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Behind the Scenes at the 2017 NYS 50 Plus Senior Idol Contest The Best and Biggest Showcase Ever! he NYS 50+ Senior Idol Show took place LIVE on Sunday, November 12, 2017, in Huntington, LI, NY. The 20 finalists – from the over 70 entrants competing came from all over Long Island and the Metro area. This talent-studded group included singers, dancers and comedians who played to a packed house. The finalists were: (Continued on page 12)

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Hear Better, Live Better – What You Should Consider

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First Place Winners: The Tribunes

Third Place Winner: Henry Simpkins

Losing Weight Doesn’t Have to be a Struggle Anymore

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Preventing Back Pain

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50+ Senior Idol Judges: Chiara Klein, Diane Giattino and Leeana Costa

Former Senior Idol winner and current Ms. New York Senior America Lee Ann Brill

A Crisis Is Brewing for Family Caregivers Caused by the Shortage Of Certified Geriatric Doctors! ................................... page 26

Hear Better, Live Better – What You Should Consider

hile there are different types of hearing loss, the most common occurs in people who are 55 and older. Exposure to loud noises also contributes to many with hearing damage. Genetics, birth defects, infections of the head or ear, excessive earwax (temporary hearing loss issue), and reactions to drugs are all triggers for hearing loss. While you cannot reverse most types of hearing loss, there are options to improve your hearing. About 20 percent of Americans, 48 million, report some degree of hearing loss. In roughly 30% of the population with type 2 diabetes some degree of hearing loss is also found. Are you experiencing any of these common signs of hearing loss? • Having trouble hearing women's and children's voices? • Having trouble hearing on the telephone? • Asking others to repeat themselves? • Turning up the TV or radio to volume levels others find loud? • Having difficulty following a fast-moving conversation? • Missing important information in meetings? • Having trouble understanding conversation in noisy places? • Feeling like other people mumble or slur their words? If so, you should schedule an exam and have your hearing tested and ears checked by the experienced audiologists of Long Island Audiology. Dr. Glasser, Au.D, owner of Long Island Audiology, PC has been pro-

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viding exceptional hearing healthcare services on Long Island and the surrounding Metropolitan area since 1999. Dr. Glasser listens to his patients, discusses their concerns with them, and provides a hearing healthcare plan with the utmost compassion and understanding for their unique hearing needs. At Long Island Audiology, PC you can receive a complete hearing exam and demonstration of hearing aids. We have has been serving the hearing healthcare needs of Nassau County and the five boroughs for over 15 years. We are New York State licensed and Board Certified Doctors of Audiology. An award-winning practice, we have received the "Best Of" Long Island award for Audiology and Hearing Aids for 7 consecutive years. You have questions and we have answers. Please call us at 516-441-0043 or visit us on the web LongIslandaudiology.com 50+

Losing Weight Doesn’t Have To Be A Struggle

s founder of Long Island Laparoscopic Doctorssm, patients often lament to me “Doctor, I am FAT. I have tried diet after diet, pills, and gym memberships - nothing sticks! I have lost lots of weight, but it always comes back. What’s wrong with me? Why don’t I have the will power to stay on a diet and keep the weight off?” Many people believe that weight loss is a matter of willpower and that people who are overweight or obese are lazy or weak. This sort of thinking is a product of American culture, which teaches that with enough determination you can do anything. Unfortunately, it leads to the belief that if you can’t stop compulsive eating with a combination of prayer and will power, then you must be a weak person. That kind of viewpoint is just wrong. It is one of the reasons why obesity has become the most common cause of preventable death in America today! Forty five million Americans reportedly are on diets at any given time, yet according to the Centers for Disease Control, 36 percent of American adults are obese (BMI 30+) and another 33 percent are overweight.

The Gastric Sleeve – A life changing new procedure Together with my associates Drs. Thompson and Leung, we have established one of the safest and most comprehensive surgical weight loss programs in New York. Our emphasis has been on offering treatments that are safe, virtually pain free and scarless. Our patients experience a fast recovery and many are back to work in days. If you are one of the thousands of Long Isare who landers 60-80lbs or more overweight and have tried unsuccessfully to lose weight and keep it off we have great news about an important procedure that our team has been on the vanguard of performing for patients just like you called the gastric sleeve. This technique is less invasive than other procedures, but doesn’t require monthly adjustments or an implant in your body. Because it eliminates the “hunger hormone Ghrelin” our patients lose significant amounts of weight quickly and permanently without the “fire” that dieters normally experience. If you suffer from illnesses associated with obesity like Type 2 dia-

betes, high blood pressure, sleep apnea and joint pain – the gastric sleeve can almost overnight eliminate or reduce these related conditions. We have helped open the door to a more active, happier life for many of your neighbors and we would like to do the same for you. Our program is comprehensive and you will receive support before and after your procedure by our team of doctors, nutritionists and counselors. That is, we can help you choose the treatment best for you to take the weight off rapidly and keep it off permanent. Dr. Atwa is a skilled surgeon known for his caring and compassionate bedside manner, garnishing awards as Top Surgeon and the Most Compassionate Doctor awards (2011-2016) He is board certified in general surgery with a mini-fellowship in bariatric surgery. He currently is Chief & Director of Department of Surgery at Mather and St. Charles Hospitals, Port Jefferson. For further info call 631228-8277, visit us on the web at www.journeytothenewyou.com or download our free mobile app by searching major app stores for LILD or Long Island Laparoscopic Doctorssm. 50+

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Diabetes & Prediabetes: Are You Just a Little Too Sweet

f you have diabetes you are not alone. Nearly 30 million people in the U.S, have diabetes. One in 4 seniors is affected by complications of diabetes. 84 million adults in the U.S. are prediabetic (90% of them don’t know they have it!). Nearly 40% of people with prediabetes gradually increase their blood sugar until they are firmly in the diabetic camp. Most medical professionals subscribe to the belief that there is no cure for diabetes and only treat diabetes through diet, exercise, and insulin or drug therapy. I am Dr. Charles Timson, I am a specialist in diabetes care and the author of the popular book “Type 2 Diabetes Can Be Reversed”. I am board certified in family medicine and in practice for over 30 years having treated over 20,000 patients. If you are a type 2 diabetic on medications there are two things I can almost guarantee. First your diabetes CAN and Will progress! Secondly, you are at risk for significant complications. Diabetes medicines allow you diabetes to get worse! Working with a team of other diabetes specialists we have developed the HYD program – “Helping Your Diabetes” to teach patients what to eat and what not to eat, what nutritional supplements and what exercises to do. It is the combination of these three elements in a medically supervised and customized program designed to help YOU safely come off YOUR medicines! Come to a FREE “Help Your Diabetes” Seminar in your local area. Get the Facts Seminars are held weekly in Commack, Jericho and Hauppauge. To register call 631-560-2075. Reservation is required seating is limited. Adults only. 50+

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DECEMBER 3 Holiday Tales at the Hearth. Sands Point Preserve, Sands Point; 1 to 4 p.m.; 516-571-7901. Yuletide Family Day. Walt Whitman Birthplace Historic Site, Huntington Station; 1 p.m. start; 631-427-5240. Island Symphony Orchestra. Sachem Public Library, Holbrook; 2 p.m. Free; 631-588-5024. St. Thomas’ Fellowship Café Fundraiser. St. Thomas Episcopal Church, Farmingdale. All proceeds to benefit monthly meals for homeless and underprivileged; 3:30 p.m. all 516-717-5399 For reservations; $15. Choral Reflections on Dickens' “A Christmas Carol.” Silver Chords at St. Andrew's Lutheran Church, Smithtown; 2 p.m. Free.

DECEMBER 6 Surgical Weight Loss Seminar. A Long Island Laproscopic, 4 Technology Dr., Ste. 220, East Setauket; 6:30 to 7:30 p.m. Also on December 20. Call 631 228-8277. (See ad on page 3).

DECEMBER 8 Holiday Tree Lighting at the Planting Fields Arboretum. Oyster Bay; 6 to 8 p.m.; 516-922-9200.

Harbor; 11 a.m. to 2 p.m.; 631-367-3418 x10; fee. Messiah Sing. Unitarian Universalist Congregation, 48 Shelter Rock Road, Manhasset; 1:30 p.m. Contribution of $8 requested. All invited to reception at Shelter Rock Art Gallery.

DECEMBER 12-14 Holiday Open House at Long Island Audiology. 100 Northern Blvd., Ste. 330, Great Neck; 516-441-0043; www.longislandaudiology.com. By appointment only. See ad on page 2.

DECEMBER 17 Choral Reflections on Dickens' “A Christmas Carol.” Silver Chords at Mary Immaculate Church, Bellport. Free.

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Tree Lighting and Visit from Santa. Coe Hall at Planting Fields Arboretum, Oyster Bay; 516-922-8678.

DECEMBER 9 Annual Reenactment of the Flying Santa. Fire Island Lighthouse, Robert Moses State Field # 5, 11:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m.; 631-661-4876. Huntington Choral Society Concert. At Huntington High School, 188 Oakwood Rd., Huntington; 8 p.m. Info at www.huntingtonchoral society.org. Tis the Season. Celebrating Long Island’s Dutch heritage. At the Long Island Maritime Museum in West Sayville. For info call 631-854-4974.

January 9, 2018 - 9:00 am Market Recap of 2017/What’s In Store for 2018 with Michael Hartzman February 13, 2018 - 9:00 am Valentine’s Special Estate Planning Update Make sure your loved ones are taken care of with Harold Bollaci Space is limited. Please call the office at (516) 349-5555 if you would like to attend. 500 N. Jericho Broadway, Suite 238 Jericho, NY 11753 www.bristol-financial. com

Christmas in Italy. A fundraiser at Symphony Space, 2537 Broadway at 95th St., NYC. Tckets at 212-864-5400;www.symphonyspace.org/events.

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Ye Olde Victorian Holiday Party. The Whaling Museum & Education Center, Cold Spring

Candlelight Evening & Holiday Craft Show. Old Bethpage Village Restoration, Old

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Bethpage; 5 to 9 p.m.; (516) 572-8401; fee.

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Christmas with the Nassau Pops. At Chaminade High School, 340 Jackson Ave., Mineola; 3 p.m. Free (donation of child’s toy for Toys for Tots program).

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December 8 Holiday Tree Lighting at the Planting Fields Arboretum

Candlelight Evening & Holiday Craft Show. Old Bethpage Village Restoration, Old Bethpage; 5 to 9:30 p.m.; 516-572-8401; fee.

DECEMBER 29 Candlelight Tour of Pagan Fletcher Resotration. Presented by Valley Stream Historical Society, 143 Hendrickson Ave., Valley Stream. Bring donation of canned food for local pantries; 6 p.m. to 8 p.m. Donations accepted; 516-8257157.

DECEMBER 31 Midnight on Main Street. Patchogue; 7 to 9 p.m.; 631-207-1000.

JANUARY 9 Sport Fishing on Long Island. Eight-week course held on Tuesday evening from 7:30 to 9:30 p.m. in the Media Room of the H. Lee dennison Bldg., 100 Veterans Memorial Highway, Hauppauge. Veterans and seniors $110, children 14 and younger accompanied by adult, $90. To register: 631-854-4947. 50+

Paid Family Leave is Coming to New York

5 Things You Should Know About This Important Program By Bernard Macias, AARP Long Island f you have ever needed to take time away from work to care for a loved one, you know how nerve-wracking it can be to give up your salary or wonder if your job will be there when you return. A ARP New York and the Paid Family Leave Coalition fought for the Paid Family Leave program because family caregivers who work shouldn’t have to choose between caring for a loved one and losing their jobs. And beginning in January, New York State will launch one of the strongest Paid Family Leave laws in the nation. Here are five things you should know about New York’s upcoming Paid Family Leave program:

2018. At the beginning, employees will be able to take up to eight weeks of leave at up to 50 percent of their salaries. These amounts will gradually increase until 2021 when they can take up to 12 weeks of leave at up to 67 percent of their salaries.

1) What is paid family leave? Under a new state law, working New Yorkers will be able to take time off to care for a loved one while still receiving a portion of their salary and without worrying about whether they will lose their jobs.

4) Who can I care for while taking paid leave? Paid family leave will be available for: • Caring for a close relative with a serious health condition, including a spouse, domestic partner, child, parent, parent-in-law, grandparent or grandchild • Maternity and paternity leave, whether you are a expecting, fostering or adopting a child

2) When does the program begin? The program will be available on January 1,

3) Am I eligible? Most private-sector employees in New York State will be eligible for Paid Family Leave. Employees with a regular schedule of 20 or more hours per week are eligible after 26 weeks of employment. Employees with a regular schedule of less than 20 hours per week are eligible after 175 days worked. • When a spouse, domestic partner, child or parent is on active military duty or has been notified of an impending call or order of active duty 5) Where can I get more information about Paid Family Leave and caregiving? A ARP New York has more information and resources available at aarp.org/nypaidleave. 50+

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VeteransNews

Social Security and the Veteran Supporting veterans and active duty members of the military is a key part of Social Security’s mission. The disability program has helped countless wounded warriors and their loved ones. For those who return home with injuries, Social Security is a resource they can turn to for disability benefits. You can visit Social Security’s Wounded Warriors website at www.socialsecurity.gov/woundedwarriors. The Wounded Warriors website has answers to many commonly asked questions, and provides other useful information about disability benefits, including how veterans can receive expedited processing of disability claims. Benefits available through Social Security are different from those available from the Department of Veterans Affairs; they require a separate application.

Social Security’s expedited process is available to military service members who become disabled while on active military service on or after October 1, 2001, regardless of where the disability occurs. Even active duty military who continue to receive pay while in a hospital or on medical leave should consider applying for disability benefits if they’re unable to work due to a disabling condition. Although a person can’t receive Social Security disability benefits while engaging in substantial work for pay or profit, receipt of military payments should never stop someone from applying for disability benefits from Social Security. You can learn more by visiting the veterans page at www.socialsecurity.gov/people/veterans. - John Biundo. SSA Assistant District Manager, Patchogue Village of Islandia Remembers Those Who Served On November 4, the Village of Islandia held its annual Veterans Day ceremony at the Veterans Memorial Triangle. Mayor Allan M. Dorman,

a Vietnam veteran, was joined by local elected officials, war veterans and representatives from the Lakeland and Central Islip Fire Departments. During the ceremony, Mayor Dorman asked those in attendance to remember those local residents who served in the military and have since passed on. The ceremony ended with village officials joining war veterans in placing a wreath and bouquets of roses in front of the memorial. (Pictured above): Mayor Allan M. Dorman (center) poses with the members of the Central Long Island Chapter of the Korean War Veterans Association and the Col. Francis S. Midura Veterans of Foreign Wars Post #12144 at the Village of Islandia’s Veterans Day ceremony on November 4, 2017. 50+

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1.Long Island’s iconic Judith and Gerson Leiber were honored at the Art League of Long Island’s recent special reception for their contribution as art and fashion pioneers, spanning a career of more than 70 years. Pictured: Gerson Leiber, Charlee Miller (Art League of LI Executive Director), Debbie Wells (Art League Board Chair), Judith Leiber.

2. (Left to right): Marion Pascarella, Veterans Permit Department; Ralph Esposito, Commissioner, Veterans Services Agency; Honoree Kevin Tirman; Nassau County Executive Edward P. Mangano; Christina Sohmer, Veterans Transportation Coordinator; and Paul Jeffrey Vista, Veterans Counselor. Honored was Kevin Tirman of Freeport as 2017 Volunteer of the Year at their annual Volunteer Recognition Dinner. 3. St. Catherine of Siena Medical Center’s Executive Vice President and Chief Administrative Office Paul J. Rowland, St. Charles Hospital Executive Vice President and Chief Administrative Officer James O’Connor, New York State Senator John J. Flannagan, Catholic Health Services Executive Vice President and System Chief Medical Officer Patrick M. O’Shaughnessy, DO (cutting the ribbon), with Suffolk County Comptroller John M. Kennedy—at the St. Catherine and St. Charles Center for Health and Wellness Ribbon Cutting. 50+

13 NY U.S. House Members Backing Strategy to Support Family Caregivers

ver a dozen of New York’s U.S. House members have thrown their backing behind creation of a strategy to support the nearly 2.6 million New Yorkers – and more than 40 million Americans – whose unpaid labor of love is becoming increasingly needed as society ages: family caregivers. Thirteen of the state’s 27 members in the House of Representatives are co-sponsoring the bipartisan Recognize, Assist, Include, Support, and Engage (RAISE) Family Caregivers Act, including original cosponsor Elise Stefanik (NY21). The RAISE Family Caregivers Act (S. 1028/H.R. 3759) calls for development of a strategy to support family caregivers and in part make it easier to coordinate care for loved ones, including helping family caregivers find info, referrals and resources, as well as improving respite options so family caregivers can recharge. 50+ LifeStyles December 2017 • www.50PlusNY.com

New York House co-sponsors in addition to Rep. Stefanik of New York’s North Country include, from Long Island Lee Zeldin (1st District) and Peter King (2nd); and from New York City Grace Meng (6th), Hakeem Jeffries (8th), Yvette Clarke (9th), Dan Donovan (11th), Carolyn Maloney (12th) and Eliot Engel (16th). Others come from Hudson Valley, the Capital Region, Central New York and Western New York. The bill has already passed the United States Senate with the support of New York’s two U.S. Senators, Minority Leader Chuck Schumer and Kirsten Gillibrand. “A ARP New York applauds our congressional co-sponsors of the RAISE Family Caregivers Act for showing vision in recognizing the invaluable contributions family caregivers make - and for showing leadership in moving to ensure their increasingly important work is adequately supported,” said A ARP New York State Director Beth Finkel.

The unpaid care family caregivers provide – 2.4 billion hours a year across New York and 37 billion hours nationally valued at a respective $31.3 billion and $470 billion annually—helps delay or prevent more costly care and unnecessary hospitalizations, saving taxpayer dollars. But as society ages, the number of family caregivers is shrinking in comparison to the number of older loved ones in need of care. In 2010, there were more than seven potential family caregivers age 45-64 for every person in the high-risk years of 80 or over, but by 2030, there will be only four, and by 2050, just three.In New York, those numbers are projected to shrink from 6.6 potential caregivers in 2010 to 4.8 by 2030 and 3.5 by 2050. That’s why creating a strategy to support the backbone of the state’s and nation’s care system – family caregivers – is crucial. 50+

Out of Pocket Costs for HHAs on the Rise!

If a person needs assistance such as a certified home health aide (HHA) or companion, virtually all the costs are considered â&#x20AC;&#x153;out-ofpocketâ&#x20AC;? expenses. Considering the cost for an aide at $18-25 per hour for only six hours a day might total as much as $40,000 a year, the financial burden can be extraordinary. Without long-term disability insurance, which most do not have, families wanting to help a family member age in place must seek the assistance of Medicaid which for most is a complicated and time consuming process. What is a family to do? We at Long Island Family & Elder Care (LIFEC) can help. Our mission is to assist the elderly, disabled and handicapped persons qualif y for long-term homecare, and remain living at home without the stress and worry of the financial burden. The LIFEC helps families and individuals navigate the complicated application process known as community Medicaid. Our attentive counselors and attorneys understand that each client has a unique set of circumstances that requires specialized planning. Call LIFEC at 631-255-3044 or 516-356-9999 or visit us at LIFEC.org. LIFEC has earned the trust of other families and individuals in these situations. Fees are calculated on a sliding scale, and in most cases a fraction of what others charge. We have saved families thousands of dollars in out-of pocket expenses for home health care, and can do the same for you. We have successfully secured long-term care benefits for those with sizable wealth and assets. Complimentary consultations at one of our convenient Long Island offices are available. We can also schedule appointments at your home, hospital, or rehab facility at no charge or obligation.50+

12 Cover Story - 50+ Senior Idol Finals: From Blue Point to the Bronx 20 Compete The Tribunes of Hicksville Celeste Belletti of the Bronx Teri George of Medford Richard Lanna of Dix Hills Darie Ehrlich of Babylon Pamela Merrill of Laurelton Henry Simpkins of Elmont Laura Lorenzo of Mastic Beach Ernest Cannava of Blue Point James DiNapoli of Merrick li Pa mela M iNapo D s Mary Malloy of East Rockaway e er rill Jam Dolores Brown of Wyandanch Theresa Walton of East Norwich Sean Farrell of Wantagh Tony Tufariello of Copiague Debra Holly of East Northport Jerrold Fuller of Brentwood Robert Alvey of Garden City Kathie Bondhus of Rockaway Park Larry Dubin of East Meadow Judges Diane Giattino (founder of the Stage Door School of Dance), t Alvey Laura Lore r e b o nzo Chiara Klein (Managing Artistic Direc- R tor at MainStage Shakespeare) and Leeana Costa (Radio and TV host and personality) had a difficult time winnowing down the 20 contestants.

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What You Need To Know Before Buying A Stair Lift

tair lifts are gaining popularity as the population ages. Many older adults or persons with movement disabilities continue to enjoy good health and want to remain in their home, but find stairs to be a challenge. A stairlift may be the right solution. Today’s stairlifts, such as the ones sold by StairGlide of New York, do not require structural changes to the home and do not damage the stairs or change the décor. The stairlifts are designed to be quiet and efficient, with smooth start-and-stop functionality. They are designed for safety and comforts with features like swivel seats so there is no twisting, safety sensors should there be an obstruction on the stair, and much more. Here are some things to consider in choosing the right stairlift for your home. Stair style: Stairlifts are available straight, curved and even as outdoor stairways for entrances and patios steps. Safety features: All StairGlide of New York stairlifts include multiple safety features.

These include fold-up chair and foot rest for when not in use to allow passage on the stairs; safety belts and lockable seats; a remote control feature to allow others to operate it; and your stairlift will continue to function (1.5 to 2.5 hours) even if power goes out. Support: Pre-purchase and after purchase support from trained factory technicians who can recommend the proper configuration and address any issues that may come up is critical. Stairlifts can be tested at the company’s showroom and a technician can visit your home for consultations. Stairlifts can be removed and reinstalled should you move, and feature the best warranty available: a lifetime warranty on the motor and gearbox, lifetime warranty on the rail system, and one year warranty on all other components. StairGilde of New York is A+ rated by the Better Business Bureau and led by Tom Knoblauch, President. For questions about sales or service call 631-647-2255 or wwwstairglideny.com. 50+

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Preventing Back Pain

ack pain should not be ignored, even if you think it is due to aging. It could be a sign of a serious, but treatable disease. Recurring back pain can have severe physical impacts on your body and can lead to debilitating injuries and chronic conditions. However, back pain does

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not need to be a normal part of aging if you make simple changes to your lifestyle. Always check with your doctor before beginning an exercise program or seeing a Chiropractor, especially if you have a history of lower back pain, as you do not want to do anything to worsen your current condition. •Exercise- Low-impact exercises like walking, swimming or stretching can increase energy and strength and increase blood flow to back muscles and the spine to support healing. Your doctor can tell you which exercises are right for you. • Maintaining a healthy weight- Too much weight, especially in your mid-section can add pressure to your lower back leading to pain. Managing weight through eating healthy and exercising can reduce back pain and prevent other back problems. •Practicing good posture – Stress from poor posture can lead to back pain by causing problems with your muscles, discs, and joints. Support the curve of your spine and void slouching or hunching over. •Chiropractic care –Chiropractic adjustments, also known as chiropractic or spinal manipulation, is a common therapeutic treatment for lower back pain. Regular chiropractic visits can increase range of motion, reducing nerve irritability and improve function. AgeWell New York’s Medicare Advantage Plans offer health care coverage to improve and maintain overall health and well-being. Call for eligibility and enrollment. 866-586-8044 or agewellnewyork.com. 50+

10 Best Winter Vacation Spots — Warm and Cold!

alletHub recently released its 2017’s Best Winter Holiday Destinations report. Focusing on cost and convenience rather than scenic beauty, WalletHub’s analysts compared more than 60 of the largest U.S. metro areas grouped by warm and cold weather. Each destination was analyzed based on 32 key metrics, primarily the expense and hassle of traveling to each location but also on other indicators, such as weather forecasts, safety and variety of activities. Here’s a quick glimpse at some of the report’s most interesting findings: Best vs. Worst The average flight to a popular cold winter destination costs $277.61, lasts three hours and 49 minutes, and has 0.38 connections. In comparison, the average flight to a popular warm winter destination costs $407.43, lasts nearly six hours, and has 0.59 connections. Among cold destinations, Albuquerque, New Mexico, has the lowest price for a three-star hotel room, $37, which is 2.6 times lower than in New York, the city with the highest at $98. Among cold destinations, New York has the most restaurants (per square root of population), 10.52, which is 10.1 times more than in Bridgeport, Connecticut, the city with the fewest at 1.04.Among warm destinations, Orlando, Florida, has the most restaurants (per square root of population), 6.06, which is 22.4 times more than in Deltona, Florida, the city with the fewest at 0.27. To view the full report and your metro area’s rank, please visit: wallethub.com/edu/best-winter-holiday-destinations/7930/. 50+

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Best Cold Destinations for Winter Travel 1 Chicago, IL 2 Portland, OR 3 Washington, DC 4 Pittsburgh, PA 5 New York, NY 6 Seattle, WA 7 Minneapolis, MN 8 Philadelphia, PA 9 Boston, MA 10 Denver, CO Best Warm Destinations for Winter Travel 1 Orlando, FL 2 Las Vegas, NV 3 San Diego, CA 4 Austin, TX 5 Los Angeles, CA 6 Houston, TX 7 San Antonio, TX 8 San Francisco, CA 9 Tucson, AZ 10 New Orleans, LA

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(Solution on page 4) ACROSS 1. This may be even 4. The Velvet Frog to friends 7. Dobbin’s bit 10. Used in May? 11. Similar to 12. Employs 14. A card combination 15. Part of a motor 16. Actor Richard 17. Eye problems 19. A widespread gas 21. Not me … 23. Something to pick 24. One may do this standing 28. A French friend 31. They tried harder

32. A legendary NASCAR outfit 33. You should have one 34. Tell 35. Christmas caribou 37. Christmas tree 38. Long nosed fish 39. Rural dales 43. Leaves out 47. An annoying pest 48. A sensory organ 50. -- -- many words 51. See 48 across 52. A positive response asea 53. It shuts or you shut it 54. Poetic opposite of close 55. Letter run 56. Form of address

DOWN 1. Rhymer often 2. Friend 3. These are overnight flights 4. A Brit’s raincoat 5. Western character actor Jack 6. Ruing 7. Should 8. Addled 9. A seabird 10. A monthly condition for some (abbr) 13. Espy 18. Help letters 20. A cravat 22. An inner garment 24. Feather’s companion 25. A Sinatra wife

26. Kaboodle’s go with 27. An EPA section 28. Barley beer 29. Disfigure 30. Electees 33. These could allow you to allow? 35. Your baby might go there 36. A Chinese sword 37. A signal of distress often 39. They build houses (abbr.) 40. A butter substitute 41. It can be a year or a motion 42. States 44. Letters on a cross 45. Old autocrat 46. Drench 49. A measure of water resistance (abbr.)

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The People Pleasing Problem: Why Being a Pleaser Is Hurting Your Life and Career (and How to Stop Now)

re you a pleaser? Do you love the jolt that comes from winning others' approval? Do you feel your tendency to please others will help you get ahead? If you answered yes to these questions, it's time to take a long, hard look at why you're doing what you're doing. Jack Skeen, Greg Miller, and Aaron Hill say that if you're a pleaser, you, by definition, can't possibly thrive. “Pleasers are people who adapt to the real or perceived needs of others in unhealthy ways,” says Skeen, who along with Greg Miller and Aaron Hill wrote The Circle Blueprint: Decoding the Conscious and Unconscious Factors that Determine Your Success (Wiley, October 2017, $26.00, www.thecircleblueprint.com). “Pleasing your boss may lead to a promotion, but when you hide your true self to become the person your boss wants you to be, you never cultivate your unique gifts and abilities that could bring you real success.” Here are just a few of the problems caused by chronic pleasing: Pleasing doesn’t achieve what you think it does. You may hope that by winning the favor of others, they will take care of you. Unfortunately, you’ve found the opposite is true. All it does is make you completely dependent on their goodwill. People come to view a chronic pleaser as more of a problem than as someone who is useful and truly helpful. Because pleasing takes up all your time and energy, your own life is in disarray. Your deep-seated pattern of doing everything to please others and ignoring your own wants and needs distracts you from more beneficial choices. (Continued on next page)

Prepare For Safe Winter Driving

hile it’s always a good time to make sure your vehicle is in good shape, it’s particularly important when bad weather and the busy travel season occur. Vehicle maintenance and preparedness are key for keeping you protected. To help you get started here are the answers to the most common winter driving questions that people ask. Q: What’s the most important thing to keep in mind when it comes to winter driving? A: Make sure that you allow extra time and slow down. Whether you’re cornering, stopping, accelerating or driving on a straightaway, reducing speed is the key to safe winter driving. Tires have a big effect on what the car can do. Tires are your car’s only point of contact with the road, and they influence how much control you have while driving. Before you’re on the road, make sure you have properly inflated tires and adequate tread depth to help your tires do their job — grip the road and stop safely. Q: How can drivers prepare for winter road trips? A: Plan ahead and winterize your vehicle. Take

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your car in for routine maintenance, including checking your tires. Before you get on the road, check the department of transportation’s website for road conditions. Listen to the radio for announcements about accidents, road closures and travel advisories. Also, let someone know your route in case an accident occurs, and you get stuck in an area with no cell service. Q: What type of tires should I get for my vehicle, snow tires or all-weather tires? What’s the difference? A: The decision between studded and winter tires comes down to personal needs based on your commute and driving habits. Winter traction tires are specifically designed to provide the extra grip, braking and handling you’ll need to confidently drive on slush and packed snow. Studded tires offer additional traction in more treacherous winter driving conditions, such as ice. Chains can be important, too — and are sometimes required—for traction when you’re traveling in the mountains or on icy roads. It is always recommended that you talk to a tire expert to help you make the best decision based on your need.

Q: What should I have in my car in case of an accident? A: A winter accident could leave you stuck on the side of the road in cold, wet weather. Packing your car with a few essentials will help keep you safe and ready for any unexpected detours. Store snacks, water bottles, an ice scraper, flares, chains, a flashlight, blankets and a roadside safety kit in your trunk. And always carry a cell phone. Many Les Schwab stores also offer emergency roadside assistance—if your vehicle breaks down, especially due to tire- or wheel-related issues, they’ll do everything they can to help get you back on the road. The tire experts at Les Schwab Tire Centers can help ensure your vehicle is winter ready. Before you hit the road, they’ll check your tires’ air pressure and tread depth and do a visual alignment to ensure the tires are wearing evenly. They’ll also check your brakes, shocks and battery, all free as part of their pre-trip safety check. They have a full inventory of winter traction and studded tires, chains and other devices to meet your needs. To find a store nearby, visit www.lesschwab.com/about/store-locator. Safe travels. — NAPS 50+

Kidde Recalls Fire Extinguishers

(Continued from previous page) You are not being your authentic self. When you are overly focused on pleasing others, your behavior becomes insincere. In trying to make others happy, you lose yourself entirely. Here’s how to stop being a pleaser and reconnect to the real, authentic you. 1. Start by trying to notice when you are pretending to be what someone else wants you to be rather than being yourself. Just taking note is a good way to start the process. 2. Similarly, notice when you are not telling the truth or saying what you really think. Again, just taking note can help start the process. 3. Now that we have taken note—we are ready for changes! Begin with expressing your thoughts and desires even in small things like the movie you want to see or what you want to eat for lunch. 4. Practice saying no when you don't want to do something someone else wants to do. It is okay to free yourself up, nicely. 5. Notice when you feel trapped or unhappy in a relationship or task and take this as a sign that you might be making pleasing more important than being yourself. Find a way to appropriately change these relationships. 6. Practice expressing yourself more openly, sharing your ideas, thoughts, plans, and dreams. “Don’t be surprised if it's initially difficult to stop being a pleaser,” says Miller. “When people are used to your pleasing, they may view your change in behavior as shocking. Take the time to convey your true thoughts and desires to them. Explain that you can’t please others any longer unless it aligns with your own beliefs and needs. You might be surprised to find that most people will support you overwhelmingly.” 50+

idde fire safety products has recalled several of its portable fire extinguishers, specifically ones with plastic handles, due to failure to discharge and nozzle detachment: Only one death has been reported due to this situation. The extinguishers can become clogged or require excessive force to discharge and can fail to activate during a fire emergency. In addition, the nozzle can detach with enough force to pose an impact hazard. The recall was announced November 2, 2017, and the recall number is 18022. Consumer Contact: Kidde can be reached toll-free at 855-271-0773 from 8:30 a.m. to 5 p.m. ET Monday through Friday, 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. ET Saturday and Sunday, or online at www.kidde.com (click on “Product Safety Recall” for more information including a full list of models effected). 50+

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Alzheimer’s Stamp Now Available

he Alzheimer’s Semipostal Fundraising stamp became available for purchase on November 30, 2017. The stamp sells for 60 cents. The price includes the first-class single-piece postage rate in effect at the time of purchase plus an amount to fund Alzheimer’s research. By law, revenue from sales of the Alzheimer’s Semipostal stamp — minus the postage paid and the reimbursement of reasonable costs incurred by the Postal Service — will be distributed to the National Institutes of Health, part of the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. 50+

Octogenarian Crew from Eaton’s Neck FD Attacks Car Fire on the L.I.E.

n September 20, 2017, Eaton’s Neck Fire Department’s Engine 7

was traveling east on the Long Island Expressway between exits 60 and 61 in Ronkonkoma, en route to the Suffolk County Fire Academy in Yaphank for routine pump testing. With traffic backing up, a car fire was observed on the right side of the road. With the car’s engine compartment ablaze and heavy, black smoke obscuring the right hand lanes of the roadway, police officers from the Suffolk County Police Department, motioned the apparatus over to the side of the road. The Eaton’s Neck crew stopped just past the burning vehicle and without delay, began to attack the fire using water from the onboard booster tank. On the nozzle and stretching the attack line was Firefighter Richard Baer, 81, with ex-Chief and Engineering Officer Arthur Angst, 81, operating the pump. Providing backup was the “baby” of the crew, Fire Police Lieutenant Richard Deters, 77. No injuries. 50+ – Fire News photos courtesy Eaton’s Neck FD

Scriptapalooza Screenwriting Competition Celebrates its 20thAnniversary

or two decades, the annual Scriptapalooza competition has been drawing talent and creating opportunities for screenwriters.Now, it is accepting screenplays for its 20th competition. Scriptapalooza is a leading force in the fiercely competitive entertainment industry, discovering talented screenwriters and helping them jumpstart their careers. Scriptapalooza is excited to continue its mission as it begins its 20th year, and is now accepting screenplays for this year’s competition. Scriptapalooza was founded in 1998 by Mark Andrushko. It began as a small grassroots effort and has grown into an industry powerhouse. The competition has always been driven by a commitment to discover, promote, and create opportunities for talented screenwriters who need help getting their foot in the door of a highly competitive industry. Production companies often contact Mark to ask him if he knows any writers who would be well suited to their projects, and he is always happy to oblige by promoting and pushing capable screenwriters. “You might not win the grand prize, but that doesn’t mean you haven’t succeeded. Many notable production companies and literary reps read the scripts that are submitted to the competition. I know hundreds of contestants who have gone on to become successful paid writers regardless of their placement in the competition,” said Andrushko For the 2018 Scriptapalooza Screenwriting Competition, the First Place Winner will receive $10,000 along with other prizes. Landing anywhere in the top 100 will give screenwriters a year’s worth of promotion opportunities. Any script from any genre will be accepted. Categories include Action/Adventure, Comedy, Drama, Family, Science Fiction/Fantasy, Thriller/Horror, and Historical. Any writer who wishes to submit a feature film or short film screenplay may do so online atwww.scriptapalooza.com. The final deadline is April 30, 2018. Visit the website for details on the contest, rules for entry, judging, prizes, and more. 50+

Is Chivalry Dead? 50+ Daters Polled About Trad Dating Rules

s chivalry dead? Have the days of a man pulling out a woman’s chair and picking up the check gone away? Do the dating rules we first learned as a teenager still have a place in modern society? 50more, an online dating community for active 50+ singles (www.50more.com), conducted online dating research by surveying its users to find out how men and women really feel about dating in 2017. Here’s the one thing men want women to do, according to online dating research. When asked whether the woman or the man should make the first move, whether opening doors is still a dating must, and who should be responsible for picking up the check on dates, 50more users proved that old traditions are still preferred. Here are the key takeaways:

Serve Your Community!

Answer the Call and Train to Assist the Police

ant to help your neighbors and your community? Suffolk Legislator Lou D’Amaro (D-Huntington Station) would like to inform residents about two Suffolk County Police Department programs: The Auxiliary Police Officer training program and the Civilian Police Academy, both open to adult Suffolk County residents. Auxiliary police are volunteers who provide support to the Suffolk County Police Department and serve as the “eyes and ears” of the department while patrolling. The Suffolk County Auxiliary Police Officer training program is available to residents of Suffolk County at least 21 years of age. The candidates must dedicate 10 hours of service each month and the 120 hours of training will be provided free of charge. Applications are available by visiting: www.suffolkauxiliarypolice.com or calling 631-852-4921. Not interested in becoming an auxiliary police officer but still want to assist your community? Sign up to attend the Suffolk County Police Department’s Civilian Police Academy. The Civilian Police Academy is an award-winning educational program designed to expose community members to police policies and procedures. The goal of this course is to improve communication between the police and the public. This course consists of 16 sessions, one session per week, between 6:30 and 9:30 p.m., at the SCPD Police Academy on the campus of Suffolk Community College in Brentwood. For additional information, call 631-853-7055 or e-mail: Kathy.McGowan@suffolkcountyny.gov and put “Civilian Police Academy” in the subject line. “These comprehensive programs train civilians to serve important functions within the community and help keep us safe,” said Legislator D’Amaro. “If you would like to assist your neighbors and the police department, this is an ideal way to get involved.” 50+

NATIONALLY Who should make the first move? Men: 90 percent of men prefer women to make the first move. Women: 46 percent of women think the man should make the first move. Men and women agreed that men should open the door for women on a date Is opening doors still a dating must? Men: 64 percent of men strongly agree. Women: 57 percent of women strongly agree. Most men want to pay for dates with 56 percent of women preferring splitting the check or having the person who initiated the date paying for it. Should the man or the woman pick up the check? Men: 72 percent of men believe that men should pay. Women: 44 percent of women agree NEW YORK Who Should Make the First Move? Men: 91 percent of men prefer women to make the first move. Women: 48 percent of women agree

Is Opening Doors Still a Dating Must? Men: 65 percent of men strongly agree. Women: 60 percent of women strongly agree. Should the Man or the Woman Pick Up the Check? Men: 66 percent of men believe that men should pay. Women: 42 percent of women believe it should be the one who initiated the date FLORIDA Who Should Make the First Move? Men: 88 percent of men prefer women to make the first move. Women: 49 percent of women think the man should make the first move. Is Opening Doors Still a Dating Must? Men: 71 percent of men strongly agree. Women: 58 percent of women strongly agree. Should the Man or the Woman Pick Up the Check? Men: 72 percent of men believe that men should pay. Women: 48 percent of women agree. 50+

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Gift Card Rankings

ith 41 percent of people saying gift cards are what they want most this holiday season, continuing a decadeplus trend of gift cards topping the list of the most popular holiday presents, the personal-finance website WalletHub (wallethub.com) today released its report on 2017’s Best Gift Cards, which includes 10 money-saving gift card tips to help shoppers spread cheer on the cheap. Here are some highlights from WalletHub’s report: Best Gift Cards (WalletHub Score) 1) iTunes Gift Card (70 points) 2) Starbucks Gift Card (60) 3) Walmart Gift Card (60) 4) Victoria's Secret Gift Card (55) 5) Amazon Gift Card (55) Biggest Buyer Discount 1) Dunkin Donuts Gift Card (24.83 percent) 2) Fandango Gift Card (19.90 percent) 3) H&M Gift Card (15.03 percent) 4) Cabelas Gift Card (13.51 percent) 5) Olive Garden Gift Card (12.06 percent)

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Most Popular Gift Cards 1) Amazon Gift Card (rank 1) 2) Visa Gift Card (1) 3) Walmart Gift Card (3) 4) iTunes Gift Card (4) 5) American Express Gift Card (4) Highest Resale Value ($100 Gift Card) 1) Netflix Gift Card ($86.11 value) 2) Best Buy Gift Card ($85.30) 3) Walmart Gift Card ($84.92) 4) Apple Store Gift Card ($84.25) 5) Applebees Gift Card ($83.40) Other Key Findings: Trader Joe's gift cards have seen the biggest increase in popularity in the past year. Apple Store gift cards and H&M gift cards have seen the biggest drop in popularity. Gift cards for Cinemark ($55.81) and Dunkin Donuts ($61.84) have the lowest resale value. The year’s least discounted gift cards belong to Costco (0.04 percent) and Netflix (0.10 percent). For the full list of 2017’s best gift cards, plus

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SOCIAL SECURITY COLUMN

13 Fearless Things to Know About Your Social Security Number By John Biundo; Social Security Assistant District Manager in Patchogue

hile it’s not surprising that many believe that Friday the 13th is a frightening day. While superstitions play an important part in the Friday the 13th jitters, we offer a different approach to this “unlucky” day with 13 fearless things to know about your Social Security number and card. 1.Your Social Security number is your link to Retirement or Disability benefits since we use it to record your wages and earnings. 2.There is no charge to obtain a Social Security number and card. 3.We keep your records confidential and don’t disclose your number to anyone, except when the law requires, or when your information connects you with other government health or social services programs. 4.To prevent identity theft, keep your Social Security card in a safe place with your other important papers and be careful about sharing your number. 5.While you need a Social Security number to get a job or for other services, you often don’t need to show your Social Security card. 6.If your Social Security card is lost, you can replace it up to three times a year with a lifetime limit of 10 replacement cards. Legal name changes and other exceptions will not count toward these limits. 7.You can request a replacement Social Security card with the ease and convenience of our online services if you have a my Social Security account and meet our qualifications. Visit www.socialsecurity.gov/myaccount. 8.If you suspect someone is using your number for work purposes, contact us to report the problem. You also may view your annual earnings by accessing your Social Security Statement, one of the many services available with a my Social Security account.

9.If you suspect someone is misusing your number to create credit or other problems for you, report the identify theft with the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) at www.identitytheft.gov or by calling 1-877-IDTHEFT. We also recommend that you contact the Internal Revenue Service (IRS) if fraudulent tax refunds or reporting is involved, quickly file a complaint with the Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3) at www.ic3.gov, and monitor your credit reports. 10.The nine-digit Social Security number was initiated in 1936 for tracking workers’ earnings over the course of their lifetimes for benefits, not with the intent of personal identification. Since 1936, we have issued over 30 different versions of the Social Security number card. 11.Until June 2011, the first three digits of a Social Security number were determined by the geographical region in which the person lived. Residents on the East Coast often have lower numbers than those on the West Coast. Any number beginning with 000 will never be valid. 12.Beginning in June 2011, we assigned Social Security numbers randomly, which protects the integrity of the Social Security number, eliminates the geographical significance of the first three digits of the Social Security number, and extends the longevity of the nine-digit Social Security number. 13.Since November 1936, we have issued 453.7 million different numbers and there are approximately 420 million numbers available for future assignments. We assign about 5.5 million new numbers a year. Fear not, if you properly protect your Social Security number and card. Info about applying for a Social Security card, name changes, identity theft, and other answers to frequently asked questions is available at www.socialsecurity.gov, or by calling 1-800-772-1213 (TTY 1-800-325-0778). 50+

Age of Elegance By Joan Allen

Stop The Presses!

ews Flash from the Senior America National Pageant, Resorts International Hotel and Casino in Atlantic City, New Jersey. Strike up the band! Our gal, Lee Ann Brill, stood out in the crowd, no surprise to us, winning third place in the finals out of 40 states competing. How do you win a place in Pageant History??? Everyone is judged in four categories: personal interview with the judges, gown presentation, 35 seconds to state your philosophy of life (no I’m not kidding), and a stage talent. Thank you Lee Ann, for sharing your outstanding talent and charm with all of us. The following is from Lee Ann and her experience in Atlantic City. “Being crowned 2017 Ms. New York Senior America in April of this year was amazing in itself. However, the week of October 15 through 19 at Resorts International was a week I will always remember. Women from all over America, representing their states, arrived at Resorts with the hope of being crowned “Ms. Senior America.” The week was very exciting, with rehearsals, personal interviews, preliminaries in which the judges were scoring to arrive at the top 10 contestants who would compete for the crown. The highlight of the week was the Queens Ball prior to the finals. The day finally came and when my name was called as one of the top 10 finalists, I was simply overjoyed. We had to perform our gown presentation, philosophy of life and our talent for the judges again.

When I was called as the third runner-up I was amazed at this accomplishment. I would like to close this letter by thanking all the women from New York Senior America who were there to cheer me on and to my friends who encouraged me from far away, Liz Zamarelli for coaching me, my husband Kenny, for being by my side that entire week, my dear friend Deb Bell, for making the trip to be there and taking all the wonderful pictures and Marleen Schuss and Bob Geltman for guiding my every step that week, and to the judges for scoring me as they did to bring me to this place in my life. God Bless Ethel Bennett for all her years of dedication to Ms. New York Senior America”. One of the highlights of this year’s pageant were the Seasoned Steppers, choreographed by Marianne Stahl, performing dances in both preliminaries and the finals. The National Showcase featuring talented women from all states was a rousing success as always. The New York stars were, Edna Kaufmann, Pat Tropea, Enid Merin and D.J. Brown. Thank you, ladies, for making New York Senior America shine!

In anticipation of the New York State 2018 Pageant to be held on Sunday, July 29, 2018, at Molloy College in Rockville Center, we are seeking possible participants. If you are 60-plus years, have a zest for life, a talent you can display on stage, charm and a positive attitude, we want you. Call Marleen Schuss for your interview and audition date. Her telephone number is 516-678-3242. Complete and return the coupon below or email Marleen Schuss at marleenschuss@aol.com if you are interested. A special thank you to Bob Geltman, State Coordinator of Ms. New York Senior America for his unparalleled support. 50+ Until next month: Joan and Marleen COUPON

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Town Celebrates 2nd Annual A Taste of Italy Event

n October 27, 2017, the Town of Brookhaven hosted the 2nd Annual Taste of Italy â&#x20AC;&#x201C; An Italian American Heritage and Culture Event at Town Hall co-sponsored by the Sons and Daughters of Italy New York State Grand Lodge. The event celebrated Italian culture and included live performances of traditional Italian and popular songs by guitarist/vocalist Dave Setteducati and singer John Ciotta. Food and light refreshments with an Italian flare were generously donated by local restaurants. Mr. Setteducati and Mr. Ciotta were honored by the Town and presented with proclamations in recognition to their work to promote Italian-American culture and arts in Brookhaven.

(Left to right): Councilman Michael Loguercio; Louis J. Gallo, Order Sons and Daughters of Italy in America; Robert Ferrito, State President of the Order Sons and Daughters of Italy in America; Super visor Ed Romaine; Dave Setteducati; John Ciotta; Councilman Dan Panico and Town Clerk Donna Lent.

A Crisis Is Brewing for Family Caregivers Caused by the Shortage Of Certiﬁed Geriatric Doctors!

geriatric physician, is a medical doctor that is board certified, usually in either family medicine or internal medicine, and have received additional training and certification in the treatment of older adult: such as pain, falls, memory loss, incontinence (involuntary loss of urine), and medication side effects. Another important aspect of geriatric medicine is evaluating an elderly patient's ability to care for him- or herself (e.g., prepare and eat meals, bathe, dress etc) Primary care physicians may provide medical care for elderly patients who do not have serious health concerns. However, when an older adult experiences physical, mental, or emotional illnesses or disabilities that lead to a dependence on assistance from others, or when his or her condition causes stress on caregivers a geriatric physician should be consulted. Unfortunately there is just not enough certified geriatricians for New York family caregivers to consult easily with to receive information

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based on an accurate 360 view of their senior loved ones medical records! The situation results from the fact that Americans are living longer and accumulating more diseases and disabilities, coupled with scarcity of certified and experienced geriatricians available and the inability of the medical community to attract anywhere near the number of certified physicians the patient population requires. Simply put few medical students are choosing geriatrics as a specialty. A career focused on caring for older adults is unattractive to physicians carrying large medical school debts and where financial reimbursements are mainly through Medicare and Medicaid. Currently there are about 7,500 certified geriatric physicians in the U.S. 17,000 are need to care for some 12 million older Americans today alone! By 2030 approximately 30,000 geriatricians will be needed. Thanks to the experience and the innovative talent of one of New York’s leading and most experienced geriatric physician, Dr. Nathanael De-

sire DO, CMD founder and director of Geriatric Physician Consultants through the use of a state of the art combination of a virtual platform and telemedicine families can now receive the compassionate and knowledgeable support that they and their senor loved one requires quickly, conveniently, and best of all at a low cost affordable for any family budget. Families who have questions about the loved one medical treatment can call (800) 285 – 2133 and schedule a FREE 20 minute – No obligation consult to discuss the program and the medical questions concerning their senior love one(s). 50+

Are You Avoiding The Dentist For Fear Of The Cost?

f you don’t have dental coverage or feel insurance is too restrictive and costly there is another option: the EDP Dental plan. Fortunately, there is an alternative to traditional dental insurance in the growing numbers of available dental plans that offer many advantages in convenience, savings, & procedures from top notch dentists. It is a great individual option and the industry is booming. Dentists and dental plan providers cooperate to make affordable dental care available to you and for more than 15 years EDP has helped thousands of Long Islanders get the dental care they need at an affordable price. Whether your kids need braces, you need a root canal, or if you just need your regularly scheduled check-up and cleaning, a family dental plan will save you money every time you go to the dentist. Typically, members will find their bills reduced by half and in some cases even more. At EDP Dental it is not uncommon for members to report an average savings for a family of four in excess of $1500 a year or MORE! With some of Long Island’s best dental care providers in their network, EDP members are saving up to 60% off the cost of their dental care every day!

The dentists that accept EDP are the same providers that take the big insurance company plans. However with EDP they can work directly with the patient for the best possible treatment at a reasonable cost. Best of all the discounts are applied to the patient right at the time of service, what’s easier than that? For only $99 a year you can have peace of mind that you have the best dental savings plan available when you need it and when you don’t. EDP will keep you smiling with our cost savings program that puts you in control of your dental care and money back in your pocket! Many people wonder how discount dental plans work. How can they be so cheap but still offer such significant savings? Almost everyone understands how traditional dental insurance works because it's been so common. But, this is not dental insurance. This is how we explain it at EDP Dental: Gain Access to In-Network Dentists Save on every visit with a dentist in our plan’s nationwide dental network. Dentists within our provider network have agreed to provide the same quality care for the discounted rates listed in the fee schedules. Discounts are exclusively accessible to discount dental plan members.

Save Money with Fixed Prices - No matter what your dentist would normally charge for a procedure, with a discount plan, you pay the dollar amount listed in the fee schedule. Everyone Wins! - Dentists get more patients and keep their dental practice running and agree to the reduced fee schedule in return. With EDP, dental coverage also includes specialists, such as, oral surgeons, orthodontists, periodontists, endodontists, and prosthodontists. These visits are charged at a 25% reduction of participating specialist’s regular fees. Our user friendly website www.edpdental.com has been designed to help you locate a dentist, compare pricing and easily enroll online If you have questions and would like to speak with one of our customer care representatives you can reach us at 1.800.777.1085. 50+

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