Panther Pulse - Special Edition Alumni Spotlights May 2025
Greetings, Global Panthers!
DIRECTOR’SDISPATCH
Dear ASM Alumni,
Greetings from Noverasco, where spring has been really lovely this year, but where we are currently in a fourday rainy stretch Bring back memories? The community is really enjoying our first spring with the Learning Forest on campus…lots to explore and learn. ASM is, as usual, abuzz with activity. Seniors are enjoying their last week before they start their IB exams Our Green Teams have scheduled a full month of sustainability activities to recognize Earth Day, and Earth Day will see us all come together for a full school assembly in the gym.
ASM’s environmental clubs have been working hard to reinstate ASM’s status as an Eco-School Over the past several months, they have had to research, write, make presentations and fulfill other application requirements. Last week, we received the great news that ASM’s application had been approved and we were awarded the Green Flag. Student leadership will present this great news to the whole student body on April 18th.
In other news, ASM’s Robotics team defended its crown in the Mediterranean Association of International Schools Robotics Tournament, held in March in Lisbon, Portugal. Congratulations to Mr. Waldron and his roboticists!
May is a big month for our seniors: our 76 seniors will wrap up their IB exams, celebrate with Prom on May 23rd, and graduate on May 25th. Graduation is now held in ASM’s 550 seat auditorium, which was added to campus in 2019 Our Graduation Speaker this year is Bernie Botto, Class of 2015 We look forward to sending our seniors off to universities around the world, and to seeing how they will make us proud.
Lastly, it is my hope to be able to catch up with many of you at the ASM Alumni Reunion to be held in Wisconsin this summer. As my son lives in Madison, it is a convenient stop for me during summer travels. For more information about this summer’s reunion, contact Christina Axtmann at asmilan2025@gmail com
Happy Summer!
Wayne Rutherford
ASM Director since 2019.
A Journey Through ASM: 31 Years of Memories
Jill Borriello
I joined ASM on August 1, 1978, as the Director’s Secretary, working alongside Bob Romano A year later, he moved on, and I continued my role with Albert Chudler, Joseph Kennedy, David Ottaviano, and Alan Derry
Back then, the school nurse also served as the receptionist, and whenever she was busy attending to students, I stepped in to cover the front desk Our office was in what is now the nurse’s office, along with the business manager and his two assistants, as well as the director We also oversaw the elementary school until a dedicated office was set up on the first floor
One of my unexpected roles was that of a swimming chaperone Since my boys had afternoon swimming lessons at the pool across the road, I was often there, keeping an eye on things Over time, I transitioned to the Guidance and Middle School Office, supporting a series of school counselors. I also took on the role of school registrar, starting with a traditional card system before helping to introduce PowerSchool. As the system’s administrator, I even traveled to Salt Lake City for training. PowerSchool also simplified the once painstaking task of manually creating the high school and middle school schedules.
Beyond that, I managed after-school activity registration, D and F lists, nationality breakdowns, class lists, school supply purchases, and anything else the director needed Eventually, I became the Assistant to Shirley Grover, serving as an Information Specialist until my retirement in 2009
ASM was not just my workplace it was also my children’s second home Both of my sons attended from nursery through graduation, earning their IB diplomas They were actively involved in varsity volleyball and football, and my eldest even returned as an assistant volleyball coach for a season After graduation, they both attended the University of Greenwich in London, secured jobs within a month, and have since built successful careers Today, they are homeowners one in London, the other in New Jersey and proud fathers themselves My youngest, who was in 11th grade when ASM introduced its laptop program, pursued a career in web design and has thrived in the field My eldest is now a Facilities Manager in London, working with some of the most renowned organizations
Through my 31 years at ASM, I had the privilege of watching generations of students grow, learn, and move on to achieve incredible things. Today, I stay connected with over a thousand former students on Facebook. It’s heartwarming to see them now, building families of their own and making their mark on the world. Looking back, my time at ASM was filled with wonderful friendships, unforgettable moments, and a deep sense of belonging. Even in retirement, those connections continue to bring me joy.
Wonderful memories, Jill Borriello
Alumni Spotlight
Michael Wollberg
Class of ‘75
The Wollberg family arrived in Milano in September of 1963, just before my 6th birthday Twelve years later, I flew from Malpensa to the "States" to begin my college career To this day, my college friends refer to the guy from Italy as "Pasta Fazool".
Growing up in Milano was magnificent We had the freedom to take the tram to school, have lunch in countless eateries around the Banco di Roma, and travel extensively to ski resorts, soccer tournaments, and numerous other destinations. We watched Milan beat Inter repeatedly, in foggy San Siro We lived "La Vita!"
Our School was equally special We invented "indoor soccer" and played epic ping-pong matches with carefully selected library books in lieu of paddles. Many learned to enjoy wine and spirits during this period
Meanwhile, Mrs Sanguinetti patiently projected mathematical equations scribbled on acetate sheets Mr Miltenberger taught us English and "Communications" in a desk-less classroom (while we all sat on a bright orange rug with oversized cushions) Ms Girardon encouraged us, unsuccessfully in my case, to get out of our comfort zone by acting on stage Mrs Gilioli and Mrs Colloridi taught us foreign languages. Mrs. Paduano taught us the importance of being disciplined.
Most importantly, we were a community Teachers took great interest in us Our courageous parents were equally involved and invested. Students looked after one another and forged close friendships Activities were largely conducted without regard to age or grade level
The absence of internet and social media made it difficult to keep in touch following graduation. Fortunately, Tina remedied this situation in 2006 by doggedly getting us together for a long-overdue reunion The NYC and ensuing "reunions" have given us the improbable opportunity to rekindle friendships and celebrate our unique bond and individual journeys, while recounting coming-of-age experiences Thanks Tina, what an incredible gift!
Today, from our home-base of Miami, Martha and I continue to travel extensively, enjoy the peacefulness of the mountains, and embrace new adventures, cultures, and friendships And we always relish the chance to return home to Milano
Having attended ASM from first through twelfth grade, it meant, after family, … almost everything! It meant opening my eyes to everything foundational in life, academically, socially and personally The school was intimate and was truly a second family. My roots are there, deeply.
So many teachers were my favorites! In Junior High School, the severe Mrs. Paduano (whom I credit for an academic turn around) and the eccentric Mr Marston (health seeds anyone?). In High School, Ms. Sanguinetti, Mrs Ghidini and of course my beloved aunt, Signora Gilioli, were and are the pillars of my education Special mention to Milty (Carole King forever), Ms. G (both International Relations and the theater) and Ms Zilka (who could somehow bring out artist creativity even from the least talented such as me) And, of course, the unforgettable Mr Newton and Mr Mackey
ASM nurtured me and gave me the confidence and tools to succeed in college and later in life, both professionally and socially It provided me with a dual education, culture and identity that made me what I am today
ASM nurtured me and gave me the confidence and tools to succeed in college and later in life, both professionally and socially. It provided me with a dual education, culture and identity that made me what I am today.
What has it meant to you to re-unite with ACSM/ASM alumni over the years?
Much more fun than I had anticipated. Even though we have all changed, I feel a strong bond with my classmates, even with some who have, and always have, made the wrong choices in politics and soccer. Un abbraccio a tutti!
ASM nurtured me and gave me the confidence and tools to succeed in college and later in life, both professionally and socially
Alumni Spotlight
Michael Lella
Class of ‘71
I was at ACSM from 6th through 12th grade, and as an adolescent, family, school, and friends were everything Our school had an enormous impact on our lives. It was unique as a school because it represented the American community in Milan, and we had a special bond with the school.
In high school, my family situation was not the best on account of my parent’s divorce The teachers, parents and certainly many of my classmates at ACSM helped me through that dark period I have very fond memories of Via Spadari and those four years of high school directly across from Piazza Duomo.
I had several favorite teachers
Perhaps my most favorite was my English teacher, Mrs. Ghidini I was not a happy student, and she instilled in me some confidence that I could do better at school Mr Newton was also another favorite. I just loved this British gentleman and since then, I have always been fond of the Brits His spirit and kindness represented the best, and I will never forget him.
Socially, being raised in a foreign country, being in an American Community had its advantages We all grew up speaking two or three languages and the academics at ACSM were high to above average Because of ASCM, and my ski racing, I was granted an athletic scholarship at University of Nevada - Reno where I pursued a degree in Journalism (thanks to Mrs. Ghidini)…. That was a big influence in my life
What has it meant reuniting with fellow ACSM/ASM alumni?
It’s been wonderful. I wish I could hear from more of them, many of whom, sadly we no longer know of their fate As we age, we’re hearing that some of our classmates have passed on, and that’s always sad (in my case this year, Paulo Speciale and Eric Swardson. My dear friend, Chris Harlepp, has literally disappeared ) We had strong bonds as alumni at ACSM and their loss is particularly painful. It was unique as a school because it represented the American community in Milan, and we had a special bond with the school.
Alumni Spotlight
Dana Ramezzano Boyle
Class of ‘75
ASM Upper School in the ’70’s represented unbridled freedom to roam a huge international city as kids, a chance to experience post-war Italian culture, and an opportunity to see the U.S. from an outsider’s perspective Thrown into the same boat, we were Americans, Italians, and students from other countries with very small classes. For the most part we bonded tightly because we had this common experience coming to school in our 5th floor bank building in the heart of downtown Milano It was a dynamic time crazy because of the politics swirling around us, but also beautiful because of the culture that blended deep history with modernism.
Our bonds are reflected back when we get together after so many years and feel this closeness, perhaps to realize that we had only been together for a year or two or if we were years apart to simply have shared that special bubble in time I appreciated many of our teachers One who was especially inspiring was the art teacher, Dorothy Zilka, who taught life drawing. Unlike some of the more colorful characters, she was a quiet, sophisticated and gentle influence in the classroom, and her ability to draw the best out of us led me to take more art classes in college and beyond.
ASM Upper School in the ’70’s represented unbridled freedom to roam a huge international city as kids, a chance to experience post-war Italian culture, and an opportunity to see the U S from an outsider’s perspective.
Alumni Spotlight
Cinzia Scaravilli
Class of ‘76
ACSM/ASM was more than just a school to me it was my safe place in a country that, at the time, was very foreign culturally and linguistically Bonding with my peers in the same situation gave me strength I think it gave all of us a strong foundation, not only academically, but also in character, resilience, and curiosity. When I think back on those years, I am always infinitely grateful to have been able to grow up in such a special country surrounded by so many wonderful people who became lifelong friends Not many people can say their high school was on the 5th floor of a bank in downtown Milano…with all the perks that came with!
I loved so many of my teachers: Ms Ghidini, Ms Giglioli, Mr Newton, Ms Sanguinetti in alphabetical order to not play favorites. However, “Milty” [Mr. Miltenberger] was no doubt the most influential figure during my time at ASM. His visionary approach to teaching was truly ahead of its time He didn’t just teach us how to speak or write well, he taught us how to think, listen, and connect on a deeper level. His classroom, no desks, just pillows and a carpet, felt like a space where ideas came alive, where innovation and creativity were encouraged, and where every voice mattered He challenged us to see the world not just as it was, but as it could be and that mindset has stayed with me ever since He was an amazing human being: caring, fun, energetic, smart, positive …the list goes on and on. I will hold him in my heart forever.
Reuniting with ASM alumni feels like coming home No matter how many years pass or how far we’ve all traveled, there’s an instant sense of connection We share a common thread that ties us to a unique and formative time in our lives. Every reunion brings laughter, love, support, reflection, and a deep sense of gratitude for the bond we continue to share
ACSM/ASM was more than just a school to me—it was my safe place in a country that, at the time, was very foreign culturally and linguistically
Alumni Spotlight
Susan Schoen Kangas & Kathy Schoen Wegman
Class of ‘74
The Schoen family arrived in Milan in 1970. As young teens from Minnesota we were excited and a bit apprehensive We both finished our high school years at ASM as well as our brother Paul in 1976. Our family remained in Milan until 1977
First day at ASM was a bit of a shock, not many from the Midwest! Over our high school years, there were about 100 students in the High School and around 23 nationalities Navigating this new situation, especially when the High School was in the center of Milan, had a tremendous impact on the people we are today First, we learned to be accepting of people who are different than ourselves. Meeting new people, people who think differently, helped us to be more openminded in how we see ourselves and the world.
We learned not to fear the unknown, because everything was unknown. This influenced our outlook on life and made us more confident in ourselves as well as we developed a global perspective. At the same time, we had to learn to be tolerant of people who did not have the same perspective. All of our experiences resulted in a love of travel that we still enjoy today
Seeing our classmates over the years at the many reunions reminds us of the unique experience that we had at ASM No one can really understand it except the ones that were here.
It’s difficult to totally describe how the ASM experience influenced who we are today. However, the impact was huge and much appreciated We have to thank our parents for making the decision to come to Italy. We appreciate the sacrifices they made and the positive attitude they instilled in us during this formative time in our young lives.
Seeing our classmates over the years at the many reunions reminds us of the unique experience that we had at ASM.
Alumni Spotlight
Robin Tobin
Class of ‘81
When I think about how ASM positively influenced me, it all comes down to the foundation it gave me not just academically, but personally. It was a place where I learned who I was, where teachers encouraged curiosity, resilience, and leadership Whether it was a favorite subject, a teacher, a sport, or a club, those experiences pushed me to dream bigger. But maybe even more importantly, it was the friendships the bonds we built walking these halls that taught me loyalty, support, and laughter
Reuniting with alumni has been an incredible reminder that no matter how much time passes, some connections don’t fade It’s been amazing seeing where life has taken everyone, and realizing that even though we’ve grown and changed, that shared foundation still ties us together. When we’re together, we pick up right where we left off and it makes me proud, grateful, and excited for all the memories still to come.
Reuniting with alumni has been an incredible reminder that no matter how much time passes, some connections don’t fade.
Alumni Spotlight
Tim Parenti
Class of ‘79
My father, Dean Parenti, was one of the founders of ACSM in 1962
ASM, unfortunately, means more to me now than it ever did when I lived in Milano. I didn’t fully appreciate the scope, magnitude and uniqueness of living in a foreign country – especially since most of my formative years were in Milano The value came when I LEFT Milano/ASM. Relationships weren’t as deep in the U.S. and life seemed like a pretty boring.
Being in a foreign country never felt “unique” to me It was all I’d ever known – and I thought that’s how all kids grew up It wasn’t until I got out into the “real world” that I realized and appreciated the privilege I was afforded. The list of benefits were vast: Being able to quickly make friends, connecting with people from a wide variety of cultures, having a 360 degree view of the world (versus myopic), being able to chat with perfect strangers at a bar in French, Italian, Swedish – not to mention the incredible collection of swear words I memorized in 10+ languages (LOL) The skill set I developed that helped me most as an adult was being incredibly independent and resourceful For example, we had to plan for bus, metro and tram schedules to get home – without the internet nor cell phone. Scrounging for a “Gettone” to call someone to let them know where you were – or where you were supposed to go (I can’t speak for anyone else, but I hardly had any money when I was walking around town)
We were taught to never answer a question with a question – but I’m going to violate that tenant by asking the following Question: What’s a Wollberg? What’s a Topham? What’s an Erbland? What’s a Robinson?
Answer: These random people were never part of my experience at ASM Although I had heard their names before – I feel as close to them as if we had spent decades together. When we’re asked “What does it mean to re-unite with ASM alumni over the years”THIS is the answer We were all part of a unique culture that bound us together – irrespective as to whether weexperienced it together. The “bind” is there – we “get it” One can recount an experience at the Galleria, at the Duomo, at Banco Di Roma and we all “get it” –despite not being there. Stories of teachers, the cooks in the cafeteria and ski trips to the mountains are all “shared experiences” We smile and laugh at the stories due to this wonderful bond Again we “get it”!
My non ASM friends are baffled that we have these continued reunions They cannot get their arms around the fact that we are bonding with someone we knew for two years as if we had known them for 22 years! They say things like, “Didn’t you guys have a reunion a few years ago? Why are you doing it again?” I feel their pain… they DON’T “get it”…
