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Kiwanis kicks off the season of holiday giving the community,” she said. “It’s really not too hard to get that many volunteers, because As T hanksgiving nears, everyone is always really eager East Meadow High School’s to help out, which is very exciting to see.” Key Club wrapped up one of Yee’s advisor, Catherine its most impactful weekends of Razzano, who chairs Kiwanis’ service, collecting hundreds of food items during its annual food drives, said working with students brings its fall food drive outown rewards. side ShopRite in “A n n a b e l w a s Uniondale on Satextremely shy urday and Sunday. when I first met Students spent her,” she said. “She both days stationed has brought the outside the store Ke y C l u b t o a n from mor ning electronic a g e, until early afterwhich is amazing.” noon encouraging This fall’s drive shoppers to donate will suppor t 118 goods for neighfamilies, Razzano bors in need. The effort, run in part- DoNNA GolDStEIN said, underscoring the value of comnership with the President, m u n i t y i nvo l ve Kiwanis Club of Kiwanis Club ment during just a East Meadow, drew of East Meadow few concentrated strong participadays of service. tion from the com“It’s paramount that, while munity — and from the roughly 150 Key Club members who our youth get involved, our entire community gets volunteered their time. Annabel Yee, the Key Club’s involved in just a few days of president, helped lead students service,” she said. The drive was particularly in the effort throughout the vital this year as households weekend. “It gives students an oppor- continue to face food insecuritunity to show up — not just to ties, especially with the uncervolunteer, but also experience Continued on page 10
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A fantasy wonderland in Eisenhower Park LuminoCity, a holiday-themed lantern festival, is back in Eisenhower Park. Open through Jan. 1, 2026, Nassau County residents will have the opportunity to explore 14-acres of impressive creations and dazzling displays. Cassie Yu, 6, of Oceanside, in front of her drawing of ‘Icy the Bunny,’ now on display in the park. Story, more photos, Page 3.
Reimagining East Meadow Presentation highlights possible capital improvements By JoRDAN VAlloNE jvallone@liherald.com
The East Meadow community got its first look at a long list of capital improvements that may be coming down the pipeline. A presentation by Superintendent of Schools Ken Rosner at the Nov. 12 school board meeting, dubbed “Reimagining East Meadow,” has been in the works for about two years, Rosner explained, and focused on a myriad of building improvements and construction projects around the East Meadow School District. “Building improvement projects are planned collaboratively with the district administration, parents, teachers, staff — with support from dis-
trict architects and the new project manager that we have brought on to address both current and future needs,” Rosner said at the meeting, held at the Salisbury Center. Every year, the school district prepares its annual budget, presents it to the community and votes on in May. It covers operating costs, salaries, supplies, transportation and small-scale building projects, Rosner explained. Funding for that budget comes from various sources, including state and local property taxes and federal grants. Over the last few years, budgets that have passed have allocated funds towards certain projects around the district, on a schedule that Rosner and district administration cannot Continued on page 7
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Walk for Epilepsy rallies Long Islanders By JORDAN VALLONE jvallone@liherald.com
The EPIC Family of Human Service Agencies, which includes the Epilepsy Foundation Long Island, hosted its annual Walk for Epilepsy at Eisenhower Park, drawing more than 1,000 participants in a show of solidarity for those living with the neurological condition. The event aimed to raise $126,000 — a figure symbolizing the statistic that one in 26 people will develop epilepsy in their lifetime — and has already generated nearly $95,000. The walk emphasized the importance of education, advocacy and community for the more than 35,000 Long Islanders affected by epilepsy. “Epilepsy affects so many lives — children, families and individuals across every community,” said Lisa Burch, president and chief executive of the EPIC LISA BuRCH Family of President and chief Human Service Agencies. executive, EPIC Family of Human “Through the Walk for EpilepService Agencies sy, we are standing together to raise awareness, strengthen understanding and empower those living with epilepsy to live full and confident lives. The community’s generosity and energy make this event so meaningful year after year.” The Walk for Epilepsy is part of a national effort to bring greater visibility to epilepsy, one of the most common yet misunderstood neurological disorders. About 3.4 million people in the United States — including 470,000 children — are living with epilepsy, which can affect every aspect of daily life. The annual walk helps increase awareness, reduce stigma and fund programs that provide education, support and advocacy to families across Long Island. This year’s grand marshal was 16-year-old Kassandra Facey, honored for her advocacy and personal strength. Facey experienced her first tonic-clonic seizure at age 16, a life-changing moment that launched her into awareness efforts. Now an author and founder of Kassy’s Corner, she works to create a safe, inclusive space for people with epilepsy, special needs and their families to connect and support one another. “Kassandra’s courage and dedication to helping others embody the spirit of what this event is all about,” said Irene Rodgers, chief development and engagement officer. “Her story reminds us that with understanding, compassion and community, no one has to face epilepsy alone.” Participants at the walk wore custom team shirts honoring loved ones, while
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The EPIC Family of Human Service Agencies hosted its annual Epilepsy Foundation walk, raising funds and awareness for epilepsy, one of the most common yet misunderstood neurological disorders.
About the EPIC Family of Human Service Agencies EPIC Long Island ■ Operates a day habilitation program in East Meadow ■ Runs 18 group homes across Nassau and Suffolk counties ■ Provides clinical services for children and adults with developmental disabilities ■ Staffed by caregivers who support individuals with a wide range of abilities and challenges
Over 1,000 walkers supported the cause in Eisenhower Park. local sponsors provided refreshments and signage along the route. The event served as both a celebration of resilience and a call to continue supporting essential programs for the epilepsy community. Funds raised through the walk support the Epilepsy Foundation Long Island’s programs, including Seizure Recognition and First Aid Certification Training, school in-service programs, community education, advocacy and monthly workshops, all offered free of charge. The EPIC Family of Human Service Agencies includes three organizations that provide advocacy and healthcare resources for families across Long Island. EPIC Long Island operates a day habilitation program in East Meadow and 18 group homes in Nassau and Suf-
folk counties, providing clinical services for children and adults with developmental disabilities. Each residence is staffed by caregivers who support individuals with varying abilities and challenges. The Epilepsy Foundation Long Island focuses on awareness, advocacy and resources for the 35,000 Long Islanders diagnosed with epilepsy, including community education in schools and healthcare settings and seizure first aid certification training. The South Shore Guidance Center in Freeport, also part of the EPIC family, is an outpatient behavioral health clinic serving Long Islanders of all ages. Services include individual, group and family psychotherapy, substance use treatment, crisis stabilization and medication-assisted treatment.
Epilepsy Foundation Long Island ■ Serves more than 35,000 Long Islanders living with epilepsy ■ Offers seizure first aid certification training and school-based education programs ■ Provides advocacy, community workshops and ongoing support at no cost South Shore Guidance Center – Freeport ■ Outpatient behavioral health clinic serving children, adolescents and adults ■ Offers individual, group and family therapy, substance use treatment and crisis stabilization ■ Provides medication-assisted treatment and other mental health services tailored to diverse needs
Dazzling display returns to Eisenhower Park
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The LuminoCity Festival, a popular holiday lights extravaganza, is back at Nassau County’s Eisenhower Park this winter with an all-new theme and attractions. This year’s theme, “Fantasy Winter Fairyland,” transforms 14 acres of the park into one of the largest immersive walk-through light festivals in the country, featuring dazzling light displays, towering sculptures, and countless photo opportunities. “Each time we return to this remarkable venue is yet another opportunity to deliver on a promise we renew annually — to create indelible holiday memories for each and every one of our guests,” Xiaoyi Chen, founder and chief executive of LuminoCity said. “We are proud to partner with Nassau County once more to present this showcase event, and are beyond thrilled that it has become a tradition for so many in the community. Long Island is our home, and there is no place like home for the holidays.” Among this year’s attractions are a spectacular 50-foot “Castle in the Sky” — one of the tallest light sculptures in North America — a four-story Christmas tree, and millions of LED lights, enough to blanket the Brooklyn Bridge. The festival will also feature winning submissions from the annual Lumi’s Utopia children’s art initiative, now in its fifth year. In partnership with the Long Island Children’s Museum, the program transforms kids’ hand-drawn creations into illuminated 3D sculptures. “I am proud to welcome LuminoCity’s Holiday Lights Festival back to Nassau County’s Eisenhower Park for the 2025 winter season,” said Nassau County Executive Bruce Blakeman. “Each year, this spectacular attraction draws tens of thousands of visitors from across Long Island and beyond, boosting our local economy and showcasing Nassau County as a premier destination for family-friendly events. Whether you’re a lifelong resident or visiting for the first time, I invite everyone to come experience the magic of LuminoCity right here in Eisenhower Park.” The Eisenhower Park event remains LuminoCity’s longest-running signature festival. Since its debut in 2022, more than 160,000 guests have attended. For more information, visit LuminoCityFestival.com.
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The LuminoCity Festival is back in Eisenhower Park this fall and winter, featuring a dazzling lantern and light display — perfect for the holiday season.
This year’s theme is ‘Fantasy Winter Fairyland’ features 14-acres of trails with impressively large displays.
County Executive Bruce Blakeman joined elected officials and community leaders to cut the ribbon, opening the festival on Nov. 7 in the park.
If you go: LuminoCity Festival Where: Eisenhower Park, East Meadow When: Open now through Jan. 1, 2026 Theme: Fantasy Winter Fairyland — featuring 14 acres of dazzling lights, towering sculptures, and immersive displays Highlights: ■ 50-foot “Castle in the Sky,” one of the tallest light sculptures in North America ■ Lumi’s Utopia children’s art installations in partnership with the Long Island Children’s Museum Tickets & Information: LuminoCityFestival.com
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Maria Kousiaris, 9, of Old Brookville, took in the display at opening night.
The lantern display features the artwork of local children. Kemal Yigiter, 7, from Dix Hills, in front of his drawing of ‘Marshmallow’ — all lit up.
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The East Meadow and West Hempstead Fire Departments lined across the Old Westbury Road bridge, as the funeral procession for fallen Firefighter Patrick Brady passed underneath. An 11-year veteran in the FDNY, he died after suffering cardiac arrest.
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things to know: clarke high school By JORDAN VALLONE jvallone@liherald.com
The W.T. Clarke High School Rams boys’ volleyball team completed a season few programs ever experience, finishing 14-0 and topping Conference 2D. Their success was built on an unshakable commitment to teamwork, depth and discipline. What unfolded over the fall was a collective effort that highlighted not just skill, but character.
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The 2025 W.T. Clarke High School Rams varsity boys volleyball team delivered a fall season that will be remembered for years. Their 14-0 record and first-place finish in Nassau County’s Conference 2D were fueled not just by athletic talent, but by a selfless, all-in team mentality. Every player embraced their role, creating an environment where support, trust, and shared purpose guided their preparation. Head coach Tim Thom and assistant coach Dean Lanza cultivated a culture that emphasized family-style cohesion, allowing players to compete with confidence and composure. The Rams didn’t just win matches — they built a framework of unity that shaped how they practiced, how they communicated, and ultimately, how they rose to the top together.
Clarke’s success rested on a lineup that could execute at every position, with players whose strengths complemented one another. Setter Ethan Follick served as the tactical anchor, distributing the ball with poise and enabling a dynamic, unpredictable offense. Hitters Jameson Barry, Daniel Wang and Alex Hall delivered steady, powerful attacks that turned tight rallies into momentum-shifting points. On defense, Alex Babwah and Sami Sheikh provided reliability in the back row, extending plays and keeping the team composed in high-pressure moments. Lateseason surges from Darron and Devin Chen added energy and adaptability, while versatile contributors Patrick Lu, Michael Burriesci and Gavin Tibbal came off the bench to spark crucial stretches.
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The East Meadow School District honored veterans from American Legion Post 1082 during the board of education’s Nov. 13 board meeting at the Salisbury School.
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Kelly Nixon, the district’s director of music and art, handed thank-you cards and gifts to veterans that were crafted by students from all five elementary schools in the district.
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Board meeting focuses on district success amend. “You, the community, approved that,” he explained. “For the most part, we’ve been going through and checking every single project that was promised to the community by vote, and we’re making sure everything is complete.” The projects outlined in last week’s presentation are for “large scale building projects and major renovations,” that cannot be approved in May, Rosner said, referring to them as “big ticket items.” Funding for the capital improvements, he shared, would require a bond — which would also need voter approval. “The bond is simply a means of a school district to borrow money, as you would a mortgage — you pay it back, principal and interest, through a certain number of years, usually 15 or 30,” he said. Projects outlined included safety vestibules at schools, which would be a major, positive security addition. “This is very, very important,” Rosner said. “It’s really at the top of the list. We have spoken about this many times. This is the first line of defense in a school, where parents or teachers and kids are entering.” Another improvement included new Public Address Sound Systems. Rosner said the district may be able to include this in May’s budget vote for elementary schools, but the secondary schools —
Rosner added the district didn’t “go East Meadow and Clarke High School, and Woodland and Clarke Middle School rogue” on anything — recommendations for projects were derived from a building — would be much more expensive. “It’s a very big concern for me,” Ros- conditions survey, which guides prioriner said. “That is the brains of the lock- ties. Several board members had questions down and lockout system, and the ability following the presentation, of classroom teachers to call including Trustee David Carl, the main office, and the main who was curious about what office to communicate in staff engaged in the process each of our classrooms. for deter mining district Right now, we’re working off needs. Depending on the projold technology, and if we’re ect, Rosner said his team going to — over the next five worked with building princito 10 years — grow into some pals and administrators, athof these security systems letic directors at individual that are out there, then we schools, and department have to start with this, and chairs. Outside of the district, that’s why I’m putting it as Ken RosneR they collaborated with tax part of a potential bond.” Superintendent of consultants, a bond council The bond would allow for schools, and experts in the field, allowa refresh and rework of ing district administrators to major athletic fields at sec- East Meadow make informed decisions. o n d a r y s c h o o l s a n d School District “The discussions have just revamped playgrounds at elestarted,” Rosner said, “but I mentary schools. While some projects enhance aesthetics, improve- think overall, we have engaged with peoments to bleachers — such as the ones at ple who have intimate knowledge of each East Meadow High School — are essen- of those areas.” Nancy Widman, another trustee, tial for safety. Rosner also highlighted potential improvements for high school asked about community engagement. “Obviously, we have community resilocker rooms, as well as auditoriums. “It’s all about the children,” he said. dents who don’t have children in the dis“It’s always about the children. It’s about trict,” she said. “How are we going to our community. And I feel really good keep them updated and apprised of about where we are with the first stages what’s going on with the process, and get them on board with this for our school of talking about the bond.”
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district?” Rosner said conscious steps were taken to ensure news about the process was shared. A meeting notice was placed in the Nov. 6 edition of the East Meadow Herald, and he’s developing a mailer that will go to all homes in the East Meadow School District. While absolutely nothing is final, Rosner said, some numbers for a potential bond are coming in around $50 million. He emphasized, however, that many additional meetings and conversations need to be had — with stakeholders, district staff, and community members — before anything is finalized. The district plans to host a series of forums to gather feedback from staff and families, scheduled for Nov. 24 at 7 p.m. at East Meadow High School, Nov. 25 at 7 p.m. at W.T. Clarke High School, and Dec. 1 at 7 p.m. at the Salisbury Center. Rosner reminded the community that they are always welcome to reach out to him. “You will always get an answer,” he said. “I cannot stress that enough. You have open access to the superintendent, and it’s really important for the success of the community to communicate with me as much as you can.” A recording of the presentation from Nov. 12 is available on the district’s YouTube channel. For more information, and to learn about upcoming board meetings, visit EMUFSD.us.
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Herald honors environmental leadership By ABBEY-ROSE SALVEMINI asalvemini@liherald.com
Across Long Island, a growing number of businesses are leading the charge toward a cleaner, more sustainable future. From small family-owned shops to large companies embracing environmentally conscious practices, local enterprises are proving that environmental responsibility and economic success can go hand in hand. These efforts not only help reduce the region’s carbon footprint but also strengthen the local economy by inspiring innovation and creating green jobs. Nearly 30 local businesses gathered at the Heritage Club in Bethpage for an event hosted by the Herald, celebrating sustainability and community impact on Oct. 29 The ceremony began with welcoming remarks from Stuart Richner, CEO of Richner Communications, who emphasized the importance of recognizing businesses that prioritize sustainability and help shape a greener future for Long Island. “It is a pleasure to welcome you to the inaugural GreenBiz Awards, where we come together to celebrate the businesses and individuals who are leading the charge for a more sustainable future, right here on Long Island,” he said. “Tonight, we honor those who are driving real change. Reducing waste, conserving energy and protecting the natural beauty that makes Long Island such a special place to live, work and raise our families.” The evening’s emcee, Jill Conway, is a former New York television news reporter and anchor with more than 20 years of experience. She is the founder of Powerful Women USA and host of the award-winning podcast Secrets of Powerful Women, and helped facilitate the event’s program. Part of the event’s ticket proceeds support Save the Sound, an organization dedicated to protecting Long Island and Connecticut’s land, air and water through science, legal action and community initiatives. Honoree Christine Kiourtsis, president of Renewable Recycling, Inc., was recognized in the Recycling category for her innovative work in textile and material recovery. Inspired by the aftermath of Hurricane Sandy in 2012, she began recycling discarded mattresses and box springs, discovering that up to 90 percent of their materials can be reused. Through Renewable Recycling, Kiourtsis helps keep waste out of landfills, reduce transport costs and save taxpayer money. “It’s really important to utilize tax money in a better way than putting it in the dump,” Kiourtsis said. Marshall Brown, president and cofounder of Long Island Conservancy Spadefood Ecosystem Solutions, was honored in the Environmental Innovation category. Brown helped create a film called A River Between Us that led to the largest environmental restoration project in U.S. history. His upcom-
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The team from Reworld. ing project focuses on implementing water treatment solutions for areas with wastewater or surface water. “We grow microbes on site, strains of common soil bacteria, but with special properties like what they eat in the absence of oxygen,” Brown said. “We take a sewage treatment plant, the microbes get to work, and half of the sludge, at least, gets eaten away.” Brown believes that the return on investment is a couple of months. President/LEED AP of Merritt Environmental Consulting Corp., Chuck Merritt, was recognized in the Environmental Consulting category. “On Long Island, we all drink the groundwater underneath our feet. So, we all have a responsibility to protect that natural resource,” said Merritt, who added that MECC is involved with a large developer in Mastic who is looking to redevelop land about a half a mile long. In the Waste Solutions category, Reworld is recognized for providing innovative and environmentally responsible waste management services to communities worldwide. Representative Ed Sandkuhi said that Reworld is expanding its engagement with local schools, teaching students about composting. “We raise dead vegetable gardens and use the compost to grow vegetables and not use fertilizers that are highly water soluble,” Sandkuhi said, adding how rewarding it is to see the children’s enthusiasm. Carrie Meek Gallagher, CEO of the Long Island Power Authority and a honoree in the Utilities category, notes that Long Island is particularly vulner-
Chuck Merritt from Merritt Environmental Consulting able to the effects of severe weather and climate change. “We are still trying to promote the adoption of solar, electric vehicles and heat pumps that are going to help us move towards a clean energy future,” she says, emphasizing LIPA’s ongoing commitment to supporting sustainable solutions for the region. Paraco Gas was honored in the Utilities category. Representative Dan Scicutella said that propane is a very
clean-burning fuel. For areas on the East end that don’t have access to natural gas, propane is a substitute. “We’re looking to expand and grow on the East End, companies from Route 112 and further East,” he said, noting that the company remains committed to environmental stewardship and community involvement. Recognized in the Engineering category, M&J Engineering is a multi-disciplinary engineering firm that provides a wide range of professional services. “As an engineer, we’re at the forefront of a lot of research studies,” M&J Representative Mohammad Malik said. “It’s our job to do what’s right for society and develop new ways to reduce carbon emissions,” Malik notes that M&J is involved in coastal resilience projects and highlights a Patchogue initiative that promotes green infrastructure. The Herald GreenBIZ Awards catalyze environmental stewardship and sustainable business practices. The event highlights and honors forwardthinking businesses and educators committed to eco-friendly practices, proving that sustainable operations can thrive alongside financial success. Gold sponsors of the event include The Long Island Conservancy, Reworld and Scott’s Miracle-Gro. Silver sponsors include the New York Offshore Wind Alliance, GreyMart, M&J Engineering, R&M Engineering, Stony Brook University, Edgewise Energy, GreenbergTraurig, Emtec, Merritt, Paraco, and Molloy University. View event photos on our website, RichnerLive.com/greenbiz-awards/ photos/
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Nick Guariglia, left, from ACE NY / NYOWA with Herald Publisher Stuart Richner.
Adrienne Esposito from Citizens Campaign for the Environment, Charles Vigliotti from Long Island Compost, Todd Kaminsky from Greenberg Traurig, LLP, and Charlie Barone from Long Island Compost.
Carrie Meek Gallagher from the Long Island Power Authority.
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tainty surrounding the federal Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program, which was put on pause in early November. Although SNAP funding has been restored, delays caused by the federal government shutdown left many families in limbo. According to the U.S. Department of Agriculture, 39 percent of SNAP recipients are under age 18. “All of the proceeds here are going to families who might have even less resources this year because the government is in gridlock,” Yee explained. “It’s extra important that people try to donate if they can, whether it’s food or money, so we can really help those that are experiencing hardship even worse than years prior.” Each year, the Kiwanis Club holds drives in the spring and the fall — with proceeds benefiting local food pantries. Volunteers collect sealed non-perishables, cooking ingredients and gift cards to purchase fresh items, such as dairy, meat and vegetables. The goal is to supply each family in need with at least three bags of food. Following the Key Club’s food drive, students will sort the donations at the high school, assemble and deliver the packages to local households. The busy month of giving will conclude with the Kiwanis Club’s Frank Saracino Memorial Senior and Military Dinner at the high school on Sunday. “This is one of our biggest weekends of giving in support of our community,” Donna Goldstein, Kiwanis Club president, said. “We touch everyone, from senior citizens to the military, to our families in our schools.” The dinner, featuring live entertainment and a Thanksgiving meal, will offer an opportunity to celebrate and hear from members of East Meadow’s older adult community. “We’re a very big community orga-
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the east meadow Kiwanis wrapped up one of its biggest weekends of giving on Sunday at the Shoprite in uniondale. mark razzano, tracy rudd, Kiwanis president donna goldstein, Catherine razzano, and Kiwanis Lieutenant governor marianne adrian manned the food drive stand outside the story. nization,” Goldstein said. “It is important to us, in the season of giving, to help as many people as we can.” Last year’s drive set records for food and monetary donations, including enough funds to provide 55 gift cards to purchase perishable goods. Kiwanis supplemented the effort with an additional 100 gift cards, supporting more than 150 households. For details on upcoming programs held by the Kiwanis Club, or ways to contribute, visit k03823.site.kiwanis. org.
president donna goldstein joined volunteers from east meadow High School. Volunteers sorted through an assortment of nonperishable goods that will go to families in need ahead of thanksgiving.
east meadow High School students Brian Lin, timur Yucel and nevin manalil, all 15, took part in the volunteer effort.
Gillen weighs in on government shutdown The federal government shutdown, the longest in U.S. history, ended after 43 days of uncertainty for those employed by the government or dependent on federally funded social programs. One of the many Democrats who voted against the agreement to end the shutdown was the 4th Congressional District’s Rep. Laura Gillen, because of Republicans’ refusal to extend Affordable Care Act tax credits. “I believe that we can fund the government and we can also make sure that people don’t lose their health insurance,” Gillen said, “and we’re doing everything we can to help the American people face the cost-of-living crisis that we are dealing with across this country.” The bill to reopen the government passed by a vote of 222 to 209, and was signed into law by President Trump. Afterward, Gillen released a statement, saying, “The spending bill passed today does nothing to prevent hardworking Long Islanders from being priced out of their health care. I voted no.” During the shutdown, the work of non-essential departments was halted, while employees of vital departments continued working without pay. Now, about 800,000 federal employees who had been furloughed or working without compensation will start receiving paychecks again, with back pay. The effects of the shutdown continued to be felt for days. The spending package restored full funding for Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program benefits through next September, but some of the nearly 42 million Americans who rely on the program were still waiting for resumption of their benefits days after the
bill was signed. And disruptions in service at the nation’s airports were expected to continue. Throughout the shutdown, Gillen visited various community groups to see how it was affecting them, including Long Island Cares, Innovative Daycare and a variety of Black- and brown-owned businesses throughout the district. “The hunger of our seniors and veterans should not be a political tool,” she said. Gillen will be up for re-election next year. Since the election of New York City’s new mayor, Zohran Mamdani, Gillen has had a message for her constituents: “I am extraordinarily different.” “My district knows me,” she said. “I was the first Democrat in 112 years to get elected in the town of Hempstead as a supervisor, and I’m going to run the same way I ran before, and that is as a centrist, moderate, fiscally prudent and responsible leader who actually wants to work in a bipartisan fashion to get things done.” Gillen expressed her intent to stay focused on the issues, national and local. “The most important thing is we need to be working in a bipartisan fashion to start fixing these problems — addressing the cost of health care, addressing the cost of groceries, addressing the cost of utilities, and finding concrete, fiscally responsible ways to solve these problems,” she said. Gillen’s office can put community members who are struggling in touch with local support groups. “Our district staff office is extremely attentive to the calls that come in,” she said. “If they need help with information about how to contact the (health care) exchange or how to access certain benefits, we provide that information to them.” Gillen’s office can be reached at (516) 739-3008.
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U.S. Rep. Laura Gillen spoke to hundreds of her constituents about the state of the country at a town hall at Hofstra University in April.
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Highlights of the utility’s spending plan for next year By ANGELINA ZINGARIELLO azingariello@liherald.com
The Long Island Power Authority has released its proposed 2026 budget, emphasizing affordability, grid reliability and clean-energy investment. The plan also details stronger oversight of Public Service Enterprise Group Long Island under a renewed management contract, and continued cost-saving measures that aim to lower bills for customers across Long Island and the Rockaways.
The LIPA—PSEG relationship LIPA is a nonprofit public utility that owns the electric transmission and distribution system serving Long Island and the Rockaways, and PSEG Long Island operates that system under contract. Since 2014, PSEG has handled daily grid operations, maintenance and customer service on LIPA’s behalf. The new five-year contract extension, effective Jan. 1, enhances oversight and accountability while maintaining the operational partnership. The agreement reduces management fees by an estimated $17 million and expands cost-control requirements. It also increases the number of measurable performance metrics, covering reliability, customer experience and fiscal management. LIPA officials say this framework ensures that PSEG’s performance will better align with affordability and clean energy goals through greater transparency and operational discipline.
Core spending plan and bill savings
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LIPA’s proposed 2026 operating budget totals about $4.4 billion, alongside a $1 billion capital plan supporting reliability, grid modernization and clean-energy infrastructure. The typical residential customer is projected to see a 3.3 percent decrease in their electric bill, roughly $6.53 less per month than in 2025. This reduction reflects a projected $219 million drop in power supply costs, driven by lower on-Island generation, decreased Regional Greenhouse Gas Initiative allowance expenses and savings from the new Power and Fuel Management Services Agreement. The capital budget will rise roughly 3.1 percent, mainly due to refueling costs tied to LIPA’s 18 percent ownership stake in the Nine Mile Point 2 nuclear power plant. Despite inflation and higher labor costs, LIPA projects flat overall operating expenses, while maintaining around $1 billion in annual reliability investments.
LIPA’s long-term fiscal sustainability plan aims to reduce its debt-to-asset ratio from a projected 78 percent in 2025 to 70 percent by 2030, supporting stronger credit ratings and long-term financial health. The 2026 budget reflects roughly $1.4 billion in cumulative cost savings, equal to about 33 percent of customer bills, the result of over a decade of cost-control initiatives. The budget also includes $7.5 million for weatherization projects benefiting low- to moderate-income households, helping to reduce energy usage and improve affordability. Public hearings will be held on Nov. 24, at 10 a.m., at the H. Lee Dennison Building in Hauppauge; and the same day, at 6 p.m., at LIPA headquarters in Uniondale, with a virtual option available. Written comments are due by Nov. 28, and the LIPA board of trustees will vote on the final budget on Dec. 17.
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Carving out her place The untold story of sculptor Emma Stebbins By Abbey Salvemini
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istory gets a powerful rewrite at the Heckscher Museum of Art’s latest exhibition. “Emma Stebbins: Carving Out History” is a landmark installation that spotlights a pioneering neoclassical artist whose legacy has been long overlooked. Known for sculpting Central Park’s iconic Bethesda Fountain (immortalized in film and TV), Stebbins — a trailblazing female artist — was the first woman to receive a public art commission from New York City. Yet despite her accomplishments, her name has largely vanished from the art world’s narrative. Now Stebbins receives the recognition she has long deserved. “Carving Out History” firmly reestablishes her place at the forefront of 19th century American sculpture. It explores Stebbins’s bold artistic vision, her barrier-breaking career and her personal life — including her relationship with the renowned Shakespearean actress Charlotte Cushman at a time when such a relationship defied social norms. Stebbins’ works focused on unprecedented imagery of laborers, incisive depictions of literary and biblical subjects and moving portrait busts of her chosen family. Her sculpture was celebrated in the press and sought after by collectors In the mid-19th century. Since then, however, Stebbins fell into relative obscurity. Among the exhibit’s outstanding components, New York City comes to Long Island — via an immersive Virtual Reality experience. Visitors can “walk around” Central Park’s iconic Bethesda Fountain, bringing Stebbins’s most celebrated work to life in an entire new way. A special VR station gives everyone the illusion that Bethesda Fountain is right in front of them in Heckscher Park — through the use of their phones — offering a striking, life-sized view of Stebbins’s most iconic creation. Photos and selfies are encouraged! For many, this will be their first time learning the name behind the fountain — even if you’ve seen it countless times in person and on screen. The exhibit title — “Carving Out History” — reflects both Stebbins’s sculptural practice and the curatorial team’s broader goal: to reclaim and reframe her place in the American canon. This first-of-its-kind exhibit — reshapes how we understand one of our most groundbreaking — and overlooked — artists. “The exhibition itself is carving out a place
for Stebbins’ story,” Chief Curator Karli Wurzelbacher says. The Heckscher’s deep connection to the artist makes the venue especially significant. • Now through March 15 Museum founder August Heckscher had • Open Thursday through a family link to Stebbins — his uncle Sunday, noon-5 p.m. commissioned two of her major works, • Heckscher Museum of Art, Commerce and Industry, which have been 2 Prime Ave., Huntington • Visit Heckscher.org or part of the museum’s collection for over a call (631) 380-3230 for century. information on related Stebbins wasn’t just a woman succeeding programming in a male-dominated field — she also lived openly with her partner at a time when samesex relationships were taboo. Their partnership Emma Stebbins’s marble statue The was both romantic and deeply collaborative, and it Lotus-Eater (1863) purports to illustrate Alfred Tennyson’s poem of the same informed much of Stebbins’s work and worldview. title, in turn derived from an episode They were “the power couple of their in the Odyssey of Homer. Museum time,” according to Wurzelbacher. Purchase: Town of Huntington Art Among the many highlights, Wurzelbacher Acquisition Fund. points to Sandolphon, which captures the depth of Stebbins’s artistry. It depicts an archangel with incredible detail rendered in marble. The sculpture draws inspiration from a poem by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow. As Wurzelbacher explains: “The line ‘the angel gathers the prayers where he stands, and they turn into flowers in his hands’ captures the heart of the work. She paints a vivid image of the archangel holding a garland of flowers — each bloom symbolizing the prayers of the people.” One of the most significant outcomes of her research into Stebbins’s career has been the “discovery” of sculptures whose locations were previously unknown to scholars (one was found in the hallway of the Belfast Central Library!). Two significant works, The Lotus Eater (1863) and the aformentioned Sandalphon (1866), had been in a private collection for decades before being acquired by the museum. Both pieces underwent extensive conservation efforts, including cleaning their discolored marble surfaces and making careful repairs. For curators and staff, this exhibition is not only a professional milestone — it’s personal. “Even though we have a relatively small staff, we can still Sandalphon (also known as contribute to writing the story of American art history and Angel of Prayer, 1866), like bringing these overlooked figures to the public is something Lotus Eater, has been in a we take very seriously,” Wurzelbacher shares. private collection and likely Whether you’re familiar with these sculptures or someone have not been on public view in encountering Stebbins for the first time, this exhibit invites you more than 100 years. Museum to look again — at a familiar fountain, at forgotten stories and purchase: Town of Huntington at the enduring power of carving out one’s place in history. Art Acquisition Fund.
For 50 years, two-time Grammy winner BeauSoleil avec Michael Doucet has been hailed as the best Cajun band in the world. They’ve been making some of the most potent and popular Cajun music on the planet. Born out of the rich Acadian ancestry of its members, and created and driven by bandleader Michael Doucet’s spellbinding fiddle playing and soulful vocals, BeauSoleil is notorious for bringing even the most staid audience to its feet. Their distinctive sound derives from the distilled spirits of New Orleans jazz, blues rock, folk, swamp pop, Zydeco, country and bluegrass, captivating listeners from the Jazz and Heritage Festival in New Orleans, to Carnegie Hall, then all the way across the pond to Richard Thompson’s Meltdown Festival in the U.K. They are joined on this special tour by their good friend Thompson. An iconic figure in British folk-rock, Thompson — one of the founding members of Fairport Convention — is arguably the genre’s greatest triple threat: a dazzling guitarist, an outstanding songwriter, and a strong and evocative vocalist.
Sunday, Nov. 23, 7 p.m. $75, $65, $55. Jeanne Rimsky Theater at Landmark on Main Street, 232 Main St., Port Washington. Tickets available at landmarkonmainstreet.org or (516) 767-6444.
Adam Pascal Get ready for a powerhouse night with Broadway legend Adam Pascal — the original voice of Rent’s Roger (Broadway and film) and one of musical theater’s most electrifying performers. With a rock-and-roll edge and soul-stirring vocals, Pascal commands the stage in an unforgettable evening of showstoppers, storytelling, and pure star power. From “Rent” and Aida” to “Chess,” “Chicago,” “Something Ro’tten!” and beyond, Adam brings the house down with iconic hits, guitar licks and rock tunes — all fueled by the raw passion that made him a Broadway icon. The Tony-nominated actor-musician didn’t grow up with aspirations of becoming a Broadway star. But when his childhood friend Idina Menzel asked if he would audition for an off-Broadway musical called “Rent,” he thought “Why not?” and the rest is history. Pascal shares insights into his personal journey with his audience, bringing with him a wealth of experience and plenty of personal anecdotes.
Sunday, Nov. 23, 7 p.m. Tilles Center, LIU Post campus, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville. Tickets available at ticketmaster.com or tillescenter.org or (516) 299-3100.
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YOUR NEIGHBORHOOD Skate NOV Let’s Get ready to enjoy
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all the thrills of the snowy season, while staying warm and cozy as Long Island Children’s Museum’s popular “Snowflake Sock Skating rink returns, Slip on “sock skates” and take a spin on the indoor rink, made from a high-tech synthetic polymer surface that lets kids slide around without blades. Kids can stretch, twirl and glide. As visitors step off the “ice” they can jump into winter dramatic play in Snowflake Village. Become a baker in the holiday sweet shop, step inside a giant snowman and serve up some hot cocoa, take a turn in the rink “ticket booth” and “warm up” around a rink side “fire pit.” • Where: Museum Row, Garden City • Time: Ongoing during museum hours, through Jan. 4. • Contact: licm.org or call (516) 224-5800
Seussical the Musical
Molloy University CAP21 Musical Theatre Conservatory students stage the musical based on beloved characters from Dr. Seuss’s stories. The Cat in the Hat tells the story of Horton, and elephant who discovers a speck of dust that contains the Whos, including Jojo, a Who child sent off to military school for thinking too many “thinks”. Horton faces a double challenge: not only must he protect the Whos from a world of naysayers and dangers, but he must guard an abandoned egg, left in his care by the irresponsible Mayzie La Bird. Although Horton faces ridicule, danger, kidnapping and a trial, the intrepid Gertrude McFuzz never loses faith in him. Ultimately, the powers of freindship, loyalty, family and community are challenged and emerge triumphant. Performers of all ages portray the characters from the familiar Dr. Seuss tales. • Where: Madison Theatre, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre • Time: 8 p.m., also Nov 21-Nov. 23 • Contact: madisontheatreny.org or (516) 323-4444
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been bringing families together for over 200 years- sparking teamwork and wonder across generations. Celebrate Game and Puzzle Week at Long Island Children’s Museum by channeling inner creativity to design a custom puzzle. This is a drop-in program. • Where: Museum Row, Garden City • Time: 11 a.m.-2 p.m. • Contact: licm.org or call (516) 224-5800
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Mark Tremonti Sings Frank Sinatra ‘Christmas Special’
From redefining rock to reimagining Sinatra, Grammy-winning musician Mark Tremonti, backed by members of Frank Sinatra’s original orchestra, brings his timeless swing and holiday spirit to the Paramount. The lights go down. Familiar horns pipe up from a world-class orchestra as piano twinkles like the jackpot lights on a winning slot machine. Then, the voice kicks in. It has all of the smoky splendor those first few notes hinted at, but it ain’t Ol’ Blue Eyes. In a tailored suit with microphone in hand, it’s Mark Tremonti. The multiplatinum musician sounds just as at home paying homage to the catalog of Frank Sinatra as he does fronting Tremonti or shredding his soul out as the guitarist for Alter Bridge and Creed. Moreover, he’s doing it for a reason that would make the Chairman of the Board proud. Accompanied by surviving members of Sinatra’s band as well as various top-notch players, Tremonti cut 14 classics for his Tremonti Sings Sinatra album, which he gifted to the National Down Syndrome Society as part of his new organization Take A Chance For Charity. All album proceeds go to NDSS to help those with developmental disabilities. With over 40 million albums sold, chart-topping releases, sold-out arenas, and countless appearances on television • Where: The Paramount, 370 and magazine covers, Tremonti’s influence on rock music is undeniable. Now, witness a New York Ave., Huntington new side of his artistry as he pays heartfelt tribute to the legendary Frank Sinatra. This • Time: 8 p.m. is Tremonti like you’ve never heard him. Join in for a feel-good evening of classic jazz • Contact: ticketmaster.com or and seasonal favorites. $108.75, $86.50, $71.25, $59.75, $54.25, $43.75. paramountny.com
Step back in time at Old Bethpage Village Restoration. Immerse yourself in the sights and smells of the festive season, as those early years of our national day of feasting and giving thanks come alive. Imagine that it’s 1863 and you’re preparing a holiday meal for your family, following President Abraham Lincoln’s proclamation of the first official national holiday of Thanksgiving Day. The restored site bustles with activity as it readies for an old-fashioned Thanksgiving: wood-burning stoves, beehive ovens and hearths are fired up to prepare foods and baked goods made from 19th-century recipes. Culinary exhibits include the “spitting” and roasting of turkey in a tin reflector oven beside the Williams House hearth and preparation of pies at the Powell House. Also on display are 19th-century methods of food preservation employed for late fall crops. Historical period music adds to the festive atmosphere each afternoon. $15, $12 seniors and children 5-12. • Where: 1303 Round Swamp Rd., Old Bethpage • Time: 10 a.m.-4 p.m. • Contact: oldbethpagevillage restoration.org or call (516) 5728409
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Nassau County Museum of Art invites visitors into a world where reality is uncertain, dreams take shape, and the line between fact and imagination disappears. From dreamlike landscapes and uncanny portraits to images so exact they look like photographs, works in “Real, Surreal, and Photoreal” challenge what we see and what we believe. Though Realism is often overlooked in conventional approaches to aesthetic progress, it has center stage in this exhibit, exploring how artists across generations have reimagined “the real” in strikingly different ways. Works from both American and European artists are featured. On view through March 8. • Where: 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor • Time: Ongoing • Contact: nassaumuseum.org or (516) 484-9337
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As Thanksgiving approaches, get ready by creating some colorful turkeys at Long Island Children’s Museum. Take your terrific turkey home to adorn your Thanksgiving table. For ages 3 and up. This is a drop-in program.
• Where: Museum Row, Garden City • Time: 1-3 p.m. • Contact: licm.org or call (516) 224-5800
Girls on the Run 5K
Girls on the Run Long Island wraps its fall season with a fun-filled 5K in Eisenhower Park. • Where: Eisenhower Park, East Meadow • Time: 9 a.m. • Contact: GOTRLongIsland.org/5K
Paddle-making and storytelling at Long Island Children’s Museum
Step into the world of traditional Indigenous craftsmanship with Chenae Bullock, the artist who crafted the mishoon (Indigenous canoe) featured in the Saltwater Stories exhibit. In this drop-in program, families discover the deep connection between paddles, water, and the land as you learn about their cultural significance. Visitors will have the opportunity to design and create their own mini paddles, while exploring stories, traditions, and creative activities that highlight the beauty of Indigenous craftsmanship. • Where: Museum Row, Garden City
• Time: Stop by anytime between 11 a.m. and 3 p.m. • Contact: licm.org or call (516) 224-5800
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Long Island Children’s Museum welcomes back this delightful production, based on Mo Willems’ awardwinning “Pigeon” picture books. Don’t Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus! The Musical! is even more fun than staying up late and having a hot dog party. It’s not easy being the Pigeon; you never get to do anything. But when the Bus Driver has a crisis that threatens to make her passengers (gasp!) late, maybe that wily bird can do something. Featuring an innovative mix of songs, and feathers, this show is sure to get everyone’s wings flapping. $11 with museum admission ($9 members), $15 theater only. • Where: Museum Row, Garden City • Time: 11 a.m. and 1 p.m.; also Nov. 29, Dec. 3-Dec. 4 • Contact: licm.org or (516) 224-5800
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Cream and Tea at Westbury House
Savor a traditional Cream Tea featuring freshly baked scones with Devonshire cream, assorted sweets, and a fine selection of teas. The experience concludes with a guided tour of beautifully decorated Westbury House. $28, discounts for members and groups.
• Where: 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury • Time: 11 a.m.-12:30 p.m. and 1:30-3 p.m.; also Dec. 3-4 and ongoing • Contact: oldwestburygardens. org or call (516) 333-0048
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How to cook a turkey Kennedy Schoell
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Compiled by Herald staff
Isabel Culver
Age 4, Oceanside
Age 7, Rockville Centre
Butter, salt and pepper, stuff it with some stuffing, sprinkle it with love, and put it in the oven til it’s done.
I don’t know, I would put it in the oven. Alyssa R. Griffin/Herald
Photo courtesy Donna Kraus
Grade 1, Massapequa
Cosette Farr
Ace Ortiz
Age 6, Lynbrook
Age 8, Inwood If I had to cook a turkey I would buy a turkey, put the season stuff on it and put it in the oven!
Get a turkey from the farm, put him in the oven. The oven has to be hot and you cook it for 7 minutes and 8 seconds. Then it’s turkey that we can eat.”
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LEGAL NOTICE SUPREME COURT OF THE STATE OF NEW YORK COUNTY OF NASSAU WELLS FARGO BANK, NATIONAL ASSOCIATION, AS TRUSTEE FOR OPTION ONE MORTGAGE LOAN TRUST 2005-1, ASSETBACKED CERTIFICATES, SERIES 2005-1, -againstTITO MOLINA, ET AL. NOTICE OF SALE NOTICE IS HEREBY GIVEN pursuant to a Final Judgment of Foreclosure entered in the Office of the Clerk of the County of Nassau on September 18, 2025, wherein WELLS FARGO BANK, NATIONAL ASSOCIATION, AS TRUSTEE FOR OPTION ONE MORTGAGE LOAN TRUST 2005-1, ASSETBACKED CERTIFICATES, SERIES 2005-1 is the Plaintiff and TITO MOLINA, ET AL., are the Defendants. I, the undersigned Referee, will sell at public auction RAIN OR SHINE at the NASSAU COUNTY SUPREME COURT, 100 SUPREME COURT DRIVE, NORTH SIDE STEPS, MINEOLA, NY 11501, on December 1, 2025 at 3:30PM, the premises known as 213 BELMONT AVENUE, WESTBURY, NY 11590; tax map identification 10-183-133; and description: ALL THAT CERTAIN PLOT, PIECE OR PARCEL OF LAND, WITH THE BUILDINGS AND IMPROVEMENTS THEREON ERECTED, SITUATE, LYING AND BEING IN THE INCORPORATED VILLAGE OF WESTBURY Premises will be sold subject to provisions of filed Judgment Index No.: 611237/2017. Paul L. Meli, Esq., as Referee. Robertson, Anschutz, Schneid, Crane & Partners, PLLC 900 Merchants Concourse, Suite 310, Westbury, New York 11590, Attorneys for Plaintiff. All foreclosure sales will be conducted in accordance with Covid-19 guidelines including, but not limited to, social distancing and mask wearing. *LOCATION OF SALE SUBJECT TO CHANGE DAY OF IN ACCORDANCE WITH COURT/CLERK DIRECTIVES. 156534 Place a notice by phone at 516-569-4000 x232 or email: legalnotices@liherald.com
LEGAL NOTICE NOTICE OF SALE SUPREME COURT: COUNTY OF NASSAU THE BOARD OF MANAGERS OF THE BEL AIRE CONDOMINIUM, Plaintiff, against ANDREW CHAMOW, as heir to the Estate of Robert Chamow; ANDREW CHAMOW, as heir to the Estate of Dorothy Chamow; ALICE BADER, as heir to the Estate of Robert Chamow; ALICE BADER, as heir to the Estate of Dorothy Chamow; SECRETARY OF HOUSING AND URBAN DEVELOPMENT, et. al., Defendants. Pursuant to a Judgment of Foreclosure and Sale entered herein and dated September 19, 2025, I, the undersigned Referee will sell at public auction on the north side steps of the Nassau Supreme Court, 100 Supreme Court Drive, Mineola, New York, “Rain or Shine”, on December 10, 2025 at 2:30 p.m. premises being all that certain plot, piece or parcel of land situate, lying and being in the Town of Hempstead, East Meadow, Nassau County and State of New York, known and designated as Residential Unit No. 126 together with a 1.62% undivided interest in the common elements of the condominium hereinafter described as the same is defined in the Declaration of Condominium hereinafter referred to. The real property above described is a unit shown on the plans of a condominium prepared and certified by Sidney B. Bowne and filed in the Office of the Clerk of the County of Nassau on the 23rd day of February, 2006, as Map No. CA-219 defined in the Declaration of Condominium entitled The Bel Aire Condominium made by Bristal Gardens at East Meadow, LLC under Article 9-B of the New York Real Property Law dated the 17th day of October, 2005 and recorded in the Office of the Clerk of the County of Nassau on the 23rd day of February, 2006 in Liber D12084 of Conveyances at page 1 covering the property therein described. Said premises known as 50 Merrick Avenue, #126,
East Meadow, New York (SECTION 0050, BLOCK 00340, LOT 00509, UNIT 126). Said premises will be sold subject to zoning restrictions, covenants, easements, conditions, reservations and agreements, if any; subject to any state of facts as may appear from an accurate survey; subject to facts as to possession and occupancy and subject to whatever physical condition of the premises may be; subject to any violations of the zoning and other municipal ordinances and regulations, if any, and if the United States of America should file a tax lien, or other lien, subject to the equity of redemption of the United States of America; subject to the rights of any lienors of record whose liens have not been foreclosed herein, if any; subject to the rights of holders of security in fixtures as defined by the Uniform Commercial Code; subject to taxes, assessments and water rates which are liens on the premises at the time of sale, with accrued interest or penalties thereon; and a first mortgage held by Wells Fargo Bank, mortgagee, given to Robert Chamow and Dorothy Chamow, mortgagors, in the original amount of $615,000.00 dated 10/25/2008 and recorded 11/18/2008 in Liber 33345 at page 706. Said mortgage having been assigned to Nationstar Mortgage LLC d/b/a Champion Mortgage Company by Assignment dated 9/8/2017 and recorded 9/18/2017 in Liber 42386 at page 940. Said mortgage having been further assigned to SECRETARY OF HOUSING AND URBAN DEVELOPMENT by Assignment dated 11/5/2018 and recorded 11/9/2018 in Liber 43147 at page 765. NO CASH WILL BE ACCEPTED ONLY BANK OR CERTIFIED CHECKS PAYABLE TO LOUIS IMBROTO, ESQ., AS REFEREE. Index No. 607530/2023 Dated: October 16, 2025 Louis Imbroto, Esq., Referee Cohen, Warren, Meyer & Gitter, P.C., Attorneys for Plaintiff, 98 Maple Avenue, Smithtown, NY 11787. 156665
LEGAL NOTICE SUPPLEMENTAL SUMMONS IN TAX LIEN FORECLOSURESUPREME COURT OF THE STATE OF NEW YORK, COUNTY OF NASSAU - TOWER DB XI TRUST 2021-1, Plaintiff, vs. STEPHANIE DACUS, et. al., Defendants. Index No. 607389/24. To the above named Defendants -YOU ARE HEREBY SUMMONED to answer the complaint in this action within twenty days after the service of this summons, exclusive of the day of service or within thirty days after service is completed if the summons is not personally delivered to you within the State of New York. In case of your failure to appear or answer, judgment will be taken against you by default for the relief demanded in the complaint. Plaintiffs designate Nassau County as the place of trial. Venue is based upon the county in which the property liens upon which are being foreclosed is situated. The foregoing summons is served upon you by publication pursuant to the Order of the Hon. Jeffrey A. Goodstein, J.S.C., entered on October 29, 2025. The object of this action is to foreclose tax liens covering the premises located at School District: 1 Section: 11 Block: 503 Lot: 5 on the Tax Map of Nassau County and also known as 270 Grand Street, Westbury, New York, 11590. Dated: October 31, 2025 BRONSTER, LLP, Attorney for Plaintiff TOWER DB XI TRUST 2021-1, By: Leonid Krechmer, Esq. 156 West 56th Street, Suite 703 New York, NY 10019 (212) 558-9300 156660
LEGAL NOTICE NOTICE OF SALE Supreme Court County of Nassau Flagstar Bank, N.A., Plaintiff AGAINST Kelvin Puello a/k/a Kelvin R. Puello, Wendy Puello, et al, Defendant(s) Pursuant to a Judgment of Foreclosure and Sale duly entered on July 5, 2024, I, the undersigned Referee, will sell at public auction at the Nassau County Supreme Court, 100 Supreme Court Drive, North sides of
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s autumn settled over Nassau County, the trees along our streets turned brilliant shades of gold and crimson and the air carried the scent of fireplaces and fallen leaves. Now families will gather around kitchen tables to prepare turkey, stuffing and pumpkin pie — the familiar flavors of Thanksgiving that remind everyone of home, tradition and togetherness. This holiday is more than a meal. sTeve In a world full of division, this rhoAds uniquely American celebration gives us the chance to unite as Americans, regardless of our religious or political beliefs, to give thanks to the Almighty — regardless of what name you call him — for the blessings we share. It is also a reminder of what makes our communities strong: the hardworking families who get up early, work late, and never stop giving their best. Thanksgiving is a moment to honor the quiet dedication and sacrifice that keeps neighborhoods
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safe, classrooms thriving, businesses humming and families strong. That spirit of service defines our communities. It can be seen at local food drives, in church basements, where volunteers serve warm meals to those in need, and in the kindness of neighbors who check on one another as the colder weather moves in. These gestures reflect the best of New York — resilience, generosity and faith in the value of hard work. Yet even amid this season of gratitude, there is an awareness of the growing challenges that so many families face. The cost of living continues to rise. Taxes weigh heavily on homeowners and small businesses. Crime and safety concerns remain at the forefront. And increasingly destructive policies from Albany run counter to suburban values, and make life more difficult for those already working tirelessly to get ahead. But despite these challenges, hope endures. Across Long Island and throughout New York, State Senate Republicans remain committed to fighting every day for hardworking New
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Yorkers who feel left behind. That commitment is rooted not in politics, but in principle: the belief that those who work hard should be able to thrive, that communities deserve safety and stability, and that government should serve the people — not the other way around. There’s something grounding about the turning of the seasons. In the fall, yards are blanketed in colorful leaves, the air has turned crisp and the days carry both comfort and the evidence of change. It’s a moment to pause and reflect — not only on the blessings received, but also on the shared responsibility to preserve and protect them for the generations to come. For many families, Thanksgiving begins early in the day — children watching parades, football games playing in the background, parents basting turkeys, and relatives arriving with trays of stuffing, potatoes and pies. As laughter fills the kitchen and the house warms, the holiday reminds everyone that strength comes from unity. The same holds true beyond the dinner table: when communities work
here is no avoiding the growing challenges that so many families face.
together, when compassion meets courage, when service replaces apathy, there is no challenge too great to overcome. New York’s character has always been shaped by people who rise to the occasion — who work hard, lend a hand and care deeply about their neighbors. That character endures. It can be seen in the volunteer firefighter leaving the dinner table to respond to an alarm, in the nurse finishing a long shift, and in the parent helping a child with homework after a long day. Those quiet acts of perseverance define what it truly means to be thankful. This Thanksgiving, as the last leaves fall and families gather under the glow of dining-room lights, may gratitude remind every New Yorker that even in difficult times, this state’s greatest resource has never been its government — it has always been the faith, grit, talent, compassion and unshakable hope of its people. You are what carry New York forward. May this season bring comfort, reflection and renewed strength to every household — and a reminder that in gratitude, there is power; in service, there is purpose; and in community, there is always reason to give thanks. Steve Rhoads represents the 5th State Senate District.
In the fight of our lives, all over again
n November 2020, in the maw of the pandemic, I wrote a column about Thanksgiving dinner with my husband, dinner for just two. Our kids and grandkids and friends were isolating, in hiding from a novel viral enemy. Looking for a historical precedent, I compared the fear crisscrossing America to what it must have felt like in Berlin after World War II, when Stalin’s troops cut off the city. The plan was to choke the Berliners into capitulation to Russia. On the ground, it looked hopeless rAndi and inevitable. Then, in an audaKreiss cious countermove, the United States launched the Berlin airlift, and for 15 months planes dropped food, medicine and fuel — 2 million tons of supplies — until Stalin blinked in 1949 and lifted the blockade. We didn’t know it would succeed when we began. We did it because it was what was needed to save Berlin from Stalin’s tyranny. I was inspired by this bit of history because it speaks to America’s ability to
meet the moment. Ingenuity and courage are homegrown assets, and we never needed these strengths more than we did during the pandemic, more than we do now. In that Thanksgiving 2020 column, I wrote, “Our new enemy is Covid-19, which is rampaging through our cities and states, killing people in increasing numbers and threatening our well-being and our prosperity. We need to summon the courage to win this war . . . “We have missed the chance to get ahead of the firestorm, but we still have agency. Don’t gather at parties or bars or family events. It won’t be forever, and it might save someone you love . . . “This Thanksgiving we must accept the sacrifice of a simpler holiday, without expecting family to board planes or sit around a table for 15 or 20. We can do this. We can do it this year, in the hope that next year we can be thankful for lives saved.” One year later, the world had turned. I wrote, “All of us have had our Covid vaccines and boosters; we are brought back to normal by the moonshot of
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modern medicine, the development of an effective vaccine in 18 months . . . “Today we are back to our jobs. Kids are back in school. This Thanksgiving we will sit down with our family to start reweaving the ties that have stretched thin over the months of this pandemic . . . “I have often written about gratitude for the small things that charge our days with interest and pleasure. This year my gratitude is singular, profound and unending. I am so thankful to the researchers and scientists and companies and governments and leaders who took on Covid-19 and dug in for the fight . . . “I thank everyone who brought us to this day, from the doctors and nurses to the supermarket workers to the teachers and parents of young children, to the bench researchers who put in the hours, day after day and month after month . . . “This year at our Thanksgiving there will be a too-big turkey and stuffing and cranberry sauce. Leaves and grains for the vegetarian. We will hug and kiss our kids and grandkids, feeling safe enough with our jabs and boosters. Then we will
our years ago next week, it seemed vaccines had saved the day. But no.
feast on my apple cranberry crumble with a topping of gratitude for this country and countries everywhere where scientists are educated, supported and honored because the work they do alleviates suffering and perpetuates life on earth.” This week, as we approach Thanksgiving 2025, it is, quite unbelievably, our very democracy that is under threat. We are in a season of political instability, irrational attacks on our institutions, and a drift toward authoritarianism. As we witness the trampling of the Bill of Rights and the Constitution, the military occupation of our cities and the willingness to sacrifice American laws and values for personal gain and power, we know that this threat, too, has gone viral. And, irony of ironies, our government leaders are questioning the efficacy of the original lifesaving Covid-19 vaccine and all the life-saving vaccines that have kept us and our children alive. When we sit down to Thanksgiving dinner this year, my prayer will be for America to find its footing, to support leaders who will launch a political moonshot or Berlin Airlift to save our souls and our country. Copyright 2025 Randi Kreiss. Randi can be reached at randik3@aol.com.
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n an age when digital arguments erupt faster than we can refresh our screens, it has become almost instinctual to dive into online debates with strangers. Facebook threads balloon into battlegrounds, discussions on X collapse into insults and Reddit comment chains can devolve into tribal shouting matches. For many, this ritual has become a daily habit — almost a sport. Yet it leaves most people feeling drained, angry, unheard and oddly isolated. There’s a healthier, more human alternative: step away from the glowing screen and go meet your neighbors face to face. It sounds old-fashioned, almost quaint, but that simplicity is exactly what makes it powerful. When we talk to people in person — people who live next door, down the street or across the hall — we’re reminded that disagreements do not automatically make someone an enemy. You hear their tone of voice, notice their expressions and see the full, complex person behind the viewpoint. The humanity that gets flattened into a five-word comment reappears. And so does your own. Online, a single sentence can turn someone into a villain in your mind. A meme can become a stand-in for an entire group you’ve never actually spoken to. Algorithms feed outrage because outrage keeps you scrolling. But face-toface conversations break that cycle.
They prioritize curiosity over hostility, nuance over certainty, and listening over scoring points. This shift is good for both civic and personal health. Psychologists have long known that real-world social interactions reduce anxiety, increase life satisfaction and strengthen emotional resilience. Sitting with someone, even someone who has different opinions, calms the nervous system in ways digital communication never can. You breathe more slowly. You think more clearly. You remember that disagreements don’t have to be disagreeable. There’s also something grounding about being part of a physical community rather than a virtual crowd. The person you’re talking to isn’t a random stranger with an anonymous avatar; they’re someone who shares your sidewalk, your grocery store, your weather and your local challenges. That shared context encourages mutual respect. You might still disagree — honestly, you probably will — but the disagreement becomes a conversation, not a war. And consider the ripple effects. When neighbors talk, they build trust. When trust grows, communities become stronger, safer and more resilient. People are more likely to help one another, support local initiatives, and intervene when someone is struggling. Civil discourse becomes possible again — something increasingly rare in a world where
shouting has replaced dialogue. Face-to-face conversations also make room for humility. Online arguments often are myopic and pernicious. In person, you’re more likely to acknowledge what you don’t know, to soften your stance or to revise your thinking. Most surprisingly, you might even discover that the “other side” isn’t as far away as the internet insists. Maybe you share concerns, values or experiences. Maybe you’re both frustrated by the same problems, even if you imagine different solutions. Or maybe you simply end up respecting each other enough to continue the conversation later. And you may learn something new about an issue or about your community — or even about yourself. That’s the heart of a healthy society — not unanimous agreement, but constructive connection. If we truly want better conversations, less stress and stronger communities, the solution isn’t another heated thread or another algorithm-driven argument. There are many ways to move from behind the screen and interact with others in real life. It’s going out to dinner with friends, joining a club, becoming part of a sports team or taking a continuing education class. The internet may connect us instantly, but only face-to-face interactions remind us why connection matters in the first place.
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t this time of year, many families with high school students visit colleges. Some visit nearby campuses that are within reach academically and financially, while others travel to what they consider more prestigious institutions. Whichever the choice, it’s imperative for parents and prospective students to plan carefully. Students and their families should consider how far from home is acceptable. Will the student be most comfortable in a large city, a suburban or a rural roBerT a. setting area? Will he or she live on camsCoTT pus, in the town or at home? How large a campus is acceptable? Some universities have 50,000 or more students, and some colleges have fewer than 1,500. The best fit is one that is not only challenging for academic and personal growth, but also caring and focused on student achievement. The cost of tuition, fees, room, board, books and supplies is another consideration. Some families are willing to borrow to send their child to a prestigious college. If a good education and preparation for life are the goals, that isn’t
necessary. It’s better to find the best fit for the student. Families and students should use publicly available information such as college guides and the federal College Scorecard to decide on a list of colleges to visit and examine more closely. A high school guidance counselor should have a library of materials, and should know about where former students have gone to college. According to the National Survey of Student Engagement 2017-23, students at most colleges, the least selective as well as the most selective, rate their campus experience about the same on measures of critical thinking and analysis, quantitative reasoning, collaboration with peers, access to diverse perspectives and student-faculty interactions. On the following measures, however, more selective colleges provide the biggest impact: internships, leadership opportunities, working on research with faculty, and studying abroad. The federal College Scorecard can be a useful tool for examining general data about colleges and comparing institutions, but it cannot convey the personality of an institution. A publication such as the “Fiske Guide to Colleges” gives a fuller picture of a campus. After deciding on where to visit, call
for an appointment, ask to sit in on a class, talk to a faculty member and current students, tour a residence hall, and check out the dining facilities. Afterward, reflect on the following:
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t’s such an important decision, and the answers to so many questions figure into it.
■ Feel: Were the students, faculty and staff you met on campus friendly and spontaneous, or were they cold and scripted? ■ Admissions: What weight is given to test scores? Of what influence are athletic prowess or alumni connections in the admissions process?
■ Academics: Are students assigned a faculty adviser? How easy is it to change majors? Who provides guidance on graduate studies and careers? ■ Who teaches? Do full-time faculty teach undergraduates, or is most instruction done by graduate assistants? ■ Enrollment: Is the student body economically diverse? ■ Financial aid: Will financial aid awards be adjusted for tuition increases? ■ Health and safety: Does the campus have a health center? Does the college provide transportation to go shopping off campus? ■ Housing and food service: Is there
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sufficient residential-hall space to house all undergraduates, or must students live in fraternity and sorority houses or off campus? Does the dining hall offer meals three times a day, seven days a week when classes are in session? ■ Social life: Does the campus offer a rich cultural life and support a variety of clubs and organizations, or do Greek societies dominate the social scene? Do many students leave campus on the weekend? ■ Career placement: Does the career office offer information about jobs on campus and in the summer? Does it have information on internships, both paid and voluntary? Who are some successful alumni in the student’s fields of interest? While college graduates have improved outcomes in income, employment, health and civic engagement, college requires an investment of time, energy and intellect as well as money. So it’s important that the college and the student “fit” together in a way that is not only challenging but supportive. The right fit is more important than prestige. College is intended to enrich your life as well as your wallet. Robert A. Scott is president emeritus of Adelphi University and a co-author of “Letters to Students: What it Means to be a College Graduate.”
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