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Watanabe explained that one of the reasons why it’s so important for parents to have a healthy attitude towards change is because our children take their cues from us.

“You may be concerned for them, but don’t let that concern cloud their experience,” she cautioned.

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Even if your children are nervous about their upcoming school year, be supportive and let them know you’re there. However, don’t dismiss their feelings with statements like “Everything will be all right, don’t worry.” It’s actually better to acknowledge fears and anxieties and then reassure them that they will get through it and you will be there to help.

Sometimes, making a plan in case there is a problem can offer comfort for youth.

Ask them what they are afraid of and help them create a plan for overcoming the hurdles. Because life always comes with hurdles, learning how to manage them is a good life skill that will serve young people well.

It’s also important to avoid “red-flag” language like, “This school year is going to be tough.” This

increases stress and distracts your child from starting school with an open attitude. Let them express their own opinions and concerns.

However, if your child has uncontrolled anxiety, or it’s interfering with their ability to eat and function normally, bringing in a counselor to help may ease the situation. Organizations specializing in youth and family mental health, like YES, are your best resources.

Shifting grades is just the beginning of the many changes life will bring your kids. Let your attitude demonstrate that change is a natural part of growing up. It will help them accept and adjust—this year and for years to come.

Patti Skelton-McGougan is executive director of Youth Eastside Services (YES). For more information, visit www.

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Kid’s Day coming to Saturday Market The Redmond Saturday Market will shine the spotlight on kids as part of Kid’s Day this Saturday. Kids up to the age of 15 will be selling their arts and crafts from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. on the grassy area near the market, which is located at 7730 Leary Way. Mr. Darby, a popular

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Assign age-appropriate household jobs such as setting out silverware and napkins on the table, sorting laundry, folding, dusting, watering plants, and feeding a pet with supervision.

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ere are some ways to help make things run smoothly and safely for your child: • Clothes: Go through your child’s wardrobe. Can your child manage buttons, snaps and zippers? Neat, comfortable, washable play clothes with elastic waistbands are a good choice.

• Shoes: Look critically at shoes. Are they a good fit, easy to fasten, and do they have non-slip soles, safe for outside play. To help prevent accidents, avoid flip-flops, high heels, wedge heels or slippery soles or pointed toe cowboy boots for every day use.

• Hair: Evaluate your child’s hairstyle. Is it neat and out of the eyes? Is it a distraction? If your child consistently chews on the ends, consider a style that is off the face or tie it back.

• Show your child how to use a tissue.

• Teach your child how to wash his/her hands.

• Teach your child how to take care of him/herself in the bathroom.

• Go over safety precautions – matches, plugs, and chemicals. Keep poisons out of reach.

• Explain the use of 911 and how to dial it.

• Teach your child how to behave on a street, sidewalk and in a parking lot.Teach him/her how to cross the street if appropriate.

• Make sure your child knows his/her address, phone number and parents’ names.

• Prepare your child for a visit to the doctor or dentist’s office. Be upbeat but truthful.

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