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Mary’s Musings: MAY 2019
PMMA unveils new logo, brand identity As an organization evolves and grows, so should brand awareness. In the past year, Presbyterian Manors of Mid-America has embarked on a journey to create a brand image that could represent all its communities and provide greater brand awareness for the entire PMMA system. The new mark had to reflect PMMA’s core values, mission and beliefs. It needed to be simple, but sophisticated enough to convey the high quality of care and service found in PMMA communities. It also needed to be practical, and demonstrate reliability and integrity. At its board meeting March 5, the PMMA Board of Trustees approved a new logo set for the PMMA system. The new logo captures the spirit of our heritage and commitment to the future. The simplicity of the mark pays tribute to the original request from Alice Kalb to the Presbyterian Church. The upward “V” elements serve to remind us that our core purpose is to provide compassionate and caring services to better the lives of seniors. -Logo, continued on page 2
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Nurses are the Heartbeat of Healthcare— National Nurses Week, May 6-12 When I was born, my oldest sister Dorothy was in nurse’s training at what was then Asbury Hospital in Salina. I still have the penny postcard my dad sent her to announce my birth. She worked as a private duty nurse for many years. My sister Betty, who was 10 years older than I, worked as a nurse’s aide for a year after she graduated from high school, waiting for her best friend to graduate so they could go to nurse’s training at St. Elizabeth’s Hospital in Hutchinson together. However, after completing just two years of the three-year course, she eloped. That ended her training because married women could not go to nurses’ training. Growing up, family and friends just assumed that I, too, would want to become a nurse. I had absolutely no interest in anything medical. I discovered while raising my children, I hated the sight of blood and could not handle people in pain. My son split his head open in a fall, and while babysitting my nephew, he fell out of a tree. Trying to hold their hands while the doctor was stitching them up was agonizing for me. I vowed then that I would never take a job having -Mary, continued on page 7
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The elements of the logo represent the three levels of living (independent, assisted and healthcare) or outstretched arms that protect and serve our residents. These elements are blue to suggest energy and action because it empowers residents to remain healthy, active and engaged. It also underscores respect and understanding that seniors, as citizens and individuals, retain their rights to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. The logo has three different diamond colors, utilizing colors from the previous PMMA logos. The diamond elements sit atop the “V” elements to signify the core purpose of our organization. The PMMA gold diamond relates to the Presbyterian Manor gold standard for providing quality senior services; the purple diamond refers to the faith-based mission that is fulfilled daily by the staff members at each PMMA community; the Aberdeen green diamond refers to the commitment to healthy living through the intentional balance of physical, emotional, social, spiritual and intellectual components of wellness. Over the next several months, you will begin to see the new logos in our communications, advertising, and signage. We look forward to continuing to provide you with the quality senior services guided by Christian values that you have come to expect. ◆
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Employee of the month:
Mary Bridges Congratulations to Mary Bridges, Employee of the Month for April. Mary has worked for Salina Presbyterian Manor as our chaplain for more than 7 years. She is married to Kenny. Together they have a daughter, Lisa, and a son, Todd (deceased). They also have three grandchildren: Kira, Kaci and Cody; and one great grandson, Jackson. In her spare time, Mary enjoys reading, crafts, sewing and knitting. As a child, Mary loved to do cartwheels. She often embarrassed her mom because she
would do cartwheels every place they went. She could do them with one hand, two hands, or no hands and once she did over 100 in a row. Kenny and Mary are looking forward to an Alaskan Cruise this summer. ◆
Honor the people who make our community great. Make a gift to the Employee Scholarship Program today. Stop by the front desk today for more information.
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Salina Presbyterian Manor announces Art is Ageless® winners Salina Presbyterian Manor recently hosted a reception for the winning artists in the annual Art is Ageless® juried competition. “We are honored to exhibit artwork by seniors,” said Jenni Jones, director of sales and marketing. “Art is Ageless is unique in featuring only the works of artists age 65 and older. Our artists prove that art, in any form, is an ageless ambition.” Winners in the Salina Presbyterian Manor Art is Ageless juried competition were: Best of Show-Amateur: Wayne Keeler, “Fierce Guardian” Best of Show-Professional: Velda Becker, “Farm Girl” People’s Choice-Amateur: Eva Lankhorst, “Midsummer’s Day” People’s Choice-Professional:
Mention-Carol Keeler, “A Child is Born,” Joyce Roe, “Ho, Ho, Ho;” First Place: Marie Robinson, “Poinsettia & Fabric;” Second Place: Kathleen Tremblay, “Yuletide Village;” Third Place: Susan Guest, “Santa with Baby Cradle & Newest Addition” Drawing-Amateur: First Place: Joyce Roe, “Thistle and Friend;” Second Place: Wayne Keeler, “You Talking to Me?” Third Place: Sylvia Phillips, “Ducks on Book” Fiber Arts-Amateur: Betty Worrel, “Pansies” Fiber Arts-Professional: First Place: Donna Morgenstern, “Our Victorian Lady of Kansas;” Second Place: Pamela Meehan, “Tapestry” Mixed Media/Crafts-Amateur: Honorable Mention: Janice Stoufer, “Bird in a Cage,” Frances Krahl, “Sweet Swirls;” First Place: Don Lloyd, “Batik on Ginwashi Paper;” Second Place: Don Schroeder, “Silver Doctor;” Third Place: Nancy Jo Leachman, “Co-Exist”
Gretchen Morgenstern was the judge’s choice-professional winner for entry, “Victorian Lady of Kansas.”
Sharon Weese, “Uncle Sam,” Jim Rodriquez, “Spring Has Come,” Laverne McWhorter, “Farm Piece,” Myrna Smith, “Patriotic Flowers;” First Place: Wayne Keeler, “Fierce Guardian;” Second Place: Marie Robinson, “Two Sunflowers;” Third Place: Wayne Keeler, “Emerging Giant”
Mixed Media/Crafts-Professional: First Place: Velda Becker, “Cotton;” Second Place: Pamela Meehan, “Heirloom in Silk” Resident Don Lloyd, first place winner in the mixed media-amateur category.
Donna Morgenstern, “Our Victorian Lady of Kansas” Judge’s Choice-Amateur: Marie Robinson, “Two Sunflowers” Judge’s Choice-Professional: Donna Morgenstern, “Our Victorian Lady of Kansas” Christmas-Amateur: Honorable
Needlework-Amateur: First Place: Carol Keeler, “Baby it’s Cold Outside;” Second Place: Cynthya Billinger, “Tatted Flower Doily;” Third Place: Kitty Dalon, “Slipstitch Fun” Painting-Amateur: Honorable Mention: Eva Lankhorst, “Midsummers Day,” Perry Hunsley, “Let’s Party,” Marie Robinson, “Kansas Flint Hills,” Sue Vince, “Grandma’s Attic Treasures,” Don Lloyd, “Girl Walking in the Rain,”
Best of show-professional winner Velda Becker.
Painting-Professional: First Place: Barbara Culley, “Anna;” Second Place: Mary Ann Tanking, “Prairie;” Third Place: Marla Ames Kuiper, “Say What?” Photography-Amateur: Susie Guest, “Clipper Ship, St. Lucia, Pitons” -Art, continued on page 7
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Families share their ‘Memories of Mom’ Every year, we celebrate and honor our moms on the second Sunday in May. This year, Mother’s Day is Sunday, May 12.
Did you know? Mother’s Day became an official U.S. holiday in 1914. Each year, more phone calls are made on Mother’s Day than any other day of the year. Catching up with mom by phone causes phone traffic to spike by as much as 37 percent (source: History.com). Whether you spend this year’s Mother Day celebrating your mom, her memory or another great mom in your life, we invite you to enjoy these memories and reflections on just a few of the moms (and mothers-in-law) who live in our community.
Lori Rhoden with her parents (and residents) Bill and Wanda Grosser.
Resident Wanda Grosser Wanda as a mother: “Growing up, she was a stay-athome mom. She was always a real caring, giving, hands-on person. It was just a very good home life growing up. We had a lot of fun. And she kept house like nobody’s business. She was one of those people where if the repair man was going to come work on the washer or dryer, they always looked brand new. She would clean it out and clean behind it so it looked nice and neat for the repairman.” – Lori Rhoden, daughter
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Wanda as a mother-in-law:
“Wanda is a gentle, very kind lady. She welcomed my kids and me into the family with open arms and heart! I remember she laughed very easily and had a way of making everyone feel special. She raised a wonderful, loving son who I’m lucky to have been married to for almost 30 years now.” – Susan Grosser, daughter-in-law Memories of mom: “She and dad would host bridge club and they’d always have bridge mix (chocolate-covered nuts and raisins) all set up on card tables in the living room and everything had to be just so. We’d host Christmas, Thanksgiving or both. Dad liked to cook, so he’d help out in the kitchen too. But mom was the one who picked out all the table decorations and this and that and everything – dad was boss, but she was bossy. She took care of day to day, ruling the roost and kept things afloat. “Mom liked to surprise dad a lot. For his 40th birthday, she made a birthday cake and had me dress up a Barbie doll dressed up like a dancer by gluing tiny beads on it) to jump out of the cake. She was always doing something special.” - Lori What I love most about mom: “Probably that she was my biggest fan. I write poetry and she always loved my poetry and thought I was really creative. When my great aunt died, she wanted me to write something for the funeral. And she’s had me write poems for birthdays in the family. For special occasions (anniversaries, birthdays) I’ve written poems for mom and
dad. I know that means a lot to them.” - Lori What I did/didn’t inherit from mom: “I’m not the housekeeper my mother was. I gave up trying a long time ago. But often, my husband says, ‘That’s your mom. You’re acting like your mom.’ He says that about my dad, too, so I’m 50/50.” - Lori Resident Jan Miller Jan as a mother: “Mom was the family planner and very traditional in her role as mother. Holiday traditions and family get-togethers were extremely important to her. She was a stayat-home mom, kept our home organized and running smoothly, and always made sure my brother and I knew she loved us. She and my dad have been married for 73 years and still make a very good team!” – Susan Grosser, daughter Mother’s Day memories: “When I was little, I remember mom and I always wore a carnation corsage to church on Mother’s Day. I think the tradition was to wear a colored corsage if your mother was still living, and a white one in remembrance of one who had passed.” – Susan What I love most about mom: “My mom has a very strong sense of family and always wants to be sure everyone is happy. Her faith is extremely important to her as well; even though we moved around a lot during my growing up years, finding a church home in a new town was one of the first things she -Mom, continued on page 5
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and dad did for our family.” – Susan What I did/didn’t inherit from mom: “My mom was an avid bridge player and golfer and played both for many years. Unfortunately, I didn’t inherit either of those talents! She tried to teach me to play bridge one time and it didn’t go well.” – Susan Mom’s life at Presbyterian Manor: “Having both sets of our parents living in Presbyterian Manor is somewhat unusual I suppose, but the care and attention they all receive in each level of care is reassuring to our family. My mom is in memory care, my dad (John Miller) in assisted living, my father-in-law (Bill Grosser) in independent living, and my mother-in-law (Wanda Grosser) in health care. Thank you to the Presbyterian Manor staff – you are all very important to us!” – Susan
Resident Gladys Chaput with her daughter Susie Adams.
Resident Gladys Chaput Gladys as a mother: “My mom was and still is a simple, humble and kind person. Never drawing attention to herself but rather the family she loves. Devoted to my dad for 66 years of marriage
Four generations: Gladys Chaput with Susie Adams (daughter), Alyson Burkeybile (granddaughter) and Ainsley Burkeybile (great granddaughter)
and a proud mom to five boys and one daughter (myself). She took on her role as a responsible mom helping my dad raise six children on a budget. An immaculate home, home cooked meals every night and loved us unconditionally. She sacrificed for all of us. This quote by Tenneva Jordan reminds me of my mom: ‘A mother is a person who seeing only four pieces of pie for five people promptly announces she never did care for pie.’ She would rather make you happy than to take it for herself.” – Susie Adams, Gladys’ daughter “Gladys has been a good Motherin-law to all of us. Gladys is a mother to six children (five sons and one daughter), 16 grandchildren and currently 32 great grandchildren. She is kind, compassionate, caring and happygo-lucky. She is a woman of great faith.” – Kerry (Veltman) Chaput, daughter-in-law Mother’s Day memories: “Mother’s Day was pretty standard with cards, gifts and flowers but as the years evolved and I married and moved out of state, I was not able to be with my mom every Mother’s Day. Our time together
was limited. A year ago, dad and mom moved to Presbyterian Manor. Such a welcoming place to spend your aging years. Since I am not able to spend time with my mom, I decided to continue our mother/daughter time with a simple phone call to her at least every day. As a mom myself, I treasure any moment I can talk to my kids. So, the journey began to call her every day and make her still feel special. It’s good to share conversation and let her think she’s still the one ‘in charge.’ Ha! Always ending our calls with an ‘I love you.’” - Susie What mom taught me about motherhood: “Her example of strong faith and family and all the sacrifices she made for us growing up make me understand what an important job being a mom is. Family came first for my mom. And now I watch as my daughter, Alyson, remains close to her grandma (Gladys) by calling her as often as she can too.” - Susie What I love most about mom: “I love that my mom devoted her life to my dad and family. They will be celebrating 67 years of marriage in August 2020. That’s impressive in these times. I love that she has been passionate about her Catholic faith. It had to of been a struggle raising six kids so close in age and she worked extremely hard providing for us. And I love that she can still tell me that she loves me, and I can love her back. I get it now Mom … raising kids was most challenging but being a mom is the most rewarding job I’ve ever had.” - Susie What I did/didn’t inherit from mom: “Most importantly, I think I follow -Mom, continued on page 6
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in her footsteps that family, faith and friends make life a happy place.” – Susie Mom’s life at Presbyterian Manor: “Mom was a stay-at-home mom most of her life. After some time in food service at the Catholic School she chose a job at Salina Presbyterian Manor as a housekeeper. She was commended for 27 years of service as a housekeeper, CNA and house sitter for the elderly at Presbyterian Manor. Now that comes full circle, as she provided for Presbyterian Manor then and they provide for her now!” - Susie
have changed a thing. They were teaching their kids the simple ways of life. Riding our bikes, making clothesline tents, laying in the grass watching the clouds, picnics in the backyard with bologna on white bread and iced tea in quart mayo jars, spending hours ‘trying’ to repair worn out lawn mowers, basketball in the driveway and Red Rover! The list could go on and on. The Chaput kids and I, Kerry Veltman Chaput, are very thankful to our mothers who gave us such great memories. We lived in a ‘Leave it to Beaver’ era. Such a different time than today.” – Kerry (Veltman) Chaput, Jodi’s daughter and Gladys’ daughter-in-law
What mom taught me about motherhood: “If you get in trouble - be honest about it the first time around. Don’t Lie! Always make your bed. Always say please and thank you. Don’t make fun of anyone.” - Kerry What I love most about mom: “She’s kind, compassionate, caring, thoughtful, selfless. She is always worried and concerned about the welfare of others. She was a very doting mom. Being an only child allowed her to give me more individual attention. I wasn’t necessarily spoiled with material things, but I know I was spoiled with her love and time. One of her biggest accomplishments in life was becoming a Grandma!” – Kerry What I did/didn’t inherit from mom:
Kerry (Veltman) Chaput with her mother/resident Jodi Veltman
Resident Jodi Veltman Jodi as a mother: “My mom (Jody) along with Gladys (my mother-in-law) were stayat-home moms. Mom with one, and Gladys with six. They never questioned the role. They knew they had children to raise, and who else was better qualified then themselves. They were the glue that held down the fort! Mom also had the added duties of taking care of the finances for the family business. It was hard work, and there were days I’m sure they thought that there were better things going on outside their four walls. But I know both of them would not
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Kerry (Veltman) Chaput as an infant sits with her mother, resident Jodi Veltman.
“Most of my genes come from my Dad’s side. My mom is quiet and refined, small in stature. Although I didn’t get my physical attributes from her, I probably did get her compassionate, caring side. Mom always thought she would have four boys, but instead she was blessed with me! I always joked that God knew ‘one of me’ would be enough!” – Kerry
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Mom’s life at Presbyterian Manor:
“As I recall, Mother’s Day was like a typical Sunday of that time, usually a big Sunday dinner. Mom’s mother was a widow from a young age, so many of our Sundays were spent going to Salina (we lived in Abilene) to spend the day with her. As a child, I’m sure I gifted her with special homemade items made from school. I do remember her all-time favorite Mother’s Day card on which I wrote: ‘If Mothers were flowers—I would pick you.’” – Kerry
“We live just a couple blocks away, so we visit quite often. We jokingly call it our ‘one stop shopping.’ We get to see both sets of parents all under the same roof!” – Kerry About the Veltmans and Chaputs: Ken and Jodi Veltman and Dean and Gladys Chaput have been friends for 40 years – ever since their children Kerry Veltman and Mike Chaput married. The Chaputs moved to Presbyterian Manor in -Mom, continued on page 7
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anything to do with ‘nursey’ stuff.
Judge’s choice-amateur winner Marie Robinson.
Best of show-amateur winner Wayne Keeler.
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Photography-Professional: First Place: Cary Brinegar, “Miss Lilly of the Pond;” Second Place: Gerald Karnes, “Sunset Over the Kaw;” Third Place: Gerald Karnes, “Milkweed Fluff ” Quilting-Amateur: First Place: Jan Brax, “Merry Merry Christmas Throw;” Second Place: Ruby McBee, “Pink Baby Blocks Quilt;” Third Place: Anita Phye, “I Pledge Allegiance” Quilting-Professional: First Place: Velda Becker, “Farm Girl;” Second Place: Kristi Yenkey, “Mediterranean Hexagons;” Third Place: Martha Oakes, “Pony Express Map” Sculpture/3-D-Amateur: First Place: Jeff Denton, “Walnut Bowl;” Second Place: Jeff Denton, “Knotty Ash Bowl” Sculpture/3-D-Professional: First Place: Gerald Karnes, “Country Parson;” Second Place: Robert Peck, “Bad Moon Rising” -Mom, continued from page 6
February 2018 and the Veltmans moved in six months later in August. ◆ Right: Residents Gladys Chaput (left) and Jodi Veltman (right) have been friends for 40 years.
Local competition winners will join winners from 16 other Presbyterian Manors of MidAmerica communities to be judged at the masterpiece level. Winning entries at the masterpiece level are selected for publication in PMMA’s annual Art is Ageless calendar and note cards. Art is Ageless is a copyrighted program of Presbyterian Manors of Mid-America. For the competition, works must have been completed in the past five years. Started in 1980, Art is Ageless is an extension of Presbyterian Manors of MidAmerica’s wellness programs, which focus on mental, physical, social and spiritual health. Presbyterian Manors of MidAmerica’s Art is Ageless program encourages Salina Presbyterian Manor residents and other area seniors to express their creativity through its annual competition, as well as art classes, discussions and events. ◆
When I became an interim pastor at Messiah Lutheran Church in Lindsborg, I found myself in the ICU at Wesley Hospital twice in the first two weeks I was there. A few months later, I found myself in the ICU at SRHC, providing support for a family as their loved one was being taken off life support. As I was leaving the hospital, I remember thinking God certainly has a sense of humor, look where he has led me these past few months…hospitals, a place I never wanted to be. What I have learned about nurses during my time here at Presbyterian Manor is that we are blessed with the best, most caring, compassionate nurses I have ever had the opportunity to know or work with. Their care of our residents and their families goes over and above their job description. They provide holistic care as they meet not only their physical needs but also provide mental, emotional and spiritual support. When I asked our Director of Nurses, Stephanie Goetz, to define what a nurse is, she thought for a moment and then said, “A nurse is an individual called to provide comfort and care for people from all walks of life, and in addition they guide, teach, and educate.” When you see a nurse this month, thank them for all they do or sit down and write a thank-you note. Drop the notes off at the front office or my office so I can share them our nursing staff. ◆
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May activities
Remember, “If you not having fun, it’s your own fault”! Cathy Boos, Life Enrichment Director Here is a summary of our activities planned for May: May 1 Ladies Lunch Club – Mr. K’s Farmhouse May 4 Salina Kennel Club – Lower Level May 5 Salina Symphony – “Classical Masterworks” – Stiefel Theatre May 6 Rojean Loucks Harp Music May 7 Ladies Breakfast May 7 Grief & Loss Support Group May 8 Travel & Taste – “Ellsworth Steak House”
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May 10 Healthcare Trip – Lunch & Shopping at Salina Mall May 13 We Care Group May 13 Trip to Sale Barn May 14 Wine & Cheese Birthday Party Social May 15 Men’s Breakfast May 15 Trip to POW Camp Concordia May 17 Trip to Walmart May 18 Crystal Creek Band – Ivory Keys Café May 22 Assisted Living Trip Downtown & Dagney’s Ice Cream May 23 Mother’s Day Celebration – “A Day at the Opera”
May 24 HC and MC BBQ Pot Luck May 26 Memorial Service - Chapel May 26 Cancer Support Group May 28 Literary Ladies May 28 HC trip – Rolling Hills Zoo May 29 MC trip – Rolling Hills Zoo May 29 Townhome Pot Luck Gazebo May 30 Al/IL trip – Rolling Hills Zoo ** Activities subject to change