By Margaret Lane Zen and the Essence of Being a Photographer: Philosophies of a Wedding and Portrait Artist his creative pursuits, but I wasn’t allowed to play with any of the gear or objects in that place. I guess this made me all the more fascinated, ” muses Jerry. “I think back then my father would have preferred me to be- come a graphic designer or artist. But like most young people, I did just the opposite. I became a martial artist at the age of 17. ”