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The M Factor
Because boys will be boys, men must be mentors. by Samuel K. Atchison In Proverbs 1:10-19, the writer speaks as a father to his son, warning him to avoid the peer influences that will lead ultimately to his ruin. Among the dangers the father warns against are the pursuit of ill-gotten riches, the willingness to commit violence as a means of achieving those ends, and the smug conceit that such acts can be committed with impunity. Implicit in this monologue are both the role and the presence of the father. The father understands that it is his job to give the youth the benefit of his
wisdom and counsel, and he is able to play that role because he is physically and emotionally present in his son’s life. While the Bible provides numerous examples of both functional and dysfunctional family relationships (including those involving Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, and King David), most involve a father who is physically present and thus able to conduct an ongoing relationship with his children. With the exception of allusions to widows and orphans, the physical presence of fathers in a position to exercise leader-
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