Coming HOME
Sarah Soule Webb comes home to her new gallery; merry & bright fashion; donating close to home; visit NOLA by train for the holidays
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• IMPACT 100’s big day
• Stepping Out in Style
• Brunch & Bubbles
• Roaring in Pink
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What feels like home to you? Is it a person, a place? Is it that coziness you feel when you’re nestled in with a good book or movie?
To me, home is so many places now. I often feel the pull of the Tennessee mountains where I grew up, and that will always be one home for me. And of course, Northwest Florida has been my home for longer than I’ve lived anywhere else. But now that my husband and I have grown children and a new grandbaby who all live further north, home is beginning to feel like wherever they are. So I suppose I have a multifaceted home heart! That’s fine by me.
In fact, I’ve been lucky enough to feel at home in many places in my life. It’s the people, more than the places, that make me feel that way. I envision sitting across the table from family and friends, talking and laughing, completely immersed in the feeling of love. That’s home. That’s my holiday wish for all of you.
The past two and a half years, I’ve felt at home and found friends here with Bella. It’s been a great joy to edit these pages, meet many of you, and share so many inspiring stories. But I’ve decided it’s time to step away so I can free up the time to focus on family, teaching (my primary job) and myself. I think I finally learned I can’t do it all! In a way, I look at this as a sort of homecoming itself — carving out the time to reflect on my own goals and dreams, and to enjoy a little quiet in this ever-busy mind I have. This issue at the end of the year seemed like the perfect time to wrap it up and put a bow on it. It’s been a beautiful gift!
Whether you’re staying home or heading out, hosting a houseful or enjoying a quiet respite on your own, I hope your holiday season is full of joy, hope and love. Soak up the spirit of the season and sprinkle some of it around as you go.
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meet the team
Liz Biggs, writer/columnist
Liz Biggs is a Pensacola native and mother of four. Once upon a time, she had a high-pressure career, but now she has a pension and is a freelance writer for Bella Magazine. Liz enjoys music, dancing, tennis and travel and tries to find humor in everything.
Courtney Hays, administrative assistant/writer
Courtney Hays, a West Virginia native, made Navarre her home in 2020 after purchasing her grandmother’s house. A former English teacher for eight years, she now enjoys her work with Bella Magazine. Newly married, Courtney loves traveling, practicing yoga, listening to podcasts and hosting game nights with friends.
Kristin Holifield Cagle, advertising
Kristin Holifield Cagle is a fifth-generation Pensacola native who loves to help women and business owners alike achieve their goals. With a master’s degree from the University of West Florida, she specializes in marketing. She is the mother of two and enjoys soaking up the sun at the beach and spending time with family.
Sharla Gorder, writer/columnist
Sharla Dawn Gorder is a Pensacola Beach resident and columnist for the Island Times newspaper. She is the author of “My Vices Collide; a Celebration of Being a Little Messed Up,” and “Crayon Dawn,” a coffee table book sold in stores throughout the Pensacola area and at her website, crayondawn.com.
Jennifer Harrison, advertising
Jennifer Harrison is a Pensacola native (via the Navy). She is involved in the Pensacola community through IMPACT 100, Pensacola Navy Days, charitable food distributions, Leadership Pensacola, ECPS Foundation, Achieve Escambia, ECCPTA and more.
Allison McCrory, writer/fashion stylist
Allison McCrory is almost a Pensacola native who has worked in writing and editing since 1984 when she started with The News, an afternoon newspaper that later merged with the morning Journal. The mom of two adult kids, Allison suffers from a tennis addiction, practices yoga and loves to cook.
Elizabeth Meyer, art director
Elizabeth Meyer spent her early career as a designer and design director at newspapers across the country. She is currently an adjunct instructor and director of The McKinley Avenue Agency at Ball State University. Betsy was born in Pensacola while her father was in the U.S. Navy.
Chelsea Owens, writer
Chelsea Owens grew up in Gulf Breeze and received degrees in communications and art from the University of West Florida. She has a lifelong passion for style and art, and over 10 years of social media and marketing experience. She is also a pilates instructor who enjoys both staying busy and relaxing at the beach.
Cynthia Reeves, writer
Long-time writer Cynthia Reeves spent 25 years as a broadcast journalist in the southeast, including 10 years as a reporter at WEAR-TV in Pensacola. As a high school teacher of journalism, TV production and English, she passed her skills down to young writers. She also served as District 1 director for the Florida Scholastic Press Association.
Justine Williams Roper, writer
Justine Williams Roper is a doctor of physical therapy, personal trainer, and speaker from Pensacola. She has written women's health articles for publications like Essence and enjoys all things movement and food. She is the proud owner of InHer Physique Pelvic Floor Therapy & Wellness, where her passion for women’s health truly shines.
Leslie Peck, writer/beauty expert
Leslie Peck is a local aesthetician, makeup artist, lash artist and brow specialist. She has experience in TV, film, print and celebrity makeup in Los Angeles and 11 seasons of NYC Fashion week. Leslie was featured on the front page of the Wall Street Journal in 2007 for her work at Fashion Week.
Leah Seacrest, writer/fitness expert
Leah Seacrest, a seasoned fitness industry veteran with over 30 years, experience in group fitness and personal training, co-owns REGYMEN Fitness Pensacola and is the SVP of REGYMEN Fitness overseeing operations and franchise growth. She is a mother of three and loves spending time outdoors.
Sonshine, writer
Sonshine is a Northwest Florida media personality, currenting hosting “Sonshine’s Corner” on BLAB TV. She is a business consultant, author, motivational speaker and fitness consultant. Sonshinemoorer@gmail.com.
Toni Sparks, photographer
Toni Sparks is a proud Pensacola native. As the visionary behind Short Story Studios, Toni is dedicated to creating magazine-quality images with elegance and style. Her experiences infuse her photography with a unique perspective that celebrates and elevates every moment.
Kate Treick, photographer
Kate Treick is a professional photographer, writer, speaker and publisher who has called Pensacola home since 2012. She and her husband, Joel, have two teenaged kids and two funny little dogs. Kate loves spending time with friends, leading music at her church, reading and traveling. kate@katetreickphotography.com
Magi Thomley Williams, advertising/writer
Magi Thomley Williams, ACB, ALB is a business and nonprofit consultant, writer, trainer and speaker. Dedicated to improving her community by helping nonprofits build their boards, improve their media presence and attract donor funding, Magi enjoys writing about impactful nonprofits, thriving businesses and the women who lead them. Magi@ThomleyConsulting.com.
Teresa Torres Zwierzchowski, social media
Teresa Zwierzchowski has more than 20 years’ experience in communications, including more than 15 working for the Pensacola News Journal. She is a lover of all things communication including brand, culture, social media as well as community and public relations.
inside this issue
COVER STORY
Artist Sarah Soule Webb
Page 28
GIRLS NIGHT OUT Moomoos & Margaritas Page 32
8 SPEND OR SAVE
10 FASHION: Merry & bright style
20 BEAUTY: Top 10 beauty trends of 2025
22 CAUSES: Donations that save lives
26 CAUSES: Council on Aging
38 WORTH THE TRIP: Rolling into a New Orleans holiday
44 OUT & ABOUT: IMPACT 100 Million Dollar Sunday
52 OUT & ABOUT: Stepping Out in Style
62 OUT & ABOUT: Roaring in Pink
64 HER PERSPECTIVE: The year of unfolding?
66 HER PERSPECTIVE: When in doubt, just say “mmmmm”
OUT & ABOUT Brunch & Bubbles
Page 58
On the cover: Acclaimed artist and self-proclaimed Pensacola fangirl Sarah Soule Webb finds her way home to a new gallery in Downtown Pensacola. Find out more on page 28.
Photo by Kate Treick Photography
BY CHELSEA OWENS / BELLAMAGAZINE.COM / PHOTOS PROVIDED
spendorsave
• Hannah sweater, $178, and Hannah knit pant, $188, revolve.com
• 1 ct. oval diamond solitaire earrings, $4,714, riddlesjewelry.com
• Oran sandal, $1,250, hermes.com
• Cable-knit sweater, $39.99, and cable-knit pants, $44.99, hm.com
• Oval-cut diamond solitaire stud earrings, $550, jared.com
• Women’s fluffy slide house slippers, $59.95, landsend.com
where to shop
H&M: Cordova Mall, 5100 N. Ninth Ave., Pensacola; 855-466-7467; hm.com Jared Jewelers: 5410 N. Ninth Ave., Pensacola; 850-473-9331; stores.jared.com
fashion
Merry & bright
Bold silhouettes, textures, and tailoring
By Allison McCrory
Look for stand-out silhouettes and refined comfort this season, as well as interesting textures, structure and a ’70s influence, forecasts Katy Nagel, owner of Gray Boutique on Palafox.
Fabrics become art with faux and real leather, suede, velvet, boucle and coated textiles taking the forefront. Animal prints, particularly leopard, are surging, as are plaids. Rich, earthy brown is dominating fashion hues.
“Everything is brown this season. Mocha, chocolate, mahogany, taupe,” said Nagel, adding that pops of jewel tones like sapphire, emerald and ruby add a rich element to winter style.
Look for knee- to midi-length skirts, relaxed high-rise pants and oversized outerwear.
In accessories, belts are back, especially with shiny hardware. Structured handle bags, chunky loafers and combat and kitten-heeled boots are trending.
Shopping list: Artistic yet understated, this unique set by Psophia in taffeta features exquisite embellishment. Top, $332, and wide-leg trouser, $545.
Photos by Kate Treick Photography
Shopping list: Ready for some
this
This
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duo by Mother is the perfect choice. Bow and Arrow shirt, $192, and denim skirt, $244.
Jalissa Davis
Born in Pennsylvania, December model Jalissa Davis has called Pensacola home since her father was stationed here when she was 3 years old, then opted to make Pensacola a permanent home after his retirement.
“My educational journey began at Sherwood Elementary, followed by Bellview Middle School, and I graduated from Pine Forest High School in 2009. I later attended Fortis Institute, where I earned my certification as a Registered Dental Assistant in 2017,” said Davis, the mother of three boys who works at Navy Federal.
“I am deeply involved in the performing arts here in Pensacola. As an actress, I’ve acted in the stage play ‘A Good Cry,’ written and produced by Tammy Whiten and performed at Pensacola High School. I also appear in a local YouTube skit series titled ‘Auntie’s House,’ also written and produced by Tammy Whiten. Outside of acting, I enjoy singing and dancing at events as part of my creative expression.”
When she’s not working or performing, you might find Davis at Palafox Pier in downtown, enjoying ice cream with her boys, or attending services at her church on Sundays.
Holidays mean home, family and a big game of Christmas bingo for Davis. Extended family and friends fill Davis’ mom’s home every Christmas to socialize and play several rounds of holiday Bingo with prizes that would humble Santa Claus. Luxury linens, $100 gift cards, tablets and electronics are among the prizes.
Shopping list: All shades of rich, earthy brown are the year’s biggest fashion news. Celebrate the season in this outfit pairing deep chocolate Citizens of Humanity jeans, $254, with an Agalde Aura bodysuit, $154, and Xirena Ravenna vest, $292.
Shopping list: Faux and real leather and suede are hot this season. This skirt in burgundy by Melissa Nepton, $194, teamed with this Karina Grimaldi animal print top, $246, equals elegant, edgy style.
Shopping list: Ring in the season in style in this festive black velvet dress by Saylor Merryn, $282.
About the location
Barkley House
410 S. Florida Blanca, Pensacola; 850-595-5985; historicpensacola.org
Holiday decor compliments of Rusted Arrow Boutique 130 Palafox Pl., Pensacola; 850-285-0371; rustedarrowmercantile.com
Clothes compliments of Gray Boutique 7 Palafox Pl. Pensacola; 850495-3131; graypensacola.com
Hair & makeup compliments of Natasha Durant 850-292-0222; Facebook/ Tasha Durant
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Photography: Kate Treick / Fashion styling: Allison McCrory Where to shop: Gray Boutique
Mixed metal earrings, $22
Resin bracelet, $24
Clare V leLink bracelet, $114
Sardine earrings, $24
Clare V Midi Sac with crossbody strap, $416
Back to Boston metallic shoe, $196
beauty
10 BEAUTY TRENDS OF 2025 TOP
Reflecting on the trends from this year, the beauty buzz is alive and well. Innovative ingredients and product experiences create go-to glam that will take us through the end of this year and into the next. With so many different products available and education right at our fingertips, anyone can have that just-stepped-out-of-the-spaand-salon look for every occasion.
By Leslie Peck
1NATURAL AND ORGANIC INGREDIENTS: The beauty marketplace is flooded with products, but more than ever, consumers are becoming savvy to what they want and the ingredients they don’t want. Learning what your skin is sensitive to can help alleviate unnecessary irritation and breakouts. Once you eliminate ingredients that don’t work for you, your beauty regime will be simple and productive and give you the look you want. Always read labels and ask questions, and you will find the products that work best for your skin.
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GLOWING SKIN: Ready, set, glow! One of the biggest trends is healthy, glowing skin. This comes from the condition of the skin, not layering a bunch of highlighter onto the skin. Regular exfoliation and hydration keep the skin free from a build-up of dead skin cells that leave a dull finish.
3 PEARL, CHROME AND EMBELLISHED NAILS: Nail art has definitely made a statement this year and becoame an accessory to any outfit. Technicians have stepped up their game, creating 3D finishes in every color, chrome and pearl finish possible with themes and embellishments to fit every holiday and occasion.
4PERSONALIZED
EXPERIENCES: Shopping for beauty products can be overwhelming. There are more and more companies creating digital AI experiences to “try on” products virtually to help make decisions on your own. Although, one on one personal assistance will remain the favorite choice when trying out new products and learning about product application.
5 RICH, BERRY MAKEUP: Go bold with all the rich shades of nature. Deep roses and plums made appearances throughout the year in eyeshadow, blush and lip products. Accentuating features with a berry, monochromatic hue gives depth and a romantic presence.
6 ALMOND-SHAPED NAILS: Nail shape trends vary often, but the almond was a go-to this year. This shape creates a long, elegant silhouette and works well with any length.
7 DECONSTRUCTED CURLS: Whether your hair is mid-length, long or extensions; deconstructed, piecey curls give just the right movement and Hollywood glam. It can be dressed up or dressed down but always looks put together in just the right way.
8 FULL BODY SKINCARE: Exfoliation, hydration, red light therapy, massage and even scalp health are a hit this year. Your face isn’t the only part of your body that should receive VIP service. Treating your entire dermis is self care at its finest.
9 MOCHA HAIR, MAKEUP AND NAILS: Mocha has been the new black this year. Shades of warm, velvety browns are seen in nails, low lights and makeup, bringing back a nod to retro ’90s but in today’s tawny tones.
10 LASHES, LASHES AND MORE LASHES! Women of all ages definitely want to get their lash game on, and there is certainly something for everyone. Lash serums are everywhere and can help build stronger, longer lashes. This is a great at-home alternative for lash lovers who don’t necessarily want to have anything done to their lashes professionally but still want a little va-va-voom. Lash lifts and tints are a great way to give your natural lashes a makeover of their own with minimal maintenance and cost. If you really want to go big, you may want to try lash extensions for more of a dramatic look.
Photo illustration by Elizabeth Meyer
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causes Donations that save lives
Make a difference with end-of-year giving
By Courtney Hays
As we become wrapped up in the holiday season, we prepare for cherished traditions and time spent with loved ones. There’s no doubt this time of year brings a flurry of excitement (albeit mixed with a little stress). Throughout it all, we reflect on the year’s ups and downs. We take stock of all that we’re grateful for and remember this is a season of giving. We remember those in our community who are working to overcome the challenges of the year. We remember that there are hardworking members of countless organizations stepping up to ensure that our neighbors have lifesaving access to food, supplies and care — not just during the holiday season, but year-round. Organizations like Manna Food Pantries, United Ministries and Escambia County Healthy Start are a reminder of just how powerful community can be. As we reflect on the coming of a new year, remember how powerful you are in making a difference.
Manna Food Pantries
Manna Food Pantries “believes every person has the right to be free of hunger and to be treated with respect and dignity.” It is an unfortunate reality that over 10% of families struggle with food insecurity. However, for more than 42 years, Manna has stepped in to provide vital food assistance to our neighbors right here in northwest Florida.
According to Kerri Smayda, associate executive director, “Manna seeks out gaps in service where we can assist food-insecure, vulnerable populations in a meaningful way.”
Last year, “60% of the people helped by Manna were those under the age of 18,” she said.
In addition to their Emergency Food Assistance Program, they offer 18 specialty programs dedicated to helping families, children, seniors, service members, and ALICE (asset-limited, income-constrained, and employed) individuals, all completely free of charge.
As a grassroots organization, Manna receives no government funding and has no national affiliation. The funding they do receive comes from the very community they serve. Despite their local backing, they are not immune to the harmful effects of budget cuts and economic instability. As budget cuts amplify the need for support, they also reduce the donations necessary to meet that demand, creating a challenging imbalance.
WANT TO HELP?
Donations have an immediate impact. At Manna, “91 cents of every dollar” goes directly to services, and they take great care to “carry out evidence-based work so donors have confidence their
contributions are making a difference.”
On their website under “I Want to Donate,” you can find a list of in-demand food items such as:
• Fruit in 100% juice (cans 20 oz. or smaller and peel-top cups)
• Mixed vegetables (cans 16 oz. or smaller and peel-top cups)
• Oatmeal (boxes of single-serve packets)
• Chicken and tuna (cans 12.5 oz. or smaller; pouches; and to-go kits)
• Peanut butter (16.3 oz. jars or smaller; individual to-go cups)
• Microwaveable dinners (e.g., Hormel Compleats)
• Canned dinners (low sodium; stew, chicken and dumplings, etc.)
• Canned beans
• Canned soup (low sodium)
Smayda emphasizes “the goal is to provide the healthiest food possible.”
Other undamaged, nonperishable food donations are always welcome and can be dropped off at 3030 North E Street in Pensacola. On the same page of their website, you can also find links to their Amazon and Walmart wish lists.
JOIN THE FIGHT AGAINST HUNGER
Participating in the fight to end hunger takes many shapes. From cleaning out the pantries to volunteering during the holidays or hosting a food drive within your community, there are many ways to get involved. The “I Want to Participate” link on their page makes it easy to connect with them. Volunteers can also call 850-432-2053 and ask for Cheri, their volunteer manager.
• Mission: Fighting Hunger in Escambia and Santa Rosa Counties
• Info: 850-432-2053; mannahelps.org
• Hours: Monday-Friday, 9 a.m.-4 p.m.
• QR Code will take you to their donation page
• Mission: Helping families in need of financial assistance for rent, mortgage or utilities
• Info: 850-433-2333; united-ministries.com
• Hours: Monday-Thursday, 9 a.m.-12 p.m.
• Mailing address: P.O. Box 9255, Pensacola, FL 32513
• QR Code will take you to their donation page
United Ministries
When families are on the brink of crisis, United Ministries steps in to help. Composed of local churches, individuals, two staff members and volunteers, they provide financial, spiritual and emotional assistance when it is needed most. Driven by faith, they help pay rent, mortgage and utilities for families facing a variety of challenges. Jenn Lusher, executive director, notes that families turn to United Ministries “as a last line of defense. We’re seeing people on the verge of losing their homes, going without basic necessities, and struggling to survive.”
Lusher shared the story of a father raising newborn twins after the tragic loss of his wife. Juggling two jobs, he fell behind on bills when a broken foot left him unable to work. United Ministries stepped in with rent assistance, and today, he and his daughters are thriving.
“It’s about walking alongside families in their hardest moments. At the heart of our work is this simple truth: When families are supported, whole communities thrive,” Lusher said.
Over the next few months, United Ministries is undergoing a rebranding initiative.
“It’s more than a new logo or look, it’s a chance for us to share who we are, what we do and how our community can engage with our mission,” she explained. During this time, they will meet with members old and new to create the next chapter. While they may have a new look, the mission will always be centered on emergency assistance and “helping
people build stability, confidence and a future they can believe in.”
PROJECT TRANSFORMATION
While some hardships occur suddenly, others are rooted in deeper, cyclical issues. Project Transformation, a newer initiative by United Ministries, seeks to educate and empower families in five areas: financial stability, affordable child care, affordable housing, affordable transportation, and education and job placement. Symbolized by a butterfly, the goal is to transform lives by establishing the necessary foundations of sustainability. Lusher emphasizes that “it’s the follow-up support that helps families build long-term stability.” Graduates of the program are encouraged to then serve as mentors to future clients, fostering these new cycles of hope and sustainability.
WANT TO HELP?
Donating or volunteering provides immediate relief to families who qualify for assistance. They accept online donations or mail-in donations.
Volunteers play a vital role in the organization’s success. After filling out their online form, follow up with a call or email to connect with them personally. All help is appreciated, but they are currently looking for help with: client intake, senior adult application assistance, office support and rebranding marketing expertise.
Even small contributions have a significant impact.
Lusher goes on to say, “public support is critical. Every donation, every volunteer hour, every act of generosity goes directly to preventing families from falling through the cracks — because without it, they truly have nowhere else to turn.”
Escambia County Healthy Start Coalition
Escambia County Healthy Start Coalition works to improve the health and developmental outcomes of Florida’s babies.
“What happens during pregnancy and 0 to 3 years has a lifetime impact, and we work to make sure families have what they need during that time,” Allyson Anderson, executive director, said.
They offer a wide range of services such as pregnancy education and support, newborn care instruction, counseling services, help to quit smoking, nutritional education, school readiness and home visiting programs. The largest group they serve is pregnant women; however, their services extend to families with children under the age of 3.
Their mission is powerful, and they cannot do it alone. Their funding comes from the Florida Department of Health’s Healthy Start Initiative, local and national grants, and donations from the community. With the rising cost of goods, like formula and diapers, and the general financial strain of the holiday season, organizations like this serve as a haven for people to lean on — not just for supplies, but as Anderson said, for “a trusted network to help them navigate the complex medical system.”
On their website, families can enroll through an online form or by calling 850696-2291. This is designed to be a “onestop entry point” to connect families to the services and resources they need.
T.E.A.M. DAD
Escambia County Healthy Start Coalition strives to support everyone in the family unit, and their newest program is called T.E.A.M. Dad. According to their website, “children who grow up with involved fathers experience better mental, emotional, educational, and social outcomes. They are 45% less
likely to repeat a grade, 60% less likely to be suspended or expelled from school and 80% less likely to spend time in jail.” Anderson recounts a recent success story where their program was able to provide a father with car seats for his kids, which was “critical in facilitating co-parenting and visitation.” In addition to the seats, their program has car seat technicians who ensure safe installation. This program works not just to ease financial burdens but to support the journey of fatherhood, which makes a world of difference for families.
WANT TO HELP?
There are a variety of ways to support Escambia County Healthy Start Coalition. Monetary donations made to the organization have an immediate impact. These funds are used for their “Stork Stock” which includes supplies such as pack ’n plays, diapers, wipes, bottles, strollers, car seats and more. Under their donation link, you can also find their Amazon wish list, which is kept up-to-date based on client needs. Physical donations of new and unopened supplies are also welcome at 318 N. Alcaniz St. in Pensacola (call ahead at 850-696-2291). According to Anderson, “Families receive supplies through their home visitor, from our Century location, or from our mobile outreach van — generously funded by IMPACT 100 — which travels weekly to high-need areas.”
Volunteer opportunities are available under “Join Our Team” in the About section. Volunteers are needed for a variety of tasks, including administrative work, event planning, fundraising, creating program materials and tracking inventory. Anderson stated that their biggest volunteer event is their annual baby shower in April. This is “a joyful, community-centered day that celebrates families while connecting them with local resources.”
• Mission: Improving health and developmental outcomes for Florida’s babies
• Info: 850-696-2291; healthystart.info
• Hours: Monday-Friday 8 a.m.-4:30 p.m.
• QR Code will take you to their donation page
causes
Every meal matters
As federal funding stalls, the Council on Aging faces impossible choices, but your donation will unlock more to help vulnerable seniors
By Cynthia Reeves
The Council on Aging is a lifeline for elderly clients like Mary. Mary lives alone and depends on Meals on Wheels for proper nutrition. The services also protect her from isolation. Stanley, her Meals on Wheels driver for the past four years, looks out for her. Recently, he made sure a path to her home blocked by construction was clear so she could come and go as needed.
“I have not been blocked since!” Mary said.
FUNDING DECREASES
Despite the caring nature of the staff and administration, the Council on Aging of West Florida has been facing barriers and hurdles, leading to difficult decisions to reduce some feeding program offerings. In addition to the delivered meals, there are also dining sites in Escambia and Santa Rosa Counties that serve nearly 800 vulnerable seniors each day. The sites also provide much-needed socialization.
Funding decreased this year, and the nonprofit has been told to anticipate more decreases in 2026. Josh Newby, local president and CEO, describes the dilemma like “driving through a rear-view mirror.” Since he doesn’t have all the numbers, “it is nearly impossible to budget and make operational decisions.”
Dozens of elderly people may be on waitlists for the sitebased meals, but he doesn’t know if he can afford to serve them. He faces tapering some off, starting with those who are less isolated, rather than those with no family or support network.
The congregate feeding sites were offered Monday through Friday. They are in senior apartments, community centers, churches and retirement villages. Seniors could come get a hot meal and take part in activities. First, Mondays were removed from the schedule, and now Fridays have been as well. Finally, the community director was forced to suspend Wednesday’s hot meals and serve simple shelf-stable options, such as peanut butter sandwiches or crackers.
Newby explains the budget woes are in part due to issues with federal funding. Since 1972, the Council on Aging has received a substantial part of its operating expenses from the Older Americans Act, established during the Lyndon B. Johnson administration. Another 40 percent is state funding, with philanthropy, fundraising and local grants providing about two percent of its revenue.
Unfortunately, Newby says the federal funding has “not
WANT TO HELP?
• What: Council on Aging of West Florida
• Physical Address: 875 Royce Street, Pensacola, FL 32503
• Mailing Address: P.O. Box 17066, Pensacola, FL 32522
• Info: 850-432-1475; coawfla.org
increased since the 1990s and has not kept up with inflation.”
A meal that costs $10 now might have cost $2 then.
Another issue is that the share of state and federal funding allocated to Escambia and Santa Rosa Counties has decreased compared to some rural parts of the state and even urban areas like Miami and Dade counties in South Florida.
Newby looks at funding shortages in 2026 as a “guessing game.” It could be 1% or 5%. Any decrease means someone goes without. He stresses, “Even 2% looks dramatic.”
Since funds are shifted around to four different categories of services, reductions could impact the dining sites or toileting, bathing, or shopping assistance for bedbound clients. It is a picture he doesn’t want to envision.
Sadly, he says, “Any client has the potential to be cut.”
To add to the uncertainty, the government shutdown in October created an “unpredictable funding environment.” Newby said, “that makes the Council on Aging hesitant to add more client services.”
DONATIONS AND HELP
There are ways to help. Marketing and Communications Director Emily Echevarria explains that “for every dollar someone donates, there is about $9 available from state and federal matching funds.”
In October, the nonprofit held its black tie “Rat Pack Reunion” fundraiser for the first time in many years. Administrators are also doing some grant writing. Supporters are encouraged to make a donation by visiting the Council on Aging website, writing a check to the center or dropping off a donation at any of the feeding sites. Echevarria suggests that individuals consider COA as part of their estate planning. The nonprofit will take donations in most forms, including stocks.
It is the uncertainty that worries administrators so much. Newby doesn’t want to see a single vulnerable person miss a meal or a much-needed home visit.
Be a Santa to a senior
By Cynthia Reeves
Another way to love on a senior this holiday season is to play Santa Claus through a program called “Be a Santa to a Senior.”
Since 2003, the Council on Aging has partnered with Home Instead, which also provides services for seniors. COA forwards the names of vulnerable elderly citizens who are struggling to live independently or remain in their own homes.
Gift tags for these seniors are placed on Christmas trees at various locations in and around Pensacola. It’s similar to the “Angel Tree” program. Supporters are encouraged to select a tag and purchase the gifts.
The seniors will receive items ranging from robes, coats and toiletry items to small space heaters, microwave ovens or gift cards.
Locations include the Pensacola, Santa Rosa, Navarre and Gulf Breeze Chambers of Commerce, First United Methodist Church, the Downtown YMCA and the Escambia County Sheriff’s Department.
The program started in November and runs through December 16, culminating in a huge gift-wrapping party and distribution.
If you can’t locate a tree, reach out to Home Instead director Stacy Robello at 850-477-1947 or stacy@ homeinstead.com. Gift cards are always welcome.
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The art of coming home
How Sarah Soule Webb traded her career for a paintbrush, built a following, and opened a gallery to champion other artists
By Liz Biggs
by Kate Treick Photography
How does one leap from being the University of Alabama’s first female pole vaulter, to a ten-year career as a registered dietitian, to a gallery owner and revered artist with commissioned works hanging in NYC, Miami, the Mayo Clinic, Baptist Hospital, Apollo Global and the Four Seasons in Naples, Florida? Pensacola native Sarah Soule Webb’s vibrant energy, passion, courage, and talent make it seem easy to juggle being a mother of three while pivoting to open a downtown gallery. Her newest series, “Potential Energy,” opened November 5 at her new gallery on Palafox Place.
THE JOURNEY BEGINS
“I, as every child does, confidently stated that I was an artist at the age of 5. But it was never squashed out of me, as most people experience,” Webb said.
During her teenage years, she and her mother, Susan Soule, took art lessons at Pensacola State College with Joyce Bennick. Her parents encouraged her to obtain a degree with “reliable income,” so she followed her love of science, sports and health into a master’s degree in nutrition sciences at the University of Alabama.
“I am truly grateful for that path, as working around sickness and death every day created a constant grateful heart in me — for my health, family and life,” Webb added.
Throughout her career as a registered dietitian, she painted “on the side,” but it wasn’t until the emergence of social media that she noticed other artists using their talents to build careers as full-time artists. Up until then, galleries had the upper hand and were the gatekeepers between artists and their collectors, but she noticed on Instagram that the middleman could be cut out if you were brave enough.
“I realized that no one was going to sell my art, so I had to do it,” Webb explained. “As a Southern woman, I cringed at the thought of selfpromotion, but my desire to make a living out of doing something I love was stronger. So, I ‘got over myself’ and put my work out there on social media. I turned the camera on myself and my family, allowing people to get to know us a little bit. I used humor and promoted others to offset the ick factor of self-promotion.”
Her art is inspired by growing up here in Pensacola and the natural beauty of the area.
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“This series is an exploration of that singular, charged moment before a new endeavor begins. Poised for a dive, these women embody a quiet confidence and inhabit a state of pure potential. The layers of paint echo the concealed histories and complex emotions of these women. The question is, do they leap forward or retreat back to solid ground? For me, these portraits reflect my own journey in opening an art gallery. The same ‘Potential Energy’ that hums around these women on the precipice of a dive is the very same feeling driving this new venture. It is a leap of faith, a moment charged with the promise of what is to come. With this collection, I celebrate the courage to embrace the unknown, and the immense, exquisite beauty found in the moments right before we dive in.” — Artist Sarah Soule Webb
Sarah Soule Webb and Amelie Yonge Simmons are wearing fashions from Bluetique, Indigeaux and Gray Boutique.
“My babies were little at the time — a sweet but quite difficult season of life — and I painted what I missed and what filled my soul: water. I still go to it when I’m bored, tired, stressed. We have the bay across the street from us, so we live in the water during the summer!” she said. “I’ve been painting largescale waterscapes for almost 15 years. The best compliment is when people tell me they ‘notice water’ and see it through my eyes. I love that.”
COMING HOME TO PENSACOLA
Webb and her husband moved their family to her hometown of Pensacola five years ago. After sixteen years of
WANT TO GO?
• What: Sarah Soule Webb Studios
• Where: 126 Palafox Place, Pensacola
• Info: sswstudios.com or find Sarah Soule Webb Studios on Instagram and Facebook
loving Birmingham, AL, the pandemic changed their lives, careers and priorities. “I sometimes tear up about moving home. It’s really hard to leave a city, friends, church and a home that you love, but during COVID — it felt like the band-aid was half off. It was the hardest and best thing I’ve ever done. And I’m eternally grateful to my
husband for being on board with it,” she said.
“We realized that if we could live anywhere, why wouldn’t we live near family and also the water? I feel like such a Pensacola fangirl, and I truly think it took me being away to appreciate this city and notice the progress it has made. People keep asking me if I’m nervous about Palafox closing for a few months. I say ‘bring it’. I can’t wait to see what we do with this historic thoroughfare. There is so much synergy with the shops, restaurants and market on Palafox (and now momentum towards Baylen and Jefferson). The reasons to be downtown keep adding up. Pensacola will always support
Sarah Soule Webb with her lifelong friend and business partner, Amelie Yonge Simmons, who handles the merchandising side of the business.
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I feel like such a Pensacola fan-girl, and I truly think it took me being away to appreciate this city and notice the progress it has made.” — Sarah Soule Webb
our downtown shops, and it will be so beautiful!”
A RISING TIDE LIFTS ALL BOATS
In her late 20s, Webb’s career was kickstarted with support from family and friends — through commissions, social media shares and kind words of encouragement. It grew, allowing her to become a fulltime artist with the help of collectors and designers throughout the Southeast. Now, through strategic business choices and systems that have made her career as a fulltime artist more reliable, this gallery feels like the natural “next step.”
“As someone who has chosen to pave her own way in the art world (self-represent), I look forward to being a platform to promote other artists. In 2022, I did a bunch of Instagram stories at the Greater Gulf Coast Arts Festival, highlighting my favorite artists. The next week, Joe Hobbs (a talented local glass artist) told me that two out-of-state collectors bought some of his works after seeing my stories. It brought me as much joy as if I’d sold my own work! A lightbulb went on in my head, and I thought, ‘I want to own my own gallery one day,’” she said.
While this gallery has Webb’s name on it and will be mostly her work, she plans on having a “rotating featured artist” with the art connections she’s made in her life.
“I can’t wait to introduce Pensacola to more great artists, local and far away, all with a common ‘coastal’ vibe,” she said.
Webb said that as an artist who has worked with galleries, she knows how not to burn bridges with artists. She said she will have a much lower commission structure and as well as online promotion.
Coming home to her own gallery is more than a dream come true for Webb. Assisting her in this endeavor is her lifelong friend and business partner, Amelie Yonge Simmons, who handles the merchandising side of the business.
“I hope to be a platform, no, a diving board for other artists to develop their careers and find their own collectors — because we have that here in Pensacola — and a rising tide lifts all boats, no?”
Moomoos are the perfect casual attire for a girls’ night out or for staying in. Melissa Dugas-Pontiff, Cindy Reeves, Carol Sheehan and Laurie Shropshire chose bright colors and wild animal prints.
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Moomoos & Margaritas
Unflattering dresses, tequila, and a hibachi chef prove the best nights are built on laughter, not perfection.
Story and photos by Cynthia Reeves
When I slipped on my moomoo, I couldn’t help but giggle and think I had channeled goofy Mrs. Roper from the old 1970s show “Three’s Company.” Actually, the dress wasn’t as unflattering as I had imagined, especially since it was part of a fabulous theme night my friends and I had planned as part of a long girls’ weekend.
The final night of our Miramar Beach cottage getaway would featu the tacky but comfortable housecoats and tons of tequila. Sounds like a match made in heaven!
We topped the night off with a visit from “Mr. Hibachi at Home.” The caterer brought his portable grill, collection of spatulas and delicious Japanese dishes to our patio, where he put on a zany show. The fiery displays and silly sing-a-longs were a perfect complement to our quirky outfits and margarita bar.
We all found our moomoos on Amazon. The selection was insane. There was everything from tame solid colors to wild zebra, leopard and peacock feather numbers, which of course we loved.
The gaudier the better, in my opinion.
No, we didn’t come up with this theme. Check out YouTube. It’s a thing. Like many
Find unique glasses so each guest has one that matches her personality and style. At their Miramar Beach getaway, these friends enjoyed a visit from Mr. Hibachi at Home, who prepared Japanese dishes to pair with their Mexican margaritas.
MELISSA’S MARGARITA
• 1/2 cup orange liqueur (like Triple Sec or Cointreau)
• 3/4 cup fresh lime juice
• 1/4 cup simple syrup or agave nectar lime wedges for
• Add 1/2 cup of mango juice if desired
• salt or sugar the glass rims if desired
Combine all ingredients and serve over rocks or frozen (mix with ice in a blender).
of the girls’ night out themes, it’s all about sisterhood. Whether a getaway like ours or a bachelorette party, the focus is on fun and cocktails or mocktails. Instead of the typical Mexican snacks, we mixed things up with the hibachi chef.
We discovered moomoos are more than just the image portrayed on TV pop culture. According to a Google search, the loose dress has quite an interesting history. The muumuu (or mu’umu’u) has a Polynesian origin. It means “cut off” in Hawaiian, as it was a shorter version of the original holoku dress brought over by missionaries in the 19th century. Back then, it was also called a Mother Hubbard dress. No doubt, our modern version is more stylish and much, much cuter.
Unlike the old nursery rhyme where old Mother Hubbard finds her cupboards bare, we were well stocked. We brought more margarita makings than needed, but it was fun experimenting. We mainly stuck by my friend Melissa Dugas-Pontiff’s classic margarita recipe, but we made one pitcher of mango margaritas as well. I brought some festive margarita glasses and hung a banner, but the colorful moomoos were the highlight and centerpiece of the evening.
Comfy flowing dresses, good food, luscious libations and plenty of laughter — all a good recipe for fun.
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PELVIC FLOOR THERAPY & WELLNESS
worth the trip
Rolling into a New Orleans HOLIDAY
By Magi Thomley Williams
There’s something romantic about train travel — its rhythm, its pace, its promise of adventure. A ride on the Amtrack Mobile to New Orleans Mardi Gras Service is a perfect day trip or overnighter. And for just $79 round trip for two, it’s a steal. Celebrating the season with New Orleans energy and enthusiasm is a surefire way to spark holiday revelry.
We boarded the train early in the morning, coffee in hand and full of anticipation. The journey took about three and a half hours — through stretches of marshland and sleepy towns; the experience was refreshingly different from flying. For one, the Wi-Fi worked without any airplane mode restrictions. The seating, even in coach, was surprisingly roomy. There was plenty of space for luggage, and the food service, though limited, was varied enough to satisfy. After all, who needs food when you are headed to NOLA dining options? Passengers are free to move around the entire trip. The Mardi Gras Service is perfect for shoppers who want to spend a day shopping and bring back loads of treasure.
New Orleans greeted us decked in her finest holiday lights and embellishments, shimmering with holiday spirit. Two outstanding locations to enjoy the holiday magic are the Royal Sonesta and The Roosevelt, each
From high-end hotels like The Roosevelt and Hotel Monteleone, to pedestrian attractions like the French Market, NOLA welcomes all to celebrate with lights, energy and the colors of the season.
Photos by Jackson Williams
The Amtrack team was warm and welcoming the entire route from Mobile to New Orleans and back.
hotel lobby offering dazzling displays that bring the joy and hope of the holiday season.
Our home base for the trip was the New Orleans Marriott on Canal Street. We chose to walk 20 minutes from the train station, but trams, taxis, and ride-sharing services are available outside the station. The hotel was welcoming and perfectly situated with informative and engaging staff. Bar service was warm and attentive, and the lounge offered a cozy retreat after a long day exploring. As a bonus, our room boasted an expansive view of the Mississippi River.
On our walk to the hotel, we stopped for lunch at Café Fleur de Lis, a local gem with an interesting menu. The catfish fingers were crunchy and golden, nestled atop creamy grits laced with scallions and lemon sauce. The place was buzzing with locals — a sure sign we’d chosen well.
One of the highlights of our trip was the Sazerac House tour. We immersed ourselves in the rich history of New Orleans’ cocktail culture, learning about the city’s official drink and sampling creations from expert bartenders. It was more than a tasting — it was a celebration of tradition.
We never miss people watching along the Riverwalk, strolling through Jackson Square and reflecting at the St. Louis Cathedral. We couldn’t resist the pull of Café Du Monde, though we opted for an outlying location to avoid the chaos of the French Market original. Still, no visit to New Orleans feels complete without café au lait and beignets.
For dinner, we made our way to Deanie’s Seafood, where I discovered a new favorite wine: Ant Moore Sauvignon Blanc. Instead of bread for the table, they served their signature house potatoes, a delightful twist that paired perfectly with the retro vibe of the restaurant’s post-Katrina location. Another can’t-miss for us is cocktails at the Carousel Bar & Lounge in the Hotel Monteleone, making friends at the rotating bar, then exploring the enchanting Christmas décor. Meandering through the holiday scenes, watching the wonder in the eyes of children, and getting lost in the spirit of the season — a perfect winter getaway.
FRIDAY LUNCH EVERY FRIDAY FROM 11:00 AM TO 2:00 PM
AT LEFT, CLOCKWISE: Sazerac House entrance, distillery tour, history and the finished product offer a fun and informative look at the history of New Orleans coffee house culture (the precursor to bars and the speak easy). Take a trip down the New Orleans Walk of Fame honoring noted personalities like Reese Witherspoon. ABOVE, CLOCKWISE: The Fleur De Lis restaurant entrance. Dinner entrees at Deanie’s
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IMPACT 100 Million Dollar Sunday
The women of IMPACT 100 Pensacola Bay Area gathered at the Pensacola Beach Hilton on Sunday, October 19 for Million Dollar Sunday. The 1,242 members of the world’s largest chapter of IMPACT 100 voted on the grant recipients for 2025 (all pictured below). A total of 12 grants of over $103,500 each were awarded, providing 12 local nonprofits with funding for projects ranging from band instruments to new drums for the Symphony to transportation for local services. Having completed their 2025 mission, the group now begins their membership season, drawing new members who want to join in the power of combined giving. Women over the age of 18 are invited to check out the organization’s website for the latest membership events.
Photos by Kate Treick Photography
Beth Clark, Sarah Haizlip, Janet Puskar, Bettie Carol Derivas
Taxie Lambert, Victoria Pitts, Sara Marie Evans
Kristin Longley, Jacqui O’Connell
Heidi Cook, Alicia L. Waters
Current and outgoing board members
Kathy Williamson, Ingrid Wadsworth, Mesha Boyle, Terri Ramos
Shannon Hawthorne, Kristin Cassidy, Louise Treft, Julie Duvall
Jae Vogel, Katie Schutts, Paula Vienneau, Lauren Gund
Vivian C. Krummel, Janette Norris
Amy Day, Ashley Saba
Meri Asmar, Liz Broder, Brigette Brooks, Grace Torres-Hodges, Kathleen Logan
Victoria Baynes Mullet, Catherine Rich, Christine Rush, Jill Noble
Teresa Dos Santos, Delayna Blankenship, Olevia McNally, Jen Wells
Martha Holden
Christy Rogers, Anissa Ottley, Katie Myers
H A P P Y H O L I D A Y S !
Louise Tolbert, Shirley Tipton, Tyra Brunson, Barbara Flock
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Stepping Out in Style
The Women’s Board of Baptist Health Care Foundation presented the 49th annual Stepping Out in Style Fashion Show on October 23 at Sanders Beach-Corinne Jones Resource Center. It was a fabulous night of philanthropy showcasing local boutiques with local and professional models, food and live and silent auctions.
Photos by Toni Sparks / Short Story Studios
Julie Franklin, Deana Hancock, Amy Thomas, Christi Saffold, Kelli Larson, Whitney Shambo
Amanda Wood, Angela Lane, Cali Scully
Stacie Hammer, Elizabeth Bear, Tracy Frick, Jessica Duncan, Karen Flemming, Madrina Ciano
Mandy Bills, Martha Holden
Paul Sybille, Anjolie Clanton
Kathryn Aaron, Mary Kathryn Peebles
Lacy Phillips, Rachael Gilmer, Melanie McConnell
Trish Taylor, Dana Hawkins, Sally Edgar
Missi Ledbetter, Donna Dickey
Kathleen Cole, Abbey Squires
Timothy & Adrienne Simmons
Joellen Bear, Marcy Miller, Dana Tripoli, Celeste Bell, Patty Simmering
Deana Hancock, Whitney Shambo, Kelli Larson
Chris Fernandez, Krystle Fernandez, Catherine Almazan
Linda Lassiter, Anna Whittaker
Carri Keigley
Michael Morette
Kristin Longley, Lucine Moffett, Pete Keiek, Susan Mead Bonsignore
Rehlinda McJenkin, Stacy Keller Williams, Shelby Hamilton, Amy Goetz
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Brunch & Bubbles
Brunch and Bubbles, presented by Gulf Coast Kid’s House, was on October 26 at the Hilton Pensacola Beach. It is always one of the most anticipated events of the year, with live entertainment and delicious food. All proceeds from this year’s event went to support Gulf Coast Kids House and its mission to provide hope and healing to child victims of abuse.
Photos by Toni Sparks / Short Story Studios
Beverly Vaughn, Nicole Martin, Shelley Black, Jennifer Belcher, Amy Brown, Tina Tortomase
Larry Hardrove, Nikkie Wright
Nicole Heetland, Dianne Bakarian, CJ Hale
Ed Cronley, Tina Totomase
Nicole & Leon Martin
Angela Lane, Cindi Bear
Daniel Waite, Elyse Waite
Maddie Johnson, Kim Lamar
Kerri Hamley, Carla Jones
Belle Bear, Debbie Ritchie, Lori Storey
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Roaring in Pink
The First Annual Roaring in Pink Fundraiser, hosted by Roar Performing Arts on October 25 at Culinary Productions, was a beautiful evening of music, dancing and a silent auction. Survivors talked about how programs directly benefited their own cancer journeys. Proceeds went to Roar Performing Arts and the Young Survivors Coalition.
Photos by Toni Sparks / Short Story Studios
John Kamm, Tara Kamm, Darlan Laiche, Tara Jane Davison, Emily Hardin, Marcella Powell, Robin Kobos, Corri Powell
Michelle Johnson, Kendra Madine
Cody & Taylor Graves (with children), Darlene Mulvaney, Denise Vickers
Stephanie Englert, Tena Wright
Chris & Stacey Bruning
Julie Duvall
Veronica Hill, Princess Powell, Rita & Sam Edwards, Sonshine Moorer
By Sharla Gorder
The year of unfolding? her perspective
The year is winding down. I’m not sure how I feel about that.
This year, 2025, was supposed to be The Year of Unfolding. (Yes, I name my years.) I’ve kept a journal for as long as I can remember, and at the top of January first’s entry is a title meant to set the tone for the coming months: The Year of Creative Usefulness, The Year of the Published Book, The Year of the Mellow Mind, The Year of What Is, The Year of Equanimity, The Year of the Lamb—and finally, The Year of Unfolding.
I find value and inspiration in setting intentions, be they concrete, as in publishing a book; spiritual, finding composure in equanimity; or playful, using a tiny toy lamb I found on the beach as a totem, representing gentleness and selfacceptance.
I like seeing the year’s title as I open my journal every morning, reminding me of the purpose I have chosen. It invites me to check in with myself. Are my actions lining up with my values?
project. I wanted to go easy on myself, to allow myself to slow down and enjoy life without an agenda, to see where life would lead me once I stopped flailing.
Hence, The Year of Unfolding. Initially, I imagined that Rand McNally road map opening up to reveal new and interesting destinations. And then I took the metaphor into nature and imagined a beautiful pink Stargazer Lily blossoming right before my eyes — elegantly unfolding petal by petal. I even watched time-lapsed videos of flowers blooming on YouTube. So beautiful, so inspiring… So unlike real life. 2025 was less a flower garden and more a battleground. Fortunately, there have been no casualties, but the assaults were relentless: health challenges, family upheavals, world chaos. This was not the “unfolding” I had in mind. And yet.
Most years, by the time the holidays roll around, I can see the fruits of my intentions as they have ripened over the preceding eleven months. But this year it’s a little more complicated. The year that was supposed to unfold with renewed purpose and creativity — like those old Rand McNally road maps that would open up a world of possibilities — still seems folded up in a thick rectangle on the dash.
I had set myself a gentle goal for 2025 — to suspend striving and trying to manipulate events — and let things unfold organically. Last year, The Year of the Published Book, while exciting and validating, was utterly exhausting. It wasn’t so much the writing of the book that wore me out; it was the marketing of the thing. It was a busy, busy holiday season.
I knew to expect a lull after such an all-consuming
Look at me.
I’m still here.
And I am a better person than I was a year ago. I am more compassionate. I am 11 months wiser. I am gentler.
Perhaps I have evolved. Perhaps I’m not still folded up on the dash. Perhaps everything transpired just as it was meant to. Perhaps this was a year for doubting so I could rediscover that mustard seed of faith inside me; for falling down so I could be helped up by loving arms; for struggling so that I could eventually wear myself out and get some rest.
I’m tired. “Unfolding” is not for the faint of heart, I’ve learned. What I had envisioned as a sweet and fragrant unfurling of rose petals, was more like trying to do the breaststroke in quicksand. I’m stronger because of it, but still covered in mud.
Maybe 2026 will be The Year of the Warm Shower. Ahh.
By Liz Biggs
When in doubt, just say “mmmmm” her perspective
What is the first word out of the mouth of babies? “Mmmama,” according to Siri. It’s just so easy to press your lips together and say “mmmmm.” Unlike saying L, which makes you stick out your tongue. Way easier than F, which makes you bite your lip and spit. And way, way easier than X, like in Xavier. No baby ever started their life saying xylophone. But the first time they taste ice cream, you know they say “mmmmmmmmm.” Everyone does, except maybe those who are lactose intolerant. Watch out when a woman quietly whispers “mmmmm” in your ear with a slight growl in her voice. It’s business time.
M is the perfect letter because when someone is speaking and you are bored (or thinking of something else), you can just nod and say “mmmhmmm,” and they think you are engaged in the conversation. Or if someone asks you to do something (that you really don’t want to do), you can say “mmmmkay,” and they will think you will do it (but you know that you won’t). And of course, if you want to be judgy (but not mean) when someone asks your opinion, you can just say “mmmm,” nod your head, and squint your eyes and they will know you don’t approve.
cock your head with a quizzical look on your face and say “mmmmm.”
If you watch Netflix with subtitles, you will be amazed at how many times the screenwriters use the phrase “mmm.” (You’re welcome; now you will see it more than you ever wanted to.) Actors use “mmm” to be sexy, or mysterious, or questioning, or just plain observational. Thanks to Netflix, I’ve started using it more, too. It’s so non-confrontational — perfect for these divisive times. Remember when your mama told you, “If you don’t have anything nice to say, say nothing at all?” Staring silently at an idiot while they speak is somewhat offensive these days; it’s better to
Here are many of my favorite M words: magazine (of course!), music, magic, meow, mother, marvelous, miracle, magnificent, majestic, maximum, magnetic, modern, merriment, milkshake, mellow, mystery, magnanimous, madly, meaty, muscular, motivated, mercurial, malarkey, monstrosity, Mary (my Mama’s name but also had a little lamb), matriarch, memorable, mastermind, mythical, meticulous, mercy, monumental, mingle, motley, mouthy, Mobile (my college town), muffuletta, melancholy, meaningful, movie, magenta (my favorite color when I was six and got my first Crayola 64 pack with the built-in sharpener), misadventure, momentous, moonlight, maybe, motoring, mediocre, melon (my favorite fruit), messy, maverick, marshmallow, makeshift, moody, million, meatloaf, manly, mixer, mend, mate, May (my birthday month), magma, mailman (don’t ask), mayhem, macabre, magnitude, Motown (what I was dancing to when I broke my finger), manifest, manners, mindful, middle, memoir, massage, melt, morning-glory, mantra, mod, matriculate, morose, melodrama, melody, mandolin, motif, map, medicine, monkey, Mississippi, money, mundane, mountain, maneuver, modest, mosaic, mirage, malice, meddlesome and more.
Here’s wishing everyone a memorable, marvelous, miraculous, mellow, magical, merry holiday season and a meaningful, motivated, momentous, magnificent New Year! And don’t worry — I only like the letters F and M. All the others are mundane. So I’ll have to think of something more fascinating and meaningful to write about than letters of the alphabet in 2026. No more mediocre malarkey.
