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On the Cover: Getting to Know Stars and Pipes Plumbing
By Kristen Eleveld
There are a few home repairs you really don’t want to DIY. Instead, you call the experts. And for people in the Gwinnett community who are experiencing a plumbing problem, they call the best in the business: Stars and Pipes Plumbing.
Founded by U.S. Army veteran and current Army Reserve Sergeant First Class Sean Nelson, this family-owned business has quickly become a trusted name for clients who need a plumbing expert 24 hours a day, seven days a week.
“After serving in the Army, I was looking for a career where I could continue making a difference and work with my hands,” said Sean. “Plumbing gave me that opportunity.”
Following his active duty service, Sean completed a five-year apprenticeship with Local Union 519 in Miami, Florida, gaining extensive experience in commercial plumbing.
“It was intense, hands-on work that gave me a solid foundation,” he explained.
Over time, Sean discovered a growing passion for residential plumbing, especially the personal connection it brought to customers.
In 2020, during the COVID-19 pandemic, Sean relocated to Georgia with his wife and children. That move gave him the chance to turn his longtime vision into reality.
“We wanted to build something of our own that was rooted in integrity, service, and family values,” said Sean.
That vision became Stars and Pipes Plumbing. In addition to running the business, Sean still
proudly serves in the U.S. Army Reserves and currently holds the rank of Sergeant First Class. He also works as a plumbing instructor at Fort Jackson in South Carolina, training the next generation of skilled tradesmen and women.
“Staying connected to the Army while teaching has been incredibly rewarding,” said Sean. “It keeps me sharp and reminds me why doing every job with excellence matters.”
With over a decade of plumbing experience and leadership skills from the military, Sean built Stars and Pipes Plumbing to deliver not only high-quality work, but also unmatched customer service.
tion, upfront pricing, and honest work.
“I developed a real passion for solving problems and helping families feel confident and safe in their homes,” he said. “That’s ultimately what led my wife and me to start this company—to bring quality, integrity, and a personal touch to every service call.”
So, what kind of services do they provide? Practically everything. From water heater installations and drain cleaning to faucet repairs and emergency solutions, Stars and Pipes Plumbing is ready for any job. They’ll even help homeowners figure out why their water bill suddenly spiked—and offer smart, budget-friendly ways to bring it back down.
But what really sets them apart is their approach. Sean and his team are known for clear communica-
“We are committed to doing business the right way—with honesty, precision, and a personal touch,” said Sean. “As a veteran and family-owned company, we’ve built a reputation for treating our clients the way we’d want our own family to be treated.”
When a plumber from Stars and Pipes shows up, they don’t just fix the issue—they explain it. Each customer gets a walk-through of the problem, a detailed breakdown of the options, and a chance to ask any questions before the work begins.
“We’re not just here to fix plumbing issues,” said Sean. “We’re here to build trust and long-term relationships.”
Outside of work, the Stars and Pipes Plumbing team stays active in the community. This year,
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Dr. Jenny Reesman
Tanisha Turner
5 On the Cover: Getting to Know Stars and Pipes Plumbing
7 From the Publisher: Ryan’s Remarks
9 Learning Lessons: Four Key Connections to Foster Your Child’s Early Development
9 Thanksgiving Tips: How to Practice Gratitude
10 The Season of Simple Joys: Slowing Down to Savor What Matters Most
10 Holiday Wanderlust: Five Festive Getaways Near Gwinnett
10 Lanier Islands Resort: Kicks Off the Season of Giving Back
12 Pet Perch: Turkey and Pie…Oh My!!
12 Holiday Matters: Make Your Holidays Stress-Free
12 Health Matters: Older Adults Should Protect Their Health This Fall
13 Finding Light When It Gets Dark Early
13 Lilburn Farmers Market Gets into the Holiday Spirit
15 One Man’s Opinion: The Difficulty of Saying Goodbye
From the Publisher: Ryan’s Remarks
By Dr. Ryan T. Sauers
@RyanTSauers @RyanTSauers
Hello, Our Town Community. Can you believe we are in November? Wow, it seems not long ago that I was writing about the beginning of 2025. Time flies, and we must be grateful for each moment. November is a great time to reflect upon our journey, express gratitude for the blessings surrounding us, and draw inspiration from the unwavering spirit of our community.
In this season of change, I encourage us to take a moment to count our blessings, no matter how small they may seem. Gratitude is a powerful force that can transform our lives. When we focus on the positive aspects of our existence, we build resilience and find strength in the face of challenges.
Our community has shown remarkable resilience over the past few years, which we should all be proud of. We have faced unprecedented times with courage and determination, supporting one another through thick and thin. Let us carry this spirit forward into the coming months, standing together, shoulder to shoulder, as we continue to grow and thrive.
As the days grow shorter and the temperatures drop lower, remember that each day is an opportunity for growth and positive change. This is the time of year to set new goals and aspirations, whether big or small. It’s the perfect moment to take that step you’ve been putting off, to start that project you’ve been dreaming about, or to strengthen the bonds with your neighbors and friends.
As we learned during the pandemic, we can adapt, innovate, and support one another in times of need. The Our Town community exemplifies the strength and determination that lies within each of us. Let’s carry this energy into the months ahead, embracing challenges with open hearts and minds.
The holiday season is just around the corner, and it’s a time when we can come together to spread love and joy throughout our community. Whether through small acts of kindness or larger charitable endeavors, let us remember the importance of giving and sharing. As we enjoy the warmth of our homes and the love of our families, we should also consider those who may be less fortunate and find ways to extend a helping hand.
In the spirit of giving, let’s also appreciate and support the local businesses that contribute to our community’s uniqueness. They have faced their share of hardships, and your continued support means more to them than you can imagine. This November, make an extra effort to shop locally, dine at our community’s restaurants, and celebrate the incredible small businesses around us.
As we embrace November, remember that we are an unstoppable force when working together. We must UNITE (come together), not UNTIE (drift apart). The letters of each word are the same, but by making one change in their order,
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Learning Lessons: Four Key Connections to Foster Your Child’s Early Development
By Tanisha Turner
The brain develops faster in the first five years of life than at any other point, and studies show that the human brain is never more receptive than during this time period. Understanding some key facts behind children’s brain development can help parents and caregivers better support a child’s learning during this critical time.
Dr. Laura Jana, a pediatrician, award-winning author, and member of the Primrose Schools Early Learning Council, employs four key connections to help explain why the first five years are critical for children’s development:
Connecting the Neurons. Babies are born with more than 100 billion nerve cells in their brains. These neurons must connect and communicate with each other in order to form the circuits needed to think, learn, and succeed – something neurons do at the remarkable rate of 700 connections per second in the first five years of life. In fact, peak development of sensory pathways, such as hearing, vision, and language, occurs during the first six months of life. Parents can make the most of this once-in-alifetime opportunity by nurturing their child’s natural desire to explore, asking meaningful questions, and creating as many learning experiences as possible.
Making Connections with Caring, Responsive Adults. The everyday back-and-forth interactions adults have with babies – from babbling to singing, cooing and other responsive gestures – shape brain development far more than parents and caregivers may realize. Research from The Center on the Developing Child at Harvard University reveals that a strong relationship between a caring responsive adult and a child is so powerful, it can literally serve as a protective buffer against the potentially negative effects of stress and adversity on the developing brain. Start building this relationship with your infant by responding to his babbles, gestures, or cries with the appropriate eye contact, words, or a hug. This supports the development of your little one’s communication and social skills.
Connecting Language and Literacy Skills with Future Life Success. Reading and talking to young children is fundamentally important to their development. Betty Hart and Todd Risley, child psychologists at the University of Kansas, found in their landmark 1995 study that the frequency and quality
Thanksgiving Tips: How to Practice Gratitude
By Tana Poncsak
There’s a lot of chatter about how being thankful and practicing gratitude can help one live a healthier and a happier life. We hear about it in inspirational quotes on social media, discussed on podcasts, and we even read about it in various articles in magazines and on the web.
It’s November and the month of Thanksgiving, and while many will be reminded to give thanks as a result of the holiday, let’s look at some ways we can practice gratitude all year.
1. Take a look at your values and how you spend your time. Perhaps those
of words spoken to children has significant implications on their vocabularies, IQ, literacy skills, and future academic success. Parents don’t need to wait until their child can sit up, hold a book, or even focus on the words to start reading together – the earlier, the better!
Recognizing the Connection between Early Skills and Workforce Development. All parents strive to raise happy, successful children, but over time certain skills have become more relevant for success in today’s workforce. Instead of focusing solely on academic success, parents, caregivers and early educators are also focusing on instilling essential traits and skills like grit, perseverance, compassion, and problem-solving. Early childhood is when the foundation for these attributes is built and nurtured. Modeling these skills and traits is one of the best ways parents can help their child develop them.
The first five years of a child’s life are special for many reasons. Recognizing the rapid development that takes place during this critical stage and fostering the above connections will help ensure your little one gets the most out of this once-in-a-lifetime learning opportunity!
Tanisha Turner is the Owner of Primrose School at Sugarloaf Parkway. More information at www.PrimroseSugarloafParkway.com or call 770-5130066.
The Season of Simple Joys: Slowing Down to Savor What Matters Most
By Our Town Gwinnett Staff
November has a way of reminding us to pause. The air turns crisp, the days grow shorter, and our schedules seem to fill up before we know it. Yet somewhere between Halloween candy and holiday lights, there’s a quiet invitation to slow down and focus on what truly matters.
This season isn’t just about shopping lists or travel plans. It’s about gratitude—about family dinners that stretch late into the evening, neighbors waving from across the yard, and laughter filling living rooms on chilly nights. It’s a time to notice the small things we often overlook—the sound of a child’s giggle, the aroma of something warm baking, and the peace that comes when we finally put our phones aside.
While much of the year is spent pursuing big moments—promotions, milestones, achievements—it’s often the smaller ones that leave the deepest impact. A quiet walk, a handwritten note, or a simple conversation can bring more happiness than any to-do list ever could. Research consistently shows that gratitude enhances well-being, lowers stress, and strengthens relationships. Science is clear, but the core idea is simple: when we focus on what’s right in our lives, the noise around us diminishes.
Across and around Gwinnett, acts of kindness happen every day: the volunteer who rings the Salvation Army bell, the coach who mentors students after hours, the small business owner who donates to a local charity. These moments weave together the fabric of our community. Each small act of generosity ripples outward, inspiring others to do the same. This November, perhaps gratitude could become our community’s theme. Instead of asking, “What can I get done before the holidays?” we might ask, “Who can I lift up today?”
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Holiday Wanderlust: Five Festive Getaways Near Gwinnett
By Our Town Gwinnett Staff
Sometimes the best holiday gift isn’t wrapped up; it’s a change of scenery. Whether you’re craving a cozy cabin, a charming small town, or a quick day trip that feels like a world away, there are plenty of festive destinations within easy reach of Gwinnett.
Blue Ridge—Cozy Cabins and Mountain Magic: A Georgia favorite for good reason. The North Georgia Mountains come alive in December with twinkling lights, boutique shops, and stunning views. Enjoy a hot cocoa and stroll along Main Street, or take a ride on the Blue Ridge Scenic Railway for a Hallmark-movie-like afternoon. Cabins with fireplaces and mountain views fill up fast, so plan ahead—and don’t forget your flannel.
Dahlonega: Christmas in the Mountains. Known as one of Georgia’s most scenic small towns, Dahlonega turns into a winter wonderland each year. Its historic square lights up with thousands of bulbs, carriage rides, and live music during the town’s famous “Old-Fashioned Christmas” celebration. Visitors can enjoy local wineries, cozy bed-and-breakfasts, and a nostalgic holiday spirit that feels like it’s straight out of a storybook.
Helen—A Bavarian Wonderland: Every winter, Helen becomes Georgia’s own snow globe. With twinkling alpine architecture, carriage rides, and roasted nuts wafting through the streets, it’s as close to Europe as you can get without booking a flight. The Christkindlmarkt (traditional German holiday market) is a must-visit for handcrafted gifts and a mug of mulled wine.
Athens—Classic City Cheer: Just a short drive from Gwinnett, Athens still shines with holiday charm and small-town sophistication. Downtown streets
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Lanier Islands Resort: Kicks Off the Season of Giving Back
By Our Town Gwinnett Staff
After months of designing and weeks of setup, the seasonal vibe is positively electric at Lanier Islands Resort. With the return of Magical Nights of Lights in November, there is an undercurrent of gratitude from the team behind the lakeside destination. Inspired by the spirit of Thanksgiving, Lanier Islands Resort seeks to not only express its appreciation for the community that has supported it for decades, but also to provide opportunities for light watchers to give to those in need this holiday season. With donation drives for Georgia Mountain Food Bank and Toys for Tots, donors can receive the Islands’ thanks in the form of discounts on select nights throughout the Magical Nights of Lights Season (valued at $30). There will also be discount nights for active-duty military members, veterans, first responders, and educators on the resort’s event calendar.
“We launched our ‘Lanier Islands Resort Gives Back’ initiative this summer with our FREE Lakeside Concert Series, which featured three incredible outdoor concerts at our lakeside Peachtree Pointe Amphitheatre,” said Matthew Bowling, President of Lanier Islands Resort. “There was a charitable element to that, too, which resulted in the donation of more than 500 pounds of food to the Georgia Mountain Food Bank, translating to roughly 14,350 meals. During the holiday season, many of our neighbors need our help more than ever. There are more than 50,000 food-insecure people in the area served by the Georgia Mountain Food Bank, and we believe every child deserves the gift of a new toy on Christmas morning. That’s why, on select evenings during Magical Nights of Lights, we will say ‘thank you’ to anyone who brings three or more canned goods or new unwrapped toys by giving them a $10 discount on their holiday light tour admission, along with a voucher for $20 off one all-access band at Margaritaville’s License to Chill Snow Island. We’ll also extend that same
discount on select nights for many of the true heroes in our community—our teachers, our military members, our veterans, and our first responders—as our thanks for the way they give back daily.”
Bowling also expressed his team’s gratitude for this year’s partners of Magical Nights of Lights 2025.
“After a five-year hiatus at the Islands,” he continued, “bringing Magical Nights of Lights back to our shores is an enormous undertaking. We are truly honored to have three Georgia powerhouses joining us on this journey. Our major event sponsors are The Coca-Cola Company and Georgia Power, with our friends at Star 94 serving as our partner radio station, powering the festive atmosphere and filling each vehicle with holiday cheer as they drive through our tour of lights.”
Given its standing as one of the Southeast’s leading destinations, the resort also has traditional Thanksgiving plans in store for its guests. On Thursday, November 27th, from noon to 6 p.m., Lanier Islands Resort will play host to a Thanksgiving buffet served in the Legacy Lodge Grand Ballroom. Designed by Food & Beverage Director Nishant Chaudhary and his team of chefs, the meal will feature a series of carving and action stations, alongside a sumptuous selection of salads, entrees, and sides. A child-friendly Kids Korner and Grand Dessert Display round out the offerings. As another way of giving back, the lakeside destination will waive the resort gate fee with a Thanksgiving buffet reservation.
At the heart of the holiday season at Lanier Islands Resort, the Magical Nights of Lights will run nightly from mid-November to early January, beginning at 5 p.m. each evening. They are located 45 miles north of Atlanta at 7000 Lanier Islands Parkway in Buford.
More information at https://www.lanierislands.com/holiday-events/magical-nights-of-lights/.
Pet Perch: Turkey and Pie…Oh My!!
By Dr. Jennifer Reesman, DVM
I can already smell the turkey in the oven and the cranberry sauce simmering on the stove, and I can feel the crisp fall air. Thanksgiving is around the corner, and the food festivities are about to commence! One of my dogs is probably already prepping his saddest looking face for a long day of begging grandma for a bite, and hoping that something, even just a tidbit, falls from the table.
When it comes to the holidays, there is the right and wrong way to give our pets a little something extra. First, if your pets are like some of mine, they are on a very strict diet for medical reasons. These pets cannot have anything outside their usual diet as it could cause these conditions to no longer be regulated. Second, if your pet is not used to table food, I would avoid it as no one wants to be cleaning up diarrhea, let alone with a house full of guests, or at the ER because of acute pancreatitis!
For my pets that do get a little something extra (yes, those begging eyes even work on me), my household follows some rules. First, pets do not get anything without asking the vet. Luckily for them, I live there. That said, please consult with your vet if you want to give your pet anything outside their usual diet. They know your pet! Second, it’s all lean and bland. We reserve a few potatoes before there are mixed with butter and milk, a small piece of white meat turkey without seasoning, and a few carrots before they are cooked in all the spices. Third, this counts as their meal. Those extra calories count, even on the holidays. Fourth, keep things out of reach. No one wants a reenactment of The Christmas Story scene where the dogs helps themselves to the turkey (I know, wrong holiday, but it sure makes me think of Thanksgiving)!
I wish you all a Happy Thanksgiving and holiday season, and a safe and pancreatitis free one for your pets!
More information at https://www.brookwoodanimal.com/
Holiday Matters: Make Your Holidays Stress-Free
By Tana Poncsak
As soon as the kids roam the neighborhood for candy on Halloween, many of us start thinking (and maybe obsessing) about the upcoming holidays. After all, there’s cooking to be done, presents to buy, and plans to be made all while still working and going about our daily lives. And while the holidays are supposed to be meaningful and fun, often they turn out to be tiring, disappointing, and stressful.
According to a December 2017 article in Medical News Today, some people can feel overwhelmed by the excess, expectations, and exchange and can become depressed during the holidays. The article goes on to say that a lack of time and money, credit card debt, and the pressure of gift giving can often contribute to stress during the holiday season.
As mentioned in this article and cited by many others as well, one of the main causes for holiday stress can be linked to our expectations. We watch the holiday movies and see images of the picture-perfect holidays, and that becomes what we strive for. Anything less misses the mark.
The answer can be as easy as keeping things simple and don’t over plan. But we all know that’s easier said than done. Here are a few things you can do to lower your expectations and keep things simple.
• Make a realistic list of the things you need to accomplish to make your holiday special and meaningful. This shouldn’t be a long list. Try to keep this list at three to six things. Then make a second list of the things you would like to accomplish but aren’t necessary to make your holiday complete.
• Try to simplify or delegate the things that need to be done to make the best use of your time. For example, you want to read the latest holiday novel, but
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Health Matters: Older Adults Should Protect Their Health This Fall
By Our Town Gwinnett Staff
With cold and flu season upon us, it’s time to protect yourself from those seasonal threats and other health risks. “During the holidays, our lives get very busy with family and friends,” said Dr. J.B. Sobel, chief medical officer for Cigna Healthcare’s Medicare business. “Before then, please take time to ensure you get the preventive care you need to stay healthy.”
Preventive care is critical for everybody, but particularly for older adults, and especially in fall when risks can increase. Recommendations vary based on age, gender, and health status, but the following are some Sobel says are the most common for seniors.
Vaccinations: There are several vaccines older adults need to consider to protect themselves. For example, flu and pneumonia are among the most common causes of senior deaths. There is no “one-size-fits-all” approach to vaccination. Timing and frequency vary, depending on your health history. Ask your healthcare provider which vaccines are appropriate for you.
mended for older adults.
• Mammogram. According to the CDC, breast cancer is the second leading cause of cancer death in women in the United States. Every woman is at risk, and risk increases with age. Fortunately, breast cancer can often be treated successfully when found early. The U.S. Preventive Services Task Force (USPSTF) recommends women 50 to 74 years old at average risk get a mammogram every two years. • Colorectal screening. Colorectal cancer risk increases with age. Screenings can find precancerous polyps early, so they can be removed before they turn into cancer. The USPSTF recommends colorectal cancer screening for adults age 45 to 75. Though colonoscopy is the most comprehensive test, there are other options you may consider with the help of your provider.
• Bone density scan. USPSTF recommends women aged 65 and older and women 60 and older at increased risk be routinely screened for osteoporosis, a disease in which bones become weak and brittle. Screening may facilitate treatment that helps prevent fractures.
• Flu. This vaccine is administered annually, generally before the end of October, and is designed to match the latest circulating flu strains.
• Pneumonia. Administration varies based on health history. If you’re 65 or older and you’ve never had the vaccine before, you’ll likely need two shots administered a year apart.
• Shingles. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) recommends two doses of the shingles vaccine for healthy adults aged 50 and older, spaced two to six months apart, to prevent shingles and related complications.
• COVID-19. Ask your doctors about current recommendations for the prevention of COVID-19 infections.
• RSV. Earlier this year, the Federal Drug Administration approved two separate vaccines to address respiratory syncytial virus (RSV) in older adults. RSV, a common respiratory infection, usually causes mild, cold-like symptoms but can be more severe in older adults and children. Talk to your doctor about whether you should get an RSV vaccine.
Health Screenings: The following health screenings are commonly recom-
• Eye exam. Routine eye exams can identify early signs of eye disease that are more likely as people age. People with diabetes, in particular, are prone to retinopathy, which leads to vision loss. It’s recommended that people with diabetes have annual retinal screenings.
• Mental health checkup. Many people experience seasonal depression during the fall. Mental health is strongly linked to physical health. Talk to your healthcare provider about your personal and family history. They can connect you with additional mental health resources.
To prevent unpleasant surprises, Sobel suggests talking with your healthcare provider, pharmacist, or insurer about preventive care costs. Fortunately, costs are often covered entirely by Medicare or Medicare Advantage.
Note: The information contained in this article is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified healthcare provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition or treatment before undertaking a new healthcare regimen. (StatePoint)
Finding Light When It Gets Dark Early
By Our Town Gwinnett Staff
It happens every year, yet it still feels like a surprise. One week, the evenings are long and golden, and the next, you’re glancing at your watch, wondering how it’s already dark before dinner. Daylight saving time ends, the clocks “fall back,” and our energy, sleep, and motivation all seem to wobble for a week or two.
But perhaps this seasonal change isn’t something to resist. Maybe it’s an invitation—a gentle prompt to slow down, reflect, and find new ways to bring light into our days, even as the sun sets a little earlier.
1. Slow the Pace—Let the Season Reset You.
When the world outside slows down, maybe we should, too. The early darkness can serve as a gentle reminder to pause and recharge. Instead of rushing through one task after another, take time to enjoy the small moments—dinner at the table, a meaningful conversation, or a cozy evening with a favorite movie or book. This season provides us with space to rest, reflect, and simply be.
2. Seek Out the Light.
We may lose the brightness of evening, but mornings offer a gentle glow worth appreciating. Step outside for a few minutes before your day begins. Breathe in the cool air, take a walk, or enjoy your first cup of coffee on the porch. Morning light can boost your mood and help keep your body clock in rhythm. And when evenings come early, create your own glow. Add warm lighting, candles, or soft string lights around your home. A little atmosphere can lift your spirits.
3. Create Comfort and Connection.
There’s something special about this time of year—sweaters, soups, blankets, and home-cooked meals. Make your home a haven that feels peaceful when you walk through the door. And don’t forget the people side of comfort. Invite neighbors for dinner, host a game night, or catch a high school football game under the lights. When we lean into togetherness, the shorter days somehow feel longer and fuller.
4. Keep Moving.
It’s tempting to hibernate once darkness falls, but staying active is one of the best ways to fight the early-dark blues. Take an evening walk, join a fitness class, or even turn on some music and dance around the living room. Movement keeps energy high and helps us stay positive during the seasonal change.
5. Stay Engaged in the Community.
As the days get shorter, connection matters even more. Here in Gwinnett, there’s no shortage of ways to stay involved, from local festivals and holiday markets to volunteer opportunities and small business events. Whether it’s supporting a local business or attending a neighborhood gathering, being part of something larger reminds us that light isn’t only found in the sky—it’s found in people.
6. Reflect and Reframe.
It’s easy to see early sunsets as the end of something, but perhaps they are the start of something else—a time for rest, reflection, and gratitude. The natural world slows down, and it’s okay for us to do the same. Take a moment each evening to consider what went well that day or write down one thing you’re thankful for. These small habits help maintain perspective when the nights grow long.
So, as we “fall back” and the light fades earlier, let’s remember that darker days don’t have to diminish our outlook. There’s beauty in stillness, comfort in community, and brightness in simple, intentional living. The seasons remind us that change is constant, but how we respond is up to us. Here’s to finding warmth, light, and gratitude, right here in Our Town!
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they mean entirely different things.
I hope you have a blessed and wonderful Thanksgiving holiday. One that is filled with some downtime and enjoyment of all we have to be thankful for. Finally, and as always, thank you for continuing with me on the journey of my town, your town, Our Town!
Lilburn Farmers Market Gets into the Holiday Spirit
By Jenna Cooper
As the season of holiday traditions approaches, the Lilburn Farmers Market is ready to celebrate with its own annual tradition: the holiday pop-up market.
The pop-up will take place on Saturday, November 22, from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. at Good Shepherd Presbyterian Church in Lilburn, and will offer seasonal fruits and vegetables, baked goods, hand-crafted items, tractor rides, and even a chance to meet Santa Claus.
The holiday market is a special extension of the summer farmers market, which has been a staple of the Lilburn community for sixteen years as the only Friday-evening market in Gwinnett County. To stay connected with their patrons once the summer season has passed, local farmers, vendors, and artists trade out their summer goods for their fall harvests, pumpkin-flavored breads, and cozy-scented candles.
“A few years ago, our customers and our vendors really wanted to continue connecting with the people that they’ve been buying from and selling to,” said the farmers market’s founder and manager, Mandy McManus, “so we decided to do a holiday pop-up that’s just a one-time event on the Saturday before Thanksgiving each year. It’s a great way to reconnect with vendors and customers, and it’s our biggest and most well-attended market of the year, coming at the start of the busy holiday shopping season.”
The pop-up market offers holiday shoppers a selection of goods from local crafters, candles, soaps, jams, and jellies, as well as the traditional baked goods and seasonal produce. Tractor rides, live music, and pictures with Santa also set the stage for a family-friendly start to the holiday season.
“I just think it’s a different experience in the fall, because we’re all drinking hot chocolate, wearing our sweatshirts and jeans, and getting into the holiday spirit,” said McManus. “Hopefully, we’ll have a beautiful, clear fall day like we did last year for a chance to enjoy being outside on Good Shepherd Presbyterian’s wonderful property.”
The church has been the site of the summer farmers market for thirteen years and offers ample parking and space to enjoy the many vendors.
“We’re very happy with Good Shepherd. They are wonderful hosts, and we are so lucky that they allow us to use their facilities,” said McManus. “We’ve grown so much since we started, and we want the Lilburn Farmers Market to be an event that the whole community can enjoy.”
As part of their commitment to the community, the market also participates in Wholesome Wave Georgia, a program that matches EBT dollars spent to provide an equivalent amount for the purchase of locally grown produce. For every EBT dollar spent, cardholders will receive a token, which can be redeemed for any fresh produce at the market.
Whether picking up some fresh fall vegetables, grabbing a gift for the holidays, or getting into the community spirit, Lilburn locals are invited to join the fall festivities at the holiday pop-up and return for the summer market in May 2026.
The Lilburn Farmers Market at Good Shepherd Presbyterian is located at 1400 Killian Hill Rd. in Lilburn.
More information at lilburnfarmersmarket.org.
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they proudly sponsored both the Parkview High School football team and the Hanarry West Dolphins swim team in Lilburn.
“We’re always looking for more ways to give back and support local programs,” said Sean. “For us, it’s not just about running a business—it’s about being a positive presence in the community.”
It’s clear that Stars and Pipes Plumbing offers more than just pipe repairs. With a commitment to service rooted in military discipline and family values, Sean Nelson and his team bring excellence, reliability, and heart to every home they enter. Whether you’re dealing with a leaky faucet or considering a full plumbing upgrade, Stars and Pipes Plumbing is the call you’ll be glad you made.
More information at https://starsandpipesatl.com/, or 770-398-STAR
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values have shifted along the way. Think about the things you value most and why you value them. Are you missing some special people in your life? Perhaps you need more time to yourself. Whatever it may be, time to yourself or more time for the special people in your life, think about ways to spend more time on the things you value in your life.
2. We’ve all heard it before, but it bears repeating. Stop comparing yourself to others. It’s easy to do, especially with social media 24 hours a day, but it’s counterproductive. You’re unique, so be thankful for your uniqueness and learn to lean into it.
3. Keep a gratitude journal. You don’t have to write a page every day. A few lines will do because being consistent is important. Just the act of writing something down can have a positive impact.
4. Be generous about saying “thank you” when you’re out and about in the community. In a world filled with road rage and other bouts of anger, it’s
refreshing to encounter someone with a gracious spirit.
5. Make it a goal to send at least one thank you note or thank you email a week. Perhaps a coworker helped you with a big project or there’s a family member you haven’t spoken to in a while. Not only will they feel good about receiving the note, but you will feel good about making someone else’s day a bit brighter.
6. Volunteer and help others any way you can. As people, we have a tendency to feel better about ourselves and other things when we’re helping others. And perhaps during the holidays is a great time to start. Volunteer in your church or your community. Help out a friend in need. Any small act could make a big impact.
7. Spend some time reflecting, praying, or meditating on and for an attitude of gratitude. It takes time and focus to develop a habit, even good ones. We often have to constantly remind ourselves as we pursue new endeavors and being thankful is no different. Keep it up.
Hopefully, as you see and feel the positive power of gratitude, you’ll be motivated to keep practicing, even if it’s just for one more day.
The Season of Simple Joys
Here are a few small ways to celebrate the spirit of the season:
• Write a thank-you note. Showing appreciation never goes out of style.
• Give your time. Volunteer, mentor, or show up for someone who could use support.
• Make space for rest. Leave an evening open to unwind, take a walk, and enjoy the moment.
As we approach Thanksgiving and beyond, let’s remember that happiness doesn’t come from doing more. It comes from noticing more. This November, may we all choose peace over pressure, connection over chaos, and gratitude over the grind. Wishing you and your loved ones a season filled with simple joys and warm hearts.
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you have no time. Try listening to the audio version while commuting to and from work. You may even be able to borrow it from the library for free using an app like Libby.
• Don’t like outdoor decorating? Delegate it to the professionals. Some local landscaping companies may offer outdoor decorating during the holidays.
• Don’t like to bake but need festive cookies? Leave the baking to your local bakery.
• Have company coming into town for the holidays, but no time to clean? There are a number of cleaning services in the area you can call.
• Need help wrapping? Hire a neighborhood teen to wrap your packages one afternoon.
• Short on time for cooking the holiday meal? Have it catered by a local restaurant. Or if that’s totally out of the question, try cooking some dishes using a pressure cooker or an air fryer and save the stove and the oven for dishes that need your extra attention.
• You get the idea. Be creative and ask for help!
• Don’t overwhelm yourself and your family with holiday activities. Pick a few that are manageable and let the others go. And even with the hustle and bustle of the season, remember to make self-care a priority.
• With gift giving, it’s the thought that counts. Don’t feel like you have to spend a small fortune. A small thoughtful gift or handmade gift can be just as personal and meaningful than an expensive one.
• Don’t compare your holiday to the holiday of others. The season is not meant to be a competition.
• Be more thankful for the things you accomplish instead of sad about the things that you don’t get to on your list. You can look forward to the ones you didn’t get to for next year.
• Always keep in mind the perfect holiday doesn’t exist. There are always things that are out of our control.
• If loved ones can’t make it to your holiday celebration, keep in mind the holidays are a relatively short period of time within a year, and there are another 300+ days in the year giving us plenty of other opportunities to spend time with loved ones. Plan something for later when the timing is better and everyone can be more relaxed. At the end of the holiday, take some time to reflect. What went well? What didn’t go as well? Were there any surprises? And make notes for a head start on next year.
Have a safe and happy holiday season!
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glow with lights, and local restaurants and shops decorate their windows in classic red and gold. Catch the annual Downtown Parade of Lights, explore the gift boutiques along Clayton Street, or enjoy a cozy dinner near the historic UGA campus. It’s the perfect mix of holiday spirit, music, and that unmistakable Southern college-town energy.
Staycation Spirit—Holiday Fun Right Here at Home: You don’t have to go far to get away. Downtown Lawrenceville’s holiday events, Snellville’s Towne Green festivities, and Lilburn’s Christmas parades all provide that same feeling of wonder close to home. Try a night out at a local restaurant decked for the season or a stroll through neighborhood lights with family. Sometimes the best memories happen right in your own backyard.
Making Memories, Not Miles: Whether it’s a weekend mountain escape or a simple day trip, the destination matters less than the time spent together. Pack your favorite playlist, grab a thermos of cider, and hit the road—because this season, joy isn’t found on a map. It’s found in the moments shared along the way. Enjoy the holidays, everyone!
One Man’s Opinion: The Difficulty of Saying Goodbye
By Bill Crane
Now in the September of my years, I find that more of my thoughts and time are spent in introspection, revisiting old memories, good and bad, and occasionally wondering if I made the best choices. Friends and peers of my parents seem to be passing with such frequency that I am not always able to be there, something I prided myself on for many years... giving a presence for helping those who matter to us as they grieve their loss and begin a life without their loved one. My own recent dance and battle with cancer have made me more keenly aware on this front. The frequency of passing by my own peers and classmates has also been increasing, almost geometrically. This too comes with this time in our lives.
Both my daughters and sisters are animal lovers. As a child, when traveling, my firstborn, Barclay, would introduce herself to strangers with, “I have six cats, two dogs, four fish, two frogs, and a ferret.” Youngest daughter Olivia and her mother are both cat lovers, and Olivia has had five cats living in her home throughout her eighteen years.
Yet we humans still tend to outlive our pets, leaving us with periodic times when we have to say goodbye. Most recently, Olivia’s gentle calico cat, Chloe, made her way to cat heaven. Periodic and severe challenges with kidney function were the main culprit. Chloe’s passing was preceded by the long goodbye for the very fragile Cocoa before her.
In my own home in Scottdale, Georgia, since 2007, there have been four cats. Santa brought Bruno, a first for Olivia, in her preschool years. When Tinkerbell arrived a few years later, also via Santa’s sleigh, Bruno treated the young kitten as if she were his own offspring. He seemed to like having company, and young Tink would often sleep curled atop her adopted brother.
When stomach cancer later came for Bruno, it became clear that his remaining life would be a painful existence. After allowing Olivia a final visit, we took Bruno to the family vet for a long and final nap. I went to be with Bruno, as he sat calmly and quietly atop my lap, with an IV extending out from a shaved paw. The gentle and professional vet tech administered the anesthesia. Bruno sat quietly, rubbed his head against my chest, looked up, and then lay down entirely, passing quietly a few moments later. I was surprised by how overcome I became, weeping in that vet office chair for what seemed like an hour.
Once tiny Tinkerbell is still with us, and another stray, Pink, came to reside here at stately Crane Manor during the pandemic, but Pink (rhymes with Tink) always wanted to answer the call of the wild, so he would regularly look for the opportunity of an open or cracked front or back door to dart out into the larger world. Later that day or the following morning, Pink would announce his return.
Pink darted out the front door once more, a few years back, on a dark, cold, and rainy night. I was being a bit more cautious with the cold and rain during COVID, and I assumed he would be back by morning. I had forgotten about the recent coyote sightings in our area.
A loud series of cat screeches later broke through the rain and storm noise close to midnight, and I went out to the front lawn with a flashlight, with nothing to be seen. By morning and in the light of day, I found a small and bloody chunk of flesh and hair, matching Pink’s coloring. We never saw Pink again...one for the coyotes…
I have made, hopefully, in my post-cancer life, a renewed priority of visiting, in person, friends who are ailing. We never know what we don’t know, and it is always good for those you love to know that you feel that way about them. I know Bruno felt that as he headed for cat heaven, he certainly gave me that feeling back. And I occasionally see a solid gray shorthair cat climbing my back stairs, or curled up under outdoor furniture in cold weather, hot sun, or rain—and my heart will rise briefly, thinking that Pink has made a long pet movie-style return home.
But then reality sets in, and I just miss him instead. You see, I never had a chance to say goodbye.
Bill Crane owns the full-service communications firm CSI Crane. More information at www.CSICrane.com
