A special section celebrating Lola Magazine’s beginnings, her newest chapter, and of course, her readers.
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Zachary’s Story
Melissa Mainiero shares her family’s journey with Autism.
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Mad About Mahjong
A new obsession sweeps north Louisiana!
37 Miss Louisiana
Olivia Grace George reflects on her year of service.
Hi there! If you’re new here, you’re in good company.
This is my first letter to you, the reader, and to be honest, I’m more comfortable in your position than I am in this one.
Since 2016, I’ve been an avid reader and admirer of Lola Magazine
As a marketing and PR professional, I spent years working with business owners on advertising strategy, creative design, and media placement. I learned to enjoy my role behind the scenes—collaborating with creatives, digging into spreadsheets, and prepping presentation decks.
Last year, when I reached out to place a client’s ad in the holiday issue of Lola, I learned that the publication was on hiatus. At first, I wasn’t alarmed. I thought, They’ll be back soon. But as time passed, I began to wonder—and worry.
See, Lola Magazine meant something deeper to me. It was more than a publication I picked up while out to lunch. It was more than a pretty “book” I collected on my coffee table. Lola, was a beacon of pride in my community. It was a cherished tradition, a time capsule, a tangible celebration of what makes our little corner of the South so special.
For the better part of a decade, I gleefully picked up each fresh issue, knowing I would flip through the pages to see familiar faces, engaging articles, beautiful photography, design, and so much more. It was simply too special to let go.
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So, I did what most curious, ambitious women do when they don’t know what’s next—I started asking questions. One conversation turned into a call, and a meeting turned into an offer: Purchase Lola Magazine and continue the beautiful tradition established by the original Lola Ladies—Bevin and Carie.
The answer was always yes. Not because I dreamed of publishing print media, and certainly not because I was prepared to do so (in this economy?!). The answer was yes because I believe in my soul our community deserves Lola Magazine. We need a space where women can share their stories, where generational wisdom can be passed down, and where exciting community events can be spotlighted.
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PUBLISHERS
Ellyn T. McKinney
ellyn@readlola.com (318) 518-9258
Sarah M. McKinney
sarah@readlola.com (318) 286-4252
DISTRIBUTION MANAGER
Sid McKinney
GRAPHIC ARTIST & ADVERTISING DESIGN
Richard Creative Lola@Richard-Creative.com
CONTRIBUTING WRITERS
Bevin Hicks
Ellyn McKinney
Sarah McKinney
Melissa Mainiero
Dr. Skylar Souyoul
Dr. Lindsey Pennington
Donna Phillips
Brittany Strickland
Micahla Vaughn
Katherine Webb
Molly McInnis
Lauren Pettiette
Tina Kendrick
Olivia Grace George
Dr. M. Suzanne Tinsley
Letter from Editor & Contributors Confirmed
Dr. Marie Vazquez Morgan
PHOTOGRAPHY
Brittany Strickland
Mary-Kaitlyn Allen
Jeremy Hernandez
Micahla Vaughn
Steven Palowsky
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So here we are! In our first issue as new publishers, my mom and business partner, Ellyn McKinney, and I are so excited to bring Lola back.
In this issue, we’ll share more about how we got here and what’s to come. Friends and contributors tell their stories—from raising a child with autism, to navigating loss, to legacy gardening. We celebrate motherhood, Mahjong, and Miss Louisiana as she prepares to crown her successor.
With spring comes a new adventure for Lola We hope you’ll enjoy, celebrate and cherish her as we have for so many years.
- Sarah
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Lola was never just a magazine. She’s a movement. She’s a celebration. She’s yours.
Long Live Lola Magazine
The days go slow, but the years go fast. We hear it often in reference to raising children, how the days can be long, tiring, and full, yet somehow you blink and they’re grown.
This saying has echoed in my heart lately, not just as a mother, but as someone preparing to say goodbye to something that has also felt like my child.
I’ve loved writing for as long as I can remember. I was never the girl with the prettiest handwriting or the perfect spelling, but the written word has always been my way of connecting, of expressing what lives in my heart. Still, when I sat down to write this, the words didn’t come easy. I kept hearing that phrase:
“The days go slow, but the years go fast.” And I knew—that’s what this is really about.
Because other than raising my two amazing children, one of the greatest joys and honors of my life has been raising Lola Magazine.
In 2016, I looked around North Louisiana and saw something missing: a women’s publication that truly celebrated the bold, beautiful, brave stories of local women from every walk of life. I didn’t have all the answers. But what I did have was vision, passion, and deep belief
Bevin & Carie with the very first issue of Lola Magazine from July of 2016
in the women of this region. I knew we needed Lola.
So, like any woman with a wild dream, I turned to my best friend: Carie Hart.
Carie had media experience but had been at home with her kids for six years. She wasn’t really looking to jump back into work, but she’s always been my “yes” girl. My teammate. My ride or die. So when I told her we were starting a magazine, she jumped in, headfirst.
Together, we walked into businesses with a media kit, with no actual magazine to show, only our hearts, our hopes, and a promise that we were going to create the most beautiful, sincere publication this area had ever seen.
They believed. And we delivered.
Lola Magazine: Lifestyles of Louisiana Ladies was born. And just like a child, she grew quickly. What started as a dream became a full-blown community movement.
Not long after we started, God began placing the right people in our path, people who became the heartbeat of Lola. Danielle Richard, Brittany Strickland, Jessica Comegys, Donesa Walker, and Teri Netterville, we thank you. From the very beginning, you poured your love, energy, and talent into Lola. You believed in her before she had legs to stand on. We will never stop being grateful.
From the hundreds of phenomenal women whose stories we’ve been honored to tell, to the local businesses who trusted us with their brand, to our delivery team,
Tommy Sutton, Carl Hammock, and Mr. Charles, who made sure Lola made it into businesses and hands, thank you. Thank you for being part of this journey.
And to our readers… You are the soul of this story. Every kind comment, every coffee table where Lola has lived, every message you’ve sent that reminded us this work matters, thank you. Truly.
And now for the best part: Lola Magazine is taking on a new adventure.
Just like our children, there comes a time when we have to let them grow up, spread their wings, and go out into the world. We pray they find someone who will love them, care for them, guide them into their next chapter with the same devotion we have given.
So I prayed. And I waited. And God answered in the most perfect way, as He always does.
When I met Sarah McKinney, I knew immediately. She was the one. Every doubt, hesitation, and fear disappeared. Her heart, her character, her creative vision, it all aligned. I could see instantly that Sarah was not only equipped but called to carry Lola forward.
And to make it even sweeter, she’s doing it alongside her precious mother, Ellyn. Watching their bond, their shared passion, and their love for this community gives me peace I never imagined I’d have during this transition.
Carie and I aren’t going far. We’ll still be around, cheering from the sidelines, offering support, and always being a phone call away.
But it’s time.
It’s time to pass the torch.
And as I sign off with tears in my eyes and joy in my soul, please know that every single person who played a role in Lola’s story—big or small—has my endless gratitude.
Thank you for letting me live this dream. Thank you for believing in something built with heart, hard work, and a whole lot of love.
Lola was never just a magazine. She’s a movement. She’s a celebration. She’s yours.
And now, with a confident peace and a full heart… I say goodbye.
Long live Lola Magazine.
With all my love.
Cheers, Bevin
Lola’s Next Adventure
One of the greatest joys of being in business with my daughter is experiencing the beautiful, sometimes surprising, role reversals that naturally unfold. While traditionally I’ve worn the “teacher” hat as a mother, our partnership in relaunching Lola has shown me how powerful and rewarding it is to become the student, too.
This fluid dance of roles isn’t unique to us—it’s a familiar rhythm in most parent-adult child relationships. As time passes, wisdom flows in both directions. Some of what I offer Sarah Madalyn is time-honored, legacy wisdom—lessons passed down from generations of women who walked before us. But she brings her own kind of brilliance: sharp insights, modern clarity, and a fresh lens that not only challenges old assumptions but gently corrects and improves them. And then there’s the truly new—the kind of information and perspective that only someone raised in a different time can offer. It’s not just enlightening—it’s humbling in the best way. I love all of it. I need all of it. I learn so much from my daughter, every single day.
Since we launched our first business together, Mother Daughter Collective, and began our work on Lola, I’ve seen her step into her power as a business partner in the
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most inspiring ways. Where I falter, she shines. Where she hesitates, I steady the ground beneath her. And where we both flourish? That’s where the magic happens.
Sarah has a remarkable gift—an intuitive ability to see beyond the surface. She looks deeply and critically at content, photography, and life itself, making smart, strategic
decisions that elevate Lola and ensure it speaks to the hearts of our readers. Her eye for storytelling and aesthetics is sharp, but it’s her clarity of purpose that impresses me most. She’s also incredibly efficient and fair in how she divides our work, always aware of what plays to each of our strengths. That’s how this season of Lola came to life—not
as a solo act, but as a symphony of our shared talents, values, and love.
At its heart, Lola is more than a magazine. It’s a space—a lovely, intentional space—for Southern women to feel informed, inspired, and seen. It’s a place for connection, for creativity, and for becoming better humans, together.
Our vision for Lola’s future is bold and deeply personal: we want to expand her reach beyond Louisiana, into the hands and hearts of women across the South. We are committed to delivering accurate, truthful information that is not only relevant, but profoundly helpful to the unique and essential role
At its heart, Lola is a place for connection, for creativity, and for becoming better humans, together.
women play in making this planet a better place.
As I reflect on our journey and look to all that lies ahead, I’m deeply reminded of the power of women supporting women—across generations, across seasons of life. We could not launch this new chapter of Lola without first saying a heartfelt thank you to Carie and Bevin. From the very beginning, they have walked beside us, offering their wisdom, support, and steady hands at every turn. Lola is their creation, their baby—and they have entrusted her to us with such grace, allowing us to care for her, to nurture her, and to help her grow.
To our contributors—you’ve given this first edition its soul. Your words, your experiences, your honesty as daughters, mothers, sisters, and friends—you’ve made Lola personal, tender, and real. Thank you for opening your hearts and sharing your stories.
We’re also endlessly grateful to the creative minds who brought these pages to life: the Richard Creative Team, Brittany Strickland, Mary-Kaitlyn Allen, Jeremy Hernandez, our incredible print advisor Jon Holder with Complete Printing, and our dedicated distribution trio—Sid, Sidney, and Allison. Your talent, passion, and belief in our mission have infused Lola with beauty, depth, and meaning.
So many hands, so many hearts, all poured into one another—into something we hope will matter. Wow. Just wow. We are so grateful. As I often say: “Mentorship is vital to women and serves to strengthen, empower, and build one another up. I am humbled to have this role in my daughter’s life — and yours.”
We hope Lola finds you when you need her most—and that she leaves you feeling more connected, more inspired, and more seen.
-Ellyn Spring 2025
Zachary's Story
Written by Melissa Mainiero
Seventeen months after our first son, Jacob, was born, we welcomed our second child, Zachary. From the beginning, there was something different about him—something I couldn’t name but felt deeply. There were no flashing warning signs, no obvious delays. But as a mom—and an educator—I had questions. My husband Victor and I, both teachers, began asking friends and colleagues in child development what they thought. We wanted to understand.
One day, in the hallway at Benton High School, I shared some of my concerns with a colleague. A few months later, I heard the word “autism” spoken aloud in connection to my son for the first time. It was a quiet moment, but it marked a turning point—the start of a long, humbling, and ultimately beautiful journey.
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There were evaluations and doctor visits. Scans and screenings. And then the diagnosis. By the time we received it, we had already weathered months of uncertainty and suspicion. The news didn’t shock us—it gave us clarity. The emotional blow had softened during the long wait. I didn’t dwell in guilt or self-blame. Instead, I felt empowered. We had a name. Now we could take action.
I threw myself into research. But in 1999, “research” meant something very different than it does today. There was no Google. Just a dial-up connection, a blinking cursor, and a lot of patience. After four hours online, I found only one article—it focused on autism and vaccines. I knew that wasn’t the direction I
needed. The next day, I walked into a bookstore and ordered Thinking in Pictures by Temple Grandin. When it arrived, I opened the first few pages—and closed it again. I wasn’t ready. It would be years before I could finish the book and see its beauty. In those early days, I wasn’t looking for inspiration—I was looking for answers. I wanted a cure, a checklist, a path. But I quickly learned that autism doesn’t come with a stepby-step guide. Every child on the spectrum is different. There is no one-size-fits-all plan. So, I shifted my focus: instead of trying to fix what I didn’t understand, I chose to listen, learn, and trust those who had walked this road before us.
I watched Zachary closely. He met physical milestones—crawling, walking—but not social ones. He didn’t smile back at us or seek hugs. He didn’t babble or point. He often wandered off to quiet corners of the house, content in his own world. I remember one day, he fell and cut his head badly enough to need stitches. Instead of running to me, he ran away. I remember wondering, Does he even know who his family is?
At one evaluation, a therapist asked, “Does Zachary point to objects?” I froze. I couldn’t think of a single time he had. I flashed back to Jacob as a toddler—his chubby finger pointing at every airplane or butterfly, asking questions about his
grandfather flying the plane. Why hadn’t I noticed this missing moment with Zachary? I felt crushed. Did I fail to teach him something so simple?
That night, I became a student of my son. I watched more carefully. I tried to see what he saw. One afternoon, I noticed Zachary walking slowly past our pantry door, back and forth, several times. I assumed he wanted a snack. But instead of offering one, I knelt down. That’s when I saw it—the shiny brass doorknob. He was watching his reflection move and distort with each pass. He wasn’t asking for anything. He was studying, discovering, wondering. That moment changed how I parented forever. I stopped trying to pull him into my world— and started stepping into his.
Not everyone understood. Friends and family offered sympathy or compared him to movie characters. Some gave us names of specialists or advice they’d seen on TV. Others didn’t know what to say. But most simply showed up. They offered love, meals, patience, and open arms. That’s what we needed more than anything.
Autism Is a Family Journey
Autism affects more than just the diagnosed child—it reshapes the entire family. Zachary’s siblings have always played a central role in his life and growth.
Jacob, just under two years older, never questioned who his brother was. He loved him fiercely and fully. Years later, he reflected:
“Zachary has always been my brother. I never treated him any differently. Watching him overcome challenges has taught me patience and empathy. One of my favorite memories is Zachary baking chocolate chip cookies from a big tub of dough. One night, he handed one to my girlfriend—now wife—Cassidy. That’s how I knew he accepted her. It wasn’t just a cookie. It was his way of saying, ‘You belong.’”
Cassidy shared her own view:
“At first, Zachary didn’t want me around. I wasn’t part of his routine. But over time, he welcomed me. Before one family trip, I made him a scrapbook so he could see where we were going and what to expect. He carried it with him everywhere. Now, he protects me like I’m part of his inner circle.”
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Ten years after Zachary was born, our daughter Ava joined the family. Her bond with her older brother is something we treasure deeply:
“Having Zach as a big brother has been a blessing. Autism doesn’t stop him from enjoying life or spreading joy. From painting to baking, he does it all. He’s helped shape who I am—more patient, more compassionate, more curious.”
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Growth and Milestones
Those early years were exhausting. Zachary rarely slept more than three hours a night. One evening, I found him in the kitchen, balancing on drawers he’d pulled out to climb the counter, stacking plastic cups with incredible precision. We adjusted everything in our home for safety—double baby gates, anchored furniture, locked cabinets. We adapted.
School posed another challenge. Despite being educators ourselves, we struggled to navigate the system. In third grade, we were told Zachary would never earn a regular diploma. I remember asking, “Then what are we aiming for?” The answer: a certificate of attendance. That wasn’t enough for us— or for him.
Our advocacy led us to ACT 833, a Louisiana law allowing students with disabilities to earn meaningful diplomas through alternative pathways. Years later,
Zachary became the first student in Bossier Parish to earn a Jumpstart Diploma for Students with Significant Disabilities. He didn’t just attend school—he succeeded. One of my favorite moments was his first hug. We had waited so long. Then, one day, it happened—unprompted, sincere, unforgettable. That photo hung in my classroom for years, until a student told me it needed a proper frame and surprised me with one.
Victor’s favorite memory is of Zachary’s first try on the knee board, behind our boat. We all held our breath, wondering if he had the coordination it took to achieve this skill. This anxious moment quickly resolved to cheering him on as he held steady until we made the decision to stop, even though Zachary could have held on much longer. We quickly came to understand that Zachary loved water. It brings calm to his internal chaos.
The Magic in the Details
Autism can make life harder, but it also brings unexpected beauty. Zachary’s fascination with VHS tapes began young. We thought he loved the movies—but it turned out he loved the tapes. He developed his own cataloging system, sorting them not by title but by production codes. He can locate any tape in seconds, and uses them to juggle with precision and catching them with perfect rhythm. He is able to fast-forward to exact scenes without looking at the screen. It is mesmerizing.
We realized the key wasn’t always teaching Zachary our way of doing things—but finding ways to enter his. That’s where connection lives.
Support and Strength
We couldn’t have made it without the help of professionals and family. Early speech and occupational therapy at Willis Knighton were invaluable with therapists, Jessica and Jolene. Pediatrician Dr. Frank Hughes and Jennifer Patton, APRN, CPNP provided excellent medical attention and answers to our questions. Countless educators became our guides and cheerleaders. Most importantly, we built strong relationships with others who had knowledge and information throughout this journey. We asked questions. We stayed curious. And we surrounded ourselves with people who believed in Zachary as much as we did.
Our extended family showed up in countless ways—from offering car rides to watching our kids during tough appointments. They became part of our village. And through it all, Victor and I grew as parents—more patient, more present, and more in awe of our children.
Zachary Today
Zachary is now a young man who works at Howdy’s Ice Cream Shop, run by Holy Angels. He picks his own chores each morning and greets customers with a handshake and a smile. His artwork, discovered during a painting session with his brother, has blossomed into a true gift. His paintings are sold as prints, cards, and tea towels in shops across Shreveport-Bossier. When he sees someone buy his art, the pride on his face is unforgettable.
his artwork through Holy Angels. Knowing he is held by a community that sees his worth and believes in his potential brings us an incredible peace.
Right now, Zachary is thriving at home, and we are grateful. He plays a vital role in our daily lives and the lives of so many others. Because of that, we haven’t felt the need to explore other living arrangements. We’re holding on to what works, trusting God with what’s ahead, and we’re celebrating each day for the gift that it is.
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Zachary is not a puzzle to solve. He is a person to know, to love, and to learn from. His journey has changed us—made us stronger, softer, and more open to the unexpected beauty in life.
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Looking Forward
Zachary’s future is perhaps the hardest thing for us to put into words. Like most parents, we want our son to live a life that brings him joy and purpose—a life where he feels loved, valued, and supported by the world around him. But when your child has a disability, that vision of the future can carry extra weight. There are more questions, more unknowns, and sometimes, more worry.
Still, I return again and again to these two words: But God. We trust Zachary’s future to Him. And in the meantime, we do everything we can, as his family and community, to surround him with love and support.
That circle of support is wide. It stretches beyond our immediate and extended family to local business owners who offer him space to grow, former teachers who still check in, and caring souls who purchase
Over time, I’ve come to see Zachary’s behaviors not as odd or unusual, but as unique strengths that offer us new ways to understand the world. Inspired by Temple Grandin’s words, “I am different, not less,” I’ve learned to enter his space—his perspective—to better support him. It hasn’t always been easy. I once believed that, as his mother, I should instinctively understand everything about him. But autism doesn’t work that way. It’s not a one-size-fits-all experience. Understanding Zachary requires time, faith, patience, prayer, and constant reflection. Each day brings trial and error—but also growth, connection, and insight.
About Melissa Mainiero:
Melissa is Executive Director of Accountability & Grants for Caddo Parish Public Schools. She is also an accomplished artisan, crafting home décor alongside her husband, Victor Mainiero. In Victor’s words, “Melissa is the educational resource that has been a blessing in our family and has combed every research article, book, and multimedia site to discover all the helpful information that has made this journey so successful.”
SPECIAL THANKS TO: Mary-Kaitlyn Allen | Glamour & Grace Photography
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WHERE EVERY CHILD BELONGS
Moms know the challenge: finding fun, meaningful experiences for our kids. That’s why We Rock the Spectrum – Shreveport is making waves with local families.
Opened last December by mother-in-law/daughter-inlaw duo Hannah and Jill Rush, this one-of-a-kind indoor play gym is the first in the Ark-La-Tex designed for all kids — with a special focus on those with autism or sensory processing challenges.
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Why does this matter? Children on the spectrum often experience the world differently, and sensory overload is common. At We Rock, every piece of equipment supports their development in a fun, engaging way:
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It’s therapy disguised as play — and all kids benefit. Here, children of all abilities play together, learning empathy and building confidence through shared joy.
The passionate staff and welcoming environment make this more than a gym — it’s a community. Therapists are welcome, families feel supported, and everyone is included. Yes, dads and siblings too (with discounts)!
With birthday rooms, private events, and a truly inclusive mission, We Rock the Spectrum – Shreveport is a place where every child is celebrated — just as they are.
2025 cotillion: an Enchanted Evening at Swan Lake
Guests enjoyed a fantastical night at the theater, where ageless grace met timeless elegance. The cherished tradition continued this year with a lavish celebration inspired by Tchaikovsky’s classic ballet masterpiece, Swan Lake. This enchanting ballet tells the story of Odette, a princess turned into a swan by an evil sorcerer’s curse, and Prince Siegfried, whose love for her conquers all. It is a poignant and magical tale of love and deception set against the backdrop of a mystical lake.
Guests reveled in this fanciful world of ethereal beauty, as the seventy-sixth cotillion transformed into a captivating fairy tale come to life. Their Royal Majesties, Rex LXXVI and Regina LXXVI, hosted guests on Friday, April 11, 2025, at eight-thirty in the evening as they reigned over Cotillion LXXVI, transporting all to an enchanted evening at Swan Lake.
As the evening unfolded, guests immersed themselves in a place where delicate decorations echoed the serene and mystical ambiance of a moonlit lake surrounded by swans, accompanied by melodies that brought to life the story of love and beauty. The night was truly an unforgettable event filled with grace, music, and joyous celebration!
The Cotillion Club was established in 1949 to stimulate interest in the Greater Shreveport area and boost the local economy.
the 2025 Cotillion Club Royal Court
The Duchesses of the Court
Honorary Duchess Escorts: George Patton Fritze, Rex LXVIII
Claude Green Rives IV, Rex LV
His Royal Highness: The Prince
Russell Barrow Peacock Jr., Colorado School of Mines, son of the Honorable and Mrs. Russell Barrow Peacock.
Her Royal Highness: The Princess
Aidan Elaine Heard, Texas Christian University, daughter of Dr. and Mrs. Steven Cooper Heard.
Bossier City: Grace Elizabeth Harvey, Mississippi State University, Starkville, Miss., daughter of Mr. and Mrs. John Thomas Harvey.
Cane River: Jensen Virginia Parker, University of Arkansas, Fayetteville, Ark., daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Jason Ray Parker.
Nashville: Taylor Gwin, University of Mississippi, Oxford, Miss. daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Clinton Bird Gwin.
The Ladies of the Court
Caroline Elizabeth Atkins, University of Arkansas, daughter of John Baxter Atkins III and Mr. and Mrs. Christopher Joseph Blaise David.
Julie Anna Cormier, University of Louisiana Lafayette, daughter of Drs. Adam and Jana Cormier.
Emmaline Erin Drummond, University of Arkansas, daughter of Dr. and Mrs. Richard Blair Drummond.
His Royal Majesty, Rex LXXVI
John Edward Atkins, a native of Shreveport, partner at ATCo Investment Company, Co., Co-founder and partner of Louisiana Timber Partners, LLC.
Her Royal Majesty, Regina LXXVI
Katherine Claire Ferrier, LSU in Baton Rouge, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Robert Lee Ferrier, Junior.
Natchitoches: Anna Kathleen Jackson, LSU, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Tandy Ealon Jackson IV.
New Orleans: Sarah Jane Williams, LSU, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Brian Parks Williams.
Northwest Louisiana: Emma Grace Pittman, LSU, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Robert Milton Pittman III.
Frances Geraghty Hardtner, LSU, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. George Jonathan Hardtner and Mr. and Mrs. Michael Lerran Klingner.
Mikayla Elizabeth Huffman, Baylor University, Waco, Texas, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Woodfin D. Huffman.
Bridget Elizabeth John, LSU, daughter of Mr. Richard Michael John and Dr. Angela Cush-John.
Bristol Jeanne Moore, Louisiana Tech University, daughter or Mr. and Mrs. Bryan Paul Moore.
Grayson Fay Noles, Baylor University, daughter of Dr. and Mrs. John Gray Noles.
Cecilia Catherine Ware, LSU, daughter of Drs. P. Derek and Alisha H. Ware.
Texas: Mary Evelyn Barrett, Wake Forest University, WinstonSalem, North Carolina, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Seth Morton Barrett.
True to its crest, designed by Margaret Mary Young, the Cotillion has offered grace and beauty in work and play to our area for more than 75 years.
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Cotillion Heralds
In its early years, the Cotillion was celebrated with a series of special events, including church services, a yachting regatta, a symphony performance, and a children's parade.
Alefair Amelia Adams, Lipscomb Elementary School, Brentwood, Tenn., daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Austen Michael Adams.
Anna Doucet Chidlow, Our Lady of Mercy Catholic School, Baton Rouge, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Andrew Doucet Chidlow.
Anna Brevard LeBlanc, Eden Gardens Magnet School, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Scott Anthony LeBlanc.
Andrew David Deal, University of Arkansas, son of Mr. and Mrs. David Robert Deal.
Patrick Gabriel Smith Gooszen, Mississippi State University, son of Dr. and Mrs. Michael Henry Louis Gooszen.
Thomas Grey Jackson, Jr., Bossier Parish Community College, son of Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Grey Jackson, Sr.
Matthew Judd Johnson, Auburn University, Auburn, Ala., son of Mr. and Mrs. Matthew Lange Johnson.
Barro Joubert Massad, Louisiana Tech University, son of Mr. and Mrs. Bradley Donald Massad.
Peyton Beene Moore, Southern Methodist University, Dallas, son of Mr. and Mrs. John Michael Moore.
Joseph Adam Parker, Southern Arkansas University, Magnolia, Ark., son of Mr. and Mrs. Jason Ray Parker.
David Wayne Rockett, Louisiana Tech University, son of Mr. and Mrs. David Randall Rockett Jr. and Mr. and Mrs. William Christopher Weaver.
Andrew Ramsey Stuart, University of Arkansas, son of Dr. and Mrs. Anthony James Stuart.
U.S. Air Force Airman
Victor Silva, Barksdale Air Force Base.
Graham Steen Trawick, Baylor University, son of Dr. and Mrs. Thomas Steen Trawick, Jr.
Russell Howard Van Norman IV, University of Arkansas, son of Dr. and Mrs. Russell Howard Van Norman III.
Paul Meade Dickson III, Southfield School, son of Mr. and Mrs. Paul Meade Dickson Jr.
Brody Quinn Peterson, Shreve Island Elementary, son of Mr. and Mrs. Edwin Connor Peterson.
Harrison Philip Hynes, Fairfield Elementary School, son of Mr. and Mrs. Joel Hunter Hynes.
Arthur Craig Kennedy, Southfield School, son of Mr. and Mrs. Alexander Anthony Powell Kennedy.
Elizabeth Ann Lindenmayer, Southfield School, daughter of Stephen Paul Lindenmayer and Dr. Mary Catherine Clemons.
Lucy Fay Lindenmayer, Southfield School, daughter of Mr. Stephen Paul Lindenmayer and Dr. Mary Catherine Clemons.
Elizabeth Clare Shaughnessy, Jackson Academy, Jackson, Miss., daughter of Drs. Morgan and John Earl Shaughnessy III.
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BY DR. SKYLAR SOUYOUL AND DR. LINDSEY PENNINGTON
In the world of aesthetics, misinformation runs rampant—and it can impact how people approach their skincare and cosmetic treatments.We’re here to clear the air. As a board-certified dermatologist and a double boardcertified facial plastic surgeon, we hear these myths all the time. Let’s break them down and set the record straight.
X MYTH:
Starting Botox early will make you immune to it.
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X MYTH:
All Botox and filler treatments are the same, no matter where you go.
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Botox is a purified protein that relaxes targeted muscles to soften wrinkles and prevent new ones from forming.
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Your results depend entirely on the skill, training, and expertise of the injector.
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When used correctly, Botox and Dysport remain effective for adults of all ages. Preventative neurotoxin treatments in your 20s and 30s can help delay the onset of static wrinkles. As long as treatments are spaced out by at least 12 weeks and performed at appropriate doses, there’s minimal risk of developing antibodies. Starting earlier doesn’t lead to resistance—it can actually help you age more gracefully.
Drs. Souyoul and Pennington are now accepting new patients.
Call Pennington Facial Plastics at (318)216-5366 or schedule anytime online by scanning the code.
Cosmetic treatments are medical procedures—not commodities. That’s why it’s so important to see a boardcertified core aesthetic physician— like a facial plastic surgeon or dermatologist—who has in-depth knowledge of facial anatomy, uses FDA-approved products sourced directly from the manufacturer, and is trained to manage even the rarest complications. As a double board-certified facial plastic surgeon and a board-certified dermatologist, we have completed the most rigorous and specialized training available in aesthetic medicine. In addition to treating patients, we’ve also served as clinical investigators and national speakers in the field. When it comes to your face, experience, education, and credentials truly matter.
X MYTH:
To get perfect skin, just copy someone else’s routine.
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Great skincare is personalized, not one-sizefits-all.
Your skin is unique—your skincare should be, too. What works for someone else might cause irritation, dryness, or breakouts for you. That’s why we design custom regimens tailored to your skin type and goals. We even provide written instructions to guide you step-by-step (many of our patients keep them taped to their mirror!
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Myth: If you’re thinking about a facelift, you should skip Sculptra.
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Sculptra is one of the only truly regenerative treatments available—and it won’t prevent you from having a facelift later.
Skincare consultations are complimentary and are available in-person or virtually. Scan the code to start a virtual skincare consultation.
X MYTH: Everyone will know if you get filler.
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Sculptra is a unique injectable that stimulates your skin to produce its own collagen and elastin, leading to visible improvements in skin quality, tone, texture, and subtle volume loss over time. It’s backed by clinical studies and is a great option for patients of any age—whether you’re interested in prejuvenation or rejuvenation.
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Filler is a gel-like substance made of hyaluronic acid—a naturally occurring compound in your body—used to restore lost volume, smooth lines, and enhance facial contours.
There’s a common misconception that Sculptra can interfere with future facelifts. While it’s true that improperly placed product can complicate surgery, this only occurs when it’s injected into the wrong tissue planes. In the hands of a board-certified, trained aesthetic physician, Sculptra is safe to use before and after surgical procedures.
Dr. Pennington typically prefers at least a 6–12 month window between Sculptra and facelift surgery to allow for collagen remodeling, but the idea that you must avoid it altogether is simply not true. When placed appropriately, it does not affect your ability to undergo a facelift—and it remains one of the most effective regenerative treatments in aesthetics today.
The best filler results are completely undetectable. Natural-looking results are our specialty. We focus on enhancing your features so you still look like you—just refreshed. If filler is noticeable, it was likely too much or poorly placed. That’s why choosing an experienced injector with a refined aesthetic eye is so important.
To see more before and after results follow: @aestheticfaceandbodycenter | @penningtonfacialplastics
THE BOTTOM LINE:
Botox, fillers, and skincare are powerful tools— when they’re used correctly. Skip the social media myths and talk to trusted experts. When done properly, these treatments enhance your natural beauty, restore confidence, and help you feel your absolute best.
What started as a shared love for expressive style and beautiful things has blossomed into something extraordinary: a boutique rooted in joy, wrapped in artistry, and built on the belief that clothing can be both a creative expression and a spiritual gift.
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“Our very first purchase for the shop was a billboardsized image of Marlene Dietrich,” says Donna. “It reminded us why we were doing this—for the bold, the extraordinary, the women who know when the ordinary just won’t do.”
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That mantra still guides everything they do. But it’s the mother-daughter bond that breathes life into every rack, every window, every carefully wrapped purchase. It’s in the way they handpick each piece with heart. It’s in the way they greet every guest like family. And it’s in the quiet moments between them—shared glances, whispered prayers, knowing smiles—that you feel the spirit of the place.
FAITH-FILLED FASHION, CURATED WITH HEART
At Absolutely Abigail’s, fashion is just the beginning. This soulful boutique—tucked in the heart of Shreveport, Louisiana—is a love letter to beauty, faith, and family. Founded by Donna Phillips and her daughter Abigail, the shop is more than a retail space. It’s a sanctuary. A story. A calling.
Donna and Abigail see Absolutely Abigail’s not just as a boutique, but as a ministry—an opportunity to uplift women through color, confidence, and conversation. The Lord, they say, is the true foundation of their success. Every piece they carry is selected with purpose. Every collection tells a story.
From artisan jewelry and hand-dyed tunics to statement-making dresses and precious gifts, the boutique is a thoughtful blend of New York’s artistic flair and New Orleans’ soulful charm. Imagine Bleecker Street meets Magazine Street—where city style meets southern soul.
Their curated collections celebrate individuality and artistry, with a special emphasis on small-batch, handmade, and globally inspired pieces that speak to the woman who isn’t afraid to stand out.
It’s built on love, creativity, and trust. We’re two generations with one beautiful mission—to make women feel seen, celebrated, and strong.
MORE THAN A STORE—IT’S A FEELING
Step inside Absolutely Abigail’s and you’ll notice something instantly: a warmth, a lightness, a joy. You’ll hear laughter. You’ll find color. You’ll discover art-driven apparel you won’t see anywhere else—and you’ll leave with more than a shopping bag. You’ll leave with a story.
Especially on Mother’s Day, the spirit of the boutique shines even brighter.
“This store is a reflection of our relationship,” Abigail shares. “It’s built on love, creativity, and trust. We’re two generations with one beautiful mission—to make women feel seen, celebrated, and strong.”
This season, they invite you to step into their world. Whether you’re shopping for yourself, your mother, your daughter, or a dear friend— you’ll find something meaningful and unforgettable.
Because when the ordinary just won’t do, Absolutely Abigail’s always will.
With love,
Donna & Abigail
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The Surprisingly Sweet Origins of Mother’s Day
WRITTEN BY ELLYN MCKINNEY
We all know the drill— come May, the world turns pink and floral, and we’re suddenly flooded with brunch menus, heartfelt cards, and those oh-so-persistent “Don’t forget Mom!” reminders. But have you ever stopped to wonder… who came up with Mother’s Day in the first place?
Well, turns out, this heartwarming holiday has quite the backstory—and like many things in life, it involves a bit of drama, a whole lot of love, and yes, some serious mom energy.
Let’s start with the official stuff. President Woodrow Wilson is the one who made it official back in 1914, signing a proclamation that named the second Sunday in May a national day to honor mothers. Mark it on your calendar from this point forward and you never have to ask again! You could call President Wilson, the “father” of Mother’s Day (though we suspect he’d defer to the women on this one).
But the true driving force—the real heart of the holiday—was
a woman named Anna Jarvis. Inspired by her own mother, Ann, Anna turned a personal mission into a national movement. In 1908, she held the first formal celebration in West Virginia and Philadelphia, complete with 500 white carnations—her mother’s favorite flower. Sweet, right? What’s even more touching is that the idea didn’t start with Anna—it actually started with her mother, Ann Jarvis. After teaching a Sunday school lesson back in the 1870s, Ann reportedly prayed that someone would one day create a memorial for mothers. Anna made it her life’s work to make that prayer a reality.
But here’s where it gets interesting: Ann Jarvis envisioned a day for all mothers—a community gathering, a day of service, a moment for women to lift each other up. In other words, women worked on Mother’s Day, but for other women. They celebrated one another, rather than someone else celebrating them as individuals. Anna, on the other hand, wanted to create a deeply personal holiday. One day, one mother.
Your own.
It’s a subtle difference—but a powerful one. And in some ways, the heart of Mother’s Day still lives in that contrast. Because whether you’re a mom, hope to be one, aren’t one by choice or circumstance, or spend your days nurturing nieces, nephews, fur babies, students, or friends—this holiday has something to say to all women. It’s about honoring the spirit of care, compassion, and strength that so many of us carry, in so many forms. And yes, it’s also about mimosas, handwritten notes, and maybe a nap you actually get to enjoy without interruption. (We can dream, right?)
So, this May, celebrate however feels right to you. Honor your own mother, or the memory of her. Send love to a friend who shows up like a sister. Or simply take a moment to appreciate the beauty of being a woman who gives, nurtures, and loves in her own unique way.
After all, Mother’s Day may have started with one daughter and one dream—but it belongs to all of us now.
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When I Miss My Mama:
Grief, Legacy, and Living with Love and Light and Intention
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t hits at unexpected times. A song. A smell. The way sunlight comes through the window just so. Grief isn’t linear—it’s a spiral. It moves in and out, quietly and loudly, sometimes within the same breath. Today, I miss my mama.
And while the minutes keep moving and life keeps life-ing… I’ve paused a lot today thinking about her. What would she be like now? How would she look? How would she be? I picked up the phone earlier to call her, and that’s how it started. Just like that—grief crashing into my otherwise ordinary Tuesday. Tears came. Happy tears and sad ones. Because the truth is, she would be so proud of me—breaking down all these walls, pushing myself, teaching my children a different way.
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She would freak over her grandbabies. To see her with all four of them… just wow. I can almost hear her laugh, the way she’d light up a room just by being in it. And I’d give anything to watch her hold my babies, love them the way only she could. I shared a little of this with a client today because I want people to know: when I shoot for you and your story, it comes from here. It comes from this deep place of knowing what it means to lose, to understand how precious, fleeting, and sacred this life is. Loss changes you. It molds you. It doesn’t get better—you just figure out how to carry it and come to terms with it. The cool thing is, we have a choice in how we carry it. I choose to be my best to honor my mama and my son. And I do that through my work.
I grew up with a mama who showed love in the quiet ways: latenight talks, handwritten notes tucked into my lunch, the way she could read my mood with just one glance. She was intentional. She paid attention. She made people feel safe, heard, and cherished. She wasn’t just my mom—she was my home. Her death shook my world. It left a void I didn’t know how to navigate. Grief became this strange companion, always present, always shifting. It would show up when I least expected— watching a movie she loved, walking through a store she used to frequent, cooking a meal she taught me to make.
Grief has taught me to slow down, to savor. It’s taught me to tell the people I love that I love them. Often. Loudly. Unapologetically. It’s taught me that we don’t get to choose when we lose someone, but we do get to choose how we honor them. I honor my mama by living with intention. By being fully present in my work, my home, my motherhood. By paying attention to the moments that matter. By choosing joy, even when it’s wrapped in sorrow.
And as much as I grieve what she’s missed—birthdays, milestones, ordinary moments—I also know she hasn’t really missed it. I carry her with me in my laugh, in my hands and especially in my heart. She is still part of the story.
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If you’re reading this and you’re missing your mama too—especially right now—I want you to know something: you are not alone. Whether it’s been ten days or ten years, the ache is real. The empty chair at the table. The unspoken advice you wish you could hear. The holidays that feel hollow without her. I know what it’s like to smile for your children while silently grieving the absence of your own mother.
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In those early days, I felt like I was underwater. Numb. Disoriented. And yet, in time, I began to feel her presence in the stillness, in the quiet, in the everyday sacred. Since she passed, I’ve learned to listen more closely to my own heart. I’ve become more intentional about how I love, how I show up, and how I mother. I don’t take the little things for granted anymore—the long bedtime routines, the fingerprints on the windows, the endless questions from my kids. I see them all as gifts now. Fleeting. Holy.
I’ve also learned to give myself more grace. My mama didn’t do everything perfectly—but she was present. She showed up. She loved me with her whole heart. And that’s what I try to do now, for my own children. Not perfection—but presence. And that’s more than enough.
Grief is love with nowhere to go. But I’ve come to believe it does go somewhere. It flows into how we love others, how we parent, how we serve, how we create. It becomes part of our lens. It deepens our compassion. It gives our love roots. So if you’re missing your mom today, I hope you pause and feel whatever needs to be felt. Cry if you need to. Laugh if you can. Tell someone a story about her. Write her a letter. Look for signs that she’s near. Because she is. I believe that with everything in me. She lives on—in you. And when you’re ready, when it feels right, choose to honor her in a way that brings life. In your art. In your work. In your relationships. Your parenting. Your faith. Your friendships. Your healing.
That’s what I’m doing. Every photo I take, every story I tell—it’s all a tribute. A love letter and a legacy. Because when I miss my mama, I remember, she didn’t just raise me—she formed me the best way she knew how. And I’ll carry that sacred love for the rest of my life.
Tyler “Tate” & Jacie Tatum
A Celebration of Love, Whimsy, and Heartfelt Memories
PHOTOGRAPHY BY MICAHLA VAUGHN
Jacie Tatum's wedding was a deeply personal affair, a celebration that defied expectations and blossomed from a vision as unique as her love story with Tate. "I wanted something different," Jacie explains, "a wedding that truly felt like us." Her inspiration stemmed from a vibrant image of wildflowers, leading to a carefully curated palette of mauve, terracotta, greens, and pops of blue and yellow – a perfect harmony of her and Tate’s distinct styles. With the artistic guidance of Brianna Belton of Brianna Belton Designs, this vision was brought to life with breathtaking beauty.
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If you haven’t already heard, there’s a new obsession sweeping north and central Louisiana—and it’s not Pickleball or Pilates. It’s Mahjong— and yes, we are officially mad about it.
Since May 2024, three fabulous local women—Katherine Webb, Molly McInnis, and Lauren Pettiette—have introduced over 600 people to the American version of this iconic tile game. That’s right, 150+ classes and counting. Turns out, Mahjong isn’t just a scene from Crazy Rich Asians—it’s fast, strategic, a little addictive, and a whole lot of fun.
Special thanks to Mad About Mahjong Photography by Jeremy Hernandez
It All Started with a Card and a Coincidence
Katherine picked up the game from family in Dallas back in 2019. She had the tiles, the card...but no crew to play with. Fast forward a few years, when her sister-inlaw Molly finds a class in Shreveport. They sign up—and just happen to land at the same table as Lauren. It was a modern day meet-cute.
The three instantly clicked, bonded over bams and dragons, and kept playing every chance they got. They realized—wait, almost no one around here knows how to play! And just like that, Mad About Mahjong was born. (Cue the shuffle.)
It’s Not Just a Movie Moment
We’ve all seen that ultra-glam scene from Crazy Rich Asians. While American Mahjong uses the same style of tiles, it plays by its own set of rules. The National Mah Jongg League (Yes, that’s a thing, and yes, the spellings vary) sets the standard with an official card released every year. It has letters, numbers, and enough combos to make your head spin.
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But don’t stress—MAM breaks it all down in their Mahjong 101 class, teaching you how to read the card, understand the tiles, and actually win a hand without losing your head. From there, you can level up with Mahjong 102 or dive into Tile Tactics for next-level strategy. There are also themed events (Mahjong + Margaritas? Yes please!) and weekly leagues to keep the party going.
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A Game That Looks as Good as it Feels
Mahjong is as much a style choice as it is a game. The tiles? Gorgeous. The setups? Pinterest-worthy. Think: Southern-chic sets with sweet tea motifs, holidaythemed collections, even designs that match your mood. People collect sets like handbags—and honestly, we support that.
You can snag a basic set for around $20, or go all out with a designer set from Tiffany or Louis Vuitton (no judgment). Add a cute mat, a cheeky accessory (“Life’s short. Use Jokers”), maybe a champagne flute for that
“Bird Bam” toast, and you’re ready to rack and roll. MAM teaches with sets from stylish brands like Oh My Mahjong and My Fair Mahjong—and they even have a discount code (318MAHJ) to treat yourself.
Glow Alchemy Kitchen—you name it. Whether you’re in Shreveport, Texarkana, Ruston or Natchitoches, these ladies are spreading Mahjong magic one tile at a time.
And we love that it’s a thing—a weekly ritual, a girls’ night alternative, a reason to get gussied up and gather your girlfriends.
Who’s at the Table? Everyone.
Though the majority of players are women (sorry, fellas—you’re missing out!), MAM has taught students from age 8 to 80. Couples’ classes are a hit, but more often, it’s groups of girlfriends, sisters, moms, and daughters bonding over jokers and dragon tiles.
“Some of our favorite friendships started at the Mahjong table,” Katherine says. “It’s honestly the best part.”
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The Wellness Bonus
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Where Community Meets Competition
And hey—it’s not just fun. It’s good for your brain. Mahjong improves memory, logic, and focus, and it’s even been linked to better cognitive health in older adults. Even more than that? It brings people together.
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This isn’t just about learning a game—it’s about connecting. Mad About Mahjong classes have popped up everywhere: East Ridge, Pierremont Oaks, Biscotti’s,
Each new year brings a new NMJL card—and with it, new challenges and fresh hands to master. Just when you think you’ve got it figured out...boom, the game changes. It keeps you sharp and coming back for more. As Julia Roberts once said, “It’s like life—we try to make order out of chaos.”
Want to Join the Madness?
Follow Mad About Mahjong on Instagram and Facebook: @MadAboutMahjong Mad About Mahjong or visit madaboutmahjongsbc.com for a full schedule of classes and events.
Whether you’re brand new or looking to sharpen your strategy, they’ve got a seat for you.
Bloom GROWING ROOTS:
A Garden Story of Legacy, Love, & Letting Things
WRITTEN BY TINA KENDRICK
In the fall of 2019, after four decades of life in Shreveport, my husband and I packed up our memories and moved to a quiet hilltop on Lake Claiborne. Surrounded by pine and hardwood trees, we traded the buzz of city life for the hush of rustling leaves and lake breezes.
ust a few months later, the world pressed pause. COVID-19 arrived, and instead of meeting new neighbors or discovering our new community, we found ourselves tucked away in solitude—strangers in a beautiful, unfamiliar place.
With time suddenly in abundance, I did what any restless soul might do: I walked, I read, I wrote… and I dreamed. I reflected on the mission of our longtime church: “Open minds, open hearts, open doors.” I trusted that in this new chapter, even with so much unknown, God would guide me—maybe not through crowds or committees, but through seeds and soil.
And oh, what soil it was—steep, rocky, stubborn red clay. Our acre was thick with trees, seventy-three of them
to be exact. But I looked at that hill, not as an obstacle, but as an opportunity. A blank canvas where something beautiful could grow. I just had to figure out how.
A GARDEN BEGINS WITH MEMORY
As I wandered that hill, sketchpad in hand, I found myself drifting into the past. To another hilltop, outside the tiny town of Sikes, Louisiana, where my grandmother lived in a weathered dogtrot house behind a white picket gate. The gate creaked with stories, and her garden? It sang with them.
There were roses and lilies and herbs tucked into every nook, a floral quilt woven beneath towering trees. Every plant had a story—who gave it to her, where she placed it,
A view from the Kendrick's backyard oasis as a beautiful sunset casts it's pink and purple hues over Lake Claiborne.
how she coaxed it through droughts and freezes. The soil was rich, black, alive with worms and wonder. She amended red clay with coffee grounds, chicken manure, and love.
I think that’s where the spark was lit in me, long before I ever held a trowel of my own.
LESSONS FROM MY MOTHER’S HANDS
My mother, too, was a gardener— though perhaps not the showy kind. I remember how, even as her health declined, she came alive watching me work in my Shreveport Garden. She once teased, “I’ve never seen anyone move plants as much as you!” (She wasn’t wrong.)
cellophane for a makeshift greenhouse. She was clever and resourceful—maybe more like her mother than she realized.
FRIENDSHIP IN FULL BLOOM
My dear friend Lou Osburn was a Master Gardener before I even knew such a title existed. Her garden was pure enchantment—a chorus of color and texture, from climbers and tropicals to bulbs and water features. Every visit to Lou’s home made my heart swell.
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patios and flower beds, strung lights through the branches, and tucked bulbs beneath understory trees. At dusk, the whole garden sparkled like a secret waiting to be discovered.
My favorite touch? Eight magnificent iron ore boulders gifted by a generous neighbor—carried from Cook Mountain and now dotting my landscape like my very own Stonehenge (my husband’s words, not mine). I envisioned them nestled between ferns, azaleas, and dogwoods—a woodland garden born of red clay and reverie.
A GARDEN STILL GROWING
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It took me a while to learn that gardening isn’t just about how it looks—it’s about what the plants need. Sunlight, shade, soil pH, drainage—it all matters. Gardening is part art, part science, and a whole lot of listening.
She started her flowers and veggies from seed, neatly labeled in tiny peat pots, nestled in trays by the laundry room window. She’d cover them with
She took me under her wing, guiding me through plant catalogs, gardening workshops, and long meandering garden walks. She shared her favorite books, her cuttings, and her wisdom—always with kindness and wit. Though she’s no longer with us, her lessons and laughter bloom in my garden still.
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TURNING A HILL INTO A HAVEN
In retirement, I finally had time to chase my own garden dream. I enrolled in the Master Gardener course—my gateway into a world of soil testing, design theory, and a new circle of plant-loving friends. Armed with knowledge and a sketchpad full of ideas, I began the transformation. We cleared trees, trimmed the canopy, hauled in topsoil, and built retaining walls. We created
This garden is still a work in progress—an ever-changing portrait of patience, learning, and love. It’s a tribute to my grandmother’s compost bin, my mother’s sunny window, Lou’s ever-blooming oasis, and all the quiet teachers who showed me how to grow something with heart.
Gardening has gifted me far more than flowers. It’s rooted me in this new place. It’s brought back memories, taught me resilience, and given me a reason to greet the sunrise with muddy boots and a grateful heart.
So, to you, fellow gardener, I say: Take the leap. Dig the hole. Plant the thing. Your garden doesn’t have to be perfect—it just has to be yours. Joie de vivre, indeed.
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Whether you need a single tree or an entire makeover, we can handle the job.
Experienced staff, including three horticulturists, who are happy to answer questions from beginning to experienced gardeners.
Got a problem? Bring in an affected specimen and we’ll diagnose the issue, then recommend an appropriate treatment.
Seasonal refreshing of porch and patio pots.
or generations, Shreveport has put their trust in Akin’s Nursery and Landscaping to help them turn their yards into gardens. Founded more than 80 years ago and still locally owned, Akin’s takes pride in providing customers with friendly service, quality plants suited for our climate, professional landscape services and the kind of knowledgeable advice that comes from years of area gardening experience.
We invite you to take a stroll through our garden center for ideas on how to make your home and garden a more beautiful place. Ask questions of our experienced staff. Whether you need a pot of petunias or an entire landscape makeover, we’re here to help you put down roots.
Outdoor accents, such as benches, an extensive collection of pottery planters and more.
Fertilome soil amendments, fertilizers, pesticides and other products to keep your garden lush and pest free.
A variety of organic gardening supplies, including Espoma.
Planting mixes, including 100 percent organic compost.
Gardening gloves, pruners and more.
Extensive gift shop with nature-inspired items as well as seasonal decor.
Gift cards
Custom silk flower wreaths for any season.
Custom tabletop silk arrangements –you can even supply your own container.
Live plant arrangements and gift baskets for any occasion.
Delivery and installation in the Shreveport/ Bossier City area of everything we sell.
Ceramic and concrete pots of all different styles and shapes.
Statuary room, where you can find a wide selection of concrete statues to fit your garden.
Olivia Grace George Miss Louisiana 2024
Written by Olivia Grace GeOrGe, Miss lOuisiana 2024
Photography by Steven Palowsky, Official Photographer of Miss Louisiana
SERVING AS MISS LOUISIANA
THIS YEAR HAS BEEN AN ABSOLUTE DREAM, ONE THAT EXCEEDED EVERY HOPE AND EXPECTATION I EVER HAD.
I vividly remember sitting beside my mom, year after year, watching the Miss America competition with wide eyes and a heart full of wonder. Even as a young girl, I was completely captivated by the incredible women representing our nation. They stood tall with poise and purpose, speaking with clarity, walking with grace, and leading with heart. They were well-spoken, intelligent, compassionate, and inspiring. At six years old, I didn’t just see titleholders; I saw role models, leaders, and women who were using their voices and their platforms to make meaningful change. Now, at 21, I still feel that same admiration and respect for the remarkable titleholders who came before me.
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From a young age, I knew I wanted to compete at Miss America. I did not just want to wear the crown; I wanted to be one of the women on the screen, making a difference, bringing hope, and spreading love to others. I longed to be someone who inspired the next generation, just like those women had inspired me. To now be living out that very dream as Miss Louisiana is a feeling I can barely put into words. It is the greatest honor of my life.
From the moment I was crowned, I made a promise to myself: I would serve with positivity, empathy, and passion. I wanted to be remembered not just for what I did, but for how I made people feel. I knew I had been given a platform that carried tremendous influence, and I was determined to use it to share my heart, amplify the voices of others, and represent our state with dignity and love.
One of the greatest blessings of this role has been the opportunity to promote my community service
initiative, Education is Key – Knowledge Empowers Youth As a future elementary educator and lifelong learner, I believe deeply in the power of education to change lives.
Throughout this year, I’ve had the privilege of speaking in schools, reading to students, and reminding young people of the importance of their education. My hope has been to help them rediscover a love for learning and understand that knowledge truly opens doors. Every classroom visit, every handshake, and every conversation has reminded me of the impact a single voice can have when used with purpose.
But beyond my initiative, what has made this year so meaningful are the people. From every small town to every big city, I’ve met individuals whose kindness and generosity have left a lasting impression on my heart. I’ve laughed with children, danced with strangers, chatted with passionate educators, and stood alongside community leaders; all working to make Louisiana a
better place. Each stop on my journey has held something unique and beautiful, but one moment in particular will always stand out.
One of my most special and emotional experiences was attending the Haynesville Butterfly Festival in Claiborne Parish. This event holds deep personal significance for me because it was started 26 years ago by my greatgrandmother, Loice Kendrick Lacy. She had a vision to bring her community together in a celebration of joy, unity, and transformation – much like the symbolism of the butterfly itself. To attend this festival not just as her great-granddaughter, but as Miss Louisiana, was incredibly humbling. As I walked through the festival and saw the community she had poured her heart into still gathering and thriving, I felt an overwhelming sense of pride and connection. It reminded me of where I came from, the strong women in my family who paved the way, and the importance of continuing that legacy of service.
Of course, one of the most unforgettable moments of my year came during the Miss America competition. Ever since I was a little girl, I had dreamed of stepping onto that stage. When the moment finally came, wearing my evening gown and about to walk into the spotlight, I was flooded with emotions. Standing backstage, I felt nervous, yes, but even more than that, I felt an overwhelming sense of gratitude. Those 60 seconds represented years of preparation, growth, and faith. As the music played and I stepped forward, something magical happened. Everything else faded away, and for that brief moment, I felt complete bliss. I wasn’t just competing, but I was living out my childhood dream. I had promised myself I would be present in every second, and I truly was. I took in every corner of the room, locked eyes with judges and audience members, and walked with pride, knowing I was representing the best state in the nation. That moment will live in my heart forever.
It reminded me of where I came from, the strong women in my family who paved the way, and the importance of continuing that legacy of service.
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As I reflect on this incredible year, my heart is filled with nothing but gratitude. This role has been so much more than a crown; it has been a platform to share my story, uplift others, and grow into the woman my sixyear-old self once dreamed of becoming. I’ve learned to lead with authenticity, to serve with humility, and to always choose love above all else.
This journey has taught me that the most impactful leaders are those who listen first, who show up fully, and who give without expecting anything in return.
I’ve learned that strength isn’t always loud, and that kindness can move mountains. Most of all, I’ve learned that our dreams are never too big, and that the little girl watching the TV screen can one day become the woman on the stage.
Louisiana, thank you. Thank you for believing in me, embracing me, and allowing me to serve you. Every parade, every school visit, every festival, and every conversation has meant the world to me. I am endlessly proud to be your Miss Louisiana 2024, and though I may soon pass on the crown, I will carry these memories, lessons, and relationships with me for the rest of my life.
Embracing Life After 50:
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Navigating Menopause with Strength and Grace
Written by
M. Suzanne Tinsley, PhD PT NCS
Vazquez Morgan, PT PhD
The kids are grown, the house is quiet, and for the first time in decades, you finally have time for yourself. This stage of life has the potential to be deeply rewarding—but then menopause hits. While this physiological change is inevitable, the discomfort and disruption it brings don’t have to be.
Marie
You have more control than you think.
Understanding Menopause
Menopause is officially marked by the absence of a menstrual period for 12 months and usually occurs around age 52. It signals the end of ovarian function, causing estrogen levels to decline. The drop in estrogen affects many systems in the body: skin, fat distribution, heart health, memory, and more. While some women experience mild symptoms, others face intense changes that impact their quality of life.
Skin Changes
Aging naturally causes the skin to thin and lose elasticity, especially in sun-exposed areas. As menopause approaches (typically around 45), these changes accelerate. Collagen production drops, leading to a “crepey” texture, dryness, and sagging—especially around the neck, jawline, and eyes. Estrogen plays a role in maintaining skin thickness and oil production, so its decline is a key factor in these transformations.
develop facial hair such as chin hairs or peach fuzz, again linked to changing hormone levels.
Hot Flashes, Insomnia, and Night Sweats
Up to 80% of women experience hot flashes during menopause—sudden rises in body temperature, heart rate, and sweating. Night sweats are particularly disruptive to sleep. Around 61% of menopausal women report insomnia, and some continue to have sleep issues even after menopause due to conditions like sleep apnea or restless leg syndrome.
Mood Swings and Depression
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Weight Gain and Fat Distribution
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Menopause often brings an increase in belly fat, known as visceral adiposity, which is linked to higher risks of heart disease, diabetes, and even breast cancer. The average woman gains about 5–7 pounds during menopause, but the shift in fat from hips to waist can be more dramatic.
As women age, muscle mass naturally declines, lowering basal metabolic rate (BMR). Eating the same amount of food as before while moving less leads to weight gain. Lifestyle choices—especially diet and activity level— become even more critical during this phase.
Hair Changes
Roughly half of menopausal women experience hair changes. Hair may become dry, brittle, and prone to breakage due to hormonal shifts. Some women also
Emotional volatility is common during menopause. Women may shift from joy to sadness rapidly, and studies show they are over four times more likely to experience depressive symptoms than before menopause. Risk factors include a history of PMS or depression, lack of social support, or unemployment. Women with strong support systems or stable employment are significantly less likely to experience mood disorders.
Heart Health
After menopause, women face a heightened risk of heart disease. Estrogen had helped keep arteries flexible and cholesterol levels in check. With its decline, LDL (“bad” cholesterol) rises, HDL (“good” cholesterol) may decline, and triglycerides increase. Combined with increased abdominal fat and lifestyle factors like poor diet and lack of exercise, this raises the risk for hypertension, stroke, and heart attacks.
Sexual Function
Though rarely talked about, declining sexual function is a major concern for many postmenopausal women. Estrogen, testosterone, and progesterone all affect libido and sexual response, and levels of these hormones fall significantly after menopause.
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Sexual response involves both physical and mental stimuli. Aging dulls the body’s sensory receptors, requiring more stimulation for arousal. Stopping sexual activity can worsen this, as the body adapts to inactivity. “Use it or lose it” is particularly relevant here.
Tools like external vibrators can help maintain responsiveness. Although some women hesitate to bring this up with their partners, framing it as a natural result of aging rather than a reflection on their partner’s abilities can ease discomfort.
Only one FDA-approved medication exists for female sexual dysfunction: Flibanserin (Addyi®), originally developed as an antidepressant. While it may help, it comes with notable side effects and strict usage guidelines. Antidepressants like SSRIs, often prescribed during menopause, can also lower libido. Alternatives
like bupropion (Wellbutrin®) may improve both mood and sexual function.
Other common medications (statins, diuretics, betablockers, and even some indigestion meds) may impact libido. If this becomes an issue, talk to your healthcare provider about alternatives.
Redefining Midlife: A New Chapter
Menopause may mark the end of one chapter, but it’s also the start of a new, empowering one. By understanding the physical and emotional changes and taking steps to manage them—through healthy eating, exercise, medical care, and open communication—you can thrive in your 50s and beyond.
You don’t have to accept discomfort or loss of vitality as a given. With the right approach, you can feel like yourself again—maybe even better.
Taking Control: How to Thrive Post-Menopause
Menopause may introduce challenges, but many of its symptoms can be managed— or even reversed—through lifestyle changes.
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Nutrition
A healthy diet like the Mediterranean Diet—rich in whole grains, lean proteins, non-starchy vegetables, and healthy fats—supports heart health, weight loss, and emotional well-being. Key tips:
• Avoid processed and fried foods.
• Keep a food diary to track eating habits.
• Eat smaller portions more frequently.
• Choose high-fiber foods to feel full and manage weight. Include foods rich in tryptophan, zinc, selenium, and antioxidants for emotional and mental support (like salmon, turkey, berries, leafy greens).
For skin and hair, essential fatty acids, omega-3s, and vitamin E are crucial. Drink plenty of water, avoid sugary drinks, and use moisturizers with antioxidants and gentle exfoliants weekly. Opt for hydrating hair products and use sunscreen daily.
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Also consider supplements, especially those tailored to women 50+, which include vitamin D, calcium, biotin, and vitamin B12—often poorly absorbed from food past age 50.
Exercise
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Regular physical activity benefits nearly every aspect of menopause. It helps to:
• Maintain a healthy weight
• Boost metabolism
• Preserve bone and muscle mass
• Improve mood and sleep
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• Reduce risk of heart disease and diabetes
Aim for aerobic exercise (like brisk walking or swimming) most days of the week, and strength training twice a week. A study of 60,000 women showed those who walked briskly four times a week had a lower risk of hip fractures. Strength training supports muscle tone, boosts metabolism, and enhances selfimage.
Medications and Medical Treatments
Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) can effectively manage hot flashes, mood swings, and sexual dysfunction. However, it’s not for everyone. Women with a history of cardiovascular issues, blood clots, or breast cancer may not be eligible. The type, dose, and delivery method of HRT (oral, patch, or topical) also affect its safety.
• Topical estradiol (Estrace®): a vaginal suppository to combat thinning and dryness.
• Vaginal rejuvenation (Monalisa Touch®): a laser therapy to improve tissue health and responsiveness, now available in some local areas.
Always consult a gynecologist familiar with women’s health over 50 to explore safe and effective treatments for your symptoms.
When Life Gives You Lemons
In a matter of weeks, I’ll celebrate my 37th birthday. Not sure how that’s possible, considering I just turned 27 — or so it feels. Some days I think, “I’m not adult enough for this.” And then my Gen Z nieces remind me I was born in the 1900s. Rude!
If there’s anything I’ve learned in my thirties, it’s the power of reframing situations.
I never expected to be single and without children at this point in my life. I always imagined I would follow a conventional path: go to college, get a job, marry my husband, have children, live happily ever after. Sound familiar?
The truth is, it’s taken nearly a decade to see the beauty in the story God is writing on my life.
As we celebrate mothers, graduates and end-of-school-year milestones this May, I want to speak directly to you- the one with a heavy heart because life hasn’t turned out the way you imagined. Maybe you long to become a mother and hold a baby of your own. Maybe you feel stuck when everyone else’s lives seem to be moving forward. Maybe circumstances have cast a shadow over your hopes and dreams.
Whatever your situation, please know: you are not alone.
Your pain matters. Your disappointment is real. And whatever you’re feeling — anger, sadness, numbness — it’s valid.
You have permission to acknowledge that moving forward isn’t always easy when life doesn’t go as planned. Some days are downright dismal. It’s okay to rest, to grieve, and to process. My prayer is that you feel seen, comforted, and deeply loved as you read this letter.
What I’ve learned is that disappointment is inevitable — but what you do with it changes everything.
Slowly, I’ve come to realize that the plan I had for my life, while sweet, was far less meaningful than the one God has for me. The proverbial lemons life has handed me? They’ve been turned into delicious lemon icebox bars more times than I can count. And thank God — I’ve learned to see the beauty in this story, even though it looks nothing like I imagined.
I can’t help but wonder what incredible things lie ahead for you.
I hope you’ll share them with us one day. Until then, know this: you have a sister and a friend here — cheering you on, celebrating you, and praying for you.
With love and lemon icebox bars, -Your Sister Friend Sarah
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