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As you will recall, these announcements were unnerving. At first, the CDC and government officials cautioned that any events with crowds over 250 should be called off. As the days went by, these numbers got smaller. “No more than 50,” they warned. “No more than 10.”

Meanwhile, the Trump administration botched their response to the crisis, calling the disease “a hoax.” Being his blatantly racist self, President Trump dubbed COVID-19 “the Chinese virus,” adding fuel to the nation’s ongoing discrimination against Asian-Americans.

Fortunately, our local officials got to work. One after another, counties across the nation began going on lockdown to contain the virus’ spread. And just as we had anticipated, on March 24, Harris County Judge Lina Hidalgo issued a stay-at-home order requiring most businesses to close and directing residents not to leave their homes unless it was essential.

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Rallying LGBTQ+ Texans to Vote on November 3 Texas Democratic Party hires Mae Hardebeck to strengthen community outreach.

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he Texas Democratic Party (TDP) is taking further steps to show its commitment to queer Texans.

As part of a new program that reaches out to minority groups with low voter-turnout rates, the political advocacy organization hired Mae Hardebeck as its first LGBTQ+ constituency organizer in March.

“I think being a Democrat in Texas right now is so exciting [because] there’s so much room to grow,” Hardebeck, 24, says. “[It’s time] for people to be heard and be at the forefront of the change that’s about to come.”

Originally from Needham, Massachusetts, Hardebeck moved to Austin last June to prepare for her new role. In addition to Hardebeck, the TDP hired several other new constituency organizers for different communities, such as people with disabilities, Latinx communities, African-Americans, Asian-Americans and Pacific Islanders, and Generation Z and Millenials.

“As a team, we are working in a very intersectional, collaborative way to bring a “no one-size-fits-all” approach to traditional organizing,” Hardebeck explains. “We’re [implementing] very specifically tailored programs and strategies to be able to reach our constituencies across Texas, while understanding that it’s going to take [these same] communities to build up those strategies.”

In addition to collaborating with politically

underrepresented communities, the TDP’s new constituency organizers plan to build coalitions among advocacy and political groups to facilitate relationships between statewide and organizational leaders doing work on the ground. The program is also designed to create resources for communities and provide training for those working with these groups.

As a queer woman, Hardebeck understands that her role as an LGBTQ+ constituency organizer involves recognizing the nuances within the queer community. “There is such a plurality within the constituency, and for my constituencies, I really want to center trans and nonbinary issues, especially when it comes to voter registration and voting,” Hardebeck says.

“That includes [sharing information about] what to expect during the voting process, what ID they need, what is and isn’t allowed to happen at their polling location, and what to do when facing voter intimidation.”

This information and more can be found on the TDP’s website, MyTexasVotes.com, and its new Voter Assistance Hotline, 844-TXVOTES.

Hardebeck says that extending voters’ knowledge of their rights is a commonality shared between the TDP and existing organizations in Texas, and she plans to extend her outreach to groups on the ground of the queer rights movement.

“I’m not starting from scratch,” Hardebeck says. “One of my strategies is to reach out to the organizations that have been doing this work for so long, likeLauren the Transgender Anderson (l)Education and Network of Texas (TENT).”

Harper Watters at the 2019 Although collaborations between the TDP Houston Ballet Ball. and statewide organizations have always existed, the new constituency-organizer program hopes to begin building what Hardebeck calls an “infrastructure” that will reach into and connect intersections of identity within the LGBTQ+ community. The primary goal of Hardebeck’s work is to have people feel seen and heard while building a sustainable, trusting relationship with the TDP that lasts beyond Election Day in November.

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QUEERANTINE STAYING AT HOME TO PREVENT THE SPREAD OF THE NOVEL CORONAVIRUS DOESN’T HAVE TO BE A DRAG, ESPECIALLY WHEN THERE ARE PLENTY OF WAYS TO BE ENTERTAINED FROM THE COMFORT OF YOUR OWN LIVING SPACE. IF YOU NEED FURTHER PROOF, CHECK OUT THESE 13 LGBTQ ACTIVITIES TO KEEP YOU BUSY WHILE SOCIAL DISTANCING.

1. Binge-Watch Queer TV Shows

Haven’t had the chance to see Pose, The L Word: Generation Q, or the Tales of the City revival? Well, now is your chance! Netflix and Hulu both include so many listings under their LGBTQ TV show sections, marathonviewing all of them would probably take you several years to complete. To save you some time as you pick through these shows, OutSmart highly recommends you watch Special, One Day at a Time, and The Politician in addition to those listed above.

2. Take in LGBTQ Movies

Make a bag of popcorn, pour yourself a glass of wine, and stream some queer films.

Since theaters across the country were shut down last month, many new releases are being made available online. Look for the lesbian film Portrait of a Lady on Fire, which came out this February, and be sure to check your favorite streaming services for critically acclaimed LGBTQ films such as Moonlight and Booksmart. If you and your friends are feeling tech-savvy, also check out Netflix Party. The new Chrome extension allows folks to video chat while viewing movies together at the same time.

3. Listen to Local Podcasts

Space City is buzzing with queer content creators, and it’s also home to some great LGBTQ podcasts. We urge you to check out the podcasts Marsha’s Plate (a weekly show by transgender Houstonians of color Diamond Stylz, Mia Mix, and Zahir Ray) along with Let’s Talk About Gay Stuff, The 2081 Project, Veer Queer, and Space Case.

4. Reach Out to Your Loved Ones

Beyond staying in touch with those closest to you, be sure to check in with friends you don’t speak to often. Being a queer person can feel isolating for many, but even more so if you’re stuck without access to your regular support group. Thanks to social media, there are many ways to stay connected. Instead of sending an ordinary instant message, go the

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Don’t forget to ask if they’re in need of support.

5. Check Out Digital Drag Performances

Houston’s hottest LGBTQ entertainers haven’t slowed down since the bars and nightclubs shut down to slow the spread of COVID-19. Many of them host livestream performances at least once a week. Be sure to check your favorite drag artists’ socialmedia pages for updates on when they plan to go live. Need some recommendations? Check out the drag groups Smoke Break, Kings of Houston, and Drag Diva Brunch.

6. Catch Up on Reading

Almost all of us say we wish we had more time to read recreationally. Well, now we can! Unplug yourself from technology and tune into a good LGBTQ book like Red, White & Royal Blue. This book provides the perfect solution for all your escapism needs with its political intrigue, international travels, and lots of queer romance. It’s currently available for purchase online from most book retailers.

7. Practice Self-Care

Let’s face it, these strange times have made life confusing and stressful, so we all deserve to give ourselves some TLC. Take a bath, put on a face mask, meditate, draw, or do whatever else makes you feel relaxed and at peace.

If social isolation has become taxing on your mental health, reach out to Harris County’s 24/7 support line at 833-251-7544.

8. Learn Some New Recipes

The need to eat most of our meals at home has given us the opportunity to get more creative in the kitchen. If you’d like some guidance, Queer Eye’s Antoni Porowski has launched an Instagram cooking show for the quarantine era. If your pantry and fridge shelves are looking sparse, visit SuperCook.com and the website will create dish ideas for you based on the ingredients you enter online.

9. Organize Your Home

Our spring-cleaning duties got a lot easier after declutter-expert Marie Kondo released her hit show on Netflix in 2019. If you’re not familiar with Kondo’s work, it basically involves emptying your entire wardrobe onto your bed and carefully deciding what you want to keep. You can follow her ritual purging process throughout your entire living space until everything is as tidy as you’d like it to be.

10. Work Out

Just because you’re stuck indoors doesn’t mean you can’t set aside 30 minutes each day to exercise. There are plenty of YouTube videos that offer instructions on how to work out without access to a gym. Follow transgender body builders Ajay Holbrook (@ajayholbrook), Jesse Diamond (@jessediamondfitness), and Shae L. Scott (@shaelscott) on Instagram for more tips and inspiration.

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Yes, OnlyFans is popular for its adult entertainment, but it’s also used by folks who work in many other genres—from photography masters to cooking connoisseurs. The site allows content creators to receive funding directly from their subscribers through cash tips and a pay-per-view feature. So if you’re an expert in something, why not share your skills with the world and get paid for it?

12. Play Queer Games

If you and your roommates need a break from technology, gather in your living room—six feet apart, please—and play some board games.

Mexican artist Felix d’Eon’s Queer Lotería (an LGBTQ spinoff of the classic Latinx bingo game) is now for sale on his Etsy site.

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’m sorry that my column is short this month, but I am so busy counting, categorizing, and organizing my newly acquired toilet-paper investment.

Although there has been little time for anything else, let me just take a minute here for some breaking news.

In Texas, the Titus County Republican Party Chairwoman (and State Republican Executive Committee member) Sue Evenwel took to Facebook to wage her continuing battle against lustful mattress-thrashing in any form—except maybe the missionary position, in the dark, only for procreation, and with your government-issued marriage license clutched in one hand.

That’s right, she’d better not hear any damn moaning, carrying on, or what-not coming out of your bedroom.

For 15 years now, the Log Cabin Republicans have tried to have a booth at the Texas State Republican Convention. Honey, as long as there are chubby white-haired Republican women living in absolute terror that their husbands are going to leave them for Jake at State Farm, the Log Cabin Republicans will not be allowed to defile the Texas State Republican Convention with their booth. The Belles of Heaven Republican Women’s Club is not allowing such things as queer people, and I’m fixin’ to tell you why.

Sue Evenwel, who hails from the inaptly named Mount Pleasant, Texas (yeah, well, they’ve never heard of you either, Buster), says that the Log Cabin Republicans are an “advocacy group,” which Log Cabin members don’t deny. They do indeed advocate—for love, and (among other things) mattress-thrashing.

Sue Evenwel says, “The Party would also not allow express advocacy groups for murderers, burglars, adulterers, or fornicators.”

What the damn hell, Sue Evenwel? What the damn hell on parallel bars in tights? I am bewildered about you saying that.

Why are you talking trash about murderers, burglars, adulterers, and fornicators? You just described your president.

In fact, Missy, your beloved president is a one-man advocacy group for all of those things. Darlin’, he’d fornicate on your mattress and then pay some hard-working, respectable hookers to pee on it. Adultery is his hobby and,

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by gawd, he’s good at it.

I know for a fact that at least half of the Log Cabin Republicans have no interest in grabbing your pussy, and I suspect the other half would at least ask permission first.

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n other news, scientists in Spain used an HIV drug that seems to have cured a man with the coronavirus back in March. It could be a promising step toward treating COVID-19.

If it works, it’s for darn sure gonna piss some people off. I imagine at first they will refuse to take the drug, figuring it’s a secret plot to turn them all gay. But then if it starts working, the line will be out the door and around the corner.

I just have some misgivings about giving homophobes in Mississippi free benefits for an HIV drug. I think (and maybe this is just me) there should be some sort of apology involved.

You know, an admission that they were wrong, wrong, triple wrong about AIDS being God’s punishment for gay men, and that now they support equal rights for every-damn-body.

I think that, at the very least, they should be required to kiss a gay man flat on the mouth (or the butt—their choice, because I’m a nice person) and look that person in the eye and loudly say “Jesus loves you!” like they mean it. Then they get their HIV pills, and I get to smile.

Keep yourself safe, because we all need you.

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Moni’s COVID-19 Musings Increasingly sharp party-line difference seen in response to the coronavirus pandemic.

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hose of us who were paying attention to the news when COVID-19 first began to ravage China and Italy knew that if it came here, it could be bad. And back in the day, we could assume that if our federal government handled its business, the crisis could at least be manageable.

But unfortunately, we have an idiot in the Oval Office who got rid of his pandemic response team in 2018 “to save money.” He then exacerbated that boneheaded decision by ignoring his CDC advisors and claiming (along with his conservafool enablers) that COVID-19 is a “hoax” and that it would go away by April.

The virus simply shrugged and said, “Hold my beer.”

Far from going away, COVID-19 has struck the U.S. with a vengeance, infecting hundreds of thousands of people across the county and killing thousands. In addition, the virus has wreaked havoc on the U.S. economy. The Dow Jones has posted record losses. Bars are closed.

Conventions and events are being cancelled.

Airlines have been hit hard. Major U.S. carriers

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like United, which has a major hub in Houston, and Delta have mothballed up to half of their fleets and made major service cuts as people stopped traveling internationally and domestically because of COVID-19.

Restaurants can only do takeout or delivery, and people are urged to stay sheltered at home and work remotely in order to flatten the curve of a virus that promises to hit us much harder before it subsides.

Since many Americans work in the service economy, their jobs that can’t be replicated at home. Unemployment is rising to levels not seen since the 1982 recession.

And unfortunately, something else that is rising is the racist attacks on our Asian neighbors.

You can see an increasingly sharp partyline difference in responses to the crisis while Democratic governors like New York’s Mario Cuomo, Michigan’s Gretchen Whitmer, Virginia’s Ralph Northam, Kentucky’s Andy Beshear, California’s Gavin Newsom, and Washington’s Jay Inslee were fighting to get the federal government to give them the resources they

needed last month, Republican governors were twiddling their thumbs and continuing to claim COVID-19 isn’t serious.

Our Texas Republican leadership has been infuriatingly inept in its response, leaving it up to Democratic mayors and county judges in Dallas, Austin, San Antonio, and Houston to lead where the Republicans refuse to do so.

Lt. Governor Dan Patrick opened his mouth (after initial silence on the developing crisis) and said during a FOX Noise interview that grandparents like him are willing to die in order to save the U.S. economy.

Naw, Potty Dan, I’m not willing to see my mother, much less any Texas senior, die of COVID-19 for the economy. If you and your Republican buds feel that strongly about it, then do us a favor and go pack a right-wing evilgelical megachurch on Easter Sunday so you can lead by example.

Too bad his term doesn’t expire until 2022.

But when the presidential election happens on November 3, I know what I’m planning to do.

Fire every politician with an (R) behind their name.

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Coping with Crisis Dealing with coronavirus stress without popping open a Corona.

By DARYL SHORTER, MD The coronavirus (COVID-19) is a global health disaster of epic proportions. If it feels like you’re living in “the upside-down,” frankly it’s because you are. Everything has shifted, seemingly overnight.

Restaurants and bars? Shut down. Schools?

Shut down. Public spaces, concerts, movie theaters, sporting events? All shut down.

But what about our emotional state?

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Most of us are on high alert these days.

Bodies and brains are buzzing with nervous energy, and maybe you just don’t know what to do with yourself. Nothing seems to ratchet down your anxiety, especially since your usual activities and stress-relievers are unavailable. Of course, all of this can increase your risk with COVID-19.

How do you occupy your time when the distractions don’t work anymore, or when you can’t numb out with social media for another second and you’ve watched everything interesting on Netflix? What happens when emotional eating, drinking, and smoking stops working?

All of these frayed nerves signal opportunity—a chance to research, learn, and practice new skills. Just because you feel out of control doesn’t mean you have no power in this situation. This could be the ideal time to learn the art of mindfulness by starting a gratitude or meditation practice. There are plenty of free smartphone apps, YouTube videos, and websites devoted to practicing

mindfulness.

Explore new interests. Finding a hobby is one of the easiest (or the hardest) things to try.

But at some point, we have all said “When I get more time, I’ll . . .” Remind yourself how you finish that sentence, and then go out and try it! When else are you going to have this kind of time without distractions? Perhaps there’s a book you’ve always meant to read, or a podcast you’ve wanted to develop. There’s no shortage of new things you can try.

Don’t Just Distract. Connect!

Many of us are just trying to manage the stress of uncertain and constantly changing guidance from our elected leaders. Many others are trying to live in denial, which works until it doesn’t. While we may be telling our friends and family how fine we’re doing, our behaviors tell a different tale. Irritability, becoming easily frustrated over little things, poor sleep and eating habits, or increased drinking and drug use can all signal just how fine we aren’t doing.

Honestly and openly acknowledging our fears and anxieties can be helpful in crisis situations such as this, allowing us to discharge the emotional energy behind the behaviors.

Saying to someone, “Yes, I feel the same way,” or “I’m also freaking out,” creates opportunities for connection with others. Trying to offer a fix isn’t necessary; simply being with another person is sometimes enough. While this may not immediately translate into choosing different behaviors or activities, over time it can certainly make it easier to put down the bottle and pick up the phone instead.

What does stress management look like in a time when social distancing and curtailed public activity is the new normal? Creating a routine while sequestered at home can be helpful. What things should be done during the morning? What things can occupy time during afternoons or evenings? Having a plan for how your day will unfold can be the one predictable thing in this sea of unpredictability.

Also, scheduling limited TV and computer screen time can help guard against falling down the rabbit hole. There’s nothing wrong with binge-watching television, and distraction isn’t necessarily a bad thing—in moderation. Make time on the calendar for other activities, such as walking around the apartment or house and going outside for a bit of fresh air (while keeping six feet away from others). Build in breaks from the news and social media. Physical activity reminds us that we are more than armchair movie critics and keyboard warriors.

Too Much of a Good Thing?

How much information is too much? While staying informed is definitely important, obsessively reading about COVID-19 is probably not helpful. Eventually there comes a point where we reach saturation and the information we take in begins working against us, adding to our existing anxiety and creating panic.

Finding the line between too little and too much is a delicate balance. You may not know when you’ve had too little, but you certainly know when enough is enough. Your brain and your body will tell you. Pay attention to those moments. While you’re at it, seek public-safety information and updates from reputable sources while avoiding fake news and harmful conspiracy theories, which only add to the confusion and stress.

The Sobering Truth

For many, this is much more than a crisis of managing stress while sheltering in place.

Entire industries are on hiatus or shutting down. Without customers, many businesses will close, never to return. Employees will find themselves out of work, perhaps for the first time in years, and with their future prospects blanketed in uncertainty. The economic fallout on top of the public health crisis will likely be tremendous.

Supporting others during this time can help refocus negative feelings and energy, spark creativity and collaboration, and provide not only distraction, but emotional healing.

Explore how you can be of service to others.

Banning together in times of crisis—a highly prized and valued part of our character as Houstonians—has always sustained us. And it will continue to do so, no matter what we must face.

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Important Facts About DOVATO

This is only a brief summary of important information about DOVATO and does not replace talking to your healthcare provider about your condition and treatment.

What is the Most Important Information I Should Know about DOVATO? If you have both human immunodeficiency virus-1 (HIV-1) and hepatitis B virus (HBV) infection, DOVATO can cause serious side effects, including: • Resistant HBV infection. Your healthcare provider will test you for HBV infection before you start treatment with DOVATO. If you have HIV-1 and hepatitis B, the hepatitis B virus can change (mutate) during your treatment with DOVATO and become harder to treat (resistant). It is not known if DOVATO is safe and effective in people who have HIV-1 and HBV infection.

• Worsening of HBV infection. If you have HIV-1 and HBV infection, your HBV may get worse (flare-up) if you stop taking DOVATO. A “flare-up” is when your HBV infection suddenly returns in a worse way than before. Worsening liver disease can be serious and may lead to death. ° Do not run out of DOVATO. Refill your prescription or talk to your healthcare provider before your DOVATO is all gone. ° Do not stop DOVATO without first talking to your healthcare provider. If you stop taking DOVATO, your healthcare provider will need to check your health often and do blood tests regularly for several months to check your liver.

What is DOVATO? DOVATO is a prescription medicine that is used without other antiretroviral medicines to treat HIV-1 infection in adults who have not received antiretroviral medicines in the past,and without known resistance to the medicines dolutegravir or lamivudine. HIV-1 is the virus that causes Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome (AIDS). It is not known if DOVATO is safe and effective in children.

Who should not take DOVATO? Do Not Take DOVATO if You: • have ever had an allergic reaction to a medicine that contains dolutegravir or lamivudine.

• take dofetilide.

What should I tell my healthcare provider before using DOVATO? Tell your healthcare provider about all of your medical conditions, including if you: • have or have had liver problems, including hepatitis B or C infection.

• have kidney problems.

• are pregnant or plan to become pregnant. One of the medicines in DOVATO (dolutegravir) may harm your unborn baby. ° Your healthcare provider may prescribe a different medicine than DOVATO if you are planning to become pregnant or if pregnancy is confirmed in the first 12 weeks of pregnancy. ° If you can become pregnant, your healthcare provider will perform a pregnancy test before you start treatment with DOVATO. ° If you can become pregnant, you should consistently use effective birth control (contraception) during treatment with DOVATO. ° Tell your healthcare provider right away if you are planning to become pregnant, you become pregnant, or think you may be pregnant during treatment with DOVATO. ©2020 ViiV Healthcare or licensor.

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Tell your healthcare provider about all of your medical conditions, including if you: (cont’d) • are breastfeeding or plan to breastfeed. Do not breastfeed if you take DOVATO. ° You should not breastfeed if you have HIV-1 because of the risk of passing HIV-1 to your baby. ° One of the medicines in DOVATO (lamivudine) passes into your breastmilk. ° Talk with your healthcare provider about the best way to feed your baby.

Tell your healthcare provider about all the medicines you take, including prescription and over-the-counter medicines, vitamins, and herbal supplements.

Some medicines interact with DOVATO. Keep a list of your medicines and show it to your healthcare provider and pharmacist when you get a new medicine.

• You can ask your healthcare provider or pharmacist for a list of medicines that interact with DOVATO. • Do not start taking a new medicine without telling your healthcare provider. Your healthcare provider can tell you if it is safe to take DOVATO with other medicines.

What are Possible Side Effects of DOVATO? DOVATO can cause serious side effects, including: • Those in the “What is the Most Important Information I Should Know about DOVATO?” section.

• Allergic reactions. Call your healthcare provider right away if you develop a rash with DOVATO. Stop taking DOVATO and get medical help right away if you develop a rash with any of the following signs or symptoms: fever; generally ill feeling; tiredness; muscle or joint aches; blisters or sores in mouth; blisters or peeling of the skin; redness or swelling of the eyes; swelling of the mouth, face, lips, or tongue; problems breathing.

• Liver problems. People with a history of hepatitis B or C virus may have an increased risk of developing new or worsening changes in certain liver tests during treatment with DOVATO. Liver problems, including liver failure, have also happened in people without a history of liver disease or other risk factors.

Your healthcare provider may do blood tests to check your liver.

Tell your healthcare provider right away if you get any of the following signs or symptoms of liver problems: your skin or the white part of your eyes turns yellow (jaundice); dark or “tea-colored” urine; light-colored stools (bowel movements); nausea or vomiting; loss of appetite; and/or pain, aching, or tenderness on the right side of your stomach area.

• Too much lactic acid in your blood (lactic acidosis). Lactic acidosis is a serious medical emergency that can lead to death. Tell your healthcare provider right away if you get any of the following symptoms that could be signs of lactic acidosis: feel very weak or tired; unusual (not normal) muscle pain; trouble breathing; stomach pain with nausea and vomiting; feel cold, especially in your arms and legs; feel dizzy or lightheaded; and/or a fast or irregular heartbeat.

• Lactic acidosis can also lead to severe liver problems, which can lead to death. Your liver may become large (hepatomegaly) and you may develop fat in your liver (steatosis). Tell your healthcare provider right away if you get any of the signs or symptoms of liver problems which are listed above under “Liver problems.” You may be more likely to get lactic acidosis or severe liver problems if you are female or very overweight (obese).

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You can take it any time of day with or without food (around the same time each day)—giving you flexibility

DOVATO is a once-a-day complete treatment for adults who are new to HIV-1 medicine.

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What are Possible Side Effects of DOVATO (cont’d)?

• Changes in your immune system (Immune Reconstitution Syndrome) can happen when you start taking HIV-1 medicines. Your immune system may get stronger and begin to fight infections that have been hidden in your body for a long time. Tell your healthcare provider right away if you start having new symptoms after you start taking DOVATO. • The most common side effects of DOVATO include: headache; diarrhea; nausea; trouble sleeping; and tiredness.

These are not all the possible side effects of DOVATO. Call your doctor for medical advice about side effects. You are encouraged to report negative side effects of prescription drugs to the FDA. Visit www.fda.gov/medwatch, or call 1-800-FDA-1088.

Where Can I Find More Information?

• Talk to your healthcare provider or pharmacist.

• Go to DOVATO.com or call 1-877-844-8872, where you can also get FDA-approved labeling.

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a BRAVE new WORLD Houston's LGBTQ community comes together during the COVID-19 crisis.

The coronavirus (COVID-19) pandemic has changed our way of life. In order to halt the spread, government officials have closed most businesses and directed residents to stay home unless they are getting groceries, running crucial errands, or going to work at a business deemed essential. News updates on the disease are ever-changing, and there is still no clear sign of when we will return to normalcy.

Despite the chaos and uncertainty surrounding COVID-19, Houston’s LGBTQ community has come together to help the city’s most vulnerable—the sick, the folks who have lost their jobs, and those in need of resources.

In this April issue of OutSmart, we introduce you to three gay nurses on the front lines of the pandemic. We also spotlight Space City’s

queer bar owners, who are working to ensure that their employees are taken care of while they’re out of work.

First, we feature Akil Jones, an ICU float nurse who plays an important role in nine intensive-care units at his hospital. Next, meet Nicholas Olaverria, a nurse who specializes in fighting infectious diseases. Then, get to know Chase Parker, a respiratory therapist who cares for patients with severe breathing problems.

If you miss going out, trust us, your favorite local establishments miss you right back! In order to save Houston’s LGBTQ bars and nightclubs, their owners are getting creative—and asking for your help.

Finally, for those whose jobs were affected

by COVID-19, OutSmart has compiled a list of local and national relief programs.

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Medical Asset ICU float nurse Akil Jones plays an important role in nine intensive-care units.

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As soon as news broke that the United States was likely to be impacted by the novel coronavirus (COVID-19), toilet paper, medical masks, and hand sanitizer flew off the shelves in stores around the country.

While the public has been advised to stay indoors and away from others, nurses like Akil Jones, a proudly gay Houston healthcare worker, are dealing with this crisis head-on with bravery, tenacity, and hope.

A 2014 graduate of The University of Texas Health Science Center at Houston, Jones currently works as an ICU float nurse in the Texas Medical Center. “My job requires me to maintain a level of medical competence that will be an asset on any unit to which I’m assigned,” he explains. “My hospital has over nine different intensive-care units (ICUs) with different specialties, so I get to experience something new every day.”

Jones offers insight into what is being done at his hospital to contain COVID-19.

“At my facility, they’ve been incredibly cautious about the spread of illness by catching symptoms and trends before they result in something dangerous,” he explains. “We’re normally briefed daily by our leadership about any changes regarding transmission, PPE (Personal Protective Equipment), treatments, and trends in the city that could affect the hospital.”

The medical professional acknowledges that his daily routine as a float nurse is always unpredictable by nature, but the pandemic has thrown even more uncertainty into his schedule. “I have worked a couple of shifts in our unit for Patients Under Investigation (PUIs) for COVID-19. These patients are separated 26 APRIL 2020 | OutSmartMagazine.com

Lauren Anderson (l) and Harper Watters at the 2019 Houston Ballet Ball. from the general population while they are examined and tested,” Jones explains. “Some of the entrances to the hospital [have been closed], and we’re screening visitors, patients, and employees to ensure everyone is safe.”

Along with the disturbing lack of COVID-19 test kits, medical facilities have a dire need for safety equipment including face masks, gloves, and shoe covers—just to name a few of the shortages. “[The medical professionals here] have never had to deal with something of this magnitude before,” he

explains. “I work in a facility that fortunately has the space and means to isolate these patients, but people that interact with these patients on a regular basis—nurses, respiratory therapists, nurse’s aides, environmental services—are still anxious, especially with the nationwide equipment shortage.”

With anxieties on the rise, Jones reassures us that these capeless superheroes understand their mission and responsibilities with this pandemic. “Even though people are anxious and scared, we all understand that we are

part of something bigger, and are a major part of helping curb the rate of infection,” he says with confidence. “At the end of the day, we’re all working to help people heal. Working in healthcare comes with sacrifice, so no one is too shocked right now.”

Jones is quick to emphasize the role that every American must play to “flatten the curve” and keep friends, family, and neighbors safe. “Everyone should take simple steps to make sure they are not only protecting themselves, but protecting others,” he stresses.

“People can be asymptomatic carriers, which means you would feel OK if you were to contract COVID-19.” Jones explains this is great news for you, but not if you were to pass it on to someone else. “Wash your hands for at least 20 seconds. Don’t touch your face, mouth, or eyes after touching anything. COVID-19 can live on materials for days. Practice social distancing.” Jones explains that minimizing interaction with others is crucial in helping flatten the curve of infection. And his advice for the extroverted and restless among us? “Work from home if possible, don’t go out unless it’s necessary, and don’t have house parties just because the bars are closed.”

Despite the complexities that each day

“MY JOB REQUIRES ME TO MAINTAIN A LEVEL OF MEDICAL COMPETENCE THAT WILL BE AN ASSET ON ANY UNIT TO WHICH I’M ASSIGNED.” —AKIL JONES brings with this global pandemic, Jones finds ways to invest in much-needed and welldeserved self care. “All of the information and fear can be overwhelming, so I try to do things that make me happy,” he says. “I’ve been watching a lot of cartoons, catching up on a little reading, and trying to do workouts from home. I think focusing on the pandemic nonstop can be just as detrimental to your mental health, so I think it’s important to find something that gives you a little relief.”

Thinking ahead to the day when we return to a semblance of normalcy, Jones looks forward

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Our nation, and our city, have pulled through tough times before by meeting the challenges head-on. By doing our part to flatten the infection curve by isolating ourselves from others, we are also helping healthcare professionals like Jones, who are on the front lines protecting all of us. With pressures mounting daily, Jones maintains hope by envisioning what we might learn from this experience as citizens of the world. “I truly believe that this crisis, like many others, will pass. People are following recommendations, and hospitals are working nonstop to ensure proper care for the general population,” he emphasizes. “I hope this whole experience can be a learning opportunity for everyone, from the federal level to the personal level. I hope it causes decision-makers to take a closer look at our healthcare system and deal with the issues and shortcomings that caused this infection to become a pandemic. I also hope it encourages individuals to take a more proactive approach in regard to their health.”

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Rescue Worker Nurse Nicholas Olaverria treats patients fighting infectious diseases.

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In only a few short weeks, the coronavirus, or COVID-19, has managed to turn the lives of practically everyone in the world upside down. While Houstonians who would have normally been celebrating at the rodeo are now homebound, first responders like nurse Nicholas Olaverria are still going to work every day—at great risk to their health, and for the benefit of ours.

“My husband and I have had to engage in scary talks about my work and the risks that it involves. He knows the days that I am working in the unit attending to coronavirus patients.

The last thing I want to do is get anyone sick. I feel confident in myself and in the science, and know that I am taking every precaution that I can to prevent the spread of the virus.”

Olaverria, 25, graduated from nursing school in 2016. He recently married his husband, Joaquin Olaverria, shortly before the pandemic was declared. He has worked the last four years in the intensive-care unit at Memorial Hermann Hospital in the Texas Medical Center. And while most people’s lives have slowed to a halt, nurses like Olaverria are 28 APRIL 2020 | OutSmartMagazine.com

busier than ever.

On a normal day, prior to the COVID-19 pandemic, Olaverria would treat patients that were fighting other diseases considered even more contagious than the virus. As an experienced healthcare professional, he and his co-workers continue to take the necessary precautions to prevent transmission.

But there is a growing concern that the Personal Protective Equipment (PPE) that hospitals need is running out. As the number of patients continues to increase, Olaverria is concerned that they may not have the beds or equipment necessary to treat patients or protect themselves.

“The hospital’s supply of gloves, gowns, and surgical masks is already becoming low. These are basic supplies, and as the need grows, they need to be replenished,” says Olaverria.

Staffing levels are another concern. Although the majority of healthcare workers are doing their best to help patients dealing with the virus, some are unwilling to work in the units designated for these patients. Their concerns are valid. Without the proper gear, they would be putting their own lives, and the lives of the people they care about, at risk.

“Making sure that you are not in large

“I FEEL CONFIDENT IN MYSELF AND IN THE SCIENCE, AND KNOW THAT I AM TAKING EVERY PRECAUTION THAT I CAN TO PREVENT THE SPREAD OF THE VIRUS.” —NICHOLAS OLAVERRIA

groups, or around people feeling sick or feverish, is very important. Every year, we stress the different ways you can avoid getting the flu, like washing hands for twenty seconds. These are the things you should already be doing. Social distancing is also a good tactic for avoiding getting sick,” says Olaverria.

COVID-19 is ten times more contagious than the flu—and also more deadly. Some experts fear the mortality rate could be as high as three percent, meaning that for every one hundred people infected, three will die. Those statistics are frightening enough, but that mortality rate could get even higher if hospitals are

forced to begin making decisions about who will or will not receive treatment—a process already being used in hard-hit places like Italy.

The sooner that the rate of infection is slowed down, the sooner people who have been furloughed can return to work. Olaverria’s husband, who is also a Spin instructor, is currently unable to teach classes in person while gyms and all other nonessential businesses are closed.

Olaverria also wants to make sure people are getting accurate COVID-19 treatment information, especially those living with HIV/AIDS. “I have had a few people ask me if there are certain HIV medications that can treat or kill COVID-19. I do not know that to be true, or if that has even been tested. It is superimportant for us to filter out information that is incorrect. I want our community to know, especially those living with HIV and AIDS, that they aren’t protected just because they read [about an experiment] in some article that may not be accurate,” say Olaverria.

In the meantime, Olaverria will be working to help the city get through this crisis. And the best way that we can all help him is to stay home.

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Healthcare Hero Respiratory therapist Chase Parker cares for patients with severe breathing problems.

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As the entire nation continues to grapple with the growing coronavirus (COVID-19) crisis, respiratory therapist Chase Parker has had an up-close-and-personal view of the pandemic in Houston.

“I can tell you that COVID-19 has drastically changed our daily routine,” he says.

“Before we can even enter the hospital building, we must have a temperature check and be screened.”

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has been on the front lines this spring, treating patients daily for the virus.

Respiratory therapists typically care for patients who have trouble breathing from a chronic respiratory disease, such as asthma or emphysema, Parker explains. “Patients can range from premature infants with undeveloped lungs to elderly patients who have diseased lungs. We also provide emergency care to patients suffering from heart attacks, drownings, or shock.”

But Parker, who is gay, has been treating all age groups since the pandemic began last month.

“Patients that now come in for shortness

of breath are automatically treated as if they have the coronavirus,” he says. “It is for our safety, and the safety of other patients as well.

They are placed in a negative-pressure room for those with suspected airborne diseases.

The air from that room does not mix with the regular air circulating in the hospital.”

COVID-19, which causes a respiratory illness similar to the flu, has symptoms such as a cough, fever, and, in more severe instances, difficulty breathing. It spreads primarily through contact with an infected person when they cough or sneeze. It can also spread when a person touches a surface that has the virus on it and then touches their eyes, nose, or mouth.

Because the virus is extremely contagious, the concept of social distancing is the best option to avoid getting infected, Parker notes.

“I feel that social distancing will work and has helped some, but not completely. You will always have those rebellious individuals who are not going to follow guidelines that have been set. We need to be a little less selfish.

I know it is frustrating with things closing and having to be isolated, but know that this will not last forever.”

Although the COVID-19 has rapidly taken hold of the entire world, the healthcare system is stepping up to deal with the severe circum-

“THE HEALTHCARE SYSTEM AS A WHOLE IS DOING THE BEST THEY CAN TO TRY AND ELIMINATE THE SPREAD OF THE VIRUS.” —CHASE PARKER stances, Parker says.

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Hospital management is also trying to help him and other staff members by giving them several breaks and offering other de-stressing options. “The hospital offers us stuff like ten-minute chair massages,” he says. “Things that we can do to just get away from all the craziness for a few moments. They are really trying to do the best they can, considering the circumstances.”

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plies and respirators needed to help treat patients late last month, those supplies might not last forever, Parker explains.

“We have the supplies that we need, although we may run out soon if the community doesn’t take this seriously and follow the guidelines set by community leaders. It is a collaborative effort. We have to be selfless people to help stop the spread.”

The goal of flattening the curve, or reducing the projected number of new cases over a period of time, is to avoid having new cases occur all at once and overwhelming the hospitals.

It is imperative that people stay home and do not go to hospitals unless they need emergency care, Parker notes.

“Stay at home. Do not overcrowd the emergency rooms. Only visit the hospital if you have a serious threat to life or limb. It is far too busy, and you are more likely to catch the virus at the hospital than anywhere else you visit.”

Now, more than ever, the country needs to come together to help stop the spread of the COVID-19 and take care of each other, Parker says.

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What is SYMTUZA® Used For? SYMTUZA® is a prescription medicine that is used without other antiretroviral medicines to treat Human Immunodeficiency Virus-1 (HIV-1) infection in adults who: • have not received anti-HIV-1 medicines in the past, or • when their healthcare provider determines that they meet certain requirements.

HIV-1 is the virus that causes AIDS (Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome). It is not known if SYMTUZA® is safe and effective in children under 18 years of age.

Take SYMTUZA® exactly as your healthcare provider tells you. Do not change your dose or stop taking SYMTUZA® without talking to your healthcare provider. If you have difficulty swallowing, the tablet may be split using a tablet-cutter. After splitting the tablet, the entire dose (both halves) should then be taken right away. Do not miss a dose of SYMTUZA®. When your SYMTUZA® supply starts to run low, get more from your healthcare provider or pharmacy. This is very important because the amount of virus in your blood may increase if the medicine is stopped for even a short time. The virus may develop resistance to SYMTUZA® and become harder to treat.

What are the most serious risks with SYMTUZA®?

SYMTUZA® can cause serious side effects including: Worsening of hepatitis B virus (HBV) infection. Your healthcare provider will test you for HBV before starting treatment with SYMTUZA®. If you have HBV infection and take SYMTUZA®, your HBV may get worse (flare-up) if you stop taking SYMTUZA®. If you stop taking SYMTUZA®, your healthcare provider will need to check your health often and do blood tests regularly for several months to check your HBV infection or give you a medicine to treat your HBV infection. Tell your healthcare provider about any new or unusual symptoms you may have after you stop taking SYMTUZA®.

What are the important warnings?

• SYMTUZA® may cause severe liver problems that can lead to death. Tell your healthcare provider right away if you get these symptoms: skin or the white part of your eyes turns yellow, dark “tea-colored” urine, light-colored stools, loss of appetite for several days or longer, nausea, vomiting, or stomach area pain • SYMTUZA® may cause severe or life-threatening skin reactions or rashes. Stop taking SYMTUZA® and call your healthcare provider right away if you develop any skin changes with the following symptoms: fever, tiredness, muscle or joint pain, blisters or skin lesions, mouth sores or ulcers, and/or red or inflamed eyes, like “pink eye” (conjunctivitis) • SYMTUZA® can cause new or worse kidney problems, including kidney failure What should I tell my healthcare provider?

Before taking SYMTUZA®, tell your healthcare provider about all of your medical conditions, including if you: • have liver problems (including hepatitis B or hepatitis C) • have kidney problems • are allergic to sulfa (sulfonamide) • have diabetes • have hemophilia • Are pregnant or plan to become pregnant. SYMTUZA® should not

be used in pregnant women. It is not known if SYMTUZA® will harm your unborn baby • Are breastfeeding or plan to breastfeed. You should not breastfeed if you have HIV-1 because of the risk of passing HIV to your baby.

Do not breastfeed if you take SYMTUZA® Tell your healthcare provider about all the medicines you take, including prescription and over-the-counter medicines, vitamins, and herbal supplements. Some medicines interact with SYMTUZA®.

Keep a list of your medicines to show your healthcare provider and pharmacist. Do not start taking a new medicine without telling your healthcare provider.

Who should not take SYMTUZA®?

• Do not take SYMTUZA® with any of the following medicines: alfuzosin, carbamazepine, cisapride, colchicine (if you have liver or kidney problems), dronedarone, elbasvir and grazoprevir, ergotcontaining medicines (such as: dihydroergotamine, ergotamine tartrate, methylergonovine), ivabradine, lomitapide, lovastatin or a product that contains lovastatin, lurasidone, midazolam (when taken by mouth), naloxegol, phenobarbital, phenytoin, pimozide, ranolazine, rifampin, sildenafil when used for pulmonary arterial hypertension (PAH), simvastatin or a product that contains simvastatin, St. John’s wort (Hypericum perforatum) or a product that contains St. John’s wort, or triazolam • Serious problems can happen if you take any of these medicines with SYMTUZA® What are the possible side effects of SYMTUZA®?

SYMTUZA® may cause serious side effects including: • Immune system changes (Immune Reconstitution Syndrome) can happen in people taking HIV-1 medicines • Too much lactic acid in your blood (lactic acidosis) which is a serious but rare medical emergency that can lead to death. Tell your healthcare provider right away if you get these symptoms: weakness or being more tired than usual, unusual muscle pain, being short of breath or fast breathing, stomach pain with nausea and vomiting, cold or blue hands and feet, feel dizzy or lightheaded, or a fast or abnormal heartbeat • Diabetes and high blood sugar • Changes in body fat can happen in people taking HIV-1 medications • Increased bleeding in people with hemophilia, which can happen when taking protease inhibitors.

The most common side effects are: • diarrhea, nausea, headache, gas, rash, fatigue, stomach problems These are not all of the possible side effects of SYMTUZA®. Tell your healthcare provider if you have any side effect that bothers you or that does not go away.

What important facts should I know?

This information is not complete. To get more information: • Talk to your healthcare provider or pharmacist • Visit www.SYMTUZA.com to read over the FDA-approved product labeling and patient information cp-60855v5

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COMMUNITY

Unemployment Help for LGBTQ Bar and Restaraunt Workers Affected by COVID-19 Our latest resource list for local and national relief programs.

By STAFF REPORTERS

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ouston’s LGBTQ workers are the backbone of our favorite gayborhood clubs and eateries. Unfortunately, their livelihoods are being affected following the Harris County decision to shut down bars and dine-in restaurant services in an effort to stem the spread of the coronavirus.

In response to this crisis, a slew of programs—from grassroots efforts to government relief—have begun to take shape. Check back on the OutSmart website, as this list will continue to be updated as more resources become available.

Bartender Emergency Assistance Program (BEAP)

The USBC United Charity Foundation is offering grant assistance to bartenders and their families experiencing hardship due to COVID-19. For more information on applying for a BEAP grant, visit tinyurl.com/BEAPGrant. To donate to BEAP, go tinyurl.com/ DonateBEAP.

Houston Virtual Tip Jar

Houston activist Ali Lozano has created a virtual tip jar for service and entertainment workers who have lost income due to the COVID-19 shutdowns. Folks who work in these industries can fill out their Venmo/Paypal information at tinyurl.com/HOUTipJar. A compiled list of this information is available soon for folks who want to donate at bit.ly/ HoustonTipJarList.

Southern Smoke Foundation

Restaurant and bar owners and their employees affected by COVID-19 can get help through the Houston-based Southern Smoke Founda-

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tion. To apply for funding, visit tinyurl.com/ SouthernSmokeApp. To donate to the fund, visit tinyurl.com/DonateSouthernSmoke.

SBA Disaster Recovery Assistance

The U.S. Small Business Administration (SBA) has webinars running every few hours to provide help and guidance to small business owners. For more information, visit tinyurl. com/SBACovid19.

One Fair Wage

Servers, delivery drivers, and other tipped service workers impacted by restaurant closings can get help from One Fair Wage by filling out the form at tinyurl.com/OFWSupport. To donate to One Fair Wage, go to tinyurl.com/ OFWDonate.

Grocery Stores Are Hiring

H-E-B, Kroger, and other grocery chains have announced that they need help keeping shelves stocked amid the COVID-19 crisis. For more information on who’s hiring, visit tinyurl.com/ HoustonHiring.

Food Pantries

If you’re in need of food, text FOOD to 855308-2282 to find the nearest food pantry in your area. If you’d like to volunteer at a food pantry such as the Houston Food Bank, go to tinyurl.com/HOUFoodBank.

Apply for Unemployment

If your employer has reduced your hours or shut down operations due to COVID-19, you can file an unemployment insurance (UI) claim. UI provides partial wage-replacement benefit payments to workers who lose their jobs or have their hours reduced.

Entertainers and Artists Assistance

Queer entertainers, note that the unemployment benefits listed above are available to you as well! For more information on unemployment assistance for artists affected by COVID-19, goto tinyurl.com/HOUArtsAlliance.

COVID-19 Mental Health Support Line

Social isolation during these stressful times can be taxing on our mental health. If you need someone to talk to, call Harris County’s 24/7 support line at 833-251-7544.

Other Ways We Can Help LGBTQ Workers Keep Ordering Food To-Go

If you’re feeling well, keep ordering takeout.

Many restaurants are still open and are offering delivery service or curbside pickup.

Check In on Your Favorite Drag Performers, Bartenders, and Servers

Many LGBTQ bar and restaraunt workers have shared their needs on social media by posting their Venmo, Cashapp, and PayPal handles. If you’re able to, donate or repost their links. In addition, some of these entertainers plan to host their shows digitally, and you’ll be able to tip them online.

Donate Directly to LGBTQ Bars

Several queer nightclubs have asked for donations to help pay their workers. Learn more about how to donate on page 68.

Mobilize to Make Your Voice Heard

Call your senators—John Cornyn (202-2242934) and Ted Cruz (202-224-5922)—and tell them to pass emergency COVID-19 legislation now.

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Fashionably Frugal Yahaira DeHill takes yesterday’s cast-offs and makes them shine.

By JENNY BLOCK

F

rom the look of Yahaira DeHill’s whimsical costume designs, you’d never guess that what she studied in college was architecture. In fact, she graduated with honors from Prairie View A&M University with a bachelor’s degree in the highly technical subject.

Education aside, when it comes to DeHill’s family background, you might say sewing is in her blood. Both her mother and grandmother were seamstresses, and DeHill has been making matching outfits for her siblings and herself ever since she was little. “As I grew older,” DeHill explains, “I began sketching out dresses, and they would help me make them.”

But what DeHill does now, and the materials she works with, are far from ordinary. You name it, she’s likely designed with it—including recycled material and copies of OutSmart magazine.

Using such materials is a practice she came by honestly. “In architecture school,” she explains, “most of my projects were made out of recycled materials and inspired by nature and origami.” So when DeHill had the chance to take part in a real “trash-ion” show, she was thrilled.

The first show DeHill was a part of was Talento Bilingüe de Houston’s Rubbish to Runway event in 2017, marking the premiere of her clothes made from recycled materials.

“I have now had a couple of my own shows at Discovery Green, while still being a part of charity shows such as Rubbish to Runway and the University of Houston Charity Fashion Show.”

It’s only natural that DeHill would land in the world of design, as it has always been part of what makes her tick. Design is her passion, whether it’s working on buildings, cakes, costumes, or party planning. She says she started

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“COSTUMES ARE VERY IMPORTANT TO ME BECAUSE THEY ARE WHAT PEOPLE LOOK AT FIRST, AND CAPTIVATING THE AUDIENCE IS THE GOAL.” —Yahaira DeHill

baking and designing cakes out of necessity, to pay for college and school supplies.

“Architecture school requires a lot of extra supplies. I paid for most of my last year in school by making and selling cakes.” But DeHill was never interested in ordinary designs. “The more complicated and time-consuming they were, the more I wanted to make them. Now, I am the same way with costumes.”

And after all that she’s achieved, working with unconventional materials is still at the top of DeHill’s list of favorite things. She’s made costumes out of vinyl records, water

bottles, CD fragments, cassette tapes, pipe cleaners, soda tabs, bubble wrap, corn husks, trash bags, playing cards, newsprint, and wire hangers, just to name a few.

“One of my favorite things to work with is duct tape. It is the base of a lot of my work.

These kinds of costumes usually cost the least amount of money to make, but they take the most amount of work. The end result always makes it worth it.”

Indeed, people often say that DeHill is not afraid of a challenge. “I take big risks when people come to me with designs, and even if I

am not exactly sure that I can make it, I never say no.”

For DeHill, doing this work has, in many ways, been about making what seemed like a dream actually come true. After she saw Dessie’s Drag Race, a local drag competition, DeHill was mesmerized by the costumes and the possibility of designing drag fashions herself the following year. “My husband and I decided to give it a try. This was a new world to us. We quickly had to learn about makeup, making mixes, props—and I, of course, got to work on costumes.”

It was then that DeHill put her trash-fashion glue gun down and bought her first sewing machine. “I never thought I’d be working as a designer for most of the queens in the show.

I even got to make a gown for Dessie Love Blake for the finale.” She also made most of Muffy Vanderbilt III’s costumes for her Movie Muffs show.

“The show involves drag performances parodying different iconic movies, which requires specific costuming inspired by the characters.” DeHill is also the sole designer for her husband (aka drag performer Awdasity), who is the Season 18 winner of Dessie’s Drag ➝ CONTINUED ON PAGE 41

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ARTS

Transcending Borders Gerardo Rosales’ art showcases the struggles that refugees face while fleeing their countries.

By BILL ARNING

In 2010, during my first year in Houston, I was alerted that there was a bear showing his ass night and day in an upstairs window at Lawndale Art Center. Moving subtly on a swing in the window, Snack Project Teddy was a memorable, human-sized teddy bear exhibit at Houston’s beloved alternative art space on Main Street.

Not all Lawndale visitors would notice Teddy’s perpetual mooning high above the parking lot, or use the somewhat hidden stairs to get to the third-floor studios. But my friends (knowing I was somewhat bear-identified myself) urged me to seek out and cruise Teddy up close.

It turned out that he was—for a teddy bear— pretty butch, with an Army insignia on his muscular arm and quite a large phallic mound, bulgy enough that even a small child would know that this was no asexual companion bear.

Gerardo Rosales, Snack Project Teddy’s creator, hit so many critical points around gay visual culture. After all, 2010 was the year when horny bearded guys on Scruff depicted themselves naked with their junk blocked only by a teddy bear—that funny mix of sexy and goofy that only bear culture welcomed.

I needed to meet the artist.

Turns out, Rosales was an artist from Venezuela who had been living in Houston since 2001, following an active exhibiting career in South America, Europe, and the U.K., where he attended the prestigious Chelsea College of Art with notable artists David Hockney, Chris Offili, and Anish Kapoor.

Back in the day, the link between Caracas (Venezuela’s massive capital city) and Houston was evidenced by the waves of wealthy Venezuelans who descended on The Galleria to shop. However, that ended 15 years ago with Venezuela’s economic collapse.

Fortunately, we have still ended up with a strong cadre of Venezuelan art makers such as Violette Bule and Jan Rattia, who both lived here at various times. As for Venezuelan exhibits, MFAH had a long involvement with the great geometric abstract painter Carlos 38 APRIL 2020 | OutSmartMagazine.com

Mosquitoes, 2013, acrylic on canvas

Cruz-Diez. And Sicardi gallery regularly shows the still-Caracas-based multi-media artist Magdalena Fernandez, whose projected environment in Houston’s recently reopened cisterns thrilled the city in 2016.

And one of Houston’s great underground arts spaces, The Transart Foundation near the Menil museum, was founded by Venezuelan Surpik Angelini. That multidisciplinary space supports experimental work at the intersection of art and anthropology.

It was at the Trans Art Foundation in the spring of 2019 where Rosales made his most authoritative statement on the nature of class, labor, and beauty. His work in London tended to be explicitly about the violence against gay men that he witnessed growing up, including a show in which he depicted gay men as

“piñatas” who were often beaten by police in the cruising parks of Caracas.

But walking into Transart last year, I saw the work uniforms, mops, and functional shoes worn by cleaning women, all decorated with the artist’s signature motifs: spiders, webs, and flowers.

Early Birds, the title of Rosales’ series, referred to the unseen nature of cleaning women’s labor. One dress, titled 4:30am, represented the pre-dawn hour when the women often started to work. The Mexican movie Roma, which told the story of its filmmaker’s childhood memories of the young woman who worked in his home as a maid, was on everyone’s minds when the exhibition opened. Rosales’ exhibit celebrated these laborers’ strength while being unthanked and

poorly compensated, and all who saw the show grasped the artist’s message about economic disparities—not only in Venezuela, but also in Houston.

A piece subtitled Gio Ponti was just an excuse refers to the man whose aesthetics defined the global love of Italian design in the 1960s and ’70s via Rosales’ masterpiece in Caracas at the Villa Planchart. When the Planchart commissioned this hilltop gem, the oil-rich country was booming. Today, the perfectly preserved house looks down on the most dangerous major city on the planet, and is a symbol for the death of a generation’s dreams and the plight of so many Venezuelans who can never go back home.

Living between two worlds, Rosales sympathizes with those in foreign countries seeking a better life. He also looks with sorrow and shame on the refugee holding camps on the Texas-Mexico border that should remind Americans that our nation’s promise to welcome the huddled masses is now empty rhetoric.

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and I think all of the constituency organizers can agree that our personhood is a part of our work now,” Hardbeck admits. “Having those ties makes this work extremely emotional, so I want to be there for communities and listen— I want to have authentic conversations with folks that have been waiting for a long time to speak and to be heard and be seen.”

Hardebeck’s experience with intersecting identities is not limited to her queerness.

Growing up, the Asian-American woman attended Japanese school on the weekends and eventually went to college in her mother’s hometown of Sendai, Japan, to study quantitative social science. It was there that Hardebeck began to ponder the connections between language, culture, gender, and societal expectations around self-expression.

Hardebeck cites Dr. Christine Blasey Ford’s testimony against Brett Kavanaugh, and Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez’s congressional win in New York, as pivotal moments that moved her to work for the TDP. “There are just certain moments in political history that shift the whole world, and [Ford’s testimony]

“I’M GOING TO MEET PEOPLE WHERE THEY’RE AT, AND ENCOURAGE THEM IN A WAY THAT I BELIEVE WILL CHANGE THE WORLD AND CHANGE OUR COMMUNITIES’ LIVES FOR THE BETTER.” —MAE HARDEBECK was one of those moments for me,” Hardebeck says. “[AOC’s] win made me shift from having a lot of the cynical feelings to thinking, ‘Why shouldn’t I also be someone that can contribute hope to people or to a movement?’”

Hardebeck now sees the work the TDP does as part of a larger movement in the United States—and specifically in Texas—to connect with folks from every part of the political spectrum.

“I’m going to meet people where they’re at, and encourage them in a way that I believe will change the world and change our communities’ lives for the better,” Hardebeck says. “I know it’s going to be special because we have a chance to make such a big difference, and I’m willing to work my ass off for that.”

To learn more about the Texas Democratic Party, visit their website at texasdemocrats.org. Reach out directly to Mae Hardebeck by emailing her at mhardebeck@txdemocrats.org

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Race and a member of the Movie Muffs cast.

“Costumes are very important to me,” DeHill explains, “because they are what people look at first, and captivating the audience is the goal.” So when it comes to advice for those looking to dip their toes in the fashion-design pool, DeHill explains that not limiting yourself is the key. “Explore different materials and designs. Learn the craft well, and do a lot of shows, even if they are for charity at first. Get your name out there, and you’ll soon be making money out of your passion.”

As for what the future holds, DeHill says she hopes to travel with her designs and one day be able to do her own fashion shows all around the world. “I hope to continue learning and move into more innovative pieces. I would like to use my knowledge of architecture and structure to work with advanced technology such as 3-D printing, laser cutting, and digital designs.”

DeHill wishes that more people understood the hard work and sacrifice it takes to bring a costume concept to life. “You have to be willing to draw from everything you’ve learned in life: trends, geometric shapes, logic, probability,

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DeHill is living her best design life these days, and despite all of the planning and hard work, one thing is for sure: sometimes the best results are, in fact, the result of accidents.

“Sometimes the best designs come from just doing, and not so much from planning and sketching. The end result may not always come out how you want, but in many cases it may be even better.”

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PROFILE

Catching Up with Peppermint Drag Race’s first openly trans contestant continues breaking barriers.

By SAM BYRD

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“THERE ARE SO MANY BEAUTIFUL WAYS THAT INCLUSION CAN WEAVE ITSELF INTO TRADITION.” —PEPPERMINT

e remember her as the lipsync assassin who slayed her way to a runner-up finish in the ninth season of RuPaul’s Drag Race, but Peppermint is giving fans a whole new set of reasons to keep up with her on Instagram. She still glitzes up the drag stage, but in the last few years she has turned her attention to causes close to her heart by making strides both onstage and in the streets.

Peppermint, who was RuPaul’s first openly transgender contestant, quickly rose through the ranks as audiences fell in love with her honesty, bravery, and penchant for delivering unforgettable performances.

Television producers took note, and her accolades now include appearances in Ryan Murphy’s Pose, the CBS show God Friended Me, FOX’s Deputy, and TLC’s I Am Jazz. She also landed a role in The Go-Go’s-inspired musical Head Over Heels, which earned her the distinction of being the first trans woman to originate a principal role on Broadway.

The acting gigs didn’t come from her media fandom as a “Ru Girl,” though. She says she still had to go through the audition process just like everyone else, with plenty of rejections before she got her break in the industry.

“I was auditioning for Broadway shows and being rejected because I was too queer, or too trans, or too something,” she recalls. “Most of the acting credits are because I was submitted by an agent, and I stood in a long line of people and went back for callbacks. Nobody called me or texted me [to hand me the job]—every acting job I’ve gotten has been from an audition.”

She credits her success to the skills she learned while earning her acting degree from The American Musical and Dramatic Academy in New York, as well as all the years she spent performing in drag shows.

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“Wine is my life. There’s not an experience that I have had in the last few decades that hasn’t included wine in some fashion,” he says. “I started collecting about 30 years ago when I was given a Bordeaux from the 1950s, which I still have. I wanted to know why these bottles were so special, and what makes them expensive and collectable, so I started reading about it. I’ve always been interested to know more about wines.”

By exploring his passion for wine, Borel developed a knowledge base that has earned him a reputation as Houston’s go-to wine guy.

It’s also brought him attention from revered industry peers.

As the wine director and buyer for a newlyopened South American restaurant in 2011, his wine list was recognized as one of the top 100 U.S. lists by Wine Enthusiast Magazine.

He also received a Wine Spectator Award of Excellence for that same list. Borel became an industry staple as the general manager of a decades-old heritage restaurant, the general

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Currently, Borel is flexing his wine knowledge as beverage director for Rainbow Lodge, where he curates everything from hot tea and bottled water to their cocktail and wine list. Under his guidance, Rainbow Lodge has recently been honored with Wine Spectator Magazine’s “Best Of” Award of Excellence for two years in a row. This award recognizes restaurants whose beverage programs offer interesting selections, are appropriate to their cuisine, and appeal to a wide range of wine lovers. Only 14 restaurants in Houston have been awarded this honor.

“I’ve worked really hard to build a program that has something for everyone and every budget. What we do is something that is going to go great with food. We have the staples, but if you want to have some fun exploring other wines, we can do that in any price range. We can enjoy some great wine and learn a thing or two.”

Borel’s overriding theory about wine is that people shouldn’t buy wine based on its perceived value or popular opinion. He encourages people to break down the factors of what they like or don’t like, to enhance their next Lauren Anderson (l) and purchase.

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rest come from exercising that knowledge on stage as a queen, and owning my own brand of performance. That’s what drag gave to me—the freedom to not feel so constricted,” she says.

Peppermint is proud to perform on stage and on television because it gives authenticity to the stories of people of color and members of the LGBTQ community.

“It’s necessary to tell these stories because we are here; we are in the population. We’re part of your city, your neighborhoods, and your families. If art and media are supposed to tell the stories of what’s happening in life, you should try to tell those stories respectfully and with taste and honesty,” she says. “There are so many beautiful ways that inclusion can weave itself into tradition.”

And she doesn’t stop there.

Peppermint also emphasizes the importance of seeing LGBTQ writers, casting directors, and others in positions of influence.

“We know that cisgender people can be great actors and can do queer roles justice, but when queer people are being victimized [in real life] by a lack of access to healthcare, job protection, or the ability to marry, [their] stories are a lot more crucial to tell. These people need to participate in the storytelling about their own lives,” she says.

Peppermint’s activism extends beyond Hollywood and into the political arena. She recently organized an impressive collection of her famous friends like Laverne Cox, Nico Tortorella, MJ Rodriguez, Bob the Drag Queen, and Sander Jennings to kick off the #WeAreHere movement, which raises awareness about important issues facing the transgender community. Although it began as a way to mobilize support around workplace discrimination and the recent Title VII Supreme Court case that threatened protections for LGBTQ+ people, #WeAreHere quickly morphed into an organized mechanism for these entertainers and activists to call attention to the ever-growing

list of issues facing LGBTQ+ people, especially in the trans community.

Peppermint fears many people don’t know what’s happening in the nation’s legislatures because the news media are focused on the fast-paced news cycle and so many high-profile events.

“Part of the strategy behind the Republican Party and the people who are putting forth these bills is to remove protections that were enacted during the Obama administration,” she explains.

Peppermint believes that her call to activism stems from her drag roots. “Part of activism is everyday activism. We are advocating and adding to the movement just by being out and open and living our lives. [When I was] growing up in the the ’90s, activism was part of queer life in general,” she recalls. “Drag entertainment was paired with HIV/AIDS activism, because it was such a crucial message to spread at the time. The administration was not talking about it, so the drag performers felt it was incumbent to say what needed to be said. That’s what drag entertainers can do. They can do these things without fear of losing their career.

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“It seems like I have to put that hat on and pick up where we left off. I don’t know if I’d be able to cope in a world where, on a daily level, our community is being attacked and rights taken away.”

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you could enjoy instead. I’m a big believer that you should drink what you like. If you like the six-dollar stuff at Target, you should drink it,” he says. “[Because of my job] I get to taste stuff that is rare and unique, so it’s easy for me to understand what I like and don’t like. So my job is to give you something you like, without judgment, and with a smile.”

In his spare time, Borel also runs a venture that offers private at-home tasting experiences and classes.

“I’ll bring a handful of bottles, talk to a small group of people, and conduct a tasting.

If someone wants to bring me in, I work with them to come up with a theme, and it’s different for everyone. One couple was about to go on a cruise around the world, so we did six wines to follow the destinations on their cruise. Another group wanted ‘bubbles by the pool,’ so we did sparkling wines,” he says. “It’s not a classroom, even though everyone is learning. I try to keep it fun and conversational, and people can bring their questions or comments. It’s a program, but it’s really casual.”

So what is Borel’s current top wine choice?

With wines being so varied, his favorites change as often as the Texas weather. “In order to answer that, a few other questions would need to be answered: What time of the day is it? Am I eating, am I at home, or am I at a bar?

Those make a difference. If I’m lounging, I love a rosé from Bandol because it’s a special place for me. In Houston, you can drink it all year long. It goes with everything.”

He also notes that champagne is a universally good choice. “I love to start an experience—a dinner or a date or an evening out— with champagne. You just can’t go wrong with champagne. Right now, I’m really enjoying Billecart-Salmon. It’s Brut Sous Bois—earthy and yeasty, and not at all sweet. It’s bone-dry, and it’s doing it for me.”

Despite his well of knowledge, Borel admits that wine is an ever-changing product, and he stays on top of each year’s new releases.

He travels extensively, both domestically and internationally, to taste and continue learning.

“For someone in this business, they need to experience firsthand the wine regions. A lot of people will say region X is known for this flavor component because of the soil or rocks.

You can read about it, but unless you touch it and see the slope of the hill or the water rushing in the river beside the vineyard, you don’t understand it. Traveling and tasting helps you to recognize how A+B=C.” Check out the food and beverage selection at Rainbow Lodge by visiting rainbow-lodge.com. To learn more about Borel’s private wine tastings, visit marcborel.com.

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“I love [spending my free time] on Galveston Island. And, being Islanders, we tend to be pretty laid-back, and we love our cocktailing.”

Examining the state of the industry.

tomsgalvestonrealestate.com “Hopefully this pandemic will make folks understand the importance of hiring a professional to market their home, or to help them purchase one.

I think those of us who are nimble and flexible enough to stay afloat will come back even stronger than before. I believe a lot more of the transaction will be done online. However, I firmly believe that real estate is local, and this facet will be more important than ever.

“It’s probably both a buyer’s market and a seller’s market, depending on the circumstances. The market usually depends on the inventory. While the pandemic is on, most folks, of course, are sheltering in place and the inventory will be less than in normal times, so it should be a seller’s market. The reverse is also true, as fewer folks appear to be in the market for a new home. I am calling it a “new” market, one where both buyers and sellers cooperate so they can start the next adventure in their lives.

“I live on Galveston Island because of its diversity and welcoming spirit. Living on an island somehow makes us part of the same tribe, and of course those of us lucky enough to live by the sea are lucky enough! And I’m not bragging, however I probably have the cleanest closets on the island! I’m also having Zoom cocktail parties with family and friends all across the country now.”

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BETWEEN THE PANDEMIC AND THE PLUMMETING PRICE OF OIL, HOUSTON’S ECONOMY HAS BEEN HIT EVEN HARDER THAN IT WAS AFTER HURRICANE HARVEY. WHAT IS THAT GOING TO MEAN FOR THE CITY’S REAL-ESTATE INDUSTRY? WE ASKED SOME OF OUR TOP REALTORS AND LENDERS THAT QUESTION, AND THEN ASKED ABOUT HOW THEY’VE BEEN KEEPING BUSY WHILE CONFINED TO THEIR HOMES. HERE ARE THEIR INSIGHTFUL ANSWERS:

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jfriedmanloans.com “For people seeking financing, the stay-athome order means that more transactions will likely be remote (fax, e-mail, FedEx, etc.) and less in-person. People will be even more busy and have less available time.

“Those in the oil and gas industry will not have the security net they had in the past. Key jobs will be at a premium. Employers are going to be holding on to their key employees.

“With the coronavirus, loan guidelines are going to be changing. A lot of documentation will be needed to support job losses and mortgage payment deferrals when someone can’t pay due to a job loss.

“Also, lenders may require homeowners to have more money in reserve (savings after closing) to qualify for a loan. Changes are coming—including an adjustment in people’s attitude toward money. I think people are going to be more conscious of spending money, and job security will be important to employees and employers. How an industry or employer has treated its employees will be noted. Some may go the other way and just not care, and spend as much as they can. Major change is a given.

“New jobs may include negotiable terms regarding future pandemics. Pandemic insurance coverage may become a benefit with employment packages.

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decide that they’ve spent a lot of time in a house and don’t want it anymore?

“Mortgage rates should be low, so lenders may be swamped and closings may take longer, especially with new guidelines for lending.

And social distancing could mean that sellers will want to avoid having a lot of folks walking through their homes, so fewer homes on the market will cause prices to rise. Or, with more stringent lending guidelines and work volatility, prices may drop.

“I’ve lived in Montrose for a long time, and love it—convenient, and a great location. I’m working as I can, and I talk, text, and e-mail friends and family. I also read, watch movies, clean, cook, work out, organize, and rest— things I had little time to do before the stay-athome order!

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On Galveston Island, we have always been fortunate that our community and businesses have been resilient through many unfortunate events. After this national emergency ends, we expect that sales and listings will continue an upward trend, but not as much as the prior year.

“Hopefully, we will see better hygiene practices for all, and a stronger sense of community. I think both sides of the market—buyers and sellers—will benefit. In the short term, sellers may not be getting the prices that they anticipated before the virus hit. But we believe

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and our two kids having to be schooled at home, there really isn’t much time for anything else.

Right now, the best we can do is try to keep life as close to a regular routine as possible.”

MIKE COPENHAVER

mikecopenhaver.com “We live in Boulevard Oaks, close enough to walk to restaurants, nightlife, museums, and parks. The huge live oaks lining both sides of our street welcome us home.

“To keep busy during the stay-at-home period, I am continuing to work serving my clients. I am also continuing my real-estate education with webinars and market research for this unprecedented period.”

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har.com/freddie-minahan “Real estate is all about relationships, so I will continue to maintain a great rapport with my clients, stay knowledgeable, and work hard.

Technology is so powerful, and I’m happy to be

at Compass because they have wonderful tools that benefit my clients during these unprecedented times. I will be doing virtual tours for my listings, so consumers can see every aspect of a home without having to get up from their couch or leave their office.

“We are so fortunate to live in Houston, because it is such a resilient market with so many different areas to choose from. If inventory is low, then it will be a seller’s market. If inventory is high, then it will lean in favor of buyers.

Ultimately, if a home is priced appropriately, then it will sell.

“I’m always driving to appointments in Montrose, Heights, River Oaks, West U., Tanglewood, and Oak Forest/Garden Oaks, so living in the Heights makes getting to those areas easy. The restaurants, shops, and walk/ bike trails are an added bonus to living in the Heights. I am a homebody and love hanging out with my French Bulldog, so that part of the stay-at-home order has been easy for me. I’m also a big foodie and wine lover, so I’ve been ordering to-go from restaurants. A few favorites are Savoir, Traveler’s Table, La Fresca, Barnaby’s, and B&B.”

NOEL PHILLIPS

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“Everyday life as we all knew it prior to this pandemic could possibly change in ways that may take some time for us to accept. But it may also change in ways that may be beneficial to all of us. Those changes will range from how we greet people to how we conduct ourselves in large social gatherings like concerts, political rallies, work-related seminars, or even going to a movie or play at a theater. But it will most likely change how we all conduct our ➝

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All of this has initially pushed interest rates lower. Both the pandemic and the price of oil really seem to be different pressures. Regionally, we are used to the fluctuations in the price of oil. It is like the tide—when it’s in and the price of oil is high, there are lots of high-end sales. When the price goes down, people make purchases more carefully. However, in this pandemic, no one sees the light at the end of the tunnel yet. People are legitimately fearful, and that does affect buying motivations.

“I had my first ‘virtual’ open house on March 28, and it was very educational getting this going. I like to talk about old houses, so [narrating an open-house video] is also fun. It is like being a one-person historic-homes tour docent on film. It is recommended that video tours only last 10 minutes. I am learning to have the camera go ahead of you up a staircase, instead of behind you. And I quickly found out which closet doors could be opened and which ones are best staying shut!

“I live in historic Galveston in an 1899 Victorian on the Mardi Gras parade route, and my office is three or four blocks from my house. There is a wonderful small-town feeling about Galveston—an island community with lots of cruise ships, rich in history, and rich in architecture. Throw in over seven million tourists a year, and [you also get some] exciting theater, restaurants, bars, and festivals—with lots of drag!

“I understand there have been a lot of weight gains with everyone at home. The office seems lonelier, but I like to walk, and people along the way seem more talkative and friendlier. I am reading more, and I don’t know why. I text lots of people I know who are cooped up in their houses, just to check on them. Texting ➝

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seems so much less intrusive than calling, and it’s my preference for staying in touch with people. These things may not be as entertaining as [our usual routines], but right now is not necessarily a time to contemplate entertainment. I worry about all those bar and restaurant owners and workers with no job. They created the venues for the entertainment I enjoyed before the pandemic.”

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t-phillips.kw.com “We have to remember that this is not the first time real-estate professionals have been in this position. What’s happening today, minus the pandemic, has happened before and will happen again. The market shifts in a cyclical pattern, and the business goes on. Granted, we are in uncharted territory that we’ve never seen before, but I’m not fearful.

“During this time, I quickly shifted my business to a virtual-based business to allow my clients to opt for virtual tours of homes, buyer and seller consultations, and even virtual open houses. I could see Realtors using this business model to their advantage, even after the pandemic passes. The majority of individuals looking for real estate start online, and adding the virtual-tours aspect for consumers is another valuable tool for them to leverage their time more efficiently. I also foresee a trend in the corporate commercial space. Now that it’s been proven that our online infrastructure can handle massive numbers of people working from home, it will be interesting to see how many big corporations opt for keeping the virtual model. They could save thousands of dollars by limiting their commercial footprint and having employees work from home.

“Market trends are different, depending on which area of town, price point, and neighborhood you are talking about. For example, the inner loop was already shifting to a buyer’s market at the end of 2019, but many areas of the suburbs were a seller’s market, with bidding wars going on. If the oil prices stay down, then we will most likely see the inner loop in a buyer’s market.

“I live in Cottage Grove, which is Heightsadjacent. I love all of the local restaurant and coffee-shop options, plus the ease of access to the hike-and-bike trails in the area. I just love living in the hustle, bustle, and diversity of the metropolitan area. It’s like the heartbeat to me.

“If I’m not busy improving my skill sets or tuning up my business gear (as I mentioned) to address changing marketing models, I pass the time getting in CrossFit workouts in our home garage gym, or spinning on my Peloton bike.” ➝

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nanproperties.com “Business for me has actually been pretty steady. During the first weeks of the stay-athome order, I had two homes under contract. My clients tend to be more financially secure, although I did have some that wanted to delay deals—and that’s perfectly fine! I want them to be confident and comfortable throughout the process, and I’ll be there to help before, during, and after the sale or purchase of their new home. I definitely think commercial properties such as malls, shopping centers, and restaurants will unfortunately take a big hit.

“This has caused many people to realize what is most important in their lives. The stressful and chaotic nature of the world sometimes makes it easy for us to lose track of what matters most to us. From all of this, proper hygiene has also been reintroduced to many, along with being more conscious of washing our hands. We are connecting more with each other through social media, Zoom calls, FaceTiming, and my favorite: virtual Happy Hours. In my business, I am becoming

more aware of what I touch, since as agents we are opening many doors and turning on light switches during our showings. Virtual open houses and tours via social media will become more of a trend. Our listing videos at Nan and Company Properties are outstanding, and our marketing team definitely utilizes their creativity to help promote us.

“I currently live in East Downtown, aka EaDo. The area continues to change with new-construction homes, restaurants, and entertainment venues. Being close to the stadiums is a plus, especially when it comes to not having to deal with parking! Seeing the large crowds of people in the area generates a sense of excitement that’s exclusive to this part of the city.

“I have a newfound love for TikTok! But of course, real estate is my main focus and I continue the hustle. This unfortunate period has made me more focused on getting work done from home. I am a guy who likes to go into the office and connect with my team members.

The environment that we have at Nan and Company Properties is extremely positive, and we all support each other’s success and root for each other every single day. Besides working, I have rearranged my furniture, cleaned out every cabinet, and found old items

to donate. I also have a dog named Benz, who will turn 15 this July. He is my baby, and he’s been such a precious piece in my life.”

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It will be a buyer’s market in general, but some locations and homes will be more of a seller’s market.

“I live in Montrose because it is the best neighborhood in Houston for walking to great restaurants, and there is a wonderful sense of community. [When I’m not] busy with buyers and sellers, I’m tackling those things you always put off and never want to do. Plus a bit of Netflix.”

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odd looked across the room at Conner. They had dated and lived together for almost 15 years, but things had changed. Sure, he loved Conner, but that wasn’t enough.

It just wasn’t working any more.

The temporary excitement of their long-awaited legal marriage hadn’t taken away the issues the relationship had had for years. The coronavirus pandemic only compounded the problem. Counseling hadn’t helped. Now, with the holiday decorations put away and Valentine’s Day over, Todd knew it was time to have “the conversation.”

The questions just rolled out: What was the next step? One of them needed to move out, but to where? What about the retirement fund they had built together? How was Todd, with his recent health scare, going to get health insurance after he was dropped from Conner’s employer’s plan? Divorce seemed inevitable, yet the questions were overwhelming.

Divorce among same-sex couples has become commonplace. According to Houston family attorney Jacquelyn Smith, “Being a same-sex couple doesn’t change the dynamics of a family. Everything that comes with family—such as joys, friends, managing money, and even children—are all the same.” Yet, some of the divorce issues a same-sex couple encounters are unique. And as these unique legal situations are brought before family-court judges, the courts are making decisions that

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Divorcing couples have to find the path that works for them. Divorcing without an attorney may be a viable option if there’s no money, children, or real estate involved, but that can still be a rocky road. Whether you have a little or a lot, you’ll likely benefit from having an attorney—and specifically, a family lawyer who specializes in divorce.

Today’s family lawyers have two different approaches to divorce: litigate or collaborate.

Commonly, divorce is litigious, meaning that each person hires an attorney and the attorneys fight it out. If you and your spouse are able to talk through the issues, collaborative law is the friendly (or at least non-combative) method to divorce. Ironically, couples who can’t get along in marriage will often get along in divorce.

Collaborative law requires that all parties sign a contract and agree to full disclosure with one another. Smith cites one case where a spouse asked for copies of all credit card charges with details of gambling debts and shopping trips. Another wanted to know the names of all the people the spouse cheated with during their marriage.

“There is no discovery in collaborative law,” Smith explains. “Both spouses are committed to the process, and give information to settle things amicably. Collaborative law can cost less money than the litigious alternative, but the real savings is on the emotions. It’s

much less taxing.” Less fighting, less money.

Couples who choose the collaborative method will engage more with financial experts, counselors, and mediators. Lawyers can then take more of a back seat as guides and facilitators. Financial expert Laury Adams, of Adams Mediation & Financial Resources Center, works with divorcing couples using collaborative law. She finds that many samesex couples began their relationships many years before they were married. Some have kept their assets and credit-card accounts separate, while others have commingled their financial lives.

In a collaborative divorce, couples are encouraged to be forthright with all their finances and needs. According to Adams, “Spousal maintenance [alimony] is not as expected in a same-sex divorce as in a heterosexual one.” The couple can agree to work together to unravel their accounts and create two new financial worlds.

But if a serious roadblock arises in the collaborative process, the collaborative lawyers must resign and the parties must start over with divorce litigators leading the way.

One thing that can greatly complicate a litigious divorce for same-sex spouses in Texas is the issue of “common law” (or “informal”) marriage. Texas law holds that two people who live together as a committed couple are in many cases “common-law married.” According to family lawyer Vonda Covington, ➝

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“[You have a common-law marriage] if you meet the three-pronged criteria: (1) you hold out to the community that you are married [by telling others], (2) you have the intent, and agree, to have a marital relationship, and (3) you live as a married couple with a sexual relationship, [or even just] call someone “my partner” or “my ol’ man.”

Covington points out the multiple questions that now arise: “If they had been living together, was it a common-law marriage? Are some of the earnings and assets earned now retroactively community property? When did the marriage actually start?” And, if you got a license for a traditional marriage or married out-of-state before it was legal in Texas, what is the legal starting date of the marriage?

That starting-date issue can change many outcomes in a divorce situation. Covington suggests that a couple file a Declaration of Marriage after marrying, stating the actual starting date of the marriage.

These are all new questions and situations that have never been heard by the family courts, and same-sex couples need to be aware of this evolving legal landscape. Joe, a recent newlywed, explained that getting married created a lot of interesting things to consider: joint bank accounts, wills, blended families with children, adoptions, sperm or egg

donors/carriers, tax benefits, and health and life insurance plans. He and his husband are both successful and came to the relationship ten years ago with their own assets. “No one expects to get divorced, but it happens,” he explains. “The thought of unraveling all of these different ties—and adding the implications and consequences of a retroactive common-law marriage—make the path a little murky.”

Janet Friedman, of J Friedman Mortgage, has worked with both collaborative and litigating lawyers. She finds it important for property owners to know their options. “Often, there are community debts such as a car note or credit card that need to be paid off,” Friedman says. “Or in a time crunch, a house isn’t refinanced because the couple was waiting to finish school or retire. The couple is still tied together, and too often this is a nightmare in the making. One spouse doesn’t pay, for a lot of different reasons. The other spouse is at their mercy to pay timely and not suffer a ding on their credit.

“Divorce-settlement loans are available where one party buys out the other, giving the departing spouse money-in-hand to move on, or to get one person off of the liability of a note.

When one person doesn’t make a payment on time and the other’s credit score falls, you know the end of that story.

“Creating two distinct and separate financial worlds takes some effort, but the results are worth it,” Friedman explains. Real estate is often the largest asset a couple has, other than a seasoned retirement account. Couples in a hurry to separate will cash in those retirement accounts to pay off their debts to each other. Getting money back into a retirement account takes time and has limitations. Those dollars are hard-earned dollars. Using their real-estate equity as a source of cash is often a better option,” she believes.

Friedman cautions that divorcing couples must consider the tax implications, cash flow, and future needs. A quality global settlement in the divorce process takes all of the facts into account.

“Just remember to have the attorney put all of the details in the original decree,” Friedman adds. “Coming back later for those changes is a problem.” She notes that spouses should plan for a divorce with the same gusto that they had for planning their wedding.

When the love is gone and only the legal ties of marriage remain, there can still be some hope for making a clear and clean split without the financial devastation that everyone fears.

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hile the forced closure of Houston’s bars has been tough for every bar owner and employee, it’s been especially hard for BUDDY’S, a new gay bar in the heart of Montrose. The bar, known for its karaoke, pool, and DJs, has barely been open 12 weeks.

“I still have start-up costs to pay—contractors and inventory,” says owner Christopher Barry. “We have tens of thousands of dollars in inventory I bought for events that are now cancelled.”

He also has 23 employees, and he’s trying to help keep them afloat while they wait for their unemployment checks to arrive.

Barry spent 12 years selling medical implant devices before buying the former Bayou City bar on Grant Street, the gateway to the Montrose gayborhood.

“I saw that the gay bars were failing,” Barry explains. “I didn’t know why, until I started working at them. It used to be that they were the only safe places for the LGBTQ community to go to make connections—a place where they wouldn’t be outed.

But the culture has changed.

Now [queer people use apps] to make connections, and the bars

are just for entertainment.”

So Barry brought in karaoke nights, popular DJs, and pool tables. He offered steak nights, RuPaul’s Drag Race watch parties, and special Happy Hours for veterans and allies in the community. And he had a lot more events on tap, including an Astros watch party that is no longer happening.

Still, Barry is staying very busy.

“I’m working on a new website,” he says. “And right now, my main focus is getting the community to buy digital rainbow gift cards.”

Donations start at $25 and go up to any amount. You can donate the cards back to BUDDY’S, or save them and use them later when the bar reopens. “All the money will go to zero-interest loans for the employees,” he explains. “I’m hoping to hire them all back when this is over, and they can pay back the loans over time with 20 percent of their tip money.”

He also plans to offer party planning at some time in the future, so the gift cards can be used for that, as well as at the bar.

“Right now, we just don’t know how long the shutdown is going to go on,” Barry says, remaining cautiously optimistic.

Other than encouraging all of his employees to file for unemployment benefits right away, working on his website, and promoting the gift cards on social media, he’s also

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“The SBA isn’t a fast loan,” Barry notes. “It’s going to take a few months, but it’s better to be prepared now for the long haul.”

For more information about BUDDY’S, visit facebook.com/ buddyshouston, and buy gift cards at tinyurl.com/BUDDYScard.

In addition to BUDDY’S, several other LGBTQ Houston bars have requested financial assistance for their workers, including:

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Pearl Bar Houston owner Julie Mabry is selling “Coronavirus Credit” cards to customers who can buy food, shirts, and door covers once her bar is open again.

Funds will go toward paying her staff during the closure. You can also donate directly to Mabry’s staff by visiting tinyurl.com/ PearlBarVenmo.

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Rumor’s Beach Bar owner Todd Slaughter has pledged to offer financial assistance to 17 of his employees while they cannot work due to bar closures in Galveston. In order to make this possible, he is accepting donations on GoFundMe at tinyurl. com/RumorsBarFund.

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Gray Stephens, owner of Crocker Bar, Tortilla Joes, and Barcode has created a GoFundMe account to raise funds for employees at his three locations. To donate, visit tinyurl. com/CrockerBarFund.

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1805 W. Alabama........... ststephenshouston.org

ACUPUNCTURE

Trinity Episcopal Church

248 Jaster Rd...................................979/249-3129

...........................................................832/865-1177 Houston Integrative Health, Acupuncture and Mindful Movement

716 Chelsea Blvd............................ 832/215-2039

ADOPTION AGENCIES/FOSTER CARE Children’s Hope

Childrenhp.org............................... 806/897-9735

Robert Snellgrove, LMSW-ACP

4617 Montrose, Ste C206.............. 713/522-7014

The Tremont House

Heart Light Acupuncture

Psynergypsych.com.......................713/724-7050

Visitlakecharles.org/greattimes.... .800/456-7952

401 Branard St................................ 832/971-0364

Gary Gritz, CPA

Psynergy Psychological Associates

808 Pacific....................................... 713/521-2519

Bering United Methodist

2500 South Shore Blvd..................281/334-1000 2300 Ships Mechanic Row...........409/763-0300

The Montrose Center

401 Branard.................................... 713/529-0037

Round Top Festival Institute

Wellsourcegroup.com...................713/481-2808 Christine Wysong

230 Westcott, Ste 210..................713/869 -7400

HEALTH CARE–DENTISTS

Bayou City Smiles/Marcus de Guzman, DDS

2313 Edwards St., Ste. 150............. 713/518-1411 Bayou City Smiles/ Cynthia Corral, DDS

2313 Edwards St., Ste 150............ 713/518-1411 Cory Logan, DDS

Round Top Festival Hill

530 Waugh Dr................................ 713/942-8598

Society For The Performing Arts

1722 W. Alabama........................... 713/592-9300

Stages Theatre

Orthotexsmiles.com.......................281/937-2540

Theatre Southwest

620 W Alabama.............................713/529 -4364

Theatre Under The Stars

620 W Alabama.............................713/529 -4364

AIDS Healthcare Foundation/Out of the Closet

Tony’s Corner Pocket

620 W Alabama.............................. 713/529-4364 Texas Oncology Surgical Specialists

1015 Holman St........... www.trinitymidtown.org

CLEANING SERVICES

Dexter’s Five Star Service/Bob Samora

........................................................... 832/252-1961

COMMUNITY/NONPROFIT AARP

....................................................... aarp.org/pride AIDS Foundation Houston

........................................................ FestivalHill.org SPAHouston.org..............................713/227-4772 StagesTheatre.com......................... 713-527-0123 Thearesouthwest.org.....................713/661-9505 800 Bagby, Suite 200...................... tuts.com/out

LifeSmiles by Randy Mitchmore, DDS

Orthotex/Dr. Zane Haider, DMD MS

Montrose Dental Group/Samuel A. Carrell, DDS

Montrose Dental Group/Austin T. Faulk, DDS Montrose Dental Group/Bruce W. Smith, DDS

ADVERTISING/MARKETING

Aidshelp.org..................................713/623-6796

.................................................. Ashkanmedia.com

1435 Westheimer................... outofthecloset.org

817 W. Dallas...................................832/722-7658

Bering Connect

FERTILITY/GYNECOLOGY

Diana Foundation

Aspire Fertility

7400 Fannin St., Set 1295..............832/932-1720

AspireFertility.com.........................713/425-3003

EPAH

FINANCIAL PLANNING/BANKS

Orthotex/Dr. Zane Haider, DMD, MS

Greater Houston LGBT Chamber of Commerce

1700 W Loop S, Ste 255................ 713/489-4322

Ashkan Media

Mat Hat Maven Creative

madhatmaven.com.......................832/460-6263 OutSmart Magazine

3406 Audubon................................713/520-7237

AIR CONDITIONING/HEATING Newport Air

newportair.net ..............................281/808-8630

...............................................713-526-1017, ext.20 .......................................TheDianaFoundation.org ...................................................................EPAH.org HoustonLGBTChamber.com.........832-510-3002 Harris County Sheriff’s Office

Richard Dickson/Galene Financial

Shane Theriot/Edward Jones

888-A Avenue A, Katy.................... 281/391-6137

HEALTH CARE/COLON/RECTAL CARE HEALTH CARE-ORTHODONTISTS

Orthotexsmiles.com.......................281/937-2540 2540 FM 2920, Spring....................281/937-2540 11942 Barker Cypress, Cypress....281/937-2540

HEALTH CARE-EMERGENCY CENTERS

ASTROLOGER

...........................................................hcsojobs.com Houston GLBT Political Caucus

3355 Alabama, Ste 180..................713/355-9833

...........................................................713/529-5842

.......................................................... thecaucus.org

2500 Rice Blvd................................ 713/527-4400

ARTISTS

KPFT Radio

FITNESS CLUBS/PERSONAL TRAINERS

2530 Gulf Fwy.................................281/337-7500

Lesbian Health Initiative (LHI)

2205 Fannin ................................... 713/659-4998

20000 Dallas Pkwy., Ste. 100........972/378-7878

Lesbians Over Age Fifty (L.O.A.F.)

Fithouston.com.............................. 713/529-1515

MyGayHouston.com

DASH Handmaid Vodka

Hwy 59 N.........................................832/777-6165

Deep Eddy Vodka

150 E. Harmon Ave.......................702/546 - 0911

Lilly Roddy Astrology

Leticia Garcia

...........................................................832/871-2408

ATTORNEYS/LEGAL SERVICES

Christopher Barber/Barber Jackson Law

TexasLegalPlanning.com.........281/464-LAWS (5297)

kpft.org............................................ 713-526-4000

401 Branard................................... lhihouston.org lesbiansoverage50.org..................713/907-5378

Charles Hunter/Hayes Hunter PC

.............................. MyGayHouston.com/discover

Gonzalez Olivieri LLC

..................................................... ThePetPatrol.org

Katine & Nechman LLP

............................................ ppgulfcoast.org/lgbtq

Dwane Todd Law Firm

rwpcHouston.org .......................... 713-572-3724

...........................................................281/768-4731 gonzalezolivierillc.com..................713/481-3040 1834 Southmore.............................713/808-1001 405 Main St., Ste 602.................... 713/965-0658

Pet Patrol

Planned Parenthood Gulf Coast Ryan White Planning Council

Grace Yung/Midtown Financial

Club Houston FIT

FOOD/SPECIALTY & SPIRITS

......................................................dashvodka.com ..............................................deepeddyvodka.com Dripping Springs

................................... drippingspringsvodka.com

FUNERAL HOMES/MORTUARIES

Mabrie Mortuary

MabrieMortuary.com....................713/942-7673

Visit Palestine

HAIR/NAIL/MAKE-UP SALONS

AUTOMOTIVE REPAIRS

.................................................. visitpalestine.com

2305 Yale Street Houston............. 713/862-6630

COMPUTERS/INTERNET/IT SERVICES

1830 Southmore Blvd.................... 832/444-8274

1201-F Westheimer......................... 713/528-1201

719 W. Gray St.............................. 713/5212-0500

Master Car Care & Collision RMS Auto Care & Collision

1759 Westheimer Road................ 713/529-5855

Copy.com

716 Fairview...................................713/522-3602

ENTERTAINMENT/NIGHT LIFE

37 Waugh Dr................................... 713/863-8244

Alley Theatre

AUTOMOTIVE SALES

Buddy’s Bar

Central Houston Cadillac/Tony Mcclelland

2520 Main St....................................832/981-7590 Knapp Chevrolet/Ben Webster

814 Houston Ave............................ 979/533-4363

BANKING/FINANCIAL INSTITUTIONS

Houston Federal Credit Union

515 Westheimer............................ 713/524-7858

HEALTH - AGE MANAGEMENT

615 Texas Ave..............................alleytheatre.org 2406 Grant, Ste A............................... .buddys.bar Cirque du Soleil - Alegria

Share Wellness & MediSpa/Dr. John Share

4011 Richmond Ave........................713/621-8200

HEALTH CARE–COUNSELING/THERAPY

D. “Woodja” Flanigan, MS, LPA

.......................................................... 877/924-7783

2600 SW Fwy, Ste 409.................. 713/589-9804

Galveston Island Convention

Denise O’Doherty, LPC, LMFT, LCDC, RN

..........................................................galveston.com George Country Sports Bar

......................................................HoustonFCU.org

617 Fairview ...................................713/528-8102

BAKERIES/CUSTOM CAKES

611 Hyde Park........................HoustonEagle.com

davidalcorta.net............................. 832/439-0224

............................................... .Rodeohouston.com

David Alcorta Catering

Green Apple Salon NU-Cuts Hair Salon

Ryan Automotive

Tech Auto Maintenance

Avila’s Salon

3131 Eastside St., Ste. 435...........713/524-9525 Dr. Barry F. Gritz, MD

230 Westcott, Ste 210................... 713/869-7400 Dr. Daniel Garza, MD

Houston Eagle

3131 Eastside St, Ste 4...............15281/610-8190

Houston Livestock & Rodeo

........................................................... 713/447-2164

Jeffrey Myles/JM Professional Services

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Beaumont Emergency Center

4004 College St............................. 409/840-4004 Kingwood Emergency Hospital

Elite Medical Center/Vegas, NV

SignatureCare Emergency Centers

1007 Westheimer............................281/709-2897 1925 TC Jester.................................832/850-4338 1014 Wirt Rd.....................................832/924-0312 Additional locations.......................ercare24.com

HEALTH CARE-FOOT/ ANKLE SPECIALISTS Sole Aesthetic/Dr. Vanessa T. Barrow

Soleaesthetictx.com.....................713/666-9934

HEALTH CARE-HIV/STD TESTING

Avenue 360

Avenue360.org................................713/426-0027 Legacy Community Health

...............................LegacyCommunityHealth.org

HEALTH CARE–OPHTHALMOLOGISTS

Houston Eye Associates/Stewart Zuckerbrod, MD

5420 Dashwood, Ste 101............... 713/668-9118

HEALTH CARE–OPTOMETRISTS

Boutique Eye Care

2502 Woodhead.............................713/528-2010 Eye Contact

2055 Westheimer.......................... 713/520-6600 Eye Gallery

1806B Westheimer.........................713/523-1279 1700 Post Oak Blvd, Ste 110.......... 713/622-7470 Eye To Eye

432 W. 19th..................................... 713/864-8822

ADVERTISERS INDEX Montrose Eye Care/ Dr. Paul Lovero

520 Waugh Dr.................................713/352-0974 Spectacles on Montrose

4317 Montrose, Ste. 2....................713/529-3937

INVESTMENTS

Doug Smith/Hawthorne Funds

............................................HawthorneFunds.com

JEWELERS Silverlust

Chicago Title –Inner Loop

3700 Buffalo Speedway.................713/418-7000 Keith Russell/Republic State Mortgage

2121 Sage Road, Ste 140................713/299-4981

REAL ESTATE–REALTORS

HEALTH CARE/PHARMACIES

1338-C Westheimer..................... 713/520-5440

Tim Anthony/Anthony Upton Properties

AvitaPharmacy.com...................... 713/489-4362

4310 Westheimer............................713/629-7444

Brooks Ballard/Engel & Volkers

Avita Pharmacy

Legacy Pharmacy

LegacyCommunityHealth.org/services/pharmacy/

HEALTH-PHYSICAL THERAPY

Tenenbaum Jewelers

Zadok Master Jewelers

1749 Post Oak Blvd........................ 713/960-8950

LANDSCAPING/GARDENING

Joshua’s Native Plants & Antiques

AnthonyUptonProperties.com.... 713/528-0050 309 Gray........................................... 713/522-7474 David Bowers/The House Company/Galveston

Pizza Birra Vino

544 Waugh Dr................................ 832/581-3664 Riva’s Italian Restaurant

1117 Missouri St.............................. 713/529-3450 Urban Eats

3414 Washington Ave.........feasturbaneats.com

SCHOOLS

First Christian School

1601 Sunset......................................713/526-8125 St. Stephen’s Episcopal Church and School

David@DavidBowers.com..........409/763-2800

1800 Sul Ross................................... 713/821-9100

Tina Burgos/Inverness Realty Group

SMOKING CESSATION STUDY

502 W. 18th St.................................713/862-7444

TinaSellsHouston.com................... 713/562-3149

LIFE COACHING

.......................................................... 832/773-4262

seEQmore.com................................ 832/495-1441

mikecopenhaver@remax.net .... 713/528-4963

Mike Copenhaver/Remax Metro

SPECIALTY RETAIL

MASSAGE THERAPISTS

Jeremy Fain/Greenwood King Properties

1001 Austin St.................... phoeniciafoods.com

Ryan Fugate, RMT

...........................................................713/677-4337

SURROGACY/FAMILY PLANNING

Gordon Crofoot, MD/Crofoot MD

Tom Zeppelin/Zeppelin Massage

karenderr.com................................713/875-7050

Abel Flores, MD/Crofoot MD

PERSONAL TRAINERS

Crom Rehabilitation/Dr. Roy Rivera

Cromrehab.com..............................713/868-2766

HEALTH CARE–PHYSICIANS

Octavio Barrios, MD

507 West Gray.................................713/942-7546 7106 Spencer Highway................. 281/542-9400 Steven Becker MD

Stevenbeckermd.com.................... 713/932-1924 3701 Kirby, Ste.1230...................... 713/526-0005 3701 Kirby, Ste.1230.................... 713/526-0005

seEQmore

RyanMassageWorks.com..............713/269-7926 ZeppelinMassage.com.................. 713/542-0426

Greg Cassity/Nan Properties

Karen Derr/Karen Derr Realty Clayton Katz/Compass

Compass.com.................................. 832/512-2180 Emily Kinert/Texas Elite Properties

MD Anderson Cancer Center

NicotineStudy.com.........................713/792-2265 Phoenicia Specialty Foods

Simple Surrogacy

............................................ SimpleSurrogacy.com

TRAVEL/TRAVEL AGENCIES Aquafest

Michael Shallis

...........................................................214/629-6515

Derek Smith, AGPCNP-BC/Crofoot MD

PEST CONTROL SERVICES

...........................................................713/876-1990

4920 Mimosa....................................713/661-2117

Freddia Minahan/Compass

Maggie White,MPH FNP-BC AAHIVS/ Gordon Crofoot

........................................................... 713/732-7742

Compass.com……….832/588-5991

WEDDING SERVICES/BAKERS

HEALTH CARE–SERVICES

Bayou City Veterinary Hospital

M. Sandra Scurria, MD

6565 West Loop South, Ste 300... 281/661-5901 3701 Kirby, Ste.1230...................... 713/526-0005 3701 Kirby Dr., Ste.1230............... 713/526-0005 Avenue 360

Avenue360.org................................713/426-0027

Body Evolution.com.......................281/881-8599 Andy’s All Star Pest Control

PET SERVICES& SUPPLIES

4720 Washington........................... 713/343-9909 The Dog House Pet Salon

Bob Jones/Nan Properties

Thomas Phillips/KW Memorial

t.phillips@kw.com........................ 832/305-7848 Debbie Levine/Greenwood King Properties

...........................................................713/942-6857 Lynette Lew/Better Homes and Gardens

Harris County Public Health

6434 Washington.........................713/820-6140 5917 Richmond.................TheDogHousePS.com

LynetteLew.com..............................713/582-2202

Houston Health Department

MidtownVetHospital.com............ 713-528-4900

Midtown Veterinary Hospital

Dannypleason.com........................832/661-1502

Legacy Community Health

208 Westheimer...................... naturalpawz.com

Publichealth.harriscountytx.gov..713/439-6293 .....................................................PensHouston.org LegacyCommunityHealth.org..... 832/548 5000 Ryan White Planning Council

RWPCHouston.org.........................713/572-3784 St. Hope Foundation

offeringhope.org.............................713/778-1300

Natural Pawz Pet Patrol

..................................................... ThePetPatrol.org Spay-Neuter Assistance Program

Snapus.org.......................................713/862-3863 The Ruff – House Cage Free Daycare & Boarding

Danny Pleason/Martha Turner

Richard Ray/Elliman Properties

........................................................... 713/416-3931

Martha Turner Properties

Marthaturner.com.......................... 713/520-1981

AnthonyUptonProperties.com.... 713/528-0050

DaltonDehart.com..........................713/622-2202

520 Post Oak................................... 713/724-4306

Skin Renaissance Laser/Octavio Barrios, MD

The Skin Renewal Center

1512 West Alabama....................... 713/533-0800

HEALTH CARE-WEIGHT LOSS CLINICS

Dr. B-Fit/ Octavio Barrios, MD

517 West Gray.................................713/942-7546

HOME BUILDERS

Colina Homes

Colinahomes.com. ....................... 281/463-0355

HOME FURNISHINGS/ACCESSORIES

Cantoni

9889 Westheimer............................cantoni.com

coda

355 W 19th.......................................713/864-4411 Fountains and Statuary

11804 Hempstead Rd.....................713/957-3672

Yvonne Feece Photography

yvonnefeece.com...........................832/876-1053

PHOTOGRAPHY

Houston Camera Exchange

5900 Richmond Ave.......................713/789-6901

PLUMBING

In The Loop Plumbing Services

..........................................................346/253-4444 U-Plumb-It Plumbing Supply

1424 Montrose................................ 713-942-2277

POOLS & POOL SERVICES

Timothy’s Pool Services

.........................................................832/603- 0527 Venture Pools

........................................................... 713/447-9201

Mitchell Gold + Bob Williams

PRINTING/COPY CENTERS

INTERIOR DESIGN SERVICES

1201-F Westheimer......................... 713/528-1201

5120 Woodway Dr., Ste. 4020......713/999-1222

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4091 Westheimer...........................832/397-5130 Dream by MJS Interiors

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PSYCHIC READERS

B. Kent Turner/Coldwell Banker

Calvin Upton/Anthony Upton Properties

Andy Weber/John Daugherty Realtors

RELOCATIONS SPECIALISTS

M E Relocation

MERelocation.com........................ 713/344-0035

RESTAURANTS/COFFEE/WINE BARS

Acadian Bakers

604 W. Alabama........................... 713/520-1484 Bollo Houston Wood Fired Pizza

2202 W Alabama St........................713/677-0391 Dessert Gallery

DessertGallery.com.......................713-522-9999 Free Grillin’/Chef Michele

...........................................................832/419-0165 Giacomo’s Cibo e Vino

3215 Westheimer............................ 713/522-1934 Gloria’s Latin Cuisine

2616 Louisiana................................832/360-1710 Hamburger Mary’s

2409 Grant.......................................713/677-0674 Indika

516 Westheimer.............................. 713/524-2170 Katz’s Deli

616 Westheimer Rd.........katzsneverkloses.com

INSURANCE AGENCIES/AGENTS

readingbyLA.com...........................832/856-2188

2200 North Loop W, Ste 136....... 713/688-8669

REAL ESTATE–MORTGAGE/TITLE

Modern Risk Insurance/Dustin Harwell

Cody Grizzoffi/NRL Mortgage

2520 Montrose................................713/528-4976

J. Friedman Mortgage

1040 W. Sam Houston Prkwy. N..832/981-4976

Lane Lewis/Farmers Insurance

1757 Katy Fwy Ste 1300.................281/400-1205 Patrick Torma/Goosehead Insurance

3420 Rusk, Ste. 22..........................281/723-1294

Codygrizzoffi.com...........................832-541-1103 JFriedmanLoans.com......713/785-LOAN (5626)

DessertGallery.com.......................713-522-9999

WEDDING SERVICES/CATERERS David Alcorta Catering

davidalcorta.net............................. 832/439-0224

WEDDING SERVICES/PHOTO/VIDEO

1802 Broadway/Galveston........... 409/765-9837

PHOTOGRAPHERS

507 West Gray.................................713/942-7546

Dessert Gallery

2811 Eastman................................. 713/802-2860

HEALTH CARE–SKIN CARE

Dalton DeHart Photography

David Alcorta Catering

davidalcorta.net............................. 832/439-0224

VJ Tramonte/Joe Tramonte Realty

..........................................................479/363-6586

Heights Dermatology/Alpesh Desai, MD

604 W. Alabama.............................713/520-1484

Tomsgalvestonrealestate.com......713-857-2309

2030 W. Alabama...........................713/528-0818

2120 Ashland.................................. 713/864-2650

Acadian Bakers

Jim Benton of Houston Catering

712 Fairview..................................... 713/521-7877 West Alabama Animal Clinic

Concierge Travel, Inc

Tom Schwenk/Tom’s Galveston Real Estate

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...........................................................713/486-2736

Aquafestcruises.com.....................800/592-9058

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2510 Richmond Ave........................713/942-9424 Niko Niko’s Niko Niko’s

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DaltonDehart.com..........................713/622-2202

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yvonnefeece.com...........................832/876-1053

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CAPRICORN (Dec. 22–Jan. 19)

Your sign hasn’t been this active in a long time! There was a big alignment of planets in your sign, and when this occurs, we see major changes all over the planet that could have made you feel totally stressed out. You have been in this pattern since January, but in March we saw an intensification of that process.

Finances and the future are still the main drivers for you. You should be feeling a bit lighter this month, since the intensity factor has gone down. You are still being pulled in several directions at once. Get clear about your boundaries, and focus on what you can do. Then let the rest go!

Home and family have your attention this month. This is a great month to take care of those weekend-warrior projects that you have been putting off. Your family will need your sense of hope and optimism during these times.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20–Feb. 18)

This is a busy month for you. You are going to be more active and present, taking life more personally over the next 42 days. This is a great month to start a new project, connect with potential new friends, and focus on what suits you

best! Along with this energy, you are also taking a closer look at career goals, future security, and renewing relationship hopes and dreams! On a personal level, you are examining your boundaries and the expectations that you place on yourself.

This is a great month to improve your bad habits and focus on getting healthier.

Your temper will be shorter, and it may be harder to sleep. Exercise may help somewhat with that! Home and family are in the limelight toward the end of the month.

PISCES (Feb. 19–Mar. 20)

Since the Mermaids and Mermen often need more time to themselves, this stay-at-home time can be peaceful if there aren’t too many distractions. Your immediate concern is about finances, and making good use of your skills and talents. If you are concerned about your job, reaching out to friends and support-group members can be especially beneficial this month. You are clearer in your communications, and are able to get your message across more easily. Your career is going through an upgrade. You may have to learn new methods to function in this time of expanding social-media opportunities.

You are needing some entertainment and distractions by the end of the month!

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y mid-April, after all of the craziness we should get some relief that should last for a couple of months. However, the overall pattern of the intensity will return in August and last through November. We should all feel some relief by December! • Venus (our planet of desire, investments, and creature comforts) goes retrograde at the end of April. Get all of your new connections and contacts made before the end of the month. After Venus is retrograde in May, focus on your existing customers and connect with old friends from the past. • Develop a plan of action, and respond to what you can handle so you don’t feel powerless or hopeless.

Being flexible and learning to adapt your skills can help a lot during these unstable times.

TAURUS (Apr. 20–May 20)

This is a very active month for you, with your career sector being especially active.

First, you are reexamining the choices you’ve made for your career. You are looking to take on a leadership role, or possibly start your own business. You will not be your normal patient self during the next 42 days. This is a good time to work on health, diet, and doing good things for yourself. You are also looking to reinvent yourself by letting go of the past and finding the spark that has been missing from your life. You will want more personal freedom and expression in your relationships. If your relationship is too restrictive, changes will have to be made. Make sure you have time for yourself, so you don’t feel trapped by your own choices.

GEMINI (May 21–June 21)

You Geminis have been in a sort of selfimposed isolation for a while. You have been picking your companions more carefully because your psychic sensitivities are stronger than usual. This same energy is pushing your career to be more creative and internally fulfilling, making old work routines seem draining. Finances are still a concern as you work your way out of the debt that controls you. You are in a more creative time this month, and you can benefit from activity on social media. You may be very ready to work from home! Relationships are fine, except if they demand too much of you. You are 74

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wanting more time to yourself, and that need gets stronger as we get to the latter half of the month.

CANCER (June 22–July 22)

This continues to be an extremely active and busy time for the Moon Kids! All of the planetary activity that is generating fear of the coronavirus is directly impacting you.

You are learning the lesson to let go of your need to control, since you are not in control to begin with. Personal and business relationships are being reexamined.

You are weeding out the relationships that don’t work, and giving more time and attention to those that do. This is a good month to explore new avenues that will help create more security, instead of just relying on what you already know! You are redefining the way you work with your community. This can be a very good time to improve your skills on social media, as that will be the way to communicate in the future. Watch your impulse-spending this month, as it will be easier to justify your purchases!

LEO (July 23–Aug. 22)

This is an active and busy month for you.

Relationships are especially active this month, so if you are in a relationship, this is a good time to renew those bonds. If you are in a difficult relationship, this is the perfect month to address those problems.

This can also be a good time to explore new relationship potentials. You are looking for a partner who wants to participate in the process! Regarding your work and security issues, you are reinventing your current career path—whether you are the CEO or the stay-at-home mom or dad.

This is an important time to pay attention to your boundaries and look at which responsibilities you want to take on. This is a good time to move your business into your home, and it may stay there even after the pandemic danger has passed! You are taking life more personally this month. Be sure to let others know!

VIRGO (Aug. 23–Sept. 22)

This month you are giving more attention to your work and health routines, which is usually a good thing for the Virgoans! You will be instituting some new work routines.

You have been needing more time to yourself over the last couple of years, and this year is no exception. Finances are somewhat stressful this month, but you are

ARIES (Mar. 21–Apr. 19)

This is your personal yearly cycle when you get to review last year’s choices and set new plans into action. Career and long-term security goals are being tested. This can be a time of job changes, redefining career goals, starting your own business, and for some, retirement. You are being forced to accept change in this area, even if you weren’t seeking it. You are reevaluating all your goals, including both your business and personal relationship commitments. Family demands and responsibilities will also be weighing heavily on you. The latter half of the month is a better time for making decisions and feeling less stress. Keep in touch with friends, as they can really lift your spirits. looking at new ways to make your career function to help alleviate that problem.

This is a good month for writing, teaching, exploring new ideas, and improving your social-media outreach. Your relationship partner is opening up to new ideas on spirituality and our psychic connections to the universe. It’s a good idea to listen to what they have to say. This will help create a stronger bond between the two of you!

LIBRA (Sept. 23–Oct. 23)

April promises a mixed bag of events and activity in your life. During this time of year, your relationships normally take center stage. You may be looking for ways to renew your bonds, especially with so many people being forced to stay home.

Boredom can make you very restless this month if you don’t have enough activity.

Career-wise, you are looking at major change—some of it without your consent!

Some of you may be looking at an end to your industry, which could push you to create something that fits you better.

Others may have to learn new skills and new methods of communicating with clients and customers. Financial concerns get stronger in the latter half of the month.

You continue to work on freeing yourself from debt and the constricting hold that has on you. You are being more practical with your creativity, and that allows you to find new strategies to deal with the limitations you are experiencing.

SCORPIO (Oct. 24–Nov. 21)

Home and family top the menu this month.

You are more focused on your emotional foundation and the changing conditions

within your family. You may feel that you must step in and take a leadership role within the family. You are also looking at your current career path to make sure it fits with who you are at this time in your life. This is also a good time for home repair, remodeling, or even moving.

Relationships are a bit edgy this month.

You want your partner to step up and participate more in the relationship. This is a good time to make sure that both of you are moving in the same direction to renew your bonds. Relationships that are too demanding just won’t fit in your life.

You are also working on creating some stability in your work and general routines, but you haven’t been able to achieve that just yet. That will become easier toward the end of the year. You are paying much more attention to your boundaries and the expectations that others place on you!

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22–Dec. 21)

During the first part of the month, you are looking for fun ways to get some relief from the worries and concerns that were so prevalent last month. Financial planning and restructuring continue as you create new boundaries and goals to pursue. You could be using and discovering a latent talent that you didn’t have enough time to pursue in the past. You are wanting more freedom from your traditional routines so you can pursue things you are genuinely interested in. This is a great month to put these ideas and plans into action! Along with everyone else, you are looking for new ways to communicate your message and ideas through social media or alternative chat and meeting CONTINUED ON PAGE 73

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On February 27, Theatre Under The Stars held Out@TUTS night sponsored by OutSmart and TUTS. Pictured are some of the performers and sponsors.

On February 29, the Montrose Softball League Association held its spring 2020 opening ceremony at Pearl Bar. Pictured are John Perez and Roy Delariva.

On March 1, AIDS Foundation Houston held its AIDSWalk 2020 at Sam Houston Park in downtown Houston. Pictured is the Lazarus House AIDSWalk team.

On March 4, The Greater Houston LGBT Chamber held its business breakfast series with Patrick Jankowski of the Greater Houston Partnership. Pictured are Jack Berger, Gay Wood, Ray Purser, Tammi Wallace, Tiffany Tosh, and Patrick Jankowski.

On March 7, OutReach United held its kickoff event at the home of Bryant Johnson Wood and Gary Wood.

Pictured are Gary Wood, Charles McFerrin, Ken Ng, and Tim Stokes.

Boys N’ Bonnets held an Azalea Trail bus tour on March 7. Pictured are some of the boys with their mothers and friends.

On March 11, the Houston LGBT Chamber held its March Brewing Up Business event at Poggenpohl Kitchen Design Studio. Pictured are Cheryl Carpenter, Samantha Garrido, Swathi Putta, and Tammi Wallace.

On March 11, the Houston Bar Association held its free LGBTQ Community Legal Symposium at the Montrose Center. Pictured are Ashley Steininger, Travis Torrence, former Mayor Annise Parker, and Justice Charles Spain.

On February 13, the Montrose Center held its Bringin’ In the Green 2020 fundraiser at the home of Justin and Glenn Dickson. Pictured are Kennedy Loftin, David Alcorta, Tom Seymour, Bob Burress, Justin Dickson, Glenn Dickson, Rob Schmerler, and Bill Bulcher.

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On February 27, The Greater Houston LGBT Chamber celebrated its fourth anniversary during a Biz Connect mixer at the Alley Theatre. Pictured are Roy Alvarez Jr., Tammi Wallace, Tiffany Tosh, Judge Lesley Briones, Lane Lewis, Senator John Whitmire, Jon Marrs, Jack Berger, Gary Wood, and Ken Olive.

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A ROSE BY ANY OTHER NAME

By SAM BYRD

April showers may bring May flowers, but this bouquet blooms year-round. Nicknamed “The Thinking Man’s Drag Queen,” Violet S’Arbleu gladly dressed up as The April Fool for this month’s issue as a nod to her character’s cerebral humor and spot-on wit. “Technically, I’m a fool all year round,” she explains. “I like to remind myself (as a counterbalance to my outspoken activism and quest for accountability and common sense in the world) that I’m just a man in a dress. I’m a clown to dress up and keep people entertained.”

Pronouns?

Any pronoun not intended as an insult is perfectly fine.

Hometown?

Houston for Jacob; Savannah, Georgia, for Violet.

Drag birth date?

I have always loved women’s clothes, which is why I went to school for fashion design, so I can’t really count a “first outing” as a birthday. I was at a drag-themed party on Valentine’s Day while at college when I finally named her “Violet,” so that’s what I call her birthday: February 14, 2009. My first performance was June 6 that year.

Name inspiration?

After picking Violet, I wanted something funny or punny as a last name, and then it hit me: Violet S’Arbleu. People don’t often get the joke when they see my name in print, so I tell them to finish the sentence out loud: “Roses are red, . . .” That usually does the trick.

Describe Violet.

A retro housewife Disney princess with a strong moral compass. I call my visual style “exaggerated naturalism” and my personality “activist Auntie Mame.”

Inspiration for looks?

Pop culture and trends are great, but history is a gold mine. I’m rarely in black, and when I perform, if it’s a number that’s a commentary or opinion piece, the outfit usually correlates with that. But otherwise, it’s just about having fun. Blue eyebrows tonight? Why not. Drag imbues the power to be anyone you like, anytime you want, so why be the same person every day?

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Pageant history? Do you have a philanthropic side?

I am still very grateful to have been OutSmart’s “Most Divine Drag Queen” in both 2015 and 2017. I was also Miss Gay Houston America 2015 and Miss Gay Texas America 2017. Being Miss Texas is indeed a high honor, and when Hurricane Harvey hit, I was fortunate that I [could attract] the statewide and nationwide attention that I did, to share news of what was happening and raise money for locals in need. That momentum led to 15 fundraisers that raised money for a dozen Houston-area charities. I also participate in multiple annual charity functions for groups like the Montrose Center and Houston Gaymers.

Sewing skills?

I love clothes, and Violet is a life-sized doll I can dress up however I like. I studied at the Savannah College of Art and Design with a minor in psychology, so when I can’t find what I like in a vintage store, I just make it myself.

Tell us about your mom’s fans.

My mom has always been my biggest fan. Someone dubbed her “Mama Rose” many years ago (I assume more in relation to the “Roses Are Red” poetry roots with my name rather than Gypsy Rose Lee’s “momager”) and it stuck.

I do think her fan club is even bigger than mine, because she represents the family that a lot of older gay men unfortunately don’t have. You can catch her sitting with new friends every Friday night at my Michael’s Outpost show.

Dream job?

I’d love to utilize my degree more, and once upon a time I wanted to design at Christian Dior. Honestly, I love the creation of something special that transforms you or inspires an audience. If I was fortunate enough to work in the costume department at one of Houston’s fabulous artistic organizations like Houston Grand Opera, Houston Ballet, Theatre Under The Stars, or Alley Theatre, I’d be happy.

When we’re no longer social-distancing, where can we see Violet perform?

Mondays at Crocker at 10 p.m.; Tuesdays at JR’s at 11 p.m.; Thursdays at Barcode at 11 p.m.; Fridays and Saturdays at Michael’s Outpost Piano Bar at 7:30 p.m.; Select Saturdays at House of Blues’ Drag Diva Brunch at noon; and assorted other gigs in the greater Houston area.

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