LESSONS IN CONNECTION FROM A WISE OWL
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For months, nothing. No sign. No sound.
Until one night, she called.
Not with a bedtime story hoot, but with a haunting, questioning sound — a lingering thought that wouldn’t go away.
And then, quietly, subtly, the owl made her home.
It wasn’t until her babies arrived that she revealed herself fully. One morning, I spotted her perched tall and still on our backyard fence — a sentinel.
Her eyes swept the horizon, her movements calm and calculated. She made no sound. She didn’t need to. Her presence said everything.
When danger neared — our
curious dog, a bold coyote along the creek bank — she didn’t panic. But when she raised her voice, it cut through the quiet with unmistakable clarity: sharp, strong, and fiercely protective. She was always watching. Always listening. Always there.
I’ve thought about her a lot lately. Especially now, as the holiday season wraps itself around us with all its expectations, travel plans, and emotional complexity. This time of year brings a quiet pressure to be somewhere — to do something — to gather,
host, and travel.
And beneath that lies a yearning for connection, for belonging, for presence.
The owl — silent most days, hidden in the trees — reappeared a few days ago. Without making a sound, she flew in and sat perched high above me. When I spotted her, I was reminded that presence doesn’t always mean performance. Sometimes it’s a quiet watchfulness. Sometimes it’s showing up when it matters, even if no one sees you arrive. She didn’t decorate her nest.
She didn’t overextend herself. She simply was there — and that was enough.
This holiday season, I find myself trying to be more like her. Not rushing, not proving, not perfecting — just being present.
The owl house is quiet now. Her babies have flown the nest. But some nights, I still hear her call — a single note in the dark, a reminder in the distance.
She’s not demanding attention. She’s simply telling her family: I am always here.
That’s the kind of presence I hope to offer my loved ones — not flashy or loud, but steady and certain.
In this month’s issue, we share some thoughts on the best place to spend the holidays (The full story appears on page 10). This year, wherever you find yourself — at a childhood home, around a borrowed table, or in the in-between spaces — I hope you’ll remember this: It’s not the setting that matters.
It’s the people. It’s the love. It’s the quiet, purposeful ways we show up for each other.
Like the mama owl, watching over her nest, we are at our best when we are grounded, present, and connected.
And that, to me, is what the holidays are all about.
CLAUDIA
CARSON-HABEEB
A backyard owl sits motionless, taking in her surroundings and watching over her babies in the nest. CLAUDIA CARSON-HABEEB
Crime Reports Sept. 9 - Oct. 11
Sept. 9
The tires of a vehicle were slashed at a school in the 12500 block of Inwood Road.
Sept. 10
A theft occurred at a retail store in the 6000 block of Royal Lane.
Sept. 11
Items were stolen from a vehicle in the 8500 block of Chadbourne Road.
Sept. 12
A theft occurred at a business parking lot in the 5900 block of Royal Lane.
A theft occurred at a retail store in the 11700 block of Preston Road.
Sept. 13
Property was stolen from a vehicle in the 5000 block of Linnet Lane.
Sept. 14
The window of a vehicle was broken in the 12200 block of Preston Road.
A home was burglarized in the 5100 block of Linnet Lane.
Sept. 16
A theft occurred at a retail store in the 11700 block of Preston Road.
A theft occurred in a parking lot in the 4400 block of University Boulevard.
Sept. 17
A vehicle was burglarized at a retail center in the 7700 block of West Northwest Highway.
A theft occurred at a business parking lot in the 7800 block of Park Lane.
Sept. 18
The window of a vehicle was broken into, and a backpack was stolen in the 8200 block of Preston Road.
A vehicle was burglarized after its window was broken in the 11600 block of Preston Road.
A theft occurred at a retail store in the 6000 block of Royal Lane.
Sept. 19
The window of a car was damaged during a burglary at NorthPark Center.
A theft occurred at a retail store in the 11700 block of Preston Road.
Sept. 21
An attempted theft occurred in a parking lot at NorthPark Center.
Sept. 23
A vehicle was burglarized after a window was broken in the 8600 block of Thackery Street.
A motor vehicle theft occurred in the 5300 block of West Lovers Lane.
A retail store was burglarized in the 8300 block of Westchester Drive.
A theft occurred at a retail store in NorthPark Center.
Sept. 24
A motor vehicle theft occurred in the 8600 block of Thackery Street.
A home was burglarized in the 4400 block of Bobbitt Drive.
Sept. 25
Threatening messages were sent to an individual in the 7400 block of Caruth Boulevard.
Sept. 26
A theft occurred at a retail store in the 8300 block of Westchester Drive.
A theft occurred in a parking lot in the 7900 block of Walnut Hill Lane.
Sept. 27
A motor vehicle theft occurred at NorthPark Center.
Sept. 28
The garage of a residence in the 4100 block of Wilada Drive was burglarized.
Sept. 30
An individual left a nail salon without paying in the 4500 block of Mockingbird Lane. Construction materials were stolen in
the 6500 block of Del Norte Lane.
Property was vandalized in the 8200 block of Douglas Avenue.
Oct. 1
A theft occurred at a retail store in the 8300 block of Westchester Drive.
A motor vehicle theft occurred in the 12800 block of Preston Road.
Two motor vehicle thefts occurred at NorthPark Center.
Oct. 2
A theft occurred in an outdoor area in the 5300 block of Emerson Avenue.
A vehicle was burglarized in the 4600 block of Cherokee Trail.
Oct. 3
A window was broken, and a vehicle was burglarized in the 6100 block of Luther Lane.
A vehicle was burglarized in the 12300 block of Inwood Road.
A home was burglarized in the 9007 block of Briarwood Lane.
Three motor vehicle thefts occurred in the 7900 block of Walnut Hill Lane.
Oct. 4
A theft occurred in a business parking lot in the 4300 block of Northaven Road.
Oct. 5
An individual was sent messages with threats of rape in the 10000 block of Stone Canyon Road.
Oct. 7
A theft occurred in a parking lot in the 11600 block of Preston Road.
A theft occurred at a retail store in NorthPark Center.
Oct. 8
A handgun was brought into a secured area of Dallas Love Field Airport.
A motor vehicle theft occurred in
the 7800 block of Walnut Hill Lane.
Oct. 9
A shed in the 5400 block of West University Boulevard was burglarized.
An assault offense occurred at a residence in the 4300 block of Nashwood Lane.
A theft occurred at a retail store in the 11700 block of Preston Road.
Oct. 10
A residence in the 5500 block of West University Boulevard was burglarized.
A drug violation occurred in a business parking lot in the 10800 block of Preston Road.
Oct. 11
A vehicle’s window and ignition switch were damaged in the 10500 block of Stone Canyon Road.
shopper caught pilfering cosmetics from a retail store in the 11700 block of Preston Road on Sept. 18 gave new meaning to the
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Alley Trash Phaseout Paused After Pushback Gains Traction
By Claudia Carson-Habeeb claudia.carson-habeeb@peoplenewspapers.com
The City of Dallas has shelved its plan to phase out alleyway trash and recycling pickup after a group of Preston Hollow residents mounted a grassroots campaign to keep their bins out back and out of sight.
The rationale behind a plan to begin transitioning 95,000 households to curbside collection in January included safety concerns for sanitation workers, aging alley infrastructure, and rising operational costs.
Sanitation Services Director Clifton Gillespie laid out the city’s case: About 60% of Dallas already receives curbside pickup, and maintaining alley service citywide would require 300 additional workers and 100 new trucks, and cost an estimated $70–$81 per household each month — none of which is accounted for in the proposed 2025-26 budget.
Homeowners in alley-dependent neighborhoods, including many in Preston Hollow, made themselves heard with a 10,000-signature petition, protest yard signs, and a dedicated opposition website.
At a Sept. 10 city council meeting, open mic public comments included concerns that the proposed shift would reduce property values,
create accessibility issues for seniors and people with disabilities, pose new pedestrian safety concerns, and wreak havoc on landscaping.
Two council members, District 13’s Gay Donnell Willis and District 9’s Paula Blackmon, proposed a compromise that would allow residents to keep alley pickup through a tiered plan with higher rates for alley holdouts and a discounted rate for those who go curbside.
On Oct. 1, City Manager Kimberly Bizor Tolbert announced a hold on the sanitation rollout.
“We hear you, and change is hard,” she said, adding that she’s asked the sanitation director to “reconsider, review, and reevaluate all feasible options,” floating the possibility of private trash companies picking up where the city might bow out — though likely at a higher cost.
Soon, the Sanitation Department will launch a citywide survey to gauge resident interest in alternative service models, said Tolbert.
If most residents shrug, the city will resume its “Hybrid Approach” as briefed to the council in June 2025.
If alley loyalists are numerous, the council will get a full update before the city picks up (or drops) the plan again, she said.
Love Field Unveils Expansion Plan
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Dallas Love Field has finalized its 2025 Master Plan, Love What’s Next, and officially launched a capital improvement initiative: the Love Field Expansion Airport Program (LEAP).
Touted as the largest capital investment in Love Field’s history, LEAP outlines a six-year construction timeline covering 14 infrastructure development projects. The last major capital project — the Love Field Modernization Program — was completed at a cost of $519 million.
The multi-year program aims to expand the airport’s capacity, improve the passenger experience, and position the city-owned facility for long-term growth.
LEAP builds on prior conceptual plans to implement improvements across several key areas of the airport, including concourse expansion, a new terminal headhouse, upgraded
“LEAP is our long-term action plan to be future-focused,” said Patrick Carreno, director of aviation for Dallas Love Field. “We intend to make Dallas Love Field not just a more comfortable airport, but a truly exceptional one for the next twenty years.”
The design phase is scheduled to begin in 2026, with construction slated to start in 2027. The airport plans to adopt a phased construction approach to maintain normal operations and minimize disruption for passengers, while the planning committee implements a public communication strategy to keep the community informed.
This initiative will help position the airport to meet rising passenger demand,” said Dallas City Manager Kimberly Bizor Tolbert. “The LEAP capital improvement initiative marks the most significant capital investment in Love Field’s history.”
Homeowners in alley-served neighborhoods voiced their views with a 10,000-signature petition, protest yard signs, and a dedicated opposition website. CLAUDIA CARSON-HABEEB
City Budget Paves Way to Smoother Streets Leaders aim to align resource allocation with resident priorities
By Claudia Carson-Habeeb claudia.carson-habeeb@peoplenewspapers.com
New pavement was recently installed along a stretch of road in Hockaday Square as part of the City of Dallas Street Maintenance Program.
Residents along the newly paved street reported that the project was handled efficiently by city crews and the construction caused minimal disruption.
The improvements, including plans for repaving 750 street lane miles, are part of the city’s recently released biennial budgets.
The initiative is called “Investing in Priority Programs and People.”
“This year we began implementing Phase I of our new budgeting process known as Priority Based Budgeting, which aligns resource allocation with resident priorities,” said City Manager Kimberly Bizor Tolbert.
Key objectives were identified in a community survey — the improvement of city streets was a top concern, along with police service, traffic management, housing, and social services, reported Tolbert.
“We looked at the top priorities identified by residents in the annual community survey,” she said. “We incorporated their feedback, as well as the City Council’s.”
For Fiscal Years (FY) 2025-26, the City’s operating and capital budget totals $5.2 billion compared to the $4.97 billion total budget for the current year. Of that total, the General Fund is $1.97 billion, which represents an additional $61.6 mil -
lion or 3.2% more than last year — almost all of which has gone into the Dallas Police Department and Dallas Fire-Rescue budgets, said Tolbert.
Budget highlights include hiring 350 police recruits and retaining seasoned officers with a goal of ending FY 2025-26 with 3,424 officers, the highest number since 2016.
By the end of FY 2026-27, the goal is to have 3,634 sworn officers, Tolbert reported, adding that the FY 2025-26 budget rec-
ommends increasing starting compensation for police officers to $81,232, one of the highest within the region.
“We looked at the top priorities identified by residents in the annual community survey.”
Kimberly Bizor Tolbert
City officials faced several challenges preparing the proposed budget, she said, including the rising cost of doing business, the limitations that have been imposed by the State’s 3.5% property tax revenue cap, the city’s lower than projected sales tax revenue, and the fact that property value growth has slowed.
Despite the challenges, city officials reported balancing the proposed budget while simultaneously reducing the property tax rate from 70.47 cents to 69.97 cents per $100 valuation.
While taxpayers might welcome the slight decrease in the property tax rate, with the budget’s Street Maintenance Program jumping from $125 million to $162 million, drivers are keen to learn whether an extra $37 million will result in smoother commutes.
The city installed new pavement in the 11300-11500 blocks of Strait Lane after drivers reported deep potholes causing tire damage to vehicles. CLAUDIA CARSON-HABEEB
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Home & Business
By Claudia Carson-Habeeb claudia.carson-habeeb@peoplenewspapers.com
Whether you’re a turkey traditionalist or a passport-stamping snow chaser, deciding whether to travel during the winter holidays isn’t just about logistics.
For Preston Hollow resident Andrea Moore, staying home for the holidays is still the best option.
“Home means comfort, tradition, and no airport security lines,” she said. “Homecooked meals and the simplicity of being surrounded by your people — and your stuff — is pretty hard to beat.”
But, for some, even the most beloved routines can feel repetitive during the holidays, and more families are using the break to explore destinations such as the popular Rocky Mountain ski resorts that offer upscale amenities, a family-friendly atmosphere, and beautifully maintained slopes.
“Vail Valley is a favorite escape destination for Dallasites,” said Molly Griffin of Colorado-based Slifer Smith & Frampton Real Estate. “Cool mountain summers bring hiking, biking, and fly fishing, while
winter transforms the valley into a worldclass ski destination. Add in a thriving cultural scene at the Vilar Performing Arts Center and Gerald R. Ford Amphitheater, and there’s something to enjoy year-round.”
When Dallas residents crave a shift from the flatlands of North Texas but are looking to add a coastline, they often head West — particularly to Santa Barbara and Montecito.
“With ocean breezes and mountain backdrops, (the area) offers a pace that feels both luxurious and restorative,” said Marsha Kotlyar of Marsha Kotlyar Estate Group in Montecito, California.
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can feel like a logistical marathon to some.
Ebby Halliday’s Debbie French offers another option — only a couple hours’ drive from Dallas — to suit both types of holiday revelers.
“A second home nearby provides the best of both worlds: the comfort of a familiar place to spend the holidays and the freedom to get away when you want, on your terms,” said French.
And while interest rates remain a consideration, buyers are still capitalizing on market slowdowns to negotiate better deals, especially in seasonal or vacation-oriented markets.
the freedom to get away when you want, on your terms.”
But, while holiday travel can be fun, it often comes at a premium, especially during peak travel days. Between inflated airfare, crowded airports, and unpredictable weather, even a short getaway
Debbie French
“Many people think of Cedar Creek Lake as a summer getaway destination, but it is much more than that — it is a yearround retreat that is especially magical during the fall and winter holidays,” said the waterfront property specialist. “Almost every home I show on (the
Real Estate Market Snapshots
Editor’s note: Find here the latest available (as of press time) real estate market statistics for Dallas, Highland Park, and University Park from the North Texas Real Estate Information Systems Inc. The Texas Real Estate Research Center at Texas A&M University prepares the monthly Multiple Listing Service (MLS) reports but leaves out municipalities when they don’t hit a 10-sale threshold for single-family homes. Highland Park last met that threshold in June. We would prefer more comprehensive and timely data but believe these snapshots still provide a helpful look at where the industry is heading with single-family sales. (End times scholars, be sure to check out the number of closed sales in Dallas.)
lake) has a closet or attic full of Christmas décor. Being at the lake is so peaceful that you can’t help but slow down, relax, put down the phone, and just enjoy being together.”
For those not ready to take the plunge into second property ownership, renting a vacation home offers a holiday escape minus the worry of upkeep and maintenance.
“Many short-term rental properties on the lake offer fireplaces, hot tubs, firepits, and yards to play the annual Thanksgiving family football game,” said French. “Holidays can be stressful, so booking a rental property is one of the best ways to decompress and focus on spending quality time with family and friends, creating wonderful holiday memories that last a lifetime.”
Jodi Peters, chief marketing officer and broker for Cinnamon Shore, a beach community on the Texas Gulf Coast, shared the sentiment, noting that meeting up on neutral ground for a holiday can lead to lower expectations and shared responsibilities.
“It’s less stress for everyone and more time to enjoy each other,” said Peters. “Memories made around a beach bonfire set up just for your family last a lifetime.”
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Bird’s Bookstore
6025 Royal Lane, Suite 207
The meticulously curated, independent bookstore offers visitors an antidote to the digital world with its exceptional selection of books, magazines, and artisanal products, as well as a cozy on-site café.
Boogies
1806 McMillan Ave.
Gelato La Boca
3406 Rosedale Ave.
The treat shop is scooping up artisanal Argentinian gelato at its Snider Plaza location, where offerings also include sorbet and espresso.
Gelato La Boca delivers within 10 miles of its shop and also offers gelato dipped in chocolate.
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The late-night hot spot focused on quality drinks, cutting-edge sound, and an inclusive atmosphere is open from Wednesday through Sunday from 5 p.m. to 2 a.m. in the former Whippersnapper space.
El Molino
6818 Snider Plaza
The destination for elevated wood-fired fajitas, rare tequilas, and candlelit dining from Hunter Pond’s Vandelay Hospitality Group opened for drinks and dinner in the heart of Snider Plaza on Oct. 14.
Gianvito Rossi has brought its feminine, sophisticated, and modern styles that elongate the silhouette, enhance the female figure, and bestow an empowering attitude to the Maison’s first Texas boutique on level one between Neiman Marcus and Nordstrom.
Swiss luxury watchmaker TAG Heuer , which is known for its sports watches, chronographs, and constant pursuit of innovation, has opened its only Dallas area boutique on level one between Nordstrom and Macy’s.
Varley , a contemporary fashion brand for the modern
woman, has opened its third US boutique on level one between Macy’s and Dillard’s. Its yearround collections include knitwear, outerwear, active pieces, and everyday staples.
The Reserve at The Highland 5300 E. Mockingbird Lane
The modern American grille has brought an ingredient-driven twist to the traditional steak -
house experience. Highlights include a standout beverage program, inventive starters, and showstopping mains, such as Lobster Amatriciana and Dover
Sole Meunière.
CLOSED
Southpaw’s
6009 Berkshire Lane
The restaurant focused on healthy eating and inspired by
natural, clean and sustainably raised products has closed.
Yolk 8315 Westchester Drive
The brunch spot that featured new and creative breakfasts, specialty juices, and its own private label premium coffee has permanently closed.
—Compiled by Sarah Hodges
Varley COURTESY NORTHPARK CENTER
The Reserve at The Highland DARAH HUBBARD PHOTOGRAPHY
Boogies ROBERT UNDERWOOD
El Molino SAMANTHA MARIE PHOTOGRAPHY
TAG Heuer COURTESY NORTHPARK CENTER
The Plaza, ‘Such a Great Neighborhood Retail Center,’ Turns 75
Dallas is known internationally as a retail mecca, with bigname shopping centers usurping the spotlight of what truly remains the last community-centric, user-friendly shopping center in the city: The Plaza at Preston Center.
Built in 1950, The Plaza at Preston Center celebrates its 75th year in business with only moderate fanfare, though it deserves more.
It recently announced new tenants and has quietly made some aesthetic improvements to celebrate its diamond anniversary.
Still family-owned and managed by Venture Commercial Real Estate since 1990, the Plaza, located in the southeast quadrant of Northwest Highway and Preston Road, remains a quintessential neighborhood asset with an evolving tenant base.
In 1951, Neiman Marcus opened its first suburban location in the space now occupied by Tootsie’s and Orvis. Known for the expansive toy department that featured a “magic tree with a built-in dispenser that pours out an endless supply of orangeade,” according to the Dallas Morning News, and a commissioned Alexander Calder mobile sculpture that hung above the entrance, the store brought sparkle to what used to be a dairy farm on a gravel road.
Although Neiman’s moved to NorthPark in 1965, there were still plenty of reasons to visit the center, which was then called Varsity Village.
“Built in 1950, The Plaza at Preston Center celebrates its 75th year in business with only moderate fanfare, though it deserves more.”
Park Cities residents recall first dates at the movie theater, which showed blockbusters such as Saturday Night Fever and Raggedy Ann and Andy: A Musical Adventure (Was that really a blockbuster?).
Baskin-Robbins opened in 1972, providing a place for generations of neighbors to cool off after baseball games and Wednesday night church youth events until the ice cream shop’s closure in 2012.
Taylor’s bookstore was a favorite, and Park Cities resident Jenni Marks Scoggins recalls her mother spending hours browsing
books while she and her brother, Jake, played in the children’s sections.
Today, there isn’t a bookstore, but a gleaming University Park Public Library, which is the result of a public/private agreement between the City of University Park and the owners of The Plaza.
The library offers more than books and media; it’s a gathering place for the community. The library also added much-needed underground parking to the center.
New tenants include Viva Day Spa, a Pilates studio, and Cozy Earth home goods and apparel. Dining mainstays Hillstone and R&D share market with Il Bracco, Muchacho, True Food Kitchen, Frenchie’s, and Maman Coffee, which will open in the former Trova space.
University Park resident Ashley Prince is a big fan of the center. “As someone who walks their dogs there every single day, I can’t say enough about how nice all the store and restaurant employees are in the Plaza. We love Lucky Dog Barkery! Society has amazing candles and home gifts. The folks at R&D love seeing my dogs drink from the koi pond daily. It’s such a great neighborhood retail center.”
And there is a grocery store. That’s what sets The Plaza at Preston Center apart from the others nearby. It’s a true one-stop lifestyle center that keeps neighbors in mind.
Kersten Rettig, a freelance writer with leadership experience in the food and travel industries, resides in the Park Cities, where she is known as “the restaurant sherpa” for her expert recommendations. Follow her on Instagram @KerstenEats.
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The Plaza at Preston Center celebrates 75 years as a community-centric shopping center. COURTESY
SMU Grad Masters 5 Elements of Success
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By Josh Hickman
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For 5 Elements Studio owner and SMU grad Gerardo Mulas, it’s been a winding path of resilience from Madrid to Dallas.
With the ongoing rise in MMA (mixed martial arts) interest, thanks in part to popular podcasters like Joe Rogan, the jiu-jitsu Mulas specializes in continues to garner adherents among local kids and adults alike.
“I’ve always been into athletics, all my life,” Mulas said. “I started in martial arts as a kid, doing judo in school.”
After playing soccer, then tennis, his professional tennis career was sidelined by an injury.
“After I recovered, I ended up accepting an offer from SMU to represent the tennis team,” he recalled. “I graduated in 2000 from the business school.”
A well-paying but ultimately unfulfilling
corporate job led him back to his beloved athletics, where he immersed himself in various martial arts.
“I clicked with jiu-jitsu,” he said. “I took it all the way to achieving my blackbelt, which takes a while — at least 10 to 12 years.”
He started competing at the brown belt level, one rung below black, before earning his blackbelt in 2018.
He was already teaching, helping to build up the jiu-jitsu program at a local taekwondo studio. During the 2020 COVID shutdowns, Mulas decided to open his own space. After renovations, 5 Elements opened in February 2021.
“We have about a hundred members, between kids and adults,” said the still-active competitor. “Most people come here to take better care of themselves fitness-wise, health-wise, and then use jiu-jitsu as a self-development tool.”
A certified nutritionist, Mulas takes a
holistic approach that stresses healthy eating, training, and recovery. He and his four trainers teach a variety of classes from 6 a.m. to 8:30 p.m. to students ranging in age from 3 to their late 70s.
“A lot of times it’s also psychological or empowerment or reinforcement,” he said. “We all deal with different things — lack of self-confidence, anxiety, self-doubt. I use this martial art and this space to try to help people discover themselves all the way.”
He’s not the only one.
“Jiu-jitsu has exploded as a martial art worldwide,” he pointed out. “Texas and California are the meccas of jiu-jitsu right now worldwide. Brazilian jiu-jitsu can be exclusively a sport, without hitting. Or, some of the top athletes in MMA use jiu-jitsu to dominate mixed martial arts, with striking allowed.”
“The goal is to be able to take it to the next level,” he said of his vision for the
studio’s future, “have a little better visibility, increase the space. Right now, we’re limited, unfortunately — We’re blessed, because classes are pretty filled-up.”
Mulas envisions having space for different classes taking place simultaneously, along with a separate fitness and recovery area for parents to partake in cold plunges or lymphatic drainage while their child engages in a class. But he admitted the challenges of finding affordable real estate in the area, especially with adequate parking and a convenient location.
“That would be the intention I would want to take the business towards,” he said. “It’s a work in progress.”
Gerardo Mulas and his students turn martial arts training into medals. JOSH HICKMAN AND COURTESY GERARDO MULAS
Minimalism vs. Maximalism
Part 1: ‘Less is More?’
Most people have heard of minimalism, but “maximalism” is a newer term that you might not be familiar with. While minimalism is about creating a calm, clutter-free environment, maximalism embraces abundance, bold colors, and layered patterns.
This article focuses on minimalism; in my next column, I’ll discuss maximalism in more detail.
Minimalism is a good fit for you if:
• You feel overwhelmed by bright colors and busy patterns.
• You want to simplify your life.
• You prefer modern style over a traditional look.
Minimalist interior design is inspired by mid-century modern architecture and shares a lot of its principles, like clean lines, monochromatic color schemes, and geometric shapes.
Ludwig Mies van der Rohe, a midcentury modern architect, is the person who popularized the phrase, “less is more.”
Open floor plans are the best layout for minimalist homes because they maximize the amount of open space. Letting in as much natural light as possible will also contribute to the open and airy feel.
The color schemes in minimalist spaces are typically in shades of white, gray, or beige, while bright colors and black are occasionally used as accents. Art in a minimalist space will usually be modern or contemporary, such as abstract watercolors, sculptures, or pop art.
The first step to mastering minimalism is to pare down your possessions. If you need to buy anything new, go for timeless or classic items rather than trendy ones. Remember that minimalism is about being purposeful with what you bring into your home, not following strict rules or trying to match the minimalist rooms you see online. It’s OK to add a little more
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color and personality to the room. One of the pitfalls of minimalist design is that it can end up looking cold and stark. If your home doesn’t feel welcoming, try adding more organic materials like wood, or using warm neutral colors like brown, beige, or a warm shade of gray. Soft fabrics and textures can also help a minimalist room feel cozy.
Do you admire minimalist homes, but have trouble letting go of your possessions? Do you worry that the final result will just look empty? By either working with a designer, or doing a lot of your own research, you can create a minimalist home that showcases the true beauty in simplicity.
Margaret Chambers, a registered interior designer (RID) and American Society of Interior Designers (ASID) member, leads Chambers Interiors and Associates. Her colleague Caitlin Crowley helped edit this column. Visit chambersinteriors.com/blog for more design advice.
The second-annual Ebby Halliday Companies Summit turned nearly 1,000 agents from across North and East Texas into a massive drumline at the Winspear Opera House.
A spokesperson’s summary set the scene for what happened after volunteers armed all the agents with engraved drumsticks for a finale led by keynote speaker Clint Pulver, an Emmy Award-winning motivational speaker, author, and professional drummer.
Lights pulsed and music thundered as attendees from Ebby Halliday Realtors, Dave Perry-Miller Real Estate, and Williams Trew pounded in unison with Pulver’s set, making the Winspear feel less like an opera house and more like a rock concert.
Sessions earlier in the day addressed how economics might shape the market in the year ahead and how agents in luxury markets across the country use relationships, creativity, and strategy to stay ahead.
“The EHC Summit is always one of the most energizing days
of the year,” said Betsy Cameron, president of Ebby Halliday Companies. “This year, our agents walked away not only with fresh strategies and insights for today’s market, but also with a renewed pride in being part of the Ebby Halliday Companies’ legacy.”
Preston Royal reactions
Big changes brewing at one of Preston Hollow’s most prominent corners have the neighborhood buzzing.
Dallas firms Burk Interests and Greenway Investment Company are seeking a zoning change for a $650 million mixed-use project at the southwest corner of Preston Road and Royal Lane, the Dallas Morning News reported.
The developers would replace what some have long considered an eyesore with soaring high-rises, public green space, and highend amenities.
Plans include a 28-story hotel and condo tower, a second 24-story residential building, upscale restaurants, sleek office spaces, and more than 100 new trees. Groundbreaking isn’t expected until at least 2028.
A call to Greenway for comment has gone unanswered.
– Compiled by William Taylor and Claudia Carson-Habeeb
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NORTHAVEN TRAIL GETS GRAZED Goat herds feed on overgrowth to make way for wildflowers
By Claudia Carson-Habeeb claudia.carson-habeeb@peoplenewspapers.com
Apopular Dallas nature trail is swapping gas-powered mowers and herbicides for something a bit woollier this year.
Each spring and summer, Northaven Trail bursts into bloom with native wildflowers. But before those flowers put on their show, the ground needs serious prep — clearing out thatch, loosening compacted soil, and giving seeds a shot at survival.
Northaven TAILS, a pilot project involving targeted grazing in the trail’s no-mow zones, has brought in a rotating herd of goats and sheep to do the landscaping. Northaven Trail’s grazing project hopes to implement a low-impact, high-reward way to restore native habitat and reduce reliance on machines and chemicals.
The organization piloting the program, Friends of Northaven Trail, reported it being one of the first projects of its kind in Texas to use grazing in an urban setting.
“The project is practical, sustainable — and unexpectedly fun to watch,” said Friends of Northaven Trail’s Dorothy Buechel.
The herds of goats and sheep will eat invasive plants, naturally fertilize the soil, and help create ideal conditions for native wildflowers to thrive, promoting biodiversity while being wildly entertaining for the 30,000+ people who walk, jog, and bike the trail every month, explained Buechel.
“Goats and sheep are the cutest crew in conservation, restoring native habitat with a natural, low-impact touch,” said Will Dawson, who is heading up the Northaven TAILS project.
Dawson shared some insight about the goats, noting that while the sound of their bleating may have the quality of a shriek, it’s actually a natural form of communication for them.
“When goats vocalize loudly, their bleats can sound surprisingly human-like. It is a high-pitched, drawn-out sound that resembles someone yelling or even shrieking. It’s often described as a mix between a child screaming and a person shouting ‘ahhh’ or ‘eee,’” he said.
Dawson, who’d been supervising the hundreds of animals since dawn, was happy the location device hadn’t yet been gobbled up.
Dawson was happy the location device hadn’t yet been gobbled up.
“It’s a 50/50 chance it’ll stay put and not end up in a goat’s belly,” he said.
While some were more industrious than others, I was able to quickly pick out the “goat-getters,” the “supervisors,” the “showboaters,” and “the loungers.”
(I should warn that the fence keeping the adorable creatures from hitting the road after satisfying their munchies, does emit an electric shock — just as the sign says.) Overzealous journalists, of course, must learn the hard way.
Slowly swaggering in my direction, a small but mighty horned fella used a little headbutting to establish his position at the top of the pecking order, while perhaps also trying to discourage fellow grazers from getting in the way of my camera lens’ view of him.
I needed the shot of the G.O.A.T himself as he stood poised for his portrait, nose in the air, flanked by his scruffy, wide-eyed entourage like a celebrity at a movie premiere. What I got instead was a sharp little jolt, and a life lesson in respecting boundaries — both literal and metaphorical.
But honestly? Worth it. The shock will fade. The photos? The stuff whispered about in barnyards across America. Some of us just have to get a bit buzzed to feel alive — or at least to get the money shot. And the hard-working wooly squad makes the small sacrifice — say, your dignity or an electric shock — worth a little face time with them.
I wasn’t the only one enthusiastic about getting up close and personal with the fourlegged eco-friendly ambassadors.
“We’re excited about ‘The Greatest of All Time’ joining our neighborhood,” joked trail hiker John Reese. “The bearded environmentalists mind their own business, get straight to work, and are a lot less noisy than a mower.”
Sad, Colorful Ribbons Deliver a Message: We Will Never Forget
The only absolute about grief is this: We grieve as long as we grieve. Across Texas, we have been affected like few other events by the tragic July 4 flooding that engulfed areas of Camp Mystic situated along the Guadalupe River.
The waters swept away an entire cabin of 8-year-old little girls, 27, an inconceivable number of children in the prime of their innocence.
As those who survive, we search for meaningful ways to remember those who died. We find comfort in the solidarity of shared community expressions of grief, often symbolized by ribbons tied around trees, mailboxes, lampposts, and front doors as an affirmation of hope.
Ribbons convey the message that we will never forget.
Those who grieve the death of a
beloved child or an adult who died attempting to save the lives of those children will grieve forever. Their homes are missing someone vital to the life and energy of their family. There is a void that can never be filled.
Those who are less directly affected grieve in the moment, for a little while, and gradually return to the mainstream of life. This is the normal progression of indirect grief.
To those who will grieve forever, it often feels as though others have forgotten. They long for nothing more than to hear the name of their child spoken aloud and her love for the world remembered.
As the holiday season nears, decorations encroach on the meaning and significance of remembrance ribbons and diminish their visibility. Many ribbons look sad and wilted; others look faded and frayed.
It is often a turning point when we know that we will never forget the loved one and find the courage and strength to rearrange and reor-
der reminders that make us sad.
Many of those directly affected are not yet ready to take down sad ribbons. Others may feel somehow disloyal if they do. Still others may feel guilty if they remove a ribbon to make room for decorations that express the joy of the holiday season.
The either/or implied by grief is, at best, confusing. We arrive at a crossroad when we realize that our choices in grief are not either/or, but both/and, in the certainty that we will never forget the one who died.
Grief lasts as long as it lasts.
No one should feel pressured to take down ribbons, and no one needs permission to do so.
At this pre-holiday moment, perhaps what is lacking is a thoughtful suggestion for a special way to repurpose sad ribbons.
What if those in the community collected every green, pink, and purple ribbon and tied each one to the end of a balloon, creating a bunch the size of a cloud?
What if there were a community
event in a nearby park for the sole purpose of releasing the balloons, including a moment of silence and prayer, before every eye in the community watched as the balloons ascended joyfully toward heaven?
Imagine the giggles of each small girl as they watch a cloud of love cross the divide between
and earth, and sad ribbons find their highest and best use as a source of comfort that urges the human heart to live forward in love.
Julie Yarbrough grew up in Highland Park and lives in Dallas. She has written 10 books on grief and blogs at beyondthebrokenheart.com.
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Ribbons tied by neighbors throughout the community symbolize those lost in the July 4 flooding and where it happened. ALEX HABEEB
Herds incorporate a mix of grazing breeds, including Spanish, Boer, Alpine, and Dorper/Katahdin, each bringing a specific skill set to the job. Callie Eveling with daughter, Margaret, help welcome the goats on Oct. 15. A goat takes a rest between shifts. CLAUDIA CARSON-HABEEB
Give Thanks For Veterans
As fall brings cooler temperatures (hopefully), and a parade of trickor-treaters makes off with bags of sweets, schedules begin to focus on holidays and feasting.
Menu planning and gift buying could easily eclipse another holiday: Nov. 11 is Veterans Day.
If you know people who served in our military forces, thank them.
If you don’t, Dallas Love Field Airport and Belmont Village Senior Living are providing an extended opportunity to become acquainted with 39 senior veterans, according to an email announcing, “American Heroes: Portraits of Service in Texas.”
The photography exhibit opened in September and runs through the end of the year, providing holiday travelers and others a wide window to learn about and be inspired by the courage, dedication, and legacy of these American heroes.
The exhibit pairs portraits captured by acclaimed photographer Thomas Sanders with memorabilia to convey personal stories of those who served from World War II, the Korean War, the Vietnam War, and peacetime. Since its beginning in 2008, Sanders’ project has grown to include more than 1,000 veterans, 30 permanent displays in Belmont Village communities nationwide, and exhibits at Chicago’s O’Hare and Midway airports.
Among those featured are three Dallas residents:
Irv Stone, U.S. Army, WWII-era First Lieutenant who taught artillery and later spent decades in forensic science and as an FBI Special Agent.
Robert Lofton, a a U.S. Air Force veteran of the Korean War, who was stationed in Libya as an Early Aircraft Warning Technician. There, he learned discipline, leadership, and the ability to follow orders, lessons that shaped his life.
Lois Graves, U.S. Public Health Corps, postWWII who supervised meals for patients with diverse needs and is proud to have served her community.
I’m told Graves and Stone spent their lives and careers in Dallas, while Lofton moved here later in life. They live at Belmont Village Turtle Creek now.
If you happen to see one of them in person, please tell them your newspaper thanks them.
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Neighborly Mom Helps Young Bikers Hit the Road
Daniela Hudson first did a favor, then created a business
By Sarah Hodges sarah.hodges@peoplenewspapers.com
About 14 years ago, a frustrated neighbor asked Daniela Hudson if she knew of anyone who could teach her daughter to ride a bike. Hudson didn’t, but she thought that she could help.
Three lessons later, Hudson’s neighbor had a bike rider. And Hudson had the beginnings of what became Glide2Ride, a business that combines her passions for children and athletics, and which has helped thousands of novice bikers get rolling.
“I absolutely love what I do,” Hudson said. “It’s not just teaching kids how to ride a bicycle without training wheels. It’s teaching them resilience. It’s teaching them confidence. It’s teaching them you can do hard things.”
After the Highland Park mom’s early success, her neighbor recommended her to other parents of bikers-in-training. Those parents shared Hudson’s number with their friends who needed help.
Hudson learned as much from her first few clients as they did from her. She quickly developed her unique gliding method of teaching bike riding, and, in 2018, she incorporated Glide2Ride.
Today, she offers lessons by appointment, as well as week-long
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summer camps.
Hudson begins by teaching novice bikers how to balance. Then she adds pedaling, followed by braking, starting, and turning. She also offers safety courses, and she always emphasizes responsibility. Even the littlest riders, Hudson said, should check their bike’s air, brakes, and chain before pedaling off, and she never lets them ride away without a helmet.
Hudson’s youngest clients are 4 years old. Her oldest was a 70-year-old grandmother who be-
came a biker in two lessons.
Hudson attributes her success to patience, kindness, a step-bystep method, and a toolkit filled with magic spray and band-aids.
“I can be firm when I need to be,” she said. “Breaking it down and making them feel good when they accomplish a goal, I think, is so good for their self-esteem.”
University Park mom Courtney Allen turned to Hudson one November after she and her husband had tried to teach their 4-and 5-year-old daughters to
ride without success.
The weather was freezing, but that didn’t make a difference. Within about 10 minutes, Hudson had both girls up and pedaling, jackets and all.
“It was incredible,” Allen said. “It was so fast. She was a great teacher.”
When her third daughter was ready to learn to bike, Allen saved time and sent her to Hudson.
“Daniela is just awesome with kids,” Allen said. “She’s very kind, but she explains things really well, and she’s so engaging.”
Preston Hollow mom Bala
Mohan said Hudson taught her almost 7-year-old to ride this summer without any of the scraped knees that she remembers getting as a child. Her daughter was motivated to keep learning, and Hudson even taught her how to read road signs and safely cross streets.
“It’s not just teaching kids how to ride a bicycle without training wheels. It’s teaching them resilience.”
Daniela Hudson
“She is very diligent,” Mohan said of Hudson.“She puts a lot of heart in her work.”
Hudson charges $125 for each one-hour lesson. But she said her biggest reward is seeing children’s joy and pride at their success.
“We live in a world of instant gratification, especially for children. And this is not instant gratification by any means. It’s hard work that pays off,” she said. “Seeing the kids so happy that they accomplished something is just so touching.”
Something Unexpected, Wonderful Happened at a Big Dallas Mall
Recently at the Dallas Galleria, I stumbled onto a small scene that felt huge: clusters of young children and caregivers leaning in — smiling, giggling, pointing — while lively readers brought picture books to life.
One of those readers was Cleo Greene, an award-winning broadcaster from NBC DFW’s Texas Today. The energy was pure joy. You could see it on every little face.
As I observed (and couldn’t resist joining the fun), I spoke with a few of the adults behind the scenes who help make moments like this happen, evidently more than just once in a while, from what I was told.
Carol Goglia, president and CEO of Catch Up and Read, and board member — and fellow speech-language pathologist — Dina Vasquez filled me in on the organization’s work across many Dallas-area schools.
Here’s what struck me: This isn’t just “feel-good” reading time.
Catch Up and Read is a serious, strategic part of our community’s literacy “village.” Its team members provide additional training and services to literacy teachers, empowering the grown-ups who shape children’s reading journeys all year long. And they’re investing in it at scale — over $2 million this past year in tutoring for almost 800 students across 21 school sites, with teachers trained in science-based intervention. That’s
real muscle behind the mission.
As a speech-language pathologist, I’ve seen how early, consistent, science-based instruction changes trajectories. When teachers are equipped with practical, research-grounded strategies, children don’t just “catch up” — they build the stamina and confidence to keep going. Add caregivers who feel welcome and involved, and you get a multiplier effect: more talk, more print, more practice, more wins.
What I witnessed at the mall:
• Joyful engagement: Kids weren’t passive. They predicted, repeated, acted out sounds, and asked questions.
• Caregiver modeling: Grown-ups echoed rich language — naming, describing, and connecting story moments to real life.
• Community visibility: Seeing a wellknown broadcaster reading to kids signals that literacy is everyone’s business.
The village, working together
Catch Up and Read shows what the “village” looks like when it’s humming:
• Teachers gain targeted training and ongoing support.
• Students receive tutoring that aligns with classroom instruction.
• Families meet literacy where they are — school, home, and yes, even the mall.
• Community partners bring visibility, resources, and pride to the effort.
A closing note of gratitude
To Carol Goglia, Dina Vasquez, the readers (including the NBC DFW Texas
HELP CHILDREN LEARN
• Read aloud daily. Even 10 minutes counts. Point to words and pictures.
• Play with sounds. Rhyme, clap syllables, stretch beginning sounds (“ssssun,” “bbbbig”)—quick, powerful, fun.
• Talk about stories. Ask “What happened? –Why? – What would you do?” – Conversation cements comprehension.
• Celebrate tiny wins. “You found the letter s!” – “You remembered that word!” –Confidence unlocks persistence.
Source: Lavelle Carlson
Today guest), the tutors, teachers, caregivers, and — most of all — the kids: thank you for reminding me what it looks like when a community shows up.
Catch Up and Read is an excellent part of our village, and the results are measurable and memorable: dollars invested, students tutored, schools served — and countless sparks of joy that keep young readers reaching for the next page.
Here’s to more reading corners in unexpected places, more trained teachers with tools that work, and more children who know the village is cheering them on — loudly, lovingly, and every single day.
Lavelle Carlson, a retired speech-language pathologist and award-winning author of books for young children, has grandchildren who attend The Lamplighter School and the Episcopal School of Dallas.
about Daniela Hudson and her unique gliding method that gets kids up and pedaling.
Glide2Ride lights and bells. Daniela Hudson with her daughter, Martina. Glide2Ride lights and bells. COURTESY GLIDE2RIDE
BACK FROM INJURY, KIRBY EMERGES AS TOP RECEIVER Jesuit senior,
two-sport athlete, leads on and off the field
By Todd Jorgenson People Newspapers
Cade Kirby’s varsity resume wouldn’t suggest his emergence as the leading receiver for Jesuit Dallas this season, but those in the Rangers’ locker room aren’t surprised.
His teammates elected him a captain, despite having had just four appearances and seven receptions in his career. They saw his offseason dedication after spending his entire junior year sidelined because of a broken collarbone.
Kirby’s breakthrough as a go-to pass-catcher came later than planned, but it’s part of the reason why Jesuit is on the cusp of another playoff berth.
Kirby said. “I’d lost a lot of that agility and was trying to get that back.”
He scored his first touchdown during a nondistrict loss to Highland Park, and followed that up with 112 yards and two scores in a victory over Irving. He’s been back in the end zone almost every week since.
“He runs great routes and has really good hands,” Hickman said. “The main thing is he gives outstanding effort on every play. He never takes off on a play or a rep in practice.”
“He’s gotten better each week.”
Kirby recovered from his 2024 surgery to play most of the basketball season as a reserve guard for the Rangers. He’s been playing both sports since he was very young.
Brandon Hickman
“Our players respect Cade. I knew he was going to have a great season with how hard he worked over the summer. He’s gotten better each week,” said Jesuit head coach Brandon Hickman. “I’m really proud of the way he handled the injury and battled back, and has had an outstanding season both as a player and as a leader.”
Kirby’s offseason regimen included almost daily weight and speed training, plus regular field work with Jesuit starting quarterback and longtime friend Beck Berry.
“I had to go out and make a statement,”
“It’s definitely challenging to balance it, especially the physical workload. I focus on trying to take care of my body and get enough sleep,” he said. “But I love it and wouldn’t want it any other way.”
Kirby is part of a receiving corps that includes returnees Shane Parker and Harlan Beucler, as well as Corson Lindley and Lucas Mayer. After a slow start due partially to injuries, the unit has helped the Rangers push for a seventh consecutive postseason appearance.
“We’ve got a lot of new guys, including myself. Now we’ve got our rhythm going,” Kirby said. “I think our offense is going in the right direction.”
Digging It: Hockaday Libero Uses Height to Her Advantage
Ebert’s defensive dexterity is key to three-peat hopes for Daisies
By Todd Jorgenson
People Newspapers
Siena Ebert might look out of place wearing the libero jersey on the volleyball court, but she feels right at home.
The defense-only role is often populated by players who don’t have the height or hops to play at the net. At 5 feet 11 inches, the Hockaday junior would fit right in alongside the hitters and blockers up front.
However, she’s chosen to play in the back ever since she was introduced to the sport six years ago. And she continues to thrive as a defensive stalwart for Hockaday, which is seeking its third consecutive SPC championship this fall.
“I just fell in love with libero. Digging has always been my favorite,” Ebert said. “You’re not the one getting all those points on the board, but you’re important in setting the team up for success.”
Indeed, Ebert’s serve-receive and passing skills have been vital for the Daisies, who have a younger roster following the
graduation of high-profile hitters such as Avery Jackson (now at Stanford) and Olivia Wayne (now at Duke).
“She had some really good older leaders around her that got to carry the load. She could kind of see what the level of play
was and settle in,” said Hockaday head coach Allison Curran.
“Now that those attackers are gone, she’s taken over a lot of the responsibilities she’s been able to share before.”
Curran said Ebert’s flexibility and body frame help to extend
her range as a libero, and complement her intuitive knowledge of the game.
“She takes up so much space,” Curran said. “It doesn’t matter if she’s beat in terms of position or if her feet aren’t there. Her reach gives her an advantage.”
Ebert, who has already committed to play volleyball at Princeton starting in 2027, also is expanding her impact off the court through her passion for baking.
“I just fell in love with libero.”
Siena Ebert
Two years ago, she and her sister, Celine — now a freshman volleyball player at Johns Hopkins — began selling brownies as a fundraiser for a rural elementary school in southern Turkey that had been devastated by earthquakes.
Since their mother is a Turkish native, the cause was personal. Ebert has continued Bake for Change by selling treats a few days a month in the Hockaday bookstore, and donating the profits.
“It’s taught me a lot of business skills for the real world,” Ebert said. “Getting to turn that passion into something that has led to actual change is really meaningful.”
In his first full varsity season, Cade Kirby is leading Jesuit in receiving yards and touchdowns. CHRIS MCGATHEY
Siena Ebert is looking to win her third consecutive SPC title with Hockaday this fall. CHRIS MCGATHEY
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DADS,
DIRT, AND A WHOLE LOT OF MULCH
Wesley Prep fathers, others clean playground in festival of service
By Claudia Carson-Habeeb claudia.carson-habeeb@peoplenewspapers.com
Whether handing out donuts at a school breakfast or trading lawncare tips during recess duty, the Wesley Prep Dad’s Club is more than just a group of guys with elementary and middle school kids — it’s a hub for fellowship and purpose.
Under the leadership of co-chairs John Barber and Franklin Matute, this year’s Annual Playground Clean-Up was a perfect blend of elbow grease, power tools, and community spirit.
It was no surprise to the Wesley Prep teachers, who were ushering in students at carpool drop-off, that the early call time
didn’t scare off any parent volunteers. In fact, they came in with coffee in hand, sleeves rolled up, and a determination to outrake their fellow dads.
The dad tools included everything short of a backhoe: rakes, shovels, leaf blowers, and a wheelbarrow that had clearly seen some lawn duty before being turned loose on the Wesley Prep playground.
“And it was meaningful to me because I was able to support the school alongside my son, Hudson.” Franklin Matute
What started as a humble clean-up became something of a mini festival of service. The day was filled
with the satisfying sounds of leaves getting blasted into oblivion, mulch being dumped, and — perhaps most entertaining — dads trying to operate lawn tools like they were precision instruments.
The ever-popular winder slide was cleaned up and refreshed, the grassy area used for soccer practice got a much-needed makeover, and the climbing equipment was restored to its original colors.
But the real magic came from the teamwork. During their lunch hour, many
students joined their dads to distribute mulch, and staff members grabbed rakes to lend a hand. A few moms stopped by with refreshments.
At day’s end, the dedicated dads were sweaty, dirty, and tired. But each was satisfied with the results.
The Wesley Prep Dad’s Club knows how to combine hard work with heart, conveying — with every shovel of mulch and sweep of a rake — the message that the school is a big deal to them.
“The Annual Playground Clean-up was a great event,” said Matute. “And it was meaningful to me because I was able to support the school alongside my son, Hudson. We worked hard together and were able to see the fruits of our labor.”
CLOCKWISE FROM LEFT: A group of Wesley Prep dads clean up the plant beds. The playground equipment gets a fresh look. Dad’s Club Co-chairs John Barber and Franklin Matute arrive with lawn tools in hand. A volunteer spreads new mulch. WESLEY PREP
Ursuline Coach Returns to Competition with Inaugural Cheer Team
Kendra Sawyer brings ambitious goals, high expectations for her athletes
By Grace Conley People Newspapers
Sixteen years ago, a devastating ACL injury derailed Kendra Sawyer’s plans for collegiate cheerleading.
This year, the Ursuline alumna has come full circle, leading the school’s inaugural competitive cheer team as its head coach.
Her goal for the first season? Nothing short of a national title.
Sawyer’s love for cheer began at 6 years old, earning her spots on junior, teen, and senior teams at her competitive gym before joining Jesuit’s cheer team in 2003. Even after her injury, her passion for the sport never waned. She went on to coach Jesuit’s JV team in 2019, becoming head coach of Jesuit Cheer five years later.
“These girls have the skills, have the talent, and I have a vision of winning for sure.” Kendra Sawyer
“It was just something that brought me so much joy,” she said, looking back on her motivation to pursue coaching. “They flip their bodies in ways that if you stay
there and think about it, you would think there’s no way. So it’s not only a physical strength that these girls have, but it’s a mental strength.”
The girls will need strength in both areas to pull off a national win. In competition, they will perform a two-and-a-halfminute routine with not a moment of rest for anyone “on mat,” Sawyer said.
Highlighting the girls’ raw talent as her inspiration to take on building the program from scratch, Sawyer worked closely with
Stephanie Hill, Ursuline’s athletic director, to bring to life what she called a “no-brainer” after also witnessing the student athletes’ ambition to compete.
And the launch for the inaugural team couldn’t come at a more exciting time. A win in 2026 would mark a 20-year full-circle moment for the athletes, carrying the legacy of Ursuline Cheer into a new era. In 2006, Jesuit Cheer — comprised of Jesuit boys and Ursuline girls — won the NCA National Cheerleading
Competition in the large co-ed division. Ursuline’s inaugural season officially begins Nov. 16 at the regional competition. The team then has two months to refine its routines and prepare for nationals, which takes place Jan. 23-25.
“These girls have the skills, have the talent, and I have a vision of winning for sure,” Sawyer said.
And while she doesn’t doubt her team’s capabilities, Sawyer said that winning isn’t everything. “I want them to walk out of the competition and also be proud of what they just did — that they came together.”
For the Ursuline cheer athletes, Sawyer’s leadership has already left its mark.
“She carries a true passion for not only the sport of cheerleading, but also for the girls that she trains,” said Riley Jones, Ursuline senior and a team captain for Jesuit Cheer. “She knows how to push us to succeed while keeping the best interests of the individual in mind.”
Jones, who has competed with Jesuit Cheer, said she’s most excited to represent her school.
“Getting the chance to wear my own school’s logo on a uniform and compete with it is an opportunity I never thought I would have at Ursuline,” she said. “Ten years from now, I hope people remember me as someone who helped lay the foundation for Ursuline’s cheer program . . . More than the skills or the wins, I’d love for people to say I was part of creating a program built on heart and commitment.”
BACK ROW FROM LEFT: Royce Cooper, Addison Kayanan, and Kennedy Keough. FRONT ROW: Kate Judson, Riley Jones, Kendra Sawyer, and Mary White COURTESY URSULINE ACADEMY
Portrait of an Ursuline Graduate
An Ursuline graduate is a woman of faith and reflection. She embodies Serviam by using her gifts to learn from and serve others. She appreciates multiple perspectives and celebrates the uniqueness of all locally and globally. She encourages and exemplifies integrity and resiliency. She is a lifelong learner who engages with others ethically, critically, and empathetically. She is an independent, innovative thinker who instigates and embraces change. She strives to build a strong sense of community.
Join us at Ursuline Academy of Dallas, an all-girls Catholic college preparatory school for grades 9-12 for our Admission Showcase on November 15, 2025. For more information contact us at 469-232-1800 or www. ursulinedallas.org.
At Hockaday, girls don’t just prepare to lead—they lead now. They launch businesses with real-world impact, spearhead literacy initiatives at more than 20 Dallas elementary schools, and collaborate with transformative organizations on groundbreaking research. Within our community, they hold every student government office, captain every athletic team, and inspire their peers through service and innovation. Beyond the classroom and the field, they achieve at the highest academic levels, with 19 students recognized as National Merit Semifinalists this year. At Hockaday, leadership opportunities empower girls to lead lives of purpose and impact.
Mobile Career Lab Brings Hands-On Training to Middle School Students
Dallas Independent School District has launched a new initiative to provide middle school students with direct access to hands-on career training through a mobile classroom.
The mobile lab is designed to travel to middle school campuses throughout the district, offering students the opportunity to engage in immersive activities related to career fields such as health science, engineering, construction, and information technology.
The goal of the program is to expand access to career exploration resources and offer students early exposure to technical skills and workforce development opportunities, according to a Dallas ISD news briefing.
The Career and Technical Education department, in partnership with the Dallas Education Foundation, has introduced the Career Exploration Mobile Lab — an innovative, state-of-the-art trailer equipped to deliver interactive learning experiences across various high-demand industries.
Inside the mobile lab, stu -
dents can participate in simulations and use industry-relevant tools and technology that are typically not available in a traditional classroom setting. These hands-on experiences are tailored to introduce foundational concepts and provide a glimpse into what careers in these fields might entail.
By integrating real-world applications into students’ early education, the Career Exploration Mobile Lab aims to enhance career awareness and inspire students to consider a broader range of future educational and occupational pathways, said the news briefing. The initiative supports Dallas ISD’s broader mission to prepare students for postsecondary success through skill development, career readiness, and exposure to emerging workforce trends.
The Career Exploration Mobile Lab is now active and will continue visiting middle schools across Dallas ISD throughout the academic year.
—Compiled by Claudia Carson-Habeeb
Dallas ISD middle school students explore the mobile career lab. COURTESY DISD
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October at PHPS was full of community events and celebration! We kicked off with the beloved Blessing of the Animals, followed by the Interabang Book Fundraiser, supporting our library and love of reading. The highlight of the month was the All School Party, a huge success that united current families and alumni for an evening of fun. With a bounce house, maze, dunk tank, face painting, zipline, and a lively DJ, there was something for everyone. Thank you to all who joined and helped make October so memorable. Your energy and support are what makes the PHPS community so special.
Mahjong Isn’t Just for Mom’s Night
HPISD, Preston Hollow students learn from classic, tile-based game
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Students at University Park Elementary are using a centuries-old method to develop problem-solving, math, and social skills.
School librarian Mary Sutherland introduced mahjong to students after realizing that they would both enjoy and learn from the game.
But she didn’t start by trying to teach preschoolers through fourth graders the American version of mahjong. Even adult beginners, she explained, can end up overwhelmed by its plethora of choices and combinations.
Instead, she turned to Mini Mahjer, a version of the game created specifically to teach younger players by two mahjong instructors — Preston Hollow mom Kristin Erwin and her friend Marian Brisch.
With funding from HP Arts, University Park Elementary has purchased two sets of Mini Mahjer, which features kid-friendly levels of play from beginner to advanced, colorful and engaging tiles, and easy-to-follow instructions.
Sutherland said that kids who learn to play Mini Mahjer — which she likened to mahjong with training wheels — are practicing key math concepts and good sportsmanship, as well as learning to identify patterns and develop strategy.
Once they’ve mastered the classic game’s simplified version, kids aren’t limited to challenging each other. They can join mom and dad at family game night and use their Mini Mahjer cards to take on skilled players.
“Kids are amazing,” said Sutherland, who also instructs mahjong outside of school. “Kids
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are so flexible and eager to learn. This is just really great for their brains. It’s also good for that social-emotional learning of winning and losing, and problem solving.”
Brisch, who helped teach lessons at University Park Elementary last year, said she and Erwin named their board game after the “mini mahjers” who play it. The duo has also instructed students at St. Rita Catholic School, The Hockaday School, and other schools in the Dallas area.
“It’s character building, but also community building,” Brisch said. “My goal is that more families are sitting around a mahjong table, learning, and playing, and having fun together without their phones. How many activities do we do now without any sort of screen or password?”
Since its introduction in the last school year, the screen-free fun has been a hit with young players at University Park Elementary. This year, Sutherland plans to introduce
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the game to all students. She began teaching fourth graders to play in September so they could enjoy mahjong as soon as possible.
“How many activities do we do now without any sort of screen or password?”
Marian Brisch
Some students at a lesson on Sept. 26 said they were new to mahjong, while others, including fourth-graders Anna Shaddock and Elaine Lucia, were veteran “mini mahjers.”
“It’s a really fun game you can play with anyone,” Shaddock said.
“It’s a good way to bond with your friends,” added Lucia. “If you don’t really know a person, you could try to teach them how to do this.” Lucia, who learned to play at camp, has already taught the game to two friends and her sister. Now, she has moved on to the game’s “old people version.”
“If you start young, you’ll get better over time,” said Shaddock. “And then you’ll be really good when you’re older.”
Students may aim to be ace mahjong players, but expertise isn’t all Mini Mahjer is creating, Sutherland explained.
“It’s social. You don’t even realize you’re learning,” she said. “You don’t realize you’re training your brain.”
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TEXAS WOMEN’S FOUNDATION MARKS 40 YEARS
CEO reflects on legacy created by diverse thinkers in 1985
By Lisa Petty Special COntributor
This year marks the 40th anniversary of the Texas Women’s Foundation (TXWF), with a ruby-themed celebration featuring Emmy and Tony Award-winning star Christine Baranski planned for Nov. 14.
Founded in 1985 by a diverse group of Dallas-area women who identified across the political spectrum, the organization serves to drive meaningful social and economic change for women, girls, and families in Texas.
From year one’s grants totaling $23,500, to more than $85 million awarded across four decades, the organization has amplified its commitment to three fundamental initiatives: economic security, leadership, and impact investing.
It’s a cause of great significance to TXWF president and CEO Karen Hughes White.
A Preston Hollow resident and mother of two, Hughes White knows firsthand the experience of working women in today’s economy.
“Every dollar we invest in women and girls is designed to generate longterm social and economic returns — not just for individuals, but for entire communities.”
Karen Hughes White
Add in her 25 years of nonprofit experience via Tri Delta, St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, and Susan G. Komen for the Cure, and stepping into this role in 2024 was a perfect fit.
“I’m building on a legacy of leadership,” she said, referencing her commitment to honor the mission of the organization’s founders while shaping the future for generations of
women across Texas.
“We are looking to meet the moment,” said Hughes White. “We’re reframing the issues around women’s economic security, stability, and success, not as women’s issues, but true economic infrastructure issues.”
She underscored her statement with key statistics.
“By 2040, it is very likely that women will be at least half or potentially the majority of the workforce in Texas,” she said. Framing this projection within the “foundational issue” of a woman’s 83 cents on the dollar earnings compared to her male counterparts, Hughes
White completed the full picture: “The wage gap puts about a $60 billion annual drain on the economy.”
Complementing its focus on economic security, TXWF’s Leadership initiatives include workshops, development programs, and more, for women of all ages.
A key example is the Young Women’s Initiative-Dallas, launched in 2018, which encompasses research, collaborative grantmaking, and advocacy focused on empowering young women of color ages 17-24. The initiative was expanded in 2024 to include three additional Texas cities: Austin, Houston, and San Antonio. Regarding the third initiative,
Impact Investing, the foundation began exploring how to invest its assets for impact through a Social Impact Fund in 2016.
In February 2020, TXWF announced that 100% of its financial assets would be invested in a mission-aligned portfolio focusing on companies committed to advancing economic security and opportunity for women and girls.
“Every dollar we invest in women and girls is designed to generate long-term social and economic returns — not just for individuals, but for entire communities,” Hughes White said.
To be sure, this local leader
is keenly aware of the power of people when it comes to issues of statewide scope.
“We believe an investment in a woman is an investment in her family and her community, and that it creates a ripple effect,” Hughes White said.
Whether through donations, volunteering, or other shows of support, of her neighbors here in Dallas, Hughes White is proud: “We live in an incredibly generous community.”
TOP, FROM LEFT: Hattie Hill, Carrie Freeman Parsons, and Karen Hughes White. BOTTOM: Helen LaKelley Hunt and Becky Sykes holding a picture of their younger selves. Vivian Castleberry and Virginia Whitehill. KIM LEESON AND COURTESY TXWF
Author’s Spiritual Journey With Breast Cancer Begins in Denial
For some reason, in the back of my mind, I often thought, I bet I’ll be: That Girl. You know, the one who gets breast cancer.
Still, it was a hard pill to swallow when my doctor said, “Betsy, it’s cancer.”
Getting that call was surreal. I didn’t know how to process what my doctor was telling me. I took a shaky breath and wondered: Is this really happening? I didn’t want to be among the women who receive a breast cancer diagnosis with no “opt-out” tab.
And thus began my breast cancer story.
I was stunned to learn that the chemo-infusion process can take up to five hours — that’s after getting labs done, waiting for them to process, and then meeting with my oncologist!
Twenty-nine days after my cancer diagnosis, a nurse escorted me into the infusion center for the first time.
As I turned the corner, I saw a large, colorless room filled with soft gray recliners that looked quite comfortable. I scanned the occupants.
Some patients, like me, appeared perfectly healthy.
Others bore evidence of having been in the battle a while —
thin arms, bald heads.
Still in denial, I remember thinking, Oh, these poor souls, so sick. I’m thankful I’m not ill like them.
Nurses scurried around, tending to patients. I heard soft voices and the periodic beeping from the chemo drip machines. The room smelled like antiseptic, sterile. I immediately longed for the soft scents of home.
I was surprised to see such a wide age range of patients. Beautiful young women up to distinguished older adults. (Cancer doesn’t discriminate.) The bald heads on some jarred my senses, and I swallowed, thinking about what awaited me.
I silently recited a prayer for those in the room (and myself).
A kind and gentle nurse led me to an empty chair beside a middle-aged woman with short, gray-streaked hair. She was lovely, and I wondered if she, too, was battling breast cancer. I was too shy and rattled to speak to her, but she smiled at me.
The nurse hooked me up to receive the drugs called AC, for short. She spoke softly and ex-
plained the process, knowing it was my first infusion. I was thankful for her tender mercies.
AC, one of the most potent drugs for fighting breast cancer, has earned the name the “Red Devil” because the red-liquid medication is mean and nasty. Any nurse administering it wears hazmat-like protection from the neck down.
The irony that the lethal stuff was going to be shot inside my body while the nurse wore protective gear was terrifying!
The chemical was ice-cold going into my veins. I shuddered and pulled my blanket closer.
Because of these drugs, my oncologist told me to expect my hair to fall out on Day 17. Even a cold cap wouldn’t help me keep my hair; the drugs were too strong. I dreaded Day 17.
But on Day 1, I closed my eyes and took a deep breath.
The battle had begun.
Betsy Keith, a Park Cities and Preston Hollow resident for more than 40 years, adapted this column from her book, ‘This One’s for the Girls: Embracing the Sisterhood of Breast Cancer and the God Who Holds Us Fast’ (published on June 27). She hopes her story helps women with cancer and those who walk beside them learn, plan, and navigate this intense life event. Copies are available at Logos Bookstore in Snider Plaza.
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Partners Card 2025: Shopping to Spark Change
By Claudia Carson-Habeeb claudia.carson-habeeb@peoplenewspapers.com
Each fall, the Partners Card campaign transforms retail therapy into a powerful act of compassion, rallying a community around a shared belief that everyone deserves a life free from violence.
Now in its 31st year, the Partners Card directly benefits The Family Place, one of the largest family violence service providers in Texas.
to prevent family violence before it starts. With 100% of proceeds going directly to help survivors of family violence, every swipe, share, and sale of the Partners Card is about people standing together to support survivors, elevate voices, and make a lasting impact.
“Every card sold, every conversation had, and every relationship strengthened helps create safer futures.”
Kristin Hallam
This year’s shopping event chairs, Kristin Hallam, Margette Hepfner, and Jen Munoz, along with honorary chair Erin Mathews, emphasize that every card sold helps survivors have access to the counseling, support, and skills needed to create lasting independence.
“Every card sold, every conversation had, and every relationship strengthened helps create safer futures,” said Hallam.
And for the 2025 Chairs, Partners Card doesn’t just stop there. It’s also about building community engagement and advocating for broader social change
“At its core, Partners Card is about empowerment,” shared this year’s Leadership Team. “It’s about survivors reclaiming their stories — and a community coming together to make that possible.”
For Maya, who arrived at The Family Place with little hope, those new possibilities have become a reality.
“I was determined to break the cycle of violence in my family,” said the 19-year-old, whose last name was withheld for her protection. “I found a job, started saving, and enrolled in GED classes. My case manager taught me how to budget, set up utilities, and apply for housing. Weeks later, (they) helped me move into my first apartment — confident, self-sufficient, and proud.”
Personal Story Fuels Meaning Behind Work at The Family Place
By Claudia Carson-Habeeb
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Survivors of domestic abuse have long found refuge at a Dallas-based nonprofit offering shelter, counseling, and life-saving support.
But behind the walls of this sanctuary lives a story few have heard — one that makes the organization’s mission even more profound.
Tiffany Tate’s expertise runs deep. As chief executive officer of The Family Place, she’s devoted her professional life to helping others break free from the cycle of abuse. And personally, Tate understands the invisible wounds survivors carry — because she’s carried them herself.
After years of helping others find their voice, the licensed clinical social worker shares that she, too, is a survivor of domestic abuse.
“I learned not to express myself or to have any needs at all,” she said, reflecting on more than a decade spent in an abusive relationship. “Tactics are used to manipulate and intimidate, leading partners to lose their sense of safety, selfworth, and identity.”
“Abusers have the ability to be chameleons,” she said. “Abuse arises when behaviors become a deliberate pattern used to strip away a partner’s independence and autonomy. Often, abusers present different personas to the outside world, making their behavior invisible to others.”
For many survivors, the road to healing isn’t linear — it’s winding, painful, and deeply personal. “When you don’t trust the thoughts in your own head, that’s very, very hard to recover from,” she said.
Tate recounts the disorienting years of control and manipulation punctuated by fleeting moments of warmth that blurred the lines and made her question what was real.
“The good times were just enough to replant the selfdoubt,” she said. “Narcissistic people prey on weaknesses. My reality was constantly challenged.”
“When someone walks through our doors, they’ve already taken the hardest step.” Tiffany Tate
With more than two decades in social services, Tate has worked with people experiencing homelessness, mental illness, and domestic violence. She joined The Family Place in 2014.
She credits her mentor, former CEO Paige Flink, for shaping her leadership with equal parts heart and innovation.
survivor’s first brave step, a daily reminder of why she does this work emerged.
Her story reflects a broader, often misunderstood reality, she explained.
Abuse doesn’t always leave visible scars. More often, it tightens its grip through gaslighting, isolation, and emotional manipulation — while the abuser’s public charm masks the truth behind closed doors.
Just six months into her role, Flink offered Tate advice that still echoes: Sit in the lobby and listen to the personal stories and experience the courage that suppresses self-doubt as each survivor steps into the threshold of a renewed life.
In that small act of bearing witness to a
“When someone walks through our doors, they’ve already taken the hardest step,” she explained.
Today, as a leader, activist, mother, and survivor, Tate is living proof that healing is possible — that even the most shattered pieces of a life can be reassembled into something strong, resilient, and profoundly meaningful. And her message to
those still living in silence is clear: You are not alone. You are not imagining it. And there is a way forward.
For Tate, reclaiming her voice isn’t just about speaking her truth — it’s about opening the door for others to do the same. And in that collective courage, she emphasized, real change begins.
“I own my story, and I want to share it to help others,” said Tate. “The person who holds the narrative holds the power.”
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‘Quiet Quitting’ Long Enough to Ponder Work-Life Equipoise
“Choose a job you love, and you will never have to work a day in your life.”
Guess who said that? Hint: A famous Chinese philosopher who died in 479 B.C.
Confucius!
About 2,500 years later, Red Barber, a baseball broadcaster for the Yankees in their heyday, commented, “The problem with this job is you don’t know when you’re on vacation.”
“A break from the tedium of work is necessary to refresh the heart and mind.”
We all should be so fortunate to toil happily in the vineyard.
Many people find their jobs burdensome; after all, that’s why
it’s called “work.”
Some get so swept up in their jobs they forget to live full lives.
We all know people who are work-obsessed to the exclusion of everything else. They may be well-compensated, but they shortchange themselves on the enjoyment of life.
Some rare individuals — artists perhaps — can completely integrate their work and play. The problem being: art is a great life-
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style, but typically, the pay is poor.
The see-saw relationship between hard work and remuneration is well established; for example, loaf around too much and dire financial consequences will probably follow.
A break from the tedium of work is necessary to refresh the heart and mind.
Alexander Fleming discovered penicillin in 1928, in part, because he went on a family
fishing holiday.
When he returned to his laboratory, the Scottish microbiologist found his bacterial cultures were contaminated with fungus. Normally, he might have cursed and thrown out the Petri dishes. Instead, because he had a refreshed brain, he noticed the clear zone around the fungi.
He is reported to have said, “That’s funny.” He deduced the mold had antibacterial proper -
ties, and the miraculous antibiotic was born.
A related phenomenon is the “aha” moment, whereby a mental breakthrough on an intransigent problem occurs while soaking in the bathtub.
Of course, the ideal work-life balance is different for every person.
Like Huskies who are happiest pulling a sled, some folks develop shpilkes (Yiddish for ants-inthe-pants) if they sit around doing nothing, like watching the sun set, for too long.
In contrast, I knew a young man who could lie on the living room carpet and contentedly play with his cat for hours. He would say he was an energy saver; I think he was a low batt.
Along these lines, I’ll mention a new term in our lexicon — quiet quitting. The term has a more acceptable ring to it than slacking off.
It’s possible that the slacker is simply refreshing his mind, and a great discovery is imminent, but I doubt it.
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One of the most iconic Thanksgiving paintings is Norman Rockwell’s Freedom From Want painted in 1943.
Ultimately reproduced as posters to help sell war bonds, Rockwell’s painting depicts a family gathered around the holiday table
on Thanksgiving Day. A bowl of fresh fruit, a red gelatin salad, and a plate of celery dot the table, but aside from the colorful cast of characters, my attention has always been drawn to the large turkey held by the family matriarch.
Traditionally, turkey has been the centerpiece of most Thanksgiving celebrations whether it’s roasted, deep fried, smoked, or spatchcocked. But sometimes even a 12-pound turkey is too much when the celebration is two or four gathered at the table. And sometimes folks simply want a change.
Honey roasted game hens with cranberry walnut stuffing are ideal for smaller celebrations or when home cooks want to serve something other than turkey while maintaining a sense of tradition.
Cornish game hens are readily available in the freezer section of most supermarkets, and since they are all about the same size, whether you’re roasting two or 10, they’re all done at the same time.
I designed this recipe for the “Sunday Dinner” episode of my cooking series At Home with Christy Rost. Eat This TV will
Ingredients:
Honey Roasted Game Hens with Cranberry Walnut Stuffing
6 Cornish game hens, thawed
Coarse salt and freshly ground black
pepper
3 to 4 slices dry wheat bread, cut into 1/4-inch cubes
1/4 cup sweet onion, peeled and diced
1/3 cup fresh or frozen cranberries
2 tablespoons chopped toasted walnuts
3 sprigs fresh thyme, rinsed
1 sprig fresh sage, rinsed and chopped
1 egg
2 tablespoons chicken stock or broth
Directions:
Preheat the oven to 400 degrees. Rinse the hens inside and out, pat dry, and season the inside with salt.
In a medium bowl, stir together bread cubes, onion, cranberries, walnuts, thyme leaves, and sage. Add the egg and chicken stock and stir well until all the ingredients are moist and well mixed. Place a small
air the episode on AmazonFire, Apple TV+ and other outlets the week before Thanksgiving, but you can also watch it beginning that week on my ‘Christy Rost Cooks’ YouTube channel.
Although the recipe is for six hens, it easily adjusts to the smaller or larger number your need. Because gatherings are much more fun when the cook doesn’t have to spend the entire day in the kitchen, my recipe offers make-ahead options for the stuffing and the honey citrus glaze.
Rather than hours of roasting
amount of stuffing inside the cavity of each hen, but do not pack tightly. Tuck the wings under, if desired, and transfer them to a large roasting pan.
Honey Citrus Glaze
Ingredients:
2 tablespoons honey
Zest of 1 orange
2 tablespoons freshly squeezed orange juice
Directions:
In a small bowl, stir together the honey, orange zest, and orange juice until they are well blended. Brush each hen with the glaze. Roast, uncovered, 55 to 60 minutes, brushing the hens with any remaining glaze 15 minutes before they are done. If the hens brown too much on top, cover loosely with a piece of aluminum foil.
Yield: 6 servings
time for a turkey, the game hens are in the oven for an hour, so an early-day Thanksgiving celebration is realistic and easy.
Happy Thanksgiving!
Christy Rost is a cookbook author, host of Celebrating Home cooking videos, and longtime Park Cities and Preston Hollow resident. Her ‘At Home with Christy Rost’ cooking series for Eat This TV Network airs on AmazonFire, AppleTV+, Roku, Samsung TV, and YouTube. Visit christyrost.com for details and recipes.
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‘Can’t Hurry Love’ for this amfAR Dallas Gala
Editor’s note: Normally, we’d try to feature multiple events in this space, running one photo from each as part of our Party Hopping column. But you don’t need to be a desperate housewife to become starstruck by the eyepopping guest list of this affair held at a Preston Hollow estate. Enjoy the photos here and look for more coverage of this and other charitable social events in our next Digital Society Magazine (late January 2026).
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Date & Place: Oct. 4, Preston Hollow home of Kathleen and Scott Kirby
Cause: amfAR, The Foundation for AIDS Research, is one of the world’s leading nonprofit organizations dedicated to the
support of AIDS research, HIV prevention, treatment, education, and advocacy.
Chairs: T. Ryan Greenawalt and Kevin McClatchy
Sponsors: REZA (signature sponsor), Flecha Azul, Nolet Spirits, PaperCity, Skywalker Vineyards, and Veuve Clicquot.
Notable: The event raised $3.1 million in support of lifesaving biomedical research and featured award presentations to honorees Taylor Sheridan and the Gene and Jerry Jones Family, as well as performances by Parson James and headliner Diana Ross. Actresses Teri Hatcher and Nicole Kidman participated in the program, as did Dallas Mavericks legend Dirk Nowitzki.
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Teri Hatcher Kevin McClatchy and T. Ryan Greenawalt
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If you’re interested in a superb Highland Park opportunity, 4211 Lakeside Drive overlooks Turtle Creek awaits and brings its own special history. Originally designed by renowned French architect Harre M. Bernet and built by S.J. Churchill in 1924, the 6,611-square-foot treasure was carefully taken down to the studs and rebuilt from 2020 to 2022 to bring it solidly into its next chapter.
When you move in, you’ll be coming home to a graceful floor plan rich with traditional details and refined, fashionable touches. Picture private chefs preparing dinner in the divine kitchen, quiet mornings spent working from home in your impressive office with coffered ceilings, and delightful brunches with loved ones in the courtyard or enchanting greenhouse. Whether you’re reading in the gardens or waking up in the incredible primary suite, every moment here is sure to be sumptuous.
University Park blends classic homes with chic shops, offering suburban calm and city perks in perfect harmony.
A real estate expert from Allie Beth Allman & Associates can show you the beautiful properties available.
Among University Park’s stunning homes is 3915 Southwestern Blvd., designed by noted architect Alex Eskenasy. The interior is bathed in natural light with a spacious entry, formal living and dining rooms, and a primary suite that creates a sanctuary with a spa-like bath and dual expansive custom closets.
On a lot backing up Turtle Creek is 6715 Golf Drive, a 9,517-square-foot home with four levels, connected by an elevator. With seven bedrooms and three living areas, the home has the latest in automation, from a smart window shade system to a solar roof and an entertainment system throughout. Of note: the climate-controlled, sixcar basement garage and the private gym.
Find yourself on a quiet block at 7816 Hanover St., complete with a chef’s dream kitchen with a side-byside refrigerator, ample seating, granite counters and custom cabinetry, perfect for a busy family. The home is just minutes from premier shopping and dining.
or commercial use. Currently being used for residential, the welcoming 1st floor has formal living with a fireplace and pocket doors. Updated kitchen is equipped with Sub Zero refrigerator and Aga range surrounded by informal living and dining. A hidden staircase behind the bookshelf leads down to a wine room with built-ins and fireplace for more entertaining space. 3 sets of French doors lead out to a covered porch with ceiling fan and turfed backyard. The 2nd floor is currently configured with 4 offices, half bath and laundry, but plans are available to convert it to 2 bedroom or 3 bedroom on that level. See documents in the transition desk. The 3rd floor is a bedroom with an ensuite bath and balcony. An additional 638SF includes a guest house with fireplace and full bath, plus a 2 car carport with additional space above perfect for office or living. No garage but space for 4 cars total, 2 covered. Walking distance to Whole Foods and all the shopping and restaurants Uptown has to offer.
New arrivals on the luxury home market
Allie Beth Allman & Associates are announcing new listings, fresh for fall.
The fall market in Dallas has started off with a bang. Pristine new offerings that are sure to excite buyers are available in premium locations, but they might not be available for long.
Here are striking properties for sale now with the expert agents of Allie Beth Allman & Associates. It’s just a taste of what the luxury firm can show you this season.
If you adore traditional, English-inspired architecture, look no further than 6506 Norway Road. This fivebedroom, 6,650-square-foot beauty calls for elegant Thanksgiving feasts in the formal dining room, fun-filled family nights in the game room or media room, and utter relaxation in the serene primary suite. The outdoor spaces also are ready to delight on a daily basis as well as special occasions.
Something completely new and modern awaits at 4666 College Park Drive. Located in the coveted private school corridor, the sleek stunner is glassy, tranquil and bright. It was built in 2024 and impresses with its chic use of materials, flawless open floor plan, and cascading natural light. Whether you’re starting your day in the sumptuous primary suite or shaking up drinks for friends at the wet bar, you can’t help but feel at peace here.
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Stylish Cul-de-Sac Retreat in Prime Location
Gorgeous contemporary home at 12123 Madeleine Circle (12123madeleine.daveperrymiller.com) offers 4 bedrooms, 4.1 baths, and 3,902 square feet near Cooper Aerobic Center, top private schools, fine dining, and major highways. Listed by Marlene Jaffe for $1,799,000, the thoughtfully designed floor plan showcases an open layout with bamboo floors, high-end designer finishes and walls of windows overlooking the backyard oasis.
The chef’s kitchen is outfitted with Euro-style cabinetry, granite countertops and backsplash, gas cooking and premium stainless-steel appliances. The main-level primary suite is a serene retreat featuring marble finishes, a sitting area and a spacious custom walk-in closet. A guest suite and private office also reside on the first floor, while two living areas, each with a fireplace, create a warm, inviting atmosphere.
Outdoors, the private backyard is a true escape with pool/spa, outdoor grill and grassy play area. Additional highlights include a two-car attached garage and wholehouse generator.
To schedule a showing, contact Marlene at 214-8933413 | marlene@dpmre.com.
Dave Perry-Miller Real Estate (dpmre.com) is a division of the Ebby Halliday Companies, a Berkshire Hathaway affiliate, specializing in Preston Hollow, Park Cities, North Dallas, Lakewood, East Dallas, Uptown, Kessler Park, and Farm & Ranch properties.
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Morning, Sunshine!
Sold Before Sunrise with Betsy Cameron is your early-morning gateway into the heartbeat of residential real estate. Hosted by Betsy Cameron, President of the Ebby Halliday Companies, this podcast delivers candid, high-value conversations with thought leaders, innovators, and changemakers in real estate.
Each episode is designed to spark insight, challenge norms, and equip real estate professionals (or aspiring ones) with actionable strategies. Expect a blend of industry foresight – understanding trends like AI, innovation, and market shifts; leadership wisdom – how to build teams, inspire growth, and lead through change; and hyper-local perspective – digging into what’s happening in Texas real estate.
Sold Before Sunrise is intentionally brief yet packed, perfect for starting your day with a dose of real estate intelligence. Betsy’s tone is approachable and direct; she draws stories and lessons from each guest without fluff. It’s rooted in the real estate world but generous enough for anyone curious about how housing, economics, leadership, and technology intersect.
Whether you’re a real estate enthusiast or a professional in the field, start your day informed and inspired. Wake up to expert insights with Sold Before Sunrise, a podcast dedicated to residential real estate. Sold Before Sunrise is available wherever you get your podcasts.
THE PERRY-MILLER STREIFF GROUP Custom-Built Estate on Over Half an Acre
4529 Crooked is currently being offered for $3,495,000
This sterling location near the top private schools in Dallas offers unmatched luxury in this exquisite Edinburgh custom-built estate, nestled on over half an acre in one of Preston Hollow’s hottest neighborhoods near Strait Lane.
Inside, painstaking design meets modern convenience. The home boasts five spacious bedrooms, including a serene downstairs primary suite with a spa-like bath, heated floors, a steam and bodyspray shower, and a soaking tub.
A private downstairs guest suite ensures comfort for visitors. Upstairs, three additional ensuite bedrooms accompany a game room with a wet bar, a state-of-theart media room, and a dedicated exercise studio with full-length mirrors. At the heart of the home, the gourmet chef’s kitchen is a culinary masterpiece, featuring Miele, Wolf, and SubZero appliances, a 6-burner Wolf range with griddle and dual ovens, a built-in Miele coffee maker, a steam oven, and a warming drawer.
Throughout the home, a Sonos sound system, Crestron home automation, and Lutron lighting create the perfect ambiance. Three fireplaces—including a wood-burning hearth on the patio—add warmth and charm. Step outside to your private backyard retreat, where an outdoor grilling station, sparkling pool, spa, and tranquil water features are surrounded by lush turfed and grassy areas.
Just steps from the Northaven Trail and minutes from top private schools, world-class shopping, dining, and airports, this home offers the perfect blend of luxury, comfort, and convenience.
Contact Ryan Streiff (469.371.3008) or Jason Bates (214.673.4268) for more information or visit www. DPMFineHomes.com.
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Luxurious homes for Park Cities living
Allie Beth Allman & Associates agents lead in the sale of homes in the Park Cities, according to Multiple Listing Service numbers.
When new homes in the Park Cities come to market, you want to hear about them fast. Why? Because there’s high competition in this soughtafter area, and many people hope to move there. Working with the experts of Allie Beth Allman & Associates, wise buyers and sellers know about which Park Cities properties are coming to market soon and what’s selling.
At 3601 Centenary Ave., transitional style shines. The 6,450-square-foot home features a brick facade with delightful shutters, arched doorways and windows, and an elegant double front door. Inside, refined rooms await entertaining, unwinding and making memories. A cool speakeasy-style bar and an expansive family room with a masonry fireplace are just a couple of spaces your guests will love.
Fashionable living is a given at 3713 Greenbrier Drive, with its design pedigree. Acclaimed architect Elby Martin envisioned the five-bedroom home on a coveted, oversized corner lot 25 years ago. While the sublime abode’s grand beginning endures, it was recently given a wonderful makeover inside.
Allie Beth Allman & Associates agents continue to lead in the sale of homes in Highland Park, University Park and the Park Cities area, according to Multiple Listing Service statistics. Call to connect with an expert agent: https:// www.alliebeth.com/roster/Agents
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Real estate advice: price it right
Market analysis and right-pricing is vital for selling homes in today’s environment, according to Allie Beth Allman & Associates agents.
Housing experts, reading the tea leaves for the fall, predicted a growing optimism in home buying, driven largely by the prospect of lower mortgage rates and a rising inventory of homes. That optimism should help sellers attract offers from buyers who have been sitting on the sidelines. But even in an improving economic environment, the experts at Allie Beth Allman & Associates are telling their clients the key to selling their home this fall is having it priced right.
A correct price, based on your agent’s market knowledge and comparable solds, can lead to competition among interested homebuyers. A home priced too high could mean it will need to be lowered at least once.
“The market has shifted,” one Allie Beth Allman & Associates agent reported. “It’s no longer about speed, but about strategy. Smart pricing, compelling presentation, and thoughtful negotiation are essential to success.”
Among the current pool of very interested buyers, they said these strategies matter the most: Smart pricing, smart preparation and strong presentation.
Right-pricing creates a sense of urgency among buyers and should solicit more interest, agents said.
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University Park, where luxury blends with living
Allie Beth Allman & Associates agents lead in the sale of homes in University Park, according to Multiple Listing Service data.
