To the Board of Bishops of the African Methodist Episcopal Zion Church, the Senior Bishop, the Rt. Rev. Darryl Brewster Starnes, I greet you in the only name that eternally matters: Jesus Christ.
As Chaplain of the Board of Bishops, I am pleased to share this 22 Day Devotional that I believe will help us move together toward the cause of Christ. I’ve shared with the MidAtlantic Episcopal District that, “What matters most is what happens next!” This means that our next steps and and the direction we take is critical. Prayer is the lifeblood of the church. It is the mechanism by which we communicate with God. 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 states, “Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will for you in Christ Jesus.” The Apostle Paul encourages believers to have joy, pray, and give thanks. This devotional will help us deepen our relationship with Him as we’ve been called to a higher leadership level to lead the people of God.
Let’s start off 2025 right by praying together, seeking His face, and accepting His direction.
Because of Calvary,
Bishop Brian R. Thompson, #106 Chaplain
Day 1: My Walk With God
"Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths." (Proverbs 3:5-6 KJV)
Affirmation
Leading God’s people is no small task. It often feels like navigating a massive city with intersections, crossroads, and ever-changing directions. As a Bishop, you’re not just finding your way you’re guiding others who look to you for clarity, wisdom, and hope. The weight of that responsibility can feel overwhelming, especially when the path ahead is unclear.
Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us that leadership isn’t about having all the answers it’s about trusting the One who does. Like a traveler in an unfamiliar city who relies on the conductor to steer the train, we must lean on God to guide our steps. His perspective sees what we cannot, and His wisdom surpasses human understanding.
To shepherd effectively, you must first surrender completely. Trusting God means releasing the need to control every detail and acknowledging Him at every decision point. When you do, God promises to direct your path for your sake and the multitudes who follow you.
Even when the journey feels uncertain, or the route seems delayed, remember you’re not leading alone. God’s presence assures you that every step is ordered and every detour has a purpose. Let this verse be your anchor as you move forward, not in your strength, but in the confidence that God is navigating the way.
Prayer
Heavenly Father, I thank You for entrusting me with the responsibility to lead Your people. I acknowledge that I cannot do this on my own. Help me to lean fully on You, trusting Your wisdom and direction. Strengthen my faith so I may guide others with confidence and humility. Order my steps and calm my heart when uncertainties arise. May my walk with You reflect obedience, courage, and grace. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Day 2: The Weight of My Assignment
"And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me." (2 Corinthians 12:9 KJV)
Affirmation
The weight of your assignment can feel overwhelming. There are people to care for, decisions to make, and expectations to meet. Some days, the load is too heavy to carry. But here’s the truth God never intended for you to carry it alone.
Paul’s words remind you that God’s grace is enough for every weakness, every moment of uncertainty, and every situation that feels beyond your control. Your strength doesn’t sustain your assignment; God’s power works through you.
Let this be a moment to release the pressure of perfection. God already knew your limits when He called you and chose you anyway. His strength is perfected in your weakness not in your striving. When you feel stretched thin, let His grace fill in the gaps.
God’s power resting on you isn’t just a promise; it’s a reality. You are equipped not because of your ability but because of His anointing. Rest in that truth today.
Prayer
Father, I thank You for trusting me with this assignment. When the weight feels heavy, remind me that Your grace is more than enough. Let me lead not in my strength but in Your power. Teach me to rest in Your sufficiency and to trust that You are working through me. I surrender every burden to You, knowing that Your strength is made perfect in my weakness. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Day 3: My Commitment to God
"I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service." (Romans 12:1 KJV)
Affirmation
Commitment to God is more than a declaration; it’s a daily offering. The calling on your life demands more than words it requires surrender. Paul’s appeal in Romans 12:1 isn’t just about sacrifice; it’s about presenting your entire being to God as an act of worship.
God has trusted you with influence, and your commitment isn’t only to the work it’s to the One who called you. You present your life as a living sacrifice as you lead, teach, and shepherd daily. It’s not always easy. The weight of ministry, the demands of leadership, and the expectations of others can leave you feeling stretched and weary.
But your service is holy. It’s acceptable. God sees your faithfulness, even when others don’t. He knows the prayers you pray in private and your sacrifices in silence. Your commitment is an offering that pleases Him.
Let this truth encourage you today your reasonable service isn’t in vain. God honors what you’ve laid on the altar. Stay committed, not out of obligation, but out of love for the One who first committed Himself to you.
Prayer
Lord, I offer myself to You again today. Let my life be a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing in Your sight. Strengthen me to remain committed, even when the journey feels heavy. Remind me that this work is not about me but about Your glory. Renew my mind and refresh my spirit to lead with wisdom, humility, and love. May my service always reflect the depth of my devotion to You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Day 4: My Responsibility to and Covering of My Family
"And if it seem evil unto you to serve the Lord, choose you this day whom ye will serve; ... but as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord." (Joshua 24:15 KJV)
Affirmation
Your family is more than a blessing they are your first ministry. God has entrusted you with His people and the ones who share your home and bear your name. Joshua’s bold declaration reminds you that leadership begins at home.
In the whirlwind of ministry, it’s easy to pour out for others and overlook the needs closest to you. Yet, your responsibility to your family is sacred. They need your prayers, your presence, and your covering. As Joshua committed his household to the Lord, you are called to lead your family in faith, love, and devotion.
Covering your family means standing in the gap interceding for their protection, guiding them through challenges, and modeling what it means to trust God. It means ministering to their hearts, even as you minister to the multitudes.
Remember, your home is a reflection of your faith. As you keep God at the center, your family becomes a testimony to His faithfulness. When storms come, your prayers shield them. When questions arise, your faith anchors them. Never underestimate the impact of a godly covering.
Today, recommit your household to the Lord. Let your leadership within your family mirror the same dedication you bring to God’s people. And trust that as you cover them, God is covering you.
Prayer
Heavenly Father, thank You for the gift of family. I recognize the responsibility You’ve given me to lead and cover them with prayer, love, and wisdom. Help me to be present and intentional in my care for them. Guard their hearts, strengthen their faith, and keep them united under Your protection. May my household always serve You and reflect Your glory. Cover me as I cover them, and let my example inspire faith in every generation. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Day 5: My Self-Care
"And he said unto them, Come ye yourselves apart into a desert place, and rest a while: for there were many coming and going, and they had no leisure so much as to eat." (Mark 6:31 KJV)
Affirmation
Caring for others can leave little time to care for yourself. The demands of leadership, the weight of decisions, and the needs of those you shepherd often pull you in every direction. But even Jesus after pouring Himself out in ministry recognized the need to step away and rest.
Self-care isn’t selfish; it’s spiritual stewardship. God has called you to lead but also calls you to pause. When you rest, you aren’t neglecting your assignment you’re protecting your ability to fulfill it.
In Mark 6:31, Jesus told His disciples to step away because He knew the dangers of burnout. Rest isn’t just physical; it’s emotional and spiritual renewal. Time spent in God’s presence replenishes what the world drains. Whether it’s quiet prayer, a walk, or simply time with loved ones, caring for yourself honors the One who cares for you.
Your strength to lead others comes from the overflow of your relationship with God. Make space to be refreshed in His presence so you can continue to pour out without running dry. When you care for yourself, you position yourself to serve with endurance and joy.
Prayer
Lord, thank You for reminding me that rest is a gift, not a weakness. Help me to prioritize my wellbeing so I can serve You and Your people with strength and joy. Teach me to honor Your call to rest and to trust that You are working, even when I pause. Refresh my soul, renew my strength, and let my time with You restore my focus and faith. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Day 6: My Prayer Life
"Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God. And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus." (Philippians 4:6-7 KJV)
Affirmation
Your prayer life is the engine that fuels your ministry. It’s where burdens are released, battles are fought, and strength is restored. In the quiet place of prayer, God doesn’t just hear your words He strengthens your spirit.
Philippians 4:6-7 reminds you that prayer isn’t just a ritual; it’s an exchange. You bring your cares, questions, and uncertainties, and in return, God gives you peace a peace so profound it defies explanation.
Leadership often demands answers, but prayer reminds you that it’s okay to ask God questions. Prayer sharpens your vision, orders your steps, and guards your heart. Prayer is not just your lifeline it’s your strategy.
As you lead others, never let the demands of ministry rob you of the intimacy in God’s presence. Make prayer your first response, not your last resort. Let your knees hit the ground before your feet hit the pulpit. The peace you carry from the prayer closet will overflow into every word you speak and every decision you make.
Prayer
Father, thank You for the gift of prayer. Teach me to lean on You in every situation, bringing my needs, worries, and gratitude before You. Let my prayer life remain strong and consistent, no matter my pressures. Fill me with Your peace that surpasses understanding, and help me lead from a divine connection with You. Keep my heart and mind focused on You, and let my prayers align with Your will. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Day 7: A Spirit of Doubt
"And straightway the father of the child cried out, and said with tears, Lord, I believe; help thou mine unbelief." Mark 9:24 KJV
Affirmation
Doubt has a way of creeping in, even in the most decisive moments of faith. It doesn’t always announce itself loudly; sometimes, it lingers quietly in the corners of your mind questions about the outcome, uncertainties about the path, and fears about whether you’re enough for the assignment.
The father in Mark 9:24 found himself in this tension. He believed in Jesus’ power, but he also recognized the shadow of unbelief trying to overtake him. Instead of hiding it, he brought his doubt to Jesus. He didn’t pretend to have perfect faith he surrendered his imperfect faith.
That’s the key. God isn’t intimidated by your doubts. He invites you to bring them to Him. When the weight of your calling feels overwhelming, or the answers seem unclear, remember that faith isn’t the absence of doubt; it’s trusting God despite it.
God has never called you to walk in your strength. He has called you to lean on Him. Don’t fight doubts alone; lay them at His feet when doubts arise. Just as Jesus responded to the Father’s cry, He’ll respond to yours. And in that surrender, you’ll find the strength to keep believing.
Prayer
Lord, I bring my doubts and questions before You. I believe, but I need Your help in the areas where unbelief tries to take hold. Strengthen my faith and remind me of Your promises. Help me to trust You completely, even when I can’t see the outcome. Fill my heart with courage and confidence, knowing that You are faithful. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Day 8: The Spirit of Mediocrity
"And whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto men; knowing that of the Lord ye shall receive the reward of the inheritance: for ye serve the Lord Christ." (Colossians 3:23-24 KJV)
Affirmation
Mediocrity is subtle it settles in quietly when excellence seems too demanding. It whispers, “This is good enough,” and convinces you to stop short of God’s best. But mediocrity can never be your standard as a servant of the Most High.
God has called you to lead with distinction, not for applause but for His glory. Colossians 3:23-24 reminds you that everything you do is ultimately for the Lord. Whether preaching, counseling, or planning, your work reflects the One who sent you.
Excellence isn’t about perfection but giving God your very best. It’s about stewarding your gifts, time, and calling in a way that honors Him. When the temptation to settle arises, remember who you’re serving. God deserves more than average effort; He’s worthy of wholehearted devotion.
Let the spirit of excellence define your leadership. Push past complacency. Refuse to coast on yesterday’s achievements. And trust that as you give God your best, He will multiply your efforts and reward your faithfulness.
Prayer
Father, I surrender every area of my life and leadership to You. Remove any spirit of mediocrity from my heart and ignite a passion for excellence within me. Remind me that I work for You, not for man, and let my efforts always reflect Your glory. Strengthen me to rise above complacency and to serve You with all my heart, mind, and soul. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Day 9: A Spirit of Greed
"And he said unto them, Take heed, and beware of covetousness: for a man's life consisteth not in the abundance of the things which he possesseth." (Luke 12:15 KJV)
Affirmation
Greed doesn’t always shout it whispers. It can disguise itself as ambition, security, or even provision. But Jesus reminds you to be on guard because greed is deceptive. It shifts the focus from God’s abundance to personal accumulation, making possessions the measure of success.
As a leader, you’re called to steward resources, not hoard them. The people you serve are watching what you preach and how you live. Your generosity or lack of it sets a tone for the ministry. Greed narrows your vision, while generosity expands it.
The spirit of greed tempts you to trust in what’s in your hands instead of Who holds your hands. But God’s provision is never tied to possessions. True wealth is obedience, contentment, and trust in God’s plan.
Take inventory not just of your resources but of your heart. Are you clinging to things God asked you to release? Are you trusting in the Giver more than the gift? When you lead with an open hand, God can pour out more than you ever imagined.
Prayer
Lord, guard my heart against greed and selfish ambition. Teach me to be a faithful steward of the resources You’ve placed in my care. Help me to trust Your provision and to lead with generosity, reflecting Your heart. Let my life be a testimony that true riches are found in Your presence, not possessions. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Day 10: A Spirit of Selfishness
"Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves. Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of others." (Philippians 2:3-4 (KJV)
Affirmation
Selfishness can subtly settle into the heart, even when serving others is your life’s work. It may reveal itself through pride, a need for recognition, or a desire to protect your comfort. But Philippians 2 reminds you that the call to lead is a call to humility.
Leadership is not about position; it’s about posture. It’s about bowing low before God to stand tall before people. Jesus modeled this perfectly when He humbled Himself and became a servant. He never used His authority for personal gain but poured Himself out for others.
As you lead, resist the temptation to make it about you. Guard your heart against selfish ambition, and instead, ask God to renew a spirit of servanthood within you. True greatness is not found in what you receive but in what you give.
Your influence grows when you lead with humility. Your anointing flows when your motives are pure. And your impact deepens when you put others first. May this truth align your heart with God’s purpose and focus on His people.
Prayer
Father, search my heart and remove anything that reflects selfishness or pride. Teach me to lead with humility and to put the needs of others before my own. Help me follow Christ’s servanthood example, pouring myself out for Your glory, not my own. Renew my spirit and align my motives with Your will. Let everything I do bring honor to Your name. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Day 11: Vision for My Episcopal Area
"And the Lord answered me, and said, Write the vision, and make it plain upon tables, that he may run that readeth it. For the vision is yet for an appointed time, but at the end it shall speak, and not lie: though it tarry, wait for it; because it will surely come, it will not tarry." Habakkuk 2:2-3 (KJV)
Affirmation
A God-given vision is more than an idea it’s a divine blueprint. As you lead your episcopal area, casting vision and keeping it alive rests heavily on your shoulders. But Habakkuk reminds you that vision isn’t just spoken; it’s written, clarified, and pursued with patience and faith.
God has entrusted you to steward His vision for the people under your care. That vision may include growth, restoration, and revival, but it must first start with clarity. Writing it down makes it tangible, giving your people something to run with and rally around.
However, vision also requires endurance. Sometimes, it feels delayed or obscured by obstacles. But remember, God’s timing is perfect. What He reveals, He fulfills. You must remain faithful in casting the vision, trusting He will bring it to pass.
Keep pressing forward, even when progress seems slow. Pray over the vision, avow it, and trust that God’s promises are never late. The vision will speak it may not be immediate, but it will be undeniable.
Prayer
Lord, thank You for entrusting me with the responsibility of leading and casting vision for this area. Give me clarity to see what You see and wisdom to communicate it. Strengthen my faith when delays come, and remind me that Your timing is perfect. Help me to lead with courage, inspiring others to run with the vision You have given. Let Your will be done in this region, and may it reflect Your glory. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Day 12: The Episcopal area I serve: “Service with a Smile”
But by the grace of God I am what I am, and His grace toward me did not prove vain, but I labored even more than all of them, yet not I, but the grace of God with me. (1 Corinthians 15:10 NASB)
Affirmation
The Apostle Paul teaches the Church of Corinth that he was not fit to be an apostle. He did not take the mantle of responsibility he was called to uphold for granted. Throughout his writings to several churches, he acknowledges his sin and inadequacies. By this, he promotes the grace given to him to effectively administrate, preach, and conduct the ministry assigned to his hands. He understands that the office of the Apostle is not a right or owed to him. It is a privilege granted by Christ Jesus to serve and glorify Him. Therefore, Paul’s approach to the church is not of arrogance, self-righteousness, or pomposity of thought but of humbleness, humility, and selfawareness.
John 13 reminds us that when Jesus got up from the table to serve the disciples, He took on the menial duty of a slave. Though He knew who would lie and abandon Him, He was determined to wash their feet. He did it with love, compassion, and forgiveness. The late Rev. Dr. Lewis M. Anthony said, “The accurate measure of spiritual maturity is when you can wash the feet of your assassin. Jesus served with a smile and loved the sheep unconditionally. Though some went astray, others lied, and some bit Him with harsh words, He was faithful to His calling and fulfilled the Master’s will by preaching the gospel to the poor, healing the brokenhearted, delivering the captives, recovering the sight of the blind and set the captives free (Luke 4:18).
Prayer
Gracious Lord, thank you for the high honor of serving in the Office of a Bishop. Lord, teach me to serve like Jesus. Help me demonstrate humility and self-awareness as I serve my episcopal area. Forgive me for thinking that the people work for me and my agenda. Please teach me never to use my office as a platform to bully, manipulate, or coerce the sheep. Jesus humbled Himself and took on the position of a slave. He never made ministry about His ego, pride, or feelings. Help us to follow the example of Jesus, “who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his advantage; instead, he made himself nothing by taking the very essence of a servant being made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to death, even death on a cross.” (Philippians 2:6-8 NIV) He showed us how to follow the will of God and make our will our will. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Day 13: The AME Zion Church: The Legacy of Zion
So Christ has truly set us free. Now make sure that you stay free, and don’t get tied up again in slavery to the law. (Galatians 5:1 NLT)
Affirmation
We are the Freedom Church! The mission of the African Methodist Episcopal Zion Church is to increase our love for God and to help meet the needs of humankind by “Loving God with all of our hearts, with all of our souls and with our minds and to love our neighbors as we love ourselves. Our mission is inextricably tied to the mission of Christ, which is found in Matthew 28:18-20:
And Jesus came and spake unto them, saying, All power is given unto me in heaven and in earth. Go ye therefore, and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost: Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and, lo, I am with you always, even unto the end of the world. Amen.
Every decision, program, ministry, and goal should comply with our mission! Our job is to preach Jesus. We are to go, teach, and make disciples. By this, people are set free to love in harmony with God and one another. As we embrace 2025 and beyond, let’s ask ourselves whether our ministry or ministerial decision aligns with Christ’s mission. The Founder of Methodism, John Wesley, said, “The world is my parish!” In other words, his ministry included all cultures, nationalities, and ethnic backgrounds. He kept his traditions but made them palatable and relatable by teaching them their value. He taught the significance of liturgy and hymns, and the people developed an appreciation for and love for them. Why? Because John Wesley kept the main thing, the main thing. He was intentional about sticking to the mission of Christ. Our beloved African Methodist Episcopal Zion Church, the Freedom Church, must continue to do the same, for the bible says that if we lift the name of Jesus, He will draw the people (John 12:32).
Prayer
Gracious Lord, we thank you for the privilege of serving you in the Office of Bishop in the African Methodist Episcopal Zion Church. Help us not to get sidetracked but always to be mission-minded. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Day 14: The Spirit of Judgment: Making the right choice
“Give your servant, therefore an understanding mind to govern your people, that I may discern between good and evil, for who is able to govern this your great people?” 1 Kings 3:9 ESV
Affirmation
The Lord visited King Solomon in a dream by night and asked him what he desired. The Lord gave him an open checkbook where Solomon could write any figure he wanted and cash it in. He did not ask for materialistic gain, status, popularity, or wealth. Instead, he asked for an understanding mind to govern God’s people, to discern good and evil. He recognized that though he was the king, he was limited in fulfilling his effective administrator and counselor role. Furthermore, he did not take ownership of the people he was called to serve. Frequently, pastors say, “My members,” Presiding Elders say, “My pastors,” and Bishops say, “My Presiding Elders and Pastors,” but the truth of the matter is that none of the people, buildings, properties, ministries, etc. belong to us. Everything belongs to God. The people don’t work for us; they work for God. We must stop treating people as slaves or indentured servants and treat them as co-laborers with dignity and pride. We are to roll up our sleeves, remove the collar if necessary, and work side-by-side. God did not call us manipulative taskmasters who had the attitude, “Do as I say, not as I do!” Working in partnership with the people we are called to serve allows us to build relationships. In these intimate moments, the leader can get to know the follower. After all, every Shepherd should smell like the sheep!
What matters most is what happens next. King Solomon makes it clear in his request that he desires the ability to make sound judgments for God’s people. He needed supernatural assistance that can only come from God.
Prayer
Heavenly Father, I am faced with decisions every day concerning your people. Sometimes, the information others receive is credible; other times, it is not. Please help me not to be so quick in making decisions without involving you in the process. As Solomon took his time and got some sleep, teach me to rest in you so that I may receive divine revelation. I desire to please you with my requests and to have a discerning mind. Lord, I submit to your direction. In Jesus’, name. Amen.
Day 15: The Spirit of Manipulation: Don’t gaslight the people!
"Rather, we have renounced secret and shameful ways; we do not use deception, nor do we distort the word of God. On the contrary, by setting forth the truth plainly, we commend ourselves to everyone's conscience in the sight of God." (2 Corinthians 4:2 NIV)
Affirmation
A spirit of manipulation is evident when a religious authority abuses its jurisdiction by coercing, exploiting, bullying, fear-mongering, oppressing, belittling, or mishandling the people of God. The Apostle Paul taught the Corinthian Church about integrity, transparency, and presenting the Gospel Truth without deception. Uncle Ben told Spiderman that great power requires great responsibility. The Bible says that to whom much is given, much is required (Luke 12:48). Spiderman had the power to lie, cheat, and steal from people. His strength was unmatched. However, he used his power and authority to save lives and serve people for the greater good.
Forcing people to serve at the bidding of the Bishop should not be our custom or standard. Religious authorities must resolve that people don’t work for them; they work for Jesus. It’s not our church; it’s God’s church. People have the God-given choice to support or not support the vision. We must not “gaslight” our people, which is a form of emotional abuse where we intimidate them through punitive action when they disagree. Perhaps every leader should look at their communication skills, etiquette, manners, demeanor, and approach. It’s not their fault because sheep do not agree with the vision. Maybe we need to go back to the drawing board and rewrite our sales pitch, rework and retool our rhetoric to describe how people benefit from the vision. The Apostle Paul renounced the secret and shameful ways and refused to use deception. Instead, he encouraged and motivated others through love and respect.
Prayer
Heavenly Father, I repent of my sin of arrogance, pride, and deception and ask for your forgiveness. Help me never to use the pulpit to bully, manipulate, or gaslight people. Please give me appropriate words, demeanor, and love when communicating with others. Please help me to value others with dignity and respect. Help me not to be into my feelings and offended because someone disagrees with me. I don’t want to be dismissive, bitter, or resentful toward others because the people did not support my cause. Lord, I look to you to guide me in all my ways. In Jesus’, name. Amen.
Day 16: Showing Mercy: “For goodness sake, show some mercy!”
“Talk and act like a person expecting to be judged by the Rule that sets us free. For if you refuse to act kindly, you can hardly expect to be treated kindly. Kind mercy wins over harsh judgment every time.” (James 2:12, 13 MSG)
Affirmation
We all have a story to tell a story of disobedience, rebellion, and contrary lifestyles. The Bible says that all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God (Romans 3:23). This is not a onetime error, but it happens continually. Every year, every month, day by day, minute by minute, and second by second, because we sin by thought, word, and deed.
God sees everything! He watches over us for He that keepeth Israel neither slumber nor sleep (Psalm 121:4). He sees the hidden sin. That's the stuff we hide from others, such as the skeletons we keep in the attic or closet that we don’t want anyone to know about. We’ve learned to show only what we want people to see, and because we do it so well, we become numb to the reality that God is paying attention. The problem is that instead of removing the skeletons, we add more, and the accumulation becomes overwhelming. We hoard skeletons. God has given us the strength, intelligence, and spiritual tools to remove the skeletons. He will not do the work that He has equipped humanity to do. Removing skeletons is arduous, complicated, and painful, but it must be done. Why? Because there is too much of you in you and not enough of Him! God likes to work with empty vessels, but we limit God when we are full of ourselves.
The Apostle Paul admonishes the Galatian Church to restore anyone caught in sin gently. We must show everyone mercy with great care and concern to avoid temptation. We are to carry each other’s burdens, and if anyone thinks more highly than they are, they deceive themselves (Galatians 6:1). Let us never forget that those who show mercy are blessed (Matthew 5:7).
Prayer
Heavenly Father, thank you for your mercy and loving-kindness toward me. Teach how to extend mercy toward others effectively. Please help me not to walk in self-righteousness where I forget my checkered past but humble myself. Thank you for your love and forgiveness. In Jesus’ Name. Amen.
Day 17: Spirit of Generosity: Give Him Your Best!
“And all that believed were together, and had all things common; And sold their possessions and goods, and parted them to all men, as every man had need.” (Acts 2:44, 45 KJV)
Affirmation
The Rt. Rev. Dennis Vernon Proctor once said that people don’t need to see what you are giving, but they should see that you are giving. Leaders lead by giving first. The Apostle Paul states, “Remember this: Whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows generously will also reap generously. Each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver. And God can bless you abundantly, so that in all things at all times, having all that you need, you will abound in every good work.” (2 Corinthians 9:6-8 NIV).
We must model the behavior that we want people to follow. Generosity is more than the tithe; it's the offering that requires greater faith and obedience. The church of Acts grew exponentially because the people had everything in common and gave through sacrifice. The financial needs were met during the days of persecution. This means generosity should extend beyond the church's four walls to meet our local communities' needs.
Generous giving is not a contest but an opportunity to display our thankfulness. Paul teaches that giving is an individual matter settled in the privacy of one’s heart. Giving requires purpose, and it requires faith. John Wesley, the founder of Methodism, said, “Gain all you can, save all you can, and give all you can!”
Prayer
Gracious Lord, I thank you for your provisions. All I have is because of what you have given me. Please help me never to be stingy because a closed hand cannot receive anything. Help me to be a conduit of your grace and generosity that bestow upon others. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
Day 18: Spirit of arrogance: I am not all that!
“Pride leads to destruction, and arrogance to downfall.” (Proverbs 16:18 GNT)
Affirmation
Did you know that God hates the spirit of arrogance? King Solomon gives wise instruction when he says, “The fear of the LORD is to hate evil: pride, and arrogancy, and the evil way, and the froward mouth, do I hate (Proverbs 8:13). If you want to get on God’s bad side, then arrogance is the way to go. Arrogance is being proud or looking down on others. Arrogance is placing oneself above others. Arrogance is walking into a boardroom, assuming the front seat belongs to you. Arrogance is standing in a crowded elevator, thinking the body odor is coming from everyone except you. Arrogance rejects accountability and blames others for their deficiencies. Arrogance rejects criticism, correction, and rebuke. Arrogance prioritizes status and acclaim at the expense of the congregation or organization.
Arrogance is believing that the lay, pastors, and presiding elders owe you a birthday gift or a pat on the back because you did a good job. Arrogance is always expected to be seated at the head table instead of among the commoners. Arrogance is being offended if your name is not called correctly or acknowledged. Some people don’t know. Before one earns a terminal degree, becomes ordained clergy, or is consecrated as a bishop, one has a government name issued by one's parents with a social security number. Everyone is born of a woman and will breathe their last breath. The late Rev. Dr. Lewis M. Anthony said that the higher you go in leadership, the lower you must go in service.
The Black Church celebrates its leaders in grand affairs, and Bishops are treated as royalty. However, we must never allow it to go to our heads and take on the spirit of arrogance. The Church gave us a gift and privilege to serve at this level. God, by His grace, prepared us for this level. Let us endeavor to serve the people with affection, humbleness, humility, and the love of Christ.
Prayer
Dear Lord, please forgive us for our arrogance and pride. According to your scriptures, we acknowledge that You hate pride and arrogance. We pray the Holy Spirit will illuminate our behavior, expose our deceit, and bring us to repentance. Please forgive us for making your agenda about our feelings. Forgive us, oh Lord, in Jesus’ name, Amen.
Day 19: “Love and respect for my colleagues: Can’t we all just get along?”
Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity! It is like the precious ointment upon the head, that ran down upon the beard, even Aaron's beard: that went down to the skirts of his garments; As the dew of Hermon, and as the dew that descended upon the mountains of Zion: for there the LORD commanded the blessing, even life for evermore. (Psalm 133:1-3)
Affirmation
One of the great hallmarks of the Methodist movement is accountability. In our structure, everyone is accountable to someone. As the Board of Bishops comprises active and retired, we are accountable to one another and, ultimately, to the General Conference. As such, we must have mutual love and respect for one another. This is not simply lip service but must be demonstrated through action. By the majority vote of the General Conference, we were duly elected to serve as Bishop. This means that regardless of our feelings toward one another, the church expects us to follow the church's law and lead with love.
The Apostle Paul encourages the Church of Philippi to not do anything with selfish ambition or conceit. He taught them to value others above themselves and look for ways to fulfill the interests of others (Philippians 2:3,4). Let’s not get so caught up with our agenda that we fail at opportunities to help and support each other. I learned in Kindergarten that sharing is caring. Let’s share resources and best practices regularly and consistently. Let’s intentionally look for ways to collaborate, share theological revelation, set goals, and be more empathetic.
Prayer
Thank you, Heavenly Father, for the privilege of serving as Bishop. Thank you for the high honor of being a member of the Board of Bishops, the Reverend Mothers and Fathers of the Church. Please empower me to communicate more effectively, engage, and be open to disagreement. Please give us ears to hear and listen to another point of view. May we debate with passion but do so with respect and love. Though we may disagree, please help us embrace the will of the Board of Bishops and demonstrate solidarity and oneness to the church we serve. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Day 20: Mentoring individuals with whom I have no connection or responsibility: You are always "on!"
See then that ye walk circumspectly, not as fools, but as wise. (Ephesians 5:15 KJV)
Affirmation
Every leader has followers. The followers are made up of friends, families, church community, strangers, and beyond. People are watching and learning from us. They listen to our words, watch our body language and read our writings. Therefore, we must be consistent and always on message. Being on message means that whether I wear the clerical collar or not, I’m still a Bishop. Regardless of my style of dress, I am still accountable to the tenets of my faith. The bible says that we must walk circumspectly, which means that I should be aware of what is happening around me and live morally and wisely.
How can this be achieved? By practicing what we preach privately. We must win the private battles over sin. We’ve got to expose the sin before the sin exposes us. Personal devotion and a lifestyle of holiness are the key ingredients to a successful ministry. In 2019, the famous Notre Dame Cathedral in Paris caught on fire. The roof of the 12th-century church was destroyed in hours, though it took over 100 years to build. The lesson is that reputation and credibility take years to build. However, one small fire can destroy it all. The saints of God are counting on us to be above reproach and rebuke. They are looking to us as godly examples of leadership and grace. We may not know them, but they know us, our families, and our work.
Prayer
Father, the bible says that to whom much is given, much is required (Luke 12:48). May we live out your scriptural truth in speech, lifestyle, and work. May we never take lightly our commitment to holiness and truth. We are not children of darkness but of the marvelous light (1 Thessalonians 5:5). In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Day 21: Bringing my flesh under the subjection of Christ
There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way to death. (Proverbs 14:12 ESV)
Affirmation
In a day where wrong seems right, and people do what is right in their sight, we must address sin for what it is. Sin is the transgression of God’s law. God’s law cannot be changed and adjusted to fit our carnal proclivities. We must never cheapen, diminish, or water down the gospel to appease our flesh. Society has every right to live out its truth but it doesn’t mean that the church adopts it as the order of the day. Again, we must commit to private devotion through scripture reading, meditation, prayer, and fasting. The more we go deeper in our faith, the more we walk in His way. Make no mistake, this is not about preparing a sermon or presentation for bible study. No, this is a daily practice of seeking God’s face.
By this, the Holy Spirit inside us will expose our pride, arrogance, deceit, evil intent, and selfishness. The Holy Spirit will drive us to our knees in repentance. Our decisions will no longer be based on how we feel but on scriptural evidence.
Prayer
Oh Lord, we need your Spirit! Teach us your ways and decrees. Show us how to worship you through our daily activities change or speech so we may speak words of love. Change our hearts so that we may serve you with integrity and zeal. Please help me to align my life with your sovereign will. I humbly bow to your authority. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
Day 22: Overcoming the desire to make easy decisions and appointments
If you don’t know what you’re doing, pray to the Father. He loves to help. You’ll get his help, and won’t be condescended to when you ask for it. Ask boldly, believingly, without a second thought. People who “worry their prayers” are like wind-whipped waves. Don’t think you’re going to get anything from the Master that way, adrift at sea, keeping all your options open. (James 1:5-8 MSG)
Affirmation
I believe it is God’s will to help His children, especially when making sound decisions. King Solomon said that without council, plans fail, but with advisers, they succeed (Proverbs 15:22). The Lord has blessed every Bishop with advisers. Some employ the help of a cabinet made up of lay persons, pastors, and presiding elders. In other contexts, the group of advisors are the Presiding Elders. They are our ministry partners who provide insight into the presiding elder districts that they are most intimate with. However, their word is not the only word. Their words are only part of the whole story. For this reason, every Bishop should regularly ask God for discernment before making any decision. At this level, every decision should be approached with humility and caution because of the possible ramifications and consequences that may be overlooked.
God told Moses to put together a team of persons to spy on the land of Canaan and bring back information (Numbers 13:1-3). Though Moses was the leader of the Israelites, he needed a team who could give him information. Informed decisions are critical to the health of any institution. Some appointed spies reported that they could not take the land, while others said they could. Moses listened and then cried to the Lord in prayer.
Prayer
Heavenly Father, we need your guidance in every decision. Please lead us by your Spirit and power devine that we may choose rightly before your sight. We will always gather and lay the information before you for every transaction, appointment, and process. Teach us not to move so quickly but to weigh our options and proceed cautiously. Thank you for giving us the privilege to make decisions that will affect today and impact many generations to come. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
