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POLO BUFF, DOG WHISPERER,
PRINCE DAPO OJORA JANUARY 20, 1962-DECEMBER 11,2020
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he day was December 11, 2020. That was the day death crawled stealthily into the Ikoyi, Lagos home of Polo buff and Lagos Royal, Prince Adedapo Adelanke Ojora-and dealt a devastating blow. Daps, as he was fondly called, had made what turned out to be his last public appearance at the funeral of
Story by Michael Effiong
Mrs Omotola Oyediran, the eldest daughter of the sage, Chief Obafemi Awolowo. According to family sources, Baba Polo, as many of his admirers and mentees called him, was in Ibadan for a whole week to be with the Oyediran family. In case you are wondering what the connection was, the late Mrs Oyediran’s grandson, Fola-
Photo: Family Album
jimi Ayodeji is married to Dapo’s only daughter, Tara. Those who knew him said that the Ibadan trip was typical Dapo. He never joked with anything that had to do with his family. Stories abound of how he had gone on many rescue missions for nuclear and extended family members. He had a giving and forgiving heart-and that
was probably why he was much loved. So, it was no surprise that there was immense shock when news hit town that there was a shooting incident in his home and that Dapo had died: What? How? Why? were the immediate questions on many lips as they came to terms with the enormity of what had just happened. (continues on page 12)
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ORIKI
Omo Ojora Apåsà Omo oyinbo dudú lóde Igànmú Omo ofomo fóko toun tidi è Omo Nmoru wả nma se ègi Omo Nmoru to ki run sansan Ogberi ko mo O pe lesun isu Omo épiya meta Okan lomi Okan loké Okan ni shasu iyawo ti ko jė ki'yawó lé lò Omo ajà buru iloso Wộn gbé ajá tà wón fi ra obo Omo onide ka sa làkóbí Omo ò gbé obirin tà fi owo ra akobi Omo àkóbi lo ngbe ni, obirin kii gbe ni Omo irinwo opā egbèrún ajé Omo asiwun lo ri erú Omọ bú bá kú, a rà mi
Omo Ojora Apasa, Omo kekeniju, Omo oyinbo Dudu ni ita iganmu, Omo afomo loko toun ti ele die, Omo olumokun okosho yun, Omo opayun Pade, Omo alowo loko bi oyinbo, Omo ogbe obinrin ta fi owo ra akobi, Nitori akobi ni gbe ni obinrin kin gbe e yan. Omo ajayi ogidi olu, onikanga ajipon, Omo obalufon, Omo erin jogun ola, Omo Oba ado kenme, Bini arokun Tayo, Omo oba ologunkutere asa logun, Omo Oba Adele ajosun, Omo ogbagba tin gba aradugbo, O gba apati O gba sodeke tomo tomo, Omo aiyeomosan, Omo alaapa ajiki, Omo Olowo je oye meji po Omo Oba meta, Omo ibu owo asun fun orunla, Omo olowu oduru. Omoba Adedapo Adelanke Abdulfatah Ojora Sun re ooooo
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Dapo was known for his kind-heartedne and his intense love for his family. He was always lking out for his sister, Toyin and his younger broer, Yinka as he doted on his older broer Gbegi.
orn to Otunba Adekunle Ojora and Erelu Ojuolape Ojora. Dapo was the second of four children. He had an older brother, Gbegi, his sister, Oluwatoyin and his youngest brother, Yinka. Dapo spent his earlier years growing up in Lagos, Nigeria. He attended St Saviour’s School, Ikoyi, were his classmates and friends included Kehinde DurosimiEtti, Deiye Willie Harry, Babatunde Coker, Femi Feyide, Tony Ikuwe, Toyin Laoye, Joke Silva, Taiwo Durrosimi Etti, Ronke Khalidson, Deolu Adefarasin, Ade Laoye and David Ikuwe who would later become his lifelong friends. At St Saviour’s School, Dapo already showed a keen interest in sports. Football was one of his passions and he played for the School team. Dogs. Horses and the game of polo were his interest out of school. He got his very first polo pony at age 4 and began to ride and compete in junior matches at the Lagos Polo Club with the likes of Kabiru Usman, Junaid Dikko, Ali Joda, Aminu Yusuf and then Bayo Amusan. He left St Saviour’s school to go to Lockers Park, a Prep school in England, but came back a couple of years later, missing home, to attend St Gregory's College in Lagos 8
for the earlier part of his secondary school. There, he was joined by the likes of Deiye Willie Harry, John Targgart, Emanuel Bully, Yomi Finnih,
Bayo Amusan, Koye Shogbola and Segun Agbaje. At age 13, He moved back to England and went to Millfield School in Somerset.
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HIS LIFE AND TIMES
By the Summer of 1979, Dapo was a member of the Millfield Polo Team. He subsequently became one of the few Nigerian Polo Players to become Member of the famous Guards Polo Club with a professional Handicap. Dapo Ojora would have his name alongside Nigerian Professional Players: Audu Yaro and Dawule Baba on the list of recognised Polo Players of Guards. He went on to the American University of London where he got a Bachelor’s Degree in Business Administration. Dapo was keen to follow his passion of becoming one of the best polo players that his home country Nigeria has known to date. He returned to Lagos and immediately winning every Polo Trophy in Lagos, Kaduna, lbadan, Port-Harcourt, Kano, Abraka and then he played all over the world in South Africa, United Kingdom, United States and home of Polo, Argentina. He won the Majekodunmi Cup and the Open Cup several times; he also won the Georgian and the Dickensen Cups. Dapo Ojora earned the title 'Baba Polo' for his skills, dedication, commitment to and love for the game of polo. With a long string of polo buffs that were trained by him, who was without any shadow of doubt, the very best. It was
With elder brother Adegboyega (Gbegi Ojora)
evident that Dapo was determined to give back to the sport that brought him so much joy. On April 16, 1994, Dapo married the love of his life, Patricia Ediale. They would have three beautiful children together: Tara, Tayo and Tomi. They were the luckiest children to have such a dedicated father. He doted on his wife and children completely and decided to pass on his legacy of being a great polo player to them all, Patrica and Tara often sitting with him in the commentary box assisting in score and time keeping, and his sons, Tayo and Tomi being trained by himself at every opportunity he had. At the moment, both Tayo and Tomi are on the way to becoming among the best Polo Players of their generation, with both of them already showing similar skills exhibited by the great "Baba Polo". Dapo was known for his kind-heartedness and his intense love for his family. He was always looking out for his sister, Toyin and his younger brother, Yinka as he doted on his older brother Gbegi. His mother Erelu Ojuolape has often fondly told of how often he would bring lost dogs home as a kid, nurse them and train them to be happy dogs. His father would always have a special smile for Dapo whenever he walked into the room. He wanted always for everyone to be happy and gave of himself extensively. Beloved by all, Dapo will never be forgotten.
With sister, Toyin
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Dapo Ojora was not a local champion in any way, shape or form-his circle of friends was expansive and he imparted his ideology and philosophy on people from around the globe. He will be sorely missed.
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Of course many could not believe that the multiple award winning international polo player, respected Polo Mentor/Teacher, the automobile aficionado and dog whisperer was no more. The grief and tears was uncontrollable. The Police were on the scene as soon as they were informed and we have it on good authority that a full scale investigation commenced but the final forensic report is yet to be released. However, we have it on good authority that preliminary investigation has called to question the story that made the rounds that he had committed suicide. “The facts on ground did not support that position”, a very reliable source revealed. According to the source, as reported in our sister publication, The Boss Newspapers, “Daps was found lying on the bed in his bedroom”.
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“His pair of glasses, which he usually hung around his neck, was folded neatly and laid on his chest, there was a pistol lying beside the glasses and one of his hands laid just near the two items. How possible is it for him to have shot himself and then quickly laid down on the bed so neatly?” The source also told us that there was no splatter of blood or brain matter on any part of the bedroom and there were no bullet casings or pellets on the floor. The only bullet casing found was in a bin! Regarding bullets, we also learnt that there were some issues that ballistics and forensic experts would have to resolve. These many question marks over the circumstances of his death made the incident very difficult to bear for members of his family and loved ones. It was therefore not surprising that the Ikoyi, Lagos home of his parents:
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HIS PARENTS
Those who knew him said that the Ibadan trip was typical Dapo. He never joked with anything that had to do with his family. Stories abound of how he had gone on many rescue missions for nuclear and extended family members. He had a giving and forgiving heart-and that was probably why he was much loved.
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“His two sur-
HIS SIBLINGS
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viving siblings: HE (Mrs) Toyin Saraki and Adeyinka were understandably devastated by this terrible year-end news”.
HIS FAMILY
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“Dapo was an Ojora
through and through. He had all the trappings of an aristocrat and also combined many traits. He was noble, brave, peerless, fearless, civil, respectful, uniquely humorous, cerebral and compassionate�.
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THE JOURNEY HOME...
The Corporate titan, The Otunba Adekunle Ojora and The Erelu Ojuolape Ojora was bombarded by sympathisers. Many of them came to sign the condolence register and also lift the spirits of the first-rate high society couple who who had lost their eldest son, Adegboyega (Gbegi) nine years ago. Dapo’s wife, Patricia was also gutted. Her pain was even more excruciating because apart from losing the man she referred to as “my Alagbara, my invincible Dapo, the Warrior Prince” the rumour mongers accused her of leading him to his death. How unfair! His two surviving siblings: HE (Mrs ) Toyin Saraki and Adeyinka Ojora were un-
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derstandably devastated by this terrible year-end news. Mrs Saraki as the only female member of the family was the worst hit. Her husband, former Senate President, Dr Abubakar Bukola Saraki had to be by her side almost 24/7-and her friends especially Ekua Akinsanya and Bola Atta were invaluable towers of support. A condolence register was also opened at her Ikoyi home and as the eldest, she had the responsibility to rally other family members too. For Adeyinka, fondly called Yinks, his wife, Ngozi Ojora (nee Odogwu) was by his side throughout too. He stepped up to the tough task of planning the funeral of his elder brother! We were told that he
had the tough task of ferrying his brother’s remains to the mortuary and also offering Tara, Tayo and Tomi, his brother’s children a strong shoulder to lean on in this their period of monumental sadness. And throughout, Yinka handled the tough task like a lionheart, hiding his inner pain to comfort many around him. In his life time, Dapo was described by many as passionate about Christ. Many testified to how he attended St Saviour’s Church, Tafawa Balewa Square 7am mass without fail. And when he and others moved their membership to St John’s Anglican Church, Falomo, his unwavering faith never waned. Dapo was an Ojora through and through. He had
all the trappings of an aristocrat and also combined many traits. He was noble, brave, peerless, fearless, civil, respectful, uniquely humorous, cerebral and compassionate. After coming to terms with his passing as true Christians, his family then organized a most elegant farewell which began with a service of songs at the famous Lagos Polo Club. His funeral was attended by the Lagos high society and the outpouring of grief reverberated far and wide. Dapo Ojora was not a local champion in any way, shape or form-his circle of friends was expansive and he imparted his ideology and philosophy on people from around the globe. He will be sorely missed.
DAPO MY BROTHER,
MY PROTECTOR, BRAVE STAR� MRS TOYIN SARAKI
You and I were each other's go-to in times of battle, and I am sure you know that I will always fight for your cause and dignity
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y brother, my protector, wise, quiet, thoughtful, brave and strong, constantly courageous through both good and troubled times, with a spirit of fortitude that conquered and overcame many an injury and pain. Dapo, you had a naive innocence, thinking well of everyone, a gift that was unique in the world we live in. You were always happiest with your horses, dogs and cars, and although you were always quietly reflective, your smile and laughter lit up the sky. Dapo, in all the years we grew up together, you never told a lie. My go-to brother in emergency situations, just last week you found me a
vet in the middle of the night for a sick dog. I can't count how many times when I would be stuck in Kwara that you would drive hours and hundreds of miles across motorways in UK to go and visit my children in their schools. You and I were each other's go-to in times of battle, and I am sure you know that I will always fight for your cause and dignity. The last time we saw, on Thursday, you were so happy I had come to lbadan, and insisted on escorting me to my car despite my protests that you shouldn't. Words fail in the devastating enormity of your death, but I| know two things given to us in faith:
Psalm 147:3 tells us that "He heals the broken-hearted and binds up their wounds. He determines the number of the stars; He calls them each by name." Dapo, brave star, I bid you goodbye till we meet again with my love, my prayers, and Romans 8:3839; "For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord." Rest in peace. Amen. 21
YOU WILL ALWAYS BE MY CHAMPION - Baby brother, Yinks
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have started writing this tribute in my mind over the last 2 days and have not gone very far with it, simply because I realise there are not enough words in the English or Yoruba language to use to describe how much you meant to me and mean to me now. Dapo I will remind you of a story I've not told in 42 years, when I was 13 years old and in boarding school starting my first term at a new school, I remember it was a particularly cold winter and as those of you who went to boarding school will know first term was always a huge challenge, being the smallest and most insignificant students in the school. I recall that after the first 3 weeks we were allowed home for our first Exeat and what a fantastic feeling to know that we would be reunited with our families after the long cold separation which seemed like months. Unfortunately, it had snowed so much that the first Exeat was cancelled due to the extremely hazardous driving conditions. To me, l felt like the world was going to end, how could I not come home for the weekend, but alas it was impossible even the school tractor could not get up the hill. I remember 22
play with my friends half forgetting the sadness. 2 days later on the morning of cancelled exeat, even some of the teachers were unable to get to school from the local village as the roads were not only full of snow drifts but also black ice. I remember settling down to watch a movie in the house common room with my two best friends. I heard the sound of a car horn from the carpark and it sounded familiar we all leapt up to look out of the window at who had been able to make it up the hill to school. I could not believe my eyes. In the snow filled scenery in front of me was Dapo standing beside his Green Porsche 911 with his faithful dog, Caesar running around in the snow beside calling Dapo that Thursday evening and him. I had never been so excited to see crying down the phone about how lonely him in my life. I ran to him and jumped on him I felt and how much l wanted to come and asked how he made it all the way home and see family. He reminded of me of the chat he and from London when the motorways were closed and no one else could reach school, he replied "Don't you know I'm a rally driver?". I later found out it had taken him 3 hours to drive 23 miles just to surprise me and show me that he would always be there when I needed him. I have never forgotten that gesture. You showed me that day what real brotherly care and love meant. Through the years, you continued to demonstrate your love and protection over all your siblings. You are and will always be my champion. Saying goodbye will not be easy and so I will simply not say goodbye. What I will say is the following: May the road rise up to meet you, may the wind be always at your back, may the sun Gbegi, had with me before starting school shine warm upon your face, the rain falls saying "we will always be there for you, soft upon your fields, and until we meet after all, we are your big brothers, it's our again may God hold you in the palm of job to look after you and protect you even His hands. from yourself when you're being annoy- Dapo, I will you miss you. I love you, ing". I finished the call and went off to
You showed me that day what real brotherly care and love meant. Through the years, you continued to demonstrate your love and protection over all your siblings.
AT THE EMOTIONAL
SERVICE OF SONGS
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ounded in 1904, the Lagos Polo Club, dubbed the premier sporting Polo Club in Nigeria was transformed when its lush green field was laid out with a giant stage and a lovely seating arrangement for the emotional service of songs for one of its accomplished members, Dapo Ojora. There was no better venue fitting for a rousing farewell by his peers and friends because the Lagos Polo Club was where Dapo made his name, achieved fame and reached international acclaim as an elite player, a top Teacher/Mentor and much later, an umpire. Before the service began, a little ceremony that 23
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Yinka Ojora and wife, Ngozi arriving the venue
Senator Abubakar Bukola Saraki with wife, Mrs Toyin Saraki (nee Ojora)
The Sarakis arriving the event
Sayyu Dantata with Atedo Peterside
Hakeem Muri-Okunola
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Mrs Patricia Ojora
Mrs Tara Ayodeji
Bashir Sanda
Tomi & Tara Ojora
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Tomi & Tayo Ojora
Michael Effiong, Editor, Ovation International
Pastor Ify Adefarasin, Yinka Akinkugbe & Pastor Paul Adefarasin
WORDS CANNOT EXPRESS THE PAIN -Patricia
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ords cannot express the pain, confusion and misery of how I feel. You have been the centre of my life for 33 years. The last couple of years have been the hardest for us. But we always said 'through thick and thin'. I know for certain this rough patch would also be weathered with time. You knew how much I loved and respected you, Dapo. The admiration I felt and still feel, was unparalleled. I thank God that in your last few weeks we spent so much time together, laughing, joking and every so often, peering into the future. You were a family man and family meant the world to you. We
Patricia Ojora with husband, Dapo
My dearest Dapo,
spent all our time together with our children: Tara, Tayo and Tomi, our beautiful blessings. We also had our polo family with all the people you brought up in the game of polo. You never needed much more than the people you called family. We all love and miss you and we know that you are resting in heaven now; that you are at peace and that your smile is as radiant as it always was. Even in these sad times, the children and I talk about you with the happiest smiles; we laugh about your priceless anecdotes. Dapo, your antics were legendary and your witty expressions had a life of their own. You lived your life how you wanted
to live it. Your path was different from others and most didn't understand it but you did, and that's all that mattered. My Alagbara, my invincible Dapo, the Warrior Prince, nothing could stop you, nothing could bring you down, you were a force of nature, you were so Fearless. You will be so sorely missed. I pray the Good Lord to bless you and look after you and know that I will do my best to ensure that the children are alright and continue to thrive. Rest in peace till we meet again. All my love, 27
MY DAD WAS AN
ENIGMA Tara OJ
Daddy, I love you. More than words can describe. I miss you more than anything. And I will miss you each and every day
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veryone knew not to mess with me, because if you did, you had to answer to him. I could write a lot more but I don't even know where to pull the words from because honestly, I am still in a state of confusion and utter devastation. Daddy, I love you. More than words can describe. I miss you more than anything. And I will miss you each
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and every day. I will tell my children about my hilarious, crazy, super protective, BRAVE and bold Daddy. God has got you now. Till we meet again, rest. With no more pain. No more heartache. No more stress. No more sadness. Only bliss. Say hi to Uncle Gbegi and all our dogs for us. I'm sure they'll be happy to see you. Forever your girl,
MY FATHER HAD A GOOD HEART AND A STRONG SENSE OF FAMILY "The only way to deal with death is to transform everything that precedes it into art" - ArsĂŠne Wenger.
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y dad was a strong, intelligent and honest man. He spent his years doing good for his community, often without wanting or expecting anything in return. He had a good heart and a strong sense of family. A dedicated leader, a conscientious teacher and a reliable friend, I take great comfort in knowing that his legacy lives on, not only through his immediate family, but also in the many lives he impacted.
Tayo and Dad
"The only way to deal with death is to transform everything that precedes it into art" - ArsĂŠne Wenger. Dad, I will forever cherish the beautiful memories I have of you. Thank you for teaching me the ropes and to look after Mum, Tara and Tomi. promise to continue your wonderful legacy on and off the pitch and make you proud. Go well Dad. Love,
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MY DAD WAS A ROLE MODEL Tomi
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ur lives are forever changed as we have lost an amazing, loving individual who was for many a source of warmth and comfort. Despite our grief, we remember the good times, the love shared and the people he inspired. My dad was my role model, as he was for many others: particularly in polo, and subsequently he has left behind a fitting legacy. We will remember him with nothing but fondness and admiration for the countless laughs, his priceless anecdotes and the many cheerful moments, as well as his virtues and morality. My Everlasting love,
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Mrs Tara Ayodeji (daughter of deceased) consoling her aunt, Mrs Toyin Saraki as Senator Bukola Saraki looks on
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Senator Bukola Saraki greeting Tayo Ojora
Senator Bukola Saraki with wife, Mrs Toyin Saraki
Seni Saraki (right)
could be described a guard of honour ensued when the Master of Ceremonies, Yinka Akinkugbe, a cousin of the deceased asked the stable hands to bring Dapo’s four horses for a last parade for the fallen hero. The first stallion was probably emotional as it leapt in fear and struggled for minutes before it was calmed down. The others that followed, galloped with pride as
Prince Adeyinka Ojora with wife, Ngozi Ojora
they marched past some playing paraphernalia of the late Dapo Ojora. The service was coordinated by The Metropolitan, All House On The Rock Church led by Pastor Paul Deolu Adefarsin, Dapo’s childhood friend. The Officiating Minister were: Rev. ( Dr.)Adeyinka Akinbami, Rev. Adegoke Coker, Rev. Kola Oladunmoye and Rev. Ifeanyi Adefarasin.
Ekua and Femi Akinsanya
What could be described as solemn service kicked off with an opening prayer by Rev. ( Dr.) Akinbami after which popular gospel musician, Nathaniel Bassey assisted by the Lagos Metropolitan Gospel Choir delved into a session of praise and worship. This session was very moving and one could see tears dripping from the eyes of many in the congregation. It
was perhaps a moment of truth for many that indeed, Dapo, has gone to be with the Lord. After a short commentary about the occasion, the congregation was instructed to rise and urged to sing the famous hymn, Blessed Assurance. The the deceased last child, Tomi was invited to the rostrum to take the first Bible reading which was taken from 1Cor. 15: 51-58. Verses 55 -57 aptly
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Nathaniel Bassey
Rev. Kola Oladunmoye
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Mrs Tara Ayodeji (deceased first child and only daughter)
Pastor Ify Adefarasin
Mr Yinka Akinkugbe, Cousin
Segun Obe with The Lagos Metropolitan Choir
Ayo Olashoju (President, Lagos Polo Club)
Tomi Ojora
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Pastor Paul Adefarasin
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Tayo Ojora
captured the mood of the occasion “ O death, where is thy sting? O grave where is thy victory? The sting of death is sin; and the strength of sin is the law. But thanks be to God which giveth us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ”. That done, the congregation sang the second hymn “Sometimes a Light Surprises” Again, this was a hymn that was succinct because from all indications, Dapo Ojora was a blazing light that surprised many with its luminous impact. Without a shadow of doubt, the highest point of the evening were the tributes from family and friends: Dapo Ojora's life, legacy and impact was brought to fore. Many attested to his bravery, ability to teach and nurture talents and passion for Christ. 38
Those who spoke included his only daughter, Tara, Damian Duncan, President Lagos Polo Club, Ayo Olashoju and a veterinary doctor. The emotions ran really high when only daughter, Mrs Tara Ayodeji spoke about their bond. Next came Tolu Ojora, (nephew & son of late elder brother, Gbegi) who took the second reading from 1 Thess.4: 13:18. Then Yinka Akinkugbe read the eulogy on behalf of the family. According to him “Dapo was known for his kind-heartedness and his intense love for his family.” And then Pastor Paul Adefarasin took centre stage for the homily and spoke candidly about Dapo, his childhood friend's walk with Christ. Sobs could be heard from all corners of the open-air arena. He dropped key life's lessons for the congregation.
There was a special prayer session for the family and soulful hymns before the service, coordinated Zapphaire Events and Bola Atta, was rounded off with a touching Vote of Thanks by eldest son, Tayo Ojora.
Guests dispersed into the evening darkness as the recessional Hymn, Abide With Me was sang by the Choir and guests. Due to the COVID-19, a barricade was mounted as guests took turns to show sup-
Mrs Patricia Ojora (widow)
port and commiserate with the family. They all looked downcast. The service was attended by Dr Bukola Saraki & wife, Toyin ( Dapo's sister), Yinka Ojora ( brother) & wife, Ngozi, Ayo Olasoju, Atedo Peterside, Ade Laoye, Sayyu
Dantata,Bayo Amusan, Otunba Seni Adetu & wife, Janet, Prof. Akin Abayomi,Jide Coker, Hakeem Muri-Okunola, Prince Lekan Bakare, Noggie Meggison, Mrs Mary Inegbese, Bashir Sanda & many others.
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Mrs Mary Inegbese
Prof. Akin Abayomi
Mr Sola Adebayo
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Tobi Ojora
Tami Ojora
Temi Ojora
Tade Ojora
Sayyu Dantata greeting Tayo Ojora
Sayyu Dantata greeting the Ojoras
Prince Bisi Olatilo
Yinka Akinkugbe
Sayyu Dantata greeting Prince Bisi Olatilo
Pastor Paul Adefarasin & Pasto Ify Adefarasin
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Atedo Peterside commiserating with the family
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Michael Effiong, Editor, Ovation International, commiserating with Prince
Sola Ojora with Kunle Aluko
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Bola Atta
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DAPO WAS A VERY
SPECIAL PERSON -Abubakar Bukola Saraki
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he last time I s a w Dapo was on Sunday November 29th, 2020 at the party held to celebrate my granddaughter's first birthday. Just like during Tosin's first birthday, and at all similar occasions for his nephews and nieces, Dapo was with us throughout the day. A consummate family man, very caring and devoted to all of us, his family. Dapo was a very special person who was committed to and passionate about the things he believed in. His passion was a virtue I respected so much about him. I remember that during the Yar'Adua administration when the boards of federal government parastatals were being constituted, I asked him if he was interested, and that he should send me his preferences. True to the type of per-
son he was, he did not send me a list of what is usually referred to as Grade A parastatals like the Nigerian Ports Authority (NPA), Nigerian National Petroleum Corporation (NNPC) or National Communications Commission (NCC). Instead, Dapo said he was interested in the National Veterinary Research Institute, Vom, near Jos. When I checked the master list of the boards, his choice was in the least category D. That was Dapo for you. In making that choice, he did not think of whether it was convenient for him to travel to Vom, many kilometers away from Lagos to attend board meetings. He was
driven by his passion, genuine interest and the need to contribute to the development of the institute and the object of its creation. Dapo was not a man blinded by the desire to acquire wealth. Rather, he had a burning desire to impart knowledge, pursue noble goals and contribute his own quota to issues in which he was specially gifted. On a lighter note, the relationship between Dapo and myself became better and closer after I married his darling sister, Toyin. When we were both younger and I was dating my wife, he would use Vulcan, his well-trained dog, to intimidate me. Then, the
fear of Vulcan was the beginning of wisdom. All that changed after we got married. I guess Vulcan must have sensed I am now a respected member of the family. Dapo, we will all sorely and greatly miss you. This is because there are many more values, we all still could have learnt from you. Definitely, you lived a successful life because you left great legacies. Among these legacies are many of the young boys and girls who learnt so much from you on the polo field and as they flourish in that aspect of their respective lives today, it's all thanks to you, Dapo. Many live their lives and acquire so many material things without making impact in the lives of others and when they make their exit, the story ends there. Dapo, you gave so much to so many. That is why I believe you live on.
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y father-in-law was a man of quality, an aficionado in all the things he loved and more! A true gentleman, he was very kind and humble. If you had the privilege of engaging with him even if it was for a few seconds, his pedigree shone bright. When I started courting Tara, everybody I could think of asked me if I was scared of her dad or if I had been grilled by her dad and the dogs? The truth is Daddy Daps made me feel loved and respected from day one. I still think some of those people were using style to block me from pursuing my wife lol... a part of me was a little 48
annoyed at Tara for keeping away what I thought was a hidden gem, in a world filled with so many fakes. He was real. I learnt quickly he was a man of value. Whether it was polo, cars, dogs, photography, technology, history; I learnt something every time we conversed. What I admired most about him was his deep love for family; that deep love that is at times beyond verbal expression and shown in unique ways. I believe our love for family and upholding certain values helped us bond from the onset. Our love for dogs added a stronger layer to our bond. I'm still in awe of how he could tame any dog or animal and it
pains me deeply that we won't be sharing all the experiences we planned. I am grateful that our relationship was able to develop into a friendship. Thank you for trusting me with your Princess Tara. By the special Grace of God, I will stand firm and steady for her. I promise to protect her and be there for Mum, Tayo & Tomi. I will cherish and honour your memory in my heart forever because although life has to end, love doesn't. Gone too soon, forever missed‌ love you Daddy Daps. I pray that you find peace in the bosom of Christ.
HE WAS A MAN WHO LOVED GOD AND TREATED EVERYONE WITH RESPECT Iranola & Ayotola Ayodeji
“Our dear brother, we commit you into the loving arms of our Lord Jesus Christ, whom you loved so much, the only wise God; who is able to present you faultless before the throne of His Grace”.
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ncle Daps (along with his brother Gbegi) was one of a handful of people along with whom we worshipped at the
7am Wednesday Holy Communion Service in Our Saviour’s Church, TBS, every week for many years. In addition, his mater-
nal grandmother, Mama Sabina Akinkugbe and Ayotola's grandmother Mama HID Awolowo, were friends, so when our children, Folajimi and Tara decided to marry, we felt at ease with each other. Uncle Daps was a man for whom family was paramount. He was deeply committed to his family. He was also a man who loved God very dearly. He was zealous for the things of God; prayer gospel music and worship. He could be counted upon to be at every family celebration and when we lost our mother recently, he was one of the first to arrive and last to leave. He spent a whole week with us in Ibadan, attended every ceremony, and gave us maximum
support. A master of his craft: Uncle Daps was passionate and exceptionally talented. He treated everyone with respect, and had a genuine love for people. We are devastated to lose him, but we are also thankful for the joy of knowing such a humble, gentle, and kind brother and father. Our dear brother, we commit you into the loving arms of our Lord Jesus Christ, whom you loved so much, the only wise God; who is able to present you faultless before the throne of His Grace. Sleep on beloved, may your kind soul rest in perfect peace. 49
A WARRIOR FULL OF LIGHT, LOVE AND COMPASSION What weren't you Daps?
You were either something to all or everything to many. Once one met you, they were certainly not going to forget you. Dapo ever fearless, Dapo ever considerate, Dapo ever thoughtful. Dapo ever humorous, intuitive, courageous, resp ectful, humble, sage, knowledgeable. Dapo the believer, Dapo God's faithful servant. A personality too large for this world; now you've transcended to the true Kingdom. A warrior full of light, love and compassion; filled with a faith so deeply embedded in your love of God, that all that were privileged to have known you can attest to. May your light forever radiate Daps. 50
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“Dapo ever fearless, Dapo ever considerate, Dapo ever thoughtful�.
REST IN PEACE -Solveig
Rest in Peace dear Dapo, you will forever be missed.
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RESERVED,
UNASSUMING, UNIQUE -Niyi Olukoya
Reserved, unassuming, unique and welcoming. These are the words that capture your true nature. You embraced me with genuine warmth from the second we became family. Easy to talk to and easy to be around. Words cannot express the extent of
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our sadness at your departure. The void created by your absence is immeasurable. We will continue to honour your memory and spirit. May your soul continue to rest in perfect peace. Rest well,
THE FUNERAL SERVICE
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s early as 7am on December 22, the remains of Adedapo Adelanke Ojora, second son of corporate titan, The Otunba Adekunle Ojora had been ferried in a see-through TOS Limited hearse to the famous Cathedral Church of Christ, Marina for a funeral service. His remains were escorted by a younger brother, Adeyinka Ojora. We were
told that before arriving the church, the hearse had made a most important journey to the Ikoyi, Lagos home of the deceased for a final farewell and a session of prayers. Proceedings began with the arrival of Dapo's wife, Patricia, their children, Tara, Tayo and Tomi, sister, Mrs. Toyin Saraki and her husband, Senator Bukola Saraki . His remains, now in a
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Mrs Taiwo Ogunshola, CEO, TOS Funeral & her team at work
silvery casket with his full names engraved on it, was wheeled into the bowel of the church in a procession led by Officiating Ministers. The service was coordinated by Very Rev. Adebola Ojofeitimi who urged the congregation on its feet as everyone sang the opening hymn " God Moves In A Mysterious Way". The soulful service witnessed a wondrous solo
rendition of " Abide With Me" by Joseph Oparamanuike after which there was a sermon where the preacher wondered if humans have victory in death? He described late Dapo as one of those who have become victorious in death because he worked in the vineyard of the Lord and saved souls for Christ. The funeral service was not rounded off until the
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family was showered with prayers, charged to be strong and not mourn because Dapo was in a better place. In attendance at the service were: Mr Peter Obi, Mr. Atedo Peterside, Mr Francis Ogboro, Mr Bayo Amusan, Pastor Ituah Ighodalo, Prince Lanre Bakare, Representa-
tives of the Oba of Lagos, Representatives of Oniru of Iruland, Members of the Ojora Royal Ruling House, Lady Maiden Ibru, Mrs Mary Inegnese, Otunba Abimbola Ogunbanjo, Mr Ade Laoye, The Akinkugbe Family and Ovation International’s Editor, Michael Effiong.
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Prince Adeyinka Ojora, Tayo Ojora with the widow, Mrs Patricia Ojora
Mrs Ngozi Ojora, Adeyinka Ojora, Mrs Toyin Saraki & Dr Abubakar Bukola Saraki
Tayo Ojora, Mrs Patricia Ojora, Tomi Ojora, Mrs Tara Ayodeji & Folajimi Ayodeji
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Adeyinka Ojora with Ngozi Ojora
Mr Iranola Ayodeji (in-law)
Femi & Ekua Akinsanya
Lady Maiden Ibru with Adeyinka Ojora
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Michael Effiong with Adeyinka Ojora
Lagos White Cap Chiefs & Representatives of Oba of Lagos, Oniru of Iruland & Ojora of Lagos
Muyiwa Bakare (second left)
Mr Iranola Ayodeji (left)
Mr Atedo Peterside (right)
Yinka Akinkugbe (left)
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Lady Maiden Ibru
Pastor Ituah Ighodalo
Tolu Ojora & mother, Solveig
Ola and Ayo Saraki
Francis Ogboro
Lekan Bakare & guest
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Senator Bukola Saraki, Mrs Toyin Saraki & Adeyinka
Mr Iranola Ayodeji
Supo Shasore with others
Mr Peter Obi (right)
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Pastor Ituah Ighodalo consoling family members
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There was no better venue fitting for a rousing farewell by his peers and friends because the Lagos Polo Club was where Dapo made his name, achieved fame and reached international acclaim as an elite player, a top Teacher/Mentor and much later, an umpire. Mr Francis Ogboro (r)
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UNCLE DAPO WAS FIERCELY PROTECTIVE
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ncle Dapo was strong, courageous, funny, dependable and fiercely protective with a largerthan-life personality. He was always there if you needed him, offering quiet support from behind the scenes. I remember calling Uncle Dapo once from school after an awful riding lesson in floods of tears. He gave me pep talk after pep talk and even of-
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fered to come to my lessons for morale support to make sure I got back on the horse. The last time I saw Uncle Dapo, we were celebrating Tumi's birthday. I'm grateful we were able to celebrate together and make memories we can cherish forever. Uncle Dapo, we love you and you will be sorely missed. Forever in our hearts.
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UNCLE DAPO, IT WILL NEVER BE THE SAME WITHOUT YOU Seni Saraki
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Uncle Dapo, I can't believe I'm writing this right now. The last time we saw at Tumi's birthday, after teasing you about now being a Great-Uncle, we were catching up about beards and Arsenal's attacking issues, and we said we would meet up properly soon. I always loved speaking to you, because even though I was your nephew. you spoke to me like your
brother. I remember you picked me up from school once, and we got into a race on the motorway, like something out of a movie. It'll never be the same without you. Your memory will live on forever, and in Tara, Tayo and Tomi, you have raised the most amazing, resilient young adults I'm privileged to call my cousins. Love forever,
YOU WERE A TRUE MAN OF GOD -Tolu Ojora
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can't truly understand or comprehend the emotions from losing you. In recent days I remember fond memories with you. I will forever miss seeing you in your famous chair in Avenue Road, discussing our football philosophies (which we never could quite agree on), and you asking how school was going and giving me encouragement when I was trying to take sporting activities more seriously.
I want to thank you, for trying your best to fill the void my father left within me. I will always remember that you always called me on every single April 10th to remind me of how far I have come and that it gets easier. I would like to also thank you for attending my virtual graduation earlier this year as it truly made me feel important in your life. I want to thank you for being around me and watching over all of us on in your
own way over the years. You were a true man of God and that was something I admire you for. I will pray endlessly that God gives you the true peace that passes the understanding of this plane of existence. I promise you that your family will be fine and uplifted in your absence. Please send my love to your brother when you meet him again. Rest in Eternal Peace Uncle Dapo.
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HE WAS A SUPERHERO
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ncle Dapo was one of the strongest men I know. He was like a superhero to me when I was younger. He was the best and most supportive uncle I could ever ask for. I'll never forget him driving hours to support me in my games and competitions. That meant the world to me. He left a lasting impression on everyone who had the fortune of meeting him and I will never ever forget what an awesome man he was. Uncle D, I love you and will miss you more than words can describe. I wish I had told you how much I loved you and I hope you knew how loved you were. No more pain now. We will continue living for you and I will continue trying to make you proud. I will be the best cousin to Tara, Tayo, and Tomi that I can be. I love you Uncle D! Until we meet again. Uncle D,
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ncle Dapo, my most special memory of you has to be you driving 2 hours to Birmingham to come and watch Tade and I perform at nationals and shouting the loudest in the crowd. You were always so supportive of me in my sporting career and you made it very very clear to
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me, and everyone else of how proud you were of me. I promise to continue to make you proud. I know that you are now eternally happy and that is a big source of comfort to me, and to us all. We will all miss you so much and your physical absence will definitely be felt, but
ear Uncle Dapo, you will be greatly missed and I love you.
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we know that you will always be with us spiritually. Please continue to watch over us all. Love you lots and lots and lots.
Temi Ojora
ncle Dapo was always a joy to be around. He never failed to put a smile on our faces and was and still is an inspiration to us all. We will cherish the memories we had with him. May he rest in perfect peace.
Ola Saraki
Uncle Dapo was the very best of uncles. He brought so much wisdom, joy and laughter to all of our lives. Uncle Dapo we will all miss you enormously.
Ayo Saraki
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“My dear Egbon, you are so loved. We all loved you so much. These words are filled with tears because there is none
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YOU INSPIRED ME TO APPRECIATE NATURE
never saw you as my cousin but my brother. You really behaved more like a big brother. My earliest memory of you was when you gave me my first dog. You spent so much time with me teaching me how to care for the puppy. You tutored me about dogs and animals. You inspired me to appreciate nature and all manner of creatures. Whenever we saw each other, we would chat about life and interesting topics. I remember with fondness that whenever you spoke, no one could break my attention because your voice com-
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manded complete attention! I was glad that you got to witness how much I loved you through my relationship with your children. Though we didn't see each as often as I would have liked, I always knew how you were doing when I would catch up with Tara. My dear Egbon, you are so loved. We all loved you so much. These words are filled with tears because there is none like you. There will never be anyone like you. You are simply irreplaceable. I recall the time you heard that I was caught up in a robbery at my family house.
Within five minutes of me placing the call to you, you drove at speed to rescue me, even though I was safe. You took command of the situation. Even the policemen were hiding behind you. A close friend of mine was remarking how touched he was when you insisted that I take you to his flat when they had suffered a robbery attack. You didn't have to go to his place. A phone call would have done the trick but you, being you, insisted on seeing him and his wife. That is the type of person that you were and will always remain in our eyes.
My heart goes out to Patricia, Tara, Tayo and Tomi. I know it is a difficult time but we put our faith in God's hands. Your father is a good man, and he loves you all very much. To my uncle and aunty, Otunba and Erelu Ojora, my sympathies go out to you. Toyin, Yinka and the Ojora clan, I stand with you, as we honour yet another one of our own in our generation. We will get through this. I just know we will, if we stand together. A massive thank you to all our friends that have stood by us. God bless us all.
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THE INTERMENT
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t was at the interment that emotions ran really high, Family members and friends could not fight back tears as he was lowered to mother earth at The Vaults and Gardens, Ikoyi, Lagos. Family and friends arrived Dapo Ojora’s final journey home in a long convoy of exotic cars led by the former President, Dr Abubakar
Bukola Saraki and wife, Toyin. Due to COVID-19 considerations, the event was only open to family members and close friends, but many still turned out to pay their last respects. His remains were led into the cemetery area by saxophonists and drummers of TOS Funeral Limited. The songs that were waft-
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ing from their instruments were sombre. Dapo Ojora surrounded by his dearest and closest was lowered to mother earth after a graveside ceremony by Ministers from the Cathedral Church of Christ.
The sadness of the occasion filled the air and gripped everyone, especially because he was buried just beside the Vault where his elder brother, Adegboyega (Gbegi) was buried nine years ago. This really brought to fore the
tragedy that has befallen the Ojora family. In a short interview with Ovation, the deceased younger brother, Adeyinka, heartbroken as expected, could only muster the words “We Thank God For His life� 83
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