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STACY McNEILAND CEO & President Girl Scouts Western Oklahoma
Where did you grow up, and do you have a favorite childhood memory?
I grew up in Oklahoma City. One of my favorite childhood memories is going Girl Scout camping with my mother.
What did you want to be when you grew up?
A professional dancer.
What are you most passionate about professionally?
Children. I love seeing them grow, flourish and experience challenges and success.
Has your definition of success changed as you’ve developed your career?
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Don Howe and Helen Wallace were friends in high school and reconnected at a class reunion in 2024. She is wearing his 1958 U.S. Grant class ring.
By Rose Lane Editor
In 2024, Don Howe passed on open heart surgery so he could try to win Helen Wallace’s heart with an invitation to their high school reunion.
Both 1958 graduates of U.S. Grant High School, the pair had been very good friends in high school. But, they never dated.
Helen and Don attended the University of Oklahoma. She pursued a journalism degree and he became a chemical engineer.
They saw each other twice during their college years.
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Devon to maintain ‘significant’ presence in OKC
By Eric Oesch Staff Writer
Many were surprised last week when Devon Energy announced its merger with Houston-based Coterra Energy along with a forthcoming headquarter move to Houston. The combination creates a leading large-cap shale operator with a high-quality asset
Allied Arts launches $3.85 mil campaign
Allied Arts officially launched its 2026 fundraising campaign at the Oklahoma City Museum of Art with more than 200 supporters in attendance. Campaign cochairmen Susan Davis Jordan and Farooq Karim announced that more than $1 million has been raised toward the $3.85 million campaign goal.
The Allied Arts annual campaign supports more than 40
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base anchored by a premier position in the economic core of the Delaware Basin.
The combined company is to be named Devon Energy with headquarters based in Houston. Devon officials say they plan to maintain a “significant” presence in Oklahoma City. The new company is expected to unlock substantial value by leveraging each
FRIDAY’s Dog of the Week
Mango is Jeff and Shannon Lockwood’s four-year-old golden doodle.
Her favorite hobbies are trying to sneak her plush toys outside and sharing peanuts with Jeff.
She is a very good girl!
Email Pet of the Week submissions to rose@okcfriday. com.
company’s core strengths and through the realization of $1 billion in annual pre-tax synergies.
The transaction, unanimously approved by the board of directors of both companies, is expected to close in the second quarter of 2026, subject to regulatory approvals and customary
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closing conditions, including approvals by Devon and Coterra shareholders.
Steven Agee, Ph.D., dean emeritus and professor of economics in the Meinders School of Business at Oklahoma City University, said the merger of Devon Energy with Coterra Energy is perfectly in keeping with Devon’s strategic model and history of mergers and acquisitions.
Agee, who was dean of the Meinders School of Business 2010-2021 currently teaches a graduate course in Leadership & Management in the Energy Industry at OCU. He has invited many of the CEOs of top energy companies in Oklahoma City to speak to his students, including Larry Nichols, John Richels and Dave Hager from Devon.
Agee was not surprised with the recent merger announcement saying, “Devon has a track record of mergers and acquisitions over the past 30-plus years. It is part of Devon’s strategic model to grow the company and provide greater value to its shareholders.”
He lists eight mergers and acquisitions Devon has made in the past 34 years including: 1992 Hondo Oil & Gas $122 million; 1996 Kerr-McGee North American, assets $250 million; 1998
Northstar Energy, $1.3 billion (Canadian); 2000 Santa Fe Snyder Corporation, $3.35 billion; 2001 Anderson Exploration, $4.6 billion; 2002 Mitchell Energy, $3.5 billion; 2003 Ocean Energy, $5.3 billion; and 2006 properties from Chief Oil & Gas ,$2.2 billion.
He said the merger of Devon Energy with Coterra Energy will increase shareholder value.
“This is the merger of two large oil and gas exploration and production companies, each with a market capitalization of over $20 billion,” said Agee. “It is estimated the combined company will have a market cap of around $58 billion. It creates synergies between Devon and Coterra, which should enhance shareholder value, and is an important aspect for the two companies’ management teams as they move forward.”
Agee said it is difficult to predict the economic impact the merger will have upon Oklahoma City, but assuming there are no large scale, material changes in employment by Devon in Oklahoma City, the Oklahoma City and State of Oklahoma economies are large enough and diversified enough to absorb this transaction.
“In the 1980s, the oil and gas industry provided about 29 percent of the tax revenue to the State of Oklahoma from gross production taxes,” he said. “Today, that number has been reduced to 12-13 percent due to diversification of industries paying into the state.
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Absolutely. My definition of success is how I can help others lead to their fullest potential. What is a perfect day for you?
Spending time with my husband. What is some of the best advice you’ve received in your life?
Never give up. What is No. 1 item on your
“The healthcare industry and aerospace industries have grown materially and the agricultural industry in Oklahoma is still quite large,” he added. “Due to this diversification in the tax base, this merger should not have a major impact on the Oklahoma economy.”
Agee said, “Based upon initial reports, it appears Devon will move their management team, which could consist of 15 to 50 top executives to Houston, but leave all the other existing Devon employees in Oklahoma City. If this turns out to be the case, then the impact on Oklahoma City should not be too material.
“Generally, in any merger of this size, there is usually some consolidation, particularly in the employment component of the newly merged companies,” he added. “They may not need two sets of geologists, engineers, or land department employees for the same oil and gas fields in which the two companies operate. So, there will be synergies in combining the two companies by reducing duplication of labor service.”
Larry Nichols, who with his late father John, founded Devon Energy in 1971, retired as executive chairman and from the company’s board in 2016. During his leadership of Devon, Nichols grew the company into one of the America’s lar-gest independent petroleum companies.
Clay Gaspar, Devon’s president and CEO, is optimistic about the future.
“This transfor-
bucket list?
Seeing the pyramids of Egypt with my own eyes.
Oklahoma has had an amazing sports history, which has featured a lineup of individuals such as Mickey Mantle, Shannon Miller, Jim Thorpe, Patty Gasso, etc. Did you have any sports heroes growing up?
Not really sports heroes in the traditional sense, but I always admired the athletes in the OKC
mative merger combines two companies with proud histories and cultures of operational excellence, creating a premier shale operator,” said Gaspar. “We’ve now built a diverse asset base of high-quality, long duration inventory to drive resilient value creation and returns for shareholders through cycles.
“Underpinned by our leading position in the best part of the Delaware Basin, and a deep set of complementary assets, we expect to capture annual pre-tax synergies of $1 billion,” he added. “This will drive higher free cash flow, and greater shareholder returns beyond what either company could achieve alone.”
The 50-story Devon Tower that dominates the Oklahoma City skyline, is currently home to approximately 1,000 Devon employees.
Expand Energy Corporation also announced plans to relocate its corporate headquarters from Oklahoma City to Houston, Texas, in mid-2026.
The relocation, which primarily focuses on the executive leadership team, is to strengthen Expand Energy’s relationships with key industry and commercial partners in support of the Company’s long-term growth objectives.
Company officials said Oklahoma City remains an important center of excellence for Expand Energy’s business and operations, and the company remains committed to supporting its Oklahoma City employees and the local community.
Ballet. How would you like to be remembered?
As an enthusiastic and caring person who was passionate about life.
What is one question I haven’t asked you that you would like to answer?
Watch out for Girl Scouts Western Oklahoma as we embark on a fascinating new journey to engage with more volunteers and members than ever before.
The 50-story Devon Tower rises above the downtown Oklahoma City skyline. When top Devon executives relocate to Houston, many wonder what will happen to the vacant space.
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local arts nonprofits which provide worldclass programming in OKC’s backyard while also expanding access to the arts for rural and underserved Oklahomans. Allied Arts funding reaches more than one million people each year including youth, families, veterans and people living with disabilities through in-school teaching artists, touring productions, and healing music, visual art and dance programs.
“Allied Arts has been strengthening central Oklahoma’s cultural landscape for 55 years, and this anniversary gives us a meaningful opportunity to build on that legacy,” said Jordan. “Expand Energy is helping us leverage that impact with a $55,000 match challenge during Allied Arts Month this February. We are hoping to inspire 10 new donors to join us with a $5,500 gift, which would allow us to unlock the full match and generate additional support to arts organizations that transform lives across our community.”
Throughout the event, guests enjoyed performances by Oklahoma Youth Orchestras, Oklahoma Opry and Perpetual Motion Dance, organizations supported by Allied Arts. During the program, Jordan and Karim premiered the 2026 campaign video, which is to be featured at local businesses participating in the Allied Arts employee giving
Cearley, Allied Arts president and CEO, and Aimee Harlow, board chairmen, interact with the audience at the campaign kick off. The two are wearing green in honor of the 55 — Emerald — anniversary of the campaign.
program. Workplace giving is a critical part of the annual effort, generating nearly one-quarter of all funds raised.
Joining Jordan and Karim as part of this year’s campaign leadership, Allied Arts are recognizing Leslie and Cliff Hudson as honorary chairmen, celebrating their long-standing service and leadership in public health, education and the arts.
“As both an architect and a practicing artist, I see every day how the arts enhance our communities — sparking imagination, building connection and helping people of all ages see new possibilities for themselves,” said Karim. “I have been fortunate to work with many of our local arts organizations, and I have seen the impact they have when the community invests in them. The Allied Arts campaign is a chance to come together and ensure that the arts remain accessible, vibrant and transformative for all of us.”
About Allied Arts:
As a United Arts Fund, Allied Arts works to broaden support for the arts by raising financial support for cultural organizations, encouraging participation and attendance, advocating for arts education, and promoting excellence in the arts and arts management. Since its founding in 1971, the organization has raised $100 million to advance the arts in central Oklahoma. Allied Arts has more than 40 nonprofit cultural organizations under its umbrella.
Clarence Long III, Allied Arts 2026 step up artist, Susan Davis Jordan and Farooq Karim, 2026 campaign cochairmen. At right: Leslie and Cliff
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Hudson, Allied Arts 2026 honorary chairmen.
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Mark Funke and Lori and Dodge Hill attend the campaign event.
Sports Weekly
Boys Basketball Roundup
Chargers top Cyclones in thriller
By Jason Jewell Sports Editor
Trailing by nine points late in the third quarter, Heritage Hall guard Xzavier Mbroh caught fire with six of the next 10 points as the Chargers forced a 49-49 tie at the end of the period.
Heritage Hall rode the momentum over the final eight minutes to an eventual 66-61 victory over rival Casady last Friday night at Boghi-
tech Gymnasium.
“We’ve been a good late third quarter and fourth quarter team this year,” said Chargers coach Dylan Sullivan after the game. “We were able to play at a different level (in the second half).”
Braelon Bradshaw paced the Class 3A No. 3 Chargers (163) with 22 points and Mbroh added 21 points, including 14 in the second half.
“Xzavier is one of the best guards in the
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state,” Sullivan said. “Whenever he gets going downhill, he’s very hard to guard.”
Timothy Young contributed 12 points and was 3-of4 from the free throw line in the final two minutes of regulation.
Casady also boasted three players in double figures, led by Sam Edwards with 15 points. Kuba Malecki scored 14 points and James Elder collected a double-double with 11 points and 12 rebounds.
The Cyclones (613) have played one of the toughest schedules in 3A, including eight games against ranked teams in the new calendar year.
“We’ve been underdogs in just about every game but our guy have taken our opponents to the wire,” said Casady coach Cade Davis. “Our guys never quit and we have faith in them.”
Earlier in the week, Heritage Hall endured a 92-54 loss to 3A No. 1 Mill-
wood. Austin King led the way with 11 points and Denton Suthers added nine points.
Casady, however, escaped with a 7270 victory at then2A No. 2 Oklahoma Christian Academy in Edmond.
Malecki and Beckham Kerr posted double-doubles for the Cyclones, as Malecki had 19 points and 10 rebounds and Kerr added 17 points and 10 rebounds.
Both Heritage Hall and Casady end the regular season this week, as the Chargers host McGuinness this Friday and the Cyclones visited the Irish last Wednesday.
Knights run over Glencoe
Keyed by three players in double figures, Crossings Christian cruised to an 80-52 victory over Glencoe last Friday night.
Slade Black scored 24 points for the 4A No. 3 Knights (16-6). Beckett Buckingham finished
with 19 points and Rylen Sikes chipped in 11 points. Crossings also posted a dominating 64-48 win over 3A No. 5 Crooked Oak on Tuesday. Braden Buckingham led the way with 19 points, while Sikes collected 16 points and Bo Barber contributed 11 points. The Knights visited 2A No. 6 OCA
last Thursday to end the season.
Antlers get past U.S. Grant
Clinging to a slim lead in the final minute, Deer Creek knocked away a lastseason shot to claim a 72-71 triumph over U.S. Grant last Friday night. Story continued at OKCFRIDAY.com.
Irish to induct five in HOF
Five McGuinness alumni are to be inducted in the school’s Athletic Hall of Fame this week.
The ceremony takes place in McCarthy Gymnasium on Friday between the girls and boys varsity basketball games against Heritage Hall. The girls game tips off at 6 p.m. Darren Tawwater (1990) was a dominant, power-hitting catcher at Bishop McGuinness. During his junior season, he hit .435 with 18 home runs and 76 RBIs. His home run total led Class 3A, and he was named the Little All City Player of the Year and All State by The Oklahoman Tawwater went on to play at Texas Christian University, where he led the Southwest Conference in home runs and was named All-Conference and AllAmerican in 1994.
Lynn “Junior” Amous (1999), a four-year starter, helped lead
the Irish to basketball titles his junior and senior seasons, 1998 and 1999. He was named to The Oklahoman’s All-State team each year, averaging 16.1 points as a junior and 13.9 as a senior. Amous was part of state championship track teams as a sophomore and junior, helping the 1600m relay team set a school record his junior year with a time of 3:22.00. Amous went on to play college basketball at the University of Hartford. Blake Slavonic (2000) played four sports at McGuinness where he was part of five state championship teams and won two individual state titles. He won the Class 3A state championship in the high jump his junior and senior years, setting a school record of 6 feet, 8 inches as a senior. Story tontinued at OKCFRIDAY.com.
Heritage Hall guard Xzavier Mbroh erupted for 14 of his 21 points in the second half, as the Chargers held off Casady for a 66-61 win.
Casady’s Kate Naifeh nailed two free throws with 14 seconds left to complete the Cyclones’ 39-35 comeback victory at Heritage Hall last Friday night.
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Cyclones rally past Chargers
By Jason Jewell Sports Editor
Rallying from a 9-point deficit over the final quarter, the Casady girls basketball team upset archrival Heritage Hall in a 3936 victory last Friday night at Boghitech Gymnasium.
Kate Naifeh accounted for six points in the fourth quarter, including two free throws with 14 seconds left to seal the win, and Brooklyn Wells opened the period with a basket and hit two free throws to give the Cyclones a 37-36 lead.
“We have a lot of high character girls that have been here before,” said Casady coach Aaron Young after the game. “They were committed to doing their job and nothing else.
“It’s always fun to play at Heritage Hall,” the coach continued. “They have a great program with great athletes.
Naifeh finished with a gamehigh 20 points and Wells countered with 12 points for the
Wrestling Roundup
Girls set for regionals this weekend
Athletes from four different Fridayland wrestling teams compete this weekend at regional tournaments.
Deer Creek, PC North, John Marshall and McGuinness take part in the Class 6A West re-
Cyclones (6-13).
Meanwhile, Heritage Hall led by as many as 13 points through the first three quarters and finished the third period with an 11-point advantage.
Addie Venables paced the Chargers (9-10) with 11 points, and Laney Venables chipped in seven points.
Casady, which also opened the week with a 53-30 win at Oklahoma Christian Academy, but Heritage Hall lost 60-24 to Class 3A No. 7 Millwood.
The Chargers visit Fridayland rival McGuinness this Friday, following the Cyclones’ road trip to the Irish last Wednesday.
Newcastle runs over Irish
Falling behind early, McGuinness suffered a 74-44 loss at Newcastle last Friday night.
Kashlynn Cooper scored a team-best 20 points and AceLyn Tucker added 14 points for the Irish (15-5).
Story continued at OKCFRIDAY.com
gional at Shawnee.
First- and secondround matches start at 5 p.m, Friday, with semifinal and championship round bouts kicking off at 11 a.m.
Eight boys teams are slated to participate Feb. 20-21 at regional tournaments.
Deer Creek and PC North compete in 6A East at Broken Arrow, while McGuinness and John
Irish boys swim to 2nd, Cyclones 3rd at regionals
With a combined five individual event champions and a pair of relay titles, the McGuinness boys swimming team finished second and Casady took third last weekend in the Class 5A West regionals at Edmond Schools Aquatic Center.
The Irish girls also claimed third and the Cyclone girls were fourth.
Camryn Kanaly and John Nguyen paced McGuinness with two gold medals each.
Kanaly captured the 100-yard backstroke by just under a quarter-second in 1:02.22 and the 200 individual medley by nearly 10 seconds in 2:18.65.
Nguyen outdueled Mount St. Mary’s William Wenelken for the 200 freestyle title in 1:58.34 and Wendelken posted 1:59.29 for second place. He also won the 100 breaststroke by two seconds in 1:09.16.
Brady Mitchell also added a gold medal in the 500 freestyle in 5:05.71. Fridayland rivals
Marshall are in 5A West at Noble.
Mount St. Mary has been assigned to the 4A West tournament at Tuttle. Casady, Crossings Christian and Heritage Hall take part in the 3A West regional at Watonga. Both boys and girls state tournaments are slated for Feb. 26-28 in the new OG&E Coliseum at the state fairgrounds.
Adam Dernaika from Heritage Hall (5:11.66) finished second and Wendelken took third in the event. Mitchell also took second in the 200 individual medley for the Irish.
Casady’s Thomas Gillenwater swept the sprints, with a gold medal in the 50 freestyle in 22.07 seconds and the 100 freestyle in 51.57 seconds.
Caroline Olszewski claimed the 100 freestyle gold medal in 58.17 seconds and second to Crossings Christian’s Jasper Jernigan in the 50 freestyle in 26.51 seconds.
Jernigan touched the wall just under a second ahead of Olszewski for the 50 freestyle title in 25.44 seconds and grabbed a title in the 100 butterfly in 1:01.50.
Harding Charter Prep’s Brooklyn Berringer collected a pair of gold medals in the distance events. Berringer posted a nearly halfsecond victory in the 200 freestyle in
Panthers fall to Enid in final dual
Despite garnering wins in seven matches, PC North suffered a slim 4036 loss to Enid in the final dual of the regular season. Three Panthers received forfeits in the smallest weight classes, including Mason Pritchett at 106 pounds, Jacob Garner at 113 pounds
2:02.87 and a 30second win over Heritage Hall’s Coraline Harrison in the 500 freestyle in 5:42.25.
In addition, the McGuinness girls claimed a gold medal in the 400 freestyle relay and second in the 200 medley relay.
The Casady boys captured the 200 freestyle relay title.
The Cyclones and Irish finished second and third, respectively, in both 200 medley and 400 freestyle relays.
Antler girls take 2nd in 6A regional
Backed by four individual gold medalists, the Deer Creek girls placed second and the boys took fourth at the 6A West regional last weekend at Edmond Aquatic Center.
Ashlyn Bucy continued her dominance of the 100-yard backstroke with a 3-second win in 59.03 seconds and added a runnerup finish in the 100 butterfly in 1:00.99. Story continued at OKCFRIDAY.com.
and Jaaziel Benman at 120 pounds. Jaaziah Benman pinned Jerry Venable at 132 pounds, as did Ruben Horn against Isaiah Gonzalez in the 165-pound class.
Meanwhile, Joshua Jones won a 9-8 decision over Deamonte Rutledge at 157 pounds and Carter Pierce claimed a 6-3 victory over Garrett Froese at 175 pounds.
FUNDRAISERS
March 12 • Shine a Light
Join Sunbeam Family Services in lighting the way for Oklahomans at the 12th annual Shine a Light event, chaired by Jenny and Lincoln McElroy. Enjoy dinner, drinks, and inspiring stories of hope on Thursday, March 12, 2026, at the National Cowboy & Western Heritage Museum. The reception begins at 6 pm with dinner to follow at 7 pm. Visit sunbeamfamilyservices.org for information.
March 26 • OKC Beautiful Awards
Join us for a celebration of those helping create a more beautiful and sustainable Oklahoma City at the 41st Annual Distinguished Service Awards Luncheon. Oklahoma City Convention Center from 11:30 am to 1 pm. Contact Natalie Evans at natalie@okcbeautiful.com, call 4055258822 or visit okcbeautiful.com for tickets.
April 10 • Ladies in the News
The 58th annual Oklahoma Hospitality Club’s fundraising event is at Oklahoma City Golf & Country Club. For over 50 years, OHC has honored Oklahoma women during this annual luncheon and
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10Best Readers’ Choice Poll
Now through March 18, the Oklahoma City Zoo and Botanical Garden is encouraging fans to vote in three USA Today 10Best Readers’ Choice polls to distinguish the Zoo, its habitats, and programs as the best of the best in the nation! The OKC Zoo is tapped for three honors from USA Today’s 10Best website: Best Zoo, Best Zoo Exhibit for Expedition Africa, and Best Zoo Membership for ZOOfriends. Fans are allowed to vote once per day in all three categories at 10best.usatoday.com/awards/oklahoma city zo o oklahomacityoklahoma/.
style show event. Honorees are recognized for their contributions to their professions and to their communities. The funds raised from this event help support Oklahoma nonprofit charitable and/ or service organizations. Visit oklahomahospitalityclub.com for tickets.
April 10 • Bubbles & Blooms
Don’t miss the OKC Museum of Art’s floral cocktail party, Bubbles & Blooms, featuring flowerthemed cocktails by WanderFolk Spirits, light bites, live entertainment, access to the Art in Bloom galleries, and skyline views on our Roof Terrace. Event is from 7 –10 pm for ages 21+. Visit okcmoa.com for details.
April 10 • Heart Ball
American Heart Association’s Heart Ball campaign unites supporters with a shared
purpose to raise critical funds needed to ensure its work continues. Heart Ball fundraiser is at the First Americans Museum from 6 – 10 pm. Register for the event at heart.org/en/affiliates/Oklahoma.
April 11 • Ballet Ball
A StarCrossed Masquerade is at the Oklahoma City Convention Center from 6:30 –11:30 pm. Chairpersons are Hannah Hud
son and Jake Yunker. Visit okcballet.org for information and tickets.
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Friday, Feb. 20 • Brooklyn Nets 7:00 pm Sunday, Feb. 22 • Cleveland Cavaliers 12:00 pm Friday, Feb. 27 • Denver Nuggets 8:30 pm
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The Oklahoma City Story
The United States Conference of Mayors held their 94th winter meeting this past month in Washington, D.C. Our esteemed Mayor David Holt led the proceedings as the current President of USCM.
The USCM is the official nonpartisan organization of cities with 30,000 people or more. According to their website, there are 1,400 of these cities. Each city is represented by their mayor.
As an organization, the USCM tackles all the issues that cities face, including housing, transportation, homelessness, mental health and security. But they also focus on ways to bring the community together.
One of the most popular sessions was on America’s 250th Birthday. The congressionally delegated committee, which has been working for more than a decade, rolled out plans to inspire, engage, and build community with activities in every city. Philadelphia will host the official birthday on July 4th, but the celebration will continue across the country all summer long. It is going to be awesome.
I was at the USCM conference to film the session about the Mayors Game Changer Program called Transforming Cities in Sports and Entertainment. The are more than 30 new professional sports leagues that are looking for cities to host teams, from hockey to women’s baseball. The Mayors Game Changer Program was created to match mayors that want to recruit sports to their cities with experts in sports management and community developers that can help ensure that the addition of a sports team elevates the entire city long term.
Not surprisingly, Oklahoma City is the poster child for positive change through sports. And,
not just our championship winning Oklahoma City Thunder. The presentation that day was about how the addition of rowing and water sports in Oklahoma City transformed a dry ditch into an official water sports venue for the 2028 Olympics.
Mayor Holt gave an awesome intro into the state of Oklahoma City when Ray Ackerman and Mayor Ron Norick helped turn the city’s focus to the river. He then introduced Riversport Founder and Oklahoma Rowing Guru Mike Knopp, the man with the vision to turn the river into a sports venue. Mike offered the room full of mayors a brief history of dry rivers, rowing demonstrations, OCU Rowing, boathouses, regattas, and the wonderful community members like Aubrey McClendon who got involved to help make it all happen.
Arshay Cooper, rower and best-selling author, then offered an outside perspective on how Oklahoma has transformed the rowing world. He talked about his experience as a member of the first all-black, high school rowing team. He then told how coming to Oklahoma City allowed him to see diversity in action, how boathouses could serve the entire community.
As soon as the session ended, mayors from across the city raced up to get more details, to set up calls, to figure out how to make their city a little more like Oklahoma City. It was the most inspiring thing in the world to witness. I am so grateful we have an amazing mayor like David Holt out there, constantly sharing and amplifying the inspiring story of Oklahoma City. And, I am grateful for visionaries like Mike Knopp who continue to expand the idea of what Oklahoma City is capable of in the future of sports and culture. Stay tuned.
The Salvation Army announces 2026 Celebration of Hope Gala
The Salvation Army of Central Oklahoma is pleased to announce its annual Celebration of Hope Gala, set for Thursday, May 7, 2026, at the National Cowboy & Western Heritage Museum in Oklahoma City. This meaningful evening will celebrate 136 years of dedicated service and life-changing impact across Central Oklahoma.
This year’s Gala will feature Kirk B.R. Woller, widely known for his role as Gaius, the Roman Guard on the hit series The Chosen. Woller is
recognized for his compassionate storytelling and dynamic screen presence, and he will share an inspiring message of hope, transformation, and community. The program will also include moving testimonials from individuals whose lives have been positively impacted through The Salvation Army’s services.
are now available at CelebrationofHopeOKC.com Select sponsorship levels include exclusive meet-and-greet access with Kirk B.R. Woller.
VIP sponsorships and individual ticket reservations
Proceeds from the Gala support essential programs such as emergency shelter, youth services, addiction recovery, and community outreach.
“The Celebration of Hope Gala allows us to honor the resilience of our neighbors and the supporters who make our work possible,”
said Major Paul Ryerson, Area Commander of The Salvation Army of Central Oklahoma.
“We are excited to welcome Kirk B.R. Woller as our featured speaker and invite the community to join us as we continue meeting needs and bringing hope throughout Central Oklahoma.”
For additional information or questions about sponsorship opportunities, please contact Amanda Ross, Special Events Manager, at 405-2461109 or Amanda.Ross@uss.sal vationarmy.org
From left: Dean Melanie Shelley, OCU Ann Lacy School of American Dance and Arts Management; Kevin Windholz, OCU Vice President for Enrollment Management; Jo
John Bedford, OCU Dance Professor Tiffany van der Merwe and OCU Dance Professor Jessica Fay. Bedford’s citation read as follows: John Bedford’s involvement in the arts in Oklahoma dates back more than four decades. Bringing experience from his arts management background, Bedford’s service in volunteer and advisory capacities have benefited the Oklahoma Arts Institute at Quartz Mountain, Assembly of Community Arts Councils of Oklahoma, Lyric Theatre of Oklahoma, and Norman Arts Council. In Norman, Bedford aided efforts to have a portion of guest room taxes invested in the arts. With maestro Joel Levine, he contributed as a former orchestra manager to the vision of what would become the Oklahoma City Philharmonic. At Oklahoma City University (OCU), Bedford was the architect of America’s first dance management degree program. With the vision of making Oklahoma a top producer of dance, performing arts, and entertainment talent, Bedford established OCU’s nationally revered programs in entertainment business and arts management – graduates have attained employment at the highest levels in the industry. Bedford helped advance technical theatrical production in central Oklahoma over 30 years. A result of Bedford’s vision, OCU recently opened a dance video studio in his name to support dancers, choreographers and lighting and sound designers, and to allow the creation of dance reels needed by artists seeking professional employment.
Our leaders receive Governor’s Arts Awards
Glenna and Richard Tanenbaum and John Bedford were honored with Governor’s Arts Awards.
The Tanenbaums received the Governor’s Award and Beford was a Community Service Award Honoree.
Since 1975, the Governor's Arts Awards has recognized hundreds of individuals and organizations who have gone above and beyond to impact the arts in communities and schools.
committee comprised of members of the Governorappointed Oklahoma Arts Council board.
The awards are presented every two years by the governor of Oklahoma during a special ceremony at the Oklahoma State Capitol.
Nominations are accepted during a published nominations period. Awards are determined by a selection
Oklahoma Lieutenant Governor Matt Pinnell joined the Oklahoma Arts Council at the Oklahoma State Capitol to recognize 21 individuals and organizations for their outstanding efforts in the arts.
Longtime patrons of the arts, Glenna and Richard Tanenbaum were presented the Governors Award during the annual Governors Arts Award. They were honored for helping to strengthen the Oklahoma City arts community over many years, donating to and volunteering with prominent groups, including the Oklahoma City Philharmonic, Oklahoma Contemporary Arts Center, Oklahoma City Museum of Art, Oklahoma City Ballet, Allied Arts and Oklahoma City Repertory Theater and serving in key roles, such as on the board of the Oklahoma Contemporary Arts Center.
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Legal Notices & Classifieds
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In the District Court within and for said County and State. State of Oklahoma, } } ss. Oklahoma County }
Corey Elizabeth Cason, Plaintiff vs. Richard Patrick Cason Sr., Defendant
The State of Oklahoma to the said Defendant, Greeting: You, the said defendant, will take notice that you have been sued in the above named Court in the above named and numbered cause for a divorce on the grounds of incompatibility and you must answer Plaintiff’s petition filed herein on or before the 18 day of March 2026, or said petition will be taken as true and judgment for said Plaintiff will be rendered against you according to prayer of Plaintiff’s petition.
RICK WARREN, Court Clerk
/s/Bill Young, Deputy Clerk (SEAL)
(Published in OKC Friday, Friday, February 6, 2026; Friday, February 13, 2026)
IN THE DISTRICT COURT OF OKLAHOMA COUNTY STATE OF OKLAHOMA PB-2025-195
IN THE MATTER OF THE ) ESTATE OF )
GARY S. CHAPMAN, )
NOTICE FOR HEARING PETITION FOR FINAL DECREE AND DISTRIBUTION
Notice is hereby given that a hearing on the Petition for Final Decree and Distribution of the above Estate will be heard on the 25 day of February, 2026,
before Judge Martha Oakes at 2:00 o’clock p.m., in Courtroom No. 217 in the County Courthouse at Oklahoma City and all persons interested in said Estate are notified then and there to appear and show cause, if any they have, why said account should not be settled and allowed, and said Estate distributed. Dated this 29 day of January, 2026.
MARTHA OAKES
JUDGE OF THE DISTRICT COURT (SEAL)
RICK WARREN, Court Clerk By /s/Misty Zaragoza Deputy
Mark D. Mitchell PC OBA#6274 512 NW 12th St. Oklahoma City, OK 73103 (405) 232-6357 phone mmitchell@okcmidtownlaw.com Attorney for Co-Personal Representatives
(Published in OKC Friday, Friday, February 13, 2026)
DISTRICT COURT OF OKLAHOMA COUNTY STATE OF OKLAHOMA CV-2026-300
In Re: The Name of: ) Braden Whitmarsh )
NOTICE OF HEARING ON PETITION TO CHANGE NAME
TO: All interested parties. Take notice that Braden Shea Whitmarsh has petitioned to change his/her name to Bea Marie-Jeanne Whitmarsh.
A Hearing on said petition is set for 1:30 o’clock P.M. on the 4 day of March, 2026, before Judge Mai at 1:30 o’clock in courtroom 709 at the Oklahoma County Courthouse. Should you know of some reason why this change of name should not be allowed you must file a written protest in the above styled and numbered cause prior to the above date with the Clerk of this Court. Should you fail to do so, the petition for change of name will be granted as prayed.
RICK WARREN, Court Clerk By /s/J. Pulley Deputy (SEAL)
(Published in OKC Friday, Friday, February 13, 2026)
IN THE DISTRICT COURT OF OKLAHOMA COUNTY STATE OF OKLAHOMA FA-2025-350
IN RE THE ADOPTION OF: )
JENICA MELISSA MAE MEHTALA, & )
NIKITA ANJA MEHTALA, ) Minor Children. ) NOTICE
STATE OF OKLAHOMA, TO: The biological father, Michael Thomas Tata Mehtala
YOU ARE HEREBY NOTIFIED that you have been sued and that Petitioners have filed their Petition for Adoption, which is incorporated by reference and available for review in the offices of the Oklahoma County Court Clerk, in the District Court of Oklahoma County, State of Oklahoma, for the adoption of J.M., born January, 2011, and N.M., born September, 2012, in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, of whom you are the biological father.
YOU ARE NOTIFIED that the grounds for which application for adoption without consent or relinquishment or termination of parental rights is sought is that Michael Thomas Tata Mehtala has failed to establish and/or maintain a substantial and positive relationship with a minor children for a period of twelve (12) consecutive months out of the last fourteen (14) months immediately preceding the filing of a petition for adoption of the children, that Michael Thomas Tata Mehtala has willfully failed, refused, or neglected, for a period of twelve (12) consecutive months out of the last fourteen (14) months immediately preceding the filing of a petition for adoption to contribute to the support of said minor children in substantial compliance with an order entered by a court of competent jurisdiction adjudicating the duty, amount, and manner of support.
YOU ARE NOTIFIED that this Court will hear the evidence in support of and in opposition to the granting of the Application for Adoption Without Consent of the biological father on the 20 day of March, 2026, at 9:00 o’clock A.M. in the courtroom of the Honorable Judge Aguilar of the District Court of Oklahoma County, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma.
YOU ARE FURTHER NOTIFIED that you have the right to intervene in the proceeding and present evidence that the Adoption of your minor children is not in the children’s best interest; that if unable to afford counsel, counsel will be appointed to represent you. Failure to appear at the hearing shall constitute a denial of interest in the children, which denial may result, without further notice of this proceeding or any subsequent proceeding, in the granting of the application for adoption without consent or permanent relinquishment or in the termination of your parental rights and in the children’s adoption.
If you have any cause to show why the above-mentioned Petition should not be granted by the Court or why said adoption should not be granted, you should appear and present the same at the abovestated time and place. You are hereby apprised that you have legal rights including, but not limited to, the right to appear and contest the Petition of Adoption and the Application for Adoption without your consent.
/s/ Courtney White Deputy Court Clerk (SEAL)
APPROVED AS TO FORM BY:
/s/ Lillian Doyle OBA# 35100 6307 Waterford Blvd. Ste 125 Oklahoma City, OK 73118 phone (405) 534-5971 Counsel for Petitioners
Laughter, curiosity, and unforgettable musical moments await families at the Oklahoma City Philharmonic’s beloved Discovery Series, a set of three uniquely delightful concerts created especially for young audiences and the grown-ups who love them. Led by energetic and engaging conductor Peter Markes, these concerts transform the concert hall into a welcoming, playful space where music sparks imagination and joy.
Designed for children ages 4 to 13 and their
families, the Discovery Series blends live orchestral music with interactive learning. Families are encouraged to arrive early for pre-concert lobby activities, including the popular Instrument Playground, where kids can touch, see, and explore real instruments before hearing them performed onstage.
“Love, joy, fear, and even anger – all feelings belong, and what better way to discover them than through music! I look forward to safely exploring many emotions with our kids and their
CITY OF NICHOLS HILLS
(Published in OKC Friday, Friday, February 13, 2026)
NOTICE OF PUBLIC HEARING CASE NO. BOA 2026-02
NOTICE IS HEREBY GIVEN that an application has been filed seeking a variance from the Nichols Hills City Code on the following described property:
Lot Three (3), in Block Sixty-four (64), of Waverly Section, Nichols Hills, Oklahoma County, Oklahoma, according to the recorded plat thereof.
The property is also known as 1604 Drakestone Avenue. Current zoning is R-1-75.
The applicant desires to construct an addition to the main structure. For the proposed construction, the applicant is seeking a 7’ rear yard setback, leaving an 18’ rear yard setback. The applicant is also seeking a 1’8’’ east side yard setback, leaving an 8’8’’ east side yard setback.
A PUBLIC HEARING WILL BE HELD on said application by the Nichols Hills Board of Adjustment in the Council Chambers, City Hall 6407 Avondale Drive, Nichols Hills, Oklahoma 73116 on the 18th day of February, 2026 at 5:30 p.m.
ALL PERSONS, OWNERS, OR RESIDENTS within the above-de-
scribed area are hereby given notice that they may appear at said hearing or file a petition within the Board of Adjustment and offer arguments and evidence for or against the granting of said application as they deem proper in the premises.
Dated this 2nd day of February 2026.
Amanda Copeland City Clerk City of Nichols Hills, Oklahoma
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families through the amazing sounds of the OKCPHIL and other talented community performers,” said Conductor Peter Markes. This concert, Musical Moods: Feelings You Can Hear, invites audiences on an expressive journey through music that shows how melodies, rhythms, and harmonies can tell stories without words. Featuring a full orchestra, talented Oklahoma City University vocalists: Zoey Koehl and Maison Dolphin, students from Oklahoma Youth Philharmonic (OYP),
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dancers from Classen School of Advanced Studies: Sloane Ramirez and Bekham Rother, members of the Oklahoma City Ballet, and a special appearance by the Philharmonic’s favorite feathered friend, Phil the Penguin, this concert includes familiar selections from music that kids recognize and parents love.
Musical Moods: Feelings You Can Hear takes place at 2:00 pm on Sunday, Feb. 15, 2026, at the Civic Center Music Hall. Tickets are $11 and are on sale now at
NOTICE IS HEREBY GIVEN that an application has been filed seeking a variance from the Nichols Hills City Code on the following described property:
Lot Twenty-two (22) and the West 1.50 feet of Lot Twenty-three (23), in the TOWN OF NICHOLS HILLS, Oklahoma County, Oklahoma, according to the recorded plat thereof.
The property is also known as 1117 Glenwood Avenue. Current zoning is R-1-60.
The applicant desires to connect the main structure to a rear accessory structure (pool house). For the proposed construction, the applicant is seeking an 18’1’’ rear yard setback, leaving a 6’11’’ rear yard setback. The applicant is also seeking a 1’6’’ west side yard setback, leaving a 5’1’’ west side yard setback.
The applicant is also seeking a 5’8’’ variance from the rear yard setback, leaving a 4’4’’ rear yard setback for a landscape structure (pergola).
A PUBLIC HEARING WILL BE HELD on said application by the Nichols Hills Board of Adjustment in the Council Chambers, City Hall 6407 Avondale Drive, Nichols Hills, Oklahoma 73116 on the 18th day of February, 2026 at 5:30 p.m.
ALL PERSONS, OWNERS, OR RESIDENTS within the above-described area are hereby given notice that they may appear at said hearing or file a petition within the Board of Adjustment and offer arguments and evidence for or against the granting of said application as they deem proper in the premises.
Dated this 2nd day of February 2026.
Amanda Copeland City Clerk City of Nichols Hills, Oklahoma
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Moorman's Distinctive Carpets and Area Rugs 3835 NW 63rd St. Oklahoma City, OK 73116 (405) 848-4888 moormanscarpetsoklahoma city.com
Naifeh Fine Jewelry 6471 Avondale Dr,. Nichols Hills, OK 73116 (405) 607-4323 Naifehfinejewelry.com
Retirement Investment Advisors 2925 United Founders Blvd. Oklahoma City, OK 73112 (405) 842-3443 theretirementpath.com
Thrifty Pharmacy 10904 N. May Ave. L Oklahoma City, OK 73120 (405) 751-2852 230 S. Santa Fe Ave. Edmond OK 73003 thriftypharmacyedmond.com
BancFirst 6200 Waterford Blvd Oklahoma City, OK 73118 (405) 270-1622
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First National Bank of Oklahoma 10900 Hefner Pointe Dr., No. 300, Okla. City, OK 73120 (405) 848-2001 | fnbok.com
CK & Co. 6429 Avondale Dr. Oklahoma City, OK 73116 (405) 843-7636 ckandcompany.com
Quail Creek Bank 12201 N. May Ave. Oklahoma City, OK 73120 (405) 755-1000 quailcreek.bank
Covenant Brothers 5900 Mosteller Dr. No. 7 Oklahoma City, OK 73112 (405) 842-4671 covbros.com
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Quail Plaza Barber Shop 10940 N. May Ave. Oklahoma City, OK 73120 (495) 751-2126
All About Travel, Ltd. 6104 NW 63 St. Oklahoma City, OK 73132 (405) 384-3880 www.allabout-travel.com
Papa Dios 10712 N May, Suite D Oklahoma City, OK 73120 (405) 755-2255 papadiosokc.com
First Fidelity Bank 6404 Avondale, Oklahoma City, OK 73116 (405) 416-2222 Website: ffb.com
okcphil.org or by calling (405) 842-5387.
The Discovery Series is proudly sponsored by the E.L. and Thelma Gaylord Foundation.
Families are welcome to bring ear or hearing protection for children or adults who may be sensitive to sound.
For parents looking to share a meaningful, joyful experience with their children, the Oklahoma City Philharmonic’s Discovery Series offers a perfect introduction to the magic of live music— one that just might spark a lifelong love of the arts.
NOTICE OF PUBLIC HEARING
BUILDING COMMISSION – CITY OF NICHOLS HILLS, OKLAHOMA CERTIFICATE OF APPROVAL APPLICATION
Notice is hereby given that an Application for a Certificate of Approval from the Nichols Hills Building Commission has been filed by the following applicant as to the following project: Applicant: Jeff Blake BC-2026-02
Proposed project: Demolition and construction of a main dwelling Proposed project’s address or descriptive location: 1121 Hemstead Place
The Application and supporting documentation may be inspected in the office of the City Clerk during regular business hours. No later than the Friday preceding the hearing, the full application and supporting documents will be posted at www.nicholshills-ok.gov. This Application will be considered at a public hearing to be held by the Nichols Hills Building Commission on Wednesday, February 25, 2026, at 4:00 p.m. This public hearing will be held in the Council Chambers at Nichols Hills City Hall, 6407 Avondale Drive, Nichols Hills, Oklahoma, 73116.
Any person objecting to or supporting this Application may appear before the Nichols Hills Building Commission on the above public hearing date and show cause why the proposed Application should be approved or disapproved. Further, written support or protest regarding the Application may be filed with the City Clerk at 6407 Avondale Drive, Nichols Hills, Oklahoma, 73116, provided it is received by the City Clerk not less than three days before the public hearing.
Dated this 5th day of February 2026
Amanda Copeland, City Clerk City of Nichols Hills, Oklahoma
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The Adult Clinic at Hearts for Hearing 11500 N. Portland Ave. OKC, OK 73120 (405) 548-4335
Christian Science Reading Room 6490 Avondale Drive (Nichols Hills Plaza North) Nichols Hills, OK 73116 (405) 843-5334 christianscienceokc.org
Steam It Klean It LLC Carpet Cleaning PO Box 20232 Oklahoma City, OK 73156 (405) 602-4960 Steamitkleanit@gmail.com
Krista Anne’s Boutique 7602 N. May Ave. Oklahoma City, OK 73116 (405) 310-5500
Paul Seikel Pearls Oyster Bar 5641 N. Classen Blvd. Oklahoma City, OK 73118 (405) 848-8008 pearlsokc.com
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Navigating Medicare 2232 W. Hefner Road Suite A. Oklahoma City, OK 73120 (405) 842-0494 navigatingmedicare.com
First Liberty Bank 9601 N. May Ave. Oklahoma City, OK 73120 (405) 608-4500 myfirstliberty.com
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Leadership Notes
Using AI with intention can reshape workflows
By Christy Gillenwater President & CEO Greater OKC Chamber
We are living through the AI inflection point. Artificial intelligence (AI) is reshaping the way we live, learn and work. While questions loom, change is underway and we should view it as a signal to prepare and position ourselves for opportunity and increased productivity.
AI empowers people. When tools take on routine, repetitive tasks, we gain time and space to think strategically, lead, and innovate. Whether its predictive text helping with email, an algorithm handling scheduling or machine learning offering insights — we already use AI, often without realizing it.
At the same time, Microsoft’s Healthcare & Life Sciences Industry Leader Kathy VanEnkevort reminded us of three ways she uses AI: to surface what you can’t see, to automate what you detest doing and to support human-led judgment in complex work. She framed it as a shift away from “digital drudgery” and toward restoring joy in the workplace.
“We call it digital drudgery that is low cognitive load
and does not prioritize your IQ,” she said. “Those were the things where there was so much burnout. AI is going to bring back joy and happiness.”
Here in Oklahoma City, our strength has always come from our ability to adapt, collaborate and move forward together. Now is the time for businesses, education and community to embrace this moment. Use AI with intention. Ask how it can support your workflow and your team. Automate what can be automated so you can focus on what only humans can do: creating, connecting and building.
This transition will reshape workflows across sectors and roles over the next decade. Still, it will also open new pathways. New jobs will emerge. New ways of working will evolve. The key is that we lead the change rather than being caught off guard.
Together, in the OKC region, we’ve shown what’s pos sible: a community that welcomes growth, supports talent and builds toward its future. Let’s lean into this change. Let’s think ahead and ensure OKC is not only ready for the future but is also defining it.
We urge courtesy in disagreement. We view with favor wise public choices and view with alarm flawed public choices. We give good advice to public officials at federal, state and local levels, and society in general, on what to do right. So, if they don’t take our advice, it’s not our fault.
Dear Wise Elder: In the last two years, our brother has endured the death of a spouse, loss of a business, discovered he had diabetes and had a memory-challenging stroke. That’s a lot. Our close family took responsibility for everything — finances, his healthcare, his home and daily living care. Now he is recovering slowly, has passed a driving course and is beginning to gain independence. We want him to have as much independence as is wise. But we are both cautious and tired of carrying the load. The professionals only see a small window of capability at the monthly visit. Frankly, no one is connecting all the dots. How will we know when it is safe to
trust him completely?
Dear How to Know: Do your best and start with love. Spend two consecutive 24hour days with him and observe. Have a family conversation and include your brother. Together create a list of specific behaviors in each area of concern – personal care, financial, healthcare, property maintenance, etc. List outcomes that all agree would demonstrate competency for any responsible adult. Set reasonable expectations and timelines. Meet monthly to review, celebrate and move forward. Let the results dictate the next steps.
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Don ended up in Tulsa, working as a project manager and helping to build natural gas processing plants and refinery units.
Helen is a renowned writer and journalist, having penned a Sunday society column for The Oklahoman for more than 60 years.
They had both lost their spouses. As the class reunion approached in August, 2024, Don said, “God put it on my heart to call her.”
With a 90 percent blockage, Don said he had a choice to make — between going ahead with the heart surgery or taking Helen to the class reunion.
“I chose you,” Don told Helen.
“I thought he must be on the reunion committee (because he was calling),” Helen said. “I said, ‘I will meet you there, I don’t know any of those people.’”
Don would not have any part of that.
“I said, ‘I will pick you up and it will be a date,’” Don recalled. “When I showed up, she didn’t know what I was going to look like.
“I was glad she had all of her teeth.”
That was on Aug. 26, 2024. Six dates later, they married on Nov. 15, 2024, both 85-years-old.
“I told her that at our age, we didn’t have that much time,” he said. “We just wanted to be together.
“Whether is was one day or a year,” Helen sad. They settled into a life of laughter and fun.
“We have laughed until we cried,” Helen said. “We are major friends.
“We have had a lot of fun.”
They spread the joy they share everywhere they go, talking and laughing with people they meet waiting for doctors appointments or out to lunch. Helen said she thought it was unique that they each have two daughters and one son. Don continues to play golf and Helen meets with her friends for Mahjong. They only disagree on when it is time to eat. Don likes an early
Friends in high school, Don Howe and Helen Wallace reconnected at a U.S. Grant class reunion. They married six dates and less thanthree months later. Here, they look through old yearbooks.
breakfast and Helen’s preference is a 11 a.m. meal.
“We work it out,” Don said. Now 86-years-old, Helen and Don are always trying new things.
A recent outing was for shooting lessons. Next, it was to be banjo lessons.
“We are going to learn the banjo in an hour and then we are going on tour,” Don said.
“We don’t need any more courses, but it is something we do together,” Helen said.
With a positive outlook, Don called him and Helen “eternal optimists.”
“Every day is a blessing,” he said. “We enjoy the day we are in and look forward to the next day.”
HELEN FORD General Queen
DON HOWE Circa 1958
Chocolate Decadence a sweet event for Automobile Alley
Jenny and Chris Lee at the Automobile Alley Association’s 28th Annual Chocolate Decadence at Leadership Square. The evening celebrates chocolate, community and creativity, featuring sweet and savory chocolate-inspired dishes crafted by some of Oklahoma City’s premier restaurants from Automobile Alley and beyond.
Above: Allen and Lecye Lippoldt with Tim Rasmussen. Restaurants competed for the People’s Choice and Best of Show Sweet & Savory awards. Proceeds from Chocolate Decadence bene fit the Automobile Alley Association, with a significant portion supporting the iconic Holiday Light Display, which illuminates Automobile Alley from November through January.
At left: DowntownOKC Inc. President and CEO Jennifer Nakayama, right, and her husband Brian Bush. Above: Bethany Scott, Savannah White-Lewis and Meredith Scott-Kaliki. At right: Ron and Alyce Page.
- Photos by Rose Lane
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Montag is dean of OCU’s Wanda L. Bass School of Music
Oklahoma City University welcomes the next dean of the Wanda L. Bass School of Music and the School of Theatre with the selection of Julia Montag.
Montag previously served nearly 10 years as the director of the University of Missouri School of Music in Columbia, Missouri.
During that time, she managed the design, construction and opening of a 47,000-square-foot, $24 million music building, while also managing a team of more than 40 faculty members and overseeing education of 250 music majors at the undergraduate and graduate levels.
Oklahoma City University President Kenneth Evans said Montag’s leadership experience and extensive career in music education were key elements of her selection to lead OCU’s music and theatre programs.
“Julia’s experience working closely with students, faculty and university administrators extends for nearly three decades,” Evans said. “We are very pleased to welcome her to the OCU family and excited to see her build on our strong tradition in music and theatre education and performance.”
Montag earned a Doctor of Musical Art degree in performance from the University of Oklahoma; a Master of Music degree in performance and literature from the Eastman School of Music in Rochester, New York; and her bachelor’s degree
in music performance from the Lawrence Conservatory of Music in Appleton, Wisconsin.
She served as professor of percussion studies at the University of Missouri, a position she held from 1996 through 2014 and then resumed in 2023. In addition to her teaching experience, Montag is an accomplished performer and recording artist on the marimba; a conductor; and a published author, including three books on four-mallet marimba pedagogy.
She said she is honored to assume the leadership role for two of the nation’s preeminent performing arts institutions.
“I am thrilled and very much look forward to working with the talented students, faculty and staff within the School of Theatre and Bass School of Music,”
Montag said. “OCU’s reputation as one of the nation’s elite centers of performing arts preparation was a key point that attracted me to this position. I look forward to carrying this mantle forward and striving for new heights along the way.”
She took over leadership duties from W. Jerome Stevenson, who has served as interim dean of the music and theatre schools since July 1. Stevenson returned to his previous role as associate dean of the School of Theatre.
Evans said he is grateful for Stevenson’s contributions and for his continued role and service to students at the university.
OCU has been honored with 13 National Opera Association production awards, and selected multiple times for Playbill’s honor roll of top schools educating Broadway performers.
OMRF welcomes new board members
At its biannual meeting, the Oklahoma Medical Research Foundation’s Board of Directors welcomed four new members.
Joining the Board are: Anne Green-
wood, of Stillwater; Gay Kirby; of Nichols Hills; LaRue Stoller, of Nichols Hills; and Craig Willis, of Colorado Springs, Colo.
After ending a 30year corporate accounting career, Greenwood made philanthropy her vocation, with a focus on endowing scholarships and programs at Oklahoma State University. She is a member of the Oklahoma Hall of Fame.
Kirby is a former special education teacher who now serves as a community volunteer, with a special interest in civic, cultural, philanthropic and youth education organizations.
Stoller specialized in acquisitions and divestitures at State Bank and now is a director of Great Plains Bank. She currently owns a vineyard and winery in Oregon and is coowner and general partner of a largescale cattle ranch.
Willis is program manager of Chapman Foundations Management and became its trustee in January. He also has served as senior program officer of the Donald W. Reynolds Foundation.
The board also held a moment of silence to honor Distinguished Career Scientist Paul Kincade, Ph.D., who died in October at age 80. Kincade, a noted immunologist, spent more than three decades at the foundation, where he founded a research program and ultimately served as OMRF’s vice president of research.
Oklahoma Spine Hospital is now in a partnership with
SSM
Health.
SSM Health, OSH now in partnership
SSM Health and Oklahoma Spine Hospital (OSH) have entered into a joint venture partnership.
The agreement was effective Jan. 31 and the hospital continues to operate under its existing hospital license.
Under the terms of the joint venture, SSM Health in Oklahoma has acquired a majority ownership interest in Oklahoma Spine Hospital, LLC; the physicians of OSH retain the remaining ownership interest. Governance of the joint venture is to be shared by a management committee composed of equal representation from each owner.
“Partnering with SSM Health allows Oklahoma Spine Hospital to continue our commitment to delivering high-quality, patient centered care while also leveraging the operational strengths and resources of a large, integrated health system,” said Kevin Blaylock, CEO of Oklahoma Spine Hospital. “We have been impressed by SSM Health’s commitment to caring for Oklahomans
since 1898 as the first hospital in the Oklahoma Territory. They employ a forward-thinking approach to innovation and operational efficiency in ways that will benefit our patients.”
Joe Hodges, lead regional executive at SSM Health, and regional president at SSM Health Oklahoma, added, “We are excited for the opportunity to partner with the physicians at Oklahoma Spine Hospital. The hospital and physicians have an outstanding reputation for providing spine and pain care specialty services to patients in north Oklahoma City and beyond. OSH’s services and providers will further expand our Mission and complement the exceptional services and team of SSM Health physicians delivering neurosurgical, spine and pain care across Oklahoma.”
The employees in the joint venture remain employed by OSH and physicians continue to practice under the existing medical staff structure at Oklahoma Spine Hospital. The name of the hospital is changed to SSM Health Oklahoma Spine Hospital, Physician Owned.
JULIA MONTAG Dean
Wanda L. Bass School of Music and School of Theatre