Volunteers and staff from the Life Enrichment Center of Oyster Bay surprised several seniors who can’t leave their homes by delivering beautifully prepared care packages. Millie Tedaldi, right, who curled the ribbons, helped Beth Spickler-Lerman, far left above, Carmela Lancaster, Diane Aerne, Doris Gribbin and Mary Frignani create roughly 30 gift baskets for the Homebound Spring Basket annual giving event. More photos, Page 10.
Dozens of people gathered at the Holocaust Tolerance and Memorial Center in Glen Cove last Sunday to commemorate Yom HaShoah — Holocaust Remembrance Day, which pays tribute to the 6 million Jews that were killed in World War II. Glen Cove City Councilwoman Marsha Silverman, Congregation Tifereth Israel and North Country Reform Temple welcomed Jews and non-Jews to honor the millions of victims of the Holocaust.
3,700 in 2022. It also noted significant increases in incidents in large American cities, including New York City and Los Angeles.
I am the link between the past, present and future.
GAIL KASTENHOLZ Daughter of Holocaust survivors
This year’s remembrance had a heightened sense of urgency, seven months after Hamas’ Oct. 7 attack on Israel, the deadliest single day in the country’s history. Antisemitism has surged worldwide, according to the Anti-Defamation League, which has reported a steep jump in incidents in the months since. The ADL recorded more than 7,500 antisemitic episodes in the United States in 2023, compared with fewer than
“To be Jewish is to remember — to claim our right to memory, as well as our duty to keep it alive,” Rabbi Michael Churgel, of North Country Reform Temple, said. “There is evil in the world, we cannot let ourselves forget, yet to remember the goodness of our loved ones is to find a way to trust the world again, to place the moments in our sacred calendar. These are the purposes of Yom HaShoah.”
The observance also commemorates the beginning of the Warsaw Ghetto uprising of 1943, when a band of Jewish resistance fighters in the largest Nazi ghetto in World War II managed to defy their wellarmed German occupiers.
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self to Holocaust remembrance, earning the Bruce Morel Education Award in 2019. She spoke about her parents’ experiences in the war, and how that formed her life path as an educator. She is now a docent for the Holocaust Center.
Kastenholz’s parents were interned in a ghetto in northern Germany in 1941, and members of her father’s family were murdered in retaliation for the killing of a Nazi soldier by a Jew there. Remarkably, her parents managed to escape, and were hidden by a Polish farmer in a barn for 18 months. Despite the trauma, they eventually found refuge and built a new life in the United States.
“People survived not because they were smarter, richer or better than anyone else,” Kastenholz said. “Somebody did something for one moment to help them live. A righteous person took action that was dangerous simply because it was the right thing to do.”
Her parents ate potato peels, she said, to survive in the barn. In their memory, she leaves potato peels out for Seder.
“I am the link between the past, present and future,” Kastenholz said. “That is and has been my legacy for more than four decades. As a Jew, a mother, a wife or grandmother, a friend, an American educator, and a member of the human race, I am a second-generation survivor — being a ‘2G’ is in my DNA and in my heart and in my soul.”
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Rabbi Michael Churgel, of North Country Reform Temple, and Rabbi Irwin Huberman, of Congregation Tiferith Israel, lit candles in memory of the 6 million Jews who died during the Holocaust.
After Kastenholz spoke, Silverman reflected on the dwindling number of Holocaust survivors. She noted that although the number of people who were killed may seem abstract, hearing firsthand accounts helps to deepen the understanding of one of history’s darkest moments.
Another attendee, Assemblyman Charles Levine, president of the New York chapter of the National Association of Jewish Legislators, addressed the concerning rise of antisemitism and the seeming ostracization of the Jewish community in segments of American society. He drew parallels between the
experiences of Jews and other marginalized groups, emphasizing that all forms of hatred and discrimination must be confronted and condemned.
“We today face the challenge of being the ‘other,’” Levine said. “Whether a person is black or Latino, gay, bi, trans — no matter what — they are they subjected to hatred. Too many of our colleagues in government thrive on that hatred. We must do everything we can, because Jew hatred is nothing more and nothing less than racism.”
Raynham Hall Museum in Oyster Bay is set to host a presentation exploring the history and archaeology of molly houses, clandestine taverns where homosexual men and cross-dressing individuals could meet in the 18th century. The event will take place as part of the museum’s monthly lecture series, Townsend Talks, featuring guest speaker Megan Rhodes Victor, who will share her in-depth research from the Molly House Project.
Molly houses served as places for members of the LGBTQ+ community to interact and participate in elaborate gendered performances, including ballroom dances and simulated marriages. Taverns provided opportunities for individuals to conduct social negotiations and form bonds of community. However, these spaces also presented a rare opportunity for unmarried or widowed women to find employment, introducing a notable gender contradiction in 18th-century taverns.
Victor, an anthropologist specializing in historical archaeology from 1700 to 1900 CE, will delve into these unique gathering spaces and uncover the lived experiences of LGBTQ+ communities in the English colonial world. Her project aims to explore and understand the social dynamics and interactions within these molly houses, which were pivotal in providing a sense of community and acceptance for those marginalized by society at the time.
Justinne Lake-Jedzinak, director of education and public programs at Raynham Hall, emphasized the importance of the lecture series in bringing together scholars and researchers whose work intersects with the museum’s mission. This particular talk will offer a
methodology for understanding identity in the colonial period and possibly shed light on local connections to the Townsend family and Oyster Bay.
“I think this talk will more generally serve as a methodology for approaching identity in the colonial period,” Lake-Jedzinak said. “(Victor) is speaking generally about this phenomenon, and then the information that she gives us might give us another aspect of colonial life to think about and understand the Townsend family more specifically.”
Victor’s presentation will not only illuminate the historical significance of molly houses but also touch on broader themes of commensal politics, trade and exchange, and gendered spaces. Through her research, she may offer fresh insights into the experiences of LGBTQ+ individuals and their interactions within colonial society, expanding our understanding of the period. It will also provide attendees the opportunity to learn more about an area of historical study which is still developing.
“It’s hard to look back at that time period without looking through too much of our own contemporary lens,” Lake-Jedzinak said. “But I think you can’t rule out that in these male-coded drinking spaces that you could have had more intimate relationships.”
The Townsend Talks series is a unique opportunity for attendees to engage in group discussions and oneon-one conversations with speakers. The event will begin in the Visitors’ Center at 5:30 p.m. on May 16 and include light refreshments. Lectures are priced at $20 for museum members, $25 for nonmembers, and $10 for students.
To sign up for the event or learn more about Raynham Hall Museum, visit their website at raynhamhallmuseum.org.
The Town of Oyster Bay Board of Trustee meeting held on Tuesday covered several important topics, including a proposal to relocate a Dunkin’ Donuts store, amendments to town codes regarding towing, and concerns from residents about noise pollution from emergency sirens.
The meeting began with a public hearing on the application of Multi Brands Massapequa TIC Real Estate LLC and Rims Massapequa Real Estate LLC to relocate an existing Dunkin’ Donuts and Baskin Robbins from its current location at Oak Tree Plaza Shopping Center to 5599 Merrick Road in Massapequa. Attorney Eric Cyperus, representing the applicants, outlined the proposal, which included interior alterations and site improvements to repurpose the premises for the new location.
“The premises will benefit from some much-needed upgrades to the existing landscaping and functionality of the site,” Cyperus said. “Currently the site lacks landscaping that increase the aesthetic value of the property.”
The application seeks a special use permit modification, site plan approval, and variances for drive-thru operations, parking setback, and 24/7 operation.
Cyperus emphasized community support for the project, including a letter from the Breezy Point Civic Association and a no exception letter from the Massapequa Fire District. Board members expressed concern about traffic flow and potential left-turn hazards, and they requested the applicants work with county and town officials to address these concerns.
The board also considered amendments to Chapter 221 of the town code, specifically focusing on towing charges. The proposed changes aimed to update rates and labor charges for different vehicle types, as well as adding definitions for passenger cars, heavy-duty vehicles, and extra heavy-duty vehicles.
The board discussed the potential impact of these changes on towing services and whether the town could enforce the new rates effectively. Some board members raised concerns about residents being overcharged, while others emphasized the importance of ensuring fair practices. Ultimately the board agreed to hold off voting on the issue for the next 30 days, giving them more time to discuss the topic and let town residents provide public input.
’m here today to initiate reservations regarding the serious health hazards caused by the sirens here in Oyster Bay.JASON PETRELLA resident, Oyster Bay
“This change was requested by the Office of the Town Clerk in connection with not only amending town charges and labor charges, but also adding definitions for passenger cars, heavy duty vehicles and extra heavy duty vehicles,” Rich LaMarca, town clerk, said. “The rates for each category depend on the labor being performed, such as dollying, winching, uprighting an overturned vehicle and flatbed towing.”
Resident Jason Petrella raised concerns about noise pollution from emergency sirens, particularly in densely populated residential areas. Petrella highlighted the negative effects of siren noise on residents’ health, sleep quality and overall quality of life.
“I’m here today to initiate reservations regarding the serious health hazards caused by the sirens here in Oyster Bay,” Petrella said. “We support our local fire districts and are grateful to the dedication of our volunteers, and it’s a shame they’re forced to rely on such archaic methods.”
He proposed exploring alternative notification methods for emergency responders, such as using secure radio communications and mobile applications. Petrella cited successful transitions to modern notification methods by other fire departments on Long Island and urged the town to consider similar measures.
“The sirens cause real damage to the health of our residents, children, the strength of our economy and to the environment, while also actually being the least effective method for notifying our volunteers,” Petrella continued. “We have an active campaign going on right now with participation from dozens of residents and businesses that are prepared to help analyze and solve the problem.”
The board acknowledged Petrella’s concerns and expressed a willingness to collaborate on potential solutions. They directed Petrella to work with Town Attorney Jim Free to discuss the matter further and explore the feasibility of adopting alternative notification systems.
The board also discussed the approval of resolutions related to the town’s budget and other regular action calendar items. Additionally, they heard from residents on topics such as concessions at Theodore Roosevelt Memorial Park, updates to the animal shelter, and the installation of new pickleball courts.
The Trustees of the Jones Fund for the Support of the Poor have extended the time for submission of applications for its 2019 Grant Program to September 30, 2019 and are requesting applications in regard thereto from eligible and qualified IRC 501(c)(3) approved charitable organizations to further its mission of affording support exclusively to the poor in the towns of North Hempstead, New York and Oyster Bay, New York.
are requesting applications for its 2024 Grant Program from eligible and qualified IRC 501(c)(3) approved charitable organizations to further its mission of affording support to the poor, in the form of food, shelter, clothing and warmth, and providing support for educational programs striving to prevent the transmissi on of generational poverty among the underserved and underprivileged, exclusively in the Towns of North Hempstead, New York and Oyster Bay, New York as intended by the Last Will and Testament of Samuel Jones dated February 23, 1836, and as approved by the Trustees of the Jones Fund for the Support of the Poor.
Program funds for the 2024 grant year will be in the form of grants totaling up to the maximum amount of $150,000.00, collectively, or such greater amount, if any, as may be determined by the Trustees of the Jones Fund for the Support of the Poor, in their sole and absolute discretion. This and any future grant program offered by the Jones Fund for the Support of the Poor is and shall be subject to the availability of funds and resources.
All applications must be received by the Trustees of the Jones Fund for the Support of the Poor at PO Box 350, Jericho, New York 11753 or by email at TheJonesFund1836@gmail.com on or before September 30, 2019.
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Nancy Dibeneditto was curious about her ancestors. Retired, the Oyster Bay resident of 30 years had time on her hands, so she joined Pinelawn Memorial Park and Arboretum’s workshop, “Uncover Your Family History: A Genealogy Workshop Series,” in March. She never imagined the journey she was about to embark would change her life.
“Doing this, looking at your roots, gives you an anchor,” Dibeneditto said. “When someone dies you feel lost, but when you look at your genealogy, you feel connected to those who died before you. And it gives you an excuse to call your relatives who are still alive.”
The free eight-part series, which runs once a month until October, is led by Kerri Tannenbaum, a member of the Association of Professional Genealogists, National Genealogical Society, and New York Genealogical and Biographical Society. A frequent lecturer, Tannenbaum works with families one-on-one, where as a detective of sorts she investigates, uncovering clues to help individuals discover their ancestry. She is sharing her methods at the series in Pinelawn.
Tannenbaum, a Merrick resident since 2003, originally engaged in genealogy as a hobby. But she got hooked. She found a program at Boston University which provided training in genealogical research methods, that include online courses and certificate programs. Once certified, she took on her first client in 2018.
“I found I was just as excited as they were when I found discoveries for the families, so I took on more clients,” Tannenbaum said. “Sometimes people just want to know about their family, other times they want to find specific documents to apply for citizenship. If I
haven’t solved what they are looking for I give them suggestions for next steps, which sometimes they can do themselves.”
Initially, she provides a “taste” of what she can do. Tannenbaum said many people end up wanting to learn even more about their families.
Tannenbaum warned the group at Pinelawn that they might become obsessed, which Dibeneditto said is exactly what has happened to her.
“I knew nothing about this, but you become curious once you do it,” Dibeneditto said. “My grandfather
was a citizen of Italy when my father, who is first generation American, was born, so I learned I can get a dual citizenship. That means I have to go to Italy now.”
She said she learned several details about her ancestry. For example, researching her great grandfather, she discovered he was involved in vaudeville in Italy, which Dibeneditto found fascinating, since she herself was a fourth generation movie projectionist.
Tannenbaum shares free websites at the workshop and where to begin in the search — the census bureau, immigration, city directories, court records and even a cemetery have vital information.
“It’s definitely easier to do before people die,” Dibeneditto said. “I have a few cousins on my father’s side and some on my mother side. I plan to reach out to them to solve the mysteries. I’ll feel closer to my family, more pride and it will help my self-esteem.”
Each workshop is unique, so people don’t need to be at a previous workshop to join. And the fact that Pinelawn Cemetery has hosted the event makes sense.
“Cemeteries are a key resource for genealogists,” Tannenbaum said. “One main thing we need is when someone was born and when they died. Ideally you want to find the death certificate, obituary and tombstone. You want every record for that person.”
And cemeteries were the only place to go before death certificates were required in the 1900’s. And even when they were required, they were not always enforced.
“A common refrain we hear from many families is that they wish they captured more of their family history before their loved one passed, especially after losing the family matriarch or patriarch,” Justin Locke, president and CEO of Pinelawn Memorial Park and Arboretum, said. “We are very excited to offer this educational program to the community.”
Donating food this weekend is simple, says Randi Shubin Dresner.
“Just leave non-perishable food items in a bag next to your mailbox before the regularly scheduled mail deliver on Saturday, May 11,” she said. And your mail carrier “will do the rest to make sure it gets onto the tables of our Long Islander neighbors in need.”
Shubin Dresner should know. She’s the chief executive of Island Harvest, which provides much-needed food support to more than 300,000 people on Long Island who faces hunger — including 90,000 children.
This weekend’s event is part of the U.S. Postal Service’s annual Stamp Out Hunger food drive, done in collaboration with not only local charities like Island Harvest, but also the National Association of Letter Carriers.
After the food is delivered to Island Harvest, volunteers there sort and repackage the food for distribution to those in-need.
Non-perishable food items needed include canned goods, cereal, pasta, rice, boxed juices, and shelf-stable milk. It does not include anything in glass containers, as these are easy to break.
“Even if it’s a can of soup or a box of cereal, every donation — no matter the size — will help countless Long Islanders who may be struggling to put food on their tables,” Shubin Dresner said.
Island Harvest distributed 15 million
pounds of food in 2022, a jump of 42 percent over donations before the coronavirus pandemic.
“We are counting on the generosity of our neighbors who can spare a little extra to help make this year’s Stamp Out Hunger food drive one of the most successful,” Shubin Dresner added.
Mail carriers are also on the lookout for personal care items like toothpaste,
Courtesy National Association of Letter Carriers
soap, shampoo, deodorant and disposable diapers. All of these donations go toward replenishing Island Harvest’s network of food pantries, soup kitchens, and other emergency feeding programs throughout Long Island.
Stamp Out Hunger generated 544,000 meals locally. Since its inception in 1993, the national program has collected nearly 1.8 billion pounds of food in all 50
Here’s a sample of what you can leave by your mailbox on May 11:
■ canned beans/dried beans
■ peanut butter or other nut butter
■ canned fruit and vegetables
■ low-sodium soups
■ canned tuna/chicken
■ brown rice/instant brown rice
■ nuts/seeds/dried fruits
■ shelf-stable milk/milk substitutes
■ whole grain pasta
■ low-sodium canned pasta sauce
■ low-sodium canned tomatoes
■ olive or canola oil
■ toiletries and feminine products
■ laundry and dish detergent
■ paper towels and toilet paper
states, plus the District of Columbia, Puerto Rico, Guam and the U.S. Virgin Islands.
All donations are tax-deductible since food collected benefits Island Harvest, a registered 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization.
To learn more, visit IslandHarvest.org.
–Melissa Berman
Seasonal beach parking sticker sales and the free distribution of stickers to senior citizens and the disabled will begin on May 11. The Oyster Bay Town Board has restricted beach access to residents only and enhanced safety measures by installing signage and pedestrian barriers. A major sand replenishment project will be complete by Memorial Day weekend.
“Break out the beach towels and sunscreen because summer is just around the corner, and so are our beach sticker sales,” Joseph Saladino, the town supervisor, said. “The Town of Oyster Bay is a true staycation destination offering some of the best beaches in the world. By purchasing a beach sticker in advance, you can avoid the inevitable lines that often accompany the start of the beach season and spend more time with your feet in the sand instead.”
Beach parking stickers will be on sale beginning May 11, from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. daily at John J. Burns Town Park in Massapequa, Theodore Roosevelt Memorial Park in Oyster Bay and at Tobay Beach.
Beginning May 25, beach-parking stickers will be available for purchase on weekends only from 8 a.m. to 4 p.m. at Centre Island Beach in Bayville.
On June 22, beach-parking stickers will be available for purchase daily from 8 a.m. to 4 p.m. at Tappen Beach in Sea Cliff, and in Bayville at Charles E. Ransom and Stehli beaches.
To purchase a beach-parking sticker for your vehicle, residents must present a valid New York State driver’s license with residency in the
Town of Oyster Bay, their vehicle registration, and bring the vehicle they plan to drive to the beach. Parking stickers are placed on the vehicle at the time of purchase.
Only residents may purchase beach-parking stickers for Town of Oyster Bay beaches. Beach parking stickers are $60, which pay for themselves following three visits.
Town of Oyster Bay residents over the age of 60 can obtain a free parking sticker by presenting their driver’s license with town residency and their vehicle registration. After receiving the sticker, senior residents must be present in the vehicle for entry on each visit. If visiting the beach in another vehicle, seniors can show their driver’s license and get a free day pass.
Residents who are disabled or receive social security can acquire a free beach-parking pass by showing their Town of Oyster Bay Disability ID card (which can be obtained at the Town Clerk’s Office for a one-time fee of $32) or Notice of Award Letter, alongside their driver’s license showing residency in the town and their vehicle registration. A parking sticker will then be adhered to the vehicle.
Town of Oyster Bay volunteer firefighters, members of the Armed Forces, veterans and Clean Pas eligible vehicle owners qualify for beach parking passes at reduced rates.
Only cashless payments are accepted, including credit cards, Apple Pay and Google Pay. For more information, call the Town of Oyster Bay Parks Department, beaches division, at (516) 797-4111.
The Hive Market and Gallery is proud to announce its grand opening in downtown Oyster Bay with a captivating inaugural exhibition titled “MAGALI: A Creative Journey Through Colors and Animals.”
Featuring the imaginative world of Emmy, also known as Magali Modoux, this show promises to transport visitors into a realm where vibrant colors, exotic landscapes, and wild animals converge in a mesmerizing display of artistry.
Magali Modoux, a SwissFrench artist residing in Oyster Bay, draws inspiration from naive and folk art, infusing her creations with the essence of her extensive global travels. Reminiscent of renowned self-taught outsider artists like Henri Rousseau and Henry Darger, Modoux’s artwork is characterized by lush jungles, enchanting wildlife, and evocative abstract compositions.
Clients often ask whether the home should be deeded to the client’s adult children, while retaining a life estate in the parent or whether the Medicaid Asset Protection Trust should be used to protect the asset.
While the deed with a life estate will be less costly to the client, in most cases it offers significant disadvantages when compared to the trust. First, if the home is sold prior to the death of the Medicaid recipient, the life estate value of the home will be required to be paid towards their care. If the house is rented, the net rents are payable to the nursing facility since they belong to the life tenant. Finally, the client loses a significant portion of their capital gains tax exclusion for the sale of their primary residence as they will only be entitled to a pro rata share based on the value of the life estate to the home as a whole.
All of the foregoing may lead to a situation where the family finds they must maintain a vacant home for many years. Conversely, a properly drafted MAPT preserves the full capital gains tax exclusion on the sale of the
The exhibition will showcase a diverse selection of Magali’s works, offering visitors a glimpse into her artistic evolution and the boundless creativity that defines her oeuvre. From whimsical depictions of exotic animals to abstract interpretations of natural scenery, each piece invites viewers on a journey through the artist’s rich imagination.
The grand opening reception will take place on May 11 from 6 to 8 p.m. at The Hive Market and Gallery, located at 100 Audrey Ave, Oyster Bay. Admission is free, and all are welcome to attend and experience the magic of Magali’s artistry.
For more information about the exhibition and upcoming events, visit HiveMarketOB. com or contact at hive@hivemarketob.com.
“We are thrilled to introduce the vibrant and imaginative universe of Magali Modoux to the Oyster Bay community and beyond,” Laura Escobar, gallery co-owner, said. “Her unique blend of colors, animals, and landscapes creates a truly immersive experience for art enthusiasts of all ages.”
primary residence and the home may be sold by the trust without obligation to make payment of any of the principal towards the client’s care, assuming we have passed the look-back period for facility care of five years.
It should be noted here that both the life estate and the MAPT will preserve the steppedup basis in the property provided it is sold after the death of the parent who was the owner or grantor. Upon the death of the parent, the basis for calculating the capital gains tax is stepped up from what the parent paid, plus any improvements, to what it was worth on the parent’s date of death. This effectively eliminates payment of capital gains taxes on the sale of appreciated property, such as the home, after the parent dies.
There are instances where the life estate deed makes sense however. When the asset is a country house or a beach house that is intended to stay in the family for the next generation, then the life estate deed works perfectly well and may effect a significant savings to the family seeking to protect the asset.
Who we are, what we’re about, and what we stand for is based on memory. Thus, when we experience problems with our memory, it’ll probably feel frightening. If we can’t recall someone’s name, if we can’t locate our keys, if we don’t remember what we were talking about, we may think, “Uh, oh, I’m losing it. Is dementia setting in? Could I have a brain tumor? Is it high anxiety or just too much on my plate? What’s happening?”
There’s no easy answer to those questions. Memory failures are complicated and varied. When a kid claims that he forgot his homework, we tend to blame it on apathy or inattention. Yet, when older adults forget to do something, we tend to think it’s something more ominous. Though it’s certainly possible that forgetting may be a sign of brain cells deteriorating, most likely it’s simply a sign of how the brain works. Here are some common problems with memory that happen to everyone.
Tip of the Tongue Phenomenon
I know his name, I know it, I know
it, I can’t believe I don’t remember it. It begins with an S. Is it Sam, Scott, or maybe Stan? I know where I know him from, I know where he lives, I know his kids, but I can’t remember his damn name. Of course, ten minutes later, his name pops into your head. This is a memory retrieval problem that occurs more frequently as we age. It’s hard to catch the name because it’s encoded in the brain in a different place from where you’re looking. It’s like a misplaced file. The more you keep searching in the place you think it should be, the more frustrated you become. Let it go, and the answer will come to you!
entific journal. It’s much more like a subjective diary you rewrite to fit how you’re thinking at this moment in time. If you believe what you remember is precisely how it was, think again. Study after study indicates that people of all ages have strong biases that distort their memories. What you remember is probably only an approximation of what actually occurred.
Many arguments occur because of memory misattributions. An example:
I told you I’ll be unable to join you on Saturday.
No, you never said that.
When a couples in love, they remember everything terrific about their partner. Yet when they’re in the lawyer’s office, they remember only the miserable things about their soon-to-be ex. No matter your age, memory is not an objective sci-
I distinctly remember telling you that.
No, you didn’t.
You never listen to me.
You don’t know what you’re talking about.
Is this a problem of one or both parties lying, being inattentive, or having a memory lapse? We don’t always know. It’s often true, however, that you remember something you thought you did or planned to do but didn’t do. Or you’ve told a different person, not the person you thought you told. Or you told them you were going away last weekend, not this weekend.
Do these memory problems seem familiar? If so, welcome to the club. Memory frequently tricks us. We remember things we want to forget, forget things we want to remember, and change bits and pieces of what we do remember.
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Linda Sapadin, Ph.D., psychologist, coach, and author specializes in helping people improve their relationships, enhance their lives, and overcome debilitating anxiety, procrastination, and depression. Contact her at DrSapadin@aol.com. Visit her website at www.PsychWisdom.com.
Spring is in the air, and with it comes the Life Enrichment Center of Oyster Bay’s annual “Homebound Spring Basket” deliveries, where volunteers from the center drop off care packages to local seniors. The deliveries, which the center has
been doing for the last three decades, gives the center the chance to spread some spring joy and remind seniors that even if they can’t always make it there, the Life Enrichment Center’s staff and volunteers are always thinking about them.
Cherish mom on her dayBy Karen Bloom
“Behind all your stories is always your mother’s story, because hers is where yours begins.”
– Mitch AlbomMom — and all those special ladies in our lives — surely deserve a special day. The cards, her favorite treats, a colorful bouquet, are certainly welcome. Best yet, surround her with flowers and spring’s glorious blossoms. Old Westbury Gardens is an enchanting locale to do so on Mother’s Day. Stroll the 200 glorious acres of wooded walks and those amazing gardens with their display of vibrant spring color. Explore Westbury House, the estate’s grand Charles II-style mansion, filled with art and furnishings. Pack some lunch for a delightful picnic among spring’s many blooms, or enjoy a bite at the Café in the Woods.
The iconic site’s 65th anniversary season rolls along with all sorts of activities ahead. But, for now, mom will surely enjoy savoring some moments among spring’s colors and scents. Perhaps more so than at any time of the year, Mother’s Day — for most people — is all about the flowers when visiting this grand estate.
“We’re nearing peak season now,” says Old Westbury Gardens president Maura Brush. “As the season goes along, the highlight is the formal gardens. Starting in May is when you really see people spending more time in the Walled Garden and up around Westbury House where the wisteria blooms.”
The array of blooms bursting forth extends throughout the landscape.
“The display in the Walled Garden is really high-impact now,” Brush enthuses. “There’s plenty to take in there.”
Brush is especially fond of the tree peonies. These blooms can be eight inches across 40 blossoms in size.
“The tree peonies are just not to be missed,” she says. “They are stunning, looking like crushed tissue. The texture and color are outstanding.”
Yet, of course, the tulips remain a favorite. Seeing the tulips here by the many hundreds — in the Walled Garden and Thatched Cottage Garden
• Sunday, May 12, 10 a.m.-6 p.m.
• 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury
• For more information and program/events schedule, visit OldWestburyGardens. org or call (516) 333-0048
and elsewhere in myriad varieties in a rainbow of colors — is described by Brush as breathtaking. Much care is put into creatively designing the colorful tulip arrangements, for dramatic appeal.
“We spend so much time curating our bulb display,” Bush says. “You can go anywhere and see a row of tulips. We’re always excited about our display as it’s unlike what you’ll see elsewhere.”
Also, visitors might want to consider checking out the refurbished Westbury House, the former home of financier
John S. Phipps, his wife, Margarita Grace Phipps, and their four children. Guided tours are available throughout the day (no registration required), at 1:30 and 2:30 p.m. A garden highlights tour is also offered at 2 p.m., meeting at West Porch Beech next to Westbury House.
“I don’t think Westbury House has looked better since I’ve been here,” Brush says. “We’ve had volunteers working all winter long on cleaning and polishing. It feels like there’s a lot of new life. We’ve got some wonderful new people working up in our archives, so it’s been really fun seeing photos of what the house looked like when the family was here, and putting together some of those pieces of the puzzle that we haven’t had before.”
Gleaming and restored back to its days when it was a family home, Westbury House is surely a sight to behold among the blooming gardens. As always — as an added treat, while supplies last — every adult woman receives a complimentary lavender plant. Be sure to stop by the plant shop to get yours.
The acclaimed dance company visits Long Island on its 2024 tour, appearing on the Tilles Center stage. With a storied history, the first Black classical ballet company — co-founded by dance icon and international superstar Arthur Mitchell — has toured the world and engaged communities. The 18-member, multi-ethnic company performs a forward-thinking repertoire that includes treasured classics, neoclassical works by George Balanchine, and resident choreographer Robert Garland, as well as innovative contemporary works that use the language of ballet to celebrate Black culture. The dynamic program includes Balanchine’s ‘Pas de Dix,’ with music by Alexander Glazuno; ‘Take Me With You,’ with choreography by Robert Bondara, featuring Radiohead music; ‘Return,’ choreographed by Robert Garland, with James Brown and Aretha Franklin tunes.
Friday, May 10, 8 p.m. Tickets start at $64; available at TillesCenter.org or (516) 299-3100. LIU Post campus, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville.
Contemporary swing revival band Big Bad Voodoo Daddy visits the Paramount ready to cut loose. This April marked the 31st anniversary of their emarkable arrival onto the music scene. Since their formation in the early ‘90s in Ventura, California, the band has toured virtually nonstop and has produced a sizable catalog of recorded music, with sales of more than 2 million albums to date. Early on, during their legendary residency at the Derby nightclub in Los Angeles, they reminded the world — in the midst of the grunge era, no less — that it was still cool to swing. The band, co-founded by singer Scotty Morris and drummer Kurt Sodergren, was at the forefront of the swing revival of that time, blending a vibrant fusion of the classic American sounds of jazz, swing and dixieland, with the energy and spirit of contemporary culture.
Thursday, May 16, 8 p.m. $59.50, $49.50, $39.50, $29.50. The Paramount, 370 New York Ave., Huntington. (800) 745-3000 or Ticketmaster.com or ParamountNY.com.
Family theater
On exhibit
Ellington Tilles Center continues its collaboration with Jazz at Lincoln Center, when the Future of Jazz orchestra visits the Tilles Center stage, Friday, May 16, 8 p.m. This all- Ellington showcases features a hand-picked ensemble of some of the greatest young musicians in jazz meeting the challenges posed by one of jazz’s great composers, Duke Ellington. Led by music director Joe Block, a recent Juilliard graduate and Essentially Ellington composition winner, this 15-piece band will keep everyone swinging all night long. The band includes some of best young jazz musicians on the scene today, who love this music as much as audiences.
Ellington’s music is so elegant, so dynamic, so intimately detailed that it takes a group of musicians with a genuine collaborative spark to fully bring out its inner magic, and that is what you will experience at this concert. The program explores decades of Duke’s music, including his earliest hits, Hollywood charts, swinging blues numbers, pieces inspired by his international travels, and portions of his later suites. It’s an eclectic repertoire and yet unmistakably Ellington through and through — always enjoyable upon first listen, but teeming with brilliant details that continue to reveal themselves over time. This vital music is at the core of Jazz at Lincoln Center, and you’re guaranteed to enjoy its timeless genius when the next generation of jazz leaders bring their fresh energy to it. Tickets are $42; available at TillesCenter.org or (516) 2993100. LIU Post campus, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville. May 16
Families will enjoy another musical adventure, “Don’t Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus!” ripped from the pages of Mo Willems’ beloved children’s books, on the Long Island Children’s Museum stage, Friday, May 10, 10:15 a.m. and noon; Saturday, May 11, 11:30 a.m. and 2 p.m.; Tuesday through Friday, May 14-17, 10:15 a.m. and noon. Back by popular demand after a sold-out 2023 run, see Pigeon, Bus Driver, and some zany passengers sing and dance their way to helping The Pigeon find his “thing” in this upbeat, energetic comedy based on four of Mo Willems’ popular Pigeon books. Featuring a live band to bring Deborah Wicks La Puma’s jazzy score to life, audiences will thoroughly enjoy singing and flapping along with The Pigeon and friends. The audience is part of the action, in this innovative mix of songs, silliness and feathers. It’s an ideal way to introduce kids to theater and the humorous stories from Willems’ books. $10 with museum admission ($8 members), $14 theater only. Long Island Children’s Museum, Museum Row, Garden City. (516) 224-5800 or LICM.org.
Nassau County Museum of Art’s latest exhibition, “Urban Art Evolution,” is a comprehensive exhibit featuring a diverse range of compositions from the 1980s through the present by creators who were based in the rough and tumble downtown area of New York City known as Loisaida/LES (Lower East Side/East Village) and close surrounding neighborhoods.
Artists pushed the boundaries of what was considered “art” with a primary focus on street/graffiti art. The exhibit’s scope, guest curated by art collector/gallerist Christopher Pusey, offers an even broader view from other creative residents, who worked inside their studios but still contributed to the rich fabric of the downtown art scene from different vantage points and aesthetics.
Works include sculpture, paintings, photography, music, and ephemera from many noted and influential artists. On view through July 7. Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Dr., Roslyn Harbor. (516) 484-9337 or NassauMuseum.org.
Water Symposium
Citizens Campaign for the Environment, North Shore Land Alliance, and The Nature Conservancy cohost the Long Island Clean Water Symposium: Global Challenges and Local Solutions conference, Thursday, May 16, 2:30-5:30 p.m., at LIU Post Student Center Auditorium.
This free event brings together water science leaders to discuss water quality and quantity challenges on Long Island. With keynote speaker David Sedlak, author of “Water 4.0” and “Water for All,” Adrienne Esposito of Citizens Campaign for the Environment, Stony Brook University’s Dr. Chris Gobler. 720 Northern Blvd, Greenvale. Registration required. Visit NorthShoreLandAlliance.org to register and for information.
Join former Sea Cliff mayor Ed Lieberman at Sea Cliff Library, Thursday, May 16, at 4 p.m., to discuss the legacy of Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis. Using photos, historical events and anecdotes, the iconic First Lady comes to life. Registration required. 300 Sea Cliff Ave, Sea Cliff . Visit SeaCliffLbrary.org to register and for more information.
Converse, collaborate and create at Family Saturdays at Nassau County Museum of Art, Saturday, May 11, noon-3 p.m. Get inspired by the art and objects in the galleries and then join educators at the Manes Center to explore and discover different materials to create your own original artwork.
Kids and adults connect while talking about and making art together. A new project is featured every week. $20 adult, $10 child. For ages 2-14. Registration required. 1 Museum Dr., Roslyn Harbor. Visit NassauMuseum.org for to register or call (516) 484-9337.
Glen Cove Women’s Golf Club is looking for members. The group plays 18 holes every Tuesday, starting in April through October, at the Glen Cove Golf Club. Play is weather permitting. Membership is open to all women regardless of residency. 109 Lattingtown Road. For more information, visit GCWomensGolf.com.
Tony Award-winner Betty Buckley brings her magical voice to the Adelphi University Performing Arts Center stage, Saturday, May 11, 8 p.m. Buckley will share an inspiring and emotionally compelling mix of stories and songs from the world of pop/rock, standards, musical theater, and Americana. Tickets start at $50, with discounts available to seniors, students, Adelphi alumni and employees. 1 South Ave., Garden City. Visit Adelphi.edu/pac for tickets or call (516) 877-4000.
The Locust Valley Seniors Club meets, Tuesday, May 14, in the MNA Community Room, 10 a.m- 1:30 p.m. New members are always welcome. 170 Buckram Road, Locust Valley.
Items on The Scene page are listed free of charge. The Herald welcomes listings of upcoming events, community meetings and items of public interest. All submissions should include date, time and location of the event, cost, and a contact name and phone number. Submissions can be emailed to thescene@liherald.com.
Long Island Kennel Club welcomes families and their four-legged companions to its spring show, Sunday, May 19, 9 a.m.-4 p.m. at Planting Fields Arboretum. This year’s Long Island Kennel Club show follows the annual acclaimed Westminster Kennel Club Dog Show earlier in the week. Many canine contenders are expected to leave the Big Apple and then head east to compete at the annual spring dog shows (Friday through Sunday, May 17-19, all held at the same venue. The three days celebrate everything canine, from impeccable show dogs and trick-dog demonstrations to doggie dock diving and an agility obstacle course. Events and attractions make this festival a treat for anyone who loves dogs. Sunday also features a special demonstration by the NYPD Transit Bureau Canine Unit, at 11 a.m. Dogs must be leashed at all times. No prong collars, retractable leashes or head halters. $20 admission per car load includes all-day access. 1395 Planting Fields Road, Oyster Bay. Visit LongIslandDogsShows.com or call (516) 776-0923 for more information.
Sands Point Preserve’s reserve’s historic mansions and waterfront grounds are the backdrop for the latest edition of it’s unique chamber music series, “A Tour de France,” Sunday, May 19, 5 p.m. Feast your ears with French composers, old and new, when the duoJalal ensemble-in-residence is joined by violinists Deborah Buck and Min-Young Kim, cellist Caroline Stinson and soprano Abigail Brodnick. With wine reception following. $56, $45 members. Sands Point Preserve, 127 Middle Neck Road. For tickets and information, visit SandsPointPreserveConservancy.org or call (516) 571-7901.
Raynham Hall Museum hosts a lecture program with Dr. Megan Rhodes Victor on the history and archaeology of molly houses, Thursday, May 16, 5:30-7 p.m. These clandestine locations in the English colonies where spaces where gay men and cross-dressing individuals met and participated in elaborate gendered performances. 30 W Main St., Oyster Bay. Visit RaynhamHallMuseum.org or call (516) 922-6808 for reservations/information.
LEGAL NOTICE
SUMMONS AND NOTICE
SUPREME COURT OF THE STATE OF NEW YORKCOUNTY OF NASSAU EMIGRANT BANK, SUCCESSOR BY MERGER WITH EMIGRANT SAVINGS BANK-LONG ISLAND, Plaintiff,against- SEYMOUR COHEN, et.al. Defendants. INDEX NO. 610162/2023 Plaintiff designates NASSAU County as the place of trial. The basis of venue is the situs of the real property. To Defendant Seymour Cohen YOU ARE HEREBY SUMMONED to answer the complaint in this action and to serve a copy of your answer, or, if the complaint is not served with this summons, to serve a notice of appearance on the Plaintiff’s attorney within 20 days after the service of this summons, exclusive of the day of service (or within 30 days after the service is complete if this summons is not personally delivered to you within the State of New York) and in case of your failure to appear or answer, judgment will be taken against you by default for the relief demanded in the complaint. Commencement of this lawsuit does not affect your rights as set forth in the validation notice. We are a debt collector attempting to collect a debt. Any information obtained will be used for that purpose. NOTICE YOU ARE IN DANGER OF LOSING YOUR HOME If you do not respond to this summons and complaint by serving a copy of the answer on the attorney for the mortgage company who filed this foreclosure proceeding against you and filing the answer with the court, a default judgment may be entered and you can lose your home. Speak to an attorney or go to the court where your case is pending for further information on how to answer the summons and protect your property. Sending a payment to the mortgage company will not stop the foreclosure action. YOU MUST RESPOND BY SERVING A COPY OF THE ANSWER ON THE ATTORNEY FOR THE PLAINTIFF (MORTGAGE COMPANY) AND FILING THE ANSWER WITH THE COURT.
Dated: April 11, 2024, TERENZI & CONFUSIONE, P.C. Attorneys for Plaintiff
By: Lisa M. Confusione, 401 Franklin Avenue, Suite 304, Garden City, NY 11530 (516) 812-0800
The object of this action is to foreclose a mortgage
covering: 11 Evans Drive, Brookville, NY 11545. JUDGMENT IN THE APPROXIMATE AMOUNT OF $1,996,991.69 plus interest. HELP FOR HOMEOWNERS IN FORECLOSURE
New York State law requires that we send you this notice about the foreclosure process. Please read it carefully. SUMMONS AND COMPLAINT
You are in danger of losing your home. If you fail to respond to the summons and complaint in this foreclosure action, you may lose your home. Please read the summons and complaint carefully. You should immediately contact an attorney or your local legal aid office to obtain advice on how to protect yourself.
SOURCES OF INFORMATION AND ASSISTANCE
The State encourages you to become informed about your options in foreclosure. In addition to seeking assistance from an attorney or legal aid office, there are government agencies and non-profit organizations that you may contact for information about possible options, including trying to work with your lender during this process. To locate an entity near you, you may call the toll-free helpline maintained by the New York State Department of Financial Services at 1(800) 342-3736 or visit the Department’s website a t http://www.dfs.ny.go v. RIGHTS AND OBLIGATIONS YOU ARE NOT REQUIRED TO LEAVE YOUR HOME AT THIS TIME. You have the right to stay in your home during the foreclosure process. You are not required to leave your home unless and until your property is sold at auction pursuant to a judgment of foreclosure and sale. Regardless of whether you choose to remain in your home, YOU ARE REQUIRED TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR PROPERTY and pay property taxes in accordance with state and local law.
FORECLOSURE RESCUE SCAMS
Be careful of people who approach you with offers to “save” your home. There are individuals who watch for notices of
foreclosure actions in order to unfairly profit from a homeowner’s distress. You should be extremely careful about any such promises and any suggestions that you pay them a fee or sign over your deed. State law requires anyone offering such services for profit to enter into a contract which fully describes the services they will perform and fees they will charge, and which prohibits them from taking any money from you until they have completed all such promised services.
146158 LEGAL NOTICE NOTICE OF SALE SUPREME COURTCOUNTY OF NASSAU U.S. BANK NATIONAL ASSOCIATION, AS TRUSTEE FOR MERRILL LYNCH MORTGAGE INVESTORS TRUST, MORTGAGE LOAN ASSET-BACKED CERTIFICATES, SERIES 2006-OPT1, Plaintiff, Against DAVID KORNREICH, LISA KORNREICH, ET AL, Defendant(s)
Pursuant to a Judgment of Foreclosure and Sale, duly entered 02/15/2024, I, the undersigned Referee, will sell at public auction, on the North Side steps of the Nassau County Supreme Court located at 100 Supreme Court Drive, Mineola, NY 11501 on 5/24/2024 at 2:00PM, premises known as 5 Oak Street, Bayville, New York 11709, And Described As Follows: ALL that certain plot piece or parcel of land, with the buildings and improvements thereon erected, situate, lying and being At Bayville, Town Of Oyster Bay, County Of Nassau And State Of New York. Section 29 Block 51 Lot 32 And 132. The approximate amount of the current Judgment lien is $568,105.15 plus interest and costs. The Premises will be sold subject to provisions of the aforesaid Judgment of Foreclosure and Sale; Index # 611784/2019 If proper social distancing cannot be maintained or there are other health or safety concerns, the then Court Appointed Referee will cancel the Foreclosure Auction. This Auction will be held rain or shine.
Heather D. Crosley, Esq., Referee. MCCABE, WEISBERG & CONWAY, LLC, 10 Midland Avenue, Suite 205, Port Chester, NY 10573
Dated: 3/8/2024 File Number: 19-301561 CA 146223
LEGAL NOTICE NOTICE OF SALE
SUPREME COURT COUNTY OF NASSAU, CITIMORTGAGE, INC., Plaintiff, vs. ROBERT M. WALLACH A/K/A ROBERT
WALLACH A/K/A BOBBY
WALLACH A/K/A BOB
WALLACH A/K/A ROBERT
MATTHEW WALLACH, ET AL., Defendant(s). Pursuant to a Judgment of Foreclosure and Sale and Order to Amend the Caption duly entered on February 2, 2017 and an Order Pursuant to CPLR 2004 Extending the Time to Set Sale and to Ratify Sale Nunc Pro Tunc and for the Appointment of a Successor Referee to Conduct the Sale duly entered on August 22, 2022, I, the undersigned Referee will sell at public auction on the front steps on the north side of the Nassau County Supreme Court, 100 Supreme Court Drive, Mineola, NY on May 29, 2024 at 2:00 p.m., premises known as 219 Feeks Lane, Mill Neck, NY 11560. All that certain plot, piece or parcel of land, with the buildings and improvements thereon erected, situate, lying and being in the Village of Mill Neck, County of Nassau and State of New York, Section 29, Block J and Lot 372. Approximate amount of judgment is $4,966,248.56 plus interest and costs. Premises will be sold subject to provisions of filed Judgment Index #007508/2014. Cash will not be accepted. This foreclosure sale will be held on the north side steps of the Courthouse, rain or shine. COVID-19 safety protocols will be followed at the foreclosure sale. If proper social distancing cannot be maintained or there are other health or safety concerns, the Court Appointed Referee will cancel the sale.
George Esernio, Esq., Referee Knuckles & Manfro, LLP, 120 White Plains Road, Suite 215, Tarrytown, New York 10591, Attorneys for Plaintiff 146383
LEGAL NOTICE
PUBLIC NOTICE: INC.
VILLAGE OF LAUREL HOLLOW - PLANNING
BOARD
NOTICE IS HEREBY
permit #3546 to construct a Pool, Patio, Roof Over Patio, Boulder Wall Extension, Pool Patio and associated site improvements. This parcel of land is known as Section 26, Block A, Lot 1268 on the Nassau County Land and Tax Map.
“PS-1-2024
Public hearing on the application of Michael Rant of North Coast Civil on behalf of Harper Rubin and Brian Rubin to disturb steep slope, very steep slope, and severely steep slope areas at 1538 Laurel Hollow Road as shown on the on the plans submitted by North Coast Civil.. This property is designated as Section 26 Block A Lot 1268 on the Land and Tax Map of Nassau County. All relevant documents submitted in connection with this application are on file at the Village Clerk’s Office in the Village Hall. If you wish to inspect the documents, please email the Deputy Clerk at Deputy@laurelhollow.org in advance of the meeting to make arrangements. All persons interested will be given an opportunity to be heard at said time and place.
By Order of the Planning Board
Christopher Hadjandreas, Chairman April 25, 2024 146711
LEGAL NOTICE SEALED PROPOSALS FOR THE “REMOVAL, TRANSPORTATION AND DISPOSAL OF LIQUID SLUDGE FROM THE SEWAGE TREATMENT FACILITY” for the Oyster Bay Sewer District will be received by the Board of Commissioners at the office of the District, 15 Bay Avenue, Oyster Bay, New York, until 6:30 P.M., Prevailing Time on May 22, 2024 at which time they will be publicly opened and read. The Board reserves the right to reject any or all bids, waive any informalities, and to accept such bid which, in the opinion of the Board, is in the best interests of the District.
Please contact H2M architects + engineers at (631) 756-8000, ext. 1510 for questions concerning this project.
Plans, Specifications and Information for Bidders may be obtained in .pdf format on USB Flash Drive on the deposit of Fifty Dollars ($50.00) for each set furnished at the office of the Consulting Engineers, H2M architects + engineers, 538 Broad Hollow Road 4th Floor East, Melville, New York 11747 between the hours of 9:00 AM and 4:30 PM daily, except Saturdays, Sundays and holidays.
BOARD OF COMMISSIONERS
OYSTER BAY SEWER DISTRICT NASSAU COUNTY, NEW YORK Thomas D. Galasso, Chairman Joseph G. Pecora, P.E., Secretary James T. Whelan, Treasurer DATED: May 10, 2024 146710
LEGAL NOTICE ADVERTISEMENT FOR BIDS FOR FEDERAL CHILD NUTRITION PROGRAMS
The Oyster Bay-East Norwich Central School District, 1 McCouns Lane, Oyster Bay, New York, 11771, invites sealed bids for providing the services to operate the Breakfast and Lunch Programs for the Oyster Bay-East Norwich Central School District.
Bids will be received at the Office of the Executive Director for Finance, Oyster Bay-East Norwich Central School District, 1 McCouns Lane, Oyster Bay, New York, 11771 until 9:00am on Friday, May 24, 2024, at which time all bids will be opened and read aloud.
Village Hall, 1492 Laurel Hollow Road, Laurel Hollow, NY.
ZV2-2024: The public hearing on the application of Scott Kahn on behalf of Jonathan Imundo and Brittany Imundo to construct a new residence and maintain two sheds at 3 Woodvale Drive, Laurel Hollow, NY where the proposed structure does not comply with the following section of the Laurel Hollow Zoning Code:
1. According to Section 145-5 A. (1) of the Laurel Hollow Zoning Code, no building or structure shall hereafter be erected, altered or enlarged in the Residence District except on a lot which, for each principal building, together with its accessory buildings and structures, has at least two acres (87,120 square feet) of land. The lot on which the applicant wishes to erect the new residence is 1.92 acres (83,804 square feet) in area.
2. According to Section 145-5 D. (4) of the Laurel Hollow Zoning Code, the maximum floor area ratio shall be .09 (7,542.36 square feet). The proposed residence has a floor area ratio of .112 (9,346.08 square feet).
1232 on the Land and Tax Map of Nassau County.
ZV4-2024: The public hearing on the application of James Murphy, Esq. on behalf of Tomer Biton and Jill Biton to maintain a garage and pool cabana at 16 Springwood Path, Laurel Hollow, NY where the proposed structures do not comply with the following section of the Laurel Hollow Zoning Code:
1. Section 145-5 B. (2) of the Laurel Hollow Zoning Code states that an accessory building or structure having a building area of up to 500 square feet shall be set back at least 40 feet from every lot line not abutting a street. The existing garage is situated 34.8 feet from the westerly side yard property line.
2. Section 145-5
B. (2) of the Laurel Hollow Zoning Code states that “no accessory building or structure shall be erected at a distance less than the same distance from the front lot line as the principal building is.” The existing pool cabana is closer to the front lot line on Woodfield Court than the principal building is situated. This property is designated as Section 14 Block 25 Lots 28 and 1147 on the Land and Tax Map of Nassau County. By Order of the Board of Zoning Appeals Russell Mohr, Chairman May 6, 2024 146712
GIVEN, that a public meeting and hearing will be held by and before the Planning Board of the Inc. Village of Laurel Hollow, Nassau County, New York, on Wednesday May 29, 2024 , at 7:00 P.M. at the Village Hall located at 1492 Laurel Hollow Road, Laurel Hollow, NY to consider the following: “P10-2023 and T55-2023 Public hearing on the application of Michael Rant of North Coast Civil on behalf of Harper Rubin of 1538 Laurel Hollow Road to remove 9 trees from her property in connection with building
Each bid must be made on the form furnished by the Board and must be accompanied by a certified check or bid bond for a sum of at least equal to five percent (5%) of the total amount of the total bid, made payable to the OYSTER BAY SEWER DISTRICT, said check to be forfeited to the District as liquidated damages in case of failure of the successful bidder to enter into a contract for the execution of the work within ten (10) days after written notice from the Board to do so has been received at the bidder’s address as stated in his proposal.
Specifications may be obtained at the Office of the Executive Director for Finance, located at the above-mentioned address. The Oyster BayEast Norwich Central School District Board of Education reserves the right to reject all bids and the right to waive any informality in bids. It is strongly suggested that all prospective vendors attend a pre-bid conference and site visitation to be held on Friday, May 17, 2024, at 9:00am in the Business Office, 1 McCouns Lane, Oyster Bay, New York, 11771. 146398
LEGAL NOTICE PUBLIC NOTICE INC. VILLAGE OF LAUREL HOLLOW -- BOARD OF ZONING APPEALS
3. Section 145-5 B. (2) of the Laurel Hollow Zoning Code states that an accessory building or structure having a building area of up to 500 square feet shall be set back at least 40 feet from every lot line not abutting a street. The two existing sheds are each 112 square feet in area and are situated 4 feet and 16 feet from the westerly side yard property line. This property is designated as Section 25 Block 49 Lot 2 on the Land and Tax Map of Nassau County.
ZV3-2024: The public hearing on the application of Anothny Core and Gina Core to amend Building Permit #3351 to maintain decks 48 Laurel Cove Road, Laurel Hollow, NY where the proposed structures do not comply with the following section of the Laurel Hollow Zoning Code:
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NOTICE IS HEREBY GIVEN, that a public hearing and meeting will be held by and before the Board of Zoning Appeals of the Inc. Village of Laurel Hollow, Nassau County, New York, on Tuesday, May 21, 2024, at 6:00 P.M. at the
1. According to Section 145-5 B. (2) of the Laurel Hollow Zoning Code, an accessory building or structure having a building area of more than 500 square feet up to 1,000 square feet shall be set back at least 50 feet from every lot line not abutting a street. The decks the applicant wishes to maintain total approximately 550 square feet and are set back 12’-11” at their closest point to the southern property line. This property is designated as Section 26 Block A Lots 289 and
LEGAL NOTICE NOTICE OF SALE SUPREME COURT COUNTY OF NASSAU, DEUTSCHE BANK NATIONAL TRUST COMPANY, AS TRUSTEE FOR MORGAN STANLEY ABS CAPITAL I, INC.,TRUST 2004-HE6, Plaintiff, vs. NICHOLAS BERTOLINO A/K/A NICHOLAS J. BERTOLINO, ET AL., Defendant(s). Pursuant to an Order Confirming Referee Report and Judgment of Foreclosure and Sale duly entered on February 28, 2024, I, the undersigned Referee will sell at public auction on the front steps on the north side of the Nassau County Supreme Court, 100 Supreme Court Drive, Mineola, NY 11501 on June 11, 2024 at 2:00 p.m., premises known as 10 Pershing Avenue, Locust Valley, NY 11560. All that certain plot, piece or parcel of land, with the buildings and improvements thereon erected, situate, lying and being at Locust Valley, in the Town of Oyster Bay, County of Nassau and State of New York, Section 29, Block R02 and Lot 1140. Approximate amount of judgment is $698,848.84 plus interest and costs. Premises will
Young athletes from throughout the Locust Valley Central School district went to the high school’s field on April 27 to learn from current baseball, lacrosse and track varsity athletes at the annual Future Falcon Day.
Organized by the Falcon Pride Athletic Booster Club and the Locust Valley Athletic Department, Future Falcon Day gives the next generation of Falcons an opportunity to practice with and learn from the current varsity stars and coaches.
Locust Valley High School freshman and varsity lacrosse player Tessa Matozzo carried kindergartner Kailey Lapointe during Future Falcon Day.
be sold subject to provisions of filed Judgment Index #007432/2016. This foreclosure sale will be held on the north side steps of the Courthouse, rain or shine. COVID-19 safety protocols will be followed at the foreclosure sale. If proper social distancing cannot be maintained or there are other health or safety concerns, the Court Appointed Referee will cancel the sale.
Jeffrey Fox, Esq., Referee
Eckert Seamans Cherin & Mellott, LLC, 10 Bank Street, Suite 700, White Plains, New York 10606, Attorneys for Plaintiff 146625
LEGAL NOTICE
STATE OF NEW YORK
SUPREME COURT: COUNTY OF NASSAU
U.S. BANK NATIONAL
ASSOCIATION, NOT IN ITS INDIVIDUAL CAPACITY BUT SOLELY AS TRUSTEE FOR THE RMAC TRUST, SERIES 2016-CTT, Plaintiff,
v. ASSUNTINA BOTTICELLI, ET AL, Defendants.
NOTICE OF SALE IN FORECLOSURE
PLEASE TAKE NOTICE THAT
In pursuance of a Judgment of Foreclosure and Sale entered in the Office of the County Clerk of Nassau County on October 17, 2022, I, Evette Coretta Ennis, Esq. the Referee named in said Judgment, will sell in one parcel at public auction on June 10, 2024 at North Side Steps of the Nassau County Supreme Court, 100 Supreme Ct. Dr., Mineola, NY 11501 located at 262 Old Country Road, Mineola, NY, at 3:00PM the premises described as follows:
1 Wakefield Drive Glen Head a/k/a Muttontown, NY 11545
Tax I.D. No. 16.-A-953
ALL THAT TRACT OR PARCEL OF LAND situate in the Town of Oyster Bay, County of Nassau, State of New York. The premises are sold subject to the provisions of the filed judgment, Index No. 607881/2017 in the amount of $1,271,481.58 plus interest and costs. The aforementioned auction will be conducted in accordance with the Court System’s COVID-19 mitigation protocols and as such all persons must comply with social distancing, wearing
masks and screening practices in effect at the time of this foreclosure sale.
Woods Oviatt Gilman LLP Attorneys for Plaintiff 500 Bausch & Lomb Place Rochester, NY 14604 Tel.: 855-227-5072 146631
LEGAL NOTICE
SUPREME COURT OF THE STATE OF NEW YORK COUNTY OF NASSAU NATIONSTAR MORTGAGE LLC D/B/A MR. COOPER, -againstBRYAN M. GOSLINE, ET AL.
NOTICE OF SALE NOTICE IS HEREBY GIVEN pursuant to a Final Judgment of Foreclosure entered in the Office of the Clerk of the County of Nassau on October 18, 2019, wherein NATIONSTAR MORTGAGE LLC D/B/A MR. COOPER is the Plaintiff and BRYAN M. GOSLINE, ET AL. are the Defendant(s). I, the undersigned Referee will sell at public auction RAIN OR SHINE at the NASSAU COUNTY
SUPREME COURT, NORTH SIDE STEPS, 100 SUPREME COURT DRIVE, MINEOLA, NY 11501, on June 12, 2024 at 2:00PM,
premises known as 126 LAMBERT AVENUE, OYSTER BAY, NY 11735; and the following tax map identification: 48-599-9. ALL THAT CERTAIN PLOT, PIECE OR PARCEL OF LAND WITH THE BUILDINGS AND IMPROVEMENTS THEREON ERECTED, SITUATE, LYING AND BEING AT FARMINGDALE, IN THE TOWN OF OYSTER BAY, COUNTY OF NASSAU AND STATE OF NEW YORK
Premises will be sold subject to provisions of filed Judgment Index No.: 612776/2018. Ellen Durst, Esq. - Referee. Robertson, Anschutz, Schneid, Crane & Partners, PLLC 900 Merchants Concourse, Suite 310, Westbury, New York 11590, Attorneys for Plaintiff. All foreclosure sales will be conducted in accordance with Covid-19 guidelines including, but not limited to, social distancing and mask wearing. *LOCATION OF SALE SUBJECT TO CHANGE DAY OF IN ACCORDANCE WITH COURT/CLERK DIRECTIVES. 146655
Anthony E. Catalfo, 87, of Locust Valley, died on May 6. Beloved husband of the late Loretta; loving father of Marie Dalli and the late Philip (Jayne). Proud grandfather of Joseph (Jennifer), Sarah, Jilian, and Nina; special greatgrandfather of Nora Rose; dear brother of the late Dante.
Catalfo was a first generation ItalianAmerican, and a proprietor of a family
dry cleaning business. He was an avid hunter, fisherman and most importantly, a family man.
Visiting at Dodge-Thomas Funeral Home of Glen Cove on May 9 from 4 to 8 p.m. Mass at the Sacred Heart Church of Glendale on May 10 at 11:30 a.m. Interment to follow at St. John’s Cemetery in Middle Village.
Robert “Bob” J. Killeen, 93, of Nashua, New Hampshire, formerly of East Norwich, died on May 1. Killeen joined his wife of 73 years Trudy, who died April 3, 2024.
Killeen is survived by daughter Susan and son-in-law Craig Nylund; daughter Karen and son-in-law Fred LoPiano; daughter-in-law Jane Killeen. He was predeceased by his son Robert in 2005 and sister Vera (Killeen) Heck in 2015.
Killeen was born March 16, 1931 and raised in the Inwood neighborhood of Manhattan. His fondest memories were the summers he spent at his grandmother’s home the Village of Corinth, New York. He loved the wide-open spaces, going to Lake Luzerne, working the
neighbors farm and milking their cows. Killeen met Trudy (Kadrisky) while working at Hunt & Winterbotham, LTD in Manhattan and they were married June 16, 1951.
He enlisted in the U.S. Marine Corps but the Korean War was winding down and Killeen did not see combat. He would joke that he “protected North Carolina from invasion.”
In 1960 Killeen and Trudy bought a home in East Norwich, where they raised their family. Killeen was a proud Marine, loving husband and father and a loyal friend.
Visiting was held at Oyster Bay Funeral Home, a Funeral Mass was at St. Dominic Chapel, Burial followed at Cemetery of the Holy Rood.
At first glance, Elinor Sullivan was simply a proud suburban mother, raising her four children on the other side of the Great Depression.
Her husband was a state legislator. Her father was a vaudeville performer who originated the role of the Scarecrow in a stage production of “The Wizard of Oz.” But beyond that, you probably wouldn’t have looked twice at Elinor.
Except you should have. Because before she was a wife and a mom, she was Elinor Smith, the “Flying Flapper of Freeport,” who never met a plane she didn’t like or a dare she wouldn’t take. In fact, one taunt persuaded her to fly a Waco-10 under not one, but all four bridges that crossed the East River into Manhattan — a stunt that had never been done before, and was never repeated.
Elinor once held the women’s solo flight endurance record of more than 26 hours, set a speed record of nearly 191 mph, and even topped an altitude record of more than 32,500 feet, taking off from Roosevelt Field. And she became the first woman ever pictured on a box of Wheaties cereal.
And Elinor gave all of that up for two decades — the prime years of her life — so she could focus all of her attention on being a mother. Yet today, mothers can have careers while raising their children, showing even more how
To the Editor:
Re the Oyster Bay-East Norwich proposed 2024-25 school budget: The spending plan, totaling $65,603,880, represents an increase of $1,189,389 over the current budget of $64,414,491.
The district’s enrollment has decreased to 1,378 students. This year, the cost per student is roughly $46,000. Binghamton’s cost per student is $19,307 after state and federal aid.
Of the total proposed budget, 78 percent, or roughly $52 million, is for teachers’ salaries and benefits), leaving $13.6 million for general operating expenses.
The surplus for the year ended June 30, 2023, was $2.7 million, and still the budget for 2023-24 was increased by $2.3 million, from $62.1 million to $64.4 million.
There are a total of 353 employees, roughly 230 of whom are teachers and teacher assistants. Apparently there was not any reallocation of positions, and not one position has been excessed.
We all want quality education, but with a
extraordinary every one of them is.
As we approach Mother’s Day, it’s important to reflect on the remarkable influence and unwavering love mothers bring into our lives. From the moment we enter this world, mothers are our first nurturers, guides and champions. They are the silent heroes whose impact transcends time and circumstances, shaping us into the individuals we become.
Mothers possess a unique blend of strength and tenderness. They are the multitaskers extraordinaire, effortlessly juggling countless roles with grace. From pursuing careers to nurturing children — mothers do it all with unparalleled dedication. Their resilience in facing life’s challenges serves as an inspiration, demonstrating that with love and determination, any obstacle can be overcome.
What truly makes mothers extraordinary is their boundless capacity for love. A mother’s love is a force unlike any other — a source of comfort in times of distress. A beacon of hope in moments of despair.
It is a love that knows no bounds, selfless and unconditional. This love shapes our earliest memories, and echoes through the milestones of our lives — a constant reminder of unwavering support.
Mothers aren’t just caregivers, they are our first teachers, imparting lessons
that extend far beyond textbooks. They teach us compassion through their actions, resilience through their examples, and empathy through their understanding.
The wisdom passed down from our mothers is a treasure trove of lessons, guiding us through sunny days and stormy nights.
In celebrating mothers, we honor the unsung heroines whose sacrifices often go unnoticed. They prioritize our needs above their own, making countless sacrifices without seeking recognition. Whether it’s waking up early to pack lunches or staying up late to offer reassurance, they give of themselves tirelessly, embodying the essence of unconditional love.
On Sunday, let us celebrate the phenomenal women — like Elinor Smith, and our own mothers — who have shaped our lives in profound ways. Beyond the flowers and gifts lies a deeper appreciation for the incredible impact mothers have on our existence. And they don’t need to fly under bridges or break endurance records. In the tapestry of life, mothers are the golden threads that bind us together. Their presence is a gift that enriches our world in ways words cannot fully capture. As we celebrate Mother’s Day, let us cherish and honor these extraordinary women who personify love, strength and resilience.
While the Northrop Grumman Corporation and the United States Navy built machinery in Bethpage to help America win a world war and put a man on the moon, never did we expect their legacy to be one of serious environmental hazard on Long Island. Over the past few weeks, the dangerous environmental legacy of Grumman and the Navy has earned a top spot in local newspaper headlines and on the nightly news throughout the tristate area, and even overseas.
For more than 50 years, Northrop Grumman manufactured aircraft and spacecraft on 600 acres of property in Bethpage while dumping chemical waste into the soil. An investigation in 2020 revealed that the company had been aware of the hazards posed to our environment as early as the 1970s, but failed to disclose them to the public. In fact, Northrop Grumman officials even denied responsibility for the pollution.
When the corporation closed its Bethpage operations in 1998 and moved 20,000 jobs to other states, Long Island began to learn of the decades of toxic chemicals left behind in our community. The 16 chemical drums recently unearthed in Bethpage Community Park are just the tip of the iceberg. It’s clear that these drums were deliberately buried at the site as they were sealed in concrete coffins — which is highly uncommon, according to environmental experts.
The toxic plume of contaminants they spilled still grows by a foot a day.
The drums contain toxic chemicals, and preliminary test results show that their contents match the contaminants found in the adjacent soil. Even worse, we expect more to be found in the coming weeks.
For over 20 years, it’s been widely known that chemicals dumped into the ground by Northrop Grumman and the Navy have been threatening our water supply in the form of an underground plume. Bethpage Community Park is just one of the contaminated sites in our area that has contributed to the plume.
limit on spending. The current trend is escalating way out of line, and reductions can be made without hindering students’ education. This outlandish spending has to be brought under control, and taxpayers given a reprieve from the constant $1 million to $2 million annual increases.
FYI, the superintendent’s salary in 2022 was $340,000. The governor of New York earns roughly $250,000.
GRACE A. SEARBY Oyster Bay resident for 57 years
To the Editor:
Even with congestion pricing scheduled to start on June 30, there is no way the Metropolitan Transportation Authority will be able to advertise, award and issue Notices to Proceed tor contractors for $15 billion worth of projects remaining in the agency’s 2020-2024 Five Year Capital Plan before the end of the year. There are also billions of dollars in other ongoing capital projects whose work will be carried over into the MTA’s $51 billionplus 2025-2029 five-year plan.
There may not be enough resources to integrate the implementation of all of the congestion price-funded projects in
Thankfully, local water districts have successfully treated our drinking water at the tap. But this treatment has come at great expense to local taxpayers. Millions of dollars have been spent thus far to clean our water before it arrives at our homes. Grumman and the Navy should be forced to fully reimburse taxpayers for these costs.
Over 250,000 Long Islanders now live in the cone of influence from the plume — a population two and a half times the size of the one at risk in the nationally reported water crisis in Flint, Michigan. The plume continues to spread by about a foot a day. That’s the rate at which groundwater moves south, putting the Great South Bay at risk.
Simply put, we are in a race against time to install the proper infrastructure to prevent Grumman’s pollution from reaching deeper into the freshwater aquifer from which we derive our drinking water.
Northrop Grumman and the Navy have been given too much time and flexibility to clean up their mess. For that reason, the Town of Oyster Bay filed a lawsuit against Northrop Grumman last
September. We are now forcing Grumman to move forward with radar scans to determine where additional contaminants may be in Bethpage Park. At the same time, we are forming bipartisan coalitions with members of Congress, state officials, water districts, trades unions and environmental groups. Together, we are fighting for you. With strict new federal guidelines for drinking water recently approved to protect our health, and with the underground plume moving at a foot per day, it’s more imperative than ever for the U.S. Environmental Protection Agency and the New York State Department of Environmental Conservation to hold Northrop Grumman and the Navy fully accountable for a thorough and complete investigation of contaminated grounds, strict and timely removal of all contaminated soils, and the full financial expense of restoring Mother Earth.
We should never expect less. Just as Long Islanders raced to win a world war and put a man on the moon, our federal and state governments must race with even greater speed to protect our health, save our drinking water and protect the people in our community.
Joseph Saladino is supervisor of the Town of Oyster Bay.
the current five-year plan with those in the first and second years of the next fiveyear plan. The MTA lacks sufficient procurement, project managers, engineers, legal and force account employees, along with track outage availability, to proceed with all these projects in the same time frame.
Billions of dollars’ worth of capitalimprovement projects will be delayed. Costs will increase due to inflation and other factors as time goes by. The $51 billion-plus 2025-2029 Five Year Capital Plan is due to be released and adopted within seven months. It should include an integrated schedule for how the billions in carryover projects from the current fiveyear plan will proceed with billions more planned for the new program.
MTA board members, elected officials, New York City, state and federal funding agencies such as the Federal Transit Administration, along with commuters, taxpayers, transit advocacy groups and transit reporters need to see this critical information. It is the only way we can determine if the MTA is up to meeting the challenge.
LARRY PENNER Great NeckLarry Penner is a transportation advocate, historian and writer who previously served as a director of the Federal Transit Administration Region 2 New York Office of Operations and Program Management.
