BOOM! June 2025

Contents June 2025

Dinner Recipe: Sheet Pan Honey Mustard Chicken

Grumpy But Grateful

Event: Montgomery Dragon Boat Festival

Event: Prattville Creekwalk Concerts

Event:Peach Jam Jubilee in Clanton

Event: Wetumpka's River Jam

Event: Caregiver of the Month

Event: Sip Your Way to Summer Wine Event

Event: A Celebration of Led Zepplin

Event: The Wizard of Oz at ASF

Event: Alexander City Jazz Fest

Word Search Contest

Moore Wealth Management: Your Life in a Box

Founder Jim Watson (1950-2024)

Publisher Jason Watson 334.328.5189 cell/text jason@riverregionboom.com

Editor DeAnne Watson 334.462.0225 cell/text

Contributing Writers

Jeff Barganier

Kimberly Blaker

Greg Budell

Rebecca Hastings

Susan Moore

Nick Thomas

Cover Photography

Photography by DiAnna Paulk photographybydiannapaulk.com

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Jason Watson, 334.328.5189 jason@riverregionboom.com

Let the Sun Shine In

There’s something about the beginning of summer that brings us back to the basics—sun on our face, a slower pace, and the quiet joy of being fully present. Whether you’re chasing the grandkids around the backyard, cruising to a favorite getaway, or just savoring that first sip of sweet tea on a shaded porch, summer reminds us: life doesn’t have to be complicated to be good. This month’s issue is filled with stories that echo that truth.

Our Cover Profile features Dale Kocher, whose journey from small-town Alabama to corporate leadership—and eventually into a life of deep faith and volunteer service— offers a powerful reminder: the most meaningful life isn’t measured in titles or travel miles, but in the ways we show up for others. Dale's story is marked by quiet strength, steady growth, and a servant’s heart that still greets patients with a smile each week at the Montgomery Cancer Center. His reflections on faith, marriage, and purpose are a gift we’re proud to share.

And speaking of gifts, few things rival the gift of time outdoors in a Southern summer (heat and all). That’s why this issue also brings you:

A fresh hike to Clingmans Dome (or Kuwohi) with Nick Thomas, complete with mountaintop views and misty majesty.

A stroll through the Birmingham Botanical Gardens with Jeff Barganier, reminding us how beauty, laughter, and even a well-timed fern can restore the soul.

And for those of us trying to enjoy summer without melting in it, we’ve got your Ultimate Guide to Beating the Alabama Heat—full of smart, refreshing tips for making this season one to savor, not survive.

Here at BOOM!, we believe aging well doesn’t mean slowing down—it means living wiser. It means listening to your body, investing in friendships, staying curious, and maybe even planning your next trip (even if it’s just a Tuesday on the lake with a good sandwich and better company).

So let this summer be a season of gratitude. Go barefoot more. Laugh often. Make a phone call to someone you haven’t seen in a while. Jump in the pool. Serve where you can. And like Dale, never underestimate the power of showing up with a smile.

Here’s to warm days, long evenings, and the kind of joy that lingers.

Age Well, My Friends,

Planning For Your Future (Part 2)

Transferring Assets at Death and The Revocable Living Trust

In “Planning for Your Future Part 1” which appeared in the April 2025 Boom Magazine various documents were mentioned that, depending on your situation, may be beneficial when planning and preparing for your future and your beneficiaries.

Most people believe that their will dictates how all assets will transfer at death but that is not true. Some assets will be distributed automatically upon your death. The following are some examples:

• If you own real property jointly (with someone else) with rights of survivorship, the survivor owner automatically inherits the deceased owner’s share.

• Spouses may also own accounts jointly and the accounts will automatically be in the surviving spouse’s name at death of the joint owner.

• Additionally, if you elect to add beneficiaries on your retirement and/ or other accounts, the beneficiaries will automatically receive their portion of the money at your death.

• CAUTION: Each person’s situation and his/her beneficiaries are unique so you MUST analyze the impact on taxes and step-up in basis for real property (and other appreciated property).

Additionally consider the beneficiaries’ ability to receive and manage assets and/ or whether your beneficiaries currently need or may in the future need a meanstested public benefit (ie Medicaid or SSI). This significantly changes the design of the plan for them but can be invaluable to them in the future if you design your plan with this in mind.

Once certain assets are automatically transferred, the rest of your assets may be distributed by a will and/or trust(s). Wills are a common way to distribute property and we will discuss wills in our next article. Another tool that is fairly common means of distributing property is the revocable living trust.

IMPORTANT: There are many different types of trusts and to determine if it fits what you need, first understand your PURPOSE for the trust. We will discuss briefly some reasons why people consider a revocable living trust.

What is a Revocable Living Trust?

• Grantor (you) creates the trust and is typically the initial trustee. You have full control of any assets you place in the trust during your life if you have capacity. You may make changes to the trust at any time. You may also add directions for exactly how and when you want any of the trust assets distributed and to whom.

• Successor Trustees are VERY important and must be someone you trust 100%. Typically individuals are selected and may even be beneficiaries IF they are able to manage assets responsibly and will follow your wishes. If you do not feel that you have anyone who can function in that role, you may need to find a professional. At times, your CPA, if his/her firm's policy permits, may assist or you may need to name another corporate trustee. These latter options are more expensive so carefully consider your options about which trustee will work best for your situation.

What are some of the advantages of a Revocable Living Trust?

• You can control the assets during life and death

• During life you can manage assets

• During death you can direct distribution of the assets

• Avoid probate

• Privacy—not publishing through probate court the terms of your trust

• Flexibility—you may change it at any time while you have capacity

What are some things to be considered?

• What is the purpose of your trust?

• Who are you providing for in your trust(if anyone)?

o Type of distribution (support, health, education, etc.)

o Frequency of distribution

• What do you want to place in the trust?

o Your home or other real property

o Beneficiaries of account(s) if the beneficiary(ies) should not receive the money all at once

**Tax implications are a major considerationspeak to your accountant and/or an attorney regarding tax implications of a trust as once it is funded the tax rate of a trust is typically greater than the tax rate for individuals.

Companion Document to a Revocable Living Trust

If you elect a revocable living trust, you need a pour-over will. A pour-over will allows any assets remaining at death that were not placed in the trust to transfer to the trust through probate.

In Planning For Your Future (Part 3), we will feature distribution of your assets through use of various types of wills.

Senior Law Solutions, LLC offers a variety of opportunities to assist individuals and their families with aspects of Elder Law Care, Estate Planning, and Life Care Planning with individualized plans. If you have questions or want to learn more, visit www.seniorls.com or call 334. 758.9400.

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Montgomery Botanical Garden Hosts Auburn University Students

On Friday, April 25, 2025, the Montgomery Botanical Gardens welcomed Dr. Carolyn Robinson, professor of Horticulture, and her students in “Public Garden Administration” to the gardens. Cathy Maddox, President of the MBG Board of Directors, presented the history of MBG and guided the group through the gardens. She shared many experiences of the board in creating and maintaining the gardens that will serve the students well as they enter their careers in public gardens. Mrs. Maddox emphasized the importance of sufficient financial support for a public garden to reach the goals and objectives of its mission. Informing, inviting, and involving the public in the garden at each step is also vital to the success of public gardens, she explained. Fairlie Rinehart, MBG Landscape Designer, joined the group to share information and respond to questions. Fairlie’s son James Rinehart, who is a proud Auburn graduate and was a student of Dr. Robinson, also shared his time with the group and provided information as he has been instrumental in many aspects of the garden’s development.

The MBG greenhouse, which was donated by the Capital City Master Gardener Association, was of particular interest to some of the students who chose that area of horticultural study as their major. Mrs. Maddox explained the construction, use, and upkeep of a greenhouse that MBG has experienced. The greenhouse is a great asset to the gardens and depends on a crew of committed volunteers. Over lunch, the students introduced themselves and described their individual motivations for seeking education in horticulture, particularly in public gardens. They were each encouraged to come volunteer at MBG, and there was a discussion of internships possibly being developed there. They had a variety of questions for MBG leaders that indicated the excellent education they are achieving at AU and their keen interest in a career in the garden world. Considering the outstanding resource that Auburn University’s Horticulture School can offer to MBG, discussions about how the two entities can interact and develop educational options of mutual benefit will continue. MBG envisions interaction and planning with other colleges/universities and even local high schools to develop partnerships that will further the knowledge about MBG and public gardens in general.

Travel Experiences with Jeff Barganier

Photography provided

by

Jeff Barganier

Birmingham Botanical Gardens

My designer wife Cindy must have been channeling Birmingham Botanical Gardens during the weeks leading up to a special Mother’s Day event. She was working diligently to create a beautiful tablescape complete with a hand-crafted bouquet of crepe paper flowers that looked so real they fooled attendees! Raffia placemats by Lenox, Brookdalepatterned china, monogrammed sterling coasters (a wedding gift to her mother), and tall carved candlesticks with pillar candles all blended well upon a tablecloth fashioned from “Queen Bee” fabric by Cindy Barganier Textiles. It was all so inspiring that we

decided to go spend a day in real gardens with real flowers.

Since 1962, Birmingham Botanical Gardens has provided a sanctuary for rest and respite from the chaotic brick and concrete and paved jungles of Americana. The gardens are a soothing urban oasis—67 acres of two dozen garden spaces reflecting our region’s rich and diverse plant life. In the heart of Birmingham, specifically Mountain Brook, the gardens showcase the wonderful biodiversity of the South. Over 300,000 visitors from around the world come here each year to learn, connect with nature, and just plain chill. That’s what we did, and our visit was quite amazing. And free!

There’s something about the great outdoors that makes meeting other people easy. While strolling through the gardens, we met some of the nicest folks. A delightful, young “expecting” couple, Zachary and Amanda Bordas, had just moved to the area from Louisiana. They met at the University of Georgia and fell in love. With their first baby due any day, we happened upon them taking photos along one of the many scenic trails. Amanda wanted to be close to things in blossom. “I’ve just had my thirty-six-week ultrasound for my baby, and we were in Birmingham, so we thought we would come here and see what flowers are in bloom,” Amanda said, smiling broadly. Zach is a college English professor whose classes had just ended. “We just finished yesterday, so this is decompression day. We decided we might come out and take the

baby for a stroll in the gardens.”

“Yeah, we’re going to walk this baby out,” Amanda said. Cindy assured her that walking does help. And, not to be left out of the conversation, I contributed that, at about this point in our pregnancy, Cindy looked like a walking beach ball. (I always know what to say.) But Cindy agreed, and we all laughed. Laughter, by the way, is one of the sounds I most enjoyed about visiting the gardens—the laughter of children running and playing, the laughter of grandparents in a swing being pushed by their grandchildren, the laughter of the birds and bees who frequent these shaded and colorful woods, all dedicated to nurturing the human spirit and coexhibiting God’s magnificent handiwork we mortals all too often take for granted. By the time you read this, the Bordas family will be three On the next trip to the gardens, perhaps we’ll be especially blessed to hear new laughter that will have come into the world. If only all the world was a garden. If only all the world could laugh.

Farther along the trail, working under a ginormous sycamore tree, we met Charles Murray, working in the fern garden. At first glance, Charles, in his bright blue shirt and what looks like a black martial arts belt, reminds me of one of the warriors in Lord of the Rings, his weapon of choice, a scuffle hoe, at the ready to fight the demonic weeds and other impediments of a fabulous fern garden. “I’ve been here five years now. I’ve been planting plants since I was about five or six years old. It’s something I love to do. We (volunteers) all

Cindy's Tablescape

Zach and Amanda Bordas

Charles Murray

have our private yards. You can call mine a jungle, or you can call it really advanced,” Charles said with a laugh. “This bed is full of Southern Shield. (Southern Shield is a Florida variety.) We’ve cleaned this

bed out and are about to bring in all new ferns, some of which we don’t have in the fern glade yet. We try to do one big project a year.” Charles expresses pride in the sycamore’s root-protective stone wall. Stone is an omnipresent element in

the gardens, used for seating, landscaping, water features, and protective walls, and adds a rugged ambiance. A job brought Charles to Alabama. Like the Bordas family, Charles uprooted his wife and eighteenmonth-old baby and moved here decades ago. Because of this place, he has adjusted well to the South. “This has been a good year for ferns with all the rain,” he said with satisfaction.

As we continued our stroll, I asked Cindy what she loved most about the gardens. “I love the woodsy smell, that it’s so peaceful and fragrant, and that it is a wonderful place to walk and decompress. That’s what a lot of people have said to us.” I couldn’t agree more. Also, Birmingham Botanical Gardens has a great little café with a yummy menu and outstanding sweet tea.

That’s 10:00 AM on a Saturday. And on June 14, there’s a fern sale.

Jesus said, “But whosoever drinketh of the water that I shall give him shall never thirst; but the water that I shall give him shall become in him a well springing up unto eternal life.”

John 4:14 (ASV)

On June 7, the Gardens will sponsor a “fern expo” in the main building. They expect two hundred people to attend, with guest speakers from the West Coast.

Jeff Barganier is a novelist, travel writer and speaker. He travels far and wide upon the slightest excuse for something interesting to write about. His novels include Lawson’s Bluff (2021); The Slash Brokers (1998). He also manages Cindy Barganier Interiors LLC (www.cindybarganier.com) at The Waters in Pike Road, Alabama. Contact Jeff at

No matter how long you and your partner have been together, nurturing your relationship is essential to maintaining and strengthening your bond and ultimately, keeping the friendship and romance alive. So consider some of the following fun weekend getaways to revitalize your friendship and reignite the spark. Regardless of where you live, there are likely plenty of escapes within a half-day's drive or less. Or consider hopping on a short flight for more options.

A Dude Ranch – Spend a weekend cowboy style at one of the many dude ranches around the country. Enjoy horseback riding, wagon rides, hiking, fishing, cowboy cookouts, dancing, relaxing in a hot tub, and lots of Western charm.

Golf Getaway - Choose from one of many weekend golf packages, or create your own by making hotel reservations near some of the courses you've been dying to play.

Bed and Breakfast – Find a romantic bed and breakfast in a quaint town with old-time charm. You can stroll through historical neighborhoods and window shop, enjoy local eateries and oldfashioned ice cream, take a riverfront walk, and check out historical sites.

A Trip Down Memory Lane –Remember those carefree days before the kids came along? Make your reservation at a hotel in the area where you met. Then, spend the weekend revisiting your past. Eat at the restaurant of your first date, visit parks you frequented, or even reenact some of your most memorable dates.

Lover's Lane Delight – Find accommodations with an in-room Jacuzzi, then dedicate your first evening to a mini-shopping spree at Victoria's Secret or Frederick's of Hollywood. Choose apparel for each other to try on and discover what you each like. Next, spend the weekend savoring each other and rekindling the romance. Don't forget to bring fragrant candles, a portable

stereo, your favorite music, and other fun stuff for your weekend.

A Weekend of Culture and Class –Buy tickets to an area play, musical, or event. Then, choose a top-notch hotel with fine dining and luxurious rooms near the event. Don't forget to bring along your best attire.

Mystery Weekend –Try out a mystery weekend adventure. Search online or call your local travel agent for upcoming mystery events. But be prepared. If you're not the murderer, you could wind up being the victim yourself.

Amusement Park Fun – Get in touch with your inner child. Make your reservation at an amusement park resort. That way, you can take breaks and come and go as you please all weekend.

Music Lover's Weekend – Buy concert tickets then plan a weekend of musical merriment. Reserve a room near the concert hall. Then, catch a cab for a guaranteed designated driver.

• Access to 90% of doctors and 100% of hospitals statewide1.

Winter Resort – If you like the cold and snow, try a winter recreation resort. Then, hit the slopes or cross-country trails, toboggan, or go ice skating. When you're done, warm up with hot cocoa by a roasting fire.

Festival Fun – Contact your visitor's bureau, Chamber of Commerce, or check out an online event directory to discover upcoming festivals. Book a hotel reservation in the area.

Camping and Canoeing – Enjoy a weekend of relaxing fun, sunshine, and sleeping under the stars. Find a canoe rental facility that offers riverbank camping and overnight trips.

Second

Honeymoon –Renew your vows, and take a second honeymoon. Write your own promise

to recite to your partner. You can also exchange gifts that represent your renewed commitment to each other. And don't forget the honeymoon suite!

Make it a surprise – Pull this off, and you'll have your partner eating out of your hand. Concoct a story about going to dinner, to an out-of-town furniture store that you've been dying to visit, or whatever it takes to get your partner on the road with you. When you reach your destination, act confused, and explain you got your directions wrong. Pull into a hotel parking lot (conveniently where you've already made reservations). Then say you'll run in and ask for directions. After you've checked in, see how far you can drag your partner along before your partner discovers the surprise.

Tips for a Perfect Weekend

1) Research and plan your weekend getaway, so it isn't over before you get started.

2) Talk about your wants and expectations with your partner beforehand so you don't arrive with different ideas that'll lead to disappointment. Come to a mutual agreement that meets both of your needs so you'll both come home feeling renewed.

3) Discuss costs and spending in advance to avoid arguments that could ruin the weekend.

4) Turn your cell phone off to avoid unnecessary interruptions. If you have kids, also give the phone number of where you'll be staying to the sitter, and remind the kids to call you only in an emergency.

5) Finally, keep in mind some things might not go as planned. Take it in stride, and be flexible because the weekend is just about renewal and enjoying your time together.

Kimberly Blaker is a freelance writer. She also owns an online bookshop, specializing in out-of-print, scarce, signed, and first editions; fine bindings; ephemera and more at sagerarebooks.com.

By Greg

Show and Tell

I was thinking about trying something I hadn’t done in 60-something years: a “Show and Tell” column of assorted items collected through my BOOMerhood. Let’s get started!

ITEM 1- The May issue of BOOM had been out for a couple of days when my “war” with the City of Montgomery over a dangerous (to cars and The Awkward) sinkhole on charming Magnolia Curve was miraculously solved! A ridiculous sequence of “fixes,” including gravel and orange drums warning of the tenacious hole, frustrated many Cloverdale residents.

As soon as the May BOOM was out, complete with photos of the mess, I drove by, and to my astonishment, the hole was filled and paved. It’s as flat as a dinner plate. Beautiful. Magazine Power! Here’s a pic of the cosmetic completion!

ITEM 2- I’ve been trying to distill my “stuff” (BOOM-April 2025) and discovered a box with some cool memories. BOOMers will remember the “Great One”, Jackie Gleason. I was a huge fan at a very young age, 10 or so, and wrote him a fan letter. Weeks later, this picture arrived. It was signed

(probably not by him, but still); however, the ravages of time erased the signature. With all the moves I’ve made in my life, I’m far more amazed to find it in my possession! It’s a keeper. #bangzoom

ITEM 3- This picture has many stories within. It’s the 70s. I have a bushel of hair. I am wearing the tuxedo from my first wedding (I did not get married in a Styx t-shirt but was working with them at the time). I am not the “show” part of this photograph. The “tell” is the car, a 75 Pontiac Firebird Trans Am, and if you look closely, I am wearing platform shoes. I am ashamed of everything but the car.

The shoes were my chance to see the world from 6 feet 2 inches, and I enjoyed it while it lasted. The Trans Am had to go after Styx’s John Curulewski (“JC”) called it a “grease mobile.” I never felt right about it after that. I traded it for a 72 Corvette, which later burned in a fire caused by a fallen flaming hot marijuana seed. No suspect in that blaze was ever found.

ITEM 4- My baseball card. Midwestern BOOMers should be familiar with the name “Veeck,” as in Bill, who long ago owned the Cleveland Indians and, later, the Chicago White Sox. Bill had a son, Mike, who had his own baseball career but is most remembered for engineering a “Disco Demolition Night” at Comiskey Park in 1979. He packed the house with disco haters on the promise a pile of albums would be blown up at second base between games of a doubleheader. Fans, however, drank their way through game 1, and rioted during the demolition. The White Sox were forced to FORFEIT the second game.

Mike eventually owned a minor league team called the Miami Miracle. He hired me and my newsman, Jeff Chase, to do the TV broadcasts, and it was a blast. And I did make a childhood dream come true- broadcasting pro baseball and having my own authentic baseball card. Collectors tell me it’s worth 17 cents!

ITEM 5- The excitement over the first American Pope makes this souvenir all the more special and, uh, controversial. In 1987, I had the honor of being selected by the Archdiocese of Miami to host a Mass by Pope John Paul II. It was the experience of a lifetime!

After being cleared by the Secret Service, FBI, and Treasury Departments, I had to attend numerous rehearsals for the event. We did a dry run the day before. One of the organizers pointed out the various accomplishments of the event and motioned toward this massive, cement-based chair. “That’s where the Pope will sit”, he said. “And you’re not supposed to sit in it. Pope only!” So, of course, when an opportunity to testseat it occurred, a friend grabbed this quick pic.

I am revealing this publicly now because I feel guilty about violating that rule. I have now come clean. I pray the Gates of Heaven will still swing open for me!

See you at the Confessional.

Greg Budell has lived in Montgomery for 20 years. A 50+ year veteran of radio, TV and writing, Greg hosts the Newstalk 93.1FM Morning Show with Rich Thomas, Susan Woody, and Jay Scott, 6-9 AM Monday - Friday. He returns weekday afternoons from 3-6 PM for Happy Hour with Pamela Dubuque and a variety of sidekicks. His favorite topic is life! Greg can be reached at gregbudell@aol.com.

Easy Chinese Chicken Salad

Made with leftover rotisserie chicken,

Ingredients:

1 head romaine, shredded

4 cups shredded napa cabbage

3 cups leftover shredded rotisserie chicken

1 (15-ounce) can mandarin oranges, drained

½ cup chopped fresh cilantro leaves

½ cup roasted salted cashews

3 green onions, thinly sliced

2 cups crispy wonton strips, homemade or store-bought

2 teaspoons toasted sesame seeds

For the sesame ginger dressing:

¼ cup rice vinegar

3 tablespoons orange marmalade

2 ½ tablespoons canola oil

2 ½ tablespoons toasted sesame oil

1 tablespoon reduced sodium soy sauce

2 teaspoons freshly grated ginger

2 teaspoons toasted sesame seeds

Kosher salt and freshly ground black pepper, to taste

Instructions:

For dressing: In a small bowl, whisk together rice vinegar, orange marmalade, canola oil, sesame oil, soy sauce, ginger and sesame seeds; season with salt and pepper, to taste.

To assemble the salad, place romaine lettuce in a large bowl; top with cabbage, chicken, mandarin oranges, cilantro, cashews and green onions. Pour the sesame ginger dressing on top of the salad and gently toss to combine. Serve immediately, topped with wonton strips and sesame seeds.

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romaine, napa, crispy wonton strips and the best sesame ginger dressing ever!

Let’s be honest—online shopping is no longer a “young person’s thing.” Seniors have embraced it in growing numbers, and for good reason. It's convenient, it saves time, and it often beats digging through aisles under harsh fluorescent lights. But even if you've dabbled in ordering books, vitamins, or birthday gifts online, there's always room to level up your game.

Whether you want to shop smarter, score better deals, or just feel more confident navigating the ever-changing digital marketplace, this guide offers practical tips to make your online shopping experience smoother, safer, and more rewarding. So pour yourself a cup of coffee, get comfy, and check out these online shopping pointers tailored for seasoned shoppers like you.

1. Stick With Sites You Trust— But Don’t Be Afraid to Explore

You probably already have your go-to online stores—Amazon, Walmart, Target, maybe even your pharmacy’s website. That’s great! Familiar sites are usually the safest and easiest to navigate.

But don’t let habit keep you from finding a better deal. Smaller, trustworthy retailers can sometimes offer lower prices or specialty items that big-box stores don’t carry. Just make sure any new site is reputable by checking:

• That it starts with “https://” in the web address

• Customer reviews and ratings

• Whether they have a clear return policy and customer service contact info

When in doubt, look up the company’s name with the word “reviews” in Google before buying.

2. Save More with Digital Coupons and Cashback Tools

One of the best things about shopping online is how easy it is to find discounts—if you know where to look. Here are a few simple tricks:

• Before you buy anything, open a new tab and type in “[store name] promo code” or “[item name] coupon.” Sites like RetailMeNot, Honey, or Coupons.com often have usable codes.

• Install a browser extension like Rakuten or Capital One Shopping—these tools automatically search for coupon codes and even give you cashback when you shop certain stores.

• Sign up for store emails, especially when you’re about to make a bigger purchase. Many offer 10–20% off your first order.

Just don’t let sales tempt you to buy what you don’t need. A deal isn’t a deal if it’s just more clutter.

3. Make Returns Hassle-Free

If returning something feels intimidating, you’re not alone. But retailers have made the return process easier than ever— especially online.

Most major sites offer free return shipping, printable labels, and clear instructions. Some (like Amazon) even let you drop items off at Kohl’s or UPS without needing a box. The key is to:

• Keep the original packaging until you’re sure you’ll keep the item.

• Check the return policy before you buy, especially for clothing or electronics.

• Take note of the return deadline, which is usually 30–90 days.

And don’t hesitate to use live chat or call customer service if you’re unsure— they’re there to help.

4. Take Control of Subscriptions and Auto-Renewals

Many sites now offer “subscribe and save” options that automatically deliver things like vitamins, pet food, or coffee at regular intervals. It’s convenient—but can also be easy to forget what you’re signed up for.

Take a moment every few months to:

• Review your subscriptions on Amazon or other platforms.

• Pause or cancel anything you don’t need.

• Track renewals for streaming services, magazines, or software.

A good rule of thumb? If you can’t remember the last time you used it, it might be time to cancel it.

5. Create an Online Shopping Folder or Email Filter

Tired of digging through your inbox for receipts or tracking numbers? Create a folder in your email just for online shopping. You can also set up filters (in Gmail or Yahoo, for example) that automatically sort order confirmations and shipping alerts into one place.

That way, if something hasn’t arrived, you won’t be hunting through hundreds of unrelated messages.

6. Keep Your Devices (and Passwords) Up to Date

Online shopping is mostly safe—but only if your devices are too. Make sure your smartphone, tablet, or computer has the latest updates installed. These updates often include important security patches.

Also, consider using a password manager or at least writing down your shopping site passwords and storing them in a safe place. Don’t use the same password everywhere. If a site gets hacked, that

one password could give someone access to multiple accounts.

Bonus tip: Add two-factor authentication (where you get a code texted to your phone) to your most important accounts for extra protection.

7. Use Reviews Wisely (But Don’t Believe Everything You Read)

Product reviews can be incredibly helpful—just be smart about how you read them. Instead of only looking at the star rating, click in to see what people actually say.

• Look for verified purchases—these are people who actually bought the item.

• Scan for patterns—if lots of people say the shoes run small, they probably do.

• Be wary of products with hundreds of perfect 5-star reviews and no specifics—they might be fake or paid.

Think of reviews as a conversation with fellow shoppers, not gospel truth.

8. Don’t Shop When You’re Tired or Rushed

This one’s more about wisdom than tech. Shopping when you’re tired, emotional,

or in a hurry can lead to purchases you don’t need—or worse, missed details like the wrong size or delivery address.

Try to shop when your mind is fresh and you’ve got a few quiet minutes. Online shopping is best enjoyed like a good cup of tea—not something you rush through on autopilot.

9. Set a Monthly Budget (and Stick to It)

It’s easy to lose track of spending when your purchases show up in digital receipts instead of physical bills. Set a simple monthly budget just for online shopping—maybe even write it on a sticky note and place it near your computer.

There’s nothing wrong with treating yourself. But knowing your limit helps you shop with joy, not guilt.

10. Don’t

Be Afraid to Ask for Help

Even the savviest online shoppers hit snags now and then. Maybe a website looks different after an update, or you’re unsure about a charge. Don’t struggle in silence—call customer support, use the live chat, or ask a family member for a quick walkthrough.

You’ve already proven you can learn something new. This is just the next step toward mastering it.

Final Thought: Smart Shopping is Empowering

You’ve already taken the first step by jumping into the world of online shopping. Now it’s about making it work even better for you. These tips aren’t just about saving money—they’re about confidence, independence, and ease.

With a little strategy and a touch of caution, shopping online can be a joy— not a chore. So go ahead—order that cozy sweater, those new garden gloves, or that book you’ve been eyeing. Just make sure you get the best price and enjoy the process along the way. After all, you’ve earned it.

Hot and Bothered

Ah, June—the month where summer shows up like an uninvited guest, refusing to leave and making itself very comfortable. We fantasize about sunny days, ice-cold lemonade, and perfectly Instagrammable picnics. What we get is a sweat-soaked mess, mosquito attacks, and an electric bill that makes us question our life choices.

It always begins the same way. You wake up feeling optimistic, open the window, and think, What a beautiful day! But before you can even sip your coffee, the heat hits you like a blast from an open oven. Suddenly, every plan you made for the day revolves around finding the nearest patch of shade—or an airconditioned haven.

Step one in the battle: the thermostat. It’s a delicate dance of compromise. Too hot? Everyone in the house is grumpy. Too cold? You’re budgeting for next month’s electric bill like you’ve just taken out a second mortgage. And heaven forbid someone opens a window, throwing off the fragile ecosystem you’ve established.

Step two: ceiling fans. Whoever invented these spinning wonders deserves a Nobel Prize. But let’s be real—unless you’re standing directly under one, they’re just fancy decorations. Worse, if you forget to

reverse the direction, you might as well be blowing hot air directly into your face.

Step three: the ultimate test of patience—your wardrobe. The goal is comfort, but no matter what you choose, you’re sweating through it before you even make it out the door. Bonus points if you wear sunglasses that immediately fog up, making you look like a lost scuba diver.

And then there are the social events. Summer BBQs sound great until you’re stuck under the blazing sun, trying to eat potato salad while simultaneously fending off flies. Let’s not even talk about outdoor weddings. There’s no delicate way to sweat through a dress shirt or heels in 100-degree weather. By the time the ceremony ends, you’re just a puddle of regret and sunscreen.

Of course, it wouldn’t be June without mosquitos—the tiny vampires of summer. Bug sprays promise “24-hour protection,” but apparently, I’m using the kind that’s more like a mosquito marinade. You

spend more time swatting than you do relaxing, and the only winner is the bug zapper, which is having the time of its life.

And yet, despite all the heat and hassle, there’s something about June that makes it worth the struggle. Maybe it’s the smell of a freshly grilled burger or the first sip of an ice-cold drink. Maybe it’s the fireworks lighting up the night sky or the simple joy of collapsing in front of a fan at the end of the day.

So yes, I’m grumpy. The heat is relentless, the bugs are merciless, and my electric bill makes me cry. But I’m also grateful—for the little joys that make summer special, and for the air conditioner that’s working overtime to keep me sane.

Now, if you’ll excuse me, I have to go stand directly in front of the freezer for a while.

- Archie Grumbleton

The miles may separate you, but they don’t have to keep you apart. Staying close to long-distance grandchildren takes creativity, consistency, and a little effort, but the rewards are immeasurable. Whether they live a few states away, across the country, or around the world, building strong relationships with your grandchildren is possible.

The Importance of Staying Connected

Grandparents play a special role in a child’s life, offering wisdom, love, and a unique connection to family history. Even if you can’t see them as often as you’d like, nurturing your bond ensures they always feel your presence in their lives. Regular communication strengthens relationships and provides them with another source of unconditional love and support.

Make the Most of Technology

Technology makes long-distance grandparenting easier than ever. While nothing replaces in-person visits, digital tools allow for frequent and meaningful connections. And if you’re not sure how to do any of these, ask your grandkids! Kids love to show off their tech-savvy.

• Video Calls – Set up regular Zoom, FaceTime, or Skype calls to check in, read stories, or simply chat about their day.

• Virtual Game Nights – Play online board games, trivia, or interactive apps together.

• Watch Shows or Movies Together – Use streaming services like Netflix Party or Disney+ GroupWatch to enjoy a favorite show or movie at the same time.

• Create a Shared Online Journal – Use Google Docs or a private blog where you both can add updates, pictures, or stories.

The Magic of Snail Mail

Despite digital options, kids still love receiving mail. Sending letters, small gifts, or surprise packages adds an extra layer of excitement to your relationship.

• Write Letters and Postcards – Share funny stories, riddles, or life updates. Ask them about school, friends, or their favorite activities.

• Send Care Packages – Include seasonal surprises like a holiday craft kit, a book, or a homemade treat. My twentyyear-old still looks forward to a small valentine from her grandma!

• Create a Monthly Themed Mailbox – For example, “March Mystery” could include a puzzle or scavenger hunt clues, while “July Adventure” might have a summer-themed activity.

• Encourage Them to Write Back – Provide fun stationery, stickers, and pre-addressed, stamped envelopes to make it easy for them to reply.

Plan Special Traditions

Creating traditions unique to your relationship can give your grandchild something to look forward to.

• Story Time Calls –Read a chapter from a book together weekly or tell stories from your childhood.

• Seasonal Challenges

– Have an annual pumpkin-decorating contest, a shared New Year’s resolution, or a summer reading challenge.

• Birthday Rituals – Send a video message singing their favorite song, record a personalized bedtime story, or plan a special birthday countdown.

• Grandparent-Grandchild Bucket List

– Create a list of things you want to do together when you visit, like making a favorite meal, playing a sport, or

exploring a new place.

Visits and Quality Time

When visits do happen, make them meaningful. Whether it’s once a year or several times, quality matters more than quantity.

• Plan One-on-One Time – Spend a day together doing something they love, whether it’s baking, fishing, or crafting.

• Create Memory Keepsakes – Make a scrapbook or photo album to document your time together.

• Leave Surprises Behind – Hide a small note, a book, or a stuffed animal in their room for them to find after you leave.

Stay Involved in Their Daily Lives

• Help with School Projects – Offer to proofread an essay, discuss a history project, or brainstorm science fair ideas.

• Be a Sports or Hobby Cheerleader

– Ask about their latest soccer game, theater performance, or art project.

• Send “Thinking of You” Messages – A simple text, voice memo, or quick call saying “I’m proud of you” or “I love you” goes a long way.

A Bond That Stands the Test of Distance

When you are intentional about staying connected, you can create a lasting and meaningful relationship. What truly matters is consistency, creativity, and, above all, love—because no amount of distance can ever weaken the bond between a grandparent and grandchild.

Rebecca Hastings is a freelance writer and frequent contributor.

Volunteers Celebrated at Montgomery Botanical Gardens with a Garden Party, Welcome to Master Gardener Interns

The Montgomery Botanical Gardens sincerely appreciates their dedicated garden volunteers and created a lovely way to demonstrate that during Volunteer Recognition Week with a special Garden Party on April 23, 2025. The Wisdom Wood Outdoor Classroom at MBG was prepared for the honored guests at their Garden Party with gorgeous arrangements of white lilies, colorful arrangements of garden flowers, and beautifully displayed refreshments for all to enjoy before they were provided guided tours of the gardens.

the emerging bulb and tuber gardens, the Sensory Garden, the Daylily Display Garden, three Green Bridges Pollinator Gardens, the Lion Terrace, the Biblical Garden, and the New Japanese Maple Garden.

As the visitors were provided refreshments and took their seats, Cathy Maddox, President of MBG Board of Directors,

Master Gardener members from five counties surrounding Montgomery were invited to see what the Capital City Master Gardener Volunteers have accomplished in the gardens and encouraged to also become MBG volunteers. Montgomery Botanical Gardens at Oak Park is a beautiful oasis in the midst of urban Montgomery and an asset to the entire river region meant to be enjoyed by residents and tourists alike. The Master Gardener visitors expressed their pleasure and approval as they viewed the bright Entrance gardens,

Ethel Boykin, MBG Founder, and Fairlie Rinehart, MBG Designer, each gave a brief portion of the history of the creation and development of the gardens describing the trials and surprising accomplishments of the board and the volunteers. They displayed “before” and “after” photos of portions of the gardens. The

board leases two sections of Oak Park from the city and will add more sections as their ability to develop more gardens develops. Montgomery Botanical Gardens at Oak Park is a 501c3 nonprofit that is managed by a board of directors. It was organized in 2013, and the planting of the gardens began in 2017. Volunteers have been the key to creating and maintaining the

gardens, especially members of the Capital City Master Gardener Association who adopted the gardens as a major project of theirs in 2014. The gardens are a significant asset to local residents, businesses, and tourists alike. MBG is constructing a new pedestrian entrance on Forest Avenue to facilitate easier access to the gardens. It will also include a

sign so new visitors can identify where the gardens are located. A conceptual sketch of the entrance was on display.

The following day, April 24, the Master Gardener Interns visited the gardens, practiced repotting trees in the greenhouse, and then enjoyed lunch and more discussion with MBG board members. This annual event introduces the new Master Gardeners to volunteering at MBG, which is a major project of the Capital City Master Gardener Association. Both the group of river region Master Gardeners at the Garden Party and the new Montgomery County Master Gardener Interns were encouraged to join and become members of MBG as well as volunteers.

Board members Charlene Thomas and Maggie Stringer.

Cathy Maddox welcomes Master Gardeners to the party.

Ethel Boykin describing garden happenings.

Fairlie Rinehart displaying sketch of new entrance.

Sisters Mamie McClure and Nellie Humphries.

Montgomery Dragon Boat Festival

Saturday, June 14 from 8:30am to 3:30pm

The Montgomery Dragon Boat Festival is back for the 11th year! We are excited to welcome our past teams back to the water and introduce new teams to Dragon Boat racing. All proceeds raised will benefit River Region Trails, Inc. and their efforts to develop parks and greenways in the River Region.

In particular, they are working to extend the Riverfront Greenway in 2025 which will open up more opportunities for getting out on the water! www.montgomerydragonboats.com/

Creekwalk Concerts in Historic Downtown Prattville

June 10 and 24, July 8 and 22 at 6:30 pm

These free concerts will feature different artists or bands to create a fun environment for the public to enjoy. Attendees are encouraged to bring blankets or chairs and friends to share the memories! Concert located on the Creekwalk behind City Hall. Visit https://prattvilleal.gov/ departments/special-events/creekwalk-concert-summer-series/.

Peach Jam Jubilee at Clanton City Park

June 13 and 14 from 11 a.m. to 10 p.m.

Free outdoor festival featuring live music from country’s greatest artists along with arts and crafts vendors, food trucks, inflatables, hot air balloon rides and so much more. Visit peachjamjubilee.com for more information and a schedule of events.

Wetumpka’s River Jam Music Festival

June 14 , 4pm to 10 pm,

Gold Star Park

Live from the banks of the Coosa River—River Jam brings a mix of incredible live music, artisan vendors, and local flavors for a weekend of community fun. This festival continues the tradition of bringing people together for great music, delicious food, and unforgettable experiences.

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Farmer’s Market at Shoppes at Eastchase 7 am to 12 pm * Recurring weekly on Saturday

The annual Easthase Farmers Market is opening! The market will be located in a new location near Sephora and H&M. Shop 20+ Certified local vendors! The market has everything from produce and homemade jellies and jams to locally grown honey and the best boiled peanuts around! The Shoppes at EastChase Farmers Market has grown yearly and is now one of Alabama’s top five largest markets.

Caregiver of the Month Spotlight: Skyla Robinson

Skyla embodies everything we value in a truly exceptional caregiver. Her deep compassion, reliable strength, and innate kindness create a truly nurturing and supportive environment for everyone she cares for. Since joining us on January 19, 2025, Skyla has consistently been a shining example of what it means to provide truly person-centered care, going above and beyond in every interaction.

The dedication Skyla shows, the selfless acts she performs, the quiet sacrifices she makes, and the unwavering support she offers are truly foundational to the well-being of our clients. She gives all of herself to caring for others, and for that, we are so incredibly grateful. Skyla, your heart is big, your hands are strong, and your soul is kind. Thank you for caring for our families with such devotion. Never, ever doubt the profound difference your caregiving makes. We are incredibly grateful for your unwavering commitment to excellence.

Please join us in celebrating Skyla and all the wonderful contributions she makes every single day!

Thank you, Skyla, for your daily commitment to excellence!

For more information visit www.homecareassistancemontgomery.com.

Montgomery Gentry featuring Eddie Montgomery

Saturday, June 28 at The Montgomery Performing Arts Center

8 p.m. As one of the most recognizable voices in a generation of country singers, Montgomery continues to tour coast-to-coast behind a time-tested collection of rowdy and heartfelt songs. www.mpaconline.org

100 Years of Great Gatsby Interactive Ghost Hunt at

the Fitzgerald Museum

Friday, June 6 * 7 pm to 11 pm * Tickets $45

The Southern Ghost Girls Tours welcomes everyone to join them for this investigation. This family-friendly event is no pressure to those who would prefer not to "hands on" use the equipment. You are more than welcome to just sit back and observe. This is a safe space for everyone. www.fitzgeraldghosthunt.eventbrite.com.

4th Annual Sip Your Way Into Summer PepperTree Steaks N' Wines * June 18 and 19

We're kicking off the summer with our 4th Annual Sip Your Way Into Summer Event. We'll be "Sipping with Da Captain" aka Rod on June 18th & 19th. Three ticket options available. 2 Day VIP Captain Ticket - $185

Includes a four course Wine Dinner on June 18 and Wine Event on June 19. Swag bag, VIP Lounge and a bottle of wine from dinner and wine event.

The Wine Time Ticket - $95

Ticket includes general admission, wine, food, swag bag and a bottle of wine from the event. The Tree Ticket - $55

Ticket includes general admission, wine, and food. 8101 Vaughn Road, Montgomery. Visit www.steaksnwine.com

A Celebration of Led Zepplin

Friday, June 13 at 7:30 pm

* Troy University's Davis Theatre

Led Zepplified recreates the music and high-energy excitement of the legendary Led Zeppelin like no one else can!

Experience all of the classic hits of this rock icon including: Whole Lotta Love, Kashmir, Stairway to Heaven, Black Dog, Good Times Bad Times, Ramble On, & more! Tickets are available via www.ilovemoxieevents.com or call Moxie Events at 330-759-4570!

The Wizard of Oz Comes to ASF Playing from July 9 - August 17

Follow the yellow brick road in this delightful stage adaptation of L. Frank Baum’s beloved tale, featuring the iconic musical score from the MGM film. The timeless tale, in which young Dorothy Gale travels from Kansas over the rainbow to the magical Land of Oz, is a thrill for audiences of all ages. Thrills & Music for the Family (Ages 5+). Tickets at www.asf.net.

Alexander City Jazz Fest, June 13-14

Alexander City and Lake Martin Amp

Alexander City Jazz Festival has grown to become one of the southeast’s longest-running, free-toattend music festivals with a guest list of musicians and bands that highlight the community’s passion for fun and entertainment. Featuring three bands in downtown Alex City’s Strand Park on Friday and three more at The AMP on Lake Martin on Saturday night, Jazz Fest offers a mix of sounds spanning the musical spectrum from blues, jazz, funk and soul to Americana, bluegrass and rock-n-roll. www. alexcityjazzfest.com

To Clingmans Dome in the Smokies

Some consider the spiraling observation tower perched atop the Great Smoky Mountains a concrete blemish overlooking the pristine landscape of the nation’s most visited National Park that welcomed some 13 million guests in 2023. Eyesore or not, we made the half-mile uphill trek last summer to the tower that sits on the peak known as Clingmans Dome – at least it was when we did the hike just weeks before the name officially changed last September to Kuwohi (pronounced koh-woh-hee) and meaning “mulberry place” in Cherokee.

Whatever you call it or think about it, the impressive 54-foot tower built in 1959 dominates the peak’s skyline, standing prominently along the park’s North Carolina-Tennessee border. A winding 375-foot ramp leads to a circular platform, where visitors are rewarded with a stunning 360-degree panoramic view that supposedly extends to 100 miles on a clear, haze-free day.

We reached the summit late in the afternoon, just as the mist started rolling in – a common occurrence in the Smokies, even in summer. For the best experience, plan your visit earlier in the day when the skies are clear. Alternatively, you may want to aim for a sunrise or sunset visit, which is reportedly stunning, weather permitting.

While the scenic view from the tower is splendid, the trail offers its own beauty. To the left (northwest) side, wildflowers and lush vegetation stretch along the path up, with dramatic mountain scenery unfolding in the distance. And while the

right side is enclosed by a dense spruce-fir forest, the dramatic landscape view makes the hike just as rewarding as reaching the destination.

If you're not accustomed to walking uphill, be prepared –the paved trail has a 12% grade. While that might not seem steep at first, it could be challenging. So take your time and pace yourself. Fortunately, there are plenty of resting spots along the way where you can catch your breath and enjoy the experience. We saw many seniors taking it slow, while others sprinted past us in a blur that would make “The Flash” proud.

great alternative with fewer crowds, lower temperatures, and no doubt glorious autumn colors blanketing the horizon.

Kuwohi Road (formerly Clingmans Dome Road) winds several miles to the tower parking area, so be sure to pause at the numerous pullover areas along the way to appreciate those views as well. The road is only open from April 1 until the end of November, and during winter, it may receive over 70 inches of snow. But you can still hike to the tower by first tackling the ascending 7-mile road on foot. Just remember to pack your snowshoes.

Be ready for crowds, too, as it’s an incredibly popular hike. We visited in August, so it was the busy summer season and scorching hot. Fall would be a

and has written features, columns, and interviews for many newspapers and magazines. His hiking column describes short trails, hikes, and walks from around the country that seniors might enjoy while traveling. See www. ItsAWonderfulHike.com.

Nick Thomas teaches at Auburn University at Montgomery in Alabama

Clingmans Dome Tower

Beginning of walk to Clingmans Dome Tower.

Summer in Alabama isn’t for the faint of heart. The sun doesn’t just shine — it sizzles. Humidity wraps around you like a hot, wet blanket. And yet, summer can still be one of the most enjoyable times of the year — if we know how to navigate it wisely.

Whether you're retired, semiretired, or just ready to make the most of longer days, this is your guide to staying cool and having fun in Alabama's famous Southern heat.

We’re not talking about just cranking the A/C and waiting for fall. We're talking poolside afternoons, refreshing day trips, shaded adventures, and smart ways to stay active — all while keeping your core temperature and spirits up.

1. Make Water Your Best Friend.

If you want to enjoy Alabama summers, you’ll need to get familiar with water — in all its refreshing forms.

Hit the Pool: Whether it’s your neighborhood pool, the YMCA, or a friend’s backyard oasis, swimming is low-impact, great for joints, and a perfect way to stay active without overheating. Don’t just dip your toes — bring a float, some upbeat music, and your favorite drink in a cooler (hydration is key!). You can even try water aerobics classes designed for 55+ groups — many are offered locally and include gentle movement with a social twist.

Lake Days: Don’t underestimate the magic of a breezy afternoon on Lake Martin or Lake Jordan. Rent a pontoon with friends and pack a cooler, some sandwiches, and sunscreen. Even just sitting by the water in a shaded chair can lower your body temperature and boost your mood.

2. Embrace the Early Mornings (and Late Evenings).

In Alabama, the middle of the day can be a scorcher. The trick? Do your moving and exploring when the sun is low. Morning is a golden time — the air is fresher, the birds are chirping, and it’s a perfect time for a walk in the park or light yard work before the heat settles in. Evening is another great window. Plan a sunset picnic at Blount Cultural Park in Montgomery or stroll the

Riverwalk when the breeze rolls off the water. Bring a portable fan, a cold drink, and soak up those firefly-filled moments.

3. Explore Indoors with Intention. When it’s too hot to handle, Alabama has no shortage of cool indoor adventures — literally and figuratively.

Visit a local museum: Montgomery Museum of Fine Arts, Rosa Parks Museum, Legacy Museum and the Alabama Archives all offer world-class exhibits with plenty of air conditioning.

Take in a matinee: Beat the heat with a midday movie and some buttery popcorn. Bonus: most theaters offer senior discounts!

Browse vintage shops or bookstores: Spend a few hours in the shade of a used bookstore or antique store (think Eastbrook Flea Market and Amy's Antique) — you’ll stay cool and maybe even find a new summer read or retro treasure.

Try a senior-friendly fitness class: Local gyms and community centers often offer yoga, tai chi, or light strength training in cool indoor spaces.

4. Savor Cold Treats (Without the Guilt). There’s no better excuse for indulging in something cold than a summer in the South.

Make your own frozen fruit bars: Blend watermelon, strawberries, and lime juice, pour into molds, and freeze. Natural, refreshing, and easy.

Try local ice cream spots: Montgomery has plenty of cool spots to grab a scoop — like Nancy’s Italian Ice or Bruster's Ice Cream. Grab a friend and make it a summer ritual.

Freeze fruit: Freeze grapes or pineapple chunks for a snack that hits the sweet spot without melting in your hands. You can even blend frozen bananas and Greek yogurt for a homemade “ice cream” that’s healthy, protein-packed, and delicious.

5. Dress Smart, Feel Better. Loose, breathable clothing in light colors can make a bigger difference than you’d think. Cotton, linen, and moisture-wicking fabrics help your body cool itself more effectively. Don’t forget a wide-brimmed hat, sunglasses, and a cooling towel you can wet and drape around your neck for instant relief. Pro tip: Carry a small spray bottle in your bag or car and give yourself a quick mist of cool water when the heat rises.

Cheaha State Park (early morning visit): Head to Alabama’s highest point. It’s usually cooler up there and the views are worth the climb.

Wind Creek State Park: Find a quiet picnic table under the pines with a lakeside breeze.

7. Bring the Fun to Your Own Backyard. If you’d rather stay close to home, there are plenty of ways to create cool fun without leaving your property:

Invest in a canopy or umbrella: Shade can drop the temperature by 10–15 degrees.

Host a backyard cocktail or “mocktail” night with frozen drinks, chilled wine, or flavored sparkling waters. Add some music and let the fireflies handle the entertainment.

Break out the board games: Set up a card table under a fan or in a screened porch and enjoy an afternoon of fun without overheating.

8. Stay Safe and Hydrated. Even when you’re having fun, safety comes first — especially in the Alabama heat.

Drink water often, even if you’re not thirsty: Add lemon, cucumber, or mint to make it more enjoyable.

6. Go on a “Cool Adventure” Day Trip. Alabama has no shortage of shaded or breezy escapes that don’t require overnight travel. Here are a few ideas for a day trip that keeps your body and soul refreshed:

Desoto Caverns or Rickwood Caverns: Underground tours offer natural air conditioning that stays in the 60s year-round.

Avoid sugary or alcoholic drinks: In the heat, they can dehydrate you.

Know the signs of heat exhaustion: dizziness, headache, muscle cramps, or nausea. If you feel off, get to a cool place, sip water, and rest.

Talk to your doctor: If you’re on medications that affect how your body handles heat.

9. Make Summer Memories with Friends and Family. The best way to enjoy the season? Share it. Whether it’s a low-key potluck, a family cookout with water balloons for the kids, or a sunset concert at the park, summer fun multiplies when you enjoy it with others. Consider starting a tradition like “Sundays at the Splash,” “Mocktail Mondays,” or “Cool-Down Book Club” under the fan on the porch.

Don’t let the thermometer steal your summer joy. With a little creativity, a splash of planning, and a good bit of shade, you can stay cool and stay connected, active, and happy.

You’ve earned your summers — now go enjoy them. Just don’t forget your water bottle, your sunhat, and maybe a frozen grape or two in your pocket.

Dale Kocher

Dale Kocher reflects on a life marked by love, faith, and purpose. From his humble beginnings in Eclectic, Alabama, to a 40-year career in corporate insurance, Dale’s story is one of steady growth and deep transformation. He opens up about discovering a personal relationship with Christ later in life, his lasting marriage of over five decades, and the joy he’s found in volunteering— especially at the Montgomery Cancer Center. With wisdom gained through family, travel, and faith, Dale reminds us that a meaningful life is built not only on success, but on showing up for others with a smile and a servant’s heart.

BOOM: You grew up in Eclectic, Alabama, near Lake Martin. It’s become quite a popular destination spot now, but what was it like growing up there back when it was a much quieter place? How did that shape your childhood?

Dale: I was born in Indianapolis, Indiana, but after losing my father when I was just 9 months old, my mother packed up our family and moved us to her hometown of Eclectic. She said, “I’m not raising these two boys in this Godforsaken country.” Eclectic was a small town, quiet but full of character. And of course, Lake Martin was right there, though back then it was dotted with simple cabins—not the mansions you see today.

talkers, and quiet types. It gave me a real appreciation for community. Sports were a big part of life too. Playing high school ball in a small town could shape your future. But heading off to a large university like Auburn was a whole new world—it required a big adjustment.

BOOM: You attended Auburn University. What are some of your favorite memories from your time there? How did your experience on the Plains shape your outlook on life?

Dale: My mom and stepdad dropped me off at Auburn for fraternity rush, and I just dove in. I joined Lambda Chi Alpha and learned how to have a good time—but I didn’t yet know how to buckle down and study. It took time to figure that out.

shape me in ways that stretched far beyond the classroom.

BOOM: You spent 25 years working at Southern Guaranty Insurance. What kept you so dedicated to the company for such a long time, and how did your role evolve over the years?

Dale: During my junior year at Auburn, I met my wife Jean. She had already graduated and was teaching school. We got married before I finished my last quarter, so I had to start thinking seriously about a career. My brother

We swam anywhere, wore whatever, and ate wherever we could. Men fished. Women cooked. People honked when they passed each other—it was rural America at its best. Growing up there, I learned how to get along with all kinds of people—city folks, country folks, fast

College life taught me about friendships—some of those friends are still with me, others have passed on. It also taught me how to learn, not just academically but practically. I realized I needed to develop real-world skills to build a future. Life at Auburn helped

suggested I look into corporate insurance management—which at the time, I didn’t even understand. Dale and Jean on their wedding day.

Dale as a boy.

Growing into a young man.

I spent the first 12 years of my career with two insurance companies, gaining experience in all aspects of the business. Overall, I dedicated 40 years to the corporate insurance industry, joining Southern Guaranty in 1983, where I remained until my retirement. Corporate life is defined by your efforts—you must learn your job, develop your skills, and continue to grow.

Over time, new ownership came in, and I helped oversee the development of our new office on Taylor Road. I worked with great people and stayed committed to progressing. By the time I retired in 2008, we had over 150 employees and managed a budget of more than $100 million. It was a career I’m proud of.

BOOM: In your role at Southern Guaranty, you had the opportunity to help people. What was one of the most rewarding parts of your job, and do you have a specific story that stands out to you?

Dale: It’s hard to explain how you impact others in the moment, but over time, you realize the significance. One of the most meaningful things we did was start a Wednesday morning devotional at work, often led by John Ed Mathison. Other ministers from Frazer filled in when John Ed couldn’t be there. The Wednesday morning devotional continued until our company closed.

Even years later, I still hear from former employees—through texts, phone calls, or even Facebook messages—

saying how much they miss the people and the sense of community we had. When you genuinely care about people and show them love, it stays with them. Those friendships don’t end with retirement.

BOOM: Staying with one company for 25 years is uncommon these days. What do you think allowed you to remain at Southern Guaranty for so long, and how did that impact your worklife balance and career satisfaction?

Dale: Work-life balance and satisfaction aren’t always easy. Life throws a lot at you—marriage, kids, your faith walk, and career demands. But I’ve always believed: you get out of it what you put into it.

Looking back, I was satisfied with my working life. Sure, I could have chased more success, but I don’t regret a thing. I think having the right support system— whether from family, friends, or faith—helps you stay grounded. That kind of guidance can be hard to come by, but it makes all the difference.

BOOM: You’ve mentioned that your faith in Christ became real later in life, after "playing church" for about 25 years. Can you tell us more about that turning point and what it was like to experience that transformation?

Dale: I grew up doing what I was told— go to church, believe in God—but it wasn’t personal. In college, church wasn’t really part of my life. Jean and I were active in our church after we

married, and I even became a deacon in 1975. I remember telling a lady at work, and she said, “You’re not qualified.” It stung at the time, but later, I understood what she meant.

The real transformation came in 1993 when we joined Frazer Church. My brother John and my friend Kline Jeffcoat challenged me to take a deeper look at my walk with Christ. I got involved in Promise Keepers, walked the Emmaus Walk, and joined Bible Study Fellowship—attending for 12 years and leading for another 12. That’s when faith became real for me.

Dale and Jean's son and his family.

Still dating each other after 5 decades married.

Dale and Jean with family.

BOOM: As your faith deepened, you began serving in the church and making it your mission to make others' lives brighter. How did that shift in mindset affect your approach to serving others?

Dale: Once faith becomes real, it changes how you see the world. I believe we’re all called to serve—not because someone asks you to, but because you want to. I try to inspire others to do the same. Whether it’s at church or in daily life, I want to be a bright light for those I encounter. That’s what Jesus has done for me.

BOOM: In retirement, you’ve dedicated a lot of your time to volunteering, particularly at the Montgomery Cancer Center. What has your role there been like, and what keeps you motivated to give back?

Dale: After I retired, a friend called and said, “Why don’t you come volunteer at the Cancer Center?” I asked, “What do you do there?”—and 15 years later, I’m still doing it. I greet people, help with wheelchairs, assist with check-ins, carry files, and serve refreshments. But most

importantly, I show up with a smile. People walking through those doors are dealing with a lot, and just being kind can make a difference in their day. Volunteering has been one of the most fulfilling parts of my life. I tell everyone: If you’re going to retire, find something meaningful to do.

BOOM: Volunteering at the cancer center must give you a unique perspective. How has it impacted you personally, and what have you learned from the people you’ve met there?

Dale: It definitely changes you. Sometimes, all a person needs is a smile to make their heart beat a little better. Not everyone survives, but many do.

You can’t control the outcomes, but you can control how you treat people. I’ve met so many wonderful individuals, and I often run into them in public. It brings me joy just to know I may have brightened someone’s day, even just a little.

to our hearts. Our son Jason and his family are here too, so we get to watch them grow. That’s what life is all about— being present and taking part.

BOOM: Looking back, what has been the toughest challenge you’ve faced, and how did you overcome it?

Dale: Life hands you plenty of challenges. Corporate life can wear you down if you let it. But you’ve got to educate yourself, grow in your profession, and anchor yourself in faith. Life is tough. You

BOOM: You’ve lived in Montgomery for many years now. What do you enjoy most about living here, and is there anything you’d like to see more of in the community?

Dale: Life brought Jean and me here—she’s a Lanier graduate and a proud Montgomery native. We’ve been married 54 years. Montgomery has had its challenges, but we’ve also seen it grow.

It’s a special place—close to the mountains, close to the beach, and close

have to be tougher. Christ will help you through.

BOOM: You’ve been married to Jean for many years. What’s the key to maintaining a strong marriage, especially now in retirement?

Dale: Marriage isn’t easy. I didn’t have a lot of guidance growing up, so we just figured it out as we went. Fifty-four years together—through job changes, economic shifts, and life’s ups and downs. We’ve always stayed active—at church, with friends, and with family. The key is showing up for each other every day. She’s always been on my side, and I’ve been on hers. That’s what makes it work.

At the Montgomery Cancer Center.

Making memories traveling.

Serving others is a huge part of Dale's life.

BOOM: You and Jean have been avid travelers since the 1980s. What are some of your favorite trips, and how has travel shaped your lives?

Dale: We started traveling in the late ’80s, chaperoning high school trips to Europe. Later, we began going on

BOOM: What is it you and Jean enjoy so much about cruising?

Dale: Cruising is a different kind of travel—it takes planning, but it’s incredibly rewarding. From excursions to dining to days at sea, it’s all about how much you put into it. We enjoy every moment, and we’re grateful for the experiences. God’s been good to us.

BOOM: Having traveled the world, what are some of the most important lessons you’ve learned from experiencing different cultures together?

trips with other couples. We’ve been fortunate—traveling from England to Greece, Australia to New Zealand. We’ve cruised from Venice to Rome, Barcelona to the Canary Islands. We’ve explored Normandy, Florence, Paris, and more. Every trip has taught us something. You see history come alive. It’s unforgettable.

Dale: The biggest lesson? The world is different everywhere—but that’s the beauty of it. Don’t let differences discourage you. Instead, plan, organize, and stay open-minded. We’ve learned to appreciate what each place offers. And no, I’m not a travel agent—but I’m always happy to talk trips.

Enjoying travel with friends in Ireland.

Where safety meets excellence— AGAIN.

Prattville Baptist Hospital has been named a 2025 PATIENT SAFETY EXCELLENCE AWARD™ r ecipient by Healthgrades— for the second year in a row.

We’re proud to be the only hospital in the State of Alabama ranked among the top 10% of hospitals nationwide for patient safety—not once, but two years running—by Healthgrades, the nation’s leading organization for independent healthcare ratings. This distinction reflects the daily efforts our team makes to create a safer, more reliable experience for every patient. From advanced safety protocols to continuous quality improvements, we’ve built a culture where protecting your well-being isn’t just a priority—it’s our promise. Because when you choose Prattville Baptist Hospital, you’re choosing a place where every detail is designed with your safety in mind—and where every person is committed to delivering care you can count on.

You’ve earned your wisdom. You’ve built a life full of stories, skills, and experience. But here’s the best-kept secret of aging well: you’re not done learning — not even close.

In fact, continuing to learn — whether it’s diving into local history, picking up Spanish, taking an art class, or finally mastering that tablet — isn’t just about staying busy. It’s one of the smartest things you can do for your brain, your health, and your happiness.

Let’s explore why lifelong learning is so valuable for adults over 55 — and how you can start learning something new this year, whether from the comfort of your home or right here in your Alabama community.

Why Lifelong Learning Matters in the Second Half

Research shows that the brain thrives on stimulation, no matter your age. Just like our muscles, our minds need exercise to stay strong. Learning something new — especially something that challenges or excites you — creates fresh neural pathways that improve memory, focus, and even emotional resilience.

Here are just a few benefits lifelong learning brings:

Improved brain health – Studies show that learning new skills can slow cognitive decline and may reduce the risk of dementia.

Better mood and self-esteem –Accomplishing something new, even small, boosts confidence and can ward off depression.

Social engagement – Many classes, both online and in-person, allow you to meet like-minded people and form new friendships.

A deeper sense of purpose – Whether you’re retired or just slowing down, staying mentally active brings a renewed sense of direction.

And perhaps most importantly: it’s fun. Learning is one of the most lifeaffirming things we can do — no grades, no pressure — just curiosity leading the way.

Before You Pick a Class, Pick a Curiosity

Before signing up for a course, take a few minutes to ask yourself: What have I always wanted to explore — but never had the time?

Here are a few prompts to spark inspiration:

What subject fascinated you in school but you didn’t pursue?

What skill or hobby have you admired in others?

Is there a language, culture, or country that interests you?

Are there practical tech tools or apps you wish you could use better?

Haveyoueversaid,“IwishIcouldpaint/ write/playmusic”—butnevertried?

Do you enjoy history, science, gardening, or architecture?

Would you like to go deeper into your faith, health, or personal development?

Make a list of 5 topics that light you up — even if they feel silly or “too late” to start. That list is your starting line.

Online

Classes: Learning from the Couch (In

Pajamas, If You Want)

Thanks to the internet, you can now take classes from Ivy League schools, local colleges, or even YouTube creators — all without leaving home.

Top Sites for Online Learning:

Coursera.org – Offers thousands of university-level courses, many free or low-cost. Topics range from psychology to photography to philosophy.

edX.org – Similar to Coursera, with classes from Harvard, MIT, and others. MasterClass.com – Learn from

celebrities and experts (like Jane Goodall, Annie Leibovitz, or Gordon Ramsay). It's subscription-based and beautifully produced.

YouTube – Believe it or not, YouTube is a treasure trove of tutorials and lectures. Want to learn to draw, use Excel, or play ukulele? It’s all there — free.

GetSetUp.io –

Designed specifically for older adults, this site offers live online classes led by peers. Think: how to use Zoom, organize your photos, or learn beginner Spanish.

OasisEverywhere. org – Another seniorfocused platform offering affordable, interactive classes on a wide range of topics.

Senior Centers

Pro tip: Don’t be afraid to “shop around.” Many courses let you preview the syllabus or try the first lesson for free. Start slow, and only stick with what you enjoy.

Local Classes: Stay Sharp and Stay Social

While online learning is convenient, there’s something special about learning face-to-face. Alabama’s rich community networks offer plenty of in-person learning options — often at little to no cost.

Where to Look Locally:

Community Colleges & Universities Schools like Auburn University at Montgomery and local community colleges often offer continuing education or non-credit classes. Look for catalogs online or request one by phone.

Many senior centers now offer more than just bingo — think technology training, art, writing, or fitness classes designed for older adults.

Public Libraries

Libraries often offer free workshops, lectures, book clubs, or even “Tech Tuesdays” to teach you how to use tablets, eReaders, or email.

Churches and Faith-Based Groups

From Bible studies to cooking classes to grief support workshops, faith communities often offer engaging learning environments — and you’ll find warm conversation alongside new knowledge.

Art and Cultural Centers

Explore local arts councils or historical societies. Many host classes on painting, pottery, local history, or even storytelling.

Learning Can Be Physical, Too Don’t limit learning to books or lectures. Learning a new movement or

physical skill is just as stimulating — and often more fun.

Beginner dance classes – ballroom, line dancing, or even Zumba Gold.

Tai Chi or yoga – gentle on the joints and fantastic for balance, focus, and flexibility.

Pickleball lessons – it’s wildly popular, low-impact, and very social.

Gardening classes – local Master Gardener programs offer seasonal learning and volunteering opportunities.

Your body is part of your lifelong learning journey. The more you move it in new ways, the younger it feels.

If You're Nervous About Starting?

If it’s been a while since you’ve been in a “classroom,” even virtually, that’s okay. You’re not alone. Many seniors hesitate to jump into learning because they feel out of practice — or worry they’ll be the oldest one there.

But here’s the good news: there are more people over 55 learning new things right now than ever before. Still feeling unsure? Start small:

Watch a TED Talk online and jot down what you liked.

Try a 5-minute drawing tutorial on YouTube.

Attend a free lecture or library class before committing to a longer course.

And remember: this isn’t school. No grades, no pressure — just curiosity and joy.

A Few Final Tips for Getting the Most Out of Learning

Set a rhythm, not a rigid schedule. You don’t have to study every day — just create a habit of engaging your mind regularly.

Take notes. Writing things down (even by hand!) helps memory and gives you something to revisit later.

Share what you’re learning. Talk to friends or family about your new interest — it reinforces your learning and might inspire someone else to join you.

Celebrate progress. Learning a single new phrase in a language, or remembering a new fact, is a win. Enjoy the process.

Learning Isn’t Just for the Young — It’s for the Curious

If you’re over 55, you know this truth better than anyone: life keeps teaching you, if you let it. The trick is to lean into it. So whether you’re diving into Alabama history, brushing up your tech skills, or learning to sketch hummingbirds from your back porch, remember — your brain still loves a challenge, your spirit still longs to grow, and your time is far from over.

Lifelong learning isn’t about becoming someone new. It’s about reawakening the parts of you that have always been curious, creative, and full of life.

Helping Widows and Widowers Move Forward on Their Own

The loss of a spouse can be devastating, both emotionally and financially, especially if it was unexpected. The stress of handling all the legal and financial issues can be overwhelming, even for women or men who are financially savvy.

Widows are one of the fastest growing demographic groups in the United States. In addition, some of the statistics about widows are startling. The average age that women are widowed is 59 years old. In addition, 70% of Baby Boomer wives will outlive their husbands; 80% of women will be single at death. Half of women over age 65 will outlive their husbands by 15 years.

Every June, Susan Moore of Moore Wealth Management, Inc. (MWM) conducts two free workshops in Montgomery. One is designed especially for widows and their supportive friends, another one for widowers. The workshop for widows was produced by Kathleen M. Rehl, PhD, CFP, in conjunction with the Protective Life Insurance Company. The workshop covers the following topics: the impact of grief and emotion, the 3 stages of widowhood, avoiding common financial mistakes and next steps to take. The workshop will be conducted in a webinar format. The June 2025 workshop for widows will be on Wednesday, June 25th at 12 p.m. Please call 334.270.1672, or email Sarah@

Financial Thoughts with Susan Moore

By Susan Clayton Moore, J.D. Principal of Moore Wealth Management, Inc.

moorewealthmanagement.com for more information and reservations.

Kathleen Rehl is a financial advisor who was widowed at the age of 60. Although she and her husband had been financial advisors for a number of years and she had helped various clients go through the financial and legal issues after the death of a spouse, it was a more difficult experience for her than she would have expected. “For me personally,” she said, “I didn’t remember my Social Security number. I couldn’t recall where I put my car keys. I wondered if I was going crazy. I wasn’t. It was just a normal part of being a new widow.”

Attendees to the workshop receive a free copy of Rehl’s book, Moving Forward on My Own, A Financial Guidebook for Widows, in addition to other valuable educational materials.

In addition, Susan will conduct a webinar for widowers on Thursday, June 26th at 12 p.m. The workshop for widowers is based on the book The Widower’s Journey: Helping Men Rebuild After Their Loss, by Herb Knoll, Deborah Carr, Ph.D., and Robert Frick. Please call 334.270.1672, or email Sarah@ moorewealthmanagement.com, for more information and reservations.

Susan Clayton Moore, J.D., is a financial advisor and wealth manager of Moore Wealth Management, Inc., with offices Montgomery and Alexander City, AL. Susan has under advisement over $150 million (as of 9.1.24) in brokerage and advisory assets through Kestra Financial and has been a financial planner for over 40 years. Contact Susan at 334.270.1672. Email contact is susan@moorewealthmanagement.com.

The opinions expressed in this commentary are those of the author and may not necessarily reflect those held by Kestra Investment Services, LLC or Kestra Advisory Services, LLC. This is for general information only and is not intended to provide specific investment advice or recommendations for any individual. It is suggested that you consult your financial professional, attorney or tax advisor regarding your individual situation. Securities offered through Kestra Investment Services, LLC (Kestra IS), member FINRA/SIPC. Investment Advisory Services offered through Kestra Advisory Services, LLC (Kestra AS), an affiliate of Kestra IS. Kestra IS or Kestra AS are not affiliated with Moore Wealth Management, Inc. https://www.kestrafinancial.com/disclosures