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THE FORM AND ORDER F O R T H E C E L E B R AT I O N OF THE SOLEMN EUCHARIST OF THE RESURRECTION IN THANKSGIVING FOR THE LIFE OF

BORN: 28TH OCTOBER , 1938 • D I E D : 1 5 T H D EC E M B E R , 2024 AGE : 86 YEARS S E R V I C E H E L D AT :

S T. B A R N A B A S A N G L I C A N C H U R C H NASSAU, THE BAHAMAS

S AT U R D AY 4 T H J A N U A R Y, 2 0 2 5 AT 1 0 : 0 0 A . M .

CELEBRANT:

R E V ’D. F R . RO D E R I C K BA I N , R ECTO R A S S I S T E D B Y:

F R . C H E S T E R B U R T O N , A S S I S T A N T C U R AT E OT H E R C L E R GY ORGANIST:

MR . WESTON MORTIMER INTERMENT:

W O O D L AW N G A R D E N S NASSAU, THE BAHAMAS

28 T H O CTO B E R , 1 938 - 1 5 T H D EC E M B E R , 2024 A BEAUTIFUL BEGINNING Sylvia Marie Rolle was born on the picturesque island of Arthur’s Town, Cat Island on 28th October 1938 to her loving parents, Wilfred and Rosalie Rolle nee Miller. Her maternal grandparents were Robert and Charity Miller, who shaped her rich family heritage. Sylvia was the fifth of seven children. Four boys and three girls: Allen, William, Thelma, Marilyn, Sylvia, Warren and Willis. She was a cherished sibling in a family filled with love and resilience. It is known that persons born in October are balanced, strong-willed, passionate, expressive, sociable and exhibit strong leadership which are all qualities that Sylvia portrayed over her lifetime.

A LIFE ROOTED IN HARDWORK Sylvia grew up immersed in the simplicity and beauty of island life. She embraced the values of hard work and community spending her mornings and afternoons tending fields of beans and peas or assisting in her family’s petty shop which sold essential items such as lard, tomatoes, flour, and cream.

A JOURNEY IN EDUCATION & EARLY CAREER Sylvia resided with her maternal grandparents until she became a teenager when she relocated to her parents’ home in Arthur’s Town. She was schooled at Arthur’s Town All Age School under the tutelage of the late Rodney Bain, Rev. Edwin Taylor, Harold Poitier and Dean William Granger. Mr. Granger’s mentorship held such a sentimental value in Sylvia’s education that even two weeks prior to her passing, she referenced him jubilantly as one of

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her former educators. These educators played a pivotal role in her education and training, and even inspired her to become a teacher.

In the early 1950s, Sylvia became a monitor at the Arthur’s Town All Age School, where she was accompanied by Mavis, Gloria, and Mary along with a few of her other childhood friends. Noteworthy, Sylvia in 1956 sat her Bahamas Junior Certificate (Grade III) and earned Credits in English Literature, Religious Knowledge, and Geography. She earned Passes in English Language, Hygiene & Physiology and French. She continued as a monitor at Acklins All Age School in Snug Corner.

Her journey as an educator took her to Long Bay Cays All Age School in Andros from 1960-1967. The family then relocated to New Providence. She earned her Teacher’s Certificate in the early 1970s at The Bahamas Teachers’ Training College. Her first teaching post in New Providence was at Oakes Field Primary School. Afterwards, she taught at Uriah McPhee, followed by Sayle’s Primary School.

In 1971, she sat the University of London’s General Certificate of Education Examination where she passed Religious Knowledge and in 1973 she passed English Language, English Literature and History. She was always was a lifelong learner. She excelled by attaining a Bachelor of Arts Degree from The College of St. Benedict in St. Joseph Minnesota. In 1976, she joined the H.O. Nash faculty, where she served for 18 years. Sylvia retired in 1994 from the Public Service after serving thirty seven (37) years. She was honored by The Primary Principal’s Association for her long and dedicated service. She was a member of The Bahamas Union of Teachers and the Retired

Teachers a Branch of the Union. She continued her passion for education by teaching briefly at St. Anne’s High School.

Her excellence in education was demonstrated when she was appointed as the Principal of St. Barnabas Day School. Her dedication was unwavering.

She completed an Associate of Arts Degree in Law and Criminal Justice Studies at The College of The Bahamas in 1999.

Sylvia was a strong advocate for discipline and good manners, instilling these values in the children she taught. She believed in the importance of respect and proper behavior and was known for her saying that “everyone should have hair to speak,” a metaphor for confidence and dignity.

A UNION OF HEARTS Granville O’Brien Sr. with his mother and three siblings relocated from Bluff Cat Island to Arthur’s Town where he pursued Sylvia. They were childhood friends. They later became engaged and eventually married on 26th December 1958 officiated by Rev. William James Granger. During the course of their marriage, she affectionately called her husband her “bups.”

This union was blessed with six children: one (1) girl and five (5) boys. Rosalind, Ian (predeceased her), Rodney, Colin, Granville Jr. and Winston Paul O’Brien. Sylvia was loving, devoted wife and caring mother who loved her grandchildren and great grandchildren dearly. Both Granville and Sylvia always wanted the best for their children encouraging them to pursue higher learning.

A WOMAN OF FAITH Faith was a cornerstone of Sylvia’s life. She was an active member of St. Andrew’s Church in Cat Island, where her father Wilfred Rolle was the Catechist at the time; they had to worship three times per day. In New Providence, she worshipped at St. Barnabas Anglican Church which was known at “The Out Island Church.” Sylvia also cherished her role in the Anglican

Church Women (ACW), serving as President for one year. She was very active in her church from its inception. Additionally, she served on the Auxillary, Usher Board and she was a member of the Soup Kitchen. She was honored by the ACW in 2020 and in 2024. The Usher Board also recognized her outstanding and dedicated efforts.

Sylvia was dedicated to outreach, particularly through her work at the soup kitchen, where she and her team prepared potato bread, flour cake, cornbread, and pudding. She also fervently supported the St. Saviour Church Fair in Cat Island each October, helping to raise funds for the community.

A REGAL OF A WOMAN, A WOMAN OF STRENGTH AND TRADITION Sylvia O’Brien embodied the spirit of a true Cat Island native, a woman deeply rooted in her heritage and proud of her Bahamian traditions. She was a lover of cooking and baking, crafting culinary delights that brought people together. Her potato bread, cornbread, flour cakes, and other native treats were not just food but a testament to her deep connection to her home and culture.

Sylvia was known for her stern and no-nonsense demeanor.

She spoke her mind freely and fearlessly, embodying a strong and unapologetic personality. Her words carried weight, and her honesty was a trait admired by all who knew her.

A KEEPER OF HISTORY Sylvia’s memory was a treasure trove of Bahamian history. As a natural historian, she possessed an incredible ability to recall details, dates, and events. Whether it was a wedding date, a birth date, or a family milestone, Sylvia remembered it all. Her remarkable knowledge made her the go-to person for anyone seeking information about the Bahamas or their own family history.

A LOVING MATRIARCH Beyond her strength and wisdom, Sylvia was a loving and kind

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mother, aunt, and sibling. Her nurturing spirit touched the lives of everyone who encountered her. She was a pillar of her family, always offering support, love, and guidance. Sylvia’s legacy of strength, kindness, and cultural pride will forever live on in the hearts of her loved ones.

A GENEROUS HEART AND A GIVING SPIRIT Sylvia O’Brien was the embodiment of generosity, always willing to lend a helping hand to anyone in need. Whether it was offering support, sharing resources, or simply being present, Sylvia’s giving nature touched countless lives.

A METICULOUS PLANNER Sylvia was a woman of organization and precision. From managing her business affairs and apartments to her daily routines, she approached everything with meticulous care. She kept everything in order, writing things down and ensuring that all aspects of her life were managed with purpose and efficiency.

A NURTURING TEACHER AND MOTHER Teaching was not just Sylvia’s profession; it was her calling. Her nurturing spirit extended beyond the classroom and into her home, where she welcomed children to learn, play, and grow alongside her own biological children. She created a space where every child felt loved and supported, leaving a profound impact on their lives.

A LIFELONG LEARNER Sylvia was an avid reader who valued the power of knowledge. She read the newspaper every day, staying informed and current on both local and global matters. Her love for learning was a lifelong pursuit, reflected in her dedication to continuous education.

A WOMAN OF FAITH Deeply spiritual, Sylvia’s faith was central to her life. She lived by biblical principles and often turned to scripture for guidance and strength. Her unwavering belief in God provided her with the foundation to inspire and uplift others, sharing her spiritual wisdom with those around her.

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IS SURVIVED BY HER: Rosalind Johnson, Rodney, Colin (Karen), Granville Jr, and Winston Paul O’ Brien CHILDREN:

SON-IN-LAW Andrew Johnson GRANDCHILDREN Latoya (Cecil) Dorsett, Anthonicia, Kyrin

and Imara O’Brien, Cecil Dorsett III and Darria Reece GREAT GRANDCHILDREN: Riley, Lucas, and Liam Dorsett SISTERS: Thelma Rolle-Williams and Marilyn Rolle SISTER-IN-LAW: Thelma V. Rolle

NEPHEWS: Julian and Melbourne Williams (Charmaine);

William II (Karen), Wayne (Deidre), Daren (Tanya), Lorenzo (Jewel), David Marco, Simon and Marco Rolle; Michael, Kendrick, and Charles Major and their families; Oscar, Rev. Canon Sebastian, Kirkwood, Edward, Kendal, Rev. Father Julien, Earl, Ashley and Romani Campbell and their Families; Samuel and Anthony Thompson and their Families.

NIECES: Colleen Carter, Patricia Johnson, Samantha Rolle,

Gwyneth Cox (Javado), Myrtis Darville (Leslie), Karen Johnson (Timothy), Julie Carroll ( Keith) Bridgette Ritchie, Chrystle Rolle and Family, Family of The Late Norma Rolle, Christine Taylor and Family, Dr. Simone Rolle- Graham (Jhomo), Sophia Rolle- Kapousouzoglou (Konstantinos), Shirlene O’Brien- Rolle (Glenwood) and Family, Michelle Bain and Family, Dahren Newbold & Family, Paulette Brown & Family.

Lakell Haygood-Johnson and Family, Victoria Albury and Family and a host of other grandnephews and grandnieces.

GRANDNIECES:

Michael Dean, Janice Gardiner, Kendal Pierre, Patricia Hanna, Evamae Ferguson, Bianca Campbell, Gillian Gray (Martin), Martin Jr. GODCHILDREN:

COUSINS: The Family of the late Carmen McPhee, Frank

Miller and Family, Christopher Miller and Family, Isaac Dean and Family, Hensel, Howard, Vernie Newbold and Family, Jacqueline Isaacs and Family, Leah Webb and Family, Family of the Late Etta Stubbs, Family of the Late Cecil Miller, Betty Jane Stubbs and Family, Family of the Late Bill Simmons SPECIAL FRIENDS: Mavis and George Johnson, Mary Basden

and Family, Anthony Farah and Family, Rosmary Huyler and Family, Joseph Strachan and Family, Samuel Miller and Family, Ricardo Brenan and Family, Sheba and Marvin Webb, Alfred and Cleomie Burrows, Henry W. Curry and Family, Tremmie Thompson and Family, Isadora Lamb

and Family, Eunice Sherman and Family, Susan Hunt and Family, Althea Connolly and Family, Arlene Brown and Family, Adrian “Ricky” Miller, Linda Wilson and Family, Garnet and Delores Knowles and Family, Maria Thompson, Susan Hall and Family, Inez McKenzie and Family, Paul King and Family, Lottie Rahming and Family and Danny and Judy Miller.

OTHER RELATIVES AND FRIENDS INCLUDING: Willard Cleare

and Family, Charles “Charlie” Miller, Nathalie Bonamy and Family, Patrick Seymour and Family, Rosemary Hart and Family, Marge Smith and Family, Yvonne Pratt and Family, Rhoda Rolle and Family, Charles Mackey and Family, Ellerron Pratt and Family, Rev. Carl Campbell, The Family of the late Richard E. Dean, The Family of the late Ezra Dean and Family, Charles King and Family, The Family of the Late Warren Seymour, Beverly King and Family, Daisy Grant-Rolle, The Family of the Late Gloria Russell, The Family of the Late Vincent Pierre, Alfreda Johnson and Family, Sauleene Smith and Family, Ellen Ebanks, Orville A. Turnquest and Family, Megan Smith, Carol Hanna and Family, Catherine Deveaux, Blossom Rolle, Marge Rahming, Levith Henfield, Frank Lightbourne, Karlene Knowles and Family, The Family of the Late James Millard Gardiner, Keith Butler, Eunice Green and Family, Faith Ene and Family, Gordon Wong and Family, The Family of the late Wilfred Bain, The Family of the late Dorothy Lightbourn (Freeport), The Family of the Late Cecil Dorsett Sr., Glen and Lillian McPhee, Christopher Gibson, Dellareece Sully, Elaine Sawyer and Family, Bruno Robinson, Keith Rolle, Kelston Hall, Judith Reece, Angerine Curtis and Family, Don Davis, Renee Davis and Family, Troy Kemp and Family, Marva Smith and Family, Garland Miller and Family, St. Barnabas Church Family and Organizations: Anglican Church Women, Anglican Church Men, Auxiliary and Prayer Band , The Usher Board, 23rd Company of Boys’ Brigade, Bahamas Union of Teachers Retirees’ Club, The Communities of Arthurs’ Town, Cat Island and Stapledon Gardens, including other family, friends and colleagues too numerous to mention.

Bishop Arthur Gilbert Thompson and Family, Rev’d Father Roderick Bain, Father Chester Burton (Curate) and Family, Canon Basil Tynes (Rector of St. Matthews) and Family, Father Colin Saunders and Family, Father I. Ranfurly Brown and Family, Dr. Scott Seymour, Dr. Glenn Berry and Alvin Ferguson of Prairie View A & M Medical Center, Texas, Doctors and nurses of Houston Methodist West Hospital, Henry Rose and Family, O’Donnell Middle School (Aliefisd) Texas, Garvin Tynes Primary School, Audley Fraser and Cedar Crest Funeral Home and Woodlawn Gardens Cemetery.

SPECIAL THANKS:

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PRELUDE.....................................................................................................................................................Organ Voluntary

THE INTRODUCTORY RITE RECEPTION OF THE BODY Celebrant:

With faith in Jesus Christ, we receive the body of our sister Sylvia for burial. Our sister was washed in Holy Baptism and anointed with the Holy Spirit. Let us, therefore, with confidence, pray to God our Heavenly Father, the Giver of life, that He will raise her to perfection in the company of the saints.

Celebrant: All:

The Lord be with you.

And also with you.

Celebrant:

Let us pray.

O God of grace and glory, we remember before you this day our sister Sylvia. We thank you for giving her to us, her family, and friends, to know and love as a companion on our earthly pilgrimage. In your boundless compassion, console us who mourn. Give us faith to see in death the gate of eternal life, so that in quiet confidence we may continue our course on earth, until by your call, we are reunited with those who have gone before; through Jesus Christ our Lord.

All:

Amen.

Celebrant:

I bless the body of Sylvia with the Holy Water that recalls her baptism into Christ of which St. Paul writes: “All of us who were baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into His death.” By baptism into His death we were buried together with Him, so that just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, we too might have a new life. For if we have been united with Him by likeness to His death, so shall we be united with Him by likeness to His resurrection.

Amen

All:

THE ENTRANCE Celebrant:

Jesus said, I am the Resurrection, and I am the life; he who believes in Me, though he dies, yet shall he live, and whoever lives and believes in me shall never die. John 11:25-26 The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; His compassion never fails: every morning they are renewed.

Lamentations 3:22-23 Jesus said, Let not your hearts be troubled; believe in God, believe also in Me. John 14:1 I am sure that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers nor things present, nor things to come, nor height, nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 8:38-39 If we live, we live to the Lord, and if we die, we die to the Lord; so then, whether we live or whether we die, we are the Lord’s. For to this end Christ died and lived again, that he might be the Lord both of the dead and of the living. Romans 14:8-9 We brought nothing into the world, and we take nothing out. The Lord gives, and the Lord takes away: Blessed be the Name of the Lord. Job 1:21 The eternal God is our refuge, and underneath are the everlasting arms. Deuteronomy 33:27

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INTROIT HYMN..............................................A&M 438.................................... “How Bright These Glorious Spirit Shine” 1

How bright these glorious spirits shine!

Whence all their white array?

How came they to the blissful seats of everlasting day?

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Lo! these are they from sufferings great who came to realms of light, and in the blood of Christ have washed those robes that shine so bright.

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Now with triumphal palms they stand before the throne on high, and serve the God they love amidst the glories of the sky.

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Celebrant:

Hunger and thirst are felt no more, nor sun with scorching ray: God is their sun, whose cheering beams diffuse eternal day The Lamb, who dwells amid the throne, shall o'er them still preside, feed them with nourishment divine, and all their footsteps guide.

In pastures green he'll lead his flock where living streams appear; and God the Lord from every eye shall wipe off every tear.

COLLECT FOR THE DEPARTED

Let us pray: Almighty God, we remember before You today Your servant Sylvia and we pray that, having opened to her the gates of larger life, You will receive her more and more into Your joyful service, that, with all who have served you in the past, she may share in the eternal victory of Jesus Christ our Lord; who lives and reigns with You, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God for ever and ever. Amen.

THE LITURGY OF THE WORD THE OLD TESTAMENT READING................... Job19:21..................................................... Mr. Granville O’Brien Jr. (Son)

Reader: The Word of The Lord All: Thanks be to God. TRIBUTES........................................................................................................................ Mrs. Mavis Johnson (Special friend) Errol Newton (Former Student of H. O. Nash) RESPONSORIAL HYMN................................................................. “Through All the Changes Scenes Of Life” (CPWI 427) Through all the changing scenes of life, in trouble and in joy, the praises of my God shall still my heart and tongue employ.

Of his deliv'rance I will boast, till all that are distressed, from my example comfort take and lay their griefs to rest.

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O magnify the LORD with me, exalt his holy name; when in distress to him I called, he to my rescue came.

The hosts of God encamp around the dwellings of the just; deliv'rance he affords to all who in his promise trust.

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O taste and see that he is good; experience will decide how blest are they, and only they who in the LORD confide.

Fear him, you saints, and you will then have nothing else to fear; make serving him your sole delight, your wants shall be his care.

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TRIBUTES............................................................................................................................... Shirlene O’Brien-Rolle (Niece) New Dynamic Features

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THE NEW TESTAMENT READING................. 1John 3:1.......................................................Mr. Kendrick Major (Nephew)

Reader: The Word of The Lord All: Thanks be to God. GRADUAL HYMN......................................................................................... “Pleasant Are Thy Courts Above” (CPWI 740) 1

Pleasant are Thy courts above In the land of light and love; Pleasant are Thy courts below In this land of sin and woe.

O my spirit longs and faints For the converse of Thy saints, For the brightness of Thy face, For Thy fullness, God of grace.

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Happy souls, their praises flow Even in this vale of woe; Waters in the desert rise, Manna feeds them from the skies; On they go from strength to strength Till they reach Thy throne at length, At Thy feet adoring fall, Who hast led them safe through all.

Happy birds that sing and fly Round Thy altars, O Most High; Happier souls that find a rest In a heavenly Father's breast!

Like the wandering dove that found No repose on earth around, They can to their ark repair And enjoy it ever there.

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Lord, be mine this prize to win; Guide me through a world of sin, Keep me by Thy saving grace, Give me at Thy side a place.

Sun and shield alike Thou art; Guide and guard my erring heart.

Grace and glory flow from Thee; Shower, O shower them, Lord, on me.

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THE HOLY GOSPEL.............................................................................................................................. Read by: The Clergy Reader: All:

The Lord be with you.

And also with you

Reader: All:

A Reading from the Holy Gospel according to Glory to Christ our Saviour.

‘Do not let your hearts be troubled. Believe in God, believe also in me. 2 In my Father’s house there are many dwelling-places. If it were not so, would I have told you that I go to prepare a place for you?[b] 3 And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and will take you to myself, so that where I am, there you may be also. 4 And you know the way to the place where I am going.’ 5 Thomas said to him, ‘Lord, we do not know where you are going. How can we know the way?’ 6 Jesus said to him, ‘I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.

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Reader: All:

This is the Gospel of Christ Praise To Christ Our Lord

THE HOMILY .................................................................................................................................. Rev’d. Fr. Roderick Bain

THE APOSTLE’S CREED Celebrant:

Let us with confidence and hope confess the faith into which we were baptized, as we say.

All:

I Believe in God, the Father Almighty, creator of heaven and earth.

I believe in Jesus Christ, His only Son, our Lord. He was conceived by the power of the Holy Spirit and born of the Virgin Mary. He suffered under Pontius Pilate, was crucified, died, and was buried. He descended to

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the dead. On the third day He rose again. He ascended into heaven, and is seated at the right hand of the Father. He will come again to judge the living and the dead.

I believe in the Holy Spirit, the holy Catholic Church, the communion of saints, the forgiveness of sins, the resurrection of the body, and the life everlasting. Amen.

THE PRAYER OF THE FAITHFUL.............................................................................................. Lakell Haygood- Johnson Leader: All:

We have gathered to celebrate the entry of Sylvia into life eternal.

To affirm with praise and thanksgiving the goodness of the Lord.

Leader: All:

Let us rejoice in God’s presence with us, in death as in life among those who now see God face to face.

Our lips will shout for joy, for God’s love is over all that God has made. Blessed be God’s glorious name forever!

Leader: All:

We feel the pain of separation, we are conscious of our loss, but we have hope in Jesus Christ.

We give thanks to God from whom comes all life and death and who surrounds us in both. We have affirmed our faith and rejoice in Christ’s victory over death, which is God’s promise to us.

Leader: All:

Lord, You raised the dead to life: Give our brother Sylvia, eternal life.

Leader: All:

Our brother Sylvia was washed in Baptism and anointed with the Holy Spirit: Give her fellowship with all Your saints.

Hear us, Lord.

Leader: All:

She was nourished with your Body and Blood: Grant her a place at the table in your heavenly kingdom.

Hear us, Lord.

Leader:

Comfort us in our sorrows at the death of our sister Sylvia. Let our faith be our consolation, and eternal life our hope.

Amen.

All:

THE PENITENCE Celebrant:

If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, God is faithful and just, and will forgive our sins, and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

Let us therefore confess our sins.

All:

Almighty God, our Heavenly Father, we have sinned against You and one another, in thought, word and deed, and in what we have left undone. We are sorry and repent of all our sins. For Your Son, our Lord Jesus Christ’s sake, forgive us all that is past, and grant that we may serve You in the newness of life to the glory of Your name.

THE ABSOLUTION Celebrant:

Almighty God, have mercy upon you, pardon and deliver you from all your sins, confirm and strengthen you in all goodness, and keep you in life eternal; through Jesus Christ our Lord.

All:

Amen

THE PRESENTATION OF THE ELEMENTS ELEMENT BEARERS.......................................................................... Mrs. Bridgette Ritchie & Mrs. Gwyneth Cox (Nieces) PREPARATION HYMN.....................................................................................................“Palms Of Glory Raiment Bright”

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Palms of glory, raiment bright, crowns that never fade away, gird and deck the saints in light: priests and kings and conquerors they.

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Yet the conquerors bring their palms to the Lamb amidst the throne, and proclaim in joyful psalms victory through his cross alone.

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Round the altar priests confess, if their robes are white as snow, 'twas the Saviour's righteousness, and his blood, that made them so.

They were mortal too like us: O, when we like them must die, may our souls translated thus triumph, reign, and shine on high.

Kings for harps their crowns resign, crying, as they strike the chords, 'Take the kingdom, it is thine, King of kings and Lord of lords.'

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Celebrant:

Through Your Goodness, Lord we have this bread and wine to offer, the fruit of the earth and the work of human hands. They will become our spiritual food.

All:

All things come from you, O Lord, and of your own do we give you. Blessed be God forever. Amen

THE MINISTRY OF THE HOLY EUCHARIST THE SURSUM CORDA THE EUCHARISTIC PRAYER ........................................................................................................... Form E - Pg. 142 BCP

THE CONSECRATORY PRAYER THE ACCLAMATION THE PATER NOSTER THE BREAKING OF BREAD Celebrant: All:

We break this bread to share in the body of Christ.

Though we are many, we are one body, because we all share in one bread.

THE INVITATION Celebrant: All:

My brothers and sisters in Christ, draw near and receive His Body, which He gave for you, and His Blood, which He shed for you. Remember that He died for you and feed on Him in your hearts by faith with thanksgiving.

Grant us, gracious Lord, that we so eat the flesh of Your Dear Son, Jesus Christ and drink His Blood, that we may evermore dwell in Him and Him in us. Amen

THE AGNUS DEI All:

Lamb of God, You take away the sin of the world: grant her rest.

Lamb of God, You take away the sin of the world: grant her rest.

Lamb of God, You take away the sin of the world: grant her rest eternal

COMMUNION HYMNS........................................................ “ Oh What Their Joy And Their Glory Must Be” (CPWI 695) Oh, what their joy and their glory must be, those endless Sabbaths the blessed ones see!

Crowns for the valiant, to weary ones rest; God shall be all, and in all, ever blest.

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2 In new Jerusalem joy shall be found, blessings of peace shall forever abound; wish and fulfillment are not severed there, nor the things prayed for come short of the pray'r.

We, where no troubles distraction can bring, safely the anthems of Zion shall sing; while for Your grace, Lord, their voices of praise Your blessed people shall evermore raise.

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Now let us worship our Lord and our King, joyfully raising our voices to sing: Praise to the Father, and praise to the Son, praise to the Spirit, to God, Three in One.

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And now, O Father, mindful of the love that bought us, once for all, on Calvary's tree, and having with us him that pleads above, we here present, we here spread forth to thee that only offering perfect in thine eyes, the one true, pure, immortal sacrifice.

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Look, Father, look on his anointed face, and only look on us as found in him; look not on our misusings of thy grace, our prayer so languid, and our faith so dim: for lo, between our sins and their reward we set the Passion of thy Son our Lord.

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And then for those, our dearest and our best, by this prevailing presence we appeal: O fold them closer to thy mercy's breast, O do thine utmost for their souls' true weal; from tainting mischief keep them white and clear, and crown thy gifts with strength to persevere.

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4 And so we come: O draw us to thy feet, most patient Saviour, who canst love us still; and by this food, so aweful and so sweet, deliver us from every touch of ill: in thine own service make us glad and free, and grant us never more to part with thee.

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He who comes to me shall not hunger; he who believes in me shall not thirst.

No one can come to me unless the Father draw him.

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And I will raise him up, and I will raise him up, and I will raise him up on the last day.

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The bread that I will give is my flesh for the life of the world, and he who eats of this bread, he shall live for ever, he shall live for ever.

THE POST COMMUNION PRAYER All:

Almighty God, we thank you that in your great love you have fed us with the spiritual food and drink of the Body and Blood of your son Jesus Christ and have given us a foretaste of your heavenly banquet. Grant that this Sacrament may be to us a comfort in affliction, and a pledge of our inheritance in that kingdom where there is no death, neither sorrow not crying, but the fullness of joy with all your saints, through Jesus Christ our Saviour. Amen.

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THANKSGIVING HYMN......................................................................................................... “And Can It Be” (CPWI 496) 1

And can it be that I should gain An int'rest in the Savior's blood?

Died He for me, who caused His pain?

For me, who Him to death pursued?

Amazing love! how can it be That Thou, my God, should die for me?

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He left His Father's throne above, So free, so infinite His grace; Emptied Himself of all but love, And bled for Adam's helpless race; 'Tis mercy all, immense and free; For, O my God, it found out me. [Refrain]

Refrain: Amazing love! how can it be That Thou, my God, should die for me!

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Long my imprisoned spirit lay Fast bound in sin and nature's night; Thine eye diffused a quick'ning ray, I woke, the dungeon flamed with light; My chains fell off, my heart was free; I rose, went forth and followed Thee. [Refrain]

'Tis mystery all! Th'Immortal dies!

Who can explore His strange design?

In vain the firstborn seraph tries To sound the depths of love divine!

'Tis mercy all! let earth adore, Let angel minds inquire no more. [Refrain] 2

No condemnation now I dread; Jesus, and all in Him is mine!

Alive in Him, my living Head, And clothed in righteousness divine, Bold I approach th'eternal throne, And claim the crown, through Christ my own. [Refrain] 5

THE COMMENDATION Celebrant: All:

Give rest, O Christ to your servant with your saints.

Where sorrow and pain are no more neither sighing, but life everlasting.

Celebrant:

You only are immortal, the creator and maker of mankind; and we are mortal, formed of the earth, and to earth shall we return. For so did you ordain when you created me saying. “You are dust and to dust shall you return.” All of us go down to the dust; yet even at the grave we make our song. Alleluia! Alleluia! Alleluia!

Give rest, O Christ to your servant with your saints. Were sorrow and pain are no more neither sighing, but life everlasting

All: Celebrant: All:

Let us commend our sister Sylvia to the mercy of God our Maker and Redeemer. Deliver Your servant Sylvia O Sovereign Lord Christ, from all evil, and set her free from every bond, that she may rest with all Your Saints in the eternal habitations; where with the Father and the Holy Spirit live and reign, one God for ever and ever. Amen.

Amen.

All:

Let us pray: Into Your hands, O merciful Saviour, we commend Your servant Sylvia. Acknowledge we humbly ask you, a sheep of Your own fold, a lamb of Your own flock, a sinner of Your own redeeming. Receive her into the arms of Your mercy, into the blessed rest of eternal peace, and into the glorious company of the saints in light.

Amen

Celebrant: All:

Rest eternal grant to her O Lord.

And let light perpetual shine upon her.

Celebrant: All:

May she rest in peace.

Amen.

Celebrant: All:

May her soul and the souls of all the faithful departed through the mercy of God rest in peace.

Amen.

Celebrant:

THE RECESSIONAL HYMN........................................................................................... “For All The Saints” ( CPWI 819)” 1 For all the saints who from their labors rest, who Thee by faith before the world confessed; Thy name, O Jesus, be forever blest.

Alleluia, Alleluia!

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2

Thou wast their Rock, their Fortress and their Might; Thou, Lord, their Captain in the well-fought fight; Thou, in the darkness drear, their one true Light.

Alleluia, Alleluia!

O blest communion, fellowship divine!

We feebly struggle, they in glory shine; yet all are one in Thee, for all are Thine.

Alleluia, Alleluia!

3

And when the strife is fierce, the warfare long, steals on the ear the distant triumph song, and hearts are brave again, and arms are strong.

Alleluia, Alleluia!

4

5

6

But then there breaks a still more glorious day: the saints triumphant rise in bright array; the King of glory passes on His way.

Alleluia, Alleluia!

From earth's wide bounds, from ocean's farthest coast, through gates of pearl streams in the countless host, in praise of Father, Son, and Holy Ghost.

Alleluia, Alleluia!

G R AV E S I D E H Y M N S “A B I D E

Abide with me: fast falls the eventide; the darkness deepens; Lord, with me abide.

When other helpers fail and comforts flee, Help of the helpless, O abide with me.

WITH

ME ”

1

I fear no foe with thee at hand to bless, ills have no weight, and tears no bitterness.

Where is death's sting? Where, grave, thy victory?

I triumph still, if thou abide with me.

4

Swift to its close ebbs out life's little day; earth's joys grow dim, its glories pass away.

Change and decay in all around I see.

O thou who changest not, abide with me.

2

I need thy presence every passing hour.

What but thy grace can foil the tempter's power?

Who like thyself my guide and strength can be?

Through cloud and sunshine, O abide with me.

3

” WHE N

Hold thou thy cross before my closing eyes.

Shine through the gloom and point me to the skies.

Heaven's morning breaks and earth's vain shadows flee; in life, in death, O Lord, abide with me.

5

P E ACE

LIKE

1

When peace like a river attendeth my way, when sorrows like sea billows roll; whatever my lot, thou hast taught me to say, "It is well, it is well with my soul."

3

It is well with my soul; it is well, it is well with my soul.

4

R IVER”

My sin oh, the bliss of this glorious thought! my sin, not in part, but the whole, is nailed to the cross, and I bear it no more; praise the Lord, praise the Lord, O my soul! Refrain

Though Satan should buffet, though trials should come, let this blest assurance control: that Christ has regarded my helpless estate, and has shed his own blood for my soul. Refrain 2

A

O Lord, haste the day when my faith shall be sight, the clouds be rolled back as a scroll; the trump shall resound and the Lord shall descend; even so, it is well with my soul. Refrain

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“G L AD

R EUNION

DAY ”

There will be a happy meeting in Heaven, I know When we see the many loved ones we’ve known here below Gathered on that blessed hilltop with hearts all aglow That will be a glad reunion day.

A glad day, a wonderful day, A glad day, a glorious day There with all the holy angels and loved ones to stay That will be a glad reunion day.

When we live a million years in that wonderful place Basking in the love of Jesus, beholding His face It will seem but just a moment of praising His grace That will be a glad reunion day.

A glad day, a wonderful day, A glad day, a glorious day There with all the holy angels and loved ones to stay That will be a glad reunion day. ” FAT H E R

ALONG”

Tempted and tried we’re oft made to wonder, Why it should be thus all the day long; While there are others living about us, Never molested though in the wrong.

Farther along we’ll know all about it, Farther along we’ll understand why; Cheer up, don't worry, live in the sunshine, We’ll understand it all by and by.

When death has come and taken our loved ones, It leaves our home so lonely and drear; Then do we wonder why others prosper, Living so wicked year after year.

Faithful till death said our loving Master, A few more days to labor and wait; Toils of the road will then seem as nothing, As we sweep through the beautiful gate.

When we see Jesus coming in glory, When He comes from His home in the sky; Then we shall meet Him in that bright mansion, We'll understand it all by and by.

"IT ’S

ALR IG HT

NOW ”

There was a time I traveled A lonely sinful road Beneath a heavy burden bending low But now all things are different For Jesus took my load It’s alright now I’m His I know

A-down a lonely pathway Without a friend to guide I walked in sin and sorrow all alone ‘Til Jesus came and found me And drew me to His side It’s alright now for I’m His own

It’s alright now For I am in my Savior’s care It’s alright now My Savior hears and answers prayer He’ll walk beside me ‘Til I climb the heav’nly stair And ev’rything is alright now

No more in sin I wander No more in darkness roam The Lord has placed My feet on higher ground Each day new heights I’m gaining My soul is nearing home It’s alright now I’m heaven bound

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TRIBUTE TO A

A TRIBUTE TO

Remarkable Mother-in-Law

Oh, Cat Island, Oh Cat Island, you have lost a treasure, as Mummy has gone to join the Heaven Band. To others, you were affectionately S. M. O'Brien, Sly or “Teach”; to me, you were Mummy. You were stern, no-nonsense, strongwilled and resolute once your mind was made up, it was set. Yet, beneath that firmness, you showed unconditional love, guidance, and kindness. Your strength and love shaped me, and for that, I am forever grateful. Even though your voice is silent and physical presence is missed, your spirit will live on and on. You will forever be in my heart.

It is with a heavy heart and deep gratitude that I write this tribute to you, Mom. From the moment I became part of your family, you embraced me as your own. Your warmth, kindness, and unwavering love extended far beyond blood ties, and for that, I will forever be grateful.

You will truly be missed by your loving daughter,

You not only shaped the lives of your children but also influenced mine in countless ways. Your advice, encouragement, and unwavering belief in me were gifts I will always treasure. You showed me what it truly means to lead a life filled with purpose and love.

My Beloved Mother

ROSALIND

You were a woman of great wisdom and grace, a pillar of strength who taught us all the value of love, humility, and perseverance. Your laughter brought light to our lives, and your generosity knew no bounds.

Though we say goodbye today, your spirit lives on in our hearts and in the legacy you’ve left behind. We promise to honor your memory by cherishing your values and keeping your love alive in our family.

Rest well, Mom. Thank you for everything. You will always be deeply loved and forever missed.

With love and gratitude, ANDREW

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A LOVING TRIBUTE TO

MyMom

LOVE, RODNEY

A TRIBUTE TO MY MOTHER

Grandmummy,

It’s not easy telling someone how much you love and adore them. This is one time I will have the will to express myself.

To my mother, thank you for always loving me and guiding me. Even though you are no longer here with me, you are always in my heart. I love and miss you dearly. There were many mornings I would walk around the corner to the homestead just to check up on you and daddy. I will always remember the times I could not wait until the bread was finished baking and the boil fish stop boiling to have a meal. Life was much more bearable with you around, but unbearable without you being not a part of it. I will always cherish the good times I’ve had with you. It’s hard saying Goodbye to a mother whose worthy of praise.

I still can't believe you're gone. I will miss you so much. You helped raised me the first few years of my life. You helped me with my school work and took me to Cat Island every year as a child.

I will miss the sound of your voice, whenever I asked if I could have something, you would always say, "go right ahead child". I take comfort in knowing that you're with granddaddy now, I know how much you missed him. I will be sure to tell your great grand kids stories about you.

Take your rest grandmummy. I love you.

TOYA

LOVE, COLIN

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A TRIBUTE TO

MY BELOVED MOTHER Mom, words will never fully capture the depth of love and gratitude I have for you. From the moment I came into this world, you were my protector, my guide, and my greatest supporter.

You were the heart of our family, the one who made everything feel whole.

Your laughter was a melody that brought joy to everyone, and your wisdom was a beacon of light guiding us through life’s challenges.

As your youngest, I had the privilege of experiencing your love in its purest form. You taught me how to love unconditionally, how to face difficulties

I HAVE FOND MEMORIES of the

times I would stop by the house in Stapledon when I was still in high school and you would be in the kitchen cooking or baking something most delicious and I would say "Hi Mrs. O'B, you got any bread today" and you would say "it's right there on the counter chile and go look in the fridge for the cheese". You knew how much I enjoyed eating fresh baked bread with some of that block cheese you kept in the fridge. You would always greet me with a smile on your face and would always offer me something to take with me when I was leaving. You always had a loving heart and a giving spirit. I will always remember when I asked you and Mr. O'B what were your thoughts of me marring Toya and I would never forget that you laughed and said "Don't ask us you better ask Toya" and we all had a good laugh that day.

I felt proud to know that I had your blessings to marry your granddaughter. I know that you will live on in all of those that came to know you and I will cherish the memories I have of you and know that you will be truly missed.

Sincerely

CECIL DORSETT JR.

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with courage, and how to cherish the simple yet profound moments in life.

Your passing leaves a void that can never be filled, but your legacy lives on in my heart and in the hearts of everyone whose lives you touched. I promise to honor your memory by living with the same kindness, strength, and grace that you showed us every day.

Rest peacefully, Mom, knowing that your love will always be with me, guiding me until we meet again.

LOVE, PAUL

LOVE LIAM SYLVI A O'B R I EN - 20

A TRIBUTE TO

Aunt Sylvia

A TRIBUTE FROM PAUL KING

FORMER STUDENT AND FRIEND

Mrs. O'Brien was more than a teacher to me at Dumfries All-Age School; she was a mentor and a guiding light. Our bond grew beyond the classroom into a lifelong friendship that extended from Cat Island to New Providence, where she and her husband, Granville O'Brien, became like family.

We stayed connected through the years, whether through her visits or the many projects we worked on together. One of the most memorable was fundraising for

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the restoration of churches in Cat Island, a cause close to both of our hearts. I will always treasure the moments we shared performing in Plays at St. John's College or just visiting, her passion and creativity were infectious.

Mrs. O'Brien's unwavering commitment to education, community, and the arts left an indelible mark on my life. She will forever be remembered with love and gratitude.

PA L L B E A R E R S ADRIAN “RICKY” MILLER SIMON ROLLE JAMES “JIMMY” JOHNSON

KELSON HALL WILLIAM ROLLE II

H O N O R A RY PA L L B E A R E R S RODNEY O’BRIEN GRANVILLE O’BRIEN JR. ANDREW JOHNSON

COLIN O’BRIEN WINSTON PAUL O’BRIEN

Acknowledgements The family of the late Sylvia O’Brien wishes to express our heartfelt gratitude for the outpouring of love, support and kindness during this difficult time. We appreciate your comforting words, prayers and visits and other acts of kindness that have brought us strength and peace. May God bless each of you for the love and care you have shown us. Your thoughtfulness will forever remain in our hearts.