncommon blend of panoramic views, wine tastings, and DAKOTA BLACK HILLS elegant country living while touring quiet back roads. This trip BIKING ADVENTURE rounds out our recommendations and, while it is not a couplesWhen you’re tired of city life, why not return only trip, it certainly seems that way. Your cycling every day is to the Wild West and enjoy some time away? The expertly paired with fresh cuisine and exclusive wine tastings backdrop of this trip includes forests, the historic town along with luxurious accommodations. You’ll also have a of Deadwood, and abandoned railroads that go along the variety of cycling experiences from longer challenging Michaelson Trail. Take your time biking through the Black rides to leisurely morning trips. California is a joy to Hills and be sure to pack your hiking boots! You’ll have the pedal through, especially with someone you enjoy. opportunity to hike the base of Mount Rushmore as well as You’ll experience an adventure fashioned visit a monument dedicated to Crazy Horse. Although this just for couples with this meticulously is a no-frills biking tour, it’s perfect for couples who enjoy planned tour. taking some time away from busy schedules. You can enjoy five nights of accommodation for one price.

The tour also includes all of your meals and equipment, so it’s a perfect all-inclusive option.

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ADVENTURE WITH ALASKA BIKE

Alaska isn’t always the most hospitable place in the world, but you’ll want to reconsider your views during the months of June through August. This biking tour is eight days long starting from Anchorage. You’ll get a chance to bike under the shadow of Mount McKinley, the largest mountain in North America. Enjoy your ride along the Denali Highway and be sure to take advantage of the tour’s options to canoe and sea kayak to get a better look at the glaciers. You’ll even have the opportunity to take a glacier cruise across Prince William Sound. The seasonal weather in the summer is perfect for a non-crowded romantic bike tour. You’ll only be cycling 15-39 miles every day at an easy pace, so plan out your next vacation with this tour in mind.

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SPRING INTO LOVEWITH

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DATE IDEAS

By Jessica Ladipo

Well, winter is finally on the way out the door.

After being forced indoors by old man winter, getting out and embracing Mother Nature is an absolute must. The temperature outside is nice and warm; use these creative Spring Dates Ideas to ensure that the temperature inside is red hot.

Here are some of my favorite ways to shower your sweetheart with love and attention.

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1001 Arabian Nights...turn your living room into

your very own oasis. Channel your inner Scheherazade and keep him enthralled with just your captivating self.

Throw in a little belly dancing. Costumes not mandatory, but strongly encouraged; you will thank me later.

Snuggle-In Movie...take the oasis you made and turn

it into a snuggle-in movie theater. Fluffy pillows, warm blankets, warm-buttery popcorn, hot chocolate, and your favorite movies. What could be better?

Spice it Up a Notch...get out the pots and pans and

channel your inner Iron Chef. You can cook up a 4-course meal. Divide up the courses and compete to see who can make the most amazing dishes. The secret ingredient for every dish: chocolate. Best part is you get to eat what you make.

Get Out the Galoshes…remember how much fun

you had playing in the rain when you were young? That fun doesn't have to end just because you are an adult.

Splash in puddles, sing and dance in the rain, and catch raindrops on your tongue. Think of all the fun you will have drying each other off.

Play the Date Night Lottery...take a simple jar and

each of you write 20 date night activities on a Popsicle stick. Mix them up and each of you pick 1 (yep you can use this jar over and over again). they can be sexy or silly or anything in between. Just be creative and have fun.

Strip Non-Trivial Pursuit…challenge your sweetie to

a sexy board game. All board games work. Luckily, with these games everyone wins.

Double Bubble Trouble…what better way to warm

up after all that cold than a bubble bath for two. Don’t forget the champagne, candles, and scented lotion.

Play Dress Up…you know that LBD that that is burning a hole in your closet? Get it out and actually wear it.

Everyone feels better about themselves when they look their best, so dress up and turn an evening at home into something special.

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Say Ahh…spa day! Winter wreaks havoc on all your

skin, spring is the perfect time to replenish it. Plan a day of pampering for each other. Massages, wraps, facials, and body scrubs-oh my, wherever could this lead?

Get Physical…winter can be rough on a fitness regime,

and bikini season is right around the corner, so it’s time to hit the gym. Releasing endorphins together will strengthen both your bodies and your bond.

Soak Up the Vitamin D…grab blankets, pillows, a

book you both love, and a picnic basket and head to a local park for an impromptu picnic. It doesn’t have to be fancy–chocolate covered strawberries and a bottle of wine will do. Nothing better than doing nothing.

Drive In Movie…yes they still exist. Pick the cheesiest

movie you can find and grab the largest bag of popcorn you can find and head to the drive-in for a great evening.

The key is to pick a really bad movie. Then you won’t mind not being able to see through the steamed up windows.

Go for a Homerun…pull out all your fan gear, grab

a beer and hot dog, and settle in for the seventh inning stretch. Even if you hate watching sports on TV, it’s a completely different experience to be in a stadium. It won’t be long until you’re cheering as loudly as everyone else.

Explore the Sky…check out the natural beauty that’s

right above. Pick a night with a clear sky; grab a telescope, hot chocolate, and a blanket. Challenge your sweetie to a contest to see who can identify the most constellations.

It will get chilly, so snuggle up.

Improve Your Mind…read a book together. You can discuss all the plot details, or better yet act out all the naughty parts.

You can kick out those winter doldrums and heat up those cool Spring nights; you just need to put your thinking caps on.

Jessica Ladipo is President and Chief Romance Officer at Trips to Cherish, a travel agency specializing in destination weddings and honeymoons and other romance occasions. www.TripsToCherish.com

Latest in Travel Luggage by: JUDE KIM

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The hand held suitcase

These suitcases have been around for decades, and it seems that they never go away and won’t let up even in the face of determined competition. For the business executive, lawyer, or banker, the suitcase is the exemplification of class. Over the years, suitcase designs have evolved to support the increasing need to pack as much as possible while staying within the set regulations.

Modern travelers can also enjoy new features with the current models that have the latest technologies, including inbuilt phone chargers, Global Positioning System (for tracking the case in the event of losing it), or even collapsible parts designed to make it easier for your bag to fit in tight places. Some modern suitcases have weighing systems that help you stay compliant with some of the weight regulations stipulated by the travel industry.

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Roller bags

on the waist and across the chest. When you choose the bags with shoulder straps only, the best way to go is light, to avoid discomfort or strain of the back or shoulders. The real beauty with most travel packs is that you can convert them into briefcases and back again. You could simply drive from the airport to the corporate meeting without having to change bags. These bags come with numerous compartments in which you can fit all kinds of personal stuff, from your writing pad to a toothbrush.

The key consideration for most travelers is the ability of their bag to make a trip more exciting. For those travelling using air transport, the main concern is accessing a bag that can pack light while maintaining a classy look. For those going on holidays in the countryside, the challenge is to get a strong pack that is fit for the jungle and durable enough to last the journey. Wherever your destination is, you have just sampled the hottest and the best in travel luggage.

Some people are light travelers and therefore want to pack as little as they can.

The best thing about the roller bag is its portability. You can pull it down rough roads or the stairs, and it will still hold. The handle has the strength to pull the load and can hold out for as long as necessary. Some roller bags have four wheels while others have two. While the 4 wheeler gives you more stability and a 360-degree directional mobility, some prefer the 2 wheelers because there are only so many wheels that risk breakage. Some travelers also argue that they prefer the four-wheeler because it puts little pressure on their muscles.

Whichever way, wheels are great when you are clattering down rough patches of land.

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Convertible wheeler packs

This bag has both wheels and straps, which means you do not have to settle for a wheeler and then have a problem getting through crowds. You can wheel it down the hotel lobby. When you need it on your back, you can expand the strap and carry the bag to your hotel or taxi. Some of these packs have the capacity to act as two, a carry on and as day luggage, allowing you to enjoy the best of these different facets of travel.

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Travel packs

Cloth briefcases and duffel bags are some of the most convenient luggage around. They do not have wheels, which makes them lighter and easy to handle where there are space limitations. In addition, packs are easy to fill and stuff into the trunk of your car or taxi. When it comes to the balance of weight across your body, backpacks are convenient since they come with straps

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Romantic Mountain Hikes

By Nathalie Aucutt

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OR SOME OF US, GETTING OUT IN THE FRESH AIR IS WHAT IT’S ALL ABOUT. IT’S A GREAT WAY TO GET THE BLOOD FLOWING, EXPERIENCE NATURE, AND ENJOY EACH OTHER’S COMPANY IN BEAUTIFUL NEW SURROUNDINGS. AS AN OUTDOORS GIRL, I LOVE BIG DAYS OUT WALKING IN THE WILDERNESS WITH MY PARTNER AND AFTER SOME RESEARCH, IT SEEMS I AM NOT THE ONLY ONE! HEREARE TEN ROMANTIC HIKES FOR FEELING THE WIND IN YOUR HAIR WITH THE WORLD AT YOUR FEET:

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Inca Trail to Machu Picchu, Peru Although this high-altitude, multi-day hike through Peru’s dramatic wilderness will test your relationship like no other walk, the Inca Trail has a world-famous finish line that you will never forget.

After days of seriously hard uphill trekking through jaw-dropping mountain ranges and steamy tropical jungle, the Inca Trail rewards the toughest hikers with an incredible view of the ancient Machu Picchu at sunrise. Experiencing this with your partner is every bit the ethereal dream you imagine it to be as your exhaustion ebbs away and the sun peeks over the mountains to illuminate the Lost City of the Incas.

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Haworth Moor to Top Withins Ruins, England As the inspiration to one of the most famous, romantic novels ever written, Haworth Moor is the windswept, rugged scene described in Wuthering Heights, during Cathy and Heathcliffe’s liaisons. The British weather can add to the drama and passion of this landscape but it’s advisable to enjoy this lovers’ hike in warmer months when you’ll get to experience the striking heather blossom that’s synonymous with the Yorkshire Moors. Late summer sees the moors completely carpeted in this pretty purple heather, giving an unusual hue to the ground as you visit the Brontë Waterfalls and then the ruins of Top Withins, allegedly associated with the Earnshaw Home in Emily Bronte’s famous love story.

East Maui Waterfalls and Rainforest Hike, Hawaii One of the most romantic places on earth also has spectacular jungle hikes. From making your island dream of swimming under a waterfall come true to giving you the chance of spotting rare and beautiful wildlife, this tropical walk has it all. On this 2.5 mile hike, you’ll follow streams deep into one of Hawaii’s lush valleys and see several stunning cascades along the way - some over 40’ high! As the water is so clear, make sure you jump in from the basalt rock formations so that you can explore the waterfalls close up. Take a healthy picnic to replenish your energy after this adventurous hiking and swimming excursion.

Stechelberg to Oberhornsee, Switzerland The Alps have long been considered a romantic destination and with an immaculate natural setting and clean, fresh air, there are hundreds of hiking opportunities there. This rewarding hike in Switzerland’s impressive, Lauterbrunnen valley is overflowing with picture perfect grazing fields, mountain flowers, and, of course, snow-capped alpine peaks. After hiking forested paths, over old glaciers and across the Alps, you’ll eventually arrive at the Oberhornsee, where you can freshen up whilst taking in the view of one of Europe’s most well known mountains, the Jungfrau.

Vintgar Gorge, Slovenia With a series of wooden walkways built into the side of the rock, the unique hike through the Vintgar Gorge is a blissfully romantic trip. Close to the fairytale-like Lake Bled, this is a gentle gorge walk that will light up a day out with your loved one. The position of the walkways enables you to really experience the power of the water on this wet and wild Slovenian hike that takes you past the impressive, Šumwaterfall and down through the trees to where it meets the Radovna river.

Joffre Lakes, Canada With three lakes of progressively intense turquoise, hiking in the Joffre Lakes Provincial Park is mind-blowingly beautiful. Secluded and remote, these lakes in pristine British Colombia make wonderful stop off points on a half day hike with your partner as well as ideal places to explore on a weekend camping trip. The color, produced when the sunlight reflects off the tiny glacial particles in the lake, is absolutely stunning and makes a great background for photographs of your romantic hike. With the opportunity to spot great wildlife as well, this is a rugged adventure not to be missed!

Tongario Northern Circuit, New Zealand With wide open spaces and dramatic volcanoes dotting the landscape, this 3-4 day hike will have you starry-eyed in one of the most untouched regions on earth. Geysers, emerald green lakes, and lava formations make for an incredible backdrop to this moderate hike, which is one of New Zealand’s nine Great Walks.

This wild place will excite body and soul, and, at about 6,000 feet above sea level, hiking this circuit will literally take your breath away.

Lover’s Leap Hike, USA Lover’s Leap Hike makes a great trip for couples that want to experience some of North Carolina’s finest scenery. Just off the world-class Appalachian Trail, this relatively short hike takes in views of the French Broad River with its fabulous rapids, as well as the views of Hot Springs town and valley, which is a romantic destination in itself. Due to the three rocky outcrops, which afford the best views, this hike offers lovers plenty of opportunities to hold on to each other and will have you wooed in no time at all.

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Fira to Oia, Santorini Taking the hilly path from the capital, Fira, to the irresistible Oia, this magnificent walk on the Greek island of Santorini is not to be missed. You and your partner will be able to take in breathtaking blue vistas of bright sky and crystal clear water, along this ancient trail on what is widely recognized as one of the most romantic places in the world. Set off in the morning to avoid walking in the intense heat and arrive in whitewashed Oia in time for a delicious seafood lunch in one of its many restaurants – with a sea view of course.

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Snæfellsjökull Glacier, Iceland As a place full of mystical and magical feeling brought on by unbelievable natural scenery, Iceland is full of wonderfully isolated spots for adventurous couples. To get away from it all, just the two of you, take a full day hike up to Snæfellsjökull Glacier and as the sun goes down, take in the panoramic view of twinkling Reykjavik and Breiðafjörður fjord. Standing on top of the glacier will feel like you’re standing on top of the world. Bring a cozy blanket and hot cocoa for a truly intimate experience.

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El Nido, Philippines

BY TATE NANJE

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Photo courtesy El Nido Resorts

ne of the best places in the world that people don’t talk about is El Nido, Philippines. It is a great destination for couples, friends, and anyone looking for a quiet or romantic getaway. Whatever your heart desires, El Nido offers it.

Photo courtesy El Nido Resorts

There are boat tours, kayaks for couples, secluded beaches, and hundreds of resorts with hammocks to just relax and forget everything else. The resorts offer a great number of services.

You can get a massage at almost all times of the day, get fresh mangoes delivered to you every morning, or walk to nearby corner shops selling them-and best of all, it’s super cheap.

The Philippine is not an expensive country to travel to. It’s perfect for the budget traveler and the high spender.Whichever category you fit in, there is something for everyone. From the clear blue water to the almost year round sunset, there is no time of the year that El Nido is not a paradise.

In the evening we went to a restaurant by the seaside where we enjoyed live music and watched the wave as we ate our dinner.

So next time you are planning your vacation, make sure to keep El Nido, Philippines in your mind. You will not forget the fun you will have there.

Writer Bio: Tate Nanje is an avid traveler who has been to over 25 countries and counting. Tate is now exploring the Middle East then will be heading to Europe. website: www.tatenanje.com and Twitter: #TateNanje

Photo courtesy El Nido Resorts

Couples can bask in the sun for hours then cool off with fresh juice that’s made right in front of you. It is a destination that’s unforgettable and one I keep going back to.

My fiancé and I jumped on the bus from Palawan to El Nido because we wanted the local experience. The bus was hot and murky but we got to see the countryside and experience what many tourists do not get a chance to.

We then booked ourselves into a resort upon arrival. We did not make a reservation because in most cases there is no need to. Immediately we were shocked at how inexpensive it was. We got a huge bed and bedroom with a balcony that had two hammocks on it and two small tables. We hopped on the hammocks and kicked our our shoes off to enjoy the sunset.

The next morning we had an elaborate breakfast presented to us that included fresh mango juice, bread, eggs, tea or coffee, and cheese–and whatever else we wanted was given to us.

After eating, we took one of the three wheeled bike taxis that are very popular on the island for our snorkeling adventure. The water was so blue and clean with white sand and fish swimming around us that we did not want to leave. In fact we loved it so much that we ended up taking the tour again in the seven days we spent there. The tour included a lunch of fresh fish, mangoes, and other fruits with rice and soy sauce. It was one of the best grilled fish I had ever had.

El Nido Resorts is a group of award-winning eco-friendly destinations that support sustainability and the importance of preserving nature. There are 4 resorts, Mimloc Island, Lagen Island, Apulit Island and Pangulasian Island located in Northern Palawan, Philippines. These resorts are great hideaways where you can disconnect from the world, while connecting with nature. You can explore lagoons, caves, hiking, and some of the best snorkeling and scuba diving you’ll ever find. The area is teeming with wildlife with over 800 fish species and 400 species of coral; the entire Caribbean only has 50. There are also dolphins, sea turtles, and 100 different kinds of birds.

The accommodations vary from thatched-roofed rooms, to sea cottages built on stilts, to Forest Rooms at the fringe of the forest. Many of the rooms have a private verandah with a gorgeous view of the sea and surrounding islands. For more information: www.elnidoresorts.com.

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“Loving Self: The Key toBetter Loving Another”

By Debrena Jackson Gandy, author of “The Love Lies”

A Love Affair with Yourself “Loving oneself is the beginning of a lifelong love affair,” says one of my favorite quotes from the book, Love 101.In pop culture love relationship books directed at women (over 35,000 of them!), too often, the focus and attention is on loving the other –alias The One, The Soul Mate, Mr. Right, or A Husband. There’s little or no regard for first attending to, fortifying, and establishing healthy love in one’s existing relationship – the one with self or love first being in place in one’s primary human relationship, the human relationship you’re already in and have been in the longest, the one with yourself. All too often the obsession presented in traditional love relationship books and magazine articles directed at women is externally focused on how to find The One, how to express your love for him, how to keep him, flirt with him, communicate with him, or “light his fire.”

How can we overlook such an important foundational relationship when it is the very basis from which our experience of a love relationship with another arises?

How can we overlook such an important foundational relationship when our ability to love ourselves translates directly into our ability to love another self, especially in the domain of romantic relationships?

What Love Isn’t We must remember that love is not a thing to be hunted down, sought out, or found in “The One,” contrary to the lyrics of popular love songs, romance novels, and “chick flick” movie plots. Love is a

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powerful force, available to us internally.

Love occurs first as an experience within, and then expressed, shared, and extended externally, with another. In this culture, we’ve confused selflove with self-absorption, or self-love with selfcenteredness,while actually, what occurs when self-love is NOT in place is being overly self-absorbed, or overly selfcentered. So one of the greatest antidotes to being overly-selffocused, or overly self-conscious, is true and authentic self-love.

Becoming More Self-Loving How do you “raise” the self-love bar to become even more self-loving, and hence better loving another? The answer is through learning how to truly experience and express love within oneself and for oneself, first. In my own life, and in my transformation and empowerment work with women over the past 20 years, I have come to realize that healthy self-love is based in 1) relating to yourself in a way that is grounded in being a responsible caretaker and wise guardian of your own body and being, BEFORE attempting to take care of or give love to others; 2) knowing, valuing, and honoring what nourishes, fortifies, and renews your mind, body, and spirit; 3) wisely managing your energy, boundaries, and choices; and 4) engaging with love relationships in a way that is self-honoring and self-respecting.

When you love self, you give and live from a place of self-fullness, not selfishness. You understand the critical

importance of first having an esteeming, loving, and self-valuing relationship with yours truly.

The Fruits of Self-Love are Many The fruit of healthy self-love comes in many forms and sets the stage for having JUICY romantic relationships and marriages.

JUICY relationships and marriages are those that are mutually and deeply satisfying and fulfilling. They have a healthy flow of communication, energy and passion, and the connection is strong and vital.

When self-love is present and onpoint, it is also a “win” for the other. You are low-maintenance emotionally; you offer, share, andcontribute more than you take, require, or need; and it is easy to experience joy when in your presence.

Yes, the easiest person to love is one who already loves herself, and the easiest person to be loved by is one who already loves herself and easily shares with you from her overflow.

About the Writer: Debrena Jackson Gandy is a national best-selling author of two books.

Her newest book is titled. “The Love Lies: 10 Revelations for Women that will Transform and Enrich Your Relationships.” She is the self-proclaimed leader of the Relationships Revolution. Debrena is a popular radio show guest and has participated in more than 50 radio shows; she has appeared in Oprah’s O, Essence, Ebony, and Woman’s Day magazines, and has been seen on Oprah.com, Redbook. com, Jet.com, and SoulofAmerica.com, as well as on TV on CNN, CNN Live, Good Day New York, Good Morning Texas, Good Day D. C., The Better Show, and numerous regional morning news shows. She lives in Seattle with her family. You can order her book through her website, www.MillionDollarMentor.net.

CREATING THE ULTIMATE ROMANTIC CANDLELIGHT DINNER FOR TWO

By Alex Simpson

When it comes to romance, there is seemingly nothing better than sitting down to a delicious candlelit dinner for two. Many people choose to dine out at fancy restaurants in order to create the perfect romantic ambience, but in reality, dining out isn’t always the answer. Furthermore, it can be pretty expensive, especially if you fancy a few glasses of wine and have to take a taxi home. Rather than dining out at a fancy restaurant, why not do something a little unique and instead cook a delicious romantic meal for you and your partner to enjoy in the comfort of your own home? Here we give you a few tips to help set the mood, plus we provide a delicious main course recipe and wine suggestion to ensure your evening runs as smoothly as possible.

Tips to help set the mood – Before we get down to the actual cooking, you will first need to take the following steps to ensure everything is perfect for when your date arrives.

CANDLES – No candlelit dinner for two would be complete without, well, candles. Make sure you not only have candles at hand, but that they actually look nice and are well presented in nice looking candlestick holders perhaps. Light them 5 minutes or so before your date arrives which will instantly impress him or her when they walk in. Make sure you turn your main lights off as you want a subtle amber glow in the room, not too light, and not too dark.

SET THE TABLE –You’re cooking a romantic dinner for two here so there will be no eating off your laps in front of the TV. Get a nice looking tablecloth, a table runner, and place your candles strategically on the table. Use matching cutlery that looks nice, and don’t forget your wine glasses. Perhaps flowers as a centerpiece could also be used, if you have the room.

MUSIC –You want calm, soothing, and romantic music so simply do a little research and purchase albums or tracks that tick all of the above boxes. You want the music playing quietly in the background.

STEAK BÉARNAISE Here’s a steak béarnaise recipe that tastes amazing and actually doesn’t require too much time in the kitchen as the key is the prep beforehand.

Ingredients

For the sauce

• 2x ribeye steaks • 3 large peeled potatoes parboiled, cooled, then chopped into thick chunky wedges • Fresh peeled carrots, cut into batons • Fresh green beans • A large knob of butter • 2 cloves of crushed garlic • Pork fat for deep frying • 6 x onion rings (you can make your own with a basic batter mix but we’ll cheat here and go with ready made)

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1 Tbsp white wine vinegar Half a finely diced shallot 1 Tbsp of water 3 crushed black peppercorns 1 Tbsp fresh chopped tarragon (save the stalks) 75g of melted butter 1 large free range egg yolk Salt and pepper to taste

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Begin by making your sauce. To do this, pour the sauce, heat the vinegar, water, crushed peppercorns, tarragon stalks, and shallots into a pan and heat until roughly 1 tablespoon of liquid is left.

In a food processor, add the egg yolk, vinegar, and tarragon reduction and blend until the mixture is frothy and light.

Turn the speed of the processor to low, and then slowly trickle in your melted butter. The sauce should turn thick and smooth. Just be careful not to overbeat the mixture.

Add salt and pepper to taste, stir in the chopped tarragon leaves, and transfer to your serving dishes.

Now, using a deep fryer or a deep pan, heat your pork fat blocks and melt. Once the temperature reaches 180 degrees Celsius (356 Degrees F) add your potato wedges and fry for 6 – 8 minutes, until golden on the outside and fluffy in the middle.

Whilst they cook, bring a pan of salted water to a boil and cook your carrots and green beans to your liking. Once they’re cooked, turn off the heat but leave the lid on the pan to keep warm until serving.

Now it’s time to cook your steaks. In a large skillet, add a trickle of oil, and heat the pan until smoking (make sure you use your extractor fan).

Season your steaks with salt and pepper on both sides, then, one at a time, fry them until cooked to your liking. Generally, rare takes around 3 minutes on each side. Add a further 50 seconds for medium rare, medium, medium well, etc. Only turn them once whilst cooking, and leave the heat on high.

Once cooked, set the steaks to one side and leave them to rest on a clean plate for at least 5 minutes.

Drain your wedges into a clean bowl with a paper towel and sprinkle with salt. Next, fry your your onion rings for 3 – 4 minutes in the same pan.

Drain the water from your the vegetables, add the garlic and butter, and place the lid back on to steam for a minute or two. Give them a stir to ensure they’re coated, and neatly begin plating up.

Place 3 onion rings in a neat pile on each plate, neatly arrange your wedges in a pile, do the same with your veg, then in the remaining space, carefully lay down your steak.

Drizzle your sauce over the steak and you’re ready to go.

Serve this dish with a 2003 Collazzi Toscana wine as its full-bodied ripeness really complements the richness of the meat and the sauce.

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Romantic Bed and Breakfast Inns of the Southeast Lana Orndorff

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he uniqueness of the Bed and Breakfast experience from Virginia to Florida comes from the purity of Southern hospitality. Nature, wine, history, and escape are just a few aspects of the Southeast you and your love can experience when looking for a romantic getaway. No matter what type of romantic experience you and your love are searching for this weekend, the Bed & Breakfast Inns you’ll discover in this area offer many elegant choices, all of which include serenity, luxury, and intimacy.

Miller House Bed and Breakfast Inn, Staunton, VA The Miller House in Staunton, Virginia offers you and your beloved a historical theme to your romantic weekend getaway. Looking like a castle that would welcome the Bronte sisters, the stunning exterior of this beautiful Victorian Mansion will transport you back in time, making you feel like a Duke and Duchess of eras long past. If you and your love want to go beyond the serenity of the interior, with its cozy reading corners and perfectly decorated bedrooms, the Miller House is located within walking distance of downtown Staunton. A quaint, romantic town, you two can stroll hand-in-hand enjoying the slow pace and antiques of the area. A bonus to the historical romance would be a visit to the American Shakespeare Center, which hosts a replica of the Globe Theater in London.

Photo courtesy of Miller House

The Aerie Bed & Breakfast, New Bern, NC The “King of Romance,” author Nicholas Sparks, sets many of his greatest romance novels in New Bern, North Carolina, making it an obvious location for you and the one you love to spend a romantic weekend together. Offering nine unique rooms, The Aerie Bed & Breakfast is a wonderfully intimate setting offering several excursions that you and your love will be able to enjoy together. Plus, Aerie’s Couples Spa Package and Aerie’s Nicholas Sparks package are sure to add to the experience of your getaway.

Photo courtesy of Aerie Bed & Breakfast

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Beechwood Inn Bed and Breakfast, Clayton, GA Wine lovers looking for a romantic weekend stay will love Beechwood Inn Bed and Breakfast in the heart of Georgia’s wine country. Not only does Beechwood have its own wine cellar, but every day at 5:30, it’s “WineThirty.” You and your love can sample locally made Beechwood Inn wines.

If you are looking for a more intimate wine experience, you and your beloved can enjoy a private six-course meal with wine pairings in the wine grotto. With your own personal chef and no dishes to do, you can focus on the one you love.

Photo courtesy of Beechwood Inn

L’Auberge Provencale Bed & Breakfast, Boyce, VA This colorful, French-inspired inn can make it feel like you have traveled across the Atlantic Ocean for a weekend getaway. Set in the Shenandoah County’s wine country, you and your love can take a picnic lunch--prepared by the inn-- to a nearby winery to enjoy a special afternoon. Or, for indoor romance, several of the suites offer jacuzzi tubs, aroma therapy steam showers for two, and soaking tubs for ultimate relaxation. Regardless of the type of romance you and your love are seeking, L’Auberge Provencale can make it happen. They offer a variety of romance packages and dining options for a unique experience every time.

Photo courtesy of L’Auberge Provencale

Bloomsbury Inn Bed & Breakfast, Camden, SC

Gideon Ridge Inn Bed & Breakfast, Blowing Rock, NC

Located in the heart of the South, Bloomsbury Inn Bed & Breakfast exudes Southern hospitality and charm. For a romantic getaway, they offer several customized packages to make your stay extra special. Their “Let the Romance Begin” package offers two luxurious Bloomsbury robes, a bottle of champagne, chocolates, and rose petals on the bed at turndown.

With the quiet surroundings and wrap-around veranda, you and your love will be able to cherish each other and forget the rest of the world.

For a couple looking for a more rustic setting to enjoy one another, try Gideon Ridge Inn Bed & Breakfast tucked into the luscious mountains of northwestern North Carolina. Surrounded by nature and greenery on the outside, this secluded inn has all of the luxurious comforts you and your beloved need on the inside. Adventure-loving couples can create memories by hiking, biking, and rafting nearby. Tip: The porch from the Sunrise View Suite has an amazing eastern view over the Blue Ridge Mountains. With a cup of coffee or tea, your love, and the serenity of nature, what more could you ask for?

Elizabeth Pointe Lodge Bed & Breakfast, Amelia Island, FL If you are craving a beachfront getaway with all of the personal touches of a B&B, this is the place you are looking for. Amelia Island, Florida has semi-tropical weather most of the year and 13 miles of beach that will welcome you and your beloved. Eat breakfast each morning by the ocean, stay in the private “Miller Cottage,” and soak up the sun and the romance.

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SEDONA,

ARIZONA

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edona provides a dramatic backdrop to any couples vacation, with the magnificent red sandstone formations that dot the area creating a beautiful contrast to the vivid blue skies. It is a lovers' paradise through and through, offering such an impressive variety of accommodations that every couple is able to find the perfect spot. Cozy B&Bs, isolated cabins, and luxury resorts offer everything you and your sweetheart are looking for in a romantic stay, whether you're planning to sneak away for a weekend or soak in the lap of luxury for a full weeklong retreat. And when it comes to activities, you have your pick of pampering, hiking, poolside relaxation, and more. No matter what your idea of a dream vacation is, chances are good that you and your partner will find it in Sedona.

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Photo courtesy of Sedona Chamber of Commerce & Tourism Bureau

DESTINATION SPOTLIGHT:

ROMANCE IN THE AIR AT THESE SEDONA ACCOMMODATIONS AMARA RESORT & SPA, A KIMPTON HOTEL - With a prime location just off Oak Creek, you’re in walking distance to a host of chic boutiques and incredible restaurants. And that’s assuming you’ll want to leave the property, though you’ll certainly find plenty to do here. Start your day with a walk through the manicured trails, then visit the spa for a sage and mineral salt body treatment alongside your sweetheart. Spend the afternoon relaxing together at the infinity saltwater pool, then pay a visit to the craft margarita bar for a joyful–and tasty!–end to your day as you admire the famous Sedona night sky.

JUNIPINE RESORT - Away from the hustle and bustle of downtown sits this sweet, rustic collection of creekhouses.

Couples-friendly amenities include oversized beds and showers, wrap-around decks to enjoy the creek and surrounding scenery, and a stone-faced fireplace–there is nothing quite like snuggling up together in front of the fire. The resort staff delivers firewood daily to ensure you stay cozy throughout your stay. During your visit be sure to walk the property’s hiking trails and play a few games at the horseshoe pits. You can even go fishing onsite, choosing to release your bounty or even catch your own dinner.

CASA SEDONA INN - This wonderful inn feels almost like an upscale B&B with its intimate feel and attentive customer service. With names like “Navajo,” “Moondance,” and “Sunlit Dreams,” each room has custom decor and features, like gas fireplaces, 2-person hot tubs, and gorgeous views. Enjoy a glass of wine with your sweetie as you take in the beauty of the starlit skies from your oversized deck at night. And you don’t have to go far for a great meal–the onsite restaurant earns rave reviews and is considered among the best in Sedona.

BRIAR PATCH INN - Though it’s just a few miles outside of Sedona, you’ll feel as if you’re eons away from it all while staying at these lovely creekside cabins. Rooms are adorned with beautiful Native American-inspired decor and are free of modern distractions like TV, telephone connections, and Internet, which means you and your sweetie will spend your time enjoying each other instead of sticking to your usual electronics-heavy routine.

You can enjoy breakfast in the comfort of your own cabin, by the fireplace in the lodge, or al fresco next to the creek. This is not your standard hotel breakfast either–food like homemade granola and bread, quiches, and fruit spreads are freshly prepared each day.

WAYS TO ENJOY SEDONA WITH YOUR SWEETIE GOSTAR GAZING - Sedona is known for its clear night skies, and a star-viewing tour is essential for any first-time visitor.

Learn about constellations, other planets and their moons, binary stars, and more while viewing them with the naked eye and with the help of some super powerful telescopes. Book your tour during your first night in town so that you and your sweetie can appreciate the night sky even more during the rest of your trip and can make a game out of spotting and identifying its many treasures from your hotel.

DRIVE ALONG THE RED ROCK SCENIC BYWAY - There’s no need for much of a plan if you and your sweetheart are looking for a day of exploration and beautiful scenery while in Sedona.

There are plenty of places to stop over the course of the day while driving on the stunningly scenic State Route 79, including lookout points and trailheads. Be sure to stop at the visitor center to get ideas for more romantic activities you can enjoy together during your visit.

ENJOY A MASSAGE AND ENERGY SESSION - There are many fine choices for a massage and spa treatment in Sedona, but the team at Stillpoint...Living in Balance have a loyal following who swear by their relaxing, rejuvenating, and energy-releasing treatments. During one of their signature treatments, both the mind and body are affected, and you and your partner will leave more centered and balanced, and, perhaps, more open to each other’s love.

Sedona is a magical place to visit with your sweetheart. There is no rush or strict schedule to follow, just the openness to explore together, relax, and re-connect. It is a wonderful escape from your everyday life and will give you the chance to re-ignite your love for one another.

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Romantic Things to do in New York this

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By Dusty Fox

Though New York City gets most of the attention, New York State also offers visitors hundreds of wonderful attractions.

From beautiful waterfalls to quaint country towns, and exciting concert venues to dozens of wineries, you could easily spend weeks or months exploring the gems of Upstate New York. The people are friendly, the prices are good, and the options are nearly limitless.... come to think of it, there is simply no reason not to visit Upstate New York with your sweetie this summer! Here are 6 romantic activities that are perfect for your summer getaway to The Empire State:

STAY AT A B&B IN ITHACA

This college town, home to Cornell University, is nestled in the rolling hills of the Finger Lakes region. The friendly staff at the William Henry Miller Inn, or another converted Victorian home, will give you recommendations on your best dining options and directions on getting to nearby hiking trails. The area is known for its many waterfalls that you won’t want to miss.

acoustics are said to be among the best in the country. But what you really come for is the music—and there is a lot of great music and other performances to choose from each season. Relive your greatest 80s memories as you catch a Def Leppard concert together, sway to the relaxing sounds of perennial favorite Dave Matthews Band, or revel in the beauty of the New York City Ballet.

STROLL ALONG THE ERIE CANAL IN FAIRPORT

TRAVEL ALONG THE SENECA LAKE WINE TRAIL

A suburb of Rochester, Fairport is a charming little town with plenty of charm to spare. A miles-long walkway is perfect for a couples stroll or biking adventure. Stop in town for ice cream at an old-fashioned ice cream shop and have dinner on the patio overlooking the water as you watch the boats going by at a leisurely pace.

VISIT NIAGARA FALLS

Niagara Falls is a must-visit attraction for any traveler, and it’s even more enjoyable when you’re accompanied by your partner. Admire the Falls in all their glory from the Niagara Falls State Park, the oldest state park in America, and then get an even closer view from the Maid of the Mist or the Cave of the Winds. Be sure to book dinner reservations at the iconic Skylon Restaurant, which sits 775 feet above the Falls and rotates every hour. The nighttime light projections on the Falls and live music are not to be missed!

Whether you are a novice to wine or are practically a sommelier, if you and your sweetie enjoy wine, you will love winery hopping on the Seneca Lake trail. Yes, you’ll learn about the grapes, try new varieties, and see beautiful wineries set among rolling hills.

But, best of all, you’ll have a great time finding your new favorite wine and buying a case to take home so you can remember your romantic wine country getaway every time you open a bottle for months to come!

GO SAILING ON LONG ISLAND

If you and your sweetie enjoy being out at the open sea, treat yourself to an afternoon of sailing with an experienced crew like the team at Sail Montauk.

They also offer 2-day training courses, so if you’ve always talked about taking up sailing, turn your vacation into a launching off point to make that dream come true!

ATTEND A CONCERT AT THE SARATOGA PERFORMING ARTS CENTER A beautiful amphitheater

and stage make this an attractive concert venue, and the

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Photography has become one of the industries that has rapidly changed with computers and the internet becoming more common place in day-to-day life. With fast internet speeds and high resolution cameras, photographers are now easily able to upload their photos online to share to the masses. From social sharing sites such as Facebook and Instagram, to more traditional image uploading services like Photobucket and Flickr, the options available to smartphone photographers and professional photographers alike are endless.

But no two service is necessarily alike. From afar, they may appear to offer the same sorts of functionality and features, but some sites reign supreme when it comes to offering extra features, and beautifully displayed photographs. One of the leaders of the pack when it comes to not only ease of uploading but also how well the photos are showcased is SmugMug (www.smugmug.com).

You may be saying to yourself “How can a site like SmugMug be different or better than others?� Well, where do we start? Traditional sites are uniform from user to user, and offer restrictive customization. SmugMug gives users the ability to come up with simple site designs, as well as deep customization. From simple drag and drop content boxes to billions of color and font options, you can really customize your page exactly to the look, feel, and specifications that you are after.

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