Fun times, local competition, on the flag football gridiron
The Salisbury Men’s Athletic Association wrapped up another energetic flag football season last weekend, capping months of games with its annual “Super Bowl” at East Meadow High School. The league brings together roughly 300 kids each fall, emphasizing fun, teamwork and community — with many former players returning as refs and coaches. Above, young players high-fived each other at the culmination of their game on Nov. 30. Right, Alexander Green on the Lions ran with the ball in the end zone. Story, more photos, Page 3.
League forum dissects 2025 election results
By lUKE FEENEY lfeeney@liherald.com
The League of Women Voters of East Nassau hosted a forum last month, attended by more than a dozen residents, to analyze local and national results from the 2025 elections. The East Nassau chapter represents Bellmore, East Meadow, Freeport, Levittown, Merrick, Wantagh and Seaford.
TBarbara Epstein, co-president of the nonpartisan, grassroots nonprofit dedicated to empowering individuals to participate in democratic activities, opened the Nov. 19 forum by focusing on local races. She highlighted the continued success of Republican candidates in countywide elections.
another term, defeating Democrat Nicole Aloise, 55 percent to 44 percent.
County Comptroller Elaine Phillips, another Republican, won re-election, besting Democrat Wayne Wink 55 percent to 45 percent in a race centered on fiscal oversight and government efficiency. Republican County Clerk Maureen O’Connell held on to her seat as well, defeating Democrat Joylette Williams 57 percent to 43 percent.
here just wasn’t the visibility of who the Democratic candidates were.
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Westbury resident, meeting participant
Republican incumbent Bruce Blakeman secured another term as Nassau County executive, defeating his Democratic challenger, Seth Koslow, 54 percent to 46 percent. Nassau County District Attorney Anne Donnelly was also elected to
Epstein also discussed results in the Town of Hempstead, where John Ferretti, a Republican who was appointed supervisor in August following Don Clavin’s resignation, was elected to a full term. He defeated Democrat Joe Scianablo 53 percent to 47 percent. Epstein noted the closeness of the race compared to others. “It was relatively and numerically speaking, a closer race than a lot of the other races from numbers only,” she said. She also pointed out that for
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Festive ways to celebrate the holidays in East Meadow
By JORDAN VALLONE
jvallone@liherald.com
East Meadow is glowing with holiday spirit, offering families a full season of traditions, lights and local celebrations. From immersive light displays to hometown gatherings, residents have plenty of ways to make the season bright. Here are three things to know — and enjoy — this December.
Step into a “Fantasy Winter Fairyland” at light spectacular
This year’s immersive light experience by LuminoCity transforms Eisenhower Park into a shimmering fairytale world, themed “Fantasy Winter Fairyland.” Visitors journey alongside Lumi, a whimsical guide through towering illuminated sculptures that turn frosty magic into reality. As you wander, the landscape unfolds into starry scenes and dazzling displays, each part of an original light-art installation unique to this season. Families will feel like they’ve stepped into a dreamscape as glowing creatures, sparkling arches and twinkling pathways surround them. Whether you’re looking for a great photo, a peaceful winter walk or just a dose of holiday wonder, this expansive walkthrough experience brings enchantment to life — right in the heart of the community.
The 39th Annual Holiday Lighting brings neighbors together Dec. 5
A beloved East Meadow tradition returns when the Salisbury Community and the East Meadow Chamber of Commerce host their 39th Annual Holiday Lighting on Friday, Dec. 5 at 4 p.m., at Carman Avenue and Lake Lane near Carvel and the pool. The East Meadow Fire Department will arrive with Santa on a fire truck to greet children, while the Clarke High School Select Chorale performs holiday classics. Kiwanis Service Leadership Groups and local Girl Scouts helped prepare ornaments for the community tree, making the celebration a true neighborhood effort. Residents are invited to come together, slow down and enjoy the season with family and friends. Organizers also encourage supporting local merchants who have backed the event for many years.
Experience Gerald Dickens’ farewell U.S. performance
East Meadow residents have a rare opportunity to witness a piece of literary history as Gerald Dickens — the great-great-grandson of Charles Dickens — brings his celebrated one-man performance of A Christmas Carol to the East Meadow Public Library on Dec. 7. This year marks his final American tour, making the appearance especially meaningful for longtime fans and newcomers alike. Dickens embodies 21 characters, shifting seamlessly between voices, gestures and emotions to recreate the heart of the classic tale in vivid, theatrical detail. His performances are known for their warmth, humor and authenticity, capturing both the humanity and the haunting atmosphere of the original story. Although the event is fully booked, a waiting list is available for those hoping to experience this unforgettable farewell tour stop.
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Flag football thrives on community support
Salisbury Men’s Athletic Association wraps up season with annual ‘Super Bowl’
By JORDAN VALLONE jvallone@liherald.com
Another flag football season with the Salisbury Men’s Athletic Association wrapped up last weekend, celebrating the victories of players and coaches young and old.
The league has been around for about 25 years, its current president Dave Schwarz told the Herald, who has been running the program for the last 18. It operates not-for-profit and simply exists to provide its players a fun outlet during the fall, encouraging teamwork, friendships and a strong sense of community.
About roughly 300 kids are part of the program annually, ranging from kindergarten to high school.
The season which kicks off in September culminates in a “Super Bowl” in late-November or early-December. This year, it concluded at East Meadow High School on Nov. 20. The Super Bowl featured a mini-ceremony, congratulating players for their efforts throughout the season. Many local elected officials stopped by to see the action and even toss a football or two.
Prices have remained the same for the last three seasons, Schwarz said, emphasizing the league’s commitment to low-cost fun. “We’re not here to make money,” he said.
The league thrives because of the longtime support of regulars — former players who come to back help out, either refereeing or coaching.
“Every single one of our refs either is a former player or a current player,” Schwarz said. “Most of our directors has a kid in the league, or two kids in the league. And some of our board members are actually in their 20s. They’re kids that played and coached and wanted to stay involved. They just want to give back.
“When I need coaches nowadays,” he added, “I’ll put it out there and I’ll get a couple guys to step up and coach, because they enjoyed playing.”
Board members include Ed Peters, Mike Villante, David Follick, Kole Castro, Tim Ferdinand, Ken Castro, Ken Barshauskas and Josh Hudson. League competition during the season takes place at elementary schools on each side of the East Meadow School District, ensuring that players from both East Meadow and Westbury can easily get involved. About 95 percent of all the league’s players attend East Meadow schools.
The league is co-ed, and this year it also had three women coaches — Mary Pelkowski, Janie Schettini and Greta Costella — which is great, Schwarz said. Over the next few years, the goal is to increase the number of girls playing in the league from about 5 percent to 10 percent, if not more.
In this season’s third- and fourthgrade division, the league had 10 teams participate, its largest number ever.
“That’s great,” Schwarz said. “If you’re going to be big, you want to be big at the younger ages because you
Flag football players hit the turf at East Meadow
Men’s Athletic Association.
2025 Season Champs
■ Third- and fourth-grade division: The Cheifs, Coach Schwarz
■ Fifth- and sixth-grade division: The Pats, Coach Pelkowksi
■ Seventh- and eighth-grade division: The Cowboys, Coach Wood
■ High school division: The Eagles, Coach Barshauskas
hope they’re going to stay with you.”
Although it is a flag football league, it doesn’t discourage players from playing tackle football. The league has garnered support from East Meadow and W.T. Clarke High School’s varsity football coaches, who often provide words of support to the players at the Super Bowl. Ken Rosner, superintendent of the East Meadow School District, has also been very supportive of the league, Schwarz added. From helping secure field permits to aiding the league in fixing issues on school grounds, his support, Schwarz explained, has been tremendous. Throughout the season, teams compete only against other teams in the league. Every team makes the playoffs, from third-grade up, as a way to show players — especially the youngest ones — that hard work pays off. This season’s champions were the Chiefs in the thirdand fourth-grade division; the Pats in the fifth- and sixth-grade division; the Cowboys in the seventh- and eighthgrade division; and the Eagles in the high school division.
Vikings and the Lions in the kindergarten through second-grade
in some friendly competition.
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High School on Nov. 30 for the end-of-season ‘Super Bowl’ with the Salisbury
Frank Giojelly from the Vikings ran with the ball, while Logan Scalzo and Dean St. Lucia of the Lions chased after him on the field.
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All too often a client comes in with a sad tale about an estranged child. Naturally, they are at a loss as to what to do about the situation when it comes to leaving that child an inheritance.
Years ago, the famous advice columnist Ann Landers wrote that her all time most requested column for reprint was on this very subject. Ann wrote that an inheritance should be considered a gift and that if the gift is not deserved one should not be expected. While that may have been good advice at the time and perhaps still is in most cases, like many things it is more complicated today.
In practice, we find that many of these once loving sons and daughters have married individuals with borderline or narcissistic personality disorders. Their spouses are manipulative and controlling. They seek to separate the loving son or daughter from their family so as to better control their spouse. The estranged child knows from experience that going against the wishes of their narcissistic spouse is like throwing
gasoline on a fire — so they go along to get along.
Why does this happen? The manipulator has an enormous advantage over the clients’ son or daughter. The manipulator is a professional, having been this way all their life, honing their skills. The estranged son or daughter is an amateur — they have no experience in being manipulated. It may take years for them to even understand they are being manipulated and then more years, if ever, to build up defenses to the manipulation.
When young children are involved, the estranged child well knows the adverse consequences of having any normal relationship with their children should they seek a divorce from the narcissist.
Our advice is to try to understand and be compassionate with an estranged son or daughter in this situation. An Inheritance Protection Trust (IPT), that may only be used for them and your grandchildren, managed by either a sibling or a professional, may be the answer to such a heart-rending situation.
Thomas W. Stokes to lead public safety net hospital
Nassau University Medical Center has named Thomas W. Stokes as its permanent president and chief executive officer. Stokes, 54, is the chief financial officer of Weill Cornell Medicine in Manhattan.
Starting in January, he will takeover managing the day-to-day operations at the safety-net hospital, based in East Meadow, the A. Holly Patterson Extended Care Facility in Uniondale, and other community health centers and outreach operations.
His appointment comes at the end of a turbulent year for NUMC, which was taken over by New York state in May, following provisions that passed in the budget for fiscal year 2026. The changes, which took effect June 1, shifted control from County Executive Bruce Blakeman to Gov. Kathy Hochul
and state Democrats.
In addition, the state granted the Nassau Interim Finance Authority, a public benefit corporation, expanded oversight, including the ability to approve hospital contracts exceeding $1 million. The hospital’s public benefit corporation, the Nassau Health Care Corporation, is also required to conduct a study on strengthening NUMC by Dec. 1, 2026.
State-appointed leadership fired Meg Ryan, the former chief executive at NUMC, in June. She was replaced by Dr. Richard Becker, the interim president and chief executive of the hospital.
Stokes will assume the top office at NUMC from Becker in 2026
–Jordan Vallone
Thomas W. Stokes was named the president and chief executive officer of Nassau University Medical Center, Nassau County’s only public safety net hospital.
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East Nassau hosts community discussion
the first time in 54 years, the City Council in Long Beach is entirely Republican. Incumbent Councilman Michael Reinhart, Tracey Johnson, and George Ennis defeated Democrats Roy Lester, an incumbent, as well as Peggy Butts and Lillian Mosley. In contrast, Epstein highlighted the victories of Democrats Danielle Fugazy Scagliola, John Frank Zozzaro and John Perrone in Glen Cove, resulting in a split council with three Democrats and three Republicans.
“Cities and towns are totally different entities,” Epstein said. “They function unto themselves, basically—particularly the cities.”
She also noted that the Republican supermajority in the Nassau County Legislature was reduced. “There is no super majority that exists,” she said, referring to the new 11–8 Republican majority. “When you have a super majority, which makes it possible for them to basically control everything that goes on when it comes to the budget and funding.”
Other results included races in the Town of North Hempstead and Suffolk County. In Suffolk, District Attorney Ray Tierney earned a second term, running unopposed. Suffolk County Sheriff Errol D. Toulon Jr. also ran unopposed to earn a third term.
Following Epstein’s Suffolk summary, several attendees questioned why certain races, such as sheriff and district attorney, featured no opposition. “Maybe they feel there’s no point because they’re not going to win,” asked Grace Felicetti, a member of the league.
Dania Smith, another league member, focused on turnout. “Very few of them (Democrats) came out to vote,” said Smith, a Levittown resident. “Do you think it’s because they’re giving in to the Republican machinery that’s been running things?”
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Barbara epstein, co-president of the nonpartisan, grassroots nonprofit dedicated to empowering individuals to participate in democratic activities, led the discussion on results.
According to the Nassau County Board of Elections, 32 percent of registered Democrats voted in county races this election cycle, compared with 27 percent in 2021. Forty percent of registered Republicans voted four years ago; that number dipped slightly to 39 percent this year. Roughly 20 percent of voters unaffiliated with a political party—known as “blanks”—cast ballots, with many of them leaning Republican in Nassau. While Democrats struggled locally, they found success on the national stage. In New York City, Assemblyman Zohran Mamdani defeated former Gov. Andrew
Cuomo, who ran as an independent, to become the city’s first Muslim and first South Asian mayor—and the youngest in more than a century. Mollie Schwaber, the league’s co-president, observed that Mamdani’s candidacy became a talking point in Nassau campaigns.
“It provoked fear in people in Nassau County,” she said. “They’re afraid of a socialist, and afraid of the policies that might leak into Nassau County.”
Cheryl Hobbes, a Westbury resident who worked as a poll worker, said she saw that anxiety firsthand. “We actually had a couple come in who looked at the ballot and said, well, where’s Mamdani?” she said.
Epstein also cited two Democratic victories in gubernatorial races. In New Jersey, U.S. Rep. Mikie Sherrill defeated former Republican Assemblyman Jack Ciattarelli to become the state’s governor. And in Virginia, former U.S. Rep. Abigail Spanberger beat Lt. Gov. Winsome Earle-Sears to become the commonwealth’s first female governor.
As attendees compared Democratic national gains with local defeats, theories emerged. “There just wasn’t the visibility of who the Democratic candidates were,” Hobbes said of the local races.
Mehri Fryzel, a Garden City resident and member of the League of Women Voters of Central Nassau, suggested Democrats lacked organizing power. “They (Republicans) say, you don’t have enough people coming out. I suspect they get on the phones and they call people, and they pick them up. I’ve yet to see any Democrat come to any polling place I’ve been at to do anything slightly similar.”
Meetings like this are part of the league’s mission to foster civic engagement and deepen public understanding of elections and policy. To learn more, visit LWVEastNassau.org.
Terrific Kids recognized by E.M. school board
The East Meadow Board of Education recognized the district’s Terrific Kids for the fall months at its Nov. 12 meeting at the Salisbury School.
W.T. Clarke Middle School Principal Elizabeth Dowling and Woodland Middle School Principal Kristi Detor proudly announced their schools’ honorees for September, October and November. Each student was recognized for demonstrating the qualities that make them truly “terrific” — from kindness and perseverance to a strong commitment to learning and helping others.
As part of the recognition, each Terrific Kid received a certificate of recognition presented by the board of education in partnership with the East Meadow Kiwanis Club, which sponsors the program. The Terrific Kids initiative celebrates students who model positive character and determination, promoting self-esteem and the values that help young people grow into caring, capable community members.
The board of education and Kiwanis Club expressed their appreciation to all the students, families, and educators who support this program and help foster a culture of encouragement and excellence across East Meadow schools.
–Jordan Vallone
Courtesy East Meadow School District
Woodland Middle School’s Terrific Kids for the months of September, October and November were recognized during the East Meadow Board of Education’s Nov. 12 board meeting.
New York Islanders support families in need
Islanders’ Children’s Foundation, UBS distribute 200 meals to locals ahead of the holidays
By JORDAN VALLONE jvallone@liherald.com
The New York Islanders’ Children’s Foundation, in partnership with UBS, purchased and distributed 200 meals on Nov. 24 to local families ahead of Thanksgiving. The Islanders’ Children’s Foundation partners with local community groups and nonprofit organizations, including Island Harvest, Long Island Cares, Veteran Beacon House, Gateway Youth Outreach and Rock and Wrap it Up, to identify families in need.
The distributed meals were purchased from Stew Leonard’s and included a turkey, four sides, dessert and dinner rolls. Volunteers from UBS and members of the New York Islanders, including former player Butch Goring, and Islanders defenseman Ryan Pulock, as we all players’ significant others were onsite to distribute meals.
In a press package, shared with the Herald by the New York Islanders, Pulock said, “It’s special to have this opportunity just to do something small, make people smile, make families be able to come together and have a nice meal together. That’s what it’s all about.”
The Islanders Children’s Foundation, a registered nonprofit, was created in 2003 under the leadership of late-Island-
ers owner Charles Wang, who had a passion to help children and provide them with the best opportunities to live happy, healthy and successful lives.
Its mission is dedicated to serving local communities, now and in the future. It supports, educates and develops area youth while investing in local
families and community wellbeing. The foundation also supports nonprofit organizations that share its common mission, developing programs that create a lasting legacy.
Current ownership shares Wang’s values, and is committed to being a leader in the philanthropic causes that continue to make the Children’s Foundation a staple in the Long Island community. The Children’s Foundation celebrated its 20th anniversary in 2023.
Goring, in a video package shared with the Herald, said the appreciation of community members served was “very obvious.”
“Everybody is very thankful to be able to go home and share a meal, not only with themselves, but certainly with friends,” he said.
Athletes, he added, are in a position to give back.
“I think all of us athletes, we recognize that we’re fortunate,” he said. “We don’t have to worry about our next meal. It’s going to be there for us. There are many people who are less fortunate, so when you can help out and make Thanksgiving, which is such a special day, and you can make that a little more special for them — it has a lot of merit.”
For more on the work of the Islanders Children’s Foundation, visit NHL. com/Islanders.
Courtesy New York Islanders
Butch Goring, center, legendary player with the New York Islanders, helped distribute 200 meals to local families on Nov. 24.
The friendly skies elevate the Conversation
Dear Transportation Secretary Duffy:
Having watched your 40-second video encouraging common courtesy and civility in air travel is one thing but having you use this communication to tell passengers what to wear is quite another.
Sir, air travel is tough. It was tough before the cancellation of flights due to the limited personnel during the federal government shutdown.
It was tough when the cost of everything from where you sit to where your luggage goes, goes up and up.
It was tough when the protections and refunds promised to travelers were cancelled just like their flights.
spirit of full transparency, I admit I’ve done it too).
I have studied and worked in a university that not only eats, breathes and lives fashion, but views it from the standpoint of equality — everyone’s creative interpretation is their own — no judgment, no problem.
It was tough to build three extra hours before getting to the gate to get through TSA in time.
And although it will all come to a good ending, any tri-state resident planning on getting over to Kennedy Airport is not having any fun at this time either.
But here’s my real problem with your message. You can suggest all you wish, but how we dress is our business.
I have sat through religious services with attendees that chose to dress, let’s say, in an unorthodox way for the church or synagogue. That didn’t stop them from being active participants in rich, meaningful ceremonies.
I have watched people judged on their clothes, not their character. (And in the
It’s a place that is an incubator enriching innovation with a cultivated vision of fashion for young and old, rich and poor, style-centric or myopic.
Therefore, I respectfully believe the last thing that makes a difference, Mr. Secretary, is whether we wear our slippers or pajamas to LGA, LAX or LHR.
And as for your suggestion of helping someone in need with their bag in the overhead luggage compartment, that’s extremely kind and heartfelt, but kind of obvious, don’t you think?
So if the need to get our skies safer, easier, and more affordable is what our citizens want, please consider leaving the looks, colors and fabrics to us and we will rely on transportation mastery from you.
A contributing writer to the Herald since 2012, Lauren Lev is a direct marketing/ advertising executive who teaches marketing fundamentals as well as advertising and marketing communications courses at the Fashion Institute of Technology and SUNY Old Westbury.
News brief
Preliminary approval for apartments in E.M.
The Town of Hempstead Industrial Development Agency has given preliminary approval to a package of economic incentives for developers planning a 20-unit market-rate rental apartment complex in East Meadow.
The IDA board voted Nov. 18 to approve an inducement resolution for The Newbridge Residence at 558 LLC. The action is an early step in the process; the project will still require further agency review and a public hearing before any benefits can be granted.
According to the IDA application, partners John Brunetti, Andrew Zacaro and James O’Donnell plan to invest $8,073,200 to build two residential buildings totaling 21,210 square feet. The development would rise on a 1.15-acre vacant lot at 558 Newbridge Road that previously belonged to St. Raphael Roman Catholic Church. The property already holds town zoning and site-plan approvals obtained by a prior owner.
Plans call for 20 two-bedroom, twobathroom apartments. Fred Parola, the IDA’s CEO, said the project would help
meet the demand for rental housing in East Meadow and increase future revenue for taxing jurisdictions. Taxes under the proposed 20-year PILOT agreement would increase from the current $34,931 to $180,000 in the final year.
The development is expected to create between 60 and 70 construction jobs and one part-time permanent position.
The Town of Hempstead Industrial Development Agency is a public benefit agency empowered to help qualified businesses relocate, expand and build within the town. Authorized by New York State to promote economic development through financial assistance and tax relief, the agency emphasizes responsible growth, supported by a stable tax base, an educated workforce and access to major airports and New York City. IDA assistance has financed more than $2 billion in projects and helped create or retain roughly 11,000 permanent jobs. More information is available at TOHIDA.org or by calling (800) 593-3870.
–Jordan Vallone
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At Parkway Elementary, history comes to life East
Meadow fourth-graders explore the rise of global empires in CKLA Middle Ages unit
By JORDAN VALLONE jvallone@liherald.com
Fourth-grade students at Parkway Elementary School in East Meadow immersed themselves in history, learning about the Middle Ages. The unit commenced with two days of fun crafts and activities that brought their learning to life.
In East Meadow schools, elementary students engage in Amplify Core Knowledge Language Arts units, or CKLA. The CKLA curriculum seeks to provide strong instruction, grade-level appropriate assignments, engaging content and rigorous learning activities to all students. For fourth-graders, the Empires in the Middle Ages unit was the second the year.
The program explores how the fall of the Roman Empire gave rise to both the Islamic Empire and emerging Western European kingdoms, shaped heavily by the growing influence of the Christian Church. Students examine the Crusades as a series of political and religious conflicts over control of the Holy Land, and study how scientific, philosophical, and cultural knowledge moved from the ancient Greeks to Arabic scholars and later into Latin Europe. By tracing these interconnected histories, the program helps students understand how the roots of past civilizations continue to shape today’s global and political landscape.
Learning about everything from events in Europe, the rulers of ancient empires and the rise of Middle Eastern powers, students practice taking notes from informative text, and writing informative, explanatory and persuasive paragraphs. At the end of the unit, they demonstrate a strong understanding of key vocabulary, determining importance through note taking and strong paragraph writing skills.
On Nov. 25 and 26, students in Parkway’s classes took a trip back in time, creating projects that represented
things they’d learned about during the unit. This included creating a coat of arms, stained glass art, crowns and a bow and arrow. As the teachers explained the projects to each class, students were encouraged to remember why they were creating each project and to explain the significance of each item.
The coat of arms, a sort of family crest unique to each creator, had symbols and colors that represented each of the students interests.
Rosanne Pascazio, a fourth-grade teacher at Parkway, explained how to create a coat of arms, showing symbols from the past — such as a deer representing harmony, a key representing knowledge and a tree representing strength.
“These are the things that represent you,” she said.
Students traced a cut out of a strained glass window, and then added paints to make the colors pop.
Jordan Vallone/Herald photos Students created crowns to be worn, accompanied by their own set of jewels.
Rosanne Pascazio, a fourth-grade teacher at Parkway, showed students how to create a Coat of Arms as part of the Middle Ages unit.
Immerse yourself in New York Dance Theatre’s ‘Nutcracker’
By Roksana Amid
For more than four decades, New York Dance Theatre’s production of “The Nutcracker” has marked the arrival of the holiday season for thousands of Long Island families. This year, the 43rd annual performance — set for Dec. 20 and 21 at Hofstra University’s John Cranford Adams Playhouse — promises to deepen that legacy with an expanded immersive experience, celebrated guest artists and a renewed emphasis on the history that defines the company.
Since 1982, New York Dance Theatre, in partnership with the Ohman School of Ballet, has staged the full-length classic each December. Rooted in the Balanchine tradition handed down from founder Frank Ohman — a former student and soloist under George Balanchine — the production has grown into one of the region’s most recognizable holiday events. Yet for Executive Artistic Director Nicole Loizides, its staying power is not simply about technique or spectacle. It’s about belonging.
• Dec. 20-21, noon and 5 p.m.
• Tickets start at $33, available at ohmanballet.org or (631) 462-0964
• Hofstra University, John Cranford Adams Playhouse, Hempstead
“We really feed ourselves in tradition,” Loizides says. “Especially around the holidays, people want a place where they can feel comfortable to come home, rest, rela and celebrate together. Our Nutcracker stays rooted in that.”
Long before the overture begins, audience members are invited into the world of the Silberhaus family — the setting of the ballet’s opening scene. When guests enter the Playhouse lobby, costumed Victorian performers greet them, musicians play seasonal melodies and the scent of apple cider wafts through the air.
Children are invited to hang ornaments on a Christmas tree, one of many ways the production blurs the line between audience and story.
Loizides describes it as a “semi-immersive pre-show experience,” one the company has been refining for several years. This season, the lobby experience expands through a new partnership with the Long Island High School for the Arts, whose student musicians perform as audiences arrive.
“As soon as people enter our lobby doors, they’re invited in by characters from our very first act,” Loizides says. “We serve warm apple cider, we have
Allman Betts Family Revival
live music from some of our most talented youth on Long Island, and we try to capture the spirit of the season of giving within our community. Our audiences are growing tenfold because of that comfort.”
The lobby transformation mirrors the company’s mission: to create a space that feels familiar, nostalgic, and welcoming — something Loizides believes people crave amid today’s fastpaced, hyper-digital world.
“So many things get wrapped up in what’s new on social media or what’s trending,” she says “But this time of year, people want tradition. They want to feel grounded. That’s what we offer.”
This year’s production — as always — features an impressive roster of professional dancers. Brittany Pollack, a soloist with New York City Ballet, and Daniel Ulbricht, a principal dancer with the company and artistic advisor for NYDT, take on the roles of the Sugar Plum Fairy and her Cavalier. Broadway performers Joseph J. Simeone and Samuel Colina also appear, joining New York Dance Theatre soloists Sandra Cieslak, Olivia Fohsz, Trevor Montgomery, and Craig Wasserman.
Loizides also returns to the stage, portraying Frau Silberhaus. It’s a moment she describes as both personal and symbolic, especially as the company prepares to enter its 50th anniversary year.
North Shore Village Theatre Artistic Director Christopher Moll returns for his third season in the featured roles of Lead Father and Mother Ginger, contributing to the intercompany collaboration that has become a production hallmark.
Children’s roles are danced by students of the Ohman School of Ballet and the School of American Ballet, the official training academy of New York City Ballet. For many young performers, “The Nutcracker” is their first experience dancing alongside professionals, a tradition that honors Frank Ohman’s commitment to nurturing the next generation.
NYDT’s devotion to tradition is not abstract — it lives in the steps, sets, props, and costumes that have shaped the production for decades. Ohman secured permission from the George Balanchine Trust to use the original Sugar Plum Fairy pas de deux, grounding the show in Balanchine’s distinctive style. He also created supplementary scenes and dances that appear in no other staging, adding 10 to 15 minutes to the ballet and expanding opportunities for young dancers.
“What Frank added doesn’t exist anywhere else,” Loizides says. “It gives more solo moments to our youth, especially the young Clara, and it brings additional cultural dances into the second act. It’s something very special.”
Many of the costumes and props used onstage were gifted directly from Balanchine and former New York City Ballet crew members and are now entering formal archival preservation. Some pieces, Loizides notes, are still durable enough to appear in performance.
“That tradition dates back over 50 years,” she says.“These items are a direct link to Balanchine himself. They’re part of our history.”
As the company prepares to embark on its 50th anniversary, she is focused on balancing innovation with the artistic values that first shaped the organization.
“For us, even with new opportunities and initiatives all year, the Nutcracker stays rooted in tradition,” she adds. “This is where our community gathers. It’s where people feel at home.”
Get ready for an unforgettable night of music at the 9th Annual Allman Betts Family Revival! This extraordinary concert is hosted by Devon Allman and Duane Betts, the sons of Allman Brothers Band legends Gregg Allman and Dickey Betts. Inspired by the legendary Last Waltz, this tour features a revolving cast all coming together to honor the timeless legacy and rich catalog of the Allman Brothers Band. This year’s amazing lineup features the Allman Betts Band, the iconic Jimmy Hall, former Wet Willie singer and Allman Brothers alumni; alongside Robert Randolph, Amanda Shires, G. Love, Judith Hill, Jimmy Hall, Cody & Luther Dickinson, Alex Orbison, and others. Special guests may also join in. Set against the backdrop of the famous Allman Brothers Brotherhood of Light show, blending electrifying music with stunning visuals, it’s an unforgettable night that honors the rich history and timeless catalog of the Allman Brothers Band.
Sunday, Dec. 7, 8 p.m. $108.75, $64.75. The Paramount, 370 New York Ave., Huntington. Tickets available at ticketmaster.com or paramountny.com.
‘Home for the Holidays’
Swing into the holiday season with Home for the Holidays with the Future of Jazz Orchestra presented in collaboration with Jazz at Lincoln Center. Under the musical direction of Joe Block, expect to hear refreshing takes of your favorite holiday tunes. Joining the orchestra are vocalists Katie Oberholtzer and Imani Rousselle. Oberholtzer, a recurring figure at Birdland, the Jazz Club at the Aman, and Dizzy’s Club, has captivated audiences with her cross-genre performances. Rousselle, recently seen in Broadway’s “Good Night and Good Luck,” is celebrated for the warmth and poise she brings to stage. The Future of Jazz Orchestra is a young big band collective curated by Jazz at Lincoln Center that is comprised of musicians at the start of their jazz career. Pulling from local education programs at Juilliard, Temple, Manhattan School of Music, and more, the orchestra showcases musicians who are fresh on the jazz scene in NYC.
Saturday, Dec. 6, 8 p.m. Tilles Center, LIU Post campus, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville. Tickets available at ticketmaster.com or tillescenter.org or (516) 299-3100.
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New York City Ballet soloist Brittany Pollack and principal dancer Daniel Ulbricht return to NYDT’s production of “The Nutcracker.”
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The climax of the first act is the battle between Clara’s toy soldier army, led by her beloved Nutcracker doll come to life, against an army of larger than life mice and their Mouse King.
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In the opening Christmas party scene, Herr Silberhaus (Chris Moll of Glen Cove) leads the children in a festive dance.
YOUR NEIGHBORHOOD CALENDAR
DEC 4
East Meadow Holiday Lighting
The East Meadow community celebrates the holidays with its annual tree lighting.
• Where: Veterans Memorial Park, 1700 Prospect Ave.
• Time: 6 p.m.
• Contact: eastmeadowchamber. com
Bowling Meet n’ Greet
Meet PBA Tour pro Sean Rash at Bowlero in East Meadow! This experience is exclusive for bowling members at Bowlero.
• Where: 1840 Front St., East Meadow
• Time: 7:30 p.m.
• Contact: Call (516) 794-1111 for more
‘Everybody Loves Raymond: Celebrating 30 Years’
Visit the Long Island Music and Entertainment Hall of Fame for its latest exhibit. It features the 70-foot-wide set from the show’s recent 30th anniversary TV special on CBS, never before on display. The exhibit (designed by LIMEHOF Creative Director and renowned designer Kevin O’Callaghan) is a completely immersive experience. Visitors can walk into the world of the Barone family and explore their home through original studio sets. The sets include the living room, the kitchen, and other areas of the house. Visitors will also be able to see a variety of iconic items, including original clothing, the famous fork and spoon, and the Christmas toaster, among other classic items from the series. Multimedia clips, including behind the scenes and rare out-takes and a range of videos related to the show, will play in LIMEHOF’s surround sound theater.
• Where: 97 Main St., Stony Brook
• Time: 11 a.m.-6 p.m.
• Contact: limusichalloffame.org or (631) 689-5888
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Salisbury Tree Lighting
The Salisbury community celebrates the holidays with its annual lighting.
• Where: Carman Ave. and Lake Lane intersection, Salisbury
• Time: 4 p.m.
• Contact: eastmeadowchamber. com
The Nutcracker Leggz Ltd. Dance rings in the holiday season with Tchaikovsky’s classic ballet, now in its. 10th
DEC 16
Elon Gold
Art talk Join contemporary artist Eric Dever at Nassau County Museum of Art. His vibrant, process-driven paintings explore material, movement, and transformation. Drawing inspiration from Surrealist techniques like decalcomania and grattage, pioneered by Max Ernst and Jean Dubuffet, Dever reveals unexpected textures and forms that merge chance with intentional expression. $20, $15 seniors, $10 students (members free). Limited seating, register in advance.
• Where: 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor
• Time: 3 p.m.
• Contact: nassaumuseum.org or (516) 484-9337
Holiday Flute Choir
• Where: The Paramount, 370 New York Ave., Huntington
• Time: 7:30 p.m.
• Contact: ticketmaster.com or paramountny.com
Close out 2025 with some laughs with comedian Elon Gold, best known for his relatable takes on being Jewish and getting through the weirdness of life. Considered by many to be this generation’s Borscht Belt King, he’s no stranger to those who watch Netflix. His act brings laughs to both Jews and non-Jews alike all over the world, including sold out shows in England, Sydney and Johannasburg. He’s made dozens of memorable appearances on late-night talk shows and TV series, especially his hilarious recurring role as Head of Hulu on “Curb Your Enthusiasm” opposite Larry David. His one hour Netflix stand-up special, “Elon Gold: Chosen & Taken” received wide acclaim from audiences and peers alike and is currently streaming on Amazon Prime. He has made ten appearances on the “Tonight Show” and recently performed on “The Late Late Show with James Corden.” His routines have gone viral and are shared by millions around the globe. He has starred in FOX’s “Stacked” and developed and starred in the NBC series, “In-Laws.” Prior guest star credits include “Crashing,” “Frasier,” “Chappelle’s Show,” and “Chelsea Lately” among others. He was also a writer/performer on ABC’s “The Dana Carvey Show.” Most recently, Elon can be seen in a recurring role on Season 11 of HBO’s “Curb Your Enthusiasm,” and will be in the upcoming Kal Penn feature, “Trust Me, I’m A Doctor.” He has also just wrapped filming the titular role in the upcoming feature “The Badchan,” from renowned Israeli director Gidi Dar. $76.25 and $54.25..
season at the Madison Theater. Under the leadership of Artistic Director Joan MacNaughton, international ballet stars are joined by gifted young dancers from all over the metropolitan area. The South Shore Symphony brilliantly brings to life the composer’s extraordinary music making this magical extravaganza a must-see for everyone!
• Where: Madison Theatre, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre
Long Island Children’s Museum welcomes back this delightful production, based on Mo Willems’ award-winning “Pigeon” picture books. Don’t Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus! The Musical! is even more fun than staying up late and having a hot dog party. It’s not easy being the Pigeon — you never get to do anything. But when the Bus Driver has a crisis that threatens to make her passengers (gasp!) late, maybe that wily bird can do something. Featuring an innovative mix of songs, and feathers, this show is sure to get everyone’s
wings flapping. $11 with museum admission ($9 members), $15 theater only.
• Where: Museum Row, Garden City
• Time: 10:15 a.m. and noon.; also Dec. 7, 2:15, p.m., Dec. 10-12
• Contact: licm.org or (516) 224-5800
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Holiday at Westbury House
Celebrate the holiday season at Old Westbury Gardens when the timeless holiday tradition returns. Step inside Westbury House and experience the magic of Christmas past with rooms beautifully decorated in period style and filled with festive cheer. Stroll through the gardens, enjoy holiday treats like cookies and warm cider, and don’t miss a special visit from Santa himself. $18, $15 seniors (62+) and fulltime students, $8 children (ages 7–17), free 6 and under and members.
• Where: 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury
• Time: 10 a.m.-3 p.m., also Dec. 7, 10 a.m.-4 p.m., and Dec. 13-14, Dec. 20-21
• Contact: oldwestburygardens. org or call (516) 333-0048
‘Into the Woods Jr.’ Temple B’nai Torah Junior Players welcome all to their staging of “Into the Woods Jr.” Stephen Sondheim’s and James Lapine’s cockeyed fairytale comes to life in this adaptation of their groundbreaking, Tony Award-winning musical. All of your favorite characters — Cinderella, Little Red Riding Hood, Jack (and his beanstalk) and the Witch are in action in this lyrically rich retelling of classic Brothers Grimm fables, ideal for young audiences. $20, $15 seniors, $10 youth.
• Where: 2900 Jerusalem Ave. Wantagh
• Time: 7 p.m., also Dec. 7, 2 p.m., and Dec. 13
• Contact: (516) 221-2370 or email tbttix@temple-bnaitorah.org
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‘A Christmas Carol’ with Gerald Dickens
Gerald Dickens, the great-great-grandson of Charles Dickens, perform his one-man rendition of “A Christmas Carol” at East Meadow Public Library.
• Where: 1886 Front St.
• Time: 2 p.m.
• Contact: EastMeadow.info
Long Island Flute Club’s Holiday Flute Choir returns to Westbury House’s Red Ballroom with “Silvery Sounds of the Season,” an hour-long concert of holiday carols and seasonal favorites. The choir, which has performed at Old Westbury Gardens since 2007, consists of professional and adult amateur flutists from across Long Island. The choir is under the direction of flutist and Old Westbury Gardens docent Lauren Osnato. Seating is limited; arrive early to ensure entrance to the concert. Included with admission.
• Where: 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury
• Time: 2:30-3:30 p.m.
• Contact: oldwestburygardens. org or call (516) 333-0048
Splish Splash… Animal Bath
Hang out with some Long Island Children’s Museum’s “residents” at the drop-in program. Join an animal educator in the Hive Studio’s in the Feasts for Beasts Gallery to learn what goes into the care of LICM’s animal “residents.” Observe animal bath time.
• Where: Museum Row, Garden City
• Time: 1:30-2 p.m.
• Contact: licm.org or call (516) 224-5800
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Kindergarteners keep their ‘senses’ in mind
Kindergartners at Parkway Elementary School in East Meadow turned their classroom into a lively laboratory of discovery on Nov. 10 as they dove into a hands-on lesson for their Five Senses Unit. The room buzzed with curiosity as students rotated through interactive stations, each designed to help them understand how sight, sound, taste, touch and smell shape the way we experience the world.
Working in small groups, children peered through magnifying glasses to hunt for hidden objects and shook tiny pumpkins to guess the mystery sounds inside. Laughter and wide eyes filled the room as students sampled foods ranging from salty to sweet, sour to bitter, comparing their reactions and discussing what each taste reminded them of. Their sense of touch took center stage as they decorated miniature scarecrows with textured fabric patches, feeling the difference between soft, smooth and scratchy materials.
At the smell stations, the exploration continued. Students created colorful drawings with scented markers and challenged themselves to identify mystery scents tucked inside closed containers. Throughout the day, they recorded notes and shared their observations, embracing the role of young scientists as they made predictions, tested ideas and compared discoveries with classmates.
The immersive experience helped bring the kindergarten curriculum to life, giving students a joyful way to build real-world connections while learning — and exploring — together.
–Jordan Vallone
Public Notices
LEGAL NOTICE SUPREME COURT STATE OF NEW YORK COUNTY OF NASSAU CITIZENS BANK, N.A., Plaintiff, -againstRINA LUCA; ROCCO LUCA; ANDRIY KUCHMA; ANTHONY MARTINICO; JOSEPH MARTINICO
SR.; JOSEPH MARTINICO JR., Defendants. SUMMONS WITH NOTICE
Index No. 614091/2024 TO ANDRIY KUCHMA: YOU ARE HEREBY SUMMONED and required to serve upon plaintiff’s attorneys an answer to the complaint in this action within twenty (20) days after the service of this summons, exclusive of the day of service, or within thirty (30) days after service is complete if the summons is not personally served upon you within the State of New York. The United
States, if designated a defendant on this action, may appear or answer within sixty (60) days of service. In case of your failure to answer, judgment will be taken against you for the relief demanded in the complaint. The basis of the venue designated is that the mortgaged property is located in Nassau County.
Dated: November 24, 2025
COOPER ERVING & SAVAGE LLP
Albany, New York BY: Matthew E. Minniefield, Esq. Attorneys for Plaintiff 20 Corporate Woods Blvd., Suite 501 Albany, New York 12211 (518) 449-3900
TO:ANDRIY KUCHMA: The foregoing summons is served upon you by publication pursuant to an Order of the Hon. Carolyn Mazzu Genovesi, Justice of the
Supreme Court of the State of New York, dated the 13th day of November, 2025, and filed with the complaint and other papers in the Office of the Clerk of Nassau County.
This is an action for foreclosure of a mortgage made by Rina Luca and Rocco Luca to Citizens Bank, N.A. (f/k/a RBS Citizens, N.A.), in the original amount of $225,000.00 with interest, dated July 13, 2011, recorded November 14, 2012 in the Nassau County Clerk’s Office in Liber M 37942 at page 483. The relief sought is the foreclosure of the mortgage lien and the public sale of the mortgaged premises and in case of your failure to appear, judgment may be taken against you extinguishing any interest or judgment lien you may have in the mortgaged
premises. The premises indexed in this action are described and commonly known as 1583 Warren Street, East Meadow, Town of Hempstead, County of Nassau, and State of New York (SBL#: 50-59-57 (Lot Group 57-59)). A copy of the full legal description can be obtained by contacting counsel below.
Dated: November 24, 2025
COOPER ERVING & SAVAGE LLP
Albany, New York BY: Matthew E. Minniefield, Esq. Attorneys for Plaintiff 20 Corporate Woods Blvd., Suite 501 Albany, New York 12211 (518) 449-3900 mminniefield@coopere rving.com 157079
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On renovations and tax increases
Q. There’s a lot of renovation going on around us, and I don’t see one permit sign or window sign. One neighbor told me he didn’t want his taxes to go up, so he’ll get a permit if he gets caught or when he sells. Isn’t that taking a chance? Will taxes definitely go up, and what are my chances of getting caught for adding a roof over my front door and changing out my windows?
A. Whenever a carton of milk is tipped over on the table, there are those who immediately start mopping up the spill, while others quickly grab the carton to stop the spill at its source. Some try to solve the problem, while others try to fix the mess it creates.
Taxes are the biggest worry, it seems, when it comes to renovation, and the number one question I get. I’m not sure if you’ll get caught, but since taxes don’t reduce, it’s safe to say that you could do nothing and your taxes will go up. I have been advocating for years to have a two-tier property tax system in which your house is taxed separately from property taxes. Many municipalities, from Philadelphia and Boston to cities and towns across Connecticut, Massachusetts and Pennsylvania, have explored and adopted this system, in which building improvements are taxed one-fifth of what they would be in your county.
All the savings for your home renovation, no matter how big or small, encourage public safety through permits and improvements. Where penalties for working without a permit are enforced on the builder, as in New York City, builders doing work, and not just the property owner, have a financial stake, and the local economy gets stronger from sales taxes instead of penalizing people, forever, because they wanted a family room, etc. Sadly, what happens in your county is that the system actually promotes unsafe practices, code violations, work needing to be redone once the owner “gets caught,” such as redoing piping, kitchen removal and zoning hearings that could have been avoided if there were planning, permits and strong penalties.
I regularly get questions about whether existing work “meets code,” when people completely misunderstand that building codes are the bare minimum, and do not fully cover the tolerances or behavior of materials, specific life safety issues or special cases requiring more stringent engineering, from resisting freezing to melting, weak soil, explosion or flame spread, to name a few. It’s common because of your local tax and permit system, and almost seems to be encouraged by allowing people to file to “maintain” work, built illegally, in essence mopping up the spill instead of helping people avoid the spill in the first place.
Building departments accommodate hidden work by simply asking owners to have a licensed professional accept responsibility, stating in letters and in plans that the work is code-compliant, as if professionals have a special super power to see through walls. But no use crying over spilled milk, right? Good luck!
Readers are encouraged to send questions to yourhousedr@aol.com, with “Herald question” in the subject line, or to Herald Homes, 2 Endo Blvd., Garden City, NY 11530, Attn: Monte Leeper, architect.
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Merriam-Webster’s dictionary meaning of peace is: a state of tranquility or quiet, freedom from civil disturbance; a state of security or order within a community provided for by law or custom; freedom from disquieting or oppressive thoughts or emotions; harmony in personal relations; a state or period of mutual concord between governments; or a pact or agreement to end hostilities between those who have been at war or in a state of enmity. To achieve true peace, I believe it is important for people to first feel peace internally — a state of tranquility or quiet. Personal peace is often not discussed as much as it should be. If there is peace within oneself, it is easier to find peace in a non-peaceful world.
Creating an environment of peace and calm can be challenging when distraction and lack of attention seem to be the default for many people today. Peace is something that can be modeled
Hby our family, friends, mentors, community and leaders. When you see what peaceful behavior looks like from people around you, you start to feel peace. Perhaps that feeling is like a softening in your body, a sense of stability, confidence, grounding and reduced emotional reaction. When you’re in a state of peace, it creates a space, a pause and a chance to breathe and choose a thoughtful response rather than an emotional reaction.
There are many ways for people to develop their own peace. For example, sitting quietly, spending time with a pet, taking a nature walk, talking to a friend, reading, writing, joining organizations with like-minded people and giving back to the community. When people give back, the community benefits, as do those doing the giving, with surges of happiness and feelings of purpose.
the Four Way Test, a reminder to make sure we live up to the Rotary standards of truth, fairness, goodwill and friendship.
elping others makes you happy and gives you a feeling of purpose.
I get this feeling of peace when I work with my local Rotary Club, which offers access to an international organization of like-minded people who believe in fellowship, strengthening communities and overall peace. We begin every Rotary meeting by reciting
If those in warring factions and nations could find ways to develop inner peace, there could be a lot less conflict. In a peaceful state of mind, they might be more likely to achieve a positive outcome for situations in which a collective effort leads to greater benefit, a win-win where the parties gain more than they initially possessed, rather than fixed outcomes in which one side’s gain is the other’s loss. When people just look out for themselves in a zero-sum fashion, they create feelings of isolation and lack of support. This sense of loneliness can also lead to higher levels of emotional dysregulation. Decisions made in a dysregulated, non-peaceful state of mind are often emotionally reactive, not helpful and not thoughtful.
As humans being, we want to thrive in our world — in our nation, in our community, in our group of friends and in our family. To make ourselves feel better, it is essential to support and
encourage one another to be the best we can instead of putting others down. If someone you know gets a big job promotion or achieves something new, you should be genuinely happy for them, not jealous of them. This also creates a sense of peace in ourselves instead of anger, anxiety or comparison.
During peaceful times, individuals, communities and nations can prosper. Being in a constant state of war or violence toward others or oneself leads only to agitation and turmoil. When we’re more connected to one another we are less isolated, feel supported and experience less emotional distress and more peace.
I encourage you to think about ways to connect more, perhaps by joining a community organization, getting involved in a social group or taking up a hobby. Take your attention off a screen, off social media and off parasocial relationships in which you get empty calories, thinking you’ve found peace but are just being led by an algorithm toward a zero-sum conflict. Remember that being a human is messy and difficult, but that is where the true peace of mind, body and soul are found.
Jordan Pecora, who lives in Rockville Centre, is the immediate past president of the Freeport-Merrick Rotary Club.
How tackling racism broadened my horizons
As a Mepham High School student in Bellmore in 2021, I joined ERASE Racism’s Student Task Force. I remained an active member of the task force up until I started college in the summer of 2023. I was never surprised by how meaningful my work was, but what surprised me was how many ways I benefited from my time at ERASE Racism.
I’m still benefiting, as a student on a full scholarship at the University of Richmond, where I’m now on a semester abroad, studying cities through people, planning and politics. The Long Island region is benefiting as well, as more homegrown leaders prepare to take the lead.
ERASE Racism’s Student Task Force is composed of high school students from across Long Island who are passionate about racial justice and making positive change in their schools and communities. It helps students develop their leadership skills, identify their
strengths and assets, and build alliances with students of different racial, ethnic and religious backgrounds as well as across school districts. Its members work collaboratively on projects that further racial justice.
One of the best parts of the task force was getting to meet students from across Long Island with diverse backgrounds whom I never would have met otherwise. One such friend was a student at Baldwin High School at the time, and is now at Columbia University. We still get together during college breaks.
nity Leadership Program.
I benefited in so many ways as an ERASE Racism Student Task Force Member.
Working with a wide variety of students from different districts, my perception of myself as a leader grew. Together we explored challenges to racial justice, shared our experiences and insights, and considered how best to overcome barriers. Together we organized events like the annual Long Island Leaders of Tomorrow Conference and, for three summers, prepared and presented at the Reimagining Education Summer Institute at Teachers College. I also became part of the Mepham School and Commu-
Those activities inspired my passion for multiculturalism, and the experience that I gained in the process made me a stronger candidate for college. In my college applications, I drew on my experience with two Long Island Leaders of Tomorrow conferences and three Reimagining Education institutes. Based on those applications, I earned two college scholarships, which together cover my entire tuition, room and board. Today I am both a Richmond Scholar and an Oliver Hill Scholar at Richmond.
Now, as an Ambassador for the Richmond Scholars program, I read applications of scholar candidates and understand even better how compelling experiences like the ones I had as a Student Task Force member can be. I even return each year to ERASE Racism to talk with task force members about college essays.
Now studying abroad, I’m continuing to explore my passion for multiculturalism. My studies are taking me to Argentina, Spain and South Africa, as I conduct a research project on migration in urban settings.
High school students on Long Island have many benefits on which to draw, but Long Island remains one of the 10 most racially segregated metropolitan regions in the United States. That segregation is reinforced in education by the fact that suburban Long Island’s two counties are divided into 125 school districts that reflect the racial segregation in housing. The districts in turn prevent students even in neighboring villages from knowing one another and benefiting from their diverse perspectives.
High school students should look for ways to overcome that barrier. The absurd number of school districts — and the extraordinary waste of taxpayer money involved — may not change soon, but students can take steps to cross those boundaries and get to know one another. ERASE Racism’s Student Task Force is one avenue. The resulting friendships and the insights shared are vital to the region’s future. Many more Long Island high school students may just find, as I did, that working to advance racial justice will create a new generation of leaders who seek to overcome existing barriers. They may just discover that they become those leaders themselves.
Alli Alvarez, who lives in Bellmore, is a junior at the University of Richmond.
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Dialing down the holiday stress
the holiday season carries a reputation for joy, connection and celebration, yet for many adults it also reliably delivers stress, pressure and emotional overload. Between family dynamics, financial expectations, packed schedules and the internal push to be relentlessly cheerful, it’s no surprise that mental health can take a hit.
This year, consider a more intentional approach by reclaiming this time with strategies that help you thrive, not just survive.
Our culture is saturated with glossy versions of holiday perfection: immaculate homes, harmonious families, gourmet meals and coordinated pajamas.
Social media amplifies it, encouraging comparison even when we know better. But perfection is both impossible and unnecessary. A successful holiday isn’t measured by aesthetics or extravagance; it’s defined by what feels meaningful, peaceful and manageable for you.
One of the healthiest mental shifts you can make is letting go of other people’s expectations, whether it’s your extended family’s traditions or the imaginary audience in your Instagram feed. Give yourself permission to scale down, choose differently, or avoid what drains you. The real “perfect” holiday is the one that supports your well-being.
If there is one skill that reduces holiday stress more than anything else, it’s
boundary-setting. The season often arrives with invitations, obligations and emotional expectations that stack up quickly. Saying yes to everything is unsustainable and usually unnecessary.
A “polite no” doesn’t require elaborate excuses. Try simple scripts such as:
“I appreciate the invite, but I’m keeping things low-key this year.”
“That sounds meaningful, but I can’t take on anything extra right now.”
Setting limits isn’t unkind — it’s responsible. Boundaries protect the energy you need for the commitments and people that genuinely matter.
Holiday spending is one of the biggest, and most underestimated, sources of December stress. Gift-giving can be joyful, but only when it’s grounded in reality rather than guilt or comparison.
Create a budget before you shop, not afterward. Consider setting price caps for group exchanges, opting for homemade gifts or planning shared experiences rather than material items. Most important, reject the mindset that whispers that love must be proven through financial sacrifice. Some of the most meaningful gifts cost nothing: time, connection and attentive presence.
During a season of constant invitations, the most radical choice you can make is protecting your routine. Sleep, movement and downtime are the foundation of mental stability. Schedule “empty time” the same way you would
schedule an appointment. Leave room for rest, flexibility and the ability to say yes to what genuinely nourishes you.
If you rely on therapy, journaling, medication or meditation, guard those habits fiercely. You don’t have to abandon mental health routines simply because the calendar gets festive.
For those experiencing grief, loss or estrangement, the holidays can magnify pain. There is no correct way to “handle” grief during a season of what often feels like forced joy. Give yourself permission to feel whatever arises — sadness, anger, numbness or even unexpected happiness. Create rituals that honor lost loved ones, allow yourself space to step back from celebrations, or connect with others navigating similar emotions. You are not required to “perform” cheerfulness.
January often hits like emotional whiplash. Build in recovery time rather than expecting yourself to launch into new-year productivity immediately. Plan a quiet weekend, revisit your budget, reset your sleep schedule and reestablish routines that ground you. The goal is to ease into the new year, not crash into it.
The holidays don’t need to be an endurance test. With realistic expectations, thoughtful boundaries and a commitment to your mental well-being, you can transform the season from chaotic to intentional.
Health care’s short-term fix and long-term solution
The biggest issue around most Thanksgiving tables last week — other than gratitude — was just how expensive everything seemed. Costs have risen sharply in the past few years, and people are looking for answers.
People are sick of politicians’ petty partisan attacks. They’re asking, “What can you do to make life more affordable?” Some things are straightforward: tariffs make groceries, clothing and Christmas presents more expensive. The growing federal debt is driving up interest rates. Demand for energy to power A.I. data centers, combined with the cancellation of a bunch of green-energy projects, is driving up energy costs. Fewer workers on farms and in industrial plants, hospitality and health care due to deportation — or being scared to show up for work — increases overtime costs.
Rising health care costs are at the top of the affordability crisis list, but addressing those costs is extraordinarily complex.
First, we need an immediate fix in
the next few weeks to extend premium tax credits to avoid an explosion in health insurance premiums for millions of Americans. Then, over the next two years, we need to develop a bipartisan plan to reduce hyperinflated health care costs meaningfully.
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Right now, over 20 million Americans rely on the Affordable Care Act’s enhanced Premium Tax Credits to afford health insurance. These credits, which expire at the end of the year, require a person buying health insurance to pay 8.5 percent of their income for coverage, with the rest covered by the federal government. If Congress fails to fix this soon, those millions will see their premiums jump by hundreds, even thousands, of dollars, overnight. For many, that would mean losing coverage altogether. Even those who don’t use the credits would be affected: When the risk pool shrinks, premiums rise for everyone.
in the system and ensure that the program functions as intended.
This bill isn’t perfect, but no bipartisan compromise is. Time is running out, and my colleagues and I haven’t seen anyone else stepping up with a truly bipartisan plan. So we did.
n a litany of steps we need to take to improve our system, a few stand out.
Next, the long-term solution: Over the next two years, we need a bipartisan effort to address the decades-long rise in health care costs. Health care is too expensive. Insurance is too expensive. The Affordable Care Act achieved its objective of insuring tens of millions of Americans who had never been insured. Before the ACA, 50 million people were uninsured; today, that number is less than half.
increase life expectancy. Smoking, alcohol, improper diet and lack of exercise are the leading avoidable causes of premature death. We have made significant strides in addressing smoking; we need to do the same with obesity. We must do better! Let’s emphasize healthy eating and exercise, de-incentivize alcohol, and get the medical community more focused on prevention and early detection.
Doctors should be guiding treatment, not insurance companies. Physician payments have fallen dramatically, while doctor expenses have risen by even more. In a world where doctors are subject to burnout, excessive lawsuits and spending more time on defensive paperwork than patient care, our physician pool is hemorrhaging.
First, the immediate fix: I recently introduced the Bipartisan HOPE Act. It would extend the premium tax credits for two years, and institute a salary cap to target assistance to those most in need.
The act also includes strong guardrails to combat fraud, with protections that safeguard taxpayers, restore trust
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SUNY errs in rejecting Conzatti appointment
To the Editor:
Re last week’s story “Rejection of NCC leader sparks opposition”: As a former member of the Nassau Community College board of trustees, I take exception to the arbitrary and meritless decision by the SUNY board of trustees in denying the application of the college’s chief administrative officer, Maria Conzatti, for a permanent position.
SUNY’s board voted 12-0 to reject Ms. Conzatti’s application without a scintilla of reason or justification for such a monumental decision, impacting almost 18,000 students and over 800 faculty members. By creating this crater in leadership at the college, when public educational institutions face so much uncertainty and financial challenges, SUNY is overtly causing an unnecessary and counterintuitive crisis that could have been avoided.
I have known Maria Conzatti for almost 14 years, and she has demonstrated a clear and unequivocal track record as an effective, dedicated and professional administrator who has earned the trust of the students, faculty and administration over a multi-decade career at NCC.
As a legislator, I, along with my colleagues, have an obligation to ensure that
our contribution to the college’s budget is being applied judiciously and appropriately. For SUNY to now leave the college rudderless until a permanent leader is found — which, in my experience, can take up to a year — is irresponsible and concerning to me and the taxpayers of Nassau County.
ARNOLD W. DRUCkER Plainview
Arnold Drucker is the deputy minority leader of the Nassau County Legislature, and was a member of the Nassau Community College board of trustees until 2016.
Curtis Sliwa didn’t keep Andrew Cuomo from winning
To the Editor:
I was surprised, when reading Peter king’s op-ed “Local triumphs on a night Republicans didn’t expect” (Nov. 13-19), by his statement, “Curtis Sliwa siphoned off votes that might have made the difference.”
Even when adding Sliwa’s 7.1 percent of the vote to Andrew Cuomo’s 41.6 percent in the New York City mayoral election, they still fall significantly short of
In a litany of steps we need to take to improve our system, a few stand out. The government desperately needs to lower prescription drug costs. The Biden administration passed legislation that allowed Medicare to negotiate prices on 25 drugs, but we need more. President Trump said himself that Big Pharma is “getting away with murder.”
We need to do a much better job on preventive care. People need to be healthier, and medical issues must be addressed long before they spiral out of control. Doing so will save money and
I’ve been in public service for the better part of 30 years, as the mayor of Glen Cove, Nassau County executive, and now in Congress. I’ve learned that one-party solutions are fleeting, easily replaced. We need a bipartisan fix now, and over the next two years I pledge to work with my colleagues in the Problem Solvers Caucus — a bipartisan group of members that I co-chair, that is committed to solving complex problems — to develop a robust health care framework that lowers costs for generations to come.
Tom Suozzi represents the 3rd Congressional District.
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Zohran Mamdani’s decisive victory. I’m not sure why there’s the need to minimize Mamdani’s popularity. Clearly he’s resonating with a lot of people, and I don’t think pretending
that he’s not will be useful or productive for the next election cycle.
Tom suozzi
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