Commun ty Matters Newton Presbyterian Manor
April 2019
He is Risen By Jerroll Martens, chaplain Newton Presbyterian Manor
“He is not here, He is risen, as He said. Come see the place where the Lord lay.” Matt. 28:6 In many parts of the world, Christians greet one another Sunday morning with “He is risen” and the reply, “He is risen indeed.” We celebrate Easter Sunday, but the first day of each week speaks of the resurrection. Christ Jesus is the center of the Christian faith and the only religion that has as its leader one who has risen from the dead. He has conquered death! Note the assurance in the text that he was absent and had risen, just as he had been teaching his disciples and others. The women who had come to anoint his body were also invited to look and see He was gone. The gospel of salvation is clearly defined as Christ dying, being buried and rising again. The cross is empty, the tomb is empty and He is alive. It validates all the claims he made of Himself and his relationship to the Father. His death on the cross was necessary for the payment of sin, and the resurrection assures us that indeed RISEN, continued on page 6
A group of friends, made up of Presbyterian Manor volunteers and neighbors, plays Bridge together each Friday afternoon.
Volunteers use personal interests to fulfill resident needs Some volunteers come to Newton Presbyterian Manor in search of ways they can lend a hand to those in need, but for others, the opportunities find them. Husband and wife, Merle and Lois Zuehl were volunteering on campus one Sunday evening when they overheard a group of women who wanted to play bridge but couldn’t find a fourth player. That’s when the Zuehls, who have been playing bridge together since the early 70s, found their calling and set up a weekly, Friday-afternoon game with several healthcare residents—providing a valuable connection to those outside the community. “It brings the outside world in since they can’t go out and play with their friends,” said Lois. “They are so happy when they can play cards, and it’s a two-way street.” VOLUNTEERS, continued on page 3
Presbyterian Manor system to celebrate 70 years On April 19, Presbyterian Manors of Mid-America (PMMA) will celebrate its 70th anniversary. Our first very first community opened in Newton, Kan., on April 19, 1949, nearly two years after ninety-yearold Alice Kalb of El Dorado, Kan., asked the United Presbyterian Synod if it would consider opening a home for the aged. A small exploratory committee formed to look at the idea and determined it had merit.
funds for Presbyterian Manors on Mother’s Day continues today. The first resident, Mrs. Frances Belle Townsend of Smith Center, Kan., moved into the first Presbyterian home for the aged on April 19. Alice Kalb moved in on April 21, and lived there until her death in 1951.
When it came time to name this new establishment, the committee did not choose to name it the Presbyterian Home for the Aged. To raise funds for the Newton effort, Instead, based on the separate a dedicated offering throughout suggestions of two women—Mrs. the synod took place on Mother’s Mary Page of Topeka and Grace Day in 1948. The practice of raising Derby of Manhattan, it was named
Community Matters
is published monthly for residents and friends of Newton Presbyterian Manor by Presbyterian Manors of Mid-America Inc., a not-for-profit 501(c)(3) organization. Learn more at PresbyterianManors.org. Marc Kessinger, executive director Noelle Dickinson, marketing director Melinda Ebersole, activity director To submit or suggest articles for this publication, contact Noelle at ndickinson@pmma.org. Telephone: 316-283-5400 Fax: 316-284-5900 Address: 1200 E. Seventh, Newton, KS 67114-2862 Our mission: We provide quality senior services guided by Christian values. NewtonPresbyterianManor.org
2
Community Matters April 2019
Newton Presbyterian Manor. Grace later lived at Presbyterian Manor in Newton until her death in 1966. Alice’s dream has turned into a FOUNDER, continued on page 6
Bravo of the Month: Sherry Scharff Bravo of the month goes to Sherry Scharff, RN in Utz House. Brittney Jaso writes, “Working with Sherry is always a great day. She is always smiling no matter what is going on in the day. Sherry is always Did you know thatwilling access to the Presbyterian Manor to help the aides center, on the all floor and wellness equipment AND a personal trainer is just is always$20/month willing to doforwhatever those who don’t live on our campus? Invite it takes to make things forto join you by contacting Alex Ramos, your family andeasier friends other staff members. She takes wellness director, for more information, 316-283-5400, charge, treats everyone with adramos@pmma.org.a great amount of respect and keeps the health care neighborhood bright and cheerful even on busy days. Thank you for your hard work and always positive attitude!” We appreciate Sherry for her skills as a nurse but also for her positivity and teamwork. Bravo, Sherry! Like us on Facebook
VOLUNTEERS, continued from page 1
While the Zuehls’ volunteer work is first and foremost about the residents, Merle agrees that the benefits go both ways. “It’s just a joy to see them have a good time,” said Merle. The effects of their time on campus even has the Zuehls thinking about their own future. “I hope somebody plays cards with me when I’m old,” said Lois. Another volunteer who seemed to fall into her work with Presbyterian Manor is Della Mae Harr. Della Mae, who has been playing the piano since the age of eight, began playing the piano here when her sister was a resident.
“She always wanted me to play the piano for her, so I’d bring her wheelchair down to the piano,” said Della Mae. “They heard me and asked me if I’d like to play in other aspects.” Today, Della Mae plays piano at the community on Tuesdays, Wednesdays and most Fridays in various locations and a wide variety of settings. It’s a schedule that would wear out most musicians, but at 85, Della Mae is on a mission.
communities throughout Newton. However, it is Presbyterian Manor that holds a special place in her heart.
“It keeps me pretty busy, but I really appreciate the opportunity to minister to those dear people,” said Della Mae. “They become like a second family.”
“I sure appreciate Presbyterian Manor, it’s such a wonderful facility, and if I ever have to live outside my home, that’s where I will live,” said Della Mae.
In addition to her appearances here, Della Mae performs at numerous
Volunteer Appreciation Week is April 7-13. Thank you, volunteers!
Della Mae Harr at the chapel grand piano.
New hair stylist creating confidence one ‘do’ at a time After owning her own salon in Newton, hair stylist Joely Bartel recently made a career change for the better. “I decided it was time for a step back to be able to have less stress and enjoy life for awhile — just be a hairstylist and not an owner. I started at Salon Posh in Newton, doing hair mostly in the evenings, and Thursdays I travel to Halstead to do hair at a nursing home there. I still have kept both of those jobs as they don’t conflict with my work here at Newton Presbyterian Manor,” said Joely. Joely joined our community in February and appreciates how she everyone has made her feel right at home. “The residents have been so Like us on Facebook
accommodating of me starting and learning the schedules and working on getting everyone in before their daily activities. The staff is fantastic and it’s great to be able to walk in the door every morning knowing they will be there to help with residents if needed,” said Joely. After seven years in the hair styling business, Joely finds she does so much more than styling her clients’ hair. “The thing I enjoy most about being a hair stylist is knowing that you are the best part of some clients’ week. My clients look forward to getting their hair done and coming in to do something for themselves. To make them feel fantastic—while I can only change how they look on the outside—it’s great knowing how much more confident you can make
Joely Bartel
someone feel on the inside,” said Joely. When she’s not in the beauty shop, there’s a good chance you’ll find Joely spending time in the great outdoors. “I love to get outdoors, whether it’s STYLIST, continued on page 5 Newton Presbyterian Manor
3
Healthy Stock Art
4
Community Matters March 2019
Like us on Facebook
Apple Blossom Festival: Fun for a cause Newton’s first outdoor festival of the year is set for Friday, April 26, and it just happens to be on the Newton Presbyterian Manor campus. Apple Blossom Festival, an annual Newton community favorite runs from 5 to 8 p.m. While fun is what the festival is all about, it’s fun for a really good reason. “Every year the Newton community and the staff and residents of Newton Presbyterian Manor have a wonderful time at the Apple Blossom Festival,” said Noelle Dickinson, marketing director at Newton Presbyterian Manor. “But the event is about more than just generating smiles and good memories, it’s about helping our residents who need financial assistance to stay here.” All proceeds of the Apple Blossom
Festival benefit the Good Samaritan Program, which makes it possible for residents to continue to live at their Presbyterian Manor community when they have exhausted their financial resources through no fault of their own. This program provides more than $6.8 million a year in unreimbursed care and services across the Presbyterian Manor system. The festival includes dinner, which will be a pork barbecue with potato salad, baked beans and apple pie. Kids’ meal packs include pork barbecue, hot dog or hamburger with chips, a drink and a cookie. KidFest on the east lawn is a festival favorite including activities and fun for children of all ages. Invite your family! Pony rides, a petting zoo, face painting, inflatables and carnival games are all available for a $5 wristband. Local entertainers keep the evening festive with their variety of talents. On the schedule this year are: 4:45 – Shriner Jazz Band 5:40 – Bethel College Academy of Performing Arts 6:05– Presbyterian Manor’s own Apple–A-Day Preschool 6:20 – Newton Community Children’s Choir 6:45 – St. Mary’s Children’s Choir
STYLIST, continued from page 3
somewhere,” said Joely.
camping, fishing, running, or just having a good time with friends. We also are big into sports, so there always seems to be a game on
Joely grew up in Buhler, Kan., in a family business, with a lot of family in Newton. Her grandparents owned Play-Mor Lanes, where she
Like us on Facebook
7:10 – Great Plains Jazz Orchestra “It’s great to see all the enthusiasm and involvement of the local community on the Presbyterian Manor campus for the festival,” said Marc Kessinger, executive director. “Seeing the kids and families enjoying the evening is rewarding, and residents enjoy themselves at the festival, too.” A bake sale and basket auction also raise funds. Vendors will also share their wares along Seventh St., and weather-permitting, a small collection of antique cars will be on display. Festival meal tickets are $10 for adults and $5 for kids. Tickets are available at Newton Presbyterian Manor and Midland National Bank downtown and the south branch. If the weather does not allow an outdoor event, Apple Blossom Festival will relocate to the Harvey County fairgrounds buildings in Athletic Park at First and Grandview. spent a lot of time helping in the evenings and on weekends. “I loved Newton, so this seemed like the perfect fit for me, living here now for five years,” said Joely. Newton Presbyterian Manor
5
Newton Presbyterian Manor 1200 E. Seventh Newton, KS 67114-2862 Return Service Requested
Alzheimers Association class April 11 Presbyterian Manor will host a Just Ask education event for caregivers of those with Alzheimer’s or related dementia on Thursday, April 11 at 7 p.m. in the Presbyterian Manor Chapel. “Understanding and Responding to Dementia-Related Behavior” will be presented by the Alzheimer’s Association. Behavior is a powerful form of communication and is one of the primary ways for people with dementia to communicate their needs and feelings as the ability to use language is lost. However, some behaviors can present real challenges for caregivers. Caregivers looking for resources, tips and tools will appreciate this
6
Community Matters April 2019
evening session. Join us to learn to decode behavioral messages, identify common behavior triggers, and learn strategies to help intervene with the common behavioral challenges of Alzheimer’s Disease. Friends and family are welcome to this public event. RSVP by calling Noelle Dickinson at 316-283-5400.
FOUNDER, continued from page 2
network of 17 senior living communities across Kansas and Missouri with more than 2,400 residents, and the mission of the organization remains true to its core: to provide quality senior services guided by Christian values. PMMA has plans to extend its mission into Colorado with the proposed development of Aberdeen Ridge in Colorado Springs. RISEN, continued from page 1
complete payment was made. It also assures us death has been conquered and secures our resurrection as well. Jesus, comforting Mary and Martha upon the death of their brother Lazarus, said, “I am the resurrection and the life. He that believeth in me, though he were dead, yet shall he live.” Our Savior is living and victorious! Like us on Facebook