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An icon passes The tribute from Equality Arizona read in part: “Phoenix has lost a true icon with the passing of Gerrie Mayer Gibbons… Gerrie and Martha Jones have been stalwarts in the many battles for LGBT dignity and rights here in Arizona over the past two decades and their contributions will be long remembered. In the late 1980’s, the AIDS crisis hit Phoenix with devastating consequences and these brave women stepped up to help the community form voluntary groups to assist those that were affected by this horrible disease. The Arizona AIDS Project’s initial success owes much to their efforts. Both Martha and Gerrie served on the steering committee for the 1988 display of the National AIDS Memorial Quilt, which was shown in its entirety at the Phoenix Convention Center.

“When the need to take a political stand in Arizona arose in the early 1990’s, Gerrie was one of the early board members of the Arizona Human Rights Fund, now known as Equality Arizona. By chairing several dinners, funds were raised to support efforts, which brought down the horrendous sodomy laws in Arizona and imposed harsher penalties for hate crimes directed at the LGBT Community…

“Gerrie was a licensed psychologist and her loving

counsel helped many of us persevere in our quest for equality.”

The tribute that Equality Arizona gave Gerrie was truly wonderful, it touched upon her service, sacrifice and her never-ending struggle against inequality along side her partner Martha. There was one thing that wasn’t mentioned. Gerrie was able to inspire and touch the lives of many young people by showing them a person who lived her convictions, and that in turn was passed on.

Kirk Baxter met Martha and Gerrie when he was 22 years old. He says the two women inspired him to keep on fighting, and our community is better off because he did. Gabriel Medellin met Gerrie when he was a youth participant at 1n10 and she would come into the Gay & Lesbian Community Center. He was probably only 16, not an age when most young people like to hang out with an “old” lady, but Gabe did. Gabe became very active in several causes and has continued to this day to be one of the people who make the community a better place. So, Gerrie lives on and the community benefits from it.

Our thoughts and prayers go out to Martha, Gerrie’s partner for 25 years. She said their puppies Jake and Maxie are grieving too. We all are, we lost an exceptional woman.

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LOCAL NEWS

Equality AZ revs its engines Strategic plan promises to be proactive

By Luis Garcia When Nick Ray was hired as the new executive director of Equality Arizona he promised the LGBT community in Arizona that not only would the organization develop fresh ways to unite the entire state in the fight to advance LGBT equality but that EQAZ was dedicated in crafting a proactive agenda in the new legislative session– and with the help of the EQAZ board the political advocacy organization has been doing just that.

According to Ray, EQAZ is in a strategic planning process that will bring new groups in order to expand their efforts across the state.

“We are continuing to ensure that EQAZ serves the entire state,” says Ray. “We (EQAZ) have begun to expand our efforts by partnering with other organizations where there are overlapping interests because we know that equal rights will not be won by LGBT people alone.”

Ray told ‘N Touch that they have been working with straight allies before the start of the 2012 legislative session on crafting bills that will create safer schools and end workplace discrimination for all LGBT people.

Ray also said that EQAZ will not

just be lobbying at the state legislature but will take the fight locally at the school district level where impact efforts might be more achievable.

“EQAZ will examine municipal policies in things like non-discrimination, domestic partner benefits, partner registry, etc.,” said Ray. “We are committed to being so for the long haul. It’s time we collaborate with local activists in their efforts bringing expertise, experience, resources, and connections to bear on their efforts.”

According to Ray, a main priority will be reaching out to the community in different ways giving people of all socioeconomic backgrounds an opportunity to participate.

“We cannot and will not build the organization on the backs of or for the benefit of any small or privileged minority. We are building a new Equality Arizona for 2012 and beyond, not recreating the organization that existed previously.”

Ray stressed the need for community involvement that is why EQAZ happenings will have a facelift.

“Special events are often fancy galas that exclude a lot of people because of cost or a perception that

Feb. 7: Fundraiser and Legislative for Representative Chad Campbell, Bliss ReBAR, 901 N 4th St, Phoenix, 5:30-7 p.m.

March 11: Gay Prix - 1st Annual Arizona Gay Go-Carting Championships, Octane Raceway, 317 S. 48th St., Phoenix. $40 per team member. Limited seating, RSVP online.

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they are not fun or are too political, too fancy etc. We are going to diversify the ways people can engage, support and learn about our work whether it is through things like community-specific receptions, the GayPrix event, house parties, and summer pool parties,” said Ray. The next big event, the GayPrix, will give the community the opportunity one of the most memorable and entertaining events of the year, according to Ray. The March 11 event will be EQAZ 1st Annual Gay Go-Cart Championship. This “out-of-the box event” will be held at Octane Raceway, the largest indoor kart-racing venue in the country.

The Gay Prix will consist of kart racing on two 1/4 mile indoor tracks, pit crew challenge, a climbing wall, arcade games, and billiards.

“We do need the community to invest in our work so we can achieve our potential as a statewide entity and in turn we can help local activists and groups throughout the state effect change in their own areas,” said Ray. Equality Arizona has also just announced a new board leadership for both their C3 Educational Foundation and the C4 Advocacy Fund.

Rebecca Wininger has been elected to serve as President of Equality Arizona. She will also co-chair the Equality Arizona Advocacy Fund with EQAZ board member, Lawrence Robinson.

“We recognize and thank the for-

mer board chair, Tom Mann, for his dedication and service. Having led Equality Arizona through two very tough but productive years. Tom embraced the leadership of Equality Arizona at perhaps the hardest time in the organization’s history. It speaks volumes to Tom's commitment that he helped push through significant changes, including refocusing efforts to enhance community communication,” stated Wininger.

“As a community, together, we have been able to make dramatic changes over the last 20 years in areas such as non-discrimination and domestic partner recognition. The current political landscape makes any battle for LGBT equality prolonged and difficult, but not hopeless. The mission of Equality Arizona is still as important today as when it was founded 20 years ago. When all people in Arizona have the same rights and privileges regardless of sexual or affectual orientation, then we can rest. But sadly that day has not yet come.

“2012 will be a year to fight for every student to feel safe within his/her school. No child should be bullied continued on page 38 >

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LOCAL NEWS

City redistricting important to LGBT community Councilman encourages involvement

By Luis Garcia

Phoenix City Councilman District 4 - Tom Simplot PHOENIX - New census data has shown that the city of Phoenix added over 120,000 residents since 2001 – an increase of 15,000 for each of its eight districts. That means that over 110,000 Phoenix residents will be voting in a new district during the next election cycle.

That is why Phoenix Councilman Tom Simplot of District 4 is encouraging Valley residents, particular the LGBT community, to get informed on the upcoming redistricting process that will establish new district boundaries for the upcoming 2013 city elections.

"Every ten years every level of government has to participate in redistricting," said Simplot. "My district lost more population that any other district.

"What we don't want to do is dice up the Melrose area where a large LGBT population lives. We need to

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make sure we keep that together so that we maintain the level of impact that we have had in the past eight years."

Simplot, who is up for re-election in 2013, told ‘N Touch that LGBT resident who live in his district should be aware that the city is leading a series of public meetings to educate the community about the process, gather input to identify communities of interest, and receive feedback regarding changes to the boundaries.

According to the federal constitution, following the U.S. census every 10 years, Phoenix is required to redraw district lines.

"If people go to my Facebook page or my page on the City of Phoenix website, phoenix.gov, they can always get all the information that is going on in my district."

Simplot also said that he will personally hold “coffee chats” with his constituents in a more personal atmosphere apart from the city meeting, the first being held Feb. 4 at 10 a.m. at the One Voice Community Center in Phoenix.

"This is the perfect opportunity to get our community engaged in city government and I look forward in playing a role in that," said Simplot. "With One Voice Community Center being in the Melrose District I am in the process to getting more coffee chats scheduled there."

According to City Clerk Cris Meyer, once the first series of public meetings is completed the Research Advisory Services (RAS) will evaluate each proposed map and seek council approval to select the maps that best meet the federal, state and city charter requirements. The selected maps will then be shared with the public during a second series of meetings in April to gather community input.

"Based on the input, RAS will make its final recommended plan to the City Council for approval by

June," said Meyer. "Once a final district map is adopted by the council, it will then be submitted to the U.S. Department of Justice for Voting Rights Acts preclearance, and if approved, would become effective in January 2013."

Paper redistricting kits can be requested at phoenix.gov/redistricting. Residents can begin submitting proposals on Feb. 1. For more information call the Redistricting Hotline at 602-256-4357 or email redistricting@phoenix.gov.

The scheduled meetings will be held: -

Tuesday, Jan. 31, 6 p.m.

Burton Barr Central Library 1221 N. Central Ave. (Technical Workshop)

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Thursday, Feb. 9, 6 p.m.

Deer Valley Community Center 2001 W. Wahalla Lane

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Wednesday, Feb. 1, 6 p.m.

Sunnyslope Community Center 802 E. Vogel Ave.

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Monday, Feb. 13, 6 p.m.

Pecos Community Center 17010 S. 48th St.

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Monday, Feb. 6, 6 p.m.

South Mountain Community Center 212 E. Alta Vista Road

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Wednesday, Feb. 15, 2:30 p.m.

Devonshire Senior Center 2802 E. Devonshire Ave.

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Tuesday, Feb. 7, 6 p.m.

Maryvale Community Center 4420 N. 51st Ave.

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Wednesday, Feb. 15, 6 p.m.

Valley Garden Center 1809 N. 15th Ave.,

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Tuesday, Feb. 7, 6 p.m.

(Spanish-language only) Maryvale Community Center Auditorium 4420 N. 51st Ave.

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Thursday, Feb. 16, 6 p.m.

Paradise Valley Community Center 17402 N. 40th St.

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Wednesday, Feb. 8, 6 p.m.

Cesar Chavez Branch Library 3635 W. Baseline Road

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Friday, Feb. 17, 1 p.m.

Burton Barr Central Library Auditorium 1221 N. Central Ave.

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LOCAL NEWS

Camp H.E.R.O. Start your own grassroots movement

By Luis Garcia Mahatma Gandhi once said that, “as human beings, our greatness lies not so much in being able to remake the world... as in being able to remake ourselves”.

The Human and Equal Rights Organization (H.E.R.O.) are giving the community the opportunity to make that happen with the launch of a new program that will help individuals build grassroots movements and organizations.

Camp HERO, which takes place Feb.24-26, will gather some of the best thinkers and organizers in the local LGBT community for a weekend workshop.

According to H.E.R.O. Steering Committee co-chair Meg Sneed, the intensive twenty hour training program is designed to teach the principles and skills of community organizing to LGBT activists and their allies.

“This is an amazing training opportunity that I hope many of you will take advantage of,” said Sneed.

Workshop topics will include "Developing Strategies and Building Coalitions," "The Nuts and Bolts of Organizing," "Making News: Working with the Media", and more. The training will also include concrete skill-building sessions tailored to

the specific needs and interests of participants organizing and leadership skills.

The deadline to submit Camp H.E.R.O. applications is February 15.

H.E.R.O will also announce the Equality Walkers for the 2012 Right to Marry Walk on Feb. 14.

Past H.E.R.O. co-chair and 2012 Right to Marry Walk route coordinator for northern Arizona Jimmy Gruender said that H.E.R.O needs to raise about $40,000 in order to help support the walkers with meals, power drinks, water, snacks, lodging, gas and first aid kits.

"We are reaching out to people we have never reached out to this year," said Gruender. "We are going to fundraise in places we have never gone

before.”

According to Gruender this is the biggest walk yet, 100 miles in August, a mile for every year Arizona has been a state without full legal recognition of its LGBTQ citizens.

There will be three simultaneously campaigns this year, allowing the walkers to speak to police, city managers, faith communities, elected officials and individuals throughout the state of Arizona.

Central Arizona cities covered this year will be Avondale, Chandler, El Mirage, Gilbert, Glendale, Goodyear, Litchfield Park, Mesa, Paradise Valley, Peoria, Phoenix, Scottsdale, Surprise, Tempe, Tolleson, and Yougtown.

Northern Arizona cities include Fountain Hills, Pine, Show Low, Snowflake, Window Rock/Fort Defiance, Rock Point, Page, Tuba City/Moenkopi, Grand Canyon National Park, Williams, Flagstaff, Cottonwood, Prescott Valley Wickenburg, Anthem, and Cave Creek.

The Southern route will cover Florence, Queen Creek, Buckeye, Gila Bend, Yuma, Ajo, Marana, Oro Valley, Tucson, Green Valley, Sahuarita, Douglas, Willcox, Benson, Globe, and Superior.

For more information on the Right To Marry Walk visit righttomarry.org

AGAPE & Joshua Tree Dodge Hunger

By Joseph Gaxiola PHOENIX - For the first time, AGAPE Network and Joshua Tree Feeding Program will be joining forces to Dodge Hunger on Sunday, March 4, 2012. The inaugural Dodgeball Tournament fundraiser will be held at A.R.C.H. (Arizona Recreation for the Handicapped), located at 1550 W. Colter in Phoenix.

Teams of will consist of six players with two substitutes playing dodgeball against other teams.

The dodgeball tournament will start at 10 a.m. with check-in and sign-up, with the first games beginning at noon. There will be food, drinks, as well as other events going on during the tournament.

Team registration is $125 for a team of six but if you don’t have a team you can register as a single player for only $25 and be assigned to a team.

All funds from DodgeHunger will go to the AGAPE Network and Joshua Tree Feeding Program.

AGAPE Network was formed in the spring of 1988, when eight people from two Phoenixarea Metropolitan Community Churches joined together, concerned about the unmet nutritional needs of those living with AIDS. They knew that many people living with AIDS could not afford to eat properly because they had been fired from

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their jobs or were too ill to work. Too many had incomes below or at poverty levels. The group believed that they had a responsibility to help feed these people living with the disease.

By October 1, 1988, AGAPE Network was incorporated with the State of Arizona as a nonprofit organization. In 1994, AGAPE began to provide food boxes to the Shanti Houses. The number per month increased to 45, then 50. A hundred to 150 frozen meals were being provided a month. Twenty to 40 people ate lunch weekly, despite problems finding luncheon coordinators due to work schedules and illness. The Lesbian and Gay Community Center donated space and power for the organizations freezers. Aunt Rita's Foundation provided a grant that supplemented fundraising efforts.

At present, AGAPE occupies four units at 2425 E. Thomas Road, Phoenix, where they have been for 11 years. AGAPE has updated their tech-

nology to be part of CAREWare. In the past year, they have increased to serving over 300 food boxes each month.

Joshua Tree Feeding Program was started in 1988 to provide a safe environment where people living with HIV/AIDS could come together to share experiences, good food and mutual support.

From this humble beginning they have grown into a well-established organization that serves an ever-increasing membership. Joshua Tree Feeding Program provides an average of 100 clients with supplemental groceries available every Wednesday from 10 a.m. till noon. All of their services are at no cost to clients.

Joshua Tree Feeding Program, Inc. is also an allvolunteer organization that depends on the generosity of people and other organizations that donate their time, food and financial assistance to the program. As HIV/AIDS becomes an even larger and more desperate problem in all of our lives, the organization fears that without support, the needs of their many clients will outgrow their resources.

So, talk to your friends, get a team together, sign up on the website, show up and get ready to play dodgeball on March 4. For more information go to dodgehungerphx.org news / politics / business / opinion

LOCAL NEWS

Möda Provôcateür A New Kind of Fashion Show

TUCSON - When local salons get together with local boutiques and models for a celebration of style, fashion, and compassion it can only mean one thing - Möda Provôcateūr! The 9th Annual Möda Provôcateūr, presented by the Udall Law Firm, is an event celebrating the best of Tucson style while raising funds for the programs and services of the Southern Arizona AIDS Foundation (SAAF). This year’s event will be held Sunday, March 4.

It all begins with Project Moda, a Fashion Design Contest open to local budding designers wishing to test their skills and creativity against other talented designers.

Each year, winning designers gain invaluable publicity as well as other prizes while supporting the programs and services of SAAF. Project Moda culminates in the ever-popular fashion, entertainment, and style event that is Moda Provocateur, where designers get to share their edgy, avant-garde creations with hundreds of people as garments make their way down the runway.

Project Moda consists of four challenges or categories. Esteemed judges from the community voted on the best of each of the four challenge categories and Moda Provocateur audience members get to vote for the overall, or “best in show”, garment. The Challenges for this year’s Project Moda are: Faith- a Men’s Wear Challenge; Hope- a Couture Challenge, Charity- A Recycled Resources Challenge; and Awarenessan HIV/AIDS Inspired Challenge. Addition-

ally, designers who present garments for all four categories get the opportunity to compete for Best Collection.

Judges included: Kendra Joe, President of the University of Arizona Black Retail Action Group (BRAG); Kristina Amaya, a local retailer; and Paula Taylor, former owner of Pour Moi Boutique and one of this year’s Cele Peterson Award winners.

This year’s winning designers are Mark Ray (Faith and Charity Challenges), Victoria Villela and Melanie Lockwood (Hope and Best Collection), Jenny Hemalik (Hope) and Jaime Kafader (Awareness). This year’s winners will be featured in the March 2012 edition of Tucson Lifestyle Magazine.

The Tucson Convention Center Grand Ballroom, Möda’s new home, will be a perfect place to showcase salons including: Avalon for Hair, Skin & Nails; Ahead of Style; Aveda Institute of Tucson; J. Scordato; Mia Bella; and Style 7. These salons make it possible for the event to take place.

The evening will include performances from BreakOut. The Cele Peterson Award will be presented to Paula Taylor and Erin Burke, both former owners of Pour Moi Boutique, for their ongoing contributions to the local fashion community.

The theme of the event this year is “Stand By Me” and pays tribute to the caregivers who dedicate so much of their life to helping those living with HIV/AIDS. Don’t miss out on this year’s incredible, overthe-top event.

Tickets: $125/$135 Runway Seat; $100/$110 VIP Seat; $75/$85 Cocktail Table seat; $30/$35 General Admission. Tickets available at participating salons, online (saaf.org), or by calling the Southern Arizona AIDS Foundation at 520628-SAAF (7223).

All proceeds from Möda Provôcateūr benefit SAAF. SAAF is the primary community-based organization in southern Arizona providing case management and ancillary support services for people living with HIV/AIDS and their families, culturally appropriate prevention and education programs to reduce the rate of infection, and extensive trainings and opportunities for community members to fill critical support roles.

Prescott Pride Center facing changes PRESCOTT - At the end of 2011, the Prescott Pride Center leadership team initiated some important discussions about the future of the LGBT community center.

Staff explored opportunities for growth and development for the Center and looked at the significant challenges the organization faces as a small non-profit in a fairly bleak economic environment.

“As we continue to evaluate the Pride Center’s future, we will undoubtedly face tough decisions and have to make difficult changes that are necessary for our long-term sustainability. The leadership team takes these decisions very seriously and will make every effort to do what’s best for the local LGBT community, keeping in mind that the Pride Center is also a business that must generate enough revenue to cover operations and staffing. Please watch upcoming newsletters for details on our plans to move to a more sustainable framework.

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“Before we launch into 2012, we also want to take a moment look back and thank everyone who has faithfully supported the Pride Center over the years. Your contributions have allowed us to touch many lives and connect our community in ways that were simply unimaginable when we first opened our doors more than a decade ago. No matter what changes lie ahead, you all can have the satisfaction of knowing that you made a positive difference in your own backyard.

Thank you for your ongoing support,” stated Executive Director Frankie Reynolds.

The Center also issued a “last call” for volunteers to staff the facility on Thursdays and Saturdays. Unfortunately, if no one steps forward

the Board may be forced to make some decisions about closures.

“If you have a few hours that you could spare on a Thursday or Saturday afternoon, please consider signing up as a staffer. We’re looking for personable people with polite phone skills and the ability to be a good host for Pride Center visitors.

Reliability is also important since you’ll be responsible for keeping the Pride Center open during visiting hours. If you have these attributes and you’d like to give something back to the community, please call Laurie at 928-776-8997 between 9 am to 5 pm to sign up,” said Reynolds.

Volunteers are trained and will work with an experienced staffer until you feel ready to go it alone.

If you would like to help the Pride Center you may do so by calling 928-445-8800, or emailing info@prescottpridecenter.com.

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LOCAL NEWS

Devereux Arizona wins inclusive award

The Human Rights Campaign Foundation, the educational arm of the nation’s largest lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender civil rights organization, announced today that Devereux Arizona became the first adoption agency in Arizona to earn the All Children—All Families seal of recognition. The Tucson adoption agency earned the honor by meeting the required criteria for fully inclusive policies and practices in working with the LGBT community. The Human Rights Cam-

paign’s All Children—All Families initiative provides a comprehensive framework for agencies to establish policies and practices that welcome, support and affirm LGBT foster and adoptive parents The seal was presented to Lane Barker, the Executive Director of Devereux Arizona.

“It is an honor to be recognized by an organization of such caliber as the Human Rights Campaign,” shared Lane Barker. “For years we have focused on providing the highest quality of services to children and families throughout Arizona. Inherent to this focus is the recruitment and retention of an array of foster care providers, to include qualified applicants from the LGBT community. It is our goal to help all children in need, so it is nice to be recognized as a leader in serving diverse groups.”

“We are thrilled to welcome Devereux Arizona into the community of child welfare organizations that are truly committed to creating more loving families by removing barriers

to qualified LGBT adoptive parents.

It is wonderful that LGBT individuals and couples in Arizona have a trusted resource to turn to when pursuing adoption,” added Ellen Kahn, HRC’s Family Project Director.

Devereux Arizona’s commitment to all Arizona families is needed more than ever. Last year Governor Jan Brewer signed into law SB 1188, which gives preference to married couples in the adoption process – essentially excluding same-sex couples and narrowing opportunities for single adults who wish to provide a loving home to children. The new law explicitly states that if all relevant factors are equal and the choice is between a married man and woman certified to adopt and a single adult certified to adopt, placement preference shall be with a married man and woman. Gay and lesbian couples are not able to legally marry in Arizona.

The “All Children – All Families” initiative, launched in 2007, promotes policies and practices that wel-

come LGBT foster and adoptive parents. The program seeks to enhance LGBT cultural competence among child welfare professionals and educate LGBT people about opportunities to become foster or adoptive parents to waiting children.

Devereux is a leading nonprofit behavioral health organization that supports many of the most underserved and vulnerable members of our communities. Founded in 1912, Devereux strives to provide consistently high quality programs, services, and resources in safe and supportive environments that enrich and empower individuals and communities to be the best they can be.

The Human Rights Campaign is America’s largest civil rights organization working to achieve lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender equality. By inspiring and engaging all Americans, HRC strives to end discrimination against LGBT citizens and realize a nation that achieves fundamental fairness and equality for all.

Joshua Tree strengthens its roots

By Joseph Gaxiola PHOENIX - Joshua Tree Feeding Program has recently made some changes within the organization to strengthen its roots and survive in the new economy.

In October of 2011, the Board of Directors decided to end their relationship with the Ryan White Program. The Ryan White Program works with cities, states, and local community-based organization to provide HIV-related services to more than half a million people each year. The program is for those who do not have sufficient health care coverage or financial resources for coping with HIV disease. Ryan White fills gaps in care not covered by these other sources.

The decision to leave the Ryan White Program was decided over a heavy debate because of budget concerns over the new regulations from the Federal Government. Monies from Ryan White helped fund Joshua Tree Feeding Program’s 2nd and 4th Friday food boxes. AGAPE Network, who is still part of the Ryan

White Program, has stepped up their distribution of food boxes to the HIV/AIDS community. AGAPE distributes their boxes on the first and third Friday of the month.

Joshua Tree Feeding Program has also started handing out food boxes on Wednesdays instead of Tuesdays. Having an extra day for volunteers to go to St. Mary’s Food Bank and other grocery stores has resulted in more food and a better selection for their clients.

Unfortunately, Joshua Tree Feeding Program has suspended their lunch program until they find another source of funding or adequate money is raised to sufficiently cover the costs. While Joshua Tree Feeding Program is known for their weekly lunches and social activities - this part of the program was put in hiatus because of budget concerns. The lunch program is still part of Joshua Tree Feeding Program and will come back within a year’s time for those affected/infected with HIV/AIDS. Another big change for the organization is that it will be moving.

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Located at the Asbury United Methodist Church for nearly a decade, Joshua Tree was informed at the end of November by the church board of directors that their lease would not be renewed at the end of February.

The decision was made due to financial reasons. The staff and members of Asbury United Methodist Church will still support Joshua Tree Feeding Program in their endeavors before and after the move. The Board of Directors of both Joshua Tree Feeding Program and Asbury United Methodist Church are working with each other through the transition.

Joshua Tree Feeding Program has found a new location, the lease has been signed and the application to Maricopa County Environmental Services has been sent. The board of directors is hoping that there will be no interruption of distribution of food boxes to their clients during the move. Once the Maricopa County Environmental Services has inspected the new location and given their approval the new location will be an-

nounced to the community.

In other news, Robert Bartlett resigned as the Chairman of Joshua Tree citing personal and health reasons. Bartlett started at the organization as a volunteer, then board member, then vice-chairman, and finally chairman. The board of directors and clients of Joshua Tree were saddened to see him go. Scott Robinson, the vice-chairman, will fill in as chairman until either a suitable person can be found or until the end of the term, which ends June 30, 2012.

More information about the new location and open house event will be out on both Joshua Tree Feeding Program’s and ‘N Touch News Magazine’s Facebook pages as well as the ‘N Touch News website. news / politics / business / opinion

LOCAL NEWS

Third Annual Fresh Brunch

By J. Ursone

PHOENIX - The 3rd annual 1n10 Fresh Brunch will be held Feb. 26, from 11 a.m.-2 p.m. at The Phoenician Resort in Scottsdale.

This event is the non-profit’s biggest

fundraiser of the year.

Since 1993, thousands of LGBTQA youth have attended 1n10, formerly Valley One in Ten and Horizon, and left with greater selfesteem, new skills, new friendships, and fond memories. These youth are better prepared for the workplace, and ready and empowered to give back to their community. Most importantly, their participation in 1n10 results in a positive outlook that increases their ability to enjoy a fulfilling life.

This year’s Fresh Brunch Chair,

Trans history presention

by This is H.O.W. PHOENIX - On Feb. 11-12 This Is H.O.W. will present “History of the Trans Community and Culture -1850 to Present” at the One Voice Community Center.

The event will look at the forces, people, ideas, and efforts that gave rise to the identity, movement, and culture of Trans people in the U.S. This Is H.O.W. is a non-profit that creates opportunities and environments that empower transgender people to recover, to succeed in accomplishing goals, to reconnect with themselves and others, and strive for a purpose in life, making them healthy, vibrant and whole.

On Saturday the event runs from 12:30 – 8:30 p.m. Sunday runs from noon to 6 p.m.

There will be a fundraising Pan-

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Jeremy Schachter, hopes attendance will top 1,000. Like many of the youth who have attended 1n10, he understands how it feels to be harassed and bullied.

“I know how it was as a teenager and how tough it is now. It might be even harder because so many teens are coming out younger and younger ages,” Schachter told ‘N Touch News.

“I was moved to join the 1n10 board over a year ago because so many youth were committing suicide and I felt like I had to do something within my own community. We as a community have a responsibility to take care of our youth so they can grow into productive young adults.”

According to Schachter, funds raised from the event will help the organization fund the new facility that will open mid February. The space is three times larger than old one, and will include; an educational class-

room for GED classes, HIV prevention and awareness classes, showers for homeless youth, lockers and a larger meeting space for discussion groups.

“We are starting a new educational program where teens who want to get their high school diploma in a safe environment can do it at the new facility. The larger facility will allow us to handle clothing donations and organize them from interview clothes to casual clothes.

“We are also growing our satellite offices in Mesa and the west side of town which funds from this brunch will support,” said Schachter.

Funds will also support sporting activities like softball, dance and volleyball.

Phoenix Mayor Greg Stanton will receive the 1n10 “Leadership Award” at the event.

Ticket prices are $80 each and can be purchased at freshbrunch.org

cake Breakfast an hour before each day’s start. Cost is a $5 donation.

For more information email Director@thisishow.org or Events@ thisishow.org. You may also call 623-414-5245 or 480-650-4224.

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LOCAL NEWS BRIEFS

The S.A.F.E. PROJECT PHOENIX - TransMentors International, Inc., (TMII) a non-profit organization which provides aid, support and assistance to Transgenderidentified individuals, has begun a new program designed to provide emergency services to transgender men and women in the U.S. and internationally.

A Safe House and emergency assistance program will be available beginning in February 2012 to trans-identified people who require immediate, short term, safe housing and/or immediate emergency assistance with transportation, food, or clothing.

The program is called "The S.A.F.E. Project", (Swift Action for Emergencies. A database of Emergency Providers will be maintained by a Team of volunteers with access to services through the use of the existing toll-free number, email and other Internet communication methods.

This program will also work in conjunction with the existing International Mentors Program, as well as the Faith Support Program, where sometimes a friendly voice in an emergency can make all the difference.

TransMentors International, Inc. is 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization that provides aid, support and assistance to trans-identified individuals, including online discussion forums, personal mentoring, emergency housing assistance and health, faith and other resource referrals.

More details can be found at TransMentors.org or by calling 877-366-3888.

Grief support for LGBT community PHOENIX - Hospice of the Valley is holding a free grief support group, “Healing Rainbows,” for members of the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community who have experienced the death of a partner, family member or friend.

The group will meet 7– 8:30 p.m. six Wednesdays from Feb. 8 to March 14 at Hospice of the Valley’s administrative office, 1510 E. Flower St., Phoenix.

Registration is required, please call 602-6365390.

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Phat Tuesdays and more with the Sisters PHOENIX - The Grand Canyon Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence (GCSPI), in partnership with La Frontera Arizona EMPACT-SPC, will see two exciting events take place within the Valley’s LGBT community that will bring awareness to Take Back The Night and the Reach Out Check In; Save a Life campaign from EMPACT-SPC. Take Back The Night - The Musical will be held Feb. 12 at Rainbow Cactus Saloon at 7p.m.

Located at 15615 N Cave Creek Road in Phoenix the event will feature performances from some of the communities leading Drag Queens and Kings and will feature performances from some of the EMPACT-SPC staff themselves.

Thirty-three years ago, women started to stand up and speak out against sexual violence under the banner of Take Back the Night. During those years, Take Back the Night became known internationally as a visible way to take a stand against sexual violence, specifically violence against women. Over the years the movement has grown its focus to include the sexual assault and violence of men with specific efforts to the LGBTI community. Individuals from Arizona to India are letting their voices shatter the silence.

This is a precursor to the Take Back the Night community event on April 6, 2012 at the Phoenix Civic Space promptly at 6 p.m. There will be vendors, speaking and a march connecting with Phoenix First Fridays.

Sister Odora, the President of GCSPI says “The community has a need for connection to Suicide Prevention and Domestic Violence Prevention information and connection to support services.

This effort is opening the door to a stronger community and the Sisters continue to be committed to help the community get stronger.”

Then on Feb. 21 at 7p.m. Phat Indulgences (a Fat Tuesday celebration) will take place at Bunkhouse Saloon (4428 North 7th Avenue Phoenix).

This will be the 4th year for the GCSPI annual Fat Tuesday event and features the entertainment of ISEA Empress VI, Lady Christian and the famous Sisters Free Stuff Raffle. This is a fundraiser and awareness event for Reach Out Check In; Save a Life.

According to the Center of Disease Control, suicide is the third leading cause of death in the United States. In addition, LGBT youth are 2 to 3 times more likely to attempt suicide than their heterosexual peers. Suicide is a crisis that touches everyone from all backgrounds and has become a great concern for the LGBT community. EMPACT-SPC is leading the efforts with Reach Out Check In; Save a Life and the Trauma Healing Program to reach out to the community and connect individuals and their support systems with vital resources and supports.

For info about La Frontera Arizona EMPACTSPC programs contact Christian.Comeau@ empact-spc.com. For info about the April 6, Take Back the Night event contact Michelle.Rogers@ empact-spc.com. For info about EMPACT-SPC Trauma Healing Program contact Julie.Wonsowicz@empact-spc.com. For more information about the Grand Canyon Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence go to azsisters.org.

Teachers' Lounge PHOENIX - Teachers' Lounge is a professional development opportunity for K-12 teachers seeking strategies that improve safety and inclusion in their teaching practice. Teachers' Lounge also provides an opportunity for teachers and staff from K-12 schools to come together to network and discuss topics related to the LGBT community.

Teachers' Lounge is always looking for dedicated volunteers to co-facilitate our education training workshops! If interested or for more information about Teachers' Lounge, please visit the Facebook page or email teachers@glsenphoenix.org Teachers' Lounge meets the third Tuesday of each month at One Voice Community Center from 5:30-7pm.

G.L.A.D. DART League chooses charities PHOENIX - This season the three charities that G.L.A.D. (Gay and Lesbian Association of Darts) will be raising money for are: Bryon Wiley Memorial Scholarship Fund, GreenHouse Proj-

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LOCAL NEWS BRIEFS ect/Tumbleweed and Joshua Tree Feeding Program. The dart league season started on January 17 and will end on May 1, 2012.

The Second Annual Jack Plunkett Memorial Dart Tournament will be held by the Have a Heart Project on Saturday February 11, 2012 at Zoan (formerly ZGirls). Entry fee is $5 and the tournament starts at noon. There will be drink specials, raffles, and awards for 1st, 2nd, and 3rd place. All proceeds to benefit the G.L.A.D. charities.

Free healthy living workshop PRESCOTT - Are you dealing with a chronic disease or caring for someone with a chronic illness? Would you like to take control of that situation and learn skills to better manage your health or the health of your loved one? The Prescott Pride Center is teaming up with Yavapai County Community Health Services, Granite Peak Unitarian Universalist Congregation, and Prescott Unitarian Universalist Fellowship to offer another free workshop series designed to help you manage your condition and get your life back. This series is an excellent resource for anyone with diabetes, heart disease, COPD, mental illness, arthritis, fibromyalgia, chronic pain, or any other ongoing health condition, and it’s FREE! The Healthy Living Workshop meets once a week for six weeks (Feb 2-March 18) and can teach you important skills that you can use for self-management of your chronic condition. You’ll also enjoy the company and support of others living with long-term illness.

Carla Hover and Frankie Reynolds will co-facilitate the 2&1/2-hour workshops. Space is limited and advance registration is required. To sign up for the Healthy Living workshop series or for more information on the program, please contact Virginia Rodriguez at 928-442-5480.

Support Wingspan – have a party TUCSON - You can support Wingspan and have fun by organizing a third party fundraiser. A third party fundraiser is an event to benefit Wingspan that is completely sponsored and organized by an individual, company or organization other than Wingspan. Your ideas and your leadership will build your community center.

To get started, check out the list of Frequently Asked Questions on the website (wingspan.org), and when you are ready to go, complete the Third Party Event Application. The application helps Wingspan monitor requests for business contributions and ensures donors be thanked and receive tax information.

Donor envelopes may be picked up at the Wingspan office or mailed to you. Please call 520-624-1779.

Mona Foundation donates $30k TUCSON - The Southern Arizona AIDS Foundation (SAAF) is pleased to announce that they have received a $30,000 gift from The Mona Foundation to support vital HIV and AIDS programs and services in southern Arizona. The Mona Foundation is the charitable giving arm for Wet-Media, Inc. Wet-Media, established in 2007, is a provider of high quality, world wide social networking sites, in the top rankings with some of the largest internet traffic tracking companies and averaging 200 million hits a day.

Each year SAAF provides services to more than 1,000 people and delivers targeted prevention outreach and education programs to over 17,000 people who are at increased risk for HIV infection.

For more information about the programs and services of the Southern Arizona AIDS Foundation (SAAF) or to schedule a tour, please visit saaf.org or call 520-628-7223.

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UNSUNG HEROES

Unsung Heroes: Doug Pesavento & Michael Jacobs

By Luis Garcia

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ach month ‘N Touch News Magazine will honor an individual or individuals who have made a substantial contribution to the local LGBT community but whose remarkable actions are sometimes unacknowledged.

This month we have the privilege to honor one of the most giving couples in the Phoenix LGBT community, Doug Pesavento and Michael Jacobs, the owners of The Rock in Phoenix.

February’s unsung heroes are true role models.

Through their generous acts and selflessness they have opened their venue hosting numerous fundraisers for just about anyone in need. The thousands and thousands of dollars Jacobs and Pesavento have helped raise at The Rock since they took over the establishment two and a half years ago has really set the bar – no pun intended.

The owners of this friendly neighborhood bar, located on 7th Avenue just north of Indian School Road, are not only philanthropists but they have turned The Rock into one of the most exciting alternative entertainment spots in the Valley.

The Rock’s showroom, home to many of the fundraisers, features a diverse selection of entertainment every week. There you can see anything from stand-up comics, sketch comedy, truly entertaining drag shows, live music and more in an intimate cabaret setting.

‘N Touch: How did you two meet?

Presavento: We met at a bar. (Both laugh) The Leather Stallion in Cleveland. We met about seven years ago and been together for four.

‘N Touch: What made you buy a bar?

Presavento: After being at Progressive for 22 years I wanted something different. With Mike and his background in the restaurant and bar business and mine as a controller it just seemed like a good fit. So we started looking at hotels but decided against it because owning a bar would be a more enjoyable job and not so much a 24-hour job.

‘N Touch: How is that working out for you?

Presavento: I think it was still a good decision.

This is less work than it would have been running a hotel.

‘N Touch: Do you remember the first fundraiser

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you had at the bar?

Jacobs: Our first day we had four things going on at the bar. We had an after party for a golf fundraiser, an event for the Imperial Court, we had the Gay and Lesbian Association of Darts and then we had poker.

Presavento: Joe, the past owner, started the foundation of it being a gay and lesbian bar. I think that leads its way very nicely to being able to have fundraisers and community events here. The only time we have ever said no to someone was only if there was a conflict with the schedule.

Jacobs: I think we have helped raise money for just about every organization in the Valley. From One Voice to Toastmasters to Phoenix Pride to breast cancer organizations. We do it because we love to help the community. That is the reason we moved here. Our venue has different types of rooms that you can do different things in. You can have three things going on and not bother anybody else.

‘N Touch: What is this new community fundraising opportunity that you are starting at the Rock?

Presavento: The first Thursday of every month we are doing a fundraiser that is a group effort from all of our performers. We are changing the beneficiary every month. The first was for the Animal Defense League of Arizona, the next will be for Project Hard Hat, in March will be Boxer Luv and April for the Right to Marry Walk. We give a lot of the credit to Scott Pierce who is our events coordinator.

Jacobs: We really want to thank everybody in the community for supporting us. Hopefully we will be able to give back more throughout the year.

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NATIONAL NEWS

Presidential candidates to face politics of marriage

With a flurry of coast-to-coast developments during the end of January, same-sex marriage is back in the political spotlight and likely to remain there through Election Day as a half-dozen states face potentially wrenching votes on the issue.

In Maryland, New Jersey and Washington, bills to legalize same-sex marriage have high-powered support and good chances of passage in the legislature. Gay-marriage opponents in Maryland and Washington would likely react by seeking referendums in November to overturn those laws, while New Jersey’s Republican governor, Chris Christie, says he’ll veto the bill if it reaches him and prefers

that lawmakers OK a referendum so voters can decide.

In all three states, polls suggest voters are closely divided on whether gays should have the right to marry, so there’s a chance one could emerge as the first state to support same-sex marriage in a statewide vote.

Maine voters also may have an opportunity to vote for same-sex marriage in November; an announcement by gay-rights activists about a ballot-measure campaign is set for Thursday. Proposed amendments for constitutional bans on gay marriage will be on the ballots in North Carolina on May 8 and in Minnesota on Nov. 6.

In New Hampshire, Republicans who now control the legislature are mulling whether to repeal the 2009 law legalizing same-sex marriage.

Their state is one of six with such laws, along with Connecticut, Iowa, Massachusetts, New York and Vermont, as well as the District of Co-

lumbia.

Added together, the state-level showdowns will likely raise the prominence of the marriage issue in the presidential campaign, even though it’s not a topic that the leading candidates tend to broach proactively.

“There’s a lot going on,” said gaymarriage advocate Evan Wolfson, president of Freedom to Marry. “It means that candidates - whether Romney or Obama - who hope to avoid the discussion will not be able to.”

Three of the remaining Republican presidential contenders, Mitt Romney, Newt Gingrich and Rick Santorum, have signed a National Organization for Marriage pledge opposing same-sex marriage and endorsing a federal constitutional amendment to ban it. But it’s not among the topics prominent in the stump speeches of Romney or Newt Gingrich, the two front-runners.

On the Democratic side, President Barack Obama has taken sev-

eral steps during his first term that have pleased gay-rights advocates, but says he is still “evolving” in regard to same-sex marriage and isn’t ready to endorse it. Some activists hope he will do so before the election, though there’s been no strong hint of that from the White House.

“Obama will get asked about it, and you can’t straddle both sides of this forever,” said Richard Socarides, a former Clinton White House adviser on gay rights. “Clearly he’s not going to retreat, so he only has one place to go, and I think he will do it before the election.”

Another potential factor: Judgments could be issued during the campaign in one or more of several pending federal court cases about same-sex marriage. Appeals could result in the issue heading toward the Supreme Court, and the presidential candidates would be expected to comment on any major development.

I’m trying to find a way for people ... to find another pathway where everybody can have a chance to get what they want,” he said. “My view is a public referendum on a constitutional amendment regarding same-sex marriage is a way to get to that result.”

Six states and Washington, D.C. permit gay marriages. Thirty-one states have adopted constitutional amendments defining marriage as a union between one man and one woman.

The effort to legalize same-sex marriage gained new momentum this month when the Democraticcontrolled Senate declared the issue a priority for the new legislative session. The Senate Judiciary Committee advanced the measure in an 8-4 party-line vote following a three-hour hearing on Tuesday, but Christie upended their efforts by announcing that he would veto any

gay marriage bill that made it to his desk. He previously said he would consider the bill but was unlikely to change his mind.

A gay marriage bill failed in the Senate two years ago.

Christie said during the 2009 campaign that the issue should be put to a public vote because of its significance, and he reiterated that call, likely derailing any Republican legislators from supporting gay marriage legislation.

A day earlier, the governor, who is Catholic, surprised almost everyone by nominating an openly gay black Republican and a Korean-born immigrant to the state Supreme Court.

With Christie seeking a referendum on gay marriage and Democratic leaders issuing a resounding “no way’” a protracted political standoff seemed inevitable.

Christie acknowledged that, saying: “We all know how this movie is going to end. If they pass the bill, it’s going to be vetoed. If they attempt to override the veto, it will be sustained.

So, I’m trying to give them an alternative movie.”

Black NJ leaders:

No public vote on civil rights TRENTON, N.J. (AP) -

Two of New Jersey’s most influential black leaders blasted Gov. Chris Christie on Jan. 26 for proposing gay marriage be put to a popular vote in November, but the Republican governor insisted he’s offering a reasonable compromise amid his personal opposition to same-sex nuptials.

Assembly Speaker Sheila Oliver and Newark Mayor Cory Booker said in separate forums that civil rights are guaranteed by the Constitution and don’t belong on the ballot.

Booker said baseball great Jackie Robinson would not have had the opportunity to break the sport’s color barrier had the matter been put to a vote, and the mayor himself would not have had the opportunity, years later, to be elected to lead New Jersey’s largest city. Oliver said in a statement she was offended by Christie’s comment Tuesday that bloodshed may have been avoided in the South, and people would have been happier,

if the civil rights issues of the 1960s were settled by public referendum.

“Governor, people were fighting and dying in the streets of the South because the majority refused to grant minorities equal rights by any method,” Oliver said. “It took legislative action to bring justice to all Americans, just as legislative action is the right way to bring marriage equality to all New Jerseyans.”

Booker said during a news conference in Newark: “Dear God, we should not be putting civil rights issues to a popular vote, to be subject to the sentiments, the passions of the day. No minority should have their rights subject to the passions and the sentiments of the majority. This is the fundamental bedrock of what our nation stands for.”

Christie defended himself at a Statehouse news conference, saying he’s offering a compromise on gay marriage.

“I’m in divided government and

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WORLD NEWS

Forced Sterilization for

Transgender People in Sweden

By Nicole Pasulka Little known fact about Sweden, that supposed bastion of liberal idealism: If a Swedish transgender person wants to legally update their gender on official ID papers, a 1972 law requires them to get both divorced and sterilized first.

Sweden is considered extremely gay-friendly, with one of the highest rates of popular support for same-sex marriage, and more than half the population supports gay adoption. Arguing that the current law is both unpopular and abusive, the country’s moderate and liberal parties want to see it repealed. In response, the small but powerful Christian Democrat party formed a coalition with other right-of-center parties to join in upholding the requirement for sterilization. End result: a proposal for new legislation that allows trans—a preferred term for many people who undergo gender reassignment—to be married but continues to force them to be sterilized.

When trans people can’t present official identification matching their preferred gender presentation, they can suffer “frequent public humiliation, vulnerability to discrimination, and great difficulty finding or holding a job,” says Boris Dittrich, advocacy director of the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Program at Human Rights Watch, in response to the law.

Sweden’s relationship with forced sterilization goes way back. In 1997 journalist Maciej Zaremba, a reporter for Dagens Nyheter, discovered that over 60,000 people between 1935 and 1976 were sterilized against their will, including “’mixed race individuals,’ single mothers with many children, deviants, Gypsies, and other ‘vagabonds.’”

Then, like now, marginalized groups were obligated to sacrifice their reproductive freedom to gain basic rights. According to an article in the Columbia Journalism Review about Zaremba’s investigation: The person concerned was either declared “of unsound mind”—a simple procedure—or was subjected to irresistible pressure. Sign this or we’ll take the children, sign this or there’ll be no social benefit, no flat, no leave…and so on. Sweden went furthest in the way of legalized blackmail.

As the Los Angeles Times reported in 1999, Sweden’s effort to “perfect its genetic stock” ultimately cost the government $22,000 in compensation for each of the approximately 200 citizens— mostly female—who claimed they were forcibly sterilized between 1935 and 1975.

The legislation currently under debate in Sweden is despicable, but Sweden isn’t alone in this practice. Many countries have at points forced sterilization on individuals deemed “undesirable,” and the United States is no exception.

On January 10, a North Carolina state task news / politics / business / opinion

force approved a one-time payment of $50,000 for survivors of a little-known state-run eugenics program that sterilized an estimated 7,600 residents between 1929 and 1974. A CNN report estimated that 1,500 living victims may still remain, and while at least seven other states ran similar eugenics programs at different points, North Carolina is the first to compensate its victims. Little in known about how the state targeted individuals for sterilization and the logistics involved, but while eugenics programs in other states tended to focus

on criminals and the mentally ill, many poor and uneducated women and children were sterilized in North Carolina.

While the United States doesn’t force sterilization for trans people, most states require a surgeon’s letter verifying proof of “surgical treatment” in order to legally change gender on identification.

The ACLU has found that the definition of “surgical treatment” is vague. Those who don’t or can’t obtain a costly procedure or at least a surgeon’s letter are often left unable to legally change their gender, which can create serious personal and professional complications.

The Riksdag, Sweden’s national assembly, will review the proposal for new legislation in the spring, and barring further developments, the law will retain its requirement for compulsory sterilization. Love Georg Elfvelin, a 21-year-old store manager in Sweden, made an emotional video for AllOut.org during a protest in front of the Swedish Parliament that sums up the stakes in Sweden and around the world: “I can either be represented correctly, or have my basic human rights violated.”

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Board of Directors Meeting The GPGLCC Board of Directors meets every month on the second Wednesday at 8 a.m.

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On Jan. 14-15, a team of 37 volunteers from Phoenix, Sun City, Tucson and Globe arrived at the Emerge! Shelter Against Domestic Abuse in Tucson, Arizona. They were led in a service project by local business owner and member of Arizona Women in Tune, Sue Kinsman, of Kinsman Art Works, Phoenix. The goal of the project; transform the predominantly grey colored shelter facility into a warm, welcoming environment for the women and children who make the difficult decision to leave abusive situations and turn to Emerge! to begin a better life.

Kinsman volunteered to partner with Benjamin Moore Paints last fall in their “Color Care Across America” program, which helped paint the interior of 52 shelters in 52 cities across the nation. After going through a detailed nomination and selection process, Emerge! was the recipient of the program in Arizona. With two week’s notice, Kinsman was able to build a team of 14 professionals and volunteers who painted the interiors of each residence, common space and meeting room. Color is a powerful element in our environment and strongly influences how we feel in a given space. Subtle colors were selected to replace the previous array of browns, deep eggplant, fiery red, and electric yellow, creating an atmosphere that supports feelings of calm and promotes peacefulness and healing.

The change to the interior was substantial. But despite the radical improvements inside the facility, the outside of the buildings remained a stormy grey. Emerge! provides services for up to 70 participants, for periods up to 90 days, with new participants arriving in need of solace and care. Each of the residences had the same grey walls and the same blue doors. Kinsman tried to put herself in the shoes of the women and children who arrive at the gate, often with little more than the clothes on their backs and what small belongings they can carry. She wanted to create a sense of hopefulness, so that stepping out of the old and into the new had a positive beginning. More than that, she wanted to use color to differentiate one residence from another, so that even the youngest children could recognize their own, special new home by its colors.

Kinsman stayed in touch with Benjamin Moore and they agreed to provide the paint for phase two! In early December, she traveled to Tucson for meetings with the shelter staff to select colors, solidify the vision, take measurements and share the word about the project.

The team was flexible, friendly and focused, and

the first day they were able to prep everything and got a huge jump on painting over 31,000 square feet of exterior surface space. It seemed like a slow process at first, with so much to tackle throughout the morning. But at some magical moment, they looked around and could see the dream beginning to blossom.

At lunch time, Michelle, the Direct Service Manager for the shelter, took time to thank each person for being there and shared how their efforts would entirely change the first impressions of participants coming to the shelter. She then lifted up a black frame, which held a certificate.

“The President’s Volunteer Service Award, Presented by the Corporation for National Community Service to Sue Kinsman in recognition and appreciation of your commitment to strengthening our Nation and for making a difference through volunteer service. Martin Luther King, Jr. 2012 Drum Major for Service.”

Kinsman was visibly moved. Michelle went on to read an acknowledgement and congratulatory letter from President Barack Obama that accompanied the award. Kinsman addressed the rousingly supportive group by saying, “None of us volunteers our time or service with the aim of receiving accolades,” then acknowledged the many individuals who contributed to both projects and graciously accepted the award on behalf of each of them.

On the second day, after many hours of diligent work, in the rain and even in the dark, they finally wrapped up around 7p.m. When they stopped, they looked up, amazed at the complete transformation they had created in only two days. Together, the team was able to accomplish over 95% of their incredibly ambitious goal. The few remaining areas will be tackled by some fine folks on the Emerge! staff, and all will be complete in due time. continued on page 38 >

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BUSINESS NEWS

Phoenix Pride announces Pride Parade Grand Marshals PHOENIX – Based on nominations received from the Phoenix LGBTQ community, Phoenix Pride announced this year’s parade will be lead by Rich Zavala, aka Miss Afeelya Bunz and former Pride Parade Director Jamie Henderson-Mays.

Community Grand Marshal’s are honored for their contributions not only to Phoenix Pride over the years but for their dedication to the Phoenix LGBTQ community as a whole.

This honor is well-deserved by both individuals.

The 16th Annual Phoenix Pride Parade will step off on Saturday, April 21, 2012 at 11 a.m. The parade route runs northbound on 3rd Street from Thomas to Indian School where it leads directly into Steele Indian School Park (Phoenix Pride Park), the home of the 32nd Annual Phoenix Pride 2-day Festival.

This year commemorates the selection of the 2nd Annual Celebrity Grand Marshal and LGBTQ Youth Grand Marshals. These new categories were introduced in 2011 and have been permanently adopted by the organization. This year’s LGBTQ Youth Grand Marshal is Max Jannsen; a 14 year old transgender youth. The celebrity marshal will be announced soon.

At the 2011 Pride Awards Gala last June, Pride introduced an opportunity for some very lucky attendees to represent themselves or their organization at the 2012 Pride Parade as the Gala Grand Marshal. The Imperial Court stepped up to the challenge with a $2000 contribution to the Pride Scholarship Fund.

“We are proud to recognize the Imperial Court of Arizona as our 2012 Pride Gala Grand Marshal.

Representing the Imperial Court will be their 2011 Emperor and Empress.

We hope that you will join us at the parade this year to help celebrate the accomplishments of these amazing individuals,” stated Executive Director Brandi Sokolosky.

Phoenix Pride Festival hosts over 250 exhibitors, providing an incredible array of shopping and informational experiences for attendees.

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Rich Zavala (a.k.a. Afeelya Bunz)

Jamie Henderson-Mays

Returning special attractions include the interactive ARTS Expo located under a 100 x 100 tent combined with the Bistro Stage, Lakeside Wedding Chapel where Pride will host mass-commitment ceremonies throughout the weekend and delicious international fare.

After last year’s festival the staff and board conducted a survey from patrons. From that survey they were able to find out what you like. You Spoke and they listened! Most importantly, you will see MORE SHADE throughout the festival.

They also have added a VIP Area for VIP ticket holders that will include a weekend packed full of amazing events to be announced in the coming weeks. There will be two entrances, one for patrons who purchase their tickets online and a separate entrance on the same side of the park for patrons purchasing their tickets at the gate. For the first time Phoenix Pride will accept credit cards for admissions purchases and for beverage tickets. ATM’s will still be available throughout the park for your convenience.

Headliners will be announced in February. Visit the Phoenix Pride website for entertainment updates.

Online Festival Tickets are on sale now at pride-tickets.org. Don’t forget to purchase your $30 weekend pass, only available online offering you a savings of $10 for the weekend.

Be sure to ride the METRO Light Rail to the Parade and the Festival.

The station is only 3 blocks from all the festivities. No parking issues; just jump on the METRO Light Rail and join your friends for a great

weekend of fun.

Phoenix Pride has so many wonderful sponsors, some that have been with the organization for years, and some brand new ones showing their support for the LGBTQ community.

To name a few Bud Light, Smirnoff, Jose Cuervo, Barefoot Wines, City of Phoenix Parks & Recreation Department, Instinct Magazine, ProEm Events Management, Pepsi, Cox

Communications, Verizon Wireless, SAAF, Here Media, ManHunt. com, Red Bull, Southwest Center for HIV/AIDS, Karamba’s Nightclub, ‘N Touch News Magazine, ION Arizona, Elbow Grease, Community Tire, Family Apparel, Alphagrapics, Arizona Republic/AZ Central.com, BIG Printing, Carey Limousine, Phoenix New Times, Aunt Rita’s Foundation, One Community, Arizona Pride Guide, The State Press, Holiday Inn, The Saguaro, Hilton Garden Inn, Radisson and many more!

Phoenix Pride celebrates and promotes the history, diversity and future prosperity of the metropolitan Phoenix LGBTQ community.

Phoenix Pride is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization.

For more information about Phoenix Pride please visit phoenixpride.org or call 602-27PRIDE.

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FITNESS

Weight loss and the energy balance equation

By Robert Scimeca, NSCA CPT Many factors contribute to a person’s success in weight loss. These factors include genetics, medical conditions, hormones, age, gender, as well as eating habits and physical activity. The Energy Balance Equation is simply energy intake verses energy expenditure. A person is in energy balance when the amount of energy (calories) taken in, equals the amount of energy (calories) burnt. The only way a person will lose weight is to be in a calorie deficit; burning more calories than taken in.

Energy expenditure is made up of 3 factors: • Resting metabolism (60 to 70%), • The body’s processing of food (5 to 10%), • Daily physical activity.

Of these 3 factors, the only one we can control is physical activity.

During a calorie deficit the body uses stored energy (body fat) to provide energy that is needed but not available from food, resulting in a negative energy balance. One pound of fat equals 3,500 calories. This means it takes a 3,500 calorie deficit to lose one pound of weight. A

calorie deficit resulting in a one pound weight loss a week could be achieved by: • Cutting calorie intake by 500 calories a day (7 multiplied by 500 equals 3,500) • Increasing physical activity by 500 calories a day, or • Cutting calories by 250 a day and increasing physical activity by 250 a day Studies have shown that a healthy weight loss is 1 to 2 pounds per week. People who lose weight too rapidly tend to gain it back. People who lose weight gradually are more likely to keep it off. Furthermore, weight loss has been proven more successful when a person combines reducing calories along with increased physical activity.

So, where do we go from here if we are serious about weight loss?

Start by committing yourself to burning an additional 200 to 250 calories a day. This can be achieved by increasing aerobic activity. Aerobic activities are physical activities in which people move large muscle groups in a rhythmic manner for a sustained period; running, brisk walking, basketball, or volley ball, to name a few. The amount of calories burned depends on the amount of time and the intensity of the work out. Most cardio equipment will have calorie counters. However, as a general rule a 180 pound person will burn 100 calories in a 20

minute walk. Also, that same 180 pound person will burn about 250 calories on a treadmill in 30 minutes at 5 miles per hour.

Physical activity can also be increased in small ways. For instance, park your car farther away and walk the extra distance, take the stairs instead of the elevator, walk to the store instead of driving. You would be surprised how these little things add up.

Adult males tend to lose weight faster than adult females. If you experience the so called dieters plateau, a period of time in which there is very little or no weight loss despite the adherence to an eating and exercise plan, be patient.

This is normal and happens to almost everyone on a diet and exercise plan.

On the diet side of the equation, “Calorie intake,” we need to understand diet composition: Carbohydrates contain 4 calories per gram, Proteins contain 4 calories per gram, Fats contain 9 calories per gram, and as a side note, alcohol contains 7 calories per gram The easiest way to lose weight is to reduce foods high in fat and/or sugar and limiting alcohol, which contain substantial amounts of empty calories. Also, concentrate on eating more fiber, including whole grains, fruits and vegetables. Most of these foods are naturally low in fat and calorie content. In addition, increasing fiber will add bulk to the diet and help provide a feeling of fullness. Choose more skinless poultry, fish, and dried beans because they contain less fat, especially saturated fat. Dairy products should be low or no fat.

Try to bake, broil, grill, or poach foods instead of frying them. To sauté items without the extra fat, use a non stick skillet or non stick vegetable spray. To add flavor and variety to foods, use a splash of lemon juice, garlic, and spices instead of heavy sauces and gravies. For desserts try fresh fruits and non fat yogurt. If you adhere to a program of healthy eating and exercise your goals will be achieved.

For more in-depth information on the nutritional make up of food and calorie burning activities go to myplate.gov. This web site by the USDA (US Department of Agriculture) stresses 5 themes: Variety, Proportionality, Activity, and gradual improvement. Check it out!

And lastly, be consistent and stick to a program. Your goals can and will be achieved.

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SPORTS

LGBT Sports

AZ Derby Dames start junior league

PHOENIX - The Arizona Derby Dames

(AZDD) are halfway through the season and the competition is so close that fans have been glued to their seats in anticipation of which teams will be top seated in the playoffs. The first game in Bout Three highlights the Runaway Brides and the Coffin Draggers in a rematch of last season’s championship game. In the second bout of the Feb. 18 double header, both teams have to prove their worth as the Schoolyard Scrappers take on the Bombshells.

The sport of roller derby has made a comeback across the country but fans of AZDD return to each bout to see heart-driven athletes play with a unique passion for the sport. The women commonly rush from work to practice, forsake sleep to manage family life, and squeeze in time for college, charity work, or running a business.

“My life revolves around derby…any of my free time…and my boyfriend – all involve derby,” said Scarlett Knockout of the Coffin Draggers.

Rowdy Roulette of the Runaway Bride, league manager, and mother of three said her role in derby requires, “A never ending love for the sport and players that it’s made up of…patience…MORE then what’s needed with your own children.”

The relentless work and determination of fe-

male leaders is the story behind the return of roller derby, and the sport is set to grow further still. The Arizona Derby Dames now runs a junior league called the Banked Track Brats where girls from 7-years-old to 17-years-old can come learn the sport in preparation of becoming the next Arizona Derby Dame. The Brats learn rules, skating techniques, teamwork, and athleticism on the same banked track the professional skaters use. The Banked Track Brats previously watched the bouts as fans. Now these girls will be in attendance on February 18th as members of the sport, watching for strategy, penalties, and moves they have learned at their own practices.

“Roller derby has something for everyone.

Whether it is the skill level, the technique, the strategy, the strong positive female role models, the entertainment factor, or the athleticism and hits...

The more you learn about the sport, the more you appreciate and enjoy it,” said Déjà Déjà vu of the Bombshells.

Arizona Veterans Memorial Coliseum is located at 1826 W. McDowell Rd., Phoenix, AZ 85007 (602-252-6771). Doors will open at 5 p.m. with the bouts starting at 7 p.m. General admission tickets for the stadium seats in the Coliseum will be $12, children under 12 are free. Two hundred general admission tickets are available for standing room on the floor around the track for $12. General admission for children 12 and under is free. VIP tiered seating right off the floor (with access to a nearby VIP only bar and restrooms) will be $20 for adults and children. Parking will be $7. Tickets will be on sale the day of the event at the Coliseum box office starting at 4 p.m. Advance tickets may be purchased until 2 p.m. on Feb. 17 at arizonaderbydames.com.

Saddle up cowboys/girls The Road Runner Regional Rodeo (RRRR) is on the way! Come out to Rawhide Western Town and see the first gay rodeo of 2012. The rodeo, hosted by the Arizona Gay Rodeo Association, takes place Presidents’ Day Weekend, February 17-19, 2012 at the Rawhide Arena and Pavilion.

The Arena will be the place to see bull-riding, roping events, speed events on horseback, and the crowd favorite camp events like Wild Drag Race and Goat Dressing. Next to the Arena is a huge indoor Pavilion - where you will find dozens of vendors of food and displays for all, plus bars for the adults. Country Idol Finals competition takes place on stage, free on Friday - and country dancing and music are featured throughout Saturday and Sunday. news / politics / business / opinion

Tickets are available now through the website agra-phx.com. Admission to all the rodeo events and pavilion are $15 each day - Saturday and Sunday. The Weekend Pass is only $25.

For additional information go to agra-phx.com

Leagues Spotlight

Sports leagues of the Valley provide a safe, friendly, and fun social setting for the LGBT community. Whether a new comer, veteran, or a fan, everyone is welcome.

Basketball

Hellraisers Hoops Open Play Sundays from 2 – 4 p.m.

Sports Club of City Square www. phoenix.ngba.us hellraiserhoops@yahoo.com

Flag Football

PHX Hellraisers Flag Football League

Saturdays 9 a.m. January – April Colter Park www.phoenixflagfootball.com info@phoenixflagfootball.com 602.284.9207

Rugby – Men Phoenix Storm

Tuesdays & Thursdays 7 p.m.

Longview Elementary School www.phoenixstorm.org info@rugbystorm.com

Softball

Cactus Cities Softball League

Sundays starting at 8 a.m.

Spring: Feb. – May; Fall: Oct. - Dec Ceasar Chavez Park www.cactuscities.com

Swimming

The Phoenix Sunfish

Year around schedule Mon, Tues, & Thurs - 6:30 - 8 pm Saturdays - 4:30-6 pm Three Locations throughout the valley www.phxsunfish.org

Volleyball – Indoor

Desert Volleyball Alliance February - May Saturdays 12 – 3 p.m.

Kingdom Courts www.desertvalleyalliance.org aaryck@hotmail.com

Volleyball – Sand

Arizona Gay Volleyball Association

Three seasons to choose from Feb – May, June – Aug, Sept – Dec Indian Steele Park & Radisson City Center Mondays & Tuesdays 6:30 p.m. www.azgv.org commissioner@azgv.org

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ach year ‘N Touch News tries to recognize some of the individuals and groups that go abotve and beyond in their efforts for the community. Without further adieu…

Woman of the Year Nominees Donnell Dumos Donnell Dumos has called Arizona her home since 1973. Her mother shared her love of community service with her as a child, and Donnell has continued to serve her community ever since. Her most rewarding jobs have been those helping the mentally and physically challenged, and the deaf community.

In 2007, she became co-chair of the Gay & Lesbian Association of Dart’s “Have a Heart” program and has raised over $40,000 benefiting many

LGBT groups. Since she joined, the contributions have doubled because of her commitment. Donnell is on the Kobalt Knights dart team and you will often see her raising funds by selling Jell-O shots and raffle tickets. She coordinates the Have a Heart fundraisers, such as the Jack Plunkett Dart Tournament (Feb 10, 2012), the Underwear Auction (Bunkhouse, March 10, 2012), and the Chili Cook-off (Kobalt, May 27, 2012). The dart teams have awarded Donnell the “Most Fun Female” the last two seasons. In the summer 2011, Donnell was also given the “Have a Heart” award for all her countless hours of service and dedication for the GLAD charities.

Although Donnell is surprised and honored to be nominated, her partner and friends are not. Her partner, Maria, is extremely proud of all the work and contributions Donnell has made to the community. “Donnell has the most amazing, giving and beautiful heart and her service to the community is given with pure love and respect. She really is an incredible woman!”

Trudie Jackson A member of the Navajo Tribe and resided in Phoenix for 27 years, Trudie Jackson is a full-time student majoring in Public Service and Public Policy with a minor in Nonprofit Management at Arizona State University, where she is also the Udall Scholarship recipient. Trudie also works full-time as a Health Educator for Native Health.

But, despite being extremely busy with school and work Trudie has worked and volunteered her time and energy to Native-American causes and the LGBT community. She chaired the Native LGBTQ Health Symposium in collaboration with ASU-SIRC with numerous sponsors and collaborating organizations. Trudie received the “Dreamcatcher” award for contributions to the Native LGBTQ community.

Trudie served on the One Voice Community Center Board of Directors as its Diversity Chair,

and is an advisor for Indigenous Out and Proud -- a Native American, Alaska Native, and Native Hawaiian LGBTQ support group. She is on the steering committee for The Network for LGBT Health Equity under Fenway Health, team captain for Native Health NDN Spirits for AIDS Walk Phoenix/SAVORlife under Aunt Rita’s Foundation and is also the pageant director for Miss Indian Transgender Arizona Pageant.

Trudie is the recipient of the 5 Years of Service award from Native Health and a Transgender award winner from This is H.O.W. “This is a great honor to be selected as a nominee. I am very humble. Thank you to the awesome Phoenix LGBT community members.”

Linda Thomas It was a fortunate day, indeed, when Linda Thomas and her partner, Holly Lyons, stopped by the Wingspan office and offered to host a golf tournament.

It began a relationship that continues today. The Wingspan Golf Classic has become a signature event for Wingspan, Tucson’s LGBT community center. The Wingspan Golf Classic is in its fourth year and is a major fundraiser for the non-profit.

Founding and hosting the Golf Classic was just a start for Linda. She was asked to serve on the board of directors and became a member of the board in 2009. When the position of Program Director became vacant in 2010, Linda applied and was hired to fill the position. Linda states that “she was not looking for a second career, but she saw a need and filled that need.” Linda and Holly, both military commanders, retired to the Tucson area to soak up the sun and play more golf, not to run a non-profit.

When notified of her nomination, Linda’s first inclination was to decline. According to Linda, “Wingspan’s success had little to do with me. It took a team effort.” She went on to list every person on her staff and the all of the volunteers at Wingspan as people who deserved the award more. All those who know Linda will agree that would be her response.

Linda was nominated because of her dedication and commitment to help Wingspan go through a rough period of shrinking grants and donations.

Because of her work, Wingspan is able to offer many services to the southern Arizona area, including, but not limited to, the Anti-Violence program, the Southern Arizona Gender Alliance, the Eon Youth Lounge, the Homeless Teen program and many other programs.

Toby Urvater Toby Urvater, M.S.W., is the program administrator for Maricopa County’s Office of Health Promotion and Education within the Department of Public Health. She has been with the department for over 16 years directing programs ranging from tobacco use prevention, HIV/AIDS prevention, public

health emergency preparedness, obesity prevention and injury prevention, specifically for children. Her responsibilities include injury (child seat safety) and obesity prevention, wellness for women, and safe routes for schools.

Toby serves on many local and national boards and committees, including the Safe States Alliance, whose mission is to be the national voice in reducing violence and injury prevention to state and local health departments.

But, it is her work as the founding member of 1n10, the LGBTQ youth group that she was nominated. Specifically, during the past five years as 1n10 chair she took the organization from an allvolunteer led program to employing six staff and increasing programs and expanding locations in the east and west Valley. Although she is no longer chair, she continues to serve as a board member.

“I am so honored to be nominated for this recognition, I couldn’t have an impact without all of the others who also work to make our community better.”

Man of the Year Nominees

Richie Black (aka Celia Putty) Celia Putty (aka Richie Black) is the reigning Miss Gay Arizona America and most recently placed top ten for the second time at Miss Gay America.

Richie has made the art of female impersonation his personal pipeline for smuggling his particular brand of comedy, but he is no stranger to jumping the shark. This year he played the role of “Maddie Van Buren” in Nearly Naked Theatre’s “Devil Boys From Beyond,” a production that was nominated for and received several AriZoni awards. He hosts a weekly show, “Celia Putty’s Freaky Friday” at Friends in Phoenix; he also hosts (out of drag) a weekly event he calls “Meatgrinder” which is a hodgepodge of “love” games including Post Office, the Dating Game, and the “Cruellywed Game.”

Richie is co-promoter of the Miss Gay Metropolis Pageant, which will be held Sunday Feb. 12 at BS West, and has been involved in a slew of fundraisers from AIDS Walk Arizona to Phoenix Pride.

He is enjoying a terrific run back in the spotlight after ending his long sabbatical two years ago.

Lastly, Richie has embraced sobriety for more than seven years and will be celebrating 12 years with his partner Bill.

“I am tickled to have been nominated for ‘N Touch News Magazine’s ‘Man of the Year.’ Does this mean I haven’t convinced you that I am a lady?

Was it my five o’clock shadow that gave me away?

Thank you, nonetheless, I am a bit embarrassed but very truly flattered.”

Kevin Casey Kevin Casey is the owner and operator of Avalon for Hair, Skin, and Nails in Tucson. Kevin, a dedicated volunteer for the Southern Arizona AIDS Foundation, is the founder and current director of the most fabulous fundraisers in Arizona, Möda Provôcateūr. Kevin got the idea for Möda after attending a similar event in Albuquerque in 2003 and has been producing this style and fashion show since 2004. The event had a humble beginning but the show continues to outgrow its venues and has raised well over $100,000 to benefit SAAF. This year’s event will be held at the Tucson Community Center Grand Ballroom on March 4 and is expected to be another sell-out. The theme of the event this year is “Stand By Me” and pays tribute to the caregivers who dedicate so much of their life to helping those living with HIV/AIDS. “Kevin is one of those community volunteers who do not seek the spotlight. He has tirelessly worked to make Möda a huge success without needing or wanting to be recognized for his efforts.

That is what makes him invaluable to the Tucson Community and to SAAF, specifically,” said Ethan Smith Cox, Development Director of SAAF. In fact, when Kevin was notified of the nomination, Kevin loudly stated, “You must be out of your mind. Me?” Kevin asked specifically for others to be recognized as those who made Möda a huge success.

This year’s sponsoring salons include; Ahead of Style, Aveda Institute of Tucson, J. Scordato, Mia Bella, and Style 7. The Cele Peterson Award this year will be presented to Paula Taylor and Erin Burke, both former owners of Pour Moi Boutique, for their ongoing contributions to the local fashion community.

Joe Dugandzic Joe Dugandzic has been podcasting since 2008, but has been involved in digital media for many years.

Many people have told him over the years that he had a great “radio voice”, and it makes sense, as he was an avid listener of local Valley radio talk shows while growing up. An IT professional by day and an entrepreneur and media enthusiast by night, Joe was inspired by major shows on the Internet such as Feast of Fun, and The 404 among others. This led him to create QTalk Arizona in 2010. Joe somehow roped many of his friends who already had varied interests, into becoming talk show hosts on QTalk Arizona. Today, the network has seven podcast series–with more on the way. Joe feels that QTalk Arizona can give back to the community by continued on next page >

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bringing people together throughout Arizona.

Joe has been involved with the local LGBT community for many years, starting out being a participant in the 1n10 youth program in the late ’90s and serving on the Phoenix Pride Board of Directors and doing fundraising for Aunt Rita’s Foundation’s events. Joe is currently single, hoping that Mr. Wonderful will show up sometime soon and loves living in Downtown Phoenix.

Joe has concentrated on building QTalk Arizona into something really amazing for the Arizona LGBT community. “I can easily say that after April, most of my free time for the remainder of 2011 was taken up by QTalk Arizona.

“It’s an honor, and a surprise, for sure. It gave me a great start to this day! I could say that it’s great, so that it will bring more visibility to my work with QTalk Arizona, but in reality, I’m quite happy that my efforts are being recognized by the community!”

Josstyn Redulla (aka Olivia Gardens)

As Miss Phoenix Gay Pride 2011, Olivia Gardens has dedicated the last year to upholding the mission of Phoenix Pride.

As a visible representative of Phoenix Pride, Olivia has actively engaged the community at events including the Phoenix Pride festival, Pride Gala, and Rainbows Festival.

In addition to increasing the public awareness of Phoenix Pride’s mission, Olivia has partnered with numerous organizations to help raise funds and awareness. Olivia performs Friday nights at The Rock and cohosts the podcast All That Glitters on QTalk Arizona. Olivia has also raised funds for numerous non-profits.

“I am surprised and honored to be considered for ‘N Touch Man of the Year. If nothing else, I hope to have helped promote the history, diversity, and future prosperity of the Phoenix LGBTQ community.”

Craig Van Deen

(aka Miss Julie Craig)

Originally from St Paul, Minnesota a Craig Van Deen (aka Miss Julie Craig) was an RN for 30 plus years. Craig now works for United Health Care, helping those people with Medicare understand their healthcare issues and educating them.

Craig’s focus over the years has always been to help others in some way. He says it constantly amazes him how thankful an organization is when provided with a gift of support, money, hands-on assistance, or visibility for their program. “It is not how much or how little one does, but that you took the time to do anything at all.”

In 2007, Craig (as Julie) was elected by the community as Empress II of the Imperial Court of Arizona. Craig continues to work with the Court family to do wonderful things for the community.

As his alter ego Julie Craig, he has worked with, and performed for countless organizations including Phoenix Metropolitan Men’s Chorus, Joshua Tree Feeding Program, Aunt Rita’s Foundation, Youth Empowerment Program, One Voice Community Center, HOPE House, MCC Gentle Shepherd Church, PFLAG, Aid to Adoption of Special Kids, and many more.

“It is my humble opinion that Phoenix is one of the strongest, bravest and most remarkable communities to be involved in and I thank you all for the opportunity to be a part of it. I am very honored to have been selected by ‘N Touch Magazine as a nominee for Man of the Year.”

Group of the year Nominees

Men of Charlie’s The Men of Charlie’s, Phoenix, was started in January of 1987, and is a non-profit organization committed to fundraising for local LGBT organizations in the Phoenix area.

The Men of Charlie’s have raised over a hundred thousand dollars for organizations such as; Joshua Tree Feeding Program, One Voice Community Center, Project Hard Hat, and PFLAG. The group hosts a “Man of the Month” contest at Charlie’s on the first Friday of every month. Any male who is over 21 years of age can compete for the title. The Men of Charlie’s also sell Jell-O shots on the Friday nights the rest of the month to raise funds for non-profits. The Men of Charlie’s has a bowling fundraiser on the second Saturday of the month, and is actively involved in events such as AGRA Rodeo, Phoenix Pride and Rainbows Festival.

PEAKS Pride PEAKS Pride is a 501(c) 3 Organization - Offering Volunteer Community Services to the Flagstaff and Northern Arizona Area. PEAKS stands for: Promoting Equality through Acts of Kindness and Service (with Pride and Dignity). Although they

are not affiliated with any other Flagstaff non-profit, it is the boards desire to work and collaborate with as many non-profit organizations in Flagstaff and Northern Arizona as possible.

Some of the non-profits PEAKS Pride has helped and projects they continue to work on are Second Chance Center for Animals - where they held a garage/yard sale and raised over $2,500 for them. Annually, they take part in the Annual Summer Food Drive for the Northern Arizona Food Bank - where, to date, they have collected over 3000 pounds of food. Three times a year they clean our Adopt-an-Avenue roadways in Flagstaff.

The LGBT group has also adopted a portion of the Museum of Northern Arizona’s Colton Garden to procure for the seniors at the Peaks Senior Living Community; as well as helped install handicap parking near the garden.

These are just a few of the projects that PEAKS Pride has embarked on in the past two years. All of them completed by volunteers that take great pride in all that is accomplished with each donated hour of time.

Right to Marry: Arizona The Right to Marry Campaign uses the framework of pilgrimage for its outreach. Each summer a group of core Equality Walkers walks a mile for every year Arizona has been a state without full legal recognition of its LGBT citizens. The Equality Walkers utilize these miles to speak to police, city managers, faith communities, elected officials and individuals in diverse districts.

Their goal is to carefully and collectively examine the intersection wherein scripture and social norms meet gender and human sexuality. And more practically, they hope to share and gain insights about how related policies and doctrines impact the lives of everyone in a community. These conversations are undeniably essential in creating a safe environment for all citizens of Arizona.

This summer there will be three teams walking 100 miles.

Please go to ntouchaz.com to vote for your choice for ‘N Touch Man, Woman and Group of the year!

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Convergent evolution

By Edward Pulley

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onvergent evolution is a very interesting concept. It is a biological term to describe when two different species evolve to fill a similar ecological biome or niche. This perhaps sounds a bit confusing, but it occurs quite commonly. A couple examples make this clear.

Penguins and puffins are both aquatic birds, white on one side to render them difficult to see from below when swimming and black on the other to have the same effect when viewed from above. Both live in colonies, and both live in areas of extreme cold – penguins in the Antarctic and puffins in the arctic. Yet they are completely divergent species.

It also happens with plants. Go to the plant nursery and you will find cactuses and euphorbias.

Cactuses are mainly native to the Americas while euphorbias are from Africa and Asia. But they both succulents that evolved to grow in dry arid climates, with many looking almost interchangeable.

Admittedly, a biology lesson is not what one would normally expect from this column. Zombies, comic books, and giant radioactive monsters are a bit more at home here. Yet the concept of convergent evolution seems to extend past biology, especially when it comes to the entertainment world.

There are the current first-year television shows Grimm and Once Upon A Time, taking fairy tales into a modern world. Within months of each other, the movies Capote and Infamous both chronicled the story behind the writing of In Cold Blood.

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In comic books there are the striking similarities between DC’s Swamp Thing and Marvel’s Manthing, each appearing just weeks apart, as well as DC’s Doom Patrol and Marvel’s X-Men. The list could go on almost endlessly.

And then we have Yaoi and Slash. What are these? First let’s tackle yaoi.

In Japan, graphic story-telling is incredibly popular. In general it is referred to as manga; it covers all sorts of topics and is read by pretty much all walks of life. Businessmen will read them on their commute to work, teenage girls read them at the library, and children will read them on the schoolyard. Giant robots, coming of age teens, spies, romance, dinosaurs – all this and more can be found (one of my favorites is a silly strip called What’s Michael? all about an orange cat.) Crossovers between manga and animation happen all the time, such as Sailor Moon. Then there was the worldwide phenomenon called Death Note, which was turned into an animated series, two movies, a novel and beyond. But back to yaoi.

Yaoi (roughly pronounced“yowie”) is manga that centers around a love story. Specifically, a gay love story. Also known as Boy’s Love, it usually focuses on two young men and there are many common tropes that can be found in many of the stories. In spite of the seemingly non-traditional subject matter, the whole affair is usually highly romanticized, with dreamy looks across a crowded room, endless wondering what or who the other one is thinking of, and hand-holding leading to passionate kissing.

The pair typically divides into the Seme, who is more masculine in appearance and action (and if there is sex involved, he will be the “active” one here as well), and the Uke who is the feminine one (and the “passive” in sexual activities.)

High school is a popular theme, but it is far from being the only one. One popular series, Fake, features adult characters and is a yaoi version of the police buddy movie. Then there is The Devil’s Secret which features a young priest who finds himself attracted to an incubus that wants to seduce him. Then we have yaoi inspired American titles which sometimes take these varied themes a bit further, such as super-heroes or space operas.

But America has already crossed this threshold, which leads to slash.

Slash is a special type of fan fiction – traditionally a homosexual romance between two male characters. The name slash comes from the tradition manner of expressing who the romantic pairing will be in the story – Superman/Batman, Luke

Skywalker/Han Solo, Harry Potter/Professor Snape, etc. It appears to have arisen from Star Trek fans who felt that Kirk and Spock made the perfect couple, but has grown to encompass virtually every fandom there is. I have a friend who used to write Lord of the Rings slash, I jokingly wrote one involving the Quaker cereal character “Quake” (available upon request), and sometimes original characters are created for the purpose of the story (I swear that Brokeback Mountain is an example of this.)

Slash does differ from yaoi in a few key ways.

Since it is usually derived from already existing characters, the seme/uke relationship is not as strong in slash stories. Also, slash is fairly much an amateur endeavor as compared to the professionally produced yaoi. While yaoi is by definition about a gay romance, slash can be about heterosexual parings (although many fans want to be sufficiently warned if such an aberration is to occur in the story.)

So other than being gay love stories, how are these two an example of convergent evolution?

Here we go…

While gay fiction clearly existed before this time, both of these forms evolved around the same time in the early 70’s. Many times both involve secret or forbidden relationships, although this is not necessary. And surprise! – Neither is predominantly targeted for a gay male audience. Yaoi is aimed at teenage girls and slash is most commonly written by adult women. (Men, if you are looking for manga written with you in mind, look for Bara or “Men’s Love”, and if you are looking for male oriented slash, well, refine your internet search.)

So let’s recap. Penguins and puffins are examples of convergent evolution. It is a coincidence that both DC and Marvel created swamp creatures within weeks of each other. We have added “seme” and “uke” to our vocabulary. Some people think that Snape and Potter should have been a couple. And a lot of straight women love reading gay romances. All in all, a very educational day, I would say.

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REAL ESTATE

Forgiveness, anyone?

By Dorian Kreiling

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here are many things Arizona is first or second in gives us all kinds of bragging rights. (Melinda has been here from the Midwest for over 15 years and still goes to the weather section of the paper every morning to chuckle, “Twelve degrees in Detroit… !”). I have always bragged about the fact that I can run up to Flagstaff mid week for what I deem a “high level meeting” (READ: Skiing) and be back in the warm country before dinner.

Some things we don’t want to brag about and our recent Real Estate market is sadly one of them.

We are literally number two in highest foreclosures by a bank and short sales. The latter is when the value of your home is less than your mortgage. By selling your home you are asking the bank to participate in the loss. You will not get any money at closing, the bank, in a negotiated resolution; will settle for less than

what you owe. Your credit will suffer for 2- 3 years, but it is far better to do that than simply walk from your home, be foreclosed upon and face 7-10 years of credit punishment.

Arizona (this is a good thing!) is an anti-deficiency state. That means that when you bought your home, (and you actually paid extra for this in your escrow) there is a clause that in laymen’s English says, “I swear on my Grandma’s grave, no crossies that if I don’t pay, you can take my house without ramification” and the mortgage side of the escrow paper says, “We swear on your Grandma’s grave that if you don’t pay, we’ll take your house without any further ramification”.

In other states, homes are sold through short sale and the seller is left with a 1099-C for the difference. Imagine a $50,000 shortfall (that could easily happen here) and you getting a statement that is tan-

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tamount to a $50,000 taxable pay raise for that year. Ewwww…

The time is limited for homeowners who want to ensure they aren’t hit with a big tax bill because they had to walk away from a mortgage obligation. The Mortgage Forgiveness Debt Relief Act of 2007 was signed into law and allows you to exclude certain cancelled debt on your principal residence from income. That is not as big a deal here in Arizona because of the anti-deficiency laws, but all that may change when it expires in December 2012.

And this is the point of my story: If you are upside down in your home, now, not later, is the time to begin to sell – because if the home sells in, let’s say, January 2013, there will be far greater ramifications than if it closes in December 2012. Now, I am not a CPA or an attorney, so

don’t look to me for tax advice. I will suggest that you always consult with a licensed CPA or attorney when dealing with these matters.

Of course, the argument can be made that the Act might be extended – a good thing because no one seems to know what will happen if it is NOT extended – fodder for the gloom n’ doomers, I suppose….

Dorian R. Kreiling is a Realtor with her partner, Melinda Murphy, GRI with Keller Williams Lifestyle Realty. She can be reached at 623-694-4737 or NTouch@MelindaMurphy.com

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HEALTH

Immunity 101

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revention is the best approach to any health problem. Most diseases have an immune component, so practicing preventive medicine ultimately requires some improvement in the immune system. What many people do not understand is that the immune system is intimately associated with the digestive tract. Lymphatics (the body’s “other” circulatory system) and microscopic structures known as Peyer’s Patches are critical parts of the gastrointestinal tract when it comes to immunity. They protect us from invasions of microbes and foreign unhealthy agents that promote disease. Proper functioning of the GI tract is essential for a healthy immune system.

Here are some helpful hints to optimize your immune function, by optimizing your nutrition and gastrointestinal health: o Junk in is junk out. We really are what we eat.

The money and time spent on nutrition is probably the single most important factor in maintaining good health. What’s more, nutrition directly impacts your immune system. o Foods are not always your friend. Many of us suffering from allergies to our food, and we often are not aware that our health issues relate to food allergies. These allergies present themselves

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in many ways, and food testing is one way of determining the problem. A low-tech method of determining food sensitivities is a food diary that indicates what you are actually eating and how you feel/respond to those foods. Do you crave certain foods? Do you feel hungry after you just ate? Of course, you could have blood sugar issues, which factors into this discussion, and lab testing can make that determination. o Mix it up. If you are eating the same thing everyday, you are probably now reactive to that food.

We become allergic to agents as a result of frequent exposure. Allergic responses cause a fatigued and overworked immune system. Help your immunity by removing offending agents. Variety is healthy— make sure you consider that when you select what you eat.

So the first step to a healthy immune system is addressing what you eat routinely and identifying food sensitivities to those foods. If you are allergic, then do something about it. Don’t tax your immune system with unnecessary allergens. Is that all? Why, of course not: o Protein is essential. Protein helps the body maintain and repair its structure. Protein also sustains blood sugar (which we use for energy) between meals. Most people lack adequate protein in their food regimen, particularly in the morning.

This is a huge mistake. Healthy protein sources include organic beans, organic eggs, nuts, free range chicken, wild-caught fish (don’t get me started about farm-raised seafood), tofu, tempeh, and organic dairy products. o Organic, organic, organic. A plethora of toxic chemicals originate in synthetic petrochemicals.

Fatty foods are potentially more hazardous than others because the fats can be full of these toxic chemicals. Eat organic dairy, oils, and meats, and you’ll really feel a difference. o Speaking of fats, oils are good and essential to health. Fats have gotten a bad rap in this country and no-fat diets are simply unhealthy and bad for you! Rather than “no-fat,” you need good fats.

Moreover, oils enhance immune functioning, so be sure to include them in your regimen. Good choic-

es in unsaturated fats are organic nuts, seeds, avocados, cold water fish, and olive oil. Good choices for saturated fats are coconut milk and oil, butter, ghee, and the fats from organic meats. Because of that pesky toxin issue, oils must be organic. o Don’t go near the factory fats. Strictly avoid hydrogenated or chemically extracted oils. Simply put, they are not food. The body does not know how to digest them. o Good carbs. Carbohydrates should come from whole vegetables and fruits. Juices taste great and are convenient, but they are power-packed with calories. Use them in moderation. To best determine what veggies and fruits to eat, think color and have as many different colors as possible. This provides you with diversity of vitamins and minerals. The more color the better, and remember: vitamins from whole foods are always superior to a pill form. Your produce needs to be organic, and if possible locally grown and in season. o Absorption and elimination. The next step to a healthy immune system is improving digestion and elimination. If you don’t absorb your food well and your elimination is ineffective, then you need to heal that organ system so you can actually assimilate what you eat and excrete toxins. (Your bowels are a major route of eliminating toxins, and toxins stress your immune system). There are several supplements which heal the GI tract, improve digestion, and promote healthy elimination as well.

In particular, the amino acid glutamine promotes a healthy lining in your GI tract. Including whole grains in your regimen will provide bulk for bowel health. Soaking grains over night in purified water, rinsing them well before cooking, makes them easy to digest and enhances their nutritive value. o Less is more. Many of us can improve our nutrition simply by reducing the quantity of our food and increasing the frequency with which we eat. (Grazing throughout the day is far, far better on your system than one or two big meals a day.)

Relax and enjoy what you eat. If you are eating as a part of some other activity, then you are not fully nourishing yourself; you’re just taking in calories.

If you are eating in place of another activity, you have issues and need to see a doctor who can treat them. The act of creating your food is as important as consuming it. State of mind effects digestion as much as what we eat.

Taking all of these factors into consideration, you can enhance your immune system considerably. Practice some prevention and make food your medicine.

If you have questions for me, please send an email to drbrandeis@cox.net or to editor@ntouchaz.com.

Dr. Damien Brandeis, NMD has a private practice located in northwest Chandler.

For more information about Dr. Brandeis and his practice, visit drbrandeis.net.

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ETHICS

Love is...

By Dr. Dina Evan

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have never really believed that you fall in love instantly. You could conceivable fall into lust, or trip mindlessly into passion - but like cooking the perfect soufflé love, real love, takes time. Love creeps gently into your insides when you glance her way and see the sun gently reflecting off locks of red hair cascading haphazardly over her shoulder. Love is behind his eyes that seem to see forever. Love wells up in your throat when you flip play on the answer machine and hear his sultry voice telling you to “come straight home.”

Love smiles through lathered up faces, tucked in towels and hangs gently mid-air in tunes that are hummed early in the morning.

Love grabs you like gentle thunder in the middle of an orgasm, in the middle of laughter, in the middle of dinner. Love walks into the room definitively beside you, not searching, roving or seeking something fantasized, but not yet found. Love is being present, profoundly here, solid and alive. Love is the connection, the commitment, the ecstasy and relief of right union. © Love creates a direct path to Spirit parts, head parts, heart parts and girl parts and boy parts.

When I was very young, I thought I’d fall into love repeatedly. Really, I was only practicing to be in love once. When you are older you become the love, and then give that to each other. When you become the love, there is no separation between who you are and what you feel and no way to give less than your best. If you still feel you are looking for the best, you have not yet found love.

Love is a surprise because it’s never what you thought it was and it never

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comes when you wish it would.

Love can take a break when the words seem hard to find, but love never goes too far away and always comes back to resolve the issue. Love believes there will always be a resolution and love chooses not to sleep until we find it. Love reaches across the distance either we create, when we feel a need to protect ourselves and persistently, ever so gently pulls us toward each other.

Real love demands integrity.

It tests each of our ability to stay present, aware and truthful. When we are both being love, we are able to cradle the child in each of us, respect the adult in each of us and encourage the spirit in each of us.

Love is only able to flourish in truth. True love is about being really present, authentic and willing to risk honesty, solidity, sanctuary and grace. Love is in anything real. You can hear love in Chopin, Beethoven, Puccini, Grobin, Streisand and Brightman.

Love is about taking care of yourself and committing to your own growth so that your partner is not grieved, or required to spend time cleaning up the mess from your lack of awareness. Love is about embracing weaknesses together, talking together; tearing up together and trying to do it better together. Love is about believing not just enduring.

It’s about devotion, not just affinity.

It’s about passion, not just fondness.

It’s about soul deep connecting, not just sex. It’s about Beingness, not just bodies. It’s about wanting those you love to be the best they can be for themselves, not just for you.

Mature love is a sacred thing. Some think it only comes once in one’s lifetime. I believe it can come to anyone who wants it badly enough, with anyone they choose. Real love can be in the middle of every relationship we have, with everyone we know.

Real love never just happens. It is created, moment-by-moment, dayby-day, year-by-year. Love is about your willingness to discover your own capacity for forgiveness, compassion and integrity. It is created

“Love creeps gently into your insides when you glance her way and see the sun gently reflecting off locks of red hair cascading haphazardly over her shoulder. Love is behind his eyes that seem to see forever. Love wells up in your throat when you flip play on the answer machine and hear his sultry voice telling you to “come straight home.” with respect for each other’s beliefs, with support for each other’s goals and with inspiration for each other’s dreams. When you have love, there is nothing else you need. When you are really in love, the grass is never greener and the questions disap-

pear. When you become love you have done what you came here to do.

Love is not an instantly falling into thing. Love is a feeling fully, failing and forgiving, filling up and flowing over, finding you and finding me - a slowly becoming a forever thing

Dr. Dina Evan is an author and licensed MFT in California and a Spiritual and Executive coach in Arizona. She has won national acclaim as a human rights advocate and motivational speaker.

You can reach her at DrDBE@attglobal.net, DrDinaEvan.com, 602-997-1200 or here at ‘N Touch (editor@ntouchaz.com) and on her weekly podcast The Doctor Dina Hour at QTalkAZ.com

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CONTINUED Equality Arizona... < continued from page 6 under any circumstance. I remember being teased and bullied in late grade school and high school... comments, names, cursing with adults doing nothing to intervene. And what I experienced was nowhere near the level of cruelty I hear reported today. We must get this legislation passed, no matter how long it takes,” Wininger told ‘N Touch.

Wininger says the campaigns of Greg Stanton and Daniel Valenzuela showed that grassroots messaging can be greatly successful in elections.

“It is so important for us to recognize those individuals who are supportive and strong for our LGBT community and do everything we can to get them elected. Sometimes it's not glamorous and exciting, but identifying candidates who support us and how they are showing it is one of the core reasons for Equality Arizona.”

Ray also mentioned that EQAZ has intensely reached out to northern and southern Arizona.

“We are the only organization working statewide on behalf of the LGBT community,” said Ray. “But we need volunteers, committee members, qualified board members, and donors of at all levels in order to achieve our objectives in 2012 and beyond. We can serve as a convener in-state and a connection with other LGBT organizations around the country that might be able to help local communities advance rights.”

Shelter... < continued from page 22 Kinsman followed up on the event and expressed her sincere thanks to Benjamin Moore Paints and to the painting team; Ray Wisniewski (owner of Wise Choice Painting), members of Ray’s family, 14 members of Arizona Women in Tune, a Service Member of 944 ASTS at Luke Air Force Base, eleven friends and cohorts, and to three Sorority Houses at UA: Delta Delta Delta, Phi Beta Chi and Pi Beta Phi. She celebrated with the team and said, “Through this single project, each of you has made a positive impact in the lives of many, many people you will never even meet.” She concluded the celebration of giving by acknowledging “the amazing staff and all the regular volunteers that make Emerge! such an incredible place of safety, peace, growth and healing.”

When asked how she felt about the results, a shelter participant shared, “Now this feels like a neighborhood!”

(Important Note: through the entire process the safety and anonymity of the shelter and its participants were always held with the utmost importance. Particular details are still closely guarded and each volunteer signed a confidentiality agreement and pledged to maintain strict compliance.)

To learn more about Kinsman Art Works call 602-799-6462 or go to kinsmanartworks.com

YOUR PETS

Pets in search

Poverty’s Pets

of a Loving Home Located in Phoenix, Arizona Rescue is the last voice for dogs and wcats who, through no fault of their own, find themselves awaiting death at our county pounds.

Skippy

Poverty’s Pets started on December 3, 2005 when Kate Sivolella, from Montclair, NJ, and Kim Kroger, from Scottsdale, showed up in Guadalupe, AZ to assist in a mobile spay/neuter clinic as volunteers.

Neither one had ever been to a mobile spay/ neuter clinic. They did not know each other or what to expect. Saving a dog’s life and forming a rescue ~ bond that would last for years was never anticipated.

That Friday afternoon in December, Kate and Kim asked the owners of a dying dog to release it to their care. When the owners did the women took the starving, sick little boxer with a broken leg and an extreme case of Valley Fever to Pecan Grove Veterinarian Hospital. Dr. Holmes saved “Frida’s” life, Kim adopted Frida and Kate and Kim unknowingly started Poverty’s Pets.

For two years following that afternoon, the two women hosted monthly spay/neuter clinics in low income neighborhoods in Phoenix and rescued lots of dogs and cats along the way.

Poverty’s Pets rescues abandoned, neglected, and abused companion animals in low-income and underserved communities. Through education and veterinary care (including spay and neuter services), it is their goal to end animal cruelty, suffering, overpopulation and homelessness.

In 2008, Poverty’s Pets officially became a program of Rancho Feliz Charitable Foundation, Inc. (a registered 501 (c)(3)). To this day Kate and Kim donate a LOT of their time and energy daily to their shared passion for the four-legged (and sometimes three legged) furry friends that make this world a better place!

For more information go to povertyspets.org

Skippy is looking for an active family with patience and consistency to help him develop into a well-behaved friend for years to come.

Daily walks or runs, along with plenty of toy time and cuddle time sprinkled with some basic training are ideal for this young fellow! So if you’re looking for a young, active, little guy, look no further and complete an application for him today.

Frosty Frosty is an incredibly sweet and loving little boy! When you pick him up and hold him close to you, Frosty will close his eyes, and go limp; thoroughly enjoying the head and chin scratches you give him! It is easy to tell by the content look of his face and the steady purr vibrating through him how happy he is! He is also a fan of lap time and well, I guess to be honest; he’s a fan of anything that involves you giving him love and affection.

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ARTS & ENTERTAINMENT

Homage to Hitchcock creeps into ATC’s “The 39 Steps”

By John Thomas Lotardo Get out your magnifying glass and make your way down to the Arizona Theater Company for this smash which plays from February 9 – 26, 2012. Based upon the classic Alfred Hitchcock’s thriller of the same name, it’s a tidal wave of all the best of such escapades taken to their campiest conclusion.

The production is based on an original concept by Simon Corble and Nobby Dimon and on the book

by John Buchan. Hitchcock, the master of suspense, spent the 30s directing a series of suspense and adventure thrillers that eventually would define his aesthetic, including The Man Who Knew Too Much, Sabotage, The Lady Vanishes and, in 1935, The 39 Steps. Little tidbit- He was even knighted in 1980, the year he died.

The story itself sounds sinister enough. Seeking a frivolous night out at the theater, Richard Hannay is lured into a world of intrigue by a mysterious woman claiming to be a spy. When she winds up dead in his flat, he flees London with the police hot on his trail. This is a classic portrayal of one man’s flight from wrong accusation through a series of misadventures. The show features a cast of four actors who, against all odds, breathlessly and hilariously attempt to reenact all of the characters, locations and famous scenes in Hitchcock’s 1935 film thriller with just a few props and a lot of theatrical ingenuity and split second quick changes.

There are over 100 characters by the other cast members. Including having the men playing men, women and even an inanimate object!

The cast includes Sarah Agnew , Robert O. Berdahl, Jim Lightscheidl and Luverne Seifert. “Half the fun of doing The 39 Steps is getting a chance to conjure up an authentic atmosphere of ‘Hitchcockian’ mystery, eroticism, and paranoia,” said director Joel Sass. “We’re trying to pay homage to the artistic conventions of Hitchcock’s suspense aesthetic while simultaneously doing an affectionate send-up of those same conventions.

The audience derives humor from the fact that they can recognize what is being parodied, in addition to the fact that what they’re watching is actually funny all on its own.”

I had the good fortune to speak with Sass over the phone while in the midst of the Tucson production. Sass is a man of many talents. He was the Associate Artistic Director at Jungle Theater where he has directed and/ or designed 15 productions. He was also Artistic Director at Mary Worth Theatre Company where he directed 14 productions. Other directing credits include The 39 Steps, 9 Parts of Desire and Pericles, Prince of Tyre, Titus Andronicus, Macbeth and Pericles. He is loving the opportunity to share the show with Arizona audiences as this production was created last November (2010) in Minneapolis which was seen by ATC’s own David Ira Goldstein. Goldstein loved

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and sought it out to being it back to Arizona audiences. When asked how the show is going in its production in the Sunny Southwest, Sass is quick to announce, “I’m very pleased to report standing ovations in Tucson.”

With the show full of humor and overnuanced acting to convey more than the words can, I wondered if this current production will get across those lusciously outrageous details as I have seen in other productions. He reassured me that it is what you would come to expect from such a show in both quality and enjoyment here at ATC. Is the show LBGT-friendly? It certainly is, Sass promises. As he explains, the show is chock full with “lots of coded references, a sophistication in its humor. For the gay culture, this has been a language that they are particular fluent. It’s an easy (and full of fun) translation for the gay community.”

Well, that settles it. I’m ready for the bumpy and thoroughly raucous ride of yesteryear romp. Tally forth good man!

Arizona Theatre Company offers accessibility services for patrons with disabilities for select performances.

Audio Description provides patrons with vision loss a running audio description of the movement and activities onstage through an infrared broadcast system. Audio-Described performances are offered on February 15 at 7:30 p.m. and February 23 at 2 p.m.. Interested patrons with vision loss may request a tactile tour one hour prior to curtain. American Sign Language Interpretation is presented by professional, theatrically-trained ASL-interpreters for people who have deafness or hearing impairment. An ASL-interpreted performance is offered on February 25 at 4 p.m. Open-captioning allows patrons to read the play’s dialogue on an LED screen as the play progresses. An open-captioned performance is offered on February 19 at 7 p.m. For open-captioned or ASLinterpreted performances, patrons should request seats best suited to

ATC Director Joel Sass ASL interpretation or captioning when purchasing tickets. Large print and Braille playbills and infrared listening amplification devices are also available at every ATC performance with reservation. TTY access for the box office is available in Phoenix at (602) 256-1144 or via Arizona Relay at (800) 367-8939 (TTY/ASCII).

Tickets for The 39 Steps are $32$69, subject to change, depending on date, time and section choice and are available at arizonatheatre.org or by calling the box office at (602) 2566995. Discounts are available for seniors and active military on specific performance days. $10 student ticket pricing is now available for all performances. Half-price rush tickets are available for balcony seating for all performances one hour prior to curtain at the Herberger box office (subject to availability). Pay What You Can for The 39 Steps is February 12 at 7 p.m. Balcony seats for this performance are available for a suggested $10 cash donation.

(Tickets must be purchased in the Herberger Theater Center lobby starting at 6 p.m. on February 12.

Seating is first-come first served and is not guaranteed. Cash only, please.

Two tickets per person maximum.)

For discounts on groups of eight or more, call (602) 256-6995. news / politics / business / opinion

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Mister & Miss Phoenix Pride prepare to step down

By Joseph Gaxiola tyn holds a BA in Theater History and Rhetorical theory.

PHOENIX - On March 19, 2011 at the Orpheum Theatre Freddy Prinze Charming and Olivia Gardens became the Mister and Miss Phoenix Gay Pride for 2011.

Freddy Prinze Charming, as we know him today, emerged on the drag scene back in 2006 in Tucson, AZ. Since then he has performed all over the country, including Oklahoma, California, New Mexico and, of course, Arizona. Freddy’s alter ego JC Ryden was born some years ago in Michigan. Prior to 2005, which is when Freddy actually made his first official appearance, JC lived in Tunisia, Indonesia, Michigan, Sri Lanka, Thailand and Hawaii, ending up in Tucson in 2001.

Olivia Gardens, as we know her today, emerged on the drag scene back in 2009 when she won the Imperial Court of Arizona’s first ever Closet Ball. Since then she has performed all over Arizona with Arizona Gender Outlaws and Genderfuct.

Olivia’s alter ego Josstyn Redulla was born some years ago in Hawaii. Joss-

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‘N Touch: How has your year been impacted representing Phoenix Gay Pride?

Freddy Prinze Charming:This has been an incredibly busy but fulfilling year. I’ve had the opportunity to work with so many people I hadn’t had the chance to work with before, and have met so many amazing new people, while reconnecting with many I’ve worked with before.

Olivia Gardens: Representing Phoenix Gay Pride this past year has been a terrific honor for me. Fortunately, the year has been full with shows and events at which I’ve been invited to perform or attend. As a result, I’ve been able to share the mission of Phoenix Pride with many people throughout the year.

have been so fortunate to have been given many opportunities to achieve that goal.

‘N Touch: Is there anything you wish you could have accomplished during your reign if you had more time?

Olivia Gardens: My role as Miss Phoenix Gay Pride does not end when my reign ends. As a former titleholder, I will continue to promote Phoenix Gay Pride throughout the years to come.

Freddy Prinze Charming: I’d love to work on cloning myself so I could have made it to every event I was invited to! I got involved in everything I possibly could, but there was so much more that I wish I could have done; shows I could have gone to, events I could have attended. There just isn’t enough time in a day for everything!

‘N Touch: How would you like your reign as Mister and Miss Phoenix Gay Pride be represented over the years?

Olivia Gardens: I hope that my reign will be represented as a time of a re-energized awareness and recognition of the contributions that Phoenix Pride provides to the community.

Freddy Prinze Charming: I would like my year as Mister Phoenix Gay Pride to be looked at as one filled with professionalism, integrity and entertainment. It has been a pleasure and an honor representing this community, and I hope to continue to strengthen the bonds I’ve formed this past year.

Come out to the Mister and Miss Phoenix Gay Pride Pageant on Saturday February 25, from 7– 10 p.m. at the Tempe Center for the Arts 700 W. Rio Salado. Tickets are only $20.

‘N Touch - What are you the most proud of during your year?

Freddy Prinze Charming: Being able to work with so many fantastic individuals and organizations in the Valley, helping to raise anti-bullying awareness and supporting GLSEN, and having the opportunity to be an ambassador for Arizona and Phoenix Pride at Modesto Pride. It’s been an extremely rewarding year for me, both personally and professionally.

Olivia Gardens: My goal when I applied to compete for Miss Phoenix Gay Pride was to promote the mission of Pride throughout my reign. I

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FINANCE

Is it in the cards?

By Kate Morrow

“Will success such as work and home find me and my family.”

This question is worded in a funny way and is actually a few questions rolled into one. Success needs defining in the mind otherwise you may not recognize it when it comes.

We’re going to do a 7-card spread for this one to focus on the year coming up and what lies in the forecast for you. The first card is the 9 of Cups reversed followed by the Knight of Swords reversed: Your lack of contentment will continue into the new year for a little while. It does look as though a legal matter is taking longer to settle than expected. Next is the 2 of Swords reversed; time to “fight” back. Quite trying to make everyone happy. Work for what is

best for the family and be assertive, not aggressive. Time to stand up for yourself. This will be working through January, February, and into March. The next card is the Empress reversed; you may be feeling uncreative or like you just can’t make anything work, but don’t give up. This is the time to stand firm on your goals, don’t waver or at least work on refining what your goals are. The next card is the Queen of Swords; she commands knowledge and shows legal matters conclude in your favor along with ideas and communication improving. Next is the 8 of Wands; when things finally do move they will go fast and it wouldn’t surprise me if there weren’t a possible move as well. This will most likely be June or July. The last card is the 10 of

Wands reversed which is more work and longer hours so be careful to not overdo and get too out of balance. This card can also refer to the burdens of doing well. So I do see a rough start to the year, but things improving as long as you stay focused and positive. (Not always easy, but so worthwhile.)

“Will I have success in finding new employment? Will I be successful in this new position?”

We’ll do a 5 card spread on this one and it reads like a whole story not just chronologically. First we have the 4 of Wands reversed: not time to celebrate just yet. Next is the 8 of Cups: Know when to walk away, that will be coming soon.

Next is the Sun card: SUCCESS! Next is the Knight of Wands reversed: go slow and be thorough.

Not a time to rush while learning the new job. Last is the 6 of Cups reversed: Don’t look back, keep moving forward. Don’t become nostalgic over what once was. This new job will be better and lead to more opportunity.

“Is the world truly going to end in December 2012?”

Interesting what cards came out in this three-card spread. First we have the 10 of Pentacles reversed: disruptions at home, and upsets of the family and stability. Yep, seems we’ve been going through that.

Next is the Hanged Man: There are things that are beyond our control, you must trust and leave it to a Higher Power. Last, we have the

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4 of Wands reversed: Not time for a celebration just yet, loss of tranquility. If you’re looking forward to having it all end, I’m afraid you may be disappointed.

The fact is, we won’t know until December 22nd, 23rd, 24th, 25th, and so on of 2012 and beyond. If it ends, it won’t matter. The scary part is if it continues on. What then?

Now here’s a bit of “Life according to Kate”: Every day you go to sleep your world has ended. Each morning you wake, the world is made anew. The world my Grandparents knew is long gone. That world ended. Life, and this world, has a cycle; when one cycle or season ends another begins. As you are going out through a door, you are entering a new place. Whether it’s better or not is up to us. Our world is what we make it, both good and bad, regardless of spiritual beliefs. As we care for each other and this world, all will continue in a new cycle begun with each new day. Never-ending opportunities for a “New” world every day. Now that’s amazing!

Send your questions for Kate to editor@ntouchaz.com

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NIGHTLIFE Phoenix

Experience live music, Burlesque, Flamenco, special celebrity guests and the best drag shows in town. Experience the alternative!

This month The Rock will premiere two new shows from the valley’s favorite burlesque troupe Scandalesque.. On Sunday, Feb. 12, climb on board for S.S. Scandalesque. They have captured all of the excitement of a Las Vegas Show, in an intimate setting, featuring Cirque Artists, acrobatics, Burlesque entertainers, live singers, exotic dancers and more!

Then on Monday, Feb. 27 the Men of Scandalesque take over the Show Room in the new show Mandalesque with special guests The Luminous Pariah and his Neo-Burlesque Troupe from Seattle, WA. This is sure to be a show that will leave you breathless!

Last month we premiered a new night called Rock & Roll Queer Bar featuring local and national bands. This month the funkabilly boys from Flagstaff, Whiskey Rodeo take the stage on Thursday, Feb. 9. We have penned this show Stripped Down and Plugged In, because the band will be wearing nothing but socks!!

Internet sensation Sherry Vine is returning to Phoenix to celebrate/promote her new cable television variety show on the Here Network (Premiering Feb. 24). She will be joined by The AZ Gender Outlaws on Friday, Feb. 17 at 10p.m. in an all live singing show! VIP tickets available and

include priority seating and a Meet & Greet with the artist.

Don’t miss the new show from ArizonaDrag. com called Eclipse featuring a multi-talented cast on the Last Sunday of each month at 8p.m.

And of course we will still have all of your favorite shows…

Open Wide Wednesdays featuring Victoria K Bacon, Felicia Minor and Tabatha Lovall. Sharing the Stage with The Women of the Rock raising funds for local charities on the First Thursday of Every Month! An Evening with the Outlaws featuring The AZ Gender Outlaws and special guests on Fridays. The Trailer Trash Revue featuring Lady Christian and Friends (Last Friday of the month).

The Barbra Seville Show takes place Every Saturday with the legendary Barbra Seville and other local and national celebrities.

Each week we host poker, darts, Karaoke and other fun events.

For more information, or to make a reservation, go to therockdmphoenix.com The Rock is located at 4129 N 7th Ave., in Phoenix. Phone: 602-614-4154

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Colors restaurant and nightclub host Retro Game Show Night, the hit monthly show that engages the audience in hilarious versions of vintage television games shows. It’s also hosted by a gigantic drag queen, so what’s not to love? Mistress of ceremonies Tempest Du Jour and her extra-special guests will hold their own hilarious version of the classic game show the 2nd Saturday of the month from 7-10 p.m.

All admission proceeds to Retro Game Show Night benefit local nonprofit organizations. Admission: $3 per person. Ages 21 and over only.

Thursdays it’s the vocal stylings of Melody Louise from 6-9p.m.

Fridays at 9p.m. it’s Honeybaked Glam with Janeé Starr and Jasmine White.

Colors is located at 5305 East Speedway Blvd., Tucson. Call 520-323-1840 or go to colorstucson. com for more information.

Come party in the entertainment district of Tucson, N. 4th Ave., and enjoy all of the offerings of IBT's. IBT's has been the center of LGBTQA fun for 25 years. Every night is something different.

On Mondays, celebrate reverse happy hour. If you haven't had the tacos on Taco Tuesday, you must make a point of trying them. James Espino, the chef for this night makes fantastic tacos for only $1 each.

On Wednesdays, the ever-popular Janee Starr and special guests put on Viva La Diva. It is always a large and fun crowd. Therapy Thursdays follow with go go dancers and 2 for 1 drinks and all the fun begins at 10p.m.

On Friday's, China Collins hosts Flawless Fridays. Friday also starts the three day-long karaoke sessions. Yes, karaoke is on Friday's, Saturdays and Sundays.

The weekend continues with the award winning Saturday Night Starlets with Janee Starr and finish off the weekend with Cheap Ass Sundays.

And have you seen Richard, the bartender. Well worth the trip! Major hottie.

IBT's is open Mon - Sun, noon until 2 a.m.

To see what’s happening go to ibtstucson.com IBT's is located at 616 N 4th Ave., Tucson.

Phone: 520-882-3053 Exciting things are happening at Woody’s in

Tucson - Mike Kramkowski of IBT's is proud to announce that he has purchased Woody's from Dave Huff and Frank Shepis and is looking forward to injecting new energy into one of Tucson's long-time night spots. Mike intends to keep some of the popular events and improve both the property and the offerings. Look here for more information as it evolves.

Neighborhood bar where you can relax with your friends and enjoy our new dart boards, video games, and indoor pool table.

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By Pandora DeStrange

W

ell the New Year has started off on a high note! So much has happened in the last couple weeks, I don’t know where to begin. I guess the first sign of good things to come in the New Year was when I got a message from the producers of America’s Got Talent. After listening to the message I laughed uncontrollably for at least ten minutes. Needless to say, Pandora DeStrange is “Not Suitable for Public Television”! However, The AZ Gender Outlaws, as a performance troupe would be. So, I gave them a call and we got a private audition with the producers. Apparently, after watching our videos, they think prime-time television is ready for “Drag Terrorism”. I guess only time will tell! The Burlesque Troupe that I work with, Scandalesque, got an audition too! It appears that America may have no choice, but to deal with some of the crazy queens we have here in Phoenix. I am so excited at the opportunities this could afford us all. Wish us luck!

Olivia Gardens and I also dove into the New Year, newly motivated to get our radio show on QTALK back on track. We had a fabulous and very intimate interview with

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Venus DeMars, as she was sitting in the ER in Las Cruces, New Mexico.

Apparently, her drummer decided to go sledding in the White Sands Memorial Park while doing a photo shoot and seriously injured himself.

Luckily, with some rest and pharmaceuticals he was back on his feet and ready to bang his drums at The Rock for their premiere of Rock and Roll Queer Bar! The Pubes and Venus tore the roof off of The Rock that night. It was so refreshing to have Live Music as an alternative to the usual happenings here in Phoenix.

And the crowd was so diverse! It was so much fun, we have committed to bringing live music to our show room every month.

The next Rock and Roll Queer Bar will take place on Thursday, Feb. 9 at 8 p.m. featuring the multitalented funkabilly band Whiskey Rodeo. These boys are very talented and I can’t wait for them to unleash their talents on the Valley of the Sun. They have agreed to do the show wearing nothing but a sock!!!

We are calling the show Stripped Down and Plugged In! One of the things I love about these boys is that although they are all of the heterosexual persuasion, they always take every opportunity presented to them to support the LGBTQ Community. Needless to say you have to be extremely comfortable with your sexuality to play naked at a gay club.

Come on down and show these boys some love!

Another exciting band that will be playing at The Rock on Wednesday,

March 14 is a Drag Burlesque Punk Band called Kamikaze Queens from Berlin! They are a ton of fun and are sure to provide our audiences here with hours of entertainment. They are sick and wrong in all the right ways and are sure to Scandalize the Show Room!

Speaking of Burlesque, Scandalesque has decided to bring some stripped down, intimate cabaret shows to The Rock on a monthly basis. I just love working with these kids. They are all so talented! The first of these shows will take place on Feb. 12 at 9 p.m. It is called S.S. Scandalesque. Climb on board and set sail for scandalous shores in February and witness why Spin Magazine has called Scandalesque “One of the Best Nights Out in America”. It will feature cirque artists, burlesque artists, singers, dancers and acrobats! The second treat we will get in February is their new show Man-

dalesque! It is a night of all male burlesque/cirque artists that will feature the brilliant talents of The Luminous Pariah from Seattle. The evening will start out with fire spinners and jugglers on the patio and will then proceed to the show room for an evening of flirtatious fun. Mandalesque will premiere on Feb. 27 at 9 p.m.

Queer Culture is alive and well here in Phoenix and I urge you all to step outside of your “boxes” and try something refreshing and new that’s coming to a neighborhood queer bar near you!

Be sure to head on down to The Rock and support us in our efforts.

We can’t do it without you! And remember to tune in QTalkAZ.com to get informed about all of the exciting people, places and events here in Phoenix. And of course, be sure to get your ‘N Touch Magazine and check in with me each month!

Big Glittery Kisses! Pandora

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FOCUS TUCSON

Faith of the Abomination

Out in the Desert LGBT Film Festival's centerpiece film

By J. Ursone Chosen as Out in the Desert LGBT Film Festival’s Official Selection, “Faith of the Abomination” is the story of two Evangelical lesbian women who were promised inclusion in the church, only to be thwarted at every turn. Feeling lonely and frustrated, they decided to change their outside package and joined the Evangelical Organization as man and woman. They were accepted immediately and soon became members of the church's inner circle. However, what they found there strayed far from the teachings of Jesus...

‘N Touch News sat down with filmmaker Han Nguyen to discuss the documentary.

pletely underground in our real lives; the entire project would have had to be scrapped if we were spotted by a church member while we were out of character.

‘N Touch: What was the best part of being in the church and the worst part?

Han: The best part of being in the church was experiencing the awesome music in their worship services. The worst part, aside from enduring the anti-gay sermons, remarks and comments, was the realization that the leaders of the church loved and honored us while we were being so fake, and that bond would most likely change once we reveal the truth about who we really are.

‘N Touch: What is your religious background?

Han: I was raised devout Catholic. After Ceil and I became a couple, I was introduced to the more spirit-filled movement, mostly non-denominational, Charismatic and Pentecostal churches.

‘N Touch: Why try to be part of a church that doesn't like gays/lesbians?

Han: To get answers. After we were rejected as lesbian ministers in the first Evangelical church, we assumed our experiences would be totally different had one of us been a male minister. To get to the truth, we had to experience an Evangelical church as a heterosexual couple – this became the premise for our social experiment.

‘N Touch: Who was the transformation from lesbian couple to husband and wife harder on?

Han: I don't know; both roles were certainly a diversion for both of us. Ceil had all the challenges of going from female to looking, acting and sounding like a male. Part of my work was making her look like a male: shaving her head, applying facial hair and binding down the breasts.

In church, I had to play “submissive wife” and remember to keep my pronouns straight when referring to or speaking of my husband.

‘N Touch: How were you treated as a woman/ minister in the church?

Han: At times, I felt like “property of ” my husband. Through their sermon series on marriage, I learned that wives are help-mates; husbands are honored and “anointed” by God as leaders of the household. There are many expectations put on a pastor's wife, but he gets the recognition.

‘N Touch: Do you and Ceil both have a background as ministers?

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‘N Touch: Do you think the church will change?

Han: While some mainstream churches are changing to be more accepting of the LGBT community, I don't think the more dogmatic, anti-gay churches will ever change. Their fight against the “homosexual agenda” generates lots of money for their churches, and the leaders are too blinded by their own self-righteousness. History has always had its oppressors. censed as a minister; I never pursued a license.

I'm considered a lay minister, and have always wanted to remain “part of the people”.

‘N Touch: We noticed the name of your production company is Habakkuk. What does it mean?

Han: The production company name, Habakkuk Films LLC, was inspired by a short book in the old testament. It tells the story of a prophet named Habakkuk who had the gumption to question God about the injustices he was witnessing around him. We thought it was symbolic of how we were feeling about the injustices around us.

‘N Touch: What was the best part of going undercover, and what was the worst part?

I really enjoyed the research, strategic planning and investigative journalism aspect, plus the challenge of making our characters believable to a real audience. The worst was having to go com-

‘N Touch: What do you hope to accomplish with the film?

Han: To expose the church's false doctrine for what it is – hateful lies and schemes that divide people, tear apart families and destroy lives.

‘N Touch: Do you have other film projects in mind?

Han: Yes, I do. I'm especially inspired by stories of courage and tenacity, and I'm compelled to make another film involving investigative journalism. There's much fundraising and organizing to be done to get my next project off the ground, so if readers would like to contribute, they can contact me directly at han.n.nguyen74@gmail.com.

Faith of the Abomination will play Feb., 24 at 7p.m. at Grand Cinemas Crossroads 6. For more information about the film visit FaithoftheAbomination.com

Out in the Desert 2012 - February 17 - 19 & February 24 - 26 inaugural event features nearly two hundred new LGBT films from the U.S. and thirteen other countries, including fifty Southwest Premieres, six U.S. Premieres and one World Premiere. The line-up also includes free, family-friendly programming for children and LGBT youth.

Ticket purchases and for more detailed information visit outinthedesertff.org.

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