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Carol Burnett Join Carol for an evening of laughter in Seattle

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omedic legend Carol Burnett will grace the stage at Seattle’s Benaroya Hall on October 21st.

up the audience, the producers wanted Carol to come out and talk. She was nervous because, believe it or not, it’s not her nature to call attention to herself.

She preferred to hide behind a character (“Give me a wig and black out my teeth”) or do physical comedy— “falling down, jumping The out of awardwindows, winning getting actress and pies in best-selling the face.” author is But the best known producers for her wanted the variety audience series, to get to The Carol know the Burnett real her. “It Show, just took which ran off,” recalls for 11 years The Carol Burnett Show players (clockwise from left) Tim (1967Conway, Vicki Lawrence, Harvey Korman and Carol Burnett Carol.

One 1978) of her most embarrassing questions was, and won 25 Emmy awards. The show, “Whether or not I’d had a sex change.” named by Time and TV Guide as one of There were frequent requests for Carol’s the best television shows of all time, was famous Tarzan yell and people wanting renowned for its zany antics, comedy to know about all the cracking-up on sketches, movie parodies and Broadwayset between Tim Conway and Harvey style musical numbers. In December, Korman (“Conway’s goal in life was to CBS celebrated the 50th anniversary of the groundbreaking series with a televised destroy Harvey, break him up during sketches,” said Carol). Her costumes and special for which Carol, at age 85, received another Emmy nod. It’s a pretty the movie spoofs – such as the show’s good track record for a show the network version of Gone with the Wind when Carol comes down the stairs in the dress didn’t want. she’s made from drapes with the curtain Fans of the long-running program rod still attached – are also favorite will remember the opening with topics. audience members flinging questions Carol’s artistic genius has long been – ANY imaginable question – at the lauded; she has been called one of the unflappable Carol. Her upcoming onemost significant and beloved figures woman show harkens back to those in TV history, but you would never days. She will show clips from The Carol know it in conversation. She remains Burnett Show and offer the audience an unfiltered opportunity to engage her with gracious, warm, down-to-earth and very appreciative of her fans. questions.

It’s hard to believe that she wasn’t “I just come out and basically do the most popular girl in school growing what I used to do at the top of my up. show,” said Carol in an interview with “I was quiet,” says Carol. After her Northwest Prime Time. “We show some of career took off, she would get letters from the funniest questions and answers from some of her schoolmates asking, “Is that the show. Up come the lights and off really you?” They couldn’t believe the we go.” Carol describes the evening as a talented, madcap character they saw conversation with the audience…“Let’s on TV was the same quiet Carol from pretend we’re going out to dinner and Hollywood High. talk,” she adds.

The Early Days “I love the spontaneity of these The story of Carol’s childhood and evenings. I never know what anyone is going to ask, or say or do. It keeps the old break into show business is so colorful and unlikely it reads like a rags-to-riches gray matter ticking because I have to be Hollywood fable. In fact, Carol Burnett’s on my toes!” autobiography of that period, One More How did the Q&A openers from Time, was adapted into a Broadway The Carol Burnett Show get started? play by Carol and her daughter, Carrie Instead of having a comedian warm

Carol Burnett will be at Benaroya Hall on Sunday October 21 with her one-woman show, “Carol Burnett: An Evening of Laughter and Reflection Where the Audience Asks the Questions”

Hamilton. Sadly, Carrie lived with Carol’s passed away from half-sister Chrissy cancer before her work in their own small reached the stage, but studio down the Carol persisted with the hall. (Carol would project as a tribute to her later take her sister daughter. with her to live in Carol, who was raised New York). The by her grandmother, entire family was admits that her childhood poor enough to rely was rough, “but I knew I on relief and charity. was loved.” Her father was Life was tough, but an alcoholic and couldn’t Carol can still dish hold a job. Her mother, up funny memories Carol at around age 3 who later also turned to of those days. She alcohol, had failed in her dreams of credits her grandmother with helping her becoming a journalist and interviewing to look at the sunny side of life. movie stars.

A frugal lifestyle was second-nature Carol explained the situation in an to Carol. She had to break in her one interview with Terry Gross on the radio pair of shoes each year by walking on program, Fresh Air. newspapers spread across the room to “My folks, my parents came to make sure they fit. If they didn’t, they Hollywood from Texas and left me there could be exchanged because the soles still with my grandmother.” They intended looked new. Carol bought her first pair to send for Carol but wanted to strike it of shoes that actually fit (7½AA) when big first. Instead, they divorced. “And she got a job on The Garry Moore Show so, my grandmother and I followed my in 1959. They fit her to a T, but she still mother out to Hollywood in 1940. Mama spread out the newspaper and walked lived in an apartment building one block back and forth for two days just to make north of Hollywood Boulevard, but really sure! a million miles away from Hollywood…

Carol’s childhood was filled with She got us a single room which faced music and movies. She remembers the lobby of the building. Mama was singing around the kitchen table (a card down the hall. Nanny – that was my table) with her bickering mother and grandmother – and I lived in this one grandmother who both claimed they room. But the doors were always open. had enough talent that they should have And Mama was in our place as much as been stars. And then there were the we were down the hall with her.” movies.

Carol would share that small studio “My grandmother would save up with her grandmother until after she enough money because way back then finished college. Her single mother, continued on page 22 who had a baby when Carol was 11,

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A Page from History

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Washington) took it upon himself find “There were two waves,” said women in Massachusetts to fill Seattle’s Armitage. “There were 11 in the needs. first trip. And as everybody expected Because of the Civil War, men and almost all of them got married, some jobs were rare commodities on the east of them immediately, practically on coast. Over the course of two separate the dock because they were besieged ventures, Asa Mercer was able to by men…” Armitage notes that one persuade dozens of women to make the woman, Lizzie Ordway – the oldest trip by steamer around South America’s “Mercer Girl” at 35 – had no intention Cape Horn and up the Pacific coast to of marrying. Ordway later went on to Seattle. become the first teacher in Seattle’s first The second expedition included public school, the founding member of newspaper reporter, Roger Conant.

Seattle’s Suffrage Society and the first Conant became well-acquainted with

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Age-Friendly Discussion Groups Civic Participation: From Elections to Engagement The ongoing Age-Friendly Discussion Groups project brings you topics of interest to older adults. We look forward to hearing from your group!

and maintain an engaged citizenry.”

An age-friendly community Citizens encourages older people to take an volunteer their active role in the local political and time to inform civic participation process. Taking and guide the a cue from the slogan “No decision Lakewood City about us; without us,” AARP’s livable Council on a wide community program requires cities range of issues and counties to establish ways in including the which citizen advocates and people city’s Landmarks age 50 and older can participate in city and Heritage government.

Advisory Board, While older adults want to which focuses on participate in civic functions, some preserving Lakewood’s rich history; the feel there are barriers to participation.

Community Services Advisory Board Possible solutions include reserving seats which helps ensure that state and for older adults, offering transportation federal funding is properly allocated to and improving accessibility at meetings local organizations focused on meeting and events – one example is providing housing and social service needs in the captioning and other aids for the community. Visit www.cityoflakewood. hearing-impaired. us/city-council/advisory-boards or call Voting is one of our most obvious 253-589-2489 for details. and essential civic duties. As a voteSome cities are actively by-mail state, Washington has already empowering their community residents. safeguarded the ability to cast ballots The City of Tacoma has established even for those with limited mobility. eight Neighborhood Councils. The The future of Medicare and Social program creates an environment and Security are high priorities during infrastructure in which residents, this midterm election. More than property owners, businesses and one million Washingtonians rely on employees have the opportunity to Medicare for health security. Nearly raise issues and recommend plans of 1.3 million receive Social Security in action. Each council is an independent, the Evergreen State to protect families non-profit organization that promotes against the loss of income caused by citizen-based efforts for neighborhood retirement, disability or death. improvement. Call 253-591-5384 to Keeping Medicare and Social inquire about the program.

Security strong and solvent for current For those who are interested in and future generations is too important more details about the local decisionto be lost in the noise of campaign making process, consider taking a season. Stay informed by visiting www. leadership course for residents. These aarp.org/wa or calling 206-517-9358 programs provide information to to learn about upcoming candidate encourage community involvement forums, town halls and other public as well as details about how city events. departments operate. Each spring, Voting isn’t the only way to be SeaTac and Burien collaborate to offer civically engaged. There are avenues a free Community Police Academy closer to home that benefit from for residents; the City of Bellevue also resident participation. Applying to be offers one. The weekly classes help a community representative, attending community members better assist local council and commission meetings, officers and increase safety in their or programs that teach residents how neighborhoods. Contact SeaTac at 206to approach elected officials about 396-4127, Burien at 206-263-2573 or important priorities are some options to Bellevue at 425-452-6800 for details. become more involved in community Similar learning opportunities exist decisions. with city councils and fire departments.

Dedicated residents participate Check with your city government on boards and commissions in to learn what is available in your communities across the northwest, community. including Lakewood.

Individuals and groups can also “The city of Lakewood was founded advocate independently for change. by a grassroots effort of engaged When Evelyn Brom wanted to build citizens who wanted more control a cottage behind her Seattle home, over their future,” said Lakewood she followed the city process and Mayor Don Anderson. “City leaders supported changes to allow building prioritize citizen involvement through backyard units. When it came time to 11 advisory boards and commissions. design and hire an architect, she ran Volunteers who serve provide valuable into roadblocks. The new ordinance insights to the City Council, allow us prohibited building on lots with a street to meet the needs of our community in the front and rear of the property. …by Christina Clem, AARP Washington

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But Evelyn didn’t drop the effort.

Instead, she got active.

Inviting city planners to tour her property, writing councilmembers and publicly testifying at a council meeting, Brom lobbied to change the policy. In the end, the City relaxed the ordinance for her property. This language change will allow others with her property type to seek permits. Seattle posts city council and commission meetings online at www.seattle.gov/council/ committees. You can also sign up for e-mail notices or call 206-684-8888 for more details.

Asked what advice she would give about interacting with local officials, “You want to be prepared. Research the topic. Read local policies. Attend meetings. Identify key contacts and local champions,” Brom said. “More importantly, don’t be intimated by local government. They are accessible.”

The late Senator John McCain said, “Every day, people serve their neighbors and our nation in many different ways, from helping a child learn and easing the loneliness of those without a family to defending our freedom overseas. It is in this spirit of dedication to others and to our country that I believe service should be broadly and deeply encouraged.”

Active and engaged citizens are our sounding boards to ensure we are making wise decisions about the future.

Look for ways to get involved. Be the difference. v Discussion Questions 1. How have you been involved in local decision making? What was your experience like?

2. Of the opportunities mentioned in the article, which resonates with you the most? Why? 3. What are some other ways that you can participate and/or advocate for a cause that you believe in?

4. How long have you been an active voter? What does voting mean to you?

5. In what ways could your local government make getting involved easier and more accessible for older adults?

GRAND PRIZE!

From “The Matchmaker” – a short film telling the story of Sam, who sets out to find his mother the perfect best friend at her new retirement community. The film stars TV veterans Rhea Perlman and Barbara Bain, as well as Robert Romanus and Byrna Weiss.

Winners of the Grand Prize drawing for participating in our Age-Friendly Discussion Groups project (awarded at the end of the year) will enjoy the exclusive Seattle-area premiere of Sy Rosen’s short film, The Matchmaker at a place of their choosing. The film is based on one of longtime Hollywood writer Sy’s Northwest Prime Time columns. Sy will be available to speak directly to your group, answer questions about the film and his humorous take on aging. Grand Prize winners and those selected from our monthly drawing will also receive a $100 gift card to Starbucks so you can splurge on coffee and treats for your next discussion group meeting. No cost to participate; limit one entry per month per group – details below.

You are invited to participate in monthly Kitchen Table Talks.

On October 16 from 1-2pm, Age Friendly Seattle will host another lively monthly conversation about agefriendly communities. This discussion opportunity is open to all. You can call in from anywhere: 206-386-1200 or tollfree 1-844-386-1200 (when prompted, enter code 7487895) or visit www. tinyurl.com/KitchenTableTalkOctober (when prompted, enter code 6142451).

For additional information, visit www. seattle.gov/agefriendly/events or, if you have questions about this event ahead of time, call 206-386-1521.

We want your feedback! We encourage groups to provide input on this ongoing project: • Snap a photo of your group and post it or any comments/questions on AARP Washington’s Facebook page at www. Facebook.com/AARPWA/ groups; • email your comments/questions to editor@northwestprimetime.com; • call Northwest Prime Time at 206-824-8600; • mail us a note: Northwest Prime Time, PO Box 13647, Seattle WA 98198.

PRIZES! Each group that contacts Northwest Prime Time by email, phone or U.S. mail will be entered to win a $100 gift card to Starbucks and will also automatically be entered to win the Grand Prize. WINNERS OF GIFT CARD for their participation in last month’s discussion are from Northaven retirement community. Here are residents doing the “Chicken Dance.”

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Val Laidlaw …by Peter Langmaid

October 2018 Val see her role as that of a counselor. She helps victims clean up the mess they’re in, counsels them on prevention, and sends out literature that might be helpful in the future.

“Helping people is a common human trait,” she says. Val also values interacting with her fellow volunteers and, because the call center provides lunch, she smiles, “Don’t let anyone tell you there’s no free lunch.” ❖

Val Laidlow found her way to the AARP Foundation Fraud Fighters Call Center through RSVP, Volunteer Val Laidlaw fights fraud the Retired and Senior Volunteer Program. She has served almost 500 hours and recently received her fivevictims or potential victims who have year pin! reached out to the call center. The To find out how your life can become more In caring for her aging mother, average call takes about 20 minutes rewarding through volunteering, and maybe Val realized how vulnerable the and Val likes to do research before even receive a free lunch, contact RSVP at elderly can be and the work at the making a call to make sure she is as 206-694-6786 or rsvp@solid-ground.org. call center sounded “interesting effective and efficient as possible. and a worthwhile activity Seattle was built on seven to do with my time. Plus, it hills. One of those hills was didn’t involve a huge time in the way of progress, so city commitment.” She also found leaders decided to remove it.

Following the Great Seattle the call center work a good fit Fire which destroyed much of since she prides herself on her the downtown area, the glacial communications skills and hills and ridges which separated likes helping people. neighborhoods from the downtown waterfront were The Seattle AARP deemed a major impediment call center utilizes trained to travel and commerce, and volunteers to do its work. became a prime target for Volunteers need to be removal. From the 1890s through the 1920s, more than comfortable on the phone 50 million cubic yards of earth and in giving advice, good were scraped away with pick listeners, patient and axes, water cannons, steam shovels and conveyor belts. empathetic. The overarching Much of the displaced earth goal of the call center, was used for filling in tidal flats on the waterfront. So now the Denny Triangle area is a relatively flat piece says Leeta Scott, Program of ground bordered by Denny on the north, Stewart on the southeast and water on the southwest. The hill Director of the local AARP was moved downhill and now we drive across it when on the waterfront. Photograph by Asahel Curtis, 1910.

Foundation Fraud Fighters This photo is from the University of Washington Libraries, Special Collections, submitted by Nicolette Call Center, is education.

Bromberg, Special Collections Visual Materials Curator Volunteers interact with

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Life Perspectives

Burt wrote his note just the other day. (He exaggerates. Please note the number of shoes.)

Dear kids, Married for 60 years!

How long is ...? 720 months! 260 birthday cards from grandma, 23 moves, 1,247 shoes, 165 stitches, and everyone ran away from home at least once. push toward stagy, commerciallyMarried? Wed, yoked. Through prodded showpiece weddings strains the budget, the tenderness of the vows and rain, snow, sleet. Wrong vow.

Rather, to have and to hold from the nerves! this day forward ...

Hug the Love Chapter, 1st I like the Apache vows for Corinthians 13. “Love is patient mom and me: “Now you will feel and kind ... looks for a way of being no rain, for each of you will be constructive ... is not possessive ... has shelter for the other. Now you good manners ... is not touchy...”

Flirt with your spouse, not anyone will feel no cold, for each of you will be warmth for the other. Now else. Someone will try to squeeze there will be no loneliness, for between you. You can bet your booties on it! Don’t spend time alone with that each of you will be companion to the other. Now you are two person. persons, but there is only one life Keep up the romance. Every time your honey enters the room, show your before you.”

Sixty going on 70 — it’s been a pleasure. Speak well of him or her, joyful romp and miles to go before always. we sleep. Love, Dad. Expect disagreements. They’re * * * awful, but don’t give up. Don’t say Burt! You’re my hero! My words you’ll regret. Listen when you inspiration dreamer! My steadiness don’t want to. After an argument, never mention it again. If you have big in storms! You know my worst, yet you love me! I love you! Will you Trouble, find a counselor. But you can marry me? solve a lot by yourselves.

Today we’ll ride the Big Dipper, Laugh. But not at your spouse’s expense or anyone else’s. At your own? climb to the top, balance, then swoop and take surprises, catch Okay!

Solve problems before bed. Sleep in our breath and rattle and roll, make some more turns, and finally peace. bump along the exit straightaway, That’s it for now. Blessings! Love, rockingly, laughingly.

Mom. Tomorrow we’ll do it again! ❖ * * *

Marriage Is Not What You Expect …by Ruth Chamberlin

friends laughing, That misty ecstatic, summer morning humming along, in 1957, when knowing the our eyes met music — and, (zap!) at Waddle’s instead of Restaurant in feeling the joy Portland, we had of the moment, no idea what we I felt queasy. All were in for. But these people! we knew we were All this noise? in for the long We plunged haul. Waddle’s sat ahead. We loved

by Jantzen Beach each other!

Amusement Inexperience.

Park, a fitting Bluster. Hope. setting as life Eight kids, 12 from then on grandkids, two resembled the Big great-grandkids.

Dipper, Jantzen’s Time goes wowfamous roller wow, warping coaster. Slowly, long and short. slowly jerk up to People call us the top, teeter seniors and I for a second, automatically then yikes! Dive Ruth and Burt Chamberlin. The bell above think, “High to earth! (Are Ruth's head was rescued from the Titanic...

“We liked to ding it to show we survived!” school seniors?” you dead?) Go Photo by John Huffman How did we straight, rock make it this far, being such opposites? and rattle, roll from side to side, catch Well, of course, opposites attract. your breath and laugh ... Sharp turn!

We flint against each other and make Another! (Did you lose your head?) A straightaway, another climb, jerk-jerk to sparks, then find a third, new way of thinking — not his, not mine, but a the top ... new way.

Things have changed. Life is full of For in the oneness of marriage, we change! When we celebrated our 60th are two.

We both defined marriage in anniversary, people asked, “How did you do it?” I say, “Um, we’re still learning ... ” notes to the kids, below, and the two voices are distinct. You can eavesdrop.

Marriage has stages, like the stages Mine was written years ago... of culture shock — honeymoon, Dear kids, Some of you have asked euphoria, frustration, distress, for marriage tips. I love to give tips! You acceptance — and, in fact, we did know this already, having had unaskedexperience culture shock. Burt’s for advice dumped on you for years! background was worldly. Mine was Here goes: sheltered. In our second year of When you find the right match, marriage, I stood squashed in a crowd elope!

(My opinion only.) Or have a at Birdland in Manhattan, listening simple, sweet ceremony. I think the to Dave Brubeck with Burt and our

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Library Corner

Help with Caregiving FREE! Caregiving Education and Support at the Library

…by Wendy Pender, KCLS Older Adults Program Coordinator

Are you helping an older adult or other family member?

You’re a caregiver!

Many people don’t identify with that word. You may think, “Oh, I’m just helping mom with a few chores,” or “I’m just making sure my spouse takes his medications.” But, paid or not, these responsibilities mean you are a caregiver.

Caregiving, while it has many rewards, can be stressful, tiring and an emotional roller coaster. This October, with a generous grant from the KCLS Foundation, the King County Library System is providing classes for caregiver education and support. Held at various locations, these classes are intended for people caring for family members or others–especially but not limited to older adults–on either a paid or unpaid basis. Classes will highlight ways caregivers can reduce stress and better cope with common feelings of being overwhelmed. The classes will also offer ways to access support, and ideas for enjoying meaningful time with care partners.

All classes are FREE and open to the public (no RSVP needed). In addition, we’ll have resource tables from community organizations providing information on related topics. We know caregiving is hard.

But there is help. Do you know of a caregiving support group? Please help us spread the word and invite the entire group.

The topics at various locations include: • Let’s Move More to Feel Better • Coping with Losses • Music and

Caregiving • Reducing Guilt • Caregiver Burnout • Tools to Lower Stress

King County Library System Caregiving Classes: FEDERAL WAY SENIOR CENTER, Wednesdays in October, 12:30-1:30pm – 4016 S 352nd Street, Auburn, 253-838-3604 ISSAQUAH LIBRARY, Thursday, October 18, 10am8pm – 10 W. Sunset Way, Issaquah, 425-392-5430 SHORELINE LIBRARY, Saturday, October 27, 10am-5pm – 345 NE 175th Street, Shoreline, 206362-7550 RENTON LIBRARY, Monday, October 29, 11:30am-8pm – 100 Mill Avenue S., Renton, 425-226-6043 PETER KIRK SENIOR CENTER, Monday, November 5, 2-3:30pm – 352 Kirkland Avenue, Kirkland, 425-587-3360 Visit www.kcls.org/caregiving for the complete schedule and details.

Need Respite Care? Call Community Living Connections at 206962-8467 v Questions? Contact Wendy Pender, Older Adults Program Coordinator, King County Library System, at 425-369-3285 or wgpender@kcls.org.

October 2018

Have questions about Medicare?

SHIBA can help!

It’s not too soon to start thinking about Medicare’s open enrollment period for prescription drug plans (Part D) and Medicare Advantage plans. Open enrollment takes place every year, October 15 through December 7.

The Statewide Health Insurance Benefits Advisors (SHIBA) can help answer your Medicare questions. “We’re a free, unbiased and confidential counseling service of the Washington State Office of the Insurance Commissioner,” says Todd Dixon, SHIBA’s Program Manager.

“This is the time of year to make sure you have the best plan that meets your needs. Our statewide network of trained volunteers helps people answer questions and evaluate plans, and even search for plans online. We also offer assistance with Original Medicare and other Medicarerelated plans.”

Before you make your decision, consider the following tips: • Plan costs and coverage can change every year, so carefully review all letters and notices from your current plan.

• Make a list of all current prescription drugs you take, the doses and how often. Then, use the Plan Finder at www.medicare. gov to compare Part D plans.

• Review the 2019 Medicare

& You handbook.

You should receive it by mid-October.

• If you have questions, call SHIBA at 1-800562-6900 before you sign up.

• If you have limited income and need help paying for prescription drugs, check out Medicare’s “Extra Help” program.

To see if you qualify, SHIBA advisors can help you or you can contact the Social Security Administration at 1-800-7721213 or go to www.socialsecurity. gov and click on Medicare.

Every year, SHIBA offers free, unbiased Medicare workshops in local areas throughout the state. “These are a great way for Medicare clients to get help and the information they need to find the best options for them,” said Dixon. To check it out, go to: www.insurance.wa.gov/shiba or call 1-800-562-6900.

To get help with your Medicare questions from SHIBA: • Call the Insurance Consumer Hotline at 1-800-5626900 and ask to speak with a SHIBA volunteer in your area; • or call your local SHIBA number directly: - King County 206-727-6221 - Pierce County 253-596-0918 - Snohomish County 425290-1276 • Check us out at www. insurance.wa.gov/shiba. v

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Medical Minutes ...by John Schieszer

A New Tool Against the Flu A single dose of a new influenza drug may significantly shorten the duration of the illness in adults, John Schieszer according to a study published in the New England Journal of Medicine.

Researchers conducted two multicenter, double-blind, randomized clinical trials.

Both trials found that the drug, baloxavir marboxil, shortened the duration of flu symptoms by about one day and more quickly cleared the influenza virus compared with placebo in otherwise healthy adults.

A larger, phase 3 trial also found that baloxavir’s effect on symptoms was similar to that of a five-day course of oseltamivir (Tamiflu), but that baloxavir had significantly greater antiviral potency. The studies identified no important side effects.

“Baloxavir shows remarkable antiviral potency in uncomplicated influenza and,

if approved by the Food and Drug Administration, it would be an important addition to our treatment options for influenza,” said researcher Frederick G. Hayden, MD, of the University of Virginia School of Medicine.

“Of note, because baloxavir has a novel antiviral action in inhibiting the endonuclease of the virus, the drug is inhibitory for influenza A and B viruses including those that may be resistant to currently available drugs.”

To become available, baloxavir would need approval from the U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA). The drug was accepted for priority review by the FDA in June. A decision is expected by December 24, 2018 at the latest.

Studies of its effectiveness in hospitalized influenza patients now are planned. Other studies will look at this agent in combination with other influenza antivirals, and in preventing transmission of influenza virus.

Significant Advances Occurring in the War on Cancer New and even more effective

ways to prevent, detect, diagnose and treat cancer are paying off.

The American Association for Cancer Research (AACR) has released its annual Cancer Progress Report highlighting some of the incredible changes occurring in the war on cancer.

The report shows that 22 treatments for cancer were approved for the first time by the U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA) or approved for new types of cancer between Aug. 1, 2017, and July 31, 2018. Among these treatments are revolutionary new immunotherapeutics called CAR T–cell therapies, exciting new targeted radiotherapeutics and numerous new targeted therapeutics that are expanding the scope of precision medicine.

The U.S. cancer death rate declined by 26% for adults from 1991 to 2015, a reduction that translates into almost 2.4 million lives saved, according to the latest data. The cigarette smoking rate among U.S. adults has fallen to 14%, down from 42% in 1965. The report emphasizes that despite the significant strides being made against cancer, the disease continues to pose enormous public health challenges. The number of new cancer cases in the United States is predicted to rise from more than 1.7 million in 2018 to almost 2.4 million in 2035, due largely to the

New device stops a cold before it starts New research shows you can stop a cold in its tracks if you take one simple step with a new device when you first feel a cold coming on.

Colds start when cold viruses get in your nose. Viruses multiply fast. If you don’t stop them early, they spread in your airways and cause misery.

But scientists have found a quick way to kill a virus. Touch it with copper. Researchers at labs and universities agree, copper is “antimicrobial.”

It kills microbes, such as viruses and bacteria, just by touch.

That’s why ancient Greeks used copper to purify water and heal wounds. They didn’t know about viruses and bacteria, but now we do.

Scientists say the high conductance of copper disrupts the electrical balance in a microbe cell and destroys the cell in seconds.

Tests by the Environmental Protection Agency (EPA) show germs die fast on copper. So some hospitals tried copper for touch surfaces like faucets and doorknobs. This cut the spread of MRSA and other illnesses by over half, and saved lives.

The strong scientific evidence gave inventor Doug Cornell an idea. When he felt a cold coming on he fashioned a smooth copper probe and rubbed it gently in his nose for 60 seconds.

“It worked!” he exclaimed. “The cold went away completely.” It worked again every time he felt a cold coming on and he hasn’t had a cold since.

He asked relatives and friends to try it. They said it worked for them, too, so he patented CopperZap™ and put it

on the market.

Soon hundreds of people had tried it and given feedback. Nearly 100% said the copper stops colds if used within 3 hours after the first sign. Even up to 2 days, if they New research: Copper stops colds if used early. still get the cold it is milder than usual said, “Best sleep I’ve had in years.”

Copper may even stop flu if used and they feel better.

Users wrote things like, “It stopped early and for several days. Lab technimy cold right away,” and “Is it sup- cians placed 25 million live flu viruses on a CopperZap. No viruses were posed to work that fast?”

Pat McAllister, age 70, received found alive soon after.

People have used it on cold sores one for Christmas and called it “one of the best presents ever. This little jewel and say it can completely prevent ugly really works.” Now thousands of users outbreaks.

The handle is curved and finely texhave simply stopped getting colds.

People often use CopperZap pre- tured to improve contact. It kills germs ventively. Frequent flier Karen Gauci picked up on fingers and hands to proused to get colds after crowded flights. tect you and your family.

Copper even kills deadly germs that Though skeptical, she tried it several times a day on travel days. “Sixteen have become resistant to antibiotics. If you are near sick people, a moment of flights and not a sniffle!”

Businesswoman Rosaleen says handling it may keep serious infection when people are sick around her she away. It may even save a life.

The EPA says copper still works uses CopperZap morning and night.

“It saved me last holidays,” she said. even when tarnished. It kills hundreds “The kids had colds going round and of different disease germs so it can prevent serious or even fatal illness. round, but not me.”

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October 2018 increasing number of people age 65 and older.

“There has never been a time of greater excitement in the cancer field,” said Margaret Foti, PhD, MD, chief executive officer of the AACR. “The rapid pace and broad scope of the progress against cancer are extraordinary.

We have the scientific knowledge, cutting-edge technologies, and capability to deliver a new wave of innovations that will stimulate more lifesaving progress.”

Rethinking Statins in Some Older Adults A new study is questioning whether some older adults should be taking a statin medication for their cholesterol levels.

The study does not support widespread use of statins in healthy older people to prevent heart disease. Any protective effect was limited to those with type 2 diabetes aged between 75 and 84.

In a newly published study researchers found statins are not associated with a reduction in cardiovascular disease or death in healthy people age 75 or older.

The results of the study do not support the widespread use of statins in adults 75 and older, but they do support treatment in selected people, such as those aged 75-84 years with type 2 diabetes, said Spanish researchers.

Using data from the Catalan primary care system database (SIDIAP), they identified 46,864 people aged 75 years or more with no history of cardiovascular disease between 2006 and 2015.

Participants were grouped into those with and without type 2 diabetes and as statin non-users or new users (anyone starting statins for the first time during the study enrollment period).

Primary care and hospital records were then used to track cases of CVD (including coronary heart disease, angina, heart attack and stroke) and death from any cause (all-cause mortality) over an average of 5.6 years.

In participants without diabetes, statin treatment was not associated with a reduction in CVD or all-cause mortality in both old and very old age groups, even though the risk of CVD in both groups was higher than the risk thresholds proposed for statin use in guidelines. However, in participants with diabetes, statins were associated with significantly reduced levels of CVD (24%) and all-cause mortality (16%) in those aged 75-84 years. The study showed that this protective effect declined after age 85 and disappeared by age 90. v John Schieszer is an award-winning national journalist and radio and podcast broadcaster of The Medical Minute. He can be reached at medicalminutes@gmail.com.

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Senior Fitness Tip

Naturally Healthy

How To Do a Proper Squat

Nutrition Protects and Heals Another flu season is upon us. Flu shots and healthy habits such as hand-washing and covering the mouth when coughing should be on your mind. But no remedy is infallible.

One of the best bets against getting the flu and other maladies, experts say, is eating healthier. Good nutrition, according to the American Dietetic Association, can help you avoid the flu by boosting the body’s immune system.

Dr. Sanda Moldovan, author of HEAL UP! How to Repair, Rebuild and Renew Naturally, says the benefits of proper nutrition extend from oral health to sickness prevention and post-surgery healing.

Moldovan notes that many medical journal articles have related nutritional deficiencies to numerous oral health problems and general health crises such as diabetes, high blood pressure, immune system issues and cancer. According to the Centers for Disease Control and the U.S. Department of Agriculture (USDA), over 50 percent of Americans are deficient in vitamins A, C, D and E, as well as in calcium and potassium.

“Unfortunately, most people do not get the nutrients needed from their food,” Moldovan says.

‘For example, vitamin D needs supplementation because we cannot get enough of it from food alone. Research has shown that an optimum level of vitamin D, together with a healthy diet, is a key to staying healthy during this flu season.

In addition to getting adequate vitamin D, Moldovan lists three ways to protect and heal the body with the right nutrition: • Antioxidants. These combat the potential damage done by harmful cells. So try a wide variety of colorful fruits and vegetables, which contain potent antioxidants. ”Fresh fruits and vegetables are best because cooking destroys most antioxidants,” Moldovan says.

“Basically, the more colorful the foods, the more antioxidants they have. Green, leafy vegetables also contain a healthy supply of minerals and chlorophyll, both of which aid in the rehabilitation process.”

• Mix of proteins, fats. Diets low in protein and high in sugar and animal fat can increase inflammation, Moldovan says. “But don’t eliminate fats completely from the diet,” she says. “You should include healthy fats such as in olives, flax seed, coconut oil, nuts and avocado.” Diets rich in omega-3 fatty acids, which are found in cold-water fish such as salmon and black cod, as well as vegetarian sources such as flax and

…by Mark Bryant acidic, whereas incorporating alkalinizing foods, such as lemons, limes and dark leafy greens Squats are a great combat acidity. They’re also exercise for developing leg loaded with vitamins, minerals muscles and for increasing and antioxidants.” bone density. In the “There’s no one-size fits-all beginning, one or two nutritional advice anymore,” sets of ten repetitions is Mark Bryant enough. Stand up straight Moldovan says. “Each person has a different way of absorbing and and look forward (never look down during processing vitamins and minerals. the squat). Next, bending from your hips The bottom line is that food is first (Not Your Knees!), push your hips nourishment, and it’s vital we back as if you’re trying to sit in a chair. get what we need to stay healthy, It’s fine if your knees go forward towards fight disease and to heal.” v your toes. Your torso (upper body) will have to lean slightly forward, too. Squat halfway down, about the height of a chair, • 1 cup milk (also consider Super Smoothie and then back up again. You don’t need unsweetened almond or soy milk) to squat any lower than halfway. If you • 1 cup fresh squeezed orange juice have knee problems or had knee surgery, An overlooked source of • 1/2 cup fresh berries you can try doing quarter squats (above omega-3 fats is acai berry. The • 1/2 cup frozen blueberries the halfway point) with your doctor’s whole fruit frozen packs provide • 1/2 cup frozen pineapple permission. If balance is an issue, hold on the most omega-3s (compared • 1/2 cup fresh apple, chopped to something solid, like a countertop, or to the powder) but even freezehave someone to steady you. ❖ dried powders may provide some • 1-ounce packet unsweetened frozen açaí benefits. While drinking this Mark Bryant is a Certified Senior Fitness nutrient-rich smoothie, imagine • Handful of fresh baby spinach Instructor and offers senior fitness classes at all the wonders it is doing for your • 1 tablespoon flax seed Columbia City Fitness. He’s certified by the body, like fighting free radicals Blend until smooth. Sprinkle with American Council on Exercise as a specialist with powerful antioxidants that chia seeds for a little extra Omega in orthopedic exercise, weight management may help reduce the risk of some 3 punch. and fitness nutrition. Mark is also the host of illness and disease, including the radio show, “Fitness Corner” – www. heart disease and cancer.

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• Acid-alkaline balance.

“The best tool you have for daily living and healing is the way you eat,” Moldovan says. “For instance, a diet high in sugar is

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Improving Arthritis …by Christine Fleming, UW School of Nursing de Tornyay Center for Healthy Aging

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In Spring 2018, times a week for 12 the Center for Global weeks) and the other Health Nursing at acted as a control and the UW School of did not participate in Nursing welcomed the exercise. Wang Tiffany Wang, PhD, found that those RN back to Seattle as adults participating a visiting scholar from in the study showed the National Taipei an increase in joint University of Nursing motion, walking and Health Sciences. distance and overall “When I came mood improvement. here as a student in She recalls the PhD in Nursing participants being Science program, I thrilled with the was able to work with results; they would tell Tiffany Wang, PhD, RN Dr. Belza to create a her: “This is the best research and exercise thing that has ever program focusing on osteoarthritis in happened to me!”, “Yesterday I was older adults.” Dr. Basia Belza, Director able to walk four blocks. I was not able of the de Tornyay Center for Healthy to do that prior to this study.”, “This Aging, served as the chair of Wang’s study has also improved my balance.” supervisory committee during her Wang concluded that success in PhD program and then as her mentor the program did not come through during her recent stay as a visiting exercise alone. As part of her program scholar. she followed up regularly with Dr. Wang earned her bachelor’s participants. Participants noted that degree from the National Defense the social support was a motivating Medical Center in Taiwan and then factor that encouraged them to stick worked in a military hospital for six with the exercise to continue to years in intensive care units. Her improve their health. “It is important passion for her work and her patients to find an alliance and form a group. led her to pursue and earn first a Older adults can connect with Master’s of Science degree from the instructors at the gym, or make a University of Utah and then a PhD friend and go to a class with them.” in Nursing Science degree from Wang said. the University of Washington. She Because of the success of this and focused her studies on cardiovascular other similar exercise programs, and health, symptom management and the government support of exercise for exercise rehabilitation. older adults in Taiwan, Wang was able Wang was motivated by the fact to develop similar exercise programs that osteoarthritis affects 16 million for patients with oral and lung cancer. adults and that there are physical, These programs showed similar results: psychological, social and economic early exercise rehabilitation can aid in impacts of osteoarthritis. For her managing chronic illness. dissertation, Wang examined the Through her education, effects of the Arthritis Foundation’s professional experience and research Aquatic Exercise program for older opportunities, Wang has been able adults with arthritis in their hip or to implement these practices in her knees here in Seattle. Wang used two home country of Taiwan and hopes groups of study participants including to continue the implementation of men and women aged 39-86. One exercise programs to improve the group participated in the exercise health of those affected by chronic (60 minutes of aquatic exercise three illness. v

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Bi-Annual Special Section Retirement & Assisted Living Communities Is it time to consider a move? Twice each year Northwest Prime Time brings you our Retirement & Assisted Living Communities Guide. As the experts say, even if you are healthy and active and don’t foresee a move anytime soon, planning ahead will maximize your options. See our Sampler of Retirement Housing Listings on pages 12-13.

Is it Time to Consider Moving?

Whether it’s living closer to family, downsizing to a more manageable residence or addressing health and safety concerns, many factors can contribute to a move to senior housing. Whatever the reasons behind the move, it can be difficult for aging adults to decide that it’s time to make a change.

Residents of senior living communities were asked about the challenges that influenced their move into senior housing. These influences include: · Friendship. Some residents realized it was time to move because they needed companionship and they found the built-in social circle offered by senior living communities appealing. · Family. Some moved to give their children peace of mind about their safety or to be in closer proximity to family members. · Care. For others, struggles with finding quality health care and assistance with home maintenance led them to seek out community living.

The best time to plan your move into a retirement or assisted living community is before something happens that requires a move.

That is the advice of Senior Housing Solutions (SHS), a company helping seniors find housing options. “ ‘I’m not ready to move,’ is a mantra that I hear in

my sleep,” reports an advisor at SHS. What is interesting, the report states, is that most people, including those who seem most opposed, often will tell you that moving was the best decision.

Many also say that they wish they had made the decision to move sooner. “If you wait for something to occur before deciding to do something, you have waited too long,” states an SHS representative.

“If you need care, you may be in no condition to move. Crisis decisions are usually not the best ones.”

The Huffington Post published an article by Ann Brenoff entitled Retirement Communities: The 7 Things you Should Ask. “Vowing to never retire to an age-segregated retirement community is akin to the ‘60s pledge of never trusting anyone older than 30: It’s something you say when you are younger and can’t imagine ever doing it. And then

one day you wake up and you’ve turned into the person you vowed never to trust – or in the case of post 50s, you wake up trying to figure out the difference between Leisure World and Sun City.

The idea that if you’ve seen one retirement community, you’ve seen them all is far from the truth.”

The article suggests that you consider the following questions as you begin your search: 1. Are you looking for bingo or competitive pickleball? In other words, evaluate the programs at the community you are considering to make sure they fit your lifestyle.

2. Is this a place you’ll find friends “with the same major?”

Spend some time to learn if there are other residents at the community who seem compatible and share your interests.

3. Are you looking for love in all the wrong places? Sometimes

the first time people consider a retirement community is when they find themselves spouse-less.

Not a bad idea, but don’t enter the community because you think you’ll find your soul mate there. What you will find is plenty of opportunities for socializing.

4. Will you grow old or stay young here? Studies show that active people are happier and healthier. Consider a community that keeps you engaged with life.

5. Will your children, grandchildren and greatgrandchildren feel welcome? If visits from the little ones are important to you, make sure the community’s policies fit your plans for hosting family visits.

6. Is the bottom line the bottom line? It’s important to know everything that’s included in your monthly dues. “The devil is in the details.”

7. Are you planning for today and ignoring tomorrow? “While your immediate concern may be whether you will be able to maintain an active lifestyle, can you age in place?”

Even if you are not ready for a move, researching your options makes sense. If you find that perfect place, there may be a waiting list. If you’re not on the list, your perfect place may not be available when it IS time to move. ❖

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Making the Move …by Bonnie McCune

After more than 30 years in the same house, we decided to move. We found a place we liked, and I thought we’d gotten through the hard part. Naïve, naïve me.

The biggest challenge lay ahead: sorting, packing, discarding, moving, discarding more, unpacking, organizing, cleaning and, yep, discarding even more.

The detritus from a lengthy residence accumulates without your consciousness.

I thought I’d been rigorous in my regular purgings – shedding baby items, then kids’ and teens’ things, donating massive amounts to charity, yard sales, ruthlessly setting out objects regularly for the library used book fests.

Little did I know my efforts were minuscule. I hadn’t made a dent in our belongings, a fact highlighted when we carried in boxes and found only one-quarter of the storage we needed. I was complaining to a friend when I realized the problem wasn’t too little storage, it was too many

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The wooden pencil holder crafted by my son when he studied shop, even the mass-produced glittery figurine given one Christmas by my late mother-in-law. How can I give any of these up? When I survey my effects, I’m cushioned by all the emotions that accompany them.

This move has enabled me to re-discover memories long-gone as I unwrap and touch my stuff. “Aah, here’s that photo of all the family’s babies from 40 years ago!” “My gosh, I thought I’d lost that velvet jewelry box from my mother!” If I abandon my belongings, I lose my connections. It’s a challenge.

A plus: “Moving is good for you,” I tell myself as I burrow among the debris. Psychology informs us that change opens you up to new insights and emotions, people, experiences. I’ve noticed as I age, change is more difficult to deal with. I might as well embrace it and improve myself as I go along.

I own too much in some cases (shoes, books, art), too little in a few others (other types of shoes, also a steadfast mixing bowl I used with all the favorite recipes). I must make some decisions, but how? I’d like to ponder these imponderables, but I have a bigger problem now. It’s 10 at night in the middle of chaos, and I can’t find my corkscrew to open a bottle of wine. v Bonnie McCune’s newest novel, Never Retreat, has just been published by Imajin Books. Reach her at www.

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Tips for Choosing a Retirement Community Today’s retirement communities offer a wide range of lifestyle choices, from basic apartments to luxury accommodations with all the bells and whistles. Pages 12 and 13 offer listings of retirement housing options in the area, including locator maps and grids for easy comparison. The guide is comprised of current Northwest Prime Time retirement housing advertisers.

Many options await you. Here is a list of different types of senior housing along with definitions and questions to ask to help in your decision-making.

Retirement community options range from completely independent lifestyles through skilled nursing care. Features can include housekeeping service, from one to three meals per day in a common dining area, organized recreational and social activities, van rides to grocery, medical and other appointments and safety features such as call bells for assistance.

Facilities range from basic apartment complexes to campus style, parklike or luxury hotel style settings.

Entrance fees and monthly costs vary tremendously. Care options range from very little care for healthy, independent residents, to help with daily living needs for frail individuals to complete nursing care.

Some facilities specialize in treating people with Alzheimer’s or other memory problems.

Independent Retirement Apartments/ Communities: Month-tomonth rental facilities feature independence for seniors. This arrangement allows you to enjoy an active, independent lifestyle in a community setting with organized social and recreational opportunities, but allows you to move quickly when your needs exceed the services offered. Facilities are usually apartment or condo style units, although cottage-style living options are growing in popularity. They come with complete living units: kitchen, bedroom(s), living room and bath.

Assisted Living facilities offer independent, community style living such as described above, but also offer more care with 24-hour nursing supervision for help with needs such as medication, bathing, getting dressed and laundry.

Nursing Homes provide skilled nursing care for people who cannot live independently. These facilities offer substantial day-to-day care, have 24-hour nursing and an attending physician.

Continuing Care Communities are designed to meet residents’ needs

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from the active, independent lifestyles experienced in independent retirement communities, through assisted living, to skilled nursing care all on site at the same facility.

Adult Care Homes provide housing, meals and one-on-one assistance with activities of daily living. They are single family homes in residential areas, usually licensed for four-to-six residents.

Some considerations when choosing a retirement community: Cost – According to the U.S. Department of Labor, no more than 60% of your income (or combined income for a couple) should go toward supporting you in a retirement community. Consider entrance fees and monthly costs. Is this a non-profit or for-profit facility? Are any subsidies available? Do you have long-term care insurance, pension benefits or other resources to help with these costs?

Be sure you know all services that are (and are not) provided for your monthly fee.

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monthly expenses including housing costs, food, home maintenance, utilities, real estate taxes, housekeeping and other housing expenses and compare to the monthly expense at the community you’re considering. Make sure you know what the contract covers in terms of services and meal plans.

Services – What is the full range of services available, which of these are covered in the basic fee and which are extra? Do you require help with any day-to-day activities or housekeeping chores? Fully consider all services or assistance you need now or may need soon when selecting a facility. Make sure you fully understand the contract and what it covers in terms of services.

• What is covered in the upfront fee?

• Would you (or your heirs) get any part of your upfront fee back if you move out?

• Make sure you understand the change in monthly fees should you start in independent and move to assisted living.

• If married, will you have to pay more in monthly fees if your partner needs assisted living and you want to keep your apartment?

• Have an attorney look over any contract before you sign it.

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you need to keep medical appointments and if the community transportation schedule meets your needs or offers alternatives. Will you be able to keep your current doctor or will you need to find a new one closer to your new home? Can you transfer your prescriptions and does the new pharmacy accept your prescription coverage plan?

Meals – Do you have special dietary needs? Do you like the menu?

How often are meals served and what meals are included in the fee? Are snacks available during non-meal hours?

Activities – Does the facility offer the types of activities and programs that you enjoy? Check out their full schedule.

Location – Is the facility convenient to friends, family and the activities you enjoy?

Walking & public transportation opportunities – Although many communities offer transportation for shopping, medical appointments and excursions, is there a nearby bus stop? Check out walking trails and routes in the neighborhood. Is there a nearby library and other services that are important to you?

Affiliations – Does the facility have a religious, fraternal or governmental affiliation?

Pets – Do they accept pets?

Make a list of your criteria and questions, and visit several facilities that seem to meet your needs.

Bring a friend or family member to compare notes and help ask questions. Use your senses ... do you like the looks of the place? How does it smell? See if you can have a meal at the facility and attend some scheduled activities. Ask about the management, their experience in the business, their track record and check out their reputation at this and any other facilities they manage. What is the staff-toresident ratio? Does the staff seem harried or irritable? (might be a sign of understaffing). How long has key staff worked there (administrator, head nurse, social worker, marketing person)? ❖

F.Y.I. Social Security Update The portion of Social Security benefits that retirees spent on Medicare premiums and outof-pocket costs climbed for a growing number of retirees in 2018, according to a recent survey Northwest Sound men’s chorus is providing six weeks of free a capella singing lessons for men, by the Senior Citizens League. and an opportunity to sing in our upcoming holiday shows, starting Wednesday, October 31st About 30 percent of retirees say at 6:30pm at the First United Methodist Church in Bellevue. The program is open to men of all ages; chorus members range in age from teenagers through men in their 80’s, with half of the that premiums and out-of-pocket members being over 55. Chorus culture and music are very family-friendly with passion for the spending consumed one-third to music often being passed from father to son – the chorus even includes three generations of one one-half of their Social Security family! More information is available at NorthwestSound.org/SSS or call 512-565-2923. benefits. New retirees often fail to The Mercer Girls calling him “the old man.” Conant, understand just how rising Medicare who didn’t care for Mercer, was only too costs can result in less Social ...continued from page 2 happy to report on the “juiciest gossip” Security income than anticipated. female superintendent of Kitsap County of the voyage. Mercer had developed Medicare Part B premiums are the schools. a crush on one of the women; without single fastest growing cost that Most of what we know about the giving her the slightest clue of his retirees have, increasing 195 percent second expedition comes from Conant’s intentions, Mercer invited her to his since 2000. Premiums for Medicare journal and newspaper articles. “The state room and asked her to marry him. supplement (Medigap), Advantage journal entries painted a much more “The maiden laughed in his face and plans and Part D drug plans have complicated picture of the group of walked out,” said Armitage. also increased dramatically. Social women themselves,” said Armitage.

Most of Mercer’s Belles turned out Security benefits have lost 34 According to Conant, the second bunch to be solid Seattle citizens and “really percent of buying power since of women teased Mercer mercilessly, did, indeed, contribute to the civilizing 2000, according to the Senior of Seattle – which at that point needed Citizens League, which supports a fair amount of civilizing,” concluded legislation that would strengthen F.Y.I. Armitage. “I think it must have been a the COLA and better protect the tremendous adventure.” v buying power of Social Security Senior Transition Movers recipients. To learn more, visit www.

The thought of moving from your Listen to Susan Armitage’s interview at knkx.org SeniorsLeague.org. long-time home into a retirement community can be overwhelming.

What to do with belongings accumulated over a lifetime?

If finances allow, consider hiring a professional move manager who specializes in supporting you in the downsizing process. Move managers evaluate the floor plan of your new home to help you determine what you will take with you in the move; they assist you in sorting, organizing and packing your belongings. They help you determine how to give away, donate, sell or dispose of items that will not make the move with you. Move managers can also pack, hire and supervise the movers, and then unpack and set up your new home—complete with putting everything away, finding the perfect spot for your treasures, even hanging pictures and making the bed. Ask your new retirement community if they can recommend a move manager. You can also visit www.nasmm.org (National Association of Senior Move Managers) or call 877-606-2766 to find a senior move manager near you.

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The Future of Medicare and Social Security …by Cathleen MacCaul, Advocacy Director, AARP Washington

The 2018 midterm election is one of the most important in our lifetimes.

Why? Because Medicare, Social Cathleen MacCaul Security and other critical issues are on the line.

As the largest voting bloc in the country, voters 50 and older will decide whether our elected officials get to work or put our future at risk.

Voting is one of our most essential civic duties, yet not enough people exercise their right to vote. Only 40% of registered Washington voters cast a ballot in our August primary. While it is true that midterm elections don’t draw as many voters as presidential elections, they are just as important.

Older voters have identified Medicare as one of the top issues this year. A critical part of the economic infrastructure of Washington, the program contributed about $11.9 billion to our state’s economy in 2017. In fact, Medicare spending is equivalent to about 14 percent of expenditures by state and local governments and more than one million Washingtonians rely on the program for health security.

Strengthening and preserving

Social Security for future generations is another important decision facing federal policymakers. There’s no doubt that Social Security continues to be a pillar of financial security for many Washingtonians. Nearly 1.3 million people are already receiving Social Security in the Evergreen State. Washingtonians earn their benefits through a lifetime of hard work. As a result, it insures families against the loss of income caused by retirement, disability or death.

Keeping Medicare and Social Security strong and solvent for current and future generations is important. Sound bites and TV commercials aren’t enough to know where a candidate stands on the issues that matter to us and our families.

Here are some sample Medicare and Social Security question to ask your candidate.

Medicare 1. Do you believe Medicare should be cut as a way to reduce the budget deficit?

2. Do you favor converting Medicare to a voucher program?

3. Do you support expanding coverage to include hearing, vision and dental care?

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3. Where do you stand on disability benefits? Some politicians want to increase funding to speed up the claims process. Others want to cut funding and encourage more people to start working again.

This month, AARP Washington is one of a number of sponsors to bring free public debates to constituents for this fall’s elections. Debates in Tacoma, Ellensburg and Spokane will be televised and livestreamed statewide.

1. Saturday, October 6 - Pacific Lutheran University in Tacoma, 7 p.m. (U.S. Senate) 2. Tuesday, October 9 - Kitsap County Commissioner’s Chambers in Kitsap, 5:30 p.m. (State Legislature) 3. Wednesday, October 17 Central Washington University in Ellensburg, 7 p.m. (WA-8th Congressional District) 4. Tuesday, October 30 Gonzaga University in Spokane, 7 p.m. (U.S. Senate)

Constituents will have an opportunity to ask important questions to help decide which candidate best represent their views on the issues. Learn more about candidate forums, town halls and other public events at www.aarp.org/ wa or call 206-517-9358.

There are other ways to stay involved and become a more informed voter. Stay up to date on where the candidates stand by visiting their websites and researching their voting records.

You can even check candidates’ answers at factcheck.org. Visit aarp. org/vote to get more information about the issues and sign up to get reminders about voting in your district.

Lastly, pledge to vote in November and ask your friends and neighbors to do the same. AARP will be communicating to candidates the number of people in their district that have signed AARP’s pledge to vote and are committed to voting for candidates that stand for them. Go to www.aarp.org/vote to make your pledge.

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Things That Annoy …by Sy Rosen

As I’m getting older I’ve become annoyed by more and more things.

And yes, one of the main things annoying me Sy Rosen is that I’m getting older. Anyway, here are a few things that really bother me.

Maybe they bother you too. Or maybe you’re a better person than I am and don’t let these small, petty things get to you. If so, that really bothers me.

I really hate dressing room mirrors in department stores.

Aren’t they supposed to make you look better? Instead, the three-way mirror forces me to simultaneously see my turkey neck (which is growing), my bald spot (which is also growing) and my stomach (which has already grown).

It’s really annoying getting telemarketer calls for walkin bathtubs, hearing aids and dentures. When they call to sell me a hearing aid I pretend I can’t hear them. It drives them crazy and gives me great joy.

I hate that as I’m getting older I often repeat myself. I hate that as I’m getting older I often repeat myself.

It’s very frustrating trying to separate coffee filters. It takes me forever. At least I know what to tell people when they ask, “What did you do today?”

It’s really annoying that the first two levels of the parking structures for many medical buildings are now reserved for doctors. We’re the ones who are sick and we should be closer to the entrance, not the doctors.

If my doctor is reading this, I want to say that I’m not talking about you. I love you, and please keep saying that I don’t have to go on a diet.

The expiration dates on vitamin pill bottles are often so

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tiny that you can’t see them. This is particularly frustrating when they are vitamins to help bad eyesight.

It bothers me when I’m given an unasked-for senior discount.

Yes, I know, I’m about 10 years older than what is needed for a senior discount, but it would still be nice to be “carded.”

I get annoyed at places that don’t give senior discounts. Yes, I know, this is inconsistent with the above.

I hate reading a novel that I really loved and then discover that it’s a Young Adult novel.

I also hate that this bothers me. After all, emotionally and psychologically I’m still a young adult. It’s just my body that doesn’t agree with this assessment.

I really don’t like it when a waitress calls me ‘Honey’ or ‘Hon.’ It is condescending. I am not a ‘Hon.’ I am a mysterious, hotblooded, fierce beast who only orders a low cholesterol, non-fat, non-salt, high fiber meal because I like it.

I hate that my latest hobby is reading the morning obits. It’s morbidly addictive as I look to see who I am doing better than.

I hate that I sometimes count the number of people who would come to my funeral (and I pad the number).

I’m annoyed by the automatic flush in bathrooms. It’s like they don’t trust us to flush. And sometimes it flushes when we are not ready to flush. I also hate that I am spending this much time talking about bathrooms.

Every time my Cousin Mort visits, I give him a cup of coffee.

Just before I pour, he looks in the cup to makes sure it’s clean.

It’s always clean, but he always checks. It bothers me that I notice this. It bothers me more that he does it.

When I go on vacation I keep thinking that the guy next to me got a better deal on the hotel. I know I am being paranoid, but I also know that even paranoids are right sometimes. ❖

Once More in the Name of Love …by Diana Couture

Rose and Dawn walked briskly in the early morning glow of the overhead lights of the local shopping mall. They were part of the growing number of seniors who opted for this kind of indoor exercise instead of battling the elements and the city streets for a daily constitutional.

They were both just slightly breathless when they saw their friend Lisa walking with a man they’d never met. Hmmm, they both thought silently. Then Rose said, “Who’s that with Lisa? Do we know him?” “I don’t think so. I’d remember that ruddy, but handsome face,” Dawn replied shyly.

As the girls got closer they noticed, to their horror, that the couple – Lisa and the stranger – were…could it be?

Holding hands! They tried not to stare, but both of them knew that Lisa had only lost her husband just over a year ago. She had been almost inconsolable for the first few months. Rose and Dawn had been quite instrumental in getting her back to the land of the living. They spent hours and hours with Lisa encouraging her to get up and do her hair and make up and get out there into the world.

And now here she was without so much as a ‘how do you do,’ holding hands with a complete stranger.

Lisa spotted the pair and waved enthusiastically. She practically ran over to the girls while dragging the handsome stranger behind her. “Rose, Dawn, what a wonderful surprise.

We haven’t seen you here in a while.

What have you two been up to?”

Rose held back the snide remark that THEY should be the ones asking her that question. “No need to be rude, just because I’m surprised,” she mused silently.

Dawn finally stuttered out a return hello and told Lisa they’d been going to a different mall for a change of pace.

The ‘elephant’ of a stranger was so big that the conversation could not continue around him. Rose finally was able to ask, “Well Lisa, are you going to introduce us to your friend?”

Lisa blushingly said, oh, of course she was. She was just so excited to see her

friends she had forgotten her manners.

“Girls, this is Brett.

But he’s much more than a friend. He’s my fiancé.” Brett put his hand out to greet Rose and Dawn, who were so rattled that they could barely move their appendages to meet his. “What?!” Both of the women said while they were trying to be polite while stunned at the same time. “When did all this happen? It seems only days ago that we were trying to coax you back to life after Bill died,” Rose blurted out. Dawn stepped in and offered, “What Rose is trying to say, Lisa, is that we’re very happy that you have been able to work through your grief and embrace life and…love again.

Lisa blushed and Brett laughed.

“For once in my life,” Brett said in a deep Australian accent, “I decided to act immediately on my feelings. Lisa and I met and it was like a lightening strike. One doesn’t slow down lightning,” he said while wrapping his arm around Lisa’s waist and smiling at her with love in his eyes. Lisa smiled back. “Yes, it’s been rather a whirlwind romance, but it felt so right to both of us, it just couldn’t be stopped.”

Rose couldn’t help herself and used the lightening analogy in a negative way. “One can also get badly burned and even killed from a lightening strike.” Dawn grabbed Rose’s arm and said, “It was so nice to meet you, Brett, and to see you again, Lisa. We wish you the best and can’t wait to be invited to the wedding. Much happiness to both of you. Rose and I must be getting along. Rose gets a little tetchy when she hasn’t had anything to eat by this time of the morning.”

With that, Dawn tugged Rose’s arm and the two of them waved to the smiling and happily waving couple who seemed oblivious to the dire words of warning that had just been uttered. “Rose, what the heck were you thinking? Saying such a threatening thing and raining on their happy news.”

“I truly don’t know, Dawnie. I just had to say it. Am I worried for my friend? Or am I just jealous of her getting one more chance at love?” ❖ To Be Continued…

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Fish Story ...by Len Elliott

Across 1. Food fit for pigs 5. Beginner 9. New newt 12. Peaceful 15. 2018, e.g.

16. Federal auditing agency: abbr.

17. Baseball Hall of Fame lefthander who was very interested in a certain annual salmon activity?

19. Miracle-___ (plant food) 20. “Tata” in Tampico 21. Printer brand 23. Rotor’s counterpart 26. Eats away at, as flowing water 27. Not level 28. Writing surfaces used in ancient Egypt 30. Philosopher Kierkegaard 31. Show signs of anger 32. Late coach Parseghian 35. Storied conservationist John 36. Indian currency 37. “Right on, Reverend!”

38. Sports participant: abbr.

39. Yale students, familiarly 40. Berate 41. Horrify 44. Substances used for impermanent tattoos 45. Resembling the stars 47. “The ____ of Errors” (Shakespeare play) 48. Competed at the Indy 500 49. Indigenous New Zealander

51. Biblical verb ending 52. “Sayonara” actor who concerned himself with the place where salmon get ready to emerge?

58. “Sprechen ____ Deutsch”?

59. Canadian gas brand 60. “Return to ____” (hit for Elvis) 61. Above, to Auden 62. French holy women: abbr.

63. Golf ball holders Down 1. Opposite of NNE 2. Poetic meadow 3. Boston Bruins’ Bobby 4. Part of mpg 5. Proofreader’s find, in short 6. Affirmative votes 7. Uncooked 8. Cantankerous 9. Gangster who helped make sure salmon roe survived?

10. ____ Islands (between Iceland and Norway) 11. Donald Duck and Mickey Mouse, in short 13. Tidy up 14. ____ a happy note (good result): 2 wds.

18. Paul McCartney’s title 22. ____ favor (please): Sp. 23. Pig’s nose 24. Actress (actual name) who watched over the emergence of swimming salmon?

solution on page 22

25. Declare 26. Modern pentathlon device 27. West Point, initially 28. Student 29. Iowa State University’s home 31. No longer hungry 33. Team track event 34. Common conjunctions 36. Word with estate or world 37. Teen woe 40. Descendant of Shem 42. Starter for school or season

43. San Diego baseballers 44. Egyptian bird god 45. “You ____ wrong!”: 2 wds.

46. French composer Erik 47. It holds kernels 49. Retailer’s stock: abbr.

50. Kerfuffles 53. Sarasota setting in January: abbr.

54. It’s a blaster: abbr.

55. “____ to Joy” (Schiller work) 56. Mamie Eisenhower, ____ Doud 57. Next year’s alums: abbr.

Words in “OCTOBER” ...by Len Elliott

Each clue defines a word or phrase that contains letters from the word October.

For example, what a judge wears: robe. Note: Except for “o,” no letter is used more than once in any answer.

Come Home to a Family of Friends at

1. First two words of a famous Shakespearean soliloquy.

2. The chimneysweep’s first name in “Mary Poppins.”

3. Start up the computer again.

4. River in Spain.

5. Small diving bird.

6. Right-hand page of an open book. answers on page 22

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Scenes from Childhood

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Writing Corner

Printed—Not Booked

Grandparents

…by Pat D’Amico

…by Ariele M. Huff

that Friday night. The My fingerprints next morning, I blurted may still be on file with the whole story to the Bellingham Police my dad. He promptly Department. It all went found the cabin’s down like this: I know it owner and promised was 1949 because my dad restitution. He rounded just bought his first new up as many of the boys car since the war. It was a that he could find, white Nash. picked them up in his Some details escape me new Nash and headed today but, as I remember, a to Birch Bay to made bunch of fifteen-year-olds, The criminal element (Pat is the amends. I’m not sure girls and boys, went in why, but he left the the back of a truck on an “criminal” on the right) girls to stew in their own juices. improvised hay ride to a Halloween He didn’t stop there. He had a party. We went to a cabin at Birch friend in the Police Department, so Bay that was owned by my friend’s he told all of us that we were to be family. Her parents were in attendance fingerprinted for our deeds on that very as chaperones. Perish the thought of afternoon…and we were. alcohol being involved.

As fate would have it, soon after As the party progressed, somebody we all attended a school carnival. My suggested that we explore the empty mom, creatively disguised as a fortune cabins in the vicinity. One thing led teller, held court in a small tent erected to another and, pretty soon, we found on the gym floor. A couple of the guys, an unlocked cabin. We went in and made ourselves at home. In the process, poking each other and laughing as teenagers are wont to do, decided to some of the contents of the cabin have their fortunes read. The Gypsy were mightily messed up. Thankfully within the tent consulted her crystal nothing was broken. We returned to ball and intoned, “I see you boys have our original party site and nothing traveled in a long white car to a place of was said to the chaperones about our great disturbance.” I have never seen a escapade. tent flap fly like that! ❖ My conscience hammered me all

Writing about grandparents has several ramifications.

1. If you knew them or not (due to distance or death).

Ariele M. Huff 2. How well you knew them. How close you were to that person.

3. Whether there is someone else who knew them that can fill in information and share anecdotes, thoughts and feelings relating to the grandparent/s.

If any of those areas are missing but you still want to document a grandparent, you’ll probably have to utilize some of the methods used for more time-removed family.

Diaries and journals are excellent sources of information and may even give feelings as well as inner thoughts. And, while not everyone keeps those, letters can be equally revealing. With grandparents, we’re still in the preelectronic communication era. Our children will probably be savoring emails of passed predecessors as we do cards and letters.

One precious memento I have from my grandfather, who didn’t journal or write letters, is the little logbook where he kept track of being the neighborhood “lights out” warden during WWII. It has his handwriting and a few quaint comments. Though I knew him well and had many years with him, this small amount of writing added a lot to my knowledge of him in a role other than that of my doting grandpa.

Photos, of course, are irreplaceably valuable when recording a life. Even a single one can provide precious hints and glimpses. Don’t forget that

Poetry Corner “Pumpkin Patches”

Bright pumpkin patches along country roads, lush, ripened fruit a new season bodes.

Baked into warm pies for Thanksgiving feeds, what young goblins need to do scary deeds.

Giant pumpkins—orange, leaves turning red, white frosty nights, fun lies ahead.

--Barbara Ruby Poetry may be excerpted, edited, or used in Sharing Stories on Northwest Prime Time’s website. ariele@comcast.net.

stained or torn photos can be rejuvenated. Before pitching a badly deteriorating picture, take photos of it. The copies can be lightened, brightened, enlarged and even freed of specks.

Of course, any saved souvenir or memento can speak volumes about the person who saved it.

Since anyone’s grandparents truly lived in a different era during their youths, research of that time can tell much about the people who lived in it. For example, if you find that your grandmother resided where a serious influenza outbreak was during her childhood, she might well have lost friends to it.

Beyond that, research can point to lifestyle elements of any period: furniture, clothing, available and favored foods, architecture, vehicles, typical kinds of entertainment and events people attended, commonly owned games and toys. It’s okay to make educated guesses if you admit to that kind of information as a conjecture rather than a fact. Often, this kind of research will help put together pieces of a puzzle that shows some realities pertaining to your relative who lived in a different time and, perhaps, place.

If you are computer literate at all (or have a nearby library), check your relative’s name on the internet. One 95-year-old student of mine discovered the results of a foot race he’d participated in as a youth. What a treat to discover he’d finished third when he hadn’t known that!

Finally, Ancestry.com can provide amazing help sometimes. My adopted cousin just found her birth mother by listing with them. v From her new home in Aberdeen, Ariele still teaches online writing classes.

Connect at ariele@comcast.net.

“Class Reunion”

I hoped you would talk about the warm-blooded fish, the one newly discovered whose circulation system could be a key to the universe.

Or about Sacred Economics, which I don’t quite understand, and hoped you would explain.

But all you talked about was crab dip at a funky little place that blows your socks off.

And I learned sometimes they add artichokes, but you weren’t sure if it’s on Wednesdays or Thursdays.

--Judy Slattery (81)

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LET’S GO! Senior Events

Free Senior Classes Oct 4, 10am Living Well with Vision Loss, Kent Senior Center; Oct 10, 10:15am Fall Prevention; Oct 17, 12:30pm Medicare Workshop, SeaTac Comm Ctr; Oct 23, 10am Aging & Memory Burien Comm Ctr; 253-945-1400.

Free Caregiving Classes Offered by King County Library System: Federal Way Sr Ctr Weds in Oct 12:30-1:30pm – 4016 S 352nd St Auburn, 253-838-3604; Issaquah Library Oct 18, 10am8pm – 10 W Sunset Way, 425-392-5430; Shoreline Library Oct 27, 10am-5pm – 345 NE 175th St, 206- 3627550; Renton Library, Oct 29, 11:30am-8pm – 100 Mill Avenue S 425-226-6043; Peter Kirk Sr Ctr Nov 5, 2-3:30pm – 352 Kirkland Ave, Kirkland, 425-587-3360.

Kitchen Table Talks Oct 16, 1-2pm, join a monthly conversation about age-friendly communities open to all--call 206-386-1200 or tollfree 1-844-386-1200 (when prompted, enter code 7487895) or visit www. tinyurl.com/KitchenTableTalkOctober (when prompted, enter code 6142451). For more information, visit seattle.gov.agefriendly/ events or, if you have questions about this event ahead of time, call 206-386-1521.

Wisdom Cafe Oct 16, 2-3:30pm, free conversations for older adults, “Life Purpose” Richmond Beach Library, 19601 21st Ave NW, 206-546-3522.

Treats & Treasures Oct 17-18, 9am-3pm baked goods, handicrafts, second-hand treasures, Lynnwood Senior Ctr, 19000 44th Ave W, 425-670-5050.

Intergenerational Art Workshop Oct. 20, 2-4pm, free workshop for all, including those with early stage dementia and their caregivers, all mask-making supplies provided, Kingsgate Library, Kirkland, free but RSVP 425770-5879, www.art2remember.org Free Downsizing Seminar Oct 25, 11am-noon, coffee & conversation on what to do with all your stuff, featuring move manager Christy Urdal of Next Step Transitions. refreshments, Meadowbrook Comm Ctr, 10517 35th Ave NE, Seattle, 206-914-9989, free but RSVP 206-914-9989.

Senior Wellness Fair Oct 26, 10am-1pm, learn about healthy lifestyles, senior resources, free lunch, MidCounty Comm Ctr, 10205 44th Ave E, Tacoma, FREE 253-531-8412.

Free Downsizing Events Kirk Vaux of Windermere and guest speaker present ins & outs of downsizing from your longtime family home, tips on sorting, packing & liquidation of possessions, 206-850-4570, visit kirkvaux.com for future dates and locations.

Holiday Shopping Bazaar Nov 9 & 10, 10:30am-4pm, holiday gifts, Free event. 7083 Wagner Way, Gig Harbor, 253235-0012.www.thelodge-gigharbor.com.

Food & Fitness Tues/Th 11am-2pm, Sound Generations & Seattle Parks launches program for East African Elders at Northgate Comm Ctr, www. soundgenerations.org Creative Aging at the Frye 2nd Tuesdays those with dementia and care partners enjoy music and more in a relaxed atmosphere free 206-432-8208, fryemuseum.org Irish Tenors Holiday Concert Dec 18, 7:30pm, Benaroya Hall, benefiting the Ballard NW Senior Center. Tickets at www. benaroyahall.org, 206-215-4747.

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Health Education

Free Medicare Plans Seminars Throughout October in various Puget Sound locations, Providence Medicare Advantage Plans, Learn more at 866-995-2956 (TTY:771) or mytrueplans.com/print.

Diabetes Prevention Classes Yearlong program to prevent Diabetes at area YMCAs first sessions begin early Oct, learn more 206-432-8904.

All About Acupuncture & Massage Oct 26, 11:30-1:30pm, talk on benefits of acupuncture and massage and their ability to minimize pain, stiffness, swelling, anxiety & depression, Shoreline Library, 345 NE 17th, 206-362-7550.

Craft Markets

Treats & Treasures Oct 17-18, 9am-3pm baked goods, handicrafts, second-hand treasures, Lynnwood Senior Ctr, 19000 44th Ave W, 425-670-5050.

Holiday Craft Market Nov 2-3, 9am-4pm, 70 booths of handcrafted gifts, cafe & bake sale, door prizes, free, Kent Sr Ctr, 600 E. Smith St, Kent, 253-856-5162.

Artisans Festival Nov 5, 3-8pm & Nov 6 10am-6pm, handicrafts, jewelry, wearable art, treats, wine pull, raffle, benefits Children’s Hospital, Meridian Valley Country Club, 24830 136th Ave SE, Kent.

Holiday Shopping Bazaar Nov 9 & 10, 10:30am-4pm, holiday gifts, Free event. 7083 Wagner Way, Gig Harbor, 253235-0012.www.thelodge-gigharbor.com.

Community Events

Write on the Sound free events Oct 5, 5-5:45pm, poetry; Oct 6, 5:15-6:30pm, book signing; Plaza Room, 650 Main St, Edmonds, 425-771-0228.

Gala Benefits Senior Services Oct 13, keynote speaker Linda Evans, live band, dance performance, auction, dinner, raffle, Grand Hyatt Seattle, $200-$300, soundgenerations.org/GoldenGala Car Show & Elvis Oct 13, noon-3pm, antique car show & Elvis, refreshments featured at Cedar Valley Grange open house, free, non-perishable donations for food bank welcome, 20526 52nd Ave W, Lynnwood, 425-347-8407, www.cedarval.org Artist Studio Tour Oct 13-14, self-guided tour of 12 studios with 32 artists, N. Seattle, free, artsnorthstudiotour.com Afternoon with Edgar Allan Poe Oct 13, 2-3pm, listen to some of his famous stories and poems of the macabre, Shoreline Library, 345 NE 175th, 206-362-7550.

Tenant Rights Workshop Oct 13, 10:30am-12:30pm, Richmond Beach Library, 19601 21st Ave NW, 206-546-3522.

Doonesbury in the Time of Trump Oct 14, 7:30pm, cartoonist Garry Trudeau; 206-215-4747, www.benaroyahall.org Earthquake Preparedness Oct 16, 6:30-8:30pm, learn how to prepare for an earthquake, Clover Park Tech College 4400 Steilacoom Blvd (enter off Lakeview Ave), free.

Northwest World Fest Oct 20, 8pmm master musicians, W. African food, clothing/jewelry booths, age 21+, $35, King Hall, Beacon Hill, www.hearthmusic.com National Geographic LIVE Oct 28-30, 7:30pm, photos & lecture on social animals, 206-215-4747, www.benaroyahall.org

Theater

Black Box Theatre Concerts, lectures, and more. Edmonds Community College. Tickets and information, blackboxedcc.org or 425-640-1448.

Seattle Rep Oct 5-Nov 10 “A Thousand Splendid Suns” harrowing tale of two women in war-torn Kabul; Oct 17-Nov 25 “A People’s History” story-teller Mike Daisey explores US history not told in school; 206-443-2222, www.SeattleRep.org Social Justice Film Festival Oct 5-14, several venues, includes a film, “The Guardians” about the exploitation of older adults through court appointed guardians, www. socialjusticefilmfestival.org Murder Mystery Dinner Oct 11-14, Fatal Football Fever, The Social Bar and Grill, 1715 Dock St. Tacoma, $55, 253272-2281, www.tacomalittletheatre.com Seattle Public Theater Oct 12-Nov 4, “Fade” true-to-life comedy, $17$34, 7312 W Green Lake Dr N, Seattle, www. seattlepublictheater.org Theater Camp for Adults Oct 20-21, led by Broadway performers, Century Ballroom, 915 E Pine, Seattle, www. broadwayweekends.com Carol Burnett Oct 21, 7pm “An Evening of Laughter and Reflections” Carol will show video clips from her shows, share stories and take questions from the audience, 206-215-4747, benaroyahall.org.

Centerstage Theatre Thru Oct 21, Complete Works of William Shakespeare (Abridged), Knutzen Family Theatre, 3200 SW Dash Point Rd, Federal Way, $15-$29, 253-661-1444, www.

CenterstageTheatre.com The Project Williams Oct 25-Nov 18, Tony Kushner’s “A Bright Room Called Day”, Hillman City Collaboratory, pay what you can, www.thewilliamsproject.org

Musical Theater

Little Shop of Horrors Oct 6-7, 12-14, the sci-fi Broadway smash performed with puppets, Shoreline Comm College Theater, $12-$20, free parking & refreshments, 206-546-4728.

Seattle Musical Theater Oct 12-28, Legally Blonde the Musical, Magnuson Park, seattlemusicaltheatre.org SecondStoryRep Oct 19-Nov 4, “[title of show]” writers struggle to submit something to the musical theater festival, 7325 166th Ave NE, Redmond, 425-8816777, www.secondstoryrep.org Village Theatre Thru Oct 21 (Issaquah) Oct 26-Nov 18 (Everett); The Noteworthy Life of Howard Barnes, musical comedy, $29-$74, Iss 425-392-2202; Ev 425257-8600, www.villagetheatre.org

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Black Box Theatre Concerts, lectures, and more. Edmonds Community College. Tickets and information, blackboxedcc.org or 425-640-1448.

Benaroya Hall Concerts Oc 5, 8pm, Kandace Springs soul; Oct 29, 7:30pm Lucia Micarelli violinist, 206-215-4747, www.benaroyahall.org Orchestra Seattle/Chamber Singers Oct 6, 206-682-5208, www.osscs.org.

Seattle Jazz Vespers Oct 7, 6pm (first Sunday of every month OctJune) chart-topping Stephanie Porter, Seattle First Baptist Church, corner of Harvard & Seneca in Seattle, freewill offering, www.

SeattleJazzVespers.org Celtic Rock Oct 10, 7:30pm, Skerryvore & We Banjo team up, Edmonds Center for the Arts, 410 Fourth Ave N, 425-275-9489, www.ec4arts.org Seattle Women’s Chorus Oct 12-20, Seattle First Baptist Church on First Hill in Seattle and Highline Perf Arts Ctr in Burien, $25-$48, 206-388-1400, www. seattlechoruses.org Everett Philharmonic Orchestra Oct 14, 3pm, stage-side chat at 2pm.

“Masterworks,” Everett Civic Auditorium, 2415 Colby Ave. 206-270-9729. www.everettphil.org.

Irish Tenors Holiday Concert Dec 18, 7:30pm, Benaroya Hall, benefiting the Ballard NW Senior Center. Tickets at www. benaroyahall.org, 206-215-4747. see full calendar at NorthwestPrimeTime.com/calendar

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Carol Burnett

October 2018

theater department Carol focused voted her the most her energy on ...continued from page 1 promising newcomer Broadway. ... the course of her “By 1966 I (the 40s), before I turned 12, it was 11 life was set. had married Joe cents for me to go to the movies and it After being Hamilton, who was a quarter for my grandmother. We invited to summer had produced would see – on average – eight movies stock, Carol returned Carol was raised by her “Nanny” (her Garry’s show,” a week.” The movies Carol watched to UCLA and met grandmother, Mae White). Carol's “ear-tug” writes Carol. with her grandmother later turned up in her future husband, was her signal to Nanny, “Hello, I love you” They began The Carol Burnett Show’s movie spoofs: Don Saroyan, a their family “Oh yes,” said Carol. She remembers fellow theater major. The two teamed (which eventually included three when they did Gilda. “I got a telegram up and started performing at charity daughters: Carrie, Jody and Erin). Carol’s from Rita Hayworth…she came on our functions around town. Dreams of Broadway career had not panned out, show. Betty Grable was a guest. Lana Broadway soon emerged. and they were sitting around their new Turner was a guest on our show and Fate stepped Beverly Hills home figuring out how to Gloria Swanson. in again when earn some money. They remembered the It was just such a Carol and some option for a variety show and decided to thrill, you know. classmates “push the button” at the very last minute And I thought, oh were invited to of the contract. CBS executives tried my God, if Nanny perform as the to talk her out of it, “Variety shows are were alive and saw entertainment typically hosted by men…it’s really not me doing a number at a fancy party. for a gal,” she was told. They offered her a with Betty Grable, By evening’s sit-com instead. it would kill her. end, Carol “But comedy-variety is what I do She would just faint was stowing best!” insisted Carol. Comedy sketches, dead away…never Jody, Carrie and Erin in their younger years cookies into a rep company, guest stars, music! The in a million years her purse to take home to her sister and Carol Burnett Show was born. Her did we ever dream that we’d ever know grandmother when she turned to find players consisted of Lyle Waggoner, these people.” a party guest looking at her. He was so Vicki Lawrence, Harvey Korman and, It was for that same grandmother impressed with Carol that he offered eventually, Tim Conway. It featured a that Carol developed her famed “ear to lend her a thousand dollars to get 28-piece orchestra, 12 dancers, two guest tug”—she couldn’t say hi from a live her start in New York. He made her stars a week and the costume designs of television show, but she could signal promise to pay him back in five years, to the amazing Bob Mackie. She estimates “Hello, I love you” by tugging her ear. never reveal his name, and—after she’d he designed at least 17,000 costumes over That earlobe is measurably longer than succeeded—to help others achieve their the course of 11 years, from beautiful the other. gowns to sight-gag pieces.

Growing up, Carol spent a lot of time dreams. It’s a promise Carol keeps to this day.

Carol had a fairly normal schedule with her cousin Janice. The two would New York wasn’t easy. She went on with her kids during this time: taking reenact movies scenes, including Tarzan. endless auditions, but it was the same old them to school, family dinners at home.

Carol had perfected the Tarzan yell that story: without an agent she couldn’t get “It was THE perfect schedule,” writes accompanied her through life while still cast. Without being cast, she couldn’t get Carol. She also writes of other “normal” a young girl. “My Johnny Weissmuller an agent. activities such as getting together with was, hands down, the best,” wrote Carol Just like in the Mickey Rooney and friends to play Charades. Except their in her memoir, One More Time. She Judy Garland movies, Carol convinced hosts were Betty White and Allen could also throw her hips out of their her friends that they could mount their Ludden, and other guests might include sockets and was able to get attention by own shoe-string production to impress luminaries like Fred Astaire (“He was as performing her tricks at recess. the agents. The crazy idea turned into a good a game player as he was a dancer,” But by the time she got to great success: Carol got her agent and was confides Carol).

Hollywood High School, she didn’t The Carol Burnett Show has earned know how to fit in and she was miserable. on her way to fame.

After several small jobs with big its place in television history. It is still in Still, she had her best friend Ilomay, then impact, including an appearance on syndication and available on DVD. The boys started to show up and, somehow, the Ed Sullivan Show, Carol describes show remains popular, even with new she began to thrive. At her mother’s two major breaks in her book, In Such generations of fans who might discover urging, Carol signed up for the school Good Company. “My stage break came it through YouTube. After 50 years, the newspaper and got her own column. in the spring of 1959, when I was cast show holds up brilliantly.

After graduation, she wanted to go to as Winnifred the Woebegone in the “We weren’t timely, but the comedy nearby UCLA. The only problem was musical comedy Once Upon a Mattress.” was timeless,” says Carol. “I’m a clown, how to pay for it.

What started as a limited-run production and we just wanted to have belly laughs.

Lucky Breaks proved so popular that it moved to I think that’s why it’s viable today…

One of the many lucky breaks in Funny is funny.”

Carol’s life came just before the seemingly Broadway and ran for over a year.

“My second big break came in the Carol remains busy with her impossible $42 tuition to UCLA was due, traveling show. She also has a new talk when she received an unnamed donation fall of 1959 when I was asked to be a regular performer on The Garry Moore show on Netflix, A Little Help With in the form of a $50 bill tucked into an Show, a terrifically popular TV comedyCarol Burnett, where she interviews kids envelope…her ticket to UCLA. She variety series. For almost a year, I doubled about helping adults. Carol likes to make intended to major in journalism, but the up and did both shows…Garry’s show time for her child fans and encourages school didn’t carry it. Instead, she opted allowed me to be different characters the young ones to include their phone for Theater Arts English, which offered every week, as opposed to doing one role number when asking for advice about courses in writing. Problem solved. The show biz. “If they put their phone number program required that she take one acting over and over again in the theater. In essence we mounted a distinct musical in, I’ll call them.” class, which was perfect because, deep Carol lives in Santa Barbara with her down – although she wouldn’t admit it to comedy revue every week in front of a live studio audience…” husband, Brian Miller. “We love it here anyone – Carol wanted to be an actress.

CBS recognized Carol’s great talent so much. We have a lot of friends up here During her performance in a comedy and her universal appeal, and asked to socialize.” Carol relaxes each morning piece, the class laughed. “Lord, it was a her to sign a 10-year contract – which with two crossword puzzles. They share good feeling being up here and enjoying included an annual TV special and guest the house with a beloved Bengal cat. myself,” wrote Carol. She started trying Carol eats well and remains active, out for roles at school, and finally snagged appearances. An add-on part of the contract was a stipulation that offered but she attributes her good health a small part. At one point the audience to doing what she loves. “I’m active started screaming, clapping and stomping 30 one-hour variety shows of her own, guaranteed. It was her option to “push with my career, so I’m fortunate. But its feet for Carol. She received a rave the button” and make it a go. Instead, if I didn’t have that, I’d still be active review in the college newspaper; the

October 2018 – volunteering, involved with the community.”

And laughter is the best medicine, she says. “Get out some good old funny movies. Laughter has saved a lot of lives.

I know it saved mine.”

Is there anything left on her bucket list? “It won’t happen unless there is more than one life, but I’d like to go to the moon…I’m not kidding! I’d love to stand on the moon’s surface and look back at earth.”

Maybe Carol will get her wish. Her talent and accomplishments are already out of this world. v “Carol Burnett: An Evening of Laughter and Reflection Where the Audience Asks Questions” plays at Benaroya Hall on October 21. Tickets ($69 to $179) are available at 206-215-4747 or www. benaroyahall.org.

MORE INFORMATION Carol’s talents are on view in her show, her specials, her best-selling books, movie roles and so much more.

In addition to her Emmys, Carol Burnett received the Kennedy Center Honors, was awarded the Mark Twain Prize and Presidential Medal of Freedom, has won a Grammy for narrating her book, was inducted into the Television Hall of Fame and received the Screen Actors Guild Lifetime Award. She has as a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame (if you attend the show on October 21, ask her about the placement of that star and how it relates to her work as an usherette!).

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The Great Outdoors

Helping Out in the Neighborhood …by Roger Urbaniak

Most days, if the often swerve into weather cooperates, the road to avoid I enjoy walking a these vines. I took mile or two around it upon myself my neighborhood. I to carry clippers even joined up with and a leather a tennis group that glove to trim back regularly plays just dangerous-looking two blocks from my vines. More than home. During my once, I’ve had a walks, I notice how passing bike rider my neighbors keep thank me. One up their homes and fellow pointed to gardens and look a lengthy hanging for pointers on new vine that I had plants to add to our just cut and said yard, or perhaps he had already color combinations been raked twice when next I feel by it.

Roger enjoys being out and about in his the urge to paint my Mercer Island neighborhood doing good One of my home. walking routes deeds, photo courtesy Mercer Island I live on Mercer Chamber of Commerce takes me down Island with several a busy street parks and bike paths close by that just south of the business section. encourage staying fit. I have lived in my The route is often strewn with litter. current home for over 40 years and I Since I receive more enjoyment from am proud to live exactly where I do. unblemished scenery, carrying along a Some time ago, I noticed that fast bag and removing the litter helps the growing blackberry vines could reach route look better for my next trip. into the bike and walking paths. Those During the winter, storms blow that noticed altered their path, those branches down – occasionally whole that didn’t got scratched. Bikers would trees. Quite often they block at least a

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portion of the road or sidewalk. I keep a chainsaw ready to go and use these occasions to add to my fireplace wood supply. Rarely do I need to go off the Island to fill my woodshed. Neighbors with large wooded lots keep me posted on any new blowdowns.

The city maintains a power substation across from our driveway.

They send by a city vehicle to trim the area between the road and the box, but don’t cut as often as local neighbors maintain their yards. It only takes me a few minutes to trim the area with a weed eater. It looked so good, in fact, that I secretly added a lilac bush in an area they do not regularly cut.

I sometimes hike around Luther Burbank Park. I am currently meeting with the new Park director to see if I can add some salmon to a small local stream or possibly plant a few quail in an area with lots of ground cover for habitat. I don’t know yet if I will be successful in my requests but suspect the park will be more interesting if I succeed.

Since I am getting older now and don’t walk as far, I am hoping that others will join me in my quest to keep the neighborhood looking pretty.

Would you care to join me? v

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