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VOLUME 38, NUMBER 6 • FEBRUARY 10, 2015
Instacrush: finding love in a digital age By Emily Greenberg Journal Reporter
You can’t choose love, but you can “follow” it. Meet Adam Nash, a wedding photographer based on Lopez Island and Laura Sage, a massage therapist in Oregon. Self-proclaimed “Insta-crushes,” the two had been silently watching each other’s lives long before cupid made his move. Enter Instagram, the popular social media website where people upload photos from their daily lives. If you choose to “follow” someone, photos from their profile will show up in the daily feed on your Instagram homepage.
With 150 million active users on the site there’s ever ything from backcountr y adventurers to millennials with manicures creating collages of moments, and allowing others to get a glimpse of who they are – well, at least who they want people to think they are. So what happens when a single dad on Lopez Island and a single mom in Oregon follow their passions, post them to Instagram and then follow each over the course of a year? Well, a modern day love story. “When you look through enough photo albums of someone’s life you can start to put together the per-
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From left to right: Jake, Adam and Laura. sonalities of people,” Nash said. “But we were missing that physical connection. That connection Instagram doesn’t show.” His Instagram chronicles life aboard a sailboat with his 7-year-old son – the shores of the San Juans, luminous sunsets and dimly lit nights in the boat’s cabin. Hers is a series of photo scenes from life in the fertile Willamette River Valley – mushroom hunting, hawk watching and adventures to the ocean with her 9-yearold daughter and 11-yearold son. Both have a passion for photography and the outdoors, apparent in their thoughtfully composed pictures. “Ever yone uses Instagram for something different,” Sage said. “I think Adam and I are at the same place in lives. Our kids come first, we see beauty and adventures and want to share it – so our pages are naturally similar.” It was around the same time that Nash was going
to reach out to Sage and let her know he’d be in the Oregon area in the following month and would like to meet that he received a letter from her. She introduced herself, though he already knew who she was, and suggested they meet sometime in the islands, where she likes to visit, and have a play-date for the kids.
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“I was going to write the same letter,” he said. “I had decided, but she beat me to it.” What followed was like any other digital courtship – video chat correspondence along with texts and talking on the phone. But the two couldn’t wait to meet. So on New Year’s Eve they both flew into Bellingham and met at the airport at the stroke of midnight for the first time. Soon after the couple was as inseparable as they could be from a state away. Each family made a trip to the other’s home. “We ate three meals together at the dining room table as a family for four days,” she said. “We ate, talked and laughed. It’s all I could have dreamed of, to be a family again.” Blending two families isn’t easy, which is why they’re taking it slow and using the next few months
as a transition. Sage plans to move with her kids to Lopez this summer where they will live with Nash and his son as one big, happy family. They are searching for the perfect four-bedroom house. In the meantime they have family Skype sessions because the kids getting to know each other is as important as the parents, and each make two trips per month to spend time together in person, as a family. While Instagram was the forum in which they met, their relationship transcends it. “Love ain’t got nothing to do with the Internet,” Nash said. “She could have been a diver on my boat, or written me a parking ticket. There’s either electricity or there’s not. You never know how you will meet your life partner.”
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All Member’s Benefit Group Show 2015 Supporting LAG Scholarships and the LCCA Opening Reception Friday, February 13 5-7pm at Lopez Center. The exhibit runs through March 23