Pangyao Magazine Issue #9: Apr/May 2023

Changing perceptions with Africa Center HK

Nurturing Hong Kong’s Filipino youth with Section Juan

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Issue 9

Apr / May ‘23

Editors:

Aileen Alonzo-Hayward & Martin Turner

Lead writer:

Aileen Alonzo-Hayward

Front cover:

Designed by Martin Turner, lead image provided by Innocent Mutanga

Design:

Martin Turner (based on original template designed by Steve Ellul of Cedar Hong Kong)

Special thanks:

Steve Ellul, Darren Hayward & Lie Fhung

Poetry corner

In collaboration with Spill of an Ink

NGO spotlight: Helpology Free legal services for HK’s most vulnerable

Conversation with Ron Ron discusses recovering from setbacks

Building the Africa brand: Africa Center HK

Pangyao talks to founder Innocent Mutanga

Pangyao pics

Winners of our “Laban lang” photo competition

A taste of home: Asih cooks gulai nangka

Jackfruit curry, an Indonesian countryside staple

Community groups: Section Juan Nurturing Hong Kong’s Filipino youth

A mother’s path (Pathfinders collaboration)

The challenging journey of migrant mothers

Pathfinders meets: Xyza Cruz Bacani

Xyza shares her childhood memories

Philippine Consulate General message

Consul General Raly L. Tejada’s regular update

Fiesta sa Mayo! (Filipino)

Popular festivals in May in the Philippines

Cintamu tanpa syarat (Indonesian) A story of love by Endang Dwi Ernawati

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A word from the founders

HI PANGYAOS, WELCOME TO OUR 9TH ISSUE!

Hong Kong ended the mask mandate in March, and there has been no looking back since. The air of cautious optimism is palpable and the Pangyao team is looking forward to what’s in store for the future.

Our cover feature, founder of Africa Center HK Innocent Mutanga, shares his extraordinary journey from homelessness to success, and his mission of ‘Rebranding Blackness’ – bringing the vibrant culture of Africa to Hong Kong and Asia through literature, arts, music, and community.

Also in this issue: our spotlight shines on NGO Helpology; Aileen talks to Filipino youth outreach group Section Juan; Asih gives us a taste of Indonesia with her gulai nangka (jackfruit curry); Ron’s talks about recovering from setbacks in his regular column; we explore popular Philippine festivals celebrated in May... and much more!

From the bottom of our hearts, thank you so much for your continued support and we hope you enjoy this issue!

Aileen & Martin

Masala Dosa

Biryani

Mutton Curry

Nasi Lemak

Gulab Jamon

Chicken Curry

Behind that rainbow

Sitting alone on this cold, cold night... Looking at the stars shining so bright...

By Kapitan KalanSyar

Wishing from above you will alight... And beside me, you were here tonight...

That once again we are together... For a moment of joy and laughter...

Exchanging thoughts with one another... Treasured memories for each other...

All the knowledge, guidance, and wisdom... You moulded me on what I’ve become... For a positive mind and outcome... Ready for whatever that may come...

Mamuhay ng may pag-asa

By Lorna Datario a.k.a Gediona Makata

Kay sarap mabuhay puno ng pag-asa

Hindi natatakot sa dagsang problema. Buong katapangan sa D’yos ay aasa, Pagtitiwala ko’y mula lang sa Kanya.

Ang buhay ng tao’y walang katiyakan

Mga pababago’y mayro’ng kaganapan

Sa buhay-relasyon, trabaho’t aliwan

Hindi nababatid ang kinabukasan.

To always live in humility...

Care for the earth and humanity... Follow commands of Thy Almighty... And live with Him for eternity...

But no matter how loud will I scream... How many tears of mine flow at the stream...

Mountains I will climb and seas to swim... Having you now is nothing but dream...

At the end of this life we borrow... May be now, next year or tomorrow... Wherever you are I will follow...

We’ll meet behind the coloured rainbow...

Tanggaping maluwag buhay-realidad

May bawat panahon; dilim at liwanag

Higpitan ang kapit sa taglay na hawak Masasaktan kalang sakaling lumigwak.

Huwag makampate at baka mabuwal

Tagumpay na hawak simpleng ikarangal Anumang makamtam sikaping magtagal Lahat na gagawin lakipan ng dasal.

Hatid na mensahe ng aking Panulat, Kaisipang tulog ay dapat mamulat

Sana’y unawain sa mundo’y ikalat Walang imposible kung sa D’yos ay tapat.

In collaboration with Spill of an Ink poetry group

If life is not a bed of roses

Full of thorns rather than petals

Try to look at the positive side

And just go with the flow and ride the tide

Each pain engraved helps you improve

Develop what is in the deepest groove

To embark on the new fresh chapter

What life may throw you, it doesn’t matter

We may fall deep down the pit

But we have our friends who are there in a bit

Yes... we all have choices

To be silent or make some noises

To pick up the bits and pieces

And try to learn from what life teaches

There is always a room for change

Not to be afraid to get out of the cage

Turn to a new leaf and go up the stage

Now is the time of your life’s new page

Willing to give a helping hand whenever you needed it

All the darkness swarming around you eventually lit

Everyone needs a second chance

Even given another glance

We have to get out of the trance

And get along to the music and dance

A new beginning

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Introducing Branches of Hope

“THAT TIME I was so helpless [because of] the way [I was] treated by my employer; I feel like am really a slave,” says Rosalie, one of the many migrant domestic workers (MDWs) who have received assistance through Helpology. “I’m so lucky that Helpology and friends help[ed] me a lot.”

Founded in 2021 by lawyers wanting to give back to the community, Helpology’s mission is to provide free advice, education, and assistance on various legal issues to MDWs, ethnic minorities, and other vulnerable members of the population in Hong Kong, to ensure they receive fair and equal treatment before the law.

“We have done over 1,000 hours of probono work since we started Helpology,” says Stephanie Chan, one of the founders of the organisation. “We offer a 24-hour WhatsApp hotline and a bi-weekly, in-person community legal clinic, where MDWs can book an appointment through our hotline.”

These clinics have provided support in over 300 cases – most of them from the MDW

community. Some migrant workers come to Hong Kong not knowing their rights or how to reach out for legal assistance. Navigating all the requirements, documents, rules, regulations, and laws around MDW employment can be daunting, even more so for individuals who are being exploited or abused by their employer.

The first client that Stephanie and her team handled was Lerma. She was physically and verbally abused by her employer, who even went as far as calling the police on her. Lerma was scared, but she held her ground; she refused to sign any unjust documents her employer presented to her until she sought advice from Helpology. They helped her write a letter before action and a letter to the Immigration Department explaining her situation, calculated her termination entitlements, assisted in the mediation meeting with the Labour Relations Department, and pulled her out of the abusive situation with her employer.

Aside from providing legal assistance, Helpology also has an ambassador

All photos provided by Helpology

programme, where MDWs can join as community outreach volunteers, raising awareness amongst fellow workers about their rights, and advising how and where to seek legal assistance or counselling. Armed with their handbooks and knowledge, these ambassadors are on the pulse when it comes to identifying the hot issues within the community, proving an invaluable collaboration for Helpology.

“It is important for us to have ambassadors that help us reach out to the community. We want to serve the migrant domestic workers more because they deserve it,” says Stephanie. “In the future, we want to offer workshops and maybe even health and fitness classes,” she adds.

Being a relatively young non-governmental organisation (NGO), they were on unsure footing in the beginning, with no full-time staff or permanent office space. But as their supporters grew, both within the MDW community and amongst other government and non-government organisations, they began seeing more impactful results.

to talk about the details of each case and go over the paperwork; it minimises misunderstandings and gives clients the opportunity to explain their situation more clearly. A Filipino speaker is onboard when needed to avoid misinterpretations.

“We want to make sure that every case gets the attention it needs, to provide high quality work, and make sure we oversee everything before we file it to the Labour tribunal or to the Hong Kong Immigration Department,” says Stephanie, highlighting the NGO’s commitment to upholding the law firm standards of each case.

Lerma’s testimonial likewise speaks of the hard work and dedication of the Helpology team: “Malaki pasasalamat ko po sa Helpology sa pagtulong nila sa akin at pag-alalay nila noong ako ay nagkaproblema sa amo ko, simula sa unang araw hanggang sa huli hindi nila ako pinabayaan.” (I owe a huge thanks to Helpology for the help and assistance they gave to me when I was having problems with my employer, from the first day until the end, they did not leave me.)

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Currently, Helpology have 8-10 lawyers who oversee cases and offer their services free of charge. Stephanie also emphasises the importance of meeting face-to-face @helpologyhk

It is important for us to have ambassadors that help us reach out to the community. We want to serve the migrant domestic workers more because they deserve it - Stephanie Chan, Helpology co-founder

How to recover from setbacks

You woke up this morning feeling so frustrated. You think the whole world is on your shoulder. You can’t even have a decent sleep. You seem to encounter failure after failure. You can’t remember the last time you felt good about yourself. Life seems to be beating you, and it sucks. What can you do?

Yes, we all know it; a failed venture can be paralysing and discouraging. Sometimes it leaves deep wounds that often hinder us from looking for whatever bright side life offers. What shall you do? Here are five recommendations you can follow to steadily (with higher certainty) recover from defeat.

1. Recognizing setbacks / acceptance

It will help if you recognise that you missed it. First, you need to comprehend your present situation. Denying your condition will only derail your road to recovery. Only by identifying where you are will you know where you must go.

There is a tendency for us to pretend that everything is alright or that nothing went wrong. Truly, failing is not always something to be proud of; however, it’s not always something to be ashamed of, either. Often, it could mean that you only have to do things differently. Instead, it’s usually just a call for a change. Realising and admitting that you failed can start you off you on your way to recovery.

Award-winning RTHK Pinoy Life presenter and Pangyao resident wordsmith Ron R. Lacson shares his thoughts

Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts

- Winston Churchill

2. Moving on / No overstaying

Yes, it is understandable that you feel so low. It’s ok to feel hurt or sad. It’s also alright to mourn your failure. But don’t do it for too long. Don’t dwell too much on it. Don’t overstay.

Sulking in one corner and being sad unceasingly will not help you; it will just stress your already broken heart. And no one wants to be with anyone who stays long in the pit; you have to get out of it. Step to where the sunlight is and move on. It is not easy, but you’ve got to do it.

3. Restoring self-esteem

Look back at your past accomplishments, even when they were quite some time ago. Remind yourself how skilled and talented you are, particularly in fields you are passionate about. List them if necessary, and then read them back to yourself. This is an excellent approach to make you realise that you just failed in one endeavour, but you are NOT a failure.

Talk to your best friend/s or people close to you. It’s crucial, however, that the individuals you speak with are those you could trust, those who would not look down on you, and who would recognise your potential. Let them remind you of your outstanding qualities, talents, and strengths. Do these things, and you will reinstate your self-confidence in no time.

4. Identifying what you can do

Remember that most failures result from overlooking the things you should have paid attention to but haven’t. You are often overwhelmed with many things, so you tend to oversee everything instead of attending to something you can control.

Focus on the areas you have control of and not on those you have no way of influencing. This means going back to the drawing board. This entails proper planning. This requires being better prepared for your subsequent activities. Remember, you are now on your way to recovery and don’t want to derail it again by not having a good plan. So again, focus on what you can control and identify precisely what you can do.

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5. Starting all over

The best life can offer is its ability to tell you that you can always start again, and it does not matter where you are in your life now. So don’t be afraid to begin again. Don’t be scared to break out of your shell again. Starting is often a good thing, especially if you already know many things you didn’t know before being hit by frustration.

Be happy to begin again. Find out the bright side of it. Realise how exciting it is to relaunch yourself. Learn the benefits of starting all over again. Failure is part of life; all of us experience it. But, sometimes, it’s just a segment of our life that we must face to succeed. So, when you wake up again tomorrow, remember that.

Failure should be our teacher, not our undertaker. Failure is delay, not defeat. It is a temporary detour, not a dead end

- Denis Waitley

Building the Africa brand:

By Aileen Alonzo-Hayward

“YOU ARE IN AFRICA NOW; our food is your food. Our space is your space. Everyone is welcome. And please stay for the music!”

announces Innocent Mutanga, founder of Africa Center HK, before proceeding to cheerfully introduce the African dinner menu for the evening.

Stepping into Africa Center for the first time, you are immediately embraced by a welcoming feeling of family and community. The entrance boasts an array of books on African literature, arts, and culture; the colourful murals on the walls paint an uncompromised reflection on blackness and the positive impact of black heritage and identity.

“When some people think of Africa, they picture a poor, starving child, or a group of black people living in poverty, looking miserable,” says Innocent. “But this is not the Africa I know. We are more than just the poster images that entice pity. There is so much that Africa can offer; food, fashion, literature, music, and much more besides – these are the things that we want to introduce to the Hong Kong community.”

On this particular Saturday night, around 50 people are gathered in the main room, listening intently to a seminar hosted by the US Consulate of Hong Kong about the one-drop rule (a legal principle of racial

Right: Moroccan chicken tangine, matembele (Gambian sweet potato leaf stew), misir wat (Ethiopian lentils), Malawian coconut milk rice, and Egyptian falafel Far-right: Enjoying dinner at the weekly African Dinner & Live Music Jam at Africa Center HK

classification that was prominent in the 20th-century United States; it asserted that any person with even one ancestor of black ancestry was considered black). The talk provided a good insight into what the centre are trying to achieve, by introducing blackness in their own terms.

After the talk, we spend a few minutes getting to know our fellow guests before being seated at the table for dinner. A starter of creamy Zimbabwean pumpkin soup is soon followed by a plate filled to the brim with Moroccan chicken tangine, matembele (Gambian sweet potato leaf stew), misir wat (Ethiopian lentils), Malawian coconut milk rice, and Egyptian falafel.

A diverse array of flavours, textures, and colours – it was Africa on a plate. Those enjoying the meal were similarly varied; HK residents and visitors alike, spanning multiple nationalities, united by a common curiosity about the evening ahead.

Arriving as an asylum seeker from Zimbabwe in 2013 with just HKD $200 in his pocket, Innocent initially made his way to Chungking Mansions in Tsim Sha Tsui, where he soon became acquainted with others in a similar position. “I have lived on both sides of society here in Hong Kong. I was homeless and slept on the streets for the first few months,” he recalls.

Championing the vibrancy and positivity of African culture in Asia, Africa Center HK’s message of ‘Rebranding Blackness’ aims to challenge perceptions and antiquated stereotypes

“In the beginning, I used to get meals from NGOs and charities, but it always gave me an uneasy feeling – people watching us eat. I always preferred ‘eating with dignity’ whenever I could. One of our favourite places when we had money was Karaikudi Akka in Chungking Mansions; for only $10 we could get a paratha (Indian flatbread), which they served to us with a sauce, so it was quite filling.”

Sunday was Innocent’s favourite day of the week back in those days, as he befriended quite a few migrant domestic workers [who often have their rest days on Sundays] who were kind enough to offer him food. He would take the Star Ferry from Tsim Sha Tsui to Central, then walk to Victoria Park in Causeway Bay, where his new friends would invite him to join them, sharing their food with him and exchanging stories.

“They treated me like their little brother and took care of me. I would eat my fill and they would even wrap up more food for me to take with me, saying, ‘Eat more! Eat more!’” he laughs. The migrant domestic worker community will always have a special place in Innocent’s heart, given the kindness and compassion they showed to him during that challenging period of his life.

Innocent’s luck began to change when he was offered a flat share with a Kenyan friend, who agreed to let him stay until he got up on his feet again. “Oh my goodness, it felt so great sleeping inside a house again!” he exclaims. Having spent months sleeping on

- Innocent talking of the compassion shown to him by domestic workers during his time as an asylum seeker

park benches and inside fast-food joints, having a roof over his head and a real bed to sleep in again was a real turning point.

However, it was Innocent’s own drive and desire to improve his situation that was nothing short of astonishing; he understood how being at the lowest rung of society could affect people’s perceptions of him, so he started sitting in on university lectures, less than a year after arriving in Hong Kong.

Hong Kong can be very tough for refugees and asylum seekers as it does not grant asylum; it only allows asylum seekers to submit claims for non-refoulement protection – a principle of international law forbidding countries from sending those seeking asylum back to a country where they face the risk of persecution. Currently there are about 15,000 foreigners seeking asylum in Hong Kong.

“The system is stacked against asylum seekers, so I decided to start studying,” he recollects. “I started sitting in classes while I was petitioning the government to allow me stay and study. I finally got my student visa approved in 2017, more than 3 years after I arrived.” At this point, he went on to study Anthropology at the Chinese University of Hong Kong.

While in university, Innocent joined a competition intended for business students – and won. Despite not being in business school, it was a chance to showcase his grit and determination: “I am very stubborn. If you tell me I can’t do it, I will try my very best to do it,” he shares.

They treated me like their little brother and took care of me. I would eat my fill and they would even wrap up more food for me to take with me, saying, ‘Eat more! Eat more!’

Innocent’s stubbornness and motivation paid off, culminating in him being offered a job at a prestigious global investment bank after university, marking another milestone in his remarkable Hong Kong journey.

But far from resting on his laurels, the dramatic improvement in his personal situation also presented opportunities, with Innocent soon turning his attention to another of his passions – his desire to broaden and challenge people’s views about Africa and their perception of blackness.

Innocent founded Africa Center in 2019, providing a platform and creative hub that fosters valuable interactions between African and non-African communities in Asia.

A bustling hive of activity, Africa Center is open to everybody who wants to learn; their many programmes include African drumming, cooking workshops, Chungking Mansions tours, virtual crafting, literature, educational talks, fashion, and much more.

Alongside their powerful tagline ‘Rebranding Blackness’, these programmes aim to immerse people in the culture of being black, breaking stereotypes, and challenging preconceived notions in the process.

So, with a successful career path in finance ahead of him and a thriving hub of African culture to his name, what does the future look like for Innocent? It doesn’t seem like he’ll be slowing down any time soon:

“Aside from continuing and expanding our work at Africa Center, I also want to see an African international school in Asia. There are many schools like the Korean International, German-Swiss International, French International… why can’t there be an African International?” he proposes.

“With Rebranding Blackness, we want to bridge the gap between African and Asian communities, shine a light and show people what Africa and Africans have to offer; not just images of poverty and crime, but of a rich, vibrant and welcoming culture.”

Top-left: Innocent leading the drum circle Top-right: Innocent discussing his Hong Kong journey with Aileen (Images by Martin Turner)

Bottom row: Africa Center HK plays host to a wide range of events focused around African culture (Images provided by Africa Center HK)

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gulai nangka (jackfruit curry)

Introducing Asih

Sulasih, or Asih to her friends, grew up on a rice farm in Indonesia with her parents and 5 other siblings. Everyone had a job to do, from her sisters and mother preparing the food and cleaning the house, to her father and brothers doing other chores around the farm and household. “I learned to cook from a young age; it has been my passion since. My friends often visit me here at my home to enjoy some of the food I make for them!” Asih shares with a gentle laugh.

Now, she spends time in her bright Lamma flat tending to her beautiful roof garden overlooking Yung Shue Wan, where she grows a variety of fruit, herbs, and orchids. This particular jackfruit – or nangka – which Asih used to make this dish was given to her by a next-door neighbour with a nangka tree in their yard.

About gulai nangka

A countryside staple in Java, Indonesia, gulai nangka uses herbs and spices that are readily available in the region, like galangal and candlenut. Nangka trees are very common in Southeast Asia. The giant, thorny skinned fruit can be eaten unripe or ripe. The ripe nangka is sweet and has a vanilla-like taste, often described by some people as a combination of pineapple and banana.

The unripe nangka needs to be cooked as the sap is very sticky and the flesh is quite tough. The cooked fruit has a neutral taste, taking on the flavour of the spices that it is cooked in. The texture is meaty, often used as a meat substitute for many vegan dishes. Like many Indonesian dishes, the rich and flavourful gulai nangka is best served with steamed rice.

Top-left: Nangka from a neighbour’s tree on Lamma

Bottom-left: Freshly cut jackfruit pieces

Bottom-middle: Asih pounding the paste

Top-right: Ingredients for gulai nangka

Bottom-right: Starters of tempeh (soybean) and bakwan sayur (veg fritters)

Ingredients

Paste:

• 3 cloves garlic

• 1 candlenut, cracked

• 2 ½ shallots, chopped

• 1 tbsp grated ginger

• ½ tsp coriander

• ½ tsp white pepper

• ½ tsp turmeric powder

• ¼ tsp cumin powder

• ¼ tsp grated nutmeg

• 2 sticks cinnamon

• 1 red pepper, blanched and chopped

• ¼ cup vegetable oil

Others:

• 500g nangka (jackfruit), roughly chopped

• 3 pcs Indonesian bay leaves

• 2 stalks lemongrass, pounded

• A thumb of galangal, pounded

• 4 pcs kaffir lime leaves

• 1 can coconut milk

• 300ml water

• Salt to taste

Method

1. Place all the ingredients for the paste (except the oil and red pepper) in a mortar and grind them into a rough paste with a pestle

2. Transfer the paste into a blender with the oil and the red pepper and about 200ml of water and lightly blend

3. Heat pan under a low fire; put the blended paste in pan and mix in the Indonesian bay leaves, lemongrass, galangal, kaffir lime leaves, and remaining 100ml water. Stir for 5 minutes

4. Mix in the nangka and stir for a further 5 minutes

5. Add coconut milk and salt to taste. If sauce is too thick, gradually add more water until desired consistency is achieved. Leave to simmer for 5 more minutes, stirring occasionally

6. Remove from pan and serve over steamed rice

Growing

Photos provided by Section Juan

up as an ethnic minority can sometimes be a challenge; Section Juan is nurturing Filipino youth in Hong Kong through emotional and mental support

IN THE PHILIPPINES, local school classes were historically divided into sections; sometimes randomly, sometimes based on performance, with the number of sections dependent on the number of students. Generally, there were 2-3 sections, with ‘section one’ being the class for students who excel academically, while the rest of the students were ranked based on their previous year’s performance (in terms of grades and behaviour). Such practices can often instil a negative mindset of classism at an early age; fortunately, with today’s better understanding of children’s educational needs, this practice is now rare.

The name Juan or Juan Dela Cruz is the national personification of the Philippines, representing the common Filipino. Section Juan is not only a clever combination of these words, but also a combination of the spirit they represent: the Filipino youth and the sense of national identity.

Section Juan here in Hong Kong doesn’t try to divide; instead, their goal is to unite youths with Filipino heritage living in the city and nurture the Pinoy culture. Children face a lot of challenges growing up, and when you are an ethnic minority, these challenges are often multiplied. Pinoy children in Hong Kong are increasingly brought up in English-speaking households and are seldom taught about Filipino history and culture.

These children adapt to the local culture; they speak, read, and write Chinese, but can sometimes feel alienated when faced with their Filipino identity. This is where Section Juan comes in; it acts as a safe space for them to share thoughts, learn about Filipino traditions, and speak with other youths who are also looking for their place as both a Hong Konger and a Pinoy, without the need for the two identities to be separate.

Ray Yumul, president of Section Juan

(pictured, top-left), shares, “We want to normalise the conversation about growing up Filipino in Hong Kong. Being immersed in both cultures is an advantage.”

The Kuya-Ate (elder brother-elder sister) Mentorship Programme was started by Section Juan, aiming to reach out to Filipino youths in primary and secondary school in Hong Kong. The programme offers individuals the chance to engage in dialogue about growing up as an ethnic minority, as well as providing academic support and career advice for mentees.

The group also organised a musical charity event called Raise the Roof, to raise funds for typhoon aid back in the Philippines. They are also planning on launching Sayawan – which translates to ‘dance event’ – in the near future, with the aim of teaching traditional Filipino folk dances to those who are interested.

The documentary ‘I am…” has also been making waves not only in the Filipino community, but also more widely in Hong Kong. Featuring several young Filipino professionals in various fields, including education, law, journalism, psychology, business, architecture, performing arts, and design – talking about their experiences growing up in a multicultural household.

“Most of us grow up trying to find our identity,” says Ray. “[Having gone through it ourselves] we understand the challenges, and that is what Section Juan wants to do for Filipino youths; we want them to feel empowered to learn about our culture and nurture that for the generations to come.”

We want to normalise the conversation about growing up Filipino in Hong Kong. Being immersed in both cultures is an advantage

- Ray Yumul, president of Section Juan

A MOTHER’S PATH

The path a mother takes can be full of struggles, but with every hurdle, there is triumph, and the unconditional and enduring love they provide to their families

Kristina (Indonesia) Communication brings families closer

“My son sometimes tells me, ‘I miss you a lot, please come home,’ but I have to be strong and continue working until I have enough to start my own business back in Indonesia,” says Kristina, a migrant worker and ambassador for PathFinders for the past two years. Even though she and her son have been apart for many years, they have a close relationship, and Kristina even helps him with his homework. She credits the good communication she has with her son to a PathFinders workshop she attended about long-distance parenting techniques.

Maintaining a relationship with anyone from afar is hard, but it is especially challenging for young children and their parents. Children need constant communication and emotional support, and there are ways you can connect with them in a meaningful way, even when far apart. Keeping an open line of communication is important, but scheduling a daily or weekly call at a convenient time allows both sides to prioritise time and keeps things in a regular routine.

Sending letters or cards through the post is also a good way to greet your loved ones on a special occasion. As it is handwritten, it takes more time and will be treasured more than a text message. It could be a nice surprise and provides a creative avenue for communication.

Nowadays, with the help of modern technology, the world is increasingly connected. Sending messages and making phone or video calls is easier and faster than ever. “With smart phones and the internet, it’s so much easier to stay in touch with my family back home,” Kristina shares. “My son tells me he has lots of friends at school, and I am happy that we have a good relationship where he can tell me anything. He told me when he grows up, he wants to be a pilot – though on some days, he wants to be in the army! Whatever he dreams to be, I will be there to support him.”

Rupa (India) Fighting for migrant rights

She sat on a park bench, pondering her situation; barely able to speak English, lonely with no friends, apart from her son and desperately homesick, and enduring 18-hour days in a 7-person household, with an employer intent on underpaying her. Overwhelmed by sadness, Rupa started to cry.

“Hello, are you okay? Why are you crying?” a lady’s voice asked softly. “Sorry, I just feel so sad,” Rupa replied tearfully, looking up at the person reaching out to her.

The lady and a man introduced themselves as ambassadors for an NGO. They listened to Rupa and advised her on her rights as a migrant worker in Hong Kong. She left the park that day with a whole new outlook –determined to improve her situation, not only for herself, but also for her son back in their home in India.

Rupa was able to file a complaint against her employer with the help of lady who

spoke to her in the park. She was able to find a new employer who respected her rights and treated her like family.

Rupa grew up with her mother and three sisters, and even though they were poor, she has a lot of happy childhood memories. “Our mother took care of us on her own since our father passed away when I was 4 years old. She tried her best to raise me and my sisters,” she recalls. Her dream is to save enough to buy a house for her mom and her son, so they no longer need to rent.

That day in the park all those years ago made such an impact on Rupa, she knew she wanted to give back to the community herself when she was able to do so. She found the opportunity through PathFinders, where she now volunteers as one of their ambassadors. “I want to let my fellow migrant domestic workers (MDWs) know about their rights and not to be scared to voice out their concerns,” she shares.

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Bacani, a woman of quiet dignity and admirable resilience!

Xyza, we understand that your mom left home in the Philippines to work overseas when you were 8 years old. What is your favourite childhood memory with your mom after she worked abroad? I do not remember my childhood that much but I recall some happy snippets from before she went abroad. I remember a moment when she was fixing my dress and telling me I was beautiful. I have memories of her bringing me to work and recall never feeling hungry when she was around.

What are some of the challenges you faced growing up without your mom by your side?

It was indeed challenging to grow up without my mom by my side. As a little girl, there were changes in my physical form that I did not understand. I felt like there was a hole in my life the entire time.

That was before we had smartphones! How did both of you stay connected?

My mum wrote letters and sent pictures. It arrived every two months as it was snail mail.

Is there a significant adult in your life that supported you in your growing years even though your mom was not physically around?

My father is a great dad. He was the one who guided us, encouraged us, and tried to give us the love we were missing. I would not be the person that I am today if my father was not responsible.

What was your childhood ambition? Would you have imagined that you would become a worldrenowned photographer one day?

I understood that we were poor at a very young age. I did not have a particular dream; all I wanted back then was to earn money for our family. I never imagined that I would become a photographer. I am pleasantly surprised and grateful for how my life turned out.

What’s one thing you would like to say to children whose mothers work abroad on Children’s Day? Would you like to share a special message for children in HK too?

I want children who are going through what I went through to know that you are not alone. Your mother loves you and that love is the reason why they have to work abroad. For children in HK and for those who lost their mom, you are loved. I hope that we all make it in this world and make our mama proud.

What is one word you would use to describe your mom?

Superstar.

What is your wish for your mom on Mother’s Day, Xyza?

I wish her good health and happiness. May all her dreams come true.

PathFinders is incredibly honoured to host renowned photographer Xyza Cruz Bacani in Hong Kong this May! Meet Xyza at Pangyao’s Facebook event on Mother’s Day 14 May! Check out the Pangyaos Facebook group for more details!

With Children’s Day (4 April) and Mother’s Day (14 May) upon us, we cosy up with illustrious photographer Xyza Cruz Bacani to hear about her childhood memories; and her wonderful mom Georgia

Consul General Raly L. Tejada’s message for Hong

Kong’s Filipino community

Magandang araw po sa aming mga minamahal na kababayan dito sa Hong Kong!

With the change of the seasons come new opportunities, encounters, and experiences. As spring comes into Hong Kong, we are all graced by the gentle flow of the blessings of nature.

One of the landmark events of the season, the Hong Kong Flower Show, has recently passed. I hope everyone was able to partake in the beautiful, colourful, and varied displays of flora from all over the world. The Consulate, along with other delegates from the Philippines, were able to proudly showcase Philippine culture and imagery to the thousands that came to the event.

As Hong Kong completes its transition into the new normal, I wish to take this opportunity to invite all Filipinos to join the Kapangyawan Friendship Festival this 11 June 2023 at Chater Road, Central.

As part of the Filipino community’s celebration of the 125th Anniversary of Philippine Independence, the event is the first time we will be able to hold large-scale gatherings in public after several years. I am sure the community is eagerly anticipating this chance to celebrate

and come together, and I sincerely hope everyone joins in the festivities.

Remember to bring your family, friends, and anyone interested in Philippine culture, history, and traditions. They will not be disappointed.

Furthermore, the Consulate has stepped up its public diplomacy campaigns to better inform our kababayan of recent developments and important advisories regarding our vibrant community. You can join our Facebook page or view our official website (scan the QR code below to visit!) to keep abreast of the latest news. Representatives from the Consulate and its attached agencies regularly appear on RTHK’s Pinoy Life segments, so you can be informed while on the go.

Throughout the pandemic and as we transition into the new normal, your Philippine Consulate has never wavered in its delivery of efficient and effective public services and its commitment to the Filipino community in Hong Kong. We hope for your continued support as we put the pandemic behind us and move forward with the changing of the seasons. God bless you all!

Maraming salamat po!

PHLinHK

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PISTA’Y DAYAT

Sa probinsya ng Lingayen, Pangasinan, ang Mayo ay nakalaan sa pagpapasalamat para sa masaganang ani at pangingisda. Pista’y Dayat, o Pista sa Dagat sa Tagalog, ang pinaka-engrandeng selebrasyon sa Pangasinan. Hindi lang ito kasiyahan sa iisang bayan kundi isang malaki at mahalagang okasyon din para sa mga Pangasinense.

1 MAYO

Layunin din ng pagdiriwang na imulat ang mga Pangasinense at iba pang mga Pilipino tungkol sa kultura, musika, sayaw at sining ng Pangasinan. Kasama sa mga aktibidades ay ang parada, mga palaro, Limgas na Dayat beauty pageant, mga konsyerto at variety shows, iba’t ibang mga kompetisyon at patimpalak tulad ng sand sculpting, boxing, kite-flying, boat painting at iba pa.

Ang Carabao o Kalabaw Festival ay ipinagdiriwang sa mga bayan ng San Isidro sa Nueva Ecija, Angono sa Rizal at Pulilan sa Bulacan. Ito ay para sa Pista ng Santo ng mga trabahador at magsasaka na si San Isidro Labrador. Ito ay pinagdiriwang tuwing ika-15 ng Mayo.

Ang pinagtutuunan ng pansin sa araw na ito ay ang mga masisipag na kalabaw. Pinapaliguan at nililinisan ng mga magsasaka ang kanilang mga kalabaw, pinipintahan ng mga makukulay na obra, sinasabitan ng bulaklak at humihila sila ng mga magagarbong arko na ipinaparada sa bayan. Ang mga kalabaw ay tinuruang ding lumuhod kapag natatapat sa simbahan upang magbigay pugay kay San Isidro.

Tuwing Pahiyas, pinapalamutian ng mga taga-Lucban, Quezon ang kanilang mga bahay ng mga prutas, gulay at kiping - na gawa sa giniling na bigas at food colouring. Dati itong ipinagdiriwang ng mga magsasaka sa pamamagitan ng paglagay ng mga alay sa paanan ng Mount Banahaw upang magpasalamat sa masaganang ani.

Ngayon, ipinagdiriwang na din ang pista ni San Isidro – Santo ng mga magsasaka. Nililibot ng pari ang bayan upang basbasan ang mga ani na nakapalamuti sa mga bahay.

MANGGAHAN SA GUIMARAS TAHONG FESTIVAL

Isang linggong pagagalak at patimpalak ang nagaganap sa Guimaras upang ipagdiwang ang araw ng kasarinlan nila bukod sa probinsya ng Iloilo noong ika-22 ng Mayo, 1992.

Magkatugma ang anihan ng mangga sa kanilang araw ng kasarinlan, kaya idinaraos na rin nila ito sa parehong petsa. Ang mangga ay ang pinakamalaking ani ng Guimaras at dahil dito, tinanghal ito na “Mango capital of the Philippines”. May all you can eat na mango buffet, mga kasuotan na ang inspirasyon ay mangga at parade na ang mga float ay mango-inspired din.

Ito ay ginaganap sa Jiabong, Western Samar. Ipinagdiriwang ng mga Jiabongnon ang masagana nilang ani ng tahong sa kanilang nalalapit na karagatan. Ito din ang Pista ni San Pascual Baylon, ang santo ng bayan.

Makulay na dancing parade, mga palaro sa plasa, tagisan ng galing sa awit, sayaw at palakasan. Kapalit ng rebulto ng bayani, ang nakatalaga sa labas ng gusali ng munisipyo ng Jiabong ay apat na malalaking tahong na gawa sa semento.

MAGAYON FESTIVAL FLORES DE MAYO

Ang selebrasyon ng Magayon ay nagsimula sa alamat ni Daragang Magayon (dalagang maganda). Ang kuwento ay may dalawang manliligaw si Daragang Magayon ngunit isa lamang sa kanila ang kanyang tunay na iniibig. Natapos ang kanilang kwento sa pagpanaw ni Daragang Magayon at ang kanyang mahal na si Panganoron. Ang kanilang libingan ang naging Bulkang Mayon.

Sa pagdiriwang na ito, pinapakita ng mga mamamayan ng Legaspi City, Albay ang kanilang kultura, pagkain, sining at kagandahan ng kanilang mga tanawin.

Ang Flores de Mayo ay selebrasyon para sa Birheng Maria. Sa buong buwan ng Mayo ay may nobena at pagdarasal na nakalaan para sa kanya hanggang sa huling mga araw ng Mayo, kung saan ginaganap ang Santacruzan.

Ang mapipili na magandang binibini ay ang tatanghaling Reina Elena – base sa ina ni Constantine the Great na si Queen Helena na syang sinasabing nakatagpo ng krus kung saan naipako si Hesukristo. Kasama sa parada ng Santacruzan ang 42 pa na ibang mga babae na nagsasagisag ng mga reyna sa bibliya at ibang mga representasyon ng Birheng Maria.

Cintamu tanpa syarat

By Endang Dwi Ernawati

NAMAKU LALA, YANG terlahir dari keluarga yang serba kecukupan. Namun, Tuhan memberiku anugerah; aku disabled. Ya, ini kenyataan pahit yang harus kulalui. Paras cantik pun tidak gunaaku tidak bisa ber jalan dengan sempurna. 16 tahun silam yang merenggut salah satu sarafku hinggga tidak berfungsi. Berbagai medis sampai dokter termahal pun tidak bisa memulihkan.

Aku sekarang di SMA - sekolah, pakaian dan semua yang aku punya semuanya pilihan mimi. Dari kecil hingga remaja hambar, semua bisa di beli dengan uang, tapi tidak dengan kebahagiaanku. Sepulang sekolah, seperti biasa aku mengurung diri di kamar tidak punya teman. Di kelas pun aku jarang berkomunikasi dengan teman yang lain. Tok tok “Ning Lala.. Ning… makanan dah siap di balik pintu”, ada si Mbok Ijah memanggilku. “Iya, Mbok.”, sahutku. Lalu kuambil tongkat, langsung berjalan ke ruang makan di mana semua menungguku. Papi membuka

pembicaraan:

Papi: La.. Kamu nanti kuliah di mana atau

Mimi yang mencarikan, sayang?

Lala: Pi… Mi... Lala udah gede, please…

Toh kurang 1 tahun kelulusan, Lala

bingung di antara dua pilihan: sastra atau desainer…

Mimi: Apa! OMG Lala kenapa tidak ambil akutansi aja atau apa - kamu tidak mbantu di kantor Papi?

Papi: Mi, cukup. Lala sudah cukup dewasa untuk menentukan pilihannya…

Mimi: Tapi Pi, dia mau jadi apa! Gimana nanti ke depannya?

Lala: Please, Mi - kali ini biar Lala sendiri yang memilih

Mimi: Mimi kurang setuju. Ok, kalau itu yang kamu mau, apa pun pilihanmu

Mimi dukung

Lala: Thanks, Mi, Pi.

Setahun kemudian akhirnya lulusan tiba. Dengan keteguhan dan keinginan, hatiku memutuskan untuk memilih sastra.

Aku ingin menulis dan berkarya. Aku di terima di Universitas swasta ternama

fakultas sastra di negeri ini. Lagi lagi aku tidak ingin mengenal dan berdekatan dengan siapa pun di sana. Mencari ilmu

lebih kuutamakan dan tidak ingin kusiasiakan selagi ada kesempatan. Suatu hari, tiba-tiba hatiku berdebar tidak karuan

bikinku tidak jenak dengan tatapan

seseorang yang ada disampingku. Baru kali ini aku merasakan pandangan yang

tajam. Dalam hati berkata, siapa orang ini beraninya menatapku. Ternyata dia anak

baru bernama Roy. Di saat jam istirahat, semua ke kantin. Seperti biasa, aku tidak keluar dari kelas. Aku keluarkan bekal

dari Mbok Ijah menu rutinku sandwich dan salad buah. Roy mengulurkan tangan sembari berkata, “Nama kamu siapa? Boleh kenalan?” Kubalas dengan senyum kecutku. Roy malah jongkok meledekku.

Roy: Cantik cantik jutek, nanti ilang cantiknya tinggal juteknya..” (membuat aku tertawa dan saat itu aku merasakan sesuatu yang berbeda di diriku).

Lala: Aku Lala (kami saling berjabat tangan).

Roy: Aku melihatmu lebih sempurna dari wanita lain. Maukah kamu jadi pacarku?

Lala: Kenal baru semenit, ngaco kamu ini!

Roy: Aku kan tunggu jawabanmu sampai kapan pun.

Lala: Kamu yakin? Aku bukan orang baik, fisikku juga cacad. Kamu yakin orang tuamu merestui hubungan kita?

Roy: Aku anak yatim piatu. Aku ditinggal dari umur 7 tahun; orangtuaku kecelakaan, oom dan tanteku yang merawatku.

Lala: Oh maaf, bukan maksudku

mengingatkan kejadian yang menimpa almarhum ayah ibumu.

Semenjak perkenalan itu, aku dan Roy sependapat dan kita jadian. Sering aku ajak main ke rumah. Mimi Papi juga merestuinya. Bertahun-tahun tongkat yang menemaniku, sekarang jarang aku hentakkan ke tanah. Hari-hariku lebih ceria; dis itu ada aku, pasti ada Roy yang menjagaku.

Roy semangatku, Roy hidupku.

Hari ini aku dan Roy diwisuda dan kami kagum dengan prestasi kami. Roy bekerja di kantor oom-nya dan bertanggungjawab untuk memimpin perusahaan oom-nya. Kami pun memutuskan untuk menikah. Di hari bahagiaku, ada kejadian tak terduga: perusahaan papiku bangkrut. Setelah menikah, kami tinggal di apartemen Roy - peninggalan orangtuanya. Roy membelikan sebuah rumah untuk Mimi Papi ku. Sungguh bahagianya orangtuaku. Mereka bangga dan lega melihatku menemukan sosok Roy. Penyayang, dan pengertian menerima kekurangan fisikku. Kami pun dikaruniai seorang anak yang sempurna. Aku percaya kesabaran dan keikhlasan pasti mengunduh kebahagiaan.

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