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Red Andrews Christmas Day Dinner From left: Diety Madrid, Red Andrews Dinner Chairman Mary Blankenship Pointer, Anita Poz and Jessica Cifuntes team up during the 76th annual event to offer food and toys for some 7,000 people. The distribution took place at Santa Fe South Charter School. For more photos, see Page 7.
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Nichols Hills’ most tenured employee is stepping down By Shane Pate Nichols Hills City Manager
long waiting list of young people who need its services. “Obviously something like Pivot is needed in our city and we are proud to support such a worthy cause,” he said. Jennifer Goodrich, Pivot’s president and CEO, accepted the donation at the ball. With the $40,000 donation, the Bachelors
After 46 years of faithful service in Nichols Hills, the city’s longest serving employee, Major Neil Gray, is stepping down. Neil joined the Nichols Hills Police Department on Sept. 1, 1978 at the age of 22. In those days, the state minimum age qualification for a police officer was 18, which greatly benefitted Nichols Hills at the time because Neil had already been a deputy sheriff in Nowata for one year when he arrived in Nichols Hills. It wasn’t employment with the city that uprooted Neil from Nowata, but love and family. In August of 1977, Neil had just married his wife of now 46 years, Teri. The two decided to relocate to the Oklahoma City metro so Teri could finish her undergraduate studies at Central State (now University of Central Oklahoma). To support their family, Neil took on a security officer role at Kerr-McGee in Oklahoma City. While at Kerr-McGee, Neil became acquainted with petroleum geologist and philanthropist, Dean A. McGee, who lived just outside Nichols Hills next to the Oklahoma City Golf and Country Club golf course. “Whenever Mr. McGee would go out of
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Bachelors Club Ball raises $40k for Pivot The 77th annual Charity Ball hosted by the Bachelors Club of Oklahoma City raised $40,000 for the local nonprofit Pivot, a Turning Point for Youth and presented 20 debutantes, according to tradition since 1945. Bachelors Club President Eddie Cook selected Pivot as this year’s recipient. Before the ball, this year’s Bachelors Club escorts
Above: The Bachelors Club court. At left: President Eddie Cook presents the Walter M. Powell Outstanding Alumni Award to longtime member Brian S. Ferguson. For more photos, see Pages 2 & 11.
and debutantes toured the organization’s headquarters to learn more about its mission focused on helping at-risk young people, many who are living on their own, access housing, counseling, educational and vocational services and more. Cook said he and the entire group loved visit-
ing Pivot in person and seeing the incredible work that those involved with Pivot do for the people they serve. “Their impact on our community is just unbelievable,” Cook said, noting that Pivot has a
OKC to consider stadium proposal On Thursday, Jan. 4, the Downtown TIF Review Committee was to consider using economic development funds to increase the budget for the MAPS 4 Multipurpose Stadium from $41 million to $71 million. The proposal is contingent on the multipurpose stadium being located downtown where an additional $30 million in Tax Increment Financing (TIF) and other economic development funds could pay for a portion of the stadium’s construction costs. The proposal was to also be considered by the Oklahoma City Oklahoma City Economic Development Trust on Friday, Jan. 5 and City Council on Tuesday, Jan. 16.
Property under contract OKC Energy FC ownership is under contract to purchase an area of undeveloped property south of Bricktown and east of the Oklahoma City Convention Center from the Producers Downtown Development, LLC. The ownership group plans to donate 7.2 acres of the area to the City for the stadium, which the City is to own. OKC Energy FC ownership plans to develop the remaining area into a sports-centered entertainment district. The land donation is dependent on approval from the MAPS 4 Venues Subcommittee and the MAPS 4 See STADIUM, Page 3
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Athena Grace just turned 3-years-old. She is a Silver German Shepherd. Helen Lloyd rescued Athena from an ugly backyard breeding situation. “But it is truly her that rescued me,” Lloyd said. “She helps me with my social anxieties and my eating disorder. “But most importantly, she was the inspiration and reason behind starting my own pet sitting business, Purrfect Pet Pal!” Athena helps many other dogs to socialize, train, and play. The ball is her absolute favorite toy. She can play with it for hours. The garden hose or sprinklers are her next favorite. Email Dog, Cat, Pet and Baby of the Week nominations with complete descriptions to rose@okcfriday.com.
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Bachelors Club member Parker Kays escorts Sophia Mathis during the 77th Annual Charity Ball.
Above: Alison Marie Anderson, Hadley Scheyer Ferguson, Julianne Elizabeth Bentley and Rachel Constance Abbott. At right: Rhodes Haggard and Victoria Cohn.
Club has raised more than $1,120,000 for the Oklahoma City community since the club started hosting the ball in 1945. It has been held annually since then except in 2020, when concerns over gathering during the pandemic postponed it by a year. The Bachelors Club also honored longtime member Brian S. Ferguson with its highest honor, the Walter M. Powell Outstanding Alumni Award, during the ball on Dec. 22 held at the Oklahoma City Golf and Country Club. Ferguson is partner and founder of Benchmark Government Solutions and Benchmark Food Group. Ferguson’s daughter was also presented as a debutante at the ball. During the ball, according to longstanding tradition, 20 debutantes were presented along with 22 escorts, who are Bachelors Club members. Souled Out played the music for the evening, and after the debutante presentation, debs, escorts, their parents and guests danced around the Oklahoma City Golf and Country Club’s floor-to-ceiling Christmas tree in the Great Hall and enjoyed the traditional latenight breakfast. The Bachelors Club of Oklahoma City was founded in 1938 by a group of young men who wished to promote the social and philanthropic undertakings as well as leadership in the Oklahoma City area. The debutante presentation began in 1945 as a way to raise funds for various Oklahoma City charities.
The 2023 Bachelors Club debutantes, listed with their escorts are: • Jane Nelson, daughter of Leslie Rundell and Eric Nelson, escorted by Luke Mashburn, son of Jesse Mashburn and of Elizabeth Mashburn; • Caroline Roten, daughter of Becky and Alan Roten, escorted by Carter Cole, son of Janna and Steve Cole; • Hannah Lee, daughter of Ashley and Cavett Lee, escorted by Charlie Medley, son of Diane and Daniel Medley; • Peyton McCuan, daughter of Tabitha and Stuart McCuan; escorted by Pearce Wade, son of Paula and Buddy Wade; • Victoria Cohn, daughter of Tim Cohn and Brooke Thomas-Cohn, escorted by Rhodes Haggard, son of Donna and of Brent Haggard; • Aubrey Ruffin, daughter of Manda Ruffin and The Late Mark Ruffin, escorted by Jacob Margo, son of Debbie and Brad Margo; • Lily-Kate Duit, daughter of Heather and Tim Duit, escorted by Caden Reynolds, son of Suzanne and Robert Reynolds; • Elliott Reiger, daughter of Cristi and Kurt Reiger, escorted by Teddy Jacobsen, son of Nicole and Jeffrey Jacobsen; • Hadley Ferguson, daughter of Lauren and Brian Ferguson, escorted by Luke Chansolme, son of Jennifer and David Chansolme; • Rachel Abbott, daughter of Maria and Craig Abbott, escorted by Adam Wheeler, son of Kay and Lane Wheeler; • Julianne Bentley, daughter of Steven Bentley and of Jennifer Conger Bentley,
escorted by Henry Jackson, son of Paul and MaryAnne Jackson; • Jillian Hibbard, daughter of Robin Hibbard and Cathy and Robert Hibbard, escorted by Gabe Grim, son of Stephanie and Matthew Grim; • Sophia Mathis, daughter of Terry and Bill Mathis; escorted by Parker Kays, son of Shelley and Jason Kays; • Kate Russell, daughter of Leslie and Lance Norick and of Rick Russell, escorted by Cooper Moody, son of Kelly and Brent Moody; • Gabriella Karam, daughter of Courtney and Naji Karam, escorted by Blake Miller, son of Laurie and Kelly Miller; and escorted by Owen Crotts, son of Amanda and Christopher Crotts; • Madge Lister, daughter of Jenee and Darren Lister, escorted by Brody Gibbs, son of Shaunagh and James Gibbs; and escorted by Oliver Pointer, son of Suzanne Pointer; • Ali Anderson, daughter of Chelle and Daniel Weintraub and the late Murray Anderson, escorted by Grant McLain, son of Janet and Scott McLain; • Cate Carter, daughter of Lori Smith Carter and of Chip Carter, escorted by Brennan Wade, son of Paula and Buddy Wade; • Isabela Pardo, daughter of Diana Hampton and Gabriel Pardo, escorted by Will McMurphy, son of Megan and Curtis McMurphy; and, • Presley Ann Roselius, daughter of David and Terri Ogle and the Late Jason Roselius, escorted by Blake Oliver, son of Karen Wright and of Jennifer and David Oliver.
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OKC FRIDAY in Texas with pickleball friends Jane Moran hosted a large group of her pickleball friends from the Greens Country Club in Bolivar Peninsula, Texas. Friends making the trip there are: Sharon Tonseth, Cindy Batt, Jane Moran, Vicki Bryant, Laura Taylor, Renee’ Brown, Jenean Underwood, Cam Peak, Theresa Walkup, Leslie Akin, Sarah Lee, Janet Johnson, Mary Delafield and Sherry Berry. Be sure to pack OKC FRIDAY when you travel. Email photos to rose@okcfriday.com.
STADIUM From Page 1 Citizens Advisory Board, which could take place in early spring. Stadium details The stadium design includes a United States Soccer Federation (USSF)-approved pitch, seating for approximately 8,000 guests, locker rooms and suites. The venue is expected to drive the development of a sports-centered entertainment district downtown, a model that has proven to be successful in Louisville, Kentucky, and Indianapolis, Indiana. A similar project is under construction in Pawtucket, Rhode Island. The venue will be the City’s only stadium with a USSF-approved pitch to accommodate professional men’s and women’s soccer. When the area develops, visitors will be able to walk from restaurants, retail and housing to attend events in the new entertainment district.
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PC North’s Anthony Leonard (2) skies for a jump shot against host Mustang during the Bank 7 Holiday Classic championship game.
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After a long break, Fridayland basketball teams resume the 202324 season this week with several teams competing in tournaments to start the New Year. McGuinness hosts the 64th Annual McGuinness Classic boys tournament with Deer Creek and Casady also in the field. The Irish opened their tournament against Edmond Santa Fe on Thursday night, while Deer Creek and Casady finished off the evening. With a win, McGuinness faces the ChoctawDel City winner at 7:30 p.m. Friday and a loss drops the Irish to a consolation matchup at 3:30 p.m. Friday. The AntlersCyclones winner would meet the NormanEdmond Memorial victor in a semifinal at 5 p.m. Friday and the losers meet at 2 p.m. Friday. Saturday’s action tips off with the seventh-place contest at 2 p.m., followed by the consolation final at 3:30
p.m., the third-place game at 6 p.m. and championship at 7:30 p.m. In other tournament action, the PC North boys and girls are set to compete in the Putnam City Invitational; the McGuinness and Harding Charter Prep girls are at Weatherford Classic; the Deer Creek girls at Enid; both Mount St. Mary squads, along with the John Marshall boys, at Noble; also, the Harding Prep boys are at Konawa and the John Marshall girls play at Ada. Meanwhile, both Heritage Hall squads entertain Fridayland rival McGuinness and Crossings Christian squads host Altus on Tuesday. Girls games tip off at 6 p.m. with the boys to follow around 7:30 p.m. PANTHERS NET 2ND AT BANK 7 CLASSIC Outscored by 17 points in the second half, the PC North boys suffered a 65-31 loss to host Mustang to finish second in the Bank 7 Holiday Classic last Saturday. The Panthers (5-5) couldn’t really get comfortable on offense as
PC North’s Nini Geretta drives in for a layup against Okemah during their consolation semifinal matchup at the Bank 7 Holiday Classic in Mustang. The Panthers outlasted Classen SAS for a 65-61 victory in overtime to finish fifth at the tourament.
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McGUINNESS CLASSIC Thursday, January 4 Game 1: Choctaw vs. Del City, 2 p.m. Game 2: Norman vs. Edmond Memorial, 3:30 p.m. Game 3: Edmond Santa Fe vs. McGuinness, 6 p.m. Game 4: Deer Creek vs. Casady, 7:30 p.m. Friday, January 5 Game 5: Gm. 2 Loser vs. Gm. 4 Loser, 2 p.m. Game 6: Gm. 1 Loser vs. Gm. 3 Loser, 3:30 p.m. Game 7: Gm. 2 Winner vs. Gm. 4 Winner, 6 p.m. Game 6: Gm. 1 Winner vs. Gm. 3 Winner, 7:30 p.m. Saturday, January 6 7th Place: Gm. 5 Loser vs. Gm. 6 Loser, 2 p.m. Consolation: Gm. 5 Winner vs. Gm. 3 Winner, 3:30 p.m. 3rd Place: Gm. 7 Loser vs. Gm. 8 Loser, 6 p.m. Championship: Gm. 7 Winner vs. Gm. 8 Winner, 7:30 p.m.
leading scorers Anthony Leonard and Khai Brown made just 7 combined shots on 25 attempts. Leonard also earned a spot on the All-Tournament team. In the semifinals on Friday, PC North cruised to a 78-55 win over Carl Albert and opened with a 57-49 triumph over Southmoore. Rebounding from an opening loss, the PC North girls held off Classen SAS for a 65-61 victory in overtime to grab the consolation trophy at the Bank 7 Holiday Classic. The Panthers (9-2) also rolled to a 61-46 win over Class 2A No.
6 Okema in the consolation semifinals on Friday but opened with a 57-39 loss to 4A No. 1 Bethany on Thursday. KNIGHTS TAKE 4TH PLACE AT TOC Meanwhile, the Crossings Christian boys finished fourth in the Tournament of Champions following a 50-40 loss to 2A No. 1 Dale in the third-place contest last weekend at BOK Center in Tulsa. The Knights (6-2) also lost 63-44 to Edmond North in the semifinals but cruised to a 57-42 win over Weatherford in the opener. – By Jason Jewell
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McGuinness volleyball players dog pile each other after the final point of their championship match against Tulsa-Booker T. Washington. The Irish won the second title in school history, with the first coming in 2003.
Heritage Hall quarterback Andy Bass (7) tries to make a move around Lincoln Christian’s Malakia Dillard during the Class 3A state championship game at UCO. Bass suffered a knee injury in the second half of the Chargers’ 48-28 loss.
PC North pitcher Monica Coats readies for a throw to home plate during a softball game last season against Midwest City.
Celebrating their first state championship are Casady cross country team members, assistant coach Alex Davis, Ayden Kerr, Ashton Hale, Joshua Goggins, Mason McAllister, Billy Mathis, Samuel Rhoades. Behind the banner are Max McAllister and head coach Matt Pena.
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Members of the state championship Deer Creek cross country team include, from left, Tyler Schwarz, Ethan Stuart, Micah John, Graham Mitchell, Spencer Carlson, Brody Woodcock and Daniel Collins. The Antlers captured their 10th state title since 2010.
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Deer Creek receiver Mason Smith (11) gets tackled by PC North linebacker Desmond Antwine (40) during the regular-season finale. The Antlers pulled away in the second half for a 45-13 victory over the Panthers.
Evening of Accolades Evening of Accolates Tuesday, Jan. 30 Welcome Reception, 6-7 p.m. Awards Dinner 7:00 - 9:00 PM Fordson Hotel 900 West Main Street Oklahoma City, OK 73106 (formerly known as 21c - originally Fred Jones Manufacturing). Visit nwokc.com to register.
Crossings Christian’s Delaney Sullivan passes to a teammate during the Class 3A regional tournament last fall. Both the Knights and Casady made the state tournament where each lost in the semifinals. - Photo by Richard Clifton, rtcditigalimages.zenfolio.com
Booster
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CALENDAR CONCERTS Jan. 14 • Funky Fresh & Sugar Free If you’re looking for a funky fresh way to spend your Sunday afternoon, we’ve got just the thing for you. Join the OKCPHIL orchestra and special guests, the Sugar Free Allstars for this excit ing kindie rock con cert. Whether you’re a fan of funk, rock, or just good oldfash ioned fun, this con cert is sure to be a hit with kids and adults alike. Visit the Civic Center Music Hall website for details and tickets. Jan. 19 & 20 • Turnpike Troubadours Turnpike Troubadours and Jason Isbell and the 400 Unit are com ing to Paycom Center in OKC for two nights along with special guest Charles Wesley Godwin. Jan. 25 & 26 • Drake Fourtime Grammy award winning and multiplatinum selling artist Drake will bring his 2024 U.S. It’s All A Blur Tour Big As The What? to Oklahoma City. Grammyaward winning artist, pro ducer and founder of Dreamville, J. Cole, will be opening. Feb. 3 • Tool Tool is bringing their 2024 tour to Paycom Center in Oklahoma
Jan. 15 • MLK Jr Day Come to the Myriad Botanical Gardens on Monday, Jan. 15 from 10 am to 1 pm to com memorate the life and legacy of Martin Luther King, Jr. This special day will be filled with music, crafts and readings at the Park House Events Center and the Inasmuch Foundation Crystal Bridge Conservatory. Bring your family as Dr. King is honored with performances by talented groups and artists. Located at the Park House Event Cen ter and Crystal Bridge Lobby.
City for one night only on Saturday, Feb. 3 along with special guest Elder.
RV & BOAT SHOW Jan. 1214 • OKC Boat & RV Show The OKC Boat & RV Show is an annual event at the OKC State Fairgrounds with Boat and RV Dealers from across the State of Oklaho ma. See outdoor products and services with special show pricing. Friday, 11 am – 8 pm, Sat., 10 am – 8 pm and Sunday, 10 am – 5 pm. Admis sion is $12, kids 12 and under, free. See more details at okcboatandrvshow. com.
THIS WEEKEND Jan. 6 • New Year’s Stickball Resolved to get in shape after two months of holiday treats? Dust off your sticks and join FAM on the field for a co
ed, tournamentstyle stickball game. Doors open at 11 am with a youth game (ages 7– 17) beginning at 11:30 am and an adult game (18+) at 1 pm. All are welcome at the First Americans Museum. Players must bring a black and a red shirt. You will receive your team assignment at game time. There are a lim ited number of sticks available to youth on a firstcome, first served basis. Adults must bring their own sticks. A waiver is required to play the game at famok.org.
OKC THUNDER HOME GAMES
Paycom Center 100 West Reno Ave. Thursday, Jan. 11 • Portland Trail Blazers 7:00 pm Saturday, Jan. 13 • Orlando Magic 7:00 pm Tuesday, Jan. 23 • Portland Trail Blazers 7:00 pm
Best of Streaming K
elce, the documentary about All-Pro Philadelphia Eagles center Jason Kelce, is my favorite documentary of the year. Streaming on Amazon Prime, the film offers an inside look at Jason and his younger brother Travis Kelce, an All-Pro tight end for the Kansas City Chiefs, as their teams rise throughout the season and end up battling each other in the Super Bowl. Their family life is both extraordinary, with two legendary NFL players and a wildly popular podcast, and ordinary with health and family issues, retirement on the horizon, and a search for what’s next. Since the film’s release, Travis has started dating Taylor Swift and is on the cover of every newspaper in the world. Enjoy this outstanding film as the first of many exciting stories in store for the Kelce family. Only Murders in the Building is my favorite series. Created by and starring Steve Martin as a retired television star and Martin Short as a retired theater director, the legendary comedic duo is perfectly balanced by international pop star and Disney television veteran Selena Gomez. The combo seems off-putting at
first, but quickly gels into a cohesive flow, allowing each of their best strengths to shine without overshadowing the others. The stable of fun guest stars, from Nathan Lane to Tina Fey to Jane Lynch, only heightens the hilarity. Hulu is currently streaming the first three seasons, with a fourth already on order. Fun fact, Selena Gomez is the most followed woman on Instagram, with 429 million followers. Last year, she was recruited to sing on a remix of a song called “Calm Down” with African singer Rema. With her added, “Calm Down” hit number one around the world and became the first song featuring an African singer to stream more than 1 billion times. Gomez is gigantically popular and hopefully brings a big new audience to her veteran costars. Beckham, the fourpart mini-series on Netflix about English footballer David Beckham, is my favorite documentary series. Like all superstars,
Beckham is completely focused as a kid and driven by a parent who recognizes his skill and won’t allow it to be squandered. Beckham is surprisingly naïve when he is catapulted into the limelight of English football and absolutely underprepared for his life once he hooks up with his wife Victoria Adams, better known as Posh Spice from the English supergroup, the Spice Girls. Beckham offers a fascinating look at two of the most famous people in the world trying to figure out how to stay together, raise a family, and live life in the middle of all the chaos. Finally, the Netflix film Wham! is my favorite music documentary. The story of the friendship between George Michael and his eventual Wham bandmate Andrew Ridgeley is an uplifting, inspiring look at enduring friendship. Two kids trying to entertain each other became one of the most successful musical duos of all time. It’s a lovely tribute to a legendary musician and his favorite partner in crime. If you see my mother Brenda McDaniel, please wish her happy birthday. She turns 84 today.
Send calendar events to jennifer@okcfriday.com Paycom Center Events/Shows: DRAKE Jan. 25 Disturbed Jan. 27 TobyMac Feb. 1 TOOL Feb. 3 Fall Out Boy Mar. 11 Zoo Amphitheatre:
Civic Center Music Hall: Rachmaninoff! Les Miserables Mariachi Los Camperos OKCPhil Brahms OKC Ballet Giselle Wicked
Jan. 13 Jan. 1621 Jan. 2627 Feb. 3 Feb. 911 Feb. 21Mar 10
Disney Princess Chicago The Musical Harry Potter In Concert Bernadette Peters OKC Ballet Shorts Mamma Mia! Mary Poppins
March 17 Apr. 914 Apr. 2627 May 34 May 1012 May 2126 June 2530
Jersey Boys July 914 Cinderella July 30Aug. 4 Other Events/Shows/Awards: Paseo First Friday Walk Jan. 5 Chocolate Decadence Jan. 8 OKC Boat & RV Show Jan. 1214
Chocolate Decadence benefits Automobile Alley Association Join us on Thursday, Feb. 8, 2024 for the 26th annual Chocolate Decadence fundraiser benefitting the Automobile Alley Association. Chocolate Decadence will be an event you won’t want to miss, from the delectable sweet and savory chocolate culinary delights created by the best restaurants in Automobile Alley and beyond to the one-of-a-kind raffle items, live music and entertainment. Vote on your favorite dish and stick around to see which restaurant will win
the coveted People’s Choice award. The event will take place in Leadership Square from 6:30 pm – 9 pm in the Leadership Square atrium located at 211 N. Robinson Ave. All proceeds go directly to the Automobile Alley Association, which funds community projects and improvements in the district including light displays, neon sign grants, street amenities, public art and more. GENERAL ADMISSION | $75 Tasting Dishes
Wine & Champagne Raffle, Coat Check VIP | $125 VIP Garage Parking Exclusive VIP Only Raffle Tickets to Cocktail Cash Bar Tasting Dishes Wine & Champagne Raffle, Coat Check Chocolate Decadence directly funds the annual community holiday event, Lights On Broadway. Over 40,000 new LED lights were added in 2022, making Lights On Broadway’s total light count over 600,000!
This is a 21+ event. Guests must have their photo ID at check-in. Digital Eventbrite tickets are recommended but not required. Cocktail or party attire is encouraged. The first 300 guests to arrive are guaranteed to receive a commemorative Chocolate Decadence etched wine glass. For questions or sponsorship information, contact Joe Hudson at joe@downtownokc.com or 405-235-3500. Visit automobilealley.org for tickets and details.
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Annual Christmas dinner feeds 7k Approximately 7,000 people receuved groceries to make meals, as well as toys during the Red Andrews Christmas Dinner. Red Andrews has been a Christmas Day tradition since 1947. Volunteers placed ngredients for a delicious Christmas dinner and the toys in the trunks of vehicles.
Red Andrews Dinner Chairman Mary Blankenship Pointer and Suzy Sultemeier with toys that were given away during the event.
Above: Bonnie and Frank Barry entertain during the Red Andrews Christmas Dinner. At right: Tara Burnett, Misti McClellan, volunteers from the Red Cross, show attendees how to get free smoke alarms.
January 5 Cassandra Blevins James Blevins, III William Blevins Andrew Coats Dawn Cowan Joyce Erwin Joanie Jedlicka Lori Nelson January 6 Dru Bullard Bill Dick Marilyn Donnell Charlie Douglas Drew Sawyer January 7 Lillian Gambulos David Rainbolt Shelia Webb January 8 Paige Albert Pam Cavaness Patti Leeman Pam Plott Judy Terry Karen Waddell January 9 Patricia Allen Jason Beeler Cindy Bender
Kevin Lee Gross Earle Haggard Andrew Heaton Greg Isch Robert D. McCutcheon Sherryl McGuire Michelle Salyer Mark Sevier January 10 Richard Carlin III Betty Dearmon Edward Fox Tony Kroutil Virginia Lynn John Powell Walker, Jr. January 11 Carla Brown William Bryan Sharon Cornelias Molly Ross Fritch Patty Hanson Kelly Monks Mary Jane Morgan Glinda Parmley Bob Ross Jeff Snyder Brent Walton
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TO: All interested parties. Take notice that Shaylee Alyssa Young has petitioned to change his/her name to Shaylee Alyssa YoungChronister. A Hearing on said petition is set for 1:30 o’clock P.M. on the 1 day of February, 2024, before Judge Andrews at 1:30 o’clock in courtroom 359 at the Oklahoma County Courthouse. Should you know of some reason why this change of name should not be allowed you must file a written protest in the above styled and numbered cause prior to the above date with the Clerk of this Court. Should you fail to do so, the petition for change of name will be granted as prayed.
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The Other Victims: Not All Victims Are at The Crime Scene By Patsy King Hosman
The first novel written by Patsy King Hosman is now available just in time for Christmas and New Year’s reading. Interest is high among readers, as Patsy has been a part of Oklahoma City history through her own childhood and later busy years as the mother of four children and the grandmother of triplets. She loved sharing her interest in her home state with its joys of Oklahoma, as she embraced the sunrises, sunsets and nature at its best. The plot of the story seems to be taken directly from the morning breaking news. The characters are described with such clarity and appeal that the reader will find themselves wondering if this is a retelling of an event that really happened rather than a very realistic account of dramatic fiction. The central figures are the Sutton family and Lou Ella Sutton is met immediately as a member of the family who is afflicted with mental problems. Schizophrenic
thoughts and acts have become devastating and Lou has even begun hearing voices and imagining people out to destroy those in her life. Her sister, Alice Bennett is slowly made aware of what is going on and struggles with how the mass killing of unsuspecting victims will change her life. Alice’s teenage daughters, Flory and Phoebe, are immediately dropped by friends and schoolmates. Neighbors in the town of Mineral Wells where Lou had opened fire were shocked and Lou herself was killed in the melee. The story becomes a heartbreaking tale of the guilt, denial and relationships for all families involved, both those of unfortunate deceased and bitterness of those who suffered from the act. The unimaginable had happened in Mineral Wells, where things like this did not happen and certainly if they did happen they would not involve the upstanding citizen and fine teenage young people who were such intimate friends of all of the Sutton family. There is no family member or friend whose life is not changed from such a tragedy. The only mystery in this case is not WHO but WHY it happened.
And since it did happen, WHAT could have been done to prevent it, or better yet take steps to make certain such a thing did not happen again. Not in THEIR town! Such a blot on the town of Mineral Wells would disappear long before the souls and psyches of the mass shooting victims and loved ones could return to life as normal, if that could ever be, and those who were strangers and just in the wrong place at the wrong time, brought sadness and heartbreak that would not easily be erased. Tragedies are never easy to accept or live through. People grieve in different ways. This is also how they heal…or not. However, the dreadful stories need to be told to begin to prepare residents for recognizing signs of possible danger ahead for humans who are suffering from unrecognized diseases of the mind or body. There is only sadness and regret from such tragic happenings to any family. Patsy Hosman has found the rotten core for so many of these personal horror stories and the other victims will be well served to listen to her story. Thanks to Full Circle Book Store for sharing books with FRIDAY readers.
Myriad Gardens free fitness programs Escape the winter doldrums at the Myriad Botanical Gardens and Crystal Bridge in Oklahoma City! This urban oasis is the perfect place to brighten up even the dreariest of days. Located downtown, this botanical garden and conservatory offer something for everyone. Get active with free fitness programs or expand your knowledge with nature-themed classes. And don't miss out on the Devon Ice Rink, a popular January event that guarantees winter fun and a great workout. Whether you're a pro or a beginner, this outdoor ice rink is a blast!
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Join wellness practitioners Anna and Mark for a relaxing sound bath and meditation to celebrate the June Full Moon. A sound bath is a deeply-immersive, full-body listening experience that intentionally uses sound with sound bowls and other instruments to invite gentle yet powerful therapeutic and restorative processes to nurture your mind and body. Please bring a blanket, pillow and yoga mat for optimal comfort along with comfortable clothing. This event is FREE and open to the public. Class size is limited to 70 people. Firstcome, first-serve. Please arrive no later than 6 pm so we can provide a distraction-free environment for participants.
*All classes are in the Water Plaza Room, lower level of the Crystal Bridge Conservatory • Yoga - Tuesdays, 6 pm and Saturdays, 9 am Ready to find your inner peace and relaxation? Come join us at the Myriad Botanical Gardens for our twice-weekly yoga classes. All levels of experience are welcome. Bring a mat and water bottle – we’ll provide everything else you need on the journey to calmness. • Tai Chi - Every other Monday, 4 pm. Upcoming dates: Jan. 8, 22; Feb. 5, 19 and March 4, 18
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Nancy Farha’s 9205 N. Pennsylvania Casady Square The Village, OK 73120 (405) 775-0404 nancyfarha.com
Full Circle Bookstore 1900 NW Expressway Oklahoma City, OK 73118 (405) 842-2900 (800) 683-READ
23rd Street Antiques 3023 NW 23rd. (405) 947-3800 Oklahoma City, OK 73107 Antiques23.com
Junior’s Supper Club 2601 NW Expressway Oil Center Building (405) 848-5597 juniorsokc.com
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The Learning Tree 7638 N. Western Wilshire Village (405) 848-1415 learningtreeokc.com
Moorman's Distinctive Carpets and Area Rugs 3835 NW 63rd St. Oklahoma City, OK 73116 (405) 848-4888 moormanscarpetsoklahoma city.com
Carwin’s Shave Shop 6411 Avondale Dr. Nichols Hills Plaza (405) 607-1197 carwinsshaveshop.com Winter House 6411 Avondale Dr. Nichols Hills Plaza (405) 607-1199 winterhouseinteriors.com International Wigs 4429 NW 10th St, . Oklahoma City, OK 73107 (405) 943-1233
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Naifeh Fine Jewelry 6471 Avondale Dr,. Nichols Hills, OK 73116 (405) 607-4323 Naifehfinejewelry.com
CK & Co. 6429 Avondale Dr. Oklahoma City, OK 73116 (405) 843-7636 ckandcompany.com
Retirement Investment Advisors 2925 United Founders Blvd. Oklahoma City, OK 73112 (405) 842-3443 theretirementpath.com
Quail Creek Bank 12201 N. May Ave. Oklahoma City, OK 73120 (405) 755-1000 quailcreek.bank
Covenant Brothers 5900 Mosteller Dr. No. 7 Oklahoma City, OK 73112 (405) 842-4671 covbros.com
Denner Roofing Co. LLC 6608 N. Western Ave. Oklahoma City, OK 73116 (405) 848-4411 dennerroofing.com
Justin Beasley, DDS 4600 W Memorial Rd. Oklahoma City, OK 73142 (405) 755-5400 drbeasley.com
First Source Real Estate Residential Sales 12020 N. Penn Ave. Oklahoma City, OK 73120 (405) 236-4747
Cindi Shelby, Stylist Lela Rose & Pearl by Lela Rose 333 W. Wilshire Blvd., Ste. F Oklahoma City, OK 73116 (405) 830-1138
Michael Biddinger Real Estate Commercial Sales, Management 12020 N. Penn Ave. OKC, OK 73120 (405) 236-4747
Quail Plaza Barber Shop 10940 N. May Ave. Oklahoma City, OK 73120 (495) 751-2126 All About Travel, Ltd. 6104 Northwest 63 Oklahoma City, OK 73132 (405) 384-3880 www.allabout-travel.com Papa Dios 10712 N May, Suite D Oklahoma City, OK 73120 (405) 755-2255 papadiosokc.com Deer Clan Books 3905 N. College Ave. Bethany, OK 73008 (405) 495-9005 deerclanbooks@gmail.com First Fidelity Bank 6404 Avondale, Oklahoma City, OK 73116 (405) 416-2222 Website: ffb.com
Amy Wade & Co. Real Estate Team Amy Wade - Listing Specialist 1508 W. Edmond Rd. Edmond, OK 73131 (405) 605-9195 AmyWadeandCo.com Renaissance Hardwood Floors 3608 E. I 35 Frontage Rd. Edmond, OK 73013 (405) 225-3044 Krista Anne’s Boutique 7602 N. May Ave. Oklahoma City, OK 73116 (405) 310-5500
The Adult Clinic at Hearts for Hearing 11500 N. Portland Ave. OKC, OK 73120 (405) 548-4335
Tim Hughes Custom Homes, LLC 7009 N. Classen Blvd. Oklahoma City, OK 73116 (405) 229-7504
Christian Science Reading Room 6490 Avondale Drive (Nichols Hills Plaza North) Nichols Hills, OK 73116 405 843-5334 christianscienceokc.org
Norma Harris Harris Realty Company 13800 Quail Pointe Dr. Oklahoma City, OK 73134 (405) 740-0123
Steam It Klean It LLC Carpet Cleaning PO Box 20232 Oklahoma City, OK 73156 (405) 602-4960 Steamitkleanit@gmail.com
Paul Seikel Pearls Oyster Bar 5641 N. Classen Blvd. Oklahoma City, OK 73118 (405) 848-8008 www.pearlsokc.com
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OPINION O UR S TAND “And you shall know the truth and the truth shall make you free.” John 8:32 (quoting Jesus). The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing.” – Edmund Burke paraphrase, 1767. If you want it in the paper, it’s advertising. If you don’t want it in the paper, it’s news.” – Ancient Chinese Proverb. “Without, or with, offense to friends or foes, We sketch your world exactly as it goes.” – Byron, 1818. “Every violation of truth is a stab at the health of human society.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson, 1878. “We must always stand – alone if necessary – as the conscience of this community.” – J. Leland Gourley, 1959.
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New year brings news ways to make a difference By Joe Dorman President and CEO Oklahoma Institute for Child Advocacy With a new year ahead of us, it is customary to make resolutions. I hope each of you resolves to help improve your community, your state and your nation by getting involved. I encourage you to join a local organization which helps make a difference through their work, such as a civic organization like Rotary, Lions, Kiwanis, Elks or others. These weekly gatherings are often good for the soul and help build friendships. Also consider serving on a board for a nonprofit organization. I would also ask that you volunteer for a program which you feel is worthy in improving lives. Many of my friends are active volunteers for programs doing good work. We have nearly 1 million children in Oklahoma and there are 4 million people living here overall. If just one adult took time to be active in the life of a child, that would make a world of difference to that individual youth. The study of Adverse Childhood Experiences, known as ACEs, shows Oklahoma ranks as one of the worst states for toxic trauma throughout
childhood. The counter, Protective and Compensatory Experiences, known as PACEs, show that when adults play a positive role for a child, those acts help counter the negative. Voting is also of key importance. Oklahoma has one of the worst rates of voting in the United States and the U.S. is often very low in the percentage of qualified voters who go to the polls to cast a ballot. We often trumpet the “Oklahoma Standard” when it comes to being supportive of our neighbors, but I will tell you that it is important to follow suit and use your voice when it comes to selecting those who represent us in decisions made by the government. Young people are often categorically the worst percent of those who vote, often feeling their vote will not matter or does not count. When people do not vote, they make this a self-fulfilling prophecy showing that their vote truly did not count. Reaching out to officials and sharing ideas is also critical. Very rarely do lawmakers hear from constituents, the people who live in their boundaries for the office in which they serve. They will tell you that if they hear from just a few people about a bill going through the state Capitol, then it must mean this issue is important
Dear Wise Elder: My balance is unsteady and is not as good as it used to be. What can I do? Dear Unsteady: You are in good company. Many older adults experience a fear of falling which often limits activities resulting in even greater physical weakness. And this makes the risk of falling even greater. But what a great time to be a mature adult in Oklahoma City because we have so many options. There are opportunities across the city for free or low cost classes designed especially for those with balance issues. The Maps 3 Senior
to people. Those few people who reach out are the ones who help direct the decisions made by policymakers. On that note, if you are not satisfied with who represents you, then think about running for an office. I would encourage you to start with those levels closest to the people, such as school boards and city council positions. I am certainly not saying that every elected official needs an opponent, but it is good to have a choice when it comes to who should hold a job that does so much in deciding policies which impact each of us. I loved my time as an elective official, both as a state representative and as a member of my hometown city council. I knew I was helping contribute back to my state by serving. Sometime even running and not winning helps accomplish good. There are other ways to get involved and save lives. On that list is also for you to consider being a blood donor if you are able and allowed. There is a great shortage each year for blood donations and this directly helps save lives. Please go forth in 2024 and live up to the Oklahoma Standard by engaging in your community and doing good.
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20 Debutantes are presented during annual Charity Ball
Caroline Marie Roten, upper left, with her parents Alan and Becky Roten,
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From left: Elliott Ringer, Presley Roselius, Jane Nelson, Lily Kate Duit and Jillian Hibbard are presented during the 77th Annual Bachelors Club Ball.
At left: Rev. Rick Stansberry and Ali Anderson. Below: Paul Jackson, Lilly Jackson, Claire Jackson, Julianne Elizabeth Bentley, James Henry Robert Jackson, William Jackson, Mary Anne Jackson, Sam Jackson and Alexis Bennett. The 77th annual Charity Ball hosted by the Bachelors Club of Oklahoma City raised $40,000 for the local nonprofit Pivot.
Above: Owen Crotts, Gabriella Karam and Blake Miller. At left: Rachel Abbott and Adam Wheeler.
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NHILLS From Page 1 town,” Neil recalled, “I would provide security at his home.” In short order, Neil developed relationships with the NHPD, who recruited him to work for “The police department only had nine officers at the time,” Neil reflected, “I really liked the people at the department. It was so natural for me to work for the City,” Neil joked, “I believe I had been working shifts for the police department for two weeks before someone suggested I might as well turn in an application to make it official that I was working for the city.” It wasn’t just the NHPD that quickly adopted Neil into their ranks. “The residents have always been so good and supportive of us. They would invite us to their homes for a meal or parties. For many years, they even raised funds to sponsor employee college education,” he said. “Nichols Hills residents have a reputation for their generosity, support, and concern for the overall wellbeing of our employees,” Neil added. Neil recalled that, for a time, this reputation of support left the NHPD out of the loop on the FBI’s investigations in the city regarding Oklahoma City gambling crime figure, Pody Poe, who had established residence in Nichols Hills. “The FBI thought we were helping Pody with gambling activities at his home, or at least that we would tip him off before his house was to be raided; so, they never let us know their activities in
the city regarding him,” Neil recalled. “It was actually the opposite of what the feds feared,” Neil joked, “Pody would occasionally call our police station to tell us he had spotted federal agents watching him and that we better notify the feds to send someone else because he was onto the car parked out by his house.” Neil’s service with the NHPD spanned 23 years. In that time, he rose to the rank of major and served as assistant police chief. “One of the interesting things about working here,” Neil remembered, “is that you never knew who you might meet at a house providing security, when pulling over a car for a traffic violation, or going to the store in town.” Among the list of people Neil got to meet or become well-acquainted with were actresses Lauren Bacall and Bo Derek, actor Judd Nelson, Presidents Ronald Regan and George W. Bush, state governors and industry titans. “And, even with all these recognizable names,” Neil continued, “Nichols Hills has always felt like a small, friendly community.” Neil fondly recalled, “Some of us who have worked here refer to Nichols Hills as ‘Mayberry, with money.’ Something a lot of people outside of Nichols Hills do not understand is just how friendly and inclusive the residents who grew up and live here really are.” When asked for a piece of interesting Nichols Hills history residents may not know, Neil offered the following: “Most residents know about the Buttram Mansion in the city (referring to a historic estate at 7316 Nichols
Above: Neil Gray and Nichols Hills IT Deparment’s Scott Johnston. At left: Gray with his police car in the 1970s..
Road). However, many are likely not aware that Dorsey Buttram, son of Frank Buttram, developed exquisite relationships with England’s leadership during World War II when he was stationed there as a flight instructor and test pilot. One day while I was on duty, Mr. Buttram showed up at City Hall with the Lord Speaker of the House of Lords for England’s Parliament, asking for a tour of the building. After receiving the tour, then City Manager Doug Henley presented the Lord Speaker a Nichols Hills city flag, which was then taken back to England where it was flown over the Houses of Parliament for a day.” In 2001, Neil retired as a police officer, only to continue working for the City of Nichols Hills another 23 years in the Information Systems Division. Neil developed this division from the ground up and managed it until his retirement. As information systems director, Neil oversaw the development of the city’s first website, implemented a digital recordkeeping system for the city, procured water well security, cyber-security software and training for staff
and provided all technology equipment and software services to all 78 of the city’s employees. Thanks to Neil’s efforts, the city has remained vigilant and kept pace with the most innovative security needs to protect government data and resident safety in an increasingly digitized world. In 46 years, Neil has witnessed a lot of change in Nichols Hills. “The biggest change and challenge to our city in my time,” Neil remembered, “were the days following the Penn Square Bank collapse.” Referring to the failure of Penn Square Bank in 1982, which had a ripple effect on the local economy and triggered the failure of several other banks, Neil continued, “after Penn Square Bank, Nichols Hills became a ghost town. Many residents sold their homes and moved away. The Nichols Hills Plaza became empty as well. “It was a desperate time in the city. Employees didn’t receive any pay raises after that for a while and it took many years for the city to recover.” Thinking back on his time serving Nichols Hills, Neil said he feels grateful to have
been part of a team committed to community, a team that has become an extended family. “I’ve really enjoyed working for Nichols Hills,” he said. “The friendships I’ve made, the history I’ve been a participant in shaping, and watching the successes of my fellow employees. “Our employees are so hard working. Many may not realize that several of our employees used their employment to help pay their way through college, going on to become accomplished physicians, CEOs of nationwide corporations, lawyers and leaders in other local governments.” Reflecting on Neil’s tenure with the City of Nichols Hills, City Manager Shane Pate said, “Neil Gray has been a pillar of strength, support, and wisdom for our team. He has exuded a firm and steadfast commitment to Nichols Hills that serves as an inspiration and role model for us all.” Pate continued, “I wish him the best in his wellearned retirement and cannot thank him enough for his dedication and service.” Neil’s last day of employment with the City is Jan. 10.