Purpose Magazine Winter 2025

Giving More Meaning to Life

Winter Issue 2025

The Power & Purpose of History Letting Go to Move Forward 4 Women Who Impacted Culture & The World Civil Rights Activists Then & Now: The Fight for Justice Continues Discernment: Developing the Art of Perception

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Perspective Today, there are valid reasons for serious concerns that require prayer, mental elevation, and strategic planning to survive and thrive. Managing these challenges with wisdom and courage is essential. Let’s briefly assess what confronts us and examine a few strategies that can be useful.

The rapid advancements in technology, particularly the proliferation of Artificial Intelligence, have brought unprecedented conveniences and possibilities. Yet, they come hand-in-hand with temptations too potent for many to resist. Amid the prevalence of lawlessness among religious, political, and business leaders worldwide, citizens are increasingly left with no alternative but to rely on God and embrace self-governance. But what exactly does it entail?

In these turbulent times, we must remain vigilant, for the challenges faced are not only physical but deeply spiritual, psychological, and ethical. The lure of complacency and the spread of misinformation pose significant dangers, threatening to further enslave the minds and hearts of many confused people. Yet, there is hope. Every act of integrity, every step toward truth, and every commitment to justice counts. Let us take courage and embrace the mantle of self-governance, living with faith, love, and an unwavering sense of responsibility. Together, with God as our guide, we can break the chains of deception and inspire a legacy of purpose, freedom, and resilience.

“Commit your actions to the Lord and your plans will succeed.”

Proverbs 16:3 NLT

At its core, governing oneself is an ethical lifestyle grounded in faith in God, supported by love and respect for oneself and others, and executed through a moral code of conduct upheld by self-control. While this might seem unattainable for many, such doubt arises from centuries of indoctrination and falsehoods. Truth, which holds the key to genuine freedom, has become a sought after but scarce reality. If widely known, it has the power to dismantle the mental chains that have long bound the masses, manipulated for the profits of a few.

Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr’s vision of equality and harmony will eventually come to fruition, but until then, his blood, along with that of countless other martyrs, cries out against those who perpetuate oppression and destruction. Divine judgment has begun, driving the wicked to greater greed, desperation, and lawlessness, manifesting in acts of hateful disrespect. The response should be to stand resolute for justice, buy goods and services from businesses in our communities, pool resources, grow food, educate our children.

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THE AUDIT: Aligning Your Life with Purpose, Destiny, and Authority

by Alleceia M. Walker

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Next Generation NOW Cote D’Ivoire Ambassador’s Inaugural Lunch and Learn for Howard University Scholars

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EXPLORING BIG IDEAS IN ‘THE IMMORTAL LIFE OF HENRIETTA LACKS’: LAWLESS EXTREMES OF SYSTEMIC RACISM

by Atharv Dua BUSINESS & FINANCIAL WISDOM Open Letter to The Faithful Dreamers

by Wendy Pittman HEALTHY CHOICES Overcoming Life’s Challenges: Let’s Talk About Mental Health

by Maureen Whitsett

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Building Your Legacy: The Power & Purpose of History

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DISCERNMENT: Developing the Art of Perception

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CELEBRATING WOMEN’S HISTORY Join the Conversation…

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REFLECT, RESET & REFRAME: Creating New Beginnings for The New Year

by Stephany DeBerry

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IN HONOR OF DR. MARTIN LUTHER KING, JR: For the Cause of Civil Rights…

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LETTING GO TO MOVE FORWARD LIVING IN HONESTY

by Ilinda Reese

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LIVING IN HONESTY

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IT’S NEVER TOO LATE TO CHANGE

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THE AUDIT:

Aligning Your Life with Purpose, Destiny, and Authority Alleceia M. Walker, Managing Editor

Evaluate your disciplines by asking: • Am I prioritizing time with God above all else?

In the busyness of life, it’s easy to lose sight of what truly matters.

Deadlines, obligations, and distractions often consume our energy, leaving little room for reflection on whether we’re living in alignment with our purpose. But what if the key to a fulfilled and impactful life lies in conducting a personal audit—a deliberate evaluation of the relationships, habits, and priorities that either propel us toward destiny or keep us tethered to mediocrity?

• Do my habits strengthen my spiritual, emotional, and physical health?

• Are there distractions I need to eliminate to focus on my purpose?

The goal is to align our routines with our calling, so that every action flows from a place of obedience and trust in God’s plan.

This audit is more than self-help or productivity optimization; it’s about stepping into the anointed authority that God has destined for us—an authority that supersedes mere power and allows us to operate in divine purpose.

3. Purpose: Are You Focused on God’s Assignment?

Operating in anointed authority requires clarity about our purpose. Purpose is not about titles or achievements; it’s about walking faithfully in the assignment God has entrusted to us.

Power vs. Authority: Understanding the Difference Power is often defined by what we can accomplish in our own strength—through influence, resources, or skills. While power can be impressive, it is limited by human capacity. Authority, on the other hand, is divinely bestowed and operates beyond natural constraints. It is the confidence and ability to act in alignment with God’s will, backed by His limitless resources.

Consider: • Do my priorities align with what God has called me to do?

• Am I seeking His guidance before making decisions?

• How can I use my gifts to serve others and glorify Him?

Walking in authority is to stop striving and start abiding. This shift enables us to work not for approval, but from a place of purpose and calling. Authority flows when our lives are in alignment with God’s design for us—a process that begins with an honest audit.

When our focus shifts from self-driven goals to God-centered pursuits, we become vessels for His authority to flow through.

The Outcome: Anointed Authority in Action When our relationships, disciplines, and purpose are in alignment with God’s will, we’ll find ourselves walking in a new level of authority. This authority enables us to:

Conducting the Audit: Three Key Areas 1. Relationships: Who’s in Your Circle?

The people we allow into our lives significantly influence the trajectory of our destiny. Proverbs 13:20 reminds us, “Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm.”

• Face challenges with peace, knowing God’s power is at work.

• Speak life into situations, transforming circumstances through faith.

• Impact others in ways that transcend human ability, leaving a legacy of hope and transformation.

Ask yourself: • Who encourages me in my purpose and destiny?

Walking in anointed authority isn’t about perfection; it’s about surrender. It’s recognizing that our strength comes from God, and our success is rooted in obedience to His plan.

• Are there relationships that drain me spiritually, emotionally, or physically?

• Do I have mentors or accountability partners who challenge me to grow in faith and character?

A Call to Action Take time now to conduct your own audit. Reflect on your relationships, disciplines, and purpose, then invite God to reveal areas where alignment is needed. This intentional evaluation isn’t just a one-time exercise—it’s a lifelong commitment to living in tune with your divine destiny.

Investing in relationships that align with your purpose and letting go of toxic connections creates room for God to position the right people in your life.

2. Disciplines: Are Your Habits Anchored in Faith?

When we align our lives with God’s purpose, we discover the unmatched power of His anointed authority, enabling us to IMPACT the world in ways that go beyond human strength.

Daily habits shape the foundation of authority. Consistent prayer, study of Scripture, and quiet time with God cultivate intimacy with Him and sharpen our spiritual discernment. Discipline is about being in position to hear God’s voice and act on His instructions.

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Your destiny awaits. Are you ready to align your life with the authority that supersedes power?

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CONTRIBUTORS

Publisher & Executive Editor Ella Coleman

“Next Generation NOW” is a dedicated section of PURPOSE Magazine that highlights our nextgeneration voices. This is a platform for brilliant high school and college scholars NOW, so they can make a lasting impact and positive change in the global community.

Managing Editor Alleceia M. Walker Graphics Designer André Hawkins Social Media/Web Manager Imani Haupt Contributing Writers Dr. Daniel Haupt Dr. Dee Hester Stephany DeBerry Ilinda Reese Maureen L. Whitsett Audrey Washington Juan Lee Wendy Pittman

Aubriana Hills Howard University Biology Major Class of ‘27

Next Generation NOW Contributors Aubriana Hills Monique Lavoie Luke P. Cooper VaNia Ellison Atharv Dua

VaNia Ellison Atharv Dua High School Student Howard University “The IMPACT Difference” Audio Production Major Mentee Class of ‘26 Howard University

PURPOSE Magazine is published quarterly and is a Trademark. Copyright © 2025, Ellavation Publishing, 2868 Stelzer Road, # 156, Columbus, OH 43219. All rights reserved. No portion of this publication may be reproduced, distributed, or transmitted in any form or by any means in whole or in part without prior written permission of the publisher.

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Monique Lavoie Luke P. Cooper Columbus College Howard University of Art and Design Biology Major Interior Architecture Class of ‘27 Design Major Fine Arts Minor Class of ‘27

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Cote D’Ivoire Ambassador’s Inaugural Lunch and Learn for Howard University Scholars

By Alleceia M. Walker

Alleceia Walker at the Cote D’Ivoire Embassy

The Embassy Staff of Ambassador Ibrahima Toure’ Thanks to His Excellency, Ambassador Ibrahima Toure’ of Cote D’Ivoire and Queen Mother Dr. Kelley Page Jibrell for hosting the Inaugural Lunch and Learn at the Embassy for Howard University “Impact Difference” Global Scholars, recently. Alleceia Walker, PURPOSE Editor/ Correspondent, and Impact Difference Founder/Mentor, arranged the culturally

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enlightening visit. Officially known as the Republic of Côte d’Ivoire (Ivory Coast) is a nation on the southern coast of West Africa. Centrally located is the capital city of Yamoussoukro but Abidjan, a port city, is the largest city and economic center. With 31.5 million inhabitants in 2024, Cote D’Ivoire is the third-most populous country in West Africa.

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Ambassador Ibrahima Toure’ (c) is joined by guests at his luncheon.

Ambassador Ibrahima Toure’ speaks to guests at his luncheon.

Dr. Kelley Page Jibrell, Alleceia Walker, and Ambassador Ibrahima Toure’.

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Exploring Big Ideas in ‘The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks’: Lawless Extremes of Systemic Racism

By Atharv Dua many African Americans during segregation, faced limited access to quality education, often dropping out early due to economic hardship.

Skloot links this to systemic racism, showing how inferior resources at “colored” schools trapped families in cycles of poverty. She calls for inclusive education systems that ensure equal opportunities, regardless of race or background, as essential to breaking these cycles.

The Ethics of Science Perhaps the book’s most striking theme is the ethical dilemma between scientific progress and human rights.

Henrietta’s cells were taken and commercialized without her knowledge, violating her privacy and autonomy. While her cells led to medical breakthroughs, the Lacks family received neither recognition nor compensation, raising critical questions about consent and justice.

Rebecca Skloot’s The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks delves into themes of racism, education, and the ethics of science, shedding light on historical injustices and their lasting impacts.

Skloot examines how science has historically exploited vulnerable populations, often justified as necessary for progress. Her argument is clear: scientific advancement must never come at the expense of human rights.

Racism and Historical Injustice The systemic racism African Americans faced in the 1900s is a central theme. Skloot illustrates this through segregation practices, such as “colored” hospitals, and unethical medical experiments targeting Black individuals.

Henrietta Lacks, whose HeLa cells transformed science, became a victim of these injustices. Her cells were taken without consent—a violation of her rights that continued as her family remained unaware of their use in scientific breakthroughs for decades.

A Call for Reflection Skloot’s narrative is a call to confront uncomfortable truths about racism, education, and ethics. Through Henrietta’s story, readers are urged to advocate for a society where progress is guided by equity, respect, and humanity.

This compelling book is both a historical account and a moral challenge, urging reflection on the past to shape a more just future.

This disregard for Henrietta’s autonomy reflects the dehumanization Black individuals endured under the guise of progress. Skloot emphasizes that the legacy of such racism persists today, reminding readers that true equity is still a work in progress. Although equity rights are documented in the United States Constitution Bill of Rights, the saga of lawless disregard continues through oppressors and those they influence.

Atharv Dua is high school student and writer who participates in The IMPACT Difference mentoring program at Howard University.

Education as a Catalyst for Change The book also highlights the role of education—or the lack thereof—in perpetuating inequality. The Lacks family, like

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BUSINESS & FINANCIAL WISDOM

Open Letter to The Faithful Dreamers

by Wendy Pittman

Dear Faithful Dreamers: When God places a dream in your heart, He doesn’t do it lightly. That dream is a promise—a divine assignment wrapped in purpose, potential, and power. Peel Haus Aesthetics & Plastic Surgery on Capitol Hill was born out of such a promise, a vision far bigger than anything we could imagine on our own. It’s the first-ever medical spa and plastic surgery center on the historic Pennsylvania Avenue, and it stands as a testament to what can happen when you dare to dream big and execute in faith.

doors no one could shut. And while pursuing this dream, we saw the pieces come together, not by our might, but by His divine orchestration.

Peel Haus is more than a medical spa—it’s a beacon of hope, resilience, and faith manifested. It’s a reminder to all who walk through our doors that no dream is too big, and no vision too grand when you trust in God’s timing and promises. It stands as a physical representation of what faith in action looks like. So, to anyone who has a dream stirring in their heart, I encourage you to step out in faith. Trust that God’s promise is true. When He plants a seed of purpose within you, He will water it, nurture it, and bring it to life. Your only task is to remain faithful, keep working, and believe that what He has spoken will come to pass.

From the beginning, we believed that we were called to serve, not just by providing aesthetic services but by empowering others to feel and be their best selves. But this journey wasn’t just about business; it was about answering God’s call. There were moments when it seemed impossible, when the path wasn’t clear, and the road ahead looked daunting. But God’s promise is unwavering; if you are faithful, He will make a way. We moved forward, step by step, fueled by the knowledge that faith without works is dead. We worked relentlessly, knowing God would open

Let Peel Haus Aesthetics & Plastic Surgery be a reminder that dreams, grounded in faith, will always find a way to become reality.

Wendy Pittman is a visionary, entrepreneur, and founder of Peel Haus Aesthetics & Plastic Surgery in Washington, DC. She has a health spa in downtown D.C.

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HEALTHY CHOICES

OVERCOMING LIFE’S CHALLENGES: LET’S TALK ABOUT MENTAL HEALTH

By Maureen L. Whitsett

sexually abused and didn’t understand what happened or what was going on. Today, I understand from a Spiritual perspective I was targeted to be destroyed early in my life

by Satan. Why do I say that? I was a victim of child sexual abuse. I developed anxieties, became depressed, I felt violated, and I was no longer a happy little girl. The person that was supposed to protect me didn’t. The sexual abuse was never reported. The normalcy of my life continued to change year after year. The sadness started as I relived the experience over and over in my mind, asking myself “Why?” It is so important to forgive. There is power in willfully forgiving others. I harbored unforgiveness for many years and attempted to take my life on three occasions because the pain was so great. I overcame this tragedy by understanding the importance of willfully forgiving others.

I didn’t know there was purpose in my life until years later. It came to me, that that was the reason I survived, I had purpose. I believe God wants to use my witness to save others from taking their lives to death by suicide.

Rising above life’s challenges to find hope and healing is what I did to overcome mental health difficulties. My testament to living with mental health every day serves as an inspiration to others, demonstrating that it is possible to beat the odds amid the dark moments.

A report of child abuse is made every 10 seconds, according to the American Society for the Positive Care of Children; 1 in 3 girls and 1 in 7 boys will be sexually assaulted by the time they reach 18, according to the Department of Justice.

I don’t know what you’re dealing with, who hurt you, or what you’re holding on to. I invite you to choose to forgive today to start your healing. The Word of God says, in Isaiah 53:5 (NKJV), by Jesus’ stripes, we are healed…

Jesus Christ not only came to save us from sin, but He came to make us whole. Be whole my friend.

Miracles & Blessings!

More than 90 percent of child sexual abuse victims know their attacker; (“Sexual Assault of Young Children as Reported to Law Enforcement” by Howard Snyder).

Approximately 70 percent of children who die from abuse are under the age of 4; (U.S. Department of Health and Human Services). About 30 percent of abused and neglected children will later abuse their children, continuing the cycle of violence; (U.S. Department of Health and Human Services).

Maureen Whitsett is the author of I Beat The Odds . Contact her at mwhitsett61@gmail.com, https:// www.themaureenwhitsett.com, or follow her on social media at mlw_ ibeattheodds.

My first traumatic experience happened when I was only 10 years old and my whole world changed forever. I was

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Building Your Legacy: The Power & Purpose of History

By Dr. Dee Hester

new patterns of growth. As Proverbs 24:16 says, “Though the righteous fall seven times, they rise again.” Your foundation in God enables you to withstand trials, bend without breaking, and prosper.

As a biblical counselor and coach, I often encourage people to reflect on their past, not as a source of shame or limitation, but as a foundation for growth, healing, and purpose. History, whether personal or collective, offers lessons, wisdom, and strength. It is not simply a record of the past but a guide for building the present and shaping the future.

Legacy is not just what you achieve but who you become.

While the Bible has given us our greatest examples, black history and women’s history also teach us this truth.

The sacrifices of those who came before us demonstrate resilience, courage, and faith in the face of adversity. They remind us that we, too, can build a legacy that glorifies God and inspires others.

Let’s consider, for example, the legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. His vision, courage, and sacrifice during the Civil Rights Movement laid the foundation for a future of justice and equality. Black History Month and Women’s History Month remind us that the victories and challenges of the past are not forgotten—they serve as a springboard for progress. By remembering these legacies, we are inspired to overcome our own challenges, knowing that we are part of a larger story.

God’s plans for you are greater than your past mistakes or hardships. Jeremiah 29:11 declares, “For I know the plans I have for you…plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” The mistakes you’ve made throughout your past do not have to define you but can be used to refine you for building a greater legacy than those who have come before you. So, examine your history to better understand your time and place of power which offer daily opportunities to meet needs, encourage self and others, and work wisely to fulfill God-given purpose.

The Bible reinforces this truth, teaching us the importance of acknowledging history while looking ahead with hope.

Isaiah 43:18-19 reminds us, “Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing!” This scripture does not dismiss history; instead, it urges us not to be defined by it. Knowing where we come from allows us to recognize patterns—cycles of fear, doubt, or even generational struggles—and through Christ, we break free to establish new, purposeful paths.

When you understand your history, you can stand tall during the high winds of life, anchored in the knowledge that your roots run deep in Christ and enduring ancestors essential for your life on earth. This foundation is strong to develop, grow, and expand on. With God, there is always more in you than you realize. Build your legacy by living with purpose today, trusting Him to make all things new.

As you go through the trials, tribulations, and triumphs of life, don’t ever forget, as history declares, there is so much more in you!

Psalm 1:3 describes the righteous as being like a tree firmly planted, yielding fruit in season and whose leaves do not wither. A tree’s roots dig deep into the soil, drawing nourishment from the earth, much like the connection to our past. Strong roots represent God’s spiritual blessings combined with family and personal history, providing stability to stand tall against life’s winds. But the roots alone are not the entire tree; they support the trunk, branches, and ultimately, the fruit.

Dr. Dee Hester is certified Life Coach, Christian Counselor, Educator, and Author with a PhD from Newburgh Theological Seminary. She is Founder/ Director of Kingdom Business Bible College and More in You Coaching.

When you understand your past, you can build on it without being defined by it. This is the essence of legacy: using the strength of your roots to grow toward your Godgiven purpose. Through self-awareness and prayer, you can identify destructive cycles, break them, and establish

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DISCERNMENT: Developing the Art of Perception

By Dr. Daniel Haupt

Discernment is a critical skill in navigating life’s complexities. Although, many times our gut feeling is right, what we think we see and understand is not always accurate.

A closed mind can shut out truth unintentionally. Assuming a position of researching and learning is a prerequisite of discerning. Proverbs 5:1-2 reminds us, “My son, pay attention to my wisdom; turn your ear to my words of insight, that you may maintain discretion and your lips may preserve knowledge.” Looking into situations, people, and offers instead of looking at them, can be helpful for discernment.

What Is Discernment?

Webster defines discernment as “the ability to judge well.” In the biblical sense, discernment is the wisdom to distinguish truth from error and good from evil, often guided by the Spirit of God (Hebrews 5:14). While human discernment is valuable, it can also be flawed due to biases, limited information, or emotional influences.

The Blind Men and the Elephant Perception Flaw The story of the blind men and the elephant perfectly illustrates the dangers of faulty perception and the necessity of discernment. Each blind man, touching only one part of an elephant, insisted they understood the whole. One declared it was like a wall, another said it was like a rope, and yet another, like a tree trunk. None perceived the truth about the whole elephant because they focused only on a particular part, lacking a comprehensive perspective. Like the blind men, our judgments can lead to error if we fail to seek wisdom beyond our limited perceptions.

reporting and misinformation. Leaders sometimes manipulate facts to serve their interests, leaving us vulnerable to exploitation. Without discernment, we risk making decisions that lead to significant loss—financially, emotionally, and spiritually.

Learning and Applying Discernment Clearing the fog of faulty perception requires intentional effort: 1. Ignore the Urgency Trap Con artists and manipulative salespeople thrive on urgency.

They pressure you to act immediately, claiming opportunities will disappear if you delay. Resist this. Pray for clarity, and with authority, grant yourself more time to reflect.

2. Research and Fact-Checking Before making decisions or purchases, verify the information.

Fraudsters rely on your lack of due diligence. Investigate claims, cross-check facts, and seek multiple sources of truth.

3. Block and Ignore Scammers Avoid engaging with unsolicited texts, phone calls, and emails. Scammers prey on your curiosity and vulnerability.

Guard your mind and emotions by setting firm boundaries.

Conclusion The story of the blind men and the elephant teaches us that limited perspectives lead to flawed conclusions. In a world rife with deception, discernment is not just a virtue—it is a necessity. By seeking wisdom through prayer, thorough research, and caution, you protect yourself from loss and position yourself to live your best and most productive life.

Answer the call to discernment today and let it guide you toward the truth, preserving your purpose and destiny.

Dr. Daniel Haupt is a Life Destiny Strategist, Founder/Vision Pastor of Voice Of Destiny Ministries and PrayFastDaily.org, a strategic praying, fasting, teaching and training ministry.

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The Critical Need for Discernment In today’s world, discernment is more important than ever.

We are surrounded by fraud, from internet scams to false advertising. Deception in media proliferates through biased

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REFLECT, RESET & REFRAME: Creating New Beginnings for The New Year

By Stephany DeBerry

“If you want to move forward, look back, otherwise, you’ll forget where you came from and where you need to go.”

The arrival of a new year often brings an eagerness to set fresh goals and make resolutions. Yet, before diving headfirst into the excitement of what’s next, it’s crucial to take a step back. True progress often begins with deep reflection, reviewing our journey, both the highs and the lows, then acknowledging the experiences that shaped us.

For many, this self-assessment might even lead to pressing the reset button on aspects of life before stepping into new goals.

Reflecting on the past allows us to celebrate achievements, acknowledge shortcomings and mistakes, then accept accountability for the role we played in these outcomes.

This practice of looking back with honesty and grace creates a powerful foundation to avoid unrealistic expectations which helps us set intentions aligned with our true selves.

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In my personal journey, one of the most significant moments of reflection and reset came through the experience of divorce. I was forced to assess my life, values, and goals to move forward with renewed clarity.

Reflecting on personal decisions and the dynamics of my past relationship was difficult, but through this process I was able to find an authentic and empowering path forward. Resetting wasn’t easy, but it allowed me to rebuild my life with purpose, intention, and a stronger sense of self. This lesson serves as a reminder that pressing reset can be an act of courage leading to greater fulfillment.

If you’re wondering how to approach reflection, here are three practical tips to make the process meaningful and productive: 1. Embrace Accountability with Grace Reflecting isn’t just about identifying shortcomings; it’s about recognizing where we can improve while also being compassionate with ourselves. Take time to celebrate your accomplishments, big or small.

Recognize the effort, growth, and resilience that has carried you through until this point. At the same time, identify areas where you can make constructive changes without harsh self-criticism. By approaching selfassessment with grace, you can set goals rooted in selfrespect and genuine motivation.

2. Identify Patterns and Triggers Reflection isn’t just about what happened but why it happened. Consider the events that left a strong impact, and look for patterns in your behaviors, thoughts, and reactions. By understanding these patterns, you can identify triggers that led to both successes and challenges.

Recognizing these insights can help build better habits and avoid situations that hinder growth, allowing you to set goals with a realistic understanding of what might need to change.

3. Press the Reset Button When Necessary Sometimes, starting over isn’t a setback; it’s a powerful choice. After reflecting on the past, ask yourself if certain aspects of your life need a fresh start. Whether it’s a relationship, a career path, or even a mindset, there’s strength in choosing to reset. A reset allows you to let go of what no longer serves you and approach the new year unburdened and empowered.

As you move forward, remember that meaningful goals start with clarity, honesty, and intention. Reflect on where you’ve been, reset when needed, and reframe your approach. This practice will help you move into the new year with purpose and resilience to make your dreams a reality.

Stephany DeBerry is Founder and Executive Director of “Redevelpher,” which focuses on empowering divorced women. She can be reached at redevelopher@redelopher.com or 571-258-7371.

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In Honor of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr:

For the Cause of Civil Rights…

Submitted By Minister Kujenga Ashé

Congresswoman Joyce Beatty shows Ohio hospitality to Rev. Jesse Jackson, Rev. Al Sharpton & Jesse Jackson Jr.

Young leaders join Min. Kujenga Ashé (with trumpet), Ohio Senator Hearcel Craig, Rev. Dr. Joel King Jr., and Rev. Jesse Jackson Sr. (seated).

National and local leaders convened with concerned citizens for a community forum. “Community Development and Growth: Fostering Civil Engagement” was the theme of a discussion open to the public at The Fawcett Center on the Ohio State University campus, recently. In light of a changed political climate, the value of standing strong, exercising voting rights, and mobilizing to impact change for justice was urgently emphasized. Also present were members of The Exonerated Five, who personally shared their experiences of wrongful conviction and incarceration.

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Minister Kujenga Ashé (left) greets Yusef Salaam, one of The Exonerated Five.

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The Exonerated Five were the six teenagers indicted in relation to the Meili assault in New York’s Central Park. Antron McCray, Kevin Richardson, Yusef Salaam, Raymond Santana, and Korey Wise (known as the Central Park Five, later the Exonerated Five)— were convicted of the charged offenses and served sentences ranging from seven to thirteen years. They were finally freed more than a decade later in 2002 when serial rapist Matias Reys confessed to the crime and DNA evidence confirmed his guilt. Ambassador Kujenga Ashe was there to capture and report the event to PURPOSE Magazine.

(l to r) Linda MuHammad & Friend Korey Wise, one of the Exonerated Five, greets attendants.

(from left to right) Kevin Richardson, Antron McCray, Raymond Santana, Korey Wise, and Yusef Salaam

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LETTING

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By Ilinda Reese

Consider this: How often do we hold onto someone or something far beyond its time, simply because we cannot imagine life without it? A church member once shared the poignant story of her pastor, who endured a prolonged illness filled with immense pain. She recalled how, after years of prayers for healing, the pastor finally said, “Tell the church to let me go.” He revealed that their prayers had brought him back from the brink three times, yet he was tired and ready to transition. Only after the congregation united in prayer to release him did they witness a remarkable peace—a peace that could only come from the decision to let go.

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This story resonates far beyond personal loss. It applies to a variety of life’s situations—a business that has outlived its purpose, a stagnant job, an unhealthy relationship, or even a deep-seated tradition like church membership. Too often, we cling to what we know, unable to entertain change. There’s a common mantra in some religious circles: “I’m Baptist raised, Baptist bred, and I’ll be Baptist until I’m dead.” While admirable in its loyalty, it leaves little room for growth or exploration of what might lie beyond familiar boundaries.

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Consider the family that refuses to leave a flood-prone area, even after multiple disasters. Why do we hold onto things that no longer serve us? Often, it’s because we fear the unknown. “If I let this go,” we wonder, “how will I find my way to what’s next?” But here’s the truth: you cannot embrace the new while clinging to the old. Letting go creates the space necessary for new opportunities to take root.

You might find yourself resisting this idea, perhaps thinking, “That’s not me,” or rationalizing why your situation is different. Yet, honesty is key. As an anonymous writer once observed, “We lie loudest when we lie to ourselves.” The first step to letting go is acknowledging the problem—admitting that holding on is no longer serving you.

As a trainer, I frequently encouraged participants to “think outside the box.” Their confused expressions would prompt me to push them further, urging them to stretch beyond familiar limits. Then one day, a colleague offered a fresh perspective, asking, “What are you doing in a box in the first place? You weren’t created with limitations and boundaries.” This was an aha moment for me—a realization that challenged my own thinking.

Growth demands action. As another unknown writer explained, “We have to act our way into a new way of thinking, rather than think our way into a new way of acting...” Our habitual thought patterns can imprison us, keeping us stuck in denial or fear. But when we let go of those patterns, we free ourselves to move forward.

Letting go isn’t easy, but it’s necessary. Whether it’s releasing a loved one, walking away from a dead-end job, or breaking free from tradition, the decision to let go opens the door to transformation. What will you release to make room for what’s next?

Ilinda Reese is an Author, International Speaker, and Transformational Coach.

Linkedin://#profile/11436460 imjreesources@aol.com

Some content of this article was excerpted from Reese’s upcoming book, “No More Hoopties, Junkers or Raggedy Things.”

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Living In Honesty Aren’t you tired of dealing with dishonest people? Are you struggling with truth issues yourself? Let’s move into a different stride by walking in honesty. Walking in honesty is simply living an honest life according to God’s Word. By reading, studying, and following Christ, we learn to model Him, answer truthfully, and walk/live honestly and honorably. It sounds easy but this requires courage, practice, and an intentional desire to please God. Jesus Christ declares in John 13:6 that He is the way, the truth, and the life; so, we must depend on Him to provide the direction we seek. When we have no hidden agenda, the truth of God’s Word enables us to be honest with God, ourselves, and others.

transparency, yielding—to help you live every day in honesty.

Humility: having a modest view of one’s importance. “Be empty of self-promotion and do not create a false image of yourself” (Romans 12:3).

Originality: not a copy; the beginning of something.

“Therefore, if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new” (2 Corinthians 5:17).

Nobility: distinguished by rank/title. “You are a chosen

With so much lying, deception and fraud happening throughout the world, making bold decisions to be honest is so important. We are warned in 2 Corinthians 4:4 that the god of this world (Satan) aims to keep people in darkness and deception, blinding them from the truth of Jesus Christ.

But there is good news! Jesus says, “you shall know the truth and the truth shall make you free.”

Truth is the only way to freedom. While protesting injustices and standing up for truth and justice is necessary, it has never led to true freedom. True freedom can only happen from within first and involve making some lifechanging choices. The best place to begin is by seeking a relationship with Jesus through reading the Bible to discover His personal word to you. This is the way to learn of God’s great redemption plan and His expectations. He gives us divine strategies for life and promises on which to stand. Thus, we learn to walk in honesty. This is how to receive freedom from this world’s system.

To understand the truth and possess the ability to live in honesty, there must be an acceptance of the good news of the gospel. Romans 10:9-10 tells us how. By receiving Christ, we are empowered to discern truth and walk in honesty.

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generation, a royal priesthood called into His marvelous light” (1 Peter 2:9).

Earnestness: showing serious intention/zeal. “For I know your eagerness to help, and I have been boasting about it to the Macedonians ...your enthusiasm has stirred most of them to action” (2 Corinthians 9:2).

Steadfastness: being firm and unbendable in purpose. 1

Corinthians 15:58 says “be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord.”

Transparency: allowing light to pass through. Matthew

5:16 says “let your light so shine before others that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.”

Yielding: submissive and compliant to God. Romans 6:13 proclaims “offer yourself to God as those who have been bought from death to life.”

Remember, Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life. He will show the way, reveal His truth and provide a blessed life that empowers you to live in honesty.

Audrey Washington is an Associate of CMAT Ministry.

ATTRIBUTES AND SCRIPTURES FOR WALKING IN HONESTY Let’s look at the acronym used for HONESTY— humility, originality, nobility, earnestness, steadfastness,

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It’s Never Too Late to Change

By Juan Lee

Change is often viewed as daunting, but the truth is—it’s never too late to make a meaningful shift in our lives. Love is not only the foundation of life but also the fuel that powers transformation. The more we embrace love, the more we realize that change is both possible and necessary.

develop their abilities through effort, learning, and perseverance, while those with a fixed mindset see abilities as static and unchangeable. So, please realize, we are not confined to who we were in the past.

Instead, we can reshape our future by choosing love and allowing it to transform us.

The weight of past mistakes and missed opportunities, and even my age made me feel like change was beyond reach. But I discovered that love is not bound by time, nor is it limited by circumstances. Through love, I found that change is not only within reach but also essential for growth.

However, change doesn’t happen overnight, nor is it easy. Love requires patience, sacrifice, and discipline.

Love calls for us to forgive ourselves for past mistakes and to extend grace to others. Practicing forgiveness opens the door to change, not just in our own lives, but in the lives of those around us.

The key: love is an action, not just a feeling. When approaching life with love as the guiding principle, we shift our mindset from fear and hesitation to faith and courage. This is a central theme in the Bible, which documents that God’s love is infinite, and through His love, we can overcome any obstacle.

In the Christian faith, Jesus is the ultimate example of love and transformation. His message is one of redemption and renewal. No matter how far we’ve strayed or how many times we’ve fallen, Jesus offers us a path to change through His love. This is the same love that can empower us to make positive changes in our own lives, no matter how late we think it is.

Reflecting on my own journey, I realize I am a work in progress. Every day is an opportunity to grow, change, By accepting love as more than just a feeling, it and become a better version of myself. It’s not about becomes the foundation of a fulfilling life and a achieving perfection but about living with intention guiding principle because love is universal. The Bible teaches that “Love never fails” (1 Corinthians and embracing the attitudes of love to guide our steps.

13:8), and I’ve seen this truth in action. No matter And if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s this: with love, what our age, background, or past, love offers us a all things are possible, and it’s never too late to change. way to heal, grow, and start anew.

Dr. Carol Dweck, a renowned psychologist, with her book Mindset: The New Psychology of Success, reveals two types of mindsets that distinguish the way individuals handle life.

People with a growth mindset believe they can

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Juan Lee is Founder and Executive Director of Clear Journey.

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