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Ottawa Jewish Bulletin NOVEMBER 13, 2017 | CHESHVAN 24, 5778
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‘Life is defined by the choices we make’ Gillian Presner told her inspiring story of choices in the face of a difficult situation at the annual Choices event for women. Louise Rachlis reports.
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hen physician and mother Gillian Presner gave her acceptance speech for the Freiman Family Young Leadership Award on June 14 at the Jewish Federation of Ottawa annual general meeting, the Choices committee decided their worldwide search for a keynote speaker for the annual event scheduled for November 1 at Kehillat Beth Israel was over. Because of the young Ottawa native’s “positivity, strength and determination, the choice became clear,” said Choices Co-Chair Jen Zaret. For the first time in 11 years, the Choices speaker did not come from outside the community. Choices is an annual women’s event presented by the Jewish Federation of Ottawa Women’s Campaign that is designed to inspire women to become involved and make choices that can affect change in their community. Co-Chair Jackie Barwin thanked the sold-out crowd of 300 for attending and paid tribute to all who helped make the evening a success. Standing at the microphone in a striped emerald dress, her short dark hair highlighted by a tinge of pink, Presner, 38, spoke frankly about how her life of “great privilege – comfortable home, loving family, never lacking necessities, access to an excellent education, and good health” – was shattered 15 months ago by a devastating medical diagnosis. “When you’re in your mid-30s, with a three-year-old and a one-year-old, and about to have a newborn, and
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(From left) Choices Co-Chair Jackie Barwin, Jewish Federation of Ottawa President and CEO Andrea Freedman, keynote speaker Gillian Presner, Annual Campaign Co-Chair Aviva Ben-Choreen, Choices Co-Chair Jen Zaret and Annual Campaign Co-Chair Sharon Appotive gather at the Choices event, November 1, at Kehillat Beth Israel.
you’re told you have a malignant tumour the size of a tennis ball in your brain, there is no lemonade to be had,” she said. All you can do is pick up those lemons and do the best you can to either learn to juggle them, or, more likely, just learn to look at them in a new way so they don’t make you cry.” A graduate of Hillel Academy (now the Ottawa Jewish Community School) who attended Jewish summer camps, Presner is a longtime community volunteer. She joined her husband, Neil, and family members
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Bernie and Donna Dolansky, and Shawna Dolansky and Grant Overland, as co-chairs of Federation’s Annual Campaign kickoff last year while also still canvassing for the campaign, as she has done annually since 2008. After her diagnosis, she was suddenly inconsolable, she said. “All I could see and focus on was my imminent demise.” Presner said friend Staci Zemlak-Kenter helped her reframe her “limited time” as “deliberate time.” See Choices on page 2
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Barbara Crook on an Israeli doctor’s fellowship in Ottawa > p. 19
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