Importance of parents

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God is the one who is our invisible Parent and Parents are the one who are our visible God and if you make your visible god happy, then automatically your invincible god becomes happy. There enormous importance of parents in our life and nobody on this planet Earth can never and ever love you more than your parents. Parents love is the only love that is truly selfless, unconditional and forgiveness. We should always be grateful to them as just because of them we stepped into this beautiful world. They start taking care of us even when we haven't stepped into the world.

Importance of parents in our life There is biggest and Important role of parents in our life and development. Our Father love and goodness is very bigger than the any Mountain and our mother love and goodness is much deeper than the any Sea. Every Father and mother play very prestigious and important role in our mental, physical, social, financial and most important in Career development. So here are some points which show importance of parents 1/8

and role of parents in a child's life.

1. Importance And Role of Parents in Childhood

Importance of Parents in Childhood

Parenting is not a simple task, it’s a very solemn duty towards God. Because ultimately, the children are first of all God’s children and God has entrusted somebody’s life, somebody’s growth, somebody’s success in the hand of the couple, the parents with that expectation that they will do a good job. During childhood a child have direct interaction with the parents and they provide a sense of identification to the child. So these have their best effect on intellectual development and character trait. They also play a very important role in socializing process of the child. Right from the bedtimes stories to the behavioral habits parents play a very important role in making a child responsible citizen.

They take care of a child’s physical and mental health very specifically. Any how they provide every essential things such as medication, healthy nutrition etc. so that there will be proper development of child in every aspects. So above are some role of parents in child development.

2. Importance of Parents in Adolescence 2/8

Importance of Parents in Adolescence

The adolescence age or teen years are the most intense, stressful and frustrating time for many children. As a child stepping into teenage in most cases it seems that children do arguments with others, child become more arrogant and aggressive and want to live alone most of the time due to their hormonal changes in this adolescence age . Parent play very important role in shaping and tuning the teen’s life they acts as their role models they accept and respect their children decision individually, totally and unconditionally. They participate in the discussions which are communicative and more interactive and let the children make participate in the family discussions and make their additions also they always show interest in the children's education, sports, friends and appreciate them so that they can do well in their life.

Parents try to become friend of their children and make them feel comfortable so that they can share everything as in this age children prefer their friends to share all the feelings more than their parents and due to not sharing feelings and thoughts with parents they get into trouble sometimes. They guide them about the social issues and bad habits such as smoking, drinking alcohol by describing their negative effects on life as in teen age children don’t think about what is right and what is wrong for them and attract toward bad habits and bad society more.

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3. Role of Parents in Adulthood

Role of Parents in Adulthood

In adulthood a person go through various situations where parents guide them with their ample amount of experience. Situations such as financial crises, emotional and social issues etc., breaks the person down and sometime he or she feels helpless. At this point of moment parents stand beside their child like a rigid support system. Nowadays the most common problem is of financial crises, this is the situation where every single person leaves one’s hand and refuse to help but on the other hand parents play their part selflessly and support their child financially. Besides financial crises a person also suffers with emotional breakdown where he or she needs someone to console them which role is well played by their parents only than others.

4. Role of Parents in Child Education.

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Role of Parents in Child Education

There is a important role of parents in education as whether parents are educated or not but they always put all their efforts to make their children educated. Parents work hard and also reduce their cost of living and they do all other sacrifice to make their children educated and can be respected in the society. Not only they spend money on their children education they also monitor, advocate and support them. Children spend more time with parents than teachers and parents play important role in making that time productive as they not only influence intellectually but socially as children inadvertently follow their parent’s behavior too, they observe how the parents walk, talk and tackle different situation. Parents also guide children for their future careers.

One most important thing Parents make children learn how to make something positive out of failure and it’s important to teach young learner this vital skill which help them to see how important is to keep trying and it also teach them to access the skills they already have when faced with new challenges. Children thrive on encouragement. It’s just as important to support a child who doesn’t perform well as it is to congratulate them for success which parents do as real learning is not based on rewards but on the value child place on the process itself. Hence, this is the role of parents in child education.

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5. Role of Parents when Child is in Tough Situation

Role of Parents in Tough Situation

They are the only one who support children in their hard times. When children are facing problems in life, career, job etc. they always try to motivate them and encourage children to how to tackle the problems. They teach children when they did wrong rather than judging their children on any action they do, like outer world and at the time of mistake they are like a true teacher as they trained their children very hard for the future challenges and always stand beside their children at every stage of life. With their experience they always try to prepare their children to face and tackle the hurdles of life.

Once in a life a person always goes in the situation when their friends and loved ones leave them alone in the tough situation and that time only the parents are the one who stand with them and support them and it also shows that no one can love and support like parents in this world. One of the great example is of teenage when many children get into bad habits due to bad society around them and they want to get out of this as they suffer from depression, anxiety and grief due to bad habits, but all their friend and loved ones leave them in this troublesome situation and at that time only parents are there who understand the situation and become a great leader and help and support 6/8

them to get out of this and put them toward right direction in life.

Another example is when a child suffers from any disease or health issue and in this hard time only the parents are the most worried people on this planet for their child as they feel pain and the tough situation from which a child is suffering. They do whatever it takes to make their child healthy again. They do sacrifices of their sleeps , work and put all their savings and money only to see their child healthy again which show parents are the only one who love their child the most on this planet.

6. Importance of Parents in Decision Making

Importance in Decision Making

It is quite evident that parents are not formally upskilled as educators however they are the primary teacher of their children. Parents play an esteemed role in assisting them in decision making regarding their life, career, job etc. Not only professionally they also help them out in taking decision related to their personal dealings such as marriage. It’s only their blissful teaching earned by their own life experiences which they inherited in their children so that they could make any challenging decision. Hence the role of parents is to ensure that their children are taking right decision.

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So, at last I only want to say that always love your parents as we are so busy in growing old, we are forgetting that our parents are also growing old. Be sure to spend time with them because one day when you look up from your busy life, they won't be there anymore.

Parents are like Angels to us, they immediately understand what we want even without we make them know. But unfortunately there are some children who don't respect their parents. I don't understand why children leave their parents for other or for their joy, I don't know why they feel that their parents are burden to them why the forget all their sacrifices and care which they had done in every point of their life. So, you should appreciate your them, you never know what sacrifices they went through for you.

Never do complains about what your parents couldn't able to give you as it's probably all they had which they give you. Since we know that human life is transient in nature but still we should always pray to God that our parents must always be with us in bad as well as good situation of our lives.

So try to spend time with your parents, give happiness to them, take care of them, take care of their health, call them, visit them, take their grandchildren to see them, laugh with them and make them laugh, always hug them, let them talk and tell you the same old stories over and over again, bring them their favorite sweets and food, always treat them with respect, patience and plenty of love.

Disclaimer: The opinion and advise given in the article are the personal views of Author.

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